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I feel like you should look into your intellectualization of your emotions. I say that because we're very similar. I'm an avoidant who intellectualizes his emotions and it makes people feel very distant because I think I'm using the best word for trying to communicate myself, but in reality I'm casting people away because they can't relate. Seems like you have a good woman In fact, send her my way and I'll take good care of her lol seems kind of hard to find a good, compassionate woman. She seem…
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 06:59 PM
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Honestly, they don't seem to be worth a fuck. Or maybe it's just me man. Maybe I don't know how to use them. I have a buddy made a really good girl on there. A friend of a friend met their partner on there and they got married. I can't even get a match so idk. Give it a shot. What's the worst that can happen?
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/24 06:43 PM
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Yet here we are. Do you find yourself wondering why you do things a lot? I would highly suggest mindfulness in being present. It worked wonders for me.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 01:50 AM
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Only the Sith deals in absolutes brother. Dad's and do better AND it can be acknowledged that kids don't automatically cope well. All I said is I feel for the kids, and it feels like you're trying to convince someone that there are benefits that outweigh the kids suffering. Both can exist and that's okay. That's my point. I see your paint and we'll taken.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 12:51 AM
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https://mediate.com/the-long-term-psychological-effects-of-divorce-on-children/
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 11:25 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with you. The relationship I'm cultivating with my daughter now is stronger than it's ever been and I think we're all better for that and, It pains me they have to go through it but such is life. I got you
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 08:13 PM
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You should go ahead and save that link for the children when they hear the anguish of their parents divorce through a closed door. You don't have to break your hand petting yourself on the back for finding that link. These children will still suffer regardless of the circumstances. They don't care what mom did. They don't care about Dad's big fat wallet. They're children, their mom and dad, whom they love equally and more than anything they've known in their entire life so far are broken and the…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:27 PM
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That's still the kids'mother, they're children. They don't have the luxury to hi-5 bro dad on his win. I thought this goes without saying but I guess not.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 07:22 PM
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Those poor children. My heart aches for them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 05:40 PM
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It's not about what you'll agree on when times are good it's the issues that will be resolved if times get back. Put. It. All. In. Writing. Alternating holidays, track outs, who can claim what on taxes. Put it all down bro
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 06:20 PM
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I haven't been there myself yet, but like anything in life you're gonna make it bro! You'll find a way to a better future, and you'll find a way to a better version of yourself!! Take the process of transformation slow and steady the goal is to go something, anything as small as it may be tomorrow! It sucks, it's slow, it's dumb, but it's a process. Trust the process, and get it going!
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 06:18 PM
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You don't have to use the apps, it's just a tool. I know you're just venting and I agree. Thing is you would have met these people out in the bar, they would have the same demands. They're real, the audacity exists in real time as it would have anyway. Consider them doing you a favor and having the knowledge to think with the right head this time around. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 02:32 AM
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I've stood right where you are right now brother. More than once. Seriously, very dark times. Stick with it brother. You're going to get out. You're going to make it. Let me know if you need to talk with someone man I got you
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:40 PM
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I'm so sorry. Have compassion for yourself. You're not a failure. You're a good person. Are you grieving your routine, or your person? There's a difference. Have compassion for your person. There's a reason that the divorce rate for the second marriage is much higher than the first. I'm not sure what that reason is for certain, but in my opinion, it's because those people wanted a person to fix them or validate them instead of doing the work to validate themselves. Do the work, find the healing,…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 08:45 PM
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