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Look, I'm tall myself (5'10.5"). I've been exposed to as many shorter as taller men my entire life, which made it is so that I've gotten used to that and don't really care about any sort of height difference in either direction, as long as we are not talking about more than 6"-7" as it just becomes impractical at that point. Most women however are not as tall, so are more used to men being taller. It feels "strange" or "off" to them when that it is not the case, so I suppose that it makes some s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 09:49 AM
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This is quite off from reality, as the average is closer to about 6" (4"-8" is the typically given average range, see furtherdown below), while the average dick is about 5.5". Furthermore, while some of the length can indeed not fully enter depending on positioning and how close the balls are hanging to the body, this effect seems to be grossly overstated by you insofar I found documentation and is thus mostly irrelevant. What is however quite relevant is that a vagina stretches from it's unarou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 11:15 PM
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I am again speaking about practicality and ease of use, so this matches. Hitting one's cervix is very unpleasant for a lot of women. You seem to be acting obtuse for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 10:57 PM
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I'm only speaking about the practicality of average as it matches the average depth of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:29 PM
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I'm only speaking about the practicality of average as it matches the average depth of a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 05:28 PM
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Look, average is average for a reason. It tends to be the best all-arounder and as someone who likes to give oral, it tends to be a lot easier to handle as well. "Too big" is quicker a thing than "too small" for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 09:21 AM
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Out of pure interest, how so do you not believe in free will? What made you come to that conclusion?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 05:25 PM
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This is not an either or kind of thing, reality rarely is. It makes sense to consider the systemic factors that have a hand in shaping our individual problems, especially if patterns can be recognised on the group level (for example: higher suicide rates of men vs women). Understanding and addressing those systematic factors/issues is only one side of the coin however and goes hand in hand with taking responsibility on the individual level, not even necessarily when it comes to preventing any pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:21 PM
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That's a personal decision, of course, but doesn't make it any less selfish and antisocial, even though it's an understandable one as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 05:40 AM
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I'm addressing your advice to go to kink apps to find casual sex and using the general you to address anyone who reads it or agrees with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:20 PM
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If you're not kinky, you going on there in the hope to find casual sex just ruins it for everyone else honestly. It has been even worse with munches lately. So I would not recommend this at all, unless you're actually the target audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:00 PM
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Look, men will be attracted to women regardless of what they wear, be that a bikini or a potato bag. We've tried for millenia to prevent this in about any way possible and the result has typically always been the same: the attraction and unwanted attention from a certain subset of men remains. The only method that works to prevent this attraction is a lack of interaction, thus the complete segregation of men and women, but that would make society as we know it in the West quite impossible and co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:48 PM
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This is first and foremost a debate sub, but you seem to refuse to actually engage with any meaningful form of it, even when the person in this thread comes at you with strong arguments, nuance and patience.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:24 PM
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No clue honestly, people gang up around the strangest things online and offline. I've dated both men significantly shorter than me and significantly taller than me. Can't really say that I have a preference. Short is easier to hug and cuter, similar height is the most practical overall and taller just means more to hug.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 03:28 PM
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How does "kink" get defined in this context? Foot massages, tying someone up, making someone masturbate in places they are not supposed to, tickling someone, inflicting pain or even just the simple fact of denying them an orgasm can all be incredibly erotic. Even simple things like butt grabbing, kissing or cuddling naked can be very sexual. Where do you draw the line? Edit: Or what about playfighting or just seeing each other naked and getting horny because of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:44 PM
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Well look it is rather simple. In the beginning of my current relationship I left cute notes, prepared a spontaneous picnic, bought small-medium gifts, cooked elaborate dishes, took him out for dinner or other dates likes gigs, museums etc, made elaborate plans for valentine's day and his birthday, but over time I noticed that he just did not really care and did not return it in kind, so I just mostly stopped. What I have instead focussed on since then is just being available to him emotionally,…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 10:03 AM
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Speaking as someone who is at least mildly physically attracted to most young and healthy people, physical attraction functions more like a given than anything else, so it is irrelevant to specifically filter for, at least, to myself. And while I agree that loyalty, mutual respect and a willingness to commit are amongst the most important things to actively filter for, these do not build a life nor do these have anything to do with actual compatibility, it's just the most basic bar that one has …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:16 AM
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So I lose 5+ inches of height, sure. I would still be mostly into men at around my own height, so say 5'3" to 5'7", but specifically the subset that is more build like a pixie than as a dwarf (read: comparitively long legs and slender/lean build). Fuck hairy men as well, though a beard can be cute. Nothing else would really change, as I would still be into nerdy but social and sporty types. Someone I can play magic with, go bouldering with, cook together, but just as well go to random gigs with.…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 12:34 AM
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Well obviously, yes. Cheating, abuse, treating me, those I care about or hell anyone else without respect. All of this can happen in a single moment and kills any attraction I had immediately. There are just certain actions that one can take that will always have consequences with zero room for explanation or context on their end.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 05:50 AM
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There is only so much shit one wants to wade through in the search of genuine interest and compatibility. Quality is much more important than quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:46 AM
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Most people are a walking disaster nowadays, this is not gender-specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:21 PM
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Sex without emotional attachment is degenerate, but at least both parties are doing it for their own enjoyment. Paying for sex is just the same degenerate thing but with the mutual satisfaction removed, which makes it objectively worse and more worthy of judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 02:07 PM
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Hm, I don't like anything about men that is tied to them being men, apart from the fact that they have a dick, balls, a prostate and generally more sensitive nipples than women. Body odour and a deep voice also tend to be gender-based; I can be quite into that if we're talking about a man I'm already attracted to. A good beard can also work wonders, but I dislike excessive body hair (I prefer mostly hairless/shaven). Having said that, I do adore both masculinity and femininity and look for a hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:52 AM
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I suppose you might lack self-awareness. The scenario you painted very much appears to be about someone passively letting life happen to them, while blaming everyone but himself for the outcome, nor having taken any peace with the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:39 PM
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Let me spell it out more clearly, given that you don't seem to understand it: yes, I believe that someone is to blame if they're single without wanting to be and don't either try to change that or come to terms with that fact. I believe them to be at fault, don't have respect for them, nor any compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:30 PM
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Who is talking about other people? I am referring to your own acceptance with reality and self. I also did not name any specific factors, that is for yourself to make up. If you truly believe that it is outside your own control, focus on acceptance. I can respect that, not anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:18 AM
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There are factors that lead to a higher chance of being in one that fall under your control typically and if not, even though I can't imagine such a case, acceptance is the only responsibility that you can take. Again, self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:11 AM
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It's quite simple: if reality is not what you want it to be, change what's under your control and accept what isn't. Someone who doesn't try to do either, I have no compassion with. Own up to your own life. You're the only one responsible for it and not taking up that responsibility is not just a moral failing, it's failing at being a human being, agency and self-awareness being our two most defining features compared to other animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:04 AM
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Be specific, I can try to describe it then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:55 PM
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You should have an idea in terms of what the female variant would look like. Take the average guy that she would be dating, that guy. Perhaps drives a tesla, might be a crypto bro, hair just too perfect and styled, crossover with the fuckboy archetype in terms of style but more snobby, might be really into (fake) watches, very clearly branded clothing, white sneakers for some reason, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:52 PM
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Just going by looks/first impressions, I would say that I come across at least a couple of interesting looking people per day, be that men or women (am bisexual, it's an even split in terms of numbers), if I'm out and about. Why most people don't catch my eye in that regard: not in a similar age range, does not look approachable, looks unintelligent/like I would be easily bored by them, fat/unhealthy looking, jock/player types, high maintenance looking, doesn't have an expressive face, not alter…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/25 11:35 PM
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If engaging with them did not lead to harm in any sort of manner, they were accepted socially and have shown to be quite human-like in terms of behaviour/interests/character/values, I would not mind trying out a succubus or devil-looking one. Something elf or angel like could also work. As soon as it stops being humanoid enough in terms of facial structure and build, I would nope out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:31 PM
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A sensible person, how refreshing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:36 AM
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Mid-sized city in Western Europe
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:03 PM
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I honestly wouldn't say that there is a lot I'm struggling with when it comes to my gender that is not caused by the innate biological differences between men and women and if, it's mostly individual men rather than men as a whole that are causing these specific issues, but come to mind: being harassed/groped in public, the rare actual misogynistic guy (can be easily ignored however) and men frequently catcalling me when I used to walk home from school at around age 10-13.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:39 PM
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Lack of curiosity, lack of self-awareness, being indirect/lack of good communication, not playful/lack of love for life, bad hygiene, no self-respect, tries to control others instead of being cooperative, low libido, little interest in sport (I am an active person, want someone to be able to keep up), doesn't appreciate the small things in life, lack of a coherent moral framework they try to life by, prone to addictions/lack of self-control, dishonest/insincere, devout muslim/christian/jew and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 09:56 AM
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Well to be fair, I'm assuming that I would be faster and stronger which is reasonable knowing how big of a gap there is between the average man and woman in metrics such as this. Besides as per the specifications of the post: "You get reborn as a man with the same "stats" (intelligence, family situation, etc.)", it would furthermore not be too nonsensical that I get to keep at least my current height of 5'11" if the only thing changing about me would be my gender, making me already comfortably t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:45 AM
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Honestly? I think that I would take the opportunity for a multitude of reasons: I would have able to actually defend myself as soon as puberty hit instead of having to endure the physical abuse at home. I would have an easier time with some of my hobbies such as bouldering and running, on top of the greater efficiency at building muscle and strength in general. In my romantic relationships I tend to prefer taking on the more stereotypically masculine role of providing and protecting, which would…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:39 AM
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People who tend to be into me fall into two main types: - Tall (1.9m and above as I am 1.8m), masculine, either social outdoorsy nerds or alternative metal/punk types (or both), intense and strong personality that initially clashes with mine but settles down after some time into a basis of mutual respect, typically adhd and somewhat autistic, straight, used to mostly taking care of/protecting others but longs to be able to fall back on someone else sometimes/to find peace and quiet in another pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 05:39 AM
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Sure, but in my experience it's fairly easy to establish whether you're sexually compatible with someone through communication, proper self-reflection on both ends and the simple act of kissing and hugging.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 02:10 PM
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I would be more interested in him as I tend to prefer introverts in general, as it balances out my own more outgoing personality. Wouldn't mind doing the approaching either, but in a gentle manner, for example starting a friendly conversation, letting him know that I'm interested in him as a person (if we have known each other a bit and it clicks) or asking him out for some coffee or a gig.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:27 PM
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Normal female testosterone levels are not even close to even hypogonadal males (who notably lack sex drive compared to normal males). Keep in mind though that women are more sensitive to testosterone than men are. Comparing levels like that makes no sense whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 05:28 AM
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This isn't even worth the reply; OP is arguing in bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:14 AM
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I am very much someone who likes taking care of and protecting someone as much as being taken care of and protected. In my experience macho types tend to very much have a problem with this. They also tend to be too stoic and closed-off, but most importantly not serious enough about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 09:44 AM
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We would clash too much value-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:23 AM
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Well no, arabs and whatever else not either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 07:22 AM
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19 to 23 y/o healthy weight (read: neither underweight, nor overweight) takes care of themselves (mentally, physically) strongly monogamous, wants something serious non-abusive, well-adjusted etc healthy boundaries, not overly jealous likes physical affection (hugs, sex etc) non-religious and reasonable (no conspiracy theories etc) curious and loves life has some hobbies (preferably a couple in common) open-minded, likes discussing anything doesn't want to control, nor be controlled full head of…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 09:51 PM
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I'm not familiar with the latter two, what are they like? I'm mostly home in metal, reggae, jazz, bluegrass, new wave, folk, rock and indie myself haha
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:31 PM
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Anything to do with music, I just lose myself in it, be it playing, listening, collecting or autistically organising everything. Going both as wide and as deep as I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/20 11:25 PM
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I guess, I just happen to take love and relationships rather seriously and only want to commit to people who are similar to me in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 08:58 AM
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At age 18? 0-1 At age 21? 0-2 At age 25? 0-2 At ages 30-35? 1-3 At ages 40-50? 1-4 At age 60+ ? 1-4
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 12:22 AM
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Right, so I'm physically incapable of having hobbies and interests as I happen to have a vagina, noted. Guess my whole life was a lie so far to get into the pants of the mythical Chad. The revelation of the century.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 01:13 PM
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I mean, I'm a 5'11" woman and weigh about 135 lbs, which makes me just about underweight. Not a thing to encourage really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 06:12 PM
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