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| 1 | Porn analytics reveal surplus of queer men?A lot of this comes down to the difference between object attraction and attraction to a whole person. Some men are aroused by penises as a sexual object, but not by men as bodies, personalities, or partners. Sexual arousal can be highly specific. A penis can function as a fetish object on its own, separate from the rest of the male form. The key is the self-referential kind of arousal: the penis is exciting not only as an organ, but because it is mentally linked to his own body, role, or imagin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Porn analytics reveal surplus of queer men?A lot of this comes down to the difference between object attraction and attraction to a whole person. Some men are aroused by penises as a sexual object, but not by men as bodies, personalities, or partners. Sexual arousal can be highly specific. A penis can function as a fetish object on its own, separate from the rest of the male form. Also mind the self-referential kind of arousal: the penis is exciting not only as an organ, but because it is mentally linked to his own body, role, or imagine… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:44 AM |
| 1 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menNever settle for a partner like this, have better standards than putting a side chick on a pedestal, no matter what your external value is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 04:04 PM |
| 2 | We need to stop the contradictions/gaslighting towards menJust remember that women wanting “vulnerable” men in theory but punishing it in practice, viewing it as a lack of control or utility. Both genders enforce this, but women’s expectations amplify the disconnect. Never look for external validation and be careful with ho you decide to open too, unfortunately. There are good, high value woman who gets it, but that is women side of "top 10%" but... men are easier to lower their standards in picking the parntner, even if they are the 'high value' men o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.open relationships = FWB | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 11:50 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Exactly, unlike some pathological immature alphas who are 'wannabe' just that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 07:30 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Giggling average men who listen to this that they will benefits from you who decided to "settle for less" and you average men should feel lucky. You average men with some profits, stability, and professional gains kicking in, who early life tests quiet, alone building resilience, making the native ready for deep, enduring achievements by late 30s methodically, while still appreciating you but don't need you really :) enjoying few satisfying platonic relationships with depth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 12:44 AM |
| 2 | Getting laid as a guy shouldn't be this difficultI feel you, focus on yourself brother, in the end you are the prize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 3 | When women say they don't want dating to be transactional, they mean they don't want it to be that way for women onlySame thing goes to vulnerability, women are big part of the problem. Men should be disciplined not lustful and don't give attention just like that and have better standards, be very picky, then we might change see change in how women behave, because being gentleman is out of the water when there are not ladies around anymore, only prostitution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Courting's not a scam, its an effective strategyNo problem at all if you know each other a little more especially and want a little more, but if we speak of dinner dates for two at high end restaurant ~200, after dinner drinks ~80, possibly taxis here and there, ~350 total, so if we insist on dates to be wined and dined, communicating that you are higher values lady who know their worth, when in reality it's also advertisement for sexual opportunity worth ~350, which is actually on the low end when it comes to escort in most major western cit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | We should try to convince women to appreciate non-financial value in male partners.Don;t bother with these type of women. Sepceialy once a man control his lust, you will realise how boring and undesirable for something serious 90% of women are in todays world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.This is so weak man... do some introspection on this, and stop asking for money.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 09:23 PM |
| 1 | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyNarcissistic weak men with fragile self worth who project their weaknesses on others in form of a test and manipulation tactic for dominance for coverup their weaknesses spots are always more exciting thahealthu self worth without the need to prove and dominate others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely want to return to traditional gender roles ?Some do, some don't. Be consciously transactional, some will offer what you want and vice versa, don't care about what other thinks, and leave the herd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.Don't care what other people thinks, people project many of their weaknesses and hurts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:29 AM |
| -7 | Female double standards regarding insecurityWomen like that don't deserve respect, they are just cum bags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Why do u claim sëx or datìng doesn't matter when u all are themselves not celibatê ?You can, but it's not healthy, for you mainly and pathway for never ending disaster, but you can. I mean you are right, but "you can't love someone if you don't love yourself" is untrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 04:58 AM |
| – | Is picking up girls worth it when your aim is to get married and have a nuclear family?One of the sadder pieces of advice that proved true came from a hotel bartender who told me to take off my ring if I wanted to eat & drink in peace at the bar. Got approached far less often, and the few women who chatted me up accepted "I'm married" with absolute grace. Some college guys also wear fake weeding ring, they get laid more often, and when girl finding out they are single they are outraged. 😂 Food for thought, and if you want to have more girls interested for you to get laid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/25 12:52 AM |
| – | You have no excuses for dating failures if you aren’t putting in 100%That doesn’t mean orienting my life and decision around women tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 04:34 PM |
| – | You have no excuses for dating failures if you aren’t putting in 100%Orienting my life and decisions around women? Are we serious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Does a woman asking a man out make him respect her and the relationship less?in current damaged times and unfair treatment towards men in general I would encourage them to do it even more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:31 AM |
| 18 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.sleeping with men much more impressive than you?, up there in social status? or just simply not possessed by lust? because the first two is not guaranteed in any way it won't happen in his circle which make you the same, but more exclusive. Only when men aim is beyond lust, because this is the main reason of this unfortunate circumstance IMHO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Is a shame right? Almost everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:12 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Sorry if you haven’t seen better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:05 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Lots of them, status and earring and looks don’t make you high value, sorry if you haven’t seen any better and like those men fucks around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 07:02 AM |
| 1 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.So cheating is ok yes? sorry if you haven't seen anything better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 06:46 AM |
| 0 | It's impossible for women to "pick better" when it comes to infidelity.Does a man have the option to cheat? >>> Yes. >>> He will cheat. Nonsense, low value men are controlled by biological sex, urges, lust etc., highly desirable, beautiful, wealthy TOP 1% men - this is not definition of high value men, many of those kinds of men are still low value and controlled by lower level of sexual energy, urges, dopamine hits etc., ultimately just like you said it yourself social conditioning, rat race, and low value men, those on top and bottom regardless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Do men genuinely understand that love-bombing is real — and that it’s their responsibility?Yes, on the other hand what puts me off and what I dislike when women play feminine, innocent girl, pretending to be inexperienced with the partner later to manipulate for resources and attention while she's normal and promiscuous with FWB and one night stands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 03:39 AM |
| 1 | You cannot condition people into liking what they don't like.In the end I rather focus on higher spectrums of compatibility for me regardless of my preferences and learn who is and is not right for you, and who is to have your energy and attention, but if I can match then great and get 'full package'. Despite what toxic optimists say, not everyone is right for you regardless of your preferences, and not every lesson needs to be learned in pain. you can grow in greater ways by learning slowly and from a nurturing environment and people for you rather than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | If you don’t see the point in having female friends, you’d absolutely despise dating themeveryone despise dating, male and female. I hate that empty word 'dating', active middle ground between interview and hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | One of the biggest problems in dating is men *think* they want easy sex.Friends and neighbors make better sex partners than complete strangers and boyfriends/girlfriends no one’s getting clingy or asking “what are we” afterward. You can laugh, mess up, try weird stuff, and then both leave with your dignity - have fun, get experience let the more serious part build organically, both men and women need to stop manipulating for their wants and whims like evil kids with no emotional maturity and intelligence withholding good sex from the man you really like and trying t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Using sex to get a (good) man or keep a man hardly ever works.Using is wrong, but doing the right things with wrong men, the ones you don't want, and withholding the good stuff and playing innocent unfuckable feminine with those you want is not good if you want to keep a man, at ease and motivated, progressing doing his thing, wanting to come back to you, like the ones you don;t give a fuck about. Same goes to men in their way of doing things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | If Women Truly Want Good Men, Why Aren’t They Their First Choice?..while most still doing the wrong things with those they want, and right things with those they don't want, wich is what they would want. Same goes to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/25 10:56 AM |
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