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DiscussionDuncanIdaho88/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:43 PM
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DebateDuncanIdaho88/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 01:01 PM
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Ignore as in not contacting said person for anything other than venting their problems to get an ego boost. It’s an example of breadcrumbing. Anyone who’ve tried to use me for an emotional tampon I’ve just cut contact with. They can always find someone else who is an otherwise great guy they can manipulate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:54 PM
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My girlfriend does not vent any of her problems to someone she doesn’t hang out with or discuss other things with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 12:48 PM
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Friends talk about sports, weekend plans, video games, politics etc. They don’t vent their problems ti someone they otherwise ignore. If someone is using tou as an emotional tampon, it is to get validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:20 AM
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Typically when someone cuts contact with a friend, it never was a “normal friendship”. An ex or a failed date offering you a so-called friendship, isn’t offering a normal friendship, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:21 PM
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Examples of leading someone on: Flirting with them just to get an ego boost Ignoring them apart when you want something from them, because you know they like you Sending mixed messages, using them as an emotional tampon, etc. Telling them just friends in cases like this is a way to wash your hands, so to speak. After all, you "told" them just friends even though you implied there was a chance for something more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 12:05 PM
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You don't owe anyone any friendships, and a woman can sometimes pretend she wants to be your friend just to get an egoboost from you by leading you on, or by venting her problems to you once per month. Cutting a "friend" out if he or she leads you on isn't a bad thing. You do not need to justify it in any way whatsoever if you sever contact with a toxic person.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:45 AM
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Obese women are less fertile. That's why men aren't turned on by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:44 PM
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I am more muscular than what women find attractive in that case. The physique presented as most attractive (prefered by 51% of the women in the survey), is achievable without steroids for most men within a six month timeframe. I look like the "very strong" figure, and haven't used any illegal "supplements" for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:00 AM
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Not really. An unflexed six-pack won't appear on most men until 8% bodyfat, due to stubborn fat. At 12%, the contours of the abs are visible, though. Schwarzenegger did not have six-pack abs at 7% bodyfat, and Ronnie Coleman did not have them at 4% bodyfat. A lot boils down to genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 09:35 AM
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I feel that it's more like a score card than a barrier. Because of my Asperger's syndrome, I need to compensate by looking better and having more money. It works, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:17 PM
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My previous FWB lived too far away. Also, our views didn't align that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:39 AM
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Women stop watching reality shows at a later age than men. They also seem to care if a song is on the chartists or not well into their late 20s. Furthermore, it appears that women don't outgrow gossip and.celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 02:18 PM
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https://igotstandardsbro.com/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:02 PM
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Plenty of women who would have ignored me when I was a teenager who wasn't with the cool kids are interested now that I own a fairly large house and a Tesla Model S. Too bad partying and binge drinking every weekend ruins your looks by the age of 23-24, so it's not mutual anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:10 AM
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Also this post is about attraction and it’s biological relationship to fertility. Women in their forties are usually fertile, but men are definitely not equally attracted to all technically fertile women. They're less fertile. The risk of birth defects is also much higher. Women's fertility doesn't come with a backup capacity, after all. Edit: Theres a reason sperm banks have an upper age limit between 34 and 39. Nobody said that sperm quality remained 100% throughout life. Fertility declines at…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 09:19 AM
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Male fertility is not an issue as long as the sperm count is more than 20 million per ml with good motility. Which is usually the case for a 65 year old with good motility. While there is indeed some decline in fertility as a man ages, it's nowhere near as profound as in an aging woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:51 PM
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Men don't reach menopause, and women do. A man in his 60s will have almost the same testosterone levels (except for the morning peak) as a guy in his 20s, and still good fertility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:30 PM
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Some people also say that behind every great man, there are other great men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:35 AM
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Sounds like an FDS rant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 07:27 PM
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This.
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:13 AM
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Can you back any of this up with sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:45 PM
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It's 104 hours per year. Equal to 13 workdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:31 PM
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Nothing you've said proves women work more either. Fun fact: There's housework in apartments too. Undersøkelsen ble gjort blant 7.075 dansker, og viste at menn mellom 18 og 74 år i snitt arbeider seks timer og seks minutter om dagen, mot fem timer og 43 minutter hos kvinnene. It's a survey with more than 7000 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:53 PM
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Remember that there's more to housework than doing the dishes a few times per week and folding clothes every sunday. Housework is also mowing the lawn, changing tires on the car, cleaning the leaves out of the drainpipes, and so on. Hope you can read Norwegian: https://e24.no/karriere-og-ledelse/i/qLy700/menn-jobber-23-minutter-mer-om-dagen-enn-kvinner Including everything, men work 23 minutes more per day -- despite what lazy and useless FDS women want you to think. People want to play the mart…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:02 PM
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I don't know how it is in the US, but in Norway, men still do 20 minutes more work per day, even when housework and childcare is added into the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:55 PM
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And odorless sweat is what a boy has, but not a man. Every man should shower when it's necessary, though. A feminine woman will have less armpit hair than a masculine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 08:15 PM
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And the less the better. A masculine woman has more body hair than a feminine woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:59 PM
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Naturally less hair over the course of evolution. Hairlessness is a sex characteristic of women, just like a lower-pitched voice and hairiness is a sex characteristic in men. Dimorphism isn't a bad thing. I could probably shave most of my body in ten minutes. I'm more hairy than 95% of all men and much, much hairier than you are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:51 PM
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Men are different from women. This is also why a big ass and large breasts are attractive in women, but manboobs are unattractive in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:19 PM
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Shaving armpit hair has little to do with Barbie. Men like feminine women, and the less armpit hair, the more feminine. Shaving your armpits does not take long. I manage to shave my upper back and shoulders in less than a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:18 PM
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As important as brushing teeth. People in a relationships have a responsibility to look more attractive to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 06:28 PM
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A medium height, physically fit, well-educated woman with Asperger's syndrome? Sure thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:00 AM
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Yes, I support a domestic violence offender registry. This, however, should be handled by the government and not private persons. Furthermore, only offenders who have been legally convicted should be registered.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:57 PM
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Many TRP guys are attractive. That being said, they don't leave the house to meet girls. Maybe they go to gym, but gyms are full of people no more extroverted than they are. Some are on online dating apps, but these apps suck for 95% of all men anyway. If you don't have any friends and don't go to college/uni, you won't meet any girls either. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:11 PM
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Not in Scandinavia. You're expected to make the first move in class, for example.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:46 PM
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Oh no that’s absolutely normal ! Not when it comes to Scandinavian women (as long as they're sober; when they drink, it's a whole different story).
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:24 PM
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I'm Scandinavian, though.🙂
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:53 PM
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One was in the classroom at my university. Ended up marrying her. Big mastake. Foreign women also send the first message more often on dating apps, and they also are more likely to send the first message after the first date.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:52 PM
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Plenty of Asian, Eastern European and Hispanic women have made the first move on me.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:38 PM
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It's largely a standard assigned by society and popular culture. In most mammals, the female will initiate the mating. Outside of western culture, it's normal for women to approach men. There's one reason why women don't approach: They're not expected to, and therefore it's simply more convenient to have what you want come to you, instead of doing work to get it yourself.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:25 PM
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Easy to get a date because of good looks (though not as good-looking as 30 year old Ronaldo by any means), difficult to get a lasting relationship because of my Asperger's syndrome.
/r/seduction24/03/22 12:54 PM
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Erotica in the same style as 50 Shade of Grey, had a much, much lower market share in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:47 PM
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Trashy novels about chivalrous knights and not on how cheating on their husband is "exciting and romantic".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 08:05 PM
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Women have been able to work as teachers, housemaids and spinsters for hundreds of years -- and unattractive women often did. Men died in industrial accidents and war, and there were no men left for the most unattractive women. Going back even further, men were crushed by mamooths and whooly rhinos trying to secure food for the pack, leaving a few men with all the women for themselves. To most of the people here: Your grandpa was probably a good guy, and your grandma chose him herself, and proba…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:41 PM
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Not unattractive per se, but my standards were much lower in my early 20s. As a physically fit, highly successful 33 year old man, I reject the same girls who would have rejected me in high school, when I wasn't "cool". Binge drinking every weekend means that these girls rarely age well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:33 PM
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I thank God adult women are not teenagers. Teenage girls want what they see in TV series and reality shows. When I was a teenager, that was wannabe gangsters. Typically, these guys would act tough and pretend that cigarettes were drugs and that their shitty 17 year old compact cars were F&F racers. When placed in serious situations, none of them were particularly tough, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 07:30 PM
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Being good-looking probably helped you. (The two main characters in Cobra Kai are close to 60)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:07 PM
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That's the kind of stuff I miss.😛
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 06:06 PM
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Not all women re interested in hooking up. It is in fact a lot less common than in the past. Casual sex these days is often through FWBs. I'm hookup material; getting laid is much easier than getting a relationship. I also want someone to share my life with, but that's proving to be difficult because of my Asperger's syndrome.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 11:40 AM
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I do rock climbing and hiking too, in addition to weightlifting. Clubbing is something women like better than men; if it wasn't for one-night stands, almost all men would rather play video games at home instead.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:38 AM
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This is a well-known fact. Women don't like the puffy face or red skin that often comes with steroid abuse, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 09:13 AM
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No. A woman never owes her boyfriend sex. Likewise, a man doesn't owe a woman to listen to her or help her redecorate if he doesn't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:54 PM
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As someone who is on the autistic spectrum, makes three figures, is athletic, holds a prestigious degree and is frequently told he's good-looking: Getting dates is easy. Getting sex from women who enjoy casual sex isn't that big of a deal either. Making a relationship last is very, very difficult. Think of attraction as a score card with points for several attributes. Appearance is one attribute, status is one attribute, being able to physically protect a woman is one, and so on. Because of real…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 12:48 PM
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No, I don't think you should cut of all the people you've slept with. Friends who are sexually, but not romantically compatible sleep with each other all the time. Cutting of friends after entering a relationship is a big mistake too many men make.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:58 AM
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It applies to a few men. But wanting to sleep with these women is not the same as wanting a relationship with them. I'd easily sleep with Natalya Poklonskaia if I got the chance. The femme fatale is sexualized in media aimed at men; the bad boy is portrayed as awesome in media aimed at women. The same goes for cheating, interrupting someone else's wedding to confess your feelings for the bride, or dating someone your parents don't like in media aimed at women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 11:11 PM
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People have been lusting after Kim Yo-Jong for years .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 12:36 PM
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Are you leading him on, sharing problems with him that you'd normally only share with a boyfriend, hanging out one-on-one with him and so on? He's likely ignoring the "no" because you say one thing, yet imply another thing. A friendship with an ex will always be inferior to the relationship that was, and as such, it's worth betting it on the chance of a relationship again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:07 PM
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Appearance-wise, men are under more pressure than before. All those attractive male influencers have expensive haircuts, take steroids and wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 03:59 PM
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No exes are friends. It's possible to be friends with benefits for a while, but going from sex, future plans, sharing a home, travelling together etc. to talking about the weather, is too big of a downgrade.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:57 AM
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178 cm. But on online dating sites, I write 181 cm on dating apps. Nobody has noticed so far. I keep a good posture to compensate for my height.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:30 PM
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Women are the gatekeepers to both sex and relationships. If a woman is over 30 and single, she should consider getting more realistic standards. A 5/10 woman is in the same league as a 5/10 man; on a dating app, she might get a 6/10 man who's in an artificially low league because of social awkwardness. Realistic standards are obtained by putting down your cellphone and realizing that chick flicks and TV series aren't like the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 01:12 PM
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Engineer here (master's degree). Getting a first date is easy, and so is usually getting a second date. Getting laid is easy-peasy if the woman is ovulating. Making relationships last is very difficult, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:12 PM
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The problem isn't that too few women "settle", but that too many men do. The scores can be evened a little if men had a little more standards. Sex with an ugly woman isn't better than porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:04 PM
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If you go to the mall, the bus stop or the store, average will be the median woman. If you put 100 random 30 year old women from these places into a room, half will be more attractive than your average 30 year old, half will be less.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:53 AM
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However alot of women be way more interested in a man when they find out he has those things. I've seen it with my own eyes. Correct. A lot of girls who would have had no interest in me in high school when I wasn't with the "cool" kids are suddenly a lot more interested now that I'm successful. Even though this is true for you, you have to admit it's not for alot of men. A lot of plain-looking girls are hit on all the time at work. If a girl is feminine, she can still be unkempt and have many me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:49 AM
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Evolution is one of the most amazing algorithms there is, and not at all dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:30 AM
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I've fallen for many plain-looking girls. I like nerdy, a little non-polished girls. I'd take them over duck-faced Instagram models any day. This is despite the fact that I'm frequently told I'm physically attractive. I also drive a Tesla Model S, own a fairly big house in the city and have a master's degree in engineering. To be fair, nobody had ever told me I have an attractive personality, though (Asperger's syndrome ftw).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 11:28 AM
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Good looks open the door for you, but it won't get you a relationship just because of your looks. Unless you're very rich or in the cool crowd in high school, good looks can be seen as your entrance ticket to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 09:39 PM
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Studies have shown that most women these days prefer hairy men again. Hairless men was a 2000s fad Well-fitting clothes become more important in that case Why can't you go to a gym? If you cannot go to a gym, try an outdoor exercise park. Dips and pull-ups are excellent exercises
/r/seduction30/12/21 02:18 PM
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Grooming and self esteem is much more important than looks. Research shows this. A quick google returned a study that concluded this for looks vs. grooming in the labor market: For both men and women, grooming matters more than attractiveness: Being attractive is not enough; it is doing attractiveness appropriately [being well groomed] that proves one's deservingness and is what gets rewarded I have first-hand experience with this. Getting physically fit and taking care of my skin helped me trem…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/21 09:12 PM
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Age 20 (almost 21). In a one-night stand in late 2009.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:45 PM
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Feminine Moderately attractive Doesn't think cheating is romantic because The Notebook, a reality show or a TV series says it is Can think for herself (not a sheep) Able to hold down an OK job Intelligent No BPD or similar personality disorders. After being engaged to a BPD woman, I struggle very hard not to hate everyone with this disorder Has actual interests, beyond Netflix
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 12:25 AM
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Because the women I match with in real life are higher quality than the ones I match with on dating apps. On Tinder, men are in an artificially low league, while women are in an artificially high league. This is due to the gender imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 04:21 PM
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Why do men need to be physically fit, while women don't need to? What takes more time and effort — putting on makeup or exercising?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:13 PM
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George Sodini (https://static.miraheze.org/reallifevillainswiki/thumb/b/bf/Sodini.jpg/330px-Sodini.jpg) after he looksmaxxed was also very attractive for a guy his age. Being good-looking and successful won't necessarily give you what you want if you have serious mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 06:33 PM
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Progesterone also makes people horny. Low progesterone is why many men on TRT have low sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 07:54 AM
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Drug dealers are quite popular with women though Depends on their age group. Most drug dealers in their 20's, still live with their parents and have addiction issues of their own. They sell drugs to finance their own drug use, because they don't want to steal, prostitute themselves, and stuff like that. The glamorous Miami Vice/Scarface lifestyle, isn't exactly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 01:14 PM
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For every girl who ends up with a grade A asshole, there's a friendly, but unconfident guy who ends up with a nasty BPD girl. Apart from teenage girls, most girls don't like bad boys. Teenage girls do partially because bad boys are portrayed as awesome in TV series, Instagram profiles or reality shows aimed at teenage girls — and partially because the bad boys have access to cigarettes, alcohol and party drugs. These so-called bad boys, are usually wannabe gangsters who cruise in their 15 year o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 11:07 AM
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Being "Miss Popularity" is a female power fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/21 08:22 PM
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Personally, I don't like how advertisements, Instagram pictures and so on are photoshopped. I don't think women should have to be ashamed of their bodies or their face. On the flip side, it's also bad for men using Tinder; I've met many girls there who look nothing like their profile pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 07:44 PM
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Same instincts. They're more closely related to us than to other apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 08:41 PM
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Biology in humans work the same way it works in a chimpanzee. I've never seen a chimpanzee act entitled to a relationship after sex with a male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:55 PM
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Up until the bronze age, FWBs, one night stands and harems was all there ever was. Every man in the pack protected every woman and every child, and the pack leader was typically in his late 30s to mid 40s. Early christian clergymen were polygamous until christianity became the official religion in Rome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 12:23 PM
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But relationships aren't really natural. In the stone age, you knocked someone up and dissappeared long before the child was born. If you exercise, there's very little strength loss before the age of 65.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 09:37 AM
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It's a hell of a lot easier for me to get laid now at age 32 than it was at age 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:49 AM
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Signs of aging is only a big deal because it signalizes declining fertility. This is why aging in men is less problematic in women (although men don't exactly peak at age 60 either).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 12:48 AM
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But is sexlessness on the rise, or is the lack of long-term relationships on the rise? Getting laid isn't that big of a deal once women outgrow partying, reality shows and getting wasted every weekend — even for introverts with Asperger's.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:17 PM
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The testosterone levels of a 30 year old are as good as those of a 20 year old, and the fertility isn't much lower. A man's fertility has a buffer, after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:12 PM
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A woman in her early 20's is in her prime. You're in your prime. I don't see anything wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 11:55 AM
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I was educated enough from being engaged to a BPD woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:40 PM
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I have already read them. If you're dealing with very much drama in your relationship, with plenty of irrational BS other men or women don't have to deal with, chances are you're in a relationship with a BPD person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 08:14 PM
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I have relatives with.bipolar type I and I've struggled with depression myself when I was younger – in addition to anxiety and Asperger's syndrome. I never took it out on others. It's very easy to not be an asshole to others. If you disagree with someone, tell them in a peaceful manner; do not immediately scream, yell or attack. If your co-worker hits on you, tell him you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Do not start fights over housework with your spouse when you never do any housework yourself.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:31 PM
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People with depression or bipolar usually don't take their issues out on other people. They don't lie, cheat, manipulate and deceive constantly. Although to be fair, some so-called BPD people are probably narcicists or sociopaths instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 04:32 PM
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Pretty much everyone with BPD will eventually make your life miserable if you date them. Things can be great for years (with a couple of warning signs every once in a while) before they show their true colors.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 09:36 AM
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The male equivalent to a woman who's always dating fuckboys, is the insecure, awkward bloke who always ends up with unstable BPD women. Bonus fact: Behind every fuckboy, there's a girl who broke his heart
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 05:33 PM
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Shapewear is the ultimate false advertising.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:42 AM
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Being FWBs with someone you've been platonic friends with for a long time, is a bad idea. If you have a crush on her and want to take it further, ask her out on a date. If she declines, then you'll know. You can get FWBs from Tinder.
/r/seduction01/07/21 03:42 PM
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I've found that trying to taper down contact with a girl I'm not interested in will often backfire and have them contact me more intensely. The best way to indicate disinterest is to tell them in a gentle way. There are plenty of women who are with men who are much more attractive than themselves, but then the man is usually socially awkward AF. If the gender roles are reversed (the woman is much more attractive than the man), he's rich AF. People told me I was more attractive than my ex. 1,5 ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 11:14 AM
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Like I said if all this concerns you just improve your diet and use sunscreen. What you’re saying doesn’t really remove the reality that the only reason younger women tend to marry much older men is money Plenty of people at my workplace are with younger women. One guy in his early 40s is engaged to a 24 year old. Sure, programmers make good money, but nowhere near as much as CEOs or movie stars. Chuando Tan hasn’t had the surgery you think he does. Yes, he has. It looks more natural than Sylves…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 09:35 PM
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It’s obvious infertility and defects are also an issue with older men. Yes, a little. A 50 year old man have no issues that a 30 year old woman doesn't have in that regard, though. You can give a 50 year old man Clomid and he'll have a sperm count that puts any 20 year old to shame. It’s obvious infertility and defects are also an issue with older men. The only reason women have tended to go for them historically is resources and leadership/seniority. Women also have a dual mating strategy, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 06:45 PM
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Media influence. Soap operas, reality shows, popular music, Instagram and so on feature more feminine men than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 12:17 PM
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Padma Lakshmi spends more on surgery, HRT, botox, dental care and whatnot than an average person makes per year. She's no more natural than Sylvester Stallone. Our caveman instincts will not see her as 50 years old, but as 38-40 years old. In other words, a man will subconsciously think she's fertile. The reason why actual signs of aging (gray hair, sagging breasts, etc.) are seen as unattractive in women, is because it's an indicator of significantly reduced fertility, increased risk of birth d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 11:51 AM
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Uncanny valley. It's the same reason why men don't like lips with massive amounts of fillers, orange-tanned skin or Lolo Ferrari-style breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 02:08 PM
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No offense but that statement is as pathetic as when FDS women say that all men secretly approve of rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:20 PM
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Didn't say I did. You're active in the MGTOW subreddits, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 08:11 PM
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And we have an MGTOW there. Alpha males are rare. Few women ever sleep with an alpha male; most sleep with betas. Just try not to be an omega male. Or you can try to date FDS women; they're like a gender-flipped version of you. The local mayor, your boss, that charismatic priest in your town that even atheists come to for advice, or that stockbroker who lives in a penthouse apartment are alpha males. The rest aren't. Your doctor, a moderately successful lawyer, or an engineer with his own house,…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:57 PM
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My testosterone levels are in the high 800s, and I wasn't posting any shaming language. Maybe Love Shy Forums is more your alley?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:50 PM
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No, that isn't "just about it". Women take their favorite attribute of every man they have been with and build a "perfect man" in their head, issue one. Just like men. I could never date someone not hourglass-shaped after being with an hourglass-shaped woman for five years. Being seen investing in a woman that every other man around you has had sex with lowers your value among your peers, issue two Your peers don't need to know. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:45 PM
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That's part of life when you're getting older. Whining about it won't help. Move to a non-western country if you feel it's life-crippling.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:43 PM
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Being a so-called slut indicates poor self-control, but that's about it. Spending hundreds of dollars on a new handbag every month is also poor self-control. The same goes for overeating, or being addicted to microtransactions in games. None of these make you a bad person. Without slutty girls, my n count would be much lower. (And I'm man enough to admit it)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 07:29 PM
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That's difficult to find, especially on Tinder. I'm an engineer working with software development; most of my coworkers are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 06:54 PM
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Online dating (for men) in general is like dumpster diving. Sometimes you find good stuff when dumpster diving, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:31 PM
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Nobody should be slut shamed. Also, there's nothing wrong with dating single moms. You need to be careful when doing so, though, so that you don't become someone's ATM.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 12:15 PM
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Intelligent I have a masters degree in engineering and I want someone I can connect with and have an intelligent conversation with Honest It's always a plus if she doesn't cheat because it looked so fucking exciting and romantic in the Notebook Attractive Looks are a showcase for the genetic quality. Therefore, they're important Ambition It's important that she can support herself, instead of staying home all day mooching of my salary No FDS, WGTOW, female redpillers, etc. This goes without sayi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:37 AM
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OP is right. As an adult (age 32) I've rejected attractive women with dead-end jobs, drug issues, mental illness and so on. I'm better than that and shouldn't settle for it. What guarantee do I have that they're not with me just for my money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 11:03 AM
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No, SMV is only pretty good for the very top (good looking) men. They approach women in terms of smv but even then an attractive (7,8) woman blows a 9 guy out of the water in terms of sheer matches and choices. Percentwise, a woman's SMV at age 40 is maybe 30% of what it was at age 25. A 5/10 woman at age 25, has a higher SMV than a 9/10 man at age 25. if an 8 woman wanted to she could stack 3 dates a night every day of the week and she doesn’t need to be in her 20s to do that. Correct. Can she …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 09:38 AM
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They get their info from PUA hate, from MGTOW forums — and other echo chambers. I remember a forum called Love Shy.com that was full of proto redpillers back in the day. It «works» in the sense that Bob gets a chance with Average Alice, without realizing that she was interested all along, and would have dated him even without all the Red Pill crap in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:51 PM
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Again. We are not discussing average schlubs at 25. That is a false equivalency mostly because women do not go for average or below average schlubs no matter what age. I thought we were discussing if men aged better than woman, and if so, then why. Sexual market value won't fall as rapidly for a man as it will for a woman. The only benefit an older father brings is security, wisdom and stability. If the younger male is capable of providing this they are the better choice all things being equal. …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:18 PM
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Older men do not surpass young males in their prime at the top of their fitness game. A 9/10 man aged 50 will surpass a 5/10 man aged 20. He will not surpass a 9/10 man aged 20. It's as simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 11:11 PM
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You’re a man, how can you tell if 50-60 year old guys “look better” than fit 20 year olds when most men peak in their looks at 24-27? They look more like fitness models, and more like masculine Hollywood actors. I didn't say fit 20 year olds. A fit 50 year old man, will often look better than an average 20 year old. Dude, stop. I just proved you wrong on several accounts. Slightly better is an exaggeration. Hook a 28-35 year old up and you’ll see most of them have better cardiovascular fitness t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 10:50 PM
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All things being equal? Technically speaking, the 28-35 year old (young Dolph Lundgren) is only slightly better from a biological POV than the 50-65 year old (old Dolph Lundgren). The difference in maturity, ambitions, life stages and so on are a much bigger hurdle. We all know older men like Chuando Tan are extreme outliers. That’s like saying Christie Brinkley is most women her age. They practically don’t exist for non celebrities. There are guys in their 50s and 60s at my local gym who look b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:45 PM
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You haven’t answered the why if given options a woman should pick a 50-60 year old over a financially stable/well off 28-35 year old. This is a strawman. I never said she should do that. She should choose the one she likes best. From a biological POV, a 30 year old woman is more likely to be attracted to a late 40's successful and handsome bloke (Leonardo DiCaprio) than a 25 year old loser, though. Her losses if she chooses a 50 year old man, are lower than a man who chooses a 50 year old woman,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 09:14 PM
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Your article costs money, and it probably doesn't take into consideration that these men were with women their own age. My link takes that into consideration. I mean why keep insisting that older males are a good option when they are clearly inferior to younger healthy males? I didn't say that the sperm quality of older men wasn't inferior to that of younger men. A 20% reduction in quality is not the same as a complete shutdown in fertility, though, which is what happens to older women. A guy wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:42 PM
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Nope to the second as a man’s sperm is more likely to confer mutations as they get older. A 50 year old man's sperm has about the same chance of being the cause of a serious birth defect as a 30 year old woman's uterus. In short older people need to not match with each other for optimal birth outcomes. A natural conception is usually out of the question at age 45 in most women. “Fertile older males are the greatest mutational health hazard to the human genome.” Because women are infertile by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:37 PM
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I'm not saying modern medicine can't help older women get pregnant. Our instincts don't know that, though. Our instincts see a middle aged woman, they also see a subfertile woman. This is why older women are considered less attractive. Our bodies haven't even adapted to colder climates after living in them for 10,000 years; they're not going to adapt to medical treatment that's existed for 60 years. Modern medicine also means that you can inject a 60 year old man with HMG and HCG — and he'll be …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:23 PM
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https://www.contemporaryobgyn.net/view/reproductive-risks-advanced-paternal-age Further, a review of the literature from 1980 to 1999 found a decrease in semen volume (3%-22%), sperm motility (3%-37%), and percent normal sperm (4%-18%) in 50-year-old men compared with 30-year-old men. As long as the sperm count is more than 15 million per ml with OK motility, the male fertility is not the bottleneck. Your average Joe has around 60 million per ml, which is a pretty huge buffer. Similarly, when co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 08:18 PM
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But a woman's ability to spontaneously abort a fetus with serious defects deteriorates far worse than a man's sperm quality. The risk of Down's syndrome is 1 in 100 for a 40 year old woman, compared to 1 in 1250 for a 25 year old — for example. At age 41, the chance of even conceiving naturally is 4% of what it is for a 20 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:40 PM
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Men don't reach menopause, and the testosterone levels and fertility of a 50 year old is almost as good as that of a 25 year old. The levels between 8 and 10 AM are about 10–20% lower, but throughout the rest of the day, the difference is negligible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 07:07 PM
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After reading about it, I think I might have been in the past. I've worked on it, though, and I no longer feel that I am. Codependency seems to be linked to low confidence.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:41 PM
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Some redpillers obviously do.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:39 PM
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Socially awkward men and emotionally unstable women tend to find each other. Ever noticed how most spouses of BPD women tend to be unconfident, awkward and introverted? Most redpillers are as awkward as you can get. I almost bought into it myself in my late teens,.and I have Asperger's syndrome.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/21 05:25 PM
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A whole lot of men in Hollywood wear wigs. John Travolta and Chuck Norris Are both good examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 06:36 PM
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I was engaged to a BPD woman once. I try not to hate everyone with BPD because of that, but it's very difficult — given that she pretty much was her condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 05:20 PM
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Well done, bro!
/r/seduction25/05/21 07:49 PM
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A lot of nice guys are high school kids who aren't with the cool crowd. They're not old enough to understand how the world works yet. If you smoke and deal drugs, while at the same time being a spoiled brat with rich parents, you'll typically be "cool" in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 03:44 PM
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This. It's like complaining about winning the 2. prize everytime you buy a scratchcard (leaving you with a shitload of Macbook Pros, kickass mountain bikes, and PS5s) instead of winning the first prize once (a Honda Civic).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 04:19 PM
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At least getting sex is something. Remember that nobody owes you anything after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:05 PM
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It's not. But it can be abused.
/r/ExRedPill17/03/21 02:19 PM
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For starters, there's a thread there right now about not dating a man who makes less than you.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/21 08:43 PM
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I've noticed. But like redpillers, many FDS-ers want more than they put out, but with different parameters than aging and fertility.
/r/ExRedPill27/02/21 10:42 AM
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Because red pillers, MGTOWs and FDS-ers don't want someone in their own league.
/r/ExRedPill26/02/21 07:53 PM
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This I can agree on. In every group of people, there's often an alpha male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:31 PM
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Wolves only live in strict hierarchies if you take a bunch of unrelated wolves, put them in a zoo, and force them to form a pack. In the wild, wolves live in families, led by the parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:08 PM
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Just the answer I hoped to provoke. I didn't say I agreed 100% with the article, but it nevertheless makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 02:23 PM
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Their lack of sex appeal, or the fact that they're too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:47 PM
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Men being "intimidated" by career women is just a myth. It's a self-reinforcing delusion, created by women who won't address the actual issue and instead attack men. It's similar to how some 30 year old men believe that they're "too nice" to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:03 AM
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While very "average" facial features are considered attractive, they're not the most attractive. You can still have facial features that deviate from the norm and still be attractive. A chiseled jaw like a young Dolph Lundgren isn't average either. Adam Driver has thick hair, a great voice and an aesthetic AF body. The guy is full of testosterone, by the looks of it. The only thing unconventional about him is that he has less defined cheekbones and a smaller jaw than other Hollywood men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 01:00 PM
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I'd say it's more similar to how some men fantasize about Lara Croft than it is to porn. To be fair, it's a major dissapointment if I meet a girl who says she likes to read, and all she reads is Twilight.😛
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:38 PM
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Behind every man who pumps and dumps, there's a bitch who broke his heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:46 PM
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Sounds like a nice way to meet, actually.😛
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 09:14 PM
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Most women on FDS are lower class, low SMV women who are probably tired of being used as side pussy. This would explain why they're so against porn. They feel if a man puts higher investment in a date — this will lead to him feeling much more emotionally invested and more commitment focused. This is where the problem lies. They expect the man to do all the work and investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 07:55 PM
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An eye for an eye. If you're a heavy cheater yourself (not saying that you are), you deserve to be cheated on. If you constantly lie, gaslight, threaten or belittle your significant other, you also deserve to be hurt back in one way or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:33 AM
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Yes, cheating is a coward's way out. That being said, many men dating a BPD woman hope that she will change back to how she used to be. Also, a lot of BPD women who emotionally abuse their boyfriends deserve to be cheated on. They deserve to feel the exact same pain they inflict on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 11:26 AM
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I agree. Sadly, many men settle, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:46 AM
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Why not? Adults are different from teenagers.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 05:01 PM
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Unless you're in the cool clique, you won't get much sex during high school. It's as simple as that. The guy who has access to alcohol and party drugs get the most attractive girls in high school.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:49 PM
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It's only an important milestone because popular media tells you it is. Popular media is why a man who's 18 and still a virgin is a loser, but a woman who's 30 and still a virgin is "saving herself for the right one".
/r/ExRedPill25/01/21 04:30 PM
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If my ex carved her name in the nappa leather seats of my Tesla or slashed my premium Vredestein tires, I'd take her to court. Nothing would please me more.😎 I'd also post the pictures the camera took on social media and finally show the world how she's really like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:33 PM
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Didn't like it either. A horrible movie in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:20 PM
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This I've noticed too. Women are much less passive at my age, and now actually have to put in some work to get a date.😛 Also, as long as you look good, women no longer care that much if you're socially gifted or hang with "the cool kids".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:47 PM
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Female privilege allowed her to say "it just happened" when she cheated, or to feel bad for herself afterwards and act like the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:46 PM
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If his girlfriend has treated him like shit, acted entitled, behaved like a typical FDS/BPD woman, and so on, then there are sometimes legitimate cases where she deserves to be cheated on. Cheating is a bit spineless, though. In most cases, kicking the bitch out and telling her she have three days to pick up her stuff is the better option. That's what I should have done instead — even though that's the hardest option when you love someone who treats you badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:19 PM
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28 isn't that old. I also felt it was easier in my early to mid 20's than in my teens.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:14 PM
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I'm well-aware of that. However, older father's are nowhere near as risky as older mother's, regarding birth defects. A 50 year old man has roughly the same chance of causing a birth defect as a 30 year old woman. Some 35–40 year old women aren't even able to conceive naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:58 PM
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It's very easy when you're in your 20's. Once you reach my age (32), women are less interested in casual sex. If you have few friends, don't let the girl know. If you're a virgin or inexperienced, don't let the girl know either. If you're anything that reality shows or teen dramas portray as negative, don't let her know, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:21 PM
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In movies and drama series (eg. The Notebook), it's often portrayed as romantic and exciting if a woman cheats. Particularly if her parents do not like the guy she's having an affair with. It's brushed off with "girls just wanna have fun". It doesn't matter how well her husband or boyfriend treats her. Some emotionally unstable women pick up on this and act accordingly in real life. If a man does it in a romantic movie or a drama series, he's automatically an irredeemable sociopath who deserves …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:13 PM
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Because some people haven't matured since high school and they think that therefore, nobody else does either. In high school, you get laid if you're loudmouthed and can get cigarettes, party drugs and alcohol for girls. Some teenage girls are also attracted to wannabe gangsters thanks to the media.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/21 11:56 PM
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Men have always preferred younger-looking women. Women will eventually reach menopause, and after the late 30's, the risk of birth defects increases significantly. A man will have a high enough sperm count (20 x 106 or more) throughout his entire life. The risk of birth defects caused by a 50 year old father is no higher than it is for a 30 year old mother. With that being said, women also put pressure on other women. Remember back in high school, when the most attractive girls were also the mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 05:07 PM
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Yes. I know SOME are. I also know what MGTOW originally meant. Most of these men are OK. There are also some rebranded incels who are simply gender-swapped FDS members. This is because a lot of "colorful" characters use the term today to describe themselves. It's similar to the term "nice guys". 15 years ago, that meant a genuinely nice guy. Today, it refers to an internet stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 05:51 PM
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MGTOW are largely incels rebranded. Some are also regular men who got broken by dating NPD/BPD women. I feel kind of sorry for the latter — as many of these are decent humans deep down. FDS disciples buying themselves rings are similar to MGTOWs buying advanced sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 03:02 PM
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Female Dating Strategy is a group for bitter and entitled women who blame men for their lack of sex appeal. They constantly moan about how men should bring more to the table than they do themselves (just a more fancy word for prostitution), while secretly wishing that a man had bought the expensive rings they gloat about. FDS disciples and MGTOWs deserve each other; these two hate groups are made for each other and from a biological point of view, people from both groups hold the same market val…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 02:38 PM
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Nothing wrong with the guy on the right apart from bad lightning and a slightly bad posture. In any case, he looks much better in those clothes than he would if he'd been wearing a worn out track suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:52 PM
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Baldness is only unattractive because media tells you it is unattractive. It's a sign of high androgen levels (more specifically, DHT). Wrinkles, gray hair, and so on are not a sign of low testosterone – nor low fertility. Testosterone levels between young and middle-aged men are only significantly different in the morning, not in the evening or afternoon. As long as you have at least 15 million sperm cells per milliliter, the man is not the bottleneck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:42 PM
1

Because men don't reach menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 11:28 PM
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I'm 32 now. If I was a woman, there would still be plenty of time. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 11:15 PM
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These men have a talent that they have worked on, usually. They're skilled musicians, elite gamers, comedians, and so on. Compare PewdiePie's clips with Dinglederper's clips and see what both genders make money on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 05:29 PM
1

Then I could still make money of Only Fans before menopause.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:27 PM
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Correct. And the average for my age range would be the average 25–35 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:17 PM
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As a cute little child? Yes. As a grown man? No chance in hell. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:14 PM
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Average is what you see at work, the mall or outside on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:13 PM
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Most women are 5–6/10. That's how the scale works. If we say that the average woman is a 5.5 ((10-1)/2), then a 6.5/10 woman is a standard deviation above the norm —and a 4.5 woman is a standard deviation below.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:08 PM
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The only male gamers that make any money are both really good and really charismatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:06 PM
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Anyone who's a 5/10 or better can make money of Only Fans. As far as unboxing goes: https://www.google.com/amp/s/finance.yahoo.com/amphtml/news/youtube-s-highest-paid-star-is-a-woman-who-unboxes-disney-toys-062606350.html If you want to make money the same way as a male, you have to be a cute little child or you have to be extremely funny, like Stuart Ashen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:00 PM
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I could also make money unboxing Disney merchandise, only showing my hands. 🤑
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 03:22 PM
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The same thing I'm doing now (engineering), while maybe making a little extra on Only Fans or YouTube per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:53 PM
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Men like women with a high level of female hormones and a low (but still healthy) level of male hormones. That's how it's alway been,and it's not because of pedophilia. Women in Munch's paintings look no different from modern day Hollywood actresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 03:25 PM
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I think it's largely because of media influence. That's why a woman who's a 30 year old virgin is "pure", or is "simply saving herself for the right man". It's also why every guy who's out of high school and still a virgin is a loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 05:14 PM
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Being pushy and making the first move are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 12:00 AM
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Not trying to be a white knight or anything. With that being said, a lot of the points from modern feminists are valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:58 PM
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While I agree that they're benign on an individual level, you need to see the entire picture in the grand scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:23 PM
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At least you admit it. Beats the myth thats men are repulsed by or intimidated by women who initiate because «I tried once and then the guy lost all interest».
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 10:13 PM
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I know that women sometimes approach men. That's how I ended up with my ex. However, it's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:45 PM
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What it basically boils down to, is that you found the passive role much more convenient. 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:44 PM
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I like women with ovaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:43 PM
1

Privileges, not rights. I guess that's the right word. People acted as if the mediocre Ghostbusters reboot is the worst movie ever, for example, back when it was new. The truth is that it was yet another run of the mill, forgettable movie. Another example is the sexism in some online games.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 08:42 PM
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Social conditioning is a powerful drug. Women's rights are improving (the US is still behind Western Europe here), but women also need to let go of some of the privileges to be equal with men. The man doing all "the work" in dating, stems from a time when women were supposed to be seen and not heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 12:24 PM
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Depends on your social circle. If you meet few women most of the time (eg. you work as a software developer and you don't like night clubs), meeting women is hard. I'm a former incel myself. I have Asperger's syndrome, and i solved it by mechanically learning basic social skills. In addition, I upped my score a bit by being physically fit and getting a good education. I think that many incels fail to realize that being "mediocre" isn't good enough when you're socially awkward AF. I genuinely bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/20 03:47 PM
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