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OYS #12 - My Wife Thinks I'm Gay Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/161lbs/16% BF. Relationship - Married for 16 years with 4 kids. Lifts (5/3/1 PRs) - Squat - 175lb x 10 Bench - 105lb x 11 Deadlift - 195lb x 9 Press - 80lb x 9 MENTAL/SOCIAL I spent a lot of time out with friends over the last week, that was great (more on that in the marriage section). I have a lot of friends who are doing a lot of really cool things career-wise. If I'm honest, I'm a little envious of some of their recent successes. There…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/22 03:37 PM
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OYS #11 - Small Shifts. Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/161lbs/16% BF. Relationship - Married for 16 years with 4 kids. Lifts (5/3/1 PRs) - Squat - 175lb x 9 Bench - 105lb x 11 Deadlift - 195lb x 8 Press - 80lb x 8 MENTAL/SOCIAL Last week was a bit of a blur. We were having a bunch of work done at our house, so between managing that project and doing my actual job I didn't have time for much else. Everything turned out great though, and it marks the end of a project that had been on my todo list for way…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/22 02:20 PM
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Yup. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 02:07 PM
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OYS #10 - Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/159lbs/16% BF. Lifts (5/3/1 PRs) - Squat - 175lb x 8 Bench - 105lb x 10 Deadlift - 195lb x 8 Press - 80lb x 8 ​ MENTAL I had a big public speaking event to do this past week. It's something I've never done before. I worked really hard in getting prepared for it, at the expense of nearly everything else, and I crushed it. I knew I would. I had something important to say, and I was ready. I received a ton of positive feedback, which doesn't suck, but it's like a d…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/22 01:05 PM
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OYS #9 - Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/159lbs/16% BF. Lifts (5/3/1 PRs) - Squat -175lb x 8 Bench - 100lb x 12 Deadlift -185lb x 8 Press - 75 x 8 Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL There's not much to report on this front. I just continue to STFU, take care of my business, and not worry too much about anyone else. I've been sidetracked on my MRP reading because I've been catching up on reading some other topics. I plan to get back to …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/22 07:07 PM
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Lol. I fully expected someone would respond with this. Touché.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/22 12:09 PM
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Real good point. What I’m owning is - I wanted to say something about it, but I didn’t. And that means, yes, apparently I still care. But I did not let that neediness for validation come out of my mouth. So yeah - I’m learning not to care - but I obviously still care.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 01:20 PM
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OYS #8 - Taco Takeaways Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/159lbs/16% BF. Lifts (5/3/1 PRs) - Squat -155lb x 11 Bench - 100lb x 11 Deadlift -175lb x 8 Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL I made tacos last week. That's not abnormal. My wife wasn't home. She had already planned something for dinner, but I saw that we didn't have all the ingredients. So, I made an executive decision and made tacos instead. The problem was, we didn't have taco…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/04/22 12:49 PM
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OYS #7 - Appreciating What I Appreciate Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/159lbs/16% BF. StrongLifts (All lifts 5x5) - SQ 185 lbs. BP 110 lbs. DL 185 lbs. OHP 85 lbs. BBROW 135 lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. **Goal -**To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL I've found myself in a lot of social situations over the last week. I've been trying to focus on being more open and working on my "Mayor Game". I've always been kinda quiet and reserved. I'm sociable, but I tend to play …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 04:05 PM
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OYS #6 - Spring Broke. Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/157lbs/16% BF. StrongLifts (All lifts 5x5) - SQ 175 lbs. BP 100 lbs. DL 175 lbs. OHP 85 lbs. BBROW 130 lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL I've been struggling to build/maintain frame this week. Case in point, it was my kids' Spring Break and as a result I fell behind on my reading. In decision making this week I deferred far too much to 'the family' when it would have been bet…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 01:27 PM
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You’re not entirely wrong. But we’ve had far sexier hotel rooms than this one in the past and I’ve gone completely dry. You’re right though - the hotel room doesn’t hurt and I would be naive to expect the same result without it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 11:27 PM
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OYS #5 - Writing my Story Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/154lbs/15% BF. StrongLifts (All lifts 5x5) - SQ 160 lbs. BP 90 lbs. DL 165 lbs. OHP 80 lbs. BBROW 120 lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL I've been reading TRM over the last week. The chapter on "Appreciation" has really been resonating with me. The knowledge that my wife doesn't appreciate me for my 'sacrifices' and never will is honestly pretty freeing. All the things I've…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/22 04:04 PM
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OYS #4 - Seething Through It. Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/154 lbs/15% BF. StrongLifts 5x5 - SQ 145 lbs. BP 85 lbs. DL 145 lbs. OHP 80 lbs. BBROW 115 lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL The first time I masturbated I didn't know what I was doing or what it was. I was in 4th grade watching the Winter Olympics. Nancy Kerrigan skating around the ice. It was innocent enough, I guess. Perfectly natural. But this marked a turn that gr…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 01:30 PM
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OYS #3 - The Mystery of Motives Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/153 lbs/15% BF. StrongLifts 5x5 - SQ 125 lbs. BP 75 lbs. DL 135 lbs. OHP 75 lbs. BBROW 105 lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL Well. I'm coming off a much-deserved Rule 9 ban so I've had plenty of time to think. I've been soaking up sidebar content and doing some reading about other things I'm passionate about. I'm working on my frame. Mainly I'm focusing on living wit…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 03:02 PM
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OYS #2 - Learning to Breathe Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/147 lbs/14% BF. StrongLifts 5x5 - SQ 75 lbs. BP 50 lbs. DL 85lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. ​ MENTAL I should be finishing up WISNIFG today. I've absolutely loved it and have already been putting things into practice. I'm not good at taking criticism. The strategies taught in that book have already proven really helpful in reducing the sting of criticism, eliminating nonsensi…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 03:51 PM
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OYS #1 - Scrawniest Man in the Room Me - 38 years old, 5'9"/146 lbs/14% BF. Just started StrongLifts 5x5 - SQ 50 lbs. BP 45 lbs. DL 75lbs. Relationship - Married 16 years with 4 kids. Reading - NMMNG (2x), WISNIFG (Starting today), Sidebar Goal - To reach my potential and maximize my joy. SUMMARY I wrote this last Tuesday using my new alt-account and it didn't go up due to the new user embargo. Posting it now for posterity. I've been a wuss since day one. I was always the scrawniest kid in class…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/22 02:59 PM
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