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If it happens in a long term relationship I would be down but I'm also kenenough on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:26 PM
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That actually sounds like, maybe not the partying but the traveling and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 06:25 PM
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To do what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:51 AM
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I already plan on maxing out my roth ira every year and potentially my roth tsp since I should have pretty much zero expenses in a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:51 AM
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What are good goals for someone's 20s? I feel like I pretty much have everything lined up career-wise and health wise and I'm wondering what else I should try to accomplish. Like, learn another language? Chess? Video games and such have honestly started to lose my interest and even most shows are just time filler at this point. Like should I just work in my free time to make money to invest or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:29 AM
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Is this true about nordic countries? Most of my ancestry is northern german/Scandinavia and I'm only 6'3 but my chest is probably my strongest muscle group since I can bench 305 wide grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:19 AM
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I'm too dumb to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:07 AM
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Being a hot low iq guy is worse, trust me I'd know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 11:41 PM
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Thank you, you as well brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:00 PM
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I am kenenough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:51 PM
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The issue is I know plenty of men who have hobbies, a career, are fit and take care of themselves but are still single or have a relationship/hookup rarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:21 AM
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having to take rest days from the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:01 AM
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Work = force times distance. If you at 5'6 squat to the same depth as me at 6'3 the work that needs to be generated by me is much greater due to the distance. So no just by being taller does not mean I'd be stronger. Anyways if you are as abrasive on here as you are in real life I'm not surprised you don't have that much success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:33 PM
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I'm not in crazy shape but I'm 6'3 231 with 201 pounds of lean muscle body mass natural so I feel like while I'm not an expert when it comes to nutrition and working out I've found certain things that work for me and seem to work for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:30 PM
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I can't spell my own middle name since I've only had it come up a couple of times before.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 06:20 PM
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This is also a tv thing where they are going to cut out the takes that aren't funny, also when people are asked questions on the spot where they might normally know them they can blank.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:19 AM
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Just being friendly, are you on steroids btw I think I saw you post something but was not certain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 02:17 AM
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In the first couple the guy is tall and a healthy weight just needs to shave, the woman is overweight. 2nd couple are lookmatched. 3rd couple again guy is fairly tall but is also overweight while the girl is obese. 4th couple looks are lookmatched. 5th couple both are pretty overweight. 6th couple are lookmatched. 7th couple lookmatched. 8th couple guy is normal weight while girl is overweight/obese. If men are dating up in terms of looks they are doing a piss poor job of it. I'd honestly consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:53 AM
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If you are comfortable you could dm a picture of yourself, I've given a couple of guys on here workout/grooming tips and it seems to have helped a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:26 AM
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Breakups? Never been an issue, but the gym is a good place to help with mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 10:57 PM
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Being a mechanic is not a trash career, also by proportion most of the physical labor jobs are still done by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:40 PM
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The college discrepancy is worse than before Title 7 legislation was put in place to help women get up to the same rates as men. Not that I think fewer men in college is a bad thing since many are going into the trades.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 11:23 PM
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I love the honesty, if I had more motivation I would try to get the left-wing incels to convert to the right so they can cause more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 07:21 PM
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It's weird how they are autistic enough to not know how to read social cues, but then still have the confidence to approach women multiple times even after getting turned down.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:45 PM
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I know average friends who are friends with average women, they are still single, and if 50%+ of young men are single then the average population of males is single.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:53 AM
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People seem to forget that men were still the ones dying from high-stress job environments either white or blue-collar. I really hate this perception that men just lived life on easy mode and came out to beat their wives, blue-collar men worked back-breaking labor for most of their lives and many women worked as well just in more adjunct rolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:30 AM
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Idk by then I should be a major or lieutenant colonel and have at least a million invested so I think I'll be pretty happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:03 AM
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I'll do what the Spartans did with weak children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:47 AM
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rings are conditional gifts so if she cheats or something you get it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:45 AM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 12:41 AM
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Sounds like manipulation on their part, and if they still have issues from past relationships it's not on you to solve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:49 PM
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Many of my older friends late 20s to early 30s are only now getting married since they have a house/condo or their parents/grandparents are helping them out. In terms of my family, a cousin is getting married this month and my brother is early next year, and a big factor is they can afford it now. Also, another older brother is having a lot more success in dating now that he has gotten a career job. When it comes to dating/marriage I honestly believe that many single women desire it but can't fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 09:26 PM
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If it's due to their own choice that is fine, but if it is due to economic stresses we need to have a look at the issues causing people not to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 07:55 PM
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There are too many factors in play to state whether monogamy is the cause that lead the west to rapidly make advancements that lead it to be the source of global power for the last two hundred years, there is some evidence of polygamous societies having more male on male violence and at least in my opinion society seems more stable when widespread monogamy is practiced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:51 PM
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The arab world has had its own share of issues throughout the ages both modern and in the past, also from an eastern perspective Japan was up there in comparison to nazi Germany with what happened in Manchuko and china's great leaps that killed millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 04:04 AM
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I think people knew that sex caused pregnancy my mine it's not like their iq was like chimps or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 03:45 AM
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That and the number of marriages will shrink.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:50 AM
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You do realize that by 2100 the United States is estimated to go up to 400 million while china will go down to 800 million. We are the most productive nation in the history of mankind besides internal issues we can't really fall but we may have a civil war 2.0
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 11:08 PM
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True, I'm going to share another thought. Even if a young man at some point loses his virginity he may still not have a fulfilling romantic relationship since this is not taking into account guys who paid for sex or slept with someone they were not interested in as to not have a stigma attached to being adult virgins. To be honest I think many people both men and women focus far too much on the sexual aspect of modern-term relationships when in reality having roughly half maybe more maybe less o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 10:55 PM
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Yes, I think covid was most likely still impacting 2021, and would also like to make a trendline but that lowkey sounds like too much work. I did also see something that 50% of men aged 20 or below were virgins but I haven't found the data source, though it does much up roughly with my friend groups rates with 1-2 being players, a few in long-terms, and the rest perpetually single.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:38 AM
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It's possible, I've had times in my life where I've been so busy with other things that women never crossed my mind, and ngl it was pretty nice. Mgtow and that crowd are also kinda cringe you don't need a movement to be a single guy just do it on your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:33 AM
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I know how to do it I just don't have access on my current computer, give me like a month, and then again if I'm still interested I'll share what I find.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 03:19 AM
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Last time I checked for younger people it's within a couple of % points in terms of cheating, also I could bring up how women tend to lie more even on anonymous surveys when it makes themselves look bad so it could be closer to even or they might even cheat more. With that in mind, we can look to real-life examples and it seems like at least from my friends who I've talked to women cheat more explicitly but guys will go out with multiple women at once but not make it exclusive which you are free…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:55 AM
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Eh from an economic level as long as you get a valuable skill you can still own a house and such, honestly for me I'll likely make 6 figures and own a house before getting with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:42 AM
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Can someone who owns STATA or SPSS download this and check the amount of time men and women have had sex since 18 based on age and if they had sex in the past year, I could probably do it at my school during the semester but might lose interest by then. https://gssdataexplorer.norc.org/gss_data
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:36 AM
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I personally don't want a separate sub but the absolute refusal of the older generation to understand the differences today is what annoys me, it's like talking about the housing market of today vs when our parents/grandparents bought, completely different world but they give the same advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:07 AM
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Idk man I don't dislike masculine at least if we are talking about women who work out and there are plenty of kind women I know my age, none of them are single though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 02:01 AM
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100% agree, moving and getting a new friend group can be hard. The gym is a pretty good place to start and if you get a couple close friends you can maybe join their groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:40 PM
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No, yes, no but I was and have loose skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:27 PM
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BMI is kinda shit for certain groups i.e athletes and weightlifters. In terms of bodyfat%, I would say 20% or lower or if she has tall and works out 26% max.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:24 PM
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Maybe, honestly, the first thing I would recommend is having a high-quality male friend group that you do activities you enjoy with, since if guys don't like hanging out with you why would women? Plus you end up being a lot happier at least in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:14 PM
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To be honest, my man if you have autism or something no matter how good-looking you are you're still going to have trouble. You could probably do hookups if you got in really great shape like 6-pack, adonis, and so on but when it comes to a relationship you would only be dating down. Still, get in good shape since working out feels good but don't do it to get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 10:03 PM
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If she would be interested in me even if I don't have a home it would pose no issues, but I definitely don't include owning a home as a qualifier or disqualifier.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:53 PM
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The thing is a lot of these comments make the assumption that women don't like men/want to be with them, but I don't think that is true. If there was a large group of non-misogynistic men making six figures and who are also attractive I think women would be marrying/dating them if they met the men's standards as well. To me at least it seems like issues like wealth and such are what is preventing women from finding partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 05:51 PM
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Did they though? In terms of upper-class marriages women still seem to be willing to marry/stay with men who cheat and otherwise have the same characteristics of the older generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:53 PM
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No guys, since at least from my perspective men don't look at women owning a home as a super important thing. Them not being in debt and having a okay/good income they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:51 PM
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What? Most women I know either live with their parents or live in a small apartment with 2-3 other women. Most men aren't getting houses but the ones who are, typically are engaged/married. Also, a lot of women are in debt and fuel their lifestyles though either corporate work or what not but many burn out by their 30s it seems, not all mind you but a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:17 PM
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Easy access to food and alcohol, binge behavior is considered normal. This last one is something I've only recently heard of but a lot of women say they gain weight on birth control which I believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:14 PM
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Depends if your going to a university in a city good chance a lot of the women are in shape or at least not overweight. Now if we are talking any rural area most chicks are overweight/obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:55 PM
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Being able to live alone is a huge thing since very few guys can do that while saving for a house and putting away money for retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:47 PM
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Q4A Has women's standards actually gone up or is it that this generation of men has not been able to meet them? I'm talking about in terms of long-term relationships but for my parent's generations, most men were able to provide the money for dating, house, car, etc at least in terms of the middle/upper middle class. Fast forward to today and that is not feasible for a lot of young guys myself as well until my mid-twenties. A couple of things to add upper-class guys still don't seem to struggle …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:28 PM
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It is what it is then, personally while gun deaths are particularly violent compared to the mass harm that other things like the obesity epidemic and opioid epidemic cause they are less of a concern for me. The only thing I see often is that gun deaths are outside your control which is why the fear exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:53 PM
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Again I already know this, convince others of your point and get an amendment passed if you want. I'm pro-certain gun laws and even think education about keeping them locked up by their owners is also important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 04:54 PM
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Guns entirely make it easier and more deadly, if you want to change the gun laws have an amendment passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 03:25 PM
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I'm curious if mass shootings are going to keep going up, if they keep pace with suicides we should see them increase until 2028 but I wonder if anyone has done any actual work forecasting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:59 AM
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The terminology does not matter, the fact remains that wages have remained stagnant while productivity has gone through the roof with the added profits going to the already wealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:12 PM
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Q4M Are your normie friends seeming to be affected by the same issues as you? This is mostly directed at guys in my age range so let's say 18-27 but older guys can chime in. Even for my normal friends even the ones who dated slept around, went to prom, etc. Most of them seem to be single now, was just talking to one today and he was talking about how it he wants to hook up he can (and has) but now that he is looking for a long-term partner he has trouble. This comes after one of my other friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 12:38 AM
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Nah you're both gay and have bad taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 12:48 AM
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I'll thank you for your kind words. Also, most of my troubles at least in terms of dating are either self-made (retroactive jealousy, high standards) or environmental (was raised with conservative social standards, and live in an area known for overweight people). I'll also say this I think there are a lot of great women out there just not many of them are single. I'd say the top three traits I select are kind, intelligent/sophisticated, and attractive with all three being pretty equal in requir…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:26 PM
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Already got a great group of friends and still single, many of my peers are also in the same spot so just saying your point doesn't really carry any weight at least in my case and many others I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:28 PM
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Honestly, too many women have tattoos for me to use them as a factor for not being interested since that cuts out a lot of women from my dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:34 PM
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Idk know bro I'm probably borderline autistic but I don't want to self-classify and even I've worked on having a male friend group over the years. if you are intelligent enough to work a white collar job you should also be smart enough to figure out how male friendships work. More so if you are a regular at your gym that might be a good place to start.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:26 PM
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Yeah no worries, I'll say this though outside of the gym I personally don't know of any good places to meet people besides maybe the classroom if you are a student.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:44 AM
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Mostly a joke, but yeah std's can be pretty bad ranging from just making you sick all the way to infertile or passing them on to your children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:43 AM
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Std's has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:23 AM
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I'd honestly recommend the gym for meeting new people, as long as you are friendly and consistent you'll meet people, and most of my adult friends have come from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:20 AM
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I mean lifting weights and running a 5k isn't mutually exclusive, I'll say this and again it's just my opinion. When someone first starts to work out I think that weight training is best since it burns a lot of calories and makes you look better, it's also easier to gain muscle at 135 than say if you are 125 or 115. You can also do cardio at the end of your weight training sessions or on your off days from the gym. Also, I speak from someone who was at a high bodyfat I used to be 28% and only re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:59 PM
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The argument that I typically put forward is that romantic companionship is a pretty important part of the human experience, might not even be sex some guys just need a hug from someone who's not a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:54 PM
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It's true that a lot of men on here could benefit from just talking to women in real life, I don't say this as a remark to start an argument but women in real life are a lot nicer than women on ppd and if a guys only interaction with women is through here and other online spaces he is going to have a bad perception of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:47 PM
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You could probably just do a body recomp at that weight. Eat around 135 grams of protein an lift weights 3-6 times per week. In my opinion, exercise itself as a form of weightloss is not super effective but gaining muscle is since that burns calories 24/7 making it so you can eat more and still be a healthy bodyfat %.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:33 PM
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Nah black pill is the belief that looks are the number one factor in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 03:10 PM
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This sucks to say but a large issue is that the American public is just extremely unhealthy, the biggest being obesity which costs around 130ish billion per year if I can remember off the top of my head. We could have affordable healthcare, just not with how fat this country is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:56 PM
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I'll enjoy my whole milk thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 02:17 PM
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Because I'm a young guy who would preferably like to be in a healthy relationship with a woman who I could potentially start a family with in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:14 AM
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Would the fat girls having better personalities be another version then?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:05 AM
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I don't quite understand what you're getting at. Sure the depth of my relationships might vary but I have close friends who I can discuss my worries, personal life, and thoughts with. If by emotional intimacy you mean someone I trust and value their time and opinions I also have that. This all being said you can only hug your friends so much before you want to actually get positive attention from a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:55 PM
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Bullshit, got a great group of male friends who I regularly go out with to the movies, lunch, gym, and whatnot and it still sucks to be single sometimes, it's just how we are as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:22 PM
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3 warm up sets and than 4 working sets with reps of 8-12. Once you can do 12 at a weight go down in reps to 8 and up the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:45 AM
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Same my brother went to a concert with his girlfriend even though he wanted to stay in, women are the real consumers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:13 PM
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Yes, I've worked out since 16 and gotten more into fitness in the past two years, I do bodybuilding but my max lifts are 495 deadlift, 375 squat and 290 bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:12 PM
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Q4A What's more impressive a 6-pack on a 170 6'1 guy or a 4-pack on a 6'3 230 guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:50 AM
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Some mechanics might beat you, know a guy whose forearms are the size of his biceps and his grip is killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:36 AM
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If you're into the gym space for a couple years you typically know what signs to look for, not saying it's easy to tell and many people are just gifted but once you get to certain points there are tells.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:22 AM
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You might have a young face, I have the opposite problem in that in terms of muscle mass I have more than average for my age so people typically place me 5 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:18 AM
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If you don't feel a lot of attraction toward women you should probably just stay single, if I could flip a switch and turn my attraction towards women to zero I would.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:38 PM
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Honestly I think his videos are over the top since that's what gets the clicks
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 01:55 AM
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It's more like all of us (non-primary producers) should be thankful for those who do the work that holds society together. That being said on my drive home today I think I saw maybe one female construction worker of the oh 20+ I drove past so while no one's contributions to society should be downplayed we all know for a fact that the most dangerous jobs are the ones that men tend to overwhelmingly be in. Again survival is different from living a good life and I hope that as a species we can figu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 09:01 PM
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Yeah, but height's not everything it's more about your frame, if you don't have a 6-pack, a good skincare routine, and hygiene then your not an incel it's by choice. I'm blackpilled personally but once you get to a low bodyfat and actually take care of yourself you'll find at least one woman whose into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:56 PM
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what country are you from? 5'5 is pretty short but if you worked out and got a 6-pack plus took care of yourself you could probably find some one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:40 PM
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What bodyfat % are you, also what's your height?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:34 PM
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Yeah Cheating is different than sleeping around while single, plenty of legitimate reasons to not personally want a high body count partner but it's definitely not the same as cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 08:33 PM
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At least one of them was a nice guy who had two long-term relationships before starting to sleep around, the other I don't know. Another thing the video does not talk about is guys who just date women long-term with no intentions of marriage. I don't know if this is a trend or maybe it's a mutual thing but a lot of guys I know from my age to their 30s don't plan on getting married but will even live with a significant other but when I talk to them about things like a marriage they say things lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:25 PM
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This song's a banger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgLgPTXdR4M
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:12 PM
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Honestly of the players I know in my life all of them date/sleep with pretty attractive women. Also, I feel like this generally only works for guys who are good-looking. Both players I know are 6'2 and 6'5 with good jobs, and looks, and are extremely outgoing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:08 PM
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Depends on the definition, if we are talking about truly average like overweight, short, and broke then not any. If we're talking women who might have an average face but are say track runners, or an overweight girl who is beautiful and smart then sure plenty. My current crush/interest is a women from my gym who's probably a 10/10
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 07:05 PM
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Multiple reasons, the first is that I keep myself in good health and expect a partner to do the same. Besides obvious reasons like looks I spend anywhere from an hour to three at the gym per day (including driving/sauna/shower etc.) Which outside of work will be my biggest use of my free time, I love the gym and working out and anyone who does not share the same passion may take issue with my life. Other active things I do are things like ultimate frisbee or canal runs with friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:32 PM
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Number two does not apply if you're socially awkward
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:29 PM
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Since I've become more confident with my body and lost weight the way people have treated me is quite nice, my career is not set to take off until two years from now so I don't know how big money and status will be but I can recommend to everyone that being in shape makes life a lot better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:38 PM
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I don't know how true this is honestly, one of my friends is in the trades as an aircraft technician and is objectively really good-looking only dated one girl long term and is now single, but mostly of his choice due to not meeting the kind of quality women he goes for, if we are talking average joe as in a construction laborer out of high school plenty of them are married/having kids but to at least me not quality women, also plenty of them will end of divorced and remarried or in dead bedroom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:32 PM
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I mean shoulder curls with 30 lbs is nothing crazy, plenty of guys do 100+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:47 PM
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Women can bodybuild surprisingly easily, their hormone makeup makes high rep low weight easier to do with quicker recovery, the downside is strength training is extremely hard to progress. Hence the big physique but low lifts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:24 PM
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It might lean one way but for all accounts, I don't think red=right and blue=left there is too much variance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 08:13 PM
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huh not really, a lot of liberal guys are red-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 12:06 AM
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How much of that component is just fat parents passing on unhealthy habits? Not saying genetics don't play a role and people can burn calories at widely different rates but the laws of the universe degree that unless you take in more than your burn you can't gain weight it's not possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:45 PM
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It varies I did two years for my undergrad and I'm doing another two for my grad school, and it's not OCS it's Army ROTC. It is typically 4 years but some people do it in 2 or 3 by doing basic which counts as the first two years. The biggest reason I'm doing it now is I had my undergrad paid for through a state scholarship and if I can get free grad school and a good career why not do it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:01 PM
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The dating world would be such a better place if being stopped complaining about the average this and average that, just work on yourself until you can get what you want, and if you can't just focus on other things. We are living in a time of pretty much unprecedented prosperity in the span of human history where things like music, quality food, and endless entertainment are available and people be mad they can't get with someone. There is truth to the statement that at least for guys they don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:53 PM
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What's your social class and why did you decide to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:47 PM
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Reasonable take I've always heard five years, a couple of dating, being engaged for a year or two while finishing school, and then getting married as you're getting settled career-wise. I feel bad for my brother's girlfriends since they have been together for 10 years and own a condo but aren't married. Partly due to financial reasons but her parents are very wealthy and willing to pay for everything but she has some hiccups over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:42 PM
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It differs by the men we are talking about, personally, I was/am the wait-till-marriage kind of guy mostly due to older values but I'm willing to give someone a chance if they have only had long-term relationships and it's not their fault they broke up, however, if someone has done casual I have no desire to be with them due to a difference in values.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:40 PM
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Looks wise above average as in not fat. Also, I'm a pretty big gym rat so if my partner is not into it that could potentially create issues. Personality wise she has to be intelligent as in I can hold a good conversation with her whether that is in regards to social events or financial matters. Also, her career matters so I don't want some chick who is a high-school dropout so she'll most likely have at least a bachelor's if not a higher specialized degree. Careers that I find attractive are phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:36 PM
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Is it me or are more men just having forever girlfriends vs fiances/wives? I don't know if this is an actual trend but many times I've asked my male friends who are dating if they ever want to get married and most say something along the lines of "That's a long way off" or "We'll see if we are still together at that point". Also, most of my friends are in the mid 20s to mid-thirties range. Even if my age group range 21-23 except for like two guys and me pretty much no one plans on getting marrie…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:22 PM
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For guys who aren't wanting to get married, I don't really thing there is a hard limit but at maybe 20+ it might start being a detriment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:17 PM
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Stay single young (don't sleep around) then marry once you're older and stay married for the rest of your life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:27 PM
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First off if you are not making any new friends that is the issue, if you don't already workout at a gym I would join one (your campus might have a student rec center) and I would make friends there, also I would join an intramural sports club for something you like to play and you can also make friends that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:17 PM
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Maybe your not used to the culture there and are committing social no goes? Also, do you have something really off like are really short or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:08 PM
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What country did you move to and what country are you from?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 10:02 PM
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This is 4 months old bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 11:28 PM
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The most misogynist guy I know is also the most sexually successful but I don't know how much this plays into a bigger pattern or is just a coincidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:48 PM
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bold of you to assume I've ever dated a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 11:09 PM
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Good evidence to avoid those women is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:47 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:59 AM
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It's both I posted a similar study and it's that high IQ women don't reproduce and that low-IQ women reproduce at higher rates. The fertility rate and a women's iq has an inverse correlation which means that as IQ goes up the number of children goes down
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:54 PM
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Don't need to IQ has been dropping fast for at least two decades and while much of it is due to environmental factors and idiots being able to survive until reproduction and think part is due to women picking low iq men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:35 PM
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But the 8/10 probably has enough social iq to not call women whores to their face, plenty of misogynist men now how to hide it, and many times they are already sleeping with the woman in question before she has even taken the time to learn about his views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:32 PM
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I was adding to the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:49 PM
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can you show one in regards to men nationwide for the pre-30 crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 07:49 PM
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For the younger age group less than 30 women are out-earning men and this does seem to be one of the bigger factors in them being "potential's worse partner's"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:08 AM
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You said 7 which means that my friends who have had a couple hookups and relationships fit the average especially considering thier age
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:06 AM
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In what regards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:21 PM
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Many of my friends are average, they had a couple of hookups in college and 1 or 2 long-term relationships but now are either single, in a relationship that will probably not last until marriage and then maybe not for long, and I know one who is married but already issues are popping up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:31 PM
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If we go by self-surveys most men have porn star sized dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:16 PM
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Fuck them dude, if you can't get what you want either try harder or give up no one cares about the whining of losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 11:20 PM
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It's twitter
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 01:54 PM
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It says in the link, also you can easily have 4 kids if you start at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:56 PM
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They're hypocrites, it is logical that low N count women don't want high N count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:13 PM
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Bit of both
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:08 PM
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Honestly it is weird to me how many only consider piv as sex since does that mean that gay guys and women can't have sex? I would pretty much include anything beyond kissing and fondling as part of someone's sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:07 PM
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You just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:06 PM
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If you all like stats I got a treat for ya! This lists a ton of reasons behind divorce but a few takeaways to me are if you want to avoid getting divorced as a man, make sure her parents did not get divorced, don't marry young, if she has had sex at a young age avoid her, make sure to have assets and not argue over money. There are also plenty of stats that the ladies might like such as ones over porn addiction and alcohol consumption. https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 08:02 PM
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Many people marry the people they meet in their early 20s in their mid to late 20s. They find their partner either in college or the workplace. Also I'm not saying that women can find a quality partner right away, but I would say it would take 6 months to maybe a year max if they are vetting well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:35 PM
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The issue is there is no actual evidence of harry styles being a zionist at least from a quick google search, he even donated to Palestinian causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 02:05 PM
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She is better looking than him but we don't know anything else, in the video they both seem happy and the guy's main flaw is him being chubby but he is white, blonde, and has blue eyes something many chicks dig. If they are happy who are we to butt in? Also like how many black men fetishize white women, many women of color fetishize white guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:46 PM
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It's a gym in connection with the school and also nooo to your suggestion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 01:26 PM
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Yeah recession time for that field
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 11:46 PM
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What industry?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:34 PM
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I think I meet rule 1 since even if I'm turned down women seem flattered and I've not had an overly negative experience except for being ghosted after a date but I think the person was just immature as to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:32 PM
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Also, people deal with stress in different ways, I'd say I have a high-stress tolerance for things like danger since I did a federal internship with a lot of dangerous elements but never really got stressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:30 PM
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I like the tips on hygiene, I already clean up but maybe I'll put on some cologne and not just deodorant before. I don't know how much sense it makes to wait months since people change schedules and such but I understand the thought of taking it slow and not going in guns blazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 08:29 PM
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It's weird I've heard of guys who have really bad PTSD but our Lieutenant colonel for my ROTC program did combat operations in aviation and came out fine, so I wonder if the manner in which they kill also matters, who knows I'm probably going to end up in Military intelligence at least I hope. also, I'm sorry to hear that about your friends PTSD it is a serious issue and really goes to show how even the "winners" in war don't come out unscathed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:50 PM
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Nah, my goal is to just have one quality partner. I do have a good social life with my male friends which is good. Also got my master's program in the fall and most aspects of my life are going pretty well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:47 PM
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I like the one where if someone talks about the rain you can say something along the lines of "I'll see what I can do" and that sometimes gets a chuckle
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:46 PM
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I'm good at on-the-spot humor but weirdly enough if I try and create a funny scenario it's more difficult. Organic humor for me is easier than rehearsed humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:03 PM
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I've thought about this on my own since I'll be entering the army as an officer in about two years and depending on my MOS I may be in the position where I'm to take another person's life but will have the legal go-ahead to and hopefully the moral one as well, but the case may be that I am on the side committing violence and the hope I guess is that there are compelling reasons such as the defense of a sovereign nation that is being attacked by a tyrannical government (Russia, China) or a radica…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 07:00 PM
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This is good advice, just generally be a friendly person and read the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:52 PM
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Yeah using violence to achieve goals does not make sense on an individual level or even really a societal one since others will be worried about the aggressor and team up to take him down/exclude him. Do you think violence between nations works or is that also the less efficient method? It seems like the U.S. at least has a mixed approach with some focus being on cooperative interests based on wealth generation and others based on resource control and suppress of opponents.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:51 PM
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There's this one book I was recommended a long time ago that deals with body language and how to read it from a ground-up perspective but I can't remember it off the top of my head.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:48 PM
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I mean it's not a stunt since it's just my normal workout. The platforms are in the middle of the gym so you are pretty noticeable when doing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:47 PM
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Trades are in demand at least in my state
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:46 PM
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I sold my GameStop for about a $46 dollar gain, I mostly just dollar cost average into VOO which is an s&p 500 index, the two biggest single stock picks I made are rolls royce which I could sell for a gain of $400 in long term, and alibaba which I am down $606. I'm holding both until at least 2025 but after that I am done and just going to buy $29,500 worth of VOO every year for like 40 years. Alibaba is wierd since while having great cash flows it is valued low while rolls royce is in a ton of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:44 PM
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This is me but I go to the gym for 2-3 hours, talk to half the guys there, then go home and practice Arabic and then read Marcus Aurelius. Also, you reminded me to get back on intermittent fasting but the leanFIRE will have to wait until I start my career and max out my roth IRA and roth TSP.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:39 PM
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Isn't the average height of CEOs far above the median, they are also more likely to be psychopaths. The first trait shows physical dominance and the 2nd is not known for working well with others except for using them. That being said I still agree with your point more than the other but we are not in a society where all people work together with conflict whether social or physical in other countries still being a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:34 PM
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I would recommend therapy first
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:26 PM
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I think that's common, there are about 5 weeks left in the semester so I feel like it's a good time now since I've been there consistently am a familiar face, and feel like I have a pretty good reputation with the staff and other members.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:25 PM
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Another poster was talking about eye contact, and I think I'll work on that alongside just getting on friendly terms such as first-name basis and then exchanging greetings.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:21 PM
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Most women I would talk to I'd likely see again so I don't think I'd do the hail mary, also I'm not sure but I don't think I'd want to leave a door open. To me it would almost be better to just ask and either get shot down or maybe have a date/relationship come out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:19 PM
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I'll keep that in mind, but what if they are shy and not good with eye contact? So say if I say good morning or something if they blush or smile and look away is that good or bad? I'm giving scenarios I've been in but been confused about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:14 PM
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I've had girls look when I do deadlifts or bench so maybe there is some truth to this haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:12 PM
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I mostly wear sweatpants and an athletic tee or shorts on legs day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:12 PM
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How would I get in a position to start joking? I come to class early take notes and then leave after, I would need to know how to start a conversation either before or after class time in an appropriate way. I do typically talk to people who sit next to me so maybe I can just go around before class and greet everyone and talk about their day and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:10 PM
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I think I'm good at not being pushing, my friends say my issue is with not approaching, never been told that I'm invasive and I'm pretty quick to end a conversation if someone seems uninterested.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:08 PM
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I think that's good advice, but I have some more questions like what if they are doing a workout that you don't do, and what's the case if they are wearing headphones?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:07 PM
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Maybe I'll say that to my gym bros
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:01 PM
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Eye contact is kinda confusing for me, I can usually pick up if someone is looking at me either through the mirror but how much of that might just be people responding to movement in their perephrial, I do that a lot when someone walks to the edge of my vision I look over to see who it is and I think that's just us following movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:01 PM
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That's fine, the reason I say respectfully is that even if I get turned down I don't want to create any ill will. Also, the only places I go are either the gym or class so I have to try at least one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:58 PM
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Q4A What are respectful ways to approach women in the gym or class?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:35 PM
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You can dm me if you want, the only thing I would say is a lot of guys overrate themselves when it comes to their physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:29 PM
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post body or you're not in shape
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:50 PM
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A lot of guys who are on this sub myself included fall into the high inhibition category which means that we do think of things like risks and long-term success. Maybe it's not normal to think of cheating, divorce, std's, and whatnot when thinking about relationships, but again it's normal to be overweight/obese, in debt, and below average or average IQ so being anormal is fine especially if it has served me well in other aspects of my life like career, health and finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:26 PM
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What's up with all the demonization of men who want to be with a virgin especially if they are also one and waiting for marriage, I understand the critics towards men who are manwhores than want to suddenly turn around and expect the opposite but the labels for guys like me who literally are just high inhibition are pretty ridiculous and at least on this sub the distaste and shaming towards virgin guys is really bad and can be likened to slutshaming. Both groups are being judged for their views/…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 02:48 PM
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Fit women aren't regular women, if most women are classified as overweight or obese that means that regular women are overweight and obese, and fit women are the irregular ones. This being said I've also never really met single fit women since they seem to be almost always taken
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:35 PM
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Put coconut oil on them before going to bed, it worked for me. Or you can just use any good lotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:21 PM
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2ND
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 10:03 PM
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I mean this is why a lot of the great male historical figures had relationships with their bros they knew the nature of women too well.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:28 PM
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Fuck off, women are still the ones playing the victim card if men do they are looked down upon. I don't see myself as a victim since that is one of the worst things you can do in regards to actually succeeding in life but the gall of women to say that having both social and structural privilege is equality is bullshit, I know the basic history and in the past, it was mostly wealthy men who had privilege followed by wealthy women and the rest of us were pretty much equal in suffering.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:06 PM
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bank bailouts?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:18 PM
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What fucking privilege has my generation of men had? Being discriminated in schooling, more likely to go to prison, be homeless, drop out of college, and commit suicide etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 10:13 PM
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What science, in particular, has he said that is quack? I am not too big a fan of his political stances but when it comes to psychology he seems to give very basic level observations that are pretty blue-pill if you've ever listened to him. Also was your first comment mostly about Jordan Peterson or do you want to engage over what I wrote?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:55 PM
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Maybe we heard different stories from my understanding he had surgery and got addicted to opioids a very common and saddening occurrence, also he does hold a doctorate so I don't understand the parenthesizes. You also don't address any of the issues that I assume your position causes society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:48 PM
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Hedonism: Of, relating to, or marked by pleasure I'll talk about this first on a personal note than on a widespread view. Personally, I want to be with someone who shares the same values as me, and due to a variety of reasons I think abstinence until marriage is the best when it comes to creating a stable family unit, the ability to say no as a woman makes her attractive to me and there was a good video by Dr. Jordan Peterson on this and he discussed how sophisticated women(ones with good upbrin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:20 PM
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Why do you think you are not worthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:08 PM
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Many young men are worried about being considered creeps so they avoid women religiously.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 02:01 AM
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I've kinda noticed the same trend where I'm able to talk to and have friendships with guys my age (22) and even ones in their 30s and 40s but when it comes to women they seem to expect me to put in the work even if it's just as a friend. I know some retired guys at my gym to who I talk about my interests such as military history and they also have crazy stories like doing work for the state department in other countries when they were my age and it seems like having genuine conversations only ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:59 AM
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Even the winner in the case is still just getting with a women who values him for his money after she has already been run through by the football/basketball team in college
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:52 AM
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I'll stand by this but I think it's true that if your not her man (as in the only one she's been with) your just one of her men (one of the guys she's going to be with). This is reflected by divorce rates and such and to me it means that if your a guy you should never marry a women who's already been with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 01:13 AM
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I'm at 17.05% which is pretty down to earth, the biggest thing is I won't date overweight women and that cuts out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:03 PM
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For the united states 3 months paid leave is very high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 07:00 PM
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mercantilism as we know it did not really come around until adam smith and the wealth of nations, marriage or a form of it predates that by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 01:26 AM
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I already know that but thanks for sharing ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:14 PM
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I think it's the new norm sadly it will either increase or steady out but I don't see it decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 08:01 PM
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The DoD just had a new policy like a month or two ago with three months paid leave for when you have a kid, leave the government is started to get concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 07:59 PM
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Last time I checked men are still much more likely to be victims of almost every type of crime so I don't think misogyny has any big effect there, and explicit racism does seem to have a link to before but the groups committing at the largest % rate may surprise you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:20 PM
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same problem with being a misogynist or racist
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:57 PM
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This is a work of art, on another note I do love his podcast I've used it to get in the best shape of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:54 PM
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The manosphere is too general to give a single answer over that, red pill guys might promote learning game and working out, mgtow might say there is no solution and men dropping out or distancing themselves from society is good and men's rights activists might argue against discriminatory policies in school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:39 PM
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Your grandma's awesome, mine would always make cookies if we were over
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:33 PM
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True, I'm about to take grad stats next fall so once I get a little bit of exposure I might take a look back on what I've taken as fact since hopefully, I will be able to deduce whether people are fudging the numbers or not. You know that one quote lies, more lies, and dammed statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 11:23 PM
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Does this not just confirm what we know that women sleep around with guys when young than pair up and settle when older af/bb?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:33 PM
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It seemed to have to put on a facade in the past about how they are oh so much better than man and cared about other things over looks, which is half true since looks predate other things such as personality, stablity and what not which women also look fo but looks is still king for both men and women, women used to/still lie about it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:33 PM
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Generally speaking, if a young child has trouble socializing we strive to incorporate them and this can be done through group activities, active feedback (green card, red card), team sports and such so I think we need to focus more on helping the youth especially the young men socialize since school shooters generally speaking is not the football captain. Relationships should be voluntary I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:20 AM
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What's the average autist though? Also while dating dynamics used to be a fringe topic I actually think with andrew tate it's a pretty common talking point at least with guys my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 01:17 AM
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Even autistics can make friends as long as they learn to read social cues and practice, it's going to be more difficult than non neurodivergent people but can still happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:54 AM
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No they should become radicalized online and commit mass shootings that's the only logical course of action of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:52 AM
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show me the stats, preferably by age group as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:25 AM
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I mean autistic guys are no small part of the population and if you include socially awkward and borderline autstic guys that's a lot of men who are having issues with dating and should at least be heard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:19 AM
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One of my is a pretty good-looking guy and could be considered a "chad"(easy access to women for sexual encounters), my example is that one time over a 5 day period he slept with 4 different women ranging from above average to attractive. I recently asked him if any of the girls wanted to date him and afterward, of the 4 women 3 expressed interest in a relationship, he obviously did not date any of them since why would he? Also I think most ugly men would do the same as my friend if they were in…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:03 AM
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Some people may find enjoyment in helping others but it will not be for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:34 PM
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Were the relationships what made you happier or was it the self-improvement you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:08 PM
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I don't think so but that's fine, since no one owes anyone anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:43 PM
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What's the alternative lifestyle you offer, hedonism and materialism to fill out people's lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:42 PM
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makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:42 PM
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Are you happier now than how you were before? I've pretty much done the self-improvement but now find no interest in even pursuing dating and such since I don't think it will make me happy due to the fact that you mentioned that finding the one doesn't really happen anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:41 PM
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In regards to the military not being able to find recruits and maintain them it's mostly due to the obesity epidemic, drug and criminal history, and people leaving due to the strong private economy. I don't know whether it's socialized in us (men) or were born with it but many men myself included desire to be wanted by others and relied upon, call it narcissism or whatever but I think it's a real issue when we have a lot of guys who aren't needed on the individual level but are still needed on a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:30 PM
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Many NEETA just plan on suiciding once their support network is gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:07 PM
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Then why are they so depressed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 06:37 PM
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SIMP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 12:00 AM
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report him to hr for sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 12:38 AM
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No porn is unnatural more and more research into how for men at least wiring your circuits to get off to a girl you find attractive having sex is not normal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:16 PM
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I mean if they're watching porn together that sounds a little weird to me for both of them also the talk of using toys afterward is kinda bad since it implies messing up the senses since like men can get a death grip women can get resistance to stimuli, it does sound like there are a lot of issues at play
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:40 PM
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I looked through the parent comments and I don't think we brought that up? edit: the original post did but the comment I responded to we were not talking about passport bros
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:27 PM
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Their both porn sick is plural saying both the man and women are pornsick reread my comment if still confused. I think that post is stupid sexual compatibility is important but can mostly be solved by communication. If you want my take on why marrying someone who is a virgin makes sense it is that the divorce rate is the lowest, marriages are happier and you also show your willing to build something with another person than just waiting at the finish line, and at the end of the day it is just a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:25 PM
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You not read the post? You did not read the post " We would just watch porn and arouse ourselves. And once I feel I'm "ready", we would have PIV sex." You linked to a deleted post also
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:13 PM
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Sounds like their both porn-sick and need to work on that first, also I've not seen guys say they don't want them to have someone to compare them too that sounds like a strawman, the biggest arguments are having similar values and lowering the chance of divorce both valid points.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:59 PM
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Oatmeal doesn't even need to be cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:54 PM
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??? I don't see how this is related to the conversation at hand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:54 PM
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It depends on the methods used with this one being 1.7% "Under this measure, a tract is considered low access if at least 100 households are more than one-half mile from the nearest supermarket and have no access to a vehicle; or at least 500 people or 33 percent of the population live more than 20 miles from the nearest supermarket, regardless of vehicle access. Using this measure, an estimated 1.9 million households, or 1.7 percent of all households, are in low-income and low-access census tra…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:55 PM
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There are cases like that, but when it comes to things like food deserts less than one % of the u.s lives in one. Also I've yet to meet someone in real life when having this conversation that they were unable to eat healthy due to the expense, they always admitted to preferring the convenience and taste of fast food and unhealthy food. I can even take it a step further and say most overweight people would benefit from eating less food but more nutritious ones since the money saved in being at a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 08:10 PM
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True, but if you also live in rural areas you can set up a garden, chicken coop, and maybe even plant an orchard. What I'm getting at is except for a small proportion of the population access to healthy food is available it is just not tasty compared to fast food and unhealthy food. To eat healthy in my opinion is not expensive unless you make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 07:51 PM
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I mean my mom's workplace was shot up by a young guy who had just lost his job and his girlfriend broke up with him so it's all fun and games until it isn't. Not saying making fun of people here will cause that but when guys here if they're worthless and not contributing they should just kill themselves they might decide to take a few extra with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:57 PM
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Add on some chicken which is $1 per pound for drumsticks at Costco, plus eggs milk and some greens you mostly got a good diet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:53 PM
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I'm curious to see if single men on a large scale will try to separate their lives from society, I think it would be cool for guys who are single to push towards not having their taxes go to school since personally if I don't have kids why should I pay for a service I'm never going to use. If enough guys come to the same conclusion as me and become more vocal I think some friction could be created, I don't think we would have the voting power since married men and women would be against us but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:15 PM
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5 pounds of oatmeal is around $10, it's hard to eat healthy if you also want convenience, but if you can put up with more plain food it is not hard nor expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:06 PM
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The success gap between poor African immigrants and african americans born in the u.s is quite large even if they have similar environments and my best guess as to why are the values that immigrants pass onto their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:04 PM
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Women have a mental developmental advantage from mid-teenage years to early 20s, then men either catch up or surpass women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:34 AM
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Besides the tax reasons and health benefits if you are childfree and plan to stay that way marriage is probably not the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 08:31 PM
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Being at the mercy of others to provide you food is a pretty childless activity, I guess not knowing how to cook makes you a child than.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:00 AM
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I've argued for a long time that all porn where there is a man and a woman is ntr but most people aren't ready for that take.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:55 AM
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Because in America most men aren't physically attractive, same for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:26 PM
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I can only speak of my personal experiences just as you are of your own, but I have not seen this(men being outside of gender norms) as still being socially acceptable but maybe it is since I am from a midwestern state. I also don't think men aren't willing to sacrifice time, freedom etc. but at least for me it's not a logical choice since if women still are mostly drawn to things like looks, wealth and traditional signals of male success if we(young men) want to do well in our current society w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:01 AM
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No just an arnold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:55 AM
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There is more to life than relationships, such as the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:19 PM
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based?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:19 PM
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I don't particularly disagree with anything you said, the only thing I would say is to me doing things like your own laundry, dishes, and such it just expected and not really delicated to anyone in particular, it also makes sense to have a chore list and do the ones you prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:14 PM
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Salary is contingent upon a variety of factors, but at least for men vs women the biggest factor is that men especially married men are willing to work a greater amount of hours. Sure we need teams but to me it seems like women just want to wait until we've (men) have already built our foundation on our own than come in an reap the rewards.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:09 PM
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I'm going to be honest men don't really of the luxury of eschewing traditonal gender roles only women get to do that, we still need to approach, show our worth, pay for the dates, be emotionally stoic and so on. Also for your third paragraph I would argue that it's women feeling less attraction do their husbands since we know that a man's wealth plays in the sexual attraction of women, not more than looks or personality but it is third. In an optimal world people would optimize and do what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:57 PM
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Can't find that one but we can talk about how women making more makes them less likely to have sex with their man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:53 PM
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By the numbers if I'm making more I'm also working more hours or a more dangerous job or even a combination of two, than is I also have to do at least half of the housework if not more that means I'm contributing more to the relationship. Why should I have to deal with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:52 PM
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Here is one for their being less sex if women make more https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0968-7 I'll look for the one about chores as well this one talks about if men make less their wives are more likley to cheat https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-012-9930-x My point is that if I need to make more for my wife to be happy and I'm also doing at least half the housework if not more I might be getting a bad deal, also maybe this will change and women will be fine w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:35 PM
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First off you are much more likely to outlive your husband and he is more likely to die from either workplace dangers or health issues It makes sense to have a backup plan I think everyone should have one man included if their wife decides to divorce them randomly. Honestly if I even end up married I'll probably do the majority of the household work because I have my own system that is pretty efficient and I dislike when people interfere since they often make it more work. Also the numbers disag…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:28 PM
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I already do housework stuff for myself and would not mind doing it for my family, the thing is studies show when the man does more housework the wife loses attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:24 PM
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defending what, I stated a fact and you seem to have an issue with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:23 PM
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It's a legit question, if my wife would lose attraction for me helping out even if I don't mind already doing that it actually makes me less likely to want to help out since why would I want to make my wife want me less?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:22 PM
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More like low iq people are reproducing but that is for all races/and iq is not tied to race
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:09 PM
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However, don't women also lose attraction when they make more than their man or the guy does housework? I'd be fine with doing the majority of housework since I already do all my own cooking, laundry, etc but if I'm going to looked down on for it why would I be incentivized to?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:47 PM
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The gym calls my name tommarow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:53 AM
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I see your into fitness
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:45 AM
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I'm planning on waiting for marriage and I'd want my partner to hold the same view, I also don't plan on running into marriage so it I'd wait anywhere from 2-5 years, I'm probably one of the few guys who is also fine with being celibate for the rest of my life since I think it's more heathy mentally and physically than casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:27 PM
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Women like a nice ass on a guy just like men like one on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 11:22 PM
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By casual I thought you meant casual sex and or fwb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 10:26 PM
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This is most likely going to be a point of disagreement and is also an opinion but I would not consider women who are in a casual relationship as options at least to me so that would also be a qualifier before the other three and if you want me to explain I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:39 PM
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Mm maybe I can quantify it I should say they are never single for long so if they're actively looking I would expect them to find someone within a couple of months and maybe a year max if they are vetting thoroughly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:25 PM
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Pics or your lying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:23 PM
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Same, not trying to circlejerk though but that's what it's been like for my social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:07 PM
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Not calling you a liar but I have not personally seen this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 09:06 PM
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Maybe it's in area thing most women who I know who are those three traits are typically in long term relationships, engaged or married. Very few are single except for by choice for career reasons such as med school.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:57 PM
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Aren't you the virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:50 PM
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Idk you can't see we downvotes so we won't know the gender, that being said I have had arguments before where I think someone went through and downvoted everything without commenting which to me is a display of weakness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:49 PM
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Just a shower that but it seems to me that if a woman is smart, kind, and attractive she is almost never single. This begs the question that is their an abundance of men ready to long-term these women and the hvm who can't just settle for casual with a lot of different women? Hvm as in terms of wealthy, attractive, and good personality
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:45 PM
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Are you jacked yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:43 PM
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I've had pretty good interactions with both men and women, I think men are more honest which may come off as them being less nice but when it comes to actual thoughts I think both are equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:42 PM
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Can incels be red-pilled since I thought that applies they at least have some success with women even if low class ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:40 PM
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I think you have a big misconception of men at least irl ones, many just want a relationship with someone with similar values and reasonable standards, they don't want to be chad thundercock having sex with different women all the time, maybe it's true for the incels that don't have friends who live like that but it's not that great of a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:22 PM
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Two days ago I posted a question on if men look up to /respect chad out of all the answers most gave no and one or two said it depends on how they achieved their status
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:14 PM
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Like hard stats, I know that the number of pre-martial partners is associated with divorce, same with martial happiness, so not that low n count women get higher quality men but they seem to be happier, this is alongside other benefits like them be less likely to get std's which seems like a smart thing to do. If women can sleep around and still find the guy they want there is not issue with what they are doing but for the 1st time ever more women got to 30 without having children than having th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 08:12 PM
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I remember some women posted a really long time ago and argued how you can retroactively apply consent if the guy is hot, the example was if she was in a club and a guy touched her the guy did not ask for permission beforehand she can say it was wrong if the guy is unattractive but if she is into the guy the behavior is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:39 PM
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A woman could be extremely smart and kind but if she is very unattractive I would not want to be in a relationship with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:35 PM
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No, it just means you have standards, top three things I look for in a woman is her being attractive, kind, and intelligent in that order
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:18 PM
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Naw the wife would be low class for cheating and the guy she cheated with would also be lowclass for being with a married women if he knew
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:58 PM
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Q4A What house are you in hogwarts legacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:45 PM
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Low class behavior tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:40 PM
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So you have a crush? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dcuHm\_N1mtk&t=24s
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:35 PM
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Naw even normies know their height, weight and dick size it's not weird for guys to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 06:22 PM
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I'd be carful a lot of guys on here compare dicks so I'd avoid asking this question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 01:43 AM
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Survey bias waiting to happen, people who are less happy with what they have won't respond while people who are will.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:26 AM
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You agree that looks are king than and everything else is just after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 12:20 AM
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That's pretty badass, honestly, I think guys like me who have been exposed to the internet since childhood will do pretty well in this post-truth sort of society/internet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:49 PM
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Oh I know I used to be around 280 after an injury and covid but am down to 220 with around 13% bodyfat and literally had a woman come up to me to give me her number yesterday something that has never happened before, ironically that just made me want to focus on my health more and not waste time on dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:57 PM
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I would say my friends who are good at getting with women casually are either neutral towards women or hold misogynist views but when it comes to my friends in quality relationships with good women less so.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:43 PM
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Yeah go for what you think is best, I'm just trying to say that you can live a happy life without any three of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 PM
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By 10 personality you are most likely talking about high extroversion, risk-taking and verbal intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:28 PM
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Casual poses the risk of std's which from my understanding really suck, I'm also pro-abstinence of porn since I think that energy should be directed elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:27 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ntM0luDpUWA I love ai
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:22 PM
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Q4M Do you look up to/respect chad? What I mean by this is that if you have friends who are able to sleep with a lot of women do you think better of them? For my answer I would say no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:17 PM
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I'm the same age as you and I think the only difference it that I am completely ready to be celibate for the rest of my life, I've started working on developing my friend group and I've also started to take my personal fitness to the next level and honestly relationships for the first time in a couple of years are not the first thing on my mind. Once you're happy with what you doing careerwise/school, have a good friend-group and are able to invest in your hobbies if you still want a woman that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:15 PM
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I've changed my position on the importance of personality, I still think looks are king but personality also matters as far as not being neurodivergent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:48 PM
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Idk, I don't try to infantize women but being honest they are really bad at judging whether a guy wants to be with them or is just using them for sex, as a guy with fuckboi friends the signs are pretty easy to see but again girls women just don't seem to be able to detect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:46 PM
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I can give a real life example, I have a friend who has two situationships one on campus and one in his home town, since he is not dating and neither of them know each other I expect both women would say they are in a relationship even if they are just having sex with my friend, which is if that is all they want good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 06:55 PM
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If you want to have really crazy dreams eat pumpkin seeds
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:39 AM
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Pornography is different from romance, also I do think at least young kids >13 should have a certain amount of protection in what they see/read but we need to have discussions of what exactly that is. I'm even on the side that pornography should be banned due to how much of a harmful effect it can have on the youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:12 AM
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Idk bro making sure that books are "free of Pornography” is not a terrible thing, if you have issues with it being subjective maybe that is fair but saying kids can't read 50 shades of gray I am fine with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 12:01 AM
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Your inability to take in and understand information only reflect poorly upon yourself and not me, let's end this here to save both our time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 10:09 PM
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That's true, the hope would be that we have an educated enough voter base that they could see past that. At least incumbents shouldn't be able to use public funds for ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:09 PM
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Yeah, I understand you now.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 09:08 PM
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Have you ever nodded you head in passing at a girlfriend you made for a whole year before ever saying a word?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:54 PM
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Honestly, I love people like you, since typically at one point you had the idea that your life was unique and you matured but not fully since most adults know their not special but in your effort to point out that others aren't you unironically make yourself feel unique since you know you aren't special don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:53 PM
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The head nodding at each other, I don't head nod to girls so that's why I said it's more of a guy friendship, also generally speaking guys bond more over doing things together vs just talking. This is a generalization but of course you know that :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:51 PM
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You need to have your boyfriend come along so he can eat whatever you don't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:42 PM
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4 pieces of bacon, 4 eggs with bread and butter plus some sort of fruit is typically my go-to breakfast.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:41 PM
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Remember kids both sides are bought out https://www.capitoltrades.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:39 PM
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I don't want to say hate but I really dislike that blonde chick, I honestly don't think the republican party will ever get itself together, if we could get turn limits, voting where if your first vote is not the winner it goes to your 2nd choice and so on and ban stock trading for any members of the government with privileged information and their close family we might actually be able to get a clean enough government to deal with issues like the opioid and obesity epidemic and maybe the std iss…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:29 PM
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Guy friendships are weird, I went from never speaking to a guy at my gym and just head-nodding to each other for a full year to workout partners for around an hour and a half hours 5 days per week in like a month from first talking to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:27 PM
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For me to engage in a hypothetical it has to at least me somewhat realistic for me to answer which this is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:13 PM
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incel is used so much that it almost refers to anyone the user of the word disagrees with, it originally meant involuntary celebrate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 07:06 PM
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Ngl once they can make androids like that, women are going to have a tough time competing, (yes we know your glad us guys will stick with them and live you all alone.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:49 AM
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These are all generalizations and none may apply to individual or maybe all can Body shaming, I would say most women think that calling women who are overweight fat is wrong (being overweight generally speaking is a conscious choice) but then many of the same women will have no problem making fun of short guys or guys with small dicks(not things a guy can choose). Also I found it funny when women use incel as an insult since it insinuates that a guy not being able to sleep with women is a loser …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 01:37 AM
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Not really a couple years ago there was still a lot of denial about looks/height/money and all that but now it's moved to just a discussion of what % of each.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:27 AM
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It's alright just projection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 11:05 PM
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I'm approaching beast titan mode and I don't know if I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:22 PM
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I've helped plenty of people who are trapped under benches both guys and gals no one has ever made a big deal of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:21 PM
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If we're talking about actual friends I have two one is the same age as me the other is 27 and both seem to be doing well, one is in grad school and the other is in undergrad but works a lot for his major(construction management). Mental health wise besides being busy both seem to be doing fine. In regards to myself, I do fine since for me to be mentally happy as long as I'm physically healthy and able to do my hobbies such as working out I'm good not really happy but content.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 08:51 PM
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Putting all my food into a calorie tracker and making sure I get all my micronutrients that I was missing, helps a lot with physical and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 02:58 PM
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Yeah I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:45 PM
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Your post is mostly issues with the methodology which are fair, over half of the psychology either can't be replicated or has used bad methods or only applies to college students quickly taking a test for credit. It sucks but honestly, most research that either party produces whether they are blue, black or red pill can be dismissed and if you are in the redpill/blackpill camp you can even go as far to say that research showing negative results over blackpill issues won't get funding as a result…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:52 AM
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I did I'm not arguing what's in the post but just adding my thought since this is a discussion is it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:29 AM
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I would say if I was to formulate a black-pilled/incel take, it would be that looks are the most important factor in dating and many times this is determined by your genetics(height, face, hair, etc.) The biggest difference I have with most black pilled guys is I also think personality is important but in regards to men being neurodivergent, if a guy has autism he is more likely than a guy without autism to struggle with dating and if a guy has poor genetics and autism he is going to have a real…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 01:15 AM
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Over three months I want to gain 1-2 pounds of muscle mass, it's a modified Arnold with a lot of reps and some accessories for joint health. Longterm wise I want to get to 220 pounds at 9% body fat which I am a little far from since my body fat is around 13% and I need to gain 5 more pounds of lean muscle mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:45 PM
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Pretty excited for monday I got a new lifting partner and we start our program monday!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 01:49 PM
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For me it depends on the women's culture for example in many middle eastern countries you keep your last name as a woman when you marry so that is normal but if I was marrying a western girl and she wanted to keep hers just because I would maybe have more of an issue since that could be a sign of her not really being invested into the marriage since it is traditional here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:15 PM
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Okay, but does this not mean that if we have lower-than-average IQ people pro-creating at a higher rate than average and above average the average IQ would not move downwards? (This is my position that the g factor for IQ in the U.S. has steadily been decreasing for roughly at lest 3 decades)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:07 PM
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I remember a really good story about a wife who killed her husband with a lambchop and then cooked it and fed it to the police the setup is long but it gave me a chuckle, also I would say generally speaking we still view women with a softer gaze which is both good and bad, good since they are somewhat insulated from male on male violence (male on female violence still occurs but to a much lesser degree) and bad since women are generally less respected in positions of power, I am against both I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 11:05 PM
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Not blaming it on feminism but there are still areas in which women benefit more in society the largest being lighter sentences when it comes to sentencing, for the same crime a woman is more likely to be given a lighter sentence than a man and this discrepancy is greater than the racial differences in sentencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:53 PM
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I agree that regression to the mean is real I just want to know to what extent and how since we have had traits such as height increase over time even if regression to the mean was taking place so I don't know if it has a large effect and non-extreme examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 01:09 PM
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Artificial wombs are still a little ways off and kids on their own need proper nurturing, I never brought up sex but sex robots do seem cool, don't want a female servant either and I don't see many men advocating for that. It was an interesting conversation I'll end it here but thanks for engaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:37 AM
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I see it's hard to deal with a nihilist haha, when it comes to the super hard jobs many such as deep sea fisher, active duty military, and underwater welder will not be automated for a while if ever, and I guess the reason I'm trying t convince you to care is that by taking a controlled look at these issues or at least figuring out if they are even real or not we are to create solutions that are to the betterment of everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 12:13 AM
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If you view having children as suffering that is fine and I'm cool with your choice not to reproduce but the issue is what will happen on a societal level over time. Generally speaking, we have certain expectations from members of our society for example men taking on jobs that have higher workplace mortality and women in childbirth since men are incapable of the ladder, if we only put the onus on the less well-off women to reproduce on a population-wide level may be making things worse for us l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:59 PM
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The thing is I'm certainly not einstein, and how far are we talking from the mean like more than two standard deviations or even as little as half a one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:49 PM
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Yeah, it sounds like we are agreeing probably just in a difference in what extent, like two intelligent people are most likely also going to have fairly bright kids and two extremely intelligent people might also have bright kids but it won't be as intelligent as either of the outliers. I'll ask you this since we know that as women's education/IQ increases there is an inverse relationship with the number of kids they have. (i.e uneducated/low IQ women have the most kids while educated/high IQ ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:31 PM
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I mean it saves a lot of time when you have someone who brings up the subject give you the information they are going off so you can go look at it, the reason I asked is that in extreme cases such as with a genius regression towards the mean would make sense, but if you have two above average people mentally wise and their children are in either a better or same environment as their parents I would assume the intelligence of the children would either remain the same or increase slightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:19 PM
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Can you link the study please that shows that regression of the mean applies to the genetic factor of IQ? and my next question is if this is accounting for environmental factors that may lead to a lower IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:04 PM
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It's the daily chat people can post what they want, like how you can post a useless comment that adds nothing to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 08:45 PM
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I think it's a mischaracterization to not mention how this goes both ways, many guys myself included would rather stay single than mate with someone who we view as mentally or physically a bad match. Straight up unlike Mr. Lawman, I don't like overweight women and would rather stay single than date one, same for stupid women. If I need to quantify it I don't like women with more than 24% body fat and IQ is harder to measure but anything less than 115 I would be worried about my children, and jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:17 PM
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Yes, lower IQ people who have a less developed pre-frontal cortex have trouble with obesity so it is partially genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:44 AM
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I don't drink public water but that's because my state is ranked like 46 out of 50 for worst water quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:11 AM
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In the U.S. a lot of people have a large misunderstanding of what a healthy weight is, most guys should be 20% max but if we are talking long-term wise 12%-15% is best, and if you are young 9% is not even that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 11:28 PM
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I mean nobody is perfect so if there's work to be done everyone is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:02 AM
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Maybe I'm not going to sit here and say your wrong when that's the conclusion you've come to, but at least for me and a lot of other young guys it's a mental game of not picking out things to blame for our failures. Personally, I've come to the conclusion that women aren't particularly worth the effort and if you just do your hobbies and cultivate a good friend group you'll end up much happier than trying to get validation from women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:01 AM
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Maybe, my friend group is all around pretty fit but most of my friends are students or come from my gym so that is probably why.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:57 AM
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So how did you come to the conclusion of girls liking older guys, if you are going for girls who don't like partying your best bet is to look now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:49 AM
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Is this a good example of the average man? I think they all could use a lot of work physique-wise, but I've been told I have body dysphoria so who knows? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BjwWQ5zrbaE
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:38 AM
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Idk than, there are women who don't party and such but finding ones who are single may be an issue, do you have a good friend group that you socialize with and do you ever have mixed study groups?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:29 AM
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butter pecan
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:26 AM
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Are you Indian?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:23 AM
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I mean still not the best role model but you do you, tell me once you've overthrown the Chinese government.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:18 AM
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If your looking for a relationship or a friend group either join a frat, do intramural sports or workout at the campus gym, once you have a friend group and are going to parties you will most likely find women who are interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:17 AM
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Didn't she have sex with her son?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:01 AM
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I don't know one of my friends is a nurse and he is pretty chill just tired all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:00 AM
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Do you live on campus or commute?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:57 AM
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Why so?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:35 AM
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Plenty of men are also deciding to stop dating also and well the incel community is pretty vocal in online spaces irl I've never met one. This post just reeks of entitlement again playing into outdated norms of men having to be the ones to provide for a woman whether financially, emotionally or whatnot. If you are doing so good by yourselves great, just don't take my money for your fatherless homes and 3rd abortion at 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 10:50 PM
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Not really the men reproducing the most are mostly lower class with most upper class men having either 1-2 or no children at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:53 AM
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Let me guess you are one of the happily married women on here to the best guy in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 04:37 PM
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First paragraph "The inconsistent gender differences in production and detection lies and truths dictate caution in interpreting them." Also in pretty much all experiments listed caution about how they are inconsistent and hard to judge, so what I'm saying is like most of psychology your arguing with what I would call junk science.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 08:57 PM
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Don't discredit the obesity epidemic and how unfit many of this pregnant women are
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:56 PM
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Women in anonymous surveys even lie though when being truthful makes their gender look bad, women are programmed in a way to use soft tactics as they could not use hard ones like violence, that being said many of the studies used in this subject are done using college students and even than I wonder how many studies were left out that gave different results or even if there have been replicated ones? Maybe if you have a meta-study on the subject I'd be more likely to trust it. There may be some …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:25 PM
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I don't know if if would want that, I am also celibate by choice since I have found myself a lot happier not chasing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:12 PM
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I'm a guy and I would say I am happy not not satified
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:02 AM
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I mean I'm 6'3 and still maidenless so height may be a factor but is not the only one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:27 AM
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Do you deep down see women as equals? Yes but I think they are oftentimes given unfair treatment both negative and positive. Do you think women and men can connect intellectually and that such a connection is the basis for a relationship? Some can, but most guys and gals are either average or below-average intelligence and I think highly intelligent women seem to pair up earlier and stay in relationships longer so if we are talking about single women who I can connect with intellectually from my…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:01 PM
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Would justpearlythings be a pickme or a grifter?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:32 AM
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6 weeks is a little iffy since you get into women not knowing if they are pregnant another user said 16 and I don't know the best number tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:11 AM
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I am talking about workplace participation stats, and as the trades are in more demand we will most likely see a rise in men going into them since guys follow the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 01:10 AM
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Interesting that is more of a practical answer than a moral one but it's based on facts which is nice, ty for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:30 PM
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Alright, thanks for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:20 PM
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I agree but most of us at least give some credence to it, and often times laws mirror what society as a whole thinks is write or wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:19 PM
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I mean that is true, why do you value that difference so much that for one (the 6 month old) you need to leave it to die vs the 23 week old you generally speaking have to kill it for it to go away?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:13 PM
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Why 16 weekis in particular, I assume something happens at 16 where you think it is wrong after whether that is brain development-wise or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:12 PM
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So in every state abortion after 22 weeks it not allowed outside of medical necessity?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:11 PM
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So you think the law is the best indicator of rightness?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:10 PM
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I'm just trying to show that it is a pretty subjective vs objective subject and for me at least if I have to debate whether it is wrong or not it is probably wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:10 PM
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Cool, but how are you measuring Sentience, are the brainwaves of a 6-month-old substantially more advanced than a 23-week-old?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:09 PM
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Tbh I don't think that's a very good measuring tool but I'm not trying to debate but just pick some brains, ty for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:07 PM
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Is that federal or state law?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:06 PM
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A 6 month old without assistance will die so it also needs someone else in order to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:04 PM
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What about killing an adult who either due to brain trauma no longer has a higher functioning brain and needs assistance to eat and bathe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:03 PM
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But worse is subjective is it not, if we as a society decided that killing a 6-month-old is equal to a 23-week-old is it not worse than?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:02 PM
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Would you be supportive of abortions only being allowed up to 13 weeks with exceptions such as the ones you list for severe fetal anomalies and if no why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:01 PM
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I assume I used the wrong terminology what is the correct wording than?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 09:00 PM
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Q4A Not trying to argue but just curious What is the difference between killing a 6-month-old baby and a 23-week-old fetus?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:29 PM
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Yeah you can be single of mostly no fault of your own, generally speaking, Indian American guys don't have a lot of luck with women due to how women racially prefer other races and they also have to deal with there being more Indian guys than girls due to selective abortion. Tough luck but ngl it sounds like you have a pretty easy life so if you focus on being happy on your own you should do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:28 PM
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I think a better way to look at this is who draws more away from the system and who contributes more, there was one study that showed that over their lifetime men contribute a net $172,000 I think and women are a net negative of $172,000 but there were some critics about how we measure the amount of value that women do that is unpaid which if fair, nowadays women are actually outpacing men in workplace participation so maybe it will flip the other way. Anyways I don't think this is really a gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:18 PM
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Do you try dating Indian women or do you only go for white girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 08:09 PM
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The military is lowering the ASVAB and giving more waivers for two main reasons, for the past 10+ years we have had a strong private sector where eligible people could get jobs and the 2nd is the obesity epidemic. Also for at least the officer side if you have commissioned officer on your resume at 27 you can get snapped up by a fortune 500 company relatively easily so it is hard to retain officers. Personally, I plan on just doing the career officer path but it is slightly less appealing if I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:52 PM
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As a girl that is fine as a guy you are fat/chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:46 PM
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Nope I'll get the 10 million on my own than.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:45 PM
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With that 10 billion can I get a state-of-the-art water purification system in my home or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:21 PM
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Don't use OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:20 PM
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Do what you want as long as it is legal and you don't use any immoral methods. If you can get what you desire good for you, if not maybe reflect on what's hindering you or if what you want will even make you happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:20 PM
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It is what it is, regret spoils the present and ruins the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:07 PM
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Dude just don't play, trying to find happiness through others is a futile act and you are better off just enjoying the hobbies you have. Trust me you will be much happier if you spend the money and effort you spend chasing women on yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:12 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:28 PM
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xx
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 02:18 PM
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Boredom be her name.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 09:05 PM
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I'd say the ignorance of spoiled rich kids is what always got me but I learned to not care about what others think or do as long as they aren't affecting me in a negative way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:55 PM
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True, the gender wars is mostly just a tactic to divide the working and middle class. I've pretty much got no skin in the game now though, I plan on just doing my career and having my hobbies much easier that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:54 PM
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I'm going to be honest I've literally made every single point in the video before and I really enjoy how it has finally gone mainstream, however I don't think any actual change is going to take place or if so it will not be able to keep up with the negative trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 05:44 PM
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I can see what you see is true but I also think what I said is also true I guess this disagreement is in how many people of each group hold each view (being grateful for what you're born with vs. being grateful for what you have worked for).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:48 PM
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I'd prefer to bring male workplace injuries down not female ones up haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:45 PM
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At least in the U.S. nurses and doctors are paid pretty well, education is underpaid, administration is bloated so if it was cut down the ones left should maybe be paid more, and what jobs are literacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:39 PM
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I still don't know if I agree, it seems like your point is that people who have less are more grateful and generally speaking they seem as grateful as people who have more which is not very grateful. I'm not even talking in terms of men or women here but just people in general. Also weirdly enough a lot of even the really hardworking guys I know are single, they are not incels either and don't have any hate towards women but just generally seem to want to work on themselves (getting a house, pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:35 PM
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HEAL?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:22 PM
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I don't know if I fully agree with this, I know guys my age who have done deep-sea fishing over the summer to achieve their goals so not every guy in this generation has it easy, you also have to take into account in 2023 most workplace deaths are still men and most workplace injuries as well. I'm not saying I don't have it easy, all I do is study, workout and do my hobbies but many young guys are still out here putting in the hard work that keeps our society going.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:14 PM
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I don't think so, I for one just do college, workout, play games, and read which is pretty enjoyable. I will say this while gun violence as a whole has gone down mass shootings are way up and are mostly done by single men, also I plan on having none of my income go to my local system and do plan on voting for things that benefit me as a single guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:43 PM
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I think I found my new gym music https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPtPo8Sa3NE&t=699s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:26 AM
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Most people are too unfit to be in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:25 AM
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Which part do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:10 AM
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Typically from what I have heard your 30's are an extension of your 20s for men, if you did badly in your 20s whether that is your career or romance you will continue to do bad and if you did really well career-wise in your 20s and romance wise you will do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 10:39 PM
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I guess just not in the right way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:59 PM
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So I guess you support the red pill idea of enjoy the decline? Also at least for myself I never understood the idea of partaking in a behavior I don't like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:43 PM
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Men are pigs and we want to be pigs too!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:28 PM
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Pretty much, can't negotiate attraction and it's just bad luck that I was instilled with values that don't align with the current trends, I've already accepted this and while I think my thought process is probably the best one when it comes to long term happiness trying to convince others is just a recipe for being unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:26 PM
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Yeah guys will fuck down but rarely marry down
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:15 PM
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That's true so maybe I won't use notch count as a way to avoid divorce but it still does not change the other factors like not having attraction to high notch count women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:14 PM
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The Chivalry hypothesis is a thing, for the same crimes women are given lighter sentences. The discrepancy is greater than any racial one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:55 PM
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For the STI test, I guess you are correct but even if they are clean now they could have had them in the past which can leave lasting effects such as infertility. Yes, correlation does not equal causation but if you have the choice between reducing your chances of divorce or increasing it which will you choose? Also, society has had both positive and negative changes I would say hookup culture is a negative one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:26 PM
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So many of the comments just go to show how bad non-neurotypical men have it when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:17 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LVt49l6aP8 I feel like I'm a pretty good example of what blue pill refers to as personality being important or redpill in terms of game. 6'3, moderate body fat at around 13%, and I take alright care of my looks, clean teeth, no acne, and such. Also been approached by women a handful of times but my biggest issue is that my standards are extremely high I have been told this by friends and admit to it myself, not shy either when it comes to talking to guys. Might b…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 04:06 PM
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There are objective reasons that are hard facts like the risk of STDs, and correlation with divorce rates. Other things are still up in the air but I lean towards being true such as pair bonding if you don't think it is true that I fine but I lean towards it existing at least to some degree in humans. For personal reasons, I want someone with similar values and I straight up don't feel attraction to women with high body counts. There is a caveat and this is all in regard to marriage. Also since …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:55 PM
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I mean I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:47 PM
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Naw this stuff is funny, Also white privilege is just class privilege you are much more likely to do well if you are born in a northern state than southern one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:16 PM
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I wish we were https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N8mzQKl1LH8
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:56 PM
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I'll stay single thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 02:53 PM
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I agree this is also why being poor and obese growing up is no excuse to be poor and obese as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:06 PM
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If someone has no male friends and also has no female friends then yes that makes sense but then you can't really explain why some guys may have fruitful social lives but not romantic without getting into the things we debate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:20 PM
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Your last sentence makes you seem like you agree in part with me, also were you the one downvoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 01:17 PM
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Bro...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:37 AM
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I don't think so, you seem to mostly be looking for confirmation for your thoughts but from what I know many guys myself included can have fulfilling social lives but lack romantic relationships, that being said having a good friend group does make romantic relationships less of a pressing matter which I think is what a lot of guys who don't have friends or a romantic partner don't realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:36 AM
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I kinda find it gross if it goes that far and have no idea how the girls aren't embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:27 AM
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That's true but many of the men who are attackers are doing it against their own will and when they get the chance to surrender they do so. Even then many of the fighters defending Ukraine are volunteers which counters or at least weakens your analogy of being attackers and destroyers since if they are both the attackers are being forced against their will and the defenders are doing so mostly of their own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:26 AM
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From what I remember you were/are a Russian and left the country after the Ukraine conflict began so you may be more knowledgeable on this subject, that being said a quick google search reveals that women have equal voting rights and access to political, commercial, and social spheres of influence, they also have the privilege of being able to leave and not fighting to their deaths. In terms of westernization social media, movies, and such all exist in Ukraine even dating apps are used by Ukrain…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:24 AM
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I agree with not taking pride in something you haven't done but I don't see people critiquing women or minority groups when they do the exact same thing. Ukraine's interesting since it is westernizing fairly vast and within a couple of generations I would not be surprised if it has the same feminist movements as western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:11 AM
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This is already a thing? At my gym there is pretty much always at least one girl with jsut a top on and tight shorts, I support it since free test boost why not haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:08 AM
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The gender pay gap is a good example of privilege and not equality, it's eqaultiy if you good paid the same for the same work, not when you work less hours, do less dangerous work and are less willing to travel and such, if you think that women and men need to make the exact same on a total basis you are arguing that women desere to get paid more for working in less dangerous jobs and ones that have more benefits hence the privilege and not equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:04 AM
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I think after ukraine with all the women fleeing and the men either staying by choice to fight or being drafted(plus all the volunteers) whenever a women says that men aren't protectors and you can't take pride in being a man for that reasonm its a weak argument since it is quite clear that men are the oens who have fought and died in wars and will continue to do so, same for doing the jobs with high workpalce mortality that again men overwhelmingly do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 03:02 AM
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You are much more likely to get taken advantage of by a guy who is sexually successful than an incel, I do like how you are negatively thinking of a guy due to his lack of sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:14 PM
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Not from the sub but men generally speaking are better at working with things and women are better at working with people
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:06 PM
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Not my field of expertise but I will try to answer, men only have one set of x chromosomes since they are xy vs women are xx so if men have a bad gene it is more likely to be expressed whereas women have the other x to catch mistakes. This is probably a supper bad explanation but this means that disorders like autism are more likely to occur in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:05 PM
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There are three groups of guys, the first are sexless men who are around 30%-40% of young men, the 2nd is guys who occasionally get hookups or are in relationships(I think this group used to be the biggest and probably still is but may be losing ground to the sexless group in numbers) the last group is the guys who are either dating multiple women (I have a friend who has a girl in both his hometown and on campus) or getting hookups nonstop (Another friend who has had three hookups in one weeken…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:03 PM
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I was not expecting number 2 to be that bad, 1st one for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:06 PM
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Coaches don't play
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 04:02 PM
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I am my man almost got to 12% and I just pulled 445 on dl yesterday, you can't outlift autism though and if you can I still need to work a little harder haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:53 PM
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It's more skewed now, you have the chubby to overweight guys but then also the guys with 6 packs and crazy vascularity, the people who would have just been average (not fit nor fat) are now fat but the people who lift are a lot more fit if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:45 PM
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Not completely disagreeing but if the issue is women approaching men who are far more attractive than them maybe that is also an issue? Vs women not approaching at all since it is an easy cop-out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:38 PM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:30 PM
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They need to try harder when it comes to diet
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:16 PM
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Bro most of the people at my college both men and women are unfit, even the business kids are mostly chubby with a couple of moderately lean guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:59 PM
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I'd say the same for women, it's more that grown-ass people who can't cook or clean are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:57 PM
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Depends if I can tel someone is interested in listening in good faith I'll try to explain my point of view and provide sources but those people are rare and I match their tone and effort most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:56 PM
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That's weird ngl, is he bi?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:51 PM
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Sure not really disagreeing but someone can be a deep person and I might still not like their personality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:40 PM
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It's against sub-rules to downvote and also bad manners. I'll run through youe claims first women's social media is not exclusively tits or ass pics that is an exaggeration, that being said if regards to say tinder I would say a good at least 20% of the first photos of women are them in a bikini and I would hazard a guess to say higher but I don't have the stats. 2nd women don't only date gigachads they do tend to hook up with them in far higher rates and for your third example I have a chad fri…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:40 PM
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My deadlift maxed increased by 40 pounds in the past month if that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:07 PM
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Damm this are really good, the 2nd one especially
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:01 PM
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You're not missing much I avoid pretty much all social media and it is typically seen in a positive light from what I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:57 PM
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What claims are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:55 PM
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I don't know if that comparison is apt, tbh I think women are generally speaking pretty bad at judging men since to me it seems they rank men like this Good looking outgoing > outgoing okay looking > good looking introverted > introverted okay looking anything below a certain look range does not register. I would also say for men outgoing can sometimes be confident but often times women mistake narcissism for confidence and end up getting burned. I mean what do you mean by overly nice guys? Are …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:50 PM
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Not many, most women in my age group aren't married yet and I don't really know too many older married couples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:45 PM
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That's not really tradcons that is more of just crappy men who don't have to follow the tradcon beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:44 PM
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I agree, though I will say some overcorrect and are just rude when it is not called for I don't know the split between overall agreeable people and their counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:43 PM
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I mean I would prefer women who can stand up for themselves but are also not cheaters and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:50 PM
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Yeah, my mom is also the very selfless kind which is great since she raised all of us really well but when it comes to things like work and such I think she is too much of a pushover, that being said I want a woman who can stand up for herself but still is compassionate and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:49 PM
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I can already do both but if she can bake that is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:19 PM
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Ngl I don't really get a lot of the tradcon's desire to have a submissive housewife I've always found women who are super agreeable annoying and I would not mind marrying a career woman as long as she wants kids and has other similar values.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:17 PM
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6 months health wise I want to get to 12% body fat, other than that my school is going well and I start grad next fall so just half to finish up this next semester which should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:06 PM
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I honestly don't think height and dick size are all that important by your logic since I am 6'3 with a 7 and a halfer I should be doing well but I'm pretty socially awkward with women so it cancels out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:59 PM
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I agree once men can be happy with being single at the same rates as women I think a lot of animosity would go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:52 PM
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I've decided this account is a troll since even for a woman it is too outlandish.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:50 PM
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I don't use twitter or tiktok so maybe it is worse on those apps
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:24 PM
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Honestly, I'm a pretty online guy but I don't know any of the things you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:17 AM
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So normal people?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:43 PM
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If I remember Christmas has some of the most suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 06:41 PM
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Damm, what are you doing up there Canada? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ziLR9GSqT8
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 07:56 PM
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Don't worry we like your recaps more!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 02:17 PM
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I would look either in my workplace, college or through my friend groups. I think I would do fine since I have a lot of fuckboi friends and I know how to avoid them and if I was suddenly a girl today I can think of a couple of guys off the top of my head I think would make good bf's.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:58 PM
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https://www.vice.com/en/article/xwjngw/birth-control-might-change-who-women-feel-attracted-to has anybody experienced this either as woman not feeling attracted after not taking birth control or as a man whose partner stopped being attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:27 PM
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Was bullied a little until freshman year when I got yoked, also may have been a bully by accident on a few occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:24 PM
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Good ending
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:22 PM
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Looks like this sub is too confusing for bots.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:16 PM
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I don't know if you can be forced to commit a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:15 PM
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Mental clarity and potentially a small increase in free testosterone in the body.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:12 PM
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Honestly, I don't have a big problem with supporting Ukraine since Russia getting their ass kicked just makes the u.s. more secure as the global superpower but I hope NATO countries actually start fulfilling their funding obligations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:11 PM
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Not from thin air from our pockets, inflation is just taxes without voting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 09:10 PM
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It this a general question of how I would find a bf or is it an advice question?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:17 PM
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Religious or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 05:47 PM
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Do you guys think this chick is serious? https://www.youtube.com/shorts/KhqHwionx6s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:11 AM
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If that's true then yeah it's messed up, but in divorce, there are a lot of complicated factors with sometimes the mother turning the kids against the father and vice versa, don't know if I would make any broad statements over the topic since every case is unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:06 AM
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it really clear they have no interest in being fathers when they don’t have exclusive sexual access to the mother. What do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 01:34 AM
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I don't think guys have a problem with their wives working, but did you just say guys should have to share their significant other that they want to have children with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 08:00 PM
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While remember suicide is always an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:30 PM
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I think intrinsically speaking men need a goal to work towards or they decay, for most of history that was having a family. Now that is no longer an option for many they just go through life. I know a lot of men who just have their careers and save all their money and that will probably end up being me except I'll travel.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 03:24 PM
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Kinda sounds like your a simp
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:26 PM
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Did you hit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:57 AM
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I assume you paid for all the dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 02:30 AM
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I've never really liked the term "the wall" when referencing age since to me the wall has always been when you stop being about to get what you desire from the dating scene if your goal is to be happily married with kids and you achieve that you never hit the wall per se, however, if the goal is easy hookups as a woman the wall may happen. For men though would it not be a reverse wall? I know a lot of guys that once they get their career job, house, and the first nice car suddenly become success…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:32 PM
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Congrats
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 02:07 PM
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I've already done the weight loss which is why I am working on my wardrobe now. I don't know my exact bf% but I am getting it measured in a week
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:57 PM
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That makes sense, I don't plan on keeping up with the fashion too much since I like classic menswear and just need to figure out how to build around that. I would say my biggest issue is a have really large shoulders and arms but my stomach is not small but it is more into my body than my just so unless I wear something tighter my shirts hang making me look fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:43 PM
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Yeah that is out of my price range I am a student and there is definitely a brand price that you are paying for their goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:32 PM
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I might try adding khakis since I like nice jeans but they seem to be a little out of style for college guys at least, do you know a lot about fashion? since if possible I would like to ask a couple of questions explaining what I have and what I want to add.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:20 PM
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Interesting they used to be center and non-biased but I guess it changed https://mediabiasfactcheck.com/npr/
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:17 PM
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Oh yeah I should have clarified that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:11 PM
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I'll wait to comment since the hearing is ongoing but even neutral sources like npr seem to paint a pretty bad picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 09:01 PM
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What are some good business casual brands for clothes that are durable and good quality but that I am not paying for the brand price?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:47 PM
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What exactly are you referring to right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:45 PM
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What I already do which is workout, school, and internships/jobs in the summer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:43 PM
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Hey, I also think the FBI messed up when it came to the hunter Biden investigation, but there is a big difference between the son of the president being corrupt and the president being corrupt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:38 PM
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Naw bro most of the biggest consumers of that content are ethnic minorities whose dream is that or cucks like that one user here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:09 PM
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There is a pretty good documentary over the whole thing, it is by the new york times and unless you really go into the subject it is worse than you think. Asking the vp not the allow the vote to go through is undermining our democracy I say this as a center right person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:07 PM
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Nice, maybe I'll train strength at some point but I want to be a certain size and leanness first while I'm young and have the time/energy to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:16 PM
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Photos also matter, a guy can be great looking but if his photos are trash it's going to hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:14 PM
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I can rate you as well, also unless you are exceptionally above average being approached is rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:13 PM
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For 5 reps? I think I could get 450 but I have just been deadlifting once per week since I do bodybuilding and sometimes lift heavy for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 04:01 PM
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Bro, I'm not too big on either party but at least the left did not try to overturn the government. Old school democrats are pretty stat driven.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:59 PM
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I don't think that it is a thing except maybe in super rare circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:17 PM
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For men, intelligence is not as negatively linked to fertility for women it is that the effect is far greater. Also in terms of eugenics, most of our abortion policy is just eugenics by another name, there are also positive eugenics and negative eugenics. Positive is not forced while negative is. I'm actually going to take a step back since for this subject there are some criticisms about the authors and the research methods. I did find a recent paper that seems to just talk about the negative l…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:16 PM
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I'm not smart enough to answer that question, all I know is the obesity is costing us a disgusting amount of money and that needs to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:02 PM
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I don't want to say it has been fully debunked, look into the pregnancy pay gap that is a real thing and I also think it is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:00 PM
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Around 225 6'3 I am getting my bodyfat measured in a week so we will see how lean I am then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:00 PM
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Around 225 6'3 I am getting my bodyfat measured in a week so we will see how lean I am then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:59 PM
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If we take the statement that men on average and on the extreme end are more intelligent than women as a fact or at least a possibility a couple of ideas can be presented. The first is that having a totally equal society (politics, business, science) is impossible due to the small but statistically significant difference so any policy that pushes for total equality will in fact be asking for privilege, not equality. There is another issue which is that women's education is negatively linked to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 03:30 AM
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I think I'd need steroids for that or figure out how to go super saiyan.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:53 AM
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Honestly, I'm not against public healthcare, I just think like so many things I don't trust the u.s government to do it. If healthy people (non-obese, non-smokers, non-drinkers, etc) had lower rates than those who are unhealthy of their own choice, I think I would be fine with that. It would be better than this half-and-half bullshit that screws everyone but the insurance companies over.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:44 AM
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Q4A Is 405x5 for deadlift good? If not what is a good number?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:31 AM
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I was about to post that haha fucking hell
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:29 AM
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U.S. healthcare is in part so expensive since the public is super unhealthy (obesity is the most obese thing pretty much ever) and that we subsidize the research for the rest of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:28 AM
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I don't even know any good ones that aren't taken right now so I assume it only gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:14 AM
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It is meaningless without relevant controls but the pay gap that is 82 cents to a man's dollar does not account for controls that is why I have said it is debunked, this is a good example of what I am talking about https://www.forbes.com/sites/evangerstmann/2019/06/06/dispelling-myths-about-the-gender-pay-gap/?sh=5d2a450346fa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:10 AM
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If we have systems that stop people from not getting jobs they aren't qualified for would that not mean we have an efficient society? Do you mean we have systems in place that stop people from getting jobs they are qualified for?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 02:07 AM
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I'll add this since you can make the statement that there is no sex differances or that they are they are negligible since that is a statement supported by numerous researchers and studies and it is not a settled issue. I still think I hold the more correct position from my current understanding of research methodology and stats but again I could be wrong. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0160289604000492?via%3Dihub This does a good job of presenting both positions, also if…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:54 PM
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My apologies maybe I got us off-track, I'm going to break down my response to hopefully clarify. First, for the pay gap, they don't account for job type in the gross pay gap, and even when they do they don't control for hours worked, experience, and other factors typically. Most of my argument for the pay gap boils down to men working more hours and taking on more dangerous work with intelligence maybe playing a small role. I do agree that pay is generally based on performance. Also, I assume by…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:41 PM
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Not just online but in person as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 10:23 PM
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Looking at both the extremes and averages men do come out ahead. I would also say most of the factors you list for the pay gap discussion are trainable and intelligence is less so. You also skipped over the workplace death difference and all the other issues I brought up. So I think I have brought up some good points. What would it take you to see whether that is evidence-wise or even just argument-wise that might make you understand my viewpoint, if there is none please say since I don't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:53 PM
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Is that true?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:49 PM
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Sounds like she was a keeper
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:26 PM
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Maybe but probably not as bad as doing hookup culture until your 30s. This is anecdotal but the most well-adjusted friend I have is engaged and he is 21. Another friend who owns a business and is finishing his master's is also 23 and married with a kid on the way, he is also a super happy dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:21 PM
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I disagree being logical is what we need more of not less. If everyone made logical choices like waiting until you are stable and have a career before having kids, not overeating if you are overweight, and such the world would be a much better place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:16 PM
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It's true that it is a complex subject and there are probably people who know more about it and offer better solutions and right now I don't think I would want a total restructuring of society but just an honest look at reality. I'll give an example of what I would like to see, in my hr class the professor brought up the pay gap and it is still touted as a thing even though when looking at factors like hours worked and such it shrinks to around less than two percent and that is not even accounti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 09:12 PM
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You are correct and I have read through the Wikipedia page and a couple of others as well. The link I provided shows that it is most likely overall IQ as well in favor of men and once we get into the nitty gritty there is even some evidence to show men aren't being brought up properly and if they were they may score higher. I plan on doing a deep dive into this topic once I take my graduate stats course since I am mostly interested in this subject from purely wanting to know the truth. The ramif…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:30 PM
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I think I'm better than most people and most of what I do in life (fitness, grad school) and such is so I can not be hypocritical in my thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:17 PM
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I was making a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:11 PM
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In my world that is the best outcome since being settled for and or settling is honestly pretty sad all around and I would rather men have to be single so that they can just focus on living their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:11 PM
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I think gen z dating is pretty varied with no real pattern. Ghosting is common with pretty much everyone having experienced it which is a good observation. Personally, I think dating is now you either doing really well or don't get anything but maybe that has always been the case Pareto Principe and all. I'm curious about if guys are going to settle down with women (if the women even want to settle down) since I know a lot of cases of men dating/sleeping with multiple women and at least to me un…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:26 AM
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Pretty firmly middle class, my dad was from a umc family, and my mom a working one, I am most likely to end up in umc with my career trajectory but I have friends from both. Also close to Chicago since my dad used to work in the sears tower. I don't want to dox myself but it is the only big city in Indiana. So the point I was going to make is that red pill guys on here talking about how women sleep around vs women on here saying most women don't want community dick and such are both truthful sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:04 AM
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They either wallow in self-pity and kill themselves, or kill others and then themselves. Not the best outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:02 AM
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I think it's pretty clear that single men are more dangerous to society than single women, how we address that is still being determined but disliking it seems to be the approach for the past couple of years but now it seems to be being reexamined and we are still figuring out what to do. Also women tend to lie to themselves more hence the fat acceptance movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:36 AM
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Better to be alone than to settle I think this stands for both men and women, if people would actually work on themselves to the point where they were worthy of what they want there would be a lot fewer fat people around and a lot more couples who actually brought more into the relationship making them better all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:33 AM
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Before I respond what social class would you consider yourself and your friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:32 AM
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I think if women had consistently high standards that don't only apply to looks I would be fine with that. What we get is women have high physical standards for casual sex, but then lower those later when it comes to relationships. If she has high standards and never lowers them that is fine, the lowering later is what bothers me and a lot of other guys I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:00 AM
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Watch the they do not what they say, at least in my experience I have seen women go for the hot guy/player almost at every chance that they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:57 AM
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It's kinda weird when you actually start applying the principles, I woke up this morning and thought about skipping the gym for maybe three seconds before getting ready for the gym haha. Besides meditations have you read anything else? I am not too big on philosophy but it seems pretty useful so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:46 AM
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Looks are the biggest factor that both women and men look for in a partner. Men are honest about it generally speaking, and again generally speaking women are less honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:40 AM
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I'm 6'3 so I guess I barely pass for tall and I don't really care about women's height preferences, don't really know any guys who really care about what women think more than what they look and how they act. I do have a friend who only dates 6'0+ dudes and while that did not make me think less of her there were other things combined with that which made me not want to be with her romantically if that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:37 AM
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I'm fine with women as smart or smarter than me, and even a little dumber but not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:22 PM
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Yeah, and if you can show me good evidence to the contrary I will look through it since for a topic like this I want to be certain that I am as correct as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:19 PM
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Sure here you go, https://www.nature.com/articles/nature04966 you can also look on Wikipedia and check their sources since it is not a for sure thing that's why I said 90% certainty. I plan on looking into this again once I take a grad stats course so maybe I am wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 07:01 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:59 PM
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While there is the study that took into account names, and there is the other explanation I gave which is that for a period women have a developmental advantage that later goes away. Also, there could be another explanation in which someone posted that attractive people get better grades when it is subjective work which I think a case could be made for. That being said I think to at least a small extent women are graded easier "because they're women!"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 09:05 PM
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Weirdly enough when I was overweight I hated fat people way more than now when I am fit. I just feel sad for really obese people and try to help those around me and luckily my family all live healthy lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:58 PM
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I would say men are physically stronger than women on average which at least to me would mean they are better, on the mental side I am about 90% certain that both on average and on the extreme ends men are slightly more intelligent than women (around 4 IQ points on average on more on the extreme ends) which explains why most scientific breakthroughs are made by men. Not saying there aren't women who have made major scientific breakthroughs just in lesser numbers. My current position is that all …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:52 PM
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I think there are multiple factors in play, one that is not often talked about is that men start brain development slightly later than women but it goes on slightly longer as well. So women have an advantage in middle school to early college but around 25 men seem to come out ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 08:47 PM
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Remember 93% and 100% are the same GPA wise at least at my college. It's a fine line though getting 93/94% every semester without overshooting or undershooting. I think my GPA will end up being a 3.97 something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:03 PM
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Are they though?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:00 PM
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I think he is talking about studies that showed that English papers with female names were graded higher than ones with male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:45 PM
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I mean how do you want me to prove my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:38 PM
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Maybe you become vitamin d deficient from not enough sun?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:40 AM
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The manga or anime?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:30 PM
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Have you tried rice?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:24 PM
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I honestly can't tell when talking to you if you deliberately misinterpret what I say out of malice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:16 PM
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That's true, I would add that some people don't drink either due to religious or personal reasons so not wanting to be with people who do could be a legit reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:13 PM
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Lowkey I honestly don't think bars are that great of a place to meet women that a lot of guys here are tying to find if we are talking about hookups sure go ahead. However, if you are trying to find someone to be in an ltr I would recommend either your classes(a lot of guys in here are college students) and most likely the rec center.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 09:00 PM
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I believe it, I can find multiple people attractive but if I am going on dates and such I am only focused on that one person, kinda sucks since I need to get quicker with turnaround in trying to find women who are interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:38 PM
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I don't know of any evidence of pair bonding in humans but I also don't know any disproving it either. There is evidence of the number of partners and divorce rates but correlation does not equal causation and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:32 PM
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This is such bullshit, I know so many guys myself included who if the right women came around they would be at the altar within a year(exaggeration). The issue is many guys either get burned or realize they can't find anyone and many either check out of dating or they decide to just take what comes (hookups).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 08:23 PM
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It's a classic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:22 PM
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Not all but a lot of guys I know go into dating with good intentions but as soon as she starts playing games they switch from I was planning on dating but if I can hit it that is also fine. It is like trying to get salvage value after a bad investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:13 PM
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One of my friends worked in Alaska fishing for a summer, good money but you pretty much sign away most employment rights you have when you are on the boats.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:09 PM
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You sound like a cheater to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 03:08 PM
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And I wish people like you both male and female would be up-front about it. Talking is one thing but if we are going on dates and I hear you are with other men that is a deal breaker. What gets me is I know both men and women who sleep/date multiple people at once but hide it which if it is not a problem should just be said upfront. Not saying you don't but in my experience, many people myself included are got by surprise when stuff like this is pulled. Exclusivity should be the assumption in da…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:49 PM
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I lean towards simulation theory tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 04:04 PM
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I would say that many women/men have a sunk cost with their partner and if they leave all the effort they have put in will go to waste, now there are also women who do jump ship but I would say both are pretty common. That is women stay with bad men and women leave good men for a better opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:55 PM
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That's actually what I do, I think self-aware gym bros are the future. Just don't look at my unrealized gains ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 03:44 PM
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To be clear in many developing countries it is only the wealthy and powerful men that have rights, not all men, many are used as fodder to die for the people in charge's benefit. When it comes to the u.s and other western countries I don't think how you can reasonably argue that society at large is unsupportive of women when you look at the programs in place for them affirmative action from k-12 and into college and the workplace, generally support from the largest political parties, better trea…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 01:11 AM
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I am extremely confused by what you are saying but are you from a third or second-world country where women don't have rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:58 AM
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I have and that's what matters and multiple times at that, also I am fairly confidant that at least one man on this sub actually followed through with suicide most likely not from this sub but just issues facing men in general, their are a couple others who I am uncertain if they just stopped posting or deleted their accounts. Both misandrists and misogynists post here, if you can't handle the negative without becoming either I would honestly recommend you just avoid this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:47 AM
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It's a strawman we have had posts about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:38 AM
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I mean yeah if you read something negative about a group that you belong to you may feel bad, the thing is you are here choosing to read it. Also, I hate to use both sides are bad argument but multiple women on here have said they are fine with unsuccessful men killing themselves so there is a difference between "hey I personally don't want to marry a woman who has been with a football team" and "men who are incels should kill themselves" I don't complain about the ladder and while you can compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:11 AM
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Is this a troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 11:35 PM
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Look I think this sub may have been a little too negative for you and most of everything is not meant to be taken seriously if you go out in the real life most men and women act a lot better compared to here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:25 PM
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Interesting, do you max out often or just once every couple of weeks or months? From what I know double linear progression is one of the best ways to increase both strengths and promote hypertrophy. But it sounds like your routine is working and props to you for doing bench most, women at my gym don't and I won't comment as to why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:19 PM
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All in one day? that is a lot of volume.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:11 PM
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A good woman can bring a lot of value to a man's life whether that is companionship as a romantic partner and a best friend, a partner in marriage and kids who wants the best future for us, and much more, however, there are very few single women out there that I would say are good, same for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:04 PM
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Aren't you a lawyer, I know public side gets paid less but is it that bad up north?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:00 PM
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Flat bench sucks, db incline bench is where it is at for chest growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 03:58 PM
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Back at yeah, "finger guns"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:43 AM
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What if you can see the veins through a shirt? When I deadlift and then do biceps my bicep vein is visible through my shirt and I think it looks pretty cool but maybe it is a guy thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:09 AM
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CMV: Lifter's elbow is the shittiest thing ever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 04:07 AM
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This is nothing too crazy, but each to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:59 AM
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More of a dadbod like this? https://cf.girlsaskguys.com/a28280/788f2dfc-717a-4b76-9d21-1caf702bbbd8.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:30 AM
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Thanks, I think for me I spend too much time on one women when not even dating and need to be able to go from strangers to friends to dating with a quicker turnaround as to find who I am looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 03:02 AM
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I think at 12% is about perfect if we are talking what women like but 9% is what men really like
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:49 AM
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Oh that's easy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:48 AM
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Pretty much I have mostly finished working on myself and I still have some hope that I will find someone for me but my plan is to focus on being happy long-term without a partner. I still really want to have kids but I am having trouble finding women who meet my standards and are also interested in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:47 AM
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Like how many forearm veins visible? when I cut I have definition in around 6 but I know guys with way more vascularity but less size.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:27 AM
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Q4W Bicep vein yay or nay? https://i.ytimg.com/vi/Ej0JAXS18FE/maxresdefault.jpg Q4M Favorite body part to workout? For me it's chest
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:14 AM
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What is black Christmas music, the opposite of this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A9ibhWgMlso
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:11 AM
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I've not fully quit but I am reading meditations by marcus aurelius, I am not super into stoicism as a lifestyle but it has some useful teachings.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:01 AM
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But what about if their ass is bigger than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 01:49 AM
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Make a quick protein shake, frozen banana, berries, greek yogurt, milk, spinach, and maybe some peanut butter if you need more calories, also the protein powder of course. This may be a lot for you to eat pre-gym so maybe like some others said just some fruit or a protein bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:52 PM
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I might try this but I am not particularly trying to find someone anymore, been on dates, gone to parties/bars, and done all that but found out that most people both men and women don't add much to my life, so now I just have my plans such as school/career and if I am able to find someone and we have mutual interest that is great but I have been looking for around a year and it just got tiring and some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:43 PM
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Honestly yes, I only make friends with people who interest me or that have similar hobbies, and speaking honestly most girls don't. Also, the whole making friends with girls in order to to get access to their friend group does not seem to be a thing but maybe I'll ask one of them to set me up.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 04:01 PM
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It's not that bad, but if a guy with no social sense goes up to a random girl and asks her name it may seem a little weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:29 PM
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I don't particularly buy the idea that if you have a lot of male friends and acquaintances you'll also meet their female friends as well since I have a large male social group that I am pretty happy with and while many have girlfriends and friends who are girls they are typically still in a separate social space.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:27 PM
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Does that mean I am a chad for cooking most of my own meals and eating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/22 03:23 PM
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I don't follow the red pill but the most sexually sussful guys I know seem to follow it but without actually knowing about it. They talk to multiple women at once through dating apps, bars, clubs and parties They dress nice and have a no-lose player attitude and while dressing nice is not redpill they wear things like gold chains and clothes that signal wealth They are typically wealthy owning nice cars and living in upscale apartments in my city, redpill talks about women liking wealth/money an…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:29 PM
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To be clear you could be correct in that socialization and how we measure things like IQ is biased against women but I assume you want to tweak it enough to where it is equal whether through targeted programs or changing the test parameters. Society has already been targeting women for higher level education for a while and it shows whether that is college graduation levels far outpacing men and even income for women in their 20s beating men but for what? I am all for equality and if women want …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:22 PM
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I know the argument that you are making is that if an equal number of women and men were pushed into playing chess at the same rates eventually a women's world chess champion would appear. What I am saying is that due to minuscule differences that do not matter for 99% of the population and jobs men typically perform better when it comes to the extremes. We have no problem acknowledging that more men are mentally disabled and have disorders such as autism since it paints men in a bad light but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 05:14 PM
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Biology is not sexist men are average and seem to at least have better spatial reasoning and to my understanding on the extreme end, men's IQs are higher. It's not sexist to point that out. It's like saying the sky is blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:32 PM
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Yeah, I think due to the generational differences women of the older generations 50+ just can't really understand how different the world is in current times whether that is career-wise or relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:53 AM
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Maybe if that is what is takes you to be happy. I think for me if I am in a committed relationship where I am going to marry/am married to someone I would not want them to have wandering eyes nor would I have them either. I am not saying that having thoughts that someone is attractive is wrong but acting out on those thoughts in any way is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:21 AM
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I don't know but maybe I am old-fashioned if my wife was talking about how great some roided up celebrity abs were I would drop her on the spot. I would also never go on about how great some celebrities' body is as well. We are better than our monkey brains and repressing some things is needed like how we repress destructive tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:13 AM
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Midwest, not going to say more than that since it is a big school. I honestly think it is due to the professor being an older woman and she really knows her stuff I only disagree with her on this one issue and the pay gap since it was true for her generation but does not hold true anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:08 AM
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Perhaps in the past, nowadays I don't think that is as true, cheating among the genders is almost the same and I don't know how you could measure who leaves more after being successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:05 AM
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If what it took to have a happy marriage was my wife masturbating to other men I would rather die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:02 AM
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or that women most likely have a disadvantage when it comes to spatial reasoning vs men. This is why I can confidently make the claim that there will never be a women's world chess champion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 01:00 AM
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The class ceiling was talked about in my hr class last week so it is still thought of as a thing even though it has pretty much been shown to be due to personal choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:52 AM
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Is this cuck culture? https://imgix.bustle.com/uploads/image/2018/5/14/aca8de5f-2ad2-4c99-ad2d-a97076c2eb8d-pigeon-meme-feature.jpg?w=1200&h=630&fit=crop&crop=faces&fm=jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:46 AM
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Both my dad and one of my uncles were successful businessmen making mid-six figures in the 1980s, three others were lawyers, and not of them left their wives. It's a lot like if two people are good and trust each other they stay around.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:41 AM
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I don't know of a single man who has ever left their wife once they become successful this is in my entire family and friend group, not saying men don't do it but maybe it varies by culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:28 PM
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Any in the top right but the slime one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:27 PM
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A very small effect is still effective but while I don't use it anymore it has never affected my confidence about my penis size or performance. I honestly think it is mostly a placebo but my biggest reason for not using porn is that I am more outgoing, motivated, and crazy enough I think my lifts in the gym are slightly better but again it is probably a placebo. I do think it is negative for young men since I think I first watched it around 12 and overused it, I definitely felt lethargic I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:13 AM
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I would say refraining from it together is better than porn use but just my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:58 AM
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I would say that some men think porn is okay but most know it is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:54 AM
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Are you arguing that porn in moderation is okay? Also if we are talking about fitness I am at my most fit now when I am avoiding eating out and cooking from my house so I don't think your first sentence proves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:53 AM
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I think it can be damaging to young men since it creates an easy escape for them at a young age when they are exposed to extremely strong external stimuli that may have a negative impact on their sexual development. Mostly anecdotal but I do they guys are more willing to work on themselves if they are not watching porn and I would bet young adults who were never exposed to it as children have better life outcomes but I don't think I can prove that maybe once the idea that is damaging becomes mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:50 AM
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Maybe but what I am saying it that at least half of men don't think porn use is bad. it can be similar to how most people know that McDonalds is bad but many still eat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:38 AM
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Someone on here made the claim that men overwhelmingly support porn use in the video linked below 1 was for it, 1 neutral but lean towards not liking it and 4 were against it, another guy was neutral. I have also asked a couple of my friends in real life and all were against it. So unless someone can provide me a recent study of men saying how great porn is I think I can state that at least of the men in my life porn is generally regarded as a negative and not something to be praised. https://ww…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:31 AM
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Airfryer, ricemaker, and a good blender , I am not good at cooking but if you want to make tasty and healthy food for yourself you can't go wrong with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:39 AM
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From what I have heard women can date up if they approach since some guys are so unused to it that they might consider giving someone a chance that they would not have otherwise. I've been approached by women only a handful of times and while I did not return the interest I still remember each encounter since it is so rare. Also I think it was actually a woman who first put forward the idea in either a article or book if I remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:35 AM
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I'd argue that communication is more important than how many partners someone has had sex with with regard to great sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:31 AM
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Maybe but it would be circumstantial, if they were already cheated on and then cheated I would still think they are in the wrong but may still be friends if they admit what they did was wrong. If they cheat all the time of their SO I would not want a person like that in my friend group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:27 AM
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The 80/20 rule or Pareto principle came up today in one of my classes and I had to stop myself from saying I already knew what it was when asked since I did not want to have to answer why I knew it haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:16 AM
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Q4A is two dozen eggs a week too many, too few, or just right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 02:10 PM
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I would not call her hot but definitely attractive, what would you even consider hot than?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 01:57 PM
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I think if a country cannot get people to fight for it without a draft than it is failing in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:49 AM
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So I would go from 6'3 to 5'11 which may bring me down to a 5/10 since I think my height and build combination pump me up to a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:43 AM
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Reddit is one thing and real life is another, maybe since I have a middle/upper-middle-class religious background this skews my view but most men around me don't glorify porn as you say. I'll say this society in general will take advantage of men's sexuality as it does of women's desire to be attractive but I don't think one group is substantially worse when it comes to saying porn is okay with plenty of women promoting it for financial benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:14 PM
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I don't think we know exactly the cause of low sperm count since some of it is due to obesity and other parts might be due to microplastics but this research is still new. Also, no one is forcing obese people to eat unhealthy food and drink sugary drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:09 PM
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If women are hypergamous they are trash at it considering how average iq is decreasing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:45 AM
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I was the one who said they were negative and I think I am fine with making that statement. Also, you say that men are arguing for the exploitation of boys but can you give an example similar to the one I gave about female streamers exploiting boys? Also, how can you prove that men have collectively agreed that we are fine with our sexuality being exploited? I have never met a man who touted that porn was awesome and this does not even get into porn addiction which the vast majority of men devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:24 AM
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Mmm I don't particularly disagree with anything you said except for maybe downplaying how great an effect not having a partner can have. I honestly believe that while you can be fulfilled while being single for the vast majority of people both men and women having someone else is a borderline necessity to live a fulfilling life. Not saying that having a partner is enough and many times people are so afraid of being single that they tolerate negative relationships. ​ I am also going to say that f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:08 AM
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I agree with you that the porn industry and strip clubs are negative and no good man would support them. Bars, clubs, and festivals are a little iffier since some people just go with friends or if they go to hookup they sexualize themselves(both men and women). Media is a really large term so could you be more specific about how they leverage women? Also do you not think women at least have some part to play in sexualizing themself to benefit from men? A good example is female twitch streamers w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:00 AM
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Okay, I think I understand you but I don't think that takes away from my original point which if you can in good faith trust me is that "for men in my age range the leading cause of preventable death is suicide" which I think it a big issue and could maybe be at least partially caused by lack of having a partner, also you seem to know these stats but don't a good portion of men often commit suicide after they are divorced? if this is not true you can ignore that point but it may add some substan…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:48 AM
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I don't think you're really disagreeing with me. I don't support dating apps since they are negative for men and create a greater divide between the genders but I would also be against them for pretty much all the reasons you listed. What confuses me is that you argue that obesity is a societal issue due to corporations targeting consumers but on the other hand you don't really seem to have a problem when they prey on me but maybe I am misunderstanding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:44 AM
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Is that not because we have the lowest risk of death from health-related issues? If a group of men who are predominantly healthy is mostly dying from suicide that seems to be an issue. I am looking at the NVSS and if you have one that accounts for race and age maybe I am just reading the data wrong or we are looking at different things. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/nvss/leading-causes-of-death.htm I'll admit I may have misspoken since sometimes I mix up the leading preventable cause of death and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:32 AM
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I know that I am firmly against obesity and also want to address suicide, my point is to show hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:23 AM
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For my age range suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death and I think when accounting for race number 1 so I am not referring to older and middle-aged people. But if they are also committing suicide that is an issue as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:22 AM
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I do think childhood obesity is sad since I myself experienced it, however, I would say being obese is more of a personal issue vs being abler to find a valuable partner as I have had no issue dealing with the former but am still working on the ladder. I think the hesitance to admit that there may be a societal issue that is causing people to not want to acknowledge men's loneliness as an issue as some would take it as women being at fault which is not the argument I am making.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:18 AM
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For my age group suicide is the leading cause of death not obesity, but maybe this reflects how young men's lives are just valued less.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:16 AM
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Companies also take advantage of men's desire to find a partner (tinder, bumble, and pretty much every dating app.) Also, since when have corporations been held responsible for the ever-increasing obesity epidemic? The kid's meal is still I thing and from my understanding cereals can still advertise on kids' channels but perhaps that has changed. I never said women can't be manipulated into relationships or having sex so that is a non-point. Both men and women are treated like products, men ofte…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:14 AM
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Oh, I member!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 02:01 AM
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It's a little interesting to me how some individuals have no problem equating men's relationship/romantic issues as a personal problem of the men(I mostly agree with this) but then when it comes to issues like obesity it suddenly becomes a fault of society even though most obese people are overweight due to there own fault. Maybe this is a bad comparison but I'd like to hear why if anyone disagrees with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:54 AM
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It's weird I remember when the daily chat used to not even get 1k comments but now that is just blown out of the water. Also, mods are we ever going to have a survey again?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:32 AM
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Zero
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:25 AM
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My graphing calculator has color and I bet your's doesn't I also have a financial calculator as well /Iamverysmart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:24 AM
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Excuse me it's the attic. there's a difference!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:22 AM
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Nice, that's an accomplishment for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:29 AM
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If we are being honest no one can really prove anything so we really should not be giving anyone advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 12:04 AM
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My original point is that what you seemed to be recommending is for her to wait and enjoy her youth which is something that could maybe be contributing to women not being happy later. Anyways maybe it doesn't and I don't really care either way so have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:32 PM
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The point that I am making is that by and large women's happiness has been decreasing and mental health issues like depression and suicide have been on the rise for 30-year-old+ women. I most likely agree with you on the waiting a couple of years part since I think it is probably best to be engaged/married for roughly 5 years so around 27 to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:32 PM
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I think you are straw-manning or either conflating two groups as another user said.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:07 PM
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I don't think you are giving the advice out of malice but what seems to be the current result of women enjoying their youth? Talking purely from a happiness perspective does it seem like 30+ year-old women are now happy in today's age?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:06 PM
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I don't think there is an objective answer here if that is what you are looking for. To me, the "betternesses" of someone is what net positive that they contribute to society/humanity. That means that to me an addict who robs others to fuel their addiction is a net negative on the world and a heart surgeon who saves lives is a net positive on the world. This is not an end-all example and I could make a million caveats but I think my general point makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:53 PM
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Thank you I worked hard for this privilege and gosh dang I am going to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:50 PM
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That's what I eat in the morning for breakfast, male privilege strikes again haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:31 PM
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2800-3200, If I want to lose weight 2800, maintain 3,000 and gain 3,200+
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:25 PM
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I've only had to use WhatsApp for a language exchange for a class and I think most people in the u.s use messenger.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 03:24 PM
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Just air fry them and you can eat them fine, or workout and gain some muscle and than you can continue you old diet while staying at the same weight with a lower bodyfat%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:07 PM
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Fellas, is it a red flag if a chick brags about hes husband on purple pill debate? I'd say yes
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:24 PM
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There used to be one every summer I think but the mods have been lazy recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 03:05 AM
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I'm not advocating for women to have sex with men they don't want to and speaking honestly I think a lot of guys deserve to be sexless due to personal issues whether that is mental health, physical, or otherwise. There was another post about red flags in men and one that stuck out to me is that guys (myself included) who were not successful with women when young (not talking about getting laid but just general romantic relations like going to prom with someone and such) aren't going to be good p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:29 AM
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Because men are people and if their concerns are legitimate they should maybe be listened to. There is a major difference between guys complaining about not getting laid which I am not defending but many men myself included just want some basic respect and empathy, for example, it can be as simple as shooting me a text on why you don't want a second date vs ghosting since if I am treated poorly by a group (in this case women) I am going to be less sympathetic and care less about what issues they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:12 AM
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We are going to enter a recession/have already entered one and when this occurs it will look kinda bad, but the hope is that the inefficiencies we have with our current society will be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:29 PM
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Call it pseudo-science, but I've had great success with nofap I don't use their Reddit page or anything but I think it definitely gives a small boost in the gym and at the bars, it is probably placebo but if it works than does it even matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:20 AM
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This is pretty good ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:04 AM
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I not i and you not u
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:48 AM
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Honestly, you might want to go to the campus gym, make study groups in your classes, or join a frat or a sports team. Also what makes you think you are going to be a foreveraloner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:45 AM
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Yeah I have a rule now if someone flakes twice in a row or is slow to respond for no good reason I just wish them luck and move on, it is what I would do if I was in your situation from what you have described
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:43 AM
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affirmative action
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 01:06 AM
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Intelligence is also correlated to wealth so that could also be the actual reason and not intelligence itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:21 PM
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One of my friends banged 3 different chicks this weekend Friday-Sunday and good for him but it really makes me think twice about actually getting married to a girl knowing they have been run through so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:19 PM
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What do you currently do in college to meet new friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:58 PM
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Unironically with how many women I have had flake on me the excuses kinda just blend together and I don't even know if they are being honest. Like I would still drop him for being rude but it is also not a crazy thing to think a girl is lying when you have heard a million excuses before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:56 PM
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The old married women here do annoy me sometimes, its like go away and spend time with your husband if your so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 10:31 PM
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Amongst my age group, suicide is the 2nd leading cause of death and when accounting for race as well it is either the leading or gets close to being the leading cause. So it is not mostly older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 10:47 PM
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zoning, the answer you are looking for is zoning laws. In many places, both democrat and republican they make sure that only single-family homes can be built in order to keep their house value high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 09:56 PM
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This sounds childish and like a waste of my time, we have grown adults both men and women out here acting like children who can't do basic communication. Being direct I would say is the best way to actually see if someone is interested and if they are not just move on and with all the time you saved you might be able to find someone you actually want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 08:53 PM
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Sure exceptions exist but they are exceptions and unless I encounter one they are irrelevant. Your point about people getting hung up about not liking your past self is true if it is in regards to things like behavior or looks things that can be improved and show a positive change in behavior, what I would fault people for is for a change in extrinsic things like wealth which while important should not change who a person was before and after they acquire it. When I was referring to suicide I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 10:33 PM
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It's not a 100% thing either and I would rather be proven wrong than right when it comes to finding someone who would make me change the views I hold but it would have to be because they are exceptional and not me lowering my standards and settling. Also, you say that they want to wait to see who made it out stable but there are two issues I have with that, the 1st is arent they just waiting to see who comes out on top and are going to pick the winners and 2nd if the guys who succeed in the part…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:49 PM
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Oh, I drink plenty and party pretty much every weekend, don't do drugs since I am on a scholarship but otherwise likely would. When it comes to waiting to later and then settling down that is not going to happen I was talking to a friend earlier today and we pretty much have the exact same thought process which is if someone does not want to be with us now when we are both young and ready to build something together they cannot than join in once we have already done the building. I have two year…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:33 AM
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Alright, I'll post my workout tomorrow instead it is back day so I'll try to get some good numbers to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:26 AM
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I would disagree with it being similar to say finding yourself in an echo-chamber online, these people are from different aspects of my life, school, gym, family, clubs, and such and it is so widespread and common that is undeniable that men think marraige is a bad idea at least from my personal experiences. Also, I am still going to try to find someone I can marry and have kids with but I am also gonig to plan for that not happening and having something I can fall back on in order to bring happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 02:05 AM
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Yeah but I guess my question is now what we do now that the lie is exposed. The people my age who seem happiest are the ones who care least about the long-term and just live in the moment. They take drugs, drink, hook up, and all that jazz which can be fun but is not that fulfilling at least to me. And as a whole things aren't that dismal most people I know are doing fine/well socially, financially, and romantically it just seems like the thing called "love" that I grew up believing in is fake a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:55 AM
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Yeah, I made a little bit of a joke and asked if he was redpill or something. I am more of blackpill with some parts of bluepill mattering such as being funny and such but how you look is ultimately what matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:33 AM
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I honestly don't know the solution, I also would love to have kids and a family but I don't think that is a realistic idea anymore. Many of the guys who give me this advice were in my position in the past and pretty much every one of them has been burned and they have found happiness either through their career or hobbies. I do know at the moment suicide is the leading cause of death for my demographic in my country and I honestly think a large part of that is that guys are realizing that the dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:26 AM
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Thank you for your insightful comment! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:21 AM
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I am not redpill so I won't speak on what it is about, maybe he was a dork but I have had older male friends from pretty much 25-27 all the way up to 40-year-olds give me similar advice which is to not get married, have a FWB's if it makes you happy but to not invest in women. Also, these men have had success both sexually and careerwise with many being lawyers or working in the medical field so it is not the incels on here who have never interacted with a woman so their words carry a little mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 01:13 AM
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I listen to a decent amount of female artists and have read both male and female literature and I don't think it has helped any when it comes to understanding women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:59 AM
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A guy in real life recommend me to read the rational male yesterday, I thought maybe it was selection bias but red-pill ideas have definitely gone mainstream even amongst college people. The guy was 29 and a lawyer which makes it even more interesting. In other news, I saw a girl who I went on a date with and invited to another one with a guy at my gym today (campus uni), not even mad since I don't think I am owed anything but I would have preferred at least a text saying she was not interested …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:56 AM
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One of my friends who is a pretty big slut(not an insult) Instagram picture is her in a sunflower field which is funny since it fits what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 12:46 AM
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I tell you if anyone recognizes it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:04 PM
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I find tall chicks hot so it is probably the same for women liking tall guys, not crazy tall but 5'10 to 6'0 is perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:09 AM
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I don't use old, I either meet women through friends, parties or college
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 01:07 AM
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I mean others can do that but I may be weird in that I can only really maintain attraction to one person at a time. Honestly if to play the game I have to be talking to multiple women at once it does not even seem worth it since I only need one good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:43 AM
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I got my next 38 looks like your already behind
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:19 AM
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When is it good to move from the talking phase to actually dating, having met up a couple of times, or is there a set time period? I am thinking that if she meets me three more times over the next couple of weeks she wants to date. Also, Q4A do you talk/flirt with multiple potential partners at once or just one? I have heard some guys say that you need to have a lot of options but I honestly think that is counterintuitive if you are going for a quality long-term partner and for me personally I o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:11 AM
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Derek Chauvin I'm a white guy so I don't think that would go as well as when you did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:05 AM
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Has anyone ever gone as Patrick Bateman for Halloween?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 11:35 PM
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Depends on what type of hot we are talking but in craft breweries, many of the guys are overweight and have neckbeards, I cannot speak personally on the rest since I think the ratio of hot to non-hot guys is probably normal except for Equinox.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:03 AM
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Yeah, the gym is a big one, a lot of what makes guys hot is being active so a high-end gym or a martial arts one will typically have one, in most bars, there will be a couple good looking guys but it depends on the bar and location of course. I can only speak of where some of my older friends hang out but a big issue is a decent amount of guys I know who are in their late 20s have been locked down either in an engagement or married and like good women good guys are also taken fast. Depending on …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:00 AM
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Pretty much like this but I would like to add that the wall for me is when women stop being able to get what they want from relationships whether that be sex or something more my best guess is that it is around 30ish since that is when women's suicide numbers start to go up but that could be for a myriad of reasons and not being able to get married to who they want might be one of them and it might not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:44 AM
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I feel like the wall is a lot less based on age and more on how you take care of yourself, there have been 40-year-old women who I would rate as significantly more attractive than women in their 20s based on the 40-year-olds being slim, having a skin and hair routine and good genetics vs some 20-year-old girls who are overweight, eat like trash and such. This applies to both men and women of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:46 AM
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I think it really depends on what point in life you are talking about. Most smart girls know not to expect a guy who is in college or just getting out to be making 100k. I will say this however I am pretty frugal so I live with my parents as I am a college student and this does turn some women off, however, I honestly don't mind since it filters out the ones who can't see things from a long term perspective since I am projected to be making around 100k for 30 which is already better than the vas…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:34 AM
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Turned down a girl no, decided I did not want anything long-term yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:45 PM
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For the majority of first dates, the guy is the one asking so you are saying that in most cases the guy should pay for the first date, it is fine to hold that stance but for the vast majority of dates men still either pay full or in some cases split it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:33 PM
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I would say you split it or do something small for the first date like coffee and than you pay(as a guy). It is not a good idea to take a girl on a dinner date right away since it will probably be awkward and things like the movies don't allow enough room for interaction which is why something small first is always good. I'll also post this here as an edit but the reason the majority of women still support men paying for a date even if traditional dating is no longer around is that groups tend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:24 PM
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Pass, though I have been deceived by shapewear where I thought a chick was fit but actually it was just the yoga pants
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 08:06 PM
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Personally, I would love to marry an intelligent woman and if she is also career focused that is good with me as long as she is willing to work on the relationship. For example, I know a really smart gal who decided to be a physicians assistant instead of a physician and her reasoning was that she would be able to take more time off when she had kids and the hours would be better, vs say marrying a girl who wants to be a neurosurgeon the time that she is going to be able to devote to marriage an…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:42 PM
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Women do approach and I always say that if you have never been approached you are maybe not bad looking but average at best, not trying to be rude but this is what I think is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:36 PM
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I have honestly never heard a guy break up with or turn down a girl due to her being intelligent, I think your claim is more of guys go for more attractive women than unattractive ones which I think is true similar to how girls also go for the more attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:26 PM
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I guess so I don't do casual mostly since I need to know someone to fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:21 PM
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I do have a question, a girl came up to a bar and said something along the lines of "Your really hot" it may have been "your really fucking hot" but I can't remember since I was pretty drunk at that point. Anyways I got her number but when I texted her the next day to meet for coffee I got no response, not really mad about it since I am mostly just focusing on experience right now but my confusion lies in why a girl would approach a guy and give him her number if she does not plan to respond, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:53 AM
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models
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:45 AM
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I'll give an example, last Friday it was one of my friend's birthdays, and went out to celebrate at one point he almost got into an altercation, and when discussing it the next day he added that it was probably his fault. I know the guy and he is a good friend but sometimes he can be an ass and he confesses to it and does not try to blame others, not saying that women don't also take accountability for their actions since I can't think of any situations where they have or have not in my personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:38 AM
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In the u.s. at least that is a false statement
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:30 AM
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Most normal Americans are in debt, overweight, and I could argue are not that good of a catch, both men and women of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:42 PM
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I have a strong dislike for people/companies that don't take the proper measures when moving fruits and veggies since it is what causes so many invasive insects like the Asian ladybugs to become a problem. I assume that is what the regulation is about but I am not certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:40 PM
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This is like the pot calling the kettle black but can we get an article on how to write basic English sentences on the sidebar? Or at least a link to Grammarly? Also please don't roast me from now on for pointing this out I know I am bad at writing :)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:33 PM
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Pro-tip if you want women to come up to you get a cute dog that you can bring to the bars, my friend has a border collie mix and it allows women to come up and strike up a conversation. He has gotten pretty much all his hookups from having women come up to him when he has his dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:58 PM
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Men living longer when married is most likely just correlation and not causation and unless you can show me a study that shows that marriage is the cause of men living longer your point is invalid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:01 PM
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