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| 1 | Dilemma | Dweebl | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 11:28 PM | |
| 0 | I don't like the way she smells... yet? | Dweebl | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 05:04 AM | |
| 0 | Made a girl fall in love with me and now I'm in a predicament. | Dweebl | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 10:57 AM |
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| 2 | This is what happened when I posed as a semi-attractive girl on tinder for a little over 8 hours, I give up on life lolcould also be the pics | /r/seduction | 27/06/19 08:07 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Idk who likes one night stands. They're always the worst experience with a girl. I much prefer months in when she can tie me up and I can trust her not to empty my wallet. The popularity of empty sex is pretty confusing. IME it's not good unless I'm actually into the girl. If there's no connection I'd rsther jerk off. Sad to hear that guys here think some minor activity will fix their emotional problems. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:17 PM |
| 7 | Can we get a Karma requirement for this sub?I'd agree that the quality of the sub has declined. Probably makes more sense to just moderate content better instead of create a new sub. I guess that's the nature of the skill though. Once people get to a point where they're confident with women, they have no need for the community. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 05:06 AM |
| 4 | There Is Always Another GirlThe point about reading in the mood they're in is sick. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisThe other half is applying it though. If you tried to apply good material and it didn't work, it usually means it wasn't applied properly. | /r/seduction | 15/04/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisI know you think that's true but it's fucking not. The conversation you're having with yourself is total garbage. There's a lot of material on this sub that can help you figure out where your worth is. Or who knows, maybe you're not good enough right now. That's probably true to be honest, even if it were just based on your self esteem alone. Even if it IS the case that you're not "good enough" whatever that means, it's just a process of understanding what makes a person valuable to women and im… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisThat's the point though. People who are good enough often think they're not good enough. So if you think you're not good enough, you might be wrong. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 06:05 AM |
| 1 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisThe implication was that he thought he was not good enough, and it turned out he was wrong. | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 06:04 AM |
| 4 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisLol he's sharing a positive story about doing something he didn't think he could do. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 3 | If you think you are not good enough, read thisHis point is that he didn't feel like he was good enough before this happened. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | DilemmaWell the date's still going 👌. On our way to breakfast. Keep at it guys <3 | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 02:46 PM |
| 3 | DilemmaLmao I'm in the bathroom at the 7/11 on the way to meet her and there's no toilet paper. Feels like Final Destination | /r/seduction | 30/03/19 01:41 AM |
| 7 | My friend just sent me this when I was feeling down. I hope it helps someone else out there.That's a choice you're making. | /r/seduction | 27/03/19 04:12 AM |
| 35 | Lessons Learned From 17 ApproachesIt's because they've been waiting so long to have the chance to say no. | /r/seduction | 20/03/19 06:41 AM |
| 2 | How to go from the next level from just acquaintances?Ask her at the library where you see her every day. And then appear in her closet later to show your interest level. | /r/seduction | 12/03/19 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How to go from the next level from just acquaintances?How did you get her number? Either way, it's usually probably best to ask in person. | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?That's what I'm saying though! You started by doing other stuff, and you also work in other industries, so that makes sense. I know so many people in their early 20s who want to get into motivational speaking as a career goal. I get what the appeal is for them, but it's a funny contradiction. | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 05:49 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?Motivational speaking as a career goal is such a paradox. People just want to be a rockstar without the music. The only motivational speakers should be people who've done crazy shit in their life and got into speaking afterward. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Anyone else tired of picking up/gaming chicks?It's definitely up there. What were/are you doing for work? | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Advice for guys: don't take the friend zone as a forever situation and don't disrespect the girl friendzoning you.Don't ever disrespect women for rejecting you in any capacity. It's not their fault they don't like you. | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold hold long and interesting conversation after 1+ yearNo sweat, man! Happy to help. Make the most of college ;) | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold hold long and interesting conversation after 1+ yearYeah. I mean also if you're 19 and in college, the pool of quality women is WAY higher. I think you'll forget about her quickly. That doesn't mean that it was all in vain though. If it was good for a while, it's worthwhile. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold hold long and interesting conversation after 1+ yearOh ok. Yeah don't worry, man. As you get older, you don't need to be having conversations over text. No offense, but it just sounds like the expectations of a high school girl. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Pulling A One-Night Stand: 17 quick tips for nightgameYeah that's what I mean though. I think in OP's advice he's referring to a place that's closed earlier. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you hold hold long and interesting conversation after 1+ yearI don't think I've ever had a long conversation over text. Do you mind if I ask how old you guys are? | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Do you hold hold long and interesting conversation after 1+ yearYeah I still have long conversations with my girlfriend after 5+ years of being together. It's not all day every day, but we can and do still get into good discussions and I still enjoy talking to her. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Pulling A One-Night Stand: 17 quick tips for nightgame4 or 5? Where do you live? Maybe he means in North America where there's very few regions with clubs regularly open past 2 or 3am. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Asked for snapchat, said she doesn't give it out earlyJust say ok and keep going. | /r/seduction | 12/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 17 | 12 Quick Simple Tips For Being Confident Around Your CrushI'd love to put her on a pedestal and see her pee though. Between two parked cars. On a well-lit street. 5th and Main. | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 06:14 PM |
| 6 | First, let me say this community is amazing I'm a little frustrated this is only for males BECAUSE it's assisted me so!You definitely have to filter through some shit advice though. Sometimes there's garbage that gets up to the top, and I think that's what puts people off of the community. People see one stupid idea and assume that represents the whole thing. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 06:55 PM |
| 12 | Is it wrong to hit up women on 23andme?Yeah but if she's dtf | /r/seduction | 15/12/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.Sorry yeah I missed that part. Sounds like a normal interaction. Sucks that she posted the number. I don't agree with /u/Snazzy_Serval that you shouldn't have asked her unless she showed interest. I think the best strategy with girls who are working is acknowledging that they're working. As he said, it can put them in a shitty situation where they don't know if you're going to flip out or tip less Simple stuff like "feel free to say no", or "saying no won't affect your tip", always with a smile.… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Lol I gave this chick my number and she put it on her IG story for everyone to see. And yes I had to block my own number to post here. I usually get the girls number but she was cashier and there was a huge line behind her. Only reason I know this is because someone who works with her texted me.K wait though, how did the interaction go? 100% she shouldn't have posted your number, but I can totally imagine scenarios where guys deserve some shit for the way they hit on a girl at work. I think it's decent to be extra respectful when I try to open a girl who's working, and it's usually just an "i'm flattered but no" if I don't end up getting her number. Also why'd you give her yours and not ask for hers? I'm sure some people will disagree but IME it just takes the interaction out of your h… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 04:21 PM |
| 9 | “Let’s have a threesome with your boyfriend”I think you might be an idiot. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 07:39 AM |
| 3 | How To Become An Epic Story-Teller (a fun exercise)Almost every piece of dialogue has some sort of narrative structure. There's a fundamental quality about the way humans process information, and the closer you can come to a way of communicating that resonates with that structure, the better and more deeply you'll be understood. A big problem people have in being captivating speakers is that even though they might have good information or something interesting to say, they present it wrong and it doesn't mean anything for the listener. In this c… | /r/seduction | 03/11/18 04:23 PM |
| 6 | How To 10x Your Confidence With Women By Entering A Flow StateVoila* | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 07:41 AM |
| 8 | During meditation, I had this realization about an ego trap I would always fall intoBeen fuckin Regan for weeks. | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Frat PartiesIt's really important NOT to get down on yourself or think that you suck because of a lack of these skills. I'm not saying that's how you feel, but it's a trap some people fall into. Make sure you're comfortable being uncomfortable in this new environment because there will always be a bit of nerves. That said, there's lots of good ways of how to open girls for dancing or for conversation at a party, so you can do a search through the subreddit. Try any one of those and see which work for you, a… | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 09:22 PM |
| 0 | 8 First Date Mistakes That Turn Girls Off (And How to Avoid Them)Seems pretty untrue in my experience. That might be your policy, but is definitely not true of most of the women I've been with. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Weird thing happened when I stopped oneitisIf you don't feel like it, don't do it. But I would say that you might find it worthwhile to push yourself to meet up with them. You'll definitely have a more worthwhile experience going out and meeting someone (as long as you actually think they might be fun to be around) than staying home. | /r/seduction | 04/05/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Seducing my exThe best way to do this is date someone else. | /r/seduction | 29/04/18 08:52 PM |
| 9 | The "Hey I just thought you were cute" line has gotten me from level 0 to level 1, but not much further...It's not the line that's important. The point of approaching and being forward with your intent like that is that it frames the following conversation that way. You need to be charming and interesting after that. You're fine going with a line like that. Just do something with it afterword. | /r/seduction | 22/04/18 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Do hot women get rejected ?They don't have to be narcissistic to not have self-esteem issues. But you're right that most of the time, girls who are obviously in the top 5% of classical beauty will still drop some "my nose is too big" thing. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do hot women get rejected ?Sometimes by me. It's not everything. | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 04:29 PM |
| 9 | Body Language Signs to Notice While Approaching on Street?Your point about the top 10% being the only ones who can find success is totally wrong. | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsYou can drink water. I like beer so I'll have 1 or 2 at a bar by myself. But if I was going out every night I would just drink water if I didn't want to spend money. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsI mean the long term goal of cognitive beavioural therapy, for example, is to eventually get you comfortable with the things that cause you stress currently. If you could never change your feelings, there would be no point to it. As you continue to expose yourself to stimuli that you're irrationally afraid of, eventually your comfort level grows. That's pretty basic. You can change your feelings over time by acting despite fear. To answer your actual question as to actual techniques you can use … | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsBy "wrong to feel that way" I'm saying that the feelings of being egotistical for talking to the bartender are not justified, and therefore he should act despite that fear. It's not a criticism of the feeling. How is that unclear? | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsYou can drink something non-alcoholic. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:54 AM |
| 2 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsSo are you saying people can't get over discomfort? I don't understand your point. The point of stepping out of your comfort zone is to extend the rwnge of your comfort zone. If feelings are unchangeable, people could never grow. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 08:53 AM |
| 2 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsThe point is that the feeling is not justified. Even though you feel it. | /r/seduction | 28/01/18 01:43 AM |
| 12 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsYou can go to bars and not drink. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 07:14 PM |
| -2 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsYou're wrong. It is valid advice. I'm not saying you can magically stop feeling that, but you need to work on that problem or you won't be successful at this. You're not bothering them, they'll tell you if you are. And if you feel egocentric, you're wrong to feel that way. It's not self-possessed to talk to somebody. It's just confidence, and that's basically the thesis of pickup. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 07:13 PM |
| -2 | Just moved to a new city. Gonna try something I've been waiting to do for yearsStop being so concerned with what people think. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Conversation starters for someone you see every day?You can work on these habits. Check the sidebar material, and do some searching in the sub. | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Made a girl fall in love with me and now I'm in a predicament.Haha thanks for the response! I've done something similar so far so we'll see how it goes. And I have an unhealthy attraction to crazy, it seems. And so often you can't tell until you're already in it. At least it keeps life spicy. :) | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Made a girl fall in love with me and now I'm in a predicament.I appreciate the response although I disagree with the advice. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Made a girl fall in love with me and now I'm in a predicament.Yeah it's not a conflict with S at all. I was just giving some context by including that. And yeah I guess maybe the phrasing is wrong. Of course it's her that's responsible for her feelings. It's just hard to see that kind of thing happen. Appreciate it, thanks. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | A walked up to me, grabbed my forearms, and exclaimed, “[Name]! I’m never going to see you again!” Was this an invitation to make a move?You were missing signals. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | A walked up to me, grabbed my forearms, and exclaimed, “[Name]! I’m never going to see you again!” Was this an invitation to make a move?Lol based on what? It's a pretty obvious expression of interest. | /r/seduction | 24/12/17 04:20 PM |
| 7 | How to get new guys friends to be gaming partners?This is exactly what I interpreted. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 08:05 AM |
| 20 | They say you never forget your first love:') | /r/seduction | 16/12/17 08:31 AM |
| 3 | What went wrong here? Really bummed because this girl was absolutely gorgeousBest is "Alright let's go on a date. What's your number?" And then arrange the rest through text. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 06:47 AM |
| 2 | Keep bouncing between feeling attractive and like a nobodyWhat do interesting people do? Do that. It's the process of deciding you want to be someone interesting and worthwhile, deciding what that is, and then working constantly to become that. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 02:27 AM |
| 9 | I feel like I cannot seduce anyone because I'm not attractive enoughYour problem is the whole point of this subreddit. Read the links in the sidebar and the recommended material. Read that stuff and then go start getting rejected. Get used to it because if you avoid it in our life you'll stand in one place forever. | /r/seduction | 28/08/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?What's the point of this comment? | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethWell it's like anything. Cute girls will get like 6 or 700 matches easily. And then they're just bombarded with stupid, boring, weird messages all day. Unless you can say something to get their attention and hold it, how can you expect them to know that you're the one special guy in a sea of uninteresting creeps? Make a fake Facebook account with some cute instagram girl's selfie and use that for tinder if you want to see for yourself. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you just ditch online dating altogether? I used to pick up girls on them all the time (~3 years ago) but now it feels like pulling teethRead some of the sidebar links and search the forum. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 10 | I will tell you one of the best places to meet womenK look up how to stop running out of shit to say. | /r/seduction | 25/07/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?I should mention that you posting questions here is really commendable and a strong step in the right direction. Also glad to hear you've been reading literature like neil strauss stuff. What are you passionate about in your life? | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Well that's sort of a mistake. You can't live life putting blame on other people. It's just a strategy people use to protect their ego. If you took responsibility for your status in life you would be way better off. Maybe you didn't filter the people in your life properly, maybe you lacked the social awareness to filter them, maybe you're a douche, maybe you're a bummer, maybe you expected more out of those relationships than they could give. The reason people don't think that way is because it … | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?You're allowed to have problems. But it's pretty straightforward. If you have more negative interactions with someone than positive ones over a long enough time, it's not unreasonable of them to want to spend less time with you. And then to resent them for that is a surefire way to lose them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?You consider your friends leaving you because you started being depressing and insecure is a betrayal?! You suddenly became a bummer and then felt slighted when people didn't want to hang out with you? Don't you see the flaw in that? | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:10 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Models by Mark Manson comes highly recommended. I also liked the pickup-focused material from the SimplePickup youtube channel. You need basic conceptual fundamentals and then the rest is practice and the numbers game. This means be prepared for rejection, and that the higher volume of women you approach is directly proportionate to the amount of success you'll have. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Yes of course I am. I'm not equipped to give you advice on serious paranoia like that, but I can at least tell you it's irrational and something internal not external. If you were a person that provided enough value for people that they wouldn't dare betray you or fuck with you, you wouldn't have that issue. "I don't know how to read people well." That's what I'm talking about. Work on that. instead of trying to find success despite an enormous obstacle like that, try to eliminate those personal… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Yeah you've got to be better than the people who offer no value to anyone. Lol that's a pretty straightforward concept isn't it? It's not so specific that you've got to be better than a specific person. The point is you have to provide value to women. My most useful piece of advice after reading all your responses is to start reading material. Your issues are all things you're creating yourself and there's countless resources you can consult on here. Start reading a couple books that are recomme… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?You can help it though, obviously. Like people solve that issue all the time. If you make yourself a person that others aren't comfortable fucking with then you wouldn't have those trust issues. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Your fear of everyone being out to get you is the problem there, not uber. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Loyalty is only a valuable trait when you're in a relationship with someone. Make no mistake, you have to have a competetive edge in your personality in order to compete with other men and be a valuable person. When you're single, loyalty is actually just desperation because who are you loyal to when you're single? It makes no sense. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | What are some good places for a socially awkward beginner to women to get his foot in the door with possibly making new friends and gaining casual sex?Ok look. It seems like you're trying to figure out how to get different results than you're getting, but without changing your actions. There are women everywhere except in your bedroom right now. The thing is that you're basically asking "How do I start getting to meet women without eliminating the obstacles I've imposed on myself or changing my actions." If your issues are: I don't drive I'm socially awkward There's only a few places I frequent Then first solve those if you think they're handi… | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 04:20 AM |
| 1 | How to have cougars approach you at a bar?Your opinion is wrong in this case unfortunately. Your "sit and wait for the women to rain on my passive, unassertive self" method hasn't worked for you. The real solution is approach them and seduce them. | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Where do you fuck if neither person can be brought back home?If you want the bed you gotta do a motel or something. Some motels have hourly rates. :3 | /r/seduction | 17/07/17 03:28 AM |
| 7 | What physical activities have you guys found the most girls doing?Lol bangin other guys. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 04:17 AM |
| 8 | Finding women you're happy and open with?Yeah, it's rare. Those are the ones you hang on to. :) Part of it is you making an effort to be unapologetically yourself when you're with all women if you're really trying to connect. You should aim to never feel like you're pitting on a front even with people you're not connecting with if youre interesting and high-value. The other part though is that it's a statistical outlier in my experience. It does happen though! Keep sifting. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What is this phenomenon with not asking the girl and just going into sex?Lmfao he's trolling you for sure. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:45 AM |
| 19 | Girls frequently comment I'm "super cute" and I get hit on by gay guys. How do I go from being "cute" to "sexy"?I think "cute" doesn't necessarily mean cute like a baby. I know lots of girls that wouldn't say hot or sexy ever. Being hit on by gay guys doesn't really mean anything about your masculinity. It's a good compliment. But it's possible that you could have softish body language or voice patterns. You can PM me a picture if you want although I doubt your face has anything to do with it. I wouldn't really be concerned about it, but the fact that it's a concern for you might point toward it being an … | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Tips on not getting too attached...Most of the girls I hook up with end up being friends after. I wouldn't say I'm that... "prolific" since I'm in a pretty long-term open relationship, but I'll still usually be with 6 or 7 new women per year, and generally they know at the beginning that I don't have the resources to really take it beyond casual and physical. I still keep in relative touch with most of those girls though because if I fucked them they're probably cool. I manage to not feel bad about it and stay detached by making … | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | How important is it truly to know how to seduce a girl into having sex with you?Through the countless methods in the sidebar and in the books. Outcome-independence, scarcity, confidence, self-amusement, teasing etc. etc. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:36 PM |
| 13 | How important is it truly to know how to seduce a girl into having sex with you?I find that physical appearance is not enough for me to want to have sex with someone. Like if her personality is boring or annoying, all the attraction is gone and I'd rather jerk off because I don't have to pretend they're interesting. Solid sandwich joke, 1/10. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here that feels limited to only using tinder?I work sales door-to-door so cold-approach daygame is my forte and I'm terrible over text or online. We should compare notes. What do you sell? | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:18 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says she likes your face, what does that mean exactly?It's obviously an ioi. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Why would you try to approach your lesbian friend? | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.Idk you sound like the way I thought before I started trying to apply these techniques and had success. You don't appear to be a person who's actually tried any of this stuff. You sound more like the sales reps I train that just look for people who already want what we're selling and ignore the actual training. Needless to say they're not very successful either. You're just trying to justify your fear of rejection. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 04:59 AM |
| 15 | Get nervous, anxious, or self-conscious around a woman you really find attractive? Give this a shot.It sounds more like you're trying to justify your approach anxiety to yourself. It's not a risk. If you gracefully take rejection, and don't be a creep, no one is going to be upset about anything. How do you think people get with women? They have to make their intentions clear at some point. | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Hi seddit, how did you find motivation to go talk to girls when its so much easier to stay in your comfort zone?Because just because something's hard doesn't mean you don't do it. Most of the time that's the thing that's going to give you the best results. The best part of learning to approach is you get comfortable outside your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 04:53 AM |
| 3 | I’m 17 months sober and looking for advice on where to hang out and meet women that doesn’t involve drinking. HELP!I don't know why this is downvoted. It's true. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 02:37 PM |
| 7 | My Essential Tips For SeductionIdk if that's true. If you're highly successful in something, women start coming to you with pretty little effort. I mean that's the real foolproof strategy. Just become so sick that women can't help but be drawn to you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Good way to meet girls besides parties/clubs/bars? Getting tired of that scene.You're talking yourself out of it. There are tons of people on this sub including myself who can report great results from picking up during the day at school. Your paradigm seems flawed, because you're already scared that you'll get pegged as a harrasser. And if you're worried about being percieved as a creep, you'll come off as a creep. Do you really think that no one's successful by walking up to a cute girl and striking up a conversation? | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Good way to meet girls besides parties/clubs/bars? Getting tired of that scene.There's like an infinite number of daygame posts on this sub. Check the sidebar and do some searches. Good luck! Discovering that you can just go cold-approach the cute girls at school and get positive results pretty much makes you feel like you figured out a cheat code on life. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 08:33 PM |
| -2 | Good way to meet girls besides parties/clubs/bars? Getting tired of that scene.The best is day game. Hallways, class, the mall, the street. Fucking anywhere that there's women. College is the best because the dating pool is endless, and there's little competition because most college guys are hopeless, sexist, and/or stupid. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Women at Bars?The point is that your appearance is not such a curse. Everyone can make themselves at least passable, and that's all you need to be successful with women because the rest is in the way you interact. So your "I'm totally ugly" mentaility is the problem. Not the way you look. Man up and start working on yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Why People Don't Want To Talk To You - Start Showing & Sharing NOT TELLINGWell? | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 07:55 AM |
| 1 | No friends/social group - how to meet girls?Bars are easier than clubs, and it's not weird to go alone if you bring a book or whatever. Some guys like approaching in clubs, but I hate that whole idea. I've got to know she's at least slightly intelligent before I want to take her home. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 04:49 PM |
| 1 | No friends/social group - how to meet girls?This advice is the point of the subreddit. Read the sidebar, and some of the top rated posts. Also edit your posts before they're up, this was a little hard to read. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Girl stopped talking out of the blue.Yep. Go approach til you get 5 numbers and a date. You'll forget about her quickly. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 04:40 PM |
| 18 | Get The Girl To CHASE YOU- My Text Game!Pullbacks are really effective. This is just a simple concrete example. Especially in a situation like texting where it's much more difficult to express personality and keep people engaged. It's sound advice. "Have a personality" is a given, and is basically useless advice. | /r/seduction | 26/03/17 07:35 AM |
| 1 | You see a girl you find attractive...Just get used to doing hard things. If you accept that it's going to be hard, what stands in your way? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Going on first date and girl says she's free the next morning, does it mean she's DTF?Well I think the point is that no matter what the reason, you could have made her more comfortable, or related better to her, etc. Like the point is to take responsibility for a girl's reluctance. | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How To Improve Your Conversation Skills - 4 Animated TipsThis is the truth. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 05:29 AM |
| 10 | Girls asks, "Why do you want to hang out?"Way too weak. Still vague. She's obviously unsure of his intentions. This does nothing to resolve that. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I've been growing distant from a girl of interest.. How do I go about heating things up again?Your conversations in person? Go do something interesting together. | /r/seduction | 14/01/16 11:53 AM |
| 2 | My go-to pickup lineIt doesn't imply she has value over you. It's the honest truth about why you're approaching her out of nowhere. A huge part of this process is just making your intentions clear. | /r/seduction | 29/12/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | I'm Jewish and I just picked up an Arab girl. If there's hope for us there's hope for the Middle East.Oh damn. I thought we'd really found a definitive proof that the issues in the middle east were going to resolve. Up until now I thought that individual relationships served as effective models for the ideological differences of entire nations and peoples. You really helped me understand. I was ready to commend this guy for finding an effective way to predict the outcome of the struggles in Palestine and Isreal, in Syria, in Afghanistan, and/or in Iraq. Now I see the folly of my ways. Such a ble… | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 11:45 AM |
| 11 | How do you guys practice seduction when none of your friends are into this stuff?Bring a book. Make pickup your backup plan so if it turns out the bar is 100% male you can still read Moby Dick and then when some other women enter you can scope them out like a whale taking down a ship. | /r/seduction | 23/12/15 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I make sure I don't look desperate over text?How is texting the only option? Stop texting her. Tell her when she gets back you guys are going to go on a date. See how she responds. Then if you absolutley have to talk to her, skype her once or twice before she gets back. | /r/seduction | 13/12/15 08:31 AM |
| 6 | A girl I've only spoken to once in highschool last year friend requested me after we met recently last week while studying for a university exam. The only way of contact is via Facebook. Help!I don't know how you criticise someone asking for advice. | /r/seduction | 17/11/15 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Who has more succes? Hunter or attractor?Clearly the hunter. Nowhere close to debateable. "If you're hunting is it more effective to shoot animals or to wait for them to shoot themselves." | /r/seduction | 01/11/15 04:58 PM |
| 2 | How to Take a Girl From Polite Chat to Super Horny in Less than 1 HourI don't know why people are so adverse to being sold something. It happens all day every day of your life. I'd much prefer a useful post that would show me what kind of content he writes vs. an ad that really doesn't say much. I can draw something from this, so how is it negative? | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:32 AM |
| 4 | From Text to Sex: The Ultimate Guide To Texting GirlsThere's a keyboard setting that switches your apostrophes to `s but I don't know what it is. I got stuck in it once, and couldn't get out. | /r/seduction | 02/03/15 09:07 AM |
| 1 | I understand if no one wants to say anything, but was anyone else here sexually abused?I'm curious to hear more if you're willing to tell. This is a dark thread. Don't spare the details. It's probably good to talk about it. | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 08:28 AM |
| 2 | I understand if no one wants to say anything, but was anyone else here sexually abused?I appreciate the solidarity. I'm aware that this guy's a low-quality human being, though. I was being patronizing. It was definitely abuse, but I don't know if it's affected me negatively. Although I also wonder if I stayed with her because of something like Stockholm syndrome. I was devastated when we separated but she was consistently abusive. There's a strange element of consent when being raped by a woman. I don't know if I'm really affected by it. I'm sure it happens way more frequently tha… | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 05:22 AM |
| -5 | I understand if no one wants to say anything, but was anyone else here sexually abused?Lmfao you're right I shouldn't take things for granted. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 04:12 AM |
| 7 | I understand if no one wants to say anything, but was anyone else here sexually abused?I realise this is maybe different than what you're expecting but I guess I was raped by a girl I was with. She was drunk. There's a weird kind of consent when you're being raped by a woman because I could obviously have used force but I still didn't want to hurt her. A friend of mine had a similar experience. It was pretty emasculating. I don't know if it was too scarring though. Has anyone else had that happen? I don't know how to feel about it. | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I've lost my desire to game anymore....Most guys don't do it? This stuff always blows my mind when I hear about people not knowing where the clitoris is or that oral is gross etc. etc. How did you guys not become fascinated by sex since like grade 4? | /r/seduction | 14/02/15 01:38 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Talked about goat fucking, ended with kiss close.This doesn't seem that weird to me at all. It's pretty easy to talk about weird topics like that and make them funny. Your friend fucking a goat is a hilarious topic. | /r/seduction | 02/02/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Girl r/seduction?I'm on my phone but I think there's a link in the sidebar for FPUA (female pickup art) | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 06:19 PM |
| 2 | A strong, supple, erect, healthy spine is the core of a good, natural, effortless Body LanguageElectrical impulses in your body are not necessarily the "aura" spoken about in yoga. There is little to no scientific evidence for the kind of energy that yoga professes to manipulate. That said, there are definitely advantages to yoga, it just may be (is definitely) for different reasons than the people who developed the practice may have concluded. This is likely due to their much more limited understanding of the microbiology of the human body. It seems that actually you are the one talking … | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 11:04 PM |
| 26 | [FR] F-close on 35 yr old MILF on cold approach in under a hourNo it definitely means they're better. Experience is pretty much everything. | /r/seduction | 01/06/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I don't like the way she smells... yet?I've always noticed that everyone has their own unique smell. It's like facial recognition. Maybe I'm a dog. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I don't like the way she smells... yet?I'm brown and she's dutch though. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 03:33 PM |
| 3 | I don't like the way she smells... yet?Everyone but practising gynaecologists. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 06:13 AM |
| 2 | I don't like the way she smells... yet?I'll consider it. I am an amateur gynaecologist. | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Why being nice sucks, and why you don't have to be an assholeHaha "low and behold". | /r/seduction | 27/03/14 01:52 AM |
| 1 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:I feel a strange sense of victory. ._. | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 08:37 PM |
| -3 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Aren't they not supposed to be used for disagreement? | /r/seduction | 17/03/14 04:42 AM |
| 0 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:But that's not against the rules. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 06:08 PM |
| 2 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Those downvoters are dumb. Most relationships end. Statistically. Ergo she probably will, according to probability. | /r/seduction | 16/03/14 02:29 AM |
| 7 | What I've learned from fucking girls I met on TinderPretty sure girls open about their sexual desires are the classiest they can be. What kind of comment is that? | /r/seduction | 13/03/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How to respond when a girl insults you?Sometimes a drink in the face is the only way to cool off. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 08:15 PM |
| 3 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeYou left out one major point in your complaint about "shit tests". Sure, maybe the girl is being rude, but if she's calling you a douchebag, maybe you're just a fucking douchebag. Seduction techniques are not an excuse to be mysoginistic. PUA is not manipulation. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 05:40 AM |
| 3 | How to respond when a girl insults you?Sounds like you might be the asshole. | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 11:39 PM |
| 0 | My advice on mastering conversation through understanding inner and outer game.Don't ask that in Halifax. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 08:22 PM |
| 2 | My advice on mastering conversation through understanding inner and outer game.Inner game refers to personal stuff like confidence, having hobbies, self respect etc. Outer game refers to the way you interact with women. | /r/seduction | 22/12/13 08:20 PM |
| -7 | Seduction from a female point of viewWhen did it become "creeper"? I get why you used it because everyone says that now, but isn't it a "creep"? Creepers are vines. Creeps are what radiohead sings about. | /r/seduction | 25/11/13 03:31 PM |
| 4 | What women mean when they say they want a nice guy.Oh no reading?! | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 03:23 AM |
| 0 | Dealt with a flake like a man, now she's chasing me. All thanks to seddit..Who even does that? | /r/seduction | 06/10/13 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with other guys hitting on your girl?Who cares? Why be possessive at all? It's totally distrustful. Unless she cheats on you or something, it's completely ok. In fact it's a compliment. You find her attractive, it's obvious other guys will too. Guys getting mad about other guys is hilarious. | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 07:21 AM |
| -3 | The REAL way to get out of the Friend ZoneThanks for the honesty :D Not saying that it was bad advice. | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:57 PM |
| 10 | The REAL way to get out of the Friend ZoneDoes nobody else think this guy is a total asshole? | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 02:40 PM |
| 1 | First date with a woman is an overnight stay at a hotel..suggestions?Regardless, I think you better tell her It's just you two. Although I don't have any other suggestions. | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 08:45 PM |
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