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| 16 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?She abandoned your marriage. She cannot live that way and claim to be a Christian. She's living in an open state of blasphemy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Does this mean I am officially divorced? Or do I need to wait for more paperwork?If a judge hasn't yet signed it, it's not final. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/25 06:34 PM |
| 15 | r/divorceOf course it's a toxic hellscape. There are women there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/25 07:02 AM |
| 19 | Married men (especially those who’ve been divorced) — what led to your divorce, and what kind of life partner do you wish you had chosen instead?She cheated. She confessed. I forgave her, on the condition she ceased all contact with him. She agreed to delete his number. She cheated again, this time, I found out, she didn't confess. It was with a different man. But I discovered she had also been talking to the first guy again. She apologized. I forgave her. Years later, she cheated again. Again, this time I found out. But this time, she just ran off with him instead of apologizing. Never, ever, forgive a cheater. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 04:40 PM |
| 3 | What ruined your marriage?That does have a way of ruining things. Let me guess, she blamed you for the affair? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 06:03 AM |
| 2 | Question about being served…You need to just hire a lawyer for yourself. You can appear in the case without being served. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/25 02:12 AM |
| 5 | DivorceI was the betrayed spouse in an unfaithful marriage. She gaslit me for years, manipulating me into believing it was my fault. You could try that. Or you could sincerely apologize and be prepared that she might not accept it. Accept that as a valid response to your infidelity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/25 02:29 AM |
| 1 | My Wife Left Me 3 Times in 1 Year – Family Still Forcing Me to Take Her Back (Cousin Marriage, No Emotional Support, Full Mess)This is some medieval shit | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | I think it's happeningThis is hilarious because it's from your own source: However, infidelity can impact divorce cases in a no-fault state. For example, the spouse’s infidelity may affect divorce legal issues like child custody. The court may consider such a factor, particularly if it negatively affects the welfare of the child. But go ahead, be wrong. I won't stop you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | I think it's happeningMy guy, infidelity is a fault. Idk what state you are in but that's just objectively wrong. If she's been unfaithful and she's trying to file a no-fault, he can counter file with proof of infidelity and it completely changes the case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I think it's happeningIt's not no-fault if there's infidelity. Infidelity can help the victim get custody of children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 06:03 PM |
| 7 | I think it's happeningIf she's like most women in this situation, she has already found someone else. Find the evidence and keep it. It will help your case. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/12/24 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Why do they think they are never wrong?Her: tell me what you're thinking Me: (tells her what I'm thinking) Her: why are you making it about you? Me: You asked me what I was thinking, how can it not be about me? | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 07:38 PM |
| 11 | My wife was served the papers today.Damn, she found a loophole. Guess you gotta stay together /s | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Engagement ringLegally speaking she is entitled to it. It's a "conditional gift," and if she actually married you, she fulfilled the condition. It's legally hers. Both of your wedding rings are entirely your own separate property. The same goes for any gifts you gave each other during the marriage. If she bought you a nice watch as a bday gift, even while you are married, it's yours. (At least that is how it works in my state.) | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/24 05:57 PM |
| 7 | I go by the water everyday for 15-20 mins before work right after the gym and just let the emotions come before I get into robot mode for the dayAll I have to do to cope is remember the constant betrayal. It reminds me that she never loved me and I'm better off without her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/24 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Another restless night almost 10 months after divorce. Longing for a woman I shouldn’t even want. Does it ever end?He said it was to get the kid | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/24 01:42 PM |
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