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| 1 | Approaching and Conversation - exact actionable advice | Fundamentals | EGreg | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 06:46 PM |
| 1 | EXACT HOW TO: Approaching and Conversation | Fundamentals | EGreg | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Approaching and Conversation: exactly what to do | Fundamentals | EGreg | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:26 AM |
| 0 | What men and women can BOTH do to WIN and be happy | Social Issues | EGreg | /r/MensRights | 20/01/23 01:47 AM |
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| 1 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?You don’t need to try anything special to open your mouth and speak to someone. But chances are, if you try to say whatever comes to mind then you’ll say what 100s of other people have said, and they’ll say thanks and try to end the conversation. They’re already on guard against guys who say the first thing on their mind, which is usually the same things everyone else says. The subtext is always the same: “you’re attractive so I’m talking to you in order to be that one guy to take you home and h… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 01:44 AM |
| 5 | How to get out of your head?No matter how much detail I put, I'm still vague? I mean have something prepared as in: what you're going to talk about, what is interesting about it, and practice it. Instill a trigger. I guess it's called "canned material". If you don't know what I'm talking about, consider taking an acting/improv class or toastmasters. I don't say what to involve them in because it's supposed to be specific to your personality and interests. Tell us, what are your interests? They should include something that… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 08:29 AM |
| 7 | Is it better to take it slow when approaching a friend, or straight up tell her?Look, mature adults that have a lot of options don't necessarily pine away for one friend. They date around trying to find a good person. If this friend was totally into you, she'd go for it just as much as you go for it. I would say if yall are such good friends, why don't you schedule a "date" with her. As in, an activity with just the two of you - that's fun but at the same time physical. Like maybe hiking up a mountain, whatever. When you reach the top, you are both a bit exhausted, make a s… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | A potential way to smoothly transition to date in tinder messagesThis is a great and creative idea! I like it! It's not what people would usually do It gives her a low-effort but fun way to be creative with you The only thing I'd add is that you need to throw in some mystery. Like "I have a really good idea..." but don't tell her what it is. Say you can tell her over dinner. Sometimes I used emojis to ask her whether she would prefer X or Y. As a way to agree to the dinner in the first place. But I like this, it can be very creative | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 05:12 AM |
| 9 | Is the only way to hook up is tinder/any other dating app or going to a party(21M)Befriend cool guys and organize parties together. Focus on having FUN. Learn how to do fun things (play an instrument, dance, tell stories, jokes, riddles, whatever). Get the group going, especially if it has more females than males in it. Learn to vibe. Then the rest is just about metaphors. Holding both hands makes them think about kissing, for instance. Eye contact and eyebrow movements make you connect emotionally. Smelling her hair makes her think about you kissing her neck. And so on. Some… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 05:09 AM |
| 27 | What to do?What's your goal? Wham, bam, thank you ma'am? Do you want this girl to be a long-term girlfriend, maybe get serious with her? Then don't push her. There can be many reasons why a girl is hesitant to come back to your place. Maybe she's on her period. Maybe she's religious. Maybe she isn't used to moving "so fast" and is interested in something long term, doesn't want to mess it up by being "too easy". You have to read between the lines. To do that, you need to get good at building up a vocabular… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 05:03 AM |
| 11 | How to get out of your head?Two things: 1) Have something prepared, and install a trigger... you think you're attracted? Then whip out what you prepared. 2) You're ashamed of your intentions, that's what's holding you back. What you prepared should be something you can be PROUD of. Like something related to your job or hobby, that you genuinely can involve other people with. Whether you're a photographer, fashion designer, musician, comedian, developer, etc. It has to be something interesting. Maybe a joke, a riddle, maybe… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?It's totally not about putting women on a pedestal. It has to do with overcoming logistics to make a conversation seem natural, spontaneous and smooth, where otherwise it would seem like you're just another douche trying to hit on them because they're hot. The fact that they're hot is indirectly the issue. Many guys are trying to talk to them JUST BECAUSE they're hot. Just like a rich or famous investor at a conference with entrepreneurs... I was at TechCrunch Disrupt where someone on stage was … | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?Good point. Maybe don't drink it afterwards :) Besides, if you go out a lot, you can just ask for a ginger ale every so often from the bartender. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How to properly approach a girl at the venue?Total overview of how to approach: http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?t=132079 | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:33 AM |
| 8 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?"Hey, can you please watch my drinks? I gotta be right back" (Go to the bathroom for example, wash your hands, freshen up) Coming back... be very appreciative. "Thanks so much! What are your names?" and then just go into normal conversation... such as whether you just moved to the area, or if this is their local bar, trading experiences and tips etc. That's what I do. Another approach was discovered by a guy who got the hottest girls to hold up a sign for a photo with him and his friends. He jus… | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What are good pickup lines for girls at the bar?http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?t=132079 | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you increase your sex appeal?No | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:16 AM |
| 3 | I did it!!!Here you go … I wrote this a decade ago when I was doing this shit http://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?t=132079 People claimed it was “the best post on the forum”. Anyway it gives actionable advice. https://pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?t=191308 | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:13 AM |
| 1 | The most intolerant wins - the dominance of the stubborn minorityI guess whites were nice until pushed by every native population on every continent outside Europe. Native Americans on both continents - genocide. Africans - enslaved. Indians - well, we had to exterminate a few villages to make the world safe for the East India company... and the opium trade etc. Yeah, whites are super nice though! Why'd they have to attack us? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 10:14 PM |
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