| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 325 | Sit next to that girl | E-money7 | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 03:24 PM | |
| 36 | A good way to improve social skills, talking with 10s and all around charisma | E-money7 | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:29 AM | |
| 11 | Being charming | E-money7 | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 08:46 PM |
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| 3 | 2020 Stop faking who you are for womenI understand what youre trying to get across but I think you could approach it better from a different perspective. Please correct if I'm wrong but what you're saying is a combination of the obvious, "do not lie about everything (i.e dont say yourr in the NFL when you are not), but also embrace your personality no matter the consequences (within reason of course). As this embracing of your own personality is empowering and allows you to appear more confident." Authenticity seemingly is important… | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.How so? | /r/seduction | 04/07/18 05:06 PM |
| 5 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?Wow, what an answer. Lmao | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 05:23 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?But she isn't single. She is dating op. And he isn't just disrespecting her, he is disrespecting op. He is acting like it doesn't matter if she has a bf, he is going to fuck her anyway. If you take this kind of shit, his gf will leave him because he is a pussy and she would do so rightfully. If OP doesn't at least set some sort of boundary, you either want her to cheat or leave you or you simply do not value her in your relationship. OP don't listen to these wanna be "alpha" guys on this thread … | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 05:21 PM |
| 33 | How to deal with another guy hitting on my girl?Its not about being secure its about this dude blantently disrespecting not only him but also his girlfriend. This guy obviously knows he is dating her but pursues anyway. He is essentially calling this guy a pussy to his face and that not respecting his girlfriends wishes. If you think this is ok then you're a pussy as well. Not acknowledging this makes you're gf think you're a pussy but also don't care about your relationship. This is shit advice. | /r/seduction | 23/12/17 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Never had a girlfriend. Need helpSocial skills are a learned skill, and just like any other learned skill you must practice it to master it. While the following advice may be unpopular with those who believe the "friendzone" is the root of all evil, I think at your age it is a very important to learn how to simply become comfortable talking to the opposite sex. Begin with being friendly with girls, if you can (as in you don't have assigned seats in class) simply start with sitting next to some of the more attractive girls in cl… | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 10:34 PM |
| 11 | A good way to improve social skills, talking with 10s and all around charismaTIPS: most of these can be found here somewhere so I know you probably know them but I'll list what I did anyway: 1) PRACTICE YOUR SMILE: It is one of your most powerful tools, and despite what most believe you CAN improve it! -literally look at yourself in the mirror every morning and every night and smile. -find out what looks best when you smile -I would/still do practice my smile after I brush my teeth when I wake up and go to bed. -and if anything else, this literally makes you happier, so … | /r/seduction | 02/09/15 04:31 AM |
| 2 | As a bald man , my experience differs on looks. Not sure what else can I do ?Hey dude, started balding when I was 18, I'm not completely bald yet, but I'm just now turning twenty. I have had plenty of girls with this look, its really not too much of a problem. You just have to embrace it. Also I do not have a beard. I do wear a hat often, especially when I go out. Main thing is, is you have to gain some muscle. Get a good body, get great fitting clothes and most of all be confident. Don't act like it bothers you. Also try to find some good sunglasses that fit your face, … | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 03:29 AM |
| 6 | Sit next to that girlThis will definitely work. Dating coaches hate u/CromsBalls | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Sit next to that girlHaha it really depends man, I mean if you're like a solid 2 and going after a 9 then probably not, but if you you're charming enough anything can happen, I have gotten girls way out of my league with this. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Sit next to that girlOk, first off my statement wasn't any more of a shot at you than any of your statements against me. So please don't think you are on the high road. I was nice in my first comment but after you're second comment of being a debbie downer, I said something. How you speak reeks of insecurity. You seem to think you're better than everyone else. And since you like to quote, let me take a stab here. Also, "move on to the next girl" really? You don't think your professional reputation among your peers w… | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 06:03 AM |
| 8 | Sit next to that girlEither way it really doesn't matter, thats the beauty of it. Even if they are playing along, its still good practice and confidence booster. Just don't be a cynic all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Sit next to that girlI really don't think so man, both of these girls were friends of mine, so they were probably pretty biased. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Sit next to that girlI see this literally all the time. Look around man | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:23 AM |
| 6 | Sit next to that girlFirstly, you sound like you're a blast at parties mr. positive. Well obviously you wouldn't do that in a 20 person class, and move on to the next girl. I assumed people would have common sense. I did it in my Ochem class that has about 180 people in it. Yes this approach is meant for bigger classes however, if you see a girl in a 20 person class and you think she is worth the risk then go for it. The worst thing that will happen is that she is not interested. Again, look at my previous comment. … | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Sit next to that girlWell, only really had two girls actually rate me in looks but both said a 7.5 out of ten so I guess average. I workout with weights, clean shaven, always like to be well dressed and smell good (really key). I'm not the best looking guy (receding hairline and it's pretty bad, brother went bald at 21 but I'll typically bring it up as self depreciating humor, so I own it). But I now have a lot of confidence because as many of you say, fake it till you make it. And I made it. Also I understand how t… | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Sit next to that girlWell, that is more difficult. If the class is important certainly don't talk through the whole thing, also try to observe how she is taking the class. It may be a joke of a class to you but she may take it very seriously. If you act like it isn't important to you, than she will percieve you as a bad influence (not in a good way) and you will become annoying to her. Not good. So if she is taking diligent notes don't distract her, however if shes on her phone or facebook, talk to her. Observe her … | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Sit next to that girlHonestly, if she does respond negatively, it will not be as bad as you would think. You will be able to tell with her reaction (if you have any idea of social ques). For example, if she says, "oh... thanks?" then just introduce yourself and don't pursue, move on to the next girl. She will politely decline your intentions and that will be the end of it. She will take the compliment and go on her way. Its not like your being insulting or misogynistic. Now if you go up to her and say, "wow I have a… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Sit next to that girlOne of many perks :) | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Sit next to that girlIt's simple, but also takes a lot of balls, but you can do it! | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Sit next to that girlAgain, go for the surprise and genuine comment, sure they are used to hearing, "wow you're hot." Do the unexpected (which is what you're saying but you can use that to your advantage in a way that is sexual, and genuine). | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Sit next to that girlWell, I didn't quite do it in the sense that you might imagine. What girls don't like is when you are giving them an expected compliment. Say she is at a bar, and looking for someone to talk to hear. The generic compliment, like "hey gorgeous," or "wow you're stunning." This is expected, thus not genuine. Girls are not expected to be called pretty on the first day of class at 8am. I also go with cute because it is less threatening and more genuine. Also, make it a surprise, girls love spontaneou… | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 10:25 PM |
| 120 | Sit next to that girlI'm so sorry :( | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Sit next to that girlAgain, it has to do with your tone and delivery of your compliment. The key is to keep it charming and get her interested, not a blanket statement of, "youre hot, I want to bone you." | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Sit next to that girlAlways good to practice. What I did to get over my social anxiety was being flirty and friendly with cute waitresses and really helped me over time. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 04:27 PM |
| 13 | Sit next to that girlI agree, I don't just mean call her pretty and look away like a pussy. What I did was sit down next to her, looked her in the eye and said, "now you... you are cute (with a smile and smiling eyes), I'm E-money nice to meet you." I took a humorous approach because thats who I am. If you are more of a different personality then by all means do that! Use your personality because you are hopefully gonna keep charming her all class. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Sit next to that girlWorked out for me. Its certainly not a bad idea. | /r/seduction | 20/01/15 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Best advice to be charming?Excellent post, one of the most charming things you can do is to go above the typical compliment and perceive why she picked that article of clothing or whatever it may be and exclaim it to her. Also eye contact and a smile while doing this makes it genuine and really will make you memorable. | /r/seduction | 18/01/15 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Being charmingYea I agree, its not necessary but I guess I wasn't necessarily talking in the sense of picking them up as a first goal (however, as you mentioned, it wouldn't hurt that cause) | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 11:17 PM |
| 4 | Being charmingOk, I guess I was misinterpreting what confident means. Charming to me means, knowing how to lead the conversation to flatter the individual you are talking to. Of course being confident is a main factor in this but I do believe it is more than just being confident. But maybe I'm wrong? | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 11:10 PM |
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