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In college, my ex girlfriend would routinely show up to my dorm unannounced even if I wasn't there. She'd just walk in, and once I started locking the door, she'd just sit outside in the hallway. I called the police, but they stated she wasn't really breaking the law or any rules. This made her more angry, and also gave her a sense that she could get away with more, so things escalated. One day she beat me with a wooden coat hanger. Another time she clawed my throat with her nails, causing deep …
/r/MensRights11/02/25 10:37 AM
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What's your crush situation like? I've been hung up on this girl I used to work with for over a year now. We'd flirt a lot, but nothing ever came of it because it was a professional setting and the chance never came to ask her out. Kind of my fault, but can't change that now. Neither of us have social media or each other's contact info, so I'm basically hoping we somehow run into each other again sometime by chance. It's not impossible, as we share a lot of niche hobbies, but chances are slim. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:03 PM
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Are you a CEO? Because I'd like to plug you from behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:34 PM
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You ever look back at your missed opportunities? I had a female best friend throughout high school. We had feelings for each other, but the timing was never right. I always expected we'd be the best friends who finally gave it a shot and went all the way. One night shortly after graduating she was having a party and drinking. She pretty blatantly said she wanted to have sex and even brought me alone to her room. We had never even kissed or anything. I had lingering feelings for her, but I turned…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:31 PM
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Yeah I basically said exactly that in my middle paragraph of my original comment. The OP didn’t though—more “be happy without it” and comparing to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:36 PM
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I think it’s the title throwing off the connotation as a “fix” for dating by what’s ultimately just not doing it and comparing it to modern women. These same women also complain about how men don’t approach anymore. We can’t just all be passive towards it and call it a fix. Hell, I think we’re already there to some extent, which is why many women struggle as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:54 PM
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I mean, I think all three of us are saying the same thing. I just didn't like OP's argument because it felt more black pill towards dating and "be more like women" sentiment. Women certainly struggle with dating now too, and probably have much longer than men. Hell, their own higher standards and independence are probably evolutionary in response to the fact that men have already been doing this for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:37 PM
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This might fix the “loneliness” side if you can truly convince yourself to ignore/overcome those feelings, but I don’t think it’s an option for most people (including women). Hell, men have always done this anyways when they don’t have partners. Many lean into work, travel, and other lifestyles simply because they don’t have a choice. They’re not all NEETs in mom’s basement crying on the internet. Ultimately though, this doesn’t really fix the “dating” part, your suggestion is just going black p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:07 PM
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Most have convinced themselves it doesn’t even occur. The “only 2%” argument is hilariously sad because first of all it’s false—the vast majority go unfounded, especially the false ones. As a lawyer, I’ve personally been involved in multiple cases in which there was blatant evidence she lied. We’re talking about uncovered texts discussing strategy, and even flat out confessions to authorities. I have yet to see a prosecutor take charges against anyone for filing the false report. Lots of pushbac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:46 AM
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That’s tough. If violence was absolutely necessary to defend himself, obviously he should have kicked/pushed/whatever elsewhere, but is it reasonable to expect that hindsight in the heat of the moment? It can kind of be akin to expecting a cop not shooting a threat in the leg/arm, which usually goes unpunished. So ultimately, I’d probably say that he shouldn’t be held criminally liable for the baby’s death. However, intent would matter and my opinion may change if something blatantly suggested h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 01:10 PM
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YNWA
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:54 AM
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My fiancé and both work, make comparable salaries. Even though we both kind of lean conservative, there’s not really an expectation of gender roles when it comes to basic things like that. Her cooking kind of sucks, so I do the majority of that. That’s mostly just dinners though, and for other meals we prepare our own. Not really a burden, as we’re both into fitness/health and have different needs. As for cleaning, we take care of our own messes as they come. As for common areas, one of us just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:09 PM
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Overall, that’s probably accurate… but you see more extremes in Missouri. There are definitely some way nicer parts of Missouri than anywhere in MN. However, there’s also a lot of way shittier parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:15 PM
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Overall, that’s probably accurate… but you see more extremes in Missouri. There are definitely some way nicer parts of Missouri than anywhere in MN. However, there’s also a lot of way shittier parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:15 PM
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It seems like a very boring state. I can forgive that, being from Missouri and all. The people just seem weird, or at least the transplants we get. Always seem to fall into one of two categories: Wiggers. Usually smoke a lot of weed and kind of trashy… sometimes nice, sometimes “tough guy” pseudo-gang type. Preppy type that also does a lot outdoors/country stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:11 PM
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-coming from a woman. I’m a fairly attractive guy, so I’m lucky enough that I have been approached many times in my life. And I have fallen in love with more than one. You have no idea what you’re talking about, you’re just saying this to justify being lazy and not taking risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:16 PM
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Is there a political belief of just shutting the fuck up about it? I get my identity and values outside of politics. Sure, some are somewhat related, but only so much is in your control as a vote only goes so far. Anything extra, ie. hanging up signs, political arguments, attending rallies, etc… Are pretty cringe and 99.9% of the time aren’t changing anyone’s minds. I’d much rather spend my time focusing on my own goals, hobbies, and pursuits. And I’d hope my partner is the same, regardless whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:43 PM
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Yep, a true American hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:34 AM
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Have you heard Biden speak lately? He truly had the best political arc of all time. He saved our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:33 AM
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Prob Syd. Neither are wife material (I say this as a former combat vet all too familiar with Army girls), but you said date. So I’ll play the game and smash for a while until she inevitable fucks her thrice divorced E6, if she hasn’t already. Better than a fatty with kids and no hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:28 AM
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It’s like an everything bagel, just throw everything on. Chives, onion, sesame, garlic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:23 AM
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Nah, midgets are fun. Prob would if it had the downs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:34 AM
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Oh so now it’s a big conspiracy and coverup lol. Even if that were the case, China is already bleeding because of it. More tariffs is going to make it worse, because it ultimately means a chunk of customers are priced out, which means less business. They need us far more as customers than we need to buy their shit. They don’t have a monopoly on production, and it can (and already is) shifting elsewhere. I mean read the news—even Apple is already going to India and other southeast countries. Or k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:38 AM
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Yes, which in entirely my argument—they need us far more than we need them. Doubt they find enough buyers to fill the void of US business.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:13 AM
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It’s already happening. The existing tariffs started awhile back, with even more in 2018 which sparked the trade war. Everyone jokes about “everything’s made in China” but the reality is that it hasn’t been that way for a while. Look at your own labels on things. It’s mostly smaller southeast Asian countries now. China really only dominates in consumer electronics now… which is also shifting. And why they’re currently in an economic crisis as a result of the 2018 tariffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:11 AM
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If you read the wiki page, you can see the exact results/figures of the tariffs in 2018 after only a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:08 AM
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Ok then you should know that tariffs are already in place and how China has been going through an economic crisis the last 5 years directly due to them. Prices have already been going up and production/trade is already shifting elsewhere. It’s also not as easy as “more tariffs, prices go up” as it prices out some buyers and lowers demand that make business less feasible. Which is why China is hurting (less buyers) and further accelerates motivation on importers side to shift trade elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:59 AM
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Leftist fear fantasy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:49 AM
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It’s an emoji, hon. Nobody is trying to touch you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:45 AM
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Ok now do those as percentages of their respective GDP. Also consider the fact the U.S. has the resources (and already in the process of, as previously discussed) shifting production and obtaining goods elsewhere. You can’t just throw out two numbers and say “this one bigger” without context like you just proved something. I don’t really want to get into a nuanced discussion about this right now on this sub, but do just a tiny bit of research of the effects of the tariffs Trump already put in pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:43 AM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:39 AM
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Some people enjoy sex more with a partner who isn’t promiscuous and sleeps around. Nobody, even the women threatening to “strike”, really believes they’re going to willfully stay 100% abstinent for 4 years. The idea is that they avoid doing it so often with randoms and without higher standards. Hell, it doesn’t even have to be someone you want to or are having sex with. I certainly can’t stand seeing my taxes go to welfare for women with 6 kids from 5 different baby daddies. And I certainly don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:38 AM
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No worries! I’ll be perfectly fine, hon.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:31 AM
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Whatever helps you feel better, hon. At least you’re starting to see the point the of the original metaphor though. Perhaps a boycott drops the average.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:26 AM
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It probably won’t be that bad. TV’s and other electronics prob revert and start going up again, but only because they haven’t started doing what Apple and others already started to do—shifting production to other countries like India. China ultimately needs us far more than we need them and have already been feeling these effects. Mark my words, they’ll offer to drop their tariffs and they’ll be a mutual treaty signed under Trump’s term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:24 AM
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lol, just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:18 AM
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I’ll give you another hint: key word is “sluts” here. If you think men love a woman with a large body count, I have some bad news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:10 AM
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We’re all rooting for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:05 AM
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You are free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:03 AM
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Sigh, speaking of low IQ… The speaker is saying it would be a good thing/preferable to them if a crack addict cleaned up. And that it would also be a good thing/preferable to them if sluts stopped sleeping around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:02 AM
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*Vice President and Future President Couch Fucker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:58 PM
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Not sure if you’re trolling or being serious, but you missed the metaphor lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:58 PM
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Even if they could/do… it would require them to always be thinking about why. Trump really gonna live in your head rent free the next 4 years? If they devoted just half of that thought to work or something productive, maybe there wouldn’t be a gender pay gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:56 PM
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*JD Vance
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:53 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/01zctmlohkzd1.jpeg?width=1206&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=af85b430b012085d66ad8c250771c6b74d459d23
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 11:52 PM
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Yeah as with most things, I’ve come to the conclusion that moderation is best. I mean, it’s probably way better than doing it excessively and porn addiction. It’s a good experiment with a lot of self-discovery involved, which is why movements like nofap have hardcore believers. So I do encourage you to continue if you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:58 PM
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Until you fuck them and get that post-nut clarity. Then you have a new set of problems. And I hope you met “you” in a general sense here. My fiancé and I are both very anti-fatty. We train MMA twice a week together on top of individual workout regimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:29 PM
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I tried NNN and “nofap” in college a few times. I’d always make it about a week. Not much noticeable effects except my libido skyrocketing. I’d just be walking around campus and catch myself staring at women’s chests and fantasizing about them, even women I wouldn’t normally be attracted to. Like it felt like I wanted to fuck everyone (but still not you, fatties). It felt very primal and inhumane. I think post-nut clarity exists and can be a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:05 PM
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I think the election results speak for themself that Reddit certainly isn’t the real world. Hell, my dark red state just passed a constitutional amendment to overturn the existing ban in the state and allow abortion. Even the feminists here certainly aren’t boycotting shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:25 PM
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Maybe slightly older, like mid 20’s. Not really a bad thing though. Still would.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:54 PM
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Military was some of the best times of my life simply for that camaraderie. I was scared shitless for basic and initial training, but after experiencing it I’d honestly go back and do it again—best friends I’ve ever made. Deployment was actually fun too. Making friends in the real world is tough. Everyone says “jUsT jOiN hObBy gRoUpS”. I did—run in organized races, pickleball league, golf, rec soccer, etc. I meet people and talk, but they seem content to just leaving the “friendship” there at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 04:37 PM
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Not at all, to be honest. I may want similar circumstances that people experience and enjoy, but I think with jealousy there’s a connotation of envy or even hate. I certainly don’t feel that—it’s actually quite the opposite in that I feel happy for them. Just gotta take accountability and earn that myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:50 AM
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People still have FB?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:43 AM
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Would
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 02:41 AM
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“Unicorns don’t exist” is another RP saying that usually goes hand in hand with this. In my experience, they actually do… but they’re so incredibly rare and always lock down early that you can still pretty much say they don’t. I know a few, but they married their high school sweetheart and live happy/successful lives without anything remotely close to relationship problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 08:53 PM
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“If they cheat with you, they’ll cheat on you” always seems to play out accurately IME. Same for emotional cheating and just branch swinging too. What does the end game look like for them? Do you they just hit the wall and can’t find anyone else/better? Or do they eventually realize they’re a piece of shit and learn the grass isn’t always greener?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:00 PM
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It was one of the first memes, to put it simply. There was a Reddit thread about it awhile few weeks ago that explained it. To set the stage, it started in ~2005, just when internet culture was becoming a thing. Comedy Central was also huge at the time, and there was a commercial advertising some show with a clip of a comedian doing a bit about why the band sucks. This commercial was done by CC promoting their own stuff, so it got a lot of airtime. And also at the time, Nickelback was the bigges…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 05:56 PM
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Ha I tried to do this last time. Walked right by one dude at the gas station, but he ended up calling out my name. I don't really care that much, so just pretended I didn't recognize him at first. He did say something like "Why don't you hit me up anymore" which kind of irked me, so I said "Phone works both ways"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:41 PM
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Ha maybe that's why it's so awkward. Like I said--I think there was some shit talk and bad blood maybe on their end? So when I'm nice, they're not sure what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:38 PM
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How do you handle interacting with or just seeing former friends? Reason I ask is that I recently moved back to my hometown and seem to be running into them a lot. No real major fallouts--I just moved on to bigger and better things for awhile. Happened to find a dream home for sale and came back by chance. I had tried to stay in touch over the years, but they seemed less interested so I gave up. I know there were initially some doubts and shit talk behind my back, which might be why these intera…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 04:27 PM
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Nah dude, you're good. Like I said, she would've went elsewhere regardless. Why not you? I don't blame you though, I used to flat out reject women for it, only to watch them do exactly that and/or dump their BF shortly after. I've also tried telling the BF too, but she'd lie and start accusing me of shit. To make matters worse, the BF takes her side and then wants to fight me or some other petty shit. I def don't do that shit anymore lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:16 PM
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Define "help"... Unless you helped her cover it up or something, you prob didn't do much other than provide some dick. Even if you knew about the BF ahead of time, she would've just gotten the dick elsewhere regardless. This is why I don't really care about being the "other guy" (most of the time).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 02:08 PM
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I know it's a meme, but its probably only accurate in the upper portions. The red part is funny because I grew up with this guy who's 6'8" and otherwise also attractive--square jaw, star sports player, and had a funny personality. Women weren't attracted to him though simply for the "too tall" thing--he wasn't even lanky/weirdly proportioned like the meme speculates. He dated this short frumpy gal with a busted face through high school and ended up marrying her. No getting around green is probab…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 12:11 PM
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Nah she rejected him for Cedric. He then only got a chance because her BF literally died.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:33 AM
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It sets a tone similar to “I don’t completely condone the behavior, however…”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 06:34 AM
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Flair checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 11:26 PM
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Somebody rear ended my vehicle a few weeks back, and I finally got it in the shop this week. It will be there awhile, so their insurance is paying for my rental. Rental place was going to give me a Rav4 , which I suppose is close enough to my regular car—a smallish luxury SUV. However, the Rav4 had a nail in the tire we discovered during the pre-inspection thing, so they gave me a 4Runner instead. This thing is massive—it feels like a truck. Also kind of gives me “bro” vibes. Not sure how I feel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 11:01 AM
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The Medium is newish one that I enjoyed. It’s a Korean movie, but takes place in Thailand and filmed like a documentary. So you have to be cool with subtitles (unless you speak Thai).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:00 AM
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Which is why fighting is for children and betas. Just ask her out dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 08:07 PM
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Kick his ass all you want, he still fucked a girl you’re too afraid to talk to. Fighting is for children anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:39 PM
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Well until you grow a pair, her chubby ex is way more alpha than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:26 PM
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“Testing you. And thought it would be funny. Fuck, did I just ruin this?”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:03 PM
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I mean, she most definitely prob doesn’t know her worth then. Dude prob was just the only one to make a move. Why don’t you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 07:02 PM
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Now I want to tell the next new chick I bone right before that I had my penis removed. Follow-up question: What if a guy told you he had his penis removed, only to pull down his pants and see a slightly above average 7" erect penis? Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:59 PM
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She just didn't know her worth. At least you don't have to worry about her comparing him to you in a negative sense. Who is she to you? Just a crush or are you guys dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 06:54 PM
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My state will be a landslide like always. I usually do a "protest" vote and go third party. The main candidates/parties pay attention to those votes more than their own, so I think it accomplishes something. I'm primarily there for local politicians and initiatives anyways, which have way more of an effect on my day-to-day life than the president anyways. Hell, we have abortion and sports betting on the ballot this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 09:01 PM
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Not technically, but it’s not worth your time if they’re not putting enthusiasm and effort upfront. Even if they do later, whatever holding them back initially will probably come up again later and inhibit them and cause issues. Not always, but usually. Take it as a no for now, move on, and reassess later if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 11:27 AM
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Went to a wedding yesterday. The groomsmen and bridesmaids looked so genuinely happy for their friend. Not just the staged photos of them cheering and other poses, but like they seemed excited for them and the celebration. Makes me realize how much my friends suck, because I don’t think theyd ever have that sort of enthusiasm for me lol. They seem to have me pigeonholed as the perpetually single guy and always hypercritical of anyone I start dating. And they definitely don’t take it seriously. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/24 01:31 PM
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Average ppd female: https://preview.redd.it/7yu12z4cf2sd1.jpeg?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=022a8d12aeaf56e3c70af9ac98a3bdd4c7fa947a
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 03:37 AM
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Lol not sure what you’re insinuating, but I’m not ashamed. I definitely don’t spend money on there. If for no other reasons, I’m afraid to give them my credit card information. Plus I’m cheap anyways. I pirate every movie/tv show I watch and don’t even pay for streaming. Hell, I was still pirating music up until last year too, only stopping because work now reimburses that. Why would I pay for porn? That’s a lot more accessible than any of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:28 AM
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My friend’s sister started one. He acted like he was fine with it at first, as he’s super liberal and kind of a hippy. He was fine with the ribbing we gave him, but then some friends got curious and subscribed. He had a change of tune, especially when they started sharing with each other. He fought with her about it, and the rest of their family got involved. She resisted at first, but then realized she wasn’t making that much money on there anyways and certainly didn’t want to put in the work t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:21 AM
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I feel like the vast majority of OF are bots. I mess around on there occasionally, and they all follow a predictive script and are “online” 24/7. The average woman has to compete with that, which is a lost cause. Most “real” women that are successful on it seem to have pivoted from other platforms they were quasi-famous on, which was hard to do then and even harder now. The bots have taken over IG, Reddit, and Twitter now too. Business 101 says they need to create market differentiation to be su…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 02:08 AM
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Athleisure with a touch of business casual when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 07:39 PM
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Recruiters for what? Military? Jobs? Religious cults? Sex trafficking?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:22 PM
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How are you defining Chad? If you’re bringing natural selection into this, there’s certainly more to it than being over 6’ tall and a chiseled jawline. Doesn’t RP have their own theory about this anyways, in terms of “Beta Bux” and women settling for and reproducing with a provider after hitting the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 06:19 PM
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Probably blames you, whether that's justified or not. I forgot the exact quote, but people tend to paint others negatively as the "bad guy" to justify the bad things they do to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 06:21 PM
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First girl and I dated several years and were pretty serious. Second girl was very much a rebound but lasted longer than you’d probably think. 2-3 months. It wasn’t ever going to work though… she was still in college while I’m pretty established in my career. The maturity disparity and life outlook differences were evident. Third girl and I are still dating, going on about 3 months. Started slow, but getting serious quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:53 AM
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I'm well aware of r/hapas and some of the troubles they face. The first girl I mentioned, we actually had been dating for a number of years and talked about it, due to us getting serious and potentially marriage/kids. I'm actually kind of glad it didn't work out because it was basically an "issue" that I was white. Hopefully she finds an asian guy or grows up or something. As for my current (the mixed one)... I think it's actually more about the environment she was raised. Parents are both hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:28 AM
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Yeah, wasn't really my cup of tea even though I'm not super woke or anything like that. Sex was otherwise amazing though, so she was fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:13 AM
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Meh, I don't care either way. Too selfishly worried about my own life to care about most political topics. Hell, even if I do have an opinion on something, sometimes I think it would be fun to see the other side play out and watch the world burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:12 AM
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I've dated 3 different Asian women in the last year, and each one has handled our racial disparity different (I'm white). The first was super into equality and representation. She even got offended once on quite a reach. She was telling me about dim sum, which I hadn't tried and I said "I'll probably enjoy it--I like most Asian food because it's usually rice based and the flavors are a mix of savory, spicy, and sometimes sweet." She thought I was saying all Asian food was the same and even told …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 02:05 AM
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Women are bad at sex, I think for a variety of reasons. As the "lock" piece of the key and lock analogy, they're obviously taught/ingrained with modesty from a young age that they're not always open to exploring it on their own to know better. Sure, sexual revolution and empowerment and whatever else happens, but even for the types that embrace that, it's never some big self discovery. It's usually born from trauma/repression of the modesty thing, and she ultimately just starfishes for a couple …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 09:06 PM
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My fiancé and I plan on doing this when we get married. Not just because he was a shit father, but the name itself is kind of weird and I got teased for it growing up—don’t really want to put our kids through that. I take after my mother’s side way more anyways and don’t even really talk to his side either.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/24 03:09 PM
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Nah tell them you want to see bobs and vajeen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 04:00 PM
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I mean, I’m not saying he doesn’t deserve it. I just feel bad that he’s that dumb and throwing his life away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 04:13 PM
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Ex friend of mine is back in jail. I don’t get it… he was kind of fuck up in school but got a really good job in the military reserves. Had a cushy full time gig with them and was promoted all the way up to E7 making good money. Married a beautiful woman, but ended up cheating on her and divorced. Dated the new girl awhile, but they had a nasty fallout. Then started dating this woman that was completely not his type. He’s kind of redneck and into sports, while she’s kind of bookworm and a full t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 03:30 PM
1

We currently don’t even have a president, so if they have a dick or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 03:12 AM
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I was hoping for Kamala because the economy may crash and I could buy cheap stocks and housing, but it didn’t really didn’t happen under Biden. So now I’m back rooting for Trump to see all the liberals freak out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:28 AM
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I saw a German on Twitter complaining about the start time. We haven’t had a sitting president in a couple months now people, it’s not that important.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 02:26 AM
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Went to two weddings this weekend. They played out a little different, but both were pretty big. Made me realized I definitely don’t want anything close to either one, if I were to ever get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:47 AM
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It wasn’t really the opinion of the music that bothered me, rather that she almost celebrating the fact the guy committed suicide just because she hated their music.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:42 AM
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When I use the x/10, I’m usually not taking into consideration of highly specific things like mouth shape and ratios, at least at an analytical or noticeable level. If those things come into play at all, it’s more about the complete package and how it relates to overall attractiveness. Some people can pull off a bigger nose or something like that. My approach kind of starts off as a yes/no thing. If I find a woman attractive at first glance and am told to rate her, I start with a 7-8, look again…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:35 AM
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Girl I’ve been talking to revealed she has a deep hatred for Linkin Park with the announcement of their new lead singer. Not sure if it gave me the ick or I’m just confused. We’re in our late 20’s, so Linkin Park was still pretty big when we were in middle school. I contend their music wasn’t super great and just catered to mainstream “stadium rock” standards of the time, which we moved on from in our teenage years. But I still think songs like In The End or Faint are catchy and a fun listen whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:14 AM
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Kind of both, but mostly real life experience. For the internet stuff, it’s not necessarily specific stories that guided/influenced me, rather just the fundamentals. Specific situations are often biased and might even be missing context/details, so I take them with a grain of salt. It’s more about applying fundamentals to my real life and drawing conclusions from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 10:22 AM
3

Depends on the area and cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:25 PM
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Interested to go back to work this week. Boss already said I’m getting a bigger raise this year. Standard annual raise is 5%, so I’m thinking I’m at least getting 10%. Hoping for 15% though, as that will get me to six figures and I can finally say I make that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 01:23 PM
1

Tits or gtfo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 12:48 PM
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Logically fair, sure. It’s only a “tax” in the form of opportunity cost though and doesn’t take into consideration the risks/drawbacks/potential added expenses of marriage. It’s kind of like the child tax credit. Am I getting taxed $2k for every child I don’t have? Or am I saving $10k+ for not having to pay for daycare, baby clothes, food, and all the costs of raising a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 09:10 AM
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Not sure I get what you’re asking. Yes, you could say the deduction is halved when speaking relative to married taxpayers. People do call it a bachelor tax, though I guess it’s not officially called that? That probably has more to do with the fact people are single by default, and the government is more so trying to incentivize marriage, kids, etc. rather than “punish” single people (though you could argue that it effectively does). You asked the functional difference, but it sounds like this is…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:32 AM
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You can get “discounts” on your taxes (in the form of deductions) but only up to a certain amount. That amount is doubled if you’re married. The tax rates/brackets also adjusted for those married filing together, so you’re not “in a higher tax bracket” with the combined income. It’s kind of a net wash if you’re both working and make similar incomes, as you’d both be paying those taxes single anyways. However, you can still benefit in other ways, such as the fact you’re likely living together and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:07 AM
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People still have Facebook?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 09:20 AM
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Well not everyone, and typically those are the types to end up like him. You’d just think he’d have some sympathy and understanding from living through some shit himself. Makes me kind of question the movie’s accuracy. I’m sure it was heavily dramatized…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:00 AM
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In my college dorm, we shared a bathroom with the room next door. My neighbors were using it to shower or something that was taking awhile, when suddenly I urgently had to take a shit. I knew I wouldn’t be able to hold it long and didn’t want to risk shitting my pants, so I shit in a plastic bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:54 AM
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I hate that JD and I have a very similar background. I have a trashy, drama filled family which basically ruined my childhood. I also joined the military and later law school to overcome all that. I watched his movie before he became VP and knew much about his politics. Thought I liked/related to him, but I’m pretty far off from that now. I do have some right wing takes on firearms, taxes, and the economy… but everything else I’m pretty far left. I guess I’m kind of a libertarian, though I’d nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 12:49 AM
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We’re late 20’s. The dude thing was kind of the least of my concerns lol, though it was a bit weird. I think I already know the origins on her dark takes, as we kind of have a similar background. She complained about her family, who are kind of poor yet have some alt-r1ght views. Again, this isn’t too far off from me. We both work in a professional environment and do quite well now. As much as I embrace some more “cultured” and finer things, I’ve also had some personal grievances trying to fit i…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:51 AM
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Finally asked my crush out this past weekend. She’s not the perfect woman I had been fantasizing her as. I kind of expected that though, so it wasn’t a big disappointment. And no clear cut dealbreakers yet. Not sure how to describe it, but she’s kind of white trashy? Has some shitty tattoos, dresses in a tomboy-esque way (we met through our professional work network), and definitely speaks kind of brash—calls me “dude” and has some dark takes on various subject matters. With this being the Midwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:30 AM
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It’s a political fluff anyways. I will bet my entire net worth that it never happens. Logistically speaking, the government could never go about enforcing it. And that’s before getting into the all the fallacies on the tax itself, which have been beaten to death by now. I remember when Biden ran in 2020, he said he would sign off on a federal assault rifle ban and 10 round magazine limit “on Day 1 via Executive Order”. It was written on his website and everything. Now, maybe the lie wasn’t inher…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 11:09 AM
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Anyone play pickleball? We used to play it in high school gym class. Everyone hated it because we would've rather been playing the more traditional sports, so it's kind of funny to me that it's popular now amongst the young professional crowd. Coworkers have been convincing me to play during lunch breaks. I've been enjoying it, so I decided to buy a nice paddle and take it a little bit more seriously. Probably won't be doing tournaments or anything like that, but it will keep me even more active…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 12:08 PM
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I max out a Roth and come close on my 401k. Really, as long as you’re tucking away 15% (including employer match) from a [somewhat] young age, that should be more than enough to retire very comfortably. I don’t get why everyone on finance Reddit is dead set on maxing. Sure, if you’re a high earner, live in a HCoL area, plan on staying there in retirement, and can swing it? Sure… but it shouldn’t really be the default advice. Personally, I’m only slightly above the 15% because I got kind of a lat…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:46 AM
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Never intentionally, but I will be polite and half ass a conversation some times. Other times I’m not in the mood at all, but usually those types won’t take the hint. A few weeks ago I only got a few hours of sleep and hungover af en route for a 7am flight. Even after mentioning this, the driver just kept blabbing. Only time I ever felt like asking them to be quiet or just giving the silent treatment. Another time a guy was trying to get me on one of those meal replacement shake subscriptions. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:11 PM
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Breakups are the ultimate shit test. The times I “fought” for the relationship, it went terribly. Very mild stuff—I just tried to talk/work things out (I definitely didn’t show up to their place or beg on my hands or knees or anything), yet they acted like I was crazy or something. In contrast, the last two I had learned it’s not worth it, so I just ghosted immediately. They initiated it in the first place, yet they both reach out to me regularly now wanting to talk. Hell, one sent a message to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 12:02 PM
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I hope they both destroy each other. Only partially serious. They’ve been fighting over that land for 3,000 years, and they’ll probably still be fighting for another 3,000. It doesn’t really affect me directly, nor do most politics, so I don’t care. I think even the most privileged people have better things to worry about that are more so in their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:16 PM
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As much as I love music, I feel like it be far easier to live deaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:18 AM
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I guess that could be a possibility, but certainly not common and thus not very likely. Plus in today’s society/norms, waiting for marriage or having super strict sexual boundaries can be a negative as well. We’re well past college, in our late 20’s, and live in a major U.S. city. Maybe I’m just not traditional, but I prob wouldn’t tolerate waiting until marriage to have sex. You could be onto something though. Despite her “alt” style, she’s actually kind of conservative. Very close with her dad…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:07 AM
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Possibly, but questionable. I’ve met the last two boyfriends. First dude kind of had some Chad characteristics. His new girl (now wife) is not nearly as attractive as her though. Second dude was definitely a passive beta. Surprisingly bagged a hot blonde immediately after her though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:48 AM
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It’s def not her looks. Hell, she’s better looking than the last two chicks her ex’s left her for. However, she does kind of lack in tit/ass size. I doubt that is a major dealbreaker. But that kind of brings up something else… maybe she sucks in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:27 AM
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There's this woman I work with who I can't figure out. She's very pretty... kind of in an unconventional way (think like "alternative" style), but I think objectively most guys would rate her at least a 7. Her personality is even better--very kind, bubbly, trad values that would appeal to a lot of guys. However, she doesn't do well in the dating world, and I keep our own dynamics professional enough that I don't know why. I've loosely heard about some of her dating stories. Last couple of guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:16 AM
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There's this woman I work with who I can't figure out. She's very pretty... kind of in an unconventional way (think like "alternative" style), but I think objectively most guys would rate her at least a 7. Her personality is even better--very kind, bubbly, trad values that would appeal to a lot of guys. However, she doesn't do well in the dating world, and I keep our own dynamics professional enough that I don't know why. I've loosely heard about some of her dating stories. Last couple of guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:57 AM
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I deleted my facebook years ago but made a fake one for marketplace, accessing linked accounts, and the occasional lurking. However, even then I almost never use it... maybe once or twice a month tops. I don't use my real name, just some random one I thought up in the moment. First name Joe because it's common, last name Sunny because I looked outside the window and it was sunny the day I made it. I logged on today and I have a message from some middle aged guy threatening me. He said I've been …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:52 PM
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Infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 08:37 PM
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I bought my first brand new car during Covid. Normally I wouldn’t because they depreciate so fast, but used cars prices skyrocketed that it made more sense. I spent $40k on a Corolla GR with 2% APR. I make $90k and have no other debt though besides my mortgage, so it’s not that bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 11:33 AM
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Is the show more about the tryouts/getting the job, or their daily lives? I dated an NFL cheerleader for almost a year. It was basically like a part time job. Only 2-3 practices a week and another 2-3 events like showing up to a children’s hospital or random corporate gig. Even for the game itself, she was never really “working” for more than a few hours at a time. She was pretty proud of it (and still is), but ended up moving onto to something else after only 2 seasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:42 AM
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I saw a tweet the other day of this chick mad at herself because she accidentally paid her cc balance in full. Expected her to be roasted in the replies, but everyone was sympathizing/relating to her? I don’t think I’ve ever NOT paid my entire balance. Ya’ll really out here paying ~20% interest? Probably wouldn’t even use credit cards at all if it wasn’t for the points, safety, and credit scores.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:38 AM
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Nah. I’m 5’10” and some change barefoot. Shoes on, I’m probably flirting with 6’. I used to just round up to 6’ until I finally ran into one of those super shallow chicks that questioned it. She had other issues too, so now I’m just honest so the shit women can weed themselves out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 12:41 AM
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Definitely not as much around the eyes, or at least compared to 1 and 5, which prevented me from picking them. I can’t tell with 2 and 4 but I was kind of turned off by them for other reasons, particularly their jawlines.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:03 PM
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I’m big on natural beauty and 3 seems to be wearing the least makeup, so that would be my vote. From what I can judge, it looks like she gets away with wearing less though because she truly does have more natural beauty than the others… but I would be curious to see the others with less.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:48 PM
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Probably a lot of incels and overweight people too lol. Here and there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:47 PM
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I used to sub to the childfree sub. I’m not exactly against having kids, I’m just very picky about it being with the right person. And I fully accept I may never find the right one. Everyone there seems to be gaslighting themselves and circlejerk about how it’s bad… which I don’t get. What is there to talk about? Go live your childfree life. I bet most actually do want kids but there’s underlying issues that prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 12:34 PM
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You’re welcome brother!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:31 AM
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Keep pushing it back bro, lots of love and success coming to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:30 AM
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If you’re reading this, I love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 03:23 AM
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In exactly two weeks, I will be sitting in first class en route to the Caribbean for a weeklong stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:52 PM
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I think society pressures everyone to be better, as it’s kind of the nature of capitalism and survival of the fittest. I’ve never felt pressured to get married though. I also don’t think society oppresses women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:41 AM
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I didn’t say anything about your personality. I just noticed a few traits and asked a question to help better understand where you’re coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:23 AM
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Really? I don’t really see anyone pressuring you in here. In fact, most people are saying not to, or simply do what you want. I don’t mean this as an insult, but are you autistic? You seem to lack social awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:14 AM
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Is this pressure in the room with us right now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 03:06 AM
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Isn’t Ohio for lovers though?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 02:17 AM
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I always crack up when I see the healthy BMI comments. He ALWAYS makes sure to put the range in parenthesis. I guess I kind of get it. A lot of “BMI is a myth” fatties on Reddit. I got banned from a few subs arguing with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:59 AM
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Did you have a poor relationship with your father? I think it can work in reverse if that's the case. I kind of feel that happened for me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:31 AM
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Relax, nobody's talking about fucking their own mom (though we've all had a turn with yours). It's just a widely believed theory that we seek partners with similar characteristics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:25 AM
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None of my partners have had really had much in common with my mom, but I was also never really close with her. I was actually borderline neglected growing up, so maybe I'm experiencing the reverse of the theory due to that. Current partner isn't even the same race, not to mention a completely different personality type. I do share some personality characteristics with my partner's dad though. Seeing it play out for one of my best female friends has been interesting. She has an extremely masculi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:20 AM
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Q4A: How similar is current or ideal partner to your parent of the same sex? Physically, mentally, emotionally, whatever. Just curious how prevalent this Freudian phenomenon is. I'll share my own experiences as a comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:11 AM
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lol I dated a girl who pulled this shit. I’m a lawyer, so I always have my phone on me… BUT 90% of my day is in meetings, depositions, and sometimes even trial. I also kept read receipts off, but she worked around that by sending snapchats. Somehow couldn’t process how unprofessional it would be to sit there and text or fucking Snapchat her back selfies in front of clients, colleagues, opposing counsel, and the judge. Her logic was “If you can read them, I don’t understand the big deal of spendi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 12:18 AM
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Hobbies are probably a bad example anyways. It’s probably far worse when related to career and other life goals. I know a lot of guys that talk up big plans, but have “woe is me” excuses when it comes to going out and accomplishing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:45 PM
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And that’s why it has me worried lol. I think she might live in a different city now though, so I should be ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 06:01 PM
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I guess it doesn’t on the surface… just worried about if it were to lead to her reaching out or dig up some more drama. She got pretty vengeful at the end there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:42 PM
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My dad is in an organization that fundraises there, so he gets me free passes. I usually show up, simply because they run a drink booth so the booze is free too… and drinking is absolutely required in order to tolerate the fake country folks in our upper middle class suburb lol. The rodeo and demolition derby is fun, so I usually just watch those. Def don’t trust the rides lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:37 PM
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Been thinking about one of my exes the past couple days. Not sure why… it’s been a couple of years and I’ve been over her for a long time. Even though we left some things unresolved, I’m content with the closure I created in my head. I don’t want to see or talk to her again, and I’d likely ignore her if it would happen. Complained about it to a coworker over lunch, and she hit me back with “It probably means she’s thinking about you.” I don’t really believe in all that manifestation nonsense, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:32 PM
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Isn’t this just growing up? My parents never really lambasted me for crying… I just think I grew up enough to realize it doesn’t solve issues. Once puberty and adolescence hit, I can probably count on one hand the times I even felt the urge to cry. And most of those are probably “happy tears” moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:40 PM
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Not really... he's always kind of been passive when it comes to conflict. Occasionally he'd throw his tantrums and act tough, but it seemed to be for show. Raised by a single mom who spoiled him, if that gives you any indication of what he's like. He did join the National Guard and acts like he's some war hero or something. He works full time for them too, so it actually kind of keeps him out of legal trouble for the most part. I didn't really look him up expecting to see much, to be honest. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 06:23 PM
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I know it's petty, but I find comfort in watching the downfall of people who have wronged me. This one guy used to be a friend, but we kind of had a falling out. There was some betrayal and we kind of made amends, but he acts cocky and too good for me and others from the old friend group now. Decided to look him up on our state's court database, and he currently has a pending case for domestic assault. I guess it was alcohol related, because part of his bond requirements is wearing an alcohol mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 05:13 PM
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My 401k hit $100k. Technically I was already at that milestone because I have a little bit of money in a Roth IRA too, but it feels really good seeing that six figure number.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:00 PM
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You got this man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:18 AM
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Not sure how bad my "addiction" was with alcohol, so I'm not sure how helpful I can be... basically I just used it to fill voids--hard days are work, emotional struggles, and just flat out boredom. I never felt like like I "needed" it though, and if that's the case for you, you may need more professional help. It's important to first realize that nobody needs substances or things that ultimately may kill you one way or another. Anyways, I just did one day at a time at the beginning. I definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 01:50 PM
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I don't mind paying on dates, and I wouldn't be dating if I couldn't afford to. And I wouldn't bother dating someone who insists on somewhere super fancy that's going to run me over $100. Never even really had someone suggest it to be honest, so I don't think I'm really losing out on anything/anyone. In today's society/economy, $100 for entertainment/meal isn't really that bad, especially if you're only doing it once or twice a week. So ultimately, it's not really expending significant resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 12:38 PM
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She's pretty small. Average height for a woman, on the slim side, but huge boobs that require her to wear a Women's Medium in T-Shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:14 PM
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Probably the university I initially chose. Attended a small school away that none of my friends/peers chose, and part of that reason was to be "different" for whatever reason. It wasn't run well and the academic program I was in was going through some changes that would've required me to attend an extra year. Not to mention I just didn't enjoy the student life aspect. I ended up getting just an Associates in two years before leaving. Worked and explored other things for a couple years before I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 03:10 PM
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Girlfriend of over a year spontaneously bought me a t-shirt. Size XL. I'm 5'11" and weigh 170lbs... I wear a medium in basically everything... MAYBE a Large hoody, depending on the brand. She's asked me before buying clothing in the past, and never once have I ever wore XL in anything. Her logic for the decision was "That's what my dad wears." I guess we're similar height, but he easily weighs 60lbs more than me. She's not dumb either--successful engineer at a well known defense contractor.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:10 PM
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Yes! This is exactly my point! Gambling also has risk. See the comparison? All this because I made a dumb little joke about how they're similar. Have a good day, regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 11:13 PM
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I never said anything about making money, or lack there of in personal performance. I actually do quite well in those regards (I'd LOVE to compare portfolios if you're truly bragging about blue chips and index fund gains lmfao). I'm just saying there's inherent risk, and stocks do go down (which you can also profit on if you play them right... which I do).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:32 PM
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What in the actual fuck are you talking about? Stocks going up and down are literally the nature of the market and financial world. Are you implying I don't "believe" in Finance because they *could* go down? Some of the best traders in the world are Bear Traders and make quite a living on this fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 10:12 PM
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Yes, blue chips and index funds "only go up" [usually*]. However, that's only one (albeit popular) investment strategy and usually only caters towards longterm. YOLO-ing on GME is also just one invest strategy. You can't sit there and argue both ends of the spectrum and pretend it encompasses the entire market. *I said usually, because that doesn't account for recessions or economic depressions or even a catastrophic economic change. For example, you wouldn't have made shit in S&P500 in 8 years …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 05:33 PM
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Please save the semantics. I have a degree and work in Finance, so I'm aware it's not technically gambling. I was mostly making a a joke, but it does share similar inherent risks, hence the big "if" in your second sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 04:25 PM
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I once dated a woman who constantly accused me of using her for sex. It must have been projection, because she was the one who initiated waaaay more often than me. It was so annoying. One time she was out of town and spontaneously sexting me. I initiated the same sort of texts a couple days later, and it was right back to the accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:58 PM
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This is a little concerning coming from a married man lol. Of course they want to fuck, but at least some are seeking a little more than that. Though I suppose it goes hand-in-hand with fucking, like a steady lay or children. Personally, companionship and a DINK lifestyle also appeal to me the older I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:51 PM
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I prefer stocks. At least you're technically holding ownership in a company and an "asset".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/24 01:47 PM
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I only found out about it only after moving to my current area of the city where it’s prominent. Specifically, it’s at a large park with a lake, trails, and roads running through, and it’s very well established as the designated place to do so for the whole city. I do my distance running there, and now I can’t help but notice how obvious it is now. Not just actual cruising (guys driving by real slow) but you’ll see a lot of people in jeans or regular street clothes on hot days while everyone els…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:49 PM
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Everyone in my extended family always has at least 2 daughters before having a boy. We jokingly call it a curse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:41 PM
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Depends on the group. Smaller (2-3) seem more receptive to advances, as I think they’re there so that exact purpose. Larger is gets a little more 50-50. Larger groups, there seems to be a larger chance of jealousy or taken women that feel the need to be saviors or whatever. Bachelorette parties are interesting because you get the best/worst of both. I think many of the single women are in a hitched mindset and possibly even envious of all wedding activity fun. They’ll branch off and I often have…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:53 PM
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Yes, agreed. I almost hate to use the word discipline because it invokes a negative connotation. But I meant more so encouraging and teaching self discipline, rather than yes, “do as your told” or even corporal punishment (which my parents resorted to mostly).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:12 AM
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I think even a good upbringing can invoke negative feelings. Part of growing up is discipline and controlling natural urges, which is hard on a child. So I think that’s why everyone strives to be “different” than their parents. Mine legitimately fucked up in very obvious ways though lol. Alcohol problems, abuse, neglect, divorce, fighting/yelling between them, placing blame, etc. Hope to god I don’t mimic those lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:02 AM
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I heard it’s more so that everyone has their grievances about their upbringing… even with a normal/healthy upbringing. Part of growing up and developing is discipline and controlling natural urges, which is hard on a child. So naturally you want to do something different for your own. Raising a child is also hard and frustrating in a parent though, physically and mentally… so I think people tend to “settle” on doing what they know or what ends up being “easiest” at least some of the time, which …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:55 AM
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You don’t think you’d get tired or burnt out of being so strict and actively enforcing it? We’re talking 18 years on a nearly daily basis, when you’re likely also working and dealing with the rest of your life too. Not doubting you, but that’s part of that claim/belief. Basically everyone has their own criticisms of their upbringing, but end up “settling” on what they know when the going gets tough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:48 AM
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How much truth do you think there is to claim that everyone ends up mimicking their own parent’s parenting styles when they have children themselves? My parents were shit, and not just in a biased way. Confirmed based on the child development and psychology classes I took during undergrad. I feel like they gave me a personal manual on what NOT to do lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:34 AM
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Yes, but not in the sense most people interpret them. When we die, we lose all aspect of time. What we’re left with is our memories and thoughts existing perpetually in what’s left of our consciousness. It’s why people who have died and come back report seeing loved ones. Therefore how we live our lives and view the world becomes our own heaven and hell. God isn’t his own entity, he’s within us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:10 AM
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I've been watching my diet too. Make sure you're getting enough water and sleep, as those can be disrupted with diet change. You got this bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:03 AM
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Yeah, man. I could never just do 1-2 drinks, even if I told myself it would only be that... just had to drink another 2-3 to chase that buzz. Luckily my fuck up realization wasn't too major... just started to notice weight gain and hated what I saw in the mirror/pics. I think a lot of it is alcohol causing bloat and water weight, because it fell off fast. My tummy is flat again and my face looks thinner to the point people already think I've lost a lot more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 03:01 AM
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Will do, and thank you! I'm embracing the sadness. Can't have good days without bad ones..
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:52 AM
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You're still young, man. And you can't have good days without the bad ones. Things will get better soon enough for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:50 AM
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Thank you! I don't mind the sad feelings so much. Probably better to feel them naturally than cope with something like alcohol. Can't really have good days without bad ones. I'll be ok soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:48 AM
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Thank you! I'm not even sure if I was an "alcoholic"... I wasn't drinking everyday or felt like I wanted/needed to. No legal or major social issues with it. Wasn't getting blackout drunk when I did. Basically 4-5 beers every couple days just de-stress, loosen nerves for social outings, or just sheer boredom. Wanted to lose some weight (already 10lbs down) and improve athletic performance for an upcoming race, so I quit entirely. Pretty decent results so far, so I'll keep going and see what else …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:46 AM
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Fat women gross me out. Skinny women are attractive. Yes, I've seen women naked. irl, if you can believe it. Curves are nice, but theres a difference between healthy curves and just straight up fat. And curves can be overrated/too much. For example, I consider Nicki Minaj's body repulsive. Even Kim K is pushing it. No, not remotely attracted to pre-pubescent bodies. That's disgusting. These questions are getting too ridiculous to answer directly, so I'll just sum it up. Curves, to me, are wider …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:39 AM
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Feeling very sad and somewhat anxious today, for really no particular reason. I quite drinking a month ago, and previous times I've tried quitting, days like this would cause me to give in. Surprisingly wasn't even tempted or even thought about it until just now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 02:28 AM
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This ex of mine and I dated 2 years. She dumped me out of the blue (on Christmas Eve), cut all contact immediately, and went official with someone else 2 weeks later. Sucked, but I got over it quick once I found out about the new guy. 4 years pass, not a single peep until she adds me on IG. I accept, but don't add her back. She liked some of my pictures but never DMed or commented anything. Eventually I just blocked her. Women are weird man. "I'm going to devote 2 years of my life with this man,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 01:04 AM
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Sports never come close to a positive ROI at a high school or even college level. It's like a couple bucks to get in with MAYBE a couple thousand in attendance, then maybe another couple thousand in merch/vendor sales throughout the season. That's not coming close to coach salaries, equipment, travel, stadium, etc. Pro teams really only make money from their lucrative TV deals and selling merch by the millions in revenue. Tickets just keep the lights on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:58 PM
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Probably a good point, but this was in an upper middle class area with a lot of property tax money coming in. They blew money on far dumber staff and frivolous shit. If you really want to talk about shit being used by less than 5% of the student body, the football field/stadium was ONLY used for football. They locked it up outside of game days. Maintenance and upkeep alone was probably waaaay more than the AT's salary. My college gave no fucks though. We used to fuck around in that stadium all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:50 PM
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I mean, I agree. But I think blaming him for failing the kid is a bit misdirected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:41 PM
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Why? Mine was able to diagnosis a torn ACL when my coach insisted it was just a sprain and to stay in the game, risking further damage. The AT later helped with physical therapy, saving me a bunch of money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:30 PM
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The mother and biological father are far more complicit setting the kid up for failure than he is. Leading along during the pregnancy with false pretenses isn't right nor does it help things, but it's not nearly as bad as cheating or the pump n dump with a taken woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 11:26 PM
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They're talking about the existing hair at or near the pre-op hairline. Most guys lose in a recession pattern, so theoretically that hair would continue to fall out, leaving bald area between transplanted hair and existing hair over time. The finasteride should prevent it for most though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:22 PM
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Do you find them motivating or something to strive for? I haven't watched a lot because they seem corny and unrealistic...but I watched a decent one recently, and it kind of had that effect on me to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:50 PM
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I'll answer first---I avoid them due to the lack of masculine appeal, along with just the fact I find that the plot and acting suck 95% of the time. However, I watched one a few days ago on a whim, and it kind of changed a blackpill-esque mindset I've been having lately. I hate to admit this all this, as I've always been a realest when it comes to relationships. I cringe at the corniness you often see in these movies. I avoid being the star of the romantic comedy inside my head, especially notic…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:42 PM
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Q4A: How do you feel about movies centered entirely around romance/love? And do you regularly watch them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:41 PM
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Joking (mostly). I do occasionally use it... it has to be at home and near bedtime because it shuts me down physically and mentally.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:35 PM
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Weed sucks. Grow up and do coke like an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:28 PM
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Forgetting. Blocking is such an immature and short-minded thing to do, and it speaks volumes to how they are as a person (excluding harassment situations) that I wouldn't miss or be hurt by someone capable of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:27 PM
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I work in insurance. Thankfully not consumer level, but same idea. It's not to save you money, it's to reduce sudden risk/catastrophe. Collectively speaking, people aren't responsible enough to plan for emergencies. There's an article every week about how a large percentage of Americans couldn't afford a sudden $400 or $1k expense or whatever... so it's safe to say that most are living paycheck to paycheck. Now look at the things we typically insure--cars, homes, health, etc. An emergency with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:22 PM
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I deleted my FB and IG the moment my parents got them. Not that we have a bad relationship or I'm ashamed of my activity on social media... I just don't need that microscope on my life. My male friends and I didn't even really interact via them anyways, so my activity was basically all dating or travel related. If they truly want to know about that, they can (and do) ask. And then I can choose to divulge more or less than what I otherwise would on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:08 PM
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I guess I'm decently sized--I've had a couple women say it's too big. I don't think it really helps all that much though--seems like women just see it as a "bonus". Nobody's stayed with me or progressed the relationship for my size alone, as far as I'm aware. Maybe it's kept some "coming back" to some extent, but it's never been obvious. I don't think it makes up for some of my flaws either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:23 PM
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I can't speak for everyone else, but yeah that's what did it for me. Especially in the context of the story--all the drama already going on with the main character simply being there and unaccepted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:40 PM
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Missed out on the buzz of the scene specifically, but for me it had nothing to do with the wedding itself. It was the two protagonists staring at each other and admiring each other from afar during the ceremony. The music, filming, and acting all just melted my heart (in the most masculine way possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 01:35 PM
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Finally watched Crazy Rich Asians last night. I hate romance movies and thought most of it was corny, but the wedding scene was incredibly heartwarming.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 12:47 PM
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This is what really pulled me out of a years long dating funk. As much as I hate the cliché “join hobby groups”… it can work when done correctly. Don’t go in with top priority of dating or even making friends. Go there to have fun and do whatever the activity is. It doesn’t even have to be dorky clubs if you’re not into that—I’ve had success just golfing as a single, signing up for fun runs, and happy hours with coworkers. Friendships will come naturally, and that expands your social circle enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 08:33 PM
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Missed that last part lol. Just saw she was asking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:46 PM
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I understand how this can trigger a lot of red flag responses, but what exactly is an acceptable answer in your opinion? Unless they have an advanced education in sociology, nobody could probably answer it in a way that isn’t nuanced to their individual experiences/observations. Especially men who aren’t experiencing any potential detrimental effects, assuming it exists in any form. I feel like my answer would be something along the lines of being above my head. Possibly pointing out there’s cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 02:31 PM
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Would you ever take back an ex? I’ve certainly made the mistake more often I’m willing to admit, but those times it was only after a weeks/months. What if several years have passed and there’s legitimate reasons to believe they learned/grew as a person?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 01:46 AM
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Mostly social circles, but I used to use dating apps and met a lot of women there. Eventually swore them off entirely for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/24 12:24 AM
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I’d give myself an 7.5 or 8. >8.5 is basically celebrity/model status, if 5 is average. I don’t really have an endless stream of women like many of them do, but I’ve never really had to approach women because so many hit on me. Been in well over 20 relationships, countless dates, body count in the 30s somewhere but could be way more if I really “let loose”. Not bragging, just stating why I think I’m probably that high. I have personality and relationship issues, which is why I waste time here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:49 PM
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I miss having a crush. Not sure if my standards are just too high or I'm not meeting enough people, but there's essentially nobody I could see myself dating at the moment. The closest thing is a former coworker who used to drop hints, but I never found the right time to ask out. I have a fantasy of randomly running into her again and finally doing it, but it's a slim chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:03 PM
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Yeah, which is why I ultimately don't care if I'm on there. If a potential romantic partner takes anything on those pages as blind truth, I'm probably dodging a bullet anyways. It would be kind of fun to read the posts on there though, simply for the drama and knowing how biased it is lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:03 PM
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Had a falling out with a close friend last week. Mutual friends are staying uninvolved, but they have stated they think he's jealous of my lifestyle, which is crazy to me because I'm actually jealous of his. I don't hate him for it though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 01:00 PM
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I'm curious if my ex's are on them and talk shit on me. I think it's very likely, as I've had some pretty intense breakups. I'm not a terrible guy, I just think breakups are naturally messy simply because it's never really part of the "plan" and there's inevitably going to be negative feelings. I've probably been in close to 20 exclusive relationships in my life, and only one we actually remained friends after breaking up. Even then, she blew up on me when I started dating someone else 3 months …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:39 PM
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Typically there needs to be monetary damages done in order to sue, ie. you lost your job or something. Having a bad reputation in your local dating scene doesn't exactly cost you money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:12 PM
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Kind of, but also not really. I certainly made a lot of mistakes and missed a lot of opportunities… but I’m pretty happy with where I’m at now. And ultimately those mistakes provided learning experiences that I would not otherwise have. Friends/peers have taken other routes, and there are certainly observable downsides to those as well, which ultimately make me not upset or envious. My life is far from perfect, but I think I still have a potential to fix things and have right “tools” equipped to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 11:40 AM
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Gave birth to u/Interesting_Show_962
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:29 AM
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You have no idea what my standards are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:13 AM
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Some women aren’t too bad. I like you guys a lot ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:52 AM
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I think there’s actually a known medical reason for this. A hydrated person will naturally have to pee after ~8 hours of sleep. And because your body is resting, the subconscious biological and neurological functions are also “resting”, they misinterpret the feeling of needing to urinate as stimulation to the penis/pelvic area.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 02:22 PM
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My grandma gave me an unused bread machine awhile back she picked up at a garage sale or something. I bought high quality ingredients, followed some online recipes/guides to the T, and it still came out super dense and tasted like cardboard. Threw it out. My local grocery makes some phenomenal loaves in-house that cost all of about $2, so it wasn’t worth the effort or cost to experiment further.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:06 AM
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No way. Her father was abusive, and everyone knows the daddy issue stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 04:01 AM
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I think it’s close enough to average that it’s not “over”… just will need to have other redeemable qualities. My boss is only 5’6” but built like a brick shithouse with like 2% BF, and he absolutely cleans up with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 10:18 PM
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lol I’m not knocking it, so you don’t have to defend the position to me. I just used it as one example how political opinions can vary significantly, even among self-proclaimed liberals and conservatives. I certainly have opinions that are on both sides of the fence, to the point I wouldn’t call myself either. Never really considered it a deal breaker that much, unless the other party is an extremist or the issues affect us directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 01:23 PM
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Still seems a little odd, but I'm not really judging you for it. The bigger concern I had was the conservative morals and what that means... because it can be a lot of different things. Hell, even marriage (especially at 30+), which you also put as another standard. Every societal issue has become a polarizing political topic, so matching with someone 100% politically may make your standards unrealistic depending on the specifics and the extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:58 PM
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Can you be more specific with “morally conservative values”? Otherwise, it’s not too picky if you live in a major city. I live in Chicago, and probably know at least a half dozen friends who check nearly all these, including myself (though I’m not single). The spicy food thing is a little odd. I love spicy foods, but never really cared if my partner did or not. I guess it narrows down some home cooked meals, but doesn’t seem like it should be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 12:25 PM
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Where’s my hug?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:30 AM
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Hey bby, wan sum fuk?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/24 03:16 AM
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I signed up it in somewhat recent times (2014-2018) and don’t regret it, though I certainly wouldn’t recommend it for most. For me, the primary reason was school benefits. Despite being a gifted athlete and student growing up, college was still going to cost me a lot of money and my parents weren’t willing/able to provide a dime. Though most of my tuition would’ve been covered, indirect costs were always going to be an issue. Food, clothing, shelter, books, transportation, random fees, etc. were…
/r/MensRights03/06/24 02:05 PM
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Anyone else notice there’s been an uptick of people getting huge justice boners for fights and intense verbal confrontations lately? It’s so classless and immature. Some guys pretend it’s masculine, but I honestly can’t think of anything more effeminate than not being able to control your emotions and engaging in pointless fights that will likely end poorly for all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 08:48 PM
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If she changed "me" to "us" I wouldn't have a problem with it. In fact, I kind of agree with it at that point. People should have their finances in order if they want to date and have children. I understand if you're not a high earner and that many parts of the country/world it's extremely hard... But if you can't get it done with a dual income, then you should probably reevaluate your career and decisions before worrying about reproducing. All that being said, the use of "me" suggests she would…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 06:37 PM
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As much as I hate this advice, it can work… with several caveats. You brought a good point already—there has to be women or people who know women there. However, I was still able to do it with a very male dominated hobby. I often play golf alone, which usually means they pair me up with random people. If it goes well, we often exchange numbers to play again, which then blossoms into friendships and invites to other events, which expands my network enough to be introduced to women. Hell, one time…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 04:30 PM
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Men can be both, and that venn diagram for redditors is probably close to just one circle. "I'm not like other guys--I actually treat women with respect. Why don't they want me?" types.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:49 PM
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Reddit is dominated by single/weird men, so it's mostly "woe is me" and the circlejerk associated with it. Exponentially for the token women who provide sympathy/validation for the updoots.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 02:20 PM
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They better tip this time too! 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 09:34 PM
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Unfortunately, that's just society in general. We don't give a fuck about men individually. That's why the draft is only mandatory for us, we die in wars that don't affect us, get slaughtered in divorce court, and nobody wants to seriously address loneliness and other male problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:56 PM
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He believed her. Not sure if he ever found out about about the texts and other evidence. It didn't go to trial, and I only found out why the dropped the charges after talking with the guy she cheated with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:51 PM
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I [used to] know a woman who did this. She got caught cheating and covered it up with the accusation. Part of if it was also to get revenge on the guy she cheated with, as I guess she was wanted to leave her BF for him and he wasn't having it. Especially when he found out about the BF and told him. The police did a full blown investigation and the guy was arrested, but eventually they found texts with her friends and family talking about the hoax. There were other things too, like her story chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 03:26 PM
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RP focuses mostly on sex and strategies involving it. If you’re looking at specifically that mentality/ideology, I believe the primary purpose is fulfilling innate sexual desires. Most of that being physical, but there’s indirect mental benefits as well that can enhance your life outside of that. It’s basically why they heavily endorse “spinning plate” strategies, because it puts that sex first (and with a variety) while minimizing the relationship aspects that do make men miserable. If you’re a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 12:08 PM
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I drive a Q5 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:57 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:56 AM
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Several photos of him have gone viral over the years in relation to his “dad bod” but I honestly never thought any have looked that bad. He’s obviously strong and in shape, maybe has a little extra fat and not as “cut” as some… but I also think these photos were just candid and unflattering angles. The most recent one just seems like it was the shirt fit and material making it look worse than it is. And I say this as someone who hates the Chiefs and American football in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 03:36 AM
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Easy, don’t flip. While $100mil would be very nice, it’s too life changing and can even have negative consequences. Not to even mention the risk of receiving $0. $1mil really isn’t that much anymore… you’d still have to keep working, but it could really enhance your life in a perpetual way if you play it right. I’d throw it all in diversified stocks and pull returns as I needed/wanted to upgrade my life. An ETF like VTI averages 10% returns. An extra $100k a year on top of my existing salary sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:27 AM
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If they somehow last through the rest of her undergrad and law school, they'll inevitably divorce within the first year or two of her being an associate. The workload is a grind, not to mention all the tenured Chads at the firm seeing her as fresh meat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:53 AM
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Agreed. You have to have serious game to pull it off successfully, and even then it's still a zero sum game because there's a taboo of "picking up" a woman to the point it's seen as a conquest. And of course, women are aware of this and put guards up. If it develops further, you'll still always be the rando who approached her. You may exist as a star of the romantic comedy that exists in her head for awhile, but the moment it goes south you become the creeper she has no other connections to that…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 12:12 AM
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I no longer do ONS or casual sex because of this. I was really into RP lifestyle of spinning plates in college and was quite successful at it. It gets old quick. Basically just glorified masturbation, assuming she’s halfway decent in bed (most women just starfish). The best sex has always been with a committed partner I’ve cared about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:14 PM
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While I agree that less women want kids nowadays (probably), I think there’s some truth to the other point as well. I think among childless women, many do want kids but only want them with a certain type of man that they don’t have yet or can’t get. It’s more of a problem now than in the past due to more options and access to a broader range of mates.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 08:11 PM
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Let me introduce you to neo Nazis
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:34 AM
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Caring about other countries at all is cringe af
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:34 AM
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I'm RP in terms of core male/female dynamics, but don't agree with some of the life advice of "spinning plates" and the fact there's really no end game. And although at its core principles preaches not to hate women, you still see a lot of it in the community, not to mention some of the advanced techniques of preying on their emotions and practically manipulating them. I ultimately think relationships can and should be mutually beneficial, and understanding the differences in wants/needs that RP…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 04:28 PM
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lol probably. I just like the rhythm and nostalgia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:15 AM
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lol I heard Let Me Love You by Mario the other day and was really feeling it. Took me back, as I was a young teenager when that type of music was big, and basically the staple to every homecoming and prom. Edit: This one’s unironically amazing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 12:08 AM
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I think the biggest problem with dating in today's world is the idea that both sides look at it as a zero sum game--there's belief that there’s a “winner” and “loser”. I think this mostly happens at a subconscious level (though it’s often more blatant in the breakup). It occurs during all stages though, even the very beginning. Picking someone up has become seen as a conquest, and the other party often purposely plays hard to get because of this or even may take pride in rejecting for the sake o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:00 PM
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Kind of depends. I can forgive high school and even college ages, simply because you’re still developing and possibly going through growing pains that superficial adolescent peers may avoid. It can even be a green flag if you’re more focused on academics and your future to bother dating (I kind of wish I did this). Once you get into the real world though, it’s kind of weird to not even try. Attempts matter more than success, no shame in rejection. However, if it goes on too long, you need to adj…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:50 PM
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I work in excess commercial lines. I see far more bad faith by claimants and their teams than I do in-house, especially nowadays with fraud, third party litigation funding, and opposing counsel taking reckless risks due to the uptick in social inflation. We actually seem really good about honoring and settling legitimate claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:11 PM
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It was said in a condescending way. She even made a comment how boring it sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:03 PM
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Mid. Single mom vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:56 PM
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Corporate/insurance law.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:55 PM
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Corporate/insurance law.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:55 PM
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Got my haircut this morning and the lady doing it asked what I do. She scrunched her nose and said she could never do that. I hate to sound pretentious (though she trashed my profession first)… but yeah no shit you can’t. I had to get a JD in order to get this job. I don’t think you’d be cutting my hair if you “could” do it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:34 PM
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It’s truly a spectrum, technically everyone is on it somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:10 AM
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Definitely not every black person, but as a player of online video games… it’s ALWAYS a black person when I do hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:50 AM
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Height is a huge factor. 150 on 5'6" is going to be a lot different than 150 on 5'1". The woman pictured here is definitely at least 5'6".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:09 AM
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I think practical intelligence is the most important. Formal education and real world experience can help foster it, but I've certainly dated women with Masters and PhDs who I couldn't hold conversations with, or they couldn't complete basic tasks outside their profession. I feel like your comment is more geared towards income and status though. As a high earner myself, I never really cared about this. Not that I'm planning on being their ATM or fully support them... I do expect them to be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:55 AM
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Lmfao I’d love this. Reminds me one time when I was all of about 21 and a middle aged woman asked me to dance with her because I “look like a real rug cutter.” I happily obliged, despite having two left feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:17 AM
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Not really necessary, just don’t be a leach or show signs of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:15 AM
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Still rocking the chunky look (Adidas Ozweego) for errands and casual stuff. If I want to dress it up a little, I’ll throw on some Stan Smiths. Otherwise I wear dress shoes to work and when I go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 11:12 PM
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I’m not sure if that actually is what OP meant, to be honest. They literally said “20 year old” and “30 year old” and I took it as such. Usually people say it like you did or “twenty something”/“thirty something” if they truly meant it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:32 PM
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That’s not the way I’ve always understood the rule. You only take the older party’s age for the calculation. In this situation, it’s a 30 and 20 year old. 30/2+7= 22. Meaning the youngest the 30yo should date is 22. 20 would be too young. I think it’s a good rule, but it works far better when both parties are past college/high school years IMO. I think you’re still learning and inexperienced in life until you get past those stages to really be dating someone outside of them. For example, I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:19 PM
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Thanks lol, though even our sneaking around is pretty mild too. Never in a situation where we could actually reasonably get caught. We exist though, and I agree with the other comment about porn brain rot. Probably a good vetting question once you get far enough along that sex is discussed. Just ask what they like or even what type of porn they watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:06 PM
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I’m definitely mild af lol. Anal grosses me out. I also once had a girl that loved to deepthroat and gag on it, but I’d be sitting there too worried about hurting her than to even enjoy the BJ. I do enjoy switching up positions, but nothing crazy—cowgirl, doggy, etc. I also recently discovered a “kink” of going at it in somewhat risqué places (like my office or private area of a public park). That’s pretty much the extent of it, which seems very mild compared to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 12:38 PM
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Yeah, doesn't change my answer. I did the RP "spinning plates" thing in college and my 20's with random, meaningless hookups. It gets old fast. I've also been in very long term relationships and secretly sought sex with something "new"... but not enough to sacrifice the emotional connection of asking/cheating on my partner. It might be a different situation if it was a dead bedroom or she gained a bunch of weight or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:57 PM
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Probably the first one. I’d still probably work though, or at least manage the finances if they’re high enough to need that sort of thing (I have a finance/accounting degree). Don’t really for polygamy if I’m with a partner I enjoy, and it would probably just make me lose interest in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 05:39 PM
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This is Reddit you fascist pig! America is a shithole! Something something universal healthcare, Trump, walkable cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 03:33 AM
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Chads
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 08:19 PM
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Mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:50 PM
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Highly recommend the book Mate by Tucker Max and Geoffrey Miller. I know it’s Tucker Max, but he’s kind of grown up (outside of his alt right views and weird conspiracy theories, but this book doesn’t really talk about those). Basically a realistic dating strategy that looks at both sexes fairly… almost like a neutral RP. A lot of it is obvious stuff, but they expand and put it in context.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 06:46 PM
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Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:09 PM
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I clean up at work in the corporate world. You obviously have to be careful, but I think the “don’t shit where you eat” thing is kind of stupid after doing both a number of years. We spend most of our time there anyways, and there’s less bullshit related to peacocking and artificial dating interactions you have with randoms. You just can’t do anything stupid. Keep the flirting and romantic stuff to an absolute minimum at the office itself—save that for the date you ask them on. Also don’t date y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:42 PM
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I traveled this week for work and fantasized about flying private. It was only a 45min flight, but spent 30 min going through security, paid inflated prices for shitty airport food, and another 30 min just going through the boarding process because there’s always a handful of people who take their sweet time and have multiple oversized carry-ons. After the flight, deplaning, and finding a ride to my final destination, it’s practically the same duration and hassle as driving or taking a train. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 12:24 PM
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Aren’t we all. Fix the things you can and set appropriate standards/ expectations. No one else will save you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:31 PM
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Try looking inward ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 05:06 PM
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Not upset at all :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:12 PM
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This has to be the worst attempted “gotcha” moment in Reddit history lol. You asked a very general absolutism question. When I responded with an equally general answer, you say I’m not being specific enough. I provide one example (which you could basically plug and play any toxic trait they may have) and suddenly it’s absolutism again. I mean, talk about a lack of accountability just here… but I digress. It’s not about who they’re attracted to, nobody blamed them for being attracted to Brad Pitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 04:04 PM
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lol it’s hard to give specifics in a general sense because every situation is different, but I can absolutely give situational examples. Many BP and feminist women will blame the fact they can’t land a Brad Pitt due to misogyny or some sort of -ism. When in reality, they simply aren’t attracted to someone that weighs 200+ pounds and has outspoken sexist ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:39 PM
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Sure, under some circumstances. Relationships are a two way street. It’s not always their fault, but it sure can be. As with most things in life, moderation and shades of gray.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:30 PM
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I think his problem was that he was just weird. I knew a lot of guys like him growing up. They actually were kind of the first to do well in the “dating” world at a young age simply due to their good looks/money. We’re talking like middle school though, so basically just make out sessions and second base. By high school when things got a little more serious, people realized how weird and cringe they were and they became outcasts. Often would double down on stuff, presumably out of frustration af…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 03:22 PM
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I follow their sub and lurk on occasion. It’s refreshing to see them take some accountability opposed to the radical BP and feminist ideologies that basically encourage none… but I’ve noticed some toxic traits with them too. A lot seem to really let themselves go once they lock up a HVM only to blame him for the consequences of it. And this is assuming they can even accurately identify a HVM, which is definitely a problem too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:39 PM
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People talk so much shit on US healthcare, but they don’t realize the importance of it. We’re the only ones coming up with valid R&D and advancements. Inb4 “But x company is technically European and came up with y vaccine.” The vast majority of their revenue, resources, and talent still probably come from the U.S. that allowed that to happen, not to mention the lucrative ‘motivation’ to do so in the first place. Unfortunately, altruism alone doesn’t drive advancement as fast and far as people wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:32 PM
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You could really say this about anything posted on social media nowadays. The happiest people I know either don’t have social media or post extremely little. Do people really post to actually socialize anymore? Seems like it’s all just subtle bragging, projecting, virtue signaling, superficial attention seeking, or influencer shit for monetary gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:20 PM
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When a guy cheats, it’s a heinous crime. When a woman cheats, it’s a love story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 01:42 PM
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I hate these statistics so much, and last time I checked, they’re not even professionally credible outside of just an “estimation” based on limited data. Looking at the source of the data is where my opinion comes from mostly though. There is really no way for it to be accurate. Almost every reported rape goes unfounded because it’s a ‘he-said, she-said’ thing and no charges are pursued either way. Most rapes the victim knows the suspect and there was some sort of existing relationship that make…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 12:14 PM
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Yeah that’s why I was hesitant to question if it’s a gender thing. It just seems so arbitrary on how they choose to do investigations and handle crimes. Either little to nothing, or CSI mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:42 AM
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Is pretty/female privilege a thing with police and how they choose to investigate crimes? Fortunately I haven’t been a victim for much or anything too serious… but when I have, the police were worthless. Get robbed? They show up to write a report and you never hear from them again. Another time I was sucker punched at a bar. The police immediately questioned what I did to provoke it. Literally just existing—I guess guy’s girlfriend said something nice about me/my outfit from across the room. Dru…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/24 02:31 AM
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Yes, for forcing her out there and probably rape too for good measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 07:52 PM
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I still standby what I said. Call it camping, fuck it. They’d still change their mind. And nobody said sketch dude. The question is man or bear. Sure, there’s a chance it could be a sketch man, but very low. Or at least one sketch enough to be worse than a bear or completely alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:31 AM
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The vast majority of women live in city centers and suburbs. And just because you’re rural, doesn’t mean you know shit about surviving. I grew and currently live in middle America rural area. These women aren’t outdoorsy survivalists lol. Mostly old school housewives that leave the “rural stuff” to the husband. Even the ones that embrace the lifestyle are rich types just doing the “fun stuff” like mudding and trophy hunting with decked out gear (again, leaving the cleaning to hubby or the local …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:29 AM
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Alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:20 AM
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Until they realize they can’t find water/food or build a shelter. But fuck it, give them those. I bet the boredom and lack of interaction still causes most to flip.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:20 AM
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It goes beyond just having wilderness skills. Strength or even just a helping hand or extra pair of eyes help. Communication and interaction alone is also big… why do you think solitary confinement is basically considered torture?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:12 AM
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So other people? Not to mention, being well prepared/planned with all the necessities? These weren’t included in my scenario. I actually might be willing to double down on allowing the supplies/necessities…. But I specifically said alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:08 AM
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Yeah, and who do they do those with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:03 AM
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Do you mean literally survive/stay alive or something? Yeah sure, I think anyone could for 24 hours. I just meant in the sense they’d change their mind… because it would certainly be uncomfortable and a struggle for most.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:00 AM
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Is this a serious question? I’m very confident that most wouldn’t last 6 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:56 AM
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Amazing counterpoint! No offense, but please don’t reproduce. For the sake of humanity…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:49 AM
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Being alone would make women realize that the “risk” of choosing a potentially harmful man is definitely worth the help they would provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:48 AM
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Um what? No. Being alone simulates the “best” outcome of the bear situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:43 AM
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A bear is either going to eat you or scurry away, leaving you to fend for yourself. Only a very tiny percent of men are going to harm you. 99% of men are far more likely to help both each other survive and be rescued. And generally speaking, men are stronger and more knowledgeable about outdoors. I think women would realize they need the help. Certainly over the alternative and risking the possibility of being eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:40 AM
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A bear is either going to eat you or scurry away, leaving you to fend for yourself. Only a very tiny percent of men are going to harm you. 99% of men are far more likely to help both each other survive and be rescued. And generally speaking, men are stronger and more knowledgeable about outdoors. I think women would realize they need the help. Certainly over the alternative and risking the possibility of being eaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:39 AM
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Sure, but if you did the real calculation of percentage of these isolated incidents over every single man in the world, you’d realize it’s so astronomically low that this topic is extremely silly. It’s pretty bad when your entire argument is “well one time this one girl suffered from something that’s worse than getting eaten.” And yeah sure, there’s probably a handful of other situations you can pull out your ass… but again, all men? We’re talking like 0.00001% at this point. Versus what? 10% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:34 AM
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Any woman that picks bear should go spend 24 hours in the woods. Alone—no bears, no men. I bet they change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:25 AM
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Do you think the percentage of bears capable of attacking is less than the men capable of rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:23 AM
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I still don’t understand this debate at all, and this argument makes it worse. Almost every single bear is going to eat you, except maybe a black bear… which will likely just scurry off. The average man isn’t going to torture you for 40 days. Or rape you, or assault you, or whatever. Less than 1% of men are capable of any of that. You know what 99% of men are far more likely to do? Help you both survive and get rescued. Not to mention most men are stronger and more knowledgeable of the outdoors …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:19 AM
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You have to be extremely dumb to choose bear, so I actually kind of appreciate women answering it. Helps weed out the complete regards and delusional feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 12:52 AM
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It's gotten to the point I can't tell if women who pick bear are trolling. 99% of men aren't capable of committing SA or physical violence in that situation, and far more likely able to help get you out of the situation. Every single bear on Earth is worthless, even if it doesn't eat you. If you're truly picking bear, you're completely regarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 07:10 PM
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She says: "I have a disability that prohibits me from driving. Walking helps clear my head, and it gives me a sense of independence. Since not being able to drive, I’ve had men I don’t know pull over and ask me if they can take me somewhere nearly every day" She does go onto to say that some invite her to smoke and basically hit on her. Definitely weird and not a normal occurrence where I'm from, so I understand the precaution. I just think it's hilarious that the white knights are all like "HE'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:58 PM
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Anyone else see the askmen thread about a woman asking how she handle men offering her rides when she's out walking? White knights galore. Naturally, everyone is assuming it's nefarious. Don't get me wrong, it's a very creepy thing to do--the woman shouldn't agree to it and should be careful. However, she says it happens everyday. Doesn't seem like a common occurrence I've ever heard of, but maybe it's more normalized wherever she is. Not every man is out to physically/s*xually assault every wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 12:37 PM
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Damn, I need to leave this place lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:28 AM
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No, but a true chad would autograph it quick and hand it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:23 AM
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I think more than half this sub are incels, and therefore default to extreme views and fantasies. The rest of us are probably only outspoken about our extreme examples because the normal ones are gray, mundane, and don’t prove a point either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:18 AM
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Ah yes, the dream tradwife story. Giving it up for a DM you arbitrarily determined to be from a Chad. Truly, a Lifetime story.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:07 AM
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Q4GM?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 04:02 AM
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Q4W: What are your ideal expectations the first time you have sex with a serious/committed partner? I think it’s challenging for men if they want to max pleasure for the woman. It seems like specific things can vary woman-to-woman, so that first time can be a lot of trying to figure that out. Especially because women seem more modest when it comes to vocalizing (and even reacting to) what they like. It also seems like there’s usually an expectation that men take the lead as well, and many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:48 PM
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Buy a bunch of the high quality and known/established sample bottles. Price isn’t always a good indicator and there’s diminishing returns the higher you go, but the popular ones are popular for a reason. Then just try one out each day to see what you like before committing to a whole bottle. 1-2 sprays is plenty. It’s important to like the smell going on, but more important how it smells later throughout the day. The scent ages and “develops” differently person to person, so they can be even mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 12:17 PM
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I’m not saying it can’t work, but context is often important and missed. It’s almost as if people aren’t even reading the rest of the comment at times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:40 PM
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The funniest and most ignorant thing I see on here is when pick up apart a comment and quote specific lines of a comment, addressing only that part. It’s often so out of context that it defeats the point of actually responding in an intelligent manner. It also shows that the replier is unfairly picking these parts because they can’t argue the rest. It’s especially hilarious when they ask a ‘gotcha’ question on one when you literally answered that same question later in the original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:28 PM
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I’ll take that over internet virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:06 PM
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It’s not really an insult. I actually feel bad for them. We hung out at the mall to socialize with each other and be adolescents, not to just shop and “consoom”. Hell, I had my first kiss there. It’s probably hard to relate if you didn’t experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:58 PM
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Burgers are among the best. Fries are mid though, I usually pass on them because it’s not worth the added cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:55 PM
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I love when women ask me out. Shows confidence and boosts my own self-esteem. Opening up doors and pulling out chairs is kind of a negative—it’s not really a chore for us to do it ourselves and makes me feel weird, almost emasculating. Paying and driving is fine, though I prefer to most of the time. It’s is nice on occasion though, and the willingness to so every now and then is appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:53 PM
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At least it was somewhere, and there were often entertainment like arcades and movie theaters there. What does Gen Z have that compares? The internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:48 PM
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Indifferent. Russia basically did throughout the Cold War era and all the proxy wars. Hell, Iran does it now, and probably China too in unseen ways. The U.S. became a world power under isolationist policies while everyone else was fighting in WW1 and WW2 (US joined very late in both). Keep our tax dollars here and not burn them overseas for conflicts that don’t affect us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 10:45 PM
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Not that I’m a Tate apologist or support him, but he’s just trolling. Top reply on the tweet is pointing this out and him replying to that acknowledging the bait. Dude is a shill for clicks (and has been for a very long time), and it continues to work. Bypassing it with a screenshot and accusing him of middle school “lol no you’re gay!” isn’t helping. Don’t feed the troll, don’t eat the onion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:24 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/li858jbad9wc1.jpeg?width=998&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a84d7beb557a0a69f0c70d609a4842f6e4ad9329
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 04:46 PM
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Yep. I struggled with social anxiety growing up. I was a loser my first few years of high school, but ended up getting a lot of attention later due to being very good at sports. By then, I also learned to just kind of mask my shyness by pretending to be aloof and careless. I went from being a quiet loner nerd to the mysterious sports star and had women asking me out frequently. Body language is everything. Walk tall and confident, but get comfortable when you sit—don’t slouch, sit back and spraw…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 02:11 PM
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I guess so, though it's mostly one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:49 PM
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Do the women here ever say that? I only hear it from the married folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:43 PM
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Every time Taylor Swift drops a new album, my ex fangirls and posts all kinds of appreciation for her trashing her ex's and relating to it. This chick cheated on me, left me for the other guy, and publicly trashed me for years. She ended up crawling back to me when things didn't work out, but then I ghosted her... so now she acts like the victim. I want to say that I'm actually Taylor in our situation, but maybe Taylor does the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:42 PM
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Same. I have long and skinny limbs and it’s always been hard to gain muscle/strength. Even when I bulk, I seem to just carry it in my torso, giving me a “skinny fat” look. That being said, I can tone up very well. Moderate amount of lifting, but focusing slightly more on reps than maxing out weight. A decent amount of cardio on days in-between as well keeps the belly and water weight away. I’ve accepted I’ll never have a body builder physique… but I’m very much pulling off a Brad Pitt in Fight C…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 09:18 PM
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It depends. It should really be more about sustainability. I make above average—$90k salary (low-middle cost of living area), good bonus and retirement, no debt outside a very low interest mortgage, and maintain a modest enough lifestyle that I’m able to invest a lot as well. If a woman makes six figures and turns me down for that alone, I consider it very foolish. Even if she were to take maternity leave and/or her career stagnates, my income is more than enough to provide an upper middle class…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:08 PM
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It has too much of a sour, acidic taste IMO. And I’m not even a picky eater… there’s only like 3 things on that list I wouldn’t touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 04:03 PM
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Luckily they’re not racist (her parents are actually different races themselves) or extremist to the point they talk about taking action and other dangerous stuff. It’s just weird “Obama is a Muslim, Michelle is a man” conspiracies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 03:13 AM
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How would you feel/react if your partner’s family were super right wing? I’m talking full blown MAGA, talk politics in normal conversation, and even share all the cringe FB memes. I lean left on most issues, especially social ones. However, I’m also fortunate(?) enough that most mainstream issues don’t really affect me, so I ultimately kind of stay out of politics entirely. However, I served in the military and have one right wing stance related to a hobby/my lifestyle… so my GF’s parents really…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 02:57 AM
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So you aren’t rich, your parents are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:37 AM
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Also hate submissiveness. Being loyal and able to compromise is important, but it’s very attractive when women have their own lives and independent to a certain level. Same goes in the bedroom. I love getting off the ways I like, but it can actually be somewhat of a turnoff if they just starfish and don’t even attempt to say or do anything they like. Makeup. I love natural beauty, and don’t mind subtle makeup… but too much is a turnoff. Not to mention it seems like it would be messy and impracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:22 AM
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Surprised we don’t see these kind of comments much here. We all bitch about relationships and the dating game, and thus probably have that in common to avoid the bullshit. I’d say there’s potential if you can get past the stigma of meeting your partner on Reddit. Not much worse than dating apps though…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:08 AM
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Makes me doubt you. Real rich people don’t really tell people they’re rich. Considering you said “statistically” and making the naive assumption of “all” of us, I’d guess you just recently started making a low six figure salary. Probably very little in retirement/investments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 12:00 AM
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Just tell everyone you’re a virgin with a smile. If they believe it, you need to increase your SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 04:14 AM
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Lmfao I didn’t mean those parts literally, or only those things. Just get in shape. As I said in the other comment, pair that with some basic hygiene, wardrobe, and don’t be weird… and you’re probably too 50% of men for that alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:34 AM
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I was also implying weight loss and being in shape. Unless you have severe deformities in the face, this alone is enough to get laid. Then it’s just basics like hygiene, grooming, dressing well, and touching grass enough to not be weird. If you still can’t, you’re not being honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:53 AM
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I mean yeah, that’s what I said. Except I feel like it’s more like 95% of the threads. Incels would be far better off doing 20 pushups or running a mile every time they feel inclined to bitch on this sub about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:04 AM
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https://preview.redd.it/hddg6r3rsbvc1.jpeg?width=680&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=45f455bcb97067b46d924c29ab1a8c9a6dc4ab49 As with almost every topic on this sub, there’s only 2 rules that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 11:53 PM
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Yeah, male here and I’m kind of confused with the other comments. All of these things can possibly be figured out looking at their social media. If he has a crush on you and you’re posting it, is it really that weird to read it and take notice? But yeah, if he was physically watching you or even checking your social pages daily, it’s definitely weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:52 PM
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“Why do you care, do you want to fuck me or something?”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:31 PM
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Absolutely, but probably not directly. Grab the phone, pocket it, and calling the police with mine to let them handle it. Though it looks staged af… still prob wouldn’t change my response. Not really something to be joking around about. Again, they can work it out with the police if that’s the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 05:56 PM
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Aesthetics, health, and threat, in that order. Not going around looking for fights, and will avoid it even when there’s the slightest potential… but often times just being in shape and appearing to be a threat is enough to prevent people fucking with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:45 PM
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I'm starting to think autism is becoming like ADHD--overly diagnosed with no real objective metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:53 PM
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Again, it depends on the sources, details/evidence, and the guy. I should’ve provided more details, but one of these guys I mentioned also had 2-3 ex’s come forward after the initial one went public. These ex’s were vengeful, known for such drama after the relationship ended, and had no proof whatsoever, so I believed him. Accusations can be abused by others too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:21 PM
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Depends how credible the accusations are. Basically who they’re coming from, the details/evidence, and what I know about him as a person. I know two friends who were falsely accused. Both accusers were taken and only came forward when their partner found out. I also witnessed first hand some interactions right before one happened, which definitely suggested strong consent. And most importantly, both guys I trust and know very well. I know SA happens a lot, but in my personal experience, it can b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 07:16 PM
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Fortunately, my mother still did a fine job raising me. I see a lot of situations where single mothers spoil their boys and almost seem to direct their romantic love into raising them. They almost always end up living with them well into adulthood while having her clean up with them. I even know a few that can’t hold down jobs, have drug problems, and get in trouble with the law. They also have severe accountability problems—none of this is ever their fault if you ask (but they’ll usually tell y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:46 PM
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I think RP more so preaches that casual sex and spreading the seed should be the goal/mentality, due to distrust in women and their commitment/loyalty. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for heartbreak. And it’s not really randoms they preach, but a collection of FWB’s essentially, or “plates.” I think ideally these plates aren’t sleeping with other men, but it’s kind of a gray area in the community and depends on who you ask. Generally the consensus is that if you adhere to their principles,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 03:39 PM
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Depends on what you mean by perception. I usually find it flattering and may “like” them more if they feel that way… unless I find them extremely unattractive, then I might feel grossed out and avoid them. Perception def goes beyond a romantic lens. It’s not really in my mind at all unless something to suggest it may happen, but it also depends on context. I meet attractive people at work all the time, but I’ve never thought about romance or sex with them upon meeting or mundane conversation. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:56 PM
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Certainly better than daddy issues (or the appearance of them). Daddy girls are often more challenging to pursue, but also tend to be more desirable as partners due to associated traits. It was probably banter/flirting to get a better idea and strike up conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:40 PM
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Had a fling my senior year of college. It was a glorified FWB, until she wanted more and I cut it off. She didn’t take it well and there was some drama, but I ended up graduating and starting my career in a different city. Blocker her number and any social media I still have (which is basically none). There were a couple instances of her contacting me via spoof numbers or something at first, but it’s now been years and nothing has really happened, until last night. Somehow she found out who I’m …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 12:25 PM
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I can do or figure out most basic to moderate home/auto-repairs to the point she shouldn’t have to say it. If she says it upfront before I even attempt, it’s a little insulting but mostly in a funny way that I would just laugh off and get to work. I’d say a 2-3. If it’s something more advanced, it also depends on the dad. My ex’s dad flipped homes and obviously knows his shit, so I kind of knew my place (I work the most white collar job ever). However, my current GF’s dad is an elementary teache…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:48 PM
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That’s awesome! Like I said, guys don’t really want to offend, and probably just like the fact you’re touching it at all… and don’t want to discourage it entirely. I encourage women to learn what their partner likes, because it can vary from guy to guy. Here’s some specific advice for anyone else reading—pull it out and softly caress it during a make out session for a few minutes, then whisper to him “show me how you like it.” Watch for a bit before taking over yourself. Can’t think of anything …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 03:01 PM
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Yes, I was going to add—grip towards the bottom-middle with very slow and short strokes. When you speed up eventually, pay attention to resistance and how he’s reacting and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:53 PM
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Or just use the foreskin if lube isn’t available/convenient. A little trickier though, because you have to have the right amount of grip and stroke length, especially if the guy is circumcised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:47 PM
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I still remember early in our relationship when my GF gave me a handjob for the first time. Didn’t even use lube or foreskin, just straight friction against her hand. I didn’t want to offend her and let it happen. Dick burned for like a week. Eventually she learned, presumably by watching me “finish up” after pulling out during sex. Now she gives an amazing one. It’s fun, especially when she does in spontaneously like in the car or when we’re alone in unconventional places.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 02:45 PM
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Reddit is -30% from its IPO price. Nobody is “cashing out” on it right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:46 PM
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That’s the problem though. Knowledgeable capitalists aren’t touching this stock (even at the current price), becoming owners, and making profitable changes. It will stay in the dumpster perpetually unless it gets low enough and/or there’s an Elon-esque buyout. Or it just fails completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:32 PM
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Reddit hasn’t turned a profit in any year of its 20+ existence. Sounds similar doesn’t, it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:23 PM
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I think you’re not giving it enough time. Look what happened to Twitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:13 PM
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Possibly, assuming capitalists become shareholders and thus, owners. Takes a bit longer than 2 weeks for that to happen though. Probably waiting for it to completely bottom out in price, so they can truly maximize gains later. Right now they don’t seem interested. Hell, almost no one is interested in the stock at all. Reddit was DMing users a few weeks ago begging them to buy. First time I’ve ever seen an IPO go so laughably bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:08 PM
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Lol reddit has been "publicly traded" for all of about 2 weeks. And it's share price has been getting slaughtered, suggesting very low demand from "capitalists." It's been a company for over 20 years. People will say shit like this and then turn around and talk about institutionalized racism and a patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:00 PM
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Sounds like a shill. Diamonds don’t really have any intrinsic value outside of looks (which lab diamonds can be far better, at least for 99.9% of people who will ever see it) and certain tools. If we had lab grown gold, nobody would be talking shit on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:50 AM
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Blood is kind of tame for a Tarantino film. It’s purposely over the top and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:46 AM
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Do women really think following a man on IG is “shooting your shot”? JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:45 AM
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Mixed, but mostly bad. It seems like among my married/committed LTR friends, I’ve become the “token single guy”. I’ve explicitly asked about mutual friends and setting us up, but it’s like there’s some weird backlash and excuses why we wouldn’t make a good couple. I think part of it is that I’ve become a scapegoat for certain things. That’s kind of a different story though. It’s far better among my single friends. They actually make an effort to set me up when I’m not even looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 09:31 PM
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When I was in the military? I won’t argue that. Hell, I’d say I was lower than a construction worker. Parents couldn’t pay for school, so I enlisted for pretty much that reason alone. Made it a goal to graduate college, and I did so. Do you have a problem with that or something? I don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:48 AM
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😜
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:18 PM
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Lol did I bother you enough that you felt the need to do a deep dive on my history? Wasn't supposed to be an insult or starting shit, just an honest assessment. Sorry I was raised poor? Didn't exactly get to choose it, but I did something about it. Free college and later earned a graduate degree, pretty secure with where I'm at lol. Maybe you should get some goals?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:09 PM
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Lol Wendy's sucks. At least accuse me of working somewhere fast-casual, like Chipotle or Chick-Fil-A.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:39 PM
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Lol you sound like every loser I went to high school with that never left our hometown and still lives with their parents pushing 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 10:23 PM
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One year. Gotta experience all the seasons/events before making long term commitments.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 07:15 PM
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Depends on the job and how you manage/plan. I tried it the first time I attended college, and it was very difficult, ultimately leading to me dropping out. If I had to work an afternoon, that day was basically shot in terms of homework, studying, and anything else. I later reenrolled, but only worked weekends and a job on campus what allowed me to study on the clock. I graduated ahead of schedule and with honors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 05:41 PM
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lol I'm haunted by my ex via the Youtube algorithm. Unsubscribed a very long time ago, and certainly well before she really leaned into being a cringey vlogger type. Don't even click/engage the videos or shorts, yet they flood my feed to this day, years after the breakup. Doesn't bother me too much. Breakup was very mutual and heartless. She's also gained over 50lbs and seems to constantly air out unflattering personal stuff related to religion, major career changes due to financial hardship, me…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 02:38 AM
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I almost don't even want to tell the stories, but yeah they there obvious. I just questioned it at the time because "what if I'm wrong/misreading?" To give me some credit, she's very extroverted and talks with a lot of people... but yeah looking back, I was an idiot. One time I told her about all my manly grilling skills, and she said she'd love to come over sometime to try my food and learn herself :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:16 AM
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Fumbled the bag with a coworker a year or two ago. We flirted a lot and she dropped very obvious hints, but I was pussy to ask her out and possible repercussions with it being work. She ended up leaving the company for unrelated reasons, but I still think about her a lot. I just learned that she's going to be at a casual corporate event next month that I will also be attending. Chances are she moved on and probably dating someone else, but I'm definitely not messing this up again. If for nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 12:06 AM
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No. Women's insecurity when in a relationship has always confused me. I've been in very strong relationships, and she'd shit test me with things like "Do you think that woman is prettier than me?" and similar things. Even if the other woman is objectively attractive, when I'm happy in a relationship, I don't even think about or judge other women in that sense. I know she's just seeking validation, but it's kind of weird to force myself into that mindset to truthfully compare. The real and honest…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 02:12 PM
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RP asshole-ness comes from a place of carelessness and confidence. Both of which autistic men lack. They may take a black pill and be careless in a certain sense (assuming they’re not faking it), but it’s different. A chad RP type is careless because he prioritizes other things and has seemingly endless opportunities with women, whereas the autistic guy is simply careless because he’s given up. And with that comes spite, which is very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 01:03 PM
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Is this an actual thing, or a problem you’re making up in your head? As an introvert, I kind of let my social life go to shit after college. Only keep in touch with a small handful of friends, and still probably talk more to coworkers now. I’d invite them to my wedding, but I couldn’t care less if they prioritized friends/family. Especially if they have a big social network.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:21 PM
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I don't think it's that deep. My social life kind of went to shit after college. Mostly by choice--I'm an introvert that doesn't really go out much. I probably see and socialize with my coworkers more than my actual friends, even the few I make an effort to keep in touch with. I'd probably invite many of them to my wedding, otherwise I'd only be sending out like 10 invites outside of family lol. Couldn't really care less if they invited me to theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/24 12:16 PM
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I would bring a taser, pepper spray, gun etc It's even easier than that. We all carry smartphones now, not to mention other stuff like smart watches and other tech. The moment a guy gets physical or something becomes nonconsensual, say "Hey Siri, call 911". I bet that alone gets him stop, but if you have reason to believe he'll escalate anyways... First, you should reconsider the guys your choosing to be in a situation like that. Second, you can also set up codewords for Siri and other prompts i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:35 AM
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Just saw a meme titled "Ideal Woman for Delusional Men" with a trad wife caricature pictured along with a list of traits. As a man who's settled down a bit in recent years and a bit more picky to the point I question if I may be one of these 'delusional men', I'm going to give my unsolicited opinion on each because I'm bored. "No OF"-- Kind of agree with this one. I'm not too picky on modesty or the morals associated to it, but it's really more about the associated traits with OF creators that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 01:27 AM
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Currently addicted to it. Put off working out for a long time, but really trying to accomplish some goals by summer. Actually having motivation to go to the gym or starting a neighborhood run can be challenging, but I just turn my brain off and do it. By the time I get there, get started, and finish, I feel amazing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:14 AM
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Very good point. And yeah, good advice on the starter home thing. That actually is the case, and I’m already thinking about upgrading… waiting on interest rates and a “reason” though. Maybe that’s a woman/family? We’ll have to see. I just hit 30, so kind of getting close to a “shit or get off the pot” mindset on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 12:17 AM
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If you count what I owe on my mortgage as negative net worth, the number isn't too substantial, but I'm setting it up to really maximize in the near future. I have about $100k in equity on the house, another $100k in retirement accounts, $20k in other investments, $10k in cash/equivalents. No debt besides the mortgage, plus other assets like a newer car, guitars worth several thousand, and other random stuff. I think it's way more than enough. However, I made a comment the other day on here abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:42 PM
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Am I horrible person for being happy about the downfall of old friends and people who wronged me? One guy has always been kind of a "one-upper" type. Not the best upbringing, but not that worst either. Experienced some marginal success early in our adulthood and showed off about it, acting better than us. It's what caused a passive falling out of the friendship. Years later he'd still act superior when we ran into each other, even as I graduated law school (more on that in a sec) and began a luc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:04 PM
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Money in the bank and a promising future seem pretty secure and taken care of to me. Usually the men that live paycheck to paycheck check have a reality check at some point too, the moment an emergency comes up or they get laid off. That’s usually when the relationship problems start too. And what’s the men with money can’t/won’t provide partners with nice things? It seems like they don’t even get the opportunity to. Just seems like peacocking to me. But perhaps that’s the goal, and women fall f…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:57 AM
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Do women really chase money, or do they chase people that spend money? Men who are barely middle class and work blue collar jobs seem to clean up in the dating world. They blow their money on cars, McMansions, and nights out. They might have nice shit superficially, but they live paycheck to paycheck and have no retirement money saved, let alone emergency fund or anything. Meanwhile, I know guys who make six figures and struggle to date. They do live a bit more modestly, but they have a lot inve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 12:43 AM
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Until she’s no longer deeply into you. Dated a woman exactly like this. Breakup was a fucking mess, and even to this day (years later) she still tries to exact petty revenge on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:00 AM
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Ahh, so you're one of the "find your purpose" guys? I've read hundreds of other posts about don't get ever married, get a foreigner wife, take the blackpill, etc. At it's core readings it may be a rough guide, but a lot of weird, specific, and conflicting stuff in the community. I think what finally made me step away was the most famous guy on the sub, GLO, wrote a 1,000 word thesis on how to throw a house party. The thing read like a high schooler drinking for the first time. The guy is pushing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:56 PM
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Lack of endgame. I've been following the sub for a decade, and there's really no agreement on it. The majority seem to say it's to just keep "spinning plates" forever, as men "age like wine, women like milk"... however, I've also seen numerous posts where people successful with RP (and had my own experiences) complaining about how it gets old. From there it strays into ambiguous "find your purpose" type stuff and fringe shit like surrogates and blackpill. The rest seem to buy into what's now col…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:29 PM
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Dressing well is important, but it’s very easy to overdue it. The most important things are to wear something that fits, be comfortable in it (both physically and mentally), and dressing for the occasion. The latter can be hard, especially regionally, which makes it subjective to address your specific inquiry about what I wear on specific occasions. For example, my work and main attire this time of year is basically khaki/neutral color joggers (not skin tight, but not baggy either), a quarter zi…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/24 03:19 PM
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I used to date a woman who although was very professional in her work life, she seemed to get off on doing risqué stuff like having sex in semi-public places and filming our endeavors. We didn’t share it or anything, but it certainly was fun. It would be nice to have an additional source of income too… My regular job is also very professional though and I’d be risking a lot, not to mention I probably also have some values and future goals that would make it antithetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 11:04 AM
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They make phenomenal golf clubs and whiskey too. Huge fan/user of both. I still prefer my Martin guitar though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 10:58 AM
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Isn’t Bluepill effectively just anti-Redpill? RP started first. Yes, using the Matrix metaphor of seeing reality or life for what it truly is… or so they claim. The Matrix movie is actually a metaphor itself for Plato’s allegory of the cave, which is the same idea (just not inherently specific to male sexual strategy). BP is basically just rejecting this claim and the RP lifestyle. I call myself Purplepill because I agree with a lot of what RP preaches, but not all of it. My discrepancies have n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 12:38 PM
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I don’t know if “higher” is correct… even an index like VTI or VOO averages around 10% a year, whereas banks are at their all time high HYSA yields of only around half that. Might not even be beating inflation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:26 PM
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I’ll never understand people who don’t invest. “What if the market goes down/crashes?” Basically the equivalent of stocks going on sale, so I’ll be buying even more if that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:00 PM
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Ok tubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:32 AM
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Women care far less than you think. Or at least initially. Yeah, I’ve seen women get frustrated with a partner in bed for a lack of size, but that was way down the road. I’ve never heard of a woman dating someone just because they found out he shad a huge cock. Looks, frame, success, and other things matter far more. Whereas a large cock might just “seal the deal” if you’re looking for something a little more longterm. I’m pretty well endowed myself, and that’s been my experience. Even jokes and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:30 PM
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Not all of FDS was like that, and my theory is actually based partly on some of the things I read there (I used to lurk the old sub out of curiosity lol, but I actually learned a lot). Not trying to defend the community, as a lot of it truly was a toxic waste site of ham planets and delusional women… but I specifically remember some threads about “giving men the opportunity to make a move” and/or hint interest. Other people commenting on this thread are immediately going to extremes again about …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 02:56 PM
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This is the healthiest mindset on the matter I've ever heard someone say. People tend to pick extremes on the matter, but the reality is that there needs to be mutual effort on both sides to avoid missed or incompatible connections. Now, that "effort" does look different depending if you're male or female. However, women just can't do nothing. I was biting my tongue hard yesterday when I saw that "a man wrote this" post that alleged we love to chase and blah blah blah. Sure, the discourse and ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 01:34 PM
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Assuming love potions are a real thing, it sounds like I wouldn’t have a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:27 PM
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I think couples should definitely have some mutual hobbies, but they should also keep some for themselves. Particularly if the other person is pretty advanced and you're not able/willing to put in the work to keep up with them. I used to date someone who tried to do this. Part of the issue is that she didn't really have any of her own hobbies at all, so she wanted to hang out a lot out of boredom. This already kind of sucked, especially after the honeymoon phase, because I'm an introvert who def…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 02:28 PM
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Do women actually chase money? I only really see it in extreme situations—old money types sticking together, 304’s chasing new money (athletes, rappers, etc.), and the occasional sugar daddy situation. I have a theory, that if they do, they’re really bad at it. There was a video that went semi-viral a few weeks back of an influencer type who always asks to see a man’s bank account on a first date. Anyone remotely intelligent when it comes to finances doesn’t keep a lot of liquid cash. I guess it…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 11:30 AM
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Clergy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:32 PM
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My ex used to diminish my career because I work in insurance. As someone who was raised poor, I don't really care what I do. I get paid extremely well and it allows me to enjoy things that matter more to me--like hobbies and traveling. She, on the other hand, lives to work and is trying "change the world" (her exact words). What's funny is she works as an engineer at Boeing, whose planes have been falling apart in the sky as of late. I guess she really is changing the world, just not in a positi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 07:08 PM
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I did this twice as a teenager/early 20’s. I got absolutely lambasted for it. I’ve also been on the other end of it and seen it play out for others as a third party. Seems like it’s perfectly acceptable and a romantic love story when women do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 01:23 PM
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Lmao those knuckleheads!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 01:32 PM
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I guess I admit I was slightly insulted. I was raised poor and busted my ass to get where I am (and continue to do so). I don't even really flaunt my wealth that much, and my car/house are actually well below my current means. To hear someone question it all seems a little dismissive. And also intrusive. Is there even a "right" answer? I could just say no and/or keep it short, but wouldn't someone with a debt problem and flaunting artificial wealth just say the same thing? They're already lying …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:27 PM
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I mean yeah, if you're getting knocked up by trailer trash, there might be some consequences. I wouldn't call them "working class" though if they're not actually working.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:14 PM
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Yes, she knows what I do. I'm also not sure where you're from, but here in the midwest USA, women are never expected to be the primary earner... ESPECIALLY in the working class, which has a lot of right wind conservatives that preach stay-at-home-moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 02:09 PM
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Woman asked me if I’m “in a lot of debt” on the second date. Is this a red flag? I could see if she was financially savvy and taking early precautions (maybe even had a bad experience in the past), but I didn’t get those vibes at all. She works a low-ish wage job and seems like an impulsive spender based on her clothing and accessories. We had already discussed that I’m a homeowner, and she knows I drive a luxury brand car. Both of which are somewhat rare for our age group (under 30). However, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 01:01 PM
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The only conservatives that act like this are the ones outspoken about it and make it an integral part of the their identity. And these people are a minority, albeit a loud one. Ultimately, politics is a taboo topic and most people don’t talk about it at all (including Democrat voters), let alone become caricatures of the party they happen to vote for. I grew up in a slightly upper middle class suburb where like 90% of the people voted Republican. We still went out and got drinks, quite frequent…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:46 AM
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Personally, I think the fact women mature faster physically hinders their emotional and psychological maturity. The women you see dating the older men are often very immature, along with the men who choose to date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:18 AM
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A female in my friend group blatantly told me about how she fucked some dude that goes to her church. She had a BF at the time also in the friend group. I knew her longer and better, so I kept my mouth shut at first and just encouraged her to either dump her BF or at least tell him. She wouldn’t, and later started hitting on me and sending unsolicited nudes. Around the same time, her BF became suspicious and confronted me. I was honest, showed him all the texts. She denied everything, accusing m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:04 AM
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lol I swore them off years ago and even dating entirely while I worked on myself. Funny enough, I met someone organically during this time, and we’re now engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:47 AM
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Tried that for years. There are almost too many problems to name. First of all, it’s not some magic cure to break out of incel-esque mannerisms and shyness. Dudes can go on a 100 dates and creep them all out, which only exacerbates the problem. You really have to make a fundamental and organic effort to improve social skills. Blindly meeting strangers off the internet isn’t always conducive to that. Speaking of which, the inorganic manner of these relationships often sways perception for everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 11:43 AM
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I suppose that last part is a valid concern, even if I don’t care on a personal level. Very conservative area (Midwest USA) and very conservative industry (commercial insurance). We have gotten better over the years and there’s definitely been a couple gay colleagues, but it very much seems like the old “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy like the military, albeit unwritten. I’m actually former military myself and very masculine, so I doubt anyone would question it too much. Especially if I said some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:30 PM
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I’ve had chronic wrist pain for like 6+ months. Resting hasn’t worked, so I’m currently just fighting through the pain of this dumbbell workout. Maybe this will be what fixes it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:58 AM
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Don’t get me wrong, l love missionary… but do you not want to switch it up at all after a while? I don’t expect the woman to take completely take charge either, but at least put a tiny bit of effort in on occasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:52 AM
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Eh maybe. Subjectively, I think she’s too generic looking. Pretty? Yes, but not really my type. I don’t follow the group much at all, other than being a casual fan of a few songs and whatever other media shows up on my algorithm from that… but she also seems have a generic personality. Like the type of girl to give unenthusiastic handjobs and only starfish in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:44 AM
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Jennie from Blackpink I crush on Rose and Lisa more. Rose has a unique look and personality similar to mine. Lisa seems fun and has the best dance moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:14 AM
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Do you work an office job? People talk and most have this weird, sort-of friendship with each other where you talk everyday and are close, yet there is a strong expectation of professionalism. Taboo topics, drama, and similar stuff is definitely avoided (yet will thrive in gossip circles that still exist). While there are people professional enough to not care or think about it at all, I think just as many will ask about it and/or wonder the reasoning. As I implied, I don’t really care all that …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 11:00 AM
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How would you feel if one of your [male] colleagues suddenly changed their last name? Always hated mine. It’s also a word that’s not typically used as a name, and the meaning is slightly unflattering. More importantly, I’m estranged with the side of the family that has that name. They’re extremely toxic (and trashy) and I no longer wish to be associated with them. The only thing really holding me back is my already-established professional life/reputation. Very white collar job in a conservative…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:41 AM
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What exactly is the point of the test? Just that he’s willing to something nice for you? Or are you testing his skills? Personally, I’m not a fan of oranges and probably not the best at peeling one simply out of lack of experience. I do eat very healthy, just not a big fan of oranges, including the juice and anything flavored similarly. All that being said, I do enjoy doing things for people, particularly romantic interests, so I would still do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 10:26 AM
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Whether or not that’s the norm/basic manners in society at this point, it’s still kind of taboo. Everyone is the still the star of their own romantic comedy in their head, and sending a meme isn’t going to sweep them off their feet. Go old school and ask her out in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:21 AM
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Maybe they have firsthand knowledge that they, in fact, should? I’ve also worked some gov jobs, and they’ve all been terribly inefficient. The libertarian thing is kind of a rant that might not be applicable here, but I’ve certainly dealt with a lot of people that treat libertarianism as all or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:44 PM
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I don’t get why everyone has this expectation that libertarianism is ‘all or nothing’. Every other political ideology is a scale/spectrum, but god forbid you call yourself a libertarian and accept there must some taxes and government jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:34 PM
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I did military and then a DoD agency for 5+ years. It’s fine if you’re looking for stability. There’s definitely a ceiling though for pay. And the bureaucracy is a nightmare. Many of my bosses didn’t really get there for their performance, they were just dumb enough to stick around long enough. I ended up leaving for private sector. A little bit longer hours and less holidays, but my salary has doubled and the competence level of my peers and bosses is astronomically higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:31 PM
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lol, just jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:43 AM
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FUCK YOU!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 02:41 AM
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What void? My dad was an abusive alcoholic that was only present in my upbringing to steal money and abuse me. From adolescence and on, I played sports, trained Muay Thai, joined the military, and just surrounded myself with more masculine men in order to truly mature. Never thought there was an issue. As a now successful adult, he’s tried to creep back into my life. After some failed manipulation and other bullshit, I cut him off entirely. It’s been 6+ years now since we’ve talked or seen each …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:29 AM
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Physically, yes they mature faster. Mentally/emotionally? Far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:21 AM
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Extremely difficult. There’s really only 2 “treatments”—topical liquid (Rogaine) you must apply daily and a daily pill (finasteride) that can cause side effects like ED. Less than 10% experience regrowth with these. Most can retain existing hair or slow down balding with these treatments, but for others they don’t work at all. The only other option is a transplant, but if the treatments don’t at least retain hair or slow down loss significantly, you’re wasting your time, money, and health doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:58 PM
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She’s definitely not mid, but I somewhat ‘get it’ because she’s not really my type, and I assume it’s a similar reasoning for others. She has that generic bimbo blonde “cheerleader” look that just doesn’t really do anything for me. Never has, even in high school. People called me gay for turning down these type of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 12:54 PM
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Easy question. It’s because for true Alphas/top 20%, it likely come easy for them due to good genes and sustainable habits. They don’t have to truly understand women because they come naturally, and they may even “get away” with ignorance and some blue pill traits. Say what you want about Henry Cavill being an autistic nerd, but he only takes a beating in the media and comment sections. The reality is that no woman would turn him down given the chance, and would probably actually chase him hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:30 PM
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Agreed. Very rarely does anyone really have an original opinion, unless they’re affected directly by certain policies (most people aren’t, even if they think they are). And even then, those people tend to be more rational and realistic about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:26 AM
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Where in the Bible does it say you shouldn’t swear?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:22 AM
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Ironically enough, that methodology would probably be more effective than how they truly go about determining HVM vs LVM. Or at least for the people who take the at sort of thing seriously, in my experience. The reality is that only the two rules matter, and they end up creating a bias to the point that they make excuses or flat out ignore LVM traits a man following the two rules, while doing the complete opposite for guys that don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:10 PM
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My school was so big that popular kids didn’t really exist. There was definitely a crowd that believed they were the popular kids because they were the big sports stars or whatever. But the reality was that they were only popular among their own crowd, and most others outside of that didn’t really care. Bullying also didn’t really exist other than fringe situations and subtle tormenting. If you were introverted it was very easy to get “lost in the crowd” and feel like an outcast though. Ultimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 01:22 PM
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lol it’s so funny seeing the weekly post of “Men don’t actually like to be approached. I’m a woman and got rejected once. He lied about having a GF and now I’m mortified from the embarrassment.” Men get rejected 99% of the time. And “I have a BF” is the default response for women, regardless if it’s true, to the point it’s a meme. Most of us have dozens or even hundreds of stories far worse than hers. We don’t enjoy the “chase”, and many of us are checking out entirely. They can’t possibly lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:33 PM
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Sigh, it’s the weekly “men don’t actually like being approached” post, posted by a woman who knows nothing about men and probably an obese femcel. Your extremely limited and anecdotal experiences are meaningless. Even if they are true, you only provided one actual story/example, which is extremely mild. “Sorry, I have a boyfriend.” Is the default response women give us, with it usually not being true either and to the point it’s become a meme. Speaking of us approaching, we get shot down 99% of …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 12:11 PM
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Play sports, join the military, work trades, join an MMA gym, etc. Lots of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:35 AM
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Not sure what your price is for that “pussy for sale”, but I’m no longer interested lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 10:54 PM
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I think the "loneliness epidemic" has very little to do with gender dynamics and more to do with just the world we live in today and how we interact with each other. Even platonically. First, we're too accessible and reactionary due to our phones, devices, and social media. I'm not against them and they obviously have advantages that probably outweigh the negatives... but this immediacy makes it too easy to react/respond in emotional moments, when we could probably benefit from thinking things o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:20 PM
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YNWA
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:47 PM
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100% they're false. The only sexual acts we ever did was her giving me a blowjob on 3 different occasions. I did not physically force her nor did I even tell/ask for it--she just did it. As I previously stated, I'm not on social media (unless you count reddit).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:11 PM
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Would you ask out a coworker? Normally I have a strict “don’t shit where you eat” policy, but I’m in a unique situation in which it shouldn’t cause any issues, even if it were to sour. The only thing I’m worried about is rejection. I can handle the rejection itself, I’m just not sure if she’ll tell any of our other coworkers, which could give me a reputation. She seems to be giving me hints, but they could very well be platonic. She’s very friendly and outgoing, not just with me, so she has plau…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:14 PM
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I had to look this up and didn’t realize this is a thing. 6 feet tall, 6 inch dick, and 6 figure income? This might explain my only marginal success. I’m 5’11” and make $95k. 7+ inch dick, but I can’t exactly whip that out to potential dates lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:09 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:56 PM
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Does anyone on this sub actually date or have sex? Lately I just see a lot of venting from both the men and women about the other, clearly written by fat incels with unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 04:51 PM
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Nope, Midwest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:56 PM
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It’s probably against the rules to link them, but I can think of multiple porn videos in which the guy was very well endowed but complete shit when it came to doing the deed. The women are very clearly not enjoying it and even in pain. Size isn’t everything. That being said, I do feel bad for guys significantly below average or “micro” sized. Maybe a woman can confirm, but motion probably isn’t everything either. I’m definitely well above average, and I receive a lot of compliments about how dee…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:52 PM
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Yeah, we’re kind of loose when it comes to some things. Like you can have an open container in a vehicle as long you’re not the one driving. There’s also no public intoxication laws or many rules about just walking around in public drinking. You will get nailed for DUIs though. If it’s your first or sometimes second, you might get away with no jail time if you have a good lawyer, didn’t blow, complete a bunch of classes, and pay the $2k+ fines… but otherwise you’re fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:14 PM
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Yes and no. Nice area, but it was just so big that we had a diverse mix of people. There were 600+ in my graduating class alone. A lot of the bullying was also subtle, as many of the people were entitled and superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:07 PM
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Missouri. We don’t fuck around when it comes to drugs and DUIs. He’s on his third DUI, which is a felony. And he’s already done a couple in-patient treatments for prior plea deals.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:02 PM
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I went to a big school, and most people were bullied one way or another if you weren't the one doing the bullying. I wasn't really the stereotypical nerd or outcast or anything like that. In fact, I was all-state in soccer and had a lot of friends. The guy going to prison bullied me for unknown reasons. We had mutual friends, and I suppose it was because I wasn't as rough around the edges as him. I dressed well, played sports, and stayed away from hard drugs. He called me a pussy and fa**ot. He …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 03:00 PM
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One of my friends is friends with his brother. According to him, the prosecutor is offering a plea deal of 4 years and will otherwise seek 10 in trial. I guess that’s not a “long” time to some, but personally I’d rather kill myself than have my freedom taken away for multiple years like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:40 PM
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My high school bully is probably going to prison for a long time, and I couldn’t be happier about it. He was on probation for theft and multiple DUIs, and now has new cases for theft and drug distribution. He evaded his court dates for a while, but he was arrested 6 months ago. His parents finally got sick of his antics, and let him sit in jail this whole time. I guess as a “Christmas gift” they bonded him out last week ahead of his January scheduled trial. It will probably be his last month of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 02:30 PM
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Outside of the [suspected] physical stalking, she’s not technically breaking any laws. I’ve spoke with a lawyer and a police officer friend about it already. The plan going forward is to document everything, keep an eye out in public ready to snap a picture or video, and eventually report it and file for a restraining order.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 01:29 PM
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There’s a joke about how lesbians move in after the second date, while gay men ask “what second date?” Generally speaking, lesbians tend to fall hard and fast, which causes A LOT of drama and emotional issues. I have two lesbian friends, and they’re constantly dating around, have multiple ongoing situationships, and all the emotional swings associated with it. Even suicide attempts and mental hospital stays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:59 PM
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Bugging would be pretty incredulous and probably not possible. The mole friend probably wouldn’t be effective. I only have a handful of guy friends, and the extent we talk about my dating life is basically just locker room talk. Names and identifying details are left out unless things start to get serious, and she’s made contact well before that phase. Unfortunately, yeah it has to be physically stalking. Pretty scary to think about. I’m definitely going to keep an eye out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:53 PM
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I’ve threatened to get police involved before, and now she seems to be very careful about not technically breaking any laws. She no longer contacts me directly (I think she may even have me blocked) and she isn’t excessive with the messages she sends—usually just one and done. I suppose the false allegations could be slander, but I’m not sure if I want to open that can of worms which will ultimately just be my word against hers. I’ve been more wary since coming to the conclusion that she must be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 12:20 PM
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I have an ex girlfriend who reaches out to anyone new I start dating. Sometimes it’s pictures/screenshots of when we dated in attempt to make them jealous, other times it’s “warning them” by trashing me or even false SA allegations. Is this something I should warn them about before it happens? I know having a crazy ex can be a red flag… The weird part is I have no idea how she keeps finding out about who I’m dating. I’m not on social media whatsoever, and we don’t have mutual friends. I think sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:57 AM
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I grew up similarly, but there was a difference between my two parents that made the decision easy. My mom neglected me because she was constantly working and trying to provide for her 3 children. My dad neglected me because he was an abusive alcoholic. Even after I got a job as a teenager so that I could buy clothes and lunch, he would steal that money from me. I ended up cutting off my dad entirely. I even changed my last name. No regrets. As for my mom, I try to help out as much as possible. …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:40 AM
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Source: “Just trust me bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 11:28 AM
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Lmao ok, have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:46 PM
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I’d like to think I do, or least a normal level of bias and defense mechanism influence that may affect it. I presume you’re insinuating the contrary? Care to explain? Or are you just going to keep avoiding my questions, not providing any sort backup to your claims, and going with the backhanded insults like a battle-hardened keyboard warrior? It’s fine, truly. I just hope you’re at least a still just some edgelord student or something. You’re not doing any favors to the presumptions about the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:38 PM
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Were you insulted by the autistic comment? It wasn’t meant to be an attack. It’s a medical diagnosis characterized partly by the evidence I presented of specialized intelligence strengths, but a lack of social awareness/intelligence. I didn’t even say all engineers, but if the shoe fits…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:24 PM
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You should become an engineer! You’re clearly smarter than everyone else. Your use of personal insults over logic and reason in a debate is brilliant and so effective.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:16 PM
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Just out of curiosity, are you an engineer?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:19 PM
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lol, not at all. Note the deflection though. No counterpoint, just an immediate attack on emotions. Honestly, both these posts scream insecurity and compensation. You claim to be RP? This is akin to telling people you’re alpha or Chad. If you have to announce that, or the fact you’re smarter than everyone else? Yeah, you’re definitely not. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 01:07 PM
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The engineers that unironically think/say this are usually autistic. Sure, they probably know far more physics and math than most, but they severely lack in just about everything else. It’s a pretty well known adage that the smarter and more educated people become, the more they realize how little they know. Therefore, anyone saying this truly isn’t that smart. Not to mention it reveals their lack of social intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:48 PM
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Same. I’m doing well now and unaffected by inflation and current economic problems, but I struggled when everyone else was doing good. I did something about it though, and no one really helped me. I hate to go all “pull yourself up by your bootstraps” but I think it’s better option than bitching about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:33 PM
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I also primarily only date women who approach me first, and I NEVER lower my standards. If they are below, I simply turn them down. And it's not that common--I've had 8 women approach me in my life, and only 2 I rejected. They weren't even that far lower, just not my type. OP's argument is dumb because I think it can (and does) work the other way... Maybe even more so, and it's why I don't even bother pursuing or approaching often. Women treat dating like a game, and even if they agree, they'll …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:42 PM
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Lol I said it was mostly a joke... but yeah I see the cringe now. Mostly just venting at a particular experience I dealt with this morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:20 PM
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Ya'll ever think the basis of the movie Idiocracy is really happening? Here's the opening scene if you haven't seen it, but TLDW--gene pool is getting worse because only stupid people are having kids while smart people are waiting until it becomes too late. The rest of the movie is about how future society being a shithole because of it. This is [mostly] a joke. I probably see enough contrasting evidence, but it sure has me speculating seeing the amount of kids some of the worst people I encount…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:06 PM
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If the casual racism didn't already invalidate this guy, he refers to himself as Chad and Sigma... but admits to working at Walmart. Yeah, he says "part time in high school"... but he sure does remember a lot of details about this trivial interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:14 PM
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CIOs? These types are usually just the most tenured IT guy. Unless you're talking like a Cambridge Analytica or other nefarious company. Politicians? Yeah, definitely. High level positions/C-Suite? Again, probably depends on the company. Bankers? Regulations have really weeded out the scumbags because they can't really screw people over anymore outside of giving out a predatory loan, but even that's become difficult. It's probably why most of these types moved to sales and mortgage brokerages. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 06:06 PM
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r/thatHappened
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:53 PM
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My parents are worthless in this regard lol. Even from a young age, they teased me anytime I had a female friend or just simply talked to a girl. I'm talking grade school level, which in hindsight is extremely disturbing. So I avoided girls entirely, even as puberty began. Eventually testosterone got the better of me and I let loose. Parents finally started to notice all the different girls coming over all the time and asked me about it. I played innocent that they were all platonic, which they …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:46 PM
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Are you following the two rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:35 PM
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I actually don’t know what pill you’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:35 PM
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I hate going back to my hometown. I'm here for the holidays and already ran into an old "friend" by chance. To give some backstory, I was one of the more promising kids growing up. I fell into some minor hardship and saw the true colors of my supposed friends. Rather than dwell in the drama, I left. Military, college out of state, and then took a job in the big city where I've moved up quite a bit and even earned a grad degree. Life's good. I deleted social media early on and haven't kept in to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:46 PM
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Just read an article about how some influencer/podcast chick brags about asking to see guys’ bank account on the first date. Her ignorance is hilarious. Any wealthy person with half a brain doesn’t keep a lot in their bank account, outside of maybe an emergency fund (which should be in a HY savings account anyways).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 04:44 PM
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They're also usually lying, even unknowingly. I had a debate here not long ago about women not giving a shit about men's mental health and the false claim that they really want them to "open up" without consequences. Her idea of opening up was being able to cry when their dog dies (real example she gave). I pressed on being able to talk about it and other real issues... she said it was immature. The latter part is fine to some extent, and I wasn't even arguing that. I just hate the lying and hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:04 PM
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She probably did the same thing, but to circle jerk about it on twox is so cringe. I almost prefer to think it’s just some fantasy she’s typing out because she’s starved for attention, both irl (she wishes a dude who approach her only if it means shutting him down) and online (she wanted all the “you go girl!” comments). The alternative is it really did happen, which she made up half the scenario in her head anyways—speculating he’d send explicit pics and hit on her. Only to finish it off with “…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 12:27 PM
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While I agree, a major problem is women not accurately recognizing a HVM. Many chase good looks first, and then success, loyalty, and other positive traits secondary, if at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:37 PM
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This is a good observation. I could (and have) seen that in some circumstances. It’s usually when the mom is “alpha widowed” and/or the dad left on his own accord. However, it’s often a different situation when it plays out differently. In my personal case, my mom left my dad for being an abusive alcoholic. She never treated me like a husband, and overall raised me quite well despite the fact she had to work a lot and wasn’t around as most parents. I was never spoiled, and she was actually quite…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:15 PM
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If my parents ever asked me that, I’d aggressively ask them “Why? Do you wanna fuck me or something?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:22 AM
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I went out for drinks with a bunch of my classmates in law school (several years ago), and this topic came up. Apparently this one guy was a frequent customer at them. I always assumed these places were a myth or not at least not super common, but apparently they are real and prevalent. We live in a major U.S. city, and he said there were too many to count. He said the easiest way to tell is going on their website or google page. If the pictures posted were stock photos of generic looking Asian …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 02:10 AM
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That samegrassbutgreener sub keeps showing up on my suggested home page. I've been lurking it a lot because I'd like to move soon and not entirely sure where yet. It seems like another Reddit echo chamber though, and everyone is just looking for some fictional super liberal, walkable city that also happens to have low crime and good weather. Part of me wants to be honest and post something like "I'm looking for a tax haven to maximize my capital gains, with loose gun laws and nice golf courses."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 08:09 PM
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He's arguing that in this case Lebron basically already had the success. And he's not really wrong... I'm not sure when they started dating, but he was already being scouted by the NBA by the time he was 14. Or what about the backdoor deals that came to light with impoverished mother driving luxury SUV's and Lebron being able to attend a $10k/yr private high school? Hell, the day after playing his last high school deal, he signed a $90m deal with Nike. You think they negotiated that within a day…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:50 PM
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It's sad, but the bar is pretty low when it comes to women and chasing money/clout. I give her a little credit for being there before he officially had the money. Typically women are only attracted to the finished product, not a work in progress. Spotting out the potential may have been the equivalent Lebron hitting making unguarded layup... but it's a small step in the right direction. More notable is her not cleaning him out for half since (yet). There could be a prenup, but those really don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:39 PM
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I recently moved back to my hometown, which is an outer suburb of a major Midwest city. There's this prevalent subculture that I guess could be called hick. Basically people embracing rural lifestyle--lifted trucks, camo clothes, country music, hunting/fishing, etc. Most of these people live in cookie-cutter suburban homes in a neighborhood and work in retail. It feels like cosplay. Especially the ones who change their voice to have a southern draw. Whatever, I don't really care that much about …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 02:06 PM
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A major problem is that women are indoctrinated from a young age to have modesty and suppress sexual desires. That makes a lot of them out of touch with their own sexuality. Some don’t even masturbate. So you ultimately have to figure out blindly what gets them off. And that’s assuming they’re comfortable and able to “allow” it to happen. Your advice is decent, but there’s far more to it. I’d say the most important thing is to take it slow. Start with foreplay, keeping it somewhat tame at first …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:16 PM
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Randomly stumbled upon a news story involving my ex. She was apparently choking people at a concert and tried to rip another lady’s shirt off. Police arrested her, and then her boyfriend when he threatened the officers. They both look drunk after in their mug shots lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 01:01 PM
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Are you autistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 05:53 PM
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Somebody did this yesterday in traffic, and they tried to cut me off getting back into the regular lane (there was an obstruction ahead). I used to passively look ahead like nothing was happening as I hugged the car in front of me, not allowing them in. Now I stare them down as I do so, often smiling and blowing kisses if they choose to give me the finger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:29 PM
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Maybe being nice and kind should be rewarded? I mean, if you consider that as police corruption or something… many country’s police straight up extort people for money or start interrogations with beatdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 04:26 PM
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I kind of regretted my house within a year or two of buying it. As someone who works in finance, I was committed to doing everything “right” knowing a major problem in this country is people spending more than they can afford. I found some middle ground on what I wanted vs. a lower price point. Location also wasn’t what I wanted, but it was close and convenient to my office. Two years later, I had nearly tripled my salary and I WFH almost exclusively. I guess it’s not a terrible problem to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:29 PM
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So what you're saying is that 2 inches is pretty big/drastic? LFG BOYS!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:54 PM
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Same. I actually use rose scented soap. It’s all natural though, and therefore not that artificial flowery smell—it smells more “fresh” like an actual rose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:05 PM
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GF moved in with me a few weeks ago, and she’s been using my cologne on herself. I don’t mind, I have an abundance from gifts over the years… but I find it a little strange. Def very masculine scents—all the basic dude ones like Armani Code, Aqua Di Gio, Dior Sauvage, etc. I asked her about it, and her reasoning is she likes the smell better than feminine scents and she’s “not trying to attract any dudes anyways, so who cares?” Hard to argue with that logic, but still a little shocked and haven’…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:53 PM
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Lol just because women say they want that, doesn’t mean they truly do. And that sentiment goes for men too. Everyone is the star of their own romantic comedy. It doesn’t sound nice for women to say “I want to be with a Chad Thundercock who gives me tingles. Yeah, I guess I prefer if he’s nice, but as long as he doesn’t physically hit me [too much, depending on how hot/rich he is], I can prob make it work.” Ultimately, you need to listen to their actions over their words.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:21 PM
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I think you’re exaggerating. There’s probably a very similar dispersion of misogynists amongst nerdy guys and jocks. It’s just more noticeable for the latter because they’re actually successful with women and it’s something to be envious of. It’s no secret they’re demonized less. It’s the basic idea of the two rules. Women will make excuses for them. Everyone does it for attractive people to the point they’re measurably more successful in all aspects of life compared to ugly people. It’s a hard …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 12:58 PM
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Probably. Though the guys she's dated since me have been extremely vanilla.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 03:06 PM
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Randomly missing my ex this morning. She did some crazy and unforgivable shit, but the sex was amazing. She would initiate in crazy places that made it exciting. We got it on in the car, my office, in the woods while hiking, movie theater, and even her parents house while we were visiting for dinner. It's been multiple years since we broke up, I wonder if she still thinks about it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:58 PM
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I hate to admit it, but I actually like light American beers. People shit on them for being "water" but that's why I like them--they're refreshing and I don't feel bloated after drinking a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 02:42 PM
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I mean maybe, but I’ve never heard of someone watching hardcore porn in moderation (once a week or less) and still having ED issues. I think it nearly all situations, it’s a daily thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:06 PM
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I mean, addiction by its basic definition simply means doing something in excess enough to cause adverse effects. Watching porn isn’t inherently bad, but it becomes so when it starts having these detrimental effects, like ED. It’s really no different than drug addiction. Using in moderation is perfectly fine most of the time, especially because many drugs are used in a clinical setting. It’s the excess that causes issues and thus makes it an addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 08:02 PM
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The person above wasn’t very specific. “Interfering with your life” can mean a lot. For most men with this issue, they have problems “getting it up” in a irl situation because they’re used to more extreme and niche fantasies. This is interfering with your life, and is very common. I’m not exactly a NoFap advocate or even against porn, but I’d take it a step further… there’s a lot of black pill types or just guys in general not actively participating in dating or the pursuit of [real] romantic pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:35 PM
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I don’t know if you ever played a standard, non-links style here that’s common in the U.S., but there’s far more hazards and deep rough just after the tee box. Plus, these courses are far more “proper” and emphasize etiquette more, something she also doesn’t seem to retain or learn anything about. I’d love to just tell her to quit, and I’m pretty much there anyways. That’s back to my main point though that it’s annoying and insulting to put in all that time and her not take it seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:45 PM
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I mean, we naturally started on the driving range. As a 2 handicap, the driving range is more of a warmup thing for me or tweek occasional problems. Anything more is detrimental to my game. Not to mention it’s just not fun—I’d rather be playing. I think the term you’re looking for is scramble, which we basically do anyways because she can barely hit the ball 20 feet, assuming she makes contact at all. I only dare take her to a short par 3 course for this reason, but it’s still a nightmare. And I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:11 PM
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Of course, that’s why I said I’m happy for it at first. It’s the second part that eventually gets annoying—they don’t put in any effort to progress or learn, and basically every time we do do it together, I spend more times reteaching them the same stuff I’ve been repeating to months rather than participating myself. And yes, I do emphasis basic practice routines in between—something I had to learn and do myself. But they don’t ever and forget everything by the time we go out again. It just gets…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:26 PM
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I guess it just gets to the point that the teaching and beginner phases never end, and I lose enjoyment whenever they participate, which is antithetical to the purpose of a hobby. It just feels insulting to my time, enjoyment, and the hobby itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 06:22 PM
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The fact that I’ve put in years of hard work into them, and they assume they can just jump right in and only go out practice/participate on our dates. Not to mention taking my time and enjoyment into consideration. I can give examples: Hiking. If you can only go 1-2 miles, it usually means you miss payoff views. Not to mention the drive out there taking more time than the hike itself. I don’t even get a workout at that distance, so it all just feels like a waste of time. Golf. Last two LTR’s I’v…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:57 PM
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Anybody else think it’s low key insulting and annoying when a romantic partner wants to take up one of your hobbies, but doesn’t put in the effort to be even halfway competent at it? I’m all for quality time together and teaching beginners, but not when you put in no effort to get any better and I’m basically just babysitting you the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:42 PM
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We’re not exactly talking about the most rational, forward thinking person here. Dude prob just wanted to get his dick wet, and/or thought he could change her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:29 PM
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Sounds like a super conservative trad, with added power/superity complex problems. Def not the norm, and these guys should be avoided like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:26 PM
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Are you sure they’re saying it out of true fact of the matter? My argument is that women saying that could be an inaccurate cope, fallacy, or even defense mechanism. It might not truly be the money, but her bringing the “boss babe” controlling attitude to their personal life, and she just simply attributes it as the same thing. He was clearly fine with the money disparity upfront and the money was already there, so what changed? Realistically speaking, I think that makes more sense than guys say…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:23 PM
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Are you from a super conservative area? Or maybe just attracting/attracted to these tops?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 03:08 PM
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I’m a corporate lawyer and encounter these types of women on a daily basis. First, the whole “guys are uncomfortable dating women who make more money than them” is a made up cope outside of maybe some super conservative trad types. I haven’t met a single man in my life who would have a problem with this, and most would actually embrace it. I have heard a lot of “suga momma” jokes, but the reality is that wealth disparity is rarely that evident. I think what really happens is the woman blames oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 01:17 PM
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As with everything, follow the two rules. I see women gush over the most autistic and dull dudes, but they’re attractive enough to make excuses for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 10:59 PM
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I live in the suburbs of a Midwest city. There definitely are women who find it attractive. It’s mostly the “country lifestyle” that they actively seek. Many see it as more masculine than “city folk” and are very vocal about it. The funny part is that the men are basically cosplaying. They live in a cookie cutter neighborhood, but they drive a lifted truck, wear boots/camo regularly (even when not doing anything that requires it), and sometimes even speak with a fake accent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:00 PM
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...in regards to what? Being nice? Give compliments, hold doors, give gifts, don't name call, etc. If this is truly the hard part, then you might have bigger issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 04:34 PM
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I'll start off by saying that unless you're also a virgin, it's not really worth it. Naturally, they're terrible in bed (as expected) and typically want something very serious. Assuming that still interests you, I found that being a nice guy helps. I don't mean the stereotypical "nice guy" that are often lambasted on this sub and irl, who often fake their kindness and don't have anything else to offer. I mean a genuinely nice guy, who also is in shape, does well in school, dresses/grooms well, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:15 PM
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I’m somewhat of a music snob, and I don’t mind her. And I would agree that she’s better than typical pop stars. I may be biased though, because she’s clearly influenced by the same sort of alternative rock that I grew up with and still enjoy. She does ultimately lack originality though. This is no secret, there’s tons of YouTube videos that break down specific examples, not to mention royalties to Paramore. She is a super young pop star though, so I don’t really expect a whole lot of originality…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 08:34 AM
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It’s not outdated. It’s literally the medical standard for determining if someone is a healthy weight. Obese isn’t a subjective term, it’s a medical definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 06:47 PM
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It's not an offensive take at all? Are you new to this sub, I thought this was a nuanced back and forth? I'm just telling you that the go bag isn't quite the "gotcha" mistrust most men would be offended by. As pointed out in my "not reading it out of spite" post, men have lost so much power that there's actually very little to be offended by anymore. Yes, both the go bag and paternity test probably "should" be discussed in a relationship, but the reality of today's world is that men are just for…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:41 PM
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lol classy. My “save it” was just semantics while I elaborated my point before linking me. You absolutely still can link me, it wasn’t some demeaning thing you need to take offense to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:27 PM
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Save it. You won’t answer me directly to confirm, but I’m going to go ahead and assume the finding the secret go bag was supposed to be some sort of “gotcha” moment that men would take as an equal violation of trust as a paternity test for women. I think you’re just frustrated it’s actually not, and now you’re trying to misdirect and write it off as just a personal opinion. Take a look at the upvotes on my comments. Many people agree with what I said. And it’s actually kind of demeaning what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 04:09 PM
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Oh honey, I’m “caught up” and been following all of this. But you still haven’t answered any of my questions or relayed this back to what a good bag has to do with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:41 PM
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Is me asking what the missing part of the conversation NOT a common back and forth akin to the conversations on this sub? I’m not pretending to be obstinate about anything, and asking fairly straightforward questions, none of which you have answered.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:22 PM
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What’s the big part of this conversation I’m missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:12 PM
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What does that have to do with a woman having a go bag? I’m saying the go bag is fine, and if that’s what makes the paternity testing acceptable, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:07 PM
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There have been dozens of revisions to it, along with the associated medical diagnosis of “overweight” “obese” and others. The atom was discovered around the same time, that doesn’t mean astrophysics is bullshit. You can only reinvent the wheel so many times. Yes, BMI has its flaws, but only when there’s BF% significantly out of the norm. It’s still used and is the standard to diagnose obesity and other weight issues. I have an extremely hard time believing a licensed doctor would not use it, as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:23 PM
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I’m not forcing my views on anyone, and not really sure what you’re trying to say. You asked a question about men being ok finding out their partner had a go bag in [what seemed to be] a counterpoint to the paternity test thing, both after the fact. I’m saying it would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 01:07 PM
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It was just a hyperbole for how “ok” with it I’d be. I couldn’t care less if she told me about it beforehand or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:46 AM
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No. I thought the implication would be for a breakup. And that your argument was that a man asking for a paternity test was a comparable “just in case” as the partner being prepared to leave at a moment’s notice. Was it not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:08 AM
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Yes, I would have no issue if my partner packed a go bag. I would even encourage it, ie. help her pack the bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 03:04 AM
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lol this is a really bad argument. I’d help her pack it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 02:59 AM
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What are they/you judging then? The fact they can get a woman in another country then, despite it? Because that’s the only two things being talked about on the post you linked, and that second one just sounds like jealousy. Leave them alone, they’re not bothering you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 09:13 PM
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A BMI calculator and chart will give you a very good idea. It can be misleading if you are muscular and have low body fat %, but only few will fall into that outlier status and those situations should be obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:35 PM
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And judging passport bro's beer belly and lack of bench won't help him get in shape either, let alone finding a woman in his own country.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:14 PM
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Is it really shaming though, if we just use medically correct definitions like obese rather than "curvy" and "BBW"? If we're going to shame the dude about being ok with the belly and still finding a woman, we can probably shame the obese woman too. And I guess I take back what I said... "Obese" isn't shaming, it would be more fitting to call them land whales or ham planets. I'm not saying we should... but it's pretty close to the same thing. And being for one and not the other is a double standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:10 PM
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I don't get the obsession with virgins. I've deflowered like 4 girls. They all [understandably] sucked in bed (and not literally), the tightness or whatever wasn't even noticeably better, and they all were stage 5 clingers even after the relationship became obviously irreparable. I wouldn't touch a virgin with a 10 vote pole nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 08:03 PM
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I think it's closer than you think. The appeasing words are certainly misguiding to others, but more importantly--one's self. Another woman replied saying how annoying it is online shopping for hourglass figure because searching "curvy" only brings up tents. And there's a reason I brought up diabetes. It ultimately is the wrong type of reinforcement that has detrimental effects in the long term. Basically normalizing and even encouraging being extremely overweight. The beer belly and lack of ben…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:55 PM
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I'm ok with shaming him, as long as we also shame the women claiming they're "curvy" or a "BBW"... No, you're morbidly obese and will likely die from diabetes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:42 PM
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Have you been successful in your regular career? Very few of those fitness influencers are actually making enough money to live on, and the ones that are probably putting so much into it that it's far less convenient and worthwhile than a regular career. Also, wtf is UMC status?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:36 PM
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Maybe another woman spotted him driving it home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:26 PM
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Golf course and home improvement stores are good answers, but they're there for other reasons, so you might have to engage first. I have an even better one if you're willing to approach--go to the business area of your city during the week and hit the bars around happy hour. You'll see a lot of professionals dressed well and unwinding. They'll likely be with coworkers and maintaining some level of professionalism, but if you make the move, he'll be seen as a legend at the office. Not only will h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:45 PM
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Never said only women do it. I was just asking their motivation/purpose when they do, and why "safety" is often cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:25 PM
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I'm all for shaming woman double standards, but this kind of feels like a witch hunt. 156lbs at 5'6" isn't that bad. 25 BMI is right on the cusp of overweight and normal. BMI is notorious for not accounting for muscle mass, and apparently she's a frequent gym goer... I don't know enough about women BF% norms to say more on the numbers she provided, but they also may not be accurate anyways if it's just basic data estimation. What do you think Kim Kardashian or any of these "curvy" or "thicc" wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:16 PM
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I suppose it does bring up some dilemmas that I've always find interesting. If the information is out there why not use it? And if people truly don't want it to be looked at, why don't they take the time to protect it? Which can include legal/political pressure to ensure the right to privacy? I have a feeling most of it is ignorance, and probably some misguided political propaganda of "having nothing to hide"... but I don't think either one is an excuse. And you're right, this is just basic info…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:55 PM
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Yeah, I try to limit my "skills" for ethical and moral reasons. To be honest, it just feels creepy to dig too much into things like that. Granted, I have been "the other guy" unknowingly in the past, so I will screen for that along with criminal convictions IF someone gives me reason to suspect it... but that's about it. I've stopped myself in even more innocuous situations, like looking up old friends just to see if they're still leaving in the region. It still just feels too invasive. I'm righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:38 PM
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That's understandable. I just wonder why so many women claim safety. Are they just unaware of the possibilities, or is it a way to shame the creep that they're scared of him or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:31 PM
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Is blocking numbers/social media account just a power move/passive message women do? They tend to use it under the guise of safety, which I don't blame you for... but what exactly does that accomplish in that regard? I understand if you just don't want to hear from the person again or be bothered, but that's rarely what's said. Safety could come into play if you share a lot of info on social media in real time, but that would take a lot of active sleuthing by the perp to do anything with. And ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:19 PM
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Is blocking a number/social media account just a power move/passive message women do? They tend to use it under the guise of safety, which I don't blame you for feeling such... but what exactly does that accomplish in that regard? I understand if you just don't want to hear from the person again or be bothered by them, but that's rarely what's said. Safety could come into play if you share a lot of information on social media in real time, but that would take a lot of active sleuthing by the per…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 04:11 PM
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No different for women, if not more so. I see it far more common with them, bragging about how much they control their man and use them. "Happy wife, happy life lolz" You want power in a relationship? Act careless about it and be willing to leave at any given moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:38 PM
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A lot of layers here. First of all, I don't know who the penguin guy is other than seeing him in memes. His reaction and criticism of the video is kind of funny to me, because he seems to be taking the video literally and genuine. I'm only slightly more familiar with that guy from random viral clips, but I know that he's known for clickbait videos, and the pickup lines being reacted to are entirely a performance for the camera (and possibly even scripted by all parties involved). Of course it's …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:33 PM
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It just feels weird that she's seemingly doing it all out of nowhere, and we never really reconciled after ending on bad terms. If you want to know the details, I'll stick to the relevant stuff. She dumped me out of nowhere (on Christmas Eve in front of her family, but that's not even the worst part) and didn't really give me a reason. I accepted it, but she kept giving me mixed signals by continuing to talk regularly and even still sleeping with me for a couple weeks. Then I find out she just s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 03:00 PM
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Not sure if you're talking about the quoted text or the comment itself lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:23 PM
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Ex and I broke up 5+ years ago after a pretty serious and long term relationship. We had a nasty breakup, but the dust settled quick after the initial drama, and we went no contact ever since. Haven't seen or talked at all, and even had each other blocked on social media until she just recently added me on IG. I decided to accept it because I'm well over her and not holding a grudge. I didn't add her back right away (we're both set to private), thinking maybe she's just being nosey, and I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 02:21 PM
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With birth rates starting to decrease and young male/female loneliness epidemic not making the future any more promising, do you think we’ll get to the point of a declining population soon? Thought of this while I just adjusted my work benefits for next year. I raised my 401k contributions, but then started to realize how my retirement is wrapped up in the stock market… which is largely dependent on a constantly growing economy. Kind of hard to grow the economy when your population is going down…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:20 PM
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Yeah, who are these men? Incels? I hated my high school bully's GF almost as much as I hated him. Ironically enough, I had a chance with her later on but quickly rejected that. I actually did fairly well with women in my adolescence though, and based on your context, it sounds like you're not talking about me. You're not going to find a lot of logic going off strictly what incels say.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 12:47 PM
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All men on PPD--after typing out a post, comment, reply, whatever... before hitting Send, get down and do 10 pushups. I bet the quality of this sub goes up quite a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:30 PM
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It’s “socially acceptable” enough that people still do it and the only repercussion is females possibly complaining about it later on tiktok or something. I’ve noticed the same dichotomy in my own suburb and metro area though… I think that’s more just the suburb being smaller. Rejection is a very embarrassing and awkward thing. In the city, that humiliation is over quick and you’ll probably never see them again. In the suburbs, that’s far less likely and they might already be loosely aware of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:10 PM
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Depends on what the context is. Some people are referencing school and career related goals. If they're actively pursuing it and have a solid plan, I say it's fine and should even be encouraged. However, I know A LOT of people talk about doing xyz, but keep emphasis on "talk" because that's all it is. Especially in a dating/romantic context, people tend to fluff themselves up, so you should ultimately be skeptical. Not having any progress is a huge red flag, as well as blaming it on others and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:42 PM
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He is boring and not trying to get laid for telling her what he does for a living when she asked? Yeah, I said the dude can be quiet and introverted on a surface level, but he was otherwise doing well with her until then. She judged him for the job (maybe you are too?), with the irony that had she asked the same followup questions as she did to #2, she would have discovered #1 is far more interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:24 PM
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Possibly. She seemed a little full of herself and kind of arrogant about it... but could've been a defense mechanism. I only remember this because she made a comment about not being able to do a boring job like that. She told us she was hairdresser, which I found funny. No offense to hairdressers, but I'd speculate the threat of boredom is not the only thing stopping her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:30 PM
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Yeah, I personally don't get it either. I leave my work at work, trying to relax and NOT think/talk about work outside of it. Not sure why some people put so much value onto it... especially when nearly everyone ends up hating their job anyways--even rockstars and pro athletes. The only thing that should matter is if it's not detrimental to your well-being and can support you. In his case, he's paid way better than most and has very little stress. If anything, this should make him more attractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:19 PM
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I think the problem is less about personality itself and more about assumptions surrounding it. I'd argue that #1 actually has a better personality and was actually doing well with the woman until the job thing came up. It seems like she thought the job was boring and dismissed him for that alone, while the complete opposite happened with #2. The irony being that if she had given #1 the same follow-up questions, she would've discovered how much more interesting #1 is over #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:11 PM
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Definitely considered boring by many. Even lawyers in general can have a bad reputation. It usually comes from a misguided place, IMO. Another norm in the US is to judge people too much on their job, which is probably the bigger problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:03 PM
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r/nothingeverhappens
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:57 PM
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Both are slightly above average...~6' even.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:36 PM
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Didn't even come up in their short conversation, not to mention he's defnitely not the "vetbro" stereotype at all. I've known him a long time--he was raised poor and only joined to pay school. He still gets all kinds of benefits from it, like a favorable home loan and it looking good on his already impressive resume. He never even deployed or fought... kind of weird reason to write him off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:34 PM
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I have had these two male friends for a long time, both habitually single. One is an 8/10 looks-wise with some unique/desirable features. He's a tax attorney, does extremely well for himself, and even former military. Definitely introverted and quiet on the surface, but he can open up and be fun. The other is is a 6/10 at best. He works for a professional sports team (front office) but is severely underpaid and has six figures worth of student loan debt. He's very goofy and outgoing, almost to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 05:25 PM
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Preferably neither, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 08:50 PM
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Lmfao perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:16 PM
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Suddenly this post makes perfect sense. Enjoy your cats, femcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 05:12 PM
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I’m a 33 year old man in the same boat. I had shit parents/upbringing and had to bust my ass to even earn a middle class life, let alone the prestigious and lucrative lifestyle I have now. I won’t toot my own horn any more though. I’m not sure I know what you mean about men not coping though. Let’s ignore the sub-25 incels that make up this sub, and focus on people our own age. The majority of my friends are married and have kids, many of which are happy or at least not divorced surprisingly… bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 04:46 PM
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What is redditor’s obsession with picking apart a comment by individual line in a perceived argument/discussion? It’s a superficial fallacy that takes everything out of context, especially when you provide anecdotal examples that ultimately end up contradicting each other and providing no overall point. My overall point is that women don’t want to hear and talk about men’s internal emotion struggles. You said I was being too vague, so I gave you a real life example that you ultimately just write…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:52 PM
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Well, to go back to my example… She didn’t want to hear about my lack of confidence and regret over my weight gain and hair loss. It was a one time complaint, but I was definitely ridiculed and it was used against me later. However, as you indirectly pointed out, perhaps it’s far easier to mention what women DON’T want to hear. It kind of highlights my point of them not wanting to talk about internal emotional struggles of men. Even your specific example of how apparently it’s ok to cry about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:53 PM
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Sorry if “terrible” was brash… they’re just not what I was looking for. I wanted a specific situation of being emotional vulnerable. Not generic aspects of what not to do. It’s ok, you’re kind of proving my point. Women don’t want to hear about emotional issues, at least to the extent what men are you referring to when they complain about this “problem.” And rightfully so, as I said, they’re not our therapists or mother. They want to care and problem solve, which is why I provided slightly more …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:08 PM
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So those are some generic examples of what NOT to do. I’m asking for a specific example of being emotionally available. Give me a situation. In my example, I didn’t do either of those things. I’m not saying I wasn’t being childish or was right… just saying these are terrible examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:50 PM
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Please provide an example of being emotionally vulnerable while still being an adult. I’d say 99% of issues (including women’s) can basically be summed up the way I said it “Not taking accountability or doing anything about it.” I’m not saying you’re wrong to call it childish, but it’s kind of a naive, dismissive, and simplistic generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:34 PM
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*trying to be be demolished. And it’s happening in a man-made institution of society (with its own backlash). Good luck fighting instinct and biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:25 PM
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Most men are having sex and in a relationship? I saw a statistic the other that said quite the opposite. Something close to 70% of men under 30 are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:14 PM
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I don’t see it as a double standard, more so just a difference in gender roles and their respective expectations. It’s like comparing apples and oranges. Is it a double standard apples don’t taste like oranges and vice versa? No, they’re just different. I suppose there are mixed signals about these expectations with the rise of absolute equality and denying gender roles. However, I think it’s an instinctual and biological thing that societal pressure won’t overcome, hence the backlash and proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:09 PM
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Is it a double standard though? I do believe in different roles, so it’s like comparing apples and oranges to me. Is it a double standard that apples don’t taste like oranges and vice versa? Maybe you disagree, but that’s how I see it. And you keep saying mixed messages, whereas I think the messages are just being misinterpreted. As I said, women aren’t literally asking men to be a shoulder to cry on (or behave like women). I can see the issue if they are, in fact, only to reverse it, but that’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:02 PM
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I’m noticing all these responses about there essentially being a double standard. Except I don’t think it’s a double standard, just a difference of expectations and what’s attractive/unattractive for each gender. I guess it depends on whether or not you accept there are gender roles. I don’t think women are really inviting their BF to cry on their shoulder (or essentially behave like women) when they ask them to open up. And if they are and/or deny gender roles… only to complain about it and be …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:50 AM
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What’s Reddit’s obsession with this idea that men can’t “open up” and be “vulnerable” to women or they’ll use it against them? I’ve only really happen to me once, but I almost don’t even blame her. I wasn’t really taking accountability for some of my issues or even making an attempt to work on them my own. They’re not your mother, and nobody else wants to hear about this either… including your friends and even your mother herself, assuming you’re a grown adult. You also have to consider why a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:16 AM
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What are dusties? Just low value men, or is it something more specific? Might be regretting my username…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 02:48 AM
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I don’t know what this says about me, but sometimes I get off to erotic/sex stories. I found a subreddit dedicated to it. Most of the content seems fake, and one of the top all time posts had me rolling. It’s the most unrealistic blue pill redditor fantasy ever. It’s from the dudes perspective and about how his “friend” (ie. chick that friend zoned him years ago) accidentally booked an erotic massage for them. It’s starts off clarifying with some white knight bullshit how he’s never expressed hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 01:54 AM
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Please excuse my autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:59 AM
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This would imply I have friends lol. Nah but seriously, I like this idea. But do I really need plausible deniability? Yeah I guess it might a little weird if it’s truly platonic and it’s just us… but she’s the one who first suggested it. Or I mean fuck it, I’m not against just asking if it’s a date when I bring it up again and ask her. We’re both in our late 20’s, so I’d hope that we could be straightforward about it. She kind of took the initiative first, so I already kind of feel like a pussy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:58 AM
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Female coworker and I were casually talking about cooking today, and I said something like “I like to grill as often as I can, because it feels manly lol” She responded how she wants to learn and followed up with “Maybe you can show me sometime.” Is this an obvious hint to ask her out? Immediately thought so, but it’s also work (professional office setting). And she’s very outgoing/social in general to everyone. Possibly platonic intentions? I’m also not sure how I feel about “shitting where I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 12:46 AM
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Well technically you’re still single too, so you could always distract yourself with someone else you’ve potentially been talking to. I sometimes do this, as it also puts the new girl in perspective… like do I really like her this much, or is it just something new and immediate?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:46 PM
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Better than a state school, no? I know there’s a lot of prestigious universities in the immediate area, but compared to the rest of the country it’s seems pretty nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:41 PM
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Oh trust me, I do the same exact thing. I’m actually glad to hear I’m not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:34 PM
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Assume you haven’t seen their worst yet. It’s probably actually accurate. You can take it step darker, and assume they’re still sleeping with other people too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:32 PM
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I also like the paradox of AOC. Claims to hate the chad, cis, white men patriarchy blah blah pro-latinx and all that… Dating a rich, blond white dude from the prestigious university they both attended.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:30 PM
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There’s a conspiracy theory that Mk Ultra is what radicalized him. Normally I don’t believe in this type of stuff at all, but the “debunked” claim is sketchier than the theory itself because they basically admit that 90% of the theory is factual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 11:26 PM
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To each their own. You mention "to term", so would abortion be on the table for you? Not arguing or anything, just curious where you're coming from with that and making conversation. Personally, although I'm pro-choice, I don't think I could abort my own child, regardless if I'm carrying it or not. Additionally, I'd like to think I'd only impregnate a woman I could trust... but obviously shit happens with that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:51 PM
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Lmao well I guess she set the bar pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:46 PM
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Male privilege is not being able to get knocked up. I'm pretty RP and anti-feminist about a lot of shit, but this one I'm willing to sacrifice some equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:39 PM
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Insightful
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:31 PM
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Thankfully mines not that crazy, or at least not targeting my new partners. It's manipulative, sinister shit trying to sabotage the new relationship. Its either old pictures/texts of us together to make the new partner jealous, or it's a faux "warning" that I'm abusive, cheat, etc. It's pretty easy to prove otherwise very quick, it's just awkward for a bit. I should probably start being more upfront about it. But it's always so tricky trying gauge the right time to have a talk about ex's in gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:29 PM
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Makes sense. I have one who still actively stalks me years later (we only dated a couple months) and will message my new partners. I get mixed responses, but it's usually never a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:19 PM
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Women--what do think when a new/potential partner has a crazy ex? Red flag? Competition? Validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:15 PM
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Women can do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:01 PM
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It's definitely more of the atheist edgelord types spiritually speaking, but yeah the rest is prob right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 10:00 PM
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As a dude who's in this situation, I don't think anything's "wrong". All of my friends have started families and we rarely talk or do anything anymore. I also had been in a few serious relationships over the years that failed, and I'm reluctant to jump into anything new. And it's not like I get much opportunities either. Bars/clubs are pretty much filled with young twenty somethings and couples, so I don't even bother. I have hobbies that involve social interaction, but same sort of situation. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:45 PM
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Apparently pretty good. I never use condoms, even when my partner isn't on BC, and just always pullout. I know it's bad from an STD perspective, but I only ever have one partner for extended timeframes, and I get tested between each one. Been doing this for 10 years, over 30 women total, less than half on BC. No kids. Maybe I'm shooting blanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 09:08 PM
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Generally, I’d say it’s a good thing. If they were turned off or creeped out by it, you would’ve heard something far more negative. I think they enjoyed it and likely found it attractive. However, context matters, because I also see it as a shit test and we don’t know their intentions. We’re not even sure if they truly believe you were flirtatious (more than just friendliness), and they could be “testing the waters” about your own intentions and feelings. Let paint some scenarios. If they are si…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 12:19 PM
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It really depends on how you play off the shy/introverted stuff. I used to mask my severe social anxiety with aloof/carelessness, which flipped the script on how successful I was with women. Admittedly, this back in school though. And I doubt many adult men could pull this off correctly if they’re still complaining about lack of female attention as adults. Those 4chan posts of men unironically cosplaying Ryan Gosling’s in Drive or another cringe characters come to mind. OP also said they are a 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:21 PM
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I’ve been seeing a lot of relationship issues relating to paternity tests come up lately, and I don’t understand how. I don’t think it’s a money thing, because cost never seems to come up. I think it’s more so a power move. I mostly get it from a woman’s standpoint—the man is basically telling her he doesn’t trust her. And especially in the context of a committed relationship like marriage, I think she’s right to feel hurt. That being said, I also see the man’s side. We’ve all heard horror stori…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:20 PM
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Are women out of touch with their own sexuality, or just shy about it? It's no secret that it's more difficult for them to achieve orgasm, but whenever I'm with a woman I try to get her there. Sometimes it's successful, sometimes not... but what almost never happens is her helping. It often feels like I'm just expected to not only do the work, but also know exactly what to do. I'm well aware that women like different things, so sometimes I'll even ask, only for them to not really give me an answ…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 04:23 PM
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This isn't a desirability thing. I think we just lack respect in general as a society. I see it across the board, even for high value men and women. And it's not a new trend. As a millennial, our boomer parents probably commanded less respect than their parents--the silent generation. However, as the newer generations are being raised, I'm definitely seeing/hearing things that make me audibly gasp. And I do see it evolving in my own generation too. To use your own metrics, I'm 6', $120k salary, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:20 PM
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As a man, women hitting on me can be even less explicit. My go-to move is to casually bring up “my wife” in conversation and then separate myself. For example, here I would say something like “New number, how about I get yours? My wife has my phone, let me go find her.”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 09:03 PM
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And her bad acting shows very much in this scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:58 AM
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Lmfao oh please. She’s not even looking at the person asking her the question, not to mention all the cuts. This very clearly NOT genuine and unscripted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:52 AM
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Ah yes, a TV scene of the Kardashian family—quite the bastion of truth and enlightenment. And definitely not scripted. Putting the source aside, how do you explain the young women who seek this sort of relationship? This isn’t a grooming question. As a slightly older guy (young 30s), I’ve had many very young women come after me first, and very upfront about it. Maybe it’s a red flag on them, but your source seems anecdotal at best since it’s no secret women in general seem to prefer older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 02:37 AM
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I mostly agree. I tried it, it didn't do anything for me. It gets real annoying when those people then go onto to say shit like "You need to try different therapists--I had to go through 12 just to find mine." Or even worse "Therapy is just a tool to help you sort your thoughts, you still have to put in the work." What the fuck does this even mean? All you're telling me is that it's a pseudoscience without objective proof if it takes 12 different professionals to find one that "works". And as fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:18 PM
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You weren't entirely wrong in the original comment. The nationalism in this instance is directly related to religion, along with both sides using fundamental teachings within their religion to justify the violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 11:58 AM
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The hard-to-swallow rule is actually that there are 2 rules that make this way easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:45 PM
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I dated an immigrant, and I kind of regret it. It was nice at first—she was beautiful and the sex was good. She was intelligent (masters degree, pursuing doctorate), but there was still a significant cultural and language barrier at times. It was kind of annoying not being able to have meaningful conversations. Or even worse, embarrassing moments in public because she wasn’t familiar with many societal norms and would just “freeze up” when she got confused. I felt like a babysitter at times. Ult…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:03 PM
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Saying women overwhelmingly serve in non-combat units is actually underselling the point. It’s almost nonexistent for them to. In fact, up until recently, there were rules against it. It’s only “allowed” now due to outside pressure. When it does happen, the woman is usually a try-hard who chose to be there. And even then, it’s more of an image thing and she’s not likely to see combat. It’s an identical situation for the U.S. military.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 02:23 PM
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AF/BB is kind of a stretch here. Dude seems pretty successful and above average looking. This success is typically more admired and appreciated by older women (and not just just the "post-wall" ones). The type of younger women who do appreciate this sort of thing probably aren't really on dating apps [yet]. It also doesn't help that the dude is very conservative across the board, down to the way he dresses.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:02 AM
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Dump her first. It's almost certainly projection, and both times it happened to me, they ended up leaving me for male friends they made. And guess what? I still have never slept with or done anything that wasn't platonic with my best [female] friend that I've had for 15+ years now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:06 PM
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WFH today with the GF over, and I overheard the gossip on a call with her friends/coworkers. Normally I tune this stuff out, but I know too much background of what was discussed and couldn't help myself. We went out with most of them on Saturday night for a couples outing thing. One of her habitually single coworkers brought a guy, and he was the main topic. They were absolutely gushing about him. From how good looking he is, to saying how he "kept staring at you, so he must really care and love…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 02:52 PM
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I kind of unironically did this, back when femaledatingstrategy subreddit was a thing. There was A LOT of delusional and unrealistic stuff there, but also some pretty basic shit I didn't realize women put value on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:10 PM
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The psychology is it being pseudo-clever way to say he has a dog and that he cares about it enough to want a “mom”. Common trope to use your dog as a “wingman”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:36 AM
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Depends on what your end goal is. There was another post on here a few days ago that argued looks matter most, and things like money are just a bonus or can help make up for less attractive dudes. I kind of agree with it, because I see broke and unsuccessful dudes get laid all the time. That being said, I think very few high quality women are going to stick around a broke guy very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 08:08 PM
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What exactly is toxic masculinity? I never understood it, because people will attribute it to things like a dude blowing up on a stranger in public. Honestly, this extremely effeminate to me—basically a Karen. The only difference is that violence may be threatened, which is still effeminate and lacking any sort of common sense. Masculinity to me is stoicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 11:06 AM
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Same. In fact, the vast majority of the times it ended up turning into a LTR, we didn’t even kiss. IME, high value women tend to have rules about first kiss, sex, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:08 PM
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Not entirely RP, but I probably fall on their side of this argument. I think testimony alone isn't sufficient evidence to even to try someone for a crime, let alone convict. There are too many biases and things to be gained/lost that influence people and their rhetoric. There needs to be objective evidence. Now, unfortunately this is probably victim blaming, because the expectation is that the she NEEDS to resort to fighting back. I understand that people get scared, freeze up, or just aren't ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:42 PM
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As a male, I think I’m starting to realize women have it just as bad, if not worse, than men when it comes to dating. I feel like the only men that put in any effort are usually fuckboy types. They may do their best to vet them, but a lot of men peacock—gloating or even faking accomplishments, while also hiding their flaws. And I don’t think women approaching men is a solution. There are A LOT of toxic incels who took the black pill and are probably worse than the fuckboys. Fuckboys might break …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 12:10 AM
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This is already happening. There’s counteracting problems though. For example, men “peacocking” their worth—faking desirable traits and/or hiding detrimental traits. Another related problem is women falling for it, or just simply not being able to recognize a high value man. These sorts of issues bring about even more issues—both men and women taking the black pill, not participating due to frustration and hopelessness. And it’s not always so obvious or absolute. Often times it’s just subconscio…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 09:38 PM
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My life insurance policy maxes out at $2mil. Throw that in a diversified fund, and you’re probably looking at low six figure returns annually. Hell, even a high yield savings at 4% is $80k.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 08:49 PM
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Should’ve called her a bitch back. Even if she wasn’t serious and saying it playfully to you. “Fuck off, bitch”. It flips the shit test back on her almost. She can either freak out and then she’s in the wrong for starting it (don’t argue in this case—just ignore and deflect). Or she accepts both of you are messing around and it’s flirting, then you escalate. But yes, you failed this test. Go fuck other women. Maybe she’ll notice, and you can ONS her. Or not. Who cares? Sounds like you’re already…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 11:15 AM
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Sorry if I missed your point, but if I was someone who lied about an accusation, the last thing I’d want to do is take a lie detector test. Even if I did know they can produce false positives. From what I understand, they still work a majority of the time. And the only reason they’re inadmissible is that small chance of a false positive. On the other hand, if the accusation was true and justice wasn’t being done, I would absolutely take one. Because they’re inadmissible, even if it did produce a…
/r/MensRights29/04/19 12:27 PM
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Absolutely. I’m not arguing that. I’m just saying that the media isn’t at fault. It’s the laws. And if we want to change things, let’s stop blaming the media and start challenging lawmakers
/r/MensRights13/04/19 10:38 PM
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Often times, this isn’t entirely the media’s fault. In many states (including my own), rape is legally defined as non-consensual penetration of the victim. So assuming it was traditional sex, only men can be charged. Women can only be charged with sexually assault, which of course carries smaller penalties (another huge problem). Ultimately, it’s the laws that are archaic and wrong. It would be nice if the media stepped up and called it as it is. However, they risk libel suits using literal defi…
/r/MensRights13/04/19 01:29 PM
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HB7? Are you kidding? She’s average looking. She doesn’t appeal to my specific interests, so I’d personally give her a 4, but objectively I guess she gets a 5.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 02:33 AM
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I use Twitter. Mostly as a news source. Not just general news, but I also follow accounts related to my hobbies and some comedic accounts. You could argue any form of social media (or social situation) is a platform for things you don’t agree with. Doesn’t mean you have to pay attention to it or follow them.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:35 AM
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Here you go.
/r/MensRights25/01/19 07:02 PM
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worried about the social life I met some of my best friends in the military. waste of time Military helped me out in a lot of ways. Other than shaping me into a better person, the benefits helped me tremendously when I got out and it looked amazing on a resume to find a great job.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:23 AM
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I was falsely accused of rape not too long ago. Everyone suggested I go after her for my lawyer fees and this sort of thing. However, it’s very difficult because the burden of proof then falls on you to prove that the accusation was false beyond reasonable doubt. You’ll need more than just lack of proof the rape occurred. I even had a little more proof than that, but my lawyers didn’t think it would be quite enough to be a slam dunk or without legal struggle. My suggestion would be ghost her com…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:06 PM
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Used to be in the Army. If you want to make a career out of it (20+ years) Army will give you the best opportunities and slots for promotions. However, you’re not always treated the best and leadership is sometimes toxic/worthless. If I could do it again, I’d go Air Force. Lots of transferable skills to civilian sector when you get out, better locations for potential duty stations, and they seem to be treated better. Not that I’m a pussy and can’t deal with getting yelled at or sleeping out in t…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 09:36 PM
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Do you actually work with her, or just met her at work? If it’s the former, then be careful. “Don’t shit where you eat” is an important rule. And even ghosting her could have consequences. I’d just stop orbiting her. It’s alright to be friends. Just don’t be a white knight. And draw the line on doing things for here or any other orbiting tendencies. Honestly, I act pretty BP with all the females at my work. I wouldn’t call it orbiting, I’m just friendly, polite, and keep all conversations profes…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 02:12 AM
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Thank you. The criminal case has been closed. But she also filed an order or protection against me based on the allegations. Not the worst thing, but I really don’t want it on my record, nor do I want to surrender my firearms due to it. Apparently these OPs are the most abused aspect in law. Easy to get with no proof, and lowest burden of proof—pretty much whoever judge believes. If there’s any question, judge sides against defendant for liability reasons. I got the first one dropped based on he…
/r/MensRights04/10/18 07:44 PM
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Currently fighting some false allegations myself. I also served and the accuser is using my military service against me. Said to LE and in her follow-up order of protection “ex-military, emotionally unstable, etc.” It’s all he-said-she-said, until the detective on the case actually went above and beyond, and he found some unbiased evidence that pretty much proved my innocence. Just yesterday, detective finally called my lawyer to tell them the prosecutor is refusing to pursue charges. I may shar…
/r/MensRights04/10/18 11:17 AM
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This extremely dehumanizes women, which you would think would be backwards thinking for them.
/r/MensRights03/10/18 10:37 AM
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Interview is not always the best time to bring up salary (unless they bring it up). Especially with an internship, it’s too easy for them to go with someone else who will take the lower pay if there are other candidates. If I were you, I’d wait for the official job offer.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 06:13 PM
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Man that sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy....almost like you're hamster-ing why you're single. Idk... I’m currently in an LTR and I kind of agree with him to an extent. I know friends who were in similar, if not worse, scenarios like the one he painted. On the other hand, yes I have other friends who are in successful marriages. I think you just have to be very careful because it is a huge gamble. As for me? I don’t care if my family tree stops with me. I’m not against kids one day but lik…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 03:11 PM
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I was in a funk like you around your age. I was probably worse. Financially, physically, emotionally, and professionally. It took a final blow to take me to rock bottom. At that point, I knew something drastic had to be done. Similar to you, I was bothered that my parents would be upset if I did something stupid like suicide. So I went with something else... Joined the military. It was grueling at first, but I came to love it before my initial training was even over. My only regret was that I on…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 10:13 PM
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Currently going through this now. In an LTR and we're not "in a relationship" on FB. Though it doesn't say she's single either. My personal opinion is that it's just social media and doesn't matter. I see where you're coming from, and have even thought about it myself, how others may think she's single. However, it's not a big deal to me because she rarely is on FB. And even if she was or it could happen anyways, I remind myself TRP truths. AWALT. She's not mine, it's just my turn.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 06:30 PM
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