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| 13 | Abortion starting to be banned in many states. No exceptions.Yup! I took it one step further: after getting divorced from my daughter’s father, I had a tubal ligation. Both tubes = gone. I’m in my early 40’s. Having an accidental pregnancy is not happening this late in the game. Additionally, I do not want to have to deal with another ex-husband-baby-daddy. The odds of getting pregnant do go down - just not taking a chance. LOL. Talk about radical feminists from the 60’s and 70’s, my mom was the one who highly recommended having it done. She did it, and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 10:02 PM |
| 87 | don't date him "as practice" when you don't like him or saw red flagsThis - “sometimes the guy will perceive that you have real interest and keep chasing…”. This scenario is very real, and scary - AF. Dating someone you’re lukewarm over is just a bad idea. For some, just the acceptance of a date means possibility. As someone else said, dating takes effort and time. It seems like a waste of precious resources. No way. If I do accept a date, it’s because I am genuinely curious, intrigued, attracted, so on. Not as a hobby. No, seriously, that’s what hobbies are for.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/22 11:26 PM |
| 5 | If you’re scaring them, you’re doing something right.Classic. I love when men claim to be scared and intimidated by smart women. Like, no, your fragile egos just can’t handle being with someone who can outshine you. True story: my mom grew up next to a couple with four children (this was the early 60’s). The wife was not “allowed” to work. She was given an allowance, and solely took care of the housework. At some point, she must have had it - she went out, and got a job that paid more than her husband. He actually divorced her for doing this, LOL.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.LOL. I hope this guy loses his job, AND the wife becomes an Etsy success story. Wouldn’t that be poetic justice. 😜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 32 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.Ha! Love the last part, chica! That’s exactly what I did. I worked full-time, but didn’t make the kind of money my ex did. So, I was “expected” to do the household chores. Nearly three years ago, I quit doing the household chores and walked away from that life. I’m not saying my decision was right/wrong, or easy. It wasn’t. But, I will never again place myself in that kind of situation. Pardon my French - but, fuck it. I’d rather be struggling to make ends meet than be made to feel that way. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 02:33 PM |
| 22 | Man withholds a 12.5K bonus from his SAHM wife because she didnt share the 200$ she made on Etsy (the first time in 7 years she earned anything). Be careful not to marry miserly men who loathe you.Exactly. This has zero-zip-zilch to do with principles. I’m not going to knock a woman for wanting to be (or, being) a SAHM: however, this is a demographic that tends to be abused (financially, emotionally, physically, etc.). There is nothing worse than feeling insignificant. I have heard plenty of women cite that: either because they are a SAHM, or they’re feeling pressure/guilt for working hard and actually making money. It makes me sick. My ex was a little like this - he made more money than … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 19 | How hard it is to find a decent man? I am starting to get really upset.Let me reassure you that you have time. While your physician made some valid points, women successfully have healthy babies over 35. I had my daughter at 35 - but, one of my closest friends was nearly 39. Sure, the risks go up…but, the risk of having a bad relationship is far more probable (statistically speaking). At this stage of the game, you need to focus on dating men who have a vision for their future. Do they want a wife and a family, or not. By the age of 30, you should know where you st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 08:55 PM |
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