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When your SMV initially starts to surpass hers you will get all kinds of weird fucked up behavior. The "say I could never do better than her" thing is a good example of her testing you to see if your mental behavior matches your physical appearance. Brush that shit off and laugh. You will get crap like this for a while until it becomes the new normal. I had a problem with sex quality as well. Are you doing kino daily, gaming her, and throwing enough dread her way? Do you keep the hamster spinnin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/16 04:39 PM
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While I don’t regret pursuing the lifestyle I did, if I had the meaning in my life that my grandfathers had, I wouldn’t have thought that traveling the world and banging hoes would have benefited me. But us men don’t have what our ancestors had, so we think achieving such a lifestyle will benefit us. We fantasize and hope that future trips, women, and money will complete us and make us feel that we’ve arrived, but it rarely does, and all we can do is wonder why. God damn, Roosh.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 04:50 PM
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Anyone can get oneitis. It stems from a lack of other (or better) options in women. Spin plates and it will go away on its own.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/16 07:18 PM
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So... you go to the gym. A girl catches you eyeballing her. And you instantly descend into this imaginary scenario where she is your side fuck, but then realize you don't have time for anymore imaginary women right now. You're drowning in too much pussy as it is. The fuck is this shit?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/16 05:38 PM
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She is an accessory that compliments your ride, gives you some assistance should you ask for it, and looks good doing it. This is some solid shit. And the breakdown comparison of what leads her to freak out is really good too. I would add that as she is having fun riding on the back of your motorcycle, be sure to rev the engine and maybe pop-a-wheelie every once in a while to keep those excitement tingles going. This is a great post. Thanks for sharing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/16 12:20 AM
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For every step forward I take to improve myself and my family I'd like to see a positive reaction from my wife. Wrong. By improving myself my goal is to get my wife's panties wet. Wrong. You may have found the pill because of a deadbedroom, but true change comes once you realize that your happiness has fuck all to do with your wife or how well she guards her pussy. With her, without her, you need to be the best you can be for yourself. You need to be doing this for yourself. As you improve, othe…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 06:00 PM
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turns out there is no comeback when a gay man tells you to stop being a f****t. Pure wisdom right here.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:14 PM
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How she sees you can definitely change once you prove it's not temporary. But the health of the marriage over the long run will also depend on the adaptability of the woman as a BP man becomes more masculine. If the woman has never been feminine, or has been in the masculine role for too long, you'll essentially have two masculine roles being filled in the same marriage. That wouldn't work in the long run for most. Nor would it follow the RP trajectory. If on the other hand the woman eventually …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 02:40 PM
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Would you let a dude live in your apartment rent free with his buddy and drive your car? You are a doormat. Doormats are meant to get walked all over. They don't get nudes. Guys that generate tingles get nudes. You are not one of those guys. Your beta is seriously out of control. Whose apartment is that? Yours. Fucking take it back. Tell her she will start paying you rent or she can get the fuck out. Tell the roommate to start paying rent or she can also get the fuck out. Stop texting her or tal…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 11:58 PM
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Everybody else has touched on most other aspects of your post. I just wanted to add: Oneitis is still very real at your stage. I don't cheat on my wife either. But it wasn't until I started flirting with other women and practicing game outside of the house that I became able to truly kill my one-itis. I became infatuated (the most common form of oneitis) with the first few women I had success with. Cut them off just to make sure that I could. Each time my oneitis died a little more until it was …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/16 11:13 PM
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You seem to think that her giving you a shit test is a sign of your weakness. It is her nature to shit test you. Especially when / if you are displaying masculine behaviors. As you man up, the shit tests will flow and flow and flow like a river. You pass one and maybe an hour or a day goes by and whaddya know... Another shit test. She will dole them out according to her moods, your actions, the weather, whatever. She knows the weak spot in your armor and she'll stick her finger in there and poke…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/16 04:54 PM
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Meanwhile someone is cumming on your wifes face. If she is hot, it could be one of us. Maximum reply achieved.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/16 05:09 PM
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Duuude. You're getting full of emotion. It's the total opposite of not giving a fuck. You're giving a ton of fucks. It's your wife's job to get pouty and hold grudges and be a little bitch. It's your job to remain calm, steady, and unfazed. Right now you sound like a small child throwing a tantrum. That means she won. Until her saying no genuinely doesn't affect you she will always win. Re-calibrate. Your wife is not your focus here. Sex will come eventually as an added bonus, but it's not your …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/16 09:00 PM
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Dude, awesome story!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 11:54 PM
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Don't wait to start. Your self improvement is daily and never ends. If your physical goals are losing fat and gaining muscle, start now. Go get a gym membership. Or start doing pushups. I remember one guy on here got ripped in his attic using those gallon water jugs as weights because he was broke as fuck. Any reason that you can think of to postpone your journey is just an excuse. If you're going to walk the path towards being RP, excuses have no place in your life anymore. Lift heavy shit. Eat…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/16 11:50 PM
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/u/bogeyd6 knocked it out of the park with his reply. Summed it up real nice for you. Especially this crucial point right here: Her ex-husband that was a serial cheater and horrible to her? She is his alpha widow. She misses the feeling of tingles and you arent providing. Even to this very day. All the crying, begging, and pleading you did has probably done so much damage that I don't know how you'd come back from it in her eyes. Or why you would want to. She has definitely cheated on you by thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/16 08:07 PM
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I agree 100%. Lifting is the single most important thing you can do to improve all other areas of yourself when you take the pill. And it's measurable. Identifying shit tests, comfort tests, etc. all take time and it's difficult to gauge your progress in the beginning. With lifting there are no interpretations or "I guess it's working" wiggle room. Your lifts are going up or they aren't. Easy. The self esteem, confidence, and hormones are the building block. Mother-fucking-crucial. T gives me mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/16 03:02 AM
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Solid FR. Your journey from beta, to swallowing the pill, playing the field, and then realizing it's not just about fucking women was perfect.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/16 12:28 AM
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Solid reply and a great start.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 07:50 PM
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"wow, you are high maintenance." I come back, still a bit miffed about her behavior and decide to play with it a little and guage deeper. Even if you had a verbal comeback you obviously still can't handle her little girly verbal jabs. Internal shit test fail. She ruffled your feathers, you got irked, and then decided to "test if you were worthy" by pushing for a second round. There's a disconnect here between how attractive you think you are to your wife and how attractive you really are. What a…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/16 06:25 PM
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I’ve learned to bring emotion when she needs it, and deflect it when it’s focused on me (or celebrate it when it's good emotion). Awesome little nugget of simple wisdom that deserves being called out.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 04:44 PM
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Me: Well stop yelling and bitching. This is not something I am going to do with you if you cant act like an adult. Her: That's fucking bullshit you asshole Haha. I learned the hard way that vacations can make or break you. On one hand it's easy to game the wife, get some tingles, and keep things exciting. On the other hand it's full of chances for something to go wrong when you're that far out of your element. The best you can do is keep your cool, maintain frame, and adjust. Great FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/16 04:32 PM
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And I'm also realizing that if she ever decides to go through that door, I'll be OK. He's on his way. Nicely done, man!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/16 08:35 PM
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If you have time it means something else isn’t being done. If I have leftover time it means shit is running smoothly. I would say if you have no free time you're doing something wrong or over-compensating. Tallying up pity points from the wife because you're gone for 24 hours but still willing to dredge through shopping at 4 AM sounds fucking awful. Instead focus on why the shopping wasn't done and how you can fix that. And I don't mean by simply doing it yourself. If your wife can't handle simp…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/16 10:19 PM
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"Just stop with the not trusting me shit, I advise you to not look at anything of mine because it never seems to help, it just causes trouble, and for what? Alright? This will be the last time I tell you that.." You'll see it all over MRP. Texting is for logistics only. Stop having bitch fights and defending yourself. Just ignore any bullshit. First, secure your shit. That's your phone, emails, and messages. If she is really able to go through your stuff then you need to stop her access. That's …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 06:22 PM
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She got one of these answer Sunday morning a look only and really enjoyed herself about 10pm Muffins in the Oven Beta Fucker The response a teenage girl What.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 10:16 PM
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You're wife initiated after a long dry spell. That's a good thing. But you gave up and left the room when she gives you a little dominance test. Your wife tested your new changes and you failed miserably. She called your bluff. Next time have fun with it. Sit up, get her in doggy position, and say "Let me just rip a hole in the back of these yoga pants..." "No worries. I've been meaning to face-fuck you." Wrestle her around, flip her, and take em off. Playfully. Dominantly. Smack her on the ass,…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 07:05 PM
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Life in prison.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 08:20 PM
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It's easy to think things are going great. Success, you got a blowjob. Success, the wife is cooking and cleaning. But that is not an excuse to slack off. If anything you have to operate at a higher level of performance because now your GF has had a taste of your masculinity. You flinch, she will notice it probably before you do. No shit. 1) You mate guarded and acted threatened, incredibly low value. 2) You neglected your duties and she had to bring it up multiple times. 3) Why did you stop cudd…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 04:54 PM
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I found TRP first. Thank-fucking-god I found MRP about a year ago. I can only imagine the horrible scorched earth advice I would have digested if I stuck it out on TRP. They're so scared of divorce rape over there you can smell it. If they want to try their hand at MRP type stuff, whatever. But I wouldn't listen to a single word they have to say about marriage. May god help any soul that does. Edit: This is their first flaired thread about marriage. Is this a fucking joke? A bunch of "real" RP'e…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 12:28 AM
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There is a lot of good insight in these replies. I'll simply add that after a year of MRP, it is easy to think things are going well and overlook things you are doing wrong. That's why field reports works so well. Other guys call you out on your shit. Correct your course and sail on.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/16 06:23 PM
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Agreed. I called this a shit test days ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/16 08:33 PM
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wife tried to get dominant in bed Like strap-on dildo fuck you? You don't give enough info for me to form an opinion. You can't just caveman your wife every time. I encourage my wife to be in-control of her own sexuality and follow it. In other words, if she wants something she should act on it. Maybe it's a position, a kink, whatever. For example, sometimes she'll put her hands through my hair and grind against my tongue when I go down on her. It's like an insta-cum button for her. Do I know wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 08:07 PM
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See it for what it really is. A woman saying that a beta is born and can never become an alpha is just another shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/16 12:26 AM
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Sounds like a bunch of bitches arguing about who wears the dress better. MRP is the stone I prefer to sharpen my sword with. The guys that can turn around 10 years of bad marriage are samurais. They've seen the bottom of the abyss. I'd prefer to learn from them than some PUA who is addicted to banging bar skanks on the main TRP. Everyone else can fuck right off.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 09:39 PM
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Do you hate most people? Not sure how to find new friends? Volunteer. Not only do you meet people with similar interests but most of them are motivated people who do cool shit. For example: I hike trails like a motherfucker. So once in a while I'll volunteer on a group trail cleanup. Everybody in the group is outdoorsy, loves hiking, and is damn happy to have your help. It's incredibly easy to fit in and we always have something in common to talk about (new hikes). Most of them go out for a beer…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/16 01:49 AM
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And then she talked about wanting to watch me have sex with another girl (not normal, never talked about that and I said I could see it being fun), Sounds like she got some strange D on that trip and this is her way of feeling less guilty about it. By "letting" you fuck some other woman (or at least letting you think it might happen). Justification: "it's normal to fuck other people in an LTR, I didn't do anything wrong". next though she said swinging or couple swapping (not normal) and I immedi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/16 09:33 PM
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Trust /u/PemBayliss, he's right. It signals deep issues. Maybe she'll stick with you for the comfort. But all it takes is a few stiff drinks and someone she does find attractive for her to fuck somebody else. Your wife wants sex. Eventually she'll find it with or without you. The wife is a knock out. All the more reason. She probably knows she's hotter than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 06:44 PM
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"Hey, shut the fuck up and don't talk to me in that tone little girl." Nuked, extra crispy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 05:44 AM
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When I want sex and shes tried, its all starfish style. Never any effort on her end. The answer is in the question. She's tired. Fix that. Question is, how do I, enjoying ass and mouth What is this shit. Shes also in agreeance with 2 policys, 0% dishonesty, and 0% cheating. I don't know what use this information has for anyone. TL;DR: Solve the being tired problem. Fuck your wife. Decline starfish if you want. Enjoy ass and mouth (?).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 04:28 AM
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I didn't set her alarm as well. Do you normally tuck her in and read her a bedtime story too? Right now im in the best shape of my life. A 300 lb fat ass could lose 50 lbs and still be in the best shape of his life. It doesn't matter if you're not hot enough to inspire dread. The night before i did it with zero words and started kissing her neck and rubbing her shoulders. Edit: Don't think for a second this wasn't being BP. That slow come on "maybe this will escalate" type of thing. Do this inst…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 12:16 AM
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I brought up after having a small chat that im walking better and that were good to get into the swing ofthings of "1 - 2 days a week of sex. What is this shit. You sure do talk highly of yourself but from what I'm reading you're a whiny bitch. Not talking about sex is MRP 101 tough guy. Stop it. You're able to fuck? Then show her. Instead you verbally try and negotiate a 1-2 day a week schedule using your day planner. How sexy. She must have been dripping wet. My reply "Right now im injured so …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 11:58 PM
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You turned a sweet petting session into an emotional fiasco. You summed up his whole victim puke with one sentence. Killer breakdown. Hope OP takes it all in and slows the fuck down.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/16 10:10 PM
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A man is forged from the fires of pain and challenge, not born into a cushy world all ready for him. Fuck yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/16 06:08 PM
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If you want to live in other countries and explore the world that's one thing. But from what you describe this girl is setting the terms and asking you to compromise. Why would you give up your job, home, family, etc. to move somewhere because she won't move here? Ask yourself: Are you being desperate? It seems like you'd be chasing her. Which is a very bad way to start off any marriage, especially from someone who says they "know how to red pill". She's 31. So maybe she's looking for some chump…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/03/16 09:35 PM
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If you're that unsure with yourself just keep lifting, reading, and practicing STFU. And start passing her shit tests. Do not discuss or demand sex verbally. Keep initiating and practicing OI regardless of the shit she's dropping on you. DO NOT DEER. Plow through this friend shit like nothing happened with kino, instigate, isolate and escalate. And up the dread. Become busier in the evenings and less available.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 04:51 AM
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Or is it a legitimate cry to be gamed and courted? You should always be gaming your wife. "Courted"? Wtf is this shit. Hard to answer any of this without more info. What dread level are you up to with her? How's your body? Lifting routine? Do you do interesting shit? Would anyone else fuck you right now? If not, why should she?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 04:17 AM
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Point is I wanted to make sure it wasn't framed in a beta "she cheated on him? How could she???" Way. AWALT. And yes, I agree. To clarify, my point was that his life lesson came penalty free since he's not legally tied to this LTR woman. He gets to work on his beta shortcomings (which appear plentiful) and live free in the wild.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/02/16 08:00 PM
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My guy says that she may have cheated on me on her birthday and theres someone else. Chad Thundercock just did you a huge favor. Consider yourself lucky you didn't put a ring on that finger before something like this happened. Don't give her a reaction. Don't give a fuck at all. Abundance mentality. Next.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 09:55 PM
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For me it was the physical comparison. Those /r/bustypetite 18 year old girls with natural DDs and ass for days can make your wife seem downright homely. Unless you're into crazy German stuff Curiosity got the best of me. So much pee...
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 12:40 AM
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Don't know, but if you are still using porn: During my BP years porn distorted my view of my wife way lower than it actually was. "Why isn't my wife like that?" It's an impossible standard to judge someone by. If you're using porn, stop. It's completely useless.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 11:35 PM
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I gave her a list of things that were bothering me Oh boy. For me, swallowing the pill has revealed personal truths I was ignoring. I discovered I was blaming my wife because I had become a fat boring loser who stopped pursuing my own interests and growth. She was an excuse I was all too willing to use for several years. I resented her for it that whole time when it was actually me being completely delusional about my own worth. Old thought process: "Stupid wife. If I had some new chick I could …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 10:29 PM
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This is a solid point. I think some of the general leadership knowledge in this thread eventually applies towards your wife. The key is your SMV. A high SMV RP man who has mastered the basics of everything and applied it properly is in a position where his wife may respect him enough to accept his leadership in a more traditional sense. For those starting out with low SMV and years of beta behind them it may be a different story. Their wives probably won't respond well to typical leadership at a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/16 08:01 PM
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In my vision every road leads towards a burrito.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 07:49 PM
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I'm working daily on simply learning to follow my own lead and stop second guessing myself. The old me considered the input of everyone else involved before deciding. Now when I'm faced with a problem that requires a decision I ask myself what I need / would do first. If it affects others I will then adapt the solution to fit them in after. This has lead to some unexpected behavior changes that my wife has picked up on. It has cut the use of "ummm" and "uhhs" out of my vocabulary almost complete…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/16 06:53 PM
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The first step is to realize it may not be salvageable. MRP is a lifelong process that involves becoming your best self and developing your masculinity. It's not an instant fix or a band-aid. Learn the terms, read the sidebar, pass shit tests, lose fat, add muscle. Become an interesting, respectable man worthy of being fucked. MRP can help guide you to that but it cannot do it for you. All the info you need is here for the taking.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 08:27 PM
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I think the reason we don't have sex as much is because I feel it's the only thing I can control. Back when I started showing OI, declining starfish sex, and developing frame my wife had a similar revelation. In her words: "I feel like I don't have power anymore and I don't know why". Just smile and nod. Your work is never done.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/16 10:01 PM
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Raise your SMV, watch them evaporate. Amen. It can take a long time. As my SMV rises I notice everything starts to fall into place much easier. Loved the deepthroat surprise at the end. Awesome FR.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 09:11 PM
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No wonder. Her husband has slowly morphed himself into a fat lesbian woman. SMV is wayyyyy off here.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 07:28 PM
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It sounds like your fitness is on point. You'll want to work on instigate, isolate, escalate and kino. She's in a bad mood? So what. Lead her out of it. When my wife is in a bad mood I'm finding more often than not it goes away by: 1) Passing shit tests I wasn't recognizing. 2) PIV caveman style fucking. If she's in a bad mood even better. 3) Letting her vent about her day while I listen and nod. 4) Due to time or something else I've stopped initiating / playing with / touching her and this is h…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/16 06:35 PM
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I'm having an issue of "taking the wheel". Your wife is steering the ship while you sit in the corner playing make believe. Stop being scared of your wife. Read more books. Lift more weights. Stop talking to her about this stuff and start doing it instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/16 06:42 PM
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Ordered. FYI your image link to Amazon gets whited out by browser ad blockers like Ghostery. You may want to add a text link. Took me a second to figure out what was going on.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/16 04:48 AM
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