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Well that explains your animosity. It’s completely understandable. I think many red pilled men end up where they do because they have had very shitty experiences from women. Much the same way women end up at fds. At the end of the day, you need to determine if you simply met a shitty woman or awalt. Because that is the problem with trp. If you don’t mind, can you provide more detail about the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 12:17 AM
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Bs. Where is your evidence of this? It absolutely has happened. There are no shortage of douchebag women just as there is no shortage of douchebag men. But we are trying to get to the bottom of what is actually the norm. If you have a study, by all means provide it. It’s ok if you can’t because I understand that many of these things have not been studied. We have anecdotal evidence to support the way we feel. Hell we have Reddit subs on marriage & relationships to show what is generally the case…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:16 PM
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Pretty sure he just said he’s not going to argue with me because I’m a woman and can’t understand. Is the typical woman comment supposed to hurt my feelings? Like I’m going to jump up and try to prove to you I’m not what you think? Red pilled men pull that card constantly and it’s hysterical. It’s implying that there is something wrong with the typical woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:00 PM
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Like I give a fuck. This is purple pill. Not red. This isn’t about understanding a man or being a man. This is about discussing redpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:25 PM
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Wow where did I say anything even remotely like that? If the guy stops attracting her, her desire for sex with him is going to drop off. That’s what I said. I never said she was justified in leaving. That’s just silly. This is a normal occurrence in the best of marriages because life gets in the way and no one here is perfect. If he lost his job that provided the security for them, she should work with him to fix it. Whether helping him find a different job or her getting a job. Whatever it take…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:15 PM
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I see what you are saying. But it’s not what I meant. The scenario in my mind was a relationship that is starting to break down. There is loss of attraction on both sides. She’s not interested in sex and he’s not interested in attracting her. At this point in time, both are going to have to start meeting each other’s needs in order for it to work out. So yes, her meeting his needs for sex while he meets her needs for attraction is going to be a reward based system for both to get back to where t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:08 PM
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“e.g. In studies women select men with nurturing traits for LTRs, they find this behavior unarousing in a STR context.” Well I’m fortunate to have found both in this man. And I wonder if the studies go on to further investigate it. Because I just said that the two of those mixed together is absolutely intoxicating. Please link the study. I would love to see it. Mrp advocating being a douchebag only works temporarily because they are provoking insecurity. It will end in divorce. “When women say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:56 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:43 PM
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Absolutely! This literally made me laugh out loud for once. Why would I be attracted to a feminine man? I’m straight. I think what you might be trying to get at is how trp defines masculine men. Which is not attractive at all. Again that’s that arrogant douchebags. He was masculine in the ways that I personally desire. It’s funny because the hottest thing about this man was that he was so incredibly strong on one side, but could still cuddle a kitten on the other. It was this intoxicating mix of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:40 PM
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Nope. Trp brainwashing. She didn’t “reward” you for good boy behavior when you first met. She legitimately wanted to fuck your brains out because she was attracted to you. Removing that element, by saying that behavior shouldn’t go on forever, will absolutely lower her DESIRE for sex with you. I remember when I first met and dated my husband. I would get so wet by our encounters. Wet to the point of slipping off the damn seat. He was highly aroused by this as well. This is a physiological respon…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:15 PM
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Yes. Trp advocates that women only fuck men they are attracted to. Ding ding ding! But then they go on to say the way to make her attracted to you is to act like an arrogant douchebag who could fuck something else whenever he wants. Ummm....is that how you attracted her in the beginning? No? Then let’s go back to what worked originally. How did you create enough attraction for her to want to fuck you in the beginning? Just like men, women need to be aroused to fuck. It’s simply that there is an …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:11 PM
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Well that’s just another example. Let’s take the female version of something and insult it into oblivion. Saying something sarcastic about “feeling above all else” is the same as saying “MUH Penis”. It intentional downplays legitimate concerns.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:05 PM
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This is absolutely incorrect. In the case of a married man, which is what we are discussing, he created attraction in the beginning. Even though mrp will lie and say that all women will fuck and marry a guy they are not attracted to. Bs. Again taking extreme examples of where this does happen and trying to portray them as many, most or all. It’s just shit posting. If he could create it in the beginning when he was supposedly bluepilled, what is the struggle now? And the evidence is in the op. Me…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:59 PM
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If the goal is more sex, then why don’t mrp men engage in the behaviors they did in the beginning? Assuming the sex was good in the beginning (otherwise you’ve married someone with the intent to change them) you would logically think they would go back to the honeymoon behavior they had in the beginning. But as op clearly pointed out, men don’t think that type of behavior should go on forever. So why should the sex? Men and women have different needs. The ability to understanding the differences…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:54 PM
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Women don’t have an awalt nature. “Have you ever heard a guy go "hey she's a perfect wife but my feelings are telling me to divorce her just because"?” Nope. But I’ve heard them say she’s a perfect wife but the sex is lacking and telling me to divorce her. I don’t have a problem with sex or men’s desires and need for sex. I completely get it. What irritates me is men being unable to flip the script when they look at things from the woman’s point of view. Feelings and intimacy are sex equivalent …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:47 PM
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I dont know about the entirely speculative “men have to be perfect or get dumped” idea. But I have noticed that men seem to “understand” that the honeymoon stage dies down and are completely happy with that. But when you also say shouldn’t that apply to sex as well then? The answer is a resounding no. I need the wooing of the honeymoon phase just like he needs sex. In fact the wooing phase leads to more sex. Does this mean he has to constantly woo me? No more than it means I have to constantly h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:43 PM
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Who said a lot of money? We were talking about a dinner. And though I’m off the market so my opinion is shit anyway, if I were single, I would risk being vetted because I expect him to pay. But then again, I fully believe in the traditional marriage as well. So again, not much use to millennials.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 07:35 PM
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Being used for a meal is far less risky than being used for sex. And sure, a man may pretend to be not using her for sex by paying, but it still isn’t going to secure him a lay. It’s not a 100% perfect method to weeding out delta bravos. But it helps. And let’s all remember that the number of men using a date for just sex is probably the same number of women using a date for a free meal. It’s not the norm. Just as you show for yourself that is not the goal here. There are many women who feel exa…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:40 PM
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It’s being intentionally misinterpreted for the “shock value” of trp.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:00 PM
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Self fulfilling prophecy. Keep chasing shit, scoring with shit and reinforcing your shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 03:30 PM
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The 100% of time that children are made.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:44 AM
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Sorry. Men are still wanting the women to have babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:23 AM
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There’s an entire population of people consistently telling you guys that your awalt ideas are absolute shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:07 AM
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And men are still insisting that women have the babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:02 AM
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My husband is a garbage man and has to wear the safety neon green jackets. I’m highly alert to men in neon green jackets now. It’s bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:15 AM
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Same. My husband is the hottest thing in the world to me. If I walked past a chippendales guy in the street with his shirt off, I literally wouldn’t even notice. Don’t care. Attraction is more feeling based than anything. I’m not going to be building a life with the chippendales guy so wtf do I care what he looks like? Seems this is not the case for the grand majority of men. That’s probably why there is much confusion between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:10 AM
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Confidence is of the utmost importance. Many men lack it. And those who think they have it are simply arrogant not confident. It’s rare to find a man who is genuinely confident and charming. You could probably look like a troll and with those two features on point, have any woman you desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:06 AM
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That’s what the conclusion is? That as long as you are 6’2” you are conventionally attractive? This is simply not true. That would be like saying as long as you have size C boobs, you are conventionally attractive. There are so many other traits and features to a person so to simply pick one and say it is universally attractive is absolute garbage. It’s a shit post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:59 AM
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I completely disagree. I’m going to be sexually harassed, assaulted, raped etc and NOT report it just because the guy is cute? What benefit does his cuteness do for me in that situation? This is delusional thinking at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:42 PM
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There are women who would be receptive to a gangbang in a dirty bathroom. I am not ok with ANY random man coming up behind me and hugging me. It’s not as if I’m going to be hugged, be scared out of my mind, see that he’s a charming prince and suck his dick. No I’m going to be offended. Unless it was a known friend. Or my husband. Or someone that already knows this is perfectly acceptable. These scenarios are just really getting out there. For any man to do such a thing without already knowing it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 03:01 PM
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Is it true that men are kinder to attractive women? We all know just in general that attractive people get more privilege. It’s been known for a very long time. But the manosphere is trying to hijack known human behavior and apply it to outrageous statements that “it’s only sexual harassment when he’s ugly”. It’s more brainwashing. And so obvious. We’ve now went from “it’s only sexual harassment when he’s ugly” to “women are nicer to attractive men when they reject them”. That’s quite a big diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:54 PM
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“It’s a situation that is creepy, not a man” I disagree. When a man is in a similar situation it is far less scary when he is double the size and strength. All this saying what a woman does or doesn’t do is just nonsense and it will never go anywhere. Ugly or not, if you continue to pursue me after I’ve made it clear it’s not wanted, it’s creepy and scary. It lacks any common sense that I’m going to be ok with it being from a hot guy. Unwanted is unwanted. But then you’ll have some random chick …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:34 PM
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I only used the term that was part of the discussion. I prefer scary as fuck for an unwanted behavior that I am clearly not responding to. Since you are a red pilled man it will hard for you to see much of anything beyond the brainwashing. Eventually you’ll break free. I wish you luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:28 PM
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That ugly cat can turn creepy when it is double the size and strength of you, has an appetitive for straight men, is aggressively pursuing you and can easily rape you. That’s why I simply don’t buy this women say it’s “sexual harassment only If he’s ugly”. No. A woman is going to be receptive to a man she is attracted to and banter back. The bantering by both parties is what makes it acceptable. And can lead to consensual sex. A woman is not going to banter back with someone she is not attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:40 PM
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Is it though? If the worlds sexiest man was dressed as a bum, I really don’t think it matters. Look at Johnny depp. Voted sexiest man alive at some point. Now he looks like something the cat dragged in. He’s not remotely sexy. (Still think he’s awesome and amber herd absolutely was the abuser).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:13 AM
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I also didn’t save any whales in my spare time. But still care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 05:01 AM
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Ok so what’s the problem? That you want that type of girl to fuck a short guy or a nerd? Why? Or you are mad that girls who look like sex on a stick won’t fuck a short guy or a nerd?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 04:56 AM
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Every guy who goes through trp eventually realizes it’s absolute bs. With the exception of working on yourself, confidence etc. Anything to do with women gets you low value women. Those are the only types who don’t instantly see through the bs. So it’ll get you laid. But it will never get you a real woman who loves you. Many men think they don’t need/want that. Which is how they got to trp. But they all eventually figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:18 AM
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I’m mean I dont know why you are telling me that. I completely agree. Except I do not, as a woman, think it is perfectly acceptable to dehumanize men. I would say that was the only inaccurate part.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:03 AM
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I’m a woman. I do. Men today are being absolutely brutalized. There are double standards left and right and mainstream is just cranking it out nonstop. It’s ridiculous. But any man who runs to trp to “learn” about women, just no. In fact TRP is absolutely fantastic if you ignore EVERYTHING about women and getting laid. Find better sources for men. Jordan Peterson is a life changer. And another example of why mainstream should be completely ignored. They have no idea what they are talking about. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 10:48 PM
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You’re right. Even 1% of the population is a huge number. I’m just trying to say what is more likely to happen than go off the edges on extremes because that’s what trp philosophy relies on. Not what is actually the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:48 PM
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I think reality is closer to a 5 gets a 5. With 1-2 point differences. The 10 guy gets the 10 girl. There are extremes of course. You will see a 10girl with a 5 guy if he has lots of money. But we all know that was a mutually beneficial relationship. He’s with her for tits and ass and she’s with him for money. It’s equal. The guy is no more noble than she. We start to have problems when you have a 3guy thinking he should get an 8 girl and being all butt hurt and running to trp because of the inj…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:53 PM
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I honestly don’t see this playing out in real life the way that trp tries to brainwash it. That woman getting dicked down at the frat house, we all know who she is. We all look down at her getting gang banged. All the guys know she’s the one to call to get an easy lay. If all women were like this, or even most...or even many...getting laid would be no big deal for men. The reality is that this is not reality. The reality is the 10 guys that just gang banged that 1 chick are out in the world stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 07:45 PM
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There is literally an entire population of men who want more than to just fuck some random chick handcuffed in a prison cell against her will. Call me a dreamer but I’m pretty sure that’s a fact. In fact, there is an entire population of men who get off by watching their partner get off. You are very unlikely to see that in a rape situation. You also have an entire population of men that are turned off by rape in general. It’s probably because they are human beings that can feel empathy and comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 06:55 PM
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