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Usually 49+ and so on. But if they don't care about the status of a man they do care about things like emotional intelligence and maturity and that he's able to take care of himself and be a proper adult. They want love and passion and an actual connection. Lots of men their age (and in general) lack that ability and therefore younger guys it is. Tho not all older women are attracted to younger guys either. They might have children their age. EDIT: Also, you already failed considering you call w…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 01:45 PM
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It's usually a younger man going for an older women. The only issue women have in age is that men their own age usually carry baggage - either a unpleasant character, kids or just men who aren't on her level. Like in China for example women after 30's are deemed olden maids - and unmarriageable because they preferred degrees and income over kids and they don't settle for men who don't meet their emotional requirements.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/24 11:13 AM
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I also spent most of my life like that tbh. I look probably like a 5/10 - and men never really payed attention to me. I used to be that ugly friend in my friend circle and probably still don't look as pretty. People made fun of my appearance and it took a chunk of my confidence. What really helped was to realize that men don't have "dream girls". Ironically enough radical feminism helped to push my confidence a lot when it came to being around men.The men that you want perhaps respect you too mu…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 10:55 AM
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Never give into something that makes you feel like this. It's sounds like you have given into the trap of sunk cost falicy. Honestly after I got rid of my ex I found the perfect man for me 2 months afterwards. Honestly, work on yourself. Focus on your interests, hobbies, build a stronger friendship circle and work on your communication skills & think what you want in friends and lovers. Your age doesn't matter much tbh. Any man who doesn't want to commit to you also wouldn't if you where in your…
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/24 08:51 AM
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Girl, I have no clue how you're not too scared to do pull out. Like discussion aside I'm afraid of doing it with a condom. That's insane. Honestly if you both don't want kids, and maybe stay together for quite some time it makes sense. I'f I'd be a guy I'd done it. Unfortunately I'm a young woman so most doctors will not fulfill my request to tie my tubes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 11:54 PM
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It's insane to ask women to get hormonal birth control & the dire huge long list of side effects. There should be more birth control methods for men on the market.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/23 10:32 AM
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He acts like a child, so you really shouldn't submit to that. Drop him and find someone who'll make you feel loved and cared about. You can never be feminine with a user because they just abuse your gifts.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/23 10:38 PM
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Outside from STDs, fathering 50 different children, and besides the fact that high body counts are stigmatized in general he's just an idiot. We can flip this argument so easily by just saying that men shouldn't cheat ever because they risk making multiple women pregnant. But women can only get pregnant once, so it's ok for them since the result is only one child and not 5. If this is your partner, dump him. If it's your so called friend, block him. You don't want to be friends with misogynistic…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:41 AM
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I can't tell if you're a troll by your post history because just being young and pretty doesn't secure you men who earn high income. Also imagine being in your 20's and dating a 40 year old man, I can't imagine anything more insufferable. If you know a guy already and you're friends with him, sure he can invest and take you out on a nice date. My boyfriend did that too before i agreed to be his girlfriend. Hell have to be on his best behavior. But a random guy from an app will not do that, likel…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/23 01:37 PM
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i am not sure how this is part of our conversation considering this sub isnt focusing on male issues? Also, as long as men perpetrate nearly all types of interpersonal violence i dont think women are responsible to fix this. And taking away womens voices is just shitty, because every woman i know has a horror story. Women are already advocating for less violence, i dont see male movements around this. Violence is not just being punched or robbed but also sex crimes like sexual assult. I do not s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/23 11:17 AM
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How exactly am I incorrect if you just added to my point that married women are statistically more unhappy? I wonder why she takes anti depressants if her life is basically reduced to be a full time parent to a grown man, doing almost all the chores despite also working and contributing 50/50 to a household. Even if men stay at home a big majority of the women still does the majority of chores. Also, yes women do suffer more from depression since we live in a world where we do not feel safe outs…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 11:39 PM
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That sounds like someone who is failing at life and his only goal is to sleep with as many people as possible because that's all he can get. Humans are mammals but not animals - and even then mammals are be monogamous.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 07:08 PM
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I think you ignore the statistical fact that married men are happier and live longer than single peers. Single childfree women on the other hand are happier than married women. Marriage always benefits men, childcare, cook, bangmaid etc. Sure women married men for wealth and status but have you forgotten that men kept women from the job market? Military (their own soldiers killed female pilots even), women couldn't have a credit card without a male signature up to 1970's. A few years of feminism…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/23 07:04 PM
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I disagree. There's a statistic that show that's men preference for age in their partner never goes above 20.. and 20 is the youngest age they could pick. Lots of men are problematic for desiring a partner that's barely legal. And if you age, what then? Will he leave you for a younger woman again? It just brings a whole lot of issues and the power dynamic is off unless hes aware of it and doesn't bring power into it. I wouldn't do it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/23 07:14 AM
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Oh no, like the scouts. It's a group for young boys and girls to attend. They learn how to camp outside, survive in the wild, cook, in some groups even how to do woodworking things. Both girls and boys can join the scouts - girl groups are famous I guess for girl scouting cookies. He attended for a long time until he was leaving for university. We both are not from countries where military service is still mandatory from everyone. But im sure that also shapes character and especially discipline!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 12:30 PM
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Lmao- mine is an ex scout who only left when he was 18. He's always prepared and very chivalrous haha. If you say yes then probably! Haha ✨
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/23 09:31 AM
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You don't have a biological clock screaming at you. It's society and messages around you that suggest so. You can get pregnant with 30+ too. Your brain just finished developing, maybe you allow yourself to enjoy it before you reprogram it with kids? You are screaming you don't want them, listen to yourself rather than society. Women are harassed constantly "so, when kids? When kids?" Once they turn 30 years old. You have 2 stepchildren - if you worry about not making an impact in someones life, …
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/23 11:29 AM
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How new is the relationship? Identify where his insecurities come from and then go off that. If they are just because of his body not being the beauty standard that's a lot better than him having insecurities stemming from a misogynistic mindset (all women want alpha chads who make millions -incel talk). One of them is far easier to help with than the second one. The first one you can help by encouraging healthy eating and training. Even fawn over his already existing muscles and anything else t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 10:21 PM
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For me chivalry is a vetting process. Carrying heavy things, opening the door, walking on the exposed side of the street - I wouldn't date a man who wouldn't carry heavy things for me unless he is disabled or pained in some way or form. My boyfriend is a cute man who carries a backpack with him whenever we go somewhere. He carries most of my things and would even carry my purse if I'd ask him. Its one of these things that makes me love him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/23 05:10 PM
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I agree with your statement, but there's a point where we as women have to raise our standards.Why waste time with a man who emotionally doesn't meet our needs? There are so many men who are gentle and caring and gift you surprises and look forward to get your attention and desire your affection. I wish you the best foreward, put yourself first. It's your life and your only one at that. ☘️
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/23 07:53 AM
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Oh god, I'm so sorry. It must feel awful to be together with someone for 20 years and this is how life turns out. Sometimes men hide their behavior like this and just try to marry fast. If this is his behavior through the entire marriage I personally would seriously reconsider staying married. I understand tbh. It's tiring and kind of becomes second nature to excuse behavior like this. Tbh when I'm reflecting for myself on how other people treat me I always ask myself how I would react in such s…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 09:36 PM
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When did that behavior start? How long are you married? How long are you guys togheter? Do you have an age gap? Usually this sub reddit doesn't advise for breaking up, but.. you asked if he's okey and if he needs something. That is very sweet and caring my boyfriend asks me that on the regular too. I would never get an idea to tell him to shut up because he cares? Your husband could have replied with a quick message "aw, thank you for caring. I can't talk right now much because my phone is on lo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/23 02:01 PM
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You absolutely have to talk to him about this and how it hurts you. Maybe he needs therapy to deal with this? Did something happen in your lifes recently, outside of the wedding? Because if he acts like that towards a wedding planning, what about deaths of loved ones, pregnancy (if you want kids) and the combined stress of Life? It sounds like therapy might be a good idea but seriously consider if this is what you want. Especially if you try so hard to be optimistic and happy and he "sucks the l…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/23 10:56 AM
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Oh girl in your situation I'd also be scared from having sex. My god sounds he desperate, it's barely the second date and he goes on and on about sex? Like where are his manners?? It makes him look so unnatractive to be a long term partner. I am not sexually attracted to people either easily unless i really like and love them. Then i can get an eye on what beautiful details they have. I'd suggest you ask yourself why you feel this way. In the past i used to hate anything sexual or being afraid o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/23 10:09 AM
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I can't really gush to other people so I'm happy i get an opportunity haha ♥️ We are in a long distance relationship. I told him I wanted to see him earlier & that i daydreamed that he picked me up after an important event. He rearranged his visit to pick me up after it. He always pays for our meals and other expenses when he's here. It made me feel worried at first because he did that too before becoming my boyfriend but now i feel very taken care of. He knows gifts are my love languages and al…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/23 09:02 AM
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I am so sorry you're going through this. Some of the comments here are appalling. This is a red flag and you should bail, don't walk away, run! Especially because of the age difference, do you really want to stuck with someone in his 40's while you're in your prime at 30? Being insecure af because some wet wipe of a man questions you on everything? Like skincare even? Most men know they have no place to comment on this. This behavior won't get better, it will escalate. He'll eventually start gas…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 06:22 AM
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I feel like we live the same life. My mother isn't the breadwinner but i see the behavior of my stepdad in your father. Their relationship was so damaging to me, that i disliked men and still fear them. It is devoid of love on his side, weaponized incompetence, cheating, yelling, he communicates like a child. It made her bitter and unhappy. She still thinks he's a good man. I can only give advice that helped me: I would suggest you make guy friends, lots of them. There are caring and loving men …
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/22 10:24 AM
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