DysthymicEconomist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
638	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward.	DysthymicEconomist	/r/seduction	24/02/13 10:16 PM
22	Amuse yourself.	DysthymicEconomist	/r/seduction	16/03/13 09:00 PM
20	Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only.	DysthymicEconomist	/r/seduction	06/08/13 09:23 PM
1	Science behind desire: applicable beyond the scope of the title.	DysthymicEconomist	/r/seduction	21/02/13 07:24 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only. But you've only been with me for one night, less than a full day, not even 3 hrs. You want to change me after that?? Well of course I don't mean you but some of the girls I was with... isn't it a little too soon to be investing that much effort? "I want to change a guy I've met 3hrs ago and show him true love" said hopefully no one ever haha.	/r/seduction	09/08/13 03:49 AM
7	Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only. I establish my terms before we even fuck... well maybe establish is too strong. I do however tell them, without any wordplay, that I'm not interested in emotions and relationships. They know before anything goes down exactly what I'm after and not.	/r/seduction	07/08/13 12:15 AM
1	Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only. Np thanks for the reply, I guess guys have emotions too. Just a conjecture: if you guys did fuck, would you have been instantly turned off if she said "I love you?" Would like some confirmation before I ruin my reputation with every person I sleep with in the future ever.	/r/seduction	07/08/13 12:13 AM
6	Help me shift from boyfriend worthy to sex-worthy only. This is actually a splendid idea; I'll at least get one go before they cut off all contact with me, label me a creep/stalker/psycho in front of their friends, and rid me of all obligations for the future! Now if only I could establish a clean NSA FWB relationship without the emotional connection for more than one night. Some of them I really would like to see again.	/r/seduction	07/08/13 12:09 AM
3	How would you demonstrate value if you COULD NOT talk? Eye contact speaks volumes, but only if you can see each other. Probably more applicable in the day than night.	/r/seduction	06/03/13 09:40 AM
2	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward. Attraction is an attitude, and you won't be until you believe you are. So believe and become. You should also do things like groom, hit the gym, and maybe invest in your wardrobe. But attraction at its core is still an attitude independent of all your physical manifests.	/r/seduction	25/02/13 08:37 AM
23	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward. In what world do we live in that we can't want multiple things? Can an individual not handle wanting both, knowing that the former leads to the latter?	/r/seduction	25/02/13 04:59 AM
19	Sex isn't the goal. Attraction is the goal, and sex is the reward. Put a different way, they won't have sex with you unless they're attracted to you. In my experience being overly focused on sex without establishing enough trust, comfort, desire, and of course attraction leads to a quick rejection. Therein lies my priority. But I suppose if you like quick exchanges, Apocalypse opener would do the trick. I also have faith our readers are not all simpletons that can only focus on one dimension of seduction. Attraction and sex are not mutually exclusive. But we ca…	/r/seduction	25/02/13 04:54 AM