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| 4 | Is okay to dump my gf because I want to date other girls and also feel like I'm to young to commit on a long term relationship? | Conversation | Dumy_Hmn | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 0 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship? | Outer Game | Dumy_Hmn | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:07 PM |
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| 2 | ¿Qué es lo que les abruma ahora en su vida amorosa?Definitivamemte no vas a obtener michas respuestas por estar en español bro. No se cuantos años tengas, pero mi consejo. Neta no te metas ahi, suena obvio, y lo es. Pero ya tiene pareja, y ni siquiera es alguien con quien ya hayas salido, o que sea cercana a ti, aparte el tema de las clases en linea. Lo que tienes es un crush bro. Y no es sano para ti, por todo lo que comentas se ve que estas muy lejos de siquiera poder salir con ella. En buena onda, trabaja en ti y date el espacio de conocer ma… | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Girl went berserk on push-pulls, dealing with pseudo-AMOGsWhat the fuck did you tell her? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Can anyone suggest me what to do?Lol wtf. Stay away from him dude, he's not your friend. I'm in a similar situation with one of my friends and a girl. She says that she likes both of us, so I spoke to my friend, and basically we said that we're not going to be fighting for a single girl, so we both decided cutting contact with her, shes now blowing our phones asking what happened xDddd | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 04:00 PM |
| 7 | Is it true that sex/relationships aren't as great as everyone makes them out to be? Should the pussy be taken off the pedestal?Idk dude. Personally i dont feel like I'm putting pussy on a pedestal. For me it goes beyond that. It is about the journey. I love the nervousness of talking to a new girl, the excitement, when you say a risky line and you don't know if it is going to work or not, the funny experiences you have with each woman. I love the feeling of seeing my self improve each day, not only with women but with my life in general, getting to be the best version of myself to attract new people into my life. Idk du… | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 03:41 PM |
| 5 | How can I stop obsessing over missing out on sex and romance as a teenager and feel like I missed out on important milestones?Dude I'm 22 and I'm already feeling jealous for you having 19. You don't have a fucking idea how much you can improve your life in three years once you put your mind to it. Forget about teenager days, the 20's are crazy bro. I'm not in the point of my life I would like to be. But looking back a few years, the change is huge. I'm not that wimpy, introvert and insecure guy anymore. Personal recommendation. Forget about your age, we're young dude. But if you want to change something in your life st… | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls start off as friends?Yeah im going exactly trough this with a particular girl. To be honest I know her almost for 2 years now. But this is the first time we're seeing each other regularly. In general I think I have made a good job, acting confident, teasing, making it man to woman etc. Also she reciprocates. Problem is, she's coming out of a long and committed relationship. The other day she confessed that she liked me right outside her house, I stared at her, smiled and tried to go for a kiss. She turned to put her… | /r/seduction | 14/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Still pushing after rejection. Should I stop?In my little experience I can see that you are taking some things way to personal and serious. Like when she told you that she's only into muscular guys, and then you start to overthink it instead of responding with something cool or funny like "Actually this is me, the rock on a fake account, this is your lucky day" or whatever idk. Just play it cool. Same thing with the "you are such a nice guy". Instead of playing it cool you let that get to your head. But don't worry bro, it's normal to have… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | So self improvement is preached here. But at what point are you good enough?As other dude said. Self improvement is an infinite journey. For me "good enough" is when you start to feel more comfortable about who you are and start to build connection with other persons, not because you want to get something from them, just because you wanna have fun meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 11:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenThis comment section just shows how sad this sub is now days. I get the mentality of don't trust anything you see on the internet, but this just feels like there's a lot of frustrated dudes who don't believe storys like this just because the have no luck with women or something. Like yeah, to be honest it's a big number for your age but, if you started dating on your teenage days and even now, that's a huge advantage, teenage hormones and college itself play a huge role in this scenario, you jus… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 74 | Banging lots of girls is overratedBoth are just additions to ones life. If you are already happy and want to smash a lot of girls, cool. If you are already happy and want to commit to a relationship, good for you. But smashing girls or being on a committed relationship just to fill a gap in your life is not gonna get you anywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidTo be honest thats was my main reason to start playing guitar a few years ago. And definitely it works. But as others say, it is more about having a cool band with the boys instead of just playing an instrument. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 03:06 PM |
| 2 | This is NOT an incel sub, and some people on here need reminding of that. You have control over your own dating success if you improve & approach.Underrated comment. I hope the guy complaining reads it. You're such a cool guy for taking the time to write an insightful response despite the other guy's negative attitude. Most people in this sub would probably just straight up insult him. Personally I like the way you compared dating and sex with politics. It's a fun way to wrap my head arround it. Anyways, have a nice day. | /r/seduction | 04/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 9 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.This | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Remaining mysterious while answering 'what did you do today?'Dude just don't over-share. Its completely okay to respond if she's asking.Dont need to keep the "mysterious" vibe all the time. Just vibe with the girl and be intresting | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Would it be considered weird?No bro, go for it. If things dont work out just keep going there like nothing Happend lol | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this?I was in a similar situation a few years ago. I managed to get a date with her even though she had a boyfriend and I made it pretty clear that I liked her. The date was cool and we even got a little physical. Near the end of the date I decided to take her to a place with less people where I could make a move. I had the bad luck that, half way through the place we encountered her boyfriend walking with a male friend. I thought I was about to be beaten or something. But when he spotted us he just … | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Why? | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?a | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Well I just lack experience. That's one of the reasons why I dumped my gf. I don't want to be with someone because of comfort. Yeah I know I must have more experience at this time of my life but I just don't. The only way I know to have sex with a girl, is getting into a serious relationship. And that's not alight, that's why I want to improve. So if you have any tip it would be welcome, if not, don't waste your time with me. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Sorry i didn't read the entire comment. Yeah I think you're kind of right. About STD's I'm very paranoid about that so I always use condoms and I definitely wouldn't let her to do me a blowjob without protection. I'm just to paranoid about that. And yeah I think whenever you have sex with someone you're kind of risking something emotional along the lines. But I don't know I have a few Male friends who have manage to have sex with coworkers or friends without turning it into a big deal. I feel li… | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 0 | How do I (21m) mange to have sex with my friend (19f) without it being awkward or messing up our friendship?Yeah well, I kind of get that. I just want to know how to escalate so she wants to fuck with me. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Platonic relationship with my Girl friendSo what you're saying is that you don't really care about having a committed relationship? Is it because you don't like to feel attached, you fear the idea or you just don't give a fuck? | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Is okay to dump my gf because I want to date other girls and also feel like I'm to young to commit on a long term relationship?Yeah, I thought about that. Even I proposed the idea of having threesomes, she's bisexual, and she said that she could handle to have a threesome like two or three times, but no more. And about the open relationship she's not into that. At the end it would make more harm than good. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Is okay to dump my gf because I want to date other girls and also feel like I'm to young to commit on a long term relationship?Thanks. It really helped me a lot. I already dumped her. It was tough as shit I feel like we could make a life together, like she's the one you know. But I think it is just not the right time for me. I don't want to be in a serious relationship and still looking at other girls, it's just not fair. I just want to live my life and experience more dating and once I have all that experience on my back and I grew older I'll be mature and committed enough to settle down and get into a serious relation… | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Something I learned about ChemistryThis is gold! | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:02 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Sorry for my English, I'm still learning. Dude i feel you. A lot of the comments are telling you that you must move on. And maybe you dont want to, you think this girl was special, you had something different, you were meant to each other. I understand why you wouldn't want to let her go. But trust me. It's the best for you. I was in the same situation a year ago with my ex. I saw every single fucking video on YouTube on how to get her back, I asked friends and family what to do, but everybody t… | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 06:15 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Me too | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 01:56 PM |
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