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EGOtyst/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 02:21 PM
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People who pride themselves on being pragmatic and rational also potentially pride themselves on entertaining new arguements that appeal to their pragmatism and rationality.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 11:14 PM
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Marriage is more than that. There are many pragmatic reasons for getting married, and a few very pragmatic reasons for a wedding. To be married: Tax breaks. Paperwork. Financial dependency. Governmental recognition of relationship regarding wills, etc. The wedding: ceremony and symbols mean something. There is a reason people have change of command ceremonies and inauguration ceremonies in government. It is a formalization of something and literally the exact opposite of casual. Holding a weddin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/22 07:55 PM
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I know guys' opinions here aren't generally encouraged. However, as a man, with many male friends, platonic cuddle makeout buddy is just not really a thing... It's definitely something a large portion of men will want to escalate to more.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/22 09:37 PM
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Depends on the man, obviously. But not being sexually satisfied doesn't help.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/22 02:25 PM
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It's vry very difficult to buy gifts for people who make their own money. It happens.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 01:56 AM
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"dude... You fucking stink. It's not sexy. Go shower." then laugh to take the edge off.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/22 02:36 PM
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and it isnt that expensive. https://www.amazon.com/Polo-Black-Cologne-Ralph-Lauren/dp/B0084YD7IG/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8&th=1
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 10:10 PM
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I wear Ralph Lauren Black.Very masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/22 09:42 PM
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Military bases and officers.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 03:12 PM
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1000% that is what I am suggesting. Parenting is hard, and he is trying, from the sound of things, he is trying REALLY HARD. The LAST thing you should do is swoop in and undermine his efforts. His ways are just as valid as yours, so long as they are sincere and come from a place of love, which it sounds like they do. Let him be a dad. Honestly... if the crying is REALLY getting to you, I would do two things. Talk with him BEFORE HAND about some soothing techniques. "Babe, when baby cries, I do X…
/r/RedPillWives13/06/22 11:06 PM
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... I was being very very sarcastic. I even put the /s at the end... Are you being serious?
/r/RedPillWives13/06/22 10:33 PM
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That's exactly what I needed when my kids were young and I was a new dad. I was doing everything I could think of to bond with them, and it felt like they hated me and I felt like a terrible father who could do nothing right! Luckily, my wife swooped in and took the baby, told me I was doing it wrong and confirmed those fears I had! So now I let her do all that and just don't try anymore. I guess I'll check back in when they can catch a baseball. /s, BTW.
/r/RedPillWives13/06/22 11:23 AM
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I've got a great grafted cracker crust one I can give you later when I get home to my recipe book. I use it for my pumpkin pie. It's a bit work intensive though.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/22 09:12 PM
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this is just human nature, though? Women do the same thing. All the time.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/22 02:59 PM
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I don't think it should be that hard. I get advertisements ALL THE TIME about local housewives who want to meet me. I travel too much for business to take any of them up on it, but it seems like they are out there!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/22 06:48 PM
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The men in your life are supposed to lift you up and become the best version of yourself. Provide and be a captain. This man sounds like he is only dragging you down, and will only continue to drag you down through life. RP is not incompatable with women who want careers. But this man seems to be.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/22 11:49 AM
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See: Keanus wife
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/22 02:24 PM
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This just in. A book written during the time of hyper defined gender rules accurately reflects societies gender roles.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/22 02:40 PM
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Was it even a tantrum, though? If my wife couldn't handle a bit of barbed criticism, there are some problems. Idk. That kinda statement seems... Fine.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/22 02:17 PM
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Paying for everything is marriage territory. Not dating. What is the plan once you are married? Pooled finances and bank account?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/22 05:31 PM
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I know. I am a Naval officer. It is difficult on many. However, the military officer corps is a great place to start for high quality men and women with an incredible work ethic and sense of duty and service. The job is hard, but their dedication to their commitments, as a general rule, is second to none.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 10:33 PM
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Military officer programs. Find a central location for them.
/r/RedPillWives22/01/22 05:38 PM
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Vetting is hard for men when options are much more limited.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/21 04:55 PM
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Women like attention. They love male attention from the right men. And they NEED money. IG gives them at of this.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/21 12:34 AM
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Look up Audrey Hepburn and her ski outfits.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/21 01:14 AM
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Because it guarantees specialness of the male. Rarely are men overtly given attention and validation. There is very little in life, as a man, to make you feel special. Innocence in your partner is intrinsically loomed to being special, since they perpetually experience new things with you.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/21 11:56 AM
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Yep. And that with life.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/21 01:21 AM
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what people do in the bedroom is their thing. If this is what yall like, then do it. If you don't like it, quit...
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 09:43 PM
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Because division of labor for many things makes the most sense. Even in a 2 person household, it doesn't always make sense to double the number of loads of laundry, but to consolidate them and do them together.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/21 03:12 PM
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Doing things is hard. A marriage is more than the sum of its parts. Division of labor results in a huge quality of life improvement for people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:40 PM
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Tell that to the British princes. All of them for the past... Long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 06:29 PM
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Different strokes for different folks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:09 AM
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Canckles. Bad face. I can get over a bad body. But face? Gotta be cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/21 02:08 AM
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So then how do you not understand the answer to your own question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:01 AM
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So then how do you not understand the answer to your own question?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:01 AM
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I'm 5'6, wife is 5'9. Just do you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:27 AM
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You ever stick your dick in crazy? Sometimes it's hard not to. Many people crave excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 05:17 AM
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On again off again means the sex is good, but you two don't gel on a personal level. If that's what you're looking for... Do it. But, realistically, if you were just in it for the sex, you'd be in a different sub.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/21 04:47 PM
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Why do you care about the market as a whole? Perfect yourself and make your bones. You aren't in this to bring the market to parity, so stop worrying about it. Say the serenity prayer and start thinking with portals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 04:33 PM
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Hmm.... Can you elaborate on what happened in the 3-4 hours? My main question being is that 3-4 hours of thrusting, or do you consider the entire "round of intimacy" being synonymous with sex? I.e. when does it become Sex? Is that heavy making out? 2nd base? Naked? Oral? Heavy petting? It is kinda ambiguous.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 08:39 PM
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Whatever, bud. Excellent use of punctuation in the meantime, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:04 PM
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Just taking the piss on a sub designed to take the piss
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:31 PM
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The importance of commas, quotation marks and punctuation in general, however, is rarely exaggerated enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 07:28 PM
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Military officers are a good start.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/21 11:27 AM
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2/3 rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:32 PM
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I like the cut of your jib.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 01:07 PM
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im impressed by your patience and determination
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:00 PM
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its always a time of economic uncertainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 12:49 PM
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Dude. Get out of your basement. You are listening to a dude playing WoW shitting on thots. He is not someone to be taking advice from. He is a loser. Don't be like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 02:10 PM
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It means they want blowjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/21 08:17 PM
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It means both of them accomplished something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/21 01:32 AM
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Going to the woods and camping is illegal? Like... it is just the woods, tho.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 07:19 PM
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Yeah, even at the height of COVID restrictions, I cant imagine a lock down that makes it so you can't drive to the woods and pitch a tent.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 07:02 PM
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Then camping sounds perfect...
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 06:18 PM
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Why can't you travel? Go on a driving trip to a cabin in the mountains or something. Be lone with yourselves and nature. Go Camping. Etcetc.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 06:10 PM
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Sit down and follow the leech? WTF are you talking about, mate?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:20 PM
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The fact that you think big dogs, as a group, have internalized human rules for their behavior, is hilarious to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:08 PM
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For reals. I was looking into this for a long time. IT just isn't done yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:01 AM
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See: Vasalgel
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 02:56 AM
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The overly long courtship processes, marriage before sex, etc were an extremely long and enthusiastic consent ritual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 03:21 PM
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Yup. No worries. I never even saw the button to click for consent.
/r/RedPillParenting04/03/21 05:08 PM
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Well. This survey let's you click big buttons, then locks you out of you don't hit the right check box... I forsee a lot of bad responses.
/r/RedPillParenting04/03/21 02:07 PM
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This is a Wendy's...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 04:05 PM
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Well... yeah. It isn't going to be easy to understand, but yes. Getting married to a woman CAN be a great thing. Being married, in a legitimate, real marriage that you know (sic) is going to last the rest of your life? That is an incredibly powerful benefit for your psyche. You know,deep down, that you have someone that knows you, loves you, and is always going to have your back? That is just a huge pyschological benefit. No loneliness, going through life as a team and not as a single soul perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 04:13 PM
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The people organizing in CH were certainly self-organizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:39 PM
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Well, yeah. That is the point I was making. Self-organization ain't exactly easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:17 PM
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Tell that to CHAD/CHOP
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:25 PM
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Yup. There isn't a right answer. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:57 PM
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Nah, I agree. There isn't really an easy answer... Well. One pretty good answer is criminalizing some things... But also having a third party work towards creating a song moral fiber in the populous to steer them clear of the worst failings of human character.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:34 PM
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It's not about a crime against a person. It's more about a crime against society. The thought process is similar to outlawing gambling. It protects society from becoming something the majority of the local citizens don't want. I. E. Living in Vegas et al. Or an easier comparison would be banking hotels with only fans from posting on gone wild. Is a heavy handed approach, to be sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 01:05 PM
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That is insane. If you are a desirable woman, ALL men will value you. You think ScarJo doesn't get lusted after by neckbeards?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:53 PM
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The "work on yourself" is work on flexing your boundaries and learning to say no. Stop blaming other people when you should be blaming yourself. The world is not going to change for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:03 PM
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Once again, this is a situation of "Work on yourself and the rest will follow."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:57 PM
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Depends. For a lot of men, having a high body count isn't a bad thing IF the girl is a slut for the man she is with. She flows you all the time, loves anal, and is down for all your kinks? Her n-count PROBABLY isn't a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 01:19 AM
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"Are all....? " The answer is always no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 09:04 PM
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Makeup, cooking, etc. Honestly, what would be really cool and an excellent niche would be taking old home ec textbooks and BHG magazines and sussing out and modernizing their core concepts.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/21 02:48 AM
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Oh. I thought you meant fat, dog and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:43 PM
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Fds?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 01:27 PM
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Yeah... But that's the point. Having laws that are obviously dumb at face value UNTIL the police wasn't to enforce them just planes the way for a police state.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/01/21 12:41 PM
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The Victorians voluntarily became more restrictive over time, sexually, with no revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 01:36 PM
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Eh..... I am a face guy. Face trumps body everytime. I mean... a 1/10 on body aint gonna fly. But that is normally because of a lot of fat, which would effect the face anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 06:10 AM
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So much incredibly bullshit one dimensional character "analysis" going on here. Real top notch stuff, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/21 08:14 PM
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https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/life/relationships/a26551655/us-divorce-rate/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 02:21 PM
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What do you mean by blame? That is the crux of things. Simping is degrading and screams of a lack of self respect. I wouldn't do it. Being a slut is nasty, but it makes money. If I had a pussy and could slut it around, I might do it, might not. Some women do it just fine. But what is blame? It is a situation two adults enter into willingly. On either side, the only person maybe to blame is the party that is lying, and the only one who COULD place blame is the party being lied to. So, in that reg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 07:10 PM
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Two sides, same coin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 01:27 PM
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No man is cat calling at the nunnery.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 04:24 PM
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Very impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:13 PM
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At what age?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 04:02 PM
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"'Love everybody' is destroying the value of 'All hate has got me Nowhere'". That quote is much more poignant than, I think, people give it credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 03:58 PM
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I meant it was an even LONGER job
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 05:16 PM
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Only rent to first responders or military.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:55 PM
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Knowing how to do it is also pertinent. It ain't a 2 hour job if you're learning on the fly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:53 PM
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Men also love driving sports cars. But, as most get older, they become much less willing to put up with a Vette as a daily driver.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 08:15 PM
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Badass vanity mirror? Like, with the really good lighting, etc??
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/20 05:05 PM
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Pussy ain't got no face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 12:02 PM
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Why is there fault? It is just people looking sexy and liking to look at sexy people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 04:00 PM
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Have you seen pictures of people, normal people, from the fifties? It's 100% diet and sedentary lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 12:03 PM
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Lol. Absolutely not. $450 for a name change? GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 01:52 PM
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I am the parent to two children. I have neither the capacity, expertise nor desire to parent the rest of the country. And, short of the desire, neither do you. Adults can make their own decisions, and should deal with those consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 12:46 PM
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Addressed how? You don't like it, don't do it. For everyone else, Darwin Awards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 11:52 AM
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Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 03:24 AM
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A type of chewing tobacco.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 07:36 PM
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Dipping
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/20 04:51 PM
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Remind him : hard work is a virtue. A man who is willing to work on himself,career and relationship is attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 05:46 PM
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I am an old married man. This is a natural thing for him to feel. He is probably very worried about his job prospects, and puts a lot on himself to be a provider for a good woman, etc etc. Don't tell him how great he is NOW. He is down in the dumps. And, empirically, he is probably right. He is 21. He probably kinda sucks at things... when compared to an older, more established guy. Now, in his mind, you are the pinnacle of womanhood, in a lot of respects. You are young and beautiful. Older, est…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 02:32 PM
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Lol, I thought I was on a DnD sub.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 10:19 PM
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Why do guys who hate themselves still pleasure themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 02:40 PM
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There is very very very little that the government should make mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 07:57 PM
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I just keep it really simple and do Jeff Cavalieres perfect workouts series.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 04:10 PM
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And you think the sugar baby wasn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 03:59 PM
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You use the age of the oldest person in the couple.... And 18/16 is kinda fine in most places. Romeo and Juliette laws, etc. Like, I'm 30. Youngest I should date, by this rule, is 22. 30/22 feels pretty good.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 12:24 PM
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Half your age plus seven is the general consensus.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/20 12:09 PM
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No one is fighting against that. Sexual liberation is not a holy grail.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:16 AM
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Sigh. Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:12 AM
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Guys can wear condoms and pull out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 02:03 AM
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How you internalize criticism from other people about your choices is your problem. Using condoms, having the pill, etc is control over your contraceptives... You are simply arguing in bad faith, it from a position of ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:57 AM
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You paint with a huge brush. Condoms are super cheap and gay people can get married. How much freedom do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:50 AM
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They do, and it is...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 12:20 AM
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.... And by sexually liberated you mean what, exactly? Because we have birth control. Many forms of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:54 PM
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On what grounds is it worth fighting for? You are making a lot of sweeping generalization there. Incidentally, you have condoms. You can pull out. You can do anal. You can bang mouths. There are lots of ways to have sex with no babies involved. So, I don't even really agree with your base premise. Then, on top of that, I also disagree with your concept of it being "worth fighting for." What, exactly, does it gain us? As an individual? As a species?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:26 PM
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Right. Ok then. You are right... But what is the point of that? We also can't have a flight liberation without anti-gravity boots. You have successfully created a term and given your definition of said term. Congrats. Now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:12 PM
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Because overcoming biological realities and limitations via technology is an asinine starting point for the conversation. What is your point? "We have never REALLY been free to sexually explore things, because having sex leads to babies!" Yeah. And we haven't been free to explore telepathy, because people don't have access to mind reading helmets. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 10:04 PM
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Yeah. They sound like a 12 year old who just figured out the solution to the world. I'll quit wasting my finger strength.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:54 PM
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This person is an enlightened 12 year old. You are wasting your breath. We also wont be able to travel freely until we develop anti-gravity boots. Duh. They're an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:51 PM
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Yes, easily. It allows us to have children which are reared in a method rife with support for parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:36 PM
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It was easily accessible to the point that it was used to extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:32 PM
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Yes they did. They had a contraceptive that was natural and plentiful. They literally used it to extinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 08:21 PM
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To assume that women are shrewd individuals who act in their own self-interest and not pedestalized mary sues?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 02:40 PM
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Lol. Thank you. I don't understand how this is not obvious to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 10:49 AM
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It's post modern destructionist drivel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 03:13 PM
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Sounds like you are the poster child for the autist RPer who simply cannot understand nuance, metaphor and colorful prose.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:20 PM
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Because you can't overestimate the draw of a top tier man. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:29 PM
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Examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 12:52 PM
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Money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 02:44 PM
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Baited and outsmarted.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/05/20 05:12 PM
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I see links from the auto mod. That's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:53 AM
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I'm really normally not a stickler for sources. A heavy portion of arguments don't rely on data, but are conceptual. But this is actual data. And this guy cites.... nothing that I can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:35 AM
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50-55% is a bit of a misnomer, though. It is much closer to 30% for first marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:11 AM
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Nothing about it is flattery. Dudes are deranged and assholes. Get up and move. Report it to the police and/or the driver. If there are a lot of people, holler at him and Ask him WTF he is doing jerking off on the fucking bus?!
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 08:50 PM
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Lol. Ok mom. Go clutch your pearls somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:45 PM
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Jesus. It isn't "malicious". It is, at most, mischievous and dumb. Sticks and stones. It is a good lesson that has been forgotten.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:33 PM
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And nothing about stupid jokes is harmful.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:12 PM
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Lol. I guess we just really have different definitions of what malicious means.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 07:21 PM
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Sigh. Okay. I'm open for discussion, you bow out, but I'm the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:02 PM
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Good one! Still doesn't say anything about how catcalling is malicious. Annoying? Sure. Malicious? Far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:58 PM
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Yes, yelling at people from your car is dumb. Agreed. The likelihood that it is going to get you a candle light dinner is zero. But to call this harassment, it say that it is actually meaningfully damaging to someone? Nope. The whole point you're basing your premise on is that it is a dumb, flippant remark. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:35 PM
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Bah. Catcalling is just a loud version of hitting on women. Give me a reasonable definition that is actually malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:33 PM
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Don't be an ass. Raping a woman, by definition, means she doesn't want it. Your analogy is impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:32 PM
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How does he know that? Men aren't hitting on women with the intention of raping them, lol. They fantasize that the woman does /would want and reciprocate...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:29 PM
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If I fondle your nuts, will you be less profound please?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:27 PM
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You literally said "malicious intentions". In your post
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:26 PM
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Why is wanting to have sex with a woman malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:24 PM
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Why? Giving women sexual attention is not a bad thing, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:23 PM
1

Lol. This is shit posting week. Get out of here with these profound replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:22 PM
1

Why is it malicious?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:19 PM
1

Right. Because NOT having sex with young girls is an arbitrary social construct. Having sex with post pubescent women is literally how we're biologically wired. Easy to not act on those urges. But literally just not having them? Psh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 03:18 PM
1

One mile of Lake front
/r/PussyPassDenied08/05/20 11:59 AM
1

Lol. Can a made up, extrapolated characature of a person met another made up, extrapolated characature of a person and create a made up, extrapolated life together? Sure bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:38 AM
2

Human society isn't unnatural... Like, how does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 09:54 PM
11

Well, a few reasons. One, you do it poorly. Two, it's pretentious. Three, it just isn't the vernacular
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:29 AM
17

This is retarded. Women literally stay with men who beat them. That is a common scenario. They love them/are attached to them so much that they get regularly beaten and refuse to leave. Women are faster to get over a breakup because you aren't that special, and they can easily replace you. That doesn't mean love doesn't make a fool of them while they are in the throes of it though. Men take longer to get over a breakup because they CAN'T replace women as easily. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 08:28 PM
1

Are you married?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/20 08:30 PM
1

r/redpillwomen
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:17 AM
2

Watch John Wayne movies. Watch cary Grant. Watch Sean connery.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:08 PM
3

And you think that is standard across all marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:01 AM
3

Surely you don't legitimately think there is a universal answer to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 03:52 AM
1

Tell that to keanu
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:43 AM
9

What do you have against the letter s?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 08:42 AM
1

To each their own I guess. But what's good for the Goose is good for the gander. The thought of my wife wanting to fuck someone other than me disgusts me. If I'm not good enough for her to fuck, then she can walk. I'm open to fill whatever needs she has. I'll fuck like a hurricane, whenever she wants it. If that ain't enough, then I need to get better. If she needs more than the best I can give, then she can walk. And vise versa
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 10:17 PM
9

Nope. If that's what you want, why are you partnered with her? She isn't your sister. She isn't your whore. Those are different rules. The rules for a romantic relationship requires monogomy, or else what is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 05:19 PM
3

Why would anyone want to date you? What makes you better than anyone else? Because in your heart of hearts, you know that you HAVE to be better than someone else in order to have someone else love you. You have to be better than anyone else that girl can get. Bettering yourself is the key to getting women. Then, once you're that, you have to find someone worth it for you. Now who's good enough for you? Are they worth all the effort that you put in? Probably not. Most people aren't. Focus on you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 07:55 PM
7

Male sexuality, also. It isn't the sole point of male sexuality, but it is definitely a high contributing factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 04:09 PM
-15

She was talking about his language, and helping him maintain his cool rather then turn it into something bad.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/20 04:17 AM
3

Groupon photo books. I think snap fish has them for like $5 right now. Put in a bunch of baby pictures, pictures of the two of you, etc. You'll be the best daughter ever.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/20 08:56 AM
3

Because we're biologically hard wired to take care of women. Especially ones we want to make babies with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:14 PM
2

Sure. But if I were to ever say "did my wife not pick up?" it would be cause she is a home maker and the primary contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:35 PM
5

And it's still common for the dad to be at work and the mother at home. There's a reason my wife is the primary point of contact. Why do you not call the primary point of contact first?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:24 PM
2

Speak for yourself. I do plenty with my kids. Played long distance pretty pretty princess last night at 3am while on a business trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:23 PM
3

I can understand not wanting to practice monogamy. I'm just not wired that way. Sleeping around and multiple sex partners never really appealed to me. Monogamy does. I don't get all that much personal validation out of fucking. It's fun but... Without a strong emotional connection, I'd almost rather just jerk off. Random women who's opinion I don't really value... It's fun, but it gets old quick. So, instead, for me, I need for the woman I'm with to be high value. I need to value her opinion, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 03:34 PM
2

Yup. Although, I used to be MUCH more staunchly in your camp. But, it seems as though I was just never presented with the correct temptations. It is nice to be tested and be able to stick to your morals, but until you've been truly tested, and literally almost crack, that level of staunchness is short-sighted/narrow-minded and just... childishly proud? IDK. At least, it was for me. I have had to do a lot of personal reflection lately, and I think I am getting much more and more tolerant and grac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:44 PM
2

Yeah. I think we're on the same page. I can easily see the arguement that the guy on deployment would be unhappy with his long-term relationship, since the spouse wasn't there. And not just a sex thing, but a general lack of intimacy. Even if everything else about the relationship was great, the lack of intimacy could redefine the relationship as "unhappy." I see where you're coming from. I would argue that that means it isn't really UNHAPPY, just... well, circumstances dictating that the relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 02:27 PM
1

Yeah. I agree with you about the happiness portion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:37 AM
1

Well... I think there are also extenuating circumstances involved with cheating. Imagine you're a time traveler. If you go to a different time, and sleep with someone else, fall in love even, are you cheating on your spouse? OK, then what if you're military, and you are indefinitely deployed to a foreign country. You legitimately become enamored with someone, they with you, and you both agree that it is a fairy tale thing, that only exists in a foreign land, and you return home later to your spo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:33 AM
2

Eh. It isn't really self sacrifice. Just a different value system. So you like people who cheat? I don't. I also don't care for liars. Do I see the benefit for the individual? Yup. Hard not to. But I don't like them. Don't want to be them. Just different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:28 AM
1

It's always fair. Full stop. Fair is people being allowed the film to make whatever choices they want, and then their living with the consequences. That is what is happening now. Regulation? GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:26 AM
3

It IS a thing people do. You're right. But it is also a thing that many people actively DON'T do. It's hard, sometimes, but it IS possible to stifle that impulse control. But yeah, people who claim to be totally resistant to temptation, potentially, just haven't been tempted hard enough. I don't think it is a question of selfishness. Like, at its root, maybe it is. But it isn't that cut and dry. It is absolutely possible to become enamored with someone, while still in a relationship with someone…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:05 PM
7

Interesting. Muh vows are to myself, brah. It's about refusing to allow yourself become something you hate. It has very little to do with being cheated on and very much to do with the kind of person you want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 06:02 PM
1

They have the most time to be online.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 08:39 PM
1

I can already jerk off. I don't see them replacing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 04:57 AM
1

Face. Every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:34 AM
0

Smart answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:51 PM
-1

Don't get down on yourself. You're a certified shit lord. I'll be sure to call on your services when needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:45 PM
-1

When you state that there is only one strict definition of right and left,, with no historical context, you implicitly state that there is no overlap. But I do like the part where you make your point in in absolutes, hen call other people children
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:43 PM
8

Left and right refer to many different things on the political spectrum. Economics are only one axis. Also you have conservatism vs progressivism. Liberalism vs authoritarianism. Etc. But these axis don't have to overlap! Also. There's a huge difference between hyper anarcho-capitalism free wholesome communism. You don't think that there is room for debate on that scale, especially against an as-far-left communist as Zizek? You can't be against wholesale communism without being labeled right win…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 09:04 PM
9

I am the exact opposite. An attractive face is my number one priority in females. Everything else follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:42 PM
1

Changing your view will be hard. But men are hard wired to protect women. The time honored saying and tradition of women and children first exists for a reason. Men WILL go out of their way to protect women they don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/19 06:29 PM
21

Hmm. I wonder if they controlled for the father being in the picture. I didn't see that in the article.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 08:46 AM
1

6x6 here. I do alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/19 08:02 PM
3

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/1641529318/ref=sspa_mw_detail_2?ie=UTF8&psc=1#aw-udpv3-customer-reviews_feature_div
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/19 07:55 PM
-1

"she's only as special and unique as you are."
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 03:16 PM
-1

I'm not buying a pet dolphin just to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/19 07:31 PM
1

Site, they don't treat each other badly. But they also don't treat them the same way they treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:24 AM
1

That's an interesting take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 04:23 AM
1

Then I think you might be being a bit extreme. The way you are phrasing things makes it seems like it is primarily subconscious and that it is inevitable. I think it is neither. Quite simply, if women want to be treated like men, then sure, let's give it a go. They won't like it. Conversely, however, women that have their femininity in tact can easily stop find men who will value that and treat them like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:46 AM
1

I can get on board with that. I'm basically off the mindset that if you want to play with the boys, don't expect special treatment. If you are going to inject yourself into male dominated spaces, don't expect to be treated like a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:33 AM
2

I generally agree with what you're saying, but I don't understand what you mean by defective men. If a woman wants to do a job, she will be judged on her performance. If that is lacking, OH well. They are only viewed ss "defective men" If they are sub standard at their job, just like men who suck at their jobs are viewed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:01 AM
21

Lots of guys like slutty, drama ridden women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 02:39 PM
6

But at the same time, media for the physical image of men is just as pervasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/19 03:47 AM
1

Receiving acts of service. I tend to over look them and assume people did the act for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 02:31 PM
1

Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 09:09 AM
3

Yep. Communist China sucks. What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/19 05:20 AM
1

How does that conflict with sustainability?
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 09:11 PM
2

Thank you. Those numbers looked suspect to me too
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 05:21 AM
2

I can dig that. I'm just saying to use it as a point of reference.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 07:40 PM
2

Check out r/normalnudes and r/amiugly They are a great way to catch relatively unbiased, but positive feedback about people's bodies and faces. You don't have to post, but extrapolate for yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 09:09 AM
1

How often do your farts go up into your vag?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 02:22 PM
2

It ain't racist to ask where his family is from. It's natural curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 04:46 PM
2

I'm fine judging people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:03 PM
4

I know you find it boring. Boring is subjective, but it's real and credible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 09:03 PM
0

Eh... That's ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:36 PM
13

That's ridiculous. 1.all of this shit is relative. If I don't like their interests, then that's boring. 2.being unable to properly express passion IS boring. Especially to me. Boring people unequivocally exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 04:36 PM
3

Too many negative in that sentence for me to understand. Try again, Hoss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:51 AM
5

Because you aren't saying them funny enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:42 AM
3

Lift and stop being a bitch. Is not their job to protect your future libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/19 08:23 AM
-2

You're in denial if you call it unearned. It is well earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 04:27 PM
7

That's retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/19 04:59 PM
1

Gotcha. We all have our teen hangovers. Hell, I personally have a sticking point for trashy women... Just the right level of trashy really does something for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/19 08:56 AM
0

Why would you like tortured band guys? Lol. They are pussies and act like bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/19 09:23 PM
1

Chris Rock's sexual harassment is Denzel's come on.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 05:13 PM
3

Saw on ESPN today that a recent game had a final score of 39-42.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/19 08:57 AM
7

Why should they care about men that aren't their friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/19 11:22 PM
1

. 0. The thought of kissing a man skeeves me the fuck out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/19 07:13 PM
1

Woosh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:58 AM
0

No. Don't cry more. That is NOT the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:55 AM
0

Not if she deep throats your beer bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 09:06 PM
1

Trp is a set of guidelines for people. It is not a rulebook at in stone. Autistic people have a hard time with nuance, and, thus, fail spectacularly with its implementation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/19 11:25 PM
2

affect effect is always a bit iffy. It is fine as a noun, really easy. But the difference between the two as verbs is much more nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/19 10:18 PM
9

The double in the title works. A lil something something, if ya know what I mean.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 11:53 AM
1

The point is you can let your life be dictated by statistics, or you can nut up and buck the trends, and be your own fucking man. Here's a more real statistic: women, straight women who want a man, don't like pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 12:14 PM
2

Disproved it for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/19 10:51 AM
0

I always end up reading what you write, liking it, then realizing it was you who wrote it. Thanks for being a level headed woman on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:11 PM
1

Yeah. I'm 5'6. Happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:07 PM
2

Yeah. I'm 5'6. Happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/19 01:07 PM
2

Haha. Now that's funny!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 08:00 PM
2

Read parties, thought you meant repub and democrat. I was confused as hell how you were gonna make that argument!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/19 07:54 PM
1

I was seriously just joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/19 01:05 AM
1

Lol, like I'm a puppy!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:35 PM
1

5'5/5'6 ish we joke about it a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 05:22 PM
2

I am 4 inches shorter than my wife. It's fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/19 04:46 PM
2

Indeed. People are weak willed. As a rule, it makes more sense to assume they are capable of being shitty.. They will make excuses for themselves, they will shimmy and shake, but true virtuous people are free and far between. Guys know this about other guys. They need a reminder for the women folk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 04:10 PM
6

I don't think you over-reacted in this instance at all. However, here is a big point: Your daughter is not your GF/Wife. The Red Pill constantly drives the point home that, if your woman is being disrespectful/isnt treating you right, it is YOUR fault. This is 100% MORE true for your daughter. With a GF/wife, you can leave. You can try to put in the effort, realize it isn't worth it, and then just. With your daughter.... I mean, you could do that. You could just leave and be done with her. But l…
/r/RedPillParenting09/05/19 03:14 PM
0

So you shoot her with a nerf gun the same way you shoot your buddies? If I flirted with my guy friends and shot them with a nerf gun anywhere other than the face or the balls, it would be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/19 08:27 PM
75

I just think it is funny that Captain Marvel is touted as a strong, female role model as a heroine... but all of her powers are from outside herself. The fact that she is a woman have nothing to do with things. It's silly pandering.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:26 PM
31

Not being rude, BUT. You could be ugly, you could be intimidatingly hot, you could have a cold personality. There are tons of reasons why guys might not approach.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/19 07:21 PM
2

Interesting hit take: if business could pay women 25%less, why don't they all just hire more women to make more profit?!
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 06:41 PM
3

Not quite, IMO. Men can be failures. At everything. Having a woman is reallly more oriented towards validation. No career, no accomplishments, no value AND no woman (since you have to have some combination of the first 3 to get the 4th)? You are worthless, and the world doesn't want you. Constantly being reminded that no one wants you, IMO, is why men are more driven to kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 01:06 AM
6

Bang their moms since, their dad ain't around.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 01:32 AM
5

Literally had my 11th anniversary yesterday. Bumpy? Sure. But it isn't boring. And it is less meaningless than having no one. Do it again? Yep. Do differently? Wait a bit longer? Drink less? Drink more? Cheat at the beginning? IDK. Life is pretty good. Believe in marriage? It's real, ain't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 12:40 AM
2

BAAAA HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:20 PM
1

Half of the world's population has $5 bills. Half has $1 bills. A team needs $6 to buy something. Just because each group has the same number of bills, doesn't make them equal. The team with $5 bills will get to pick and choose their $1 bill teammate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 07:35 PM
1

Check out red pill women for some encouragement that they exist. Go to republican fund raisers. And find a better church, geez
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/19 05:33 PM
2

I don't really like lingerie. A lot of guys don't. Naked is better. I think lingerie is mainly to make a woman feel sexy, more so than drive the desire of a man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 02:49 PM
1

WTF are you talking about? You aren't married. People now-adays are too fucking eager to be "Going Steady" to the extreme. What is wrong with just dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 05:51 PM
1

What about Patrice O'Neal and Chris Hutchins?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/19 11:58 AM
1

When your with him and yall are getting intimate, roll him over and tell him you're going to sit on his face and you aren't getting off until you get off. Be straightforward, in the moment, with dirty talk. Be his slut, in the moment, telling him what you need. He isn't a mind reader. And if you aren't telling him what you need, in the moment, he probably just thinks he's doing it all correct. Don't let him of the hook in the bedroom, if you are really unsatisfied. "make me cum, big boy". I'm be…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/19 02:58 AM
4

Because "nice guys" self identify.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 07:36 PM
7

Eh. They are different. Having a baby is something that is intrensically linked to you. You cannot get away from it, and we are hard wired to value parent-child relationships. Getting married is something you have to actively work at. It is a commitment that is MUCH harder to maintain, throughout life. Marriage is the harder commitment. One could easily argue that it makes it the "bigger" commitment. Frankly, the term "bigger" is a bit worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 02:23 PM
0

Fair enough. I even asked for clarification in the post I sent. I couldn't tell which side she was asking for. Regardless, they really are kinda two sides of the same coin. I thought my analogy works well in both ways.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:03 PM
3

Lol. I mean, I like eating! Sometimes granola is fine. It makes me feel good about myself, that I didn't pick the candy. But eventually, you have to eat what you like and realize the metaphor has gone to far. I'm sure your granola is delicious ;)
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:05 PM
1

I'm confused. She specifically asked to explain the red pill mentality.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:52 PM
3

Lol, yup. All in good fun.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:50 PM
1

Mischief managed.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:36 PM
1

Like... You can make Granola taste good, sure. You can make yourself not regret the Granola. But it's a really hard sell to make it a first choice over candy and steak, lol.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:35 PM
1

To each their own, kiddo. Granola simply isn't as good as candy or steak. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 12:13 PM
1

No specific ideal. I mean, to each their own. But I would generalize as sexy, freak, who is loyal, will be a good wife and mom to our kids. Gets my jokes, laughs with me, calls me on my bullshit, but is there as a partner. Good feminine energy. And sexy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:01 AM
1

I mean, it isn't a prefect analogy. Basically, candy = sluts, granola = boring women, steak = lady in streets/freak in the sheets i.e. top tier women, good for the long term.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:54 AM
3

Ah. That would be the women who focus on a career and being smart and ignoring their feminine wiles. Women who have those traits that are great for a relationship, but just... boring.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:49 AM
2

I know all the things you are saying, man. I don't think it invalidates my initial point. TRP is amoral. I wasn't saying that trying to make a point. I was saying it because it was literally the slogan for the sub. Just giving the definition.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:05 AM
-1

Eh, I think that is kinda advanced TRP. I agree with those sentiments, etc. But it only talks about outcome independence because that independence is attractive to women. TRP is, by definition, an amoral sexual strategy for men. It is not MGTOW. I think the outcome independence, fulfilling nature and being better is the natural end-game of TRP, because men like that are who women want to bang. But, again, by definition, TRP is a sexual strategy for men, NOT a life enrichment program. It just so …
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 02:11 AM
-1

I think the justice done to TRP is done as a secondary part to the main goal of TRP. If being a worse dude were the key to getting laid, TRP would espouse that. It just so happens, lifting, embracing your masculinity, and being a BAMF are what get you women. Kinda like the best way yo trick or treat is to have a great costume and be really happy at the door.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 01:49 AM
36

Do you want to understand TRP for men, or TRPW? From a man's perspective: Men like to have sex. Lots of it. If you are a young man, looking for sex consumes a huge percentage of your brain activity. TRP is a set of guidelines to help you have more sex. Nothing more. Eventually, most guys get bored with that. And, frankly, most men want something more in life than notches on their bedposts. Most men, IMO, actually DO want companionship and the love of a woman. (TRP is not really geared towards th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 12:52 AM
3

The wall isn't that. The wall is just the tipping point where a woman's looks don't outweigh their personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 03:26 PM
1

Free lunch is free lunch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:33 PM
1

All of them, if she's not and not retarded. Less if she's fat and mean. 20% of them, at the lowest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 05:37 PM
1

You are characterizing things so broadly that you can literally make them mean anything. Your original premise, that gender doesn't matter in a long term partner, is asinine. The traits you mention are genderless, but they are NOT the only traits that matter. All of those things are nice, but I also want a sexy woman with tits and a vagina. Long term, I want that. Mission driven means fuck-all in comparison to that want.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:03 PM
1

Whichever one is hotter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:22 PM
2

0 kinda. Were going to Disney as a family for the weekend, but that was kinda already planned, and never had Vday attached to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:06 PM
3

It's a gamble. Is she worth it? Only you will know. The rule of thumb is No. The easy, and very good advice, is No. You know all the reasons why. BUT, I can tell from your post, you really aren't going to take that advice. The important thing is not to be surprised when she ruins it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 08:32 PM
1

Treatment of someone isn't binary. There are degrees of all of this. You can want something from someone, but still not fawn over it. There is nuance.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 08:37 PM
0

Your last statement is correct. BUT, them being above others doesn't mean you have to treat them like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:50 PM
0

That is asinine. Normal people doesn't mean you don't want anything from them. Imagine it like it were a guy celebrity, and you wanted his autograph. Do you fawn over him like some junior high school bitch, or treat him like any other guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 07:06 PM
-1

Because it gets you women. Treating sports like complex systems, instead of games. Let's you analyze them differently and win more often. It might make them less fun, but you win more. If your goal is to fuck women, realizing that most of them are less interesting than your guy friends will help you reach that goal. If your goal changes afterwards, that isn't the tactics fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 05:42 PM
0

Ding Ding Ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 04:27 PM
1

Caveat Emptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/19 03:08 PM
1

Love is when someones feelings and well being are intrinsically tied to your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:05 AM
6

I think the comments here underline the fact that autism is a spectrum everyone is on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:54 PM
5

Doing something out of obligation is much different than doing it voluntarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 10:52 PM
6

What about the treatment was bad, exactly? He was pretty watertight up, didn't tease her, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 04:15 PM
6

Booty call. Definitely not friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/19 05:25 PM
3

"She is extroverted" "I have severe social anxiety" You last met a year ago. Meeting her was an event for you. Meeting you was a Tuesday for her. You probably don't meet/go out of your way to have social interaction with people for 10 min at a time. That was an event for you. She probably does it multiple times a day. Did anything happen to cement you in her mind from a year ago? The quiet, socially awkward guy? Do you assume she has a Sherlock Holmes-ian level of memory? And, sadly, you weren't…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 03:49 PM
3

Ugh. The fact that these are modern "norms" is sad, in and of itself. Seeing this as anything other than just a cute song is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:31 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:31 PM
3

Hmm. Why are all of the women's eyes in this test so damned sexy? 31/36
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:21 PM
14

Your question requires that the following be true: if people are equal, then neither side will be oppressed. That is asinine, as my reply illustrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:16 PM
22

This is a retarded question. if men and men are equal, how have there been enslaved people forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:03 PM
2

I ain't gonna show anyone anything...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 04:32 PM
5

They do love men, just not you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 12:40 PM
1

This just isn't true. How many fat girls you know who LOVE disney and still have stuffed animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 02:31 AM
1

Jesus, stop being such a fuck face.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 11:25 PM
1

So, I am a guy... Dress like Christina Hendriks in Mad Men. ZBoom.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 12:00 PM
2

tru dat. It was impressive enough to comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:48 AM
1

Your head is strangely square.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 04:14 AM
2

She doesn't laugh and goes out of her way to say it's not funny, lol. Makes me pissed, cause I pride myself on being funny. But not all humor is everyone's cup of tea, and I'm growing up enOugh to realize that.
/r/RedPillWives04/10/18 10:03 PM
2

Hundreds, but they would all have to be fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 05:02 PM
9

Full disclosure, I am a guy. But I think this is kinda a gender-neutral question. I think there are two simple steps you can take. The first is try not to be snarky for the sake of being snarky. My sense of humor, a lot of times, comes across as abrasive and hurtful to my wife. I actively try and curtail the tip-of-the-tongue remarks that are cutting in nature, even if I do just mean them as a joke. The second is to, before you start to get mad about something potentially small, ask yourself "Wi…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/18 01:46 AM
1

You could also wear make-up. Like a news reporter or actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 07:55 PM
1

Wait, that's his wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 06:45 PM
1

Last night. It was nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 07:26 PM
3

Maybe you're just an asshole? More seriously, people only like the strong silent type for so long. Eventually, it gets boring, and they will take advantage of your silence.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/18 12:57 PM
1

I didnt provide the graphs!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:27 AM
1

What I'm saying is that he knew you would blow it out of proportion and so he had to hide it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 03:11 PM
1

Makes sense. I just read the axes on mobile. Thanks for the clarification and posting them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 03:05 PM
-3

Seems like he used incognito because he knows you creep on him...
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 03:00 PM
2

Sure. I just thought it was funny that they have a different bar for Yes and No. I am a bit confused with graphs 1 and 3, tho. They seem to be reporting the same thing, but with different results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:56 PM
3

Ugh that second graph is so poorly made.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:50 PM
1

More than 3 per year since the age of 14. With a Max of 10-12 for lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:48 PM
1

Lol. No. There is a reason men call it the anger phase. Women go through this exact same thing. It IS a heuristic. Treat every gun as if it were loaded. AWALT: treat every woman as if she could, and would, cheat on you if something better came along. Same difference. Is it extreme? Sure. But it is a rule of thumb, not written in stone. Why is it extreme? Same reason that "Men are dogs" is extreme. It is something constructive to latch onto when men have their worldview shattered by realising wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:02 PM
2

Sure it is. But then what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 01:03 PM
3

Because it assumes women don't have the capacity to be shrewd or cunning unless a man made them that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:43 PM
1

Because it works. The entire RP sub is dedicated to amoral strategies to get laid more. Full stop. If you want a lasting, more helpful relationship, then some of the strategies might not be right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:42 PM
1

Women do come to exactly that conclusion. "Men are dogs" is an incredibly common narrative amongst women. Are all men dogs? No. But they have the capacity to be. That, and AWALT, is a heuristic used to help in the dating world. It isn't meant to be literal, just to frame you're interactions and understand the capacity. Taking women off a pedestal and AWALT are the same basic comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:39 PM
4

You are delusional. You think women all start off with live in their eyes, and only look for money after being burnt? That is not only incredibly naive, but condescending as hell to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 12:35 PM
1

It's all made up. There are as many as you want there to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/18 11:37 AM
2

Then wtf is the point of being in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 06:12 PM
0

no worries. like... the important thing to remember is that your wedding has very little bearing on your actual marriage. If you are honestly on the fence... do this. Elope. with a few very close friends and family, elope. Then, a year later, have a crazy big party where you renew your vows on your anniversary. I would bet, that a year later, you decide not to have the party.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 02:03 AM
0

hey, to each their own. I just know I can think of way better ways to spend 40k
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:55 AM
1

Do not listen to the people selling you wedding shit when it comes to the average cost of the wedding, lol. Consider this, when it comes to a guest list. If you had it on a Wednesday, with no free food, and no free booze, who would come? That should be the only guest list. At max.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:48 AM
1

Look, when I got married, I very quickly didn't care anything about spending the day with the guests. I just got married! I wanted to spend the time with my wife! Fuck the guests. Seriously, a giant wedding is for the family, not the couple. You have to understand whether you want to BE married or GET married.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:46 AM
1

It's your wedding. You shouldn't remember it only because you spent 40k. You should remember it because it meant something.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:39 AM
1

Unless you are literally making enough money for it to not matter... Look. When the day is done, whether you elope or go all out, you are just two married people. I have never known of anyone to get divorced because they had a lackluster wedding. But I've known a few good many to happen over debt. Maybe I'm just a spoil sport but... I mean, for 40k, fly your p parents and best friends to st Simons and live like kings for two weeks. Really fucking DO something with the money.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:38 AM
5

One night. One. Night. It's absolutely not worth it. Not in the slightest. Ask yourself this: if there was not a wedding, would you pay $40k for your friends and family to have fun? Elope. For God's sake, elope. $40k is a down payment on a house for Christ's sake. Ask ANY man if it's a good idea. They well tell you no. You want to give your husband a great wedding gift? Well, 40 thousand dollars is a great fucking gift.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 01:23 AM
1

TRP isn't about having a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 04:00 PM
2

They are angry because their concept of the world changes and they don't know how to handle it with magnanimity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 03:59 PM
-4

What does this have to do with TRP, sexual strategy and getting laid?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 04:33 AM
1

Your response spells this out in an excellent way. Thank you for the well metered and tempered discussion. Biological sex: this one is simple. I don't think anyone who is actually looking to discuss this topic disagrees here very much. The people who throw out documented medical disorders are clearly just muddying the water. I think a major problem in all of this, however, is your distinction between gender and gender identity. Based on your distinctions, gender is literally just the outwardly s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 06:06 PM
1

I can get on board with what your saying. There is a lot of semantic nuance, however, that just doesn't seem worthwhile. Gender as a role in society is an asinine definition. I will agree with your previous points: many of the superficial constructs which apply themselves to "gendered" decisions are just that, superficial. Whether men wear dresses or pants is arbitrary. However, to argue that there are not masculine/feminine traits that span across almost all cultures is just putting your head i…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:51 PM
2

Not trying to attack, but you seem to have a firm grasp of your stance on this. If gender is a social construct, what do the neurological similarities of a transgender female to a cisgender female matter? Wouldn't those biological similarities shore up the OP's stance? I.e. If the neurological similarities matter, then doesn't that mean the associated gender choice of the individual was biologically based? Also, if gender is performative, what makes trans women a different classification than tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:43 AM
2

Tell that to Fred Astair and Danny Kay.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:27 AM
2

Wtf is the cloud flare browser check Shit? Anyone else get that?
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 01:48 AM
1

This honestly sounds a lot like me. Negativity is what it is. My wife bemoans my constant negative comments, but they aren't something I internalize. I say them and move on. The negativity and bitterness is just kinda window dressing. When he ISN'T commenting on something. That's when it's really bothering him. If he's being joking and flippant about it, it probably doesn't really bother him. As for the bitter sex throwaway comments, those are attempts to get your hackles up and make you prove h…
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 11:04 AM
1

Try not to trust anyone who is a part of a group. They get off on being validated by their social network and following the rules. MGTOW, RP, INCEL, punk, goth, Catholic, sooners... Whatever. It's all smoke and mirrors. MGTOW is a way to fake an identity by pretending you are part of something bigger. Referring to them as a legitimate group is silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:28 AM
12

That's not true. But the people who say that looks matter in a woman, that a woman needs to find a man, and that no guy wants a fat girl are currently ridiculed. This sentiment used to be common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 06:29 PM
1

Nods as goods as a wink to a blind bat... You a go-er?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 01:15 AM
1

You seem like the kinda woman worth a word bandy and an eyebrow waggle, saynomoresaynomore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 11:50 PM
1

Because people, especially in online engagements, are becoming less and less adept at understanding nuance. Binary thinking is becoming the de facto thought de jour, unless you want to have different genitals or Aspergers.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:19 PM
1

Because they can. And the attraction can grow even more with someone with whom it starts off strong. So think about growing attraction as an investment. Let's say you have multiple investment vehicles, and each has the same rate of return. You get a lot of people coming up and trying to get you to invest with them. You have a lot of money, but only want to invest once. If they all have the same theoretical rate of return, you would want to invest with the one that gave you the most initial share…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:17 PM
1

Because it's funny and anonymous.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:49 AM
1

Hey, glad it worked out for y'all. I'm being he didn't mind at all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/18 12:55 AM
17

I have two. Stern voice is fine. IF they cry, they cry. Wait until the hysterics are done, reinforce that you aren't upset with them, but with their behavior, and roll with it.
/r/RedPillWives30/04/18 08:11 PM
2

Find the local convention center. Buy tickets to a convention of professionals you consider "successful." Go there and get hunting.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 07:48 PM
3

Seriously enjoy yourself. My wife holding herself back to try and increase my enjoyment... Send shivers down my spine.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 04:04 PM
2

Men are incredibly visual. Especially when it comes to just "showing interest". You need to look the part.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 06:05 PM
8

So... does he nag you about the random little bullshit you do? To that point, if you have a good reason why he should do something, other than "because you want him to", then fine, let him make the decision. Otherwise, it is you making him not do what he wants to do, just because of what you want to do.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 04:59 PM
3

I really enjoy the gameplay of cup head. I've of the few game in years I have enjoyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 10:11 PM
4

Sexual. Favors. No. Questions. Asked.
/r/RedPillWives28/03/18 10:59 PM
5

I don't need a mother for me. I need a mother for my children. So are motherly traits attractive? Yes. They are one of the primary traits to enter into a LTR with a woman. I don't need a woman to be motherly with me. Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets, and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 04:36 PM
3

Right. I know it was in the "Big Book" as a mental illness up until a very short time ago. I can't understand the justification for its removal, other than political reasons and/or a change in sentimentality and climate. I can't make the logical connections to it not being a mental/physical medical condition. It needs medicine, it needs fixing. That is how I would see it with my kids. That being said, good luck man. Woman. Whichever. Either way. Good luck. Thanks for being a reasonable sounding …
/r/RedPillParenting08/03/18 04:13 PM
8

I can appreciate that. But it does seem like a large leap to take based on a hunch. I would be terrified for my children to make that kind of leap. And, at the end of the day, I have a very difficult time viewing it as being different than any other psychosis. In the end, realistically, I would love my kids and deal with it. But in my heart I know that it would probably feel the same as if they had another mental illness. Like... If they thought they were Napoleon. Maybe there would be medicatio…
/r/RedPillParenting08/03/18 03:23 PM
19

I just don't understand it. It's my kid, so it's whatever. I would have a lot of conversations with them about it, since I legitimately don't understand the concept of Transgender. In fact, you seem grounded enough to ask about this. Basically, here is my MAJOR question. You are not of the opposite sex. You have never been the opposite sex. Therefore, you have no concept of what it really means to be a member of the opposite sex. Therefore, how can you "identify" as a member? I find it very diff…
/r/RedPillParenting08/03/18 04:37 AM
0

Because one group is victims, one group isn't. It's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 04:25 AM
8

Your arguments are flawed. Female circumcision ranges widely in what is actually done. The most mild is a small incision to the clitoral hood. Another version is the removal of the hood. Another is the entire removal of the clitoris. Another is the removal/cutting of the labia minora. Another is the sewing shut a small portion of the vagina. Of these, imo, two are worse than male circumcision. The other three are comparable. The reason you mentioned as the sexual stimulation still being fine for…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 04:22 AM
1

Yes, it is sexist. By a textbook definition, avoiding women and not men is sexist. Is it wrong? That seems to be the question to ask, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 04:27 PM
12

I saw a quote here the other day. A guy's professor mentioned why Hemingway wasn't taught in universities. The answer: There isn't anything to talk about. He speaks for himself.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 03:04 AM
2

You are describing shallow people. And yes, women and men are different. But to ascribe being better at lying to women is asinine. Women aren't better at lying. Men are just more apt to believe women, because of the pedestal. There is a huge, and very important, lesson there. The problem people have is separating the VALUE judgement and their own morals from the way things just ARE. Yes. Women have a marked propensity for lying. So do men. But men are trained, by dealing with other men a lot, to…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 08:10 PM
1

Because men shouldn't act as victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:44 PM
4

Sarah plain and tall
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 01:10 PM
2

Sure. I agree with your points. My main point is this: getting upset about it is done. Following it up with "women are lying harlots!" Is just an unhealthy emotional response. Like... You tout logic in your response. How is getting emotionally upset at all women upon finding out they aren't noble princesses logical? It's not. Being logical is understanding that women have the propensity to lie cheat and steal. Just like guys do. Shocker. Also, there are a few cool ones who don't lie cheat and st…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 08:08 PM
6

Bah. That's asinine. Women aren't better at lying, men are just more apt to believe women because of the pedestal Ask women who the better liars are. They'll say men. Because they see through the simple female bullshit that guys are blind to.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:50 PM
9

It is when you say that men are great at it. Hint: they aren't. The number of people, on either side of the Dick divide, who aren't lying cheaters who dodge responsibility is so great that dickering about the finer points of who does it more doesn't matter. You are right, women are lying cheaters that dodge responsibility. The problem is when people go on some tangent, hating women for that. Yea, women are capable of evil things. But the only reason to get upset about that is because one origina…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:46 PM
5

You are thinking about it too much. Like, sure, women a great liars. Men a great liars too, but different than women. But they aren't super villains, any more than guys are all super noble. It's just that people are all liars.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:35 PM
15

No, lol, Men won't. Some do, some don't. But shit, black pill and dark triad manifesto bullshit go out of their way to fortify and incentive lying for profit, and guys eat that shit up. Just as important as it is to not put women on a pedestal, it is also just as important not to demonize them. Just because they aren't angels doesn't make them diabolical super villains. Internalize the fact that, for the huge portion of them, they are just boring, average humans.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:17 PM
6

Lol. All your doing is pedestalizing women in the opposite direction. There isn't anything special about them. They're just people. Much the same as guys. Think of all the guys you know. Now think of how many of them you actually care to have as friends... That same ratio should be even smaller for women you care to date/associate with beyond just for sex.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 07:14 PM
89

Everyone is a liar, man. You just pedestalized.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/18 06:10 PM
13

It's exactly the reason you said... is this a question? Smart people consider risk analysis when deciding to have children. Do I have enough money to feed them, etc. They tend to plan ahead and, thus, limit their baby-making. This isn't rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 12:57 AM
8

Real guide: be attractive. Don't be unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 10:39 PM
1

Jesus, you are a comma fiend. Do you talk like that in real life? It's kinda a self fulfilling prophecy. The likelihood of a woman willing to enter into that relationship is low. Women, as a rule of thumb, don't want harems. They crave the top 20%. This is the cornerstone of hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 04:04 PM
29

This is an excellent answer. Think about it like this: She is no different now than any of your guy friends would be. You are NOT going to be hooking up. Treat her like you would any of them. "You want to come pick me up and we can go to the mall while I look at clothes?" Nope. No reason to make a thing out of it. Just don't bend over backwards for her.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:44 PM
12

Don't be pedantic. What is to say they aren't friends?
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:42 PM
1

Should... should... should. You SHOULD do whatever the fuck you want to. If getting a piece from her is worth more to you than the inevitable baggage, do it. If not, don't. Should.... lol.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 07:09 PM
6

Source? I hate asking that, normally, but where are you seeing this outrage against them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:33 PM
1

Everybody kinda nails it. You either are, or you ain't. TRP is, in essence, two parts. One is understanding human nature and how that applies to women. The second is understanding how to make yourself more desirable to the average woman. The biggest takeaway I can give you about trp is that it normalizes women, and takes them off the pedestal, and recommend reading them like any guy. If you look at your behavior with a woman, and then ask yourself if you would do the exact same thing with a guy …
/r/askTRP04/01/18 05:20 PM
3

Alcohol
/r/askTRP23/12/17 05:05 PM
2

"Yo bitch, you planning on getting together or getting deleted?" Anything other than ending in sex is a hard next.
/r/askTRP09/12/17 10:24 PM
1

I would put it this way. You can ONLY be a doctor if you go through college and med school. If someone else is footing the bill, then go. Enjoy 8 years of blissfully consequence-free environment and abatement on the real world. You can always go back and be a welder if you don't like being a doctor. The opposite is more difficult.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 02:03 PM
1

its not porn based. It was literally the one fetish the mistress of the Marquis de Sade would not engage in with him.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 04:15 AM
1

The key word is "negotiable." Your level of attraction to someone is the sum of your perceived parts. It is not just physical. It's everything. BUT, if someone isn't feeling it, then you can't "convince them" to feel it. You can't talk someone into being attracted to you. You can do things to yourself, that they may notice, that make them more attracted to you. But you can't tell them about those things and expect it to work. Attraction isn't something you can haggle. Another way to word it: Att…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:49 PM
1

u/aaren_augustine nails it. You are the problem. All of the problems you outline are merely your preconceptions getting turned around by reality, especially number 1. Shit just IS. Whether you like it or not, it just IS. Wrapping it up in happy, fun terms like TRP does only serves to make it more digestible to autismos who thrive on structure and hyper-definitions. Women are people, men are people. They like fucking attractive people. They make mistakes, are bags of flaws, and rarely understand/…
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:35 PM
1

But that's just it. There is nothing radical or specific or tricky about it. Just man the fuck up.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 06:55 PM
1

You just man the fuck up and do it, honestly. If you really want something, be a man and get it. Or admit to yourself you like being a pedantic ass more than you like being fun to be around. That's it.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:46 PM
1

If it is worth people you go respect, then what's wrong with trying to correct them? If you respect them, also, then you should show then respect and not be a smart ass when correcting them. I.e. Assume they're not wrong, just have a difference of opinion. And, as far as "it's not that easy, lol". You're a grown ass man. You just do it. There aren't any fucking tricks.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:39 PM
1

Your problem is the second to last bullet. There is no reason to put so much stock into other people's feelings. Why bother correcting things from people whom you don't respect?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 03:23 PM
1

Everyone hated? I didn't think that was the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 11:35 PM
2

It's not ironic. Victorian views on sex were that way for a reason. They allowed for a very polite society to thrive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 05:56 PM
9

Do what you want. Understand that it will cost you the friendship with him. Weigh whether or not you thing that is worth it. then do, or do not do.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:50 AM
6

Yeah dude. Keep them as friends. Help them move when they need someone to carry the heavy stuff, drive them to the airport when their girls are out clubbing, and help them pick whether the red or blue dress makes them look sexier for their next date. Having female friends is the best.
/r/askTRP18/11/17 10:26 PM
1

The Dick Show
/r/askTRP16/11/17 12:39 PM
0

Officers club.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 10:43 AM
5

I disagree that it's cheating, and your metaphor is asinine. On the way to the top of a cutthroat, subjective business... There are no rules. Hence, no cheating.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 03:04 AM
2

... Are we designing a dating simulator algorithm?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:55 PM
-1

Bahahaaa. That's fucking funny. To fix it, you need to desensitize yourself. Go to one of those boot camp physical fitness things. Or just boot camp. Have your friends just flip their shit at you constantly until you get used to it. Loud noises shouldn't make you cry.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 08:54 PM
2

Be attractive, don't be unattractive. This is why abundance mentality is key. Keep swiping right until you find one interested.if you get ghosted, keep swiping right.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 06:13 PM
1

Right, wrong, is. That's it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 05:27 PM
2

If she's interested, she'll make excuses to be with you.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 05:25 PM
1

Then man up and get that shit out of your head. Watch American History X and chill.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 01:20 PM
1

You do you, stay cool. Think Val Kilmer in Tombstone, or Bond in any Bond flick. When gaming a girl, you are both boxers. She keeps throwing the jab. You are bobbing and weaving, but with a grin on the entire time. You ate thinking to yourself, "is that the best you got?" The fight is yours to win, not hers.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 12:26 PM
7

You aren't in the head space to cheat. Best code is ignore, man up, and make a hard decision to hat quit. Second best is to game it into a threesome, since your wife us down. Worst option is to cheat, ruin your lif marriage and hate yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 12:24 PM
5

Yah... This is all a bit much. Cologne means little compared to being well groomed. Take a shower with lots of soap. Wash off the man stink. Worrying about your cologne is for children. At most, take whatever you think smells nice and apply half of what you think you need. If she can smell it before her lips can touch you, it's too much.
/r/askTRP13/10/17 12:25 PM
5

De-stigmatizing prostitution also works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 01:26 PM
1

It's an article meant to be controversial and meant to make your blood boil, whether in lust or rage. To do either is to be manipulated. I don't play that game.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 11:14 AM
2

Because this is a bullshit article for a bullshit company.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:56 PM
1

What are your goals? If your goals are to brag on line about pwning SJWs worth how funny and ironic you were, then go with option 3. If your goals are to irritate people, make enemies and fall the class, go with option 2. If your goals are pad your gpa, ignore idiots and actually get that piece of pauper at graduation, pick option 1. I think it is kinda occupies which choice to take. No one Welwyn talking top gives a fuck how edgy your t shirt is, Iif you catch my drift..
/r/askTRP19/09/17 07:59 PM
29

That's it. Wrap it up. Red pill finished, nothing else, really, for anyone to add.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 07:18 PM
1

You don't tell him to fuck off. You tell him straight up, as a man, to stop hitting on your girlfriend. It's not rocket science.
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:20 PM
1

Buddy, if you're pining away like you are, you ain't alpha. You said you want to "get rid of oneitis." Imagining her slutting it up, taking that Mandingo Dick, and loving it, will help with that..
/r/askTRP15/09/17 12:11 PM
2

The whole point is that it should disgust you, not turn you on.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 07:14 PM
1

Just be better than him. It's a competition. Be better. No reason to hate the guy for doing exactly the same thing you're doing.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:22 PM
4

Just imagine her getting railed and loving it. Imagine her really getting off with some other dude. Not gentle starfish sex, but really getting off on it. Riding his dick. Flipping over and telling him to shove it into her tight ass. Etc. Get really really graphic with it. Run with it. Keep imaging it. Now, internalize the fact that this is true. She IS doing this with someone. Why? Because she is an adult woman who enjoys fucking. Just not fucking you. There ya go.
/r/askTRP14/09/17 03:20 PM
2

So, the fact that everyone interprets TRP differently kinda invalidates your sweeping assertion, doesn't it? If everyone defines/interprets TRP differently, how can it all be abusive? You laid it out shittily. The general tone is a direct refute to the veracity of your argument; namely, that shitty list. People are saying "What about women" and "that's not abuse" because your list sucks. Using it to define abuse is bad. You never made it past defining abuse. There was no reason to get to "TRP do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 03:10 PM
5

Written by some random woman trying to sell books.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 03:08 PM
1

2 and 3. That was the point I was making. You failed to define what a pattern of behavior was, and, furthermore, failed to define how TRP exhibits that pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:51 PM
3

That is my point. You could find a male centric list with the same definitions. The point is, calling EVERYTHING abuse is not constructive. Calling TRP abusive.... when everything else is also abusive, means nothing. You are making a value judgement, but everything else has the same value. It is asinine. And I did read the thread. The patterns of behaviour are a moving goalpost. When you include every reason a couple argues, and then says all of those things are abusive, and then say if this hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:49 PM
2

I don't really see where TRP encourages lying. In fact, I think it does the exact opposite. To me it encourages honesty with yourself and calling other people on their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:38 PM
3

I feel like you don't really argue in good faith. I'd be willing to enter into a dialogue here... but come on. Here's the thing. You made an assertion that TRP IS abuse. You then set out to define abuse with this long list. You further say "it doesn't have to have everything from this list, and it has to be a long term pattern of these things, not single instances," i.e. hedging. That is a terrible definition of "abuse" within a relationship. I will detail why below. Furthermore, you never linke…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 02:34 PM
1

I find women to be awesome. Sexy and awesome. The problem is, you can't get mad at a lioness for wanting to eat you if you act like a gazelle. Antelope bow to the nobility of pride rock, and probably hate them when they get eaten. But if you are a lion, its easy to love lionesses.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 09:35 PM
1

Well then, cool, I guess.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 07:56 PM
1

Can't tell if sarcasm, but if it isn't: Passive aggressive behavior is the realm of bitter losers. Overt, short-fused aggression is also the realm of losers. Assertiveness is a difficult middle ground that many people lose sight of. But the concept of "frame" is entirely centered on being assertive.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 05:01 PM
1

I mean playing silly games and "sarcastic teasing" is a passive aggressive bitch move. Dude needs to nut up and call the guy out. And to do that NOT in front is his GF, who obviously isn't interested in the old guy. He doesn't need to be Zach Morris, he needs to be AC Slater. "Hey man, stop trying to hit on my girlfriend." That's it. Nothing cute. Nothing special. And when the guy backpedals and denies, just be firm. "Yeah. Ok. Just stop." No ego plays and shit. That is just passive aggressive, …
/r/askTRP13/09/17 04:34 PM
2

Pull him side, man to man, and tell him straight up to leave your fucking girlfriend alone. Nothing cutesy about it.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:48 PM
2

Bitch post.
/r/askTRP13/09/17 12:48 PM
2

Pretty much this: it just is.
/r/RedPillWives07/09/17 04:33 PM
8

I was in the room for both of my kids. Held my wife's feet when she needed leverage. When shit went sideways, medically speaking, I had the level head to talk with the doctors. I called them on some bullshit, kept my wife as calm as possible. In regards to "messy", I can only say that people who think that way should grow up. Fact is, "messy" is not going to keep me away from a situation that important. And, I honestly wouldn't be with a woman who felt that a little bit of messy was more importa…
/r/RedPillWives07/09/17 02:06 PM
1

Pretend he's her little brother.
/r/askTRP07/09/17 02:24 AM
12

I've been in the Navy for a long time. Easiest way to show affection? Send nudes. All joking aside, it works.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/17 04:27 PM
3

The length of time to spend fucking is literally male sexual strategy...
/r/askTRP04/09/17 11:02 PM
1

That's a weird view. It's not "hot chicks go to festivals." That is a false equivalency. More accurate: why does it seem like the kinds of women who go to shows are more skewed towards hot? Your statement implies that all hot chicks like going to festivals. I wouldn't think that was the case, necessarily.
/r/askTRP04/09/17 10:39 PM
2

Short TRP-style answer: Develop abundance mentality and Go Lift. Longer answer: You need to look into the jealousy. jealousy can only exist when you are attached to the girl in question. Abundance mentality squashes that. Sill Jealous? Read on. What, exactly, is the problem with jealousy? It is you getting invested in the possibility of her branch swinging. Easiest method to bypass that: Be awesome. I.e. make it a ridiculous prospect for her to leave you for some other dude. If you are an Adonis…
/r/askTRP30/08/17 07:02 PM
3

No man. A job is a job. You can like your job, but it is still work. You really don't want to mix business and pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:14 PM
1

bah. if a man with no penis thinks he gets a boner when looking at dogs, does he like beastiality? its a ridiculous question.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 05:34 PM
1

Just text back "Sounds like a fun conversation. Drinks, tonight at 8, XYZ bar." Then have some BS answers ready. GG. Quick take on my answers would be... You're playful and fun... and give great BJs. Tons of sex. Like, tons. And hand-made sandwiches. Great sex is the bedrock of a good relationship. Otherwise, I'd hang out with my guy friends. Expound on 3 as you see fit. Flirt hard. Take it sexual, but playful. Honestly, though, that conversation sounds boring as fuck.
/r/askTRP27/08/17 05:06 PM
-1

Start smoking
/r/askTRP24/08/17 04:26 PM
-2

................................................like this post?
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/17 02:28 AM
11

You should go cry about it to your fake internet friends.
/r/askTRP16/08/17 12:34 AM
1

I feel that. But plenty of guys do. I get that, in this case, things are personal. But you really have to understand that the shit you are blaming her for is only bothering you because you misjudged her early. You put her on a pedestal as some Vestal Virgin Good Girl. When your image of her came crashing down, you got butt-hurt that you were wrong, and are taking it out on her. Her wanting that shit is no different than a guy wanting to have threesomes. You put the pussy on a pedestal, and there…
/r/askTRP13/08/17 05:40 PM
1

Would you have the guts to ask a girl to have a threesome?
/r/askTRP13/08/17 05:27 PM
4

It's all in your head, man. You're only disgusted because it is against your expectations of what a woman should be. There is nothing about them that makes them less promiscuous than your guy friends. And they have more access to sex. It's in your brain, bro.
/r/askTRP13/08/17 03:29 AM
9

He is missing the most important fundamental of TRP: Performance. Men Perform. That is what attracts women. High Performance. If he isn't performing, then he can fuck right off. Pretty simple.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 03:11 PM
7

Asian and Indian are races. And yes, that is exactly what they're saying...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 10:53 AM
-1

Depends on how much you value the relationship with the chick you're dating.
/r/askTRP07/08/17 05:37 PM
1

Depends on what you're doing. You can wear anything if you are working out. Daily wear for a fit guy: Black v-neck tee, jeans, boots. Office-wear: Khaki and a polo. Formal: Tux. That's pretty much it.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 03:45 PM
3

Ha. That was hilarious. And ,as to what the people in here are saying, yes. Men in the west have been pussified. Sucks for them. Good for me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/17 03:51 PM
1

But your entire account as a member of a "well known misogynistic group promoting rape culture" probably wont look good.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 02:57 AM
2

Also, you dumb fuck, delete this goddamn account. Toot sweet.
/r/askTRP18/07/17 01:08 AM
1

"Phew. Good thing I have a huge personality!"
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:25 PM
18

Its the same reason men complain about being used for money, right after a break up.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:10 PM
1

Red pill things to pick up: Women.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 06:28 PM
2

The level of autism never ceases to fucking astound me in this world. "Hot girl invites me to the beach with her and her 18 y/o sister... SHOULD I GO?!" Fucking Christ.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 04:13 PM
1

Eh. Sixth grade isn't exactly the ideal time to start comparing body types with any kind of hope towards a realistic conclusion.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 12:44 AM
5

It that a chicken or the egg kinda thing though?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 11:28 PM
1

Because he is the boss. He is ultimately responsible for the delivery of projects to clients. You are responsible for creating the work. If you tell him you don't have time to do both things at once, and he prioritizes however he wants to, that is his prerogative.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:03 PM
1

Not really. It's his ass on the line, not yours.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 07:58 PM
2

Just say "yeah, but I'm working on XYZ right now. If I drop that, it's going to be a bit late." If he is cool with that, then no big deal. He is the boss, and therefore his prioritizations are what goes.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:52 PM
2

Like, most guys here have shitty media role models and shitty life role models. They have no real concept of what real men should behave like. Watch The Quiet Man. Watch Rooster Cogburn. Watch Cool Hand Luke to understand frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:03 PM
2

Yeah, you kinda get it. The constant work is key. Also the realization that just because she's hot, so fucking what? That's good for looking at. That's it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 05:01 PM
4

I appreciate your effort, but you're still thinking about it wrong. It isn't about THEM. It is about you. You have to go into every relationship, men and women, understanding that you are better than them. Why are you better? Because you have a code that you stick to. You have an integrity they don't. It's not about "picking the right girl". It is about becoming the right man. Everything falls into place after that.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 03:14 PM
6

Why are you angry? Consider the scorpion and the frog parable. Women just are. Don't be mad about it, just realize that it is the case. But, like op said, also realize that it isn't just women. All people are like that! The way to not get angry is to go out of your way, and work really fucking hard, to make yourself better than those around you. This takes work and real introspection. Create a framework of values for yourself and adhere to them. Revisit the frame work every so often and ensure y…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 02:47 PM
2

Most of the boys here that think that way need to watch some Andy Griffith or John Wayne movies.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 02:42 PM
1

You're not getting the point. Co opting gender into a fight against something everyone thinks is insane and evil is just a way to drive a wedge. It doesn't have to be special. Not everything is a gendered issue until people over analyse it and make it one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:32 PM
1

No more so than women poisoning their husbands because they hate them is a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:20 PM
1

No? Why? It is only "gendered" because people make it about that. In the case of acid attacks, for instance, that shit is crazy and terrible. Full stop. It is not a gendered issue. Why would you choose to focus on "because she's a woman" instead of "hour in the face with acid"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:17 PM
1

You can't have your cake and eat it too. Women and men are not the same. They are different, and should have different expectations set for them in life. Or... Women and men are just people, and deserve all of the same rights and expectations. You can pick one. You can't have both.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:14 PM
1

Do you are saying that since the root cause of the attacks is somehow gendered, it makes it a cause to address... Instead of just addressing "acid attacks"? How do you not see this as exclusionary
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:12 PM
1

Yes, killing babies is bad. Rape is bad. Acid attacks are bad. Knives meeting genitals is bad. You are a far cry from making any kind of convincing argument that because the gender is used, it makes it somehow different. The causes for these things are "fucked up people", and everyone in the world can get behind doing fucked up people. The creation of any group or cause necessitates an "us vs them" mentality. Feminism creates this dichotomy between women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:10 PM
2

He's making fun of the Hillary Clinton quote.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:02 PM
1

Like? Other than the need to buy feminine hygiene products, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 02:01 PM
2

Lol. That is a random survey on 500 people... PPD is a better same size than that study.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:58 PM
1

......... Acid attacks are different how, again? Because they're gendered? That somehow makes them worse for women than it does for men? That's insane. Also, there is SOME FGM that is different than circumcision. There is a large portion, however, that is comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:52 PM
1

I don't fundamentally believe that women are an oppressed class with "issues" that society "should improve". Not in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:45 PM
1

Why does everyone need a support group that targets them based on stereotypes? Why can't it just be "people who throw acid in your face suck." There doesn't need to be a Goddamn movement about it. Beware of causes. They are almost always bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 01:40 PM
1

Did they all have sexual fantasies about their horses?
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:59 PM
2

Two additions: the ass slap/pinch. Do it often. And when she said "ow stop!" You reply "never. That's my ass and I'll slap it for the rest of your life ;)" Also, when she is sitting down reading or something, grab the arms of the chair, lean in, and kiss the shit out of her. Then go back to doing what you were doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/17 04:27 PM
0

Dude, do whatever the fuck you want to do.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:57 PM
1

promiscuity, in general. Or, if you would rather, casual intimacy and low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:19 PM
1

Unless it's zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:17 PM
7

Levi's.
/r/askTRP12/06/17 03:23 PM
1

Pity and empathy are two different things. Pity is just contempt without a recognition of equality. You see a dog with three legs? Pity. You see a real man fall from greatness? Contempt. Empathy is just a very good mirror and an inability to distance one's self. It is someone imagining your pain as theirs, and trying to share in it. If they pity you, they view you as less than them, and, so, fuck them. If they have contempt for you, they are jealous of what you were/are. Fuck them. If they empat…
/r/askTRP12/06/17 02:12 PM
18

Bitches be crazy. Pregnant ones even more so. She's scared and also overwhelmed. That guy with the name that doesn't make any sense is right. Tome for you to decide who you want to be.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 06:17 PM
3

Guitar, song writing, board game design, Leather working, painting, guitar refinishing, cuff link making, writing, reading, baking, and some more that I'm probably missing.
/r/askTRP11/06/17 12:06 PM
1

His semi-estranged wife is in the building. He ignores her and takes care of the shit he needs to take care of. In the end, she is all over him.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 03:20 PM
1

Die hard.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 12:13 PM
2

Careful with previous commenT. Natural lubrication is the only thing MtF trans can't surgically replicate.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 03:55 PM
1

BNW usa populated by people who are split out into castes. The governmental controlled eugenics at birth determines who is what: alphas, betas, down till deltas, etc. Your caste determines your job, social station... Everything. There are some people who aren't a part of this government experiment. Indians. One of them starts to hang out with an alpha, who begins to question the social order. Hijinks ensue. Good read, give it a go through. I'm down to chat more about it later if you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:10 AM
1

Brave New World pretty much nails it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:35 PM
1

Gotcha. I read that article a long time ago and didn't remember the "men aren't doing their share" portion. You are correct. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 09:01 PM
1

Ok, that is what I thought you meant. Basically, men and women, in general, split work in the house evenly. Got it.
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 08:54 PM
1

split is 49.9/50.1 men to women. What do you mean by this statement?
/r/RedPillWives09/05/17 08:40 PM
2

No. You keep saying "I don't want to be friends" It doesn't sound like you say anything to the effect of "I want to fuck." tell her to grab some wine and a movie and come over to your place.
/r/askTRP09/05/17 06:44 PM
5

There are more FTMs these days actually Not exactly what is being said. There are more people who start with "F" on their birth certificate (according to this survey). However, 35% of respondents cited their gender as "non-binary." Of that 35%, 80% of them were "F" on their BC. MtF % = 33 FtM % = 29 I'm not trying to say the OP is correct, because this study does not back up his "3x MtF" assertion. However, you are also wrong if you say "...more FtMs...".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 06:13 PM
0

Aren't all the girls in Eastern Europe prostitutes? I've only seen Borat, so... YMMV
/r/askTRP02/05/17 09:08 PM
2

Next time she wants something, thumb-wrestle for it. Or play the slap game, and make fun of her for being terrible at it. Watch "Wedding Crashers."
/r/askTRP02/05/17 09:02 PM
4

You honestly sounds boring as shit, man. Why would girls want to hang out with you?
/r/askTRP28/04/17 12:14 PM
1

nah. 3 degrees warmer.
/r/askTRP28/04/17 01:20 AM
2

Well, you already finished the "How to brag and look for validation on the internet" article. Why not just hang it up there?
/r/askTRP24/04/17 03:58 PM
1

You're right. Pretty interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 01:43 PM
0

I don't really profess you know whether they liked eating burgers or hot dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 03:58 AM
6

Better tell that to all of Ancient Greece: the cradle of civilization, birthplace of philosophy, and model for artistic achievement. Those fuckers loved naked men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:38 PM
1

Good luck after posting that shit to the internet. You do know they check your records, right? You have to prove it isn't just a GC marriage?
/r/askTRP19/04/17 06:01 PM
1

Seen a lot of different "best" ways to score a threesome in these comments. Below is the "Official" way to score one. 100 base points given for all heavy petting and kissing functions. Dick in mouth: +10 points Dick in vag: +20 points Dick in ass: +30 points Swap to new girl: Double point value of new hole1 Each major sex act where you are jerking yourself2: -50 points. You cum while dick isn't wrapped in some form of female flesh: Zero out all points2. Any additional kink/fetish3 engagements ar…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 05:19 PM
1

Lift. Get hot.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 12:55 AM
2

The whale tail I love so much is going to eat so much sjw hate that it is going to become a whale tail of a while different color.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 12:47 AM
1

Anyone have the original list?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:05 PM
2

I knew you got it, just reiterating my point. This sub is getting silly.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:30 AM
5

en. Fucking Cucks. I think this guy is on to something. Think about The comment before me was "but wouldn't tell anyone" The point I was making is why do I tell anyone who I fuck? I don't give a shit who knows who I am fucking. I fuck for me, not to impress people. Even if I fuck a 10/10, trying to show that off is just begging for validation from other people. Fuck that. The whole people of an IDGAF attitude is to... NOT GIVE A FUCK. And that 8-9 who is wondering... lol. Her: "Why would you fuc…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 03:19 AM
8

The point is, you shouldn't need to brag to anyone about who you fuck. You shouldn't give a shit about anyone else's approval. Fuck them. You do what you want. That is the point. Abundance mentality/IDGAF attitude is for more than just women. It's for social validation, also. "You fucked that old fatty?!" "Yep. It was fun, I was bored."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 01:43 AM
23

Relationship? Marriage? Lawl.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:01 AM
-40

I don't need other people's approval of who I fuck.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 10:13 PM
11

But only one part of the scale matters: 1 - would fuck 0 - would not fuck
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:49 PM
180

What he said. If anything, guys are the ones with a binary view of women: 0 - Would not fuck 1 - Would fuck
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 08:48 PM
2

"I had an itch in depths of my vagina that you were unable to scratch. I found someone to help me with that, so I'm back now for free rent and dinners."
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:17 PM
1

Their vaginas are lower down. You have to put a pillow under their back.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 11:06 PM
1

With the attitude of a bitch, you will be treated like a bitch.
/r/askTRP05/04/17 10:53 PM
3

Who needs angst when you have WiFi?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 06:53 PM
1

I make great tacos. Let's grab an uber.
/r/askTRP13/03/17 03:57 PM
1

Yep. Just how women can be just friends without fucking. Or just married without working. Leading is hard. It is work. I can understand not wanting the heartache. My wife also doesn't enjoy it.
/r/askTRP12/03/17 06:48 AM
1

Can you play guitar? Drop $100 on a guitar and hit YouTube. Lifetime of productive hobby in a one stop box.
/r/askTRP27/02/17 12:17 PM
1

Do you let your best friend walk all over you because he is awesome and a great guy to hang out with? Hold your girlfriend/fiance/wife to the same standards you would hold your best male friend to. GG.
/r/askTRP24/02/17 05:54 PM
4

Those seem like pretty disparate options: Ignore, Ignore, Smash. Can you not just be cordial, and laugh at her when she escalates? TRP isn't about being butt-hurt and following a playbook. It's about building yourself up and destroying the pedestal. Seems like you haven't quite figured the second part out yet. She FZed you (and rightly so, from your description). Make you feel angry and worthless? Good. It should. You need to internalize that. Realize that she is NOTHING SPECIAL. Just treat her …
/r/askTRP14/02/17 02:26 AM
1

So there are a bunch of men around that benefit from feminism, but a dearth of women who benefit from men's rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 02:02 AM
1

How, exactly, do they believe that? Are we talking a holistic, esoteric "good of mankind is good for me?' benefit, or a value-signalling "if I'm a feminist, I'll get laid more" benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 01:44 AM
3

If no one will actively fight against that which benefits them, then how/why do you have male feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 08:21 PM
5

Even if she didn't fuck him, out the shoe on the other foot. Would you cuddle with some girl while your gf was out of town? I bet I know the answer to that one. This is some disrespectful shit, man.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:45 PM
3

Leverage your assets completely in 2009/2010 and buy as many homes as you can.
/r/askTRP13/02/17 01:37 PM
2

Watch swingers. Do the opposite.
/r/askTRP12/02/17 06:41 PM
2

Disney. Pop culture.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 01:19 PM
2

Well, there ya go. At the end, you gotta do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 06:51 PM
2

My question is what is the marriage? I.e. What is the point of it? Is there anything that makes your wife anything better than a nanny/house keeper? Kids don't need to live in Stepford, they need truth. If your just staying with the wife to keep up appearances, and are living a lie, bounce sooner rather than later. If you enjoy your home life, legitimately, and can get over the shit, then fuck what other people think and do you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/17 06:43 PM
1

Because they like to fuck...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 06:28 PM
2

Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 08:39 PM
1

Fuck whoever you want to. If people try and give you shit about it, ignore.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:04 PM
3

5'4". Not Ideal, but w/e, fuck it. Own it, be awesome, slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/17 02:39 PM
1

Ah, I see what you mean more now. Still though... I mean, just look at Rollo, etc, find what they use, do that.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:34 PM
1

The shoe being on the other foot, i.e. men being poly and wanting to cheat on their wives? Not okay.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 03:02 PM
15

"If my wurlitzer could suck dick, you'd be looking for a new place to live..."
/r/askTRP06/02/17 06:13 AM
1

It's easy and gets results.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 04:37 AM
2

I'm not saying he shouldn't write. I'm saying that if he doesn't have the initiative to google "How to start a blog" and the decision-making prowess to pick one of the million blog starting websites for himself, then his insights on self improvement are probably going to be... less than impressive.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 08:36 PM
7

Lol. Dude if you have to ask for advice on shit like this, I'm sure your RP knowledge is going to be insightful as fuck.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 03:46 PM
1

She's not yours, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 03:35 PM
2

Ding ding ding
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/17 04:10 AM
2

True on both counts. That doesn't mean the entrenched gender dynamics expecting them to be have changed at the same pace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 02:11 PM
1

I'll say it again: I'm not arguing if something is fair. I agree, it isn't fair. The link between gender roles and equal pay is a part of the OPs question. They asked why, I answered why. This was not a value judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:38 PM
1

No. I am not saying that. Again, for the third or fourth time, I'm not arguing about the justice, need for, or morality of inequality of pay. I am using that comparison to illustrate to you that there are contributing factors you are seemingly ignoring.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:24 PM
2

Regardless of the accuracy of that statement, the question at hand is more that feminism doesn't argue for equality, but the advancement of females.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:19 PM
2

This. It's why anecdotes and one offs have little to do with social trends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:11 PM
1

Right. Wishes and buts. I'm not arguing that they didn't. I'm not arguing the justice or morality of the circumstances. I'm not arguing WHY the gender roles are structured the way they are. I'm merely saying that they are inter related with the concept of dissipate pay. Because they are interrelated, it is easy for people to view the argument of feminism, I.e. feminism is in search of equality between people, it is easy to understand why people would see that as hypocritical: equal pay and remov…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:10 PM
1

There are the things at play here: pay, female gender roles, male gender roles. The though that equalizing pay and, largely removing female gender roles is NOT equal, when the proponents of equality still perpetuate the male gender roles. That stance can easily be seen as hypocritical. It is literally answering the OP question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 01:03 PM
3

Arguing that something exists is and is related is a far cry from its merits. I don't have an issue with any of it. I'm merely explaining, to the OP, why some people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 12:59 PM
3

I'm not arguing that they shouldn't be separate. I'm answering OPs question about why people try to delegitimize the feminist call for equality and decry it as hypocritical. Even you just reiterated the fact: even now men are STILL, by a 20% majority, the primary bread winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 12:52 PM
12

I was speaking as society at large. Single mother's are heros. Says so on daytime TV all the time. They get shows dedicated to showing us how brave they are. Single fathers? not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:29 AM
4

Ugh. For the last time. I am not arguing for or against the morality or the graciousness or the justness of the dynamic of equal pay. I am illustrating the fact that social gender roles are interrelated and interdependent with the dynamic of equal pay. That is all the comparison is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:28 AM
5

There can be a lot of reasons for that, though. Men might just not mind living more messy?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:24 AM
1

Because there are a finite number of jobs. There is a finite amount of money a company can pay out. Let's say I have a company and I can afford to have two employees, and I have $200 a day I can afford. I can have two women, two men, or a man and a woman. If I have two women or two men, chances are their gender role in their home life is the same. Paying them each $100 means that I am spreading the money, most likely, evenly amognst their needs. If I have a woman and a man, chances are the man, …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:23 AM
3

I am not arguing merit. I am arguing perception. I am simply framing the argument in such a way that you understand the association between unequal pay and entrenched gender roles. I am not saying that people shouldn't be paid the same. I am saying that there is logic behind unequal pay for different groups. It isn't a group of fat-cat caricatures wreathed in cigar smoke laughing about how they're sticking it to women by paying them less.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:18 AM
5

Single fathers are given more of a trophy, ime Your "IMO" caveat there is the entire point. That is great for you. But when is the last time Oprah gave a standing ovation for single fathers? To argue that, socially, single fathers are held in the same reverential regard as single mothers is just disingenuous. In regards to men providing for women en masse... you are kinda cheating. Total number of men who are providing for women was not ever in question. The number of relationships in which men …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:15 AM
3

We are arguing these points in an echo-chamber literally close as hell to these issues on a daily basis. To use the experiences of people here, who are actively seeking out methods in which to defy the social norms, is disingenuous. This sub is frequented by people who are MRA. They are fringe people who are most certainly not representative of average culture/populous. I can appreciate the fact that you make a lot of money and have a husband you are willing to support who is planning on making …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:07 AM
1

I am not arguing one way or the other. I am framing an example to show you how/why the stereotypes and gender roles exist and are tied to the equal pay question. And no, paying a woman the same amount for a job as a man doesn't take money out of the man's pocket. It would, on average, take it out of his kids' and wife's pocket.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 07:03 AM
2

Eh. I wouldn't say that. There is some work being done to divest men from traditional male gender roles. All popular media thumps on the "Dumb Jock", the Meatheads. Most strong male role models in the media are portrayed as weak willed when facing women. Cowboys are all being painted as closet homosexuals. Being a "tough guy" is slowly being seen as udmn, uncivilized, and gauche. Men are slowly being trained that aggression is bad, and passive aggressive conflict resolution is good. But Deadbeat…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:57 AM
12

Single mothers are given a trophy by society. Oh how hard it is. Single fathers? Just doing their fucking job. I am not arguing, though, that times are not-a-changin'. But things like gender roles don't change overnight. Single mothers are an exception to the traditional family, and, therefore, not really applicable to this discussion. You are right regarding relationship dynamics. People do decide those. And, in the majority of cases, traditional gender roles still win out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:52 AM
1

There are more SAHDs, certainly. I would argue they are stigmatized MUCH more than women in the workforce. And you are right, men's gender roles are much less stigmatized. Deadbeat Dad laws are still on the books, while there are no such thing as "Unloving Mom" laws. Men are expected to adhere to their breadwinner role, even if their familial role is non-existant. TO think that that shouldn't happen is, generally, an alien concept. The people who even discuss the thought that men shouldn't have …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:45 AM
1

I am not arguing that you shouldn't. As an employer, IDGAF what you do with your money. I am saying that men's traditional role as the breadwinner necessitated more money for jobs. Women working were traditionally supplemental income and not the majority of the income for the household. To frame it more crudely: Men could argue - But we WANT to be the breadwinner (i.e. fulfill our gender roles), so we need more money in order to raise our kids and support our homemaker wife. Or, alternatively, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:35 AM
9

I mean, men are generally expected to do a lot more around the house now, socially, than in prior generations. Women are more slowly being expected to work vice be homemakers. The gender roles are slowly becoming less entrenched. However, I would posit that the big problem is the fact that reinforcing traditional womens' roles in the nuclear family has become GREATLY stigmatized, while making fun of men for being "unmanly" will take a whole lot longer to go out of fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:30 AM
2

Because, as I described in another reply to you, the two are linked. If gender roles were such that men and women both, traditionally, contributed the same amount of money to a household, then I bet there never would have been a wage gap. That is conjecture on my part, but it doesn't invalidate the link between the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:27 AM
3

Men are stereotypically the breadwinner. I.e. their wages are seen as directly related to the raising and provision for a family. Women are, generally, NOT the primary breadwinner (according to entrenched gender roles), and, therefore, do not NEED to make as much money. The gender roles are tied to the pay structure. I'm not going to play chicken or the egg, but their being linked is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:26 AM
3

It isn't. But arguing that men must provide equal pay AND destigmatize the housewife social role, while also not stigmatizing the male breadwinner role, all under the guise of equality, is hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:23 AM
5

Women's gender roles were destigmatized, men's were not. That is not equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:10 AM
1

That wasn't the original question. As far as blame is concerned, That is a much more complex question. Removal of an "unfair" burden? Who says it's unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:10 AM
2

https://www.nytimes.com/2014/11/16/fashion/the-brotherhood-of-the-stay-at-home-dad.html https://www.ckfamilyservices.org/stigma-stay-home-dad/ http://abcnews.go.com/ABC_Univision/News/study-finds-americans-comfortable-stay-home-dads/story?id=19288320
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 06:09 AM
5

I am not arguing that you cannot. I am merely answering the OP's question: gender roles are not equal, which is why many men see the quest for "equality" from feminists as one-sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:55 AM
1

Right. Which only serves to prove my point and answer the question from the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:44 AM
1

gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:34 AM
6

That was the point I was making. You can make this semantic, sure. Men being SAHDs is socially stigmatized. Maybe not in your social circles, but in the majority of them. Hence "norm."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:34 AM
3

Laws don't exist in a vacuum. Regular people still ascribe to social gender roles, regardless of the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:31 AM
1

I can't tell if you are being sarcastic or not. I am not arguing for the merit of one either way, incidentally. I am only explaining the rationale behind the "discrepancy" that the OP was asking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:18 AM
6

Right. And Rosie the Riveter was 60 years ago, so there is no longer a stigma for women to stay at home? Just the fact that the statement "Man Up" is still in our lexicon is evidence that the relationships you are talking about are not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 05:12 AM
8

Because social gender roles are tied in with the legal rights. They are not the same thing, but they co-exist and are interdependent on one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:59 AM
14

So women overcome the gender role of being the home maker, and are in the workforce making the same amount of pay for the same job. That's great. However, men have not overcome the societal gender role of needing to be the breadwinner for a family, and being a SAHD is socially stigmatized. That is the point. Unequal pay was reinforced by two gender roles: "woman in the kitchen", "man at work". Equal pay coincided with the breaking, generally, of the "woman in the kitchen" gender role. The "man a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:55 AM
11

You are right. Men and women should earn exactly the same amount of money for performing the same exact job. In fact, that's the law. Has been for a while. The fact that men are statistically more likely to be the primary breadwinner, doesn't matter. As an employer, why should I care that the man is more likely, than the woman, to need the money to take care of a family? Fuck him! I say that tongue-in-cheek, but I am trying to make a legitimate point through colorful language: perceived pay gaps…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:50 AM
0

Right. And I think the opposite: adults shouldn't be helped and should be given the agency and opportunity to help themselves. If they then refuse to do so, then that sucks for them. I don't devalue the merit in your approach. I think the world is more interesting with both types of people. Universal income is a joke, because there is not such thing as uniform effort or capability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:39 AM
1

I say men are spoiled all the time when they ask for help
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:27 AM
9

Literally like what you said: not being expected to be a bread winner for a family, but expecting the same pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 04:26 AM
1

Look, TRP is a collection of heuristics and ideas. It is not a blueprint. Trying to use it like one is autistic. Have as much fun as you can for as long as you can have it. Get back with Girl A. But, just remember, women are just people. The likelihood of her cheating on you is not non-zero. Realize that. N=1 is not too high. I mean, consider this: If N=1 is too high, you literally just ruined the life of Girl B.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 11:12 PM
1

RemindMe! 1 week
/r/askTRP26/01/17 08:22 PM
1

Just to add some to this. I read the methodology of this study. It relies heavily on the CMNI, Conformity to Masculine Norms Index. I then went and researched the methodology for the composition of this document. Basically, in the early 2000s, a survey was put together and given to white, male, hetero college students. The results of their answers to this survey served as the basis for the creation of the CMNI. This was based on other previous research, and sought to define the relative normalcy…
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:48 PM
2

Tell them all oyu had a deviated septum, with a grin on your face. Most of them will take that in, file it away as w/e, and move on. Some will joke and ask if you had a coke problem. Laugh and say "No, I just had a really ugly fucking nose." Everyone laughs.
/r/askTRP26/01/17 04:14 PM
1

Row.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 08:19 PM
25

Pretty much summed up here. But to expound: Why are you in school? To get a degree and bang some coeds. Preaching random RP shit in a bullshit class helps neither of those goals. If you absolutely cannot stomach the shit spewed in the class, go with amused mastery as a response. Get everyone to laugh. Absolutely, by no means, should you get angry and butthurt. Don't argue about any of it. It won't help with, literally, anything.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:07 PM
1

Everything is a thing to say directly to a man. Seriously. "You would look better with muscles. I would like it if you worked out more."
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/17 02:58 PM
2

Dan Aykroyd summed this one up over 30 years ago. http://www.nbc.com/saturday-night-live/video/point-counterpoint-lee-marvin-and-michelle-triola/2846665?snl=1 His entire commentary is gold.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 02:51 PM
1

Well, like I said, if it didn't it would be incredibly easy to game the system.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 06:29 PM
6

Dude, you're the one making original posts telling people how it has to be, with your own definitions, etc. I am asking questions, am confused by your argument, and posing different ideas. You keep blowing me off and telling me to go read instead of answering the questions I had about your post. If Aristotle describes that a man must befriend himself first, how can he do that if he has abandoned his sense of self?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 04:15 PM
8

I have a feeling this is going to just devolve into another pissing match, but I am legitimately confused by what you are trying to say. u/saint_chalet kinda sums up my confusion: What is wrong is the willingness to sacrifice ourselves for that desire. You stop becoming your own point of origin Your ego is literally your concept of self. So, you should lose it, but not sacrifice it, and make sure that your point of origin is the thing you lost? That is confusing as hell. You keep saying it has a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/17 03:39 PM
10

Of course they aren't. If you were a fresh graduate with no assets and $200k of debt, the obvious choice would be to declare bankruptcy...
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 11:11 PM
2

Your post is literally there to try and explain things to people. Then, when the classically held, dictionary definition of the word you use in your tl:dr is called into question, you say I need to do some reading? If you aren't willing to explain and clarify your points, the wtf are you posting for? Also, "Our house"? It's pretty silly that you espouse membership/group belonging in a philosophy rooted in being a singular instance of yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 06:59 PM
2

No doubt. Having the same definitions is essential. It is why philosophical texts are always front-loaded with definitions.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 06:01 PM
2

Eh, fair enough. Thanks for the discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 05:32 PM
1

Eh, I can see how my second response reads that way. But I fall to understand how ego is not your personal sense of pride. Understanding one's own importance is essential to maintaining a healthy relationship. Of course, one has to have an honest assessment of one's self in order to accurately be prideful. Inflated ego/pride/self importance are useless if they are built upon lies. That is why I originally said "stop lying to yourself" is good advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 05:13 PM
1

I was in mine. Rocked that shit. Went to state as a soloist. National champions in our division. Do what you want to do and own it. That's all. "Singing is gay" "Yup, but I'm a bass, so it means I'm always the pitcher. Our art least a power bottom."
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:58 PM
0

Ok, bud. You're the one preaching here, so enlighten me. What are the two parts of the ego, and which one do I drop vs. Keep? A simple search on the internet? You're the one making posts spitting truths and preaching. I'm refuting your basic claim, and your answer is "go look it up, I don't have time to explain myself." Word count has nothing to do with quality. Accuracy and conviction, on the other hand...
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 04:48 PM
1

I don't understand how "drop the ego" is good advice. "Stop lying to yourself." That seems like good advice. The ego, and sense of pride in one's self, is the whole fucking thing most people who turn bitch have lost. They need to regain their ego, not lose it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/17 04:31 PM
3

Hah. "Women are not happy"... WTF else is new?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/17 03:36 PM
3

her character in that movie wasn't actually her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 05:51 PM
3

Scarlett Johansson in lost in translation
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/17 04:25 PM
1

Where the red fern grows. Hachi.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 07:01 PM
1

People ask stupid questions, they get stupid answers.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 04:25 PM
3

Force yourself to eat your semen every time you masturbate. If you have worked out that day, you don't have to eat it. If you played video games, it cancels the workout, and you DO have to eat it. Each time you level up/reach a goal in a video game, you have to click yourself, hard, in the balls. Not on just the scrote, but and actual ball. Every time you die in a game, you have to do 10 push ups. All of these small penalties attached to these instant gratification well add up to successful inst…
/r/askTRP19/01/17 03:26 AM
1

Eh. I just take that as part of doing business on the internet. People, in general, are hostile and silly. I write that dumb shit off the same way I do polyamerous genderkin tumbleristas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:32 PM
1

Thanks. I like to feel like I have it all figured out. AWALT, though. I always saw that as a "tough love" statement to drill the lack of the pedestal for women into the minds of guys who just can't fucking get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 10:25 PM
1

Achieve against who? You? I thought you said you were holding frame and doing your thing. WTF are you worried about, lol.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:30 PM
2

Then tell her it bothers you. Say she needs to cook for you more often. If she doesn't, dump her.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:28 PM
1

Budget in time to socialize. Use your actions to make sure acquaintances know that you put yourself and your studies first. That is what being RP and having frame are about: working on yourself and understand that your goals are not dependent on someone else's feelings. You seem to have the right mentality, now you just need to actually do it.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:06 PM
-2

Why is that a red flag? I don't really like to put up drywall. I'll do it if I have to, but... eh. It's just who I am.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:49 PM
3

If you can't figure out a way to man up and tell the woman off, and/or just tell the poor guy he needs to man up for himself, then don't. But spreading rumors and mounting some underground gossip campaign? I thought you said you worked in legal, not the fucking Babysitter's Club.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:38 PM
1

Ugh, dude. Calm the fuck down. I would recommend you start hanging out with men. Join an MMA gym or something. YOu seem to have always had women around you in life. It shows in the way you speak and get worked up over shit. 1st things 1st: Improve yourself. Get good. You have to internalize the fact that you have to actually be sexy and interesting for women to find you sexy and interesting. Consuming media cannot and will not make you interesting and sexy. Watching movies, playing video games, …
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:34 PM
1

Because slapping another stupid-ass label on yourself is retarded. I am EGOtystGHOW. And IDGAF WTF anyone else thinks about it. You should all do the same.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:23 PM
4

Regardless of what you end up doing, spreading rumours and gossip to covertly do shit?! Seriously? That is some weak, female shit man. If you have a problem, fucking say something about it. If you are afraid to say it to her, then say it to him. "Dude, you really need to stand up for yourself. I would never let someone talk to me like that." Just that simple. You have done what you apparently need to do to ease your conscience, and you don't look like a bitch spreading gossip.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:20 PM
2

This isn't rocket science. Do you value your friendship with him more than you want to bang her?
/r/askTRP18/01/17 07:12 PM
3

IMO, TRP has three major tenets, which are interdependent. Everything past that is immaterial. You have been spoon-fed Disney lies in regards to women and relationships since you were old enough to watch cartoons. Almost all modern media, as well as modern social thought, is geared towards pedestalizing women and relationships in which women simply exist and their men worship them. Women are just people, they should be held accountable for their actions, they should be expected to perform at an …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 07:10 PM
1

Bic that shit!
/r/askTRP18/01/17 04:23 PM
2

Also true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:57 PM
2

Even in the context of your definition, why the fuck would this guy know anything about some girls n count? She isn't telling him about any of her one night stands, beach vacation romances and shit. He knows girlfriends of the guys around him. He hears their lowest n count, biggest profile relationships. He's 30+. He hears about long term boyfriends and husbands. Those ain't sluts. The whole point is he does not hear about the racy sex Shit these women do because they don't see him as sexual, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 02:16 PM
4

You are simply wrong about men perceiving slutty women negatively. It seems as though you cannot understand nuance. Sure, some men do not find slutty women attractive. It also doesn't mean all of them don't. It also doesn't mean that all women are excellent at seduction. It also assumes some random definition of "slutty." What is slutty here? The slutty things my wife does for me in the bedroom are not a negative. They are positive. The entire point is that he doesn't even get to hear relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:41 AM
5

"No stigma against sluts." No. That isn't what I said. You are being disingenuous and putting words into my mouth. Of course there is a stigma against "sluts." But not everything is so goddamn kindergarten black and white. This guy is saying he doesn't know any sluts. I am saying that he does. They just don't act slutty around him because they aren't attracted to him at all. He gets zero insight into their sexual habits, because he is, self-admittedly, sexually invisible to them. The reason he d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:24 AM
3

I say that assumption is pretty much wrong. If this guy is so unattractive that he is an "incel", then women do not associate him and sex. They just wouldn't think to talk about it while he was around. I mean... women don't act slutty around men who aren't attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/17 06:07 AM
21

You said it yourself. The women you know are all women you don't know well. If they don't want to fuck you, why would they tell you about their sexual history? You are NOT sex material, so the topic of sex never comes up with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:17 PM
2

They mean whatever the jealous loser wants them to mean.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 07:13 AM
3

No worries. They all suck.
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 04:02 AM
1

"Hah! You have to deal with cunt's like those all the time? Sucks for you. Here, watch." Then put your arm around her and keep up the conversation. Boom.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:15 AM
1

Be John Wayne. Women want him, men want to be him.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:11 AM
1

Go watch cool hand Luke. Internalize. Gg.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:25 PM
1

But men can counteract that with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 09:21 PM
3

What's her goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:49 PM
1

Right. And "the wall" isn't some pre defined, set in stone cut off age. It is a heuristic that helps categorize and predict human behavior and interaction. It is like saying not all teenagers are bad drivers. Well, no Shit. Nothing in regards to human behavior is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 06:40 PM
1

Yes. They do. To not think so is to be willfully ignorant. Men, on average, are more attracted to physical beauty and youth than anything else. Women are more attracted to confidence, status and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 01:00 PM
0

Shoot into their car.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 05:47 AM
1

Yes, that is the trend. The point is that men have more viable traits as a mate, that are age independent, than a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:44 AM
1

Trump and Melania are LESS common, sure. But they are not UNcommon. That is why the term "Trophy Wife" exists and "Trophy Husband" doesn't. It's why men leaving their wives for younger women is a trope, and women leaving their husbands for younger, hotter men is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 05:33 AM
2

It's not about the exceptions, it's about the generalities and trends. In the SMP, you are an insurance agent, not a gambler.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/16 03:24 AM
4

No. Men continue to provide many of the same thing that gain them advantage in dating, regardless of their age. I.e. money, power, confidence, and status. Women, as a rule, only get less attractive as they age. As a simple proof, how many reverse-versions of Melania and Donald Trump can you name? I.e. an objectively attractive male with an older and obviously unattractive spouse? I think the situation is almost non-existent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/16 11:20 PM
3

A lot of what was mentioned by other people here is right. It makes sense. It's good. Firstly, don't get discouraged by TRP posts, for a few reasons. Every post you read is written down. Tone is difficult to convey. If you read things in one mental voice vs. another, they are completely different. You might be taking something completely out of context. TRP is a lot of things to a lot of different people. A lot of people get caught up on things that, simply, aren't true. They don't take the firs…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/16 08:12 PM
17

Because they are crazy in bed, fun as shit, and easy to pick up, requiring much les effort than higher quality women?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:36 PM
4

Yes. As others here have mentioned, just recommend a book if she is complaining to you. Or, have it at home, and give her "your copy" that "really turned things around for you" next time she comes around complaining.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/16 03:09 PM
1

Hold frame and laugh it off. Ask her again tomorrow.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:17 AM
3

Put the shoe on the other foot. If she did it, would you consider it cheating? Go from there.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 03:13 PM
1

Just fat. The unpopular part did not matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/16 04:37 AM
2

Eh. Not to minimize what she wanted. You don't know what she wanted. That's why you just tell her to come over. She'll let you know what she wants, so ask her. This ain't rocket science. Cute texts are for romcomms and pintrest.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:04 PM
3

Like... I don't understand your question. In the sidebar, and in a ton of talks, the message is clear: Texting is for logistics. In what I just read, you talk about making dinner. Well. Say you're making dinner and have shit to do. Invite her over to eat with you. Tell her you will throw in some meat, just like you said. If she says "Sure", you reply "Ok, see you in 30. Food will be getting cold." If she says "Nah" you reply, "Ok, cool. Catch up with you later. We can do coffee or something." En…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:42 PM
2

This isn't a video game. You aren't in some MMO, and you don't have any counter-curse or something cast on you by "becoming Alpha", regardless of what you think that means. This kinda checklist idiocy is why so many people laugh at the posters to this sub for being autistic.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:10 AM
4

I think it's hilarious that, even in an obvious propaganda piece, the most offensive thing their newly racist protagonist can come up with is "Islam isn't compatible with Western Civilization." Oh, the fucking shame!
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 06:08 AM
1

But are those unconscience actions shaped by millions of years of the fact that women have our babies? I.e. Is my jealousy at a "woman of mine" having sex with another man an evolutionary selected trait? Is the biological propensity for jealousy, which potentially trumps logic, a result of millions of years of headstrong jealous men preventing their women from sleeping with other men and/or preventing other men from sleeping with their women? I can easily understand that as being the case. Basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 10:51 PM
2

I think it is a complex question that I have asked myself for a long time. Basically, why are women sluts and men are studs, considering the same basic behaviour? I think there are a lot of reasons that are difficult to unpack honestly, without going down "charged language" rabbit holes. Some people have hit on some is the underlying concerns/questions in the replies. Is there a fundamental,.psychological difference between the motives, effort and consequences of men and women having sex? I.e. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/16 04:37 PM
2

Everyone else is giving sound advice. Wear a condom, obviously. That reduces busting time. Then, IF you busy early, don't get embarrassed. Just give a "damn you're sexy! Now low down" and diddle her around a bit with your fingers. Throw in a "I gotta keep you warmed up got round two" and soldier on. You'll be fine. Remember, confidence is king.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:24 PM
0

Seriously? If she can't handle that line given with a shit eating grin, you should not be worried about losing her.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 07:42 PM
1

Dude, you keep posting these questions... Here's what you do: stop being a bitch. You are defining your life with mgtow and trp... That's fucking retarded. Nothing you read on the internet takes the place of just manning the fuck up and doing what you want to do. Why are you trying to live based on defined rule sets and ideas of other men? Be your own man. If that is too hard/you don't understand, then you need to enlist. It will teach you what you want to know, and you can have constant feedbac…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:49 PM
2

Flip the script. "Sorry babe, you're just not doing it for me. Try harder, I guess."
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:44 PM
8

Would you have driven a guy who you have the same level of friendship with?
/r/askTRP03/12/16 03:41 PM
3

Really? I mean... that is a pretty crazy line of thinking, man.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:42 PM
2

But yeah they do. Every time a hotel had sex with the OP, it's good conduct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 12:51 PM
4

Watch k dramas. American bitches love dudes in k dramas.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:38 PM
1

Better?
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 09:52 PM
-1

You just have to zen out. Mentally just check the fuck out while you auto-pilot pound the shit out of it.
/r/askTRP25/11/16 06:14 PM
7

Get him a Captain's Hat. They are awesome. If you're getting serious, take all of his plates and break them. Put the pieces in a box. Put in a card that says "You don't need your old plates anymore." Then, after the classic making of dinner, opening of regular presents, spending time together, w/e, Give him the box and the card. Then, do this: After he opens it, and reads the card, push him into a chair and tell him to simply "Enjoy." Pour him a glass of his favorite drink. Turn on some cued up …
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/16 08:27 PM
3

Ah, it sounds like you have hit the existential crisis of pretty much every man ever. Once you cut out all of the shit, and are doing reasonably well for yourself (by all obkective, realistic standards), what the fuck is the point? The good news is, this is literally a question as old as time. You are manifesting it as feeling like a "Failure", because you are externalizing the question of "What's it all about? Why am I here?". You are seeking validation as a means to answer the question, and ar…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 03:03 PM
1

Sure. That's awesome. If that's a goal of yours, knock it out. Not everyone has that. That's why, even some guys, who you look at and can think have their shit together, get out of shape. It just isn't a high priority goal.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 01:27 PM
2

I mean... What is the goal? What is your goal? Like, honest to God, what are you trying to get out of life? I personally have an almost unhealthily positive self image. Always have. In my heart of hearts, even my short comings only serve to keep me human enough so as to not make me annoying to lesser people. I make as much money as I want. I live the life I want to live, realistically. I do a bit of self reflection every month or two, make sure there isn't anything I really want that I don't hav…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 12:06 AM
2

The heavy cans go in the bottom, in the middle. Surround them with tall items that aren't easily crushed, and can provide some structural support to the bag. Then, put the eggs on top.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:45 AM
2

Think about it like the same way you have framed dealing with women. You are the prize. Employers know how hard it is to find qualified people. They literally PAY YOU MONEY for the services you provide. Framing it all like that puts it in perspective for me. Imagine starting a company. Who would you hire? Who would you be willing to legitimately give your earned capital to? What skills would you ACTUALLY pay a direct employee for? After a certain point, IMO, the employer needs good employees jus…
/r/askTRP16/11/16 02:41 AM
1

Then you need to increase your SMV. Real talk though, My cousin told his wife that "You are a housewife... maybe if you stopped crying about hate on Facebook, and went outside and tried to help some people, you could make a difference." Man up and don't give in to tears.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 04:25 AM
1

Walk up. And grab her. By the PUSSY.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 01:38 AM
1

Back to basics. Your goal is to be your own man, beholden to only yourself. When you begin to seek validation from others, you become a bitch. Have you ever thought better of someone because of the car they drive, vs the quality of their character? If that answer is yes...you have a long road ahead of you. If the answer is no, then examine that a bit. You don't care what kind of car people drive when it comes to your opinion of them. That is a worthless judgement of a man. The only people who do…
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:37 PM
1

"Ooo, are you talking about me?! I felt my ears burning. What's all the hot goss about me?" That one would work, too.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 07:47 PM
1

Excellent comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:42 PM
1

At certain points in the night, New Hampshire was literally at 47 votes separating the candidates. In Florida now, 130k. Michigan, still not 100% accounted for, is less than 20k votes. I mean, I know how you feel. I have felt that way in the past. But if anything, this is an election where your votes literally DO matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:39 PM
1

The only thing I am intolerant of is intolerance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/16 03:35 PM
1

I gotcha. Hard to get an entire dynamic from the single post. That is kinda why I kept my other comment focused on the incident with the wife, not with the kid. IDK man, shit's hard. I'm a snappy fucker too, when I'm tired and woken from a dead sleep. See my other comment for my advice on what to do about wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 06:14 PM
19

Like they are loved by their mothers, but with a lot more sex. It is why the fantasy is so easy to buy into: be a good boy and get the love you "deserve".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/16 11:37 AM
1

Bang someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/16 10:47 PM
1

Well, don't text her today. Wait a few days. Then text her simply: come over
/r/askTRP18/09/16 07:31 PM
3

I've gotten some nice clothes at the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:10 PM
2

Just chuckle and ignore. It is an obvious sign she wants to move forward. Move forward.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 05:13 PM
2

Hmmm. I'll bite. You aren't going to like this, here goes. You have a shitload to turn around. You sound like a teenage girl. You have a really, really long way to go in order to get your shit together. Allow me to enumerate the current problems you have to overcome: You are financially supported by your father. At age 33. WTF? That is, legitimately, one of the most unmanly things you can be. The ability to support oneself through your actions is probably THE key tenant of being a man/RP. Your n…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 03:51 PM
1

The point is that your value system is a bit off. What you said in your response is that you value the things in your life that your bills represent MORE than you value your time/freedom. What you said in your OP is that you value your time and freedom a lot, and losing them leads to unhappiness. Those two things are at odds. Reevaluate your bills, I.e. Are the things you have worth having. Then get a job that meets your new financial requirements, and enjoy your new found freedom.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 04:35 PM
2

Wtf does that mean? You mean make money? That's retarded if you are having existential problems. What thewelshpill meant is that your need to discover a reason to live. A reason to do shit. Right now you don't have one.find one.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:26 AM
1

Yup. Mine is nice. I have lapses, but that just means I'm not on drugs.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:24 AM
5

Jesus the ridiculousness of people. "Hey, I bought two tickets to the finals. Let's go." She is your LTR, this is what you do. You have already committed yourself to her, so what is your concern over looking like a "provider"? I swear to god the best thing about The RED pill is getting people to quit staring at blue lightbulbs.
/r/askTRP07/09/16 05:53 PM
4

Hm. I went back to the article expecting a comment section. Unfortunately there was not one. A lot of times, in articles like this, the comment sections offers a breath of sanity from women seeing through the BS. This site didn't even give the option.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:46 PM
2

Woah, wait, what? You are joking, right?
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 03:43 PM
1

Running to hr is a bitch move. Confront and move on. A simple "do you have a problem with me" is usually enough.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 01:45 PM
1

Haha. Show her that Natalie Portman picture up there. Even she can't pull it off.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:28 PM
1

Apps/programs are... well, they are what you make of them. In the military, you use a wheel book. This is a tiny notebook (commonly spiral bound, hence the "wheel") that you just keep on your person all the time. Get a cheap one, not some expensive, leather bound shit, so you can use, abuse, lose and fill without qualms. (I used to use moleskines for this, but I go through them too quickly and hate wasting the money, which led to me using it less, which led to shittiness). You keep a running lis…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:19 PM
2

What do you define as love? Such an interesting question. I have defined it the same way, however, for years. Love is a bond you have with someone where you are directly affected by what happens to them, on a visceral, emotional level. I.e. they get hurt? you get hurt. They feel happy? You feel happy. That is love. Do I believe in that? Emphatically yes. Why? Because I have experienced it. Intimately. With multiple people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/16 02:27 AM
1

Your update is sad as shit, man. You are going to stick around just because? Because what? Because you are too chickenshit to end it and be single? Women and bitches date while always looking out for something better. Men should not.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 05:57 PM
16

In the evening. Sunsets and all that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/16 01:19 PM
1

This. I don't lie. If I do lie, I realize that it just means I am fucking something up. I sold be able to tell the truth, always, and have it be the best version of me. I should have no motivation to lie.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 02:15 PM
0

Sorry for being trite, but you have to develop "game", or how to talk to people via banter, cut chat and innuendo. This is how to, normally, break the ice and get to know new people. Are you funny? Do you have interests? Women are pretty easy, if your not beastly and can be funny. If it is social problems fucking you up, read Carnegie. How to win friends and influence people. Use those techniques. They boil down to, a good amount of times, seeming genuinely interested in the person and what they…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:11 PM
0

Join the military
/r/askTRP06/08/16 08:25 PM
3

That was my stopping point also
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 11:27 AM
2

You are at a camp site, but leave to go to work? You've been living with her, but refer to her as a girl you're flirting with? I smell shit post.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 12:17 PM
1

Shit man, glad I could help.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 04:20 PM
1

? Intriguing. How did I help you?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 04:02 PM
1

As a kid, there are a lot of reasons to hate your parents. Willfully launching into one for fear of another seems silly.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 03:13 PM
1

How does a seven year old girl view that? If it is confusing to me, I bet it sure as shit is to her. Divorce her mom, stop coming to see her, get a new wife and have new kids. Ignore old's kids and just throw them money. Seems like a pretty easy story for a kid to concoct, especially if egged on by a resentful shrew. What have you done to mitigate that portrait of you?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 03:02 PM
2

Right. Teaching responsibility is not the same as buying love. Attaching strings is different than building responsibility. Chores are different than jobs. With a completely reductionist explanation, and the removal of love and mutual affection, one can argue that chores are small jobs in exchange for room and board. But OP doesn't want to be a landlord.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 02:55 PM
6

Who cares? She is your kid. Attaching strings is what you do with plates and acquaintances. If you can't afford for her to have it, don't give it to her. Tell her "I can't afford to give you something that you are just going to break, and then me just have to do it again in 6 months." Pretty honest statement. A gift is an act of love, free of repayment. A bribe is a transaction, no love involved. People inherently understand the difference. Don't dangle the keys in front of her and tell her she …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 02:03 PM
3

Raised to hate you because you willingly gave up visitation rights. I would hate you too.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 02:00 PM
2

So there are a lot of weird things to unpack in your post. 1st: Your relationship with your daughter is based in financial transactions. I.e. you pay her for things you want. That is not how to treat women. It isn't, really, how to treat anyone you want a meaningful relationship with. You pay her to come visit you? We can describe that relationship in a lot of different ways (and we do: beta buxx, sugar daddy, prostitution... etc). Regardless of the terms, you become worse than an ATM (what you …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/16 01:57 PM
2

I meant that you tell her that.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 02:56 PM
2

You gotta get sexier.
/r/askTRP16/07/16 02:46 PM
2

The point is to maximize all parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 06:17 PM
1

What does your business opinion have to do with your sexual market value.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 10:13 PM
1

Business consulting is literally having businesses pay you money to show them how to do things better... Why in the fuck would anyone pay an ex dishwasher for his opinion on their business?
/r/askTRP04/07/16 04:24 PM
2

If anything, it seems like you're the one being played, man.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:10 PM
1

Ah. So... What was the question then?
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:49 PM
2

This is a weird situation from the get go. Why would a male boss want to go out to dinner with a female employee who was quitting? If you ran a bank, and a hot teller was about to quit, would you take her out drinking out of the kindness of your heart? Nope. You'd be looking to get laid. No fault on his part. Very poor judgement on hers. Couple that with the fact that she is leaving to study abroad soon. I mean... You do understand that for a woman, studying abroad has the same fantasy levels as…
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:32 PM
1

The point is, you are dwelling on shit to an unnatural degree.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 02:55 PM
2

I see you as reading WAY too much into a simple turn of phrase.
/r/askTRP26/06/16 01:55 PM
1

You need to learn English. You are hyper emotional, have very little rational thought, and sound, generally, like an idiot.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 04:56 AM
4

What the other guys have said. Additionally: NEVER put anything in writing, and associate your name with it, that you don't want to be public. Ever.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 04:45 AM
1

No. You can be not fat. That is will power, not genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 11:58 PM
0

But what the fuck does it matter? You can't change it, move on. It sucks that birds can fly better than me. I don't hate birds, and am not bitter about not being able to fly well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 11:57 PM
1

Yeah, shit loads of them.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:36 PM
2

Quite simply? Women don't want to share anymore than men do.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 07:03 PM
6

To play devil's advocate: automatically presumed forfiture of custody and worldly goods by the leaving party is tantamount to having the ability to "no fault" divorce not exist. I.e. Sure, you can leave whenever you want, but I get to keep everything, even the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/16 09:51 PM
3

This. Trim that shit. Go to a female hair stylist and say "make me look not bald and normal. No comb over shit." If that doesn't work, bic it.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 06:54 AM
15

The media lies to you. I have three friends and consider myself lucky. You don't need more. If you feel light on friends, that's Disney selling you lies. Men are lonely. To be alpha n necessitates loneliness. You need a woman to handle the home, and a man to handle the shit. Friends are a Luxury. You aren't a sitcom, you aren't a movie; you are a man. Solitary through your life. Be the best fucking man you can be... The rest will follow. John Wayne doesn't need friends. Men are islands. Anyone w…
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:11 AM
1

I do 100 push ups the second I roll out of bed. Then 50 deep squats and 50 calls raises in the shower. Gets my mind right
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:49 PM
1

Approach constantly. Day game everyone.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:22 PM
6

Whatever the fuck kind you like to listen to.
/r/askTRP06/06/16 11:21 PM
2

Um... Win win? Don't talk to her, still bang?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:49 AM
1

Some do. The point is the age is not the important criteria to look at.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:19 PM
6

Attractive people have it easy their entire lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/16 12:05 PM
1

Yes, there are always exceptions. But living your life expecting the exceptions is silly. It is like a gambler always thinking his system is going to beat the house, then getting mad when he loses big. Go into the casino with only what you're willing to lose. Play, have fun, and don't get upset if you lose what you planned to. If you win a lot, great. Awesome. You beat the odds. But expect to lose everything you put in, and only play while the game is fun.
/r/askTRP22/05/16 11:07 PM
1

So, honestly speaking, you have more issues than can be taken care of in a reddit post. Feel free to PM me and I'd be willing to have legit conversation about it.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 06:53 PM
3

The advice of calm down is excellent advice. It is a girl you've been seeing for two months... Being emotionally infested enough to RAGE OUT because she isn't answering texts is... Well, it comes off as a bit unstable, to pretty much every guy here. In rp terms, you have zero abundance mentality, have lost frame and are developing one itis. All kinds of Shit could have happened to make a girl not text a guy back whom she's been seeing for TWO MONTHS. So seriously, calm down. The to reply list on…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 11:16 AM
1

Superficial answer with no meaning. You're sensitive because you hate yourself, according to the op. Then, I ask why you hate yourself, and you say because you're sensitive... You can be sensitive in one of two ways, I.e. It has two main meanings: You have a great deal of empathy, being able to identify with the emotions of others. Not necessarily a bad thing. You have very low self esteem (i.e. Hate yourself) and naturally think you deserve to be hated, which constantly puts you on edge and mak…
/r/askTRP20/05/16 03:53 AM
1

Why do you hate yourself?
/r/askTRP19/05/16 09:16 PM
3

You really just screwed up with this one. She got under your skin with a playful Shit test, giving you an honestly great opportunity to show how awesome you are, and you started listing of all of the things you do for her that make you great? I'm normally not a big one on the rp jargon, since I like to think about things as concepts vice buzz words but... Read the side bar. Read about Shit tests. Learn a few good ways to deal with them that mesh with your natural personality/strengths. Why was s…
/r/askTRP19/05/16 09:07 PM
1

Treat all guns as if they were loaded. It's a rule of thumb to get your mind right when dealing with something serious and potentially hazardous to your health.
/r/askTRP12/05/16 11:25 AM
2

Yep, but you'll never no because you have shit all for confidence and consistently act like a bitch. People can smell your desperation, like a stinky cologne, and treat you like what you come off as: desperate bitch extraordinaire. If you're not a great Dane, be a pit bill.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:10 AM
1

Don't test the waters then. Treat it like nothing happened until you feel like a booty call. If she's interested in anything more than that, she'll let you know by calling you/texting you constantly.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 11:03 AM
6

I'm 5'5". You are being a bitch.
/r/askTRP06/05/16 02:39 PM
1

FMOFY Do you have any friends or family who are divorced? I know it is easy to think "That would be so terrible if it happened to me!" and I know it is difficult to get out of your own little bubble. But think about it: have any of the people you've known really been worse off after their divorce, emotionally, etc, if it was something they really wanted to do? Most people these days don't do more than bat an eye at divorces. My guess, your family would be fine with it and still love you. Your fr…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/16 02:18 PM
1

How old are you? Do you pay rent? If you don't pay rent, you live in your place at the whim of whatever does, ostensibly your dad. It's his decision to place her decisions as being more important than yours. So you can go toe to toe with one of them. If it's her, backed by your dad, you inevitably lose. There is no winning in that scenario. If you take it up with him, and he backs you then you win. You can do the petty things others mention here, or just walk. Going against her would look someth…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 07:44 PM
1

Other guy already mentioned it. Basically, what's it to you? I'd be on my sister's side instead of some random as dude. Especially one who is obviously not worth your time.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 07:31 PM
4

I see a lot of women. Just yesterday I went to a Starbucks and saw...must have been 15 women there.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 07:26 PM
3

Lol. GTFO, obvious bait post.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 01:17 PM
1

People gonna people. Part of that is people naturally being mean to things that are weaker than them. Whether it be labelled in SMV or whatever. People naturally have a cruel bone. It starts early. The fine line to walk is the grey area between "Don't be cruel" and "Bleed for the weak." Some people can't understand the gulf of nuance between those two statements. And, even worse, some people mistake pity for a positive interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:31 AM
1

Lol. TRP is all about recognizing the fact that people act in certain ways, on average. Men act like X, women act like Y. Unattractive men are unattractive to women. That simple. They always have, always will be. Creepy is just the new slang. There is no secret feminine agenda driving their behavior. Just like when boys wrestle all the time with each other and try and pull pretty girls' hair. That isn't some "masculine" agenda teaching boys to be over-aggressive or objectify/abuse women. It is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:28 AM
1

Same as the point of making fun of people who are smaller and weaker than you. It is bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 03:25 AM
14

We're doing us and having fun in the process. It doesn't have to be complicated. See you tomorrow.
/r/askTRP02/05/16 11:25 AM
1

"let's go outside" is the followup if the first part doesn't do it.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 04:04 PM
1

Yep. I mean, there is a reason I have a wife instead of a nanny and housekeeper.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/16 03:51 PM
1

It isn't challenging him to a fight. It is asking if he has a problem. Challenging him to a fight would be "You wanna fight, bro?" Asking him is he has a problem, and if he wants to hash it out outside, is completely different. Things aren't so goddamn black and white when it comes to social interactions. If you can't see the difference between the two... I don't know what to tell you.
/r/askTRP01/05/16 03:46 PM
1

To be fair, most people here say ignore. I disagree. I think the best answer is to call him out, in the correct way. Frame is one thing but ignoring can only go so far. In front of people, and calmly, in your frame: "Look. Do you have a fucking problem? If so, let's go outside and hash it out." Confront, with confidence. In all likely hood, he will step down. You win. Or, you step outside and hash things out. Either way, you win. Holding frame does not mean be a bitch, nor does confronting assho…
/r/askTRP30/04/16 08:09 PM
-2

"Haha. Don't flatter yourself, sweetheart"
/r/askTRP30/04/16 10:23 AM
2

Superman by eminem
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:24 AM
1

From what I gather, your post has 3 main points: Shaming people for doing things against the cultural norm is wrong. Being promiscuous is not a bad thing, because it is a natural proclivity. Commitment and sex are, at best, tenuously related. Ok, so, I am going to rebut those three points. To start, I am going to reconstruct your title: Needing to take a shit is natural, so I shouldn't be ashamed if I do it in the road. (I know this is hyperbolic, but I use it illustratively). Or, broken down, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 09:41 PM
2

Simple question: Do you have, or want, children? If you don't, or don't, then you are right. Marriage is pretty much not worth it. The thing you are missing, though, is that women and men have different value standards, different goals, and different sexual strategies. To put the shoe onto the other foot: men, why would you ever have a woman as an LTR if, since she fucks you, she is a slut? The simple answer is that when it applies to you, it is fine, because you are the one making the choice. i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 06:32 PM
2

I don't know if that is a compliment or an insult.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 04:18 PM
2

Gotcha. Yeah, a high quality man wants a high quality companion in all aspects. I can hire a nanny and house keeper.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 03:10 PM
7

Ensure, however, that you are able to remain interesting. Being unable to hold a conversation about anything intelligent is, in the long-term, a turn-off. For men in a marriage, having a wife that they can actually talk with about interesting shit is a must. Problems will arise if the most interesting things you can talk about are the kids and which disinfectant you decide to use.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/16 02:49 PM
1

Eh, I can certainly see your point. But to think that science isn't subject to a narrative interpretation is just willful obstinance. I.e. the wage gap statistic, self-reported rape statistics, etc. The methodology for a LARGE portion of social science studies are dubious at best. Constantly saying "when controlling for x/y/z" sets off my bullshit detector. Additionally, the leap people can make from a weird social-science experiment's results to a headline can be ridiculous, especially when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 03:25 PM
9

Meh, there is a difference in Hating everyone and just not loving everyone. So, operate like this: MOST people are shit. Not all, but most. They are boring, incompetent and ugly in mind, spirit and body. But, they have the capacity to be good and, potentially, make you happy. And, on a whole, you are human, so killing them all/hating them all is counter-productive. This includes women. This includes men. Find a few that aren't shitty. Those are your friends. Assume, at any moment, they will reve…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 02:17 PM
1

Ok, so look more manly. IDK. Haircut and clothes can go a long way. Also, posture and resting face. So, this is going to sound like bullshit but... Watch old movies. Watch John Wayne and Clint Eastwood and Charles Bronson. Watch how they deal with people, how the converse. I know it sounds like bullshit, but... give it a shot.
/r/askTRP20/04/16 02:15 PM
1

Yup
/r/askTRP20/04/16 01:02 AM
3

Nope, just actually wanted to talk about the film with someone who had insight to the RP philosophy. I enjoyed seeing it from both points of view (yours, and the one I mentioned) and thought it was interesting. I saw that you espoused it as something worth seeing it and wanted to get your take on it, especially when offered the counterpoints I made. I think a TRP perspective on the way I painted the movie, from other people rather than the echo chamber of my own brain, would be interesting to re…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 04:35 PM
0

Eh. It is that way at first blush. But you can read it as she is a top-tier woman. A celebrity, empirically gorgeous, highly accomplished and independently wealthy. He was an alpha at the start of their marriage. He slipped. He got fat. He sat around and moped and played video games all day. He became a loser. His wife happened to be a badass enough to call him on it. She is the dark triad, who wants an alpha, and knows what she wants. Hell, after they are back together she revels in being with …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 03:30 PM
2

Ah. You have to go find what you want. The end goal is personal happiness. So, what you have done is shaken off the original line of bullshit you were fed in regards to obtaining happiness. You have, unfortunately, replaced it (a little bit) with another one. Remember, TRP is about sexual strategy. I.e. how to get women. The implicit goal being that having sex with more women will make you happy. However, at the CORE of TRP, which is what I find to be the important part, is an objective look at …
/r/askTRP19/04/16 02:25 PM
1

This isn't as quite in-line as the rest of them, but "As Good As It Gets." It has the most RP quote in any movie, ever. You can watch the movie for just that, and it is worthwhile.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 02:03 PM
3

I normally get voted down by people when I talk about my daughters and the way I raise them. u/httpdev said it right. Here is the simple answer: Fuck everyone else in the world except me and mine. My daughters will be man-eaters. They will chew up worthless boys and spit them out. When they bring boys home, it will be men I would be happy to call son. I don't need weak men surrounding me, and I don't need them raising my grandchildren. My daughters are being raised to be self-sufficient and pure…
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:58 PM
1

Interesting choice. Question for you: who do you root for in this one? What is your take on it?
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:49 PM
1

Additionally, don't buy cartons. Only buy packs. And don't buy them with anything else. Only buy them as a result of a special trip. Smoke out side only. Eventually transition to not buying them. This is another way to help break the actual habit, as well as limit access.
/r/askTRP19/04/16 01:24 AM
3

There is a lot of bullshit here. Sad, sad shit. Thinking women are some special fucking safe that needs some secret conversational pattern to unlock is just an idiotic, misguided "pussy on a pedestal" approach to dating/women. Here's the rub: most people are boring as shit. Talking to them is a literal chore. Women are no exception. Most of them are boring, because mostly everyone is boring. Think of your average person, in terms of being boring/fun. Now, half of all people are MORE boring than …
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:07 PM
1

Jesus. This shit is sad, man.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 01:56 PM
2

I think solipsism gets thrown around a lot here. I think women are more generally narcissistic than solipsists. Then again, I subscribe to the school of thought that all people are narcissists at heart, and that selfishness is the underlying motivation behind almost everything people do. As far as dealing with her, that is easy. "Wait, so everyone but you is a fantasy? I'm your fantasy? That makes it really easy to not have to worry about consequences... lets bang."
/r/askTRP15/04/16 01:54 PM
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Jesus fucking christ with the thirst for a label. Just do you. Do it hard, own it, and fuck everyone else. Especially the hot ones.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 02:26 AM
3

You should read "My Uncle Oswald" by Roald Dahl. Yep, the Charlie and the Chocolate Factory guy. It's adult semi-erotica that is funny as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 05:25 PM
1

Probably. The good news is that so are most of your friends. More seriously, finding what makes you happy is something only you can do. It takes a bit of effort. If you aren't happy, there is literally nothing stopping you from changing that.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 05:11 PM
1

Grief like what? Personal grief? Grief from her family? Grief from your family? That is a bit ambiguous.
/r/askTRP14/04/16 06:37 AM
1

As a caveat to what most people have mentioned here, with the women potentially being gold-digging or just rude. There is nothing wrong with being a traditionalist. Man pays for dinner, sure. Then, the next morning, she makes you breakfast. A bit of quid pro quo.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 04:57 PM
1

Eh, I think each has their place. TRP is great for unplugging. It is a bucket of ice-water to the face. But it is, ultimately shallow and unfulfilling for some people (myself included). The shortcomings of TRP can be seen in the statement AWALT, and the different interpretations of that. It is akin to "trust no-one, because everyone will betray you." That statement has value to a child, because absolutes are easy to grasp, and easy to follow. But trusting no one? Your entire life? Sounds kinda b…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:31 PM
3

I know people call it "game", but that is honestly the bad taste that TRP leaves in so many people's mouths. At its core, just understand that you have an intrinsic value. If whatever girl you are choosing to spend time with doesn't see it that way, then have something better to do with your time. Think about it like this: Do you have younger siblings? A younger sibling is a great metaphor for a "beta orbiter." I.e. someone who devotes themselves to you, wants to constantly be around, is willing…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 03:08 PM
1

But people are always easily disposable. If your world view assumes that getting jobs is hard and losing jobs is easy, having your default strategy to be hoping for an unwitting company to schlep your mediocrity on seems asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:51 PM
5

Yeah. Honestly you should have simply just told her to leave. When she said she needed to figure things out with the other guy, tell her to "Go take care of it then. I'm not really interested in playing childish games." Pressure flip. Abundance mentality. Win-win.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 02:47 PM
1

So get hired and cruise on mediocrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:39 PM
2

No. Those are obvious cop outs and anyone worth their salt who is hiring you should roll their eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:35 PM
1

Ahhh. You put stock into other people's obvious platitudes. There is your problem. Sounds like you really just hang out with the wrong kinda people. Tactful and honest is the right kind, by the way. Not shallow and disingenuous. Yes, society encourages delusions, because delusions help people buy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:33 PM
1

See, the thing is, I don't disagree with you on a good portion of what you are saying. I do disagree that the advice is completely useless for introverts. But, as I said originally, I don't understand the point of your post if, as you stated, you don't want what these people are striving for in the first place. I.e. if you aren't interested in dating/mating strategies then dating/mating strategies are going to be useless for you. It just seems like a pointless post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 05:12 AM
1

Again with the semantics. Worthless to you is the same as useless to you. You are equating being crippled with being introverted. That is simply dumb. 50% of the male population (rate of introverts vs. extroverts) are so socially crippled they can't even chat up a girl and say hi? That advice is useless to them? Get the fuck outta here. A better analogy would be fat people on Rascal scooters not walking. And then claiming that workout routines are useless for fat people that ride scooters. Then,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:53 AM
0

Eh, there is married red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:39 AM
1

Your semantics too deep. The words are synonyms. You abjectly disavow any criticism/advice directed at you, and had made up your mind prior to even posting. It isn't useless advice for introverts, as many introverts can still use the advice. If they want the final outcome of sex with other people. You don't want that. So the advice is useless FOR YOU. Consequently, your post was, and I mean this in whichever way you think it means, worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 04:23 AM
1

more pointed: how can something be useless if you don't have a desire to use it? i.e. if you dont care, so it is obviously worthless/has no worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 03:50 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/16 02:23 AM
2

Then what is the point of your post, in general then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 08:15 PM
2

Of course it is. Women aren't aliens, man. So she likes you physically AND is impressed by your earning potential!? Holy shit! Call Ripley's!
/r/askTRP12/04/16 08:00 PM
1

Suit yourself, man. At the end of the day, it's about doing what makes you happy. My guess is, since you're coming on the internet lamenting about the way your 2-month old relationship is going, you have a hard time understanding what makes you happy and really haven't internalized some of the more applicable concepts of this sub. Either way you decide to go, the decision is yours. But know this: you are placeholder/rebound for a girl who is still in contact with her ex. Aka (according to you) t…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 07:20 PM
3

Hah. This is the first time I've seen you commenting in here. Shit's hilarious. Thanks for being awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/16 06:22 PM
10

Look, how many girls do you hang out with just for fun? None. Neither does this dude. Your two month bull shit relationship is nothing compared to their year long one. She is using you to make him jealous and get back at him for something. Either way, her ability to bounce to you so quickly after being with that dude for a whole year is a red flag in and of itself...
/r/askTRP12/04/16 12:06 PM
4

No one cares about YOU and no one cares about THIS are two very different statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/16 07:20 PM
2

Go to industry trade shows. Full of professionals, mostly male, who are bored as shit. Go up, talk to them about their job. Ask out the interesting ones.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 07:18 PM
2

This is the same guy
/r/askTRP05/04/16 12:03 PM
3

This. I'm raising my daughter's to chew through any bitch boy that comes there way. Weak men are tools to be used. When a real man comes along, turn on the unicorn and I'll have a man I'll be proud to call a son in law.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 11:56 AM
3

It was great. fun times. Actually had anal before PIV. Fun girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/16 05:51 AM
1

also, sounds like he might not be wanting to fight because of the party line fed to him in martial arts class. It is normally a good thing for the teachers to teach, of course. But, maybe you could have a 1-to-1 convo with the teacher and try and get him to let your kid "release the dogs" so to speak.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 03:38 AM
1

Fuck all this advice. Don't play games like Lindsay Lohan in mean girls. Just confront him. "Hey, do you have some kinda problem with me? If you do, stop being a bitch and let's hash it out. If not, cool the shit." Problem solved.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 01:04 AM
1

I think your BF was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/16 09:09 AM
2

You read the sidebar. Then you learn that it is just a part of human nature.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 06:05 PM
5

Ok. This is going to be a hard pill to swallow (all of that pun is intended). Break. Up. With. Her. Done. Your HS GF SHOULD NOT be this important. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 04:53 PM
2

Rowing is the shit. Low impact, great cardio, and works the lower back for you to throw that Dick in harder and faster. What others here are saying is important also: lifting trumps cardio. Both are good, but don't let cardio cut into your lifting. If you are trying to cut weight, it also helps to do your cardio interspersed with your lifting. Fifteen min on the rowing, then into your first sets. Five min row, do a round of sets. Repeat with the five min sessions until lifting routine complete. …
/r/askTRP01/04/16 02:13 PM
1

Wait, how do you have a B.S. in psychology? I thought that was not a Science major and garnished a BA? Okay, I just did a bit of research into it. It seems it does exist. That being said, I do not think it is as common knowledge outside of the field of psychology/medicine. Therefore, the BS portion might not carry as much weigh as, say, an engineering degree. The thing with an engineering degree is that people immediately KNOW that you have an analytical mind suited to teaching yourself difficul…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 05:15 PM
1

Hurt a bit, but more just uncomfortable than anything. Insurance paid for it all. Reversal is expensive as shit and less likely to be possible the longer you remain fixed.
/r/askTRP26/03/16 02:34 PM
2

Yeah, I think you have anger issues. There should be no reason to get this upset by people engaging you in conversation. Especially people you refer to as friends...
/r/askTRP21/03/16 07:42 PM
11

"Every woman deserves the right to be care-free and pursue their dreams. Your partner should support you in these endeavors. Your passion and what makes you happy is what is important. If your partner doesn't understand that, then they probably aren't right for you."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/16 03:27 PM
1

Thanks for this post. Not that it means much... but thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/16 06:33 PM
1

I'm married, so like... 3.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 06:06 PM
2

But hands and feet;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 09:12 PM
2

They are two separate steps in a long, multi-step process: Conception (Sex) Germination (cellular development) Fruition (Shit, this clump of stuff is a baby now...), Reaping (Painful exit from the womb and first breaths of said baby) Rearing (The turning of the baby into a grown-up). You are correct: steps 2-4 are almost exclusively the domain of the woman carrying the child (physically). However, does the inevitable responsibility in Step 5 not grant some level of responsibility/authority in St…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 06:08 PM
3

You're vegetarian?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 03:07 PM
2

Then don't pretend that only one has the decision burden of choosing to keep or terminate. If the responsibility for contraception lies with both parties, then, by necessity, the decision for termination must, as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 03:03 PM
4

You really don't understand that portion of the argument? The question boils down to "when is the fetus a baby" and "how old can a baby be before you are allowed to kill it?" The combination of those two questions is the crux of the debate, from the Anti-abortion side. I can understand disagreeing with this rhetoric, but I cannot understand being confused by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/16 02:55 PM
17

Give her "Ok. You get one more shot. Plan something fun, and come pick me up." Then plan to go do whatever you want. If she comes up with something, fine. If not, move on.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 05:56 PM
-1

Do you enjoy having her as a friend? End of discussion.
/r/askTRP14/03/16 02:41 PM
1

High and unrealistic are two different things. Higher, sure. Unrealistic? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/16 02:05 AM
2

Lol. Went on a long drunk diatribe trying to explain this shit to a group one night... Some of them got very pissed. Funny night. Shit retelling
/r/askTRP12/03/16 01:50 AM
1

Why is it an argument? Honestly, there is no reason to care what he thinks, right? Is he a friend of yours? Do you gain something out of interacting with him? If not a simple "Ok buddy, thanks!" will work fine. And then turn back to drinking your scotch. If he keeps on, agree with him. "Jeez, man. You're right!". Then, again, turn back to your scotch. It doesn't really matter what you say, just refuse to be sucked into his conversation, or frame. Make it clear, without saying it, that whatever y…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:20 PM
2

Why is it an argument? Honestly, there is no reason to care what he thinks, right? Is he a friend of yours? Do you gain something out of interacting with him? If not a simple "Ok buddy, thanks!" will work fine. And then turn back to drinking your scotch. If he keeps on, agree with him. "Jeez, man. You're right!". Then, again, turn back to your scotch. It doesn't really matter what you say, just refuse to be sucked into his conversation, or frame. Make it clear, without saying it, that whatever y…
/r/askTRP10/03/16 08:20 PM
2

The movie "As Good As It Gets" comes to mind... Woman: "Mr Udall, how do you write women so well?" Mr. Udall: "I think of a man... and then I take away reason and accountability." http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119822/
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:12 PM
3

Take a bite out of it, make him look like a dick. Constant one-uppmanship? Get really interested in his new story, hold a bit of a mocking tone in the voice. "Really?! Shit, that sounds awesome. Tell me more, man!" Give him the ol' Ned Ryerson. It should put a stop to it in relatively short order.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:00 PM
1

Giving something a nifty name doesn't make things any different. Being an un-socialized loser in your mom's basement is just that, regardless of the name you give it.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 08:17 PM
1

Imagine her as a dude. Then make a list of all of the reasons you would want to hang out with that dude. Then, any time you lapse, imagine her taking a shit. Then, go bang someone new.
/r/askTRP07/03/16 08:13 PM
5

Objectivism is akin to TRP. Ayn is good stuff
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:11 AM
2

And?
/r/askTRP12/02/16 01:09 AM
1

High enough. Then game. Game plus status = smv. I.e. You could be ugly and poor with excellent game. If you cant get your foot in the door, your just a creep. You can be beautiful and rich, with no game, and you become BB. Like Tom Brady.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/16 01:07 AM
0

oh, see. You put the emphasis on the wrong syllable. its "who CARES?!" It's all good. Don't worry 'bout it.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:54 PM
-2

Oh shit, sorry. I didn't read your user name first, to see how complex you were. My bad.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 09:36 PM
0

I don't remember where it says in the sidebar to lose your sense of humor.
/r/askTRP11/02/16 08:51 PM
3

Reminds me of a joke my uncle once told me. "How do you know if a woman cums during sex?" "Who cares!?"
/r/askTRP11/02/16 07:55 PM
2

But the point is never that status has to be equal or higher. It has to be high enough to get in the door. Then, it is about game. I.e. you have to be noticeable, and immediately considered. Then, your personality takes over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:44 PM
8

Scarlett Johansson Her husband was the editor-in-chief of a very exclusive and famous French art magazine. Not exactly an average joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 07:25 PM
1

12?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 04:32 AM
1

When the angles don't really need to be that precise.
/r/askTRP09/02/16 02:46 AM
1

I don't love you, but I reallly like your money...."
/r/askTRP09/02/16 12:10 AM
3

Lol. Literally. You laugh at her and just wall off.
/r/askTRP06/02/16 02:56 PM
1

This isn't a discussion about that. You inability to engage in abstract thought is impressive. Almost as impressive as your turn to violence in the face of being unable to actually understand the topic of conversation. Your point, when boiled down, is that we either give people healthcare, or they turn to crime and cost people more money? Kinda a "damned if we do, damned if we don't, so lets err on the side of 'compassion'". Is that a correct understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 05:45 AM
1

Meh, you could argue that those taxes are poorly used also. Just shoot them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 04:56 AM
1

The law doesn't need to have anything to do with the oath doctors take. In fact, the oath really doesn't even need to be taken, one could argue, if there is a law that requires doctors to do the same thing, yeah? The hospitals, and all of the money required to make them operate, don't take the Hippocratic oath. Ergo, they are not morally beholden to the treatment of people who cannot pay them for said treatment. So, if three were no laws in place regarding this subject, doctors would be required…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 04:08 AM
1

Forbes disagrees. http://www.cnbc.com/2014/10/03/two-thirds-of-billionaires-made-it-themselves.html
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 03:58 AM
1

That is the cynical point of welfare, from the POV of the state: provide the unmotivated and under-performing enough money to not revolt. That's as much as is needed. Everyone else who is willing to compete for the resources and awesomeness can compete, secure in the knowledge that they won't lose everything in a civil war.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 03:41 AM
1

What extra fees? If the law doesn't make them provide service to people who can't pay, they have less overhead...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 03:30 AM
1

It costs that much because hospitals have to recoup the costs of treating the ODing druggies for free... Which is required by law... Which is based on an over-riding social morality... An individuals feeling of the law, and how it is, potentially, governed by morality (especially one they don't agree with), is exactly the point of the conversation. You are just citing examples of how the current law works, not offering any kind of opinion or critique on WHY the law works a certain way. Which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 02:24 AM
1

Yes. That is how it works NOW. But it doesn't HAVE to work that way. You could pay only when you need the doctor, and pay a premium if they're busy. But it isn't like that because of laws. And we are debating political philosophy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 02:07 AM
1

But WHY do the taxes go up? Why not just make them... not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 01:48 AM
1

No. I pay for all of the benefits I reap from that. What benefits do I reap from the person ODing again? I wasn't talking about "why pay" from a moral perspective. I meant that it is laws and politics that makes us pay. And those laws and politics are based on a moral construct that is, by definition, arbitrary. If you would like to get into a discussion on the concrete definition of morals, things are going to get weird. The point I'm trying to make is that people define what they like and disl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 01:24 AM
1

We are talking about a philosophical debate about intrusiveness of the government. To immediately assume that you have to pay taxes to fund hospitals is asinine. That is an arbitrary law.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/16 01:00 AM
1

I don't think you understand what I'm trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 08:01 PM
1

Yep. And Jonathan Swift's "A Modest Proposal" was largely related to the deliciousness of babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:05 PM
1

From a philosophical aspect, which is what were talking about: controlling that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 07:04 PM
1

The point is why do I have to pay then...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:53 PM
5

But why pay for either?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/16 06:11 PM
3

I'm 5'5, wife is 5'9. Own it, be awesome, and it won't matter. So your short. Who cares? Badgers are small, but they still fight lions, and everyone loves them. Be a brazen bad ass. If your uncontrollable height is all someone can find to criticize, you win.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 03:25 PM
1

Meh. He lost this round. Chalking this one up to a loss is the right answer. The alternative is looking desperate. Of course there are things to learn. But this one is a loss.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 06:06 PM
3

You lose. Go try again.
/r/askTRP02/02/16 11:44 AM
121

And here, gentlemen, is TRP. This comment is the whole thing. Seriously, just reread this when you get confused.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 12:53 AM
4

I race cars, lift weights, and fondle women, BUT! I have weekends off, and I am my own boss.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:06 AM
3

I'm 5'5, wife is 5'9
/r/askTRP12/01/16 06:53 PM
2

... Under what circumstances are electricians seen as "lowly" by society? Exactly what class of people are you hanging out with, lol?
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:43 PM
34

I am married. I understand what it takes to remain married. Do NOT, under any circumstances, marry this woman. Do NOT buy into the sink cost fallacy. If your parents seem disappointed, just tell them what she said. That is the largest red flag I can think of. And most travel places and wedding venues well give you some of the money back. Honeymoon already paid for and you can't get a refund? Bring your dad/brother and have a fine fucking time. Do NOT tie yourself to a woman who only fucks you fo…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 02:32 PM
1

If your posting here, you already know the answer
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:50 PM
1

Basic Underwater Demolition School. BUDS
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/15 08:24 AM
2

Women fuck for quality, men fuck for quantity. Nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/15 04:39 AM
1

Most of the time I keep quiet. That one was just too damned stupid, and I was bored.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 04:43 PM
2

I made a big point of this on that damned thread in LPT, the one about crushes. And no, I don't think they can, in 99% of circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/15 03:39 AM
1

Yep. I said a lot to this effect on the original thread. People disagreed, lol.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:41 AM
1

I posted my opinion in the thread. It was down voted relentlessly.
/r/askTRP16/12/15 02:39 AM
2

I commented heavily in that thread. Some people really just don't understand and are beyond saving.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 02:31 AM
3

Remember, Southern Born Gentlemen were also quick to put anyone in their place. Manners are not Beta behavior. They are just more added on to the top of the dance. At the end of the day, mettle is mettle, and it'll show when it needs to.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 07:48 PM
-1

Ignore. Chalk it up as a loss. Double-down on other things. Sell the reindeer at a yard-sale so they aren't there next year.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/15 07:01 PM
0

Eh, I wouldnt say you fell asleep. Just do a "?". No reason to lie, just don't give the line any credit.
/r/askTRP15/12/15 04:51 PM
1

Eh. Not a great angle, to be sure. But anything can work if you play it right. His method does not sound great. Mine was more of a girl asking to hear something I'd written, and following up with a graphic Hansel and Gretel, read to her over the phone. Sploosh town. Next time I saw her, it was on. The best of game? Nah. But for fourteen year old me, it worked fine. At the end of the day, confidence and owning your Shit, whatever that may be, is better then any game. Especially the ones kids with…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 03:09 PM
-3

Oh, I hear that. It isn't definitely a bad angle though. Ive used it to positive effect. His problem is just reading too much into shit, which is very aspy.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:42 AM
12

Yeah. A bit aspy. Then again, main stream media (and especially fucking anime) characters all have aspergers. So I think kids are learning it as "normal" social behavior.
/r/askTRP12/12/15 05:31 AM
1

Remember, people will make excuses to do what they want to do. They will make excuses to get out of that which they don't want to do.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 08:34 PM
2

Thanks. Pendants be pedantic-in.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/15 02:16 PM
1

Sorry, I'm literally discussing the same thing with you and another person on two separate threads. You are right, you didn't ask that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 10:29 PM
1

You said you would encourage everyone to stop supporting him financially, and that you would stop supporting him financially, because of the allegations. That is passing judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:27 PM
1

I have no evidence to make a call, and passing judgement one way or the other is asinine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:40 PM
1

No more so than adjusting your behavioral patterns based on unsubstantiated accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:17 PM
1

I guess then we are just going to have to agree to disagree. To offer a point of comparison, however: what if the accusation levied is that someone is a... terrorist. Someone of muslim faith is accused, by a peer, and other people bandwagon on it, of being a terrorist, of having been to terrorist meetings and planning shit. Is it morally right or morally wrong to take action socially against the person being accused? That thought process, thinking that it is morally justified, is exactly what le…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 03:13 PM
1

It isn't about assuming they are lying. It is a refusal to act as of what they are saying is true, and requiring more evidence prior to any action. It is an open invitation to provide evidence, but a staunch refusal to levy ANY judgement against the accused.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 08:06 AM
1

That is a straw man that dodges the question at hand: namely, is it morally right to judge someone based on unsubstantiated testimony? The question is Not "does it make sense for a business to ride the tide of the consumer climate to ensure survival?". That answer is obvious, and I don't think many are asking that question. The question is in relation to the moral justification of the feelings and motivation behind the blind support of an accusation, with little to no substantiation. I.e. The Tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:47 AM
7

The two are mutually exclusive. By definition. It happened or it didn't. The presumption that both are correct is silly, especially when the possibility of his guilt is so damning. That is why the entire CONCEPT of innocent until proven guilty exists. To lend credence to groundless accusations, rumors, and gossip is ridiculous in any sphere of critical thought. People get mocked for blind faith in any kind of debate. Religion, political discourse, middle school. Examples: Jesus healed the blind …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 07:21 AM
5

So him suing her for slander is viable, and would make it a legal case. Where would you stand in that instance, regarding stoya's innocence/guilt in what she is saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 06:13 AM
2

Heavy critique for not having read the source material.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 02:25 PM
1

Great answer. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:04 PM
1

Fair enough. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 03:25 PM
1

Cool, thanks. Any feel on this potentially being, in any way, a power play on her part?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 02:44 PM
2

Cool, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 02:43 PM
1

Nothing in the south is frowned upon of you keep it out of the public eye.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 10:41 PM
1

Sure, in r/asktrp. But this is ppd. The point is to talk it out. Still interested in seeing them nips, btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:56 PM
1

i see "BOX". And not the good kind, the font kind
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:31 PM
1

Well now you got me all confused. You a sexy lady? Let's do this. Tite or GTFO, I'll PM you some sexy balls in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/15 07:04 PM
1

Because you are unattractive and have no muscles.
/r/askTRP05/11/15 07:35 AM
0

You have to relax the throat, surpress the gag reflex, and REALLY like the guy you're with.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 07:14 PM
1

Yeah, NP. I would almost 100% guarantee you are bad at talking to women now, if you have been in a 'serious' relationship since you were 14. Go and watch Swingers, and DON'T BE John Favreau. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:29 PM
6

Wow, man. That is just sad. Seriously, at some point you have to nut up and bounce.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:13 PM
5

5 years. And you're 21. That is tough for me to process. You were with her since you were 14, i.e. a child. Your relationship maturity has to be incredibly stunted. In all honesty, sounds like got pissed you didn't go to her birthday and so she got drunk, made some bad decisions, and she cheated on you at Tequila Tuesday, (or Monday, or w/e). Now she probably feels guilty about it, and would rather sever ties than deal with confrontation. You can potentially spice that up with a dash of "Blames …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 07:11 PM
5

Is his friendship worth a fuck or two? That is your answer to "do it or not". Are you a hypocrite? No. Not really. The comparison is apples to oranges. If you expected a girl to not break up with you for infidelity, that would be hypocritical.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:39 AM
3

You literally seethed and fantasized about finding information to out me as a hypocrite, then went and looked for it, and then posted it, as if it proved your point and would somehow affect me. Your blindness is incredible.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 08:09 PM
1

Your hypocrisy is honestly amazing. Over and over you continue to indulge in it. You are awash in doctrine, and unable to see the forest for the trees. I'm not priming for a fight, man. I just think it is amazing that you are really blind to the bullshit you're spewing.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 08:05 PM
2

At least somebody gets it. jesus this place is getting cuuuhrazy
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 07:55 PM
2

Goddamnit, I wrote a nice long reply, and it fucking disappeared. Morals are, by definition, relating to the principles of 'right and wrong'. There is, of course, no definition of 'right and wrong'. Each person has their own definition, amorphous and rarely subject to reason or logic. Value, on the other hand, is defined as 'relative worth, utility, or importance". So, by necessity, to make a value judgement, one MUST have something to compare it to. I.e., levy logical comparison and thought to …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 02:05 PM
1

So judging someone is fine as long as the message is in keeping with the mentality of TRP? I agree. And I said as much: I will judge anyone and everyone, and expect them to do the same to me. But I don't think that is what the OP said. It literally talked about the difference in attacking sometimes ideas vs. Their person, saying semantics matter. When, in fact, they don't. The message matters, not the tone, and not the feelings of the OP or whether I'm talking about their "acting like a beta bit…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/15 12:35 AM
2

So it's buy into an us vs them mentality or here's the door? The point is that being a man is about knowing and improving yourself, on your terms, regardless of what other people say or think. That is the most rp thing one can do. The entire sexual strategy is based around that fact. Getting wrapped up in "feminists do that" etc is just inviting yourself into being indoctrinated into another form of group-think. Idgaf what feminists think or do. Their ideas are laughable, not the fact that they …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 11:33 PM
4

No, my point is I don't care if you judge me. No where did I say "please don't do that." In fact, I went a bit further and called myself out and laughed about it... You are the one saying not to judge people, who then turns right around and does it. I think that's funny. I expect to be judged, and don't care if it happens. You seem to not want to be judged, and then care when it happens, hence your OP.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 10:39 PM
2

Haha, wait. You're going to get on a soap box about not judging, then dig through my post history to find some old-ass one-off where I ask people about a sex toy, and bring it up in this thread? To what? Make me feel bad about judging other people? Fucking laughable. Those things are interesting, and I do wonder what it would be like to fuck one. Laugh if you want, it's a funny subject. The only problem with YOUR strategy is I don't give a fuck if you judge me. That is the eventual point of all …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 10:04 PM
3

Lack of constructive criticism is a completely different sentiment than "too judgemental". Saying someone is being judgemental, and anyone having to care if their criticism/advice is going to sound judgemental, seems like the anti thesis of an open forum such as this. Especially when this community itself values self-reliance and judgment so highly.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 09:47 PM
4

It seems like an incredibly silly statement. I get to do W/e the fuck I want to do. Any advice I offer here is directly solicited by the nature of the forum, and sugar-coating anything I say is a luxury I don't have the time, nor inclination, to do. What is the final point of this post? Not to be rude to people/judge them? You PC, bro? Really, what chapter? Get that shit outta here. Don't try to shame me for judging someone who, by coming here and posting, is literally asking to be judged. I wil…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 09:05 PM
2

Shit, Chompsky is the best dog name. Now I just have to wait for Wraith to die or run away.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 08:06 PM
1

With the CC thing: I would have done a basic agree and amplify - "Yeah, dad, good idea. I got this one. Does anyone want a dessert to go? Around the table, anyone? Fuck it, dessert for everyone. Except Dad, he doesn't have much of a sweet tooth." and then toss the credit card out nonchalantly and go from there. Be a balla on your own terms, not his. I don't understand why others in your family wouldn't respect you, though. I can understand why they would defer to him over you if both of you were…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 09:00 PM
1

What kinda shit test, specifically, is he throwing you?
/r/askTRP20/10/15 08:44 PM
1

He's being dominant and you're backing down. Seems pretty self explanatory, and I doubt race has anything to do with it. If you don't like it, don't back down. Simple as that. A quick "dude gtfo out of my face" should do the trick. Our ask him if he wants to kiss you or something. You said you're the strongest in the gym, so naturally you are worth challenging.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 01:37 PM
1

What about it would make it a bad idea? Other people might think it is gay? If that is your reason, then you clearly don't understand trp concepts.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:26 PM
1

You're grind dancing at a frat party. Going in for a grab on something should be no outlandish behavior
/r/askTRP03/10/15 06:33 AM
1

How is escalating kino not TRP? A bit unorthodox, but nothing outlandish.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 09:06 PM
1

That's a bullshit question. He was dancing with the girl, made a move, and she bounced. Enough said. I don't see how he did anything wrong.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 08:23 PM
0

I honestly want my daughters to encourage as many beta orbiters as they can. I want their hypergamy to push them to the point that they chew through worthless men, reaping the benefits of their gifts and attention, until they get to the top of the foodchain, and land a real man who I can be proud to call son. And then birth, and effectively, raise me some amazing grandchildren.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 07:35 PM
2

Dude. You really don't understand. Of course men can be generalized. We do it constantly. BB/AF is the most base and derogatory generalization you can apply to men. The generalization this ENTIRE FUCKING SUB speaks to is that men will do anything to fuck women. Pretty much any woman. AMALT HurDur. We know this. You just aren't surprised when you hear it constantly: "I plated all these bitches!" The surprising thing, to most people, and the reason for the acronym AWALT, is that women aren't snowf…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 04:37 AM
1

Father to two girls, 5 and 2. I feel your pain. The people here have given great responses. I don't have that much to add. Be a man, and show them what a real man is supposed to be, and that should, eventually, be their goal when looking for a mate. I will say, though, that I am going to raise my two girls to be man-eaters. The goal is to get them to cultivate as many orbiters as possible, just for being pretty. Why? because fuck those guys. I owe them nothing. And, from my perspective, if a man…
/r/askTRP26/09/15 03:00 AM
1

Recover?
/r/askTRP21/09/15 10:01 PM
2

Yeah, I made a long comment talking about that later in the thread. Not many people have seen, I guess. I said some extra shit about what a few of the words could be interpreted to mean, as well. I hate when parent comments get buried down the thread by replies to the top comment. Really wish there was a way to only see parent-level comments.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 06:13 PM
19

AS all of the others have said, this is a scam. The pregnancy is a bit dicey to know about that soon (but not impossible). The STDs are as likely as they ever were, if you are fucking Crazy and ain't wrapping it up. If you REALLY want to make it go away, and make doubly-sure things aren't going to be fucked up for you, you do the driving, and pay at the window. I.e. you tell her you will drive her to the clinic, go in with her, and then pay for the STD test (and, shit, while your at it get one y…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 02:32 PM
5

To be fair, that isn't exactly what the data is showing. It is showing the highest outliers between the two sets of data, not the most common. That is what the x-axis means: male/female ratio and vice versa. I.e., on the female graph, we see the words that are more common on female profiles than on male profiles. So you aren't necessarily saying that women on OKC are all 'Girly, Sassy, BBWs' but that women are 13/12/8% more likely to refer to themselves as such. Additionally, since the statistic…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:09 PM
1

When you are promoting your self, your art, your work, nothing is sacred. She is working and looking for clients. No need to read anything more into it than that.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 10:11 PM
1

Lol. Why would you want to?
/r/askTRP17/09/15 06:27 PM
3

And the more often you drive, the more you get cut-off.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 07:23 PM
4

Wait, what kind of special forces is this exactly? Honestly, with these motivations and very obvious lack of passion/convictions, completing special forces training is not going to happen.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 03:11 PM
1

Remember too: you have been conditioned to be like this by social pressure as a whole, not by individuals. Anger phase is natural, but eventually you realize that women aren't necessarily to blame, and being angry at them is silly. It's like the story of the frog and the scorpion. You just have to deprogram, and start being a man, because they are just being women.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:08 PM
1

Mix up a batch of shared batter and get a surrogate. Done.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 07:22 PM
2

Everyone here is pretty much saying it right. Arrogance is a label of the conceited given to those they envy. Notice how poor, ugly people are never labelled 'arrogant' of 'conceited.' Arrogance and self-confidence are the same thing, it just depends on how much the person labelling you likes you. In the event that you value/respect their input, then, potentially, you are coming off too strong. It does behoove one to foster relationships with others (mainly high-value people), as this will poten…
/r/askTRP14/09/15 08:32 PM
1

I'm not arguing the viability of the ideology. I am merely pointing out the fact that sending men and women in to kill and die for one's beliefs is what war is all about. Someone believes in something so passionately they are willing to kill and die for it. And/or engage in/endorse policy that sends others to do the same. The belief itself is secondary when you are arguing that ideologies and fairness aren't, in and of themselves, worth sacrificing lives for. The point becomes Ideas (and your fe…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:50 PM
2

in the name of America's ideals That is the entire point. There is a large faction of the country who thinks that these exact ideals (fairness and SJW-esque) are the ones we are fighting for. War, as endorsed by the media, is in the name of American Ideals, and each of those ideals is subjective. Sacrificing lives in the name of fairness and ideology. The only sticking point is what your ideology is.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 06:31 PM
1

Isn't sacrificing lives in the name of fairness and ideology the main tenet of US military dogma in the first place? Sending our best and brightest to maintain truth, justice, and the American Way? Just playing Devil's Advocate.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:58 PM
0

That quote, however, is taken slightly out of context. He was referring to potential screening of ideal female candidates and/or the development of gender-neutral graduation requirements. He was not saying that women could not perform well. He was saying that there were no clear physiological factors in women that indicated potential high performance.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:35 PM
9

The military is a career service now. It IS politically correct, because its funding is controlled by politicians. Add to these the need for the military industrial complex to remain large/monolithic to support our economy and way of life, and you get what we are seeing. Namely, the Military is the largest corporation in the World, and is being managed as such. A lot of things to dissect in that paragraph.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 03:26 PM
1

I do the bathroom. Grab child and go to the bathroom, bust that ass, allow crying to stop, go back to table. Repeat as necessary. Wife eats in peace, you don't have to storm out in a huff, and everyone is happy. Other than you, who now has cold food. But what do they know of loves more austere offices? Sorry, just reread your comment, realized you did exactly this. You dealt with the child well (as others have said, maybe do it a bit sooner). The real problem is the wife getting upset about it. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 07:23 PM
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At the end of the day, he is kinda right, but he is framing things in a very confusing way. You need to be happy about yourself, sure. And you need to make sure that you aren't allowing your self-worth/respect to be hinged on external representations of your self. He is right about that. But, he is dead wrong about "Accepting yourself unconditionally." That only leads to lying to one's self, and being a fat loser, angry at the world. You are NOT 'who you are.' You have to have a well-defined int…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 04:12 PM
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You are a Man. You are an Island. You are a Leader, even if it is only of your group of One. If other people want to join, you will lead them. But you will always be an Island. That is Alpha. Everything else is cosmetics.
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:31 PM
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Quit my job (Naval Officer, with great, guaranteed salary), had a baby, and moved a household internationally, from a foreign country, back to the states. I had no job prospects other than my Raging Ego. Then I started an epic job hunt (which landed a high-stress 6 figure job), bought a new vehicle and a house. All within less than a year. How did I get past it? Took some time off in between jobs, living frugally with the wife and new baby, couch surfing with both sets of parents under the guise…
/r/askTRP25/08/15 09:03 PM
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Proportionality is open to interpretation. The modern philosophy is "overwhelming force."
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:57 PM
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Boom. This. Nonplussed, no nervous laughter, call to action. Couldn't have put it better myself.
/r/askTRP24/08/15 02:49 PM
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Naval officer. Feel free to msg me if you want to know anything.
/r/askTRP21/08/15 09:53 PM
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Of course it isn't one size fits all. To think about it as a binary philosophy is your failure, man. The first point is in regards to SMV - If yours is not high enough, she won't find you attractive. Every woman has nuances as to what she finds attractive, just like every man does. Your HB10 and mine are different, just like hers are. At the end of the day, sure, some women like guys that talk. Just like some guys like women with meat on their bones. The answer is that SMV dictates. Her attracti…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:29 PM
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Dude. I hate to say it, but you really haven't swallowed the pill yet at all. The FIRST thing to realize is that everything you just typed is an excuse. Owning up to all of your own shortcomings and problems is step one. Everything you mentioned here is you trying to blame everything else. Read up man, and take a mentality shift.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 06:09 PM
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That is the point. To her, everything about your demeanor is a negotiation. And they don't want to be negotiated with. Women communicate with actions, not words.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 05:56 PM
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I think you still aren't quite embracing the point or TRP with regards to relationships and desire. It cannot be negotiated. It is either there, or it isn't. Adult Human beings can talk about things. Men and women can talk about things. But they cannot negotiate desire.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:54 PM
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If that is the reason, you should run. That is crazy bull shit and not what you should found a healthy relationship on. If the reason is truly religious purposes, then that is also a bit crazy, but if you are religious and that floors your boat, fine. I still say run, because I don't value religious bs. Lastly, if it is for any other reason, she is crazy, she lied to you, and you bounce. All roads lead to bs.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:13 PM
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You were just as much a hypocrite. You decided early on you were okay with a "just friends" arrangement. Then you tried to mange a move on her. If you were just friends, you don't get to make moves.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:06 PM
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The way you win is moving on to the next one. Abundance mentality, FTW. If they are interested, it will be obvious. If they are not, it will be obvious. Stop fixating any try again.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:04 PM
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Abundance mentality. Nuff said.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:01 PM
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Conceit is a label for the strong, placed by the jealous.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:45 AM
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Why? Context is everything. Beleve in is a bitch term.. Leave it and see reality. I'm drunk,c treasure with a grain of salt
/r/askTRP17/08/15 03:48 AM
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See my previous posts. Women are just people trying to get the best they can with the assets they have. Unicorns aren't rare. They are just women who have a man that is better, AND CONSISTENTLY STAYS BETTER than the men in the field that they can reasonably attract. The woman that leaves a BB husband for Chad is little different than a man that leaves a wife that went to seed for a high school Bimbo. TRP is a great starting point. It harshly rips away the current social trends that a boy is spoo…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 11:13 PM
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Well, there is a significant difference between not being a pushover and manipulating a relationship to your benefit vs. Being a sadist and just enjoying toying with people. The former can still be a great friend. That is just a realist. But sadist are unmanageable. Cut ties. They will eventually burn all of their bridges. "'Love everyone' destroys the value of the statement 'all hate gets you nowhere'" That's a good quote.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 10:59 PM
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Not a problem, glad you get something from it. I've been wanting to do a real post or article, but have been just a bit wary/lazy about boiling all of it down into something succinct enough for people to digest. TRP does a great job of shocking the system, but I think it fails a bit in illustrating an end game. Feel free to drop me a line I'd you have some questions. I don't mind giving advice. My bio: 30 y/o naval officer. Married 7 years. Two kids, 4/2. Business consultant making low six figur…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 10:03 PM
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And that is, in my mind, the end goal. My post history speaks to it, a lot. Like, spinning plates forever is boring. I travel a lot for work. I am in strange cities and hotels, constantly, by myself. When I go home, I am a Lord returning to his castle. I love going home. There are conflicts with the wife and kids, sure. But I ain't no bitch. I'm a man. Proving my value and running my house/life is what it is all about. The trick is finding a woman you are willing to tolerate. Yes, AWALT. But, it…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 09:48 PM
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Honestly, yes. My best friend and I are both close to this relationship. We both know what the other can offer, we suffer from zero pre conceptions or social entrapment. We speak very plainly and have a great friendship. Be honest with your brother. He seems to be one of the few people you can be. "I love you. You're my brother, and my friends. But I can and will cut you out of my life if you don't improve it. We can bullshit at bar bques once a year on holiday, or we can be real and be close." …
/r/askTRP16/08/15 09:34 PM
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I don't regret getting married. At least not generally. There are times when my Wife pisses me off to the point of being fed up, but overall it's good. Better than not doing it.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:36 PM
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Right. Whelp, not much else to do other than stress the point now. If you think you tried earnestly before, then you shouldn't feel bad.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:31 PM
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Just show that he can't get value from you. Make anything he gets from you require more than he gives. He will stop in short order
/r/askTRP16/08/15 06:30 PM
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"Tried it once"? Tried what once? Dating another girl? I mean, if you're only spinning one plate... You ARE in a relationship, by definition.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:39 PM
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Right. But yeah, it could have been real. 12 steps work for a lot of people.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:37 PM
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Well, what is your goal here? You want him to love you and drop everything to help you move? Like, I don't really understand the question. You just need to understand that he is goal-driven, and that your relationship with him is of minimal importance in comparison to his goals (unless the goal is maintaining the relationship). Treat all interactions with this in mind. I don't understand how this is an exhausting personality to deal with. It is remarkably simple, because it is consistent. Treat …
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:30 PM
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No way to know. It is supposed to be real, if it's a12 step program. But, either way, does it matter? It was for her, not for you.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:19 PM
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Dr. Hook wrote a song about this a long time ago. Great song. "When you're in love with a beautiful woman" On mobile, no link
/r/askTRP16/08/15 03:12 PM
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Sounds like you never made it clear she was a plate. I.e. That she was not exclusive. You feel bad because you think you have culpability in this. If you think you do, be a man and own it. Tell her she is not exclusive, never has been, and a simple sorry that she got the wrong impression. If you don't think you are culpable, then think long and hard about why you feel bad. You really care about her feelings, beyond a basic level of humanism? I'd that is it, maybe you were more exclusive than you…
/r/askTRP16/08/15 02:07 PM
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12 step programs. One of the steps is to, effectively "right your wrongs", and you basically soul search, figure out everyone in your life you have wronged, and sincerely apologize. It is supposed to be cathartic and humbling.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 01:44 PM
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Ask get if she is going through AA. If not, ignore. If so, say apology accepted, then ignore.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 12:19 PM
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Long term piece of advice: never give negative relationship advice to family or friends. They will not appreciate it, and it will damage your relationship.
/r/askTRP16/08/15 12:14 PM
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Dude, at the end of the day, it is about what YOU want. If you want to fuck an endless stream of plates, play the game and get swoll. If you want to get good at video games, do it (but don't complain about not getting women). Be the man you want to be, do the things you want to do, and fuck anyone who says otherwise. TRP is a shotgun, non-nuanced approach to human interaction, and, mainly, picking up women. It turns out that a lot of what TRP mentions to improve one's status with women actually …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 04:18 PM
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In addition to what everyone else here has said: I moved a lot growing up (13 different schools). The person who befriends you when you first arrive at a new place is rarely ever a person I stayed friends with. YMMV.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 03:52 PM
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Interesting conversation, but I think we are just going to have to agree to disagree.
/r/askTRP13/08/15 08:23 PM
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I don't necessarily disagree with anything you said here. But I also feel like almost all of these circumstances are naturally occurring. The upper echelons are privy to the majority of the resources in an unequal distribution. 20% of men get 80% of the women, etc. I think that is a human condition, and not necessarily something to be fixed. As far as the manufacturing jobs, one could just as easily make the case that they disappeared through increased technology no longer permitting their origi…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 07:11 PM
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I can appreciate the wont to dissociate the philosophies. I went the other way with it, and have seen a great amount of application across multiple disciplines. I think that is because I have abstracted TRP to essentially be what I mentioned before - people are selfish and will use the best means at their disposal to maximise their profit. The sexual, economic, and political analysis stems from there. Of course each of these venues, and, indeed, each situation, has its own huge set of variables.…
/r/askTRP13/08/15 06:14 PM
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