EandAsecretlife Archive

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7	Q4M: Do males actually hate sluts? “I think men who can’t get access to them would hate them.” ^ You just hit on someone BIG! Really big. When women SEEM to be sexually indiscriminate and a guy still cant get her attention it really drives home how unattractive he is, at least to her. This HURTS. Its one thing to be turned down by a woman that rarely has sex, but to be turned down by one that seems to have sex with anyone but you, that is soul crushing. The strategy for dealing with this is “sour grapes” right out of Aesop’s Fabl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 09:12 PM
–	do your friends admit to you that they don't find their husbands physically attractive? My wife and I had a baby 10.5 months ago. That has absolutely clobbered our sex life. Actually the decline started about 5 months into the pregnancy. She was both sick and gained weight. So did I. We both WANT to have sex, just no time or energy. I suppose when you have a baby at 54m & 44m you’re not quite as energetic as would have been the case 20 years earlier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/10/24 12:20 PM
2	"Most men are bad/selfish in bed" Even if that was true, which I dont believe, having that attitude is the opposite of helpful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 03:57 PM
4	"Most men are bad/selfish in bed" Men aren’t rejected for inexperience. They have no experience because women didn’t find them attractive. This difference is critical.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 02:34 PM
2	Do most men really want “traditional women” or to receive treatment they imagine top tier Chads receive from women? Absolutely!	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/10/24 12:28 PM
1	The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women are “Single moms are less valuable, as are virgin men” The difference there is that being a single mom is what lowers women’s sexual market value”, whereas having a low SMV is what results in the male’s virginity Its not “being a virgin” that makes men less wanted, its not having the skills/attributes to be wanting that results in extended virginity. I speak from experience here. Painful, awkward, dorky experiencez	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/24 12:12 AM
1	Men have bad sex lives because they judge women based on bluepill ideas instead of facing the reality.. You can also misinterpret what you are witnessing, as OP clearly has. He misses something important, cause and effect. Men who are attractive to women can get away with behaving badly, because they are attractive to women. Its not the abusive behavior that is the cause of attraction for MOST women (for a small percentage, yeah), but mostly the attraction comes first and it overrides thr bad behavior. ^ Men do this too, all the time, we are just attracted to different things than women are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/24 12:36 PM
1	Q4W: Do you find your male partner attractive? Women do it ALL THE TIME.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/24 03:26 AM
2	Do you think women are more bigoted then men? Bingo! A good example is that a LOT of people who advocated for the end of slavery actually disliked black people. You dont have to like someone to realize that oppressing them is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/24 07:31 PM
1	Most "nice guys" drop clear signs that they like you, women just play dumb and pretend its him just joking If she’s not interested, pretending she didn’t notice the pass is done to not embarrass YOU. Women aren’t being dumb about it, usually its a matter of kindness. Remember this, no one, men or women, gets to decide what they find attractive. Out “nice guying” yourself wont help, EVEN IF SHE WISHES IT DID. You don’t get to chose what turns you on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 10:08 PM
-1	The double standards around male standards “ and this is based on what men say “ Have you ever met men? We trash talk and exaggerate constantly. We also don’t admit to the things that are going to get us in trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:34 PM
6	The double standards around male standards “ and this is based on what men say “ Have you ever met men? We trash talk and exaggerate constantly. We also don’t admit to the things that are going to get us in trouble.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:34 PM
3	The double standards around male standards No, he didn’t. That was 100% a made up troll post. It was not in his book. He never said that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/24 01:33 PM
1	It's disturbing how many couples I know who admit that one of the reasons they got divorced is so that they can get a break from the kids every other week. Why does parenting suck so much? As a former step parent Im going to guess that the issue is the parents can’t agree how to raise the kids, and one parent gets tired of fighting with both the kids and his wife. Lets say, “hypothetically” If I tell the girls they aren’t allowed to smoke, yet mom says they can, and actually buys them cigarettes….. well, how do you think that goes. ^ For the record, she left me, not the other way around. I guess she got tired of fighting too, because she really didn’t want to tell them to stop smo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/07/24 09:03 PM
–	"you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argument What is needed to be mentally healthy is not sex per se, but being LIKED by your partner. IF your partner likes you, sex will follow. If sex never happens….SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU! Living with someone who dislikes you is horrible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 11:48 PM
–	"Start holding other men accountable if you don't want us to feel this way" They may admit it on surveys but they dont admit it to other men. Never once have ai heard someone brag about committing rape or sexual assault. Not once. This is because they KNOW better, and they don’t want their ass kicked. Many women wrongly assume men DO brag to each other about SA. Another serious issue is what men and women CONSIDER sexual assault. No man gets to decide LATER that he was sexually assaulted. Women do. They get to mull over the fact they were drunk, and they guy should have…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 03:19 AM
2	To RP men, here's why your mom, even if she gave dating advice, it won't work for you Mother’s dating advice to their sons doesn’t work because their sons are often dealing with something their mother never, ever experienced; having NO options. 99% of women can get a date, if they want to. 50% of men cannot. For the group of men that women find attractive, they dont NEED, or at least wont listen to their mothers advice. The issue is its a very different market depending on what sex you are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/24 03:08 AM