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| 3 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.I'm not in America. I'm in Sweden. I've dated a lot of genuine girls from East Asia who liked me for me and were supportive. Sadly, I only have myself and my commitment issues to blame. But yeah, doesn't change the reality that in my experience they are really a better option. I'm thinking of becoming a passport bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 0 | If you dont like women, don’t date them.I would amend the statement to "Don't date Western women". "Take it or leave it". Yeah, I'll take the non-toxic, non-narcissistic woman from the East, and leave the ones in the West. Nothing upsets Western women more than when men seek women elsewhere. Sure, there's a fair share of toxic and gold digging women abroad as well, but the likelyhood that you'll find someone genuine and supportive is much higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 02:57 PM |
| 3 | I think that women highly value confidence and this puts men at a significant dating disadvantage.Unpopular opinion maybe, but I think a lot of men don't dare to appear confident because they fear repercussions socially and criminally. In Sweden we have the enthusiastic consent law for example that makes it rape if she didn't enthusiastically consent, and it seems like quite a gray zone around what that is, so even guys who think they are pretty good at reading signals are hesitating to be overly forward and "confident". Maybe the law is a net positive for society, but it partly explains how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 12:39 AM |
| – | CMV: Penis size does matter, bigger may not always be better but smaller than average is a dating death sentence.I mean, it does matter, but if it's the first sexy time you can still put it inside. I'm pretty well-endowed myself but I've had many nights where the girl didn't really get to see the goods before it went inside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 01:03 AM |
| 5 | Self-deprecating humor or trying to be funny are huge turnoffsI kind of disagree with this take. It's not so much about the certain types of humor itself, or even the perfect delivery, it's more about who's making the jokes. If you have a commanding presence, people will laugh along and be entertained even if they didn't understand or even hear the joke. I've even found myself doing this, and the common trope is that girls will laugh along with your jokes if they find you attractive. Self-deprecating humor can definitely work for an attractive guy. The con… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 11:21 AM |
| 4 | Guys, honest answers onlyEveryone, including you, already knows what most men prefer - but threads like this will tell you what you want to hear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/26 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessOk, so? Good for you. I was talking about the dating market and the preponderance of women preferring relationships over casual encounters, as you yourself will do if you reenter it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:52 PM |
| 3 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsEveryone knows women will compromise a lot for men they are deeply in love with. Of course this includes sleeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 03:47 PM |
| 10 | Yes, some women actually want to be single and childlessHoes exist, yes, but every man who've tried to sleep around or date knows that most women are interested in a serious relationship. There's no controversy here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Guys are to blame for expensive datesDude, while I agree with you, these are guys with 0 options who can't meet women on an equal plane. Of course they are desperate, and trying to compensate with money. These are the kinds of guys who pay for OF stuff. The more attractive you are, the less you need to compensate with material stuff, but desperate guys with money will do what desperate guys with money do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you respect for men who work from home or in low-impact jobs?Posting to agree with OP. I'm in the same boat with a lot of WFH. I didn't cohabitate with my any of my recent girls, but if they were staying longer on a Monday or so, you can really feel the tingles running out in the sand in real time. It's not really all about the money. They want to see you working; doing something. If you're at the computer at home, or god-forbid, look away for a while to watch a youtube video or something, then you're basically a lazy bum. Doesn't help that a lot of girls… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/26 04:41 PM |
| 16 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.Wasn't there some statistic that over 3% of women in the age range 18-25 have tried marketing themselves on OF? It's not "most" but it's still pretty huge if you consider the population | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/26 12:53 AM |
| 3 | The hate on single moms seems to have stopped now.Don't think I've seen much hate on single moms, just entitled single moms. The ones posting insane demands while seemingly not realizing that having kids will seriously limit their chances of getting that top guy they're after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/26 08:39 PM |
| 0 | Men try to gatekeep standardsI think the difference is that men know they are cutting out a large part of their dating market by not dating single moms and obese women, and they're ok with the trade-off because previous kids and obesity are such huge dealbreakers. Women on the other hand generally don't admit to being hyper-selective when it comes to looks and status. They say they just want a normal loving relationship with an average dude that treats them right ("The bar is in hell"), but then they don't select for that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenHow can you be a "Low n princess" with all that experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 12:04 PM |
| 29 | Men try to gatekeep standardsI think the major contention is that women act like they don't realize they are aiming too high, and then they get pumped and dumped and blame all men. I think this part is the only part men really have a problem with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Casual sex benifits men more than womenSex feels pretty good even if you don't orgasm. Heck, 30% is surprisingly high. As a man, I rarely orgasm the first time with a new partner either. Maybe it's performance anxiety. Last girl I was with said it was the first time she orgasmed from just a dick, so that made me pretty happy though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Men spend a lot of time trying to humble women, and then claim women are overvaluedYou assume all men are a monolith. The men saying women overvalue themselves are not the same men that simp and pay hundreds of dollars to women's tiktoks, streams or OnlyFans. The entire idea is that women's egos are getting overinflated by all the simps that react to their thirst-trap photos, and the more level-headed men are saying calm down and get back down to earth. Women won't consider the simps anyway. They are beneath them. The entire argument is that they expect the kind of hot success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/26 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Women that like it when a man doesn’t expect sex, did you once have a high sex drive?Men listen if they deem you attractive/desirable enough. Otherwise they're just out for their own pleasure. Also, going about it in a very demanding/technical way comes across as a turn-off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable as a man.True. And you also know at what level you are based on the level of the girls you attract for casual sex. Girls will never know what level they are at because men will sleep with anything and their girlfriends will hype them up endlessly, but they'll continue deluding themselves into thinking they can snare the best men that pumped and dumped them into relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 06:22 PM |
| 1 | It’s not a bad thing to be focused more on the woman’s pleasure than your ownDude, you had one experience. I get how it feels great to pleasure someone else, but imagine being in that cycle for 5 years. Always giving, never receiving. Even you would probably start to wonder what's up with that eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/26 04:04 PM |
| – | Paying for it is so much better than casual sex.Yeah, that is definitely the best counter-point. Once you experience that feeling it's hard to be satisfied with anything less. With casual sex there is also always that hope in the back of your head that you might meet a girl that is really into you and it may evolve into a beautiful relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 03:27 PM |
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