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| 3 | Would like some thoughts on my plan for a personal experiment. | EHPimpNamedSlickBack | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 12:32 AM | |
| 1 | How to keep frame when she denies sex. | EHPimpNamedSlickBack | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 05:26 PM |
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| 1 | Update 2: all you want from me is sexYou better be doing better than her a year from now. Forget this bitch and move on buddy. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 02:51 PM |
| 9 | Girl I want to LTR only wants to fuck. Does that mean she sees me as low value?This is the only correct answer. OP probably brought it up, and it was too soon for her. She still hasn't sampled enough dick. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 10:07 PM |
| 135 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsTreat everything they do as a shit test and Agree and Amplify, Flip it on them, or Ignore it. If it's something serious, call it out and bring attention to how petty, annoying, unoriginal, etc. (whatever description fits) and mostly just treat them as if what they do is like a 5 year old calling you a poopy head. This is sidebar stuff. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 04:34 PM |
| – | End things with FWB?Your question shouldn't be about her, bit how you can avoid making the same mistake with the next girl. Focus on your improvement of game, not the woman. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 6 | Why do women piss me off more and more?To get out of red pill rage you have to do 2 things. 1. Become more successful with women. Then your view of women isn't so skewed towards that's you're looking at on Instagram or TikTok, but on women who respect you enough to be wasn't around you. Realize that being a man is a gift to be able to earn your way rather than have it given to you for a few short years, only to have it taken away if you don't lock down a high value mate. You can make your value. They lose theirs as with the passage o… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 4 | Is it stupid to change town just for girls ?Stay where the best you can find are single moms or la d whales or make a concerted effort to put yourself in an environment more conducive to you improving your game, and presumably other aspects of your life? Tough call. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Found out girlfriend has had a MMF threesomeUpcoming wasn't enough. Some will say one or the other, but at the end of the day, each man must choose what he can accept. So long as that man is in a position to actually choose and not forced to settle with it due to low value/game, I see no problem with either option. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | It’s fucked up how these dating apps work...I hear you. Though I wouldn't say it sucks, it's just harder to not be comfortable fucking mostly fucking 6s and 7s with an occasional 8 for almost no effort once you get good at getting them from app to number to date to sex. I just choose to look at this as an intermediate step towards becoming a man I would not only respect, but revere were I anyone else. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 1 | It’s fucked up how these dating apps work...Another person complaining about OLD. Don't ask for an easier life. Seek to be a better man. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up, need help on rectifying the situation, confessed I like a coworker.Sure thing | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl I was dating for 3 months dumped me over gunsSounds like you got into a relationship too soon. I had a very liberal plate once for about 6 weeks or so. Didn't hide that I don't believe everything on CNN and when she said she didn't want to hang one week, I just wished her the best and eventually replaced her. This is why plate spinning is a necessary process for any man wanting to get into an LTR. You have to select your LTR out of your plates and vet her for an extended period of time while she's still a plate. You also need to practice e… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | I want to kill myselfSome things to check for going forward so this won't happen again: Large hands, adams apple, fake tits (I see fake tits on a profile, I immediately double check everything else), lots of makeup. They have to go above and beyond to look feminine, and with so many women making no effort to look feminine it doesn't help differentiate. Any chick that looks like Kim K is one that's got lots of "work" done. Those with the most "work done" are a good chance trying to compensate for not being born a wom… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 10 | Friend got plate pregnant helpGet the test done and consider looking for someone decent to adopt the kid when it's born if she doesn't get an abortion and he can't take care of it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Best 4 day Split for gainzRenaissance Periodization, the RP of fitness. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Hang out with plate with no sex?If you can enjoy her company outside sex, then go ahead. Had the same issue before as well. Nothing bad happened. Just don't do anything you don't want to do. If she's boring, then you can become busy until she is clear to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Weird problem and I don't even know if this is a problemShe's just getting your attention through the phone. Make her meet in person if she wants long conversations where you two can bang as well. If this is a boundary, it's on her to test it and you to enforce it. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:26 PM |
| 10 | I fucked up, need help on rectifying the situation, confessed I like a coworker.She already knew you liked her so it wasn't news to her. Just own it, and move on. Read the sidebar and move on to other women. When she brings it up, just be like "Yeah, well I meant I'd be willing to bang, but I don't know enough to know if I could want more or not but since you're not interested I can just move with my life." Then do exactly that. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 33 | How to game a girl at the church?Veggietales and chill invite for sure. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | How to react when she says no right away when approaching?K, next. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/21 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Father started dating an alpha widow. Can this even end well?He should marry her. He'll either get a bit of that money or at the very least he'll be ready to accept the truth after their divorce. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Caught feelings for a hoe - helpThe cure to oneitis is ALWAYS sourcing and working other leads. Flirt with other women, get numbers, and setup dates. By the time you even get to the 1st date your oneitis should start to clear up. After fucking your first other girl, you should be back to normal. However, some people have some complications when overcoming oneitis and may need to increase the dosage other women in order to fully recover. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:18 PM |
| 1 | GF gave me chlamydia. Completely lost frame for a day."I'm aware, things moved faster than normal" No, things moved too fast. I don't even know if I'm gonna give a plate a longer term positions on the roster after only a month or if I'm gonna drop her and work on getting a different girl to fill the spot. So many guys want to rush into an LTR like they think it's winning the game. It's not. It's choosing to cash in your chips after 1 good hand. I can only imagine you LTRed her so quick and and aren't immediately demoting or dropping her because you… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | LTR very social and going out drinkingHe should never have given her the girlfriend title if she had tendencies he didn't like in a girlfriend. She even flat out told him and he still made her his girlfriend. This is pretty straightforward. Don't keep a ho as your housewife. Demote her or next her, but either way start getting new girls. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 12:15 PM |
| 3 | LTR very social and going out drinkingu/askmrcia said it perfectly | /r/askTRP | 16/04/21 07:51 AM |
| 94 | LTR very social and going out drinkingIf she doesn't act like a girlfriend, don't treat her like one. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | Staying away from crime?I see getting into crime, especially street crime, as the male equivalent of the cock carousel. It may give you a rush and you get some serious short term benefit from it if you aren't dumb enough to get caught early on. However, the wall in this analogy is the inescapable fact that at some point you will fuck up, or someone you deal with fucks up, and you will either go to jail or maybe even die. No long term benefit to it. Crime, especially in a ghetto is easy to turn to. Doing easy shit won't… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Just heard my 11 year old sister sing WAP...She thinks that this is what will make her desirelable to boys or popular among her female friends. Remember that it's all about incentives. Mention in passing how these "role models" of hers are highly unattractive and how you don't see why any guy would want anything to do with them. You try to control her, she'll eventually rebel. If you can help her see how lame these bitches are and how there are certainly better women she should look to emulate, you might just giver her an incentive to not… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Ex asked to talkI don't recommend going through the trash. Lots of women try to set their exes up as backup plans. Point is, she's an ex for a reason, and you can get new plates, why do you need her as one? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Online dating : I want to get to know you before we date, are those girls just time waster ?My response is always, "Messaging is the most boring way to get to know each other. In person is much more fun." This usually comes before getting the number because I mention setting up a date on WhatsApp since I'm barely on Tinder. At this point, if they don't give the number, I consider them a waste of my time and move on. If they double back after giving their number, same answer. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 3 | TRP helped me get laid consistently yet it leaves me unfulfilledThe point isn't to get laid. The point is to get good at getting laid so that you can focus on higher order stuff and not have blue balls while you're trying to focus on it. Bonus points if you can get your plates to do things that support your purpose, even if indirectly by saving you time by cleaning or cooking for you. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 0 | Baby Mamma told me she's been thinking of being a stripper.You can always take the "what about the child?" route women seem to take with great success. Would being a stripper really be something that she wants her daughter to see as an acceptable future since mommy did it? | /r/askMRP | 13/04/21 10:44 PM |
| 15 | Failed a Soft Next on my LTR, she assumed it was a break up.No salvaging it. Learn the lessons and move on. Some of them are: Don't LTR a woman until she's proven a great are over a year at least. This will show you whether she wants you or the relationship and you happening to be the guy she is in one with. It's a common mistake. Just learn from it. Soft nexts are for women who AREN'T your LTR. In any case, a soft next is just withdrawing attention and letting her be the one to do the work to get things back to before. A week of of ignoring about 100 ca… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 04:09 PM |
| 2 | LTR low interest or just secure?Pick up a new hobby or 2 that requires your attention, ideally away from here, and don't talk much about it. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 02:38 PM |
| 3 | LTR says im too dominant?See my other response, but that explains it. She's got bad friends that are trying to sabatoge her happy relationship. They probably aren't even aware of what they're doing either. A good way to address it is if she brings it up again, ask her if she was happy with you X months ago (a time before she met this frenemy) and she'll 100% say yes. Then ask her why she would want to change such a thing. She won't have an answer and you can move on to another topic, or mention in passing that her frien… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 16 | LTR says im too dominant?That's not her hindbrain talking to you when she says shit like that. That's her frontal lobe doing what it's designed to do, betaize the Alpha so that she has more security in keeping you by making you less attractive to women. The hindbrain is what keeps her with you primarily since it's what seeks the alpha traits you display such as dominance. Just know the difference between dominant and domineering in the context of your relationship with her and you'll be fine. My main plate told me more … | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 6 months saying weird shitLet her say all the weird brain vomit she wants. You shouldn't be taking that kind of thing seriously. Wait until the day comes, and most likely her hamster didn't even bother saving that file. As long as you're still the kind of man she wants to fuck, she's going to want to fuck you. You should be Masterfully Amused by such things. Don't take them at face value. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWYou'd better | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 4 | I (25M) switched my tinder preferences to 30-45 and WOWMen only (typically) peak in their 30's because it takes us time to build our value, especially if we aren't doing so deliberately and with RP awareness. Some men can get their fitness, money, and game on point earlier and thus enjoy higher and more prolonged peaks. Some it takes longer and they actually peak (albeit lower than a man in his 30's) with less time to enjoy it. 30's is just the peak of the bell curve for men. However, there is something to be said for the role age plays in a man's v… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 14 | Doesn't female erotica/romance basically confirms TRP theories?Fuckin right? Guys want to just need to be nice and people like him. Women just want a guy who's good for reasons she doesn't even know consciously. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/21 01:14 PM |
| 1 | She still has tinder after saying she deletedSinple. No exclusivity. Also, for the future, check the sidebar for "the talk". It always goes better if you aren't the one to initiate it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Women have a major advantage in the short term but are dealt a shit hand in the long term when it comes to SMV and I kind of feel genuinely bad for them. We guys should be more grateful.I don't get what your question is. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Looking for quick responsesIf she refuses to get her ass up and go inside, leave her where she is and personally I'd drop her. This kind of behavior, even when drunk is likely a sign of more problems. Her job is not your responsibility. Her comfort when she has refused to go inside is not your responsibility. If you setup the expectation that she can get completely wasted and you'll be there to play caretaker for a grown adult, you can expect her to do the shit again since that's what incentive you'll give her. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Getting Worse Results w Women Despite Grinding Hard For 5 Years and Improving Every Aspect of My Life.OLD is harshest against really young guys and older guys unless you run salt daddy game on Seeking. If you're stuck using Tinder and shit, then you might have to consider deleting your current profile and make a new one with a younger age that you can pass for. You probably aren't even showing up in the pile of women that you could get through cold approach because their settings are mostly going to be ages below yours. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Should I stay or go??28 and pretty well setup financially would give you more time to game women from 28 to dead than you could possibly game now until 28. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | What the fuckBecause the hitter they are, the more shit society (particularly beta men) let them get away with. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Nostalgia Hitting HardMake a plan to make your future days as good as possible and so your best to find joy in what you have currently. Gratitude is the best antidote to feeling down that I've found. I just look for stuff that I can be happy about, no matter what. Maybe think about how much your life would suck if you didn't have a source of income, were too sick or crippled to be able to train consistently, or weren't RP aware. Then bring yourself to reality and "realize" how good you really have it. It's really har… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:22 PM |
| 5 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?I think the part most guys get wrong is not becoming the man that can successfully maintain an LTR by being themselves before they actually get in an LTR. Most guys need to internalize A LOT more and get A LOT more experience with women of various types before committing to one. Seems like so many think RP is a way to speed run getting an LTR. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 7 | Does it REALLY get better as you get older?I see another man has read the 4HWW. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Nostalgia Hitting HardI too get extremely nostalgic sometimes so I know how you feel. At the end of the day you gotta realize that those days have already happened, but you still have the power to give yourself even better days ahead provided you do the work. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like there are 10x more guys than girls in dating?Because they aren't selecting all of them. They only go for the top 20%. Still, guys will pursue, especially BP guys, even if they don't have a chance. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Bagging 8/10+ girls on tinder?10s and 99% of 9s aren't on Tinder, they're getting flown around the world to be passed between rich guys or are with the 10 Chad TC. The 9s and 10s you see on there that are on there are only there to source simp followers for Instagram. I've fucked 2 9s, 1 from Tinder and 1 from approach. Generally, the hottest girls are sourced through IRL forms of interaction like cold approach or social circle game. Tinder is fine for getting some fuckable girls that can fill out your roster, but not much e… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | LTR wants to break up because of rare datesSounds like she wants to go out all the time and you don't or can't. Not much reason to stay with her then. At least with multiple plates you get some variety and often don't even need to go out to get it. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like there are 10x more guys than girls in dating?Guys are usually pursuing multiple women in one form or another. Women don't really pursue but select from the pursuers. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | if every girl is a whore, who am i going to start a family with? a whore?Finding a pure unicorn is the Blue Pill lie. Stop swallowing it. Your best security to keep a woman that'st faithful to you is to get good at game and be the best she can get. Then it will come down to picking the girl you like best out of your plates if she's proven herself over time. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Hookup says she only wants to be friendsIf sex isn't on the table, why keep her as plate? I had one do this a while back. She was mediocre in and out of bed so I let her break and got newer and better women. If she says she only wants to be friends, my response would be (and was) "Nah, I'm good." Leave it at that. Then she can always choose to re enter your frame of fuck off. Try not to overcomplicate it. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | LTRYou still need to game them even in LTRs. The thing is, LTRs actually require a bit more beta to work than a ONS or plate. The way I look at to help illustrate it is ONS needs 95%-100% Alpha. Plates need 90 Alpha/10 Beta to maintain them for any long period of time, and LTRs need Anywhere from 80 Alpha/20 Beta to maintain. This is because you are filling the role of both in LTR but Beta is easy to overdue. You can dip into more beta sometimes and be less beta at others, but you don't want to spe… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 2 | LTR - progressing in life, but no intimacyMaybe look into the 12 Levels of Dread over on Married Red Pill | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Crazy chick next door - to bang or not to bangAnother option would be to just bang other chicks next this crazy bitch. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 81 | Plate wants Sex with girlsYou missed a golden opportunity to say, "Sure, invite her over and we'll have some fun." | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Giving girlfriend ultimatum to lose weightI was in a similar situation a while back before TRP ever entered my life. I dated a girl that started gaining weight after about 7 months or so and she didn't see much reason to try to do anything about it. I've been into fitness for a long time. Even back then I realized that her lifestyle and mine did not match. She gave a couple mediocre efforts to exercise, but almost none in terms of diet even though I could have helped her since I knew plenty even then. She didn't take any initiative. I t… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Chicks with boyfriendsThis would seem to be an effect of becoming a higher value man than the one's they are dating. If this bothers you, ask them if they are seeing someone before you have sex with them. If they in fact do have a boyfriend, then it's your call. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 11:49 PM |
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