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QUEEN SH*TEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:57 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:14 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:57 PM
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NAH, SISEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:50 AM
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NAH, SISEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:24 PM
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MOID CONFESSIONSEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 07:52 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:37 PM
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NAH, SISEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:17 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:45 PM
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MOID CONFESSIONSEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:44 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?EAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:55 AM
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NAH, SISEAT_MY_ASS_MOIDS/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 03:40 AM
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Self pampering and self care do not mean that aren’t growing or successful in life….
/r/seduction24/04/21 09:10 AM
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This is exactly what I’m thinking. Sometimes she’s just not that into you and that doesn’t mean she sucks. People can reject you for any reason or no reason at all, and this doesn’t mean they’re foul, evil, or insufferable
/r/seduction24/04/21 09:09 AM
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The most unbelievable part of it all is that they SWEAR that life in Saudi Arabia is 100% paradise. That there's nothing wrong. They'll defend it to death. They'll deny there's even a problem. They'll attack anyone who criticizes Islam or Sharia law. They'll call you names and bash you for even DESCRIBING what life is like over there. ​ I've actually lived there. I've had family and friends and women in my life who've told me these things. It's baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:27 AM
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How easy is it for such women to shrug off the oppressive indoctrination they've been raised on? It's mind-numbingly difficult to deprogram religious brainwashing. I've been actively trying since May 2018 and I've barely budged :(. ​ I DID manage to decrease my anxiety and depression and learn to accept myself more, but change?? Not much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:54 PM
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Has ANYONE here actually lived in a society which enforces this lifestyle?? Has anyone here lived in a Sharia-law country?? ​ I've lived in Saudi Arabia for 5 years (sharia law) and I've also lived in Sharia Law Egypt for 3 years. ​ Guess what? Most marriages are dead bedroom situations. Yep, they got their wish. Everyone hates sex. It's not discussed. There are no inter-mingling of the genders in schools, and premarital sex is punishable by fines, lashes, and prison time, in some cases. Guess w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 09:17 PM
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Absolutely this. I can't imagine being upset because some man left me. There's so many men chasing, it's hard to get hung up on any one guy. Especially in 2020.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 03:53 AM
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The worst male authored piece of advice aimed at women that I've seen was "be honest about your sexual past" They want to know that info ASAP so it can be used against you later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 02:52 AM
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They’re also trying to avoid having to pay for child support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:37 PM
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I am a sugar baby, and a gold digging expert. I wouldn't date the men who are paying me an allowance without their exorbitant sums of cash, and the SECOND they stop paying me offensive sums of money for my time, They are ghosted and blocked, immediately. ​ The way I see it...we are both consenting adults, I state clearly and upfront that I am not looking for anything serious or long-term, and I state upfront that I'm not going to waste my time with someone who isn't going to provide me with an a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:24 PM
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Clear, cut and to the point. ​ I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 11:16 PM
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He must’ve been testing you to see if he could still have access while pretending to be broke. Men ABSOLUTELY test out how much "shit" you're willing to take, in ALL relationships. They push and push and push the boundary and the only way to respond to this is to nip it in the bud, as harshly as possible, the first time so they don't even try it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:37 PM
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While women's taste in men matures, men are stuck in their youth and really trying to compete with men 20+years younger than them. Agreed. I've had sugar daddies who wanted "no strings attached" ask me questions about who's messaging me like it's their business. Isn't that the point of NSA??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:57 PM
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I wish I could say, “Yeah, keep telling yourself that buddy. As soon as that cash stops she’ll be on the phone with your replacement.” Lol! I have in fact done this to a few men. Like I'm 19 and you're 67 years old. I CLEARLY STATED in my profile that I'm not looking for love. He tried to claim that he fell on hard times and couldn't afford to pay me after the first time "but still enjoyed my company and hoped we could be friends". I never responded to another call ever again, and he came crawli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:25 PM
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Is a lot of this inspired by Sherry Argov? I swear I was reading some of these exact ideas in her book last night. Great post. Really needed this reminder. You're seeing the same patterns that a lot of women have seen. Either you've watched this happen to your friends, or had it happen to you, or seen it happen to your siblings or parents. Men treat you worse when you're more into them than they are into you :( and it sucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:00 PM
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Your post is so on point!!! ​ I'm a sugar baby and I'll be honest with all of you. These men don't love you. The only reason a lot of men get into relationships, is so they can avoid having to pay an escort $150 per meet, or to avoid paying $300/session for sex from a prostitute. That's it. There's not much else. Most men can't get laid or have any sort of sexual contact outside of a relationship, and so they pursue women for relationships so they can have access to cheap, easy, free sex that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:58 PM
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I have nothing to worry about as long as I take care of myself. The myth really is all projection from men, I should have known. I think it's a massive gender-wide neg that they unanimously push. ALL people age, men and women, and age hits both sides hard, but men are so obsessed about making sure women feel bad about it, when in reality, they're the ones out here balding and losing erections :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:52 PM
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eyeroll They used to have sex 3-4 times a week and now he’s being distant and told her he needs a week off from sex to recharge. (WTF? That’s a new one. ) She’s wondering if he’s cheating! It’s so depressing to read these types of narratives. Men never value or treat you well when you do nice shit for them or when you have sex for them, or when you give them what they want. That guy sounds like a selfish asshole :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:47 PM
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a lot of women in relationships with older men (37 upwards) end up having a miscarriage cos of poor quality sperm...but they will assume its the woman Absolutely. It's a well known fact that age is a risk factor for ED, but you never hear the term "Advanced paternal age" , only "advanced maternal age". ​ Goes to show you the bias in the medical community :/ .... it makes you think, doesn't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:45 PM
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our vaginas being "loose" and falling apart is projection of broken dick losers. Yep. ​ Any vagina will feel "loose" to a man who's sem-erect or not erect at all. It's not the vag being "loose" Something's (not) up with the schlong, dudes :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:45 PM
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My personal experience: Your age does not mean shit out in the real world. (And dare I say, to some extent, not even your looks). It's all about your personality, attitude, charisma and how you feel about yourself. ​ Yaaaay! Please tell us your experiences with dating as you age. I promise you that this is a safe space for women. The mods here are very good at removing hateful men. If salty, bitter moids message you, report them and block them. That's what is working for me. ​ There is one user …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:43 PM
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Sis, go for the younger guys, don’t get that dysfunctional dick 😤😤😤 Not to mention balding, dad bods, and turkey neck. LMAO "turkey neck" ​ I am so stealing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:40 PM
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The wall only exists for MEN. 👏👏👏 Agreed. I'm a sugar baby and I have my settings set to find men and women as I am bisexual. So far, no women are paying me for my time, lol ​ it's tragic. The wall hits men. They are out here exclusively paying for my time and I haven't had a single message from a woman who wants a sugar baby in my 2 years of doing this. In fact, all of the people paying for my time are men over 35. Women aren't paying me a single second of attention, if they exist at all. I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:38 PM
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it's just strange and amazing, to learn what a total joke and lie the whole thing was about women peaking at 18. This is a hard cope pushed by moids, love. First of all. Dating apps weren't really a thing until recently (Tinder was launched in the past 7 years or so) and this tech was first adapted by younger generations. of course young women will get the lion's share of the messages here. How many boomer women and gen x women and older millenials were on tinder in 2012? In 2015? I think once w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:37 PM
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I used to have a roommate (who was much younger), and when she told men that were flirting with me “THAT I WAS ALMOST 30” more would look, and more would flock. My sister will turn 31 in December. She rents out her property to 2 younger men in their 20s and they call her "the cougar" behind her back and it's hilarious! I don't think she's interested in them but they are definitely attracted to her, that's for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:33 PM
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still happily married to my dad that's awesome :) ​ always great to hear good news, I'm glad they're happy ^_^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:31 PM
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Same here. My last one was 42 and couldn't get completely hard, stay hard, or come easily. It was his age. Let's call them out on it. They want to pussyfootcup around it and blame CVD or Diabetes or anything other than their age. They love to sling around "aDvAnCeD mAtErNaL aGe" at women, let's popularize "Advanced Male Reproductive Age". Wouldn't it be funny if all ED, infertility, sperm quality, chromosomal abnormalities in older sperm, and other penile/fertility issues for men over 30 were cl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:29 PM
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And please don’t send me dick pics to prove you’re an older dude that has a big hard dick. I don’t care and I don’t want it, trust me. Ewww! They still do this when they're older?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:28 PM
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I don't know who they're trying to fool by saying they get better with age LOL. They're not fooling me. At 20, most 30 year olds are unattractive to me and a 50 year old man has to pay for my time, upfront or he is getting ghosted 3 minutes and 21 seconds later :/ ​ They're completely fooling themselves if they think younger women want them, and idk where they get the absurd idea that a man is going to hit 50 and begin getting attention from women in their 40s, 30s or 20s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:26 PM
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some literally don't see their permanent ED problems resulting from piss poor diets/drink/drug issues as something they need to inform a woman about When I went looking for these statistics, I noticed something striking in the data. The authors avoided using "age" alone as a risk factor for ED in the way they write their info. They'll say "age and diabetes" or "age and CVD". Meanwhile, women are hit with the "advanced maternal age" crap without a second thought. YES, ED is age-related and watchi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:22 PM
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I am mid 40s and have found that my ability to attract men has never been stronger. I do believe that ambition and career success also figure into that even though we're led to believe it doesn't. This is pretty much what I see in the dating over 30 and dating over 40 subs. A lot of the belly-aching there is mostly men who can't find love or relationships and very few women complaining of the same thing. ​ I think men are projecting again, like they assume that women must have it as hard (or har…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:20 PM
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"At a ten year reunion, the girls all look exactly the same but the boys age 20 years" Damn :/ that's sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:18 PM
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An unintended consequence of my sugarbabying was that I learned FDS the old fashioned way, through experience! I'm looking at these women and they're barely getting anything from their own husband! And they do everything for these men. Cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids ​ One of my sugar daddies inherited millions from his grandfather and completely hid the money from his wife and is essentially living a double life. She's traditional and and submissive. Cooks and cleans and goes to work…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:11 PM
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If they treat their wifes like crap they are not hvm no matter how much they do for you. agreed. ​ I don't give a fuck about them, only their money. I don't care who they are, who they're with, who they're texting, who they're calling and what they do.... I'm not doing this "to find love", or to find a husband. I won't date anyone monogamously until I'm 32 years old and I just turned 20 :/ ​ When I turn 32, I'll delete all evidence of my sugar babying days and literally use FDS to meet a HVM and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 04:07 PM
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I asked the last man with whom I had this discussion if he thought I should knock 10 years off my age so that I'd get more interest. He said, without a hint of irony, that no, honesty is the best policy. I can't believe he said that. They can never handle being treated the way they treat others. What's good for the goose should be good for the gander!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:21 AM
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A high value man in my eyes doesn’t hire sex workers or have casual sex. Someone who’s so commitment-minded that he’ll only enter in a relationship with someone and have sex with them if they see a future with them. I agree. I'm a sugar baby and the men who hire me are complete scum who cheat on woman after woman after woman until they catch an STD and are forced to stop by the health department, or find a woman insecure enough to turn the other cheek about his cheating. These men are completely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:11 AM
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I have seen it. I am a sugar baby and a lot of the men who hire me will take me out on dates that they're too cheap to take their wife or girlfriend out on and it's fucked up. It's really fucked up. They do it because they know they'll never hear from me again if they don't show me a good time and put out the $$$. Meanwhile, their wives never ask them for a single thing and continue to act like good wives even when he's treating her like shit, ignoring her..... he's not spoiling them with jewelr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:58 AM
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He can BARELY spell. Of course he'd be pissed at this place. Men who aren't pissed at this place existing can at least spell ​ Reading is fundamental :/ and how the hell are you this bad at spelling in 2019?!? Autocorrect and spellcheck fix everything for you....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:54 AM
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It's too late, love. ​ If you've ever posted a FaceBook pic or an Instagram Pic, and someone got their hands on it ​ Even if you "google" yourself, and can find an image of you, someone else can lift that photo and use a website like this one to create a deepfake of you :/ https://deepfakesweb.com/ ​ and this is just the free one :/, you'd have a legitimate heart attack if you knew what the deepfake apps did, lol. ​ Listen, the robot takeover and subsequent impending technocracy is upon us. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:49 AM
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Erectile dysfunction is very common in older men. According to UnityPoint " Dr. Newton says you might be surprised by how many men have erectile dysfunction. He says it affects about 50 percent of men over the age of 40 and is even more common as men age. " (link: https://www.unitypoint.org/livewell/article.aspx?id=eee06586-c13f-467d-8b28-7caed9c130c4 ) So apparently half of men over the age of 40 have ED :/ how does this work to "increase their attractiveness"? This is in ADDITION to balding :/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:42 AM
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And when they do reach 50, a lot of them are not flaunting it, apparently. My hunch is that getting older sucks for both men and women, and TBH, it must really suck for men.... Since they have like a 3% response rate on online dating already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:29 AM
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and when you marry a hot guy who's a loser "yOu'Re dAtInG cHaD". ​ agreed. They hate you regardless of what you do. Block em and do what you want anyway. If you're going to get hated, might as well be hated doing who/what you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:57 AM
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I can tell that he won't be able to help himself. He's going to try and confront her and make this into an ugly, shitty ordeal for her. ​ I can feel it in my skank bones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:36 PM
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They're not even really hanging out if its like an hour of tv and then straight to sex. Right?! Notice how she "found" movie tickets so he took out another woman on another lazy date. ​ Idk why she's even tripping or checking on him this much. He hasn't cuffed her and probably never will. This strategy of fucking them after they put no effort into shit doesn't work. He's just not that into her and needs a warm hole to stuff his dick in, and that's it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:26 PM
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This is why I refuse to play commitment games with men. I’ve seen and heard of too many women giving everything they’ve got to these losers who cannot treat them right or even bother to commit to them properly. I'm a sugar baby and I've seen some shit. There are men out here who have wives and girlfriends paying rent to live in their house, meanwhile they're flying me out of state to join them on a business trip where they pull out an envelope stuffed with $4,700 dollars in it. It's deeply and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:20 PM
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Thanks <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:08 PM
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So those disgusting imbeciles are actually selective of who they want to stick their dick in?? I wish. Some of these creeps are out here fucking prostitutes RAW, with no protection. One man admitted that he would go to crack houses and fuck the women who are addicted to crack because they'd be so desperate for drugs that they'd put out and do it raw for very little cash. ​ It's disgusting and I don't blame their wives for not risking their health by sleeping with these cheating assholes. I use c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:06 PM
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Has anyone noticed how he is obsessed at the fact she was a virgin? Disgusting. He's calling her out because he's pissed and bitter. He's calling into question her "virginity" because she didn't want to sleep with him and is sleeping with someone else. ​ Low-blow move from a low-value moid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:04 PM
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What a grade A Niceguy. Right?!?! I wouldn't be surprised if I see it reposted in r/niceguys ​ Some of these men are SO ENTITLED and feel like they're owed sex from women, and even when you tell them clearly and fairly that you aren't interested in dating a roommate, they turn around and do shit like this. ​ You don't owe him anything, ever. You don't need to live your life like a pure saint either just to spare his feelings! Fuck that noise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:03 PM
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I am here to shed some light of "deadbedrooms". First and foremost, I am a sugar baby. A LOT of my sugar daddies claim that they're stuck in "dead bedroom" relationships and their wives or GFs don't put out, don't do those things they like in bed, or are "frigid", when that's not the case. These men are out here paying for escorts, paying for prostitutes, and paying for sugar babies so they have companionship and sex when they should be putting that effort and romance into their wife. The wife c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:38 PM
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This guy just wasted 7 years of his life and sounds pretty pathetic. I will say this though. Even though men want what they can't have and unavailable women are out here having the best outcomes with these men, this lady sure is good at keeping a dude around "just in case" things go awry with her main guy. I bet you that the husband knows. He knows that there's another man waiting for him to fuck it up and this girl is out here winning at life, got 2 dudes competing for her love and she's a bada…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:18 PM
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I'm thinking that she probably swiped right only on the hot dudes and then matched with some of them. Of the ones that matched, she likely only went out with the highest quality ones. I do the same thing and it works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:12 PM
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Swipe left on the ugly ones. Swipe right on the sexy ones. I'm thinking she probably did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:25 AM
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Technically, she's a "traditional woman" in every sense of the word and he's coming off as super entitled. Obvious he liked her knowing who she is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:19 AM
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I have no idea, lol. She says that she swipes a lot. Maybe that's her secret? Swiping a lot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 05:01 AM
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Does anyone know if the np link loads all of the comments? Like if someone new posts a comment on the thread, does it show?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:43 AM
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Let them bring it. I 👏 am 👏 not 👏 the 👏 one 👏.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:40 AM
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💖😘😘 good! Stay strong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:29 AM
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Haha!! "Hot teenage models" are getting flown to other countries to spend time at 5 star establishments with very successful men. They're not going to even bother responding to a wack ass incel with bad misogyny and Mommy issues. GTFOH with that bullshit. The nerve of these entitled men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:26 AM
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"what is your most awkward sexual experience?" "This conversation, apparently." /Block Zero 👏 time 👏 for 👏 this 👏 bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:20 AM
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Lmao!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:18 AM
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Welcome to the Queendom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:17 AM
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Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 04:16 AM
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One time I had multiple orgasms with my vibrator and fell asleep with it still on. It woke me up in the middle of the night when I rolled over onto it, lol. You're 💯 right, if we orgasmed every time from sex, we'd be passing out too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 03:23 AM
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Paying for porn is actually a serious symptom of porn addiction. They just need a bigger high and you give it to them. I guess the way I look at it is this. If I want to watch a show that's available on Netflix, and I know I could watch the same show for free on a website, a legal website, I personally wouldn't pay for it, but like one of the commenters said earlier, lots of people pay for classes to learn info they can get for free on YouTube, including me :/ so this was the closest explanation…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 01:13 AM
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Moids 👏 Don't 👏 want 👏 none 👏 of 👏 this. I 👏 am 👏 not 👏 the 👏 one 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/19 12:08 AM
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Same. Moids can get intellectually thrashed and laughed off the stage all day long. They're still going to get instabanned for existing in this space. .... Moids mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:11 PM
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LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 11:02 PM
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I mean I get it, you want to feel like you're doing something extraordinary Whoa whoa WHOA. Where did this come from. First of all. These men don't mean anything at all to me. I don't give a single fuck who they're paying, who they're texting, who they're with.... I wasn't the first woman to sell nudes and certainly won't be the last. I admitted in my post that I wasn't the prettiest, youngest, or most exciting person and they still paid. It wasn't said because I was trying to "feel special". I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:27 PM
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Watch what they do, not what they say. My real life experiences also agree that men like women who play the "dominant" role - they like the chase, the fact that they have to woo her, the not-so-quickly-attainable appeal. Oh yeah. I make it a point to remember what men promise me, and then purposefully see if they deliver it. If they don't, I make a mental note that their word is worthless and I block them immediately. There are no second chances with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 10:06 PM
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I dated a 60ish accountant with this same complaint. On date 2 he wanted me to make Christmas with him- I had plans & then he ghosted me. Here’s the deal with the over 50 set: yes they are often better behaved, pay for dates and court you BUT THEY WANT WIFE BENEFITS WITH CASUAL DATING EFFORTS. This has been my experience a few times. This guy thought he was in a serious relationship but obviously wasn’t because no formal commitment -no wedding! Good for her for dumping her part time bf for a dru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:54 PM
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This creates an added element of illusion that you value them in some way, because they know their money is going into your pocket and they are directly financially supporting your lifestyle and if they write you, you're personally aware of their existence. ​ But there are tons of women who do this for free on the nudity subreddits :/ and I, again, don't mean to complain about my cup runnething over but still.... there's tons and tons of free porn out there and they still choose to pay :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:52 PM
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And that of course is your personal choice. I'm just saying, no one is being played. Knowing customer and knowing salesperson Technically they're getting played. There are tons and tons of porn websites out there who have millions of nudes for free, most of them of women younger and prettier than I am.... and they still choose to pay for mine >_>, and mine aren't cheap, either. ​ something does not fempute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 09:05 PM
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They understand the transaction perfectly. So do I :/ ​ I wouldn't be doing it if it wasn't making me filthy fucking rich
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:54 PM
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Are you recruiting ? I mean, that all sounds great but I am skeptical. Make no mistake, being a sugar baby is sex work that looks and sounds a lot like lib fem and we all know the hidden agenda driving that... I am not recruiting at all. I'm just sharing my personal experiences and what I've seen. Say what you want about sex work, all I know is that I will graduate with a free college degree plus $81,000 in the bank saved :/ and I'm classified as being in the top 1% of my age group in terms of n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:50 PM
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I understand that sometimes my attitude comes across a bit coarse, and I told him after he said I was acting bitchy again today that I would work on it and that I was sorry. But it does hurt my feelings a bit when he describes my actions in such a way. This guy is a real fucking asshole and I can't believe she apologized. It couldn't have been me. I'd fuck his best friend, or maybe his boss and then rub it in his face and when he gets upset about it, I'd tell him he was being such a bitch about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:38 PM
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The surest way to lose a man—using sex or otherwise—is to worry about it. It is not the act of sexual submission that causes a man to leave you, but the desperation you project at the fear of losing him. Sugar baby here, and this is unequivocally and irrefutably correct. When I first started sugar babying, I would have one sugar daddy at a time and went above and beyond in making sure he was completely taken care of and then I met another girl, Alice, who used to rake in $20,000 + a month in All…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:35 PM
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We were in a relationship for a year and I was somewhat aware of his true nature, but he always made it seem like it's a thing of a past and that he would change himself for me. Every woman reading this needs to immediately abandon any possibility of a man "changing himself" for you. It rarely happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:23 PM
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I got banned from some mom-centered subreddit for participating in r/GenderCritical. They said that GC had "toxic views" which didn't align with the views of a mom-focused subreddit. ​ IDK about you guys but GC looks out for moms and so does this place. I see the women on here post and come to the defense of single moms and motherhood more than I do those women over there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:19 PM
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I sell nudes online on the side in addition to my sugarbabying, and they pay me to access my photos and continue paying a subscription fee to continue having access to my photos, since they're all copyrighted. ​ I am straight up playing them and getting rich off of their efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:16 PM
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Disturbing, disgusting behavior! ​ The nerve of this man! ​ It couldn't have been me. I would agree to this and literally bring hotter dudes over to the house and fuck them while the husband is home and wouldn't give a single fuck who he's with. I wish a motherfucker would try some shit like this on me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:13 PM
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This....... isn't a half-bad idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:09 PM
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haha! ​ this is funny AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:09 PM
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They’re the scum of reddit Why has that subreddit not been banned yet?? These guys are crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 08:07 PM
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Oh my god. I googled it and I think I'm gonna be sick. ​ I'm definitely going to hurl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:51 PM
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He is a high value man in my eyes but is wasting his efforts on low value women. the women he mentions in his post aren't "low-value". They just know what they want, and it isn't a longterm relationship with him for whatever reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:48 PM
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Women in their 30s and 40s who have their shit together enjoy their own hobbies and activities. I just turned 20 a few weeks ago and I don't have time for their bullshit either, and my schedule is packed with hobbies, classes, work, and sugar daddies. ​ You wouldn't believe the level of entitlement a lot of low-value sugar daddies have. They assume that just because they're the VP of Operations for a fortune 500 company, or a local celebrity, or an instagram "model" (yes... there are men out the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:04 PM
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But you were already providing him sex when he cheated? It couldn't have been me. If I were in this woman's shoes, I wouldn't even trip or get mad. I wouldn't even confront him with what I'd found. I'd document everything and prepare a fat "divorce" file, and leave it sitting in a secure location, inaccessible to my husband. Then I'd start dating other men on the side, and look for a replacement husband quietly. ​ When I find a suitable replacement husband, I'd tap into the divorce file, pretend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:53 PM
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What the hell is MGTOW?? ​ Sorry, I'm new to this place and all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:49 PM
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He basically found out because I have the app on one of my phones, and the notification popped up. He asked me what it was and I told him it was just a social media site, to hopefully get him to drop it and fuck off but it didn't work. He basically googled it and started dropping hints whenever we'd talk... Hints like "hey did you hear about that website (insert name of sugardaddy website here)??? I think sugar babies are cool... What do you think about it??" and I'd ignore the hints, hoping he'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:46 PM
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Definitely keep him as friends though, can still be useful for friendship, emotional support, company when you’re bored and just attention in general. I have a few male friends who are like this, but they eventually stop being my friend once they figure out that I'm not going to have sex with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:38 PM
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Idk going through his history he doesn’t seem like a terrible guy worthy of being made fun of. I am not making fun of him at all. I hope this is not what my post implies, although I guess that's a fair conclusion to jump to, given my name :/. ​ The intent for my post was to show that older men struggle to meet women who want commitment, even if they're attractive, successful, and tall, kind, and sweet like this fellow is. The overwhelming backdrop of reddit typically argues that women, after a c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 06:08 PM
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Interesting scenario. May I add just a few things. ​ The ENTIRE field of marketing would either collapse or go through a complete process of restructuring as people scramble to figure out how to sell stuff, now that there are no more beautiful models in the world. Same with the plastic surgery industry, the entertainment industry, fashion industry, the beauty/makeup industry, photography industry, the porn industry, the online dating app industry, and it's affiliate/related services like PhotoFe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:51 PM
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Geez, I could’ve written that repeatedly over the last couple decades. SOOOO glad not to be there anymore. Same here. When I caught my boyfriend cheating, I started fucking his older brother and he still thought we were in a "relationship". NOPE, and to make it even clearer that I was single... I then proceeded to ghost him and eventually had to block him after he started sending weirder and weirder messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 05:33 PM
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Out of curiosity, I checked how many of those dates originated on Tinder. 5/38. Interesting data / idea. ​ Could you share with us the online dating platforms that have yielded you the highest quality matches and dates?I have a hunch but I'd be curious to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 02:44 PM
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I had to stop reading halfway through. It was so awful I just had to share it. I didn't want other women to think this strategy was worth pursuing and wanted to make sure they knew it :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:45 PM
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A guy who truly adores you will wait months, or even years to have the privilege of being with your naked body. I know this for a fact from experience. This!!! All of this!! ​ Making them work for it and have to take you out on expensive and impressive dates shows that they see you as longterm girlfriend material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:28 PM
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It's actually so common and I'm sick of it this!!! One "friend" found out that I'm a sugar baby and he changed. I had to stop talking to him altogether because it became awkward and weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:26 PM
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Sounds like someone who was just being your friend to eventually date/sleep with you. This is SO common. I had one "friend" find out that I sugarbaby on the side and he started acting so weird as if I was going to start sleeping with him for free. SO many men are your "friend" just because they think you're hot and it is sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:25 PM
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He's also fucking old. yeah. This "friendship" is a waste of her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:20 PM
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Man approaching his 50s wants a woman still young enough to pop kids out/raise them for him now that he's done riding the c*nt coaster. He's so old, she's 16 years younger than him and isn't "attracted to him at all" probably because he's so old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 12:20 PM
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She is real and is really thinking like this? Are we able to save her, she is too far down the hole at this point. Look at her outcomes. She's depressed about dating and has been treated like shit and then fucked and dumped by these men. ​ If this strategy worked for relationship success, we'd be out here advocating it. It RARELY ever works out for women who sleep with a guy expeditiously. The sooner you fuck him, the quicker he loses respect for you and the less likely he is to see you as a mar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 04:00 AM
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when my first boyfriend cheated on me and I found the evidence, I straight up started fucking his older brother. He'd come home and I'd be half naked from the waist below, wearing his brother's T-shirt, and chilling in his brother's room. I destroyed his relationship with his brother. This was years ago and they're still not on speaking terms. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:44 PM
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It's a green flag if you're childless and childfree. If children are something you want in your future, it's a red flag for you :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:37 PM
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Since sex is easy to get from men, I’d rather get sex with chad if I could. me too :/ ​ moids mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 09:54 PM
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I was lurking on this subreddit when someone here linked to r/Men_of_the_Wall and I love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 09:14 PM
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I didn't get on those apps to dumpster dive for dick. LMAO!!!!! ABSOLUTELY, the message shouldn't be "don't even TRY if you aren't top 3 - 5%, the message should be how do you GET better and become more attractive to women. We are NOT dumpster diving on Tinder, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:56 PM
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LOL Moids mad ​ NO, sis. Just by EXISTING, women get tons of approaches, requests, and dates. A dude that's not initiating or ignoring us isn't even REGISTERING on our radars. Shit, half the dudes who are vigorously pursuing me aren't even registering on my radar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:22 PM
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She wants to get fake boobs so she can feel good about her body and herself. She's also planning on showing it off so he's insecure about other men looking at her and basically this goes back to male jealousy and insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:16 PM
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“i understand her pov and i feel like she doesn’t value my opinion” yeah because your opinion of her body is the most important thing in the WORLD and she should listen to you because you know what’s best for her! i can’t believe he pulled the “you need to see a therapist” card. no dude, you do I don't blame her. No ring after 8 years??? I hope she's seeing other dudes on the side, or AT LEAST this one's paying for her shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:15 PM
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She's not wife material because she has her own mind and did not listen to him about something regarding her own body? Where's my barf bag?! 🙄 He's not even her husband and posting to a "marriage" subreddit. The fuck kinda shit is this?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:15 PM
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Ah male privilege. Learning that meritocracy doesn't cut it anymore. This dude is advocating that men should meet women IRL but a lot of them don't have success with women IRL either. One dude asked out 100 women and 99 said no :/ ​ that's even WORSE than Tinder, and more time consuming too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 08:02 PM
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LOL! thanks 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 07:53 PM
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He's not even her "husband", yet he feels the need to post to a married subreddit. He probably keeps her around by calling her cute nicknames like "wifey" without the actual paperwork. ​ She's wasting her time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 06:34 PM
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Someone who's 35, childless, and has a successful career, will attract more men than someone who's 35, has had several children, and isn't as successful in their career... Isn't that the whole point of subreddits like r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen when they talk about women who "need a bailout"??? You can't have it both ways. Either you can attract men as a childless successful woman, or you can attract men as an unsuccessful single mother. The bullshit logic that misogynistic men espouse never fails …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 05:52 PM
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There’s literally no reason why she should still be in contact with him Agreed. Idk why she's begging and so desperate for one man's attention like this. It's beneath us as women to compete for male attention and time when it's dirt cheap and all over the place, as evidenced by this post! She was newly single and went out with another man within DAYS. For the love of god! Somebody please wake up these women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:48 PM
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It's a way for him to have one foot out to protect himself. sad, pathetic cop out. I never feel guilty when I tell women that they should look out for themselves, especially after what I've seen :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:42 PM
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If he knows he knows. You cannot convince someone to love you the same way you love them. If love isn’t freely given then you’re begging for scraps and you’re gonna get hurt. ABSOLUTELY THIS. ​ I've been with men who have a girlfriend that they've been dating for 15+ years, and they still wanted to pay me $6,100 / month for 3 "dates" /month and "discretion". I'd go some months without seeing this guy and those automatic payments still hit my accounts the same :/ I feel so bad for their SO's. Thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 05:05 PM
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It's hard for women to understand how a man can stay in a relationship for 5 and 10 years knowing full well he does not want to marry the woman. That she's just Mrs. Right now. I have been a sugar baby for years and I completely understand why they do it. Like 85% - 95% of men can NOT get laid at all unless they pay a sugar baby, pay an escort, or be in a relationship. I've been with men who were single for DECADES and have to pay exorbitant sums of cash just to be able to spend time with a beau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:57 PM
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They really can't. Dudes are the most sensitive and have egos that are as fragile as eggshells
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 04:12 PM
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Technically she's not wrong. She isn't right either. ​ Men HATE it when you have a sexual past. So don't tell them. I think I saw a poster here mention that you should only tell them you've had 1 ex and leave it at that. Lie to these moids and be smart about how you do your business. Don't document and blast every single ex on social media. Keep all of that stuff private
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:54 PM
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and the focus is not on making sure she's okay, but on making sure he doesn't do it in front of others/a camera. ​ Oh my god. We have SO MUCH work to do before the patriarchy is dismantled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:52 PM
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I used that one on a few moids. LOL!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:05 PM
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"eww! It's so little.... wtf." ​ "wait, is that a child's penis??!?" "Why are you sending me child porn?!?" ​ usually does the trick. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:05 PM
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It's about purity. ​ They hate piercings, period. They hate tattoos, they hate stuff which makes you look like a promiscuous woman, unless of course they want to sleep with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:03 PM
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The most amazing treatment I've had came from a man who was raised by a single mom who remarried and his stepdad was an alcoholic :/ ​ Idk why this dynamic produced such a warm and empathetic person but it did. He was the most amazing boyfriend I've ever had and it ended amicably and sweetly but he didn't want to be friends after that :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:02 PM
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LMAO. Thanks 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 03:03 AM
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Same here. No matter what I post or comment, I instantly lose that 1 karma you get with comments. Moids hate this place, lol. Moids mad :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 02:45 AM
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So I listened to a podcast that suggested started a Mantourage until you find your match. I am 20 years old and I've been sugarbabying for 2 years now. I 100% support this strategy for women as a quick way to finding a husband. During my sugarbabying days I'd have about 1 - 3 sugar daddies (SDs) on rotation who would literally pay for my shit without expecting much in return other than a little cuddling here and there. I've fully paid for college using my sugarbaby money and I graduate in May wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:43 PM
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Absolutely. Some of the moids I've dated had to jerk themselves off because I refused to sleep with them period. Sometimes when I decide that I'm "just not that into" a dude, and he's fun to be around, and he's paying for stuff, I literally try and see how long I can make them continue to splurge on me without sex. ​ My record was 3 years and and 8 months :/ and he found another girl. I can't blame him though, a guy can only ask someone to be his GF twice monthly for so long before he gives up a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:36 PM
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I am SO PROUD of you for leaving this moid on read and shutting down this low-effort encounter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:21 PM
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One of the baddest b*tches I know has 3 men constantly fighting for her time and affections and compete for her number 1 spot and this woman has 2 kids and one on the way. She's got her husband, a coworker, and a dude on the side. She's cheating on her husband because she found evidence of him cheated and instead of flipping out, she kept what she saw a secret, and quietly moved on without alerting her husband. It still ranks as one of the most badass dating learning experiences for me and she s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:19 PM
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Ok, obvious redpill is obvious. meanwhile, RPW are all like "hOw cAn I bE a BeTtEr SAHM? a BeTtEr hOmEmAkEr??" Are they aware that RPM expect them to work AND do household duties?? ​ What kinda shit is this??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:15 PM
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Disgusting. ​ hopefully you ghosted his ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:14 PM
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There's a lot of negging going around. I look at a few "rate me" subreddits where women post pics of themselves and then ask redditors to rate their face/body/appearance, and on a lot of them the scores are consistent. I remember seeing this one guy a bunch of times because he'd consistently rate women with a number that's substantially lower than what the other posters would rate. This one time, he rated a girl who received all 9 or 10 ratings with a "5" score, and I saw the girl respond and as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:13 PM
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Thanks for crossposting this. I never knew that subreddit existed and I "joined" them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:02 PM
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I don't know how to phrase that better but guys often assume that I have a lot of dudes under my belt or something. I often get asked 'how many guys are you talking to?' These men are trying to calculate your "n number", or number of dudes you've fucked previously. They won't straight up ask you how much "mileage"/how many sexual partners you've had because you'll get offended and shut down the convo, so they try and politely "calculate" this number based on info they can dig up on your social m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:01 PM
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It's just business, it's not personal. Listen, I have 12 exes and I have dumped all 12 exes. About 8 of them cheated on me and I've learned enough about men to literally just walk away. Most men who are in relationships would absolutely cheat on their GF/Wife if an opportunity presented itself. Most men wouldn't turn the other woman away, and I'm not going to bury my head in the sand and pretend like men are out here loyal to women. Men are as loyal as their options. So if I'm dating someone and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:57 PM
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“Was I an asshole here?” No, you’re not an asshole. You’re the whole turd. Of course the girl shouldn’t have bullied him. But this guy peaked in in high school and it shows. He's a garbage individual, that's for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:53 PM
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Next time I feel needy for moid attention, I'll log into Tinder and reply to a few. Or switch to Ok Cupid and reply to a few, or get on Facebook, and respond to a few. ​ Moid attention is a penny a dozen. It's all over the place. If you ever feel needy or lonely or desperate for it, the cure to that is to smother yourself with it until you are as sick and nauseated by it as I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 12:13 PM
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I don't give a single fuck about what you think. Stay salty and stay mad, moid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 10:55 PM
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Do you share these men with other women? Never. Usually they're desperate to be with me. I create this dynamic through my extreme vetting and my calculated strategy & behaviors online. By the time they've gotten me on the phone, they've been humbled and vetted extremely. Only the top ones get my time and attention. If they fail to sustain my interest, they're blocked/dropped immediately. About 3 out of 4 will try to get me to be their GF after 1 date, and every single man I've gone on a second d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:24 PM
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" Every time you cry and talk, acting like your broke ass means anything to women I suck the dick with reverence." This. When I stopped entertaining weak, spineless, cheap, broke, insecure, average looking losers and started seeing hot men with upper middle class status or better, I received the best treatment in life, and had my first PIV sex orgasm. Never EVER entertaining another mediocre moid ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:54 PM
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" Besides, still in regards to the context, shouldn’t we enforce monogamy through social pressure and incentives for Chads not to have harems so we could, as a society, avoid the « involuntary celibacy » of young men that will eventually strip their existence of any purpose at the risk of leading them to violence? " ​ The real question is.... why would you want to push this? Would anyone VOLUNTEER to be born shorter, predisposed to baldness, or down's syndrome, or anything else that's perceived …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 01:46 PM
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Finally! A chance for my name to be relevant! .... I'm gonna let you guess how I feel about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 02:22 AM
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