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Dunlop60_2/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/25 05:48 PM
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>Appetite control I left another comment with more practical advice for your day-to-day, but I also strongly recommend Retatrutide. I didn't have the willpower to cut back when I was fat until I got on Phentermine, which showed me that eating less wasn't gonna kill me. Phentermine is outdated dinosaur shit now, GLP inhibitors are the way forward and they have impressive results. I'm on Reta currently for my big long cut. It's a miracle peptide. It's been boosting my metabolism and cutting out a …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 09:33 PM
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we all were at some point. If we weren't, we wouldn't be here
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 09:22 PM
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She'll definitely pick up on it when you're out and about together. My wife remarks pretty frequently that other girls tend to give her the stink eye if we're at the gym together. And I always say something to the effect of "lol, they're so jealous of you"
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 07:04 PM
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I love shark week because I love period sex
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 07:01 PM
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I've also got 3 kids...it seems "overwhelming" at first, but it's not that much. My parent's generation was popping them out in litters. And you've got nothing to kill your confidence there - I'm sure you're already seeing that there's a ton of younger girls with a Daddy fetish out there. Kids just sweeten the pot. As long as you're on your Dad game when your with them, a lot of that energy carries over into being Daddy and that makes panties wet
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 02:32 PM
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I was too drunk to notice
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 02:22 PM
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heh, I remember the sorry anxieties. I went through a few pretty similar scenarios when I was retarded till I figured something out If you, say, dropped something on her foot and actually hurt her, that's not a comfort test. You hurt her. It's perfectly acceptable to say "Oh shit, I didn't mean to do that. Are you okay?" Then actually make sure she's okay and give her a hug and a little kiss on the forehead or something. Think of it as aftercare out of the bedroom.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 04:22 AM
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Nice return post, way to own your shit
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 04:14 AM
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It's a lot easier to cut now than ever. There's tons of zero sugar, low calorie, keto, and high protein options out there, but some are a bit pricy. Zero calorie sodas are everywhere and better than the real thing. Built and Barebells make protein bars that legit taste like candy. Hell, tonight I had a massive breakfast burrito for dinner. Just bacon and sausage and eggs and potatoes - and with the keto tortilla I wrapped it in it added up to maybe 650 calories and 40g of protein. Seasonings are…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/26 03:19 AM
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Ooh, I like that one. I have a ton of credit at Eternity Collars but I'm not a big fan of their designs
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 07:30 PM
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Women, lulz Mine started wearing hers again after we talked last week. But I think a new one would be appropriate for the occasion
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 06:59 PM
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Looks like I have a fun new experiment to try out this week
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 06:57 PM
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Just because you don't talk about fight club doesn't mean you need to act sneaky and shady about it. NMMNG and WISNIFG are both very non-offensive books, all you need to say is "I'm looking to improve myself" and leave it there You own allowing your fiance to nitpick forever by setting a boundary and enforcing it. Use AA and or fogging to deal with it. If you don't know what that means yet, read those two books. That's all you need to worry about right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 06:56 PM
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Yup, that's exactly what the plan is. I've got an opportunity here, I'm not going to waste it. The first officer has been waiting for the captain to get back on the bridge, and she's eager to take his orders. She already wants me to write up a new D/s contract, lol
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 06:47 PM
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I like turning it into a little game. How wet can I get her? What if I just pulled out and shoved my cock in her mouth and made her taste her juices on my cock? Can I get a finger in her asshole from x or y position? Can I get her to keep eye contact with me while she cums? How long can I choke her till she's on the absolute edge of passing out? Right now my white whale is getting her to squirt. Still haven't cracked that one yet
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 06:42 PM
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Oooh those are good. A personal favorite of mine is "I have a very particular set of skills, skills that I have acquired over a very long career" with a little half grin. 60% of the time, it works every time
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 05:26 PM
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divorced dad with 3 kids You mean you're already an experienced Daddy? It's a strength dude, not a weakness.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 05:11 PM
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Once you get to the other side and the sex is on tap, you find yourself getting bored of it after a bit. Duty sex becomes a thing for you. Things like this help keep it fun. And she wants you to objectify the shit out of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 05:07 PM
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Load up on veggies as much as possible. They're basically no calories and make you feel full. Drink a big glass of water or a few zero sugar sodas with every meal. All that liquid fills your stomach and makes you feel fuller longer. Also keeps you better hydrated Put the fork down between bites. Take your time eating and enjoy your food. Don't just shovel shit in your mouth like a pig eating slop. There's lots of things that are cheat codes. Keto bread and tortillas and buns are a godsend - you …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 04:49 PM
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OYS 2.4 - Back in the saddle again I posted a lot here a few years back. Thought I'd "mAdE iT". Turns out I hadn't. My own hyperfixated ego was driving the ship and I ended up killing the puppy, then the puppy bit me back hard. Stats: 6'1 | 197 lb | ~15% BF (visual) | 38 y/o, married, 3 boys Lifts - with the back tweak and being sick this week, it's as good a time as any to take a recovery week. It's been a minute since my last one. Physical - cut is cruising along well. I will have my abs Sex -…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/26 03:35 PM
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Judging by your results, you haven't really learned much yet. And honestly, that's okay. It comes in time. You need direction. Answer those questions I asked you. You'll direction there. It doesn't really matter what you want, but you need to want something.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/26 01:13 AM
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That wasn't an analysis. Answer those questions. Answer them honestly. This is for you, not for me
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/26 01:11 AM
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for real, it's gotta be like running your phone on 20% all the time
/r/MarriedRedPill14/08/26 05:57 AM
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It's been a year, let's see if he can be honest enough with himself to figure out how to get through step 1
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 05:33 PM
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Yeah, he's just throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping something sticks.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 03:05 PM
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It looks like you're in the AuDHD trap of overthinking everything. and overfocusing on your negative results, and it's turned you into a dancing monkey. And you're probably a little more sensitive to rejection than most, which makes it more difficult to stay consistent with what you're doing. I've got a few questions. And I'm not asking these to be critical of you. I'm not here to judge. These are questions you need to answer for yourself. Do you love your wife? Do you like your wife? What are y…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 01:25 PM
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I don't think he lacks focus, I think it's the opposite. I think he's too hyperfocused on doing things one certain way, and too hyperfocused on a certain outcome based on doing things a certain way.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/26 12:15 PM
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I have a history of herniated disc Totally get that. Back injuries are tough to work around. It's okay to find something that works for you and stick with it. The important thing is that you're giving yourself some sort of heavy leg movement. I'd recommend making a goal to working up to 10 full range pullups before anything else, if your tendons can manage it. That'll blow up your lats better than anything else She transformed into feminism Ahhhh, there it is. You're playing on European Extreme …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 06:30 PM
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Not trying to put you down here, but this whole post reads like an android trying to learn what it is to be human. Gym lifts I haven't read your OYSes from the start, but right now your benchmark lifts are largely accessory lifts. Where's your squat and deadlift? Are those also a part of your routine? Can you do a pullup yet? Diet In freedom units, you're 6'2 and around 190 lbs at ~18% bodyfat...but probably higher since the navy method is okay at best. If you're just coming off a bulk, spend a …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 01:58 PM
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Homeboy's over here running marathons every day
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/26 01:25 PM
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Not gonna lie here...your advice specifically was what I came back here looking for. And I think this is really what i was coming back to hear.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 10:55 PM
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Oh i know. It's the decision itself that's the difficult part.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 08:32 PM
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Yeah...this one hit hard. For the last few years now, I've been going on a whitewater rafting trip every summer with my brother in law. This year, they decided I was experienced enough to start guiding the rafts. This trip has two runs - the Main run, which is shorter and more forgiving, and the Cabarton run, which is a lot longer and has a couple of really technical rapids, and things can get dangerous real quick if you go down in them. After doing well on the main, they told me I was guiding C…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 08:03 PM
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that's...why I'm here
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 07:23 PM
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Because even though there is still very much love in this relationship, I'm not sure that I can ever trust her again. I want to. I really do. Maybe this is something that can be fixed after some time apart working on myself. I hope so. At my core, I feel like I've crossed my own point of no return here, and I'm too afraid of looking like a coward if I change my mind later. My own ego around my lack of experience before my marriage is absolutely fueling that "I can't stand to be cucked" mindset I…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 06:39 PM
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>The moment you demanded to fuck other women fidelity was off the table, Cap. Yeah man, that's the thing I've come to accept in the last month or so. These are the consequences of a really bad covert contract. Some timeline here - I've noticed her wanting me more long before I fucked her again last night. She's been like that for the last couple of weeks now. I realize now that I buried the lede here, but she was actually the one who suggested going on a date after a long separation in the first…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 06:31 PM
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>20% bodyfat You're fat dude. Focus on cutting. A bodybuilder friend of mine told me you "still build muscle" on a cut...I don't know if it's true or not, but it's a useful mental model that keeps you pushing hard while you are cutting. Get down to 15% before you build again, otherwise you're just always gonna be fat. You don't have to be Johnny Six Pack unless that's what you want, but you're not gonna see a lot of gains at 20%. There's nothing wrong with machines when you have injuries or just…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 06:19 PM
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Read NMMNG. Get on some Ozempic and stop being such a fatass. STFU. That's all you need to worry about. You don't need our consensus. You need to start making decisions for yourself. Machines are fine - great even, especially if you have injuries or want to hyper-focus on a particular muscle group - but for the most part you aren't there yet. Everyone needs a foundation of compound lifts first. Not just for the technique, but for the fear. Failures and max attempts hit a lot differently when the…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 05:58 PM
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Everyone that's an aspiring Daddy needs to emblazon this post in the back of their eyelids. This is it, right here. Focusing on what you do have, what you do give, and how that love is recieved and returned to you is infinitely more rewarding and fulfilling than wishing you could be a little boy again with mommy's tit in his mouth. And that casual intimacy this creates will leave you in need of a Cialis prescription and an extra liter of water every day
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 05:46 PM
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OYS 2.3 - Back in the saddle again I posted a lot here a few years back. Thought I'd "mAdE iT". Turns out I hadn't. My own hyperfixated ego was driving the ship and I ended up killing the puppy, then the puppy bit me back hard. Stats: 6'1 | 200lb | ~15% BF (visual) | 38 y/o, divorcing, 3 boys Lifts - I lightly tweaked my back doing rack pulls. Fuck. Been taking it easy for the last few days, I'd rather spend a few days going on walks till I'm back to normal than spend a few weeks unable to lift.…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/26 05:14 PM
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So you've got something to build back now that you're in the gym again. That's definitely better than starting out from zero. Based on your lifts it seems like you have a bit of a T-rex build going on as well. I'd recommend more emphasis on your upper body than your lower. Don't skip leg day, but if your upper lifts suck that bad compared to your lowers then the part of your physique that everyone will actually notice first needs to be your emphasis right now. Usually I'd just recommend sticking…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 06:01 PM
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110% spot on. He's still hung up on his wife's responses, not having fun for the sake of having fun and living for himself. He's missing out on a ton right now
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 04:22 PM
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> I agree with you 100% – but what happens when all of this is done and sex still isn't happening? Yeah, you could just have a dud. Happens to lots of guys around here. > I know I have to ask myself what I really want. Either I'm OI and just move on with my day, or if I really have and want to fuck, I find another pussy to fuck. So far I'm stuck in this model, unhappy with 1 but not going for 2. So I have to decide what way it will be, thank you. Y'know, actually...do you flirt with other women …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 01:18 PM
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Dude...you've been doing OYS for over a year at this point. How have you not figured this out yet? I'm seeing some traits and behaviors with your spiralling, hyperfixation on getting laid, and heavily stalled progress in this area and I'm gonna step out on a limb here and guess you're on the neurospicy spectrum somewhere. You might not even be aware of it. I'm not judging, I am too. I'm just coming around to acknowledging this for myself. It's really made a huge contribution to the less than ide…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 06:03 AM
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Nobody's squatting their bodyweight after 2 weeks in the gym
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 12:48 AM
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Yeah, none of the guys were particularly high quality. One of them hadn't fucked his wife in 8 years 🤣
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 12:13 AM
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That's exactly it. I killed the puppy, then she started testing branches. Hurting me back was also a big motivator here She was using snapchat to send nudes and do video chats with guys. Even had a long distance relationship with one of em for a few months. She went behind his back too and he ended up breaking the whole thing to me. I stuck around partly out of guilt, partly because I was too broken up about everything to do anything else, and partly because it was a weird line she'd crossed. As…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/26 12:11 AM
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I've got a few thoughts: > Weekend is for sex. Wait...why? > My main issue is the way I initiate. I have to read more material here and improve building tension. How do you initiate? Do you flirt with her throughout the day? Have you seen blurring the lines between sex and intimacy? I'm not sure if Sex God Method is still floating around, but...if you can snag it somewhere, do it. It's a fantastic guide at how to fuck real good. Either way, you can't just initiate, check a box and say "well, I d…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 10:38 PM
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>Got to the gym at 5:30 yesterday and note more men lifting heavier weight than when I go in the evenings. Watch yourself there...be around that kind of a crowd for inspiration, not comparison. There's a real fine line between "I'm gonna look like these guys some day" and "I'll never look like these guys". Don't be afraid to talk to them either...most of the biggest dudes in the gym are some of the nicest dudes you'll ever meet and they're almost always willing to take a minute to give you some …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 10:22 PM
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explains why they're higher than his deadlifts
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 10:18 PM
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That negative self-talk seems small, but it's a poison that can run deep and really fuck up a lot of things that you don't even notice
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 10:15 PM
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That's spot on, actually. Sex was always free flowing before, during, and after the cheating. Hell, it's still always on the table right now. Because of that, I took it as a sign that I was still "DoInG iT rIgHt". I acted really indifferently a lot of the time, ignoring my instincts because I didn't want to be acting "JeAlOuS", because that's "uNnAtRaCtIvE." And no, that was just me not embracing control. My mental models were way out of whack What can I say, I learn the hard way
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 09:54 PM
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So it's kind of a "the tighter you squeeze, the less control you'll have" kind of thing, in your view? It's kind of a "zen and the art of motorcycle maintenence" approach. I can see the appeal. Maybe I'll try it out for a bit and see if it works for me, at this point I'm open to giving anything a shot. It makes sense. I'm definitely not trying to monitor my thoughts 24/7 right now - that's exhausting. Right now it is more about developing a general awareness and being able to recognize these hyp…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 05:43 PM
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Yeah...I definitely am someone who needs to learn the hard way to really get the lesson to sink in sometimes, haha. Half the time I'm okay and can accept it for what it is, but it comes and goes in waves. I'll level out soon enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 04:05 PM
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Oh...yeah, I posted an OYS last week, that had all the context. Long story short, I'd left some deep insecurities of mine unaddressed for way too long and I ended up nuking my marriage. I was an asshole about them in a bad way during a really rough time in her life, and she ended up cheating on me multiple times over social media. Tried to "wOrK tHrOuGh It", realized that was all bullshit. So...the divorce was caused by the lack of frame. I'm coming to realize I've got some sort of AuDHD and tho…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 03:48 PM
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OYS 2.2 - Back in the saddle again I posted a lot here a few years back. Thought I'd "mAdE iT". Turns out I hadn't Stats: 6'1 | 200lb | ~15% BF (visual) | 38 y/o, divorcing, 3 boys Lifts - I haven't maxed in a while. Injuries kept piling up, so I'm doing machines and compound variations for the most part. My current goal is getting shredded, so muscle growth is on the backburner for at least another 20 pounds. Physical - I really didn't realize just how much you really have to cut to get down to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/26 03:01 PM
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yeah, after trying out the exercise it makes a little bit more sense. baby steps. Honestly the hardest thing to force myself to do. Baby steps
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/26 10:25 PM
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Yes, I very much did fail that. Why do you care who/what she's doing? Logically, I know I shouldn't. Mentally, I should be well to that point by now. Sometimes I kind of am. I guess it's a mix of ego, 15 years of emotional attatchment, more than a little bit of oneitis still hanging around even through all the bullshit. It's a fucking mess. I've always been deeply insecure about my body count being only 2 - my wife and then a girl we had a 3 way with a long while back. It's been a hyperfixation …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/26 02:46 PM
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Yeah, that absolutely is my problem. An urgency to understand, driven by ego. You can honestly apply that same impatience to a lot of other things in my life. It's hugely impacted my sense of self worth and self assurance. For what it's worth, I did it yesterday. It was pretty profound, really hard to put into words. That 20 minutes was up before I knew it. And I learned that with some effort, I can direct my hyperfixations
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/26 02:30 PM
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I think I'm getting it...it's kind of nebulous and hard to verbalize, but I think what you're getting at here is becoming hyperfixated on my own mind and self rather than just feeding the intense need for some sort of novelty and stimulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 09:23 PM
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Dude. Hell yes. I'm not looking to medicate. What I'm looking for is to be able to understand how and why my brain is why it is, get better at recognizing when it happens, and learn to work with it rather than fight against it. I've also been living with it all my life and I started figuring this out about myself 2 weeks ago. So I'm just barely getting started with walking down that road. I'm not looking for the easy way out, I'm looking to conquer it and make it work for me as best as possible.…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 08:11 PM
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Well...the biggest thing in my favor is that I have way better connections than her. I'm not gonna say legal action is out of the question, but it's a low likelihood. Right now my plan is exactly that - play my nice card and protect myself. What happened to all that shadow work? Good question man. Turns out there's way deeper stuff buried down there, and it's gonna take a professional and a diagnosis to figure some stuff out. I very likely have some sort of AuDHD spectrum disorder. It explains a…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 07:00 PM
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Nah, she was a ride or die until things went to shit. Honestly I think I broke her first. I doubt this would've happened if I hadn't nuked shit like I did. Instead of being the Oak Tree during probably the most difficult time in her life, I got hyperfixated on my insecurity and basically threatened to leave her if she wouldn't let me go up my notch count while staying committed to me. It was completely fucking stupid. There's no coming back from that. Honestly, I'd have done the same thing in he…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 02:13 PM
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Idk man...if it was doomed from the beginning, that's more on me and my own lack of relationship/sexual experience than anything else. I'm coming to realize I likely have some sort of AuDHD spectrum thing. Getting professionally evaluated is one of my priorities right now. In relationship terms, it means I tended to hyperfocus on my insecurities and had a very difficult time communicating at all. And, like, real talk here - I fucked up pretty bad myself. Can't say I'd have done anything differen…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/26 01:56 PM
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Oh hey dude, I remember you too! Like a little class reunion over here, hahaha
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/26 08:59 PM
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Yeah, it's amicable at least. Could be a lot worse
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/26 04:37 PM
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OYS 2.1 - Back in the saddle again I posted a lot here a few years back. Thought I'd "mAdE iT". Turns out I hadn't Stats: 6'1 | 200lb | ~15% BF (visual) | 38 y/o, divorcing, 3 boys Lifts - I haven't maxed in a while. Injuries kept piling up, so I'm doing machines and compound variations for the most part. My current goal is getting shredded, so muscle growth is on the backburner for at least another 15 pounds. Physical - I'm handsome, and I'm pretty hot. Not a bodybuilder by any means but I've g…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/26 07:02 PM
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think it's time to start a side hustle. the future is now.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/25 09:02 PM
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sounds like a great business opportunity tbh
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/25 09:01 PM
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yeah it's actually a perfect depiction of the whole betabux side of things. fucking hilarious
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/25 09:00 PM
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I imagine that Martha Stewart in the bedroom is exactly like Martha Stewart on her show
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/25 08:36 PM
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