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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me? | Advice | E13V | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/18 10:59 PM |
| 14 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age? | Advice | E13V | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Do shit tests actually happen irl? | Discussion | E13V | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 09:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop yourself from being anxious around a woman you find really attractive? | E13V | /r/askTRP | 25/04/19 07:17 AM | |
| 2 | Insecurity when dating a high SMV woman. | E13V | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 11:54 AM | |
| 1 | What is your mission and how did you find it? | E13V | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 02:39 PM | |
| 1 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself? | E13V | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:45 AM | |
| 1 | How did you find your mission? | E13V | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 02:14 PM |
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| 1 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?Why don't you accept it gracefully instead of finding some shitty excuses? Accept what? And which excuses? Yet people here don't give up when faced with adversity. I haven't given up either. Approaching is a waste of time for me in my current state. Nothing comes easy, quickly and effortlessly. I know. Which is why I've been hitting the gym 3 times a week since Feb. But there is little hope until I reach a certain physique/develop a certain style. I have a strong feeling you haven't actually rea… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?Becoming a desirable man who doesn't have to approach women, but have women approach him. As an alternative approach. Because, like I said, my current approach of being the chaser isn't working. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?What's your mission? Sounds like it's to not be a virgin anymore. Not necessarily. I don't know what my mission is. Getting laid is clearly something that I want. But it can't be my life mission You want to sex, so go get some sex. Urm.. Do I really have to say that it isn't this easy, especially for someone who is still just starting his journey to become desirable? Maybe you've been into TRP for a long time and you've forgotten how it was in the beginning. Or maybe you're a "chad" naturally. T… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 10:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?Why would you agree to becoming a 27yo virgin? I don't. There doesn't seem to be another way. Monk mode is mental masturbation. I don't intend on staying like this forever. Besides, isn't one of the core TRP teachings is to focus on your mission? I am convinced that women don't want a man who is chasing women, but want a man who is focused on his mission. This is the mode I'm trying to switch into. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Tinder study confirms that 80/20 rules applies to sexual attractionMen need to stimulate a woman into thinking sexual thoughts And how do you do that? I understand if you wouldn't like to type a lot but maybe at least give me a few things and send me in the right direction and I'll research by myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women really hate the idea of men improving themselves?Very relevant tweet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?If you say so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?I did want to have that experience. I just never got to. Besides, I thought women didn't think virginity was a big deal. You mentioned this twice so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?I posted the comment again as a reply to shanghai.. whatever his username was. Check above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?Why not? My roommate is American and he says he sometimes forget that I'm not an American. If I can get at least one American to say that, how do you know you wouldn't say the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?white american girls Why is everyone assuming I'm specifically pursuing white girls when I've literally never mentioned anything about race at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?There are definitely a few things that I need to think about long and hard. Thanks for the effort post. I will be coming back to this often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?You might hate the idea, but to be successful (if you want that) you need to cultivate a mask that fits your appearance. Or change your appearance to fit your personality. Or, most often, a mix of both. I feel this so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?Yeah.. I hate to say so but it seems that women feel so comfortable telling men to "just be yourself" and "someone will love you for who you are" because this is true in their own experience of the world. Men are rarely loved for who they are. Men are loved for what they are/make out of themselves. And I don't know whether this is a blessing or a curse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?I.. actually seem to focus on neither. I just do the thing that I do. When I go to the gym, I just do my sets and hardly think of the process. When I'm practicing a new song on the guitar I just straight up do it. I rarely think of how well I want to be playing this song. I just play it. But admittedly, there's is a goal in the back of my head, even if I don't think of it often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 09:02 PM |
| 3 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?who you are But who am I? what does "want you for who you are" even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?Surely there are but I've never been able to relate to a girl from my country. I have grown up with american/western culture in the form of movies, series, music, books, (video)games.. I even had a nickname in college back home..people used to call me "The American". I knew that I didn't belong, and others knew it as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:33 AM |
| 8 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?18-19 year olds already feel a bit too immature to me. This could be something I should look more into though. Thanks for the suggestion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?Continue working on the college thing, get a better career. In progress but this takes time. I can't make it go faster. Lift weights Started a few weeks ago. Feelsgoodman. Learn how to dress Also in progress. I can now confidently say that I know men's fashion better than the average man who never made a real effort and never put any actual thought in the way he dresses. But I still have a long way to go. Get fun hobbies I think I can say I'm sufficiently covered in this area. I play the guitar,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:14 AM |
| 2 | How do I (M24) navigate around the fact that my social status is far lower than it should be for my age?If you can do that, you can ask someone out You think I'm too afraid to ask someone out? That's not the problem. I do ask for dates, I just don't get any. At least not from any women I'm genuinely interested in. Like I said, I could go for someone far lower than me in the hierarchy (someone who dropped out of school for example I dunno) and I would probably get a date. I just.. I just have standards and refuse to settle. Not only for me, but for whoever I settle for as well. She's going to end u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/19 01:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?Yes but it went exactly the way you'd expect it to go for someone who doesn't have a program. I did some cardio and pushed myself a little. I didn't know how to use some machines properly. I asked a trainer and he said they offer courses on how to use machines safely and how to create a work out program. They're affordable so I signed up immediately. My course starts Nov 29th. Until then I'll keep going and doing whatever. Maybe ask some of the other guys for advice in the meantime. I'm going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?What the hell is frame? I also already got a gym subscription again and I'm going this evening after class. Have also been considering a self defense course as a gateway to martial arts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/18 09:22 AM |
| 3 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?"No time" is an excuse lazy people use to avoid the gym. I just subscribed to the gym again so fuck you (in a good way) I'm going tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?I was suggesting that you were a pussy, online or elsewhere. Were you? lmao. (You might have dropped a "not" there) Anyway. Thanks again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?I don't resent nor blame him. Him being the person that he is has led to me being the person that I am. And I don't like the person that I am. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?emotionally detached, calm and unwavering I find myself emotionally detached from a few things but very much attached to other things and I can't/don't know how to control this. leaking emotionally, forcing tears and dramatizing your internal state I'm only a pussy online. Have never done, or thought of doing, any of these things irl I find the rest of the comment inspiring. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?but going to the gym, doing regular powerlifting, swimming, diving, surfing, doing martial arts Thanks for the suggestions. I'll consider them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?yet still managed to achieve a few goals you find yourself struggling with. Lmao my father's marriage was basically arranged. And he sucks absolute ass at his job. My mother was basically the bread winner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:11 AM |
| 3 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?I'm not white | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?Start getting into manly hobbies. What are "manly" hobbies? I already play the guitar and some piano. And can do basic photography. I'm learning to cook currently. I read more books a year than the average person as well. So I'm no bookworm but I can also confidently say that I'm a reader. I love playing with PC hardware and overclocking and all that nice stuff but I'm not sure how much of a hobby that really is. If by "manly" you mean sports, there's is nothing I hate more than a crowd of smell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?physical fitness Got a gym subscription a few months ago but I cancelled it because I never had time to go. Going to a gym a few times a week means having to neglect some of my classes. It sounds like I'm making excuses I know. Suggest a workaround that doesn't involve literally building a home gym (because I don't have the money or the space of that) and I'll be glad to follow through. hygiene, grooming, wearing clean well-fitted clothes in style, taking care of your home I can confidently say … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:02 AM |
| 0 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?Is there something you like about yourself? I don't know. Do you have close friends that you like and respect? Not anymore. What parts of your life would you want to share with a partner? All of them? What do you hope to gain from a partnership yourself? I want someone that looks up to me that I can look up to at the same time. I want someone that can inspire me to be the best version of myself that I can possibly be, and inspire them to do the same. I want someone who takes care of me intensely… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?adoption of responsibility What does one mean when they say "Adoption of responsibility"? I mean, I already live independently from my parents (infact they still depend on me in many things) meaning I've moved out and have been providing for myself for a while now. What else is there to take responsibility for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How do I acquire the masculinity that my father miserably failed to teach me?Your first step would be to stop blaming your parents for the things you fail at. I don't blame him for being the person that he is, and don't expect anyone else to fix me except for myself. But can you deny that if I had had a father who had helped me navigate through these things I wouldn't be posting this? In short, he is part of the reason I am what I am today. But I don't blame him for being what he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:35 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion]What is The Purple Debate's Opinion of The Yellow Pill?No one from either "pill" thinks self-improvement and learning things are bad. There are many who are saying that it won't get me anywhere with women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity when dating a high SMV woman.What is black pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Insecurity when dating a high SMV woman.That's true. But I had the feeling that if I were in his shoes I'd feel the same so I wanted to know what you guys thought. I'll probably never be with a model though. But a man can dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:54 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion]What is The Purple Debate's Opinion of The Yellow Pill?Man I'm reading the replies to this thread and dying inside. I have taken the blue pill advice of self improvement and started improving myself by learning things. Seems like almost everyone here thinks this is a bad idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Do shit tests actually happen irl?Hi. May I ask you to elaborate on this a bit? As in, what kinds of tests you've used in the past, what results you'd like to see, what results you've gotten, etc.? I'd like to have everything you're willing to give me, if at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Do shit tests actually happen irl?I lurk here a lot and I read many of your comments. You seem to be quiet knowledgeable. Would you please elaborate on this a bit? How have these tests have been used on you in the past for example. Or, in case you're a woman, how you used them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/18 09:48 PM |
| 2 | What's your gender, age bracket and notch count? Have you lied about your count?Male, early 20's, 0. I can't lie if nobody even asks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/18 10:56 PM |
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