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| 90 | Used to be unshakable with women. Now one girl has me anxious as hell. What’s happening?You've fallen in love, bruh | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/25 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I left my high school sweetheart after being an abusive asshole and I still think about her every single day. She turned into a hoe.You don't love her dude u love the toxic-ass cycle of control and manipulation u had with her. This is just dumb teenager shit and she's living in your head rn while she's getting loads of dick. It was a stupid relationship, move on. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/24 01:24 AM |
| 0 | I feel like I woke up at 30. How do we save other men/boys from this fate?There are plenty of examples of men in the community doing things, you just have to look. Sports coaches being a good example. The reality is there are churches and fraternities and other organizations that are dying because younger men are not engaging in their surroundings. Whether it is shit like the Lions Club or neighborhood associations, or church groups or boy scouts. Ever been to something like those? They see anyone under 40 and they're foaming at the mouth for new blood to take over. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | LTR "breaks up" with me multiple times a monthThen why is she a LTR? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Girl threw up on my dickSo what's the problem? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 3 | When she says "let's just be friends" it's really over, isn't it?I would respond with something like "no problem." Don't ghost it's weak and childish. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 30 | LTR with GF of 9 years.I'm not even your g/f and I can feel my libido plummeting while reading this. It's been 9 years. She's not that into you. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Viewed as Alpha or something else?She's bitchy to everyone but you, but tells a friend to bitch to you? She just sounds like an asshole. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Fucked up my hair, how to proceed?How does your haircut pay off? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Fucked up my hair, how to proceed?Shit man you got too much invested in your pretty-boy haircut. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Ex-gf will not leave my houseI assume the house or apartment is in your name only? | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 02:08 PM |
| 3 | Making social media contact w/ coworker "creepy"?She's been warm and friendly with you 3 times now. It seems like you actually found a young woman who knows how to make eye contact and engage other people. Go look for her, invite her to a coffee break with you. That will impress her more than a weak ass FB friend request. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Making social media contact w/ coworker "creepy"?Don't fucking ruin this by making it a social media thing. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 08:49 PM |
| 10 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?I got the fuck out as soon as I could. Honestly, I felt like I had two options if I wanted to stay in: 1) Keeping playing the role of golden boy willing to sacrifice himself just so a higher-up can take credit and avoid work, or 2) Become a dirtbag and hide behind a plethora of red-tape that protects shitty soldiers. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 03:08 PM |
| 2 | A pathological lack of focus?I've become more centered since I quit caffeine about 3 weeks ago. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What hobby would raise my value?You want to improve? Then don't treat improvement as a joke. Don't check off accomplishments before they happen (a shredded body for summer) and don't have others lead your life. Figure it out. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:53 PM |
| 2 | What hobby would raise my value?You're asking us how to be interesting. If you can't figure that out yourself, that's on you. And worse yet, you're attempting to convince us you're not doing it for women when you literally ask what's more valuable in the eyes of women. Your mindset is weak as shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:41 PM |
| 31 | I’m sick and tired of girls who can’t conversationsehhh....not always. Some folks don't understand that give and take. You just won't be able to shut them up. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/19 08:03 PM |
| 6 | When you're approaching or meeting new people, do you give some of your value out, and then chill back and see who takes the bait or reciprocates?I think you're right, it's a fine line. And for me anyways, as I've aged I've gotten better at not investing in people who don't ask about me or my interests. You have to put yourself out there enough to show who you are, but not overextend yourself to the point where you're the one always initiating or being the giver. Once you determine the balance of give/take you can figure out what level of relationship is possible. Some people will end up your best buddies b/c the give/take is balanced and… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Ltr trying to make me gain weight etc?There you go. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Improv or toastmasters for improving public speaking?I went to army officer training w/ a dude who was active in Toastmasters. He was pretty confident with and unfazed by public speaking. His skill was at a different level that the rest of us. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Ltr trying to make me gain weight etc?She doesn't like the way you look. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Girl ignores my text to hangout, asks me for a ride a few days later. How did I handle this?Yeah I knew my wording wasn't great. She tried to use you, you denied her. You handled it well. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 04:59 PM |
| 6 | Girl ignores my text to hangout, asks me for a ride a few days later. How did I handle this?Great. She's just using you. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | My ex is coming over tomorrow night to pick up her stuffGo full psycho and tell her that as you're withdrawing. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 08:21 PM |
| 9 | I know ‘Girlfriend’ is lyingYou're gonna make me write it: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 2 | weird situation. why would she not respond and what do i do nextChrist dude, you think she wanted to study? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 5 | REAL TIME SUPPORT NEEDED: is she trying to pull an availability test on me?Be very careful overreacting when a woman shows signs she has a life outside of you, because it's a good thing they have other interests and friends. I don't see any signs of her gaming you. She was upfront with Wed OR Thurs and is telling you exactly why she can't make it on Wed. If she didn't give a shit she wouldn't have been so mature about all the logistics. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 02:51 PM |
| 12 | Dudes who used to have short fuses, how did you evolve to DGAF over moderate to highly fuse-lighting stuff?Watch it man he's wearing American flag-patterned parachute pants. You think you want a roundhouse kick to the face when he's wearing those bad boys? | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Dudes who used to have short fuses, how did you evolve to DGAF over moderate to highly fuse-lighting stuff?I've always channeled a lot of anger into exercise, whether it's lifting, boxing, or running. But I definitely don't prescribe to this mushy "turn the other cheek" or "avoid confrontation at all costs" mentality that's been fostered here. Controlled anger, used sparingly, directed where it should be, can be effective. But the out-of-control rage you suggest, yeah, lifting the fuck out of some weights, or banging the fiance extra rough. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 07:25 PM |
| 6 | LTR of 2 years denies intimacyToo young to marry, too old to be a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 2 years denies intimacyHow old are you? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 02:36 PM |
| -1 | How to increase my libido?What about things like sunshine, getting enough rest, some competitive outlet? Any chance you're over-training? Your T can drop from that, combined with too little rest. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | In a bit of a predicament guys, GF wants to go out with friends, I'm broke, more in description. What to do?She wants to show you off. It's going to look pretty weak if you're a no-show and the g/f has to tell everyone, "He wanted to come but he's broke." There's really no way you can get enough cash for a night out, a couple drinks, that sort of thing? | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 04:32 PM |
| -5 | Confronting the Need For ValidationWTF did I just read... | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it true my mindset “is going to change when I hit 30”? I wanna bang hoes for life I never want to settleI'm in a relationship and building a family because I want to. Your lifestyle and opinions will evolve over time, hopefully, because otherwise you're not learning anything new. If you still feel that way at 30 and beyond, have at it. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with spare timeSo you work a job, exercise, and consume media. People who do boring things are boring. If YOU cannot fill YOUR time with things that excite you, it's your own damn fault. What do you like to do? What are you passionate about? No one can tell you what your hobbies are or what you should be interested in. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 02:23 PM |
| 9 | I´m 18 and moving to AustraliaYeah you should focus on more realistic goals. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | "Why didn't you ask me out again?"Why overthink this? Tell her she flaked and didn't attempt to re-schedule, so you moved on. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | I´m 18 and moving to AustraliaYou need to get your finances in order before moving across the world. Do you know what the conversion rate is between the two currencies? How much do you have saved up? Is there housing available in AUS you can afford? What wage can you reasonably expect to get in AUS when you first get there? What are you going to do for transportation? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/19 06:45 PM |
| 8 | What is the best red pilled response to this text I got from my LTR today.Reads like she's wanting you to climb down out of her ass. Have you been unusually needy or something? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Lost my cool in front of whole office, now everyone avoiding meOh, this is the shit office gossipers live for. You apologized to the person you shouted at, which is the most important thing. If I were you I'd proactively mention it to your boss before the rumors get too ridiculous. Something along the lines of, "I lost my cool with Janice because xyz but she didn't deserve that response so I apologized to her and she seemed to accept it...." Something like that. It's really all politics from this point, if you're the new guy and people like Janice, then y… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 03:36 PM |
| 4 | I’ve nexted her and now she brings me food and tells me I owe her “breakfast”... what he hell??Ah. Not as impressive, and it puts the breakfast comment in a new light. Still a positive gesture though. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I’ve nexted her and now she brings me food and tells me I owe her “breakfast”... what he hell??If a woman is making you food, that is a good sign. Seems like she practically asked to spend the night with you. If you're interested in her, you need to pursue her. Don't overthink it. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Watching reruns of sitcoms is almost unbearable after taking TRP. Has anyone else noticed this?I re-watched some of The Office and realized how much I hate Jim. He's a smug asshole who ridicules everyone around him and thinks he's above them. I actually respect the Dwight character more, at least he's interesting and true to himself. My least favorite character is Raymond from "Everybody Loves Raymond." Spineless wimp. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Shit test, how do you answer her if she asks if you’ve ever been in a fight?Tell the truth. Don't waste your time on clever shit. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Competent but get more tasks than normal in workplace.Ah, you're seeing the other side of the curtain. If you're getting exposure with the bosses and opportunities to delegate, you're being groomed for higher levels of responsibility. If you're just being told to do additional menial tasks and not given any credit or opportunity to lead others, then your boss has pegged you as someone who will just take it while others may push back. Average or incompetent folks will always be left alone though, no one wants them in the mix. Think back to t-ball an… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Do you really need to be wealthy in order to be successful with women?Now, I ain't sayin' she a gold digger, But she ain't messin' with no broke niggas. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Study Abroad: Dublin or London?Been to both. Personally I'd pick London, more cosmopolitan and interesting. Dublin is fine to visit but I wouldn't want to stay there long-term. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/18 05:28 PM |
| 0 | Semi-LTR slept with Best friendBefore you remove him from your life completely, make sure you punch him right in the fooking mouth. It has nothing to do with her and everything to do with your best friend thinking he can disrespect you at that level with no consequences. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 06:42 PM |
| 302 | LTR Deleted our pics together."LTR" "2 months" Methinks someone over-invested. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/18 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Blue pilled beta wants to have a talk with how me about how I treat womenI think ignoring is weak. Just tell him you're not interested in that conversation and carry on. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/18 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Where to start with meditationI'm more old school, I don't think apps have any place in meditation. I recommend any books by Alan Watts or D.T. Suzuki, or see if a local organization has any beginning meditations classes you can attend. Start by learning from people who know what they're fucking doing, not some bullshit phone app. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect your LTR to prioritize you over friends during the weekend?That's a turrible idea. A guilt trip is no way to act. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Got a date with a girl that’s 5’11 on SundayWhatever you do, do not bring up height. You don't want to be that guy. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you expect your LTR to prioritize you over friends during the weekend?I wouldn't call 4 months a LTR. You need to be careful, it reads like you're not really making any dates. If you don't live together and you're only 4 months in, she could be going out with her friends because the alternative is bumming around with you. She wants to have fun. Now if you plan a date well in advance and invite her, and then she says something like "Let me see what the girls are doing first" then you may as well find a new g/f b/c then you're clearly the back-up plan. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:03 PM |
| 3 | Sexuality problemsHow old are you? | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | We Have ChangedMeant to be tongue-in-cheek? People are "missing" it because that means you don't really believe what you wrote. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/18 03:25 PM |
| 4 | What can we do on an individual level to get r/theRedPill unquarantined ?I don't think there's much given the power imbalance. It doesn't matter if there are 300K supporters of that particular sub, reddit is ruled by a handful of technocrats who can erase cyber-communities with a few clicks. Welcome to the dawning of a new age. Maybe it will inspire a increase in local men's clubs. Here's hoping. It's getting pretty bad. This place is degrading into nothing but porn, instragramy photo battles, and leftist echo chambers where users case karma thru posting vapid nonc… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring shit tests: Can this be seen as not standing up for yourself and being a doormat?I hate the overuse of the word "triggered." It conveys a trivial scenario where passion, (mainly anger) is weak and misguided. Controlled and properly focused anger is absolutely necessary sometimes and it seems you used it appropriately. When it comes to "yelling at me in front of other people," I hope you didn't essentially take her apology too soon, she may think all she has to do is turn-on her sexuality and then you'll forget. It may have been better to drop her ass off at her place and tel… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/18 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Efforts to ban TRP have surfaced once again"-censorship becomes more and more likely each day. Speak the truth and stand up for it." Stand up for it after discussing ways to hide? One or the other, shit or get off the pot. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/18 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men still follow the red pill philosophy when there are so many women against that kind of thinking?Bingo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/18 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Should I shut the fuck up all the time if I have nothing to say?Find a group of friends who share your interests and who lead a lifestyle you respect. Either hanging with a bunch of losers or being alone is a false choice. There are other alternatives. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Should I shut the fuck up all the time if I have nothing to say?I think you need to re-consider your role. Either raise them up, as a leader, or don't associate with them. I don't know why you'd attach yourself to a group like that. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Having trouble deciding on my next move.I've read thru this several times. It doesn't appear there's any flirting going on from either of you. She's reading your cues and they're neutral. I think the opportunity passed you by unfortunately. If your "battleplan" consists of either "getting her more wasted" or pursuing other girls, why not just pursue other girls? I think you're zeroed in on this girl for no good reason, there are probably other girls around sending you signals you're not even catching. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 06:07 PM |
| 1 | 1 year of TRP-inspired self improvement and I get less attention from women than before.I don't believe that. I think you're conditioned to notice in a particular way and now after a year of improvement you're missing signs. You're at a new level now, the game changed. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Books that helped meBooks that have stuck with me over the years: Anything by Thoreau, specifically Walden. Anything related to Maj. Dick Winters For Whom The Bell Tolls The Prince Meditations by Marcus Aurelius Anything by Alan Watts and when in doubt, I go with autobiographies. Personally I didn't like "How to win friends..," to me it read like "cater to others so they like you" and that message didn't resonate with me. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Possibly psycho coworkerKind of reads like this guy didn't leave high school behind. Just ignore him and stay professional. Look for work buddies elsewhere. Don't submarine your own career for some asshole tho, it'd be stupid to change companies or career because of this. You'll encounter assholes in any workplace. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Whats's happening in the westI haven't followed the Trevor Noah situation too closely, mainly because I've always thought he's...kind of a bitch, so I've never been a fan. What I do know is when you make a career of saying bitchy things to get attention and make money, eventually it'll bite you in the ass. These folks are going out into the world as a grown ass men and women and saying things meant for a juvenile sitting around the lunch table at school with their pimple-faced buds. So in my mind, they're get what's coming … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 08:06 PM |
| 13 | Why most very-high-value men get married instead of following their supposed "sexual imperative"?"Marriage is an important part of getting ahead. It lets people know you're not a homo. A married guy seems more stable. People see the ring, they think 'at least somebody can stand the son of a bitch.' Ladies see the ring, they know immediately that you must have some cash, and your cock must work." -Captain Ellerby, The Departed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/18 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Currently abroad in Europe, where the fuck is the magic?I don't know dude, reads like..."How do I do interesting things?" No one over there owes you anything. Just go outside, go get lost...do something...anything. There's no fucking playbook and that's SUPPOSED to be part of the magic. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:12 PM |
| 15 | What is up with girls and their obsession to be impossibly prettier?"Yet she doesn't take the time to eat well, exercise on a regular basis, read self-improvement books, or gets a job." Well, there you go. She's a victim. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Lets discuss toxic Masculinity."When did society become this fucked?" I think it's when we started losing wars. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 06:48 PM |
| 1 | "Are you asking or telling" Good response?You didn't ask. Not sure why you wouldn't, now you're committed to waiting to see if her ass shows up at 8pm at your place. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 06:46 PM |
| 9 | How to distract the BFAnd what do you prove by doing this? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 06:04 PM |
| 5 | “I don’t need to drink to have fun” hard next right?Teetotalers who go with the flow are fine, but the ones who make a point to say pious shit like that are up there with bible thumpers. EDIT: You should probably make a point to remind her you didn't invite her to something else, you invited her for drinks. I fucking hate it when people strike down ideas then put the solution back on you. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Being called distant, unfriendly at work?"He told me a lot of the other employees feel uncomfortable because I seem distant and unfriendly." So I take it that you believe him? That some of your coworkers have come to him and expressed that you're distant and unfriendly? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/18 05:43 PM |
| 6 | What should I work most on in the gym?[Pics]I think you need to work on your back, mainly your upper back. This may help with your posture as well. Strengthen your back and the rest of your upper body will follow. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Dude commenting on my girlWell, now you've committed to popping him in the mouth if he says something similar. Hopefully you meant it. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with situations where someone is telling you what to do and how to do it?Sometimes it could be because I'm being a dumbass and someone older and more experienced is correcting me. In those situations, be humble. Other times someone may not know what you're skilled at, so they think they're educating you, when actually you could run circles around them. In those situations you can ignore, stoically acknowledge and continue on, but maybe you don't like them or they're making a scene. Those situations are especially fun because you can embarrass them and they'll correct… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | What do you wish you did more of when you were in your early 20s?Best financial decision I made was buying Tesla right after their car won Car of the Year and Tesla became a household name. Worst financial decision, selling it a couple months later... | /r/askTRP | 28/06/18 07:43 PM |
| 4 | What would you rate meI"m glad the Seahawks got you a little help with your o-line this year. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/18 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Choreplay isn’t choreplay- it’s men finally stepping up to the plate and taking on some of the mental loadI don't even understand the term "choreplay," Like "foreplay?" What kind of wimp tries to get sex by doing chores? You do chores because they need to be done...that's why they're called "chores." It's about improving your environment and keeping your standard of living to YOUR standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | What type of martial arts should I learn?I've found it's dependent on the training available to you in your area. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:36 PM |
| 20 | Question about what to do with women you're talking to but you aren't quite where you'd like to be in the gym department.If you're waiting for perfection, you're going to be waiting a long time. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys lift for strength or size?I lift for health, and strength/size gains are a byproduct of that. Sometimes I do reps of 5, recently I got bored, dropped weight, and I'm now doing reps of 15. I'm trying to gain endurance and durability in order to align with some other fitness goals I have. I don't view lifting as an end goal in itself any more, I want lifting to help me achieve some other objective. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Older redpillers, what advice would you give to your 20-something selves?Stretch more. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 06:26 PM |
| 1 | What your wife wishes she could say to you but can’t because you’re a bitchThis is turrible. Just turrible. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 5 | I don't want to have thin listless boyfriend anymore, how can I pressure/convenience him to get strong body? (F28/M22, he weighs 160 lbs, 6'2)If you feel you have to remodel your man, he's not the right man. By the time he fills out naturally, you'll be pushing 40 anyways. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 7 | MeditationDo you think you need a computer to meditate? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 03:56 PM |
| 3 | I don't want to have thin listless boyfriend anymore, how can I pressure/convenience him to get strong body? (F28/M22, he weighs 160 lbs, 6'2)How much do you weigh? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/18 03:53 PM |
| 2 | gf wont let me eat her out even though she asked me to the other dayThen tell her it's your pussy and you'll do what you want with it. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:26 PM |
| 2 | gf wont let me eat her out even though she asked me to the other daySpank her. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:22 PM |
| 12 | How to deal with "size" insecurityWhy would you be insecure in the face of someone who goes out of their way, on a first date, to make their genitalia preferences clear? Do what you want with her but don't act like someone like that deserves any respect. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 07:16 PM |
| 4 | U.S. Births At All Time LowI was raised on a farm. If we had an animal born who couldn't sustain itself, whether it be deformed or whatever, it was allowed to die. There was an understanding it wasn't meant for this world. It's how very species self-regulates. It's like we're not courageous enough to embrace death any more. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm 5'11. Yet I feel insecure when I see guys or gals taller than me.God I wish these were still the biggest types of problems I had. There will always be someone taller, stronger, more handsome, richer, and probably someone who could fuck your g/f better than you. Get. Over. It. Or keep wasting time chasing fantasies. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 03:03 PM |
| 2 | What cologne do you wear?Is that the one that has Johnny Depp in the ads? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/18 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Her differing opinions on my improved physique.I think these are fairly cynical responses. She's complimenting you. The results of your behavior are attractive to her and she's verbalizing it to you. I don't see the problem. Maybe she'd like to feed you. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | keeping people dependent vs providing valueI don't think there's anything wrong with explaining your style when in a position where others report to you. Everyone has quirks, and giving people a head's up on yours, in my experience, helps you build rapport and iron out many would-be communication issues. By and large, I've got to where I am by "providing value" by showing others how I do things. I was literally just writing a little note to save for myself because after today's promotions, everyone person who has been promoted within my … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 07:06 PM |
| 2 | How to stop getting embarrassed easilyExposure. If you're interested in embracing new challenges and pushing your boundaries, embarrassment comes with the territory. Either you embrace embarrassment or you're at risk of reverting to a very timid existence and staying there. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Accepting hard noHaha. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Learn The Sex Secrets of the Palestinian Buda: DJ KhalidThey can't, they won't, they never will, stop the party. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/18 08:30 PM |
| 2 | RP behavior with someone badmouthing youSocial media drama is the lowest form of drama. If someone has a genuine problem with you, but won't say it to your face, then they're a coward. If he continues to insult you, then tell him exactly that to his face and see how he responds. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on RedPilling a fifteen year old boy.At that age I think it's best to model the behavior you want to see. I suggest taking him somewhere to do something dangerous where there is no cell phone reception. Nothing where you're just watching others do exciting things, but something participatory. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Large areolas giving bad self esteemStep one: Stop calling them breasts. Most people have abnormalities. For example, my right hand is largely fucked up due to nerve damage, two fractures on different fingers, and countless sprains. You'll be fine, if anything it sounds like you may want to get leaner. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | i need help beating my beta side"...go and try, expect to fail and fail hard until you succeed." That's universal wisdom. If you don't try something, you'll never have any experience with it. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/18 07:34 PM |
| 16 | Why is every openly bi chick a bit weird ?I cringed recently after the Parkland shooting when the Emma girl gave her speech or whatever it was, "My Name is Emma González. I’m 18 years old, Cuban and bisexual." I thought Jesus girl...that's literally how you introduced yourself to hordes of strangers. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 05:36 PM |
| 46 | What are side hustles you have worked on in your spare time that bring you extra income on top of a full-time job or study?When I was younger, I flipped men's road bicycles. Buy for $40, sell for $100, repeat. It was incredibly easy and fun and made for some quick spending cash. I did that for about 3 years in my spare time and sold roughly 60-80 bikes. I don't even like riding bikes. A year ago I started renting out a house I own. That has been pretty fun as well. Each time I get that rental cash I feel like a king. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How should I respondMaybe tell her what you want to do. Try that. Not everything is a game. No one is going to give you karma points or any other bullshit depending on how "cool" your response is to her. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 5 | From Pulling to SexYou're not pulling her ass cheeks apart far enough. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 05:26 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with verbal abuse off your gf?Drop her. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Venting. Let me have it. Advice or ridicule."I'm 30 she is 21." I stopped after that.... Emotionally and mentally, she's practically a child in today's society. Act accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How does TRP handle ltr being late?Absolutely. Respecting your time is non-negotiable, and that goes for anyone, anywhere. Not just your girl. I'll caveat this by adding there is a difference between someone occasionally being late who keeps you updated they will be late, versus someone who agrees to meet at "6" then casually strolls in at 7:30 with zero fucks and makes a habit of doing so. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 01:09 AM |
| 33 | How to respond to "what do you do for a living" if you're unemployed?The best response would be to get a job. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/18 07:54 PM |
| 6 | The SERIOUS Importance of Vitamin D (trust me, read details within)Love it man. HIGHER FUCKING TESTOSTERONE LEVELS & LOWER ESTROGEN FUCKS PROMOTES DAYTIME FUCKING WAKEFULNESS & BETTER NIGHT TIME SLEEP QUALITY BOOSTS YOUR FUCKING IMMUNE SYSTEM PROMOTES MOTHERFUCKING MUSCLE STRENGTH & INTEGRITY HELPS YOUR FUCKING DICK MAINTAINS THAT FUCKING BONE HEALTH PROTECTS AGAINST FUCKING ALZHEIMER'S WE DON'T GET ENOUGH FUCKING SUNLIGHT I'm motivated as shit right now. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/18 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Dating a hermit - should I take her aloofness seriously?Not everyone takes their phone seriously. Consider it a blessing. Pre-2000, this incessant texting/snapchatting/twittering wasn't even a thing. Suggesting someone is a "social retard" based on the indication she keeps her phone at arm's length...is retarded. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/18 02:22 PM |
| 3 | The Daddy KinkIt's not incestual (necessarily), I think it's more about the paternal vibe you're putting off in your dynamic with her. Roll with it and see where you go. Be careful labeling her your LTR after dating her for two weeks. You don't know the depth of her kink. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 03:59 PM |
| 6 | Is it worth studying lifes of celebrities/important persons?Of course. Autobiographies even better, in my opinion. Access to the greatest minds who have ever lived literally in your hands. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Any past U.S. military officers or SEALs on trp?Yes. My advice would be to go after SEALs now if that's what you want, that's not the type of thing you procrastinate about. You may be in "great" shape now but can you guarantee that in a couple years? Injuries happen. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Let’s share, how do you organize your to do list?I tend to avoid tech so for the most part so I use pencil and paper and minimize the amount of "tracking" I do since I found it distracting. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Another attractive girl asking for number when the girlfriend is presentThis place overuses the shit out of that term. It's like the overly manly man meme, if you're not putting cigarettes on your sandwich then you're a wimp. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Another attractive girl asking for number when the girlfriend is presentYou're assuming I would live thru the experience and not catch a fork to the eyeball. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Does the "dont shit were you eat" rule apply to highschool too?That's a great explanation for when you don't have a prom date. "Nah man, I just don't shit where I eat." | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Is fighting ever justified?Yes, it is. I'm surprised at the number of pacifists here with seemingly endless variations of, "No way man you might get in trouble" cop-out to avoid fighting when a fight is brought to you. Sometimes you have to pop someone in the mouth when they're not getting the hint. It's how the world works. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Would it look "weak" to carry a retractable night stick?I always figured a car key to the eye-socket if it really came down to me or him. Nothing wrong with carrying, personally I respect carrying something like a small nightstick over a gun. Hard for that to malfunction and you don't have to worry about negligent discharges and where the bullet may end up. Obviously be careful exposing it, you may just escalate the situation to find out you brought a nightstick to a gun fight. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 06:53 PM |
| -1 | Is it possible to bang a christian girl?Joseph got cucked by God. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Ex has new boyfriendAll I had to do was read the title: "Ex has a new boyfriend." What'd you think was going to happen? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Made out with the girlfriend who is not over her exI think you handled it spot-on, as long as you maintain your distance and realize she's not your g/f right now. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a tall weak man on how to learn to do a pull up/inverted row?Ah I see, thanks. Just never heard it called that. I did that in officer candidate school. Pull-ups before and after chow. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Spending almost entire day, every day in front of a screen.I think you're struggling with something if you gotta come on here and basically ask how to have a life. Don't kids these days at least fucking rebel against something? Do that. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a tall weak man on how to learn to do a pull up/inverted row?What's "paying the toll"? Peaked my interest with your comment on grip. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 10:48 PM |
| 3 | Anyone has any experience with going deodorant/antiperspirant free?I think there's a lot of information in scent and taste that modern society doesn't value like it should, so I think going natural can send signals and you can expect a response from those signals. We seem to equate hygiene with lacing ourselves in artificial scents, and that's simply not true. You can be clean without drenching yourself in fragrance from detergent, shampoo, face wash, deodorant, toothpaste, cologne, body wash, etc. My girlfriend seems to really enjoy my natural odor when I don'… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:03 PM |
| 10 | Walked in on herMaybe it was the Big Bang Theory. That'd fuck with OP's head. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Why do I always become unattracted to women once they're into me?Usually some fucked up psychological thing. Like you think you're unworthy or something like that. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 03:55 PM |
| 8 | I wanna see you shittestQuit using a filter, that's practically admitting to wearing makeup. We're taking your fucking man-card. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | 18 y/o guy, I'm about 5' 6 3/4"-5'7". Doctor told me I'll prob grow another 1-2 inches max. I accept myself but I'd still like to be taller. Is there anything I can do?Well, 7yr old me would say play basketball. But then I got older and realized that's not how it works. Nope, you are what you are. You'll accept it in time. | /r/askTRP | 06/03/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | need advice on this girls intentions?She's not that into you. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why should you block/delete an ex on social media?Why have them there if you don't follow them in any way? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How to constantly be mindful of trp ideals?Lay off your mom tho. I'm 33 and my mom still thinks I can't get myself up without her help, despite the prior military service with 0300 wake-ups and whatnot and holding down various jobs since I was 12. It's a mom thing, she wants to feel needed. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 05:17 PM |
| 2 | LTR (now ex) using "tough" past as excuse for poor behaviorShe had a tumultuous, scrappy upbringing with a broken home and you had a comfortable, seemingly middle-class life. What you have essentially is a difference in social status. Typically those relationships don't last, too much cultural difference. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Do neutral women every forget?"The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference." People who don't give a shit about you are not neutral. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:50 PM |
| 5 | My Girl (25) Left Me For A Fat Old Rich GuyI don't think you "get into" a LTR, it happens when you've been with someone who has earned it. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Fell in love with a manipulative whoreWhat is the best revenge you can think of, outside of hurting her? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Fell in love with a manipulative whoreIt's not a threat, it's a promise. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 04:07 PM |
| 1 | BP PTSDI think you need to find resources to help you understand that 22yr old you is not 33yr old you. Spirituality, religion, philosophy, whatever. Kill your past, it doesn't exist except in your head. You're the only one giving life to these demons you're carrying around. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 8 | "This was the longest I've ever been in a relationship, so you should take pride in that"No, don't start the whole, "Think of a clever response so we can all fantasize about delivering it when it actually mattered and how good it would have felt." She sounds immature. Move on, you dodged a bullet. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 04:39 PM |
| 0 | Says she had a bf but would love to be friendsHere's your sign. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How can I utilise my anger?Improve your condition by creating and sustaining positive feedback loops. Wreck yourself at the gym. You have to channel that negative energy into something positive. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 07:25 PM |
| -2 | What do you wish you had known when you were my age (18)?Embrace being skinny, the dudes who pack on muscle now will fade by their mid-20s, meanwhile your metabolism will slow and you'll hit your stride. I saddened to see so many young guys obsess over their weight, knowing what I know now at 33. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius, what do I need to know before I start?You have it, just read it. Jesus, the planning paralysis, asking for opinions from dumbasses on the interwebs when you literally have the source material from one of the greatest minds who ever existed. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 05:29 PM |
| 10 | How do I stop being such a cuck?You gotta tell us what the dark secret is. Plus you have the most entertaining post history I've seen. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Supplements and DietI take omega 3s for my heart because all the men in my family drop dead of heart attacks. My blood pressure is lower when I regularly take omega 3s. Ashwagandha for stress and anxiety, given I'm caged in an office all day with a long commute. There are secondary effects of lowering bad cholesterol and boosting energy levels. Creatine for recovery since I lift/run several times a week. At my age, it really is more about recovery than aesthetics. Beautiful supplement. I use a green superfood powde… | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | I want to take action financially but need directionYou should focus on your course of study and ensuring it's not a waste of time financially and that your interests and talents align with it. Maybe there's a career office on campus, I remember spending a lot of time there as a frosh b/c I wanted to make sure I had a solid game plan career-wise. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How many hours do you work per week?I get paid for 37.5 hrs/week. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 07:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do women like to wear our clothes?Same reason you like to sniff their panties. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "you look angry all the time" when you have resting bitch faceDo men have resting bitch face? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 08:16 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to a non-commital response to asking a girl outNot if he's setting the deadline. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 06:48 PM |
| -2 | How to respond to a non-commital response to asking a girl out"Ok let me know by tomorrow though so I can make other plans if you're busy with your friend" I think that's an excellent way of enforcing proper boundaries on so many levels. It comes down to basic planning ahead, discipline, keeping her word, prioritizing, respecting your time, etc. If she fails to understand all that then you're dealing with a child and not a valuable woman. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 05:10 PM |
| 5 | Girls on phonesDepends on the context. If you're on a formal date and she's doing it at the table, big deal. If you're both in the living room and staring at the TV in your pajamas, not as much. However if you ever get the sense she PREFERS her phone universe to your company, then break up with her. She's wasting your time. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | My female coworkers keep telling me my wife should stop being a house wife.My guess is they're giving you the stink-eye because she's a housewife with no kids. So yeah, there's an implication that she's not doing much of anything since childcare is typically the main reason someone is a housewife. That being said, your home is your castle. You shouldn't expect others, especially those of the opposite sex, to understand or agree with your lifestyle. Nor should you care. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/18 05:00 PM |
| 0 | I'm freaking out about collegeYou just haven't found the unattractive girls yet. Try the math/science building, that's typically where they hide. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/18 08:56 PM |
| 11 | NoFap: Does it work or should it be avoided?You answered yourself. You were jerking it three times a day and claim you were using excessive porn, and you indicate you think you're still a virgin because you were content blowing your own load instead. To me that says you had an issue and you're working to correct it. I wouldn't dismiss the folks in that subreddit based on your assumptions of their lifestyle, no more than I'd dismiss you given you're a virgin who up-until-recently vice-gripped his dick morning, noon, and night. Personally I… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How to handle girl that's always lateIs she spending extra time prepping her appearance because she's trying to impress you? | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Go to lesson or to gym in the morning?Why wouldn't you just go to the whole lesson then gym in the afternoon? | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Late because she got lostAbsolutely. I assume this was a first date. You had a basis to leave by 1:15pm. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Correlation between female attraction to "bad boys" and high testosterone?However, so does brain damage. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 08:09 PM |
| 1 | In college, what should I focus on?I'm firmly in the camp that you go to college for an education, everything else is secondary. Don't piss it away chasing tail and getting drunk/stoned. You have the wrong frame, as if college is either "focus on women" or "ignore them entirely." It's about building the foundation for your future. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "Whats up"Personally that'd piss me off because it's pretty low effort, to the point it's worth ignoring. But you should come to your senses and realize she's wanting you to invite her over. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Is eugenics "self improvement"?I think it's hard to deny that a society would improve biologically from selective reproduction, but it can't be done without severely violating individual rights. I do think that physically, we're becoming weaker as a species and it will have lasting consequences we either don't see or don't want to acknowledge. More people survive now, in spite of genetic abnormalities or failure to adapt to environmental factors, whereas a century ago, they would have died and lessened the likelihood of passi… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Is eugenics "self improvement"?Historical cherry-picking, really. The eugenics movement had traction in several western countries by the early 1900s. Hell, my own state (USA) sanctioned sterilizing people within the past 100 years. After the Nazis took eugenics to its horrific conclusion, governments and the medical community had to immediately distance themselves from any lingering pro-eugenic policies. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | How to handle cougar's high expectations?I don't see the problem here, it's really just up to you and your preference. Just make sure you're being safe about everything. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:55 PM |
| 11 | Military ServiceAgreed. Don't kill yourself, don't rape anyone. Make sure you treat the transgenders nicely or they'll sue and it'll cost us money. Oh and if you happen to learn some war-fighting skills along the way, that'd be nice too. Just don't offend anyone while you're at it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 08:40 PM |
| 2 | how do you deal with those people who always interrupt you and redirect the conversation to some other storey about themselves??People who only talk about themselves at gatherings are obnoxious and self-centered, has nothing to do with social status or any "move." | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 05:08 PM |
| 2 | Keeping the mind busy - how do you guys do it?I'm assuming you're referring to women. You have to actually have a hobby to fill up your schedule. Do you? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | {rant} I'm having anger/regret issues about my stupid whore of an ex. How do I deal with this.There's no controlling that tho man, she obviously doesn't value herself. Just be thankful you didn't knock her up. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Self improvement question - how do you get over burnout?You have to "ruthlessly eliminate hurry from your life." Take time to reflect on what, in your day, does not add meaningful value to your life and eliminate it. Hobbies will fall away, peoples' feelings will be hurt. But if you're burned out, then something isn't working and you have to re-evaluate. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend says doesn't hang out with me but hangs out with her friendsShe's not your girlfriend. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys eat ass?Well done. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Sexual misconduct round III'm starting to think there's a witch-hunt going on and it's being stirred up by the media. Let's dig up every off-colored exchange made by a male within the past 40 years and allege "harassment." There are more than enough legitimate crimes that need resolution but I think a lot of the media, and of course, NPR, are intentionally trying to find "boogeymen" for attention-grabbing headlines. I used to have a lot more respect for NPR but anymore I can't listen for more than 10 minutes without thei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/17 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some redpill counter-arguements to MeToo?I'd challenge it if it's important to you. It's better to stand your ground and say what you mean. A lot of these other responses seem wimpy to me. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 01:35 PM |
| 2 | What's the alpha and proper way to handle this situation?I feel like this is that Simpsons episode where Ned's parents tell the shrink, "You gotta help us, Doc. We've tried nothing and we're all out of ideas." Seems like she is (was) into you, you two went out, you got scared, and now it's obvious to her and her friends you don't intend to make a move, but you're torn about whether she's "snapchat worthy." Do you like her? If so, kiss her. If not, delete her from your shit because she's not your buddy. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 04:35 AM |
| -2 | Found out gf (20) slept with a black guy before and it makes me angry for some reason. Is it insecurity or what and how do I fix this situation.I have no idea what your problem is. Actually, I do. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 04:23 AM |
| 0 | Why isnt there a red pill youtube channel?Replace "men" with "communism" and you basically summarized "Das Kapital." I don't think quitting is widely regarded as a way to victory. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Wtf should I just next her?The difference is that she offered up a solution by proposing alternate times, and she offered up Friday, which is promising. You're really only losing out on a weeknight early-evening "15 minute" meet-and-greet. I wouldn't "next" already her but don't give her another chance after this either. Now that I'm reading the other responses, I'm basically repeating what this other dude wrote anyways. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Stuff you can do without your right handReally? You don't have a general idea of what can be done when you have an injured hand? Don't make us answer dumb questions. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. I'm considering joining an instructional hockey league next fall, recently hiked a mountain in NZ, and I'm in a fantasy football league which has been a lot of fun. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've hiked a mountain and I'm considering joining an instructional hockey league. And fantasy football. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've had a lot of fun ice skating with hockey skates (considering an instructional league next fall) and climbing a mountain in New Zealand, wasn't high by mountain standard but way higher above sea level than I've ever hiked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've had a lot of fun ice skating with hockey skates (considering an instructional league next fall) and climbing a mountain in New Zealand, wasn't high by mountain standard but way higher above sea level than I've ever hiked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've had a lot of fun ice skating with hockey skates (considering an instructional league next fall) and climbing a mountain in New Zealand, wasn't high by mountain standard but way higher above sea level than I've ever hiked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've had a lot of fun ice skating with hockey skates (considering an instructional league next fall) and climbing a mountain in New Zealand, wasn't high by mountain standard but way higher above sea level than I've ever hiked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel alive?Mainly athletics. Recently I've had a lot of fun ice skating with hockey skates (considering an instructional league next fall) and climbing a mountain in New Zealand, wasn't high by mountain standard but way higher above sea level than I've ever hiked. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:04 PM |
| 4 | Should I make me and my ex's mutual friend my sex slave?There's nothing that nauseates me more than the "nice guy" routine. Your perspective on this situation gives me the creeps and feels slimy. You don't give a fuck about Jasmine or Tiffany, so stop pretending like you do. I doubt you're fooling anyone here. Your actions show you didn't love or respect Jasmine when you were "with" her, now you're feeling guilty because you plan to keep fucking some chick you've been fucking for awhile? This makes no sense. This moral dilemma you're trying to stir u… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting anxiety from NoFapYou're getting anxiety because you're not breaking down a long-term goal (no jerking it for a year) into smaller, more attainable goals. If you're factoring in your edging, you've basically gone what? Zero days without jerking it? And you're jumping straight to a year. You're overwhelmed. You're signing up to fight Mayweather for twelve rounds without visualizing how to survive the first. One day at a time...the longest journey starts with the smallest step, *insert all that clique bullshit abou… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 06:22 PM |
| 2 | "You're going to get tired of having sex with me if we have sex too often""You're assuming you have a say in the matter..." | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you take notes while reading a book?I think if you're reading any book to expand your knowledge then you should take notes. Personally I underline or highlight passages I find noteworthy. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Walking away from a fightYou didn't walk away from anything. Reads like this was all over the phone, which is not a real fight. That's called an "argument." I got excited for nothing. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Old GF texts me 1.5 years after we cut contact. Her first text is a picture exposing her asshole to me... how to proceed?Haha, dating in the 21st century. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 06:11 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on no fap?I think there's a lot of value in it, if one thinks they have a porn addiction and/or spend too much time jerking it. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | My(17m) female best friend(18f) left me for another guy. Need advice..Haha | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand this desire from men to share their weaknesses with women.Hmm, if that community at-large thinks that "insulates" or protects a person from "getting hurt," they're mistaken. People have always enjoyed tearing down others. In fact, I think some feed off it, to the point where they equate openness with sharing weaknesses, and any sharing of strength is "distance," but really just a threat to the recipient's ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I just realized that I care that a woman has to know she's below me in power... why is that?It's because you want to slam that pussy hard. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Older and more seasoned men of askTRP, impart your relationship advice.Most of the time, but not always. You have to delegate too. If you're content to have her strictly follow your example, you'll end up with a female version of you. You want her to align with your values but also compliment you in behavior and strengths, have her pursue and develop talents and interests that stimulate her but also add to your life as well. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Older and more seasoned men of askTRP, impart your relationship advice.Train 'em when they're young. She's young. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand this desire from men to share their weaknesses with women.Can you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand this desire from men to share their weaknesses with women.I think there is vulnerability in sharing strength as well, because I really don't have to share anything if I don't want to. One can be hurt after sharing the strong parts of themselves, just as easily as they can after sharing the weak parts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand this desire from men to share their weaknesses with women.Can one be vulnerable without it being a sharing of weaknesses/doubts/insecurities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:32 PM |
| 5 | I don't understand this desire from men to share their weaknesses with women.I think if it's a healthy sharing, you can vent or share frustrations and not expect your SO to fix your feelings for you. If you expect them to fix your feelings, I think it shows an emotional immaturity or stunting, where feelings are an end in themselves and not a byproduct of the person's moral compass, behavior, and decisions. In other words, I have no idea. I do know that I sniff these types of men out pretty quickly and am quickly repulsed by them. I see them as boys, and frankly so do th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:30 PM |
| 1 | LTR: Dealing with Doubts and Red FlagsYou're both practically kids. What's your gameplan? Proposing when she's 23? Are their any women capable of that at 23 these days outside of religious cults? Stay casual, stay calm. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR: Dealing with Doubts and Red FlagsListen to this man. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 07:54 PM |
| 3 | My(17m) female best friend(18f) left me for another guy. Need advice.."So i had a female best friend. We haven't met." That's a new record for how quickly a post became absurd. | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Is it wrong to want to be diagnosed?I hate the fucking autism bandwagon. You sound young and self-centered. I read descriptions like this everyday and I always think, how much time do you spend on the computer? Video games? Porn? Poor eating habits? What have you done in your life that's dangerous? Have you learned how to fail? When's the last time you stood for something unpopular against the masses because you knew it was right? Mental illness can be a symptom of a life being wasted. There's an epidemic of first-world, 21st cent… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | What is the most abusive thing someone has ever done to you?Ghosting. Quite a mindfuck. Hadn't experienced it before or since. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Redpill adviceAh, I must have missed the part about this being your monthly sex allowance. In that case, just act like you're going to put a hot one in her and instead pull out and nut on her face and tell her she's not getting daddy's sperm where it belongs until she behaves. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Redpill adviceYou serious? Put a hot one in her! | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Concept of jealousy if stupid - we are never jealous, we feel disrespectedI don't know man, I guess I have a different perspective and I'm not sure I can adequately explain it either. It's not about me feeling jealous or disrespected, it's about me feeling disappointed that now because of someone else's poor behavior I have to waste time further evaluating whether that same person is commitment worthy. I'm disappointed that I lost time, not "jealous" or "disrespected" that I may not be the most important or that I may not stack up to someone else. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 06:10 PM |
| 1 | do you respond to girls staring at you?Body language is the bulk of human language. Enter their personal space and see how their body reacts. If it's favorable, say hi. They're availability is already determined before either of you open your mouths. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 05:50 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on my anger...You're 32 and she's 24 and you're her first "relationship." She's practically a teenager by 21st century standards. I'm struggling to figure out what the problem is. She's acting out and you're letting it get to you. Either you want to be with her or you don't. Either embrace your anger and confront her and see where the dust settles or move on without her. She'll get over it and you'll always be that older guy she dated who was a jerk to her and didn't listen to her, etc. etc. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Question on low testosterone in 27 year old and potential solutionsAre you bored? Not excited about life? Perhaps you need some more danger in your day-to-day. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 05:30 PM |
| 8 | A Black girl who prefers white men?Try IKEA or Old Navy. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 07:29 PM |
| 7 | My girl is trying to make me into a cuck. I am not down for that shit.Where there's smoke, there's fire. The fact you're here and needing to ask these questions about what's appropriate behavior for her and what you're supposed to do shows that you're in no way up for this. She doesn't respect you, these dudes don't respect you. It's not even worth an argument it's so out of hand. Just move on, it's not worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | advice on how to proceed or exit LDRAssume it doesn't work out with her. Would you still want to live there? No? Then don't go. Yes? Then go for it, it'd be an adventure. Personally I like taking big risks but you have to have your mind right when you take them. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Boner trouble after 7 months of constant sex with my LTRNormal is a perspective, to an extent. One could make the argument that getting your rocks off 3-4 times daily isn't normal, or healthy. You've exhausted your dick. Find something else to do behinds sex, it'd be good for you and it'd give your nuts a rest. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 06:55 PM |
| 8 | Boner trouble after 7 months of constant sex with my LTRJesus, did you really think 3-4 times a day is sustainable? You're 19, there's one thing on your primitive ape teenage mind right now and that's to spray your seed into a fertile womb as often as possible so your genes live on and you achieve immortality. You think it's a problem because the goalposts have moved in the 21st century. Everybody's fucking, sexting, and has access to hardcore pornography 24/7. Are you still having sex 1-2 times a day? If so, shut the fuck up and enjoy it and get bac… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Finally had sex with her, she got off mid-sex and started crying.Hot. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 03:40 PM |
| 13 | Hb8 french girl wants to hookup with me. I'm mid-smv, insecure af, should I go and disappoint her?Disappoint the shit out of her and enjoy every second of it. All eight of them. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 08:03 PM |
| 2 | What does a LTR offer you that benefits you?Thank you for your service. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | how to become machiavellian?Try Machiavelli. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Bald and Indian doesn't work ever. Prove me wrong.You've already decided for yourself. Nothing else matters. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | A question on energyYou mention a blood disorder below. I think all other speculation stops until you have that figured out and effectively managed. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Nothing excites me anymore...Maybe OP's situation is the motivation for George Mallory. "Why did you want to climb Mount Everest?" "Because it's there." | /r/askTRP | 14/06/17 08:23 PM |
| 3 | What would you say in this situation?I think you've completely missed the intent of this redpill subculture. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Paid for hooker, couldn't get hard. I'm I gay?No, you just had no idea what you were doing. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Join the Army?I think you should join the military because you WANT to join the military. Don't do it from a "I don't know what else to do" stance, otherwise after basic training, you may find yourself wondering what the fuck you were thinking and you can't just give two weeks notice and leave. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/17 07:08 PM |
| 2 | at work: how to make people switch from thinking how shit cant be done into how it canFor the most part, I just blast through it. Sometimes I actively ignore those who speak up just to explain how something can't happen. They lose standing in my eyes and their opinion matters less to me, and I don't care if I make that obvious to the group. Engaging too much with negativity puts you on the defensive and that isn't somewhere you want to be. Always be the one to bring a solution to the table rather than an excuse. Just model that the best you can, you can't ultimately change others… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Went from super nice guy beta to confident, idgaf, calm, but still nice and positive energy, female colleagues suddenly talk shit about meIn my experience groups of women have little in common with the masculine-man-who-has-his-shit-together-and-doesn't-cater-to-them. They're threatened and they sense you won't be pushed around. I think you should take the lead more. They'll still talk shit, because they know you're untouchable, but that's the nature of leadership. People try to tear you down. Keep yourself composed and soon enough you'll be the paternal figure in the group they all look up to. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys give me some contextual examples of IDGAF so that I can get a better idea of this principle?Career: I build a solid reputation over several years doing investigative work for the state. During this period, I also joined the military reserves. After some years went by, I found myself getting comfortable in my position doing investigations and wanted to increase my influence by transferring straight into a larger county that was well-known as being a dumpster fire. I wanted quality work and wanted to help others get to my level and pass on my knowledge. Long story short, one person has a… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men "grow up autistic?" Is half-witted parenting to blame? Or genetics? Or both? Or something else?http://fortune.com/2017/06/07/apple-google-facebook-microsoft-are-battling-augmented-reality/ | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 07:07 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many men "grow up autistic?" Is half-witted parenting to blame? Or genetics? Or both? Or something else?Ponder on the differences in culture for a young man growing up in 1950 versus today. Even throwing around the word "autistic" casually is a recent phenomenon. Maybe you'd like to add to the conversation by asserting an opinion on OP's question. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 06:52 PM |
| 3 | My Filipino Ex Girlfriend ruined Filipinos for meYou sound like my grandma who still thinks all black guys are going to steal her lawn furniture based on that one incident in 1982. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 2 | LTR wants to break up because "lack of comfort + effort" on my partYou've acted like an ass for an extended period of time. There's no reason she shouldn't expect that pattern to continue. She needs to dump you as soon as possible. Also I think if you're honest with yourself, you'd be better off as well. It's one thing to have that drama in the rear-view mirror, but another incident occurred just a couple days ago. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men "grow up autistic?" Is half-witted parenting to blame? Or genetics? Or both? Or something else?It's technology. I think that's pretty obvious, actually. Anxiety and silly parenting have been around forever. What has changed is our culture, which is now starting to dabble in augmented reality. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Will I ever get an erection again?No, I haven't had an experience like this, because I don't have a drug dependency and don't death grip my cock. Come on, man. Knock off the pot. A woman should never have to try that hard to get you hard. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out an Indian girl?Why the focus on "Indian?" Are their cultural differences between you and her you want advice on or something else? | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Need for physical intimacyIf you're still religious, people get a lot of comfort and connection being involved in a church community. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck Up?Nothing. She asked what else you wanted and you told her. But don't negotiate sexual contact. Next time, when she cooks for you, shows it off to you, and brings you some, bang her. By the time she brings it over, she's practically begging for it. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | What are the best reactions to "that guy is so cute" ?Haha. Nah, I'm not interested in that either. If quality masculine advice has degraded into folks recommending to zero on dudes' butts and bulges, I have definitely been away from here too long. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 05:58 PM |
| 0 | wtf is autismQuantity does not equal quality. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What are the best reactions to "that guy is so cute" ?Right, as if complimenting the guy's ass is the way to go. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/17 05:34 PM |
| -2 | What are the best reactions to "that guy is so cute" ?Comment on a cute girl in return. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 08:27 PM |
| 0 | wtf is autismhttps://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/autism-spectrum-disorders-asd/index.shtml | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 07:32 PM |
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