Dystaxia Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why BDSM Works So Well With Women This tends to be prominent among people with careers where they have a ton of responsibility and are accountable; C-level executives and such. Ton of control in their day-to-day life that the release from that is cathartic. Someone mentioned you'd have your work cut out for you and I think a big factor to this is being able to consistently demonstrate to your partner that capacity for control in the rest of your life if the bedroom is not where it will be on display.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/21 09:47 PM
2	Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person? I wholeheartedly agree that we're wired differently but just because someone operates differently doesn't necessitate dehumanizing them and renouncing that people often deserve respect. Do you regard your own family members this callously too?	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 05:16 PM
7	Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person? Damn, you salty. They're still people dude.	/r/askTRP	23/12/18 05:06 PM
3	Girl I'm seeing found TRP posts in my reddit history and I think it killed my chances with her. How do I recover? This changes everything.	/r/askTRP	22/10/18 04:56 PM
2	Got Girls Number; think I Might've come off as needy. Need Help You demonstrated high investment and it may have turned her off. Wait for a while without contacting her and then reach out in a couple weeks if you haven't heard from her. In the meantime, find some new girls and apply the lesson you learned.	/r/askTRP	17/09/18 04:34 AM
96	Wanting more than sex You want intimacy, not just sex. Nothing wrong with that. Need someone to fuck your brain too, not just ride the dick.	/r/askTRP	17/09/18 04:30 AM
1	Got fucked drunk and fucked a random girl and i regret it big time Sounds like you're more upset about your drinking then your actions. The comments have well established the consequences of what you did are not worth dwelling on but next time you drink be better concerned with moderation so you can make better decisions. Getting too drunk happens, it will happen again, but you'll be better prepared to avoid it moving forward.	/r/askTRP	13/09/18 02:58 PM
1	Do girls tell their friends when they fuck a guy or keep it secret? Yeah, more or less. A lot of general social wisdom but definitely geared toward dating. Fair bit of it's garbage but equally as much is sage advice.	/r/askTRP	09/09/18 06:22 PM
2	Are all women this stupid? I've thought of money as simply a means to save time but only in circumstances of extreme wealth, never explicitly like this. I find it harder to keep the abstraction consistent in cases of poverty where it simply means survival but then again, not dying is time preserved too. Thank you for the food for thought. This might have a dramatic effect on my outlook moving forward.	/r/askTRP	26/04/18 02:17 AM
1	I’ve noticed holding frame physically(posture,dominant positions) makes it easier holding frame mentally. Absolutely. We use specific body language when we feel confident and powerful. It's not a one way street though and powerful, confident body language will have the same effect in us mentally. Here is a fantastic TED talk in the subject.	/r/askTRP	21/04/18 03:14 PM
2	Cringing at people saying blue pill things to me. That's not panicking and losing frame, it would be making a joke and establishing one.	/r/askTRP	21/04/18 03:12 PM
11	Cringing at people saying blue pill things to me. "Babe, it's Tinder. I ain't looking for love."	/r/askTRP	21/04/18 07:38 AM
6	40+ year old father gets laid like a warlord and here's how I think you get diminishing returns on the younger is better. Depends if you just want a fuck or company but 19 year olds have relatively little life experience and are far less relatable. I believe older women are polarized in terms of character. You'll have the ones that never had anything but good youthful looks and when that fades are hollow because they used their appeal as a crutch through life but then others that have developed personalities that only the experiences of life can hone. De…	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/18 05:17 PM
2	What to do during summers off from college? Coming home and being around people who only know the "old you" is incredibly depressing. Show them the new you then. If your only way to fill the time is lift, new you is just having new friends. Prove that wrong. What are your hobbies with your new friends? Do those things and invite old friends along. If they aren't interested in any of those things evaluate, do you like your hobbies or the companionship more? Then either find a middle ground or spend more time doing your own thing.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 08:07 AM
2	Hard next worthy? You don't seem bothered by her changing your plans but you are that she fucked someone else. Need to straighten your priorities. Your time and attention is valuable, the relationship you two have is not. Why do you think she flaked? Probably because she just wanted to have fun and you're invested. Take a step back and figure out what's really important.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 08:01 AM
1	What happened with this girl? You've made yourself available a couple of times and she passed on it. If she wants to take you up on the offer she will let you know when she's free and find a mutually agreeable time. In the meantime, you assume the ship has sailed and keep living your life to the fullest. Find another friend to go bowling with. Edit: I know you aren't OP but I used the original situation as context.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 07:53 AM
3	What happened with this girl? This screams orbiter. You won't be there waiting for her to be bored because you lead an exciting life and another opportunity will have presented itself. You'll have old girls hitting you up and hoping that you can find some time to spend with them. You wait for no one. Time is too short.	/r/askTRP	02/04/18 07:49 AM
7	What happened with this girl? Maybe her perspective changed later on or she might not have ever been sincerely interested. Sometimes it's easier to appease in person then backtrack later on.	/r/askTRP	01/04/18 11:12 PM
1	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far Yeah, absolutely agreed. By many I just meant that there is a category of people who are susceptible to video games as a detrimental medium specifically. I acknowledge that was a bit ambiguous.	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/18 05:59 AM
4	I quit gaming a month ago: my backstory and the results so far I think that's a gross generalization. I'm someone who struggles with moderation for video games and recently had to cut them out completely because it was impacting my personal and professional obligations. I don't have any problems regulating drinking or other potentially addictive habits however. On the other hand, some people have no problems with games but struggle with other things. Some mediums can be specifically detrimental because everyone is unique. Video games falls within that categ…	/r/TheRedPill	08/02/18 08:12 PM
28	Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at me Agree and amplify. Ask her if she has a brother. Or if you really want to stir the pot, tell her she looks plenty manly enough, that's not the issue.	/r/TheRedPill	28/12/17 09:36 PM
5	This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here. Honestly, the relationship with the wife was garbage the entire time but the bond with the kids would still be the same. I wouldn't want to completely check out because there is so much more there regarding the children that can't be erased by the revelation. Then again, they are also 20 at this point so not dependent. Thailand wouldn't be so bad.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/17 08:06 PM
25	This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here. If you got into a long term relationship with someone who already had children and you raised those kids for 18 years, they would still be your kids in your mind. Biologically no but he was still the only father they ever really knew. To those children and how their lives were impacted, their real dad was nothing but a sperm donor.	/r/TheRedPill	17/12/17 08:02 PM
1	How do you guys spend your free time productively? For the host or the traveller?	/r/askTRP	07/12/17 05:23 PM
5	Why is there a meme of all white women always secretly wanting black guys? Hahaha, good. It's only a trend because father's such as yourself hate it, otherwise it wouldn't be so alluring.	/r/askTRP	04/12/17 05:56 AM
1	Why do I feel so lonely after sex with girls? I'd look into impermanence. Everything ends so enjoy the journey and not worry so much about the destination.	/r/askTRP	27/11/17 07:12 AM
4	Guys who actually raised their "SMV" and went through the whole self-improvement process, how did it impact your life outside of just women alone? While I disagree wholeheartedly about working out not being self-improvement, we're on the same page about people being motivated by women more than they should.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 10:00 AM
2	Guys who actually raised their "SMV" and went through the whole self-improvement process, how did it impact your life outside of just women alone? Dictionary.com says "improvement of one's mind, character, etc., through one's own efforts." I don't understand the disconnect.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 09:48 AM
1	Guys who actually raised their "SMV" and went through the whole self-improvement process, how did it impact your life outside of just women alone? Self-improvement isn't just for women, they are a side-effect of being the best you can be. If you are only going to take care of yourself because you want to get laid, you're going to be an unfulfilled and lonely person.	/r/askTRP	23/11/17 09:03 AM
20	Establish frame by giving less fucks Mannerism akin to that exhibited by a sashay.	/r/TheRedPill	15/11/17 08:36 AM
69	When She Talks About Other Men Lmao. I was trying to understand what sort of metaphor the commenter was getting at and if it was true in a literal sense until I realized it was a bot.	/r/TheRedPill	23/10/17 09:06 AM
1	How calling out a girl made her want me Good work recognizing that you're in anger phase. It can be easy to get caught up in that. I'm going to play devil's advocate and say that there isn't anything wrong with attention seeking, it's why the attention is being sought. I think a lot of people (attention seekers especially) don't really analyze it deeper. What do you do with the attention once you receive it? Most people seek it for validation which is the crux of the issue which you nailed. Ideally you want to internalize as much of y…	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/17 08:34 PM
5	What's the reality of pick up? Become a polarizing individual. You will never attract or please everyone in the world and trying to makes you boring as hell. If you become more bold, brazen, more you, the ones that are interested will be more outwardly interested and the ones that aren't you can assess immediately and not invest time in a lost pursuit.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/17 07:58 PM
1	ONS Can't Comprehend Why I Don't Pay for Dates Pay for the coffee if you want to pay for the coffee. Don't pay for it as a leveraging tool. It's manipulative and not even in an effective manner, just callous.	/r/TheRedPill	24/09/17 07:53 PM
4	Nice Guys are Fucking Boring I suggest reading the book No More Mr. Nice Guy for a more complete exposition of what he's trying to get at. The thing is that the majority of Nice guys(tm) are nice so that by the grace of their nice behaviour people will give them what they want. They get frustrated for not achieving their desires despite being the perfect gentleman for people. They put others first as a strategy to accomplish their goals instead of putting themselves first. The result is unflattering, needy, and people who b…	/r/TheRedPill	13/09/17 10:34 PM
28	A Word For Those Back At College I mean it is unabashedly about picking up women but it just so happens that the best way to do so is to be the best man you can be. Transferable lessons are the best lessons.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/17 05:12 AM
10	How To Develop God Tier Eye Contact \| The real reason why you can't maintain strong eye contact with a woman. Your personal anecdote doesn't dismiss the possibility of it actually occurring.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/17 07:23 PM
3	I have been practicing Stoicism for 3 years now and the quality of my life has increased dramatically because of these 3 exercises. One from each of the greats: Epictetus, Seneca, And Marcus Aurelius. Try them and tell me what you think in two weeks. Either way, if you wake up at any consistent time like clockwork and subject yourself to a stimulating yet uncomfortable routine, you'll still be building that grit.	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/17 01:59 AM
6	Dope Living The idea of this isn't to have underactive dopamine receptors, it's to sensitize them by reducing the flood of rewarding activities that don't contribute positively to your life.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/17 09:44 PM
1	An hour later.. Welcome to the secret society.	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/17 07:11 PM
5	Reminder: a lot of guys are just plain incompatible with girls It's how you talk about it, not what you talk about. You can go on and on about your collection of old clocks and if you own it they'll hang onto every word. If you're getting shit thrown at you for talking about animals it has nothing to do with the animals.	/r/TheRedPill	16/04/17 02:52 PM
1	Am I TheRedPill material? Those that feel the most out of place likely need this place the most. If one bad comment exchange pushes you out of a community then you're also likely to leave a bar too after getting denied at an approach. I'm not sure what your posts said because they were deleted but stick it out and lurk for a while. You got called out on passive aggressiveness then got a non-answer genuinely trying to figure out the ropes. That's passive aggressiveness if I've ever seen it. Fuck what he thinks and welcome…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/17 07:53 PM
45	Am I TheRedPill material? Honestly lacking the bitterness is the healthiest thing for this sub. Without a stream of healthily adjusted recruits this place will become an echo chamber for pissed off 'victims'. This post might be an unpopular opinion but this is how I see things. A lot of these people are frustrated and angry because they've have had experiences they can't rationalise. Truth be told most of them should only be angry at themselves and channel it to better themselves. People angry at women are playing victim…	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/17 12:36 AM
5	Last week I called the police to remove a girl from my property. Here's the short and long version. I'll entertain the idea to always hold frame so let's establish motivations now. What does he want from this girl? Absolutely nothing. She has demonstrated that she's a lunatic and any relation will be surely severed at this point. He wants her to leave so he can get on with his business. To stick to his frame he needs to follow through with this demand and remove her from his property. He can't physically escort her out of his house without losing frame and more importantly rational fear of the…	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/17 07:16 AM
8	Last week I called the police to remove a girl from my property. Here's the short and long version. Some women crave fights for that power dynamic to really be established. Absurdly toxic.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/17 07:05 AM
3	I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it. I'm going to play devil's advocate with this one. Is there really a difference? Why is it alright to think something yet be condemned to express it?	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/17 05:30 PM
2	Basic Approach to Bodybuilding for Newbs He did say nothing was available locally, not that it was too expensive.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/16 05:09 PM
1	Basic Approach to Bodybuilding for Newbs There is a book called Convict Conditioning worth checking out. It has all sorts of bodyweight exercises with variations for different levels of ability.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/16 05:08 PM
1	Abundance Mentality for Everything. I think it's one of those things you can fake until you make though. Embracing the mentality will help to create abundance in your life.	/r/TheRedPill	13/12/16 01:04 PM
1	Is Anyone Else Enjoying The Complete Meltdowns Appearing All Over Facebook I'm not enjoying it because a lot of it isn't unwarranted. There have already been countless reports of harassment and assaults by racist and bigoted supporters and those are very real and terrifying for the people impacted. It's not just the opposition that is deluded about what Trump will do but also his most impassioned and extremist supporters who think that his success means a free ticket to openly harass and assault minorities. People are acting on this and minorities are not wring for bei…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/16 09:01 PM
1	Woman punches guy, she gets fractured skull when he defends himself, most in society want to crucify the man She talked about beating up an ex-boyfriend in her book and tons of people thought it was hilarious since she's a woman, despite the fact that she's also essentially a lethal weapon.	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/16 04:48 PM
2	Redditor disappointed that her brother-in-law has turned from a beta to the TRP ways, it is working, and he is probably going to stick with it. It happens. Have a glass of water to help wash it down. It's fear of that which terrifies me about ever having bad blood with girls I've slept with. Don't burn bridges.	/r/TheRedPill	01/11/16 05:57 PM
3	If you're a TRP newbie, you absolutely have to do this Tinder experiment Care to elaborate on your date plans?	/r/TheRedPill	22/10/16 10:34 PM
18	Here's a whole mess of relevant quotes from Patrice O'Neal's Black Phillip Show. One thing I really like about Patrice and these gems is that there is no anger or contempt. It's just very matter of fact without blame or bitter feelings. He got it.	/r/TheRedPill	06/10/16 12:25 AM
20	My Blue Pill friend's wife cheated on him and he's still Blue Pill! Yeah. I love how opinions on climate and political leaning make you inherently blue pill.	/r/TheRedPill	04/09/16 07:57 PM
1	Eighteen year old child at my work is driving me mad! Rule 9 of the 48 Laws of Power. Win through your actions, never through argument.	/r/TheRedPill	25/08/16 04:27 PM
1	"Should I tell my partner how many lovers I've had?" I don't think people are necessarily against having sex with people who like to have copious amounts of sex but that they want only sex with these people and are hesitant to explore a more committed relationship with them.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/16 06:29 PM
2	GayLubeOil Fills You with his Esoteric Wisdom Physiologically but mentally less so.	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/16 05:54 PM
9	HumanSockPuppet's Guide to Teasing Bitches Game is always possible. Weak excuse dude.	/r/TheRedPill	09/08/16 06:12 PM
10	Using Psychedelics for Personal Development. Psychedelics are a strange beast though. It is hard to regard it exclusively as escapism because if you are tripping with intention for personal development you'll be brought face to face with all the issues you normally just keep in the back of your mind and don't give much thought.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 02:34 PM
6	Using Psychedelics for Personal Development. I wouldn't say DMT is as valuable for person development because of how intense it is. It's abrupt and so jarring that you can't really ponder the things in your life you'd like to improve, only hold on and enjoy the ride. It's likely to promote a lot of existential questions but less so ones applicable for personal growth.	/r/TheRedPill	28/06/16 02:32 PM
2	Man is upset to discover his wife is stripping nude on a beach while on vacation without him. Relationships subreddit calls him a shitlord, tells him to man up and accept her open sexuality. Yeah, this is what's become of male dignity. Right? The only way to secure your LTR is to divorce over a picture she sent you of her and her best friend nude. What the fuck...	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 07:42 AM
-3	Man is upset to discover his wife is stripping nude on a beach while on vacation without him. Relationships subreddit calls him a shitlord, tells him to man up and accept her open sexuality. Yeah, this is what's become of male dignity. I don't see what the big deal is and the response to this post is ridiculous. You all sound insecure as fuck. The most logical explanation is that the photo was sent by the wife herself using some temporary number or something. Perhaps one of the other 2 girls the pictured women are with has a plan and took the photo. The caption was a damn smiley face. They're having fun and figured she'd send her husband a photo. How some of you guys twist a fucking smiley face into a guy who letting you know …	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 07:32 AM
1	What 6 Months Of Lifting Will Do Big cities have a different dynamic to them. The pace of life is much faster and everyone has somewhere to be; no time for pleasantries. Toronto can be the same way.	/r/TheRedPill	27/06/16 06:39 AM
8	Thoughts on being unattractive on purpose Look at it this as an example of how ineffective affectionate behaviour is and then identify any of these things you do and should avoid.	/r/TheRedPill	04/05/16 07:58 PM
1	any suggestions or help Do you exercise? Get out of the house and work up a sweat. Go to a park and do pull ups until your arms fall off. Run til you pass out. Wake up, eat, and get out there. This will help your mood from the exercise, give you good time to think things through while you get over things, improve your physical fitness, and get you out of the house.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/16 04:12 AM
1	guy's gf shows him a red pill truth with her throat Canadian here but most of the time when greeting friends we hug. I imagine it's common in the US too.	/r/TheRedPill	24/01/16 03:23 AM
2	Removing beta tells from your default vocabulary. Time to kill the Canadian in me.	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/15 06:08 PM
2	Woman disgusted when guy acts like a gentleman during their 'date'. But an attractive alpha wouldn't act like that. Your premise is faulty. This guy could be great looking and he'd still flop because he was overbearing as hell. His attitude sucked and the whole thing was cringey.	/r/TheRedPill	12/09/15 07:19 PM
2	Woman convinces boyfriend to kill himself so she can become self-proclaimed advocate for mental health on Facebook. Crying on the news about a murder and getting attention from it is a very distant second from actually comitting the murder. I don't think that the majority of people are as twisted as you make them out to be.	/r/TheRedPill	01/09/15 08:44 PM
1	A true Alpha can (and will) do or say what ever he likes and women will always acknowledge that confidence. He has had some fallout from companies that are no longer working with him but because he's such a successful business man, those conpanies are just drops in the bucket. Other people would not be able to jeopardize such relations but he doesn't have to worry that way. It's mind boggling how successful of a campaign it has been. I mean as much as I want Hilary to take it, I'm impressed.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/15 11:42 AM
1	A true Alpha can (and will) do or say what ever he likes and women will always acknowledge that confidence. It's fuck you money. If another candidate just as confident went up and said any of the shit Trump has, the guy would be demolished if he didn't have the bank locked down that Trump has. He definitely has that deeply rooted character about him though and I guarantee it was a critical piece of the puzzle to making his fortune. That being said, regarding his campaign, the money is monumental because he can afford the fallout. Not giving a fuck doesn't make you immune to consequence.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/15 04:11 AM
3	[FR] Going from 175 to 195 in 6 months. Dzuari's lazymans guide to getting jacked Also with fasted lifting, BCAAs before can help reduce muscular atrophy during the workout. Alternatively, if you aren't working out fasted, eating some protein is just as effective. I can dig up some sources later if anybody gives a shit.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/15 03:18 AM
7	Matthew McConaughey Speaks RP Truth It's all about delivery. People are receptive to ideas when they are presented in a fun way. Alternatively, nobody wants to be preached at.	/r/TheRedPill	19/08/15 05:17 PM
2	High energy and manning an empty dance floor I always admired those who could manifest the energy in a venue without having to feed on something already pleasant. This post was very encouraging. Next time... To those that don't have any issue with doing so, be the guy that pressured OP! Break your friends out of their quiet mold in situations like this. You'll all have a better time and they'll thank you for it.	/r/seduction	01/08/13 11:19 PM
2	How the hell do you maintain eye contact for so long? Even better, in a mirror making eye contact with yourself!	/r/seduction	01/08/13 11:14 PM
5	How the hell do you maintain eye contact for so long? I just imagined saying that and then looking in another direction. I can't help but laugh.	/r/seduction	01/08/13 11:10 PM