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I go to a therapist. There is no shame in it. If you've got insurance check if it covers therapy.
/r/seduction25/04/22 06:27 PM
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For me, I believe it has to do with mindset. It is the gambling mindset. Every time I go to the slot-machine(the girl) and put a coin in(give her some of my time or energy) hoping for something in return(the jack-pot or even just a little bit of attention or validation) I am selling my soul. It is not something that changes over-night and if you keep it your self-esteem will be dependant on whether you hit the jackpot or not, not what ever else you have going on in your life.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:15 PM
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Not at day one. No. It's about progressive overload. I started asking myself "what can this woman do for me" a few months, almost a year, ago and I'm still doing that because women reward me for putting them in a position where they can chase. How much I have felt that I 'need' sex with a woman, how much I chase and have obssessed about gwtting with someone is proportional to how hard(but still possible) I felt it would be to get with them. It is the same with women(from my experience). No woman…
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:00 PM
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Fair enough. My argument is that.. if it becomes more complicated than that.. it is less complicated.
/r/seduction25/04/22 04:34 PM
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I don't know if there is a magic bullet for getting your head straight. I'm 27 and have never been in a relationship past a year but that has been plenty of time to see chicks lose respect for me as I mould myself to them and their wants and needs.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:34 AM
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If you ask yourself "what does she bring to my life?" Rather than "what can I bring to hers?" You will stand out more... I think the girls call it... Big D*ck Energy.
/r/seduction25/04/22 05:25 AM
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This seems backwards to me. If she isn't bringing something to my life why would I sleep with her? She has to prove herself to me. Not the other way around. If she leaves me on read that is her loss. Any feedback on this? Honestly, waiting on a woman's or a partner's validation seems like a losing game.
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:31 PM
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Loving that confidence.
/r/seduction24/04/22 03:27 PM
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Life-after-death makes it sound like not everything has an expiration date u/life-aftr-death
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:28 PM
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She can be a priority but not above yourself, not above your career and your relationship with your family. If she is not working for her place in your life why is she even there?
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:27 PM
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Like chattle.🐮
/r/MensRights15/02/22 11:15 AM
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Retire seven years earlier.. live seven years longer.. it's like puberty didn't even happen. 😂
/r/MensRights15/02/22 11:13 AM
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The OECD isn't exactly representative of all countries. It is nice to have a reliable source though.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 11:11 AM
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Honestly.. these sort of coding errors are easy to make. That's not to say that their biases and the biases of the people who reviewed this didn't expediate the process.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 05:15 AM
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The coding error read couples that left the study as 'married couples that would divorce if the wife got sick". This was pointed out by researchers who tried to replicate the study.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 02:21 PM
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Nice avatar.
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:20 PM
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I have heard that people can often go after people that look like their parents. I know a woman who married three Daves and I myself dated and chased a string of Sarahs(my mum's name). This can seem quite arbitrary but so can attraction.
/r/seduction26/12/21 03:59 PM
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Only so far.
/r/seduction10/10/21 06:21 PM
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Or not to have sex.
/r/seduction10/10/21 05:36 PM
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I feel it is important for people to have the experience of being valued and one part of that(for me) has been allowing women to do some of the leg-work. We want to be in relationships that we value. In the past I found myself artificially increasing the value(for me) of relationships I was in. Chasing people. Chasing a relationship and in the long run that has been harmful. I came across this the other day and I feel it highlights the behaviours that don't serve to promote the best version of m…
/r/seduction23/01/21 09:41 PM
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I'm not sure I agree with that. I feel like there is a biological imperative for men to lead and for women to submit but I feel that 'societally' the dynamic is backwards. That male sexuality is villified and that, more and more, women are given carte blanche to persue men... What do you think?
/r/seduction23/01/21 06:05 PM
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What cold-approaching looks like for me now is completely different to what is looked like two years ago. There is an awareness of sub-text that means a lot can be said with a lot less pain. Cold approaching often felt like drawing teeth and every experience that didn't work out how I wanted or hoped affirmed my intuition when dealing with people I am meeting for the first time. I was chatting with a girl yesterday. She knew me in passing and I remembered her face but had never talked to her bef…
/r/seduction23/01/21 01:17 PM
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Thanks OP. I feel like you post has been obvious to me but, in the past, I have felt that I needed to be in a relationship and my PTSD and feelings of unfullfillment have come out in some of the worst possible ways. I'd put effort in to a relationship and it would be hit or miss most of the time as to whether I was watering the relationship. Now I am single and happily so. I see that there were things that I was looking for in relationships that I could be giving myself and that the more time I …
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:40 AM
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It doesn't matter how much you prune it, mow around it, put a bow on it, whatever, if it is not getting water and sunlight it will not grow.
/r/seduction25/11/20 12:33 AM
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"No.... Of course I don't want a cheeseburger!... I just... I uh, I kind of.. want ummm... I don't know."
/r/seduction13/03/20 03:12 PM
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It's not always as straight-forward as you make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:19 PM
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I also got banned for something non-sequitur. Which was a pity. I felt like I had something constructive to offer. So far as I know there was no way for me to reappeal my ban.
/r/MGTOW201/02/20 12:15 AM
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Happy cake day.
/r/MGTOW201/02/20 12:12 AM
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Success is relative. If there was no marriage what would success look like? The word 'marriage' means to bring together as far as I know... Can people be married without a contract or law being involved?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 11:04 PM
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I'd argue that if marriage wasn't a thing guys might get more practice at this whole relationship thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:30 PM
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Introduce money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:03 PM
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r/seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 08:51 AM
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This is good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 10:38 PM
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My mother has not said anything nasty. She says all the 'right' things but is very passive-aggresive. "An overtly domineering mother may lead to a psychotic child. A passively domineering mothing may lead to a neurotic child." - Something I Read In A Psych Text-Book. Applies to fathers and mothers.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 02:00 PM
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Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/20 07:38 AM
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I heard the average man to woman ratio world over is 105 to 100. In China it is 135 to 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 05:47 PM
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Maybe... After highschool the less picky, judgemental, women move to other areas, big cities or something. Don't know. In the country I am from(South Africa) there is a mythos that says there are more men to women(this is in a lot of the country) but in Cape Town that is turned on its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 04:32 PM
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I'd like to know more about this. Believing that I have value and substance doesn't mean that I will, substantially, impact every persons life. It means that the way I live my life is rooted in something deeper than what someone else finds attractive... is this faulty reasoning?
/r/seduction16/01/20 02:22 PM
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That would be a very man thing to do. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:22 AM
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What are you "incerting" and in to where?
/r/seduction14/01/20 04:20 PM
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Thanks for this. Take my money. I can relate to the op's feelings and, in some ways, your train of thought. For me it is like the idea that if I want to make money money should be used as a way of scoring my success, rather than seen as a need to be fulfilled.
/r/seduction14/01/20 04:19 PM
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https://youtu.be/VaRO5-V1uK0 he married his nurse.
/r/seduction12/01/20 08:59 AM
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'Social circles are underated..' '5 girls...' I think you are talking about a harem ;)
/r/seduction10/01/20 07:38 AM
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Give your couch a name: eg "My Girlfriends Face." Problem Solved
/r/seduction10/01/20 07:35 AM
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Astutute Observation @AntifaSuperSwoledier
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:18 PM
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I feel that: From my own experience: I know how to flirt but when I start to believe that I 'owe' women something or that what someone has is scarce I become afraid and do stupid stuff that I wouldn't usually do if I believed I had something priceless to offer. ;)
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:57 PM
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I was at a friends house-warming yesterday. I started chatting to this woman(Amy). We started with the easy stuff("How is life going," "What are you interested in," " What do you do with your free time," etc), we then progressed on to slightly higher grade stuff("This might be slightly left field, you said something about nature management, what do you think about the reintroduction of species? Should we be reintroducing rhe wooly mammoth or the passenger pigeon," etc). Turns out she holds three…
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:46 AM
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Joe Brogan?
/r/seduction06/01/20 08:38 AM
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Something I've found is that once I've known a woman for any amount of time they become more open to compliments. That being said, when I ask for a girls attention(eg. "Excuse me..?") and am about to compliment her I can often read whether she wants to be complimented or not and if not it is perfectly appropriate to flex this awareness by saying, for instance("Never mind... no, no you look busy") or something along those lines and make her work for my attention because, at this point, she will k…
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:36 AM
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I find complimenting women fun. When I compliment women(with no agenda). I get a sense for women who have their own baggage and women who are more grateful for the attention.
/r/seduction04/01/20 08:30 AM
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Maybe you are right. I thought this because he was still able to surprise her with stuff about him that she didn't know after 30 odd years and I feel that that is important. One of my biggest failings while dating has been trying to get everything on the table as quickly as possible. I've found that, barring a few non-negotiables, I don't need to tell the peeps I'm interested in stuff about myself that isn't pertinent to the conversation and that this goes a long way towards fostering attraction…
/r/seduction30/12/19 04:01 PM
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Learn to listen to what a girl wants. Ask incisive question. My experience is that this gives me a depth of insight in to what she might enjoy while also in no way detracting from my pull.
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:31 PM
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Lol. I had a bowl full of condoms on my shelf and felt embarrased about it. I didn't really have anywhere else to put them and would often think about hiding them. Your suggestion of the condom jar really put thing in to perspective for me. xD
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:29 PM
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I feel(personally) that I have struggled with this because of past trauma. No other reason. I feel that fostering gratitude for horrendous situations in the past(such as being raped or used and abused for money or whatever) is the way to change these feelings and empower myself to be of use when dating. Let me break that down a bit. When I feel on the back foot(because I am stuck reliving and resenting some past trauma) I am trying to serve(heal, soothe) myself and find some kind of wholeness or…
/r/seduction30/12/19 03:24 PM
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I'm finding that asking(internally) what the other is not going to get from me(eg. To be tied up and cummed on, or whatever) is more empowering that say asking(internally) what I am going to get from the other(eg. Is she going to kiss me, will she come back to my place, etc). I experienced, when I took the first attitude that I stopped trying to baby the peep's I am interested in and that the people I was doing this with started vying for my attention. I found that the more outlandish I was will…
/r/seduction28/12/19 02:14 PM
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Lol. The opposite. I think everyone on Social Media has an issue. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/19 07:44 AM
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In Warren Farrel's book - "The Myth of Male Power" he looks at the different characteristics of marriages of neccesity vs marriages where the participants are both in a position to survive without each other. He talks about how, in part because of the protections afforded to women, women are looking for the second marriage(often enough) while men are looking for the first and that they are completely different things. That being said I can see(within the realm of my own worldview) how the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:36 AM
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Congrats on the approach! Happy Christmas too. I'm a twenty-five year old man. I live in South Africa in a tourist town. My experience of 'waiting' for a call is everybody is different, some peeps's lives are so full that getting back to a rando they sparked with isn't as high on the priority list as it might be.
/r/seduction25/12/19 04:36 PM
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At the time, she said something like "If we're gonna be together then I want you to have sex with me every day." I was gobsmacked, completely at a loss for words. This was on our way back to her house from a date. We stopped on a grass verge outside her house(very far in the country) and laid out a blanket to lie on and 'look at the stars.' I never made a move. About a year later I travelled to Zanzibar(I'm from South Africa) and I sent her a postcard with some of my feelings. When I got back, t…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:22 AM
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If you put on paper what you feel and how you see the opportunity to be with(sleep with) her as having gone down(eluded you), in language that makes sense to you and you believe may make sense to her and then give that letter to her what do you have to lose? (I've been in a similar situation.)
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:13 AM
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Thank you for this straight-forward and, in-so-far as my experience of dating goes, useful/grounded advice. I find that spending an innordinate amount of time trying to get in someone elses head sabotages the foundation of my frame of reference(the thing that is attractive).
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:08 AM
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Short-hand: Embrace the dread-game and it can no-longer be used against you. Others treat you how they want to and believe they deserve to be treated. It has nothing to do with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 06:01 PM
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Touchè :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 10:43 AM
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I don't know her and worrying overly much about other peeps's bs gives me an emotional hangover so I reserved judgment. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 01:29 AM
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To 'win' in this case could mean 'to be inclusive of as many possible positions as possible' by this definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:26 PM
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Thanks. I feel your contribution to the broader conversation of genedered relations under a(in my case) trp light, as astute and valuable. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 09:22 PM
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I've never fumbled a phone. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 11:23 AM
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I disagree. How I would put it: "Whereas the vast majority of women have situated themselves and been enculturanated and brought up to situate themselves at the top of the smv foodchain by broadening and deepening their awareness of social exchanges and where value lies for individuals. Men have not been afforded this opportunity. The women in their communities value the work they do but do not experience the cost of said work unless married or of low(contextual) smv. They have no incentive to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:22 PM
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Are we validating women? Or their behaviour? Are we saying(by liking and commenting on a post) that we approve of you and value you or that we approve of your choosing to post and share pictures of yourself? If I, let's say, want to let a woman know that I approve of her touching me then I let her. I don't react. I respond. If she's pressed up against me I put my arm around her. If she touches the outside of my forarm I put my shoulders back and turn, ever so slightly, to face her. I build a rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:02 PM
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Is it really though? Babies move.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:52 PM
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Point taken. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 08:52 PM
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Drop a phone is one thing... dust it off, good as new... Drop a baby...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:53 PM
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Be the change you want to see in the sub? If I ignore the most extremist views, in any direction, I shoot myself in the foot. I feel that(as much as a lot of the rhetoric used in contentious arguments can be dull) there is a grain of truth in the most heinous trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:21 PM
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Check their phones. Goes for women too. If they have cracks on the screen... no baby for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:09 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 06:02 PM
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Anal Counts xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:56 PM
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That's silly. Of course if one in misogyny then the opposite would be misandry!? Is there anything 'wrong' with being misogynyst or misandryst, or racist or whatever? Don't all those views come from a place of hurt and disenfrachisement?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:45 PM
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Lol. I sometimes feel that about women. Mostly when I am spending time on platform such as this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:02 PM
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So do women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 09:01 PM
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>In the rest of the world, especially Europe, Eastern Europe, and East Asia, there are completely different rules and norms. Lol. Africa also has different rules and norms an they change from family to family, ethnic group to ethnic group. If you are Afrikaans, Xhosa, Zulu, etc you'll have been exposed to different values. The pressure from your family will be of a different hue. I find that interested in dating outside of their background because they believe it may solve some fundamental issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 08:14 PM
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And, better question, what is a healthy/attractive amount of eager?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:39 PM
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What is too eager?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:38 PM
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Do you think this date-aiming is something that it is important to be aware of?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:38 PM
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The potential for abuse isn't abuse though?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:37 PM
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Coolidge
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:33 PM
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Interesting take. Thank you for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:31 PM
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I don't know. I have a perception that masculinity is predatory. What do you believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:26 PM
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This... is .. me. I'm far more unattractive than I have thought or believed myself to be. I am a 24 yr old male, tall(196cm), 87kg, reasonably well built. My teeth are 90% where they're supposed to be. I keep my hair clean and my body odour under control. ... I can be abrasive. Ill prepared to deal with compliments. I feel as though I chase off women I approach and the only women who want to spend time with me are women I let spend time(in the same viscinity, chatting or whatever) with me. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/19 02:20 PM
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Thanks for sharing. So it's a basic connection? Like a starting point for all other connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/19 01:41 PM
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Let me preface this by saying "I am not an economist. I am a 24 yr old male with no degree." That being said: "Contrary to popular perception, the purpose of taxes is not to secure money for the federal government to spend. In fact, it is quite the opposite. The purpose of taxes is to force the citizenry to participate in civic duties, to work for the government’s money. Government has the sole authority to issue sovereign currency. In order to pay taxes or other costs, we all need to get money …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:32 PM
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Unsocial Services? Civillian: "I'm here for..." Goverment Employee: "Fuck off."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:43 AM
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If you did that your money wouldn't be worth anything in the global economy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:41 AM
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What if you don't have the ability to reproduce? Why have se then? What about after you are 50?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/19 07:40 AM
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Good question. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:10 PM
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Thanks. That is an insightful answer. Part of the mechanism behind sex's evolution was it's use at weeding out run-away mutations. All sorts of stuff goes in to this process, from the process of choosing a mate to the act of having sex. I myself am also not an expert. I do find the process interesting but am more interested in how insights in to why we feel driven to have sex, as individuals might empower myself to a greater freedom to intimacy with those closest to myself and how I might find m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 08:27 PM
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Because the welfare is for everyone, regardless of your socio-economic status or gender or situation. If nothing else it is symbolic. It says "we are equal, piss off." :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:48 PM
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Please?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:46 PM
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Your first question sounds pretty philosophical. What do you mean by commitment to one’s self? A commitment to the direction of truth as experienced through the sense organ that is our individual bodies as opposed to an intellectual truth that can be communicated but is removed from our individual experiences in some way or another. However, worry doesn’t necessarily make people not want sex. We’re pretty complicated beings. I hear you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:44 PM
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You scream because you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:37 PM
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Some species, bacteria, etc are unisex or divide like a cell. Do you think mycological fruiting bodies feel pleasure in some form or another, some evolved reaction or response to stimulate the creation of fruiting bodies and the spread of spores?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:37 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 07:33 PM
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About thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:36 PM
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Sure it did. I didn't always cum or want to come. Sometimes I was taking. Sometimes coming was frustrating because it meant I couldn't get my partner off in the way I wanted. I hear what your saying though, that sex is a physical urge.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:35 PM
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A good start would be to get Trump to get rid of the Filibuster. Something he says he wants to do and gets bipartisan support. https://youtu.be/3y1QA6OeAcQ
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:32 PM
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What do you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:28 PM
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Yes, if you are horny or have a boner, that feeling goes away after you have sex or masturbate. Just like hunger goes away when you eat or an itch goes away when you scratch it. Sometimes if you scratch it gets worse. Not all food is fulling. Have you ever had sex or masturbated? Yes. Plenty, with men and women. In and out of relationships. With a married couple. With someone thrice my age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:27 PM
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Do you feel that your partner feels the same way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:21 PM
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If I don't do it somebody will do it for me. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:04 PM
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Thanks for your well thought out reply. You may be right that I am more interested in why we experience love or what that is, coupled with an awareness that love in all it's forms is primarily a love for one and one's own experience. Do you believe that one's drive to sex is stronger when one is in a position to exercise it?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 03:02 PM
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What do 'they' want? And where does the 'self-worth' come from, having sex, that can't be experienced through other means?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:56 PM
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Oh. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:54 PM
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Cum. Energy. Like not in the hoo-hoo sense. The more I fuck myself the less I have time or energy to invest in getting to know somebody else... Because... I know myself whereas others may be unpredictable and take time and effort to bond with or to set up a situation whereby we can casually fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:54 PM
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Does it satisfy a physical urge? Is it more important who you are sleeping with, why you are sleeping with them or something else?(When you choose to sleep with someone)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:51 PM
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Does intimacy not imply commitment to one's self? Isn't sexual tension a type of stress? (Thanks for your reply btw)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:47 PM
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Do you feel that it is important to be aware that large swaths of the population buy in to pre-fashioned beliefs about sex and the inerpersonal? Do you feel that large swaths of the population buy in to pre-fashioned beliefs about sex? Do you believe that our beliefs about sex and the sex we experience are closely or loosely related?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:45 PM
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To prove to who? Ourselves? Our spouses? A god?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:28 PM
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What other ways could you think of... do I want to know......
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:27 PM
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I suppose that still counts as recreation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:25 PM
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Lol. A sound argument for really wanting to have sex. Do you think so? When you say "the gender role" fo you mean the role individuals choose to take on or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:25 PM
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I like this answer. Thank you for sharing. <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 02:23 PM
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I have a history of having been sexually abused so I am not the best guage of what is normal. I have chalked any belief that sex is about power(as a rule) up to an unconcious biase on my part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:36 PM
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No stress. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:35 PM
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A car mechanic... Yes. She was somebody I knew quite well though. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:32 PM
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Because I am dating someone and although I have stated that I am okay with polyamoury, he is not. It is an on-going back and forth though, with him. I'd like his approval on any one I choose to sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:30 PM
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Thanks for your well thought out and incisive replies wekacuck and J_Milton Jr.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:27 PM
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I enjoy the way you've worded your reply. What does it mean to "not know" somebody? Might sex not be seen as a way of getting to know somebody?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:26 PM
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Validation of what? Stuff you already believe about your self, eg your attractiveness? What do you feel about masturbation? Is it a waste? (This is something I feel conflicted about.)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:19 PM
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There are plenty of people whom I find attractive and whom find myself attractive that I am not sleeping with... Do you feel that sex implies a commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:09 PM
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Is it really? How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 12:06 PM
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Look up Andrew Yang and his proposed UBI. Especially the Youtube videos of him talking. This may circumvent the unorthodox use of tax payers money and may mean that, for instance, men and women can afford to pay alimony or child-supportor whatever, regardless of whether they're working or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 11:51 AM
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Happy birthday...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:35 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 06:33 PM
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That you equate working with children to 'working' with women says a lot to me. Mostly that direct experience(working with children, other genders and disabled folk) trumps comments and hypotheses drawn from the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/19 04:22 PM
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Our high gini-coefficient(the disparity between rich and poor). Corruption in the government. There may be other reasons. I am not an expert.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 03:33 PM
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Women by and large don't want to be with vulnerable men. I make a constant, consistent effort to be vulnerable. Women don't want a relationship primarily for emotional support(in my experience) but for social validation.😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:41 AM
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Like I said. You've got a good head on your shoulders. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:15 AM
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It is not so simple. There are a lot of people, black and white, who love this country. It is being run shoddily and so a number, if not a majority of highly skilled individuals, of all races, are leaving the country(because it is being run poorly and the rand is not as strong as it used to be). I lived on a farm, about two hours inland from Durban(in an area called Balgowan). In the eighteen years I lived there I remember hearing of two farm murders. That is not a lot considering the abominabll…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/19 06:02 AM
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xD
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 08:19 PM
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Plus, I'm South Africa. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:15 PM
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I was thinking more "Good Morning Vietnam."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:15 PM
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Frustration <3 https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=o-RCiBWmBBc&feature=share
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:06 PM
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I'm not. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 07:02 PM
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Going to Vietnam in February, to teach English. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:33 PM
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I live in South Africa. There is a myth in Cape Town that there are more women then men living there. I was asked out or for my number every day I was in Cape Town(a few months ago). It was fun. I didn't feel like dating or meeting people was a burden on my time or resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:32 PM
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Someone with life experience knows how to leaver both their drive and possibly their looks to greatest effect, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:30 PM
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BS. Depends where you live. Attitude counts for a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:23 PM
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Feeeelings
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:21 PM
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If your trying to hide them from each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:18 PM
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There seems(to me) to be more to finding a mate than being compassionate and hard-working. Partners want to know that their partner is attractive. This is dependant on the context the couple is living in(eg. The area) and the individual narratives of their lives. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:09 PM
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Wow. You sound like you've got a really good head on your shoulders. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:05 PM
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Lol. My dad frowns at me plenty. xD What if you want to be a stay at home dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 06:01 PM
2

When we recognise that suffering is a choice we become liberated?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/19 05:57 PM
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This!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:57 PM
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This is a suggestion. Don't stoop to the level of someone who sees themself as a victim. You don't need to. Nobody wins. Providing is its own reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/19 07:42 PM
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Absolutely. I'm a god. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/19 08:37 PM
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I don't know. I do recognise that holding my self to a standard(and as such, anybody I'm talking to) whereby I don't browse my phone(unless absolutely necessary) while listening or talking to somebody, I use open body-language, I let someone I am listening to know that I have heard what they said(by mirroring it back to them or asking pertinent question), I allow them time to finish, I intersperse my DIALOGUE with open ended question. Younger women, 24 and younger, I have found, often, have to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/19 05:37 PM
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Eternity plus one.
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:22 PM
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Beta: Do things for others who don't want to or believe they can do things for themselves, because Mr//Mrs.Beta doesn't want to do things for themselves and wants to believe the world is a place where they are a victim of circumstance and can pawn their responsibility for themselves off for 'good deeds.' Alpha: Takes responsibility for self. Owns circumstances, regardless of what they are. Owns suffering as a tool for growth(All suffering, ever). Puts one step in front of the other, only looks b…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/19 08:59 AM
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Thanks for this. I'm currently trying to re-write a lifetimes worth of wiring that tells me that any tension is something I have to do something to remedy. I'm learning that I only ever learn the social cues being thrown out by someone I am 'chasing' when I am willing to commit to my agenda and sit with the tension that brings up in any engagement without any contrived judgement for what I'm 'doing' or 'not doing'.
/r/seduction27/04/19 12:39 PM
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Well put. I can see why you are an "Endorsed Contributor".
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 01:53 PM
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Check in with yourself. What are your reservations about a relationship. Are they your own fears about what it means to commit to any girl or this girl in particular. What would she have to do different for you to be grateful to have her in your life. Don’t settle for less. Don’t show all your cards she has to do some of the work for a relationship to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:44 PM
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A mate of mine started dating a girl recently. He came out of a relationship a month + ago and she was fresh out of a marriage. They went on a date and started sleeping together. She expressed reservations about continuing the relationship so he pulled out. Now she wants back in. What is key here is that she has to work for it. If she is serious about you she will work for you. You are the prize. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 02:41 PM
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As a practice, especially early in to framing myself as someone who can get laid, I walk up to women I’m attracted to, practice waiting for an opening, getting their attention(tapping a girl on the shoulder, waving, whatever) and telling the girl what I find attractive about them, then walking away. Down the line I make a habit of this in every interaction and start noticing opportunities to, essentially, display higher value, make observations, let my intentions(whatever they are) be known. Wha…
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:04 PM
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Cold approach is an opportunity to display higher value, situational awareness, sex appeal. To develop commaraderie, break down barriers with humor. No approach is truly cold, your a man approaching a woman, bam, tension. ;)
/r/seduction23/01/19 01:51 PM
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Thanks for this. It affirms everything I know and have been experiencing lately. I've found myself becoming discouraged going out and not getting laid but every mission is a learning experience.
/r/seduction22/01/19 09:51 PM
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Where I’m at now I am starting to see how easy it is to fall in to a relationship.
/r/seduction20/01/19 10:57 AM
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Thanks for sharing this. I have had mildly similar experiences. They've been a long term boost for my frame/confidence. I hope approaching becomes like breathing to you and all women you are attracted to know it. :)
/r/seduction06/01/19 10:37 PM
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I deal with this pretty often. Sometimes I get the vibe that a woman I have expressed interested in is disappointed that I haven't made a move on her(Possibly because someone else has made a move on her, in a similar context, in the past) and she would like me to have.
/r/seduction06/01/19 09:50 PM
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Sorry if the post is a bit long. I am finding alot of the material on TRP useful. I am also finding alot of the talk about 8's,9's etc counter-productive. I've read it as buying in to someone's frame that isn't your own. Who says when someone is a nine? You do.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 10:56 PM
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"Superior Court Judge William Holden" Anyone watch 'The Expanse'?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 07:58 PM
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She is interested, that is why she brought up that 'people have been trying to sleep with (her)'. Ergo, she shit-tests you and brings your frame around to who wants to sleep with her and whether you would want to sleep with her.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 07:56 PM
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Alternatively, when I put some script above my own I disempower myself. eg: The Red Pill doctrine is so lit, it can fix all my problems. Then when I come to the Red Pill reddit(with this mindset and without awareness of this) I reaffirm that I have problems and that they are beyond my control.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:13 PM
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When I put someone, anyone, on a pedestal I am really projecting the best parts of me on to them. By approaching that individual I am owning this. That these things I see in them are really in me.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:08 PM
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Your mind cannot tell the difference between actions that change the outside circumstances of your everyday life and symbolic acts. Whether I ask a girl out and she rejects me, or I orchestrate a situation where I enter in to a long-term relationship, I am affirming that I have better frame than the girl I am approaching. I don't need to gym for a few hours a day, or sleep with someone everyday to affirm my commitment to myself, a run, making my bed in the morning, approaching(whether I am rejec…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 01:07 PM
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I live in South Africa. Even folks who live in the sticks worry about when and where they are going to sleep with somebody. It has nothing to do with your life situation, it has everything to do with what you do with it.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 12:56 PM
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I am finding some of this stuff really powerful. I am 23, a survivor of sexual abuse. For the longest time I have felt that because I am a man I am a second class citizen. I'm also a recovering drug-addict. When my ex questioned my motives I would cave. When she asked about a girl at a party that I had been looking at(She asked whether I'd been looking) I would tell her that I'd been looking at her and in this case that she was someone I had fancied for as long as I could remember and who had re…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 08:26 PM
1

I read a discourse from a bhuddist who reckoned commitment was insanity. "Why commit to one of so many atoms and say 'This is the one'". He goes on to say that if you are wise you can do anything. Like bhudda, who was engaged, broke out of the palace and ran away from an arranged marriage. The first thing he did when he attained enlightenment was go back and thank her. She asked him whether he couldn't have found enlightenment while in a relationship to her. He said he could have, she became his…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 08:59 AM
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Delayed gratification as part of a framework of creating a sense of meaning in my own life. That can be rewarding. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kk21pJn9EPw In no way am I saying "my way" is the right way. I come to the MGTOW subreddit to expose myself to a different way of looking at myself. Ergo as someone who is setting myself up to lose on my investments.
/r/MGTOW17/05/18 02:27 PM
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"A DEAF and pregnant woman from Kington who avoided prison for sexually abusing a young boy has now been jailed for five years after top judges said her original sentence was too soft." - https://www.herefordtimes.com/news/14808563.Deaf_sister_jailed_for_sexual_offences_after_judges_rule_previous_sentence_too_soft/
/r/MensRights17/05/18 11:45 AM
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Books are good for your head.
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 03:03 PM
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There is a difference between asking for something and expecting something. If I expect something does that mean I'm going to get it? If I ask for something does that mean I'm going to get it. If I do everything in my power for something am I going to get it? And if not, why not?
/r/MGTOW16/05/18 02:57 PM
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As a recovering drug-addict I can assure you love and other drugs have a very similar withdrawal, depending on your level of dependance on them. Being in a loving relationship means letting go of the idea that someone can fix you. No other person and no drug is going to make you anything other than what you are. No matter how much it feels that way.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 02:37 PM
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I am a nother level of stupid.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 02:16 PM
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I'm a single guy with a cat...
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 07:26 AM
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I don't know. Giving freely, without expectation of a return on investment is rewarding. It is a overflow. My cup is full. When my cup is not full I have nothing to give. The water that full's my cup comes in the form of overflow from others. Nature. Patience and acceptance in any and all forms can come from anywhere. I, personally, find it all to easy too abdicate responsibility for my pocketbook. Buy happiness, self-love, elegance and some forms of grace(Things I perceive to be 'in' the women …
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 07:11 AM
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A joy shared is a joy doubled. A sorrow shared is a sorrow halved.
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 07:00 AM
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