DumbbellDiplomat Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness That’s my entire point.. If no one cares about #1, why would I invest in them either? Why would I give a fuck what happens to someone else? lol laughable! ‘lower blood pressure’ might be one of the most ridiculous arguments I’ve ever heard. You also know what lowers blood pressure? Putting the fucking fork down and moving your fat butt, neither of which would be investments into someone else. Volunteering is still volunteering.. it’s giving resources, whether it be knowledge or material to someo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 02:06 PM
2	Self improvement is the only true antidote to romantic loneliness NEVER understood this brain dead ass take.. The way I’m gonna get better is.. bettering other people? Well then who betters me? No one? Oh nice.. let me continue to sink time and resources to better others and somehow I’ll feel better when I’m in a worse position because other people got what I had!! DELUSIONAL!	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/25 06:38 AM
–	The new Tea app kinda proves hypergamy Bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻bravo my good sir	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/25 09:44 PM
11	How do RedPillers explain the situations where a man is neither a peak physical specimen/hot, rich and successful etc. but still has success in dating and casual sex? Typical blue pill woman, “it’s your fault”, “just be better” The entirety of modern dating = men bad. So tired of women gaslighting men into believing this crap when we go out and see with our own eyes that they ALL chase the same men. Even if you’re in a relationship.. put them around their celebrity crush or someone they deem better than their man and watch them lose their minds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/06/25 11:12 AM
3	30s are perhaps the worst years to date (as a man) Nah, new stats show it’s only about 7% of men. Let that sink in.. they’ve gotten MORE delusional and picky as time has passed. They doubled down! 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/25 05:23 PM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are I was raised Roman Catholic thank you very much, and the fact you think Red Pill means I believe in this to the extent of an ACTUAL religion is what is hilariously wrong with people these days. You went Red Pill to be unhinged so bad and it’s clear in the personal attacks you’ve tried to make this entire thread, that you are actually the unhinged one. Shave that neckbeard too and the hit the gym, 0% chance you run a sub 12min mile 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 04:00 PM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are No it showed women were more willing to message those they deemed unattractive. Now I know this is a waste of time because you can’t even read the study correctly. So.. this has been fun!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:53 PM
3	Q4M: how do you signal to women that you want to be approached? It all boils down to Rules#: 1 & 2, ALWAYS!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:05 PM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are They did have a bell curve lol. The bell curve was purely about attractiveness and who people were swiping on. You are correct though that women were more open than men in terms of who they messaged. But I’m not sure that’s the compliment you think it is.. “..oh wow thanks! You don’t think I’m attractive but still want to talk? How does that work? Thanks but noooo thanks”. 😂 Not sure how I’m denying reality based on empirical data but go off bro lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 12:22 PM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are No men had a typical bell curve, like one would expect since we are painfully aware of our placement in the hierarchy. Happens all the time in real life too. Ever been in a bar when an athlete or singer comes in? Yeah watch that shit and come and report. Or find the video of Chris Brown leaving a club and see the literal Trail of Hoes coming behind him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 08:58 AM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are Of course I have to vet for those things.. women say they care about those things but really it’s looks, status, or money, or a combo of all three. All that other shit doesn’t matter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 08:56 AM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are Yes I know how percentages work, thank you. 10,000 people is nothing in terms of societal populations. My point is still very valid..	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:09 AM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are I think we’re basically agreeing here. I’m more focused on completely rejecting OP’s premise that “just be confident bro, just know who you are bro 🥴”. This advice is so overplayed and absolutely garbage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 03:03 AM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are What you’re describing falls into the ‘increased status’ portion of my argument. Still something being provided for by the man.. she is less valuable alone than when the man is standing next to her, therefore, man is providing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 02:58 AM
2	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are Yeah that’s who all the women are aiming for like I’m confused at what point you’re making. Yes… all of those things are the real deciding factors for women, not all this bs about values and if he takes a shower. They say those things to make them sound better but what they actually respond to and swipe on using dating apps is your typical high status, attractive men. They’re not looking for any “normal” guy anywhere 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 02:48 AM
4	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are There’s inherit status (think born into exceptional wealth or royalty, physical status (tall dark and handsome), financial status (big wallet), and social status (cool job, athlete, promoter, etc).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 02:39 AM
1	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are That kind that will rub off on her somehow, that she can take advantage of and reap the benefits of the man’s hard work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 02:30 AM
3	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are No, I’m not wrong, I am correct. All of what you described is the new “bare minimum” for women and is only going up. If social skills and hot enough were good enough for women, then millions wouldn’t be struggling. You’re telling me to ignore my eyes and ears! I see these women say these things, and I see them act on these ideas. It is absolutely INSANE to tell someone that what they are seeing hearing and experiencing on a DAILY BASIS isn’t actually happening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 02:28 AM
5	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are No, I understand what they’re saying. But in reality.. all of it what you just described that women are looking for goes out the window if the man is attractive enough, high status enough, or wealthy enough. So why would any man take what you’re saying seriously and try and jump through all these hoops when men see how women react to the things you say aren’t important?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 01:40 AM
5	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are Women only care about what a man can provide for them. The entire message from women right and the last 5 years is “if you can’t make my life better than why would I be with you?” This is directly saying.. if you can’t provide material objects for me, or increase my status, or increase my bank account.. you are not worth anything, you’re not a man. So a lot of men listened to that and are trying to become that. And there’s YEARS worth of material just on Tik Tok of the girls laughing it up and a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 12:34 AM
5	I see a common thread between men who are struggling with dating: they can’t tell you who they are You did not just say men have it easier in dating. ..Ohhhhh lord we got a live one! 😂😂 All you need to do is check swiping statistics. Yes, I know dating apps aren’t the “real world” but it is an isolated market specifically for dating where women’s uninhibited preferences are on display. And the results? They actually only want 7% of men that they see, who all have every similar characteristics and attributes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/25 12:27 AM
1	Root cause of male loneliness crisis? There’s years worth of content of women crying into their phones.. majority of Tik Tok videos are women either shitting on me or complaining about them in some capacity. There is also all of the stuff you mentioned as well I’m not denying that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/25 12:54 AM
0	Describe the best male role model you know This is an absolutely HILARIOUS list, not one of those people I would ever want to emulate in any capacity	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 04:13 PM
3	Root cause of male loneliness crisis? Short answer? There isn’t one. It’s a psyop to further demoralize the men of the US while government does whatever it wants. Think about it; which gender do you see making video after video crying on the internet about “I can’t find a man”, “why don’t men approach anymore”, etc etc. It’s the women who are struggling the most. Men I know near 30M literally just do their own thing and don’t complain online like women, could be more relevant to Gen Z though, who knows.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/25 02:43 PM