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GeneralDunbarsPhoneNumber/r/MensRights03/10/18 01:08 PM
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Easy there, Icarus, your problem there is that you made too much sense, and you got too close to that equality thing they talk about so often.
/r/MensRights04/10/18 02:17 PM
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I would, how does it negatively affect people?
/r/MensRights04/10/18 02:16 PM
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It's a circle-shlick over there. Unless you post exactly what they're already thinking, you'll be banned. It's like a rite of passage.
/r/MensRights04/10/18 02:15 PM
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This is another one of those women-as-a-monolith things. Women who put on makeup for many different reasons, but there's probably a degree of separation between the ones who wear it to get attention and the ones who think getting attention for it is objectification, much the same way that there are women who hate being catcalled and women who get catcalled and think "Still got it!". There are women who think "glance but don't stare", there are women who think "I've got them eating out of my hand…
/r/MensRights04/10/18 02:10 PM
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There are several subs that blatantly call for violence, and violate most of the rules, but for some reason, they're still here. Like you said, it's weird that there are a bunch of subs that don't actually do or say anything that violate rules, but because they're wrongthink, they're under the gun.
/r/MensRights04/10/18 01:09 PM
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But prostitution is horrible for women oh no an inconsistency in the argument that only points directly at /u/DukeStayne's point that it takes away women's ability to control the supply and increase demand like basic economics!
/r/MensRights03/10/18 08:50 PM
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I mean the "we might get shut down by Reddit" way. There have been campaigns to get rid of this sub for years, particularly by some of the more popular social justice warrior rags like Vox, Vice and Salon, but the fight is coming closer to us now.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 08:37 PM
3

And it brings awareness to the fact that it isn't just about people not shaving for a month.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 07:56 PM
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I think there's a good actor under that pretty face, and I'm glad he's using both his face and what's under it for a slightly less conventional cause.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 07:39 PM
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When I saw it, the more "extreme" MRAs seemed to be that way because they were excited about finally being given relatively unbiased attention by someone outside of the movement. All things considered, when I first saw it, I thought they seemed more exhausted than anything. Most of them have been through some really traumatic experiences, and it's worn them down significantly. I did like it, but I thought there were a bunch of issues that Cassie Jaye glossed over without addressing, like the wag…
/r/MensRights03/10/18 07:36 PM
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It's something like four bucks on Youtube, and she did a really good job on the documentary, for which she may have tanked her reputation as an impartial documentarian (just because people who haven't seen it or refuse to see it assume she's a shill), so she deserves the few bucks it costs. I'm saying this as someone who torrents 90% of the movies I watch.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 07:24 PM
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That's a pretty awesome way to get a shit-ton of donations for the foundation
/r/MensRights03/10/18 06:30 PM
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If they seem petty, imagine this sub was trying to make a different point that you don't already agree with, and ask yourself whether the tactics the community is using here would help or hinder you to empathize with that point. If you actually want things to change for the better for men, this is where people outside the movement are looking for an example of what the men's rights movement is about. If they see anything more divisive than well-made points and rational thought, the movement will…
/r/MensRights03/10/18 05:59 PM
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Yes. Problem?
/r/MensRights03/10/18 05:53 PM
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Clearly not.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 05:37 PM
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Do you actually disagree with any of the points I've made in the main post, or is the context in which I've posted it, beyond the sub I posted it to your biggest issue with it?
/r/MensRights03/10/18 03:44 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 02:59 PM
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I say "we" because I firmly believe that the future of the men's rights movement has to come from unity, rather than singling out factions or individuals, as feminists do. If you ask any one feminist about another one, they'll say their goals are different, and even invoke the no-true-feminist fallacy because they're all but incapable of settling on any consensus. The men's rights movement has fewer and more concrete goals that are far more generally agreed-upon. That's our strength, and we can'…
/r/MensRights03/10/18 02:56 PM
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Read the other comments on this post. My next reddit birthday will be in the next day or two.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 02:53 PM
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My contributions are in the comment sections, trying to steer the conversation towards positive points that the community can rally around and improve the quality of discussions, rather than posting links that will only dilute the quantity of bad posts or comments. Why would someone go to this much effort to make the community more palatable while preserving the central point of the movement if the ultimate goal of a concern troll would be to topple the movement?
/r/MensRights03/10/18 02:51 PM
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I make a new account every time I reach 50k comment karma to prevent doxxing, because when I post things like this, or things about where I work, I don't want to make it too easy for people to connect the dots. I don't go back and use my old accounts for anything. I don't need to be a coward if I have anonymity, and the only thing that helps maintain anonymity is preventing too much information from being gathered in any one place. As Minimal_minimal said, looking at who is saying something rath…
/r/MensRights03/10/18 02:28 PM
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It's almost as if someone can have more than one account...
/r/MensRights03/10/18 01:59 PM
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...or because most women don't actually believe that curfew thing.
/r/MensRights02/10/18 06:59 PM
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Because if you actually talk to feminists in person, they're usually a lot more normal than the things they say online would have you believe. They do still have some really warped ideas of how the world works, but the crazy is a lot more muted when anonymity isn't a factor. I have had a number of "are you fucking crazy?" moments, but it isn't about the same sorts of things that are whined about online.
/r/MensRights01/10/18 10:02 PM
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There are a few very vocal people and platforms where that level of feminism is common, but it isn't representative of most of them. We'll never be able to sway the minds of the extreme ones, so painting the ones we can change the minds of with the same brush will only make it harder to get men's rights the attention it deserves. I'm in no way condoning feminism, but acting as if ever single feminist is just as bad as the ones who say "kill all men" isn't going to get us what we want. It won't g…
/r/MensRights01/10/18 08:34 PM
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The reason is that the men's rights movement isn't remotely opposed to everyone being equal, and measures that give people the opportunity to be equal aren't opposed by MRAs. It's all about "Yes, everyone should be equal, and by the way, here are some parts about being a man that aren't equal, so that's one thing we shouldn't lose sight of". Meanwhile, feminists will say that egalitarianism doesn't commit enough to the perceived underdogs, which in every one of their examples is women. They woul…
/r/MensRights01/10/18 07:30 PM
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I've said it before, and I'll say it again: Feminists see feminism as a prefarable alternative to egalitarianism. The men's rights movement is supplementary to egalitarianism.
/r/MensRights01/10/18 07:13 PM
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Oh shit, that's the one where it's men's rights as feminists allow it, isn't it? I went there a few times, and it reminded me of "you can be Jewish, but only over here in these camps, and you have to pay us to work there".
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:26 PM
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I think FeMRAdebates is a great sub, and it's moderated well. If we could get some impartial mods like that in here, I think it would do us a world of good. I'll have to check out /r/menslib, though.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:16 PM
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From the amount I see that comment fluctuating, it seems as if the people on here don't want it to continue. It's sad, because sometimes there are great discussions. If it goes the way of Voat, people are just going to point to it as evidence that people in the men's rights movement are so toxic that they can't even clean themselves up enough to stay near the public eye.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 06:05 PM
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Unfortunately it isn't what it looks like to us. It's what it looks like to everyone else. If they can click on any thread on this sub and find comments and articles that are evidence that is easily and rationally opposable, /r/mensrights is going to fall to the same fate as TRP. We aren't TRP. We need to act like the egalitarian-but-focused-on-men's-issues people we are.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 03:42 PM
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We should be more judicious about downvoting toxic shit that makes us look bad. If we would point it out as being hypocritical in other subreddits, we shouldn't be tolerating it here.
/r/MensRights28/09/18 01:00 PM
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Ah, yes, just because some news stories are trying to popularize a fetish means that not only is it mainstream and actually happening, but also that it's associated with a specific area of the political spectrum. /s
/r/MensRights27/09/18 01:37 PM
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increase the demand for the prostitution and sexual exploitation of women and children Wait, what? How? It's literally a harmless alternative to doing either of those things. We're skipping a step between human rights and robot rights that's pretty crucial: Artificial sentience.
/r/MensRights25/09/18 05:17 PM
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/r/thatHappened
/r/MensRights25/09/18 12:25 PM
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I think it can be as simple as "don't be an asshole to people". There isn't anything wrong with diversity, unless you act like an asshole for the sake of diversity. The newest Always Sunny episode was about women going out to do their own thing, and balancing that with trying to do the same thing men do, despite physical limitations. Women have done plenty of things that men have never done, but you don't see men complaining about their limited role in those things. It isn't sexist to exclude pe…
/r/MensRights24/09/18 03:21 PM
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I have never once heard anyone say anything like those things about an accused rapist except in these stories about what people allegedly say about accused rapists.
/r/MensRights22/09/18 09:25 PM
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The Men's Rights Movement
/r/MensRights21/09/18 03:28 PM
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Dad is count? Dad is are more?
/r/MensRights19/09/18 03:05 PM
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They're just fleshlights with extra limbs... They're creepy because they have faces, but they seem sadder that anything else, just because the people who buy them do so because they aren't good at dating.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 04:50 PM
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Oh, THAT'S why /r/gendercritical shows up on MassTagger.
/r/MensRights18/09/18 04:48 PM
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Wait, you expected anything but hypocrisy from the feminist subreddit?
/r/MensRights17/09/18 05:27 PM
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The model used to be admit wrongdoing, show complete contrition, and then we give you a second chance, Now it’s admit wrongdoing and you’re finished. And so the only way to survive is to deny, deny, deny. That’s not healthy, that there is no forgiveness. I do think that at some point it will end with a completely innocent person of prominence sticking a gun in his head and ending it. Male suicide doesn't matter though, so it would be spun that the falsely-accused couldn't deal with what he'd don…
/r/MensRights12/09/18 01:47 PM
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I never understood the whole "I was conditioned to want to major in something like social work" argument. I had an ex who told me that when I asked her why she went into one of the lowest-paying professional fields instead of a STEM field. She didn't like it when I asked her how she was able to make the conscious decision to blame society for what she had majored in, but didn't have the ability to consciously decide for herself what major she wanted to be a part of. I like to think that I'm not …
/r/MensRights10/09/18 04:49 PM
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I don't agree with Citizens United at all, but if money is speech, wouldn't the First Amendment protect your use of money, and therefor wouldn't alimony/child support with no choice in the matter be a violation of one's right to free speech?
/r/MensRights06/09/18 06:29 PM
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Those comments are encouraging, at least
/r/MensRights04/09/18 07:23 PM
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Defending yourself is an aggressive act, so always let yourself be a target. /s
/r/MensRights01/09/18 02:53 PM
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I showed this to my fiancee, who's on the spectrum. She got it just fine.
/r/MensRights29/08/18 12:24 PM
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Assuming that glasses are the only receptacle for beverages is a social construct that's perpetuated by the patriarchy. EDIT: And the notion that the tapered bottom part of the glass is at all equal to the obviously larger top part of the glass that doesn't have water in it shows that even when they're trying to show equality between women and men, men subconsciously give women the smaller "half" of the glass. This is the water gap.
/r/MensRights28/08/18 08:57 PM
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He did it eight times, which means it was premeditated, and he had no interest in the dates going anywhere. Some women might do that too, but that doesn't mean he isn't an asshole. He deliberately did it to get free meals. It's absolutely a scumbag move, and acting as if it isn't would weaken the overall point that there is a double standard. "Someone else did it" isn't justification for shitty behavior.
/r/MensRights28/08/18 05:50 PM
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I'm curious how that amount was calculated. If she was "stuck with a $130 bill", was that the whole bill, or his half of the bill? A thousand dollars for eight dates seems like they're dropping all of every bill on him. Granted, it's a massively scumbag move on his part, but this sounds like he's getting saddled with more than he's guilty of.
/r/MensRights28/08/18 03:36 PM
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If only there was one out there, and a great, proven documentarian behind it...
/r/MensRights24/08/18 08:21 PM
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This is the 37th time this has been posted in the last week.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 05:32 PM
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It feels like that when women cross the street to avoid me.
/r/MensRights22/08/18 11:54 AM
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Saaaame here. Mine is red.
/r/MensRights21/08/18 02:40 AM
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https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/20/business/media/netflix-commercials-videos-ads.html
/r/MensRights20/08/18 10:11 PM
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I just told them yesterday that I'll cancel my subscription within a minute of seeing the first commercial in between episodes. I can torrent things, I've got a VPN, and the only reason I pay for Netflix is that it's convenient, and doesn't show me commercials.
/r/MensRights20/08/18 08:32 PM
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Netflix is doing some weird shit. They fire people for using the words they're training people not to say... in the context of saying not to say them...link My fiancee was watching the first episode of their new show Insatiable last night, and it was absolutely disgusting how hard they steered into the double standards for men and women. The main character justifies (and the audience is supposed to, too) punching a homeless man who called her fat, so he punches her back, and then she lights him …
/r/MensRights20/08/18 07:40 PM
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Wait, men shave every day? I shave once a week, and I use the same blade for two or three months. I did get my razor handle for free, though. Gillette mailed it to me when I had to SIGN UP FOR THE SELECTIVE SERVICE.
/r/MensRights20/08/18 06:45 PM
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that movement that was intended to help men's issues be resolved and have their rights grow alongside women Nope, it's an attempt to lasso the men's rights movement and bring it under the control of feminists, who have absolutely no intention of doing anything about men's issues unless it's a coincidental side effect of something that's done explicitly for women.
/r/MensRights17/08/18 04:04 AM
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It's weird to perpetuate things that don't benefit us FUCKING WEIRD, RIGHT?
/r/MensRights15/08/18 07:18 PM
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And nothing of value was lost
/r/MensRights14/08/18 05:52 PM
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Thanks, corrected
/r/MensRights13/08/18 02:00 PM
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Just a heads up, OP is probably from Australia Canada, so US laws don't apply to him.
/r/MensRights13/08/18 01:54 PM
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formatting: So on Sat I was doing my usual reading of this subreddit and a friend of my wife's was over visiting and happened to glance over my shoulder and was wondering why I was visiting a men's rights subreddit and said "Jeez, you already have every right imaginable , what rights are you missing". It really go me thinking so I decided today to write down, what exactly am I missing as a man. No help for me if I were to ever be a victim of spousal abuse. In my area there are about a dozen or s…
/r/MensRights13/08/18 01:51 PM
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Christina Hoff Sommers is such an amazing lady.
/r/MensRights08/08/18 04:42 PM
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I never said they were perfect. I also never meant to give you the impression that I cared what your opinion was. I answered the question.
/r/MensRights02/08/18 01:24 PM
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First-wave feminism got women the right to vote and resulted in several pieces of legislation in various western countries that balanced the legal system in areas like marital rape, right to work, and right to own property. Second-wave feminism started reform in several middle-eastern countries and China, and tackled the social structure in western countries. Third-wave feminism still had the momentum from the first two waves, but lacking real issues to deal with on a social level and a cause th…
/r/MensRights02/08/18 04:19 AM
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The MRM posits that it is feminism, as well as the rights afforded to women through it, that is the reason(s) why men suffer; that gains for women have resulted in losses for men. Nope, but it doesn't surprise me that the sub that's the men's rights movement as much as feminists care to allow it thinks that. Feminism has done good things in the past. These days, it does a few good things, but its time has passed. The issue isn't that feminism has resulted in losses for men. For the most part, it…
/r/MensRights01/08/18 06:15 PM
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Excellent bot.
/r/MensRights30/07/18 01:50 PM
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Honestly, this comic doesn't make anyone look good.
/r/MensRights27/07/18 05:25 PM
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Just once, I want someone to look at the camera, say "Emily Contois, I don't care what you think" and continue the show. If they bow to her, the next step is "That show doesn't have enough of X minority" in some sort of Gotta-Catch-'Em-All process of shitting on anything they can lay their eyes on. I'm not a fan of Sean Evans' interview style, but I like several of the guests, and it's fun to see them sweat because I like spicy food. This tendency of putting their tails between their legs and pl…
/r/MensRights16/07/18 08:31 PM
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This is really fucking creepy, but the fact that it's an editorial headline with an obvious assumption that it's creepy is indicative that it isn't just men or all men. Even on /r/sex, every single time a woman in her late 20s posts something along the lines of "I've never masturbated or had sex", the context is always "...because I grew up in an intensely-religious household where my mother enforced a 100% abstinence policy". I don't know if it's because the fathers in these situations don't wa…
/r/MensRights16/07/18 07:59 PM
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“Now? Now you really can’t pursue someone further than, ‘No’. It’s like, ‘OK, cool’. But then there’s the, ‘Oh why’d you give up?’ And it’s like, ‘Well, because I didn’t want to go to jail?’” That's the heart of it.
/r/MensRights12/07/18 04:46 PM
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Being a cunt isn't a crime. If you're interested in being a part of the community, you're more than welcome, but one thing that's pretty important no matter what junk you've got on this sub is having thick skin.
/r/MensRights11/07/18 06:00 PM
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Listen. Strange men lying in ponds distributing sex is no basis for a system of equality! Supreme sex derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony!
/r/MensRights06/07/18 03:34 PM
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How'd they become laid then?
/r/MensRights06/07/18 01:49 PM
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The acting wasn't the bad part. Every other part of it (besides the soundtrack) was the bad part.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 01:05 PM
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I can't find it because I'm on my phone, but Karen Straughan also has a great video where she talks about women working under the Taliban. Essentially, they're allowed to keep 100% of their wages, while men's wages go directly to the family, so if a woman has a job that a man could have, she's potentially depriving a family of one person's wages by keeping it for herself, if she chooses to do that. Men under Taliban law don't get that choice.
/r/MensRights01/07/18 12:36 PM
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