Earls_Basement_Lolis Archive

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5	What was the mens rights issue that made you join r/MensRights? I float in and out for a variety of reasons. I think the main reason is to try and find like-minded people. A men's right issue near and dear to my heart is the routine circumcision. I really try to avoid thinking about it because no amount of rumination on my end fixes the problem, and the more I think about it, the angrier I get. I spend my time more fruitfully on /r/foreskinrestoration because at least gaining my own bodily autonomy does more than nothing at all. Like a lot of other men's iss…	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 10:51 PM
12	MenNeedToBeHeard: Why Are Mental Health Professionals Mocking Men? And that's why I'm so incredibly lucky to find myself with a male therapist, and one that thinks identically to me. I believe men should seek out a male therapist, ideally a male therapist that doesn't identify as a feminist. My therapist calls himself a benevolent misanthrope XD. I had an excellent session yesterday because I talked with him about the discussion around the patriarchy and around dissolving it and I had some points I wanted to bring up: In arguments regarding the patriarchy, ther…	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 04:18 PM
9	UK: Boys jumped 'massively' ahead of girls in maths and science during the pandemic, research reveals. OP: Male hate from the British government I feel like I take crazy pills every time I try and argue with people that feminism != equality. The dictionary literally says it's a women's advocacy movement when it comes to gender equality, not that it literally means gender equality. If you wanted gender equality, you'd start talking about egalitarianism. Of course, when you look at it through the women's advocacy lense, it makes a lot of sense because you see the only policies that they enact meaningfully are the ones that only benefit wom…	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 03:54 PM
15	Dating app double standard: Hinge requires you to enter your height but there isn't even a field for weight Part of me thinks it's only natural that society doesn't care about men if men are trained to not care about themselves. I would say a majority of men today care about themselves based on a pure survival aspect ("I have to make enough money", "I have to be physically fit", "I have to feel useful") but they don't care about themselves when it comes to mental health and overall well-being. I choose to think it's societal conditioning that makes men think this way. Girls are valued just for being, …	/r/MensRights	12/03/25 03:41 PM
9	What exactly is patriarchy when most common people talk about it ? Male feminists too. You would think that a male feminist is an enlightened man who would shun the patriarchy and have actual progressive views on the gender divide, but then you have these fake male feminists that essentially hate their gender, saying misandry is just a reaction to misogyny, inferring misandry would be fixed if misogyny was addressed. Fixing blind hatred of women is not going to fix blind hatred of men, full stop. For a lot of people hating the patriarchy, they sure as hell igno…	/r/MensRights	14/02/25 05:31 PM
7	Women care about sexual histories. They just don’t want men to too. Yeah, I don't agree that being promiscuous isn't wrong. That's where you and I won't see eye to eye. There are reasons why that single trait is not advised in most/all major religions and why there is pretty strong evidence against it in psychology research. I've seen tons of suffering had at the hands of promiscuity, not only the unhealthy attachments and STDs/STIs, but also the amount of orphans, child support, alimony, and emotional distress caused by someone not being able to keep their pant…	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 08:54 PM
1	better rules to replace "don't hit women" I've always thought "Nobody hit nobody" is a good rule, but honestly that advice could expanded on by saying "Treat others the way you want to be treated," or "All actions have consequences". Other reasons include other people might not be as strong or able to fight back and that's not fair to them in an equal society. There's a lot of good reasons for why you don't hit other people. I suppose the question is how you're supposed to punish that as well if you're punishing appropriately. Should yo…	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 08:46 PM
1	Are women owed marriage? Are women owed marriage? Not any more than men are, specifically speaking.	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 08:40 PM
9	Women care about sexual histories. They just don’t want men to too. Insinuating on someone having a lot of sexual partners, i.e. calling someone a slut, is also an insult on character. In society's collective unconscious, there is a reason why being overly promiscuous is a bad thing, namely because it says you don't value yourself enough to not have people run a train on you or because you gain personal value from other people treating you like a sexual object and nothing else. The issue is feminism has looked at men and go "Huh, they have a lot of sex. It must …	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 08:39 PM
2	This sub needs to promote organizations that supports men’s emotional health and social health. Real authentic places that focus on mens needs. Please post links and describe your experiences if you belong to one. Why would it not be true that men are poor communicators, don't seek help, and have poor emotional intelligence? If males are treated all the way from the womb to the tomb that they need to control their emotions, regulate themselves, and fix their own problems, they will do exactly all of that and perhaps more. Male children are coddled less than females are (not to mention a lot of them have their dicks mutilated without pain medication, anesthesia, or informed consent - the body knows the sco…	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 08:20 PM
3	The difference between women's issues and men's issues Very broadly speaking, I've always perceived the way that feminists talk about problems that are specific to each gender in such a way that it ironically still removes agency from women and still gives it to men, which is completely contradictory to what feminists want to be doing - giving women more agency. How is this the case? Again, generally speaking, most problems that affect women as a gender are viewed as problems that are sourced in society itself, meaning that the people who caused suc…	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 05:57 AM
2	MRA being totally misrepresented on TV show There's a significant disconnect between what they say their beliefs are and what the consequences of their actions are. In some kind of way, I can't help but the think the consequences are indicative of what they actually believe instead of what they think they believe instead, since the only things that are tangible are the consequences of their actions and not the beliefs that inspire them.	/r/MensRights	01/10/22 05:20 AM
100	MRA being totally misrepresented on TV show There was a card game I played recently called "Red Flags" and while I thought it was a pretty fun game, I pulled "Is a Men's Rights Activist" from one of the Red Flag cards, meaning it was a negative quality in people. I was talking with the group I was playing with about this and they all seemed to think it was some alt-right split off that just hated women and was comprised of misogynists. I told them it's a group of men who focus on men's rights, such as the right to be gainfully employed wi…	/r/MensRights	30/09/22 09:39 PM