About the alcohol thing, corelation isn't causation. People don't want to fuck someone BECAUSE they're drunk, they usually WANT TO FUCK said person before even drinking, and alcohol just serves as a social lubricant of sorts. Strange to fixate on alcohol though, or course it's going to be present, it's part of socialization. If you looked at it, you'll also find water and food, or going out to predict sex, lol.
And maybe women like having sex too? That possibility is strangely missing from your equation. Also, 6 women have slept with me, casually, completely sober, during DAYTIME, outside of relationships. They just liked me a lot, and the sex was good.
I think they actually mean "entitled to being loved", which, IMO every human is. It's just that for men, there are little to no other sources of love other than women. So "I deserve love" becomes "I deserve women."
Because it feels good, duh Because it validates one's existence on a deep, instinctive level Because it's fun and good exercise Because better orgasms Because exciting and interesting sex poses
I'm just saying that I'm not seeing this "I want a relationship" from women behavior all that much. They may say it, but the effort and investment required to get it is just not there. You can't assess relationship material after 2 messages (unless the messages are SUPER SUPER BAD). I for one am an introvert, so I want to talk to my match, as consistently as possible, for at least several weeks to maybe 2 months before I decide to meet them. I need to know more about a person than just 2 chat me…
If you're correct about women desiring relationships more than men, the women on dating apps would be striving to enter relationships ad soon as the opportunity presents itself, instead of flaking.
I'm sorry but I had to stop reading after the first few words. If you think you can accurately psychoanalyze someone you know nothing about, invalidate their whole lived experience and basically gaslight them into whatever self-serving nonsense your brain produced with that much confidence, you have issues.
Right, but why would you not enjoy sex with strangers? I'm just curious. You keep referring to it as "jackhammering" which to me, signals that you don't find sex, as such, enjoyable. Maybe you had bad lovers, just saying.
🤔 I know plenty of people who either fall in love with depressed people, or are in relationships with them, and vice versa. Everyone can struggle for a few years btw, it's normal, life isn't always easy. People still deserve love, respect and kindness. So I find this kinda shallow. Not to mention that a ton of women also fit your description.
Where did I say I orgasmed? On the contrary, most times (8 out of 10)I had to make myself orgasm (jerk off to ejaculate). Half the girls had problems with getting off, even when masturabating on their own. I'm a very attentive and patient partner, I would spend hours giving them oral, or fingering, or clit massages, or nipple sucking, but it would work 1/3 of the time perhaps. Although this one time with a girl I had a one night stand with, I made her cum 3 times in the same night, all 3 times f…
Women desire relationships more than men? Then why are women matching me, then ghosting me after several (acceptable) messages? They're not forming relationships, they're back on the app 2 months later. They seem to do it out of boredom or a need for validation. Once that's fixed, it's back to binging Netflix and flicking the bean.
"Why would you want to be with someone who cannot be your equal or provide for you?" Because you're not "being with them", you're having sex with them. The whole thing shouldn't last more than a night. It's having fun, not spending a life together. It's like saying "Why would you want to have pizza with someone who cannot be your equal or provide for you". Well because DUH, PIZZA IS TASTY. Enjoying pizza together is good and enjoyable! Then if you both enjoyed the pizza you arrange another pizza…
But you don't have to carry a child for 9 months anymore. Because contraception. Sex nowadays is safe. Look at porn and all the OnlyFans people anyway, they're having sex almost every day, often with different people, filming it for YEARS, and ZERO CHILDREN. This argument isn't real anymore. We're not in he savanna.
The problem is that it's backfiring. Once men realize they're being lied to (some of the generalizations are correct), they'll go back to the harmful generalizations and double down on weaponizing them. Always be truthful, always be honest. It's the best move to win a war. Lies and pretense can win battles, but the war will be lost in the end, because your side will be shown/painted as dishonest and unprincipled.
Why not have some handsome and charming rando jackhammer you? How would you find relationships otherwise? You have to meet men you barely know and get to know them better.
As if most women pick the absolutely best men to have children with? 😆 I guess that explains the absolute explosion of single parents and divorce rates right? 😂 Come on get a grip lmao!
The solution is to have more sex with more people and more frequently. Easy. Contraception is widely available today. Liberate yourself sexually and go enjoy sex with more people.
Why aren't you thinking about men's plights more though? Living your own lives? Imagine having the luxury to do that... How to live without securing procreation. My seed must continue. Why aren't you obsessing about your seed's future too? Do you hate your DNA? Surely not? Surely your DNA is you and you'd fucking want your DNA coding to outlive you and survive and thrive far into the far future where your distant offspring are colonizing some lush planet 200 light years away? COME ON NOW? Listen…
I'm pretty sure you know at least several good men who fit the "better person" requirement but you never think about wanting to fuck them. I would guess you see them as friends, people who are "like a brother to you" etc. Merely looking decent and being a good person (genuinely, not faking it for favors) isn't getting anyone laid - women or men. It's simply not how chemistry and attraction work - good is boring, and there's no excitement or spark ✨. As for hooking up with hot but stupid people..…
Being the better person has gotten me bread crumbed by women and me ending up in toxic relationships several times where I'd be cheated on repeatedly (and where I'd still function as the girl's therapist, because you guessed it, I was trying to be the better person!). Let's be honest here, if goodness was what worked for getting laid, the world would've been much more different than this. I also spent the last 6 months rejected by a girl (who I had approached first), but the moment I got over he…
As a man, most of my lovers (women) have been by far WORSE lovers than myself. Less active, less eager, less everything. I'd go down on a woman, enjoying her vagina for a whole hour, but she'd be unsure if she wants to suck my dick. Two of them just lay there like dolls. I was grossed out, my soul hurt. Personally, I blame society. Women are so shamed for feeling of doing anything sexual. In the end both sides end up without climaxing and dissatisfied with sex. Just saying this to point out that…
Aren't they? Most women I know ARE willing to pay, or split 50-50, AND are reporting equal if not greater levels of horniness. However they tend to be liberal, atheist women, while I've noticed that the religious ones report the opposite. So maybe this is a socialization thing, where everyone gets born equally horny, but society beats it out of women and ramps it up in men.
