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| 95 | Divorce Lawyer speaks on Gender 'Equality' in court. | General | EOD_Bad_Karma | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 04:22 PM |
| 28 | Seen this randomly pop up in my news feed. Not Pay-walled. | Marriage/Children | EOD_Bad_Karma | /r/MensRights | 09/05/24 09:43 AM |
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| 57 | Femcel says that men are deprived of love because they are able to live without getting complements regularlyYour mental health would improve if you just ignore people like this. And if everyone ignored people like this, then they would just die out in obscurity. | /r/MensRights | 10/09/24 12:37 AM |
| 41 | I’ve been hearing more about how women aren’t as interested in dating these days, and I’m curious about your thoughts. Do you think it has anything to do with changes in men or maybe the rise of the 50-50 relationship dynamic?These days, women are succeeding more than men in many categories. They go to college more. And with more college, it means they make more money. And since we live in the safest era of human kind, men aren't really needed for protection, you can just buy a glock and learn how to use it. For sex, a woman can just hook up or get toys to keep herself occupied. All the things men were typically needed for 100yrs ago by women are more or less gone. Short of wanting a traditional family with kids, wom… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/09/24 09:41 PM |
| 6 | If you had the chance to be a stay at home dad would you?I'd love to be a house husband. So long as our standard of living didn't change and my wife still loves/respects me the same way. I legitimately don't understand how people view being a house parent as slavery. It's an important role to raise your own children and really, it's not hard. Cleaning isn't fun, sure but it is not hard. Cooking "can" be hard, if you're making complex meals. Most of the time you're not making anything crazy though, so it's pretty easy. Give my gf a 200k/yr job (or bett… | /r/MensRights | 08/09/24 09:22 AM |
| 2 | If hats aren't allowed in the dress code, but makeup on the face is, it should be argued that this is discrimination against men.This... isn't really even on the radar for things to nit pick about. Nothing is stopping a man from choosing to wear make up. Celebrity men wear make up all the time before they go on a live stage in front of people. Is it common for men to wear make up? No. But it is an option. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 01:42 AM |
| 23 | This is a vent on my wife….Oh, I'm aware. Doesn't change my statement at all, however. Why be with a woman who doesn't actually want you or respect you? Or man, if you're into men. Same thing to me. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 01:35 AM |
| 69 | This is a vent on my wife….Not worth staying with a woman like that. I'd rather be single than be with someone who doesn't actually want me or respect me. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/24 01:10 AM |
| 8 | Misandrists on FacebookTypical feminist behavior | /r/MensRights | 05/09/24 07:00 PM |
| 44 | Why do many men lack self worth so much?There are a lot of reasons. But IMO, the biggest reason is that we don't really have a purpose. We have no real direction in life. You're just told to go "be a man" in the most vaguest sense possible. Meanwhile, women get talked up and put on pedestals their entire lives, men get stepped on in society, are told they are disposable their entire lives and we have to somehow figure out what "being a man" means as adults. It used to be that a boy would go out, get a job, make enough to support a fam… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Why is there HEAVIER emphasis on respecting women more than men?A simple rule that helps you get by in life: "Don't listen to idiots," Once someone proves to you that they are stupid about something, like putting all women on a pedestal and men, should all be killed? Naw, whatever else they have to say at that time is ignorance. Maybe they start decoding the stock market and what it will do tomorrow exactly. It doesn't matter to me, I stopped listening once they started spouting nonsense. Try again later, maybe tomorrow. It makes life much easier. Respect sh… | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 07:34 PM |
| 10 | UK: Socialite Alexandra Tolstoy reveals her daughter, 11, almost drowned in riptide in Cornwall whilst grown men blankly watched me hysterically screaming for help. OP: A lot of male hate here.Love it when they suddenly NEED a man when they themselves don't want to put themselves in danger for their own children. "Ma'am, that's your child, your responsibility. I am not sacrificing myself for your sake." | /r/MensRights | 03/09/24 06:16 AM |
| 21 | Divorce Lawyer speaks on Gender 'Equality' in court.Personal opinion, and I've been saying this since my last divorce 14yrs ago. Where she literally left the country because she would have had to pay me alimony. Outside of a religious belief? There is basically zero benefit to a man getting married. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Yes. All $40k/month definitely gonna be spent on the child 🤡. Fellas, choose your partner wisely if you are gonna put that ring.Yeah, this is how I would be myself. That said, I know everyone's wants and needs are different. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/24 04:52 AM |
| 13 | Yes. All $40k/month definitely gonna be spent on the child 🤡. Fellas, choose your partner wisely if you are gonna put that ring.What I don't understand is; If he can afford 40k a month in child support, why doesn't he just keep the kids? It would be cheaper to just hire a group of 24/7 nannies to take care of the kids when he's not around. | /r/MensRights | 31/08/24 03:01 PM |
| 15 | Progressive spaces shit on lonely men.People in general are idiots. And the internet is mostly unhappy people. People busy enjoying life, aren't on the internet. So, ignore the idiots. | /r/MensRights | 28/08/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreDate women long term. Never get married. You don't need to be married to be committed to someone. If you live in a state with common law marriage, move. Or just don't live with them. | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreTo each their own really. Your body count thing is a preference, and that's perfectly fine. My body count is astronomical, so I try not to be a hypocrite. That said, I have met women who make me arch an eyebrow when they tell me their body count and it is unattractive. End of the day though, I care less about body count than how a woman treats me. If she treats me well, is loyal and I get the sex I want? I'm generally happy with that. Thing is, though, I also know that high body counts in women … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I overcome my fear of optimising my SMV?Looks will get a man. It's everything else that will make him stay. Your BMI sounds high to me, but I'm also very athletic and date women who maintain a similar lifestyle. So I am very biased in this specific category. Many men would likely find you fine. That said, if you want long-term commitment and a family, getting in the door is only the first step. What do you want from a man? What can you offer a man? If you can clearly answer those two things and they are even remotely equitable, then y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/08/24 01:55 PM |
| 4 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreLike I said man. If a woman doesn't make your life better, why do you want them at all? I've been to 22 different countries. Modern western women overall have massive ego's and do not treat men well in general. When I was in Thailand, Greece, or in many places in Europe? Women I barely knew, were making me feel like I should move there right away. Treated like a king even though they knew I was only there for a short while. Maybe it was just due to being there a short while itself. But little by… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreMy statement is correct in terms of dating, specifically. Society absolutely needs men. The entire world would collapse if men just magically disappeared. Infrastructure is dominated by approximately 95% men. This percentage will vary slightly by specific jobs. Power grid systems? Also 95% men. Take away men and within 3 days, there would be no power in most of the 1st world country. That is not to say, there are zero women who could live in the boonies with a shotgun. And I have zero clue what … | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:33 PM |
| 8 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreMore or less yes to all of that. I don't need a woman at all. I can cook better than most women I've dated. I keep my own house clean, and I do my own laundry. My dog keeps me company. And if I want sex, that's easy to get. Unless a woman makes my life better? There is zero reason for me to date her past the first few interview dates." I'm no "chad" either. I'm a 5'7 guy who is successful and takes care of himself. That's all men need to do in general, be successful, be interesting, and take car… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 01:00 PM |
| 29 | This is a big reason relationships are failing and people aren’t getting married anymoreThe big problem, in my opinion, is that women always want to date up. Women have been succeeding in the workforce and don't actually need men to protect or provide for them. They can get a glock to protect themselves, and they make as much if not more money than men do. However, they still want a man to be traditional when it comes to dating and relationships. They want a man to pay for everything and take a bullet for them should the need arise. So, if a woman is making 100k a year, she wants h… | /r/MensRights | 27/08/24 12:01 PM |
| 45 | Radio personality gets emotional while reading open letter to men by his female co-hostOh man... This is where you breathe in deep and go "Well, anyway..." and move onto something that you actually care about and can affect. | /r/MensRights | 26/08/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | In a dilemmaSome people (both men and women) are just terrified of being alone. Even if they aren't mentally or emotionally ready for relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/24 05:53 PM |
| 6 | In a dilemmaThis sounds like you need therapy and to be single for a while. First, why be with someone you aren't happy with. Second, why are you suddenly annoyed all the time? Third, you bought a ring, that's kind of a good sign. And then you regret it immensely after. Any of those reasons alone are enough to break up. Why are you trying to force yourself when you are clearly unhappy? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/24 07:35 AM |
| 2 | How bad are dating options after 30? Should I hurry now?The main drawback of trying to start a family in your 30s is fertility. At 35 women become medically high risk pregnancies. And their fertility rate drops dramatically compared to their 20's. At 40, most women are at about 1% of what they were at their prime. Do some women still have kids in their 40's? Yes, but they are the exception, not the norm. If you start dating at 30, let's assume you date a man for 2 years before you decide "this is the one" to have kids with. Well, now you'll be close … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | HelpI personally hate being offered something and then having it taken away. But neither of you sound happy here. So, why did you get married again? Either try to fix this or divorce and move on. God as a priority is fine, but it doesn't sound like either of you are making each other a priority in life. And that never works either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/08/24 07:13 AM |
| 4 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MHappens if you have female friends and they like you. Also assumes they have female friends as well, some don't. That said, sure I've had women suggested I don't find attractive but I've also had attractive ones sent my way. Some worked out, some haven't. Your social circle will help you in life with dating and things other than dating as well. | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 01:43 PM |
| 17 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MWhen dating apps first came out, it was the express train to get laid. I was exclusively doing cold approach before tinder and even after but tinder changed the game. I would use tinder and get laid that night or at worst, that weekend. Between deployments and seeing someone exclusive I stopped using tinder for a long time. Tried again in 2018 or so, got a few matches met someone I dated exclusively for a few years. Tried again after in 2020, zero luck, went back to cold approaching in person ag… | /r/seduction | 21/08/24 11:23 AM |
| 34 | Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteedWell, you're answering your own question in your own post. You weren't particularly funny or interesting. Just barely interesting enough to get a number. And you're crying because these women will date someone they know but not you, despite being a "better looking, funnier guy?" Better looking and funnier in your opinion. You don't set your value in the dating market. Your target audience does. Just like any market. If no one is willing to buy your service or product, it's worthless. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 08:30 AM |
| 12 | Why are girls attracted to intelligence?Why wouldn't they be? Women are attracted to a lot of positive aspects. Looks will get you into bed, but everything else will keep them wanting you beyond just that. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 08:11 AM |
| 1 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..Single mom's, especially in their 30's+ are the easiest to get. Good job though. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 08:02 PM |
| 2 | I went into a feminist sub and asked about a pay gap. Here are the dumbest and funniest responses I gotI did chuckle. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 02:27 PM |
| 4 | I went into a feminist sub and asked about a pay gap. Here are the dumbest and funniest responses I gotDo, one of them referenced Claudia Goldin, who is an economist that won the Nobel prize for diving into the whole wage gap issue. A female economist won the Nobel prize for effectively disproving that a wage gap exists. That said, it’s been disproven time and time again. What tends to happen, is they will group job sets together, such as “women in the medical field” vs “men in the medical field” and then they will compare yearly salaries from both sides then go “see? The men make more!” But what… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/24 01:04 AM |
| 5 | How tall do you think these men are? Women now using AI to catch men lying about being 6ft tall on dating appsMore, actually. Less than 20% of men worldwide are over 6' tall. In America I believe the figure is roughly 14% of men being over 6' or maybe 17%. And then add onto the fact they want men who make six figures and that total drops down to under 3% of the male population. And then halve that because half of those men are married. And then even less than that because they also don't want to be with a fat man (and obesity in America is crazy high by percentage for both men and women). So, their actu… | /r/MensRights | 15/08/24 11:04 PM |
| 1 | 50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrongCold approach is hard. Minor thing that might help: 1 - do not directly approach a woman. And especially do not approach her from the rear. First case is you set off a defensive reaction, in the second case, you set off a fear reaction. Try approaching from a forward angle where you can be seen but not be seen as aggressive. 2 - Practice smiling and opening in a mirror. Or record yourself on video so you can see what you look like and sound like. 3 - Out of 100 approaches, at my best, I might ge… | /r/seduction | 14/08/24 10:07 AM |
| 5 | Do you think consent and SA should be taught to young people in a gender-neutral format?The fact that it even has to be said, is ridiculous to me. | /r/MensRights | 14/08/24 09:23 AM |
| 3 | How important is physical attractionEnd of the day. You like what you like. If you don't like him, then there's no point in continuing. Any man would prefer being with a woman who is head over heels him, than merely being "ok" with him. So, don't just "settle" for him, for both your sakes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/08/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Am I the problem?If he wants a prenup made, it should be a “yours. Mine. Ours” prenup. Where you would each keep the things you’ve had before marriage separated. But anything AFTER marriage, would be a joint thing. Yes, he’s earning the money but you would literally be raising his kids and doing your duty as a housewife. That’s the entire point. If he can’t accept that? Move on imo. Find a better man. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 07:34 PM |
| -5 | Why 80% of Women Only Date 20% of Men..Yes. I am. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 06:27 PM |
| -8 | Why 80% of Women Only Date 20% of Men..Back when tinder first came out? I could swipe right a few times and get laid either that night or that weekend. These days? I don’t think I’ve had a match with any “woman” that isn’t a bot or someone fishing for OF subscribers. That said? I just meet women in person and have a very high chance of success that way. Looks are key for OLD’ing. In person? There’s a whole lot more involved and your looks do matter to a degree but “the total package” matters more. Basic rules of trying to meet women:… | /r/MensRights | 06/08/24 05:58 PM |
| 9 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?Women lie about what they want all the time. They’ll say they want “dad bods” but what they’ll actually go for are the gym bros or male strippers because they are hot. What they will actually mean, is they want to find the guy who is fit and sexy, then turn them into a dad bod so they stay with them long term. If you want women to be more often than not physically attracted to you? Get in the gym and get into shape. That doesn’t mean become a body builder, but the vast majority of women enjoy a … | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 01:23 AM |
| 31 | When divorce payouts favour a man, it’s a problem according to media.Wage gap has been disproven a few times now. When you take into account that women take more time off, work less hours in general, more part time, they get paid the same for the same work done. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 08:45 PM |
| 93 | When divorce payouts favour a man, it’s a problem according to media.Well, given that colleges are roughly 60% female enrollment and almost 70% female graduations, eventually, women will be making more money than men on average. In theory, divorce alimony payouts will start to shift more and more from women to men. And if you ask me? Good. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/24 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel when women are interviewed about their ideal date and the first thing that comes out of their mouths is a six-figure income? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 05:28 AM |
| 9 | How do you feel when women are interviewed about their ideal date and the first thing that comes out of their mouths is a six-figure income? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/24 02:04 AM |
| 6 | What the actual fuck guys? You ever seen this before? Are we nuts?No one has banned me for simply existing on this sub, yet. Wonder when it will happen. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | I have absolutely nothing to get choosing signals from women. What must I do to get women?Maximize your looks. Make more than enough money to support yourself. Just don’t throw it around to try and impress anyone. Get comfortable talking to anyone, anywhere about most anything. Set goals that you actually care about in life and aim for them. Start going places where you can socialize and make friends/connections. Be fun and interesting. Being short sucks, but it’s far from the “deal breaker” everyone likes to preach it is. | /r/seduction | 01/08/24 02:02 PM |
| 10 | I will not risk my life for a stranger.Expecting a random stranger to sacrifice themselves for your sake is entitlement. Don’t buy in. If your loved one is in danger? Go all out. For some random person? Doesn’t matter if it’s a man or woman. Naw, not my problem. I MIGHT go help them out after the danger is over, maybe, if I FEEL like it. No one is entitled to you risking your life for theirs. You can CHOOSE who you do that for. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/24 01:56 PM |
| 5 | I built a comprehensive resource hub dedicated to supporting Men.Nice. We need more stuff like this. Maybe a website to bring together all the social and psychological studies showing how men are in trouble. And how women aren’t as innocent as they love to be portrayed. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/24 09:59 PM |
| 8 | 1000s of women rally to stop a documentary showcasing systematic discrimination against black men.Bingo. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/24 06:10 AM |
| 16 | For women, every 60 seconds, a minute passes… and men have problems?What the hell did I just read? | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | For guys in the early to mid 30's, how has dating changed in the last 10-12 years? Good and badPersonal opinion as a 40yr old. Cold approaching today seems easier than it was 10yrs ago. If you do it right. I get basically 0 play on dating apps these days. When they first came out? I’d get laid basically every week if I wanted. Sometimes the same night/day. Today, women don’t expect men to cold approach. And as long as you don’t come off as a creep when you do it, they tend to be happy/flattered when it’s all said and done. I’m no Chad either btw, otherwise I could just get women on dating… | /r/seduction | 27/07/24 10:12 AM |
| -1 | Blackpill, redpill, and manosphere get dogpiled heavily by the masses only because they offer support to straight menSome people want “a thing” to point and blame all their problems on. Thats what the blackpill gives them. Rather than improving themselves, which takes work. They rather take the easy way and blame society for their lack of success. Thats what the black pill does. It gives men this idea that if you’re not born genetically gifted and into a wealthy family, you’ll never get the things you want. I’ve got pretty much every genetic deficiency the black pill loves to say is “doomed to fail”. Short, ba… | /r/MensRights | 27/07/24 01:04 AM |
| -9 | Blackpill, redpill, and manosphere get dogpiled heavily by the masses only because they offer support to straight menYou basically just typed out what I did, and you think my statement is bad faith? 🤣 Black pill talk is just absurd trash. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 02:45 PM |
| -9 | Blackpill, redpill, and manosphere get dogpiled heavily by the masses only because they offer support to straight menThe black pill view is nonsense overall. To summarize black pill BS? “If you’re not, in the top 10% of looks, 6’+ tall, make 6 or 7 figures a year, and have a 6+” dick AND 6 pack abs? You have absolutely no chance at getting a girlfriend or a wife, ever. You’re a loser and there’s nothing you can do about it.” Absolutely garbage. Red pill stuff, at least leans into evolutionary psychology and talks A LOT about self improvement for men. Sometimes yes, it can be toxic. But most of it is not. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 02:41 PM |
| -1 | Blackpill, redpill, and manosphere get dogpiled heavily by the masses only because they offer support to straight menTo be fair, blackpill stuff is just pure nonsense. Redpill stuff is alright by sometimes goes too far in the whole “woman bad” scheme of things. That said, people think because men want more social support, we’re saying “take it away from women”. Or they just don’t care about men getting support at all and would rather see more men homeless on the street so they can turn their noses up at them. | /r/MensRights | 26/07/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | 5 years ago, it was easier IMODoesn’t really feel like things are harder in person for me. If anything in person game is easier today than it was 10yrs ago. But about the same as it was right before Covid. When tinder first came out? It was like an instant hook-up app. Nowadays? Zero action on tinder. So I stick to in person. | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 10 | I need resources for a man who’s leaving an abusive relationshipJesus Christ. That is just insanity. And I sadly have zero information to offer. Just my condolences. | /r/MensRights | 24/07/24 08:59 AM |
| 17 | Thoughts on the 4b movement: a social movement in Korea Its proponents refuse to date men, get married, have sex with men, or have children.Great. Women who take themselves out of the dating pool because they are insufferable? Amazing. Bravo. This to me? Is a great thing. I want a woman who wants me. And if I meet one who doesn’t? Cool, moving on. Think about it. If only women who actually want men keep having kids, maybe the insufferable gene’s will eventually die out. | /r/MensRights | 22/07/24 06:40 AM |
| 58 | You really can’t make this up😂😂😂 (scroll to the end)Just ignore stupid people. You’ll live a happier life that way. | /r/MensRights | 21/07/24 05:34 PM |
| 4 | How to approach guys?Just exist close to a man you’re interested in and don’t be fat (ugly). Smile at him and chances are he will approach you. Or, just walk up to a guy and say “hey, you’re cute, want to go out sometime?” It’s that easy. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Are polygamy laws outdated?No, I get it. And I did what I could. Veteran, so, used USAA. Appreciate it though man | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Are polygamy laws outdated?Oh yeah, I did what I could. | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 10:15 PM |
| 15 | So let me get this straight, men are obligated to put themselves at risk for random people?Meh, I ignore idiots daily. This is just another group of them. No one is entitled to you sacrificing yourself on their behalf. If you don’t want to? Then don’t. End of story. Some random woman (or anyone) I don’t know getting robbed in front of me? I’ll call 9-1-1 and walk away. That’s some stranger, could be a trap, or I could get hurt trying to stop it, not my problem. Now, if it’s someone I know and care about (cause I’d probably just walk away if it’s someone I hate), sure, I’ll get involve… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Are polygamy laws outdated?I haven’t, but to be fair, I am very blunt with my girlfriends. “I like sex, and I need it. If you don’t want it here and there, fine. But you say no long enough, and I will get it elsewhere.” It’s not a threat or manipulation tactic, it’s being absolutely clear on what you expect out of a relationship from the get go. Being told “no” to sex once in a while isn’t a big deal. Hell, for me, a period is basically “no sex for a few days” unless it’s really light. But, if my gf’s tried to sex starve … | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Are polygamy laws outdated?At one point, I had 4 girlfriends. 2 lived with me. The ones who live with me are bisexual and enjoy other women as much as men. The other 2 who did not live with me? One wanted me exclusively for years and I was fun to be around. We lasted for a while but eventually she left and went with someone who also wanted monogamy, I have zero negative things to say about her, but she wanted something I could not give her (monogamy). She was by all accounts, however, a great woman. The other, turned out … | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 08:50 AM |
| 5 | Are polygamy laws outdated?I wish I was a rich ass CEO. I'm an electrical engineer but I do very well for myself because I've been investing in myself for about 17yrs now (I am 40yrs old). I've done a bit of studying in historical contexts with dating, and there's always been a portion of men (and women but focusing on men because this is a MRA sub) that never manage to procreate or find a permanent partner. Generally speaking, I am not a super attractive guy. I am 5'7 and if anything, most people think I'm some kind of m… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Are polygamy laws outdated?As a guy with multiple girlfriends living with him, it's never been an issue for me. I wouldn't marry anyways because I have too much to lose if I got divorced. Being polyamorous is actually somewhat of a defense, because even though my state does not have 'common law marriage', if any of my girlfriends tried to go that route, they'd have to somehow prove that our relationship was exclusive enough to constitute a legal 'marriage'. So, for guys like me, the current set of laws for poly relationsh… | /r/MensRights | 17/07/24 06:46 AM |
| 5 | My wife spends all my hard earned money and I'm left with nothingThis is why you don’t get married, men. And avoid living in states with common law marriage. If you’re outside the U.S., look at your own local laws on common law marriage and adjust accordingly. You should be with someone you love and can trust. However, you also need to understand and prepare for them changing once time passes. Even you as a man can change, but stick to your word until they make it impossible to. | /r/MensRights | 11/07/24 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you seen the Barbie Movie?I think it’s a matter of perspective on whether or not the movie was a “mistake”. If I turned my brain off, I thoroughly enjoyed the movie. Had to watch it twice to enjoy it the second time. The first watch through however, I basically had to break out a notepad and pen to take down notes. Because the movie could be portrayed as a “men’s rights activist” movie, showcasing how men get pushed aside in society. Especially when women are in charge. Or, it could be seen as “the extreme on either side… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/24 04:59 AM |
| 25 | Why is the average women much (!) more delusional about her market value, compared to the average man?1 - Generally speaking, men have always sought out women. With the invention of the internet, average woman can hook up with above average men. Which makes them believe that is their “fair market value” in terms of dating. They don’t realize, that hooking up is not dating. Men will fuck just about anything. But they will only date what they want. Women tend to think “oh, I slept with <so and so that is an 8+> so that means I deserve to date/marry an 8+ man.” They don’t realize the complete delus… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/24 09:40 PM |
| 13 | Have any of you seen the Barbie Movie?I saw the movie and my take was as follows: It’s a called “the Barbie movie”. So, obviously Ken is going to be a side character. But, it went so far off in the extreme that it might as well be a “men’s rights activist” movie. Ken’s are so disrespected in “Barbie land” that the Barbie’s don’t even know where they all live. They’re all basically homeless and/or invisible. The “main ken” was literally made and designed to be with Barbie. But, he is not what she wants and is never “good enough”. It’… | /r/MensRights | 07/07/24 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Woman has a complete meltdown after church "celebrates men" for Father's Day/Men's Mental Health Month—ie, something wasn't all about herLife’s too short to waste energy on morons. The more you ignore stupid people, the better your life is. | /r/MensRights | 05/07/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | I went to red pill women page and they blocked me after they blocked me the moderator responded to me that redpill women like sexism and cheer double standards.Feel how you want to feel. Doesn’t change how I live or how it’s worked for me. Some women, WANT to stay home, cook, clean and raise children. And I’m perfectly happy with those kind of women. Thats the beauty of choice. Don’t want it? Don’t do it. | /r/MensRights | 04/07/24 03:45 AM |
| -2 | I went to red pill women page and they blocked me after they blocked me the moderator responded to me that redpill women like sexism and cheer double standards.Sounds like someplace I want to be. What’s their page? Men and women are different. I have absolutely no issue with men being in control of a household if the woman submits to his authority. It’s how I keep my current relationship. I provide, protect and mentor. She does her part and makes my house a home. Works great for me. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 04:42 PM |
| 12 | Merely stating facts is now considered “incelly”Incel doesn’t even have any weight for an insult anymore. It’s used to label basically anyone who someone doesn’t agree with, which is hilarious since you can easily prove they have zero thoughts with a few simple questions. Ignore stupid people. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 3 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.As long as you’re willing to take the risk and keep trying if you fail. You can always improve. My first business was set up to sign the lease for the building the week that Covid lockdowns happened. I had a storage unit just full of equipment ready to be moved in and started working on a “Micro Greens” business where I had already spoken to a few restaurants and local co-ops with fresh greens in a few months. Business failed before I even opened due to reasons outside of my control. Second one,… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 09:16 PM |
| 3 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.I didn’t have a degree until about 6 months ago. I was making six figures before that. Working with my hands mostly, doing industrial maintenance. Think large generators and hvac systems. AI is going to kill a lot of jobs, but some things it won’t be able to kill for a long time still is maintenance and engineering (at least, I’m hoping not. Fuck if I know what happens in the next 5-10yrs, that’s why I bought nvidia stock). | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 06:39 PM |
| 4 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.Lawl, nice. Semper fi man. Hard to catch it online via text. Always check for tertiaries. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 3 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.It’s all just work man. I’m a 5, maybe 6 on a regular basis. 5’7 and I dress like a mechanic (or a bum as some of my female friends have told me). Getting a date is easy, finding a quality woman, is not. Work on your social skills, get your finances in order and keep yourself in the best shape you can maintain (getting a 6 pack is grueling, but it’s also grueling trying to keep it). It will come if you work hard enough for it. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 06:13 PM |
| 5 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.Legs feel that way because of nerve damage up and down my spine & legs from war time injuries as a bomb squad team leader. I’ll look into box sweeps though. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 05:29 PM |
| 20 | How are you guys? I feel like someone should check in.I thought my life peaked when I was roughly 29-30. I’m now 40, have had two businesses started and failed. Got a degree in electrical engineering and my life feels like it’s reached a new peak. I’m doing fairly fantastic overall. No bad debts, making in the top 6-7% in the U.S. for income, many close friends, multiple girlfriends. Being disabled kinda sucks but I’ve gotten used to that by now, minus the whole “legs feel like they’re on fire from the inside sometimes” portion. Just constantly wor… | /r/MensRights | 13/06/24 04:00 PM |
| 10 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.I don’t listen to stupid people. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 10 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.What part of, “I would pick the bear too” don’t you understand man? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 01:06 PM |
| 13 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.The whole “scenario” is stupid to begin with. It’s not a survival question at all. It’s a pointed question of women’s trust of men vs a wild animal. All it showcases, are feminists stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 12:48 PM |
| 15 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.Because most women are in fact, useless in the woods. Most people, to be fair, would be useless in the woods, but more so women than men in this exact scenario. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 12:36 PM |
| 8 | Man vs. Bear is a divisive talking point and it just hit me in a vulnerable place.Don’t listen to stupid people. If I had to choose between being stuck with a woman or a bear in the woods? I’d pick the bear too, because most women would be useless in the woods. Just dead weight. They’d play the victim and expect me to keep them fed and alive. Then if we did get out, she’d claim to be the hero of the story while literally carrying me on her back the entire way. Maybe even sprinkle in an accusation of SA for flavor. Meanwhile, the bear is going to go purely off natural instinct… | /r/MensRights | 12/06/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Why is majority of self-improvement content, if not all, targeted merely at men? I thought we men were privileged pandered-to creatures, why have I never seen any dating or self-improvement content aimed at women?Women don’t want to self improve. That’s fine, let them think just existing is enough. Let them fall to the wayside. Men, have to improve if they want to get better in life. If they don’t? Fine, let them fall to the wayside. Every game has winners and losers. And life is just one big game. It’s hard to live well, but if you can do it, generally speaking, you have the choices to take what you want within the means you create. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Do you support paternity test being mandatory at birth?Yes. | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Counterpoint to Man or Bear QuestionSome women are trash. Some men are trash. I don’t listen to either. Women who legitimately believe they’d rather be stuck with a bear? Good, let them. I too, would rather pick a bear than a woman. Because the woman would likely be useless in the woods, expect me to protect and feed her. Then if we survive, she’d likely try to spin the story as if she did all the work, was the hero of the situation and had to carry me on her back the entire time. The bear? I’ll either befriend or it’ll eat me. At… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/24 03:45 PM |
| 9 | How can I as a woman be a good friend?There is no cheat code to getting into someone’s head when they’ve built up walls. Be there, be open and engage. Be kind and if you can, bring joy, make things fun for the two of you. If you’re not looking for a relationship with him though, this will probably be a very fine razors edge to walk without making him want you as such. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/24 05:15 AM |
| 11 | Men should date older womenFlip this around and women would be SCREAMING that the older man is a predator and a pedophile. My gf is 21yrs younger than I and I just roll my eyes at the nonsense and hypocrisy. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather share your feelings with dogs or womanI have a dog and I have two girlfriends. I can share my feelings with any of them. But my dog vs some stranger? My dog each time. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/24 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How handle being called out for participating on this sub?“What is your point? Do you think men have no issues that deserve attention?” | /r/MensRights | 02/06/24 08:08 AM |
| 7 | Women aren’t talking to men because of “poor conversations skills”Just as a counter point. Anything’s value is determined by the buyer. This goes for almost anything; Real estate, cars and including men & women. If you think you’re worth X and no one is willing to give you what you think you’re worth, then you’re not worth that X amount. Many women are delusional thinking they are 10s when they’re 5s at best. Same goes for men. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/24 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Gendered ViolenceLet’s be real guys. If I had to choose between being stuck with a woman or a bear in the woods? I’ll also pick a bear. A bear is either going to be cool, or not and I’m dead. Pretty straight forward. The woman, is more likely than not, going to absolutely useless in the woods and expect me to protect her and feed her. Now, this is zero issues if this is a woman I know and love. But for rando stranger? Naw, fuck that. Assuming we survive, she’ll probably even try to sell the story like she saved … | /r/MensRights | 31/05/24 12:19 AM |
| 50 | USA: Married female teacher, 33, is jailed for 13 years after having sex with male student, 17.Many states have clauses along the lines of: - Two participants must be within X years of each other if one person is under 18. - The older individual can not be in a position of power over the student: Cops, Politicians, Teachers etc | /r/MensRights | 20/05/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Honest question… What went wrong between 2015 and now?Dating apps came into play in 2012. At first? It was just a hook up app. And it worked for everyone. Over time, other apps came out and the numbers skewed hard in favor of women. So, the women got pickier and feminism told them to go even harder. | /r/MensRights | 19/05/24 04:15 AM |
| 4 | Honest advice:Be careful about women that have no desire to cultivate male friendships and acquaintances(especially outside of romantic contexts).So, while I somewhat agree with this statement. There are also plenty of men who fuck up the whole prospect of men and women being friends. I’ve had many female friends, who try to make male friends. And almost all those “male friends” just want to get into their pants. Annoyingly so. Which drives a huge wedge into the whole thing. And after a while, almost all of them have given up on having made friends. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/24 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Just a reminder that women don't love men. They love moneyThis is incel logic to cope at how you have nothing to offer women but your wallet. And I bet even that is not impressive. I’ve dated women while I was flat broke and when I’m uber successful. Women love men who make them feel safe and loved. Are some women shitty? Absolutely. Just like there are shitty men as well. | /r/MensRights | 13/05/24 04:37 PM |
| 14 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?I’ve said it before: If someone asked me to choose between the bear and the woman, I too, would pick the bear. I’m either going to befriend the bear, or it’s going to kill me. Very little in between. And assuming I befriend it, I’ll be riding that thing like Putin. The odds are high that the woman would be completely dead weight and would expect me to protect them and feed them. No thanks. I rather live or die alone. | /r/MensRights | 11/05/24 09:14 PM |
| 0 | Protecting Men in Marriage - Prenups?Oh yeah, that’s only a thing in about 7 states in the U.S. They vary on time and such as well. Usually, living together is a requirement. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Protecting Men in Marriage - Prenups?If that’s true, that’s insane. Guess I’ll stick to being polyamorous then. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Protecting Men in Marriage - Prenups?What’s better than a prenup? Not getting married. And if you do have to get married? Even with a prenup, do it someplace like Texas with built-in prenuptial agreements. Or a place where divorce doesn’t exist, but good luck there. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 01:17 PM |
| 5 | My girlfriend would choose the bearFind a new woman who has more than a single brain cell. | /r/MensRights | 07/05/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Women would prefer to stay with a bear than a man…Y’all need to learn to ignore stupid shit online. If this is upsetting you, then you’re proving women that men can’t control their own emotions. Is all this shit dumb? Absolutely. Even more reason to roll your eyes and keep moving. The people who truly believe this garbage, probably don’t have two brain cells to rub together, don’t try to understand them or try to change their minds, it will only make you weaker. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/24 03:28 AM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on the red pill?I listen to red pill content sometimes. Makes me chuckle because a lot of what they say are things I was saying when I was 25, roughly 15yrs ago. It can go too far though. No, you don’t have to be a Chad 6’5 fitness guru that makes six figures to find a girlfriend. I’m a 5’7 dude and the only time I’ve ever had a “problem” getting a girlfriend was either during a deployment or during the pandemic. Black pill content is just fucking dumb. | /r/MensRights | 29/04/24 01:47 PM |
| 7 | 93% of all homeless people in Japan are male.There is actually a decently large population of homeless people in Japan. Probably saw close to 50 in a single night when I was in Tokyo. Nowhere near the numbers of places like, San Francisco. But they are more numerous than you’d imagine. | /r/MensRights | 28/04/24 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Woman I Work With Does Not Let Men Hild Open door For HerJust ignore her. If you guys see her coming, let the door close behind you. The end. Move on with your life. | /r/MensRights | 26/04/24 02:46 PM |
| 3 | What real leverage does a guy have in modern relationships?If you’re a man, you have yourself and only yourself to rely on in basically every case. If a woman leaves you? Good. You’re free to do whatever you want. Want to stay put? Stay put. Want to move cities? Pack up your shit and go. It’s much easier to change your life when no one else is relying on you. If you want a support structure? Make friends. That’s about the best you’ll get. | /r/MensRights | 23/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 50 | 45% of women single and childless by 2030Meh, let em be. If they don’t want men, that’s fine. Chances are, you don’t want the kind of woman that doesn’t want you either. Go find someone who wants you. Might even have to move to a different state, city or in extreme cases, country. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 03:24 AM |
| 6 | Why is a it a problem when Men know their worth?I’ll be the first to say: Plenty of women are not worth whatever their inflated ego think they are worth. Likewise, plenty of men are not worth much either. People love to say everyone is priceless. I just translate priceless to worthless since most people have nothing to show for their life’s existence and something as simple as a trip in the shower can end it all instantly. | /r/MensRights | 22/04/24 02:13 AM |
| 4 | Idk if this is the right place to put this so if it’s not I apologize but this recent thing with “would you rather be in the woods with a man or bear?”is near sickening to meGet off the internet. Stop letting stupid bullshit affect you. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/24 03:35 AM |
| 2 | Women are using incel as a catch-all term for men they disagree with. Have you noticed this?There is always some “catch-all” insult in every decade. This decade seems to be “incel”. Learn to ignore stupid insults. Blanket insults work on weak minds. If it isn’t specific to you, it should have no effect. By getting insulted, you give them the power and control. And if it is specific to you, learn to control your emotions so you don’t make it obvious you’re actually insulted. | /r/MensRights | 16/04/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Blatant Misandry in Street Interview - Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a bear or a man?I generally ignore when people say dumb shit. Every now and then, I’m bored and dumb enough to listen. And then eventually, I regret doing so. You’ll be happier in life ignoring stupidity. | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 09:40 AM |
| 6 | Blatant Misandry in Street Interview - Would you rather be stuck in a forest with a bear or a man?Some guys think they can fight a bear with their bare hands and win. Some women, think being alone with a bear in the woods is a better idea than being in the woods with a man. Just a lot of stupid out there. Let them all try fighting or being with a bear and figure out the harsh reality. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 7 | Why do I have to raise the other man's kidEither don’t date single moms. Or, don’t bitch about marrying one. Did you expect to marry a woman with a kid and NOT have to pay for things for the kid too? If that’s what you thought, you’re delusional and deserve whatever you get. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 08:21 PM |
| 16 | Rant: Wife claims husband only pays 1/3 of all the expenses in the household and she pays 2/3This is why you don’t date single mothers. | /r/MensRights | 10/04/24 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Feminists are starting a gender war by not having children or marrying, so why cant we as well?I mean, cool? Let them be single moms if that’s what makes them happy. You don’t like them? Don’t date them. Problem solved. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadaysIt’s really just a simple math problem: If 80% of all engineering degrees (mechanical or electrical specifically) go to men, then that means, 80% of all EE or ME’s are male. If you’re looking for highly qualified engineers, odds are, they’re a man. If you absolutely have to hire a woman, chances are, you’re hiring someone less qualified because the pool to hire from is literally smaller. Are there extremely qualified female engineers? Absolutely. But on a sheer numbers scale, you’re going to hav… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadaysI saw an article about a male soldier in some other country changing his gender to “female” so he could cash in on all the benefits and faster promotions etc. South Park made a video about some pro body builder transitioning as a woman and joining a “strong woman” competition and then crushing everything. It has made me consider changing my gender on job applications just to become the “gold star” diversity hire candidate: Disabled? Check Veteran? Check Minority? Check. Person of color? Check Fe… | /r/MensRights | 28/03/24 04:41 AM |
| 6 | Why does it seem like every girl I’ve ever dated is trying to compete with me?Both my girlfriends like to test me from time to time. Intellectually and physically. Sometimes, you just have to remember that they WANT to be put in their place. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/24 02:05 AM |
| 8 | When you just wanted to watch some hiking videos but you end up being told that you're a monsterPlease, we all know she’s not running anywhere. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion?Sure buddy, every jack off on Reddit loves to toss out their IQ being two or more standard deviations from the norm. Yet, just by their posts, they tell on themselves. Much like yours. “Waaa I want to have sex, but if I get a woman pregnant I don’t want to be responsible for it, waaa” IQ 150 indeed. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion?Naw, not a feminist. Just have an IQ above room temperature in the winter. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion?Good riddance. More women for me. | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 12:45 AM |
| 4 | Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion?So, you want to have sex but not be responsible if you get a woman pregnant. That’s just plain irresponsible and childish. And you have the gal to ask “why do women get to be active sexually without consequences and men don’t?” Getting pregnant IS the consequence. How god damned delusional can you be to not see that? If you’re not willing to take the risk, then don’t do the sex. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 04:45 PM |
| 0 | Is there a country where men have rights when it comes to abortion?Don’t want to get a woman pregnant? 1 - Don’t have sex. 2 - Get a vasectomy 3 - Wear a condom I had a vasectomy. And twice, I’ve had women tell me they were pregnant with my baby. I laughed at them and told them that’s impossible and why (I know it’s still like 0.01% possible but still). Caught them cheating red handed. If you don’t cover your own ass, you’re asking to get pegged. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 12:42 PM |
| 24 | Spanish soldiers change gender to gain benefits intended for womenYou know what? As a former soldier myself (US, not Spain), fuck yeah. Use the rules to game the system. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 09:34 AM |
| 6 | "You don't need men"Women do a good portion of the child rearing, after the whole procreation aspect. Some might even say, at least 50%. If you’re just looking to isolate yourself from women entirely, sure, you don’t need them. Seems like a sad life to me, but to each their own. Well, if you’re gay, I guess you don’t “need” women then. And that’s fine, more women for us. Outside of the above two points? We are social creatures by nature. Women tend to also be more nurturing than men which men appreciate. Also, if a… | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 10:34 PM |
| 52 | "You don't need men"Meh, I don’t listen to people who spout nonsense. Men need women. And women need men. Women have birthed every single person that’s ever existed. And men have built, pretty much everything everyone uses. One without the other does not work. | /r/MensRights | 04/03/24 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Are girls welcome here?Booooo, women? Just kidding. I think most people here would like it if more people saw that men do have issues that are either ignored or unheard of in society. | /r/MensRights | 01/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 10 | There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me?Yeah man. People get so wrapped around the axle about “if I’m not in the top 1% of genetic attractiveness, I have no chance” mindset, that they forget, ugly AND dumb people have kids literally every day. If you can’t attract someone, that’s 100% on you. People need to work on themselves. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 03:01 AM |
| 14 | There are so many hot, tall, white,funny rich guys. Why would women choose me?Yeah, I basically was going to say this. You don’t have to be rich, tall, handsome, white AND funny to meet a woman. I’m 5’7, Hispanic, and I’m well off but far from rich. I make do just fine meeting and taking women out on dates. Most of my friends would say I look like a mechanic by the way I dress usually. I drive a Honda hatchback. So, it’s not my Uber expensive car. Everything this guy listed, is like the 0.01% of men. And then assuming those specific type of men are single, without kids? E… | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel revulsion at the idea of being a provider?I mean, you can say that about literally everything. Some things are genetic. Some are socially learned. Just walking around in nyc, you’re hit with dozens of advertisements 24/7. That in it of itself is some form of social engineering. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 02:40 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else feel revulsion at the idea of being a provider?Some men want it, some don’t. As things getting more and more expensive, it becomes harder to be the sole provider. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 06:29 AM |
| 9 | Look at this shitYeah, this is some insane femcell shit. Absolutely batshit insane. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.1 - I joined the military and did spend 3 years in war zones as a bomb squad team leader. So, I’m not worried about a draft. There also hasn’t been a draft since Vietnam. 2 - Get skillsets that are valuable. Want to work in a field with little to no women? Be a tradesman, a soldier, or an engineer. I’ve done all 3, and I’ve worked with… less than a handful of women who I barely remember because I never saw them. Even still, not every woman is out there trying to fuck you over. Stop living with a… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.I’m all for men having resources and things to fall back on like women do. I still stand by what I said. Most men, fuck themselves over. And instead of taking accountability and fixing themselves, they blame everyone and everything, but themselves. If men want to do better, they have to become better. No one is going to save you from yourself. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.I was literally homeless at 18. And now I live better than most at any age. All I see from a response like this, are excuses. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.The issue I have, is that, yes, there are some fundamental issues. On both sides. Men have some fundamental issues that are unfair: 1 - We unequivocally work the hard jobs. We are basically expected to die working, so that society can thrive and carry on. 2 - There are almost no resources for men who suffer from things such as domestic violence. I forget the numbers exactly, but there’s something like 5 men’s domestic violence shelters in the entire U.S. versus, thousand of women’s domestic viol… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.Meh, people need to start taking accountability for themselves. If a man is lonely, it’s up to him to fix it. No one else is going to fix it for him. Men aren’t born with any inherent value. We have to scrape it out of every day we live and somehow build a livelihood no matter the handicaps given to us at birth. I was born to immigrant parents in nyc. If it wasn’t for welfare, theft and school lunches, I probably would have starved to death on the street and not a single person outside my immedi… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 07:50 AM |
| 4 | Do some countries prefer daughters?This to me sounds like the pendulum swinging in the other direction. For much of the last few decades, boys were highly preferred. China is a big example of the disparity in preference between boys and girls with their “1 child policy” (which has also blown up in their face. Just look at how they literally have to import women for marriage). So, it kind of makes sense to me to want more girls now. Give it another generation, or about 2 decades and then it’ll be “we need more boys” again. | /r/MensRights | 25/02/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.If a man has sex with a woman, he has as much responsibility as she does for bringing life into this world. Even if he did not want the child. It’s still 50% his responsibility. Regardless of his “wishes”. Women control if the child is born or not because they have the womb. It’s a double standard, but it’s biology and the bottom line of being “pro-choice” is bodily autonomy, period. Your body, your choice what happens to it or what grows inside of it. In the case of rape, then yes. Whoever is t… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.If anyone claims rape, it needs to be proven before any kind of legal action happens, period. If you can’t prove that this woman raped you, or somehow stole your seed, then yes, you’re going to pay child support. Ideally, if she does those things, you charge her with rape, she gets proven guilty, goes to jail and you’re off the hook. The baby would also be a victim and gets someplace better for them. But those are IDEALS. Sometimes, despite our best efforts, there is no 100% answer for every sit… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 05:19 PM |
| 2 | How to avoid alimony and child support.It will vary by states. But a prenup where a spouse gets literally nothing, will almost always be thrown out of court. There are a few different kinds of prenups and I do not know them well. The most common prenuptial will be a “mine, yours and ours” prenuptial (using the laymen’s term). Where what you each had before the marriage is still individually your own, but anything obtained during said marriage is then divided upon its dissolution. I am not a lawyer, I just have a few close friends tha… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.1: Pro-choice. The issue with your statement, is that at the end of the day, a woman decides whether or not a baby is born or deleted. It takes two to conceive, but the onus is on the woman to deliver, because it’s literally inside her body. 2: If both parents want to give up the child for adoption. Sure, give it up. If one parent wants to keep the child and the other doesn’t, it still took both of them to make the child. Which goes back to my original statement; If you don’t want to risk gettin… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Bachelor Paternity Case in Court! Clayton Echard Wins Big. | Woman who repeatedly extorted male celebrities over "pregnancies" is finally being taken to courtGood. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:40 PM |
| -1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.After having this conversation with you, I’m sad that you have children at all. They are almost definitely better off with their mother. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:32 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.Ah yes. A YouTube video. Great research. 👏🏽 | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:28 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.You… really have no clue how much child support is do you? First off, it varies by state. Second off, it varies by income. A basketball player who makes millions of dollars a year would pay something like 10k a month per kid. That’s insane, sure, but a fraction of his income. A truck driver who makes 90k a year, would pay roughly 500 per kid a month. Depending on the state, some would be more, some less. And in some states, that number goes down the more kids he pays for. IE: If he has two kids,… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:26 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.Well then, Mr. RedditDataResearcher, go post up your findings to some news sources. You’ll probably make a good bit of money from your findings and become very famous. I’ll wait for it the news to go viral. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:22 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.Then don’t get married. And that is a gross misrepresentation of facts. MOST kids are not born through deception. Some? Sure. I don’t have stats on hand to argue for either direction, but I’d be willing to bet if some big study came out saying: “More than 50% of children born today are through women deceiving men.” Then I would confidently believe that some laws would change, real quick. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:19 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid alimony and child support.Again, speaking in generalities. Because covering every niche thing, like your kids being stolen, for any reason, would take forever. Sometimes, you can do every thing right and still get fucked. My point is, don’t go sticking your dick in women and then be shocked you’re getting pegged with child support for a kid you weren’t expecting despite having sex. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 12:15 PM |
| 0 | microsoft illegally and openly pay men lessGiven that this is virtue signaling. They’re just using white men as “the standard” fiduciary because that’s what everyone screams about when it comes down to “patriarchy”. Because, you know. Being born a white man automatically means you have a trust fund waiting for you. /s | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 11:40 AM |
| -27 | microsoft illegally and openly pay men lessI have also said the same thing in more recent times when the wage gap between men and women was roughly 1% in favor of men. There will NEVER be a full equality 1 for 1 pay between the sexes. There’s disparity between men even when women don’t exist. In many fields, women outnumber men and in others, the reverse is true. I know for a fact that some of my coworkers make more than I do. Maybe they have more experience, maybe I didn’t negotiate hard enough. In some cases, they’ve just been here lon… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 11:17 AM |
| -55 | microsoft illegally and openly pay men lessPlease, if you’re calling “this”, discrimination, you’re living in delusion. Many women stop working in their 30s because they have kids. And if they don’t? So what. Men have been competing with other men for pay and status in the work place, basically forever. Now, the competition is also including women. There IS plenty of discrimination against men in places. But “this specifically”? Give me a break. In this study, a man who earns 100k a year for a job and a woman earns, 100.7k dollars for th… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 10:15 AM |
| -41 | microsoft illegally and openly pay men lessIt’s barely a 1 cent difference per dollar across the board. This is a reach. | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 09:45 AM |
| -1 | How to avoid alimony and child support.You’re trying to give legal advice (on prenuptial agreements) and clearly, you are not a lawyer. Because that’s not how those work. A prenup that effectively goes, “if we divorce, you get nothing”, would easily be thrown out of court by most any judge. If you don’t want to pay alimony, get married in a state that doesn’t do alimony. Iirc, Texas requires for a married couple to have been together 10yrs before any alimony is due at divorce. That said, child support should absolutely be paid out to… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/24 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenThere’s a saying that goes: “Common sense is not common”. Also, some guys really do be needing to get out of their mom’s basement. Both literally and figuratively. Being a chad will get you into the door. Will even get you laid. It’s “everything else” that will make women want you in general. | /r/seduction | 13/02/24 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever give women another shot?No. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Alarming Law Passed in CanadaWell Jesus Christ. THAT, is insane to me. Little by little, Canada is becoming worse than the U.S. in a broad number of ways. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/24 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenI don’t see what’s the issue here. Everything you said just seems like common sense. Sure, maxing out your looks is good and everyone should do it, for many reasons. Thing is, looks just gets you someone’s attention. It’s “everything else” that will keep them longer than a few minutes or overnight. Unless that’s the goal on purpose. I would even argue, social skills are more important than looks. I’ve gotten laid plenty off just my social skills and being slightly over weight with an average app… | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Alarming Law Passed in CanadaThat’s if you marry them. This is also why I’ve been advocating against marriage for over a decade now. Almost two decades now. | /r/MensRights | 08/02/24 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Can an average man have chances with a higher-status woman?Can? Sure. Your chances are like winning the lottery. Keep trying and maybe you will some day. Really though, women don’t date down in general. So, if you’re average looking, you better be rich, fit, be famous and/or have some kind of status and/or influence. | /r/seduction | 08/02/24 03:25 AM |
| 0 | I got a girl pregnant from a ONS and was just told about it. (M, late 20s) Any advice on what to do?Well, you should have wore a condom even if she said she couldn’t get pregnant. Time to be a man if you’re going to get a woman pregnant. Get a DNA test done when the baby is born before you sign anything. If it’s yours, then do what you know is right. Maybe raise your kid to use protection until they’re ready to be parents. | /r/MensRights | 06/02/24 09:42 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on top 1-10%(The Men who have everything) ?I have a bachelors that took almost 9yrs to finish because I started off trying to become a veterinarian first. Then took a year off during covid. Still not a feminist. Electrical engineering program never really talked about anything outside of the formulas and class stuff required. College campus is definitely “woke”, but a lot of the more intense programs are too busy to add in bullshit like feminism. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/24 12:50 AM |
| 6 | Why is it taboo for a straight man to want to know if an individual is trans before deciding if you want them to be a romantic interest?Meh, fuck em. Ask them a few simple questions: “If I ask someone if they are liberal or conservative, and they answer in a way I don’t want to date, does that make me a bigot?” “If I ask someone their beliefs on religion and they answer in a way not compatible with my own beliefs, does that make me a bigot?” If they say yes to either, they’re idiots and deserve no more of your time. If they go on to say “but being trans isn’t a choice”, they may be right, but it’s still your choice and preferenc… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | USA: Hundreds of homelss queue for food in New York. Only two women in the line.So, it’s a woman’s responsibility to keep a man from getting her pregnant? Y’all don’t want to get baby trapped, but you’re expecting women to use BC with zero responsibility yourself? Get real my guy. If you get a woman pregnant and you did nothing to prevent it, that’s your fault. You let yourself get played, enjoy the next 18yrs of child support you could have prevented with a little bit of rubber. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 11:04 AM |
| -11 | USA: Hundreds of homelss queue for food in New York. Only two women in the line.Wait…. You’re mad because someone is telling men to use condoms? Because it “ruins sex” for you? Grow the hell up. Yes, there are a bunch of contraceptive options for women. Men have basically 1. Men love to go raw and then act all surprised when a woman ends up pregnant and they’re on the hook for child support. Again, grow the hell up. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | What’s up with wives refusing to have children?Then the husbands need to divorce their wives and find women they actually want | /r/MensRights | 04/01/24 05:51 AM |
| 1 | What’s up with wives refusing to have children?If the husband is cool with it, that’s their business. If the husband isn’t cool with it, that’s still their business but they should give divorced. The bottom line here, is that it’s their business, not yours. Unless their husbands are coming to you to vent. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/24 12:48 PM |
| 1 | I hate it when people say “we don’t need men.”lol, absolutely not. I’m painfully straight. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 06:11 PM |
| 5 | I hate it when people say “we don’t need men.”I do sometimes wish I could just choose to be gay so I wouldn’t have to deal with women. | /r/MensRights | 02/01/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Urgent Appeal for Advice and Support in a Father's Fight for His Unborn ChildAlso, the entire point of bodily autonomy is having control of what happens to your body. What grows inside of it. What goes inside of it. What is taken out. That goes for both men and women. Men do not want the government just reaching into men’s balls and tying their tubes so they can’t procreate unless they pay a fee or some such thing right? Women have a right to choose what grows inside their body or what does not. Call it murder or otherwise. A woman gets to choose if something grows insid… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Urgent Appeal for Advice and Support in a Father's Fight for His Unborn ChildSo, this woman just suddenly up and left him with no warning or reasons. A week later, she tells him “I’m pregnant”. And off he goes to her country to be with his ex who is now pregnant. Based off everything explained in OP’s post. I’d be willing to bet, it’s not even his kid. Might be someone else’s, maybe she’s never been pregnant at all. Either way, old boy literally went to another country over a woman who up and leaves with zero word and then is choosing to stay when she is being cruel to h… | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 02:40 AM |
| -4 | Urgent Appeal for Advice and Support in a Father's Fight for His Unborn ChildIf a man wants to force a fetus to term, have it taken out of the woman and implanted into himself. If you don’t have bodily autonomy and the rights over what happens to your own body, then you fundamentally have no rights at all. That’s the rights women have over what does or doesn’t grow inside themselves. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 02:29 AM |
| -1 | Urgent Appeal for Advice and Support in a Father's Fight for His Unborn ChildYour friend has no right to force any woman to carry a fetus to term. Your friends needs to stop simping for a woman who left him. Tell him to let her go and that when she left, that should have been it. Your friend is literally creating his own problems. | /r/MensRights | 30/12/23 02:23 AM |
| 8 | The double standard of relationships with wide age gapsThats the point, unless that’s your joke. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/23 04:18 PM |
| 24 | The double standard of relationships with wide age gapsThe problem you’re having, is listening to random women about things that don’t matter to you. If you date a woman younger than you, the only person you “really” need to listen to, is that woman. Other random people, men or women? Their opinions do not matter. | /r/MensRights | 26/12/23 02:40 PM |
| 16 | Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it?A lot of single and lonely people | /r/MensRights | 18/12/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Men are being lied to about heart disease, and it's worse than you thinkTestosterone eventually wears down the heart. That's why men have way more heart attacks than women. Eating healthy and finding more joy in life than not are key components to living healthy. Being obese is killing people across the board in america. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 02:39 PM |
| -9 | Whether you are pro-life or pro-choice, you have to agree that the modern Western discourse on the subject is completely gynocentric and screwed up.Because men do not carry fetuses inside their bodies. You, should not have any say as to what I do with my body. And visa-versa. That’s the whole point of pro-choice. Carrying a child to term is a choice, not a requirement. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 03:44 AM |
| -9 | Whether you are pro-life or pro-choice, you have to agree that the modern Western discourse on the subject is completely gynocentric and screwed up.At the end of the day, it takes two people to make a child. However, women are stuck with the burden of pregnancy. And yes, even if they want it, it is a burden. Pregnancy has all sorts of effects on a woman’s body and in extreme cases, they can die for carrying a child to term. If a man doesn’t wear a condom, get a vasectomy, or just abstain from having sex, once he gets a woman pregnant? The choice is ultimately hers as to if it is born or not. That’s the whole point of bodily autonomy. Now, i… | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 03:40 AM |
| 12 | Why in bloody heck would a man want to get married in this day and age?Divorce was legalized in the Philippines recently. Just a friendly FYI. | /r/MensRights | 17/12/23 03:11 AM |
| 2 | I'm female. These are the only times I've faced any form of sexism or gender based inappropriate behavior.Thanks for the chuckle. Most anyone might just say “but this is anecdotal, so it doesn’t count!”, still appreciated. | /r/MensRights | 16/12/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are women freaking out over abortion post roe v Wade?Because women should have the right to choose what happens to their own bodies? If men could incubate babies in their own bodies, they would also have the option to, not do that. Also, roe vs wade eliminates potentially necessary medical procedures that in most cases will save a woman’s life. And in some states? Like Texas, women are being ousted and persecuted for having abortions in other states that allow them. So, not only have they had their bodily autonomy removed, they face jail time or d… | /r/MensRights | 15/12/23 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Teacher turns out to be a feministI’d say go to the dean. Or, next paper, double down and cite every source in explicit detail. | /r/MensRights | 13/12/23 05:49 AM |
| 1 | An Analogy for "Having sex can lead to a child therefore you made your decision when you decided to have sex"Having an abortion is taking responsibility. And sometimes it is forced upon them. That said, it takes 2 people to get a woman pregnant. So, yes, men also need to take responsibility. Your logic still sucks. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | An Analogy for "Having sex can lead to a child therefore you made your decision when you decided to have sex"Women DO bear the responsibility. If they can’t or don’t abort, they have to carry a literal child in their bodies. Assuming the man takes responsibility, they still have to be mothers, or put the kid up for adoption. Women have no choice but to take responsibility. So your logic sucks. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | An Analogy for "Having sex can lead to a child therefore you made your decision when you decided to have sex"Yes. If you decide to have sex and you don’t use a condom and/or other contraceptives, a potential risk is pregnancy. This analogy sucks. You fuck. A pregnancy might happen. Take responsibility for your actions. Don’t want the risk, keep it in your pants. Or at least, out of hers. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/23 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Women treat men like cops treat black peopleMan, someone is angry. Some women are shit, some cops are shit, some men are shit. Common denominator? They’re people. Some people are shit. | /r/MensRights | 07/12/23 02:30 AM |
| -4 | Being a short man is very depressing in today’s society.I’m 5’7. I have literally been told to my face that I am “too short to date” by some women. Fuck em. The best revenge is success. If you want to meet women, you just have to put in more legwork. Do: - Keep yourself in shape. You don’t have to become the quintessential gym bro, but having a nice physique absolutely helps. Even if you’ve got an ugly face. Groom yourself. From head to toe. Get your hair done, if you can’t rock a beard, shave that shit off. If you can, get it trimmed properly. The h… | /r/MensRights | 04/12/23 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Female MRA here. I have a question for you guys.Actions speak louder than words. Don’t tell them, show them. | /r/MensRights | 03/12/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Short men 5'7 and below, how well do you do and what's your story? How did you get good with women?I'm 5'7 , I have two girlfriends living with me and a third that does not. It's not about your height, it's about "you" as a total package. If you can't hold your own, or make conversation or be worth spending time around, it doesn't matter. Height and looks will help open doors with women, everything else is what keeps them. Don't worry about what you don't have. Focus on what you do and make the most of it. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 06:28 AM |
| 2 | How to talk to women without being some kind of fuckboy?You missed the part where I talked about making plans to do things together. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 3 | How to talk to women without being some kind of fuckboy?Just. Fucking. Talk. It’s not some special secret, or a special skill. It’s literally just communication. If you’re that type of person, just be forward and blunt with your feelings: “Hey <name>, I think you’re <enter what genuinely attracts you to this person>. If you’re up for it, let’s go get coffee together, or go check out <enter something fun or interesting, like a museum> sometime.” If you’re not one for a direct approach? Then just talk, make plans to do something together, either 1 on 1… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | How to make your friend see you as more than a friend?You don't. You move on. Work on yourself, make yourself seem more "wanted". Either A: Nothing will change between you and her, but you will be happier because you're out with other women. or B: She *might* change her mind about you, and *maybe* you'll still want her, assuming you've been out going out with other woman and such, your options would be way broader. or C: You try to force it, and it ends up ruining the friendship entirely. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Took Two Days to Respond...If that seems disrespectful, you’re entitled. This woman is literally studying for medical boards. You should proceed by telling her that you need to work on yourself more and to delete your number. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 04:02 PM |
| 1 | What do women expect from a man who is 24?Jesus Christ, I’m glad you put this here. “Do women have expectations?” Of course they do. You have expectations of women right? They’re going to have expectations of you as well, don’t be a loser and expect women to fawn over you simply because you exist. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Stop acting like every 'girl' you meet is 'the one'. Every woman I meet is just another person. If they are hot, cool, they are nice to look at, but I have other women on my own roster as well. Stop trying to get with every single woman you meet. If you find out they have a long list of guys waiting on them? Compliment them: "Hell yeah, sounds like you keep busy! Any cute ones in particular?" - Listen to them, see what they are attracted to. If you can't compete with them, don't. Do your own thi… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think your night just proves my point. Sometimes you have all the green lights and they just change their minds. Or they were just testing you the whole time. Or they just wanted to have a good time and you misread signals. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sometimes it just be that way | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys falls asleep in my bed but doesn't want to cuddle??I love to cuddle, but I also get really hot when I sleep and I move away from the person or thing making me hot. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 08:56 PM |
| 8 | Help with dealing with a girl who rejected meAgain, you're thinking too hard about it. If she wants to be friends, and she is cool, then be friends. If you don't want to, then don't be. If someone wants to be with you, they will make time to be around you. If someone does not want to be with you, they will make excuses to not be around you. This is true for anyone. She also literally told you she has problems but not what those problems are. Maybe she has problems expressing emotions, maybe she's bipolar, maybe she's too fast to fall in lo… | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:10 AM |
| 15 | Help with dealing with a girl who rejected meYou’re thinking too hard about “the right move”. If she’s talking to you, she’s interested in you. If she doesn’t talk you, she’s not. Just keep doing “you”, and if she happens to be in line with what you’re doing, cool. If not, also cool. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | "Nothing is more threatening and simultaneously attractive to a woman than a man who knows his value to women and the world."I mean... have you been to any trailer parks? Tons and tons of kids running around, poorly parented by rubbish people. | /r/seduction | 03/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 13 | My #1 rule of seduction: Never fucking chaseAnd this is how guys get labeled as creeps. Don’t do this fellas. Let a girl know you’re interested, but don’t go all out. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you feel about this?I personally don’t care how many dudes a woman has slept with. | /r/seduction | 31/10/19 07:15 PM |
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