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| 1 | I spent a lot of time studying how to tackle approach anxiety and consolidated my findings into one document.Wow. Great job! It is a long read but I️ read every word! This is solid! | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How bad do I look 1-10?There isn't anything to improve. You're a good looking guy. Take the compliment, say thank you and put a brick in your confidence wall! ;) | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How bad do I look 1-10?The absolute best advice I can give you is keep your personality genuine and be likeable. By that I mean be nice to everyone (treat wait staff like your mom is serving you every time, give a genuine compliment to a stranger every day), don't make fun of people, don't talk badly about anyone, smile at strangers, keep a positive outlook on everything, find the good in everyone every time and treat every girl with respect. All these things will build your confidence too which is extremely attractiv… | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 05:58 AM |
| 3 | How bad do I look 1-10?Very good looking guy!!!! Keep the personality up - you got it going on! | /r/seduction | 17/09/17 05:40 AM |
| -1 | Making women feel good at their worstTHIS 1,000x!!!! Very well said U/monkeyMannnn!!!!! | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | She asked me why I haven't made a move. I didn't know what to do other than be honest with her. Is this a bad thing?I think zero damage is done. It's just time to make a move. Be bold and be confident. She has given the green light, time to roll on through! | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | What are ways to escalate to attraction from good rapport?While I agree with above comment, I will add to it: Make it personal about HER. Once she is laughing and you have her relaxed, giver her a genuine, heartfelt compliment about something specific; something nice like "you have the most beautiful smile" or ""your eyes are caprivating". Refrain from "you are cute/pretty" - be specific only to her. Gradually move in closer - if someone bumps you take a full step in to her or if it isn't in a crowded place just take minute steps toward her every few m… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 07:02 PM |
| 2 | The Eye ContactLike what has been said but also - if you are passing her, give it half a second then turn around to get another look. If she turns around and looks too (and your eyes meet again) might want to consider a u-turn and an approach!!!! :) | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Something I noticed about myself, hopefully others can relate.Great post! I can't answer texts (or anything) at work and I have a child at home that I like to spend time with in the evening so I don't have much time to reply - I want to, I just don't have that much time. This girl sounds awesome! Congrats! | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 05:14 PM |
| 11 | Girl gave me her number. Now What? I've never gotten this far.Female here- don't play the waiting game. Just text her. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 12:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you short guys (~5' 6") gain the confidence to talk to girls when there's so many taller and more qualified guys? I feel SO discouragedNope and nope. My man is less than an inch taller than me. Bring it on!!! Confidence is everything (not arrogance). Be confident even with a woman in heels. It is unbelievably hot when my man who is less than an inch taller than me begs me to wear my 5" heels. He is comfortable with himself and loves to show me off - and I love it! Shorter man? Absolutely 100% zero problem if he has confidence!!!! Especially when he asks me to wear my 5" heels in bed - let the fireworks begin!!!! | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 03:14 AM |
| 8 | Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.Can confirm the genuine, unique compliment given with sincerity. Shows you are paying attention to detail and going a little further than most. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | F/21 Guys, what do I say and how do I approach a guy to show I'm interested?The old accidental butt touch is a classic! Your embarrassed, you blush, apologize, giggle, and say "since I touched your butt can I at least have your name?". Works for my best friend every time - if not a romance at least a new aquantaince/friend! | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Third date, feeling a lot of pressure due to lack of experience. Tips?A good way to take the pressure off at the end of the night is to kiss her in the middle of your date (in a more private place and just a sweet, tender, light touch of the lips). I always find it endearing a guy does this in the middle of the date. It also sets a little anticipation for when the date ends because I cannot wait for that goodnight kiss! Good luck! | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 04:55 PM |
| 4 | How to hold a conversation and be able to talk forever with anyone. Develop your million dollar mouthpiece with this one mindset shift.I've always found when there is a good, solid connection, the conversation never ends. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Just case any of you need a reminder or to find this out to begin withOne thing that boosted my confidence is to compliment random strangers. "Nice smile", "Gorgeous hair". You make their day, you give a sincere compliment and it makes you smile and kind of gives you the boost you need when approaching attractive people. You know how to compliment strangers, walk up to her and use that sincere compliment - like OP said, you'll know if she's interested! Good luck gentlemen! Great post OP! | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | When to text after first date?If you like her and are into her and want something to work out, the second you are out of her presence - or when you get home. I love when guys do that when the date is amazing. Casual hookup, whenever you feel like it. | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 10:59 PM |
| -1 | If you have game, any girl is yours...This screams douchebag to me. I like to know I'm the girl you are after. If I get a fraction of a vibe that says otherwise, I won't give you the time of day. Even if you do get past initial conversation, try to touch me too soon and you kill all chances. I don't care how hot you are, it's over before it begins when this crap happens. | /r/seduction | 26/07/17 10:33 PM |
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