ENTPgemini Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Would any of the mods be willing to create a Google Drive Folder where all the FDS essential reading could be accessed & read?? It'd be useful to me & I'm sure plenty of other newbies looking to Level Up :) & a link to the folder can be included on this sub's about page.	LEVEL UP	ENTPgemini	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 09:41 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
63	Neurochemical reasons why a woman should not sleep with a man until after he has fallen in love with her, and how to train your brain to fall out of love (hint: block and delete scientifically works!) THANK YOU!!! Reading & taking notes🤓	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 11:57 PM
9	Page 10 of the handbook I'm fascinated by Bahai, I'm glad you posted! :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 07:45 PM
307	Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it. I've had a similar experience. I think men expect women to prioritize a "chance at love," and they want women to display the actions associated with commitment seeking or being in a relationship without having to prioritize the woman; hence all the coy "warnings" up front that they won't be "getting attached" etc. But, if the woman displays the same coolness or indifference towards him being committed it takes the fun out of it & they want to indicate they're worthy of investment from this woman…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 07:37 PM
4	Don't wait for no man to show you the love you deserve. You love you. Let yourself know. LOVE💋!! I needed this reminder, thanks Queen!👸	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/20 07:21 PM
18	A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as Explanation THIS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 12:01 PM
97	Hookup is not worth it ! How many times do we have to tell the truth ? Your feelings are totally valid, but you can't expect someone who is comfortable risking their own health to suddenly be on top of it for your sake. Many women have experienced this sort of thing & ultimately learn to cover the sexual health base up front. Sis, don't try to change him, replace him <3 Wishing you safe & satisfying sexy times ahead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/10/20 11:57 AM
4	A history of ”succesful” longterm relationstips is not a metric of anything THANK YOU so much for sharing this🤗! Unfortunately I related to a few incidence you shared and it's such a valuable message to women to trust their instincts and not to let red flags slide. I needed to hear it, and I'm working on trusting my gut more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 09:18 PM
29	Ugh. And some people really believe this is okay. This is disgusting, would he say this to his daughter?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/05/20 08:42 PM
5	Jackets with the FDS logo, anyone? Oh cool, i'll check that out :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/03/20 10:01 PM
2	If a guy mentions that he has another date that week... There seems to be a consensus that a guy divulging this shows a lack of consideration for his date, but how should a woman approach "plate-spinning"/ dating multiple people which is FDS approved? Should we avoid being clear with men that we are seeing other people? When should we bring up that a commitment from them is necessary for us not to. TBH a post on this would be appreciated. I'm a little lost, pardon me if I'm touching on something that's covered in the handbook, I haven't finished read…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 09:27 PM
10	“ period stuff freaks me out” Disgusting. This is why you shouldn’t get into a fwb situation with a man, some men really don’t deserve sex Oh gotcha, well thanks for sharing the phrase!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 01:59 AM
77	“ period stuff freaks me out” Disgusting. This is why you shouldn’t get into a fwb situation with a man, some men really don’t deserve sex Girl!! If you don't hashtag this somehow, put it on a shirt & sell it imma be so upset. I would absolutely by that merch. We need to normalize the healthy bodily processes of women. I'm not saying that periods need to be announced, but so many girls and young women deal with period shame, rather than appreciating their healthy body. Its sick that we have a culture that produces men so faint and squeamish about periods, who are often voracious consumers of gory movies.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/03/20 12:31 AM
7	Babe The resonance ... sigh😞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/20 05:17 AM
8	Remember, most of the world is pro-FDS Bingo 🎯	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 03:57 PM
5	Don’t apologize unless it was actually your fault Thiiiiiiiis smh. You are not alone girl. I haven't finished reading the FDS handbook yet, but if anyone knows of any other useful resources that touch on cultivating assertiveness for women it would be much appreciated.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/20 03:50 PM
1	Would any of the mods be willing to create a Google Drive Folder where all the FDS essential reading could be accessed & read?? It'd be useful to me & I'm sure plenty of other newbies looking to Level Up :) & a link to the folder can be included on this sub's about page. Oooh ok, got it. Thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 11:05 PM
2	Would any of the mods be willing to create a Google Drive Folder where all the FDS essential reading could be accessed & read?? It'd be useful to me & I'm sure plenty of other newbies looking to Level Up :) & a link to the folder can be included on this sub's about page. Oh no, I got downvoted. I promise I'm not a covert troll guys check my comment history 😢.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 10:45 PM
4	Would any of the mods be willing to create a Google Drive Folder where all the FDS essential reading could be accessed & read?? It'd be useful to me & I'm sure plenty of other newbies looking to Level Up :) & a link to the folder can be included on this sub's about page. Anyone know why my profile is marked a "throwaway account"? Its legit lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 10:06 PM
2	HVM in the wild: breadwinner husband doesn’t mind providing & paying the bills because he appreciates what his wife does for him & how she makes his life easier, despite her having less coin to contribute. Wow, this gave me some renewed hope there are guys who won't be scorekeeping or undermining a women's contribution just b/c she isn't putting 50% towards bills. Women contribute in a myriad of ways, with many of the most valuable being intangible contributions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/02/20 09:25 PM
3	He can cook for himself. I'm certainly not against women being homemakers if that's what they want, but remarks like what's shown in the meme are how some men grow up expecting to have all their creature comforts tended to by a woman while they offer little besides "being the man" which for them just means showing up. Any ideas what one could actually respond to his mother if such a cringe worthy thing was said?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/20 06:51 PM
2	Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVIL I have it, but haven't gotten started reading it yet. I'd say yes based on the premise, knowledgeable woman author, practical tools, and great reviews alone if that helps :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 03:32 PM
3	Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVIL You're exactly right, the fastest way to build addiction is an inconsistent reward as Shan Boodram, the clinical sexologist & author of "The Game of Desire," says. This understanding is why she recommends assigning unique ringtones to your gentleman callers, so you're never wondering "Could that be him?!" before getting to you're phone. You're clear as soon as it rings and you don't get that 'gambling rush'.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/02/20 12:33 AM
3	Music by female artist that is empowering Girl, you gotta check these songs out: "I owe you nothing" by Seynabo Sey, and her song "Shores" as well as "Woman" by Andreya Triana and "Holy" by Jamila Woods. Hope you like them :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 08:38 PM