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/r/MensRights09/08/24 04:17 PM
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these women are actually brilliant and well deserving of the job, This is how it should be. They should be hiring them because they are amazing not because of their gender or whatever. I get that in the past they didnt do that and its nice they want to hire them but having discriminatory hiring police is insane.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 01:38 AM
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Its legalized racism/sexism/whatever I get its nice to have different peoples in jobs but they are basically hiring them over all others which is technically illegal but no one cares.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 01:36 AM
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One thing I have learned recently is to do a half ass job because if you work hard and do more they will just dump everyone elses work on you and expect you to do more and more for nothing extra. Literally someone who did a certain job quit. The guy who does part of that job got the task and did the absolute minimum. I did it the next time because I took pride in what we do...then it became my job to just always do it on top of everything else (plus other things kept getting dumped on me). I wil…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 01:32 AM
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gay, small dick, incel its amazing how this stuff comes out from some when they are insulted by you not doing what they want.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:55 PM
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This reminded me of a random story. One time I was driving a large truck for work and it broke down in a parking lot in a busy main lane for a huge strip mall. Unable to move. A lady with a huge pick up and a winch stopped and pulled me into a spot. She was like so happy to help (I think have fun with her truck lol). It was very surprising. I wish I had gotten her number or something but Im sure she was married and also I was screwed with work/time due to the breakdown.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:53 PM
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Also thats not even true. Women arnt saying "we pick the bear (because if we pick the man they might just ignore us entirely?)" Her own comment makes no sense its just a way to shit on men.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:47 PM
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This type of woman wouldnt do the "emotional labor" of listening to their partners problems but expect us, a total stranger, to put our life on the line to save their money...? Get fucked. and lets be honest its a robbery, that sucks and is bad but its quite different than if she were being murdered or raped or something. I think in those situations people might step up to help someone but not over money.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 07:42 PM
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Then if you reply "you have been silenced..." at least in other places on here
/r/MensRights15/07/24 06:37 PM
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to be honest I would rather this happen in regards to fictional events rather than real life. like remember when a wife went and chopped of a man penis and major talk shows were literally laughing about it? absolutely wild looking back on this. It was like mainstream normie Jay Leno jokes every night.
/r/MensRights13/07/24 12:55 AM
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I think in the comics he gets it from Black Noir instead but its treated more seriously. But the Boys is all around fucked up in general. I think the idea of having a sex dungeon is pretty funny but I think the thing with Hughie shouldnt be considered a joke (but that kind of stuff often is in our culture for some reason)
/r/MensRights13/07/24 12:53 AM
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Make them a separate crappy course that teaches them stuff everyone already knows anyway and let people who want to learn learn the hard stuff?
/r/MensRights27/06/24 06:19 PM
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Even then, they are one DM away from Chad to monkey branching away. one of my exes moms did this to her dad. IN her 50s. He was the nicest guy and they lived a nice comfortable life. Old guy from highschool on facebook. Broke up the family. Oddly enough both of the girls who have cheated on me also have patterns of cheating and have cheater moms. At first I felt that I wasnt good enough but when you see the pattern with them you realize it really is just who they are.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 04:28 AM
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So many guys have gone through this same story. It sucks it sets you back who knows how long while they often just move into some other guys house and repeat the cycle
/r/MensRights27/06/24 04:25 AM
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Correct but good luck
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:47 PM
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I dont see why they shouldnt if we should. They are equal to us after all and have the same rights and are allowed in the military, why shoudnt they get drafted? It would be stupid not to right? (unless we just want to end the draft stuff...which they probably wont)
/r/MensRights20/06/24 07:46 PM
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the president did it and the governor of California I guess its ok for everyone, who knows?
/r/MensRights19/06/24 11:04 PM
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How shitty
/r/MensRights17/06/24 03:02 AM
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Its been a thing long before tik tok this one was from 2011 and it killed the guy https://www.ksdk.com/article/news/knockout-game-defendant-gets-life-sentence/63-308697366 https://www.riverfronttimes.com/music/st-louis-musician-attacked-in-knockout-game-assault-says-hes-not-angry-at-them-3132363
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:37 PM
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Im sorry that happened. How pathetic of them. Call the employee out next time you see him "Oh, you speak English now but not when I was attacked and needed help?"
/r/MensRights16/06/24 03:27 PM
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Are men and boys allowed to report it as well or just the ladies as the post implies? Crazy how they word these things
/r/MensRights14/06/24 05:37 PM
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Its just a way to shit on men. In real life they would never take a bear over a man.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 04:13 PM
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Most people only care about what we can do for them. They want us to work for them, or pay for them, or provide services or whatever and dont care that we are human beings.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:59 PM
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They are just bad people and a lot of people have these views. I was just banned from /r/interestingasfuck for posting here because we dont "argue in good faith" whatever that has to do with their sub. People just hate that men stand up for themselves or care about eachother.
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:58 PM
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the thread in news is locked for some reason
/r/MensRights05/06/24 07:10 PM
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Can you imagine how pleased with herself she must have been when he won the rep nomination? I bet they were all celebrating and high fiving eachother
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 06:37 PM
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disgusting
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 06:35 PM
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1) Takes attention away from them or the issues they actually care about 3) They view us as having no issues and everything in our lives is great and perfect and if they see we have problems a lot of their world view comes into question. A lot of the political discourse over the last decade plus has been about how men (especially white straight men) have everything good and how we are oppressors etc.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 06:21 PM
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Not only punishing an innocent man but also allowing a guilty one to remain free to act again.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 11:18 PM
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Well to be fair who cares if its by other men? Men are not a monolith like they pretend we all are. I cant control the actions of others and I shoudlnt be blamed for the actions of others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/24 04:14 PM
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It wont work because people see reality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/24 10:19 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/24 01:47 AM
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1) I dont know how thats even possible (but its horrible either way) 2) their lives are worth more than ours to most people which sucks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/24 04:06 PM
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What a dork he is
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 05:44 AM
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He really showed those verts whose boss
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:35 AM
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and I know that Biden isnt actually doing this stuff personally but you think that guy would know what its like with that kangaroo court shit they pulled on his son not too long ago
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/24 12:00 AM
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They sure are doubling down on this stuff eventhough I feel like its on the way out with more and more people IRL. Its just going to cost them voters (mostly younger men who will get pushed right)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 08:25 PM
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We have guns here. Oh I thought you all had to turn them in a while back. At least thats what all the people wanting to take them say and say its worked for you all. I know in Canada there is a shittier roster you can still get. Werent you guys limited to going like 30 miles or something weird during covid? We didnt do anything like that in the US, thats kind of weird. Maybe Canada did too but I dont remember that stuff. I just feel like some countries went way overboard
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 05:21 AM
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Canada at least gets some guns and didnt shut down for like 40 years for covid or whatever Australia did. They are a weird country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 05:13 AM
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Do we really want to start talking about groups like this? I dont think its a good idea. I know I certainly havent done anything wrong. edit Oh, its Australia. Least serious and most cucked first would country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/04/24 05:06 AM
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A lot of people dont have rock solid values though or dont think about it so much. Many of them are younger and growing up in this culture before they can have views on many subject.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/24 06:53 PM
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I dont know but you see people run afoul of it all the time who were once maybe even darlings to people and then fuck up and are outcast. I think the Harry Potter lady is one. I dont know what her views are and dont really care since she was never relevant to me but I believe she said some anti trans stuff, coming from what I believe she thought was a feminist perspective and found out that wasnt acceptable to many. I do believe that kind of stuff has been a bit of an issue lately. I dont know t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 05:48 PM
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White people are allowed to care about things too, being of a certain race isnt an original sin it just is something that happens to be that we have no control over. The fact is there are in groups and out groups in the left today and if something is effecting one group they care a lot but if its effecting another group they dont care at all (or think its fine or even justified because of the past). Its one of the reasons we need a group for left wing male advocates.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 05:34 PM
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It seems clear that race outweighs sex to them. There is an entire unspoken hierarchy of people to them. You can kind of figure it out by who gets in trouble when they say things against other groups for whatever reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 06:41 AM
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Well maybe the rest of the left will care now at least
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/24 03:52 AM
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I dont care if a joke is punching up or down. They say men arnt attractive until they see a pretty man in a mugshot then go nuts and some millionaire marries him, gets him a modeling contract only for him to screw her over
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/24 09:29 PM
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Austrailia is the most cucked country. Im on the left but they are just subservient. They went way too far with the covid stuff, gave up their guns, and they do this crap all the time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/24 07:04 PM
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Yeah, just reading the title I thought it was going to be a private womans club and I was fine with men and women having their own places but if its the public museum its an issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/03/24 07:03 PM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/03/24 07:07 AM
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it was a woman who came up with it to describe herself. I am aware but you know what people think when they hear it. 1 or 2 losers did some fucked up stuff and a bunch of dorks online had some crazy beliefs and now any guy that cant get laid is a terrorist in their minds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/24 01:22 AM
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/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/03/24 08:51 PM
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They are more conservative than a lot of people on many things but they specifically arnt red pill for what its worth. They may share some beliefs but they also call out red pill stuff quite a bit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/24 12:08 AM
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Im always soskeptical when I see people like that. I just have the "are they grifting" thought in the back of my head. Im not accusing her of that but whenever I see a woman standing up for men on youtube thats what im conditioned to think. I did not know she was left leaning, I guess I should check her out more and see.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/03/24 12:07 AM
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Hawley is a real pos though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/24 01:39 PM
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He is certainly a idpol guy. He isnt going to care about us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/24 06:45 PM
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The truth is they dont even consider people like us. We are invisible unless they need something from us. Like I get we are stronger than most, if not all or almost all women, but still that doenst mean Im going to have a chance against some dudes or a bunch of dudes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/03/24 07:09 AM
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Guys are the victims of violent assaults more often though, I suppose thats worse than wifi. Im a little dude I can get jumped at any time and there isnt much I can do, hell one dude could fuck me up. I have known a guy who was jumped into the hospital just because they were little and an easy target.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/03/24 08:06 AM
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When someone says "reverse racism" its a clue they dont know what they are talking about.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/03/24 12:28 AM
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It will only work if they speak to men and give them advice that works AND dont tell men "you are bad, you are the problem" all the time (because we arnt)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/02/24 07:22 PM
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...and the graphs just get further apart
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 06:21 PM
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https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/ yep and then they wonder why the good people get left out while serial abusers and cheaters rarely have issues finding partners
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/24 02:14 AM
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I mean a lot of guys do hold those opinions and if I were a woman it would possibly be on my mind as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 08:20 PM
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Probably not but at a certain age you do have it on your finger as you are expected to be married after a while here usually.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 02:39 AM
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I have found a lot of women online from reddit to facebook to Instagram to youtube etc have these opinions about men. It stands to reason not all women feel these ways but a lot of them do as there is popular man hating discourse going on at the moment and the posts get thousands and thousands of likes. So most women probably dont feel that way but a lot of them do and they arnt going to say it to your face but they are pretty happy to share those thoughts online where they are applauded for hav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 02:37 AM
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Which is funny because that is like classic advice for finding a good guy that people throw about...how they treat their mother. Ive never experienced looks or anything, people just ignore me lol, which I get.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 02:31 AM
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I bet they just knew better than to argue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 02:30 AM
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Im sure they didnt know that then though, they just thought he was some successful dude probably. I dont know much about him though so maybe it was obvious before and im giving people too much credit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/02/24 02:29 AM
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AI will just be a subscription to bleed lonely and vulnerable men dry and in the end give them what? I guess im more skeptical than you are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 07:50 PM
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I once had my work truck break down in the middle of a road in a huge strip mall. This one lady in a huge pickup came over and got some straps and pulled my box truck to a safe spot. She was awesome and I appreciated her so much.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/01/24 06:37 AM
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I dont care, its not sticking it to anyone. I just dont care. It doesnt involve me and it never has, Ive been told a million times.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/24 02:28 AM
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As it is now the only way I feel like I could retire is if I move overseas someday. No way could I retire here. Barring that just work til I drop dead one day but honestly I dont even think about retirement anymore. During covid I had to take out all that I had saved to make it and things have been rough since so I have zero and probably never will.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/24 11:57 PM
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Im going to be honest and this is probably a shitty opinion to have but abortion doesnt matter to me like at all. My entire life I have been told I have no choice when it comes to reproductive issues and my opinion doesnt matter but now they want me to be outraged and care? What happened to its not my business? I just dont care. It doesnt involve me, its not my problem, they dont care about my problems at all. On top of that many of them want to take away some of my rights as well when it comes …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 10:50 PM
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Because we are struggling hard. Im behind on house payments right now and looking for a second job....and Im one of the lucky one who could actually get a house in the first place. I would consider selling and renting but rents are higher than my mortgage. Cant sell and buy a cheaper house because rates are insane and prices are so crazy. Things are extremely expensive compared to a couple of years ago and we arnt making more money while we hear companies are/were making record profits. Yeah it …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 07:03 PM
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The only politician who I even see talking about income inequality is Bernie and I dont even see that from him lately. Its all gender and identity wars that the democrats care about. On one hand I dont blame them since the reps pick these fights and the dems have to defend but on the other hand its all they seem to care about and maybe student loans for those fortunate enough to go to college in the first place.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 07:00 PM
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Its not unexpected if you have been paying attention to what people have been saying online for years now though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/24 06:54 PM
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I never talk about gender issues or dating issues in real life and if I do I keep it very vague. Most people would not care or if they did would have a weird view of me for even thinking there are issues for men to care about (sadly). People are not receptive to us at this point in time, its getting better but its going to take a while still I think.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/24 05:21 PM
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wtf is 'online violence?'
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/24 01:10 AM
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There is no reason we shouldnt use unknown numbers or something then
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/24 10:05 PM
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I cant even imagine what kind of place where people would act like that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/24 12:55 AM
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100% Its like if the term for the KKK was just "Southerners" or something. Yeah the group is awful and shitty but the way its named paints a LOT of normal people with the same brush.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 08:42 PM
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People love to shit on them (because of the ones with insane beliefs) but I cant help but notice a lot of incel culture and ideas are becoming more and more mainstream every day. Clearly something is wrong and needs to be addressed that is making people feel these ways and have these issues and if it was all BS it wouldnt be spreading like it is (probably)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/24 08:38 PM
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sure...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/23 09:14 PM
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Yeah its become clear that a LOT of women just hate men especially unsuccessful men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/23 08:12 PM
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Its just them finding yet another way to blame men for everything.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/23 04:27 AM
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And whats funny is then they just say "its because men are lazy/children and the women have to do the paperwork for them" ok...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/23 11:40 PM
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Oddly enough if the problem was rooted in patriarchy why wasnt this an epidemic in past eras that was more patriarchal? Why is it something now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 07:08 AM
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This is how I went. I used to care but after years of them shitting on men, not taking our struggles seriously and mocking us for them or for speaking up im just like fuck it. I dont care about your issues. Why would I care about people who dont care about me or are outright hostile about it? Like it sucks but what do you want me to do? You woudlnt lift a finger for me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/23 10:05 PM
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Usually when people call someone a loser it has to do with their success at work or social life and dating. I dont think I have ever seen a woman called that (or often judged on those criteria. Women are judged on other things). "balding, fattening short dicked man whose wife won't touch him and who wants to feel intimacy". also worth noting that 2 of the 3 things they insult this strawman over are things outside of a mans control
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/23 12:08 AM
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Also there are different levels of Incels. A lot of guys cant get a partner and are technically incels but they dont have wild beliefs. There are lots of 'black pilled' people who have certain beliefs but still not to the degree of other incels too. I feel like there is a wide spectrum. I know there is some wild shit out there but I feel like reddit does a good job of keeping that away so I dont often see it. Society doesnt really care about men so I dont see them helping people like this (even …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/23 01:49 AM
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On an individual basis its a great ideology, I can see the draw behind it in some ways. Its great when you are winning or doing OK. it just leaves a LOT of people out and I cant go for that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:22 AM
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Jordan Peterson, Andrew Tate, and Fresh and Fit. Its been great watching all of them circle the drain though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:21 AM
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They care when they want us to come support them though, thats it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:20 AM
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and they wonder why they are losing young boys and men to online right wing hucksters
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:18 AM
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Thats correct but I dont usually (or ever) see social issues on the compass, its usually auth/lib and left/right economic policy social policy is another one that should be on there for sure
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:13 AM
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political compass is Left v right economically and authoritarian v libertarian social would be something like a Z axis that isnt typically whats depicted
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:12 AM
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Id argue that the left in our country (and by that I mean the Democratic party which is basically all we have in power but also many people talking and pushing) is entirely or almost entirely only concerned with social issues and not economic issues at all (other than student debt for those who went to college)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:09 AM
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As someone on the left its hard because I dont feel like they are indifferent I think many are outright hostile also they want to take away some rights I enjoy. That said they are mostly right on other things. Also Leftest spaces are often SUPER gatekeepy and always ready to turn on eachother for having slightly different beliefs. You must always pass the purity test or you are ostracized.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/10/23 05:04 AM
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Just look at the situation in Ukraine Many women ushered out of the country men told it was a crime to leave.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:27 AM
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I dont know if they will or what they could even do. I already see women talking fucking eugenics BS. "its good all the loser men will be out of the gene pool, I cant wait for them to die out" People are disgusting right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:24 AM
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Similar story for me. Family broke up because she was cheating. I didnt even want to date for years really, then the pandemic happened and I still havent gotten back into it. People will laugh but she was really manipulative and abusive (borderline personality disorder) and I have zero self esteem or confidence now. Im also paying for this house by myself and barely making it. I cant sell it to get out of debt because rates are too high and my credit is ruined (she made sure to run up my credit …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:20 AM
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Especially when that online method strips everything but looks from the equation and then they tell men that the problem is their personality (which the women dont even see)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:13 AM
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dont forget tall as well
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/23 07:08 AM
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Bro the president is a man and most CEOs are men therefore all men have it easy... /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/23 12:00 AM
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Or they are told its because they have a bad personality from people who know nothing about their personality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/23 08:56 PM
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its basically the bird meme
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:28 PM
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like always...?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 10:23 PM
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I did it once (of course we met though and she even moved here) It did NOT turn out well. We had known eachother online for a long time from a site when the internet was different.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 09:42 PM
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If anything seeing the lack of empathy for men from women and seeing their attitudes like this of "its a men issue men should deal with it" has honestly made me care less about women's issues as well if im being honest. Why should I be upset and take action for things that dont effect me for people who dont care about me and often times enjoy my suffering? I try to be decent and care but the more I see stuff like this the more I tend to drift towards indifference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:10 AM
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its just attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 02:06 AM
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I have no idea what the hell you are talking about with all that (not meant in an offensive way) but it did work for this guy is all im saying. Im not exactly keyed into the redpill influencers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:19 PM
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(edit: I think I misread the question a bit but I think these are things I think that have caused issues with people/the dating situation over the last 10 years or whatever) "Just be yourself" and nerd ends up with a beautiful girl because he is a nice person movies lol One girl I dated was addicted to romantic comedies and she would chase that feeling from guy to guy. I think a LOT of our issues are because of media (as well as apps/internet)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:43 PM
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I dunno 4/10 maybe. I have had not great luck with women but im not hideous to look at either. People like me and get along with me and people find me friendly or at least a decent person. I dont blame anyone for not wanting to date me, I get it im not great looking and im shorter that most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:36 PM
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No the idea is pretty ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:29 PM
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No its hard because it requires consistent action over long periods of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:19 PM
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The guy doesnt even realize he doesnt even come off as a good person as he is constantly trying to poach women in relationships. But sure its the guys they were with who were the 'bad guys who didnt deserve them'
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:18 PM
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A bf is not a husband! Until they’re married, alls fair in love and war. If you are a man without ethics or decency or of low character.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:15 PM
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nothing inherently they are just 'not cool' for whatever reason fashion dictates like every thing else
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:10 PM
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This is literally a "doesnt matter had sex" situation though isnt it? It worked and it rewards the behavior and reinforces OPs point, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 08:34 PM
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Its considered normal for men to pay for most everything and has been forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:53 PM
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Yes everything is mens fault. I mean its only women who have treated me this way but even then it was the men! Women have no responsibility for their own actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:52 PM
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I think the people who say that are people saying the guy is fucking multiple women not living with them. But good post
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:48 PM
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As a man its never been much of a concern, I just wish they were willing to do their part no matter how much that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:43 PM
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Or maybe because its culturally excepted for the man to pay for most things and they dont even question it like women do about working around the house. Though men have been catching on about paying for everything on dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:39 PM
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politely and unambiguously
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:12 AM
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I just want one cute woman who will be good to me and be loyal. I dont need to be loved my a million people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 02:11 AM
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It's harder for women to focus on their own pleasure because of reactive sexuality Now imagine if you had to spend half of the time you are having sex trying not to come too soon or something because if you do you would be a 'disappointment' or someone who is assumed to not care about your partner Every time a man has sex its a performance thats judged a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:43 AM
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Yep the is 100% the rule if you are a man. You have to make her come first or you aint shit to a lot of people. Half of sex is spent not on making your self feel good at all its just to keep from finishing and making sure you do a good job and make her feel good. I cant even imagine what sex would be like if I were just in it to make myself feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:39 AM
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Ive been willing to do anything my partners asks but also I realize sex is a performance for men. If we dont do a good job people judge. I have dated women who did more than a good job and put in a lot of effort (dressing up, doing down like a demon, lap dances, fucking back hard) and I have dated women who just lie there and dont do anything (would hardly move, didnt taker her socks off, wouldnt do certain positions etc. She did have body issues so that explains some of it) I dated them both fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:30 AM
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“Treat them right?” As in a second mother, you mean? Counterpoint: I have never dated a women who didnt expect me to be a daddy to some degree. I always had to pay for most everything and even housing and bills. I always hear women say this about being a mother but never about women who just expect men to take care of everything for them as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 01:22 AM
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I can assure you its older women as well. If anything I dont remember ever having anyone say anything about it when I was younger but now I see it quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:06 AM
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Dont be a douche I can only imagine you are a bad person "Sorry someone sexually assaulted you, get out of your feelings" you are a trash human. Tagging you as "Garbage person"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:59 PM
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This is part of why things are getting alot more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:43 AM
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This makes perfect sense. Just walking up to some random and trying to make something happen seems so crazy. Im sure there are plenty of people who can be successful with this but you know zero about eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 12:38 AM
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its funny on this sub, and I dont notice this on other subs really at all, that I know the names of some of these posters because whenever its a ridiculous or inflammatory post its always the same few people. No sense in engaging with them. I just tag them in RES and when I see the flair I know not to take it too seriously if its some weird stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:56 PM
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woman beater at worst. I got downvoted to hell on another sub for calling out a woman who said that "men are scary." (not men can be scary, or this man was scary. All men are scary) because one guy was stalking her at work or something. Yeah that guy is probably scary but its bullshit they act like every man is like that. But I guess its important to realize that there are plenty of women who see us as big scary monsters all of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:52 PM
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I dont think you can say there is anything morally wrong about it. Anecdotally I will say the people I have known that have been promiscuous (men and women) have also been way more likely to be cheaters and to show a pattern of cheating. That said a lot of men just want a relationship with a person he loves and a family and not just "the service" of these woman like you kinda grossly said in OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:45 PM
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It certainly seems to reward the pushiest guys and guys who do things women generally dont like. Which is what it is. Id rather be a guy who was respectful and non pushy than a guy who is pushy and irritates or makes women feel uncomfortable. Also the assumption that 38 with a kid is the worst thing you can imagine is a bit ridiculous. Dude good luck because life doesnt end at 25 like a lot of you think and you are going to have a whole lot of life after and sometimes shit happens and you might …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 08:31 PM
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Havent age gaps always been a thing and arnt they much more frowned on now as opposed to most other times? Why are the numbers so different now?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:30 PM
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From reading your above comments your views are very niche in this age and different than the majority of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:29 PM
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I just said "some of us have" not "everyone has" Learn to read. also add this to the list of things women and others have ZERO empathy with men about. This is why men dont share their feelings and experiences. We know damn well no one is going to care. But that sounds like a cool story.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:14 AM
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It doesnt work because she has a personality disorder. It gets her men at will basically. She jumps from one mans house to the next. She gets love, a place to live, her bills basically paid. She just blows it up because she is mentally ill. (actually I think there is a slight difference b/t a mental illness and a personality disorder technically so that might not be the best way to say that) Basically the guys end up depressed and in debt and she ends up at the next guys house. She will even see…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:49 AM
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"Your experience and that of those like you doesnt count since it doesnt happen as much as I would like" What you fail to realize is that people arnt always what you expect and there might be smaller guys and their issues matter too. Just because it doesnt happen XX amount of times doesnt mean it doesnt happen and doesnt mean it doesnt matter. Some of you people are really horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:46 AM
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This isnt true. Also when you get older even like 20 year olds start looking a bit too young lol. A lot of what you read about men and women getting older are from people who are in their 20s and think life ends at 25 which is stupid. You all are going to find out you have a whole LOT of life left past the age where you think the entire world revolves around. You are coming off totally bitter and weird though based on this comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:13 AM
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I know a woman who throws herself at guys and lovebombs them hard. It works out for her because she is pretty but she is mentally unstable and wrecks all relationships she is in pretty spectacularly. But its a process of a few years for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:10 AM
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Not only that that gleefully love to tell us how repulsive most of us are and disgusting to them. They have compared us to dogs and 60 year old pedophile priests in this thread. Completely dehumanizing takes from what I can only assume are awful people. There are many women im not attracted to but I wouldnt refer to them as repulsive and disgusting unless there was something majorly wrong and even then I probably woudlnt put it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:38 PM
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Some of us have Ive told this story before but one night at work I was tasked with taking a drunk lady home after her friends left her. (The assumption is she was trying to hook up with a co-worker who knew what was up and asked me to take her home instead because he wasnt interested) I was pretty young at the time and she was quite a bit older and quite honestly bigger. Not that she was fat but she was just a bigger lady. I guess at this point it didnt matter I wasnt the guy she wanted it was h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:34 PM
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"Excuse me, Ma'am I saw you standing there and I couldnt help but wondering if you were gonna eat that cornbread?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:24 PM
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Usually. I would want to make her happy and feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:30 PM
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I dont see it constantly but I just saw one in the last few days and its driving me nuts I cant find it but I dont want to dig through all the threads. I have seen it in the past too. Its really weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:32 PM
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and yet you dont believe me when I say I have read it on here multiple times. Im just going to end this conversation as I dont believe you are doing it in good faith and I dont see how this will be productive. You are just going to look for any bullshit angle to support 'your' side.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:57 PM
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If men posted killallwomen or killallxrace their lives would be destroyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:16 PM
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just how fixated a lot of women are on height is a little depressing. Women here specifically say they don't give a fuck how tall you are... people say a lot of things but any time there is any metrics shown its always true that women care a lot about height. The random women on here who are like "its good the losers wont get partners and die out" Link a single post like this. What some women and BP men say is that "We hope you really broken mentally men (and femcels) get help.. but if you don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 12:00 PM
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It wasnt though. It was very much a "shut up" signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:30 AM
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I dont know your age but I have found older women (and people in general) have much longer dry spells. I have known a few women with year dry spells (well in my case they said relationship, I didnt ask about sex because thats not the kind of thing I ask) 5-6 years for me, Im not even sure. But even before that it was probably a 1 year
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:17 AM
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You are taking my comment the opposite of what I intended. A person who is afraid of a spider kills it, someone who is not isnt afraid to take it outside
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 10:10 AM
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Here is one thing I dont like. The sheer arrogance of comments like this that imply men are losers and women arnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:25 AM
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One of the last arguments. Right before sex, right when he was starting to climb over me, he said “she’s not yours, it’s just your turn”. jesus christ who says that to your own partner in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:25 AM
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Plenty of men are likable, likable doesnt get you a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:23 AM
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Good for you then!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:08 AM
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Not that its more difficult but just how difficult it can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 09:08 AM
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Do your relationships know about you seeing hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:30 AM
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Thats really sweet and nice to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:13 AM
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never in a million years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:07 AM
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Its literally always been that way back to Lincoln
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:04 AM
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You would think being afraid of a spider would be a bad look
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:02 AM
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oh yeah im sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 08:00 AM
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I have had women come in and tell us "woah, theres a lot of testosterone in this room" when me and my friends were having fun and talking and joking. She meant it as an insult. You never know. Sexist bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:41 AM
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This is part of why I take their opinions on guys issues and how hard dating is etc with a grain of salt. They have ZERO clue mostly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:25 AM
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People post stuff like that all the time here though They want the other side of the story. Im going to read the women's thread next after this one. Both sides perspectives are interesting and worth hearing. edit lol, its literally word for word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:22 AM
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A few things have been pretty depressing just how fixated a lot of women are on height is a little depressing. Height is basically meaningless other than how others perceive it and something we cant control. If it were a guy to say "I only date girls with D cups or bigger" people would say they were disgusting and go off on them but for women this kind of thing is just fine. The random women on here who are like "its good the losers wont get partners and die out" How disgusting. People with atti…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:16 AM
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even just a hand kiss if you are that shy you can't even do a cheek kiss m'lady
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:00 AM
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I mean the title was "forget sex or relationships, how tf does a man even become friends with a woman" so thats what I was describing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:56 AM
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Ridiculous
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:06 PM
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When you get older you realize how ridiculous that is. Plenty of kids on the internet think life ends at 25
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:03 PM
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IM not a guy who gets tons of attention from women but I have had options throw themselves at me a few times and I never cheated. I do agree if you are getting it constantly you will have more opportunity to cheat so thats something.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:00 PM
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Fresh and fit are a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:57 PM
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I think if a man dresses extremely well it helps a little. I also think if a man dresses really poorly it can really hurt. At least having clothes that fit right will make a big difference compared to clothes that dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:55 PM
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A ton. You cant show off your personality if you dont get past the first filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:54 PM
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In my experience usually just through your friend group or work
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:44 PM
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I would agree. The biggest problem is everything is funneling people to dating apps which remove personality and vibe from the equation as much as possible which makes it all about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 11:55 AM
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Get real
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:50 PM
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Most men just settle for a woman. Usually one of the handful in his lifetime that ever show interest in him. Its amazing that they cant seem to understand that this is what life is like for a lot of men. There was a thread not long ago asking women how long was their longest time without sex (since they started having sex) and there were so many with like 1 month as the answer. We live in different worlds. (that said telling your partner they arnt attractive is pretty nasty)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:47 PM
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Your problem is thinking that a most men get to really choose a lot of men take what they can get
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:44 PM
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Why is it difficult for you, guys, to understand that, in this issue, anonymity doesn't matter? Women read that a lot of men are desperate for intimacy and sex. This causes their already quite inflated egos to inflate further and this has consequences in their "real life" behavior. I dont believe the vast majority of women know or care about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:25 PM
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Thats fair I can see that too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:23 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6TS4d-zqRFA https://youtu.be/to5qRLRSS7g?si=UcYIzB9abHi4GFHa the second video with the woman is very good. I will have to relisten to the first. Pretty much everything she said was spot on from my experience. As far as I know she didnt do any of the disassociative stuff though when I was around her or at least I never knew. these will give you an idea but it is a huge topic. When I say "act normal" I mean act more like a normal person instead of these symptoms tak…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:19 AM
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open desire for eugenics in here, and from a woman at that. I have seen it multiple times in this sub too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:11 AM
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And people like you have the gall to say mens personalities are bad but this is straight up awful people things to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:09 AM
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I dont know about the other guys but the stuff I talk about here and express I would never do in real life. No one cares what a lot of us feel like and we know it. We know often if we mention our feelings or faults people will think less of us or use it against us. Most of us arnt stupid. We talk about it here because this is the only place we can talk about these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:03 AM
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I appreciate it, most of that Im too old for at this point but I will keep it in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:00 AM
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where is your evidecne that looks will impact every aspect of life? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Halo_effect https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB10001424052970203687504576655331418204842
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:52 AM
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Looks are kind of like a college degree. A candidate might be perfect for a job but you are getting thrown into the bin before anyone even looks at the rest of your resume if you dont have that. You cant shine in the interview if you are rejected by some bot that looks for keywords or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:50 AM
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Yes. Looks the the very first barrier in dating. If you dont pass you arnt going forward with anything. Then being neurotypical is probably the next after that because your initial conversations are going to be very important. after you pass those tests then personality and kindness and other things come into play but often times people never even get to show those traits off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:48 AM
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lol nooooooo Im not hideous or anything but I have never been considered very incredibly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:45 AM
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I was single for the last one and would be single for this one. I can do this all day lol Though part of me did wonder what it would have been like to have a partner and be able to spend that much time with them. It sounds nice. I know for a lot of people it wasnt but what can you do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:44 AM
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If you use cheddar as bait dont be surprised if you catch rats
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:43 AM
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Thats a big part of the job, but there is a big difference b/t everyone liking you and being fun to be around and people being attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:36 AM
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Of course its going to be hard if you are only targeting people who are younger than you and in the top 30%
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:34 AM
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I think it depends on the woman. I have 100% known women who keep one foot out the door and one eye open always looking for someone else. In the sense that they are always looking for better. I will also say while I make decent money I have never dated a woman who made more than me or even really close. I dont know if that says anything about society or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:31 AM
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Confidence is relative. I go on stage in front of hundreds or thousands of people everyweek and dont worry about it but im told im not confident enough online lol. Im also told to be competent or good at something and im one of the best in my area in a way. What I do know is when im on stage I see women staring at everyone else but me because im not that good looking thats just the way it goes sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:28 AM
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Im 40 thoughts about virginity are long out the window. I dont even remember my first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:25 AM
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bpd women can mask it pretty well for a time and if you are naïve they can make you feel like you found 'the one' and this is what real love feels like...but really its just them lovebombing and idealizing you and its part of their disorder. If you never really had women throw themselves at you before its a hell of a thing when someone does. You probably dont even know they have it or even what it is until you do lol. And eventhough things will get bad they will give just enough hope of things b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:13 AM
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Im probably going to be the biggest L in this but Borderline personality disorder ex goes from guy to guy every few years and ruins their lives. I dont mean that as a exaggeration. She drains them of money, cheats on them, lives in their house for months until she moves in with the new guy who she is fucking, leaves the guys depressed, broke and emotionally abused. She is emotionally/verbally abusive and also physically abusive. I heard the last guy was also abusive back and was an alcoholic who…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:06 AM
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True but you still get told shit like "theres a lid for every pot" I think people would just prefer others being honest with them so they can move on and put their energies in places where they can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:49 AM
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This wasnt my experience. A lot of guys are totally bluepilled their entire lives until they figure out whats happening and start looking for answers. Maybe its different now with youtube dbags but still
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:47 AM
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Yep, I know old guys who were very successful in dating who were doing things I read about redpill people saying long before redpill was a thing and Im sure they have no concept of 'redpill' now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:45 AM
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This shit right here and every tv show and movie in the last 30 years is why people are like this. "you just have to be nice and be yourself and the OMG MOST AMAZING girl will just be yours" which is just bullshit. People grow up in this culture and believe these lies. Just tell people the truth, the truth isnt bad. It doesnt say women are bad or superficial (not any more than the men) its just that people usually want partners that are as good looking as them and often of the same social standi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:41 AM
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Advice like that isnt to help the person struggling advice like that is to paint the person struggling as a bad person or someone who has something wrong with them. Because you are failing at dating obviously you are being mean to women and treating them with disrespect and like they arnt a person. Its just world fallacy and since in their minds the world is just then the person struggling must be a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:38 AM
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You come to realize there are a lot of people in this sub who are just here to be unreasonable aholes
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:34 AM
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They dont understand and the dont want to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:32 AM
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You are right but the problem is someone women will string men along just enough to make them think there is something and it takes a little while for some to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:31 AM
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You’re right, but it feels like you’re trying to be argumentative instead of accepting. Of course they are and like many women they dont care at all about most guys and have no problem being shitty about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:30 AM
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I mean they are adults and they can do what makes them happy. Having children is very difficult and you shoudlnt have them if you dont really want them. I dated a girl like this at one time but I wouldnt marry her because I wanted kids. We both knew this. I have a kid now and Im older so I would be interested in someone like this if they would accept my son (sometimes people just dont want to have them or deal with young years) but if they dont I understand 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:27 AM
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Why? Women and girls were (and still are on some places) actively barred from education. Men and boys aren’t falling behind because feminists have banned them from school. School has bent over backwards to cater to girls since they were found to be behind back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:11 AM
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Imagine sending your kid to school in "the future is male" shirts and I wonder how long before you start to get complaints
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:10 AM
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Most men still are in the highest level corporate position compared to women, and there are more male politicians in the positions of highest power than women. Only the tiniest portion of men are in these positions. You are right that doesnt appear equal but thats not even close to the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:05 AM
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Never think that love is unconditional if you are a man, I dont know about if you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:17 PM
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Yep everyone stats off bluepilled until life punches you in the gut enough times
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:16 PM
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When you grow old with someone you still kind of see them the way you used to is probably a part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:06 PM
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It depends heavily on age as well. At 20 its one thing at 40 its another. But I get what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:30 AM
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To be quite frank a lot of men dont have the luxury of picking, they can get who they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:23 AM
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No, I just want a relationship and a partner but of course sex is part of that but not nearly the most important part.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:21 AM
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Clearly he thinks he has a magic table. Anything he leaves there magically appears in the dishwasher lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:15 AM
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I dont know but I will say most women I have dated expected me to pay for basically everything and had no interest in helping with our bills or house payment (but I wouldnt expect them to help with my house payment except for my sons mom). These were people who worked full time jobs. Like the thought never occurred to them to help with anything. And at least the last one mentioned also expected me to do 50% around the house (fair of course but then chip in yourself) and if I were ever feeling do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 04:09 AM
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He still has more of a chance than someone she never even knows exists though. Im not saying its right or something I would do but its better than a zero. You cant say it never happens. Maybe she doesnt know the difference b/t 5'10" and 6' or maybe he is just super handsome I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:54 AM
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I dont think people seek them out on purpose it just tends to happen that way subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:17 AM
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But neither of these lies are immoral or unethical, imho. this is going to be a personal decision everyone makes. Some people might be ok with lying and cheating if it gets the results they want others might not. Of course I do see the logic of your argument and those tactics in the framework of someone who does not care about what morals or ethics I might have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:07 AM
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I feel most women are too passive. They might not need to but if they were more proactive they might just find a man they really want are interested in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 09:04 AM
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They can be expensive to reverse and are not always reversible and even after the procedure you still may not be able to have kids https://www.plannedparenthood.org/blog/are-vasectomies-reversible it shouldnt be considered 'easy' or trivial. Of course if you never plan on having kids maybe its a very different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:59 AM
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It’s not hard to avoid getting a woman pregnant if you don’t want a baby Isnt the same true for the woman as well? You have birth control as well as making sure your partner used condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:55 AM
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I feel like a man should have the option if they do not want a kid. I also think its a scummy unethical thing to do to not take care of your kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:53 AM
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No of course not unless its sex work or something. I mean if thats what you want to do make yourself happy but some men wont date or commit. If anything I feel like not having any kind of job (or wanting one) is a bit of a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:44 AM
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Thats kind of a shitty way to look at people though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:36 AM
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Or he knows what the numbers say about women and height and he is just giving himself a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:26 AM
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"Why should the race always be to the swift, or the jumble to the quick-witted? Should they win merely because of the gifts God gave them? Well, I say cheating is the gift man gives himself" I actually really love this quote and really appreciate the spirit of it and the logic behind it..but I just dont have the heart for it and try to live ethically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:25 AM
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I guess their argument might be at least the lying guy has a chance due to a great personality or looking really good while the guy who is too short is already filtered out and you woudnt even know he existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:22 AM
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You cannot manipulate weight. Women do wear spanx or however you spell it though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:20 AM
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Plenty of men will take a woman home even if she is a bit big if she is right there (as long as she isnt huge and even then I bet some will still bite). It just depends on how he is feeling that day or how long its been since he has been with someone. At that point who knows what the future holds.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:19 AM
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You can still be taller than a woman and she reject you because of high heels. I have even had women I have dated talk about this like its a disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:15 AM
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As a somewhat shorter guy 5'8" (at least shorter than what most women desire) I cant find the point of lying. They are going to find out anyway when they see me and why start a relationship off with a lie? I do understand the rational of doing it to get past the completely arbitrary filter of 6' or whatever though but I still find it dishonest. There is certainly logic in what he is saying I just find its against my ethics to lie about it. As far as should big girls use that strategy...Im not go…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:06 AM
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Just say lib-left and maybe they wont confuse it, its worth a shot?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:55 AM
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1) Hair color/s - Doesnt matter though I find im not attracted to blondes on as many occasions for some reason. I guess I have a thing for redheads and girls with dark hair. 2) Eye color/s - Doesnt matter at all. I dont find myself as attracted to girls with blue eyes I suppose but again Im sure there are plenty out there I would be attracted to. 3) Height/s - Doesnt matter too much. I guess if she were too drastically different it might make somethings harder or less comfortable (like sex). Im …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:40 AM
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Have you even considered who you will guilt trip in your old age?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:06 AM
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Yeah lying is a huge red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:05 PM
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You dont think infidelity and lack of romantic intimacy or sex isnt about that in many cases though?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:02 PM
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The annoying part is men are expected to keep getting better and better and improve in every way always but thats never asked of the other side.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 06:00 PM
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I have seen this happen to others in my life and its fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:58 PM
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She could have just gotten a job like most people and not abandoned her kids/family She could have communicated her feelings and desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:55 PM
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Yeah, fuck me for not working to be 6 foot tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:36 PM
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This such a bullshit take. Do you think people start out like OP? No they get there after years of trying and failing. Every young man starts off hopeful and they only get like that after being beaten down. Then people like you come along and try to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 05:27 PM
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Most of the wealthy inherited money others worked hard but also had a ton of luck. https://www.weforum.org/agenda/2020/09/social-mobility-upwards-decline-usa-us-america-economics/ Stop this "its all about determination" bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:52 PM
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If anything its split between the hustle culture bros and guys who are dropping out because they arnt being rewarded for their labor. And often times the hustle guys are still hustling to make someone else rich. Its a symptom of much bigger societal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:47 PM
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I never disliked having woman friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:30 PM
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I've noticed is the girls who are the most insistent on setting me up romantically end up looking for something with me later. Ive had this happen once. She described it as "I was looking for someone for you and just decided hmmm why not me?" Though I bet she was always interested. She was a manipulator.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:28 PM
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That was pretty shitty to do to you. They just assume guys only want sex or something
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:26 PM
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I have wondered this in the past. How people in metric countries have it. Its pretty obvious women demand 6 foot tall because its a round number for tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:15 PM
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women can still look good until they are older. When they get old old though yeah its rough but by then if they have a partner they will still see the beauty in them if they love them. but I have got to be honest on the occasions I do look on the apps at a bit older than me they are either really pretty or not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:07 PM
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I dunno. Im just kind of joking around with that. Its all hearsay for me as far as the shorter girls being more tough on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:52 AM
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Well if it happened to you it must be true for everyone ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:41 AM
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OLD makes it easier for women to filter for height, though. A 5'3 woman isn't going to notice much difference between a 5'10 guy and a 6' guy in real life, but she might reject him on OLD This is 100% the difference. And with in person you could at least have a good personality or be fun and that comes through but with just pictures and what amounts to a stat sheet you are just sent to the reject pile and on to the next. Lets be honest we have all dated women that might have some 'flaw' but you …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:29 AM
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Anecdotally I hear its often the shorter women who are the harshest about wanting a tall guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:26 AM
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As someone who lived through it all yes but it wasnt as bad as it is now. I dated in my 20s all long term. At the end of my 20s found the person I wanted to have a family and live my life with. Turns out she wasnt who I thought she was. ope. Then when I got back into things it was fucking wild. Everything was completely different and a million times harder. You think you will get back into things and it will maybe be fun and you can find a nice person but holy shit is it soul crushing. Im SO fuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:15 AM
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I grew up mostly in the 90s and have young adulthood in the 2000s and it was always a preference but its not anything like it is right now. Its gotten crazy. Even in the facebook days I dont remember this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:07 AM
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There used to be a girl on here that bragged about her cop husband because she liked "men who dominated other men" Gross thing to think of about a cop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 AM
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The guy my ex left me for was an engineer and she bragged about his "six figure income" Turns out he was an abusive alcoholic who would go into work and couldnt keep a job. When it finally soured enough for her to start hooking up with another man while still living with the first he was "just a process engineer, he doesnt know how to do shit" funny how that job changes its worth
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:04 AM
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"plebian" tastes lmao what was this from? I just saw this. Some actress immediately divorcing a guy for eating breakfast. https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/comments/15qt09k/til_popular_1920s_actress_madge_bellamy_separated/
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:00 AM
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Short king lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:56 AM
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Its trendy they are famous they are good looking plenty of women like effeminate artsy men who are extremely good looking. Thats always been a thing for as long as musicians have been popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 02:55 AM
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yes, I know. Man bad!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:54 PM
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Insurance salesmen are salesmen as well and yet they are 'boring' I dont do drugs but are drug dealers known for their charismatic sales meetings and ingenious pitches? "What can I do to get you into a bag of coke today?" Chris Brown literally beat a woman black and blue very publicly. The point is these are obviously guys with poor character who do illegal and unethical things in many cases and yet they never have trouble. Its obvious that those things dont matter to at least a large amount of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:08 PM
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I could see how it might be confusing in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:06 PM
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only in the way that common things that happen in life are hassles. Back it the day people understood thats part of life now everyone freaks out over little things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:45 PM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/make%20a%20federal%20case%20out%20of its an expression thats in the dictionary not a literal thing, he probably assumes since its so common you would understand what he was saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:43 PM
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It's simple logic that since no man worth having is going to commit before sex (unless he is religious) a woman has to cheat before severing her current relationship. or they could be single for even a tiny bit of time and end the relationship like a decent person first before having sex with another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:22 PM
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a tiny bit if you are being honest. I mean come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:20 PM
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of course
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:18 PM
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Then why do women love drug dealers often or that guy who had an attractive mugshot or Chris Brown who famously beats women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:12 AM
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james bond vs james bond https://www.jamesbondlifestyle.com/sites/default/files/ckeditor/images/news/190616-orlebar-brown-goldfinger-shorts-Sean-Connery-lg-472.jpg https://www.jamesbondlifestyle.com/sites/default/files/styles/fancybox_popup/public/images/product/cl012-swimming-trunks-james-bond.jpg?itok=-jlQAgG4 superman vs superman https://images.hindustantimes.com/rf/image_size_630x354/HT/p2/2018/12/15/Pictures/_e9b4ebd8-005c-11e9-9457-b1b429387a4e.jpg https://media.tenor.com/XEQoO1KCVKYAAAAM/…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:55 AM
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Height was always a preference but it was not as bad as it is now. When I was younger it wasnt a huge deal. Weight is more accepted for women as compared to the past. Race- people are way more open to interracial relationships. When I was younger thin blonde girls were the thing I guess but now its more desired to be mixed or POC and you dont have to be as thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:47 AM
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I have had girls throw themselves at me a few times but I also say im unattractive and low value as well and could never really have casual sex if I wanted to. For most of my life I did have girlfriends though. So I know for a fact that its untrue women will never be sexually aroused by me. One even left her husband for me (and told me they were separated and getting a divorce, which was something he did not know. Believing her is one of the biggest regrets in my life and I would have never done…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:29 AM
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I dont know where you are but im 5'8" and I have dated women my height or nearly my height and the only complaint I heard was them worrying about wearing heels because they didnt like they would be taller than me. There arnt even that many women much shorter than me here it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:25 AM
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the spirit is willing but the flesh is spongy and weak
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:22 AM
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Now this is true. I wouldnt turn down a tall woman but I also just assume she isnt interested in me now after past experience and seeing stuff online. I have never had a taller woman I was interested in reciprocate. I have dated women my height or close but I have heard them lament they cant wear heels because it wouldnt look right to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:20 AM
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Have you ever seen a dating profile (much less multiple) that said women over 5'4" swipe left? (reading some threads here maybe this does happen, ive just never heard it before) tall women get to be models short men get to be what? Jockeys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:17 AM
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to be fair dancing you are right up with the person and in tennis you are over on the other side of a court
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:09 AM
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Its brutal seeing the young hot 'it' girl you grew up with only getting mom roles and stuff not that theres anything wrong with that but I know its really rough on girls in hollywood.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:04 AM
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or meet someone in a bookshop or in the super market. I cant even imagine how that would work.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 09:02 AM
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actually now that you mention it every dude I know that does it is kind of weird. I do know one old guy who does it and is always out at shows with some younger lady or another dancing pretty fancy at times but I have no idea if he is romantic with them. I have never seen anything to indicate that other than they are there dancing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:59 AM
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Maybe they dont enjoy dancing? This is an interesting idea but honestly I dont enjoy dancing at all, I never have. I have spent decades making music and not dancing to it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:58 AM
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This is something I have heard MANY times on here. Young girls get this stuff (and it tends to taper off when they become adults) and its really fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:54 AM
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Because women get too much and men get next to none. Also men can be physically threatening to women easier and in more cases. I have been inappropriately touched by a woman multiple times while driving despite telling her no and that I have a girlfriend and I wasnt interested. It wasnt awesome but it wasnt the end of the world. I didnt feel like she could beat me or rape me though either. I dont think I have ever told anyone outside of on the internet however.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:51 AM
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Unless a woman is doing something very risky or unethical for a job I literally do not care what she does. I dont think I have ever heard a man I know brag about his wifes job or mention it as a consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:46 AM
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Those fat women are way prettier than the older women. Im 40 so having sex with a 20 year would be weird but I think you could have picked better 50 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:42 AM
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bear in mind that certain ethnicities tend to be taller or shorter and depending on where you live there might be less that are shorter. and while we may love to date people of all ethnicities that doesnt mean others would be willing to date outside of their ethnicity due to preference or culture or expectations. (note: there is nothing wrong with being shorter, im shorter. Im not trying to say anything negative about ethnicities) So if there are people who happen to be these ethnicities that li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:24 AM
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Men can and often do wear makeup, actually. Guy liner is hot and edgy. if you are a teenager or in a goth band maybe. In most of the country this would not be acceptable and men and women would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:22 AM
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Every tv show and movie that has a woman hitting a man for doing something innocuous she doesnt like. Like if a guy says something dumb or checks out another woman not if the guy is hitting her or doing something that calls for self defense. Usually this is played for laughs. and the woman who thought it was ok to hit me every time she was angry over something.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:45 AM
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yeah cheaters probably use protection or have abortions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:41 AM
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Good lord i hope not I have 100% known girls who have cheated on me and I have seen them continue the pattern people call 'monkey branching' afterwards (I had a kid with one and we were a family so big L there) the other we were in a common friend group. Oddly enough both of their mothers (and in one case other family members) were cheaters. Some before and some after we broke up. I do think women often have guys they know are interested in them and maybe they are interested in them but not so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:40 AM
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maybe he got to the club later or maybe he just now saw her who is to say in theory this could happen on different nights if they worded the hypothetical differently
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:37 AM
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I think this is right on but also its all about how good looking you are, which is understandable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:35 AM
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I’m pretty sure (high) heels were first worn by men. If men are that insecure about their hight they could start wearing them again. Lift shoes are a thing and men are made fun of for it. I do agree with you in society women have a lot of pressure to look a certain way, certainly more than men in many situations, but I also think women have WAY more ways to fix things about them and make themselves look better. Like the biggest problems with guys are fat: get in shape skinny: weights I guess Sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:32 AM
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They wont be aloof when the guy is good looking enough for them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:26 AM
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I dont know about passport bros specifically but I have heard there are a lot of expats living in mexico city
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:24 AM
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Most of those guys are famous athletes/American football players and one youtuber if you are from the US you pretty much have to know who Tom Brady is. He is like a 5 time super bowl winner and dated a very famous model and is known for being super handsome and was in tabloids. Men and women would know who he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:20 AM
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A lot of those countries have poor wages and the people that go either invest or have online businesses they have to build up first. The whole point in a lot of cases is to either retire there or set up some kind of thing where you make money somewhere else and take advantage of low cost of living wherever you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:18 AM
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I see no problem with guys going somewhere else for the culture or whatever and/or maybe meeting women. Im partly thinking about retiring overseas (maybe the Philippines because I lost my retirement money during covid and I feel like my only chance for retirement is a low cost of living area and they speak English. I feel like I wont be able to retire in the US.) I dont like the idea of guys taking advantage of poverty for sex/women though and I think a lot of people who do this do it for that r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:04 AM
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Get a roomba/shark/whatever they arnt that expensive and they have models that have a bin you only have to empty every so often. If you get one without the bin you will have to empty it all the freaking time with dog hair though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:59 AM
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Yes. Im pretty sad about it sometimes but I also think Im not as bad off as others to be alone. I can deal with it fairly well while I know there are some personalities that struggle more. I really just want a cute girl, who will love me and be nice to my son and family, who will sometimes help with bills and help around the house a little bit. Im 40 and I dont think it will happen for me. I wasted my last good years on a person who was objectively horrible to me trying to make a good family for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:58 AM
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I dont know if thats true but I DO think women often get approached by awful and pushy men and that can taint their thoughts about other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:53 AM
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I think its fair to be nice and professional but also keep people at arms length a bit. Same goes for guys as well to a degree. I think you can of course have friendships though. I think if you are a politician or a CEO or a celebrity you have to be extra careful. I work at a job where its basically impossible for me to date anyone there but I think dating at your job can be very risky and is generally discouraged in most places. I also wouldnt want to make anyone uncomfortable in a professional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:14 AM
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If you approach girls in appropriate contexts like at a bar, you'll be fine. nah there were plenty of things saying for men not to do this and women arent there for you entertainment and are just dancing with their friends. A lot of us take this stuff to heart. Before that stuff started we did get it. You can run into any crazy person who can blast you on social media and people dont want to deal with that shit lol. Literally saw one lady at the gym getting a blind man kicked out recently for 's…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:01 AM
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Plenty of people care about height and sometimes its not enough that we are taller than them we must be taller than them in high heels because it 'wouldnt look right' I have had women turn me down because im too short. I have seen dating profiles "under 6 feet swipe left" and im not even that short. women just vastly prefer taller men to shorter men https://www.yahoo.com/video/short-kings-rise-grind-study-225908780.html#:~:text=The%20study%20shows%20that%2C%20on,an%20additional%20%24317%2C000%20…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:50 AM
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I think this is an important aspect. But more and more status is told to us is bad because you "have power" over someone and thats bad and you cant date people. I can understand in a work situation where someone is a superior and it could be messed up but you see it with celebrities all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:46 AM
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The only guy who I have seen to buck this trend is that Andrew Tate guy who is balding and chinless (and a POS loser) but appears to do well for himself. But he is tall and in good shape appears to have money and hypes himself up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:43 AM
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Super handsome and notoriously huge cocked Jon Hamm isnt close to bald.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:42 AM
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All of this is total bullshit and people will find out they dont stop aging at 25-30 and have a LOT of life left. Sometimes I hear people saying these things and cant believe how short sighted they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:40 AM
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When he was young he was a ladies man I guess or something and wasnt bad looking. But yeah later on of course you are right. But of course having a major disability is going to be difficult for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:39 AM
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Look I dont necessarily buy it but the point of that theory is some girls bang good looking guys until they run out of options and are old and desperate and forced to settle for men they wouldnt have before but can afford a nice lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:38 AM
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Im a guy so I have no idea. I have just read from lots of women online how they feel about it. For a guy it doenst really matter honestly if that makes sense? Like I dont care if I ask or not in a way its not less romantic for me but I think some women have strong ideas about being surprised or having a man take charge or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:30 AM
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you are certainly right in Hollywood 1000% but also MILF is a hugely popular porn category.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:27 AM
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You can do keto or something though, it works well. I do agree that it can be difficult to lose weight but its a million times harder to get to be 6 foot tall when you arnt. Im losing my hair and it sucks ass and I know women hate it for the most part but I feel REALLY sorry for women who are losing their hair because I can at least shave mine and it kind of looks ok even if women arnt into me at least I dont think I feel out of place but I know for women its a lot harder and its not their fault…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:22 AM
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The majority of dating is from online apps now I think We just went through a whole social movement based around "dont approach me, Im just out having fun, im not here for you" Literally had songs about it and thats fine but you cant also tell people to go out and do that at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:20 AM
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just be Prince bro
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:19 AM
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All the things you said about women are true for men in their own ways. They have to be blessed genetically too AND they dont get those helpers on top of it. (none of this is to say women dont have their things to worry about)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:14 AM
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Fucking shitty friends. Also the amount of women who are dating men that will tell them bad things about their bodies is gross. I thought all men knew better than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:12 AM
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To play devils advocate I mean if we are going to get into it women dont like skinny guys either. Women dont like guys who their fat distributes all in their belly. Beer belly. Women dont like men who have harry backs and shoulders. Women dont like men with cellulite or stretch marks either. Maybe women like wrinkly guys I dunno, I suspect not. I dont even want to go into what porn makes men think about their penises. I have never seen a man tell a woman that her labia means she cant satisfy a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:10 AM
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I dated a girl once who never took her socks off in front of me because she was embarrassed by her toenails. I dated her for years. Guys dont notice or care for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:05 AM
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I liked plenty of women with small lips and if they do fillers it looks SO gross and I wish so many wouldnt do them. Im sure they can be done well and I dont notice those but the ones you do notice, yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:04 AM
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At least you dont have to worry about back hair and shoulder hair though, so count that blessing. Girls say how gross that is and its not something we can super easily get rid of by ourselves and even then you run the risk of being called unmasculine for doing it. But we all have our own problems so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 05:01 AM
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You do a lot im certain but I wish my problems could be as easily solved by shaving or putting on make up. It would be a dream come true and I would be so happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:56 AM
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women get mustaches and sometimes longer arm hair but at least they can wax and shave.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:55 AM
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If you can grow a good one Not all men have the occasion to wear a suit and a suit doesnt look good on short fat body types in most cases its very hard to fit. For a lot of men wearing a suit would be ridiculous. It only makes sense in certain jobs and contexts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:52 AM
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Most of us are likely from the USA, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:51 AM
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Because women and society in general have lied to them for their entire lives. I think it is changing but other people are so angry about it changing and people realizing these things that should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:49 AM
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Easiest way I’ve learnt to deal with the rescheduling flake is as soon as they reschedule, the ball is completely in their court when it comes to logistics and confirmations. Yeah, I will do this in the future. I just gave the benefit of the doubt and have never dealt with that situation before. The second time I got the picture though. Like if I’m the one who asked them out, I’ll take the lead on deciding when and where and be the one to send the confirmation message the day of to make sure I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:47 AM
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Does it stay lubricated all the time since its from the inside of the abdomen? Thats really cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:44 AM
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How many men can realistically get with an instagram account woman? Its ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:42 AM
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Lots of men consider themselves lucky to get what they can I do get what they are saying though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:40 AM
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Thats cruel of them. There are men who do like that though there is even a sub or two here so at least take heart that not everyone feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:38 AM
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Thigh gap is a thing women do to eachother. I have never heard a man talk about "hip dips" I have never even heard of that in my life. I do know several men who like women who have a bit more weight on them. Not one man cares if a woman is super model tall. Its irrelevant. Maybe if they are insecure they dont like them to be tall. There are subreddits dedicated to women with small boobs. I doubt there are sexual subs dedicated to short men or men who are losing their hair or men who have weak ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:35 AM
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The point is womens beauty standards (for most women lose weight and makeup) are a lot easier to fix then the standards for men (mostly height and jaw, guys dont get to use make up or it would be a joke, if guys use shoes to look taller its literally a joke, if they are bald you can have expensive surgery or wear a wig and if you wear a wig its a joke)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:30 AM
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Same thing when they talk about men having all the power and stuff too. Its like thats not the majority of us. It feels like we live in a weird world right now where the few at the very top are men, then those in the middle are often women (middle management, HR, lots of nicer every day office and admin positions but not the very top) and a lot of men at the very bottom no one cares about or considers in these conversations. Women are doing very well right now (but might be locked out of the ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:24 AM
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What kind of asshole is telling their gf they dont have a big enough boobs and butt? Why are you seeing these people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:19 AM
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There are plenty of men who like bigger girls too and even prefer them. There is one girl I know who is really pretty but I never really noticed her until she put on some weight. (she was never scrawny or anything)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:18 AM
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The Marvel guys we are are possibly roided up but at least have lots of studio help and even the guy who plays Thor supposedly had CGI help with some muscles too and they cant drink water for a day before shooting or something crazy like that. This isnt even getting into height
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:16 AM
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I dont know about looks but apparently with height they have some kind of number https://www.yahoo.com/video/short-kings-rise-grind-study-225908780.html http://home.uchicago.edu/~hortacsu/onlinedating.pdf dont know how accurate it is but its interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:14 AM
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Its been my experience that the women in my life (very jealous with promiscuous past) like that have been the cheaters. A thief locks their own door thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:07 AM
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I mean there are a few surgical techniques which allow for self-lubrication How do they do this and how does it work? Honestly thats amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:03 AM
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Dont ask, you dont want to know what they are doing after you are done. Just forget it and dont think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:59 AM
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Of course there is. Its just sexual attraction and I guess personality gelling but probably almost all attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:48 AM
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I'm big on consent, its certainly worth asking "can I kiss you" This one is so polarizing because some people really appreciate it and some people are extremely turned off by it. Not that they think consent is bad but they find it I think very unromantic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:38 AM
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For real they get shut down, called incels, called misogynists or told "cry so are SoOoOo oppressed" I think things are getting better and its being taken more seriously but for the last few years at least it was rough. Not saying its the most horrible thing to ever happen and not saying others dont have issues as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:33 AM
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Physical appereance matters more than women like to admit. Its the most obvious thing too and it wouldnt be a thing if everyone was just honest about it. OF COURSE women will want to be with attractive people. We all do. Why has our stupid culture tried for decades to pretend this isnt true?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:29 AM
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Treat her to dinner and dancing at Taco Bell
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:26 AM
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Be the best version of yourself. Bitterness and frustration 1000% come through on the apps and ultimately you get what you give. I dont do the apps much but one time I matched with a girl on there and I wasnt feeling super confident, as apps arnt always so good for some mens confidence, so I didnt message her for a couple of days and when I did she responded so angry like "Did the other women you were talking to reject you and now you are going for me! Well too bad asshole" or something like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:25 AM
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I have heard women sometimes dont come out and say it because sometimes men will act crazy when rejected and they worry about that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:22 AM
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The one that I got that I dont like was agreeing to a date then the day of they cant do it. Then they agree to a different day for it, then the day of they cant do it. First time could have been anything but the second time Im taking the hint of course. But just say no in the first place or make up an excuse where you cant ever do it. I know women sometimes have to deal with shitty men who act badly when rejected but this was a girl who knew me who I knew was at least interested in me at one tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:20 AM
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I have never had this happen but if I did I would think they were interested unless they are blasting them out to everyone in which case...why and thats weird
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:51 PM
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I dunno I have one woman friend I send instagram memes with back and forth. But we have worked together for over a decade etc. Its obviously not a thing like that. Its also not just us we both send stuff to our other friends from work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:50 PM
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Only if you are a teenager or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:48 AM
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Im just joking with you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 11:49 PM
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Race is a big one but I do think maybe its getting better. I see a lot more mixed couples lately than I can ever recall in the past. I know certain races still have it hard though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:54 PM
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it was nice of you to self label your post as cap ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:51 PM
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I think the height thing is specifically an American trait. Always women preferred tall men of course but now, to a lot of people, its a requirement and its worse depending on where you live and socioeconomic level to a degree. I do a lot of events with well off people and (with the exception of maybe the older parents/grandparents) they are all so much taller even the women. Im 5'8", which isnt even that short, and at these events its like even the women are taller than me and its so freaking w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 10:48 PM
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I would 100% do it if it wasnt so risky, and expensive and just shitty in general. I do think it would make a major difference in a lot of things and im not even all that short.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:47 PM
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Its insane and a little hilarious (and also very sad) but they are right about some things too but at some point you just have to not care a bit you cant control everything and sometimes you are dealt a bad hand and it sucks but you cant be angry at others because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:45 PM
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women will say only fat men who don’t shower think women care about looks I think this is why there is so much resentment. Men can understand people wanting good looking people but for most of guys lives they were told one thing when the opposite is true. Now its becoming more common knowledge things might get better but still people try to pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:42 PM
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They think Marvel movie super hero bodies are normal and easy enough to get instead of guys on steroids with personal trainers who didnt drink water for a day before a shirtless scene..
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:36 PM
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Or heaven help a bald man wearing a wig
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:35 PM
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We saw a criminal get so many women after him because he looked good in his mug shot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:30 PM
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Because men dont generally care about other men and what they do because its not important to them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:29 PM
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Its not only gross its untrue for most normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:27 PM
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we all have a limit to what we can improve but I have seen wonders done with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:27 PM
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The things women often prefer are things men cannot easily fix such as height or face or hair (bald) without painful or risky or expensive surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:23 PM
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I have never dated a woman who willingly paid bills or housing when they lived with me. Even when we had a kid together. She literally only paid the internet bill after we moved into a new house. I could never be so shameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:14 PM
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god I love reddit sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 09:12 PM
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lololololol, no it does not. I have had a few long term multi year relationships but I have been single for many years in a row as well. Even looking back the ones I was with didnt treat me all that great all things considered, but still I dont just want to get my dick wet. I want a relationship and a partner even if thats something that wont ever realistically happen. sex is just sex if im being honest one can take care of that need to a degree themselves but there is no replacement for a partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:40 PM
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That just means there are many men without integrity
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:30 PM
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My brother used to say the best/one way to get a girl to like you is to have one of their friends into you. regarding your second line another perspective I have heard from a woman is in society a man is sometimes like your avatar you are seen as and you woudnt want a shitty avatar representing you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:28 PM
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I dunno but I have turned down my 'options' before so I can say for a fact its not 100% true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:26 PM
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Everyone is trying to get the best partner they can (often trying to date up) and I cant fault them for that too much, its just human nature. When it gets WAY out of balance its a bit nuts though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:24 PM
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purplepilldebate it took me a second too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:21 PM
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Yep, I may be hard to get but no one is going to know because they aint trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:18 PM
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I guess what Im asking that I dont understand is dont they want love or a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:16 PM
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overall trashy anyone who is knowingly sleeping with someone with a partner is low integrity/low morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:15 PM
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and lets be honest each person has a different idea of what 'ran through' means anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:12 PM
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I believe most guys come to TRP looking for casual sex, not dating monogamously this isnt exactly true. A lot of guys come after believing the stupid stuff they were told all their lives growing up after and seeing that it doesnt work and its a bunch of bs. Not to say that the rp doesnt have its own bs but its still better than tbp or whatever in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:30 PM
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I can put up with a lot but I dont know that I could put up with someone making real life decisions based on pure bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:22 PM
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Because the things you say to them arnt true. People would prefer you be honest with them so they know what they can and cannot do. its not right to tell a worker "Just keep working harder, run yourself into the ground all the other people must be working so much harder than you and you just dont do enough, you are lazy!" when you know damn well the guy will never get the promotion because they dont have a degree or because they dont have the right connections or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:20 PM
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"Dance monkey, entertain me!" I get it though but I have never once dated a woman who even had a hobby much less was entertaining. All jokes aside I do get what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:18 PM
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You really hate men a lot huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:16 PM
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100% Exactly the people who say it say it to dismiss everyone else. Thats the whole point of their argument. Prince did well with women why doesnt every shorter guy? They tend to overlook all the other ways those people have to excel to overcome it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:08 PM
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Bullshit. This is the kind of shit people tell ugly men to gaslight them into think their lack of physical attractiveness is some sort of moral failing or that they are bad and lazy people instead of people who were born looking one way or another. Yeah there are a lot of people who dont do those things but there are also a lot of people who cant help the way they look and no matter how much you polish that turd its not going to be great and they dont need to be shit on on top of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:04 PM
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Because no one cares and no one expects a woman to be a virgin on their wedding day for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:02 PM
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No, but its kind of gross I also find it odd that people are content with just sex and not love/a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:59 PM
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I just feel like its a way to dismiss everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:56 PM
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Dating apps are designed to make money, they arnt good for anyone else but stockholders and employees.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:55 PM
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Why would you want to hang out with porn stars like thats some great thing? Dont get me wrong they could be cool people but I dont see how thats like some big accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:51 PM
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This is such crap. Plenty of ugly guys do those things and they are just plain ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:49 PM
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I have noticed that everyone always has a short friend who does great with the ladies so everyone elses experiences and numbers dont count.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:47 PM
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fuck yeah Im a money chad at least. I honestly feel like for a lot of women that money figure is really low. I know a lot of people dont make much but I think a lot of people have much higher expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:45 PM
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me going into this thread knowing im going to get my feelings hurt just a little lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:44 PM
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of course most men would and do the vast majority of people are mediocre and thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:43 PM
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We may not deserve love or a relationship but we deserve better formatting than this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:39 PM
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I think its a lot harder for some people than others to find a suitable partner and for some they dont feel horrible alone so its just what kind of happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:37 PM
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I have seen both ways. I knew one dude who was head over heels with this lady. He would dote on her and drive her everywhere and she treated him like trash. Neither were great but he didnt deserve that. I have relationships with people and there isnt any giving. We just send memes and make tentative plans to do stuff and then usually dont because thats just how we are lol. She has bought coffee for us at work which is very kind and she does stuff like that sometimes. She is a nice person. This p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:30 PM
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OP could have done SO much worse with her pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:26 PM
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It depends on the man you are wanting how much of a pretty face you need but yeah. Be young eh, I dunno. Im older and im not out there looking for 20 year olds. Most people are going to look for age appropriate matches. A 30 year old isnt going to want a 60 year old lady in most cases, this is common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:22 PM
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