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| 2 | Men need to have higher standards.Men do have high standards for women they seriously want to date. The problem is that they will also unseriously date a woman to have access to sex. Women fail to recognize that the guy they like becuase he is vaguely interested in them, is vaguely interested becuase he doesn't take the woman seriously. So woman dig themselves a metaphorical grave by being attracted to such men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 07:20 AM |
| 7 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesWhen considering who they seriously want to date most every single guy wants to date a woman with a lower body count. If they are pursuing a woman who is known to be more sexually active they are not seriously looking to date. They are looking to get laid. Actions speak louder than words. Sure they may put a lot of effort into the first date and be attentive and fun. But this is also becuase they are putting all their effort in getting laid and believe it to be accessible if they try. They are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.The difference is that a women will only get rejected upon actually going on a date with a guy and having sexual relations with them. They might do this for a handful of guys before finding one who is willing to stick around. Otherwise, they have plenty of men who shower them with attention and admiration online and on dating apps. They could have hundreds of guys show interest on a dating app and only respond to maybe 5 of them. In their mind, they can build self esteem and confidence, becuase … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:07 AM |
| – | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?The fact you think it's a waste of time shows how much privilege women take for granted. You fail to understand the position of men and how a vast majority of us don't even receive superficial interest. Most of us aren't naturally attractive to most women and have to prove ourselves to be interesting and worth engaging with. Men download the same apps and get rejected 99% of the time and when they do get matched, woman already have some high expectation for the guy to prove themselves over the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 06:11 PM |
| – | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?All becuase women don't perceive themselves to have value and are awkward for it, doesn't mean it's justified. It doesn't take much for a women to look around and recognize there are alot of men out there who find them attractive. If that isn't the case it is only becuase they may be excessively overweight. Otherwise, some dude is going to find you attractive. But then again, women receive so much male attention they don't even value it. It's only when women compare themselves to other woman's o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 05:49 PM |
| – | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?My whole point was that women desire sex about the same they do being kissed. So you are proving my point by confirming the two are similarly desired. For men, who still have testosterone and aren't above 40-50+ the two are incomparable. Sex is far more desirable and needed from our perspective. If your husband isn't desiring sex more than you, something is deeply wrong, unless age or excessive weight is a factor for him. Heterosexual men who are moderately attracted to a woman, would want sex a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 03:49 PM |
| – | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?No, sex is nothing like kissing for guys. Kissing is nice to do with someone you love, but there is no physical need to do so. There is no orgasmic climax or physical pleasure from it. One could go years, or even the rest of their lives without kissing, which is how some women express themselves about sex. This is not the same for men, sex is as close to a need as possible. And you are giving logistical reasons for not having sex. I am talking about the core desire for wanting it. Women just don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 02:36 PM |
| – | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?The fact women don't desire sex or even find guys that attravtive makes life easy. If men could get rid of that factor and truly not care about sex or trying so hard to entertain women, life would be so much easier. Everything in life for guys almost always boils down to wanting to access sex. It's like waking up in life and being born with this curse. Women don't have to deal with this. They are valued and told how beautiful they are for being alive. That's why they worry about petty stuff. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 02:04 PM |
| -1 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?This mindset makes no sense from a guy's perspective. Does anyone care what their masseuse looks like when getting a massage? No, becuase the massage feels good. Does anyone need an emotional connection with a masseuse to get a massage? No, that is silly. So why is it necessary for women? For men, we like sex, though we do need a moderate amount of attraction, but the bar is not high. Sex feels great physically and is visually stimulating, so why pass on an opportunity if it is availble from som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 01:47 AM |
| -2 | Do women have guys they want to fuck but not want to date?These are all terrible reasons to not have sex from a men's perspective. To have no problem with going one or two years without sex when it us easily available to anyone you want is crazy. Women really do have it on easy mode lol.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?It's not so much about giving guys a chance as much as it is about proactively valuing the right kind of characteristics in a guy. Women will value men who project confidence, or seem ambitious, or clever, or funny, or interesting, or fun to be around, etc. Those characteristics may result in a fun date, but don't necessarily translate to a good longterm relationship partner. Value traits that make a good father, husband, and lifelong partner. These guys may not be the loudest or boldest. They m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 01:05 AM |
| 2 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureThe majority of men, not just red pill, are becoming more and more insecure and for good reason. Women are continously devaluing men. If you don't make 6 figures, aren't 6 feet tall, aren't a smooth talker, aren't a comedian, etc, you have little value. Women preach to each other thst they don't need men. They are becoming less and less inclined to be mothers and content to be single or without children. Women also have told men they are naturally not very attractive. Men have to prove their wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveThere are exceptions to the rule. Bezos and Lauren Samchez is one of them. Very rarely will a man with all the options in the world chooses a woman that looks like her. It is certainly out of the norm. There has to be a relationship aspect that goes deeper than just looks. Or Bezos must have some unique crazed out fetish going on. Either way, it is absolute example of an exception. Look at any other celebrity that is recently divorced. Tom Brady, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Bill Belicheck, etc. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationshipsSure, voicing one's frustrations by itself isn't going to accomplish much. That's why a lot of guys don't speak honestly in person of how they realy feel. But as the years of impact social media and dating apps have had on society, men are growing more and more frustrated with the effect. Together, by sharing ore similar observations and perspectives, we can acknowledge there is a greater problem. Acknowledgement is the 1st step towards taking action towards greater change. I think it will rake … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)I think one has to have very little self respect for oneself and for their future partner to be involved in the sex industry, even on an amateur level such as OF. With that said, I am not sure women truly understand what it means to a man to have their pictures circulating the internet. Sex is everything to a man. It is the one thing they value above everything else. From a young age we are taught to be respectful of women, to restrain ourselves sexually, to be men of integrity, etc. We don't wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Men love transactional relationships.Men would prefer an authentic, non materialistic based relationship with a woman above all else if it was attainable. The problem is too many women are materialistic. Too many care about money and wealth above all else. It's like a woman only being valued for her looks. Would a woman want a man to marry her if the only thing he valued in her was her outer beauty? Nothing else? Not by itself. She would have to receive something more out of the relationship like access to money and a wealthy lifes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 04:35 PM |
| 6 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?You are assuming one must be in a relationship with a woman in order to mistreat women. Us men, particularly those in this sub (I wouldn't label them all as red pill, but average men who have come to the same observations in the dating world) understand the mindset and tactics some of these "chads" and successful men are using to increase their odds on the dating market. What many of us recognize is that it is some of the scummiest behavior that has the most success. Lie about your intentions, e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 03:57 PM |
| 9 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?You prove my point. In no way am I being hateful towards women. I am actually speaking very favorably about foreign women. It is simple observations mixed with constructive criticism of westernized women. You take it as misogyny maybe becuase you don't like my assessment and/or some if it applies to you. This is why so many woman perceive men to be misogynistic. We simply are giving honest feedback. It doesn't men we hate woman. For example when I say western woman overvalue themselves, it doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/25 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Women are held more accountable than men are by redpillersMen have actually held other men accountable through traditional methods such as the church community and men's suppprt groups, etc. But modern day women are pushing against such institutions without understanding their value in this regard. The bottom line is that becuase women are the sexual gatekeepers they control who has sex with them and who doesn't. Men can preach to each other to be honorable men, to respect a woman's body with our eyes and mind, that "no mean no," to not take advantage … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:56 PM |
| 13 | If women love misogynists, then why do so many men here struggle?It's becuase women are poor at actually interpreting which men are truly misogynistic. They mistake men honestly sharing their frustrations on the internet with being misogynistic. What they don't realize is that most of the guys voicing their frustrations do so not becuase they hate women. In fact they hold them in high regard and hold them to higher standards than women hold themselves too these days. What most women don't realize is that these same men who are perceived to hate women think 10… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.Guys don't share this sentiment becuase they necessarily think of themselves as the "good guy." Maybe they do. Maybe they don't. Maybe they did at one point, but not anymore. The reason they think this way is based on their observation of how the world works. They see those around them they consider good men, but also those around them they consider not so good men. As they go through life they compare how each type of man is rewarded. While older men may be have been rewarded for being good, de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Apparently, men are more likely to hit on women they think are easy and not necessarily because they think they're attractiveThere is truth in the claim, but I wouldn't categorize all men under this umbrella. It applies to a certain type of guy. But more than a negligible percent of them. These type of guys have casual sex at the top of their mind above everything else. They are more willing to manipulate and exploit women, even may it be subconsciously by them. They are the type to swipe right on Tinder for every girl in hopes they can find anyone to sleep with. They may act like they are interested in a long term re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men need womenOf course they do. Both sexes need each other. It's dumb to even ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 11:36 PM |
| -6 | Do men need womenWomen need men, it's just that they already have their attention in abundance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.I can call out men for their shitty behavior. It won't do anything though becuase men ultimately care more about getting sex than most anything else. It is how we are biologically wired. It partially motivates everything we do. So as long as acting like a POS heightens the possibility of accessing sex, some men will continue to take this route no matter what. It's up to women, the sexual gatekeepers, to reward high character men over the POS men. Otherwise, the high character men will grow more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/25 02:11 AM |
| 8 | Society did not “lie” to you about what was and wasn’t attractive to women. You are not a “victim”.When you are young you are naive. You don't have full perspective. You want to live in a world where the good guys win. You want to think that ultimately by being a man of character and integrity that things will work itself out. Yes, the jock bully may win in the short term, but if you stay the course everything will eventually come together, right? Not so. Alot of young men of the same age group, millenials, grew up in very traditional homes with families of old school values. Yet, society and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe?I'm a man. I can make decisions myself. And I don't need a woman to pay for the meal I asked her to go out on with me. You are a really pathetic, childish boy if you do. Grow up. Make some real money before taking out a girl for the purpose of an actual relationship. Otherwise, I don't think you are serious, which is why any possible relationship is destined to fail before you even start it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 09:04 PM |
| – | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?Women tell men all the time that they weren't their first choice and/or they typically wouldn't have gone for the type of guy that their boyfriend is. Many openly tell men that they want to have fun in their 20s and then expect some guy to swoope in when they are in their 30s so they can settle with them. Women will complement different aspects about their man all the time without mentioning they find them handsome or good looking. Women have more leverage to say such things becuase men are more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:08 PM |
| – | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?The men us guys think are high value are typically not the same that women think. The men who don't care about body count, etc, don't becuase they treat women like an option themselves and get away with it becuase of looks or wealth. Those guys are not high value to real men. They are manipulative, frat boys who never grew up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?Of course men don't say this to their partner, becuase if they did the relationship would end. It would be dumb to tell a woman that she is average in the looks department. Or to essentially tell her there are many other more beautiful women than her by rating her a 7/10..No one wants to be told that their partner "settled" with them or play second fiddle to others. It's why when men are tested with questions about how they perceive other women, the smart response is just not to answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 03:21 PM |
| 12 | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?And most women would probably cry if their partner told them that their ex had a better body than them and they couldn't get as aroused as much with them compared to their ex. The point is that saying these type of things are hurtful regardless of the sex. To act like it is only men who want to be seen as the best in their partner's eyes id ludicrous. I will say though, women do have more leverage in the dating marketplace, so it is easier, when they are young, for them to brush off what one guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 03:11 PM |
| 9 | How do you feel about being the "low maintenance option"?If most men told their partners they were anything less than a 10/10, the woman would freak out. So let's not act like men are the ones obsessed with being the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 02:42 PM |
| -1 | What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe?I suppose I lean toward the more conservative and traditional way of looking at things. But sure, it is a bit hypocritical for the purple haired liberal to demand the guy pay for her meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:25 AM |
| -5 | What are some criticisms about the other gender that make you roll your eyes or cringe?Men who criticize about women wanting the man to pay for the date. That's cringe and men who actually want to split the bill, especially on a first date, are pathetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | The reason why some people decry OF is the same reason why I'd never date I guy if I knew he watches OF.I understand your logic and think you raise some very valid concerns, but I do think there should be some discretion to the level which one engages with OF before writing them off. If a guy habitually uses OF in the way you explain, where they are seeking out emotional connection and have alot of personal engagement with an OF girl, then yes, huge red flag. But some of us guys are just suckers. We come across an internet personality or see an attractive women in a space we interact with (Twitch,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsYou completely missed the overall point. I never said men should be with someone they aren't attracted too. The same with women. But that doesn't mean one should forego quality traits in a partner and prioritize looks, or money, height, etc and overlook the rest. The issue is, people are not dating with marriage in mind. They date and prioritize superficial aspects when it comes to dating. You are asking men to be "fun and social." What does this actually mean? In most cases it means the guy exa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 03:33 PM |
| 2 | What are subtle red flags you see in other men?Guys who set no boundaries with women and pretend they can be friends with other attractive women. Guys who try to split the bill. Guys who only want to hang around women when they are drunk or high. Guys who exxagerate themselves and share intimate aspects about themselves after just meeting a woman. Guys who spend large portions of their time on hobbies that serve no productive purpose. Guys that care too much about their shoes. Particularly sneakerheads. Guys that want sex in the first month … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:48 AM |
| 0 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsOk, to put it in clearer terms, women who don't manipulate men for money are better women than those that do. That much is true. Are they morally good people on.that alone? Maybe so, but many other factors shed light on this. It's one thing for an ugly incel to refrain from having sex with women and another thing for an attractive 6ft rich guy from accessing it. In the same way context would matter for the women. Did she have a clear opportunity to make money off of a man and chose not to? If so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men should listen to women's desires and stop prioritizing decency in datingIs it even worth gaining the attention and being in a relationship with such a woman who doesn't prioritize decency? To me, it is usually not. And that's the issue. Not enough women who are valuing the right type of men. Marriage quality women are becoming rarer and rarer. I suppose OP is right though. Just forget about decency and do what you can just to be part of the casual dating scene and hope to get some sort of short term satisfaction from it. It's really the best you can hope fir as a gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsI never said you should have sex with a guy just becuase he isn't a liar or cheater. But you should disqualify anyone who is. But you don't. Women fall for liars all the time, but don't realize it. You all reward guys who manipulate and exxagerate themselves becuase by doing so they are able to present themselves as more interesting to you all. In reality, the guys are using all sorts of tactics that aren't sustainable, but meant to gain short term appeal in hopes of accessing sex. That is why I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:21 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themNo, I'm explaining how the majority of heterosexual men think and a whole bunch of women are trying to tell me that is not true. You all really have no clue. You all are wrong and have been completely deluded.. I wish it weren't this way, but that isn't how reality works. Truth doesn't care if we like it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsYou women continue to reward and date men who don't exemplify this behavior while overlooking those that do. Actions speak louder than words. And women do not value or notice this behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/25 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsYou failing to recognize and listen to men is misandrist and/or ignoring helpful advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsOf course they are choices. But when one is highly motivated by their biology and circumstances to act in such a way, but decide not too..that also is a choice and should be recognized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 11:39 PM |
| 0 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsNo one faults a woman for wanting to provide. But to indiscriminately just ask for a guy to make "x" amount of money is superficial. Date the right type of man, with the right type of characteristics, and such a guy will do everything in his power to provide for his family. But when you prioritize the money before the person, you end up with a failed relationship and a broken home. The right type of men understand this, so they don't entertain such women. They want a women who values them for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsAnd such an attitude will result in women dating terrible men. You are ignoring what it means to be a heterosexual man. I'm not saying to reward guys for acting against their own sexual interest one singular time. But to recognize that this is contrary to how men want to act and says something about their character when they choose time after time to not engage. All becuase women can be horny and not act on it, doesn't mean this is the same experience for men. Guys do not get many opportunities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsIt's a green flag when women are not overly materialistic and a red flag if they are. Hence why guys think it is is both unrealistic and unnattractive when women ask that their man makes six figures, etc. Taking advantage of rich men and manipulating them is a sign that a woman is very materialistic. They are willing to push everything aside in pursuit of what they perceive to be a more luxurious lifestyle. But if you are an asshole that will also quickly be apparent to most guys. I also wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsYes, that is my point. Not necessarily that men are inherently s**** people, but that their mind is highly clouded by their deep sexual urges. This causes them to act irrationally and with their sexual interests at the top of their mind. So when guys do not give in to this. They respect women. They don't treat them like objects. They don't try to take advantage of situations when they are drunk. They don't exaggerate themselves to and say things just to impress women. They don't flaunt around mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsI'm speaking in terms of finding a partner for a long term healthy relationship. These other aspects you bring up are of a different context and there are different standards. Of course there are other traits and characteristics one should look for in a marriage partner, but I'm simply talking as a baseline to filter out the guys with poor intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:29 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themI don't need to tell myself anything. I've grown up among men of all different ages at different stages of their lives. I've seen and been part of the millions of conversations that happen behind close doors or. out of the sight of women. If you don't want to listen, so be it. Learn the hard way or live in ignorance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsThis is the problem though. Women fall for manipulation tactics and playboy moves all the time. Outside of the tope 10-20% of dudes, many guys who access sex outside of committed long term relationships have to revert to these type of tactics. That is why men who could potentially get sex, but don't, should be well thought of. Instead, they are an afterthought and simply doing what they should in the eyes of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Women define a 'good guy' by his positive qualities—men define him by a lack of red flagsA good guy is easy to define once you understand how guys feel by default. Essentially we have a strong sexual urge to be with beautiful women. That overrides all else. So when a guy doesn't manipulate, or cheat, or take advantage of others, etc to access sex, then they are a good guy. That's really it. But guys will try to manipulate themselves in front of others all the time to ultimately access sex, so be weary. So women should aspire to be with men who, though they may be able to access sex,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themMost heterosexual men think exactly the same way. Some may not want to admit it, but they live recklessly and admitting so would not benefit their lifestyles. It sounds like your guy has you fooled. I bet him and hus friends make all sorts of derogatory comments about your friend group behind your backs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themFor men, it really is that simple. We aren't that complicated. We have a few simple things we are looking for and plenty if wiggle room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:29 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themNo, there are also good looking women with unattractive personalities. I don't care to be close friends with them. But, yes, I set boundaries. I choose not to get to know woman deeply that I may become potentially interested in. So do many guys. It's what men do when in relationships. They cut off outside engagement with other women bevuase they know how they possibly would respond. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themSure, it is my experience of how men actually think and feel based on being a man and knowing how many of then truly feel. You still yet to learn how guys truly think and are deluded by how one guy portrays himself in front of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:23 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themYou are misunderstanding part of what I'm claiming. It's not that men can't develop traits that I would refer to as more feminine-like. But that doing so in light of a masculine context. There is a difference in inhibiting feminine traits in a feminine context. In that you are likely crossing the line and people think you have a more feminine disposition. I.e. you connect more with women becuase you share more of their interests than you do with men. You enjoy more things that women do that domi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:20 PM |
| 0 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themYou are very naive. Doesn't matter if he has a "type." If they are even slightly attractive, and he is a heterosexual man, he probably is crossing some boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themAll the feminine traits and qualities that a woman possesses that aren't normally present in male friendships. Having someone who genuinely listens, is empathetic, and you can open up with. Someone who can give you a woman's perspective and different way of thinking. Someone to engage in your more feminine side. Someone who appreciates you for your masculine traits. The dynamic of having one's masculine traits clash and react to one's feminine traits. Etc.. If this doesn't describe you, it is li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:32 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themMen don't have some crazy high criteria for women they are interested in. It essentially is don't be ugly and have a good personality. If you are ugly, sure we could be friends but it would likely take on a masculine type of friendship. If you aren't ugly but don't have a good personality then we wouldn't want to be your friend. If you do have a good personality and aren't ugly we could eventually become interested even if we aren't at first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 03:03 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themDid you care whether the friend was pretty or not? Any guy could have an ugly female friend. But having a "platonic" attractive friend isn't really a thing. The guy was interested in the woman and/or didn't know how to set boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | There is No hook up cultureThere may be less overall number of hookups than before, but also a lower number of marriages and healthy long term relationships. Women are the sexual gatekeepers and don't feel the need to marry as they did before. And if they want sex, they will still entertain casual dates with the top 10-20% of men. So it is still hookup culture for single women. But if you are a single dude, it is more like a loneliness epidemic. That is unless you are in the top sphere of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Redpill men complain that women are too picky, but they also complain when women have low standards.The problem is that in both scenarios women are valuing the wrong traits in men. They have incredibly poor judgement in what they look for and do not reward men of high quality. Us men know which of us are manipulative scumbags and broke deadbeats, and those who are good men of high character and would make great fathers. But the latter is not being lifted up and esteemed like they should. Instead women value superficial traits such as height, money, non-interested personality, half-assed commit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 02:42 AM |
| 16 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themMen who see no point in having female friends think that way becuase they understand the friendship can only go so far without developing feelings or ending in separation. It isn't becuase they don't value what a woman brings to the table in a friendship, but moreso that the things they do value are also traits they value in a relationship..it doesn't have to be sexual either. These guys are just protecting themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Straight men on this subreddit, would you take a magic, gene-altering pill to become gay? (Not a satire question. Be serious.)No. While sex would be more accessible, we still desire human connection with a more feminine, gentle, caring soul. We long time have conversations and open up in ways that we would never do so between other men. Also, many of us want to fulfill the traditional provider role. We grow up desiring to be the hero.We want to be the protector, the knight in shining armor, etc.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Alot of our issues wouldn't exsist if female biology was tuned a bit betterSo you are arguing that if women were biologically fined tuned a bit better to be like men, than they wouldn't need men?....ok....? If men were fined tuned to be biologically different in ways that women are, then men wouldn't need women either... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 02:40 AM |
| 3 | In a world where you could easily have casual sex with women, would you still prefer to marry/LTR/commit to a “low n” woman?Yes. The reason low count women are deemed attractive to men is becuase, though they have the opportunity to have sex with many guys, they are more selective about who they have it with. As long as the option is there and they choose not to indulge in it, it makes who they do ultimately choose to have sex with feel more meaningful. And when looking for a long term partner, someone who makes you feel special and meaningful, apart from others, is a huge thing we yearn for. We don't want to be just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenYou women always take things so personally and to the extreme. All becuase I am being critical of women in this comment section doesn't mean I am not even moreso critical of men. All I originally said is that women are less physically attractive in their 30s than in their 20s. That is an opinion most guys agree on. It wasn't even much of a criticism becuase women can still also be physically attractive into older age. My other critiques against women generally pale in comparison to men and if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenWho cares if women have endless options? I didn't argue against that. In fact, because women have those options, they are many times have self entitlement and have very ugly inner personalities. Many are superficial, have no depth to them, and are spoiled brats. Then when they hit their 30s and their beauty starts fading, it becomes more apparent they don't have much more to offer. There is a reason why men are choosing to marry less and have kids less. It's becuase, while many women may look ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenProbably just another woman who thinks she is better looking than she actually is and hss nothing else of substance to really offer.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/25 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenYeah, but most of the men who don't want to marry also don't want to be in a committed, exclusive relationship of any sort. They want to be single and live freely. They may string along a relationship to access ses, but with a younger more attractive girl. To do that with someone in their upper 40s is likely not worth the hassle. Even if they are freakier in bed, etc, you likely still have to work to try and 5 some emotional connection first with the women before she wants to sleep with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:43 AM |
| 3 | Men who don't want to get married should invest in older womenIf the older woman just wants a boy toy to hsve sex with, than sure the 30 year old guy would be interested. But he likely isn't going to seriously date someone exclusively that is much older than him. Not only does an age gap probably lead to incompatibility, but guys in general want to be the masculine, dominant person in the relationship which equates to usually being the older more life experienced imdividual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/25 05:27 AM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenPhysically speaking, most men find women visually attractive at all ages, but the peak tends to decline in the mod to late 20s. It is what it is. It doesn't mean a women in her 30s+ is unattractive, but that she is past her prime. She can still be an 8 that was a former 10. Married women hold much more value to their partner when they marry young. They are essentially giving their peak years, in terms of physical beauty, in commitment to a man. It's a symbolism of love and it carries a lot of me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/25 01:41 AM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.I don't have to persuade you. Women themselves choose to capitalize on it every day on Only Fans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 05:51 AM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.You are assuming that men want sex every time they give a compliment. That simply isn't the case. But the fact you assume it, shows that you are more confident in your sexual appeal than you should be. That is a privledge. Reality is, many times, guys give a compliment they aren't fishing for sex. Instead it is likely that they are just honestly expressing themselves, want to guage your interest, and in the very least maybe make you smile or make your day. Sure some guys are fishing for sex. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/25 04:05 AM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.That in itself speaks to the amount of privledge women have. Women receive so many compliments that you are suspicious of them. You fail to listen to the fact that men receive zero compliments at all. I wonder why they don't? Maybe it is becuase, giving a compliment is not an easy thing to do. It requires an act of vulnerability. You are opening yourself to rejection. Rejection comes in many forms. You can tell a women she is beautiful, only for her to brush off the compliment becuase she receiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 10:23 PM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.Whether you want sex or not, you have an advantage over the guy who does want sex but does not have access to it. This is solely why women have so much leverage in the dating market. You can determine a man's motive simply by seeing how patient he is to have sex with you. Women are automatically the more sexually desired sex. So they naturally have reason to be more confident and secure in themselves. Men on the other hand, aren't sexually desired, we don't receive compliments, and we rarely hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 09:14 PM |
| – | Being able to have sex at any time is still a privilege.Many men are also looking for love, and with less preconditions. Men afterall are the sex willing to date the McDonalds employee. Women have all the leverage in the dating market, but simply choose terribke partners. They say they want "love." They do not. They want to be entertained. They want someone who interests them. They want someone who is experienced with other women. They want someone who has a decent income. Then they want love. But by not prioritizing it, they end up trying to get lov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 09:00 PM |
| 0 | When a conventionally unattractive woman low-key brags about her hedonistic sex life, how to rationalize it?Becuase men actually want sex and are unable to access it. Many of us are nowhere near to being sexually fulfilled. If women only understood what it meant to not be desired. It's hard to build confidence and to be secure in oneself. Even when we do access sex it is from having to prod women to do so, or have money, or manipulate them. Us guys rarely receive sexual attraction. Women take it for granted. Men complain becuase even the ugliest women get enough attention to thinking they are moderate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/25 09:39 PM |
| – | Why is it shallow for a woman to have income standards in a partner if she wants children/ a familyThere is nothing wrong with wanting a provider in a partner, but it's when women put the most value in what a man's financial situation is that comes across as shallow minded. Many times, these type of women have unrealistically high income standards, which disqualifies 90% of men from the jump. The only men who do qualify are guys who are well established in their careers and are typically older. So young guys aren't even given a chance and feel inadequate. Also, it's not just about having an u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/25 05:38 AM |
| – | Women can be attracted to you but until they see another girl interested have no interest in pursuing or being receptive to engaging with youWomen get so much positive reinforcement and compliments from men, what any rando dude says has little effect on them. What really boosts their confidence is when the guy with multiple options chooses them over other women. They are really just competing to feel like they are better than other women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Heterosexuality is not sustainable by red pill logic.The reason heterosexuality may seem unsustainable is because modern women have all the leverage but with it choose terrible partners. In general, they give the most value to a type of men with charachteristics that don't necessarily equate to a good marriage partner. They value traits such as being tall, humurous, clever, experienced, wealthy, fun to be around, generally good with talking to women, etc. Yet, the guys who fit these descriptions may just be dirtbags, or manipulatirs, etc. Wheras, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 04:15 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseCool fantasy. But serfdom doesn't exist. But hey, this is reddit. Say whatever you like and downvote whatever you don't. And I don't fantasize about women losing rights. I'ts just that it happens to be that the women in the world with the most rights tend to complain and b*** the most. They are some of the most ungrateful and unpleasant people to be around. Completely unaware that they have it better than most of the rest of the world. Yet, f*** men. Men are trash. We don't need men. Down with t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/25 03:49 AM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseThere is no need to look back that far in history. Just look around the work today. There are many places where women hold very little power. They don't have the rights that have been granted to women and enforced by law in a 1st world country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:44 PM |
| 13 | I dont care what anyone says. The red pill is saving livesDude said he doesn't refer to woman as "scraps" but in the last week under his comment history he tells women to get over men body shaming them with the term "roast beef." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:23 PM |
| – | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseIt really is "magnanimous" of them. By your own admission you would probably be dead in certain parts of the world. Yet, f*** the patriarchy and the conservative values that told men to honor and respect women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 11:10 PM |
| -2 | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseWomen only have the rights and privledges they do because good men have allowed it. If men eventually get sick and tired they can overpower women. It's a sad reality, but if women continue to ignore the pleas of men, it could eventually take a turn in that direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 03:49 PM |
| -2 | Sexual liberation may lead to civilization collapseWomen currently settle for less. Men want women to aim higher. The type of men women aim.for are dirtbags with money or manipulation skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/25 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themBlah, blah, blah. Normal, straight guys do not have friends presominantly that are women. You are in the least bisexual. Heterosexual guys simply don't do this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/25 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themWoman know their "guy furiends" like them, but they are generally terrible people who receive some sort of platonic benefits from the friendship. They know the guy will do things for them or give them male attention, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t like being friends with guys who don’t want themEither you are gay or your friends are really ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 12:50 AM |
| 3 | For those of you who wait to have sex, what influenced you to make this decision for yourself?I grew up with the intention of saving sex for marriage. This was mostly for religious reasons and the belief that sex is an intimate expression of love reserved for your marriage partner. It's when sex is taken out of this context that you have broken situations: affairs, Single parent homes, children without a father, diseases, hook-up culture, failed relationships, emotionally confused people, etc. But as I grew older, I have a different perspective on it. I think this ideal to preserve sex f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The "If she did it with an ex, she should do it with me" rule applies to peggingNot true. Heterosexual men do not like to be pegged. This is nonsense. Most all are repulsed by it. If your dude likes to be pegged, he is 99% not exclusively straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 12:24 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearI'm not sure a shift of guys choosing to live single is enough to offset the leverage dynamic women have in the dating market. One big reason for this is that guys have a strong urge for sexual gratification. Many guys are willing to do whatever it takes to access sex. Women tend to fool themselves in thinking they have far more suitiors than they really do simply becuase a guy wants to sleep with them. There are two ways I think could actually envision a shift of this leverage dynamic to be mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 10:49 PM |
| 1 | For Men, Single Life Is the Solution—Not Something to FearI mostly agree with your outlook, but would suggest that many more men are living as single without classifying themselves as so. The leverage dynamic that really hurts men in the dating market is that men have a strong inner uger to engage sexually with women. On the other hand women do not have this desire as much and instead seek emotional connection. Becuase of this more and more men are entering into casual relationships but have no intent on committing to them or seriously persuing them. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What kind of porn would make you uncomfartable knowing your partner is watching them?BBC would be the complete opposite of me lol. I can't compare | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/25 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Men's low standards make women more picky on the apps.Why would you swipe right on a person that shared nothing about themselves in their bio? They are essentially presenting themselves to prospective dating partners without sharing anything about themselves. Do they only want to be judged by their pictures? If so, why try to build a serious relationshio with such a person? If not, why not share? Why ever want to be with someone who doesn't want people to like them more than just whats presented in pictures? Its really shallow. You get what you low… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Why do men seem to almost exclusively focus on physical things?The truth is that Scenario A is very close to how heterosexual men really feel. Men have an overwheling inward desire to have sex. This is who we naturally are. Sex is the number 1 motivator in young men's lives. We are highly sensitive to visual stimulation. And orgasm is like a ever growing pent up stress reliever that must be exercised every so often. It is what it is. Guys desire sex separate from romantic intimacy. When we say we want sex, that is all we mean. Nothing more, nothing less. We… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 01:05 AM |
| 3 | What is the role of a girl’s/woman’s father?A Father should be an exemplary male figure from which he would want his daughter to draw from when looking for a partner. He should treat her like a princess. He should make sure she knows she is loved, is valued, and is beautiful. She should never have to look toward other men to come to this realization. Her father should continually be reminding her of these things and she should have a good sense of her worth. Her father will also be sure to point out the traits which she should look for in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Men who fear that women are settling for them and feel they may be reduced to Beta Bucks... would you be okay, if she offers a hall pass?No. Why would I be with a woman who doesn't desire my full love and attention? I want someome who doesn't want to share me..someone who loves and wants to be with me deeply and no one else. If I didn't respect and love my wife enough to only be with her, why even waste time in a relationship? Why try and build a family on such a weak foundation? It's destined to fail from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?The beauty about marriage is that it is natural for men to want to be promiscuous. There is a physical urge to be with multiple partners. But out of love and devotion, man sets aside this personal desire as an act of love towards their wife. It's from this context of deep love and devotion which, I believe, is best to raise a child in. And to me, experiencing this type of emotional connection with someone is deeper than erotic love. It's an unconditional, long-lasting love that comes with time. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I think it is multi-faceted. First there is the perception that sex workers could be trafficked and by supporting them you may be driving the demand for these pimps to traffick more women. Then there is the perception that the women selling sex are being exploited whether they realize it or not. They may be doing sex work out of desperation to pay the bills or to feed their drug addiction. Even those that claim to do it of their free will, many likely don't see the long term damage they are expo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)You didn't state your premise correctly. You titled your question with sex or having children being the PRIMARY FACTORS of having a relationship. My claim was that they don't have to be the PRIMARY reasons. You then follow up saying you actually meant to entirely exlude sex and having children from the relationship. There is a difference between fully excluding them and them not being the primary factor. They could play a secondary or tertiary reason to be together. For example, some couples don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)No, for me sex and having children are primary factors. I don't date anyone who doesn't want children. And having sex is necessary as a dude. No guy would ever stay in a relationship where sex is ultimately not accessed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)Your question in the title didn't say completely without sex or starting a family. It said without those things being the primary reason/motivator. I think those two things can play a secondary or tertiary factor. There could be many other primary factors. But of course those two things play a big part in being in a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/24 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Relationships are pointless if you EXCLUDE sex or starting a family as the primary reason/motivator (this is my perspective)Chances are there are parts of you that you can improve if you have a loving, respectful partner that wants you to help you become a better version of yourself. Relationships take sacrifice. They take unconditional love, they require patience. They require listening. Everyone can improve in these areas and a partner should be there to help you grow in ways that is difficult on your own. Also, when you are in love and in connection with someone, the world becomes brighter and more beautiful place… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 07:07 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Would you marry a male that checks all of your boxes except one - "has great chemistry"?As a guy, I think chenistry is completely overblown. Half of chemistry is want to from two people. If you value the other person and all their other charachteristics, you will want to grow closer to them. You respect and admire them. Over time, as memories are created, experiences are shared and your lives become one, you will be close to each other. But the two people must still respect and value the other person from.the beggining and let a bond grow over time. But women want that connection i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 03:37 PM |
| 1 | This sub is all negativity and debate. Post what you admire, appreciate, and enjoy about the opposite sex.I can be very negative about the opposite sex in this sub, but that is becuase I value how beautiful women can be as people and feel that our current day society is gradually degragating them. Women are no longer motivated to be the best version of themselves, internally speaking. They have men fawning at their feet and in the comment section of their instagram. With that said, I think women embody some of the most beautiful traits such as being selfless, nurturing, loving, kind, empathetic, hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?The whole astrology thing girls like to do is wierd to me. You can't be serious with that.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/24 12:50 AM |
| – | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Keyword "maybe," I don't know you personally. If you felt it was a dig, MAYBE there was some truth to it. Why else are you getting so worked up? You are the one proving that to be true. I'm sorry I was more right than I thought. But if that's not true, I suppose you could also just be soft and fragile. So, I'm sorry you are offended by what random, anonymous, people on the internet say. Woe is man for wanting to be attracted to their wife whom they are committing themselves to. Its the least the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 06:47 PM |
| – | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Despite you saying women value both money and charachter, its clear the women with the most options value money, connection, and excitement over everything else. This is I didn't make an insult to you. I used deductive reasoning. If the conclusion is false, brush it off. But you seem to be so offended. Why does it matter? If someone accused a guy of gold digging, they would just laugh. It would mean nothing becuase it has no bearing of truth. But for some reason you are offended. Is it so wrong … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 05:55 PM |
| – | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?I didn't say that most women were prostitutes or sugar babies. I said they valued money over charachter qualities which you actually affrimed in the rest of your comment. Women have all the leverage in the dating market. If you want marriage, it's not hard to seek it out. You hold the power to choose. There are plenty more single guys available than women of the same age. If you aren't over materialistic, live within your means, and aim for an average guy of average fiancial status, then no one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?Maybe you and some women are pragmatic in your approach, but while I wish that was the case for most, I don't think it is. Most women value a man's wealth, not nearly as many value chachter qualities found in a good father/husband. Those who are grounded and do, get married earlier when they are in their prime and able to lure the highest quality of man. But then there is a growing contigent of women who do not even want to have kids. They dont want to think of marriage until they are older. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 01:07 AM |
| 14 | Why is it unreasonable for a woman to want a man who earns the same salary as her or more?I think it should be expected that the man makes more and is the provider of the home as has traditionally been the case. The issue is that it seems, from the perspective of a man, that there is a growing sense of entitlement. Now part of that is likely from the fact women are making more money than they ever have. The discrepancy in pay between men and women of the same age is closing in on each other. But then women are, at the same time, seeking men who make more money than them. The discrepa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Do guys understand that how attractive you are dictates how your compliment is received?Yeah, but unfortunately women find like 10% of us guys physically attractive. So there is a higher liklihood we will be seen as a creepy loser stalker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:19 AM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.I don't think you understand how ridiculous you sound. Men can not read women's minds. If guys just acted themselves and went up to you every time we wanted sex, it would be non-stop all the time, every guy. But are you willing to respect men's biological desires and understand us as sexual beings with agency and not complain about us asking for sex non stop? Will you promise not post us on social media or claim sexual harassment? You see, men who respect women as human beings, not sexual object… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 11:40 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.So men should just act true to their own sexual desires and approach women for sex whenever they want becuase it should be assumed women enjoy sex equally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.You made my point for me in your second quote response. You basically admitted its fun for women to be manipulated. You fail to truly see who the dusgusting men are. I'm not advocating that women be treated as "sperm receptacles" by disgusting men. But that is exactly what happens when you allow these manipulative guys access sex becuase they were able to rizz you up. All becuase a guy is timid does not mean he is asexual. Most every heterosexual guy desires sex deeply to very similar degrees.. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.The majority of heterosexual men desire sex very deeply. Those who are intentional in disciplining themselves, demonstrating self control, and treating women with respect, (not like a piece of meat which us very natural for us to do) should be an attractive chachter trait to women. Men who don't show self control will do whatever it takes in the conquest to have sex. They will lead a women on as if there is potential for a longterm relationship, even though they have no intention to do so, just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:38 PM |
| 28 | Q4M: For the men here who have suffered with dating struggles where they want to find a partner but can't, were you able to open up to your male friends about your struggles? If so, how did they respond? And do you believe we should talk more about this as men?I haven't opened up to too many people. But the one I have opened up with seem to come to many of the same conclusions as the red pill community without knowing it exists. As many peole out there thst wants to hate on the red pill, its one of the first communities to vocalize thoughts I had to observed to myself but never quite elaborated on. I think alot of men are the same way. And while there are alot of things I disagree with rp, I think its a good starting point for men to honestly express … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:09 PM |
| 5 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.Men aren't letting other men off the hook. We all know we are as f***** up we are inside. It's why we are protective of females we care about and the type of guys they are with. Becuase at our nature we all can feel that we are wild animals to some sort of degree. You are just hearing the frustrations. Some things are obvious to us, yet women will ignore red flags, etc. Its the old saying of play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Until men feel that women are valuing men of charachter and lifting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Why does everyone here think that young women are economically outperforming young men? It's not true.If young women aren't outperforming young men, I would wager to guess that the gap in difference is closer than it has been in history. Women are doing better than they have ever been. I would guess that if you look at women's pay year over year compared to men, women are probably increasing in salary at a much faster rate than men on a percentage basis. That is probably what many are referring too. Not necessarily that women have unequivocally surpassed men all together. Looking at the graph yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.You are though. You are bringing up a scenario where, sure the heterosexual guy is repulsed by the prisonmate, but it is because the prisonmate is a man. It has little to do with intimidation or being threatened. The original point of his whole entire post though was that men and woman have completley different levels of desire for sex at its core. Woman are more nuanced and have all these interrelated aspects they connect to having sex with someone for them to enjoy it and want t have it. This … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.You are still making my point for me. You are equating a women's desire for sex to be about on the same level of a heterosexual man's desire to have sex with a prisonmate, which is none. But with women Guys desire sex alot. Women desire sex alot less than that. That's point of the OP. All becuase a man can be theoretically raped doesn't mean it ever happens. More times than not sexual advances made ny women are welcomed by men. Rarely is it not, and if that's the case the guy will likely find a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:16 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Do you want to explain? Whats the problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:05 AM |
| -1 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.The two scenarios are very different than each other. One is dealing with the opposite sex they are attracted to, the other is dealing with the same sex they are not attracted to. It is more than simply the prison guy can force us into sex. Its that we actively dislike sex with other males. If a female held us at gunpoint and forced us to have sex, if they are moderately attractive, we would likely still enjoy it. Men marry women all the time, give them their love, yet still have to beg for sex.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.In your initial comment you go off how the original poster is bring misandrist, when he is simply giving you the perspective of a man. I then respond to your comment to support what he had said as consistent with my experience of being a man. So here you have two men sharing their perspective, and your response is to disagree with our opinions. You don't give any reasoning, you just leave it there as if you know what it is truly like being a man. The whole point of the post was to state how wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Thats the difference between males and females. Maybe females all are more nuanced. Guys on the other hand are all biologically built the same. It's not like I came to these conclusions this morning. I grew up as a male, in proximity to other males, having conversation with other males when no females are around. The majority of heterosexual guys think EXACTLY the same. Some may repress it with religion or in certain social contexts. But most all think along the same lines and have similar urges… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:44 PM |
| -2 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.I don't quite understand what you are implying with the prison joke comment? Are you saying women desire sex with men as much as men desire sex from a prisonmate? If so you prove the point that heterosexual men and women desire sex from each other much differently. Also, I think it is safe to say a large majority of men seek love and want to build a family. But the desire to that is separate from our inward need for sexual gratification. Sure, sex is best enjoyed in the context with someone you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.So what makes your opinion to disagree any more valid than mine? Are you a man? Do you know what it is like being born a heterosexual male? Do you have any reason to disagree or do you just not like my perpective, so you invalidate it as one person's opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.It's a true sentiment. Maybe not anything with a pulse, but the standards are really easy to meet for sex. Just be a 4/10, which equates to just being a female and not butt ugly. We crave physical sex. Not all the other things which women seem to look for. We don't pretend to understand how women like sex. Maybe you all like it to some varying degree, But it surely is nothing like a man. We consistently crave it. We try and try to understand your view, but it makes no sense to us. There are all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 06:19 PM |
| – | Guys, maybe you’re just as hypergamous as the ladies…So you are saying men are hyperganous becuase they don't open up their dating options to "women" under the age of 18 including kids and babies?I know you are saying that you aren't including those people, but your math is way off. Also, what about women who 20-30+ years older than us? You are really stretching here. Do you really think that childless, non-obese (guys will date overweight according to the dumb BMI standards), 18-35 year olds, account for 5% of total elligible Bachelorette's...rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:25 PM |
| – | Is this someone that should blame themselves for being perpetually single in their 30’s?Yes, it sounds like you are to blame. It seems you haven't even internalized what you are seeking in a partner. You need to ask yourself why there is a drop of expectation from when you talk over the app to when you meet in person. Do you have some unrealistic expectation that there should be a magical spark? Are you just looking for someone who is entertaining and exciting to be around? That may make for a fun date, but is it really the best way to find a longterm partner or a one night stand? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Do you think dating around is conducive to finding a healthy long term relationship?No, I do not think dating around is conducive to finding a longterm relationship, especially with the power dynamic that exists in today's dating world, where women have most of the leverage. Many times, it turns into this trick and pony show of how long he a guy can keep a woman's interest and whether he is smooth talking, entertaining, etc. After all, its likely that the woman has their dm's flooded with other guys interested in them, and are actively comparing them to one another as they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 10:33 PM |
| 5 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesAll your points boil down to the simple reality that men are biologically born with a very high need for sexual gratification. It's a genetic curse that is near impossible to break and gives women a huge advantage in the dating and sexual marketplace. If there was a simple pill to get rid of this desire, it could change the dynamic. But as it is, guys are nearly powerless. They can restrain themselves and demonstrate outward control for social and religious reasons, but deep down, there is this … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexGuys don't play these mind games to discern who is beautiful to us. We decide that for ourselves. We aren't going to be in a relationship with someone who we personally think is "ugly." It's just that in general, more men find the opposite sex attractive than females do. Also, when girls decide to "settle," they are usually just finding their true market value and equal counterpart. Its just that what value the man brings to the table is usually outside of physical attraction and in another depa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 05:09 PM |
| – | I'm not convinced that women's sexuality is shamed more.Women do have it on easy mode when it comes to accessing sex. If a woman wants sex, all she has to do is ask and she is getting it. She is in full control. If a guy says no to sex its because of religious reasons or they are already in a committed relationship. But they likely still desire to have sex, its just they are restraining themselves. The only other minor times a guy will turn a girl down for sex is because she is really unattractive, like 3 or lower on a scale of 10 unattractive. Other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:10 PM |
| – | I'm not convinced that women's sexuality is shamed more.Women and men have two completely different sexual marketplaces they function in. Men have no leverage, yet a much deeper desire to engage in it. Women on the other hand have all the leverage. They can have sex with almost anyone they want, as often as they want and have complete control. So when a guy engages in porn it is different than a woman engaging in sex work. When a guy is starved for sex, and wants something casual, its different than a woman who can find any guy to be her "friend with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Is There Such Thing as an "INVALID" Reason to Not Date Someone?I think it's perfectly fine to have preferences you look for in a mate, but at the same time they are called preferences becuase they simply are a priority, not a deal breaker. So, yes, I do think there are invalid reasons to not date someone in themselves. For example, your favorite color, or what astrology sign you are, or if you are a Cowboys fan, if you sleep on your side or on your stomach, or if you use an apple or android, if you text back with one y or two ys. Things like these are examp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Women like men who know more about relationships than they do.I agree with your observation, but think its an unfortunate reality. Women value experience, and by doing so, to some varying degree, overlook a man's charachter in the process. So many great guys, who would make great fathers and husbands, play second fiddle to someone who has more experience romantically interacting with females, regardless how they got that experience. But what is failed to be understood is that many times, experience can be acquired. When there is love and respect present, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Truth be told, as delusional as women are a man’s greatest enemy is always going to be the desperation of other men. No matter how well your deck is stacked, if you have standards there is always going to be someone willing to work harder than you for less. You simply cannot compete with this.Yeah, I think women mistake dating experience and confidence from guys as good charachteristics when in reality its just the most desperate guy going up to every girl one by one looking for a partner. These guys, many times, do not have standards other than that they are with a female. They have experience with other girls becuase they took whatever they could get, even if it meant entering a relationship without any level of seriousness just so they could have access to sex and female connectio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | How many men who feel like women reject “nice guys” would proudly treat their girlfriends and wives like princesses and simp for them?I would disagree. I think a majority of men would love a submissive wife. If you can find both a beautiful looking and submissive wife. That's an amazing combination, but I think its more common for a physically attractive women, who has many options, to be more independent. They are full of enough self confidence and probably also less prone to submit to one guy. I'm guessing if a submissive wife is cheated on, it's because the guy has lost physical attraction and wants something he perceives a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?I'm sure you are a joy to be around. I'ts clear you have no ability to have a conversation with anyone who disagrees with you. Your desire to paint people who think differently than you in such a negative light is what is worst about politics. Try to see the good in people. To live in such toxicity has to take its toll over time. Read the last paragraph of my first response comment where I share what the left does a better job than the right from a biblical perspective. Either way, I'm not sure … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?You are simply someone who sees the world as black or white. I do not. There is more nuance to my thoughts and beliefs. All becuase I generally side with the right, I don't every time. I push back on a lot of things. If I do agree, its becuase they more closely reflect my ideals formed through Scripture. I don't agree with the extreme interpretations of how liberals may try to frame an opposing stance. I never said I was against abortion 100% of the time. I never said I support children being bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?This might be long...But yes I am a Christian, and for me it's more about finding someone who sincerely wants to follow God and understand the Bible with an open heart. If someone does that, I believe there are certain values and biblical truths that are upheld moreso on the right. (Though I wouldn't say they get it all right, hence why I'm more center right) For example, with abortion, while Jesus may have never specifically addressed the matter, I do think there are many biblical truths throug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Do you prefer liberal men versus conservative men? Do you prefer liberal women vs conservative women?My religious beliefs and values lead me to prioritize being with someone who shares those same conservative values. Faith comes first and it guides my worldview. At the same time, I'd also like to think I'm more center-right and at least open to engaging in conversations with the other side. So while I wouldn't date someone on the left, whoever I date on the right has to be somewhat open-minded and able to self critique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 06:01 AM |
| 9 | "Giving up on modern ........."It's clear Women have all the leverage in the dating marketplace. If women are upset about the options in the dating world they need to start rewarding the men with the type of character and values they claim to value themselves and want in a partner. They have the control. Truth is, actions speak louder than words, and women gravitate to the tallest, smoothest talking, rich guys. Everything else is mostly an afterthought. What women don't seem to realize is that by natural consequence, these ty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.From my experience once these girls got out of high school they gravitated immediately to older, mature guys and it didn't take long to find one who could offer them what they wanted. Most didn't date around. Once an elligible grown man came into their life, that's all they needed. And a woman's brain is said to grow a year or two ahead of a male's brain once they hit puberty. It sometimes isn't until the early to mid 20s when a male catches up. Plus, women who are marriage minded and want child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:38 PM |
| 15 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.I'm a dude, but from my observations after graduating high school and in college, the girls who dated much older men were usually scooped up quickly by those men These girls were generally smart academically, didn't date much in high school as they were more mentally mature, and were attracted to men who already had their career and life settled. They essentially wanted someone who could quickly provide them the lifestyle they wanted instead and were attracted to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 08:01 PM |
| – | Are women not getting approached anymore?As a guy who doesn't drink or do drugs, I'm not sure of the proper context to approach women. Social media makes it seem women receive more attention than they want, so to cold approach them anywhere outside of a bar or club is seen as creepy and likely unwarranted. Its tough enough having to face rejection, let alone made out to be a creep or punch line on social media. On the other hand, guys have no problem swiping right on a girl's online profile. Present yourself there, and you will quickly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I wish men would stop normalizing women approaching them and trying to "shoot their shot". Almost every man i've seen feels very uncomfortable with a woman approaching themThe reason the men likely felt uncomfortable is becuase they are conditioned to think they are being pranked or that the girl is not serious. It's really unheard of for girls to approach, so its only natural guys are going to be skeptical and refuse to let their guard down.. I guarentee if a girl sincerely approaches a guy in a context where he is not in front of his friends or out in public, he could better guage the sincerity and genuinely respond. If a woman seriously pursues, it gives the gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:02 AM |
| 3 | Men don’t actually like “good” womenMen who seek a marriage partner want a good woman as you describe it. Sure, we also want a physically attractive partner, but when it comes to finding someone we want to commit the rest of our life and resources too, we value all the charachteristics that are found in a good woman and highly devalue promiscuity. Now to have sexual appeal to a man is nothing. Most men have a very low bar when it comes to sexual attractiveness, at least compared to women. You essentially have to not be ugly. That'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 05:49 PM |
| 0 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.As a man, most heterosexual are of the same nature and we have very little sexual restraint. We restrain ourselves for societal and religious reasons, but our nature is very much a slave to sexual pleasure and we have to work against that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 08:17 PM |
| 5 | There is no reason prostitution should be illegal at this point.Its becuase feminists are split on the issue and can't unite on whether they want to support it or not. Most conservatives are against it, or at least state so publically. Women would lose a lot of leverage they hold in the sexual marketplace if they made sex more accessible through prostitution. So it does not benefit them, though some feminists think it is liberating for women to do whatever they want with their bodies. Yet, some feminists realize that prostitution only leads to eventual regre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 03:10 AM |
| – | If men are supposedly violent, rapist sociopaths by nature, women are manipulative and deceptive by natureI don't see how the two statements are correlated to each other. Why does one devolve into the other? That's not to say men, such as myself, do not think women are manipulative or deceptive. But it neing true or not has nothing to do with women who may generally see men as violent, rapists, or sociopaths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 11:44 PM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onWhat do you mean, men can't cope? You are 33. You are past a desirable age for many men looking to build a future and family with. Guys do not care that women past their prime do not desire to be in a relationship. That's great you have found contentment. It's women who think they can live free and reckless when they are young with the mentality that they can just settle down and start a family in their 30s. That is the approach men can't stand. Becuase it just takes us for granted. Yet, good, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 11:18 PM |
| 2 | you aren’t forced to date anyone you’re not attracted to.Why can't guys state their preferences or attributes they find attractive or unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?No, I think most men are in favor of protecting women and speaking up for them. No one supports abuse. If the abuse is legitimate, then men aren't going to stabd for it. And Women have been granted all sorts of rights and preferences for the last century. Its not until this most recent and unending wave of feminism that men are tired of the relentless complaining and victimizing. And yes, white men are one if the most villianized people groups in this country. Its not until recentley that men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:18 PM |
| – | Why do some men get jealous if their girl wears revealing clothing in public?Your actions speak louder than words. And by dressing very revealingly, your actions are saying something. So, why must you dress revealingly? Is affection from your partner not enough? Do you not respect his desire for you to be modest? Its kind of similar to when guys oggle other women when their partner is right next to them. It is not only disrespectful, but it communicates a deeper message that you don't value your women's beauty enough to then have to ogle other women. If your partner star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?I argue prostitution would increase the general amount of leverage a man has in the dating marketplace. This doesn't necessarily mean the quality of women will improve or that they will become more desirable. Women are becoming less interested in starting a family, being a traditional house wife, are more promiscuos, less committal, are radical feminists, etc, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?Most guys who have resonated with "redpill" idealogy have done so as a response to radical feminism. If there is more separatism, its because guys are starting to push back from these movements that are predicated on diminishing us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?Men are motivated primarily by respect and sex. Everything in life revolves around this. Sure guys are naturally competitive, but once we have access or reached the main prize it can be hard to sustain motivation. When we gain access to sexual benefits with our partner, we reached the pinnacle in this aspect. There is nothing more we can gain, except more sex. But once you go to the mountain top, its nice to go again but its not as motivating as it was from before your first time. But among othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?Women dictate the value of virginity in a man and it apparently has little to no value. I'd argue women should value it, though. Women would do a much better job in avoiding d-bags and deadbeats if they did. Sure, some guys are virgins because theyvare socially akward, but many have done so for to honor God and be respectful of women. So many guys have to pressure, manipulate, harass, objectify, get a woman drunk, and/or flat out beg their way into getting sex. Yet, a lot of respectful guys refu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Do men or women love more intensely?I think men love their partner more intensely and women love their children more intensely. Women love men for so many superficial aspects like their job, money, how tall they are, their connection, how funny they are, etc. Many of these asoects can change over time, wimen will lose interesr and then initiate the divorce. Guys love the women, thats it. We sought her out and chose her above everyone else. We are willing to sacrifice everything and provide her the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureAll because blue collar workers get laid and have wives doesn't mean they had leverage in the dating marketplace, which is the claim of this post. They could have dated down or settled in their approach. Where is the blue collar worker dating a model out of his league? Unless they are the business owner or high up manager and making bank it isn't likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:10 AM |
| 7 | If you’re over 25 and still a virgin, you need to hire an escort or have an ONS alreadyGuys would happily date and marry a 25+ year old virgin. It is absolutely no problem to us and if anything many see it as a huge benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you think dating will change and evolve within the next decade?I think masculinism will grow exponentially over the next decade as a movement where men will organize their thoughts and stand up for themselves in a more unified manner. This will help give men more leverage in the dating marketplace. I think prostitution will eventually become legalized, and it will have reverberating effects. For example, I think it will curb a lot of desperate guys who enter into relationships for sexual benefits. Guys will become more experienced in bed and overall carry m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.I'm a dude and I would disagree. Though I would say that most guys would be happy with a 6.5 to 7.5. This is regardless if they themselves are a 3 or a 9. Unfortunately there are alot of ugly dudes who are a 3 but want a 7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 08:16 PM |
| -1 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableMy experience is that most woman who are older and don't have children are insuffrable. Maybe they think they are happy, but they are miserable to be around and try to tell themselves they are fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather date a 21 year old and pay for everything or date a women over 30 who splits things 50/50?I'm willing to pay for most everything regardless of age. If I'm with someone, I'm doing my best to help support them and take care of them. It doesn't necessarilly mean I do everything for them, but I'm helping them fill the gaps and thrive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 02:11 PM |
| 0 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menThe standard of when women were more modest and didn't openly prostitute themselves. At a time when men held more power in the dating marketplace and women didn't hold so much leverage. Now that women hold an overwhelming amount of leverage, they make bad decisions with it. The results are clear. And I've had very attractive woman interested in me. Maybe the reason I complain is because I value character traits that are not present in a vast majority of these physically attractive women. Yet, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menThere was a standard and modern culture deviated from it. Your movements to gain "sexual freedom" and expess yourself has resulted in a generally speaking, lower quality woman and therefore lower quality of guy pursuing them. And its ironic you describe woman with standards as an "uptight fat bitch." Even you admit that women who aren't overweight aren't scrutinized for having high standards. Unfortunately, the best looking women, physically speaking, are usually toxic people who haven't had to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 08:53 PM |
| -1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menObviously, you all aren't as good at "sussing out" which ones of us are worth it if you end up with some lazy, unorganized, and disinterested partner. As OP alluded to, women 100% control the sexual and dating marketplace. You all choose, and therefore encourage, which certain behaviors and characteristics are valued. The very fact you, or whomever in this case, ends up with some guy that is not motivated to care for and accept his fatherly responsibilities in a marriage, shouldn't ever be a sur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 07:41 PM |
| 0 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menMen can call out other deadbeat losers as nuch as we can. But we can't do anything if women keep falling for their dumb tactics and are attracted to these losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 04:40 PM |
| -4 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menAd hominem.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ?Woman B looks like the most normal and suited for a long term relationship. She shares food that she cooked and isn't thirst trapping every picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do men not like women "settling" for them if they are doing the same thing?The thing is, guys are usually aiming too high, at least from an outward beauty perspective, and getting rejected. They have to keep going lower until they get a positive response. Most guys who "settle" are just adjusting to their actual market value. Most of the time they never had any real opportunity to date anyone higher on their dating list. Women usually aren't forced to settle, initially. They normally have a pool of interested guys they can choose from. That is, until they get older and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 01:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Males are more willing to sexually please their woman than vice versa.As someone who responded to your initial question that I would satisfy my partner even if tired, I'd also note that women are not putting men in this position often. It is easy to say we would satisfy our partner if tired, because most of us guys are asking our partner to satisfy us when they are tired and not interested. We put them in this position many times a month, year, etc. So its easy for us to respond that we would satisfy them if the tables were turned, since we haven't been put in thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?Scenario #2. I think most guys would be very happy with a 6 or a 7 that is really in to them. We really dont need a 10 beauty wise just to look at. Even if we could pull it. Sure it would be nice initially, but not long term if there is no connection or desire in the relationship. A 10 can easily become a 6 with post nut clarity. On the other hand, a 6 or a 7 can become a 10 to us over time with a beautiful personality. We will literally see her as a 10 and learn to love every physical aspect ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do both men and women give men more autonomy compared to women?Because women have plenty of options. They have guys from all backgrounds and ages thar are interested in them. Why is it that they choose to be with an older guy? Why would a younger guy want to be with a younger women? Why doesnt the older guy date within his age group? If there is any caution, It's moreso out of caution of the older man who likely has no good reason for dating a much younger woman. On the other hand if a guy is able to convince an older woman to date him. Props to him. Women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 01:59 PM |
| 2 | When women learn men of all ages are attracted to teens, women can no longer look at men the same way.I don't think guys are interested in pedophilia or underage girls to the degree that the OP suggests, but I do agree with the premise that if women knew the inside of a guys mind, sexually speaking, they would never look at us the same and probably not trust us. Alot of guys think similarly even though many don't act upon it or linger upon the dark parts of the mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?Considering I probably been in the exact same situation but from the other side plenty if times, I would absolutely try to do what I could to sexually please my partner. Just the fact that she shows interest and is initiating would be a nice enough gesture to get me interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Girls can easily avoid this supposed "fuck zone" very easily by choosing to make the guy wait until having sex with him. And I don't mean a few dates. I mean until he actually shows he is committed to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Women altering their appearance in profile pictures is just as manipulative as men who say/do anything for sexI'm a guy and disagree. Is it deceptive. Sure. Is it really harming anyone? No. On the other hand women are very sensitive with whom they sleep with. Some guys will do and say whatever they can to get a girl in bed, only to reveal they aren't really the person they portrayed themselves as. This is really sex under false pretenses. And women can feel manipulated and used for it. The dude is acting selfish and only with his best interest at mind. With girls who use flattering angles and filters, t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I fixed it for you, though I'm sure you know I meant "women who choose not to have children." And the topic simply isn't about being childfree. It's about those who majr the conscious choice that they do not want children. If you are delaying children for the right circumstances or are struggling to have children that is a different matter. But my point was that those who actively choose to not have children have character flaws. The flaws already exist. The choice not to have children just demo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I didn't say childfree people. I said people who do not want children. There are many child free people who do not choose to be childless. And you proved my point. All because someone is wise enough to not have children because they are not cut out for parenthood, doesn't negate the fact that they aren't cut out for parenthood in the first place. My overall point still stands that people who don't want children have some sort of character flaw. On the contrary that's not to say that everyone who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?Sure it's wise for that person to recognize their character flaws and choose not to have a child, but at the same time, it also speaks to who they are. So while they may not struggle in self awareness, they lack in other areas. And that's the answer to the OP, why are women who choose to never have children looked upon negatively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I didn't say that every parent is a good parent. There are many great ones. Some bad ones. Some had children prematurely or didn't properly plan for them. But what I do know is that those who never want children are not great parents and don't have that character qualities of those that do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?No, the default state is to procreate. You are born with reproductive parts for this very purpose. I don't think it's a stretch to say that females have adopted nurturing qualities in themselves to better care for their children. But I'm not sure it's worth trying to have a conversation with someone who equates having a child to an elephant. That in itself proves my point that females who don't desire having children are more cold hearted. It isn't me ascribing personality traits to anyone. It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman?No, though there are more African American conservative influences. But there are many more that are part of different conservative groups. I hear them all the time espousing red pill content as many men think very similar on these matters. It's just apparent they aren't as encouraged to speak their truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman?Alot of those guys on minority communities don't have a backbone. They won't say what they really believe because they are afraid of backlash or the repurcussions from their culture. But more and more are standing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 08:16 PM |
| 3 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?The qualities that are found in husbands that are in long lasting relationships. The results speak for themselves. I would say some include: Empathy, selflessness, unwavering support, emotional intelligence, similar values, is patient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Exactly. Men are highly sexual objects. I can't overstate this enough. Us men are born with this sick addiction and some don't even try to control it. So, yes, men naturally will treat women like a piece of meat if no one holds them to a higher standard. But some organization such as the church spends alot of time teaching men to honor women with their eyes and to not objectify them. But much of the world does not care. And media, television, music, and our culture in general just makes it more … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I didn't say that there aren't terrible mothers. There are. Not every child is planned for and some mothers aren't in the best environment to raise a child and it affects their ability to be a mother. But by default of wanting to have a child, you are making a sacrifice. You are sacrificing your body. Many times you are sacrificing professional committments. You are committing yourself, your resources, your money, your time and your energy into the well being of another human being. It takes hum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:30 PM |
| -1 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I didn't say it was necessarily a defect. It may mean you are cold hearted and lack the ability to love and care. It could mean you shy away from responsibility. It could mean you are very self-centered. It could mean many things, none of which are preferrable character traits to have in a wife or any relationship. Also, I would allude to most young girls being predisposed to playing with dolls, playing "mommy," and dreaming of having a home of their own. Women for a good amount of history were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?I did. Results tell you what are the right characteristics. Not men. Not women. It's results. But it's clear that women hold the power of who they choose to date in the dating marketplace. So if there are a lot of single mothers, obviously that isn't the intended result. The conclusion which can be made by anyone is that women must be choosing the wrong type of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?According to most of nature. The mother tends and cares for her children. She is the one who has put her body on the lime and created a special bond over the pregnancy period. And men are far more violent than women in general. Maybe there are rare examples of mothers killing their babies, but they are the ones left entirely responsible for them. There are many pathetic deadbeat fathers who abandon their child and try to convince the mother-to-be to have an abortion and threaten the mother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:51 PM |
| -2 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?Well considering how many single mothers there are when women have the clear advantage in the dating world, the results speak for itself. They aren't picking the right guys or are being persuaded by the wrong characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 06:44 PM |
| 7 | Since the dawn of time women were berated for being promiscuous. But I never understood why.Becuase a woman's power comes from her sexuality. But as you give yourself sexually to more and more people you become less attractive to guys. You lose your power. Women get it twisted thinking sexual freedom is liberating. It actually is minimizing your value to men. You become powerless. You become a piece of meat becuase you treat yourself as a piece of meat. You lose the self worth that came with your virginity. Men are simply expressing what they value. Their preference is to be with a wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:19 PM |
| -5 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?The last sentence isn't true. Women should have high standards. But they should value the right qualities. They get it wrong many times , though caring for the wrong things in a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do Childfree women bother so many men?It's because it is a perspective of someone who is really selfish. It is also a sign of lacking emotional intelligence since most women want children above anything else in the world. It should be in your nature to want to nurture and care for a child. So when you dont, you either dont understand yourself well, are shrt sighted, amor are just too focused on yourself. Also, every guy has a mother who selflessly cared and loved them. So, by not wanting a mother, it likely means you don't carry the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 05:01 PM |
| 3 | If men had as much standards as women did, would anything really change?Guys are actually fairly picky with who they choose to committ to, just not who they have sex with. Generally, they find the average female attractive. But finding someone you want to commit to is much different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Which relationship is more likely to work out, a conservative man and a liberal woman, or a liberal man and a conservative woman?Well conservative men are usually more masculine and dominant, so women are naturally going to be more attracted to them even if they don't agree with his political stances. Plus, when given the opportunity, most women are going to be happy to be a stay at home mother, even liberal ones. And since alot of liberal women are physically attractive, a conservative guy could maybe make it work. On the other hand, Liberal men are soft, feminine, have no backbone, and don't pay for dates. Women aren't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Serious question: why the hate to single women are not given to nuns?Single women stay single for selfish reasons, or because they have problems emotionally committing, or poor judgement, etc. But usually it centers back to some personal defect. Nuns on the other hand are making an intentional choice to put aside their own personal desires so that they can focus on serving the God and His church. They are making a sacrifice. One is living recklessly for oneself, and the other is sacrificing themselves for God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Im against marriage, i think FWB is the best approach, but here are the reasons for a marriageAs a person of faith, I do think marriage is more meaningful in the context of your religion. For someone who believes in God and his commands, making a vow before him is serious. Also, your relationship with God is the foundation of your marriage and the goal is to honor God through it. So in a sense there is a deeper purpose and mission to marriage. But I would argue that marriage does make some sense for two people who want to commit to each other and build a family. I believe it is a healthi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 04:35 PM |
| – | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?And that's a toxic mentality to have. Women always taking a guys preference, isolating it, and looking at it in a negative light. Guys don't chastise girls for wanting to be a princess. We don't think it's negative. And we don't think girls literally want to be treated exactly like a princess. Yet when guys want to feel like a hero, and be appreciated as a leader in the relationship ots considered toxic. Ok.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men?5 years isn't really that large of a gap when you are in your thirties. I don't think anything of it. I do find it odd when someone wants to date someone else who is in a completely different stage of life. As a male, I generally wouldnt want a women too young to date me. I would think such a person would be more interested in the concept of dating an older guy than she is with dating me as a person. We are in different stages of life and by dating me it seems like she wants to skip a stage of l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:42 PM |
| 9 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?That applies when guys are in the friendzone and girls want boyfriend benefits. Otherwise, guys when in a relationship want to help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 09:13 PM |
| 0 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?I think it's a highly preferred to have a women need you but not entirely necessary. Just as girls grow up reading about being a princess, guys grow up wanting to be a hero. It gives us long term satisfaction to know that our woman seeks our leadership and guidance. And if the woman isn't valuing her man by bringing her needs to him, she has to affirm his value through other ways. As long as each person feels valued, respected, and loved the relationship should be healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:49 PM |
| 11 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Men simply want to be valued and wanted. You are correct in that woman, by default, have inherent sexual worth. This is nearly reinforced on a daily and weekly basis for many women. They are told they are beautiful, receive off the cuff compliments, and have a much larger dating pool to select from. Even for women who aren't that attractive, get plenty of guys affirming their value. Men on the other hand rarely receive compliments or words of encouragement from others. By coming to us with their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?Yes, this is absolutely true. We like to lead and be leaned upon. When our woman comes to us for advice, instruction, etc, it shows she values our perspective and trusts that we can guide her. It helps affirm our role in the household to be the leader. Also, since most men find their women to be physically attractive, it builds up our self-confidence when our beautiful woman depends on us. It reminds us we are valued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesNot quite. Men are willing to date a girl with no social status, money, career, etc. We don't care about those things like women do. We are willing to start at the bottom. Sure, women want encouragement and someone to grow with. But it has qualifiers. You already have to have a lot going for you. If you currently work a crap job or don't have much to your name, you aren't even going to be given the time of day. It's really shallow and why I don't flash my financial status for the world to see. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 03:19 PM |
| 7 | For those who believe in redpill dating should be the last of your worriesThe problem is many women want to reap the benefits of a successful man, without being there through the struggles and years of doubts. They want to jump in at the end of the story, not the beginning. We want someome who believes in us and our vision. We want someone to confide in, encourage us and build us up. Someone to grow with and become a better person with. Someone who sees the end goal and wants to help us get there. But what does it say about a woman if they only accept guys of a certai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:41 AM |
| 2 | "You have to work 5x as hard as your grandfather for women 20x worse"Western women lose some of their leverage that they acquire through their outward beauty when men begin to look internationally for a partner. Because, by default, they hold so much leverage, women in general haven't had to confront their toxic personality traits and entitled behavior. On the other hand women from other countries have a more grounded and global perspective when it comes to dating. Beauty only gets them so far in a country where each person is expected to work difficult labor job… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 03:27 AM |
| -2 | Nobody owes anyone sex, but it’s a reasonable expectation if there’s commitmentWhether woman are doing it on purpose or not, its annoying and doesn't change the fact that guys do "have to work for it." Considering guys already have to put alot of effort just to get the opportunity to date a woman, than marry her and then make her happy for the rest of her life. One of the few things we want is sex. That's it. But then we have to do all this nuance bs in hopes our woman is turned on. Is it at least understandable why guys get frustrated? Especially when you really grasp how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?I do think social media and dating apps have played a role in women prioritizing a man's height. I think before women have always wanted a guy that was taller than them, but the preference to have a guy 6ft or higher wasn't as much pf a priority. In part I think it's because online you can be more picky than you would be in person. Whereas in person, woman aren't taking out a measuring stick, but many of them are just looking for someone taller than them that makes them feel secure. With that sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Today society is PERFECT for menSex really isn't accessible to the majority of men. Maybe it's more accessible for the top 10-20%. But overall it's just been dangled in front of our face. Otherwise, men have to deal with the repercussions of living in a world highly influenced by social media. Women are pushing for more independence than ever before. It's cool to be a boss babe and to live your life without needing a man. And in today's world it is more possible than ever. So a man''s utility is fading, and men are becoming mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Is there truly someone for everyone?I do think there is someone for everyone, but a lot of people get hooked up on small incompatibilities or overvalue a certain preference and blinds them from finding their match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 04:50 AM |
| – | Men have allowed modern dating to become how it is by never refusing to date women, no matter how bad her past/heavy her baggage.Women will always have suitors, but I'd argue that the pool of guys lacks quality for the ones with baggage, etc. But even then, physically attractive girls, even with all the baggage, will have better options than they should because of their appearance. But unfortunately for us guys we do not have any leverage because of our d****. No matter how hard some may try to restrain it, there will always be dudes out there who let their minds down below be in control and fail to think clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:36 AM |
| – | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Girls can have sex every single day, multiple times a day, at the snap of a finger, if they wanted to. The fact they don't, shows that they don't crave it as much as dudes. A month without sex means they chose 30 days not to have sex when they easily could. They crave it as much as they would a back massage, if not much less than that. On the other hand, Guys would have sex almost every day or at least multiple times a week if it was easily accessible to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | If you don't find a partner, are you ready to live alone for the rest of your life?Personally, I don't think I am able to live alone by the time Im in my later 30s. Over time I've slowly been lowering my unrealistic standards and making concessions in a potential partners. I'm also working hard to better myself both physically and financially. I may even open my search internationally. I've always been open to adoption though, so it simply isn't about having children to visit me as I age. But part of it is having a biological legacy to leave behind. Also having children with s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?I think society in general would support it and woman will publicly support it. But I think on a personal level there will be a good contingent of females subconsciously frustrated that they would have to convince their guy to stop taking birth control pills in order to have a child. These pills would be very popular to the us guys. And if it is up to a guy they aren't having a child until marriage. And for some guys they never want a child. But either way, I'm projecting. We don't know the actu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 02:27 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menWomen are passive when it comes to finding a partner. They don't really seek out a specific partner and identify all the traits they value. They may say they want certain things, but they really aren't seeking it out or prioritizing them. Instead, they let guys come to them and then tend to choose from that pool of suitors whichever guy they connect best with, is taller than them, and they find moderately attractive. They may work to expand that pool of potential suitors, but rarely are they act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?No, it's not about protesting in the streets. I'm not claiming women would do that. I'm just stating that they are currently in a position where they hold all the control. They take it for granted and would not be happy if guys had the option to take birth control pills. I think it would be generally a good thing, but it force women to be more accountable with who they had sex with. If they ultimately want a child, it's not going to happen by accident with the guy they may subconsciously would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?Women would also lose control from the men's side. Just think how many women have had a child and decided to keep the baby regardless of the guy's wishes and then forced him to pay child support. These type of guys would take birth control, probably lie to the girl that they weren't on it, then these women who secretly want a baby get big mad when they find their loser jerk boyfriend doesn't want to have a child with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 01:08 AM |
| 0 | What would a society in which all men are red-pilled look like?I think most men would agree with a good amount of red pill content but aren't saying it out loud because either they don't want to be crucified or they haven't ever formalized their thoughts too deeply about relationships, sex, dating, etc. Thats why I think it's more important for guys to philosophically wrestle themselves and think deeper about these topics. I don't think many have ever identified many of the red pill content they would naturally agree with. They just let their mind down belo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Would you use male birth control?Honestly, I'm not injecting myself with something, particularly for optional means such as birth control, unless there are decades' worth of safe and proven treatment. At the same time, its not the same option women have withba biryh control pill. I could only imagine the chaos if there was a birth control pill for men. Everyone would take it. Women would be big mad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?Women mostly just have to not be obese and have actual female body parts and that's it. Some guy will find them attractive enough to date and many, many more at least would find them attractive enough to want to sleep with. It doesn't take much to please men and we don't ask for much. Women on the other hand are much more complex. Sure, they want attributes out of a man's control, but have other qualifiers for who they want to be with and sleep with. They are fickle and will change their mind fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:24 AM |
| 10 | Is it harder for a man or a woman to be considered attractive?100% truth. And the threshold is usually pretty low for whom guys will sleep with. I think guys will go as low as a 4/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Why are women often bothered by male attention, but men absolutely love female attention?It's because women do not show any sort of physical attraction to men and rarely give compliments. They receive them constantly though, but rarely return the favor. So when someone gives us guys a compliment it means a lot to us. Why it's this way? Because women have enough guys wrapped around their finger to ever have to out of their way and be nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manI wish women would just admit they like such guys than lie and say otherwise. It's like when they tell each other that they are all beautiful and 10/10s but then talk bad behind each other's back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractiveYou are obviously not a man and are completely clueless to what it's like to be one. It is said that an average looking women has the same sexual pull as a male Celebrity. Guys do not get sex easily. The ones that do have to aggressively pursue it and usually have to settle for women who are under their attraction equivalent. If a guy doesn't pit himself put there, absolutely no woman is going to sexually show interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:35 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the notion about men waiting until their thirties to be successful financially as well as at their “peak” and then date women in their upper teens or early twenties who are in their “peak”I'm 31 and the youngest I'd go is 25. But I'd probably prefer a 25 year old over a 31 year old. I would prefer someone youthful, but older than college aged. Someone who has started their profession or has some experience living in the real world. Yet, at 25 there is still some naivety to the world. Also, as someone who wants children, a younger mother would be preferred, but not a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:52 AM |
| 1 | There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’tSome people don't like to accept reality. Particularly women. Men know how other men think and its silly to act otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 12:25 AM |
| 1 | There’s a good reason men get praised for sleeping around and women don’tOP your post is common sense. Anyone who argues otherwise is simply not living in reality. The only thing I'll add is that for those who don't like this reality, specifically women, you have the power to change this. Stop valuing guys with high body counts! Stop dating them and being attracted to them! Otherwise, your words are empty and meaningless. Your actions speak louder than words and you all obviously value guys with high body counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:50 PM |
| 20 | Is the gender war mostly zero sum?In my opinion women have been dominating the gender war the last 10 to 20 years. But mostly because, guys haven't been pushing back at all. But now with years passing, I think guys are sick of the whining and incessant complaining and finally barking back. At the end of the day, I think it's important for genders to understand and recognize their inherent differences (though feminists for a while have tried to claim everyone is exactly the same and gender is a social construct). Once we seek to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:28 PM |
| 2 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.Plus what women say they are interested in and what they are actually interested are two different things. Actions speak louder than words and most don't like to personally admit they are into these type of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:46 AM |
| 4 | There is a huge disparity between what young&attractive girls want and what PPD girls want and that's one reason for misunderstanding.The girls rejecting him.are based on his Instagram profile and how cringe it looks from the surface. I bet if they met him in real life and had no preconceptions from his social media they would show more interest given the opportunity the guy was interested in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Women are not entitled to a relationship just because a Man promises one consent can be revoked at any timeIf a man wants to truly date and have a relationship with a woman, having sex or not doesn't change the equation. If it does, the guy never really wanted to build a relationship in the first place. He may have talked himself into wanting one, when it was really sexual attraction leading the thought process. And after accessing it, the red flags that were always present became more present post nut clarity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:35 AM |
| 2 | The conservative advice given to women, that tells them to be housewives while letting the men bring in the money, is flawed and downright harmful.The advice may look differently depending on your age. I think the advice is best applied to young women whom may be tempted to go with the fun and more exciting short term options. But conservatives would encourage this women to value the right characteristics in a partner. The right type of guy, who loves his family and puts them first, will do everything possible to provide for them. From my general observation, most stay at home women didn't plan to do so as their first option. They went to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What do you think was the biggest influence in your life that led you to taking your pill?I still dont understand the whole color pill thing, but a lot of my perspective has been formed through my life experiences and formative years that were spent devoted to the church. I disciplined myself and worked very hard to be "set apart." I stayed away from drugs, alcohol, premarital sex, and people who were involved in such things. Now that I'm older, while I still agree with a lot of what the church taught me, society has not rewarded me for being so disciplined. If anything I've been pen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 05:04 PM |
| 1 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXAre you assuming there are differences in genders? Are you assuming everyone under the same gender has the same body parts? How hateful and ignorant of you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:53 PM |
| 0 | WOMEN DONT ENJOY SEXWomen enjoy sex. They just don't enjoy it anywhere near as much as us guys do. They would probably prefer a non-sensual massage or to snuggle over having actual sex. When they do want sex there are a whole bunch of strings attached and everything has to be just right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 04:50 PM |
| 1 | You men who want traditional women, are u even ready to be traditional urselfThere is no such thing as a non traditional man. There are men and then there are little boys. Real men wouldn't split the bill. They want their woman to dress with self-respect. They wouldn't be in a relationship where there isn't equal respect and understanding between both partners. When a relationship lacks respect, love, and admiration on both sides, partners do things for their own individual pleasure instead of honoring their partner's wishes. Real men, and there are plenty, understand th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:36 AM |
| 0 | As a man you should not date if you are brokeI mostly agree with the sentiment of the OP, but apply the principle more towards marriage and having children. Dating on the other hand is a time where each partner can support each other towards becoming better both as individuals and as a couple. When you are young and in your 20s, it's very likely you are going to be broke by society's standards regardless. You have to start at the bottom in your career and have to work your way up the corporate ladder. This is the time that men need a suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Men in western society should reject marriageFrom a theoretically standpoint, OP makes a very valid argument. It is why I am so picky and will not date unless my partner has a strong relationship with God, and our shared faith is the foundation of our marriage. Otherwise, if God isn't at the foundation, then what is holding the relationship together? People are too fickle these days. It's all about "what can you do for me now?" And if the foundation of your relationship is outward beauty, a good conversation at the bar, financial stability… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV I believe that beeing a Step Dad is one off the most humilating things that a Man can do to himself.Humiliating isn't the word that comes to mind for me. I think more of the word "selflessness." Its because you love someone so much that you give yourself fully to that other person and their children. Yes you may forego some of the blessings that come from starting a family on your own, and for many guys its not the default preference, but I wouldn't call it embarassing. Some women make mistakes when they are young and fall for the wrong type of guy. In some situations they do not value the rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Are Romance Novels a Good Indicator of What Turns Women On? Thoughts on "It Ends With Us"I never heard of this book, but I imagine women are downplaying the themes they connect with. Think about a "love story" intertwined in a guy's movie. Usually it involves sacrifice and giving up everything to be the hero to the women they love. Guys like to be viewed as the hero. It's romanticized in movies everywhere and though none of us intend on becoming Batman we all like the idea of being the hero in the eyes if the one we love. Women probably enjoyed the book because they enjoy the though… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/23 10:24 PM |
| 3 | I'm confused on the overall stance women have on approachingGenerally, the only women who hinted to me or somehow made sure it was communicated they were interested in me were usually slightly below average to completely unattractive to me. There was an exception or two. But, most of the women who have lots of guys pursuing them, were passive in their dating approach and simply chose from the group of guys who showed interest in them. As it's said, guys have to treat dating like an interview while women treat it like shopping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 6 | It’s hard to take what a lot of men say seriously about relationships/marriageSo let me get this straight: Men watch porn and have to resort to paying for sex because there aren't enough eligible guys to please women? We don't meet your standard and therefore speak out of loneliness and bitterness. I would counter by saying that women have an over Inflated view of themselves because guys so deeply desire them sexually. They receive plenty of admiration and attention in real life and online. But they confuse sexual attraction for dating interest. Yet all because a guy woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 06:51 AM |
| 3 | What do you think of virgin women?Most guys do not negatively view women for being a virgin. In fact it is more so preferred and admired. The only guys a virgin would turn off is a guy looking for about easy lay and has no intention of forming a serious relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/23 05:04 AM |
| 0 | RP’s idea of a submissive gf is a lieAll because someone is submissive doesn't mean they can't provide for themselves if needed. Many stay at home moms were in the workforce or could join it at any moment if the family needed financial support more. I think you are undermining the gifts and talent a submissive women brings to the table. It's one thing to work for money, and another to work to support your family. Alot of women love these roles and out of love are able to offer more in the home than they could working for corporate … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | What Are Your Thoughts On Straight Men?I think positively of straight men as I am one. I tend to advocate for them in most instsnces. But I also recognize if you give any one people group too much power, as straight white men have been given, there would be some sort of negative reaction in a diverse society. Unintentional or not, people tend to look out for their own kind. Others are often overlooked and not always considered. Each person has their strengths and weaknesses. So balance is generally a good thing for a society that has… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 04:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westI'm not advocating to hypersexually view women. I'm not saying to act out on your inner thoughts and emotions and be a creep. Try to act normal. Try to only minimally admire their beauty and not view them as sex objects. Respect them as human beings. I'm just saying that is not the natural response of typical heterosexual guys. Guys, in fact Chads will act on those thoughts and actively pursue women for sex. They will manipulate situations, exaggerate themselves to sound impressive, hang out wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 03:06 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westI dont have to "trust" your perception. I'm a guy and been around them my whole life in all sorts of settings. Heterosexual guys are all mostly the same in their biological makeup and how they respond to the female anatomy. I'm not buying what you are saying. I think you want to believe it. But it's simply not reality. There is no red flag. Just how most guys think. Guys and girls don't maintain friendships. They only do so because the girl, who is the sexual gatekeeper, doesn't want to have sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westYes, most guys act normally in public, but what is happening in the mind and out in public are two completely different things. Most guys can keep themselves under control in a typical public setting. Men will engage in typical conversation but have to be intentional about watching where there eyes go. If "chads" are you the type of western guys you are referring to, your argument makes even less sense. Chad's are the ones who bounce around from women to women like they are sex toys. They approa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: it’s a huge red flag for a western guy if he can’t handle girls in Western apparel and liv e in the westThe reality is that men are different than women. We are aroused differently. Women don't even like being sent d*** picks. They are repulsed by it. They aren't visually stimulated anywhere near the same way guys are. Has a guy ever in the history of mankind been repulsed by a nude picture sent to them? The female anatomy by default stimulates us guys. When a women wears clothes too revealing it's the first thing most guy's eyes gravitate too. It's natural, but thats not to say it's respectful to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Most dating problems are just men being horny, and women being selectiveI'd agree that a lot of problems stem from men being horny, but as far as the woman's side, I think the problems stem from valuing the wrong type of guys/characteristics in a guy. They value the short term fun, exciting guy over the chivalrous, traditional, respectable guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:49 AM |
| 2 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?What I've gathered from this thread is that there are many reasons why a women will become disinterested in sex. Which is fine. Have your attraction triggers. Yet for guys, it's rare we ever turn down sex. So just don't pretend we are the same biologically in other topics of discussion. We obviously approach sex differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you prefer slim or curvy?All are very attractive and most guys would be happy to be with any of them even if its not their top preference. But if you want my preference, I prefer the bottom three pictures. I probably preferred the top ones when I was 20. Now I'm 30. Curvy is better and to be specefic, the bottom half is much more important than the top half. Curvy up top | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t people just date people who align with their interests?If a woman dresses in a way that seems to sexually entice men, I am never interested in the first place. I prefer a woman to be more modest and dress in a way that is respectful and doesn't bring the wrong attention upon herself. That doesn't mean she needs to dress like the Amish, but that there is plenty of variety between dressing provactively and dressing fully covered where you can still express yourself, feel confident, and respect yourself. Beauty radiates through. If you need to wear sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | “ women only want men who other women want” is projection.G | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | What are mens opinions on gym girls?There will always be simps who are interested in any girl with a decent body. But dating wise, just like women view gym bros, I think a lot of dudes would be turned off by a girl who is overly conceited and way too into themselves. No one likes to be around someone who thinks they are better than everyone else and has an inflated ego. With that said, I don't think as many girls fit that description as guys. Women tend to be more casual in their approach to the gym and get healthy more for themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Men should use every dating app to leverage their online dating market.The numbers approach can be successful. For example I've seen it play out in the real world where spme guys ask out a ton of girls, follow them around, and hope they can maybe land one. Same thing on Tinder. Swipe right for every girl on tinder no matter what to get as many matches as possible and hope they can convince one to sleep with them. To do such approach you have to have no self respect for yourself, care zero about rejection, and be ok with whoever you can get no matter what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 06:28 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I argue by being passive, women aren't as proactive in seeking the right characteristics in a partner. They tend to limit their dating options to whichever guys, good or bad, show interest in them first and then make a decision off of best "connection." But many times the guy with the best connection just has more experience in making a good first impression or is fun to be around in the short term. Sure they lose some leverage and are completely vulnerable by asking guys out. But at least then,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:53 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?Men lower their standards, sexually speaking, by necessity. They can't have sex otherwise and most strongly desire it. If they could have sex with higher rated women as much as they desire to, they would. Women on the other hand can have sex from nearly anyone they want if they are at least average in looks. It's not that men wouldn't respect you unless you have a low body count. It's that respectable guys usually have lower body counts and desire the same from their partner. Because sex is so d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 1 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldMilfs are attractive in a different way, sexually speaking, than a 21 year old. Many guys, as they get older, always had older women they themselves thought were sexually attractive, but being with them ever was just a fantasy because of age difference. Yet, for some it's nice to still fantasize through porn. Also for some 21 yr olds do look too young and have little diversity to them. Older women, specifically their body, have alot of character and uniqueness to them. Dating wise though, younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 04:35 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?I have plenty of unpopular opinions that have been downvoted in my short time on reddit. But I dont care, I think there Bodycount matters a lot to men. 90% of guys think a high body count is disgusting and would never knowingly date a women over a certain threshold. The other 10% are simps who either go along with a relationship with a women with a high body count because the woman is very physically attractive and they wouldn't get sex with such a good looking woman otherwise. Or they are immat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 03:32 AM |
| – | CMV Women arent more delusional today, they just can choose freely with no boundaries.Women have lowered their standards in the type of man they pursue compared to more traditional times. If women want the right type of man, they need to reward them in the dating marketplace. You all claim to want one thing, but in reality want another. You choose temporary, short term fun when it comes to dating regardless of the long term consequences. You then have a whole movement claiming masculinity is toxic, but then also they good men are a dying breed. Women control the dating and sexual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/23 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Are men really the only ones that can’t take rejection? Or is that a baseless assumptionIf on equal footing, I think men take rejection better. But what many fail to account for is that men and women come from completely different circumstances. A women's beauty is affirmed on nearly a daily basis. Whether it through social media, dating profiles, real life interactions, cat calls, etc, women are being pursued and told they are beautiful by many men. As it has been said, women treat dating like shopping. They have guys lined up for them and they simply pick and choose what they lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityI'm not sure they are aware of that the societal consensus does not agree with them though. Some people think they can do whatever they want and the world around them has to conform to their ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuitySo again, what does men having low standards have to do with it being less socially acceptable for women to have sex with who they want? I've already explained this to you but you don't want to accept it. Because men have low standards, women have the leverage in the sexual marketplace. They have the control. They can essentially get sex with whomever they want whenever they want. They don't need to have multiple sexual partners. They can have as much sex as they want with a limited number of gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityYes, I get women will have "casual sex." But my point is that we are not the same as you claim we are. Guys will have sex with almost anyone, even if they find you slightly unattractive. They don't need to go to a bar. They don't need to know your name, get a drink, talk, or anything. They just want flat out sex. My point was that we are wired differently. Why though? What’s the reason to deny yourself sex that you want to be having and that you can easily get? Because, you demean yourself when … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityMy proof is my experience. I'm being genuinely honest when I say 90% of men crave sex to a similar degree. Once puberty hits, it starts from there. I grew up in the church where you are taught from a young age to guard your heart and to have covenant eyes. You are told to respect women, to honor them in your mind. To not objectify them. To save yourself for marriage. Yet, despite attending all the church activities, youth camps, chapel services, private school, etc, one thing was the same. Every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityI'm simply telling you how most every single heterosexual guy thinks. We are wired to want sex. We are not the same. Call us pathetic, perverted, disgusting, mindless animal etc. Whatever you want. We didn't choose this. I'm not proud of it. But it's obvious women do not understand how different we really are in this regard. It doesn't mean we can't contain ourselves and be disciplined. I went until my mid 20s until I couldn't hold out any longer and lost my virginity. I originally was saving my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:45 AM |
| 4 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuitySome women don’t need to have an emotional connection before having sex. Some of us are just fine with casual sex, again, because we are horny. Just like some men are. You are being ignorant to reality here. If an average lookimb guy walks up to 100 women and asks to have sex, none would have any with him. Even if they are "just horny." It's more likely the police would be called for sexual harassment than for him to successfully get sex. Do that same experiment with an average looking girl and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:36 AM |
| 0 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityYou claim women want sex as much as men, yet in your reply you say how us guys sound like a "broken record" and we have an "endless obsession" about sex. You fail to see how you contradict yourself. Women will never understand the need that men feel to have sex. It isn't about finding a hobby or taking up a sport, etc. We are all wired this way. When we try to explain this to you all, it goes over your head and you label us as pathetic perverts. Also, I never called guys who have sex with alot o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 05:15 AM |
| 2 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityBecause it is so easy for a women to have sex with a guy, one has to ask, why would a women choose to have a high body count? It would be very easy for her to find a fwb situation or be in a relationship where she could get sex as often as they want. There is no shortage of suitors. After all, it's women who have exclaimed that sex is more emotional and about connection for them, while for guys its highly visual and physical. So why, out of all those guys, can't they find one person who they wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Women will never understand a man's disgust about promiscuityYou don't care because sex is not easily accessible to men. Women do not simply up.and have sex with a guy like a guy biologically is wired to want it. Men have to put in alot if work to get to that point with a women. It's almost as if Women view sex as so despicable that a guy has to impress them over the top for them to consider having it with them. In that case, if you did have sex with a lot of women it shows there must be something about you that is really attractive and likeable. In reali… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Casual sex is easy for men not because of standards, but because men are sexually stimulated purely by looks, and for women its a complex mix of thingsI agree with OP, but how can the left agree with you if gender is a made up construct by society? Yet, it's apparent men and women are sexually attracted by different standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:32 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] You have to PAY in order to be lovedWhile unconditional love may not exist, I think that is OK. In a healthy relationship, each partner should be helping the other grow and evolve into a better version of themselves. With time love grows stronger and I think a couple can develop a deep and strong love for each other that can withstand nearly any circumstance. It's why you will occasionally hear of a husband taking care of his paralyzed wife or a wife caring for her husband with dementia. So while love may never be perfect, it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:26 AM |
| – | CMV: Maine legalizing the selling of sex, but criminalizing the buying of it is another example of institutionalized misandry.I think the OP makes a very valid argument, even though I'm against the legalization of prostitution. I find it odd how there is a sect of the left (feminists) who are pro-choice in some areas and not in others. They label prostitution as exploitive and don't want anyone, even if consensual from both parties, to engage in it. And I actually agree with their conclusion that sex work can be exploitive. But not just for the sellers, but also the buyers. I'm of the position that prostitution does da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 04:15 AM |
| 6 | Men are absolutely stupid when it comes to red flags.Guys will lower their standards for sex. If it's easy to obtain, they will suffer through a bad relationship or lead a women on they have no intention of dating. It's wrong and I would never do such a thing. But guys let their mind downstairs take control at times. And for them, sex is better than no sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Men’s thought process when they download tinder is “it’s time to fuck some sluts”. It’s not “time to find a great girlfriend/wife”.As a guy, I've tried to use tinder as a means to find a serious dating partner, but I can't take it seriously. Most of the women on there are half naked, sticking their a** out for everybody, and don't include anything meaningful in their bio. There are also those thar are looking for a "plug," just "here for a fun time, not a long time" and/or want someone to drink with. I've concluded, it seems like tinder is being used more for an ego boost and how many guys a girl can see find them attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:04 AM |
| 5 | Mid guys getting very attractive women at church?When speaking on the topic of dating, the church emphasizes for its members yo look for characteristics in a partner that will help them grow closer to God. The emphasis isn't on physical appearance as much as it is on the spiritual condition of one's heart. It does tend to seem like there are more committed women in the church than men. So, the guys who are committed occasionally get the pick of the litter. And even in the church, guys gravitate to the best looking girls. After all, If you are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Why even start a family where both parents are working?I think there are inherent reasons why people work other than money. That's not to say that money isn't important, but that it's not the main driving factor. There are a lot of people who chose their field of work because it is very fulfilling. They find purpose in life by doing their job and see it as very meaningful. Others find their job to be stimulating. They enjoy it. It offers them challenges to be solved. They are good at it and get paid for it. Also, it's possible some think they can be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/23 04:46 AM |
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