DustinTheWind342 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish".		DustinTheWind342	/r/seduction	28/01/14 04:41 PM

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1	12 Action Oriented Tips That Will Instantly Raise Your Social Skills People in general, not even just women, like to earn validation. If validation it too common, it devalues it. If it's too scarce they'll never expect it to happen. Gotta read the room.	/r/seduction	16/01/16 05:23 AM
0	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". Thanks. I didn't really see anything that contradicted that article, but maybe I just didn't realize how bullshit the right and left brain stuff was and it didn't stand out to me. I mainly remember them speaking about MRI scans and what areas both genders brains use in them for certain tasks.	/r/seduction	30/01/14 02:22 PM
0	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". Thanks man.	/r/seduction	29/01/14 08:18 PM
0	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". Would you mind elaborating? I'm pretty new to the seduction community, and would love some more up to date info.	/r/seduction	29/01/14 08:11 PM
0	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". Shit man I tried, but most of this out of context would not be beneficial. It's not a book of quick pro tip so much as its a text for deeper understanding and appreciation.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 08:25 PM
0	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". It's hard to TL;DR 300 pages of studies backing the differences between men and women, but I'll try.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 08:14 PM
1	This book validates so many good tactics with scientific studies, and explains why the "fishermen" can't just ask the "fish". Outdated, but applicable and free.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 06:51 PM
1	What is a good resource for finding why women are not attracted to me? You should start with good qualities that you have to offer that affect their lives. Style, looks, social value. How do you enrich their lives? Then look to where you can build up. Getting a platonic female friend is a good suggestion. Attraction is basically just advertising, so figure out what you are advertising to what demographic. Nerds and indie girls hit on me but sorority girls stick up their nose. Edited for spelling, and TLDR. TLDR: ask other people who can interpret your body language…	/r/seduction	28/01/14 04:53 PM
1	Felt alpha as fuck when I'm traveling, lost momentum when I came back home. No problem.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 06:05 PM
2	Felt alpha as fuck when I'm traveling, lost momentum when I came back home. This is good advice.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 04:45 PM
2	Felt alpha as fuck when I'm traveling, lost momentum when I came back home. When you go back home you have all of your previous social boundaries still in place. When you want to rebuild your self, sometimes you have break down the shit that gets in your way. Those consequences are part of the building process. Really it just comes down to a choice: Do you want to keep your self bound at the cost of your self, or do you want to become something more at the cost of what you've built?	/r/seduction	27/01/14 04:42 PM
1	Looking for feedback on pickup attempt. Sometimes, girls actually just have work. And even if it's not that don't take it personally. If she is a reoccurring acquaintance, then just taking it in stride is going to open up future opportunities. If you still have fucks to give. Good work getting out there man. Just take it easy and don't badger her.	/r/seduction	27/01/14 04:27 PM
2	Every step forward I take, I fuck up then I end up at the starting point again. Hey, man. I was that kid too. The reasons you can't hold contact? You don't feel like you deserve to, and it's still the unknown. You seem like a nice dude, and that is a strength. You also have the right idea. You don't, however, need to become the "man they want". Become the man you want. They could be the shittiest people on the planet. You're giving them the chance to prove you wrong. Look up Oneitis and avoid it. We're all fucked up, dude. Man or woman. So, go meet them. Not to "get the gir…	/r/seduction	27/01/14 04:16 PM
0	[FR] How I Escaped the Friend Zone When you talk to someone you're having two or three different layers of conversation, depending on whether or not you are face to face. Visual, auditory, and verbal. The biggest display of our feelings and intentions is in our actions and body language. So rather than just looking at what you said verbally, look at it like you were having two conversations simultaneously. Now look at the whole relationship. Did it say anything about you romantically being interested?	/r/seduction	26/01/14 05:05 PM
0	Why seduce? Oh. Then you may find this site useful. It's not strategies and routines to give fake signals. It is a way to better interpret the wants and needs of others in order to ensure that both parties have a pleasant experience. Everyone, makes connections, but not everyone can figure out the romantic/Sexual aspect of them. That's one of this subreddit's purposes.	/r/seduction	26/01/14 02:08 AM
0	Why seduce? In that light, nothing matters and life is just a hassle. Now I'm curious. What make life with living to you if you see every action as lacking a point.	/r/seduction	25/01/14 08:05 PM
1	Why seduce? rirk, I feel like what you are asking is "Why bother building on what is already functional?' There are roughly three different options you have in any situation. 1) Adapt your environment to suit who you already are. 2) Adapt who you are to suit your environment. 3) Be victim to the whims of others as you just wait for the next event. You appear to be in be in category three primarily..... This community focuses on both 1) and 2). The reason usually being that we have something you seem to lack…	/r/seduction	25/01/14 09:32 AM
1	6 year LTR ended 3 months ago. Just feeling defeated, alone, and don't know where to start. I see three areas for progress. -your purpose. You are relearning how to live for yourself. Write a list of all the things you are actually doing for yourself and not others. -your internal value. What makes you feel like you actually exist? Like you aren't just a worker drone. This is the kind of stuff that validates you. Not necessarily other people. -your anxiety . This won't go away, you might be more controlled by it than you think. The anxiety of rejection. Your interactions feel empty bec…	/r/seduction	15/11/13 04:38 PM
1	I built a fulfilling life, have an exciting career I love, am successful with women and making friends when I try, and yet I prefer to just "take it easy" every weekend, and it bothers me, even as an introvert. Advice? One of the best things my friends do for me from time to time is persuade me go out, dispite the comfort and pleasure of just being able to do something like a hobby, or even just nothing at all. The fact that it bugs you seems to mean part of you craves going out. that part of your life is lacking. You're tired. You are exhausted. however, sometimes the most refreshing thing is to fulfill a need, and that is one of the things that it seem seddit has been saying to me. you make time.	/r/seduction	20/10/13 11:41 PM