Dumkinni_ Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
120	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them.	discussion	Dumkinni_	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	10/04/25 06:53 PM
101	“Rape is not a women’s issue, it’s a men’s issue” What do we think of this?	article	Dumkinni_	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/08/25 07:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
29	American Female Popstars’ Sexualisation of Young Boys: An Underdiscussed and Harmful Phenomenon This is disgusting. Thank you for sharing.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	20/04/26 09:40 PM
9	Female only dorm but no male only dorm at a Backpackers Lodge “A” trans…?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/03/26 12:18 AM
-2	YouTuber Mrs. Sunshine: "I can't believe I have to explain this!" I just woke up not long ago so unless I missed something, I don’t think she said this never happens to male teachers though? She seems to be talking about her personal experience as a female teacher	/r/MensRights	09/02/26 05:39 PM
20	I'm gay and genuinely tired of misandry It’s very late, so I don’t believe I have much of value to add right now, but the yaoi thing really gets on my nerves. I just need to vent a little, not gonna bother proofreading Do what you want with fiction, I really don’t care what you do (or get off to) in your free time, but as a gay man I often find it very frustrating how hard it can be to find gay content (particularly in fandom spaces) made by other gay men. There is an argument to be made about the gender of the author/artist/whatever …	/r/MensRights	08/02/26 06:58 AM
1	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Glad to hear 🫡	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/09/25 08:00 PM
9	Femcel spikes her husband and wants to cheat on him because he is too sick to have sex. Her Femcel friends support it because the victim is male, while suggesting to have his genitals caged and restricting his internet access as well: Jesus christ. I know people like this exist but it seriously reads like satire. This is insane	/r/EverydayMisandry	13/08/25 02:12 PM
7	Self loathing profile dedicated to not dismissing male victims of rape and sexual assault. Oh my god this is rancid. :(	/r/EverydayMisandry	10/08/25 07:55 PM
1	A list of some things feminists seem to not understand due to having female privilege I wouldn’t say that, tbh I’m ftm, and while i have little experience passing as a cis dude, i know what it’s like to be treated as female. Being a woman sucks. But so does being a man, which is what this sub is for and why it exists. To shed light on the struggles specifically men face that get ignored, rather than dismissing the problems women face as though they don’t exist or matter as much Even if that was the case and women really do have it a measurably easier time, playing the oppression …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/06/25 05:30 AM
3	Double standards and false narratives regarding male and female subs. I agree entirely with what you’re saying here, but i think the pms thing has some merit! I wouldn’t necessarily say it’s sexist to not get sick leave, but as a guy who gets periods, it would definitely be a nice thing to have. For the first day or so of my periods, i’m pretty much incapacitated (or i’m at the very least not doing my best work because I’m exhausted and in near constant pain.) And on top of that, there are plenty of people with MUCH worse periods than mine. I couldn’t imagine havi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/06/25 06:58 PM
1	Equity or equal victimhood? I definitely agree with this post.. i don’t have much to add, but I’ve noticed a lot of posts have been leaning into “women have it better/easier” territory. Maybe i’m just misinterpreting, but we all have our problems so i’m just a little concerned about this sub	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/06/25 10:16 PM
1	A list of some things feminists seem to not understand due to having female privilege Agreed. A lot of the sentiments here have me questioning whether or not i should fully trust this sub haha Edit: To somewhat elaborate because this was worded poorly and I don’t know how to fix it, a lot of posts here i’ve been seeing pop up lately seem to be getting into “women have it easier” territory. Not to say men have it easy though, both have problems really.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/06/25 04:27 PM
3	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. I’m very late to reply, but thank you for sharing your experience! I am truly sorry about what happened, though. I hope you and your friends are doing okay :( I wish i had more to add, but regardless i wish you a good day.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/05/25 09:28 PM
3	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. I totally forgot to respond to this lmfao, I appreciate it though! I don’t remember their usernames but the worst i’ve seen is some mild (as in, i’ve seen it many times before) transphobic comments, but they were quickly downvoted and scolded in the replies lol.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/05/25 09:21 PM
3	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Really? Thank you so much, it’s not offensive at all! I also really appreciate the offer!! I’m doing my best, and (mostly) everyone here is really nice so it’s awesome to have a space like this. :)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/04/25 02:21 AM
3	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Hi! It’s nearly 2 am as I’m responding so i’m a bit tired. Thank you for this, it’s such a detailed reply and lead to a good discussion which i found interesting to read. While I’d LOVE to answer your question, sadly my current experience won’t be able to help much. Atm i’m 17, pre-everything (T, top surgery, ect.), closeted irl with the exception a few specific people, still living with my bigoted parents, and still presenting feminine (sometimes more butch). In nearly all aspects of my life i’…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/04/25 05:54 AM
4	Liberals only use feminine men as the poster child for non-conformity for men. Because they are afraid of true non-conformity for men. Yes!! This is exactly why it’s so gross. I tried telling people this, but the only real argument that they gave me was that it’s ok because theyre cis (opressor vs opressed mindset ig)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/25 02:18 PM
17	Liberals only use feminine men as the poster child for non-conformity for men. Because they are afraid of true non-conformity for men. Yeah, unfortunately. It’s really gross when people say such things, and ofc people never say that stuff towards masculine women (Also, i forgot a very important “but” at the beginning of my comment. My bad lmao)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/25 02:30 AM
74	Liberals only use feminine men as the poster child for non-conformity for men. Because they are afraid of true non-conformity for men. I don’t think this adds much to the conversation, but even certain progressive women don’t even see feminine men as MEN. The amount of times (on tiktok) i’ve seen people make “jokes” in the comment section of a feminine guy saying he’d, “be a good femme”, “should start taking estrogen”, and call him an egg (slang for a trans person who hasn’t realized theyre trans yet) when he denies it is insane.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	13/04/25 02:23 AM
8	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. 100%. As a trans dude myself the invisibility is annoying, but I suppose on the bright side there seems to be slightly less danger about being openly trans when you’re ftm. But then again, nobody ever talks about us so we might be in the same amount of danger as trans women. I’ve heard trans men (particularly those who don’t pass very well? iirc) have high rates of SA. Another thing i’ve noticed is how invisible AMAB nonbinary people are as well, probably even moreso than ftms	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/25 04:45 AM
2	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. I believe that’s how it is across the board, but i could be wrong. This assumption is based on what i’ve seen male prostitutes say online. I think it’s because the majority of buyers are typically male? But it wouldn’t surprise me if in certain countries the majority are female	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	12/04/25 04:37 AM
11	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Agreed, it’s very frustrating. I used to be friends with one of those kinds of people (she’s an overall shitty person tbh) and the worst part is that she refused to even consider my perspective and pulled the “whataboutism” thing on me. Ugh. I actually have checked out a few threads about male sex workers which has been helpful for both my knowledge on the subject and writing my character, but beyond that I haven’t found much like i’ve been saying. Since i just recently started being active on r…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/04/25 03:44 AM
7	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Thank you!! I’ll check this out :)	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/04/25 03:37 AM
13	Nobody talks about male prostitutes/sex workers, I want to hear more about them. Honestly i agree with all of this, thank you so much for the link! I’ll definitely check it out :) Regardless of whether people even include men in the subject, i just hope the recent wave of anti sex work ideology i’ve seen popping up lately blows over relatively soon. Imo it isn’t productive in the slightest. The industry can and has caused harm, but sex work on it’s own is not inherently evil. We need to support the workers, rather than create further stigma.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	11/04/25 03:37 AM
3	My quick look and thoughts about the study ‘I’m a red-blooded male’: Understanding men’s experiences of domestic abuse through a feminist lens I agree tbh. And one thing i would like to mention (idk if this is anything new as i did skim over some of this. Also, keep in mind I don’t normally post about this sorta thing so i’m not great with the wording), another way I’ve noticed a lot of female abusers use gender norms to abuse their partners is this sort of “strong independent woman” thing certain areas of the south have going on. It’s seen as a good thing for a woman to “defend” herself and “train” her husband.. while a husband doing …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/04/25 11:28 PM