TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

EP_CJ Archive

View 4 posts and 53 comments by EP_CJ on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
1

Male and female attraction are not the same. As men we tend to value primarily looks. For women while looks do matter to a degree, they value other things like dominance, masculinity, leadership, charisma and humour just as highly. So someone that is visually not conventionally ‘attractive’ looks-wise may still have very attractive traits
/r/seduction17/01/25 09:34 AM
176

Or just hit on her normally and let her determine whether she’s interested or not. A boyfriend doesn’t mean much
/r/seduction15/12/24 01:48 PM
1

If you’re a complete noob at cold approach, then prepare to put in 100s of reps before you even get a date
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:56 AM
13

Stop jerking off and watching porn if you currently are. I find when I go a couple of weeks without it, then opening and the approach anxiety is much less
/r/seduction22/09/24 04:57 PM
4

Yep, rejection is the name of the game. Gotta embrace it, every no is closer to a yes mentallity
/r/seduction07/09/24 03:06 PM
71

I’d definitely consider myself average looks. I get good success from daygame but I have to put in ALOT of volume for it to pay off
/r/seduction06/09/24 10:27 PM
1

lol don’t know why you’re being downvoted but it’s true
/r/seduction27/08/24 09:57 PM
1

What they’re up to right now, the environment you’re both in, hobbies/interests etc
/r/seduction23/08/24 11:38 PM
2

Observations and assumptions are key
/r/seduction23/08/24 06:54 PM
3

Just outting himself as a snake oil salesman at the end of the day. If he’s gonna lie atleast make it believable 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:40 PM
2

Even if you were doing pay to play in Bangkok Thailand as a rich white guy it wouldn’t be close to 40% 😂
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:29 PM
2

I highly doubt it
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:24 PM
2

Even the most advanced daygamers I know are getting close to 1/25 via daygame cold approach. That’s 4/100 and you’re claiming 40/100?! Yeah… right
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:18 PM
2

Calling BS lol
/r/seduction09/08/24 06:00 PM
1

Sure
/r/seduction09/08/24 11:59 AM
2

‘No worries, have a good one’ and leave. Even if she had a BF and was remotely interested she wouldn’t mention it
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:42 PM
30

A lot of girls are into older guys, for one girl that might find it creepy, another will find it hot that you approached there’s onto one way to find out and that’s to actually approach. You’re not doing anything illegal
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:53 PM
3

I do a bit of both, solo and with wings. If you’re around Birmingham sure we can do a session. I’m not into night game, just daygame
/r/seduction31/07/24 01:51 PM
3

I’m in Birmingham and do daygame, it’s probably the second best volume wise outside of london
/r/seduction31/07/24 12:26 PM
1

Not interested, move on unless she reschedules
/r/seduction29/07/24 04:36 PM
1

Like what?
/r/seduction25/07/24 09:53 AM
0

why rejection doesn’t matter as much as you think
/r/seduction24/07/24 09:24 PM
1

Good points
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:14 PM
1

I agree that if a girl likes you, then you don't have to do as much, but it's still your responsibility to carry the conversation especially if a girl is shy, but still likes you
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:13 PM
1

Nah, it's worth being persistent. Some girls might like you but are shy and/or not used to being approached. If she ain't interested she can walk away.
/r/seduction23/07/24 12:10 PM
1

What I do is wait a day or two then follow up with something like 'Don't be shy' or 'If you're too nervous, I get it'. It has worked in the past to get the ball rolling for text conversations. Sometimes girls don't see your first text or forget to reply and then the follow up text can save the interaction. Nothing to lose by waiting a bit of time and sending another text, burn it.
/r/seduction11/07/24 10:51 AM
-2

‘Love the enthusiasm’ or react with 👍 if on WhatsApp. Basically match her energy
/r/seduction17/06/24 01:28 PM
14

It's her job to chase you now, don't message her again unless she reaches out first. This will demonstrate non-neediness show you are willing to walk away and make her think you have options.
/r/seduction03/05/24 01:41 PM
5

Move on, looks like you fucked it up a long time ago
/r/seduction02/05/24 01:42 PM
5

The cure to oneitis is options, you need to create some. Whether its getting into cold approach/daygame, nightgame or the apps as a last resort
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:21 PM
1

Thanks mate, appreciate it
/r/seduction14/03/24 07:11 PM
1

Hope it helps
/r/seduction14/03/24 04:42 PM
1

It's a great topic and I should probably sit down and do a big post at some point. Off the top of my head, it could be summarized to being true to yourself, your own interests and not pretending to be someone you're not just to make others like you. However also doing what's in your control to be the best version of yourself possible. So it means taking care of yourself physically, mentally, spiritually and emotionally.
/r/seduction14/03/24 03:06 PM
7

All very true, you can read a girls body language with a good level of accuracy beforehand to get a general idea of her level of receptiveness. However it's still your job to approach regardless. For example I've had sloppy, 1 minute long awkward interactions where the girl doesn't seems to be so interested, looking away, on the phone etc - but I persist and go for the number close anyway and sometimes it'll turn into dates and more. But I've also had amazing 10 minute+ long conversations where …
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:58 PM
1

💩
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:16 PM
5

Rejection is inevitable my friend, you've got to embrace and lean into it
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:16 PM
1

Thanks, hope it helps
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:16 PM
3

I'm actually an advocate of being persistent, but the foundation has to be from a place of adundance - which IMO can only be achieved through volume and playing the numbers game. What I mean by aiming to be rejected ASAP, is essentially screening to see if the girl is in or out as quickly as possible. This means being direct, laying down a masculine man-to-women frame from the get go and trying to screen for compliance and receptibility.
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:15 PM
5

I do know what it means to approach indirectly, I've done it myself and seen it both work & fail countless times. Personally I'm at a point now where I'd rather be direct and set a man-to-woman frame upfront, THEN develop the connection necessary to get investment from the girl to want to see me again. Rather than the other way around, and I'd advise my past-self and beginners to do the same. But that's just my style and what works best for me.
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:07 PM
1

lol
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:03 PM
8

True
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:03 PM
4

Glad you enjoyed it
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:03 PM
19

More than 0, less than 1000
/r/seduction14/03/24 02:02 PM
0

Check out my post, might help ya - https://enhancedplayer.com/index.php/2024/03/01/approach-anxiety-eliminating-fears-around-approaching-women/
/r/seduction11/03/24 04:51 PM
1

I did a whole post on strategies for AA about a week ago, check it out. Might find something useful in there https://enhancedplayer.com/index.php/category/dating-relationships/approach-anxiety/
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:55 PM
1

Hardcore, I like it
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:17 PM
1

I definately did need it when I started out lol. I had such bad social anxiety just asking someone for the time was a huge ordeal. It's more common than you think, especially this generation
/r/seduction03/03/24 05:00 PM
1

Good point, waiting and hesitating tends to build up the anxiety
/r/seduction03/03/24 02:08 PM
1

Haha, yeah makes me lol looking back at it. My cold approach is much better now because I’ve been consistent with it doing atleast 10 per week. I wouldn’t consider myself advanced at all but I’m a solid intermediate
/r/seduction02/03/24 07:06 PM
2

I remember my first one years ago, I had severe approach anxiety and had been out for 2 hours prior completely paralysed and in my head. So much frustration had build up to the point where I had a ‘f*ck it’ moment. I saw this hot girl in H&M and went over to speak to her. I said ‘hey just thought you were cute and wanted to say hi.’ American girl visiting the UK. We had a 1 minute long conversation in which I asked her where she was from twice LOL. I self ejected but ended up feeling like a cham…
/r/seduction02/03/24 01:50 PM
1

As in like rehearsing lines?
/r/seduction01/03/24 09:46 PM
1

Can you think of any other ways I'm missing? Might add them if they're good
/r/seduction01/03/24 09:02 PM
1

Tbh, I think most people who are somewhat familiar with cold approach do. This is fundamental stuff aimed at newbies. If they can take something away from it that's beneficial - great.
/r/seduction01/03/24 05:58 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter