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| 1 | Hooked up with a girl and day after I’m practically getting ghosted. What to do next?If you have her number or email address, just send a message saying you had a great time and she's free to give you a ring anytime for another, and then leave it at that. Maybe she'll call, maybe she won't, whatever, it's in her hands. But getting pushy/needy is a surefire way to never hear from her again. | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Texting Question - Already Hooked Up With GirlSend a polite message thanking her for a fun evening and letting her know that if she wants to meet up again for whatever, you're game, and then leave it be. She might ring you up again in a month or two, she might not. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 06:17 PM |
| 122 | After being called sexist, Bear Grylls added a women's team to survival reality show The Island. In the first 3 days, the women were lost in the jungle, injured, without fire, water, food, or shelter.Or even at certain times of the night, if the moon is up. Or ffs, our van has a compass built into the rear view mirror. I love my wife, but she can't read a map to save her life. Drives me crazy because I usually do the driving if it's both of us, and I've got a navigator about as useful as tits on a bull. "Find me a gas station vaguely in the direction we're headed". I might as well ask her to teleport. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 18/02/18 04:40 AM |
| 5 | What's wrong with "pool and darts" as a first date suggestion?My wife still looks back fondly on one of the first dates I took her on. The "epic date" she calls it. Rock climbing, then dinner at Tijuana Flats, then a movie (Wall-E), then a few hours of swing dancing. All told it was like 8 or 9 hours. Got that girl home exhausted and very happy. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to save your virginity till marriage?Self copypasta about this subject This why "no sex until marriage" is so stupid. For all you know, you're vanilla as hell, and he'll invent 6 new kinks before breakfast. Or he's asexual, and you turn out to be gay. There is literally not one non-physical aspect of a relationship that normal people will deliberately avoid exploring, like money, religion, kids. But when it comes to sex, suddenly it's head-in-the-sand time. I wish such people luck, because that's pretty much what they're betting it… | /r/seduction | 15/11/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | So Tyler Durden walks up to your girlfriend...Depends. If he's simply clueless that I'm with her, then I just watch with an expression of endless amusement on my face. If he's actually butting in, then I reply "No, you're Leaving". I am a dad, after all. That sort of thing is expected. | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Matched my ex on tinder from 6 years ago, lend me a hand plsDoes she actually not recognize you? How long were you two together? | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceI've never danced before so I don't think doing it in front of a class is a really smart idea. I'll be honest, getting up out onto the floor for that very first dance class was the hardest damned thing I have ever been faced with. But I am so beyond glad that I did. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceMan, I never could get the hang of spotting, so Lindy always makes me dizzy. But I do love my East Coast Swing. | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 01:57 AM |
| 5 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceYes, do it. Doooooo it! Private lessons are expensive, anywhere from $40-100 for an hour. I never took anything but cheapo group classes, usually $5-10, which often included admission to a dance event afterwards. It probably took me a little longer to pick it up that way, but it's doable. I don't live in Chicago so I couldn't say. But Tampa Bay was loaded with dance studios, so I don't imagine the windy city would be any different. What's really funny is that if we're hanging out with the dancin… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Gentlemen, Learn To DanceSo fucking this. Once upon a time I went to 3 weddings and a family reunion over the course of a few months, and I couldn't dance at any of them. So I started taking lessons (swing, ballroom, latin styles), and it was the best goddamned thing I ever did. I wish I'd started 10 or 15 years earlier, before high school, even. And when I started, I had to aspire to having two left feet. If I can learn it, absolutely anyone can. I will also be making sure all my kids can at least be comfortable out on… | /r/seduction | 31/03/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Advice/ Tips for dealing with a girls parents?Be awesome. Don't be not awesome. I say this as a guy who met my wife's parents for the first time after having already knocked her up and eloped. A little politeness, some appreciation for the m-i-l's cooking, and an ability to fix their computers and do home repairs seemed to do the trick. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 05:59 PM |
| 4 | So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure?One of the first dates I went on with my wife, she still refers to it as "the epic date". Movie, dinner, rock climbing, swing dancing. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 12:24 PM |
| 1 | [Circlejerk/Fun Game] What female character from all of film/literature/music/history/etc would be the most validating for you to "pick up"?Buffy. She (sorta) even said why. | /r/seduction | 09/10/16 05:49 PM |
| 2 | A girl flakes twice on me and she also emphasized that she is not making excuses and she wants to see me. WHAT'S THE LOGIC HERE?I had a girl do this. Couple nice dates, then calls and emails disappear into the void. We were both active in the local dance scene, so I still saw her around, and I flat-out asked her if I should bother continuing to try. She didn't even have the courage to say no. Eventually just had to give up and move on. | /r/seduction | 02/07/16 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting rejected by white girls, but not anyone else.I'm white, but I was approached/flirted with/hit on most by black women. They always really liked my blue eyes. Go figure. | /r/seduction | 19/02/16 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Any guys terrified of accidental pregnancy?Long-term monogamous relationships with a partner who is trustworthy, not-crazy, and reliable about their birth control (pill, IUD, implant), or you have had a vasectomy. | /r/seduction | 27/12/15 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you meet up with a girl that only likes you because you're an asshole to her?Was gonna say this. Just tell her to go someplace. If it's not your house, be sure to not to be there on time. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 12:55 PM |
| 1 | playing hard to get (me) by accidentI guess you'd have to think up a way to let her catch you and still continue the chase. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 09:00 PM |
| 2 | 4/4 number closes last night. Stupid thing that's been working lately: have the girl write her phone number down on a playing card.There's a neat and easy trick I saw on /r/LearnUselessTalents for splitting a deck one-handed. Would recommend for this as well. http://www.reddit.com/r/LearnUselessTalents/comments/2vyiku/how_to_cut_a_deck_of_cards_with_only_one_hand/ | /r/seduction | 09/03/15 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness with strangers? Public speaking & personality development video.I learned how to dance. Best thing I ever did. | /r/seduction | 25/01/15 01:34 PM |
| 7 | How could I take girls back to THEIR place instead of mine?"And to be honest, the basement doesn't smell all that great since the sewer line broke." | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 05:56 PM |
| 3 | Girl invited me to watch a movie at her place. We obviously won't watch the movie. So how to initiate sex ?Don't talk to it, don't flirt with it, don't seduce it, just DOMINATE it. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 02:23 PM |
| 0 | Is saying "hey, I thought you were cute *and so on*" really a bad opener?Great, now I'm imagining Christopher Waltzen saying it. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I think I failed a shit test..The whole point of shit tests is that there often is no way to "pass". Every response can and probably will be interpreted in some way that will reinforce how she already wants to think of you. Only winning move is not to play. | /r/seduction | 25/11/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | If a girl you've been seeing for a few weeks cancels a date, how do you respond?Eh, shit happens, stuff comes up. Now if she makes a habit of it, and starts simply not returning calls/emails/texts at all, that's something else. Some girls are simply too chickenshit to tell you when it's over and just start ignoring you, hoping you'll take the hint. Had that happen to me once. Not fun, but a good learning experience. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Ever reject a girl after she rejected you?I would have given her a mulligan on that one. If she kept hemming and hawing after that, then yeah, move on. But I think you messed up here. | /r/seduction | 30/10/14 07:44 PM |
| 1 | My First Experience with a Needy GirlIf you're gonna have a stalker, a cruise is probably the best place for it. Sure, you can't get away, but then this isn't your real life, either. You've got a girl who can't stop thinking about you. Score! Go ahead and revel in it until the cruise is over, and then nope the fuck outta there. Don't give her your real last name or phone number, obviously. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 08:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I get past the fact that I hate dancing and it makes me very uncomfortable?I started taking social dancing lessons (swing, latin, ballroom, etc) about 10 years ago, and my only regret is that I didn't start 10 years before that. Best thing I ever did. | /r/seduction | 23/06/14 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What is one important thing you wish you could have taught your younger self about being better with women?Learn how to dance. | /r/seduction | 29/05/14 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What is the best way to hint a girl to go home with you after kissing and dancing for a while at club?A girl I was dancing with and kissing at one point asked me what I wanted to do. I told her "Take you home and eat your pussy". That was a gooood night. | /r/seduction | 22/03/14 02:21 AM |
| 2 | "Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot; but make it hot by striking."I actually know a blacksmith who can do that. Watched him get a piece glowing dull red just from whacking on it with a hammer. | /r/seduction | 10/03/14 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Do shit-tests exist?It's not uncommon for there to be no good way to respond, either. They may not even realize they're doing it, testing you and judging you based on your response, much less that every possible answer would paint you negatively. Hence the usual advice is to simply dismiss such questions. "The only winning move is not to play" | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 04:47 AM |
| 7 | Former Marine locked Up for not having $20K for his wife's divorce lawyer“This is now 2013,” he says. “I'm 67 years old and living on Social Security. Judge Gorman told me every time I went to court to get a job.” Under the new law, alimony payments are to end when the payor reaches "full retirement age," which it defines as the age at which one is eligible to receive full federal benefits. Though it used to be 65, the retirement age has risen, and according to the Social Security Administration, Young's full retirement age is 66, based on the year he was born, 1946.… | /r/MensRights | 23/10/13 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do?<shrug> Probably. Moot point now. Doubt I get more than one or two zits a month these days, that same facial soap and a splash of aftershave wipes it right off. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 03:03 AM |
| 1 | I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do?My father had terrible acne and atrocious scarring. Mine wasn't much better. As far as I'm aware, it's never been an issue. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I have gone from medium to mild acne over my teens and now I have both mild acne and medium scars. What do?I seem to have been the exception here, or possibly they just weren't as awesome in my teen years 15-20 years ago. Weirdly, they gave me this cream that was supposed to burn like hell ("Brought grown men to their knees" was what he said); I slathered that stuff on like it was water, never felt so much as a tickle. Only thing I ever found that helped was clean pillow cases and regular use of a particular facial soap. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What are your favorite non-typical places to meet people?Yeah, it wasn't till my last semester at GaTech that discovered where all the women were at. GO from my 60:1 ratio in Design of Operating Systems class to a 1:2 ratio in International Affairs. Live and learn. | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 12:27 AM |
| 4 | "I swear they was 18!" actually works, if you're a womanOh, so it was prostitution? Lock the boys away! | /r/MensRights | 02/05/13 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Just got the girl of my dreams, how to keep her around?Find the clitoris! | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 12:52 PM |
| 7 | "Man jailed for poking holes in condoms to get his girlfriend pregnant" ...but if the shoe was on the other foot he'd be on the hook for 18 yearsit is obvious that if shoe was on the other foot it wouldn't be a crime - its her body and her child. Which would be fine... except that every court in the country would tell the father that it is also his and he needs to pay up for it as well. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/13 02:48 PM |
| 9 | You know you've got problems when your misandrist views can make Sean Hannity seem like a reasonable guy.Was that wrong? Should I not have done that? | /r/MensRights | 06/03/13 04:16 PM |
| -2 | Men's friendships with women 'driven by sexual attraction'Pretty much. Anyone familiar with Ladder Theory knows what's really going on here. If a guy has a female friend and doesn't want to have sex with her, it's only because he is currently getting laid by someone higher up on his ladder. | /r/seduction | 11/02/13 07:44 PM |
| 2 | I want to learn to dance!I took up ballroom partner dancing nearly 10 years ago, and it was far and away the best thing I ever did. Ever. My only regret is not learning it another 10 years earlier. | /r/seduction | 26/01/13 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Two girl dilemma...Wait, the (presumably) single girl was telling you to hook up with the attached girl? And the attached girl at no point dropped "my boyfriend" into conversation? Bitches be crazy. | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 04:55 AM |
| 2 | People who have pregnancy-producing sex and decide not to become parentsAnd how is that in any way relevant to why "shoulda kept it in your pants" only ever seems to be applied to men? If anyone ever tells a woman that, they are invariably some religious anti-sex fundie bent on denying all sexual freedom to women. | /r/MensRights | 07/01/13 01:50 PM |
| 4 | People who have pregnancy-producing sex and decide not to become parentsWomen buy them, too. They also have hormonal birth control, diaphragms, IUDs, and when push comes to shove, abortion and adoption. Why does the existence of birth control mean anything different for men than it does for women? | /r/MensRights | 06/01/13 09:57 PM |
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