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I never said he didn’t do those things, he just isn’t the topic of discussion. Again, if Tate murdered a bunch of kids, and tried to blame it on women not wanting to fuck him, I’d shit on all the men trying to defend him as if it made sense. I don’t care what his mental state is, murdering kids in cold blood is indefensible. She strangled them with her barehands! All 3!!! Stop these excuses. Fuck Tate, but also definitely fuck Lindsay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/26 01:08 AM
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Bruh. Legitimate systemic issues in which men were literally ripped from their families for decades, leaving women to fill the role. And now here we are. It’s proven again and again that single mothers lead to terrible outcomes for kids, and the one person who can prevent it from happening instead thinks it makes sense to blame men, who don’t even have a choice in the matter. If all women decided not to fuck men out of wedlock, there’d be nothing they could do. You guys could easily solve the si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 11:38 PM
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There’s a shit ton of systemic shit to unpack around black men. You realize black communities use to be the tightest. Family was huge. America has done a lot to destroy that bond and send shit tons of black men to prison. But even still, ya’ll fuckin these dudes and keeping the kid. No way dudes are tricking you into it either so 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 10:38 PM
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Bruh, she killed her kids with her barehands! Men can get PPD the form/severity doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:43 PM
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Bruh, Idc about Tate. If he was the topic and had strangled 3 kids and then trying to blame women for his actions I’d be shitting on him too 🤷🏾‍♂️ TRP is full of nuance. No situation is 100% the same, but patterns are recognizable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:40 PM
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Lol typical woman. Worried about who’s the deadbeat and not the kid(s) you chose to have with said deadbeat. Remember that part where men have no say once she’s pregnant? Make better choices. Outside of rape, you have full agency, and full responsibility once pregnant. Stop abusing the kids. Most single mom’s aren’t hero’s or victims bruh they’re just women who’ve made poor choices. Get the ring first ya goofballs. Ya’ll use to know this. At least then if he’s a deadbeat he’s legally bound 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 08:33 PM
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Nature! God damn it ya’ll are silly. Women birth the kids and have the tits to feed them. It makes the most sense for them to also rear the kids bruh how is this hard to grasp? Maybe women should fuck dudes who want to be present fathers? Maybe throwing away the system that encouraged marriage over hedonism just so you could casually fuck hot dudes who wouldn’t stick around and hopefully find some other dude to raise the resulting, wasn’t the best idea 🤷🏾‍♂️ Maybe doubling down, and claiming “i …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:59 PM
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3 years later. So what? Remember how men don’t have intricate support systems and usually rely on the women in their lives for emotional support? Dude is literally getting accused of being at fault for his wive murdering his 3 kids. Good for him trying to move forward with his life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:34 PM
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Bruh, you guys are insane. The average man supports the shit out of women and you know this. Go outside. I see men supporting women everywhere I go. This women was not abused. She was loved and supported. Her husband still supports her, and she murdered his 3 kids by hand!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:32 PM
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Was that the first time he left her alone with them? Did she have a prior history of hurting them? Did she not consistently deny wanting to harm her own kids? Does anyone actually believe they could imagine their own SO hand strangling each of their own kids? Like come on ya’ll gonna blame dude because believed in his wife? Goofy. You think he intentionally left her so she’d kill the kids and what? He’d be free? Lol ya’ll are insane the blame shifting is crazy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:24 PM
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Ironic. Seeing as women make up the overwhelming majority of child rearers. You know violent tendencies start when you’re young? You ever see the research of child outcomes being raised by single moms? You know how many people are raised by single mom’s these days? Accountability. Women raise the next gens bruh. If everyone sucks…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 04:19 PM
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Bruh her husband *still* is supporting and defending her. Ya’ll are goofy 😂 It’s not complex. If you murder people you go to prison. If you individually slowly strangle your own 3 kids to death, you go to prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:57 PM
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Wrong. Men can experience it 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:51 PM
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This is wrong men can experience both.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/26 03:49 PM
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Yes? Is that not a sacrifice? The willful choice to enlist to protect your country, knowing full well it could get you maimed or killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:12 AM
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Sure if it was an isolated event but if it’s a consistent reality then it becomes hard not to notice. Another example is women and needing to look young. They’re insecure about their looks because the most attractive women are younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/26 03:09 AM
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Enlisting in the military.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:16 PM
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Insecurities aren’t created in a vacuum. Women aren’t “responsible” for men’s insecurities but they create most of them through selection. Short men aren’t insecure for no reason for example. They’re insecure because women shit on them, and men do to as a form of competition, but only because women don’t like it. If women got wet for short dudes tall dudes would get bagged on and be insecure about being to tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 09:08 PM
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No the annoying thing is that everyone has insecurities but only men are expected to just keep their mouth shut, improve or die. Let men be vulnerable ya jerks. Most of us don’t even feel comfortable opening up because ya’ll lack empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:50 PM
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If it’s a game men made up, it’s still cosigned and supported by women. And it’s a game *the elites* made up. And it’s goofy people still can’t see that. Yes, the rules of the game for men are to sacrifice themselves for the good of society. Ask any woman what a “man” is to her and it’s literally just someone who’s useful to her ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:43 PM
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Who cares though? Let people prove themselves. I find it funny that men simply aren’t allowed to be insecure. Why? Cause it’s a turn off to women? Women literally drip insecurity and dudes will still gas them up. Ladies, maybe try supporting the men around you? Security in oneself is *not* built in a vacuum. It’s literally a result of your experiences in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/26 05:40 PM
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Lol women should be grateful. Bruh everyone’s rights were denied unless you were wealthy. This was never a man v women thing, it’s always been everyone v Elites, but ya’ll got fucking brainwashed or something into believe our rich oligarchs are doing us favors and that random men are holding you down. Despite all the evidence everywhere showing that it is in fact the common man who supports women the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:38 PM
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Bruh it would literally be impossible for women to have enacted change without majority of men’s support. Stop being goofy men love women 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 03:07 AM
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Well I date women, and socialize with women who date men. Ya’ll are goofy. What’s common is women taking on the role of “caretaker” of their own volition. And yes, men are fools too, because it’s incredibly easy to keep these types of women happy, but they get lazy and complacent once they have someone cleaning up after them. Even still, there’s no excuse for cleaning up after a man who doesn’t appreciate you for any long period of time. That’s on you. Who cares if they get offended if they can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 02:14 AM
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How would you know? And why are you guys so bad at communicating I don’t understand if you don’t want to be the one doing all the chores then just don’t do them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/26 01:22 AM
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Cap. The average women’s libido notoriously falls off in LTRs. This is long since known. And yes even dudes keepin the spark alive will see a decrease in sexual frequency, but the funny thing is you can ramp it back up easily by breaking up with her. Crazy how dumping your GF sends her libido for you into overdrive 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 10:46 PM
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Lol you really think women need to risk credibility? She doesn’t need to openly accuse him of anything, she only needs him to think she will 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:53 PM
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Common sense says most women could easily get away with accusing a man of some wrong doing and get away with it. Every man knows this as “common sense” 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 09:29 PM
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It works if that’s how the couple works. I’ve had this exact dynamic in relationships before and it worked just fine (didn’t even have to cook or clean). She was happy. I was happy. Literally all that matters 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:44 PM
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Just cause women are bad at violence doesn’t make the more rational/intelligent. In fact, it’s pretty clear that women would be a lot more violent if they had the strength to back it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 03:42 PM
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Depends on your age. Ladies, if your man can’t handle his own appointments that’s on you too. You picked this dude stop coddling him just so you can play the victim over how much stuff you do. Tell him to manage his own shit 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:12 AM
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The kids thing is goofy because lots of people don’t even have kids, yet women still do the math as if future possible kids are effecting her now. But in case you have kids… who’s forgetting their own kids bday? Like random events/other kids bdays/parties or whatever I can understand but I doubt there’s any real concern over men forgetting their kids bday lol. Extra shit as in anything your man did not specifically ask you to do. For instance my ex-GF just started doing all my laundry. I didn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 09:09 AM
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Lol right? They actin like they still washin clothes at the river 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 08:58 AM
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And those 2 hrs are what put them over men’s contributions. It’s goofy as hell lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:53 AM
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Yes. Like seriously what do you think men do without women? How do you think they manage to function and maintain family relationships on their own? Women just do shit bruh, and I’m not saying the things they do aren’t useful or appreciated, but a lot of ya’ll just doing some extra shit that no one even asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:46 AM
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Keeping in touch with family. Sending out Christmas/Birthday cards. Remembering important dates. Organizing/helping organize events. You know, “managing family relationships”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 06:41 AM
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Not even close to as much as before. Men have long since been pulling their weight. When polled it turns out women just do a lot of extra busy work and count it towards her efforts. “Managing family relationships”. Bruh, if your man didn’t specifically ask you to do that and you just do it because you feel you have to (for whatever reason) that’s on you. If you do everything without being asked, you can’t complain that you do everything 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:08 AM
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When did women not have a choice? When have men not had to perform to attract a mate? Or just fine quality women? My GF aint cheap and is worth giving up all the other pussy for 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:51 AM
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Cheap dick simply meant men needed to provide more to attract women. It’s always been that way. But cheap pussy… women made pussy cheap but also still wanna charge full price, and we’re dealing with this mess currently. Ya’ll want it both ways while still demanding men bring more to the table, all while bringing less of what men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:14 AM
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What can the average man do? It’s mainly the attractive men benefitting, and they have no incentive to stop because women give them pussy easily. Any attempts to complain are met with attitudes such as yours (stop crying). Bruh women incentivize men. How many millions of years do you need to see how this shit works? Men want sex from women and will do things to make that happen. If women give sex to certain men then men will emulate those guys. It’s simple math.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:41 PM
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No, but I’ve got a shit ton of experience sleeping with women casually, and have a lot of female friends. It’s true it may not apply everywhere, but seems to hold up everywhere I’ve been 🤷🏾‍♂️ Lol we already know women down play and men exaggerate. Even on anonymous surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 11:35 PM
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Yes. Most women would not admit to partaking in “hookup culture”, but IME, most women are absolutely open to hooking up with the right guy. Though I imagine they’re often hoping for more 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:22 PM
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What’s stopping women from control theirs?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:13 PM
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Clearly we’re going no where since you can’t even accept that the system of dating we have today was built by women. Ya’ll created this system so you could fuck hot guys casually without having to get married. You have no one to blame but yourselves. If you gonna hand out free pussy then obviously men are gonna take you up on that. To even try to blame men is goofy because most dudes don’t even benefit from this system. They don’t want it. But it’s how things are so it’s either get good or be se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:31 PM
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You a man were the one bitching about the state of things so the question is why you refuse to hold men accountable and want to blame everything on women. I mean the reason is obvious but... For the same reason I don’t get upset at other men for hitting on my girl, but would get upset if my girl reciprocated. The actions of other men are largely irrelevant. What matters is how she (women) behaves. Men could control it if they weren't such sluts. The cage is locked from the inside. Women can't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 08:00 PM
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Men went along with the sexual revolution because they thought everyone was getting laid. Instead it was just so women could fuck all the hot guys first and then commit to the guys she would’ve ended up with anyway, except now with kids and baggage. And then try to spin it as “the past doesn’t matter” and “real men raise other men’s kids” and shit. Women could close their damn legs too but they aint so why would men? The gender literally powered by sexual desire? Women are held accountable becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:12 PM
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Held accountable for what? The sexual revolution was on women, not men. Dudes were waiting for marriage to get laid as was expected of them. Who’s a whore? Only certain men can become whores and only because women allow them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 07:00 PM
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Of course there is not and men use to behave this way because it was the expectation. An expectation that women go rid of 🤷🏾‍♂️ There’s nothing wrong with wanting or not wanting sex, but in a system where clearly the sex havers are perceived as better options, people would rather be them than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:46 PM
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No, it’s simply nature for men to pursue women. That means they’re offering dick. Do you want men to behave like women? And wait around for a woman to approach them and offer them pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:27 PM
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I’m aware, but it can be tough since women aren’t honest about the past. It “doesn’t matter” to them but it definitely matters to men (though we basically just white noise it since asking is a universal turn-off).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:57 AM
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Bruh cap women aint sweatin dick men have been giving out free dick for literally ever. Men can’t fuck women without consent. It literally doesn’t matter what men do or think. If women only had sex after marriage for instance, men would have no choice but to be marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:56 AM
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>Yes yes, objection because it's devastating to your case. It's not an invalid point just because it rebuts the claim and you don't like that. No it’s because celebrities don’t exist in normal people’s realities. Also being rich and/or famous gives you easy access to women. >The fact remains that men are incorrigibly, pants-on-head fucking stupid if they look at how people who are far more sexually appealing than they are are being treated and then "adjust their standards" based on that. You act…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 06:54 AM
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It wasn’t a problem until women gave out free pussy. The standard literally was to court women and wait till marriage for sex. Women got rid of that, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:21 AM
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Chad isn’t the only one getting casual. Besides it’s not even about men getting casual sex or not it’s just about not wanting to be the guy who’s picking up the tab. No one wants to be with the broken fallout of a woman who’s finally ready to settle down. It’s just a bad investment. If women just, didn’t fuck randoms, dudes who expect not to be able to possibly slide into the panties, but since they all know saying or doing the right things leads to early sex (or being attractive), that’s what t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:19 AM
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Using your logic women shouldn’t be upset when they don’t “qualify” for anything more than the streets. Comparing things to celebrities is silly bruh focus on averages where things actually matter. It doesn’t matter. You treat certain men better and the men you supposedly love and want to date worse and men are gonna complain. It’s the same for women ya’ll don’t like being used or played either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 04:18 AM
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It’s literally only a standard because women decided to give up free pussy to certain guys. You can’t just expect some guys to wait patiently while other guys fuck all the women before said women then come around ready to settle down, without being called out for it. It’s just goofy. Obviously guys were going to start expecting intimacy/sex quickly if they’re hearing other guys are getting it. Ya’ll are setting men’s standards/expectations for them 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:40 AM
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They’re only alone if they can’t pay the cost. “Man-children” with the money to back it up get bitches. It’s the broke dudes with no ambition who can’t pull it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:58 PM
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You’re oppressed because you can’t just be who you want. So many of ya’ll are pretending to be mature and sophisticated when the true is you’re just scared of what others think. Some of us aren’t afraid to accept our inner childs. Some of us lock them in the basements of our subconscious to look cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:59 PM
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How is it also not obvious that you’re masturbating in real life? You’re just placating yourself for some reason. Shame maybe? If you saw your porn scenes in real life, you’d be aroused too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:56 PM
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Stupid? Lol reality is cheeks bruh theirs nothing wrong with escapism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:22 PM
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Most people don’t like man children because it doesn’t benefit them. Men are expected to fit a certain role of utility and a man who invests his time in none useful things (video games, porn, drugs etc), is a “loser” and annoying. He has “main character syndrome” because instead of being useful to others (women), he’s selfishly investing his time into himself. Society doesn’t like men who don’t conform to male expectations. Ever wonder why there’s no “woman child” saying? Because people already …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:20 PM
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Yes but men don’t demand women conform. A naturally beautiful woman will be rewarded naturally. It’s the basic ass women who are jealous that contort them selves to try and be like the woman they’re envious of. It’s not men’s fault or doing. Beautiful people are beautiful. Lesser people have to compensate. Your insecurities are not other people’s problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:16 PM
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This sounds like cope. If you masturbate to it it’s pretty safe to say you desire it. Logistics aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 02:25 PM
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Which is a shame. Maybe the world would be better if killing your inner child in the name of maturity wasn’t the norm. It’s possible to be an adult and like to watch cartoons and smoke weed at the same time 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 09:10 PM
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And? Many adults still believe in fairytails. It’s a literal trope for women waiting for some kind of Chad prince charming to game her down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:14 PM
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>Men can't even accomplish "don't be fat" themselves, so tell me how hard that is. And if it is easy why do over 90 % of men and women fail. Yeah, and fat men struggle immensely. At least fat women actually literally have men who are sexually attracted to them. They don’t even have to not be fat anymore 🤷🏾‍♂️ >Look at what they do, not what they say. > Michelle Obama isn't fat and was called an ape. Venus Williams wasn't fat nor her sister. Still called ugly and too masculine. Calling a black wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 08:13 PM
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Lol definitely a hot take. I don’t think people need to be nicer, just more tolerant. People have preferences and sometimes it ain’t you. Don’t take shit so personally. Work on yourself and through your own insecurities. If everyone did that we’d be better off for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:52 PM
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Again, what unrealistic standards are women being held to and by who? Most men just say don’t be fat. What else is there and how is not being fat unrealistic? Certainly not like telling someone to just be tall or something lol. But yeah boys are developing dysmorphia thanks to women. Your insecurities have bled into men and now they think they need to compete with your filtered, makeuped online versions, and the Chads, in order to compete.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:50 PM
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Even if men fuck indiscriminately, they literally can’t legal fuck any woman raw without her consent. All of these “loser” men are being given consent to fuck these women raw. Seriously, it’s obvious who the real loser is here. Both literally and metaphorically. The woman loses on all fronts when all she had to do was use condoms/birth control/plan-b/abstinence/abortions etc etc. No matter how much ya’ll try to gaslight and twist the situation, it all comes down to her consenting to being fucked…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:05 PM
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I disagree. Men have a biological right to choose who to provide for. Women are losers for letting men they aren’t married too (or at least discussed having kids with) impregnate them, and then choose to birth this child and raise them on their own for validation points. It’s gross. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:25 PM
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They’re simply saying what happened to them, not that they still believe it. By the time you’re an adult and realize the truth it’s too often too late. Dating experience as a kid is a real game changer for interactions with women in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:10 PM
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Hard to do when everyone is raised by single mom’s. Your first healthy relationship experience should ideal be your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:57 PM
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“Men” This chain is about kids taking advice from their parents. Not fully grown adults who have experienced reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:54 PM
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No little boy is expecting women to “contort” to beauty standards. Hell neither are grown men. Women contort themselves on their own because other women do it, not because men demand it. Women do it because appearing more attractive gives better real world results. It’s the same as men being taller, except most dudes aint walking around with shoe lifts (yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:52 PM
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Makes perfect sense coming from impressionable kids, especially boys, who love their mom’s. Why wouldn’t you believe her? 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:48 PM
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No man has ever said they want a perfect looking woman they’d never even be able to approach her. The vast vast vast majority of men a just fine with a girl who’s cute to them (which could be average or below girls). Most women are average. This is a fact. And most men are happy with average. The problem is ya’ll keep trying to inflate what average is (for both yourselves and men) and it’s distorting people’s expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:44 AM
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And then you have the men with muscles who are drowning in pussy. I think you’re confused. It’s not that men don’t like natural women, it’s just that most of ya’ll are average, or worse looking. You’ve conditioned men to expect the average girl to be at least slightly above average because of makeup. So obviously their standards go up. It’d be like if men always wore shoe lifts, so the average height was more like 6ft. So then women only wanted dudes who were at least 6ft even though the true av…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:27 PM
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Usually only a day or so. I notice if I try to use the shower-head to much that it seems like I can’t “hit the spot” as well, so definitely some feeling loss, but nothing long lasting so far. Maybe I’ll try masturbating more often to see lol. Masturbating these days just makes me feel sad though lol. Rather sex up my GF 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:09 PM
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This is… actually a good point lol. But also… women’s orgasmic limit is limited by sensitivity. It just slowly becomes harder and harder to orgasm. That seems to come from “numbness” and not oversensitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:45 PM
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Lol yeah I think I’m uncommon idk many dudes who masturbate like me (not that I’m asking lol). I do lose some sensitivity but it is only temporary. Again I don’t masturbate daily so I’m not sure if the lose of sensitivity would get worse or not 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:38 PM
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Anecdote of 1 but I actually only masturbate by stimulating the little sensitive spot on the dick as opposed to stroking the shaft. It does make me a bit less sensitive in bed but nothing serious. Though I don’t masturbate often (maybe once or twice a month) so I’m not exactly the best case example lol. Vibrators or the shower head do the job best. Though still not as good as sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 04:10 PM
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Cap. There’s literally no way that the sensitive nerve endings of the clitoris aren’t effected by vibrators. Especially considering dicks and vaginas are basically just inversions of themselves. You really think that men can lose the feeling of their dicks from death grip, when the sensitive part of the penis isn’t even the shaft? And yet women don’t lose feeling from the clits by directly vibrating them? Go hold a vibrator in your hand for a while. It’ll go numb. You think the clit is more resi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:30 PM
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I didn’t say they were. I’m saying most people having casual sex are open to something serious if they find it someone they really like. Seriously are ya’ll even having casual sex cause no doubt the majority of my casual partners were down for the LTR. Hell it’s literally how all of my relationships have started 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:16 PM
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Bruh what is this cap? Apex fallacy? I literally don’t know any guy who’d go through the work of gaming some girl down and getting the pussy just to dump her right after. That’s behavior almost strictly reserved for attractive fuck bois who can easily recycle women. The average guy is not him and unless your pussy is no good, it’s unlikely you’ll never hear from him again (honestly a lot of women think they got gold plated pussy anyway when they absolutely do not).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:14 PM
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Lol naw literally all you have to do is make the guy feel like/or literally tell him you wanna fuck him but are waiting. If dude is on date 3 and isn’t sure if you’re really interested or not your girl game is slackin
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 11:11 PM
-14

Hopping in and out of LTRs “looking for the one” is basically the same as casual sex. Casual sex havers very often LTR “the one(s)” they like as well 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 08:36 PM
7

That’s BlkP RP is Looks, Money and Status. Any alone in high enough stats will suffice, but a combination of the 3 is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:38 PM
1

What makes you think women treat boys the same way they treat girls? Women literally have an observable in-group bias. And we literally have the stats showing much worse outcomes for boys raised by (poor) single moms, and their significantly increased chance of criminality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:09 PM
0

And? Women aren’t doing so well either. They’re just use to faking it 🤷🏾‍♂️😏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:52 PM
3

I never said you ignored it. I’m saying it’s ignored in general discourse. What do you mean girls aren’t doing this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 05:10 PM
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I’m not blaming women I’m blaming parents. In today’s day, it’s just more likely that the parent is only the mother. We have the studies that literally show being raised by single (poor) mother’s significantly increases a child’s odds of being a criminal. Why do we ignore this fact? Because it makes women look bad? Obviously adult men are responsible for their own actions. Obviously, people raised in traumatic situations don’t always turn out messed up, but we know it’s a very easy way to mess u…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:43 PM
5

Are you accountable for your own upbringing? Do you think if you told a child they were a worthless piece of shit, and they grew up with low self esteem, that it’s their own fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:19 PM
3

I counter by saying most men are raises by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:14 PM
2

Dudes are already doing that. Men are already doing significantly more work around the house. As always, it’s never been about how much men do, but how much women think men do. You could do everything but if your wife changes the diapers and you never do, she could still feel like you don’t do enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 03:56 PM
1

Well first of all, within the context of this thread, it’d be so you can get laid, since this is assuming a world where women wait till marriage for sex. So, that’d be off top. Marriage is also good for building a family. Lots of benefits for being married that help with raising a family. Marriage isn’t a 50% chance to “get punched in the face”. You’re acting like the worst outcomes are common. You’re also looking at this hypothetical through realities lenses. I see no reason why marriage laws c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:11 AM
4

https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2023/04/13/in-a-growing-share-of-u-s-marriages-husbands-and-wives-earn-about-the-same/ Primary/sole provider is still mostly men. Showing women still on average prefer to marry dudes making $$$. And of course men pursing attractive women is just obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:41 AM
0

Bruh marriage is easy to avoid many of the shortcomings. Like prenups and not marrying a broke dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:32 AM
5

I mean, the data is pretty clear as far as marriage is concerned. And I bet if we paternity tested everyone, we’d see a lot of dual mating strategies happening
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:32 AM
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No they don’t. Most women seek men who make more money and most men seek women who are more attractive. All relationships are built around “what can you do for me”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:01 AM
0

Bent over by who? Your spouse? Get your shit together bruh not every relationship/marriage ends up in the gutter and even if things do end doesn’t mean it can’t be amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:59 PM
8

Bruh that’s your opinion you can go outside anywhere right now and find tons and tons and tons of people enjoying themselves around men. You’re the outlier. If you think hating men is normal then you’re a goofball 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 11:58 PM
10

Sure maybe if we had safe legal sex workers. All relationships are transactional.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:42 PM
5

Hating men is pure salt. There’s no other way around it since you weren’t born that way. You had poor experiences with a man or some men and extrapolated that to all men and… salt. But if you’re happier living the 4B lifestyle go off, but know its basically pure internet rage that’s carrying it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:36 PM
1

Strain? Bruh date people you like it’s not hard. If it doesn’t work you just don’t get married 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:11 PM
2

Wherever they can get in I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 08:09 PM
1

Yeah it is lol, but if it was the social expectation people would do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:51 PM
1

Hence no fault divorce. And a shit ton of sexual compatibility is effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:50 PM
2

From getting burned out trying to secure commitment, or listening to others who’ve been burned out trying to secure commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:50 PM
13

Men want good relationships too, they just can’t get reliable casual sex so they’ll take “any” (not literally though) relationship so they can get laid and experience intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:49 PM
11

Bruh I date women I can see what tactics they use to attract men. Women mostly prefer passive or subtle moves as opposed to direct overt one’s. They bait the trap and then reject the one’s she doesn’t like. It’s been this way since we we’re monkies
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:48 PM
2

I know you don’t have to. Bruh I’m saying casual sex is the problem. Yeah it works out for some people, but overall is detrimental to society. People don’t wait till marriage because they aren’t conditioned to anymore. Today we’re conditioned to hyper individualism and casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:54 PM
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You say that like women we’re proposing to men. All women ever have to do in dating is wait. Look cute and wait. Then pick from the suitors. It’s not like there was just 1 abusive guy for her to choose lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:49 PM
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Cap. I aint seeing it. Women IRL are either in a relationship, or want one. How do I know? I know a lot of women. They’re all in relationships, and the one’s that aren’t are all “fuck men” “I don’t need a man”, but it’s clearly just salt. Women actually want relationships. They are not happy that “men suck”. Most would love to find a good man to treat them right and love them. It’s just hard to find these days and there’s just to much available. Easy to get burnt out or screwed over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:47 PM
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Wha? Sounds like an easy way to get killed. Women still had family and friends. Hell they had other suitors too you couldn’t just snatch a woman and claim her for your own unless we talking like pre societal times. Like exactly in your example if fathers are choosing their daughters husbands (presumably for some kind of monetary/social benefit), he’d be quite protective of her don’t you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:41 PM
3

Yes I know their “dilemma” but the logic is goofy in the end. If Chad wanted you he put that ring on it so trying to lock him down with pussy is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:39 PM
0

It can when you marry someone who doesn’t suck but also we could simply amend the system to be more balanced. Make it harder for bad actors to fuck people while still being easy enough for two people who’ve grown to hate each other to split amicably.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:35 PM
0

Lol yeah it’s really goofy they’re the source of their own problems. Literally just don’t get fucked and you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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Yeah, sex is great, but most people also prefer committed relationships, and casual sex is bad for that. Gotta pick a lane. As a society we need to pick a lane. Waiting till marriage for sex I think is a massive win for everyone. It’s a huge sacrifice but the incentive structure is beneficial overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:33 PM
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It’s a myth that every woman prior to the 1970s was forced to marry some guy she didn’t like. Women still had options and suitors and could pick from whoever was available.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:54 PM
5

Easily solved by waiting for marriage to have sex. That should foil the vast majority of men’s plans
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:50 PM
0

I mean, definitely an easy way to catch herpes kissing the randoms you date/fuck with 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:29 PM
5

I mean… a lot of women like big arms. It’s literally the go to place for them to grab/hold on to, and one of the top ranked attractive parts on men (chest/abs are higher).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:05 PM
1

Naw I genuinely enjoy hanging out with women and have plenty of non-sexual female friends. I don’t “filter” only for women who’ll sleep with me that’s goofy. I want and have female only friends too. Lots of them in fact lol. Not really surprising if you knew me I’m decently attractive and have a fun vibe 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 04:37 PM
2

I don’t care that most women you talk to are fickle and will say something to look good in public and then think with their vaginas in private. Bruh women like you always say this shit. Like there’s some huge divide between you and these “other” women. Like dudes are intentionally seeking out 1 type of woman. Like we have that kind of awareness. Dudes just fuck with who express interest in them. It’s not complex. Every (hetero) woman will eventually express interest in a man who she’ll want to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 11:00 PM
1

No. I have exes and girlfriends. My best friend is a girl. I was raised by girls. I was a blue pilled simp who’d join the girls team at school to help them beat the boys. I was invited to girl slumber parties. And my n-count is triple digits. I have a shit ton of experience and time having long, deep conversations with numerous women. I laugh and joke and tease women daily. I’m loved and hated. I know women. Ya’ll are bullshitters. Ya’ll are smart and conniving. Ya’ll a’int victims, and a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:25 PM
1

Yes men are stronger, but it’s not like women are powerless. Any woman could easily, retroactively say she was raped, and it’s child’s play to just say “Do [X], or I’ll tell people you raped me”. Ya’ll act like simps aren’t the standard in men. These dudes aint raping no body. Confirmation bias I guess, since non-simps are more attractive behaviorally. The most common rape scenario is basically your boyfriend wanting sex when you don’t and you acquiesced. The fact men are bigger and stronger and…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:08 PM
1

Brub I know women. You know women. I know men. You know men. Why act like you can’t parse out women’s intent when they do shit? You it’s clear they didn’t pop the balloon because he was physically unattractive, and we absolutely know that people will fuck with shitty people if they’re attractive. So it’s not hard to conclude that, sense they didn’t pop their balloon on sight, and only after he popped the transwomen’s balloon, that offscreen some of them would probably still be interested. Like c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:02 PM
0

Im not competing. Literally only women say this, because you guys are perma victims and can’t accept that rape aint just about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:59 PM
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Uh, it’s clear why. He was aggressive about his disinterest in her and it turned those women off. But honestly it was probably just for show, seeing as usually on these shows the women will insta-pop their balloons on goofy lookin dudes. Offscreen I’d bet some of them were still interested, they just didn’t wanna be seen as “transphobic”. Women are goofy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:04 PM
1

A competition? Naw just stop acting like men aint sitting at the raped table too. Stop acting like women don’t rape men too. Stop acting like ya’ll ain’t sexual deviants too. Every man who can attract women know’s what happens when you reject their sexual advances, or how easy it is for them to just say some shit like “if you don’t [X], I’ll tell everyone you raped me”. Stop being selfish. Rape is a non-gender issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:00 PM
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Bruh what? Most rape does not involve being bound and knifes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:54 PM
2

Lack of sex won’t directly kill you but if the reason for lack of sex isn’t a personal choice and simply that you can’t attract someone of the opposite sex than it definitely increase your chances of dying. It’s literally no different for women either women unable to attract men become depressed and resentful too. Depression will absolutely kill you overtime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:22 PM
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The redpill is literally about excepting your faults and doing something about it. If you aren’t getting the results you want it’s because you suck, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 07:15 PM
0

Women oppress themselves bruh. Without men it’d be the same shit. There’d be stronger, more aggressive women that fill the gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 05:43 PM
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That’s only surface level. Men provided more than just provisions and women’s need for them was a lot deeper than financial. Ya’ll always talk as if the last 150 years in the US encompasses all of human history. Bruh, for the majority of our existence women needed men for labor and security. Men literally paved the way for women to live their existence “free” of them. And again that’s only surface level because men still overwhelming pay more into the tax system that overwhelming supports women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:52 PM
1

Bruh men lavish sluts. You just have to be the “hot tease” kind of slut, not the “I’ll give it up to literally anyone” kind of slut. Gotta still be classy and have self respect. It’s one thing to fuck hot rich Chads and above average men, and completely another to be a drugged out back-alley slut. There’s levels to this shit but leveraging your sexuality absolutely is a viable path for women, and you can do it while maintaining your dignity. And remember the only reason men hate is because they …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:42 PM
1

Bruh a slutty woman is a woman who can attract men, which means they can get LTRs All the slutty women I know and/or have fucked have no problems securing men. It’s a “not so secret” secret about men; we’re desperate and will LTR sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 04:39 PM
1

They’re benign in the sense of who cares what others think. If you wanna suck dick you’re gonna suck dick anyway, why pretend like you aint? 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:39 AM
1

Sure they are. Sluts have no problem securing LTRs if they want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:36 AM
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Whore, hoe, trashy, slut, used up, run through… seriously these are benign and should be met with a “and?” or “so what?” because they’re meaningless words. The only men who don’t like sluts are the one’s who aint getting laid. Stop letting these “patriarchal” expectations live on. There’s nothing wrong with slutting it up life is too short and everyone likes free pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 06:37 PM
0

Femosphere already slaps bruh you’re cooked. All it takes its for people to keep repeating it. The “manosphere” only caught on because women are haters and kept saying it. The internet is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:24 AM
1

I agree men are struggling with this change, and for some reason many women still consider men using artificial means to boost their looks is “lying”. Do we really want a world wear shoe lifts and steriods are standard for men? Our live spans are short enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:56 AM
0

Literally thanks to women! Ya’ll have become so insecure, artificially inflating your looks (especially online) that you think you’re more attractive/better than men, forcing men to “catch up” or become incels. Again, infinite insecurity glitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:31 PM
1

I didn’t say you specifically, but to claim insecurity (in one’s looks) isn’t more common is just goofy. Ya’ll literally prop up multiple industries specifically designed to improve your looks and appear younger 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:27 PM
0

You guys say this shit like it’s a good thing but the truth is that you’ve all just set up for the infinite insecurity glitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:05 PM
0

Bruh what? Women are just pricing themselves out of the market they aint lowering their standards. College educated women want college educated men. Rich women want rich men. Poor women want rich men. This isn’t hard bruh give any random guy a bunch of money and he’ll *literally* be perceived as more attractive by women. This is beyond common knowledge at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:23 PM
1

And just like the “he has a great personality man” *it doesn’t mean shit if you aren’t attractive*. You’re right, life isn’t fair, but there are very straight forward rules you can follow to success. Complaining that you don’t like the way it is and “giving up” is loser mentality. Exploit the system. You have an easy path to get what you want but you refuse because you actually have to be attractive to achieve it. It’s literally the same for everyone else. Having a good personality is great but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 04:35 AM
1

Yes I realize that. It’s hard to say things in a way that resonates for women. I’m to direct/crass. But yes, become a “pretty hole” if you want success in dating. It’s the same for everyone else no one gets picked for being unattractive. It’s tough but that’s reality. Giving up because “it’s not fair” or whatever is a viable path but kind of a cop out. If you’re truly ugly you’re gonna have a tough time making friends. The fact that you have many simply lends credence to you not being completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:42 AM
1

Why? Because I told you nothing is free and you have to earn things? Tough life bruh. The dating life of “ugly” women is the same as men’s. Getting good is the only option (though, at least you can experience intimacy 🤷🏾‍♂️). Sorry I’m not a woman I can’t explain things all feathery like them. I can only present it as a man giving advice to a woman which will often sound cold. Either way, take what you will from this, but maybe you are lost if you feel worse after someone tells you aren’t as ugl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:04 PM
1

Then you got more work to do. Simple as that. But it’s good you have male friends. And it’s good you can get laid. Both imply you aren’t as ugly as you think, you just aren’t attractive enough to get LTRs. Easily achievable, especially if you truly aren’t jaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:34 PM
1

OLD is trash. Live your life and be happy. You’ll eventually run into someone interested in you both sexually and emotionally. Just drop the jaded inkwell mentality. It’s not attractive in men and it aint attractive in women either. Life isn’t fair and you deserve nothing. If you wanna be happy you gotta be happy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 07:08 PM
1

So you enjoy discussing dating and giving your opinion but want no part in dating? Stop it. Just like every other human you long for connection and intimacy. Denying this about yourself simply because you don’t like that you have to actually be attractive to find love is goofy. Sorry bruh but not many want to date someone who’s obese. It shows a lack of care for yourself, which could translate into a lack of care for them. Take care of yourself. Stop being a doomer. You’re a woman. Just crush it…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:03 PM
1

Lies. You’re on here. Still in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:55 PM
1

I didn’t say no women have been assaulted. You said *the majority*. You aint representative 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:55 PM
1

This is just a stupid woman mentality. Stop it. Everyone wants sex. Even you. Everyone wants an attractive partner. Even you. More men wanting to fuck you just means more options to vet and a higher chance of finding someone who actually likes you and not just wanna fuck you. You don’t have to fuck everyone who offers, and you can set boundaries and expectations. It’s insane you’re literally getting laid but failing. Get your shit together bruh as I said *you’re in the game!* You’re clearly play…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:25 PM
1

Hmm I feel that… maybe I need to reevaluate? I mean I don’t have any problems with how my sex lives being but just to see if it’s some subconscious attraction I have to certain types. Idk man I just find most women to be pretty passive in dating/sex 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:22 PM
1

Assaulted? No they haven’t. That’s just victimhood mentality. Threatened? Who hasn’t been threatened? And have you seen how women behave toward men? They ain’t scared of em that’s for sure lol. Most women are quite ballsy in fact. The vast majority of women have never been physically harmed by a man, because the vast majority of men have never put hands on a woman. There is a small subset of men who physically harm others. This is a fact. Men are way more likely to be assaulted or killed and yet…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:20 PM
1

Placate? I’m giving you the male perspective. Lots of dudes ashamed of the fact that they’re attracted to “less than average” women, but the fact that you’re being chosen even as a last option proves you aren’t as ugly as you may think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:17 PM
1

Why not both? Since losing weight will make you more attractive anyway, might as well capitalize on it 🤷🏾‍♂️ And it’s not like you don’t want to be more attractive either. Literally everyone does lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:16 PM
1

The vast majority of men will never physically harm a woman. You’re scared for nothing. And if you really obese just learn to throw a damn punch 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:40 PM
1

Or your ass. Vaginas aren’t sexually attractive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:39 PM
1

You’re free to do that lol but sounds like that’s not what you want considering you’re putting in effort to change and *you’re still able to get laid*. You’re in the game bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:37 PM
1

Stop having sex with dudes you’re afraid of (unless that’s what you like).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:36 PM
1

And I’m saying what type of energy? Like if you seen me, I’m high energy and confident. Fun. I attract all kinds of girls and I aint tellin em to just lay there 🤷🏾‍♂️ Idk sounds like it might just be what people expect from me? Idk about your looks but I definitely got the “masculine black guy” thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:35 PM
1

He was sexually attracted to you enough to fuck. Men have a very wide range of sexual attraction. I’m telling you, guys can’t fuck things if their dick isn’t hard. He found something about you attractive enough 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:28 PM
1

Lol men yell at you? Come on. And yeah if you’re obese and lose a lot of weight you might look goofy for a while. Also extremely crucial that you’re lifting weights while losing weight (heavy weights. Try to get stronger)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:24 PM
1

Again, you’re saying it like I’m specifically going after some type of girl and I’m not. I simply fuck with who I find attractive (and who find me attractive). I aint vetting for passive women or anything. In fact I seem to fuck a lot of “strong independent” types. I don’t even ask them to “just lay there”, it’s just kind of how it ends up happening 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:23 PM
1

Naw bruh ya’ll think every dude is finna attack you and it’s just not true. And if you’re that scared why you giving up the pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:20 PM
1

You realize it’s a mostly a myth that dudes can just fuck things they aren’t attracted to. Like, the dick still has to get hard and stay hard. Very difficult to do fucking things that you don’t want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:18 PM
1

Not to many truly ugly women running around and tons of ways to boost your looks up. Hit the gym, style your hair, wear makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:29 AM
1

It’s mental for men too I assure you a dude distracted will not perform in bed. Even still, forced orgasms are real. Rape orgasms are real. If you play with the clit how she likes it long enough, most women will cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:28 AM
1

Then you’re a fool. You should’ve long since vetted do for communication before letting him inside you. If you’re to scared to even end the session, wtf are you even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:54 PM
1

I don’t disagree but some of us fuck women to make them cum so don’t give up hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:42 PM
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False. Most men don’t do that. Men most can’t do that. Most men barely get pussy they can’t afford to just throw it away *especially* if it’s good. Apex fallacy!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:40 PM
1

Yeah and some women only cum from vibrators or showerheads. Some women literally require stimulation at a level and consistency that’s not humanly possible. You can’t blame men for that. It’s goofy but maybe if only the women who cam easily passed down their genes, women would experience sex more like men (except vastly superior since they’re multi-orgasmic)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:39 PM
2

Exactly. So you don’t fake multiple orgasms, lending even more credence to women not faking with me since multiple orgasms is the standard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:37 PM
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Hmm I think i just set an environment where women feel comfy and relaxed. I’m a very generous lover so I really don’t expect women to do much anyway 🤷🏾‍♂️ I just wanna eat that pussy and clap them cheeks, not much she needs to do right? Lol Lol yeah well that’s not anything I’ve learned. Im above average in looks but ya boi putting in the work, and I don’t only fuck really attractive women so idk. Interesting to hear someone else’s experience though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:36 PM
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Ah a fellow kindred spirit. I too prefer a good pillow princess. I enjoy “having my way” with women. I’ve grown accustomed to finding the things that get her off on my own from years of having to do it 🤷🏾‍♂️ That said, what skill issue? I can attract and have sex with women casually (and not just carried by looks my “game” is strong too), and have women who’ve been coming to me for dick for decades. I’ve been told to do porn. I’ve been asked to give lessons. My current GF is lying next to me pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:05 PM
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I prefer pillow princesses myself. I enjoy “having my way” with women anyway. I’ve grown accustomed to finding the things that get her off on my own 🤷🏾‍♂️ That said, what skill issue? I can attract and have sex with women casually (and not just carried by looks my “game” is strong too), and have women who’ve been coming to me for dick for decades. I’ve been told to do porn. I’ve been asked to give lessons. My current GF is lying next to me passed out from sex *right now*.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:04 PM
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Lol I’ve fucked with all different types of women from college educated with stable 2 parent homes to club thots, it’s consistent. Honestly it may just be me seeing as I’m a black guy. Maybe women are fetishizing me, assuming as a black guy that I’ be more aggressive and just “take them” and thus I only attract those types of women. Idk. But I fuck with all races of all education levels and backgrounds. I don’t discriminate. So long as you cute and we vibe we good 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:49 PM
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I feel like in essence we both agree; sex is higher risk for women. Where we differ is that it’s not a small minority of women doing goofy things with their bodies, and I think society should be stricter about it. Like I realize women are autonomous and can do what they want but when it comes to kids I don’t think we should let them freely act. I know it’s dystopian as fuck but man… I mean I know we can’t stop certain people’s from breeding and that’s fair but we should at least incentivize stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:04 PM
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Lol how many women? Not tryna brag but my n-count is low triple digits. IME this behavior is very consistent amongst women. The mating/dating process for them is a lot more passive, and they carry that into the sheets. Sex is something that happens *to* them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:53 PM
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Not hard to vet for guys who are interested in your pleasure. Just only fuck with guys who are adamant about eating pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️ IME, women don’t vet for sexual compatibility at all. If you’re attractive enough she’ simply roll the dice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:32 PM
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Then it’s there loss. I always lead casual encounters by telling women they don’t need to fake it. My whole goal for sex is to make her cum as much as possible. If I ain’t doing it right, *tell me*. If you like it like this or that, *tell me*. I’m gonna be observing your body language too to see what you like most (especially since most girls just kind of lay there and expect you to figure it out). If you fake an orgasm I’m just gonna think what I’m doing is working and keep doing it to make you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 09:30 PM
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Men don’t dump good pussy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:50 PM
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You fake orgasms to end sessions, not to keep getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:49 PM
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Yes. Some women have stupid pussy that doesn’t cum, and some women have excellent pussy that cums easily and consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:48 PM
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As soon as he tries to lead sex with his dick and not foreplay (if that’s what you want). So, before the 2-3 minute timer starts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:23 PM
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Something like 40% of births in the US are to single mothers. An absolutely abysmal stat when you look at the outcomes for kids raised by them. There’s very little excuse either you shouldn’t even have kids with dudes you aint married too 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:20 PM
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What guys what? Every man knows (or eventually learns) that being too nice is detrimental to one’s dating success unless you only plan to get married after 30. Having an “edge” to you is polarizing and makes you more attractive. At the extremes, violent and dangerous > peaceful and safe (at least until they’ve had their fill of danger).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 05:39 AM
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Find better lovers, or train men to be better. You ever have sex with women? The majority are just their kind of floatin along for the ride. If the sex is good or bad, she basically had no input. Maybe seize the means of your own orgasm like men do. Demand more oral or bring your toys along. It’s not that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:01 AM
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Of course not, but just, stop having sex with him? Like if a girl is adamant about sucking my dick but she’s all teeth, I aint just gonna keep letting her chew me up, similarly if a dude aint listening or hitting it right just end the session. And don’t hit me with the “I’d be to scared” like bruh you trusted him enough to be inside you now do the right thing and kick him out
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:59 AM
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Sure but in reality women don’t behave like that’s an issue seeing as more dangerous guys are drowning in pussy. It’d be one thing if good upstanding men were being fawned over but that’s only true online 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:57 AM
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You don’t need to be a god to make women orgasm and you know this. All it takes is some patients on a consistency. Vaginas aint rubix cubes the clit is right there at the top 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:56 AM
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Bruh, you’ll never convince me women have it worse in this regard. The more they have sex with the same guy, the more likely orgasm, and women are multi orgasmic!!! As soon as you find a guy who can make you orgasm you’ll quickly surpass any advantage that orgasming once, 95% of the time has. I’ve got exes who could easily have +10 orgasms in a session. Meanwhile men spend the whole time holding back their 1 shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:54 AM
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Naw it’s casual. In relationships women orgasm +60%. And agin they’re multi orgasmic. My current GF has 3-5 orgasms everytime we fuck vs my 1. Who cares if 7/10 guys can’t get her off when the 3 who do are giving her 5 orgasms?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:49 AM
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No there’s an actually “study” (I believe it’s self reported) on this, but it’s nonsense because again, women are multi orgasmic. They have worse results in casual sex but significantly better results the longer she has sex with the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:48 AM
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Globally doing a lot of heavy lifting here. In the US, women are more likely to be the abusive one’s in relationships, though the majority of abusive relationships are reciprocal. Anyone who’s friends with women will easily see that only a small percentage of women fall into the “vulnerable and naive” category. I don’t know any women who would just stand by and accept abuse 🤷🏾‍♂️ Also no one is justifying murdered I’m simply stating it’s a non concern. You ain’t gonna get murdered bruh get over …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:56 AM
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Google of course. But specifically from a commonly thrown around study. To be fair, it doesn’t match my experience. I’d say at least 90% of women orgasm multiple times casually with me 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:15 PM
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You aren’t paying attention to what I said. Like I said men here are y’all just that stupid or that solipsistic? because this is really wild how you can’t understand such a simple concept. Bruh. We all knew this. We’ve known this since forever. It’s exactly why we have religion and Chasity rules and shit. Humans have known that sex is riskier for women, and thus placed heavier restrictions on them for their own benefit. But women didn’t like that shit. They don’t like being protected from themse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:11 PM
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Most women aren’t getting murdered period. There are less than 1500 women murdered annually by an intimate partner (in the US), and we know the vast majority of abusive relationships are reciprocal. Point being, men aint just murdering women for fun, and women aint innocent wall flowers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:39 PM
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This is cap. Even the stats say women orgasm like 30-40% of the time from casual sex/one night stands. 3.5/10 guys making you orgasm aint bad, especially considering most women are multi orgasmic. That % goes up even more with repeated sessions and I’d imagine a women having unlimited sex would filter out the guys who couldn’t make her cum 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:25 PM
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That’s cause only women “use” sex to get things from people. Otherwise you’d never feel “used” after consenting to sex. You’d just have sex for sexes sake. Men seek sexually compatibility and women seek emotional compatibility. Who’s really being used? Is it honestly better to invest emotionally/financially before you find out if you’re compatible sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:15 PM
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Condoms bruh. Most men do not want to raw dog every woman and get them pregnant. They want sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 09:11 PM
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Hey I’m happy for you to they can be exhausting trying to weave through the nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 09:52 AM
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Yes. Fairs fair. Now count it up. Men account for 80% of suicides.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:20 AM
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It honestly doesn’t matter, but it’s a lot easier to exercise agency when you have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:15 AM
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Options. What you have is options to exercise. I understand I’m in the same boat. If I don’t like the way some girl behaves I can easily replace her. Women hit on me and are often receptive when I hit on them. Back in my blue pilled days fumbling in the dark without options I simply clung to whatever girl that showed me love, completely subject to her whims. It’s good to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:57 PM
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Yes it works very nicely when you have the options to just cycle through people and discard the ones who don’t behave in ways that benefit you the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:37 PM
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When I say little boys I’m talking early grade school where boys and girls are first noticing each other. At that point, lack of experience leads boys to try to “nice” their way into a girls heart. 8th grade is well into the point where boys are no longer “little” and have noticed that being nice to girls you like doesn’t seem to work very well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 10:34 PM
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Gotta play the game to win the game. If you think the majority of women aren’t playing… well then you must not date women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:59 PM
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No, but I think the message should be don’t hurt anyone, not just girls specifically. Niceness should at least be explained as just the normal way to treat people (treat others how you’d want to be treated), but also explained to boys that being nice to girls is not the way piquing their interest lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:50 PM
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Naw. Women create problems too and a shit ton of male suicides are directly linked to women’s actions. Remember, women’s favorite form of abuse/violence is psychological! Driving people into a corner and getting others to dogpile on is a basic female war strategy. It’s especially effective against men because other women just believe each other (when it comes to men being bad) off top and other men support women 🤷🏾‍♂️ Even more insidious is that you can’t really prove it, but it’s obvious to any…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:40 PM
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Lol pretty much every little boy starts out with blue pilled ideas. Just go observe them. No boys are trying to be cool or aloof. No boys are trying to be confident or assholes. Most little boys, the first thins they try, is being nice to girls. Simping is boys go to for girls. It happens becuase that’s what society teaches boys. “Girls are delicate”. “Be nice to girls”. “Don’t hurt girls”. “Girls like flowers/gifts”. “Girls like “nice guys””. Etc etc. Then couple this with the fact that yes, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:25 PM
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That’s cause men are doing it all for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:10 PM
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We do. You don’t. Date women. A woman who finds a man she’s attracted to/likes will not risk scaring him off by telling him about her past sex life. You have no way of knowing which men will be triggered by it (fragile ego) or not, so you just blanket assume all men care (most do) and say nothing. We already do. You don’t. We see all the time online dudes suddenly finding out about their GFs/Wives sexual history and it destroying them. Sheesh it’s like you don’t know women bruh they aren’t in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 06:58 PM
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Women lie to insecure men because insecure men can’t handle the truth. Men have incredibly fragile egos and just can’t handle anything that makes them question their inner narrative that makes them believe that they are the most special guy in the whole world. 🙃 Shit I wish. It’d make way more sense for you guys to just own it and be straight forward. Normalize that some women are sluts and they aren’t ashamed. You’d attract the men who don’t care/like it and reject the men who take issue. But i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 12:35 AM
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And yet they do. Why is that? I’ve never had a women be open and honest and any questioning into the matter it universally seen as unattractive. “The past doesn’t matter” You can call men whatever you want but it changes nothing. Ya’lls entire being is literally propped up by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 11:47 PM
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I agree, but that’s because sluts don’t lead with the number of dicks they’ve sucked. I assure you their dating lives would be harder if they were honest and upfront about who they’ve been with and what they’ve done. Especially the reformed “I don’t do that anymore” sluts. Obvious there’s still men out there who wouldn’t care, but the average guy would be in shambles to learn his girl was getting passed around in college or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:47 PM
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Naw desperation would evaporate the moment they realized the girl they’re trying to date is getting railed by a bunch of other dudes. Men aren’t women knowing other men want the girl they do doesn’t make them want her more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:24 PM
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Men should start a “HoeFax” group where men keep track of how many dicks a woman has taken. Each dude can sign off saying they clapped those cheeks. That way, men can know what they’re getting into. We gotta warn our brothers to avoid the hoe’s in disguise. Surely this wouldn’t spiral out with dudes lying about who fucked who causing reputational damage to unsuspecting women 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:03 PM
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Lol yeah I know it’s an easy target but I aint above picking that low hanging fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:48 PM
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And this isn’t even touching on the number of men who wouldn’t have LTR’d/fucked with a woman had he known her face would look drastically different without makeup or how many individual dicks she’s taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 08:09 PM
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Everything they don’t like.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 01:28 AM
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Lol because the “dragged into a bush” type of rape is uncommon amongst rape. Most rape is “I was dating this dude and we were making out alone and I rejected his escalations so he raped me” You need access to women who are alone in a place where no one else is to rape them. That’s not a common scenario for dudes who can’t attract women 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 09:33 PM
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No, they had a useless mother. Don’t have kids till you’re married ladies. Stop being so desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:46 PM
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To be fair, neither can men. I assure you everyone gets a funny look when deep throating a banana 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 Try just biting it instead of wrapping your lips around some length of it first 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:15 PM
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Even if true he’s 6’3 ripped and wealthy. 6 foot. 6 pack. +6 figures. His face card isn’t gonna hold him back.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 05:44 PM
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Are red pill/pua guys struggling? I think that’s just something women want to believe. Whether you like it or not, being a confident asshole gets the pussy. Women respond very well to men who are social and have fun. Usually these guys are louder and more obnoxious. Still, it works 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 07:05 PM
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Bruh there is no large contingent of +50 year old men having kids with women in their 30s. Old sperm is not the problem 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 10:16 PM
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And it means nothing. 80 yr old men can still have healthy children. The increase in birth issues is a lot relatively, but the odds are still incredibly low. Get these sour grapes outta. The reality is women’s fertility literally dries up and men can keep having kids until they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 09:49 PM
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Yuck. Men who think they need to "manage" women are absolutely encouraged to use sex robots. Manage as in you can just fuck every woman randomly there’s logistical issues plus some will get jealous. It’s a nightmare if you don’t properly manage them 🤷🏾‍♂️ TRP called it “spinning plates”. If you don’t “spin” them they’ll eventually lose momentum, fall and break. That better than “manage” for you? 😏 No, it's not. Damn near. Give it a couple of generations. Obviously there will be “purist” groups w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:15 AM
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Lol see ya’ll just can’t help but try to shame men. The sex toy industry is completely propped up by women. Once male sex bots become good enough you’ll all have em. Have fun cleaning it’s cum out of your vagina. I’m sure you’ll feel oh so feminine 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:00 AM
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Yeah keep going down the list. Women prefer things like “hardcore”, “gangbang”, “bondage”, and “rough sex” more than men, and I’m not even shaming them. Hell it’s pretty obvious if you actually fuck women. And yes men watch more porn but the also have much less access to consistent sex 🤷🏾‍♂️ Women also read a lot of their porn so I’m sure the number are a lot closer than you think. What bothers us is when our partner does it Yes that’s what I said, but by extension that means she wants any man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:44 AM
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Im thinking everyone will do the same. Lot of people hear thinking they won’t be fucking hyper realistic robots in the future but I’m callin cap. It only seems weird now but so did casual sex/vibrators. Now everyone partakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:36 AM
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Chad has always had to deal with women. There’s no man attractive to 100% of women and even women throwing themselves at you have to be managed. You can still fumble the pussy by being too weird. No one is threatening that Chad will stop fucking women. Get a grip. Everyone will eventually be fucking robots. It’s inevitable. Women are already doing just that *and** shame men for doing the same!* Things will simply become for men, what dating is already for women. The men only pursing women for se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:33 AM
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How is it changing? Chad is just the really attractive guy who gets sex easily, but even easy sex still requires dealing with women. Sex bot circumvents the “dealing with” part. Also, no need or concern for performance or maintaining your image. Not all Chad’s are secure with their equipment. Sex bot don’t care if your dicks small or you just wanna bust the quick 30 second nut
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:52 PM
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I think it’s coming for everyone, not just women. Women will just be the first it effects since sex is clearly the first objective. And honestly, good for you. It’s cruel that not all women can enjoy orgasms easily enough without vibrators. My ex would cum so easily from oral. She’d have to pry me away from that pussy. Somethings just so satisfying about making women orgasm manually 🤷🏾‍♂️🤤
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:49 PM
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I feel like the exploitation of bots is going to open a new moral/ethical can of worms that we can’t see yet. Like, eventually these bots are gonna be indistinguishable from other humans. Will you really be okay seeing a woman being abused, just because they tell you it’s just a bot?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:41 PM
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Lol no. Again, we also know what kind of porn women prefer, and as it turns out, ya’ll are goofy ass degenerates just like men. So don’t come at me saying it was about abuse and exploitation when that’s the exact type of shit women get off too. Ya’ll straight up just don’t like the thought of your man jacking off to other women. Completely understandable. Hell I’m sure most men feel exactly the same in reverse, but instead of just owning that ya’ll act like you give a fuck about randoms half way…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:35 PM
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It will suck less for men since they’re already use to being replaced by a machine. It’ll still be weird once women are also fucking AI bots. Especially once artificial womb/insemination tech matures. It’s gonna be weird all around, I think. Future gens will be going to school with AI bot kids and teachers. Store clerks. Officers. Plumbers. They’ll date and fall in love. Start families and have kids. Im only in my 30s bruh it’s kind of insane I’ll definitely be alive to see this shit play out. 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:25 PM
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Yikes 👀👀👀 You think only men who hate women will fuck bots. Goofy. This shit is gonna be mainstream, and soon enough, you’ll be fucking bots too (I’m sure you already are 🤷🏾‍♂️) You think romance and intimacy isn’t an integral part of “living your life”? Sad world you live in
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 09:05 PM
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Who hates women? These men seem to only exist online. IRL all I see are simps and dudes in relationships. Do women hate men for preferring vibrators? You seem confused/angry. IME dudes don’t hate women, they hate themselves. They hate that they cannot be what women desire. And yes most women also watch porn and use sex toys so it’s even more goofy that some of ya’ll can’t see what’s coming. Though to be fair the same is coming for men too (male sex bots) it’s just that we’re already use to being…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:59 PM
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Yes? Im saying women thinking only the unwanted men will be entertained by sex bots, instead of all men (yes, even the chads) is shortsighted. Many women here seem to believe it’ll be a paradise for them, when the reality is much more dystopian (for them (everyone really)).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:54 PM
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You are not representative of women. Random redditor. We already know how women reacted to porn 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:52 PM
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This is a lie. Women cared about porn. Why the fuck would they not care about sex bots 😂😂😂 In the end, we’ll see. I can get casual sex/relationships personally so I’ll be good either way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:50 PM
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Guys who can get laid will fuck robots too. Chad’s watch a shit ton of porn, now. It’s not just incels. In fact I’ve seen studies saying the men who get laid the most watch the most porn. So I see no reason why they wouldn’t fuck bots once they get good enough. Women will try to shame them but it’ll be toothless because in the end the shaming would be for these men to stop fucking bots, and to instead fuck real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:28 PM
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Dystopian for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:25 PM
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Ya’ll are insane your whole world is propped up by men’s pursuit of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:17 PM
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And sex bots. Women are goofy if they think Chad’s won’t be fucking bots too. In fact, women are goofy in general seeing as they’ve already replaced men sexually with toys (obviously they still like sex but women are sated because of toys and free access). Why the hell wouldn’t men do the same? If the real life woman is easy/hot enough, he’ll fuck but otherwise, sex bots will be effortless, interchangeable, hot and always ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:09 PM
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Chad’s use porn and will undoubtably use these robots too. This is much more dystopian than women seem to understand. “The men we don’t want will leave us alone now” is not necessarily true. In fact for all you know those guys may double down on wanting real life women and the Chads may seek the sex bots because dealing with women is to much work 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:06 PM
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To me it’s just interesting that best genes > best father. Wouldn’t you want the dude most likely to stick around and provide? I guess this is where the “dual mating strategy” comes in. Best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 07:50 PM
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You overestimate the # of emotionally mature women, then. These little games around sex are extremely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 07:17 PM
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How do you make a woman feel like she should do something (casual sex) to please a man? Guilt trip her? Seriously do you know women? You can’t just… cry your way into her panties. If she’s not attracted to you you’re gonna be hard pressed to make her feel anything except maybe disgust and fear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 04:50 PM
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Shot gun!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:05 PM
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What sounds painful? Obviously you rub it how she likes, lick it how she likes, and fuck her how she likes. Why would you fake it if a man is putting in effort? Do you not want him to get better at fucking you? Don’t tell me it’s about safety cause why are you fucking someone you’re scared will hurt you if you give them instruction?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:41 PM
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Lol exactly. You’re still trying to mind game this but you haven’t answered my question. How do you (women) come to that conclusion? ? Do you fuck men you aren’t attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:02 AM
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I mean I might not. I’ve gained an appreciation for figuring out what girls like on my own. It’s part of that technique thing. Knowing how to read her body and gauge her responses to stimuli often is good enough. Though some women require specific techniques to get off. If I can’t figure out what she likes then I have no problem asking 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 10:55 AM
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I don’t fuck men though? I’m not claiming to know what gets men off better than women. My “technique” extends no further than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:02 AM
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Yeah, no shit. Communication is huge but it’s more than just what to do, you have to be able to do it too. If I wanted technique advice I’d ask a man. If I wanted to specifically know what a certain woman likes in bed, I’d ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:01 AM
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Answering a question with a nonsense question? Shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:25 AM
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If you wanted advice on how to suck a dick, would you ask a (hetero) man? I realize we’re online so every guy on here has never touched a woman, but if I wanted to learn how to eat pussy, I wouldn’t ask (hetero) women 🤷🏾‍♂️ So again, just cause you touch yourself doesn’t mean you’re good at touching other women. I know 1 lesbian for a fact that’s bad at eating pussy. Anecdotal but still, having a pussy doesn’t make you an expert and getting them off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:15 AM
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You’re right. The use of “every” and “all” is easily called out. Should’ve used most. But similarly, I’m not saying only looks matter for women to orgasm. Obviously technique does too, but some women here seem to be claiming that looks don’t really matter which is nonsense. A more attractive partner will undoubtably help facilitate the “ease” in which a woman orgasms. It’s not even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:05 AM
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Yeah good luck showing off all that technique when she doesn’t fuck you because your looks turn her off 🙄 Good dick means nothing if you can’t even use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:21 AM
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Bruh this place is insane no way you tryna convince me that looks don’t help facilitate orgasms. Absolutely insane. It’s like you guys have no idea how yourselves work. You know more about your specific body, but how many other women have you made orgasm? My n-count is triple digits I’m confident I have vastly more experience seducing and fucking women than you. And no I’m not trying to brag, just saying just cause you masturbate doesn’t mean you know how to eat pussy or make other women cum 🤷🏾‍…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:55 AM
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Yes. What you say makes sense. The OP also asks “Like if a guy is really attractive, but as has average or terrible technique, does it help you orgasm easier…” To which I am saying, yes. Performance anxiety is real, but you won’t be able to convince me that it’s easier to orgasm getting fucked by someone you don’t find attractive, regardless of technique.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 12:30 AM
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”From what I understand talking to other women, generally, women's orgasm happens when she's able to feel relaxed and uninhibited. Has very little to do with how good looking the man is. Bruh! And I said ya’ll are saying looks basically don’t matter. Read the comments! It’s most of you! Completely ignoring the fact that women, in general, do not sexually entertain men they aren’t attracted to. Let me ask you. How many women have you attracted and had sex with? How many women have you made orgasm…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:41 PM
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Obviously it’s both. No one is saying looks alone gets the job done. It’s force multiplier. Bruh, we’re talking about if attractive men make you orgasm more, and ya’ll are saying looks basically don’t matter. So if looks basically don’t matter, that means men you don’t find attractive are in the equation. Or just say you don’t fuck men you find unattractive and this whole convo is moot. If you lack the experience then why open your mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:26 PM
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Every woman here is essentially saying looks don’t matter. Tell me, how many “unattractive to her” men do you think an individual woman fucks in her life time? Would you say most women have plenty of experience fucking all kinds of unattractive and attractive men to come to the conclusion that looks matter little for orgasms during sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:19 PM
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Ya’ll ladies are goofy asf 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:55 PM
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I call cap. I’ve had little trouble making women orgasm on our first encounter. Pussy’s aren’t rubix cubes. For 90% of women playin with the clit will get the job done reliably. Rub it, lick it, and then rub it some more while you’re fucking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:52 PM
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Wait what? We have studies showing women orgasm more with more attractive men. How is this even a debate? You think it’s easier to “feel relaxed and uninhibited” while being fucked by someone you don’t find sexually attractive? Come on yo be serious. Why try to gaslight men like this? Lol. Even if you separate “good looking” from “want to fuck” the men you want to fuck are much more likely to be from the “good looking” bucket.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:49 PM
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Don’t do it. Don’t hang out with really attractive guys if you aren’t comparable. Your mental health will thank you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 11:23 AM
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The body is. Otherwise all men would naturally know how to separate their orgasms from ejaculating. There’d be two kinds of sex; one for pleasure and one for procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:55 PM
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Sex is a biological need. As in, biology needs sex to propagate. You mentally may reject the notion of reproductive, but your body does not. We’re all alive to reproduce. Period. Whatever higher calling or reason we all attach to life is very likely to be self imposed nonsense. Survival and continuation of the species is at our core. Everyone alive is literally the culmination of hundreds of thousands of generations of successfully passing down genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:00 PM
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Majority of single mom’s were never married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:26 AM
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Lol right? Instead of just paying for the child they’ll dump tax payer money to jail the father? A quick google search shows it costs 60-100k annually to house someone in jail. Sounds high but if true holy shit just give the money to the kid 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 07:18 AM
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You know this is cap we literally have studies showing social media is poison especially for women. They are far more malleable and “group thinky” than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:00 AM
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It’s not projection, it’s experience. Why wouldn’t I dismiss someone who claims they had no fault in the events that happen in their life. Who think they’re just a perpetual victim of circumstance. That’s many women and it’s ridiculous to pretend it’s not. Maybe try dating them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:47 AM
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Lol not many women look back on their exes positively regardless of the age gap. Kind of hard to take them “experiences” seriously when you know they struggle with introspection and accountability 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:15 PM
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Every freakin women who complains about men dating younger women were that younger woman dating an older man at some point. They’re all goofy as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:09 PM
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Yeah idk who ya’ll fuckin with lol. Most guys learn pretty quick that stains in their underwear is something to be ashamed of, but I guess I don’t fuck men so maybe I’m wrong and dudes are just that shitty 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:15 AM
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Of course male-male competition was involved. Women want men who are better than other men. Being big and strong as a man also signals to other men that you’re “better” (stronger) than them which is male-male competition. It’s why being jacked at 5’5 isn’t seen as impressive, cause you’re still “smaller” than average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:11 PM
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Twinks can be ripped (lean with some muscle) too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:08 PM
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The bodies most lifters get will be what’s attractive to women. It’s once you start to delve into steroids that you have the potential to become cartoonishly big. Even still, those big guys are still getting way more pussy than your average non-lifting man so, even if women don’t want super yoked guys, they do want those guys over normal average dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:07 PM
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Bruh this is not common it’s an internet running gag. Either that or you women are nasty cause there’s literally 0 excuse for being in a relationship/fucking with a man with shitty undies. If this is a common event for you I’d check your own undies for shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:14 PM
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Well at least it’s not like dating women who, even the bottomest of the barrel can still easily cheat on and replace you. Stop being scared bruh. Plenty of dudes who won’t cheat on you if you treat them right. Who care if they can or can’t attract other women that’s your inner competitive female talking. You don’t need your man to be better than other women’s men too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:13 PM
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Apex fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:13 PM
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The simple solution was just to break up the orgasms into multiple sessions. So instead of making her cum 10 times once a week, I’d make her cum twice a day. That way we can fuck almost daily and she doesn’t get completely worn out each session 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:15 AM
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Lol new day new knowledge 👍🏾😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 11:10 AM
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Actually in my experience good sex makes women want less sex. It’s a frustrating situation, especially for guys like me who love making women cum until they’re exhausted, but how many times a week can you really expect one to experience multiple intense orgasms? I guess if I cam as much as women did, I probably wouldn’t want sex all the time either 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 02:52 AM
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Bruh spend 5 minutes around women talking about men. It’s the same shit but ramped up. Women are way more open and detailed about the nonsense. They love to “spill the tea”.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 07:09 PM
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Women are notorious for indirect communication and literally everyone knows this, and “nagging” is a unique kind of communication, more akin to causing problems where there are none. I’m not saying there aren’t plenty of goofy men, but there’s no way that’s the standard at the stats show that. The more times a woman fucks the same guy, the more likely she is to orgasm. Meaning men do listen. It’s the first few encounters where women are experiencing low orgasm rates and there’s nothing surprisin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:08 AM
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Making women orgasm has little to do with sexual stamina since most of it is just stimulating the clit. Which doesn’t require a dick. You know what those stats don’t show you? Women’s communication skills in bed. Tons of women will literally say nothing and just expect you to know how to get them off. Or their reliance on toys; lots of women cannot come from human stimulation. They need a vibrator to get off. It’s a lot more nuanced than “men don’t try” and if you know anything about men and sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 09:42 PM
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No what? You’d rather orgasm once, 95% of the time vs orgasming +2 times 65% of the time? And twice is lowballing I’ve fucked with women who could have dozens of orgasms. I’d say the average is at least 5-6 per session. And again once you find a competent lover, that 65% goes up even higher. And again, women’s orgasms last much longer and are stronger than men’s. The orgasm gap isn’t real.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 05:13 PM
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Way more women never orgasm than men and way more women consistently experience multiple orgasm. The difference between orgasm rates ~20% between hetero men and women. So on average, she’ll have more sessions where she doesn’t cum, but more sessions where she cums multiple times. That’s not even a wash that’s a clear advantage in women’s favor. As soon as a woman finds even a slightly competent man the “orgasm gap” is completely wiped clean. Having multiple orgasms 60% of the time beats having 1…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 04:51 PM
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No one is saying men can’t be inattentive lovers, or that women are broken, but you are woefully misinformed if you don’t think there are plenty of women who naturally struggle to orgasm. That said, making women orgasm isn’t hard (in general). It’s the same combination of moves for you most of you and comes down to stimulating the clit. Some need more some need less. Some don’t need their clit touched at all. But the majority of women will orgasm from consistent clitoral stimulation. And it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:51 PM
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Biological? To some degree yes, but with a competent partner? No, it’s usually mental. It’s easier for women to get each other off because it’s easier to be comfortable with women. There’s a lot less pressure to perform and more focus on just enjoying yourselves. There’s no concern of orgasming too soon or fears like rape that may prevent you from being open and vulnerable. Also my GF is bi and no woman has gotten her off either and she says she’s never had her pussy ate as well as I do it. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 02:19 PM
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Lol how many women have you fucked? Maybe get more experience making other people cum before you assume it’s a lack of skill/communication. Again, some women are just easy to get off. Congrats, you don’t have goofy pussy. I find most women are like you. A little effort and you’ll cum. But some women legit struggle to orgasm even by themselves. Not every women is blessed with easy, consistent orgasms 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 12:19 PM
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False. Mentality plays a huge role in it. My current GF can make her self orgasm, but I can’t. Meanwhile my ex GF can’t make herself orgasm (and struggles with other guys), but cums easily for me. She’ll orgasm 5 times in 15 minutes, consistently, from any manner of stimulation (usually go fingers > oral > penetration > more fingers > more oral etc). She’ll cum at each step of the way. My current GF and I are working on it. She says I’m the best sex she’s ever had (obviously) and that when I sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:31 PM
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That’s just sexual incompatibility + the ole bait and switch. It’s not men’s fault that women lead relationships with lots of sex and then switch it up once they get comfy, and then get upset that your man still wants to fuck you. Honestly insane cause I know for a fact tons of relationships suffer because of this dynamic. Ya’ll need to know yourselves better and set those boundaries early, cause nothing sucks more than fucking with a girl who “loves” sex, only for her to become a damn nun once …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:21 PM
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Not even close to the way women are. Yes, men can learn to separate their orgasms from ejaculation. Yes, men can strengthen their pelvic floor, and learn how to hold back their orgasms with timing, but the refractory period is real, and the vast majority of men will require a lengthy cooldown before they’re ready to go again (this can be circumvented through hacks like bringing in a different women to fuck). Women don’t have to do or learn any of this. Their refractory period is significantly sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:13 PM
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I don’t have to imagine, I’m regularly on the other side of it. Nothings more satisfying than watching my girl cum again and again until eventually she just can’t cum anymore. Then she passes out lol. So cute. My GFs been sleepin all day after last night lol. Lot of work though idk if you women appreciate it. Like, imagine someone trying to make you orgasm but you’re not allowed to or it’ll end the session. You have to spend the whole time resisting your own orgasm while fucking someone else to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:27 PM
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The orgasm gap isn’t real!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:36 PM
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You’re a women so you’re multi orgasmic which means even at 49% you just need to cum twice which I’m confident is easy for you to do 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:31 PM
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Also, people and stats often ignore that women are multi orgasmic. Is there an orgasm gap if she only orgasms with 50% of her partners, but when she does she has +2 orgasms? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:05 PM
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What does self control have to do with it? Is it bad to be sexually attracted to your partner and want to fuck them regularly?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:01 PM
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Multiple 30 sec orgasms? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 07:01 PM
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I don’t need to know you to know how oxytocin affects you. You are a human being, it affects you the same as everyone else. It’s like saying pumping someone full of testosterone won’t make them more masculine. The only difference is in sensitivity. You can be resistant to oxytocin, but that doesn’t mean it’s not doing the same shit, you just need more of it to “feel” it. Bruh you have no idea what oxytocin “feels like”. It’s basically a precursor to some feelings. It’s like saying you know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 04:01 PM
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Because how you think you feel means nothing. I can’t tell when dopamine or serotonin or oxytocin is flooding my system. It just happens. Just because you don’t “feel” like sex is emotional, doesn’t mean it’s not. Oxytocin is oxytocin. It does the same shit in everyone. Just like if I pumped adrenaline into your blood, or testosterone, or any other hormone. They all do exactly what they do in everyone. You aren’t (likely) immune to oxytocin. Lol my n count is in the mid 100s 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:45 PM
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Yes sensitivities and resistances differ. Still doing the same shit for everyone though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 09:48 PM
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Look I aint tryna trick you or set up some kind of gotcha. Go back and read my comments. The first person said “I don’t view orgasms as emotionally connecting”, to which I disagreed because of oxytocin (the love/bonding hormone). I never said orgasms make you love/bond with people alone. I think ya’ll are confused cause I called oxytocin the “love/bonding” hormone. That’s just literally what it’s called/known as. You can obviously fall for someone before they fuck you, but that process is still …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 08:59 PM
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Lasted 4 years (through high school).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 07:20 PM
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The entire act dumps oxytocin into your brain. The orgasm is the finishing touch. Your gonna have a closer relationship with someone who makes you cum vs someone who doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:44 PM
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No, but I was never big on masturbating. Lost my V-card at 15 and haven’t gone more than 2 weeks without pussy since. Masturbating at this point just fills me with shame lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 06:41 PM
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I’ve only learned to be psuedo-multi-orgasmic. Definitely a game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 04:06 AM
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Yeah pussy feels way better than rubbing one out. I assume it’s similar to using a vibrator while getting fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:54 AM
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Is it? You can bond with people without loving them romantically though. Like playing on a sports team. Even the players you don’t like you can bond with over the shared mutual goal. Oxytocin is also a stress reliever which is what you feel after exercise. Pleasure is dopamine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 03:45 AM
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Yes, but oxytocin still does the same shit in everyone. It is the bonding hormone. It fosters closeness and relieves stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:30 PM
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Bonding. Oxytocin is the bonding hormone. Does it matter how you release it? It does the same shit in everyone. You can bond to people you don’t like. Especially if you’re fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:29 PM
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I didn’t say romantic love though? No one’s saying you should fall in love with people who make you cum, but having no emotional response/connection to some you’ve let inside your body and is causing it to experience immense pleasure doesn’t seem right. Oxytocin is the bonding hormone. Serotonin is the happiness one (they obviously both make you feel good).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:26 PM
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I mean, many women are in love with their vibrators so…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:24 PM
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60 second orgasm and nothing? 1 minute of pleasure rolling over you, dopamine and oxytocin flooding your system, and you feel nothing?! If a woman could make me cum for 60 freakin seconds I’d marry her. Hell let me get 15 seconds. Usually get like 3-5 seconds of bliss before that clarity starts to kick in. Like that moment when you’re eating something really good but notice you only have a couple bites left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 09:22 PM
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Yes it causes feelings. Feelings of closeness and bonding. Doesn’t mean you gonna marry the person but you should certainly feel emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:42 PM
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Yeah that’s cause your 1 a day doesn’t also release dopamine and make you cum. If it did, you’d definitely be in love with it, and hyping it to all your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:38 PM
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…yes? Like you may not be sensitive to it but oxytocin does the same shit in everything 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:12 PM
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Right? Like what do they think oxytocin does? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:09 PM
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They literally are though? Your body is flooded with Oxytocin (the love/bonding hormone) when you orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 08:09 PM
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Lol it was a half joke. Height ≠ weight but I don’t expect equality of standards. I expect double standards and delusion all the way 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 08:17 PM
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Hmm not quite because women also don’t like fat guys. Women need to start shaming men for liking girls shorter than them 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 06:36 PM
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Lol you all do that even the women interested will talk shit like they ain’t 😂 You all think you got rubix cubes for pussies but maybe if you fucked more women you’d see it’s just a combination of the same moves. Lots of clit work and fuck her good 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:15 AM
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If you can’t cum with the guy you’re with but you have cam with other guys then just dump him. Why women insist on emasculating men is beyond me. We’ve given so much ladies jesus let us keep what little pride we have in our dicks 😂 Maybe only women who can cum easily should have kids for the next couple generations. All you “hard pussy” bitches just sit this one out. Call it 5th wave feminism or something. Lol no but seriously I genuinely think women orgasming is the hottest thing and I wish I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 12:18 AM
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Need more girth though. Past 8” length is insanely redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:21 PM
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Lol yeah it also doesn’t hurt that I actually have a big dick. Most pussies are small 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:07 PM
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Lol we break up obviously. Why waste my time on wide/deep pussy when there’s women I can completely fill and cum easily for me? It’s tough when you have no options cause sexual compatibility is to crucial for relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:46 PM
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If you can deal with it then do you but I think for most men (most people) this kind of shit would break them overtime (if not instantly). And I know damn well in reverse most ladies would not be happy if there man needed a pocket pussy to finish. Cue all the internet women saying they won’t care but any man who’s dated a woman knows they care. Telling your woman she can’t get you off and you need a sex toy to finish would destroy her confidence and most likely the relationship. Again, yes, some…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:21 PM
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And yet the stats still show that in the majority of marriages, men are breadwinners. Women who make good money still want men who make good money. It’s not like women have started uplifting broke dudes they’ve simply priced themselves out of the market because there’s not enough “economically attractive men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:14 PM
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Both sides need it but only one side demands that the other side provides it in order to interact with them. Women want food and money. Even if they have it themselves, they still want a man with food and money (often even more than they themselves have). Men have no such requirement. They will share their food and money with women who have none. In fact men probably only pursue excess food and money specifically for attracting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 09:02 PM
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If you prevent me? As in, you stop me from doing something then yes, you are violating my autonomy. If you stop someone else from doing something that would save me, you are violating their autonomy, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:58 PM
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It wasn’t me who responded first. I know, reddit real needs to make it more clear when someone else responds to your comment chain. Also it was a joke. Old(?) Red Pill rhetoric was all about women needing “financial security and provisioning” from men. Yes, women can get them themselves but lizard/monkey brain wants man to provide those so she can safely have offspring. Obviously men can stack and make bread. This is about what women’s “true nature and desires” are remember? Food and money. Prov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:56 PM
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Security (financial) and provisions… makes sense to me 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 08:13 PM
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Yes, but for people who can fall pregnant, the option to abort isn’t just in situations that would necessitate one. They can abort just because (and I’m not against that). There’s no reason that those who cannot fall pregnant can’t also abort for no reason, especially since, without laws forcing them to be powerless, they’d freely do the same as those who can fall pregnant; chose if they want to accept responsibility for the final outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:45 AM
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Where is this wrong? No one is required to help you if you’re choking, and you can’t force them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 12:41 AM
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I mean you’re not wrong though? You may be violating the autonomy of the person trying to help me but you aren’t violating my autonomy 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:06 PM
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These are not logic driven and facts don’t care about your feelings? What feelings? Literally spitting facts here. GOD GIVEN rights lmao. And invoking god on logical arguments is a fail.rights are not granted by god. The people weigh the collective good of society and push laws via consensus and legislation. It’s a turn of phrase. Replace “God given” with “natural born” You haven’t even bothered to logically argue why abortion shouldn’t be a right but men should get to choose to abandon their ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:04 PM
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You mean, the state will enforce his obligation to his child, which is owned by the child and not by the mother? Yes. A child he did not consent to having. , the law (sometimes) grants men and women equal rights to evict unwanted persons from their own bodies and also guarantees a child’s rights to parental care from both parents. There is no inequality there. Men’s responsibility isn’t to carry the child, it’s to provide. At the very least “18 years of child support” should be reduced to 9 mont…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:41 PM
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Bruh I’m not even against abortions if that’s what you’re thinking. I believe women should have access to them, I just don’t think ya’ll have some God given, natural born right to abortions. Conversely men do have a God given, natural born right to choose who they provide resources for and we force them to provide. That is a violation of bodily autonomy. Pregnancy is consequence free for men naturally. Fair or not it’s asinine that we roll men’s rights back so what? Women can freely get fucked a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:24 PM
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Yes but if she keeps the baby (her choice) she can legally get the law to force him to provide. How is that not a violation of bodily autonomy? Naturally, women can’t just abort on a whim. It has to be forced. Naturally, men can choose who they provide resources for. Yet here we are in 2025 where women argue that they have a natural right to medical abortions, but men don’t have the right to just, naturally walk away. Oh but women can walk away. In the past you at least had to kill/abandon your …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:18 PM
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If you leave your house, being hit by a truck is a possible outcome. no one forced you to leave at gunpoint, so if you do indeed get hit by a truck why should the emergency room treat you for your accident? Why should your health insurance cover it? You knew the possible consequences of leaving your house didnt you? You should suffer the full consequences no? You do suffer the full consequences, do you think doctors are free? You’re paying for that ambulance. You’re paying for whatever surgery/p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 10:11 PM
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How? How is a women’s autonomy violated by her own actions? If she was raped that’s one thing, but if she consented to sex, then theirs no violation. Pregnancy is the natural outcome of sex. Bodily autonomy means you can do what you want with your body (so long as it doesn’t infringe on others autonomy). It doesn’t mean you can force others to do stuff for you. The exact same argument used to describe a fetus as a “parasite that leeches off its host” can be used to describe forcing men to pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:19 PM
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Don’t forget safe haven laws. A walmart dumpster is an easy way to absolve yourself of responsibility 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:51 PM
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You mean like if he wants an LTR or not? Yeah unfortunately this use to be mitigated by waiting till marriage to have sex. For sure dudes will lie to get laid but to be fair I’ve rejected women I was considering for more with over bad sex. It’s kind of a catch-22 since you can’t know if the sex is good until your have it 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 08:03 AM
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Most men can’t readily identify makeup vs non-makeup and you have no one to blame but yourselves. Men don’t know shit about makeup and women have invested a lot into looking like they’re wearing only a little makeup. Congrats, dudes can’t tell, so obviously your “normal” makeup selves look better than your pale, sickly looking normal selves. Ya’ll are the real joke you done backed yourselves into a corner faking your looks that now all you can do is double down and shame men for not wearing make…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:14 PM
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Yup. I’ve never just stopped fucking a woman unless the pussy wasn’t worth it. If it’s good then dudes gonna come back for more 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:12 PM
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What? Obviously men don’t approach women they wouldn’t have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 11:10 PM
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These are “better” qualities they’re complimentary. Men pursue women because they’re not men. Everything except younger is nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:10 PM
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So you resort to violence typical male behavior You guys are unstable and should be wiped to extinction levels. 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:28 PM
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So long as it’s consensual it doesn’t matter. It’s not much different than just a regular, except the transactionalness is upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:17 PM
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Words have a tone even through text. If you can see that idk what to tell you but clearly people can “read” the hostility. It was probably the “get to the fuckin point” that sold it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:46 PM
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Any women who agreed with the “man v. bear” thing. There fear being men’s greater potential for harm (rape) and extrapolating that onto all men. Men don’t want to rape women, their biology simply pushes them to it if they can’t attract women. Same where your hunger would lead you to eat roadkill if you got desperate enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:45 PM
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They never explain. They always frame the older men as immature and unable to attract women his own age but also someone attractive enough to attract younger women. Or he’s someone tricking them into relationships. I don’t know how. I think the truth is much more simple, notice how pretty much every woman admits to have dated an older guy? Well their relationship failed and they backwards rationalize that they must’ve been abused and groomed into the relationship. It’s like regret rape; you fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:38 PM
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How? What advantage does an older man have over a young woman? Money? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:33 PM
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Even if he’s not attractive to her, it just means the relationship is very likely transactional which is fair game too. She gets money or whatever and he gets sex or whatever. As long as both parties are consenting what does it matter 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:14 PM
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Tell em! The logic makes no sense. Dude can’t attract older less attractive women but somehow has young attractive women clamoring for him? And then they point to grooming as if there’s anything some old random dude could say to groom and young attractive women. Whats he gonna offer her money? Like come on guys make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:12 PM
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Getting hostile over being questioned is a pretty standard reaction. Feels like you’re being accused of something, or baited. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 09:02 PM
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Naturally? I don’t think men “want” to rape. I do think reproductive drives would motive men who couldn’t attract women to rape, yes. It’ll happen in both situations. Without law/order rapes will definitely go up. Not all men will, but certainly more. But then groups will form to protect the women and civilization rebuilds again. And in cultures where rape is acceptable, well, it’ll happen more often. Not all men but certainly way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 01:17 AM
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We’ve seen animals wear clothes. There was that time with the whales and the salmon hats, and monkies wearing masks. It happens. But mostly, they don’t care about those things. There’s different types of intelligence. Like watching an octopus out play predators. Or crows using tools. I have a house (shelter from the streets/predators). English is just language, a form of communication, even plants have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:29 AM
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Pony tails? Like single or double? (serious question)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:25 AM
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No one thinks all men want to rape women except for a growing number of women. Dudes keep telling you that the % of actual rapist is extremely small. Most dudes would never even put hands on you, let alone rape you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:24 AM
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No? I’m saying not raping things doesn’t make me not an animal? Humans are animals bruh how is this even a debate? I mean we’re higher tier animals… hmm I guess we’re not fish even though we evolved from them… are humans beyond “animals”? We still have lizard and mammalian brains though. We aint all neocortex. We have instincts and emotions that are based off millions of years of evolution. The last, what, 6000 years of civilization surely isn’t enough to erase all that 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:22 AM
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Do you think all animals are stupid? I mean certainly if you compare them to human intelligence but we’re literally just smarter versions of anything else (plus opposable thumbs). Playing on my phone is simply what the human animal does now 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:08 AM
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Yeah and that’s wrong. All victims should be heard and taken seriously, regardless of what they were wearing, but I still think asking these types of questions helps build a bigger picture. Again, most rapes happen in the home, not in the streets. Idk if they differentiate in the data, but still useful to know. Most rapes are about power/opportunity but perhaps certain behaviors/appearance attract more attention than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 12:06 AM
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Which is why asking those questions in those situations is appropriate. Of course if you got raped by a family member or your BF, that what you were wearing is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:52 PM
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No, I’m saying humans are animals. We have to literally be raised to be civilized. We all think we’re above it but if you were born and raised in a culture where rape was acceptable, guess what you’d be…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 10:47 PM
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Analogies? There’s a “wild bear” in us all. Humans think they’re so smart and sophisticated but it really doesn’t take much to push people over the edge.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:36 PM
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And I disagree. We’re animals full stop. If society collapsed, we’d got straight back to the madness. I mean just look at our instincts bruh we can hardly resist our fight/flight responses. Even if you can control your urges, you still have those urges. Your animal instincts are still in there. I don’t think all pedos should be castrated, just the ones who act on it. No one chooses to be a pedophile anymore than one chooses to be gay/straight. They’re just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:32 PM
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I mean, these are all quality questions though. They shouldn’t be used to discredit the victim, but it’s good insight into avoiding potentially bad outcomes. No one would agree it’s a good idea to walk down a dark alley in a strange part of town half naked and alone. Yes, it’s too bad you have to be careful, but we live in reality. If someone wondered into a bear cave wearing a meat-suit, no one would question why the bear ate you. It’s the same thing. Humans are animals. Not all men will eat yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 09:01 PM
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Until women threw it away so they could enjoy casual sex 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:47 PM
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Why isn’t hitting men in the balls considered sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:26 AM
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Stay attractive to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:10 AM
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That’s not men’s fault. There are women who literally can’t even get themselves off, and plenty of women completely reliant on sex toys to orgasm. I never understood this logic that men are just lazy and bad in bed, but also have fragile egos. You really think the gender that attaches their ego to sexual prowess, is just intentionally being a bad lay? It’s more complicated than that. Women are notoriously poor at communicating in bed. Many expect you to already know what gets them off. Many (as …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:28 PM
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The men who “don’t care”, don’t care about condoms, not having babies. They would 1000% prefer to use male birth control if it meant they could freely fuck without condoms and not have to worry about someone coming after them for child support or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:44 AM
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Uh? I don’t subscribe to the “women are the selectors” narrative. I choose who to pursue. I choose who to LTR. I choose who to support. I choose who to impregnate. She chooses to accept the offer or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:51 PM
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Mix to negative? Maybe for you. Maybe you just had “bad” pussy. And by bad I don’t mean actually bad but like “you don’t cum easily from sex” bad. Natures pretty cruel seeing as there are women who cum easily even from penetration. Can you imagine a world where that was the standard for women? Maybe men should only breed with women who cum easily for a couple generations so future women can enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:25 PM
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Just the common stance of people asking these types of questions. It was just an assumption, hence “seems”. Though you’re being surprisingly neutral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:40 PM
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Yes. You seem to be operating around morals and laws. Im operating around facts. No one is saying it’s okay to pursue 15 year olds, but denying the biological reality that a post pubescent teen is physically sexually mature doesn’t make it real.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:09 PM
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When they finish puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:17 PM
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You’re alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 07:08 PM
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You guys always leave out the part where you can literally only get pregnant like 7 days a month. If you gettin fucked raw while ovulating, that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 04:45 AM
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So much feelings > facts on this one too. People are goofy. How is it hard to wait for proof of things before getting swept up in the nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:55 AM
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Oh yeah so bitter 😂 Hey, some people actually want companionship, love, and someone to share experiences with. Not everyone’s looking for how to get the most value out of their partners. Do you though, and just pray no one treats you the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 07:47 PM
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14 yrs between my girl and I. Seethe. And only 1 of the 6/6/6 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 06:16 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 01:59 AM
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No one said it was accurate and good. Okay, tell me, in a room of 100 men, how many would you expect any random woman to be sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 12:12 AM
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Damn I always miss the good posta lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 10:40 PM
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We’ve already done the math on this here. Someone once asked how many men women find attractive in a day and it’s few to none, not “20% of all men”.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 08:28 PM
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20% is the variance. In a room of 100 random men it’s extremely unlikely that any indivudal women is attracted to 20 of them. She’s way more likely attracted to none of them, but at least 1… 5 at most. That’s the variance. That’s the “20%”. Every woman is attracted to about 1-5% of men in a given area. It’s not all the same 1-5% but collectively they all fall within the same 20% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 07:02 PM
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Lol literally just commented on this somewhere else: It’d be nice if women could be more like men and just be chill and not so insecure about their looks. They don’t even realize by wearing makeup and all these filters and fake nonsense utilized to boost their looks, they’re just feeding into their own insecurities. And then, they push those insecurities onto men, and now, we got a bunch of teens taking steroids just so they can compete for average girls in makeup. Clown world. All ladies have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 05:41 PM
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I don’t think anyone thinks rape is a good thing, but in regard to women raping men, many probably don’t even see it as rape. Or just kind of shrug it off 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 04:09 AM
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To ends of the same spectrum, I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:51 PM
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Goes both ways. If you were a man and got raped by a women you probably wouldn’t feel to bad about it (unless she was really nasty).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:24 PM
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They are being honest though. Men see getting sexually harassed/assaulted by women as a good thing. It can only mean you’re sexually attractive 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:49 PM
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Yeah Idk. I think men just aren’t really socialized to see sexual attention from women as a negative. In fact, only the pinnacle of men have women swooning over him. Meanwhile for women it probably just feels defiling. Bodily autonomy is a big thing for women so having someone violate that makes you feel gross. Ya’ll wanna be seen as people and shit whereas men just kind of accept that no one cares and it doesn’t really matter. Complaining might even make things worse in some cases. Wouldn’t be …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:35 PM
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Just curious, what do you consider sexual harassment? The term has become so broad these days. But yes I believe every women has been sexually harassed because every women has been hit on. The severity of harassment (or if it actually qualifies as harassment) ranges, but it’s not really surprising. I could sexual harass a women with eye contact alone. Now, ask attractive men. Interestingly enough, they get sexually harassed too. It seems people who are sexually desirable, get harassed for sex 🤷🏾…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:55 PM
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What am I suppose to back up? You complain that you make good money and don’t wanna come home after a long day to clean. Get a maid. They’re cheap. Or date a man who cleans. Not hard to vet for. Is his spot clean? Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:51 PM
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What’s the point? You just want something to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:27 PM
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I said majority of dudes. I assume you were raped by 1 guy, not the whole festival. Rape happens and I am sincerely sorry you had to experience that. Shitty people exist but they are so far from the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:22 PM
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Generally, yes. At least IME, when the women is “to good” for the guy, it tends to manifest in the relationship as resentment. It can be him resenting her or her resenting him. Either way it eventually erodes the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:20 PM
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What would that prove? That some dudes take Ls poorly? You ever seen a woman get rejected? The majority of dudes wouldn’t dare put hands on a woman in public. And you should know this since I doubt you’ve ever been beat down by a man in the streets (or any women here for that matter).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:01 PM
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Naw AWALT only means they have the propensity to be that way, not that they are. Dudes on here aren’t really representative. IRL, we see all kinds in happy LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:58 PM
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People are terrible at vetting, likely because they don’t really know what they want or what they need in a healthy LTR. And no they think a lot of women are very similar. Which isn’t exactly false with this whole hive-mind internet brain worm shit going around.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:41 PM
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A lot of women don’t want an equal, they want someone who’s better that treats them like an equal. Tough to find a levelheaded woman these days. Hoe-inflation is real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:20 PM
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If you make that much just higher a maid? They’re pretty affordable especially on 2 incomes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:04 PM
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Stop dating men who don’t clean! It’s not hard ladies jesus been saying this for decades either pick better or higher a maid. I clean, I cook, and I eat the pussy. Interestingly enough, women never seem to vet for these qualities 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 07:02 PM
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Not in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:59 PM
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We know the average woman doesn’t approach, because it’s too emotionally taxing. Getting dressed, and being present are all things men have to do to. Honestly the most emotionally taxing part of the interaction for women is handing out Ls. Though some women seem to take a lot of joy in that part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:56 PM
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They should have still reported it anyway. It’s literally just a tiny subset of men or doing all the violent raping. These men don’t get caught up because no one reports because no one thinks it’ll matter, but the more women that report on these dudes the more of a case will be built and ultimately they will be imprisoned for it. Not filing a report just makes it seem like… well like it didn’t happen 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 07:59 PM
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Approaching randoms in public works very well if you’re social and at least above average in looks. Of course no matter how calibrated your approach is, you’ll always creep out some women. Just the nature of the game 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:20 PM
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I genuinely hate this mentality and it seems rampant amongst women. Ya’ll would rather die than admit picking the bear is dumb, just to avoid men being able to say they were right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:42 AM
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Unattractive to talk to. Not gonna be saying much with his balls slapping your chin 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:29 AM
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The vast majority of people seem to be unplanned accidents. That’s not baby trapping. Baby trapping (for women) is simply unilaterally deciding to keep the child regardless of the other parties opinion. Baby trapping for men is convincing a girl to have your kid and then bailing when it’s too late to abort. You think there are more men convincing their GFs to have a kid, and then bailing, than the are women who decided to keep the kid unilaterally?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:39 AM
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There’s no one way there’s more men baby trapping women than there are women baby trapping men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:56 AM
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And dad. Again, you wouldn’t exist without both halves of the equation. It doesn’t matter if women have the power to create life. Men still have the “key” needed to unlock it. There is no flex here women cannot asexually reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 07:15 PM
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Yeah I aint having kids till my papers stacked lol. Grew up poor. I don’t want my kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:07 AM
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there’s a good chance that your going to be extinct in the next 10 million years or less. In 10 million years we won’t even be human anymore. Those 2%-4% are inaccurate its actually much worse which is why males as they get older can end up getting erectile issues or in practically at any age, your body is literally telling you to stop it. Exercise (cardio) and kegels will keep the dick hard forever. If it weren't for the X chromsomes that you guys inherented from your mothers, you would end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 08:09 AM
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Men go out of their way to bother women and girls all of the time. I have brothers. They had male friends. I was around boys in classes. I know firsthand. Cap. I’ve never met a man who was like “hey guys, lets go hit the club and troll women 😂👍🏾” Never. Im sure they exist but I promise most dudes are trying to get laid, not disturb women. My brothers harass me in non-sexual ways. The other boys harassed me in non-sexual ways until they hit puberty, and suddenly they were harassing me with the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 07:34 PM
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Yeah no IDK what the other guy is talking about but that doesn’t make sense to me that an older guy would go out of his way to disturb young women. Especially when it could easily go south and end up a sexual harassment situation. Men who feel threatened by attractive women tend to not say a damn thing to them. Let alone approach them with the intent to disturb them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:45 PM
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Ugh this needs to stop. Why would a dude risk hitting on a young girl just to disturb her? Ya’ll are neurotic as fuck it’s not that deep. Young women in their 20s are hotter than older women (in general) full stop. Ya’ll know men are more focused on looks and yet still come up with this nonsense that men are just out trying to traumatize as many women as possible. Grow up and get laid. Stop thinking so hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:13 PM
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Lol I’m 35 and my GF is 20. Im bald, and black. Above average height and not rich. She definitely creams her pants for me 🤷🏾‍♂️😂 (Yes I know, only 1 anecdotal claim)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 06:10 PM
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Stop. We seen the studies. An 80 yr old man has ~2x higher likely to have a child with issues. Mind you, we’re talking going from 2% - 4%. An 80 year old man can still have healthy kids, an 80 year old woman can’t even get pregnant! There’s no way you can say men have worse fertility decline when they could literally bust a nut and impregnate a woman with their dying breath at 100. Fertility issues… Jesus a woman only has at most a ~30% chance to get pregnant on her most fertile day of the month…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:39 PM
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Pauses sure, but still a low refractory period, and in many cases, actual multiple orgasms. There’s no confusion. I always tell women there’s no pressure, but there’s no need to lie about their pleasure with me. Be open and honest cause it’s only a disservice to us both if you fake it. If you didn’t cum, let’s see if we can figure out why and how to improve, and if you did cum lets keep doing what you like so you can cum some more.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 12:03 AM
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Pick better lovers. Literally the only thing that matters to me during sex is my partners pleasure. I eat my girls pussy randomly, just to make her cum, with no expectation of reciprocation (it frustrates her though, if her pussies gettin ate, then she wants dick too, but sometimes I just wanna eat that pussy but to lazy for sex lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:48 PM
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Yeah no shit. She brings her vibe, you bring your vibe, neither has a refractory period so you just spend the whole time trying to make each other cum. Lesbians also report higher incidence of dead bedrooms (who makes the first move between two women 🤔), and domestic violence
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:10 AM
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Men are not notoriously against taking direction. That’s just nonsense women who’re poor at communicating make. You really think a dudes gonna shoo away instructions on how to make you cum? 😂😂😂 Maybe a 1-nighter won’t give a fuck, but any dude who gives half a shit about you will want you to orgasm with him. *I too am a millennial. Back when times wee simpler and cold approaching worked way better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 11:08 AM
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Im sorry, and how much pussy have you ate in your life? Do you think you’d be good at it just because you have a mouth and a vagina? Have you ever made any women other than yourself orgasm? Getting yourself off is not the same as getting someone else off. You are woefully misinformed. Women complain about anything, and the exaggerate all slights. If you married a man who doesn’t care about your sexual satisfaction, that’s on you. Maybe communicate your needs better. So 18% of women get off to di…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:59 AM
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I never claimed to know what you need to get off, you were implying that what you need to get off is the same as other women, which is false. You think men know less about pleasing other women than hetero women? Again you keep conflating your needs on to other women. And while you all share the same need for clitoral stimulation, the how varies greatly. Some women will cum hands free and others require 20 minutes of constant stimulation from their favorite toy. It’s amazing hetero women think th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:01 AM
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Again, you may be confusing your own pussy for others but there are literally tons of women who orgasm from dick alone. Yes, all(?)/most female orgasms are clitoral. Orgasming from dick is just the dick stretching the clitoris out. Even still, just because your clit requires unnatural levels of stimulation, doesn’t mean it’s men’s fault. Perhaps you’re just naturally destined to not enough sex as a way to weed out your genetics, idk, but don’t put that on men or other women. Your problems are yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:39 PM
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Lol it’s silly you could even question that women experience more orgasms with more attractive men. But here’s some sauce. Couldn’t find the study I was talking about though 🤷🏾‍♂️ https://toddkshackelford.com/downloads/Shackelford-HN-2000.pdf https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5084725/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0191886915001002#:~:text=Women%20who%20perceive%20their%20partner,and%20suggest%20future%20research%20directions.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 11:14 PM
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Sauce - Std odds: https://stdcenterny.com/articles/std-risk-with-one-time-heterosexual-encounter.html Pregnancy odds: ~1/20 per random encounter which goes up to 15-30% if you’re ovulating. Orgasm odds: https://pleasurebetter.com/orgasm-statistics/ Women’s odds of orgasming go up significantly with time. Likely because women’s sexuality requires more than just arousal. She needs to be comfy and in the right head space. Not to say it’s not the same for men, the effect just seems greater for women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:40 PM
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Women are bad at communicating their sexual needs. They’re also more neurotic and have more sexual hang ups and trauma. Not to mention all this “men are bad at sex” propaganda that women just eat up. How many men would you have to fuck to even be able to come to this conclusion? And at what point do you admit it’s not men, and simply that you’re pussy’s built goofy? Again, you realize there are women who orgasm very easily without toys. So maybe it’s just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 05:24 PM
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Maybe you should stop making assumptions of people online? Women aren’t desperate for dick, they’re most certainly desperate for good dick. Good dick + toys >>>>> toys. Also, you aren’t representative of women. I’ve fucked plenty of women who orgasm repeatedly without toys. In fact, women who need toys to orgasm are in the minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 07:25 AM
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Your anecdote is meaningless in the face of reality. Women are clearly more superficial. If they weren’t, they’d be more sexually open like men. Normal people (should) understand the risk of STDs are incredibly low unless you’re fucking prostitutes. Condoms rarely break when used properly and the odds of pregnancy are low even when intentionally trying. Your fears are baseless and unfounded and are more likely rooted in a fear of being judged negatively by your peers. We also already have eviden…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 06:47 AM
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Lol try saying that as an attractive man. It’s like every woman is DTF.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/25 03:04 AM
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Well yeah. The pairing would be for science lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:29 AM
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No matter how much this gets posted it’s pure revenge fantasy from women because they have a real biological clock and men don’t. The true study that will matter is what happens when you pair an extremely old man with a young woman. Guarantee they having nothing but healthy kids. LOOK AT THE NUMBERS! Going from a 1% chance to a 2% chance is a big increase relatively but still nothing to be concerned with individually. Not to mention, women simply aren’t having many kids with older guys. A dude i…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 10:03 PM
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Risk of defect going “way up” is constantly over stated. Pair an 80 year old man up with a 20 year old woman and they’re popping out healthy kids all day 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:59 PM
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More like men have a clock; very slowly slowing overtime. When they die, it’s off by a few minutes to a few hours (depending on the health of the man), but still functioning. Women have a built-in hourglass with a hole in the bottom with ~40 yrs of sand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:51 PM
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What motivates me is the strong desire to make women cum. Call it ego. Call it selfish. Call me arrogant. Idc. I love making women cum. I love making smug women who think they’re all that contort with pleasure. I only watch porn of women masturbating and it only brings frustration. I wanna feel that wet pussy quivering. Fuck my orgasm I don’t give a fuck about that I can cum whenever. No what I want is for her to cum until she can no longer. That’s what strokes my ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 07:35 PM
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Yeah definitely weird and frustrating because I loved her and the dwindling sex was something we talked about many times. She couldn’t explain why she just wasn’t ever in the mood. We still fucked like once every 2 weeks but it wasn’t enough for me. So I left, and apparently that reignited her passion for me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 07:42 PM
1

Seriously. Technology is advanced enough. They really need to just start sending the love thru texts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:19 PM
1

Saying “it could be worse” is optimism?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:18 PM
1

You’re safe and you’re free already. Where’s the love?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:06 PM
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It could be better to. Pessimism (even if it’s realism) isn’t a panty-wetter.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:03 PM
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Yeah no one is choosing hobbies/friends > relationships. They just fail to get the relationships they want and focus on other things. Vast majority of people would happily take a quality LTR > friends. Just look at how many friendships turn out when one person gets in a relationship. You spend way less time together because they spend it with their SO instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 10:02 PM
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Hasn’t this already been resolved? Women do more in the house and men do more in the streets. Men have also been doing a lot more chores and child rearing. Women are still salty. Not sure why people don’t understand this if you raise the bar for women they simply raise their expectations. Doing more chores and more child care aint gonna get you more pussy or make your wife any happier. It’ll just become an expectation. I honestly don’t know what’s the deal with women. Me and my ex fucked like do…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 07:42 PM
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Oh for sure not the only reason, that would be silly when she could just open tinder, but 100% the attractive local Chads are clappin foreigner cheeks all day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:22 PM
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How many men straight up ask you how many dicks you’ve taking when vetting you? How often do you voluntarily give up this information to dudes you’re dating? See the issue with women thinking being promiscuous has no effect, or that men don’t care, is that they don’t actually stress test this theory (and for good reason). Dudes “don’t care” because there’s no advantage to it. Even if a woman is interested in you, we all know that judging a women’s past (especially sexually) is a dead strategy. C…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:18 PM
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It’s not projection, it’s common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:13 PM
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I don’t think it’s projection. Be serious. Women fucking local men on vacations is common knowledge. Obviously men do it to if they can, but only women seem to pretend it’s not a thing they’re interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:09 PM
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I’d say it’s less that they don’t care and more that it’s just an accepted reality. To expect any half attractive girl to have not fucked with at least a handful of dudes is just to unrealistic, and having such expectations would only nuke your own options. Not to mention openly having such ideals (a preference for low n-count women) is taboo on it’s own, and will only turn both low and high n-count women away. Best move is just to pretend you don’t care and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:04 PM
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If women were prey to men violence against women would be way higher, and violence against other men would be way higher too. Predators don’t just kick it with prey until they decide to eat them, and it’d be weird for prey to just hang around predators until they get eaten. Either way this logic is not a good look for women because it implies you actually want to be preyed upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:36 PM
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Exactly, you fuckin dudes with poor stroke control. I could ram into my GFs cervix all day if I wanted too. Wouldn’t be fun for her though, but just like every other girl she reaally enjoys the feeling of being completely filled up so, you learn how to gauge depth and not stroke too deep 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:54 PM
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So then don’t do that? Why do you all think the only option for a big dick is to ram your cervix? Dude can just stop short 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:50 PM
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My dick is firmly in the “too big” zone and I’ve fucked plenty of tiny girls and the key has always been making sure they’re aroused and going slow. If you can only take 4 inches of dick and my dick is 8 inches long then even though it’s “too big”, I can still fuck you with 4 inches of dick. So either the “too big” part is from girth (and we know vaginas can stretch to accommodate child birth so literally no dick should be too girthy) or again, you fuckin with inexperienced dudes trying to ram b…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:48 PM
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Women who say this either haven’t fucked a big dick or dude was inexperienced as hell. All dude has to do is not use all of his dick. It’s not hard. Go in slow. Give her a few strokes to gauge how much she can take, and work within that range.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:23 AM
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Bigger dick has a wider range of possible techniques and positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:12 AM
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The common narrative amongst women is “most men don’t care” because most men have long since learned to keep their mouth shut, not because women know how men think. No, women are just playing the “don’t tell” game. She has nothing to ask him because she doesn’t care. In fact a man who can get laid is generally seen positively amongst women (that’s a man who can get laid, not one who’s just rolling around in random pussy). All she has to do is keep her mouth shut. Sure some guys don’t care. Some …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:20 PM
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My experience is that women love big dick. Clitoral stimulation is still #1, but I’ve found that women love the feeling of being completely “filled up”. Average dick is fine and gets the job done. Plus the majority of dicks are in the average range anyway. It’s actually funny how reasonable women are when it comes to dicks but not other aspects of men’s being. Personally I think it’s because other women can’t see dick size. You (she) can flaunt your wealth, your status, your looks/height, but sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:15 PM
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It’s easy for women to cover up their past and the vast majority of men aren’t lookin up her “hoefax” because they finally found an attractive women who wants to date/fuck them. The majority of men are playing a “don’t ask don’t tell” game with their women but women don’t realize it and just assume “men don’t care”. And many dudes will say they don’t care because we all know that caring about things that make women look bad is a surefire way to be labeled an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:59 PM
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You clearly lack the experience of a man with a big dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:13 AM
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More like ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 10:02 AM
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If being nice got you punched in the face, you wouldn’t be nice. You’re nice because it benefits you to be nice, and/or you lack the balls to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:27 PM
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“because most women are actually nice because life is way better that way.” Bruh. You just admitted women are nice ”because life is way better that way”! Now reread my previous comment and understand that your motives are self-serving fakery too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 05:22 PM
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The main driving force for niceness is the expectation of reciprocity and avoiding bad outcomes. In other words, people are nice cause they scared to get their shit kicked in
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 01:45 AM
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I don’t understand this narrative that women’s lack of money had a massive effect on their dating. Like, even now they only thing women use money for in dating is to disqualify men who make to much less than her and put herself in proximity of men who make more money. Otherwise, it doesn’t limit their dating pool in anyway. A broke woman still has endless options and I assume it was the same way back in the day. Women weren’t forced to marry anyone they still had suitors and still picked the bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:33 PM
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Not all, but certainly the vast majority. I don’t know how many women you’ve made orgasm, but I’ve never met one who couldn’t cum again in the same session 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:20 PM
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That last paragraph is a huge issue. Many young women simply opt into the vibrator game instead and (though I have no empirical evidence) something tells me learning to orgasm from a machine will make actual sex with men seem… cumbersome. All it takes is 1 dude to not live up to her vibrator and now all men are trash in the sheets. Seriously I love how many women assume most men are trash in bed as if they’ve slept with them all. Women’s lifetime n-counts are suppose to be low right? 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:13 PM
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First bears, now hippos?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:27 PM
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Lol you think most men just casually hate women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 07:50 PM
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Just don’t be a drain on mine So you do care, because he’ll have to have enough resources to at least live at your level (or be frugal enough) to not need yours to help. Which is what men already know: a women’s need for resources commonly scales with her own. She may not “care” how much you make in absolute terms, but she absolutely cares how much you make in relative terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:15 AM
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This argument is poor, assuming “what the guy wants” is sex, literally all women have to do is… not fuck him. Wait till she has what she wants (an LTR I’m assuming). It’s basic girl dating game 101: make dude invest emotionally/financially first so that even if he bails you at least got something out of it besides the sex you consented to (which makes it a fair trade btw and means she wasn’t “used”). It’s exactly how women treat “beta” men. They slow roll them while exploring more tantalizing op…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:11 AM
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Everyone settles to varying degrees. I am not saying those women aren’t attracted to their men. I’m saying women in general are not attracted to those qualities. Saying you know short and fat men who’ve found success is not surprising at all, but it’s not the preference of the majority of women. If those men magically became taller and leaner, I doubt any of those women would complain 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 07:58 AM
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How many experiences do you need to know the stove is hot? Like are you trolling? Are you trying to invalidate the struggles of men? Being short and fat is not an advantage as a man by any metric. The men who find success are not the rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:33 PM
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Okay let’s say it is abuse, it’s what women are selecting for sexually. Women are the one’s who decide what’s attractive in men. If ya’ll constantly give the pussy up to abusive types, then men are going to emulate that in order to be successful 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:30 PM
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Experience. Ask any guy who’s gone from fat to lean how their dating lives were affected. Nothing needs to be said for height. You don’t have to be crazy tall but being under 5’9 only hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:07 PM
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From their perspective, sure, but if everything stayed the same, except they were tall and lean, their experiences with women would be night and day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:05 AM
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No one said conventionally unattractive men can’t find success, they’ll just struggle immensely compared to average and above dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:46 AM
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Lol TRP isn’t about hiding abusive behaviors though. If anything, it’s about flaunting them (if you believe TRP is abusive). It’s not evolving its methods because women’s attraction cues aren’t changing. Give any man, regardless of personality: height, leanness, wealth, and status; and they’ll crush it amongst women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 07:07 AM
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And yet abuse rates remain stable. Abusive men continue to crush it. Hence the rise in TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:48 AM
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Propaganda to keep the simps and blue pillers towing the line while toxic dudes lay my pipe than a churches Organist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 05:46 AM
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Tall and lean has never failed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:34 AM
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Because lying to yourself is easier than accepting the truth. I could say the same to you. You could say you know yourself well, but that doesn’t extrapolate to all women. Further, it’s safe to assume you don’t pursue women sexually, meaning you know less about attracting women than a man who does. Ask any attractive man what it’s like. I promise you it’s like every woman is single and willing to get the D.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:12 AM
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Yes, because women are so open and honest about their sexual proclivities when asked, and absolutely would never lie to save face 🙄 Again, tons of women believe they believe they “aren’t like that” until they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:56 AM
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This is irrelevant and, honestly, how do you know? IME as a man who sleep with women most are quite amenable to casual sex with the right guy. Seen sooo many girls who “don’t do that”, do just that under the right conditions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:13 PM
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Yo just admit that some parents let their daughters dress way to provocatively as kids and move on. We’ve literally all seen it and it’s disturbing and gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:09 PM
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Everyone has trauma. Yours is clearly showing in your tone about men and sweatpants lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 08:58 PM
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Lol you’re doing exactly what I said here in your comment. First of all, women have put in a massive concerted effort to remove the expectation of child bearing. All developing nations are experience population decline. Women have risen up so high that they don’t even care to have kids anymore. They’ve already said they do not give a fuck if humanity dies out. Yet and still, typical of women, you’re here trying to weaponize child birth. Most of you won’t even have kids and those who do will do s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 07:35 AM
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We all have predetermined expectations to adhere to. Women are not special in this regard. Plus there’s been an active movement for last 50+ years literally to get rid of these expectations for women. If ya’ll are still upholding them then it must be because they benefit you and or you like them. Again, no one is forcing you to perform or wear makeup and shit. Women are free to be and do whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 12:54 AM
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You pick the bear cause it’s trendy and in-line with the “hate all men” narrative. We’ve long since concluded that women are simply bad at metaphors, risk analysis, and math. I continuously say this as a rebuttal, but you’re all still alive despite knowing countless men. Even if you’ve been abused, had you spent even a fraction of the time you’ve spent with men around bears, you’d be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 10:14 PM
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Their narrative is: Boys are born hating women > find the manosphere > bad experiences with women. Reality: Boys are born loving women > bad experiences with women > find the manosphere
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 09:29 PM
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And women too. Don’t forget women gobble up even more hardcore porn than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 09:12 PM
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Women have, in general, always had a choice in marriage. You think every woman was just forced to pair up? Naw they made that choice because life was extremely difficult and building a family was crucial. Basic nature is also filled with rape and murder. Things we’ve largely done away with to the benefit of all (especially women). In fact, men have done a lot to make the world very comfortable for women. Why is it strange to consider eliminating some of the biological struggles of men (easy acce…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 03:18 PM
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And you’re a typical keyboard warrior who thinks insulting people (men) online is some kind of win. If you think sexual assault charges aren’t easy to makeup idk what to tell you. We were all alive for the MeToo movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 02:19 PM
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Lol I love women. Plenty of female friends. I got a loving GF, and supportive Ex-GF, and one of my best friends is a girl. Hell I’m quite sure I have more female friends than male. Anger is far from what I feel for women 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:13 AM
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Lol there it is. Any complaints by men are whining but complaints by women are valid. As if saying one is grateful for not getting caught up in the legal system is whining 😂 But hey, go off 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:12 AM
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As a black man, I consider myself fortunate in that regard 👍🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:17 PM
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I mean, how much of that is at the request of men, and how much of that is just stuff you learned from your mom and sisters? How much of that is just female competition? Wasn’t feminism suppose to free ya’ll from these constraints? Why continue to carry your own shackles of oppression? We continue to appease men? Again, if all women stopped doing whatever extra nonsense (obviously grooming, diet and fitness are basic for everyone), I assure you men would keep pursing you and life would continue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 09:02 PM
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Sexual assault charges are easy to makeup though 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 08:59 PM
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They literally don’t have to. What do you think would happen if all women stopped wearing fake eyelashes and makeup? You think men would stop desiring them? Ya’ll are trained by your mothers. There are no mandatory makeup classes in school for girls. Don’t blame female competition on men. One year of anything specifically is a lot. Dieting and exercise require a ton of effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:19 PM
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No, I’m saying that being average isn’t enough. They’re mad because the effort required to attract basic women is generally a solid year or more of hard work and dedication, where as the typical average women just watches a couple of makeup videos on TikTok and cosplays as above average. It’s like working for years to climb the corporate ladder only for some other dude to get hired over you cause he’s friends with the boss. Men are more logical in this manner so the imbalance between the effort …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 05:30 AM
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Ask any attractive women what % of men they find attractive and it’ll be less surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 12:01 AM
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As if the lawyer can’t just feign ignorance? Im sure the lawyer knows what it is. Their job is to get their client the W, even if their story is bullshit. Again, hence why they’re in civil court where the burden of proof is lower
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:43 PM
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They’d also know that extortion works amazingly for women. Very high success rate against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:28 PM
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Unattractive guys have the most to lose what do you mean? They’re the closest ones to complete social collapse. They are not shooting their shots (IRL) at attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:23 PM
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You’re confused. Truly unattractive men approach the least. They know their place. You’re forgetting women consider the vast majority of dudes unattractive. It’s highly likely the dudes approaching her are average and above, they’re just unattractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:22 PM
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But accurate. 50Ms for rough sex? Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:19 PM
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Because she’s hot and wants the dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:18 PM
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No 10M is because the lawyer knows how easily it is for women to get away with this shit and because he’s rich and famous, it’s often better to just pay out to avoid all the legal nonsense. It’s asinine that people think someone trying to pay off someone is automatically an admission of guilt. Again, this is why she took him to civil court for allegedly criminal charges. She’s after the payday, not justice. How is this not obvious? 50Ms!?! For what? Only cause he’s rich and famous. And notice ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:15 PM
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Yeah so is sueing for 50m! Why not take him to criminal court? Why go civil? Oh, so you need less proof to get paid out? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:55 PM
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Groomed her? Omg 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:54 PM
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We also ignore that women watch the most violent porn. Or the experienced dudes who are all like “yeah it was women who got me into shit like BDSM and CNC”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:50 PM
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He’s in his 50s and she’s in her 20s. That is enough to want to keep this shit out of media circulation because people will hang him on that fact alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:43 PM
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Lol what power do I have to manipulate and control my GF? Seriously she’s young and hot. She makes as much money as me. She’s confident and independent. She does what she wants. I have no idea how I could manipulate her into doing anything she doesn’t want to. If anything, she has the power 🤷🏾‍♂️😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:34 PM
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I think this narrative that the majority of women were trapped in loveless, abuse relationships is silly. Women still had plenty of agency around who they married. I think women’s idea of how life was back then is just as skewed as men’s are 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:36 AM
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If my daughter is an adult than she’s free to make her own choices. My job as a parent is to prepare my kids for adulthood, not coddle them. If my 18 yr old daughter wants to date dudes 5, 10, 20 yrs old, go off. Obviously I’ll want to meet this dude if things are serious, but I aint out here cockblocking my daughter. Also, I’m 34, and my GF is 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 09:33 PM
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No what’s telling is that almost every woman dated an older man when they were younger. Maybe it’s time to just accept this dynamic openly and stop playing these weird power games. Ya’ll know what it is yet pretend it’s not obvious to everyone else. Literally since middle school young girls are going after older dudes. Yeah you finna get burned sometimes but it’s no different than dating dudes your own age. Piece of shit exist on all levels
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 05:57 AM
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Uhh you think men are just born not liking women? It’s learned behavior. Maybe if everyone was taught to treat everyone well (especially children), then maybe we’d see a significant drop in angry men (and women)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:13 AM
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Lol my Dad didn’t bail while my mom was prego, she just got pregnant by some dude she was fuckin with. I imagine this scenerio is a lot more common than dudes bailing on a committed relationship. Even then I’m not angry at her or him. As you said, my mom made her choice and did her best to raise me. My dad made his as well 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 03:10 AM
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Depends on what their baseline orgasm frequency was. Hopefully you kept your orgasm count up-to-date with the Minister of Loneliness 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:30 PM
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Don’t you still have a list of “no’s” that eliminates potential suitors based on nothing but discriminatory qualities? Like being to short, to poor or too black? These are basic “standards” that everyone has. Dating is simply inherently discriminatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:17 PM
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Men support men. Why is this hard to grasp women seek support from both men and women, yet for some reason only men are suppose to support men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:07 PM
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This isn’t the gotcha you think it is seeing as many young boys and men are failing today. Clearly mummy didn’t do shit and does not deserve any kind of praise just cause the got knocked up and didn’t abort. You have to actually raise you kids too for it to count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:03 PM
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Why shame women’s sexual kinks? Not very nice of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:59 PM
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Not in the sheets. Kind of a weird statement to make in the streets though. Like, I’d never say that to my friends (relationships are give and take), but I’d say it to my GF in a sexual way 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 05:03 PM
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Come on you know what Im saying and it’s not an insult to women or weakness. It’s desire. Idk why women spend so much energy denying their own sexual reality. As I said before sleep with more women and it’ll become clear. And again of course it’s not all women but certainly plenty enough. What do they desire from being used? Idk Im not a woman. But something about an attractive guy fucking them I guess 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:46 PM
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That’s fine, but it is. Why pretend it’s not? Again, you wouldn’t deal with them if they were a shitty person right? You interact with them because they bring positive energy, are fun to be around, have deep conversations etc etc. Everyone is “merely existing” and yet you aren’t friends with/love everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:43 PM
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Yeah. They still enjoy getting fucked and will if the offer is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:40 PM
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Is that not the same thing? If someone is enjoyable to be around, is that not something they provide? Something “they can do for you”? Would you be around them if they were mean and disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:39 PM
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Because it’s illogical. It’s like saying 1 + 1 = 1. Seriously are you even reading your words? “I’m just as happy single as I am in a loving relationship”. So your SO provides you with nothing, and you love him for that? And you provide him with nothing, and he loves you for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:48 PM
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No one said it’s wrong for women to desire sex or that they have no sex drive. I’m simply saying “being used” (and yes I agree if she consented, how is she being used? (some women like to frame sex that they didn’t get anything out of as being used/abused)), is something many women will desire from attractive men. There’s no hatred in facts. It just is. No need to sugarcoat things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:15 PM
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Oh okay so you understand what Im sayin then and are just being silly. Your husband’s free to leave but you keep him happy, right? Yeah that’s that cultivating love thing I was talking about. Providing value doesn’t just equal $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 10:10 PM
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Again, clearly you’re young, naive or inexperienced. Love has to be cultivated and maintained. It’s not just free. People fall out of love all the time and it’s largely because they get complacent and think they should just be loved unconditionally. Try to maintain anyone’s love (non-familial) without providing anything. See how that works out for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:55 AM
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I’ve been loved and have lost it. I’m currently loved (as in a relationship) and it’s flourishing. Perhaps you just don’t live in reality? You are a woman, so maybe you just haven’t realized that love is something men have to work toward earning and maintaining. We can’t just passively love without providing value. You can’t just stop dating your girl 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:36 AM
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Because it’s largely a choice. If most men could just casually get laid/relationships they’d be a lot more satisfied single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:28 AM
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Naw get this shit out of here. Being loved is rarely enough. Relationships have give and take. There’s transactional aspects. If your partner loved you, but never expressed it, you wouldn’t be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:53 AM
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My bois are very supportive. Always have been. Of course we still give each other shit, but we go out to dinner together and can confided in each other. Still not the same. Need the ladies and I don’t think theirs anything wrong with acknowledging that on both ends (women needing men too).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:45 AM
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Yes of course. We’re discussing this from the per-view of a healthy male. Not being able to get intimacy from women (platonic and romantic) is going to have delirious effects on his well being. Family doesn’t really count because it’s family. Need at least some female friends and a FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:30 PM
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Exactly, hence why being a dude with a bunch of dude friends isn’t gonna make up for a lack for female intimacy (both platonic and romantic). If women don’t feel whole without other women why assume men feel whole without women too? Women don’t have to worry about men they’re so flooded with attention from them that they actively seek to avoid it. Oh no I was agreeing that dudes who socialize more struggle less for sure. Just that socializing with the bros does not mean you will be successful (a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:28 PM
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Yes. Interacting with fam is not gonna sate one’s need for intimacy and sex (…hopefully).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:16 PM
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You’re right but intimacy and closeness from women is different than from the boys. You can have all the male love in the world and still be depressed/lonely because women don’t like you. It’s not the same. They don’t. I think women just think men have shit support groups and communities when they really don’t. Men have friends. Men have family. That’s not what most dudes are lacking. They socialize and hang out. And while I agree this often leads to interacting with and eventually connecting wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:14 PM
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Psychological and physical needs are going unmet. Maybe it’s not the same for women, but as a man, interacting with women is just a completely different vibe. Very easy to feel lonely despite having friends and family.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:00 PM
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Brutal. This mindset is cancer. You literally just said that you could take or leave your SO. They add nothing and you’re just as happy with or without them. Yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:47 PM
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Nothing, we just don’t want intimacy/sex from our bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 09:45 PM
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No, no one wants to get used for sex This is a blatant lie and any attractive guy can prove it. Literally being used is a kink/fetish by many women. They don’t want to be used by guys the deem on their level or below, but a hot guy using them is just hot. Obviously not all women, but Idk how many women you’ve fucked, but it’s about as common as women wanting to be choked/hit/rough sex. Which is fairly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 03:35 AM
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Then why I gotta pay child support for 18 years?! /s Lol but seriously I love how all women weaponized pregnancy but it’s a choice you make and many choose not to even go through it yet still weaponize it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:36 AM
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Dealing with pregnancy is balanced by men dying more and sooner. Women bring life, men take it. Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 09:34 AM
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Not getting pregnant is a non-starter. You had a choice and took the risk consensually (assuming consent) so both parties are equal in the creating of a child. Abortions only benefit men when her choice aligns with what he wanted. We can assume the majority of men didn’t get the “benefits” they wanted considering the sheer amount of single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 06:29 AM
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Lol you can not get fucked just like men and avoid pregnancy. Equality. Unless you mean the right to abort well… men don’t have that either so again: Equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:54 AM
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We literally have the studies showing women are more violent in relationships. Both hetero and same sex. It’s women bruh. They’re instigators and hide behind the shield of “I’m just a woman”. Like a living breath version of “it’s just a joke 🤪” I’ve seen several good guys literally converted into pieces of shit fucking with the wrong women. Then when shit hits the fan, he catches the L and she moves on to burn some other dudes life down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 10:15 PM
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This kind of narrative u/GridReXX Fear-mongering.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 10:49 PM
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The reality is despite having a higher propensity for causing damage, still, only a tiny portion of men lack the control to not act on it. Isn’t it more concerning that women seem to consistently fuck with these outlier men? 🤔 We even have the stats showing women are more violent in relationships, both hetero and same sex. Women simply lack the physical capacity to inflict damage like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:58 PM
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Which is more likely to be murdered? 🤷🏾‍♂️ Who’s killing only matters if it’s a man, and whose killed only matters if it’s a women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:53 PM
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No. The stats say that many females have had an unsavory predatory experience by a male before she’s even a teenager. “Unsavory” can range from a “feeling” about some guy to much worse. My point being the “much worse” is uncommon; according to the stats. Every woman has experience with a creepy guy or being catcalled which is also “unsavory”. Most women have had a similar experience doesn’t mean that most men are the perpetrators. I agree, but the narrative being pushed (online) is that most men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:48 PM
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Appreciated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:40 PM
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at least on online spaces. Seems to be the prevailing narrative amongst women that men (not a small minority of men) are violent predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:31 PM
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The stats say that very bad experiences with men are statistically unlikely, especially being murdered by them while pregnant 🤷🏾‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:15 PM
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Im mad at the narrative being pushed (mostly online), not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:53 PM
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No one is saying that. Obviously you should be wary of strangers, but this sort of blanket narrative assumption that half the population actively hates and wants to harm you is 100% fear-mongering; at least on online spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 10:48 PM
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It does matter that more men are murdered though, because it changes the outlook. Women are murdered 6x more often by intimate partners but men are murdered ~3.5x in general. Using the same data, ~1700 women were murdered and ~1100 men. That’s only ~1.5x more often 🤷🏾‍♂️ And still, the overall number matters. Ya’ll aint afraid to drive cars? And yet cars kill almost 10x more women annually. It’s all just fear-mongering against men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 09:29 PM
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Like, for example, I know that the leading cause of death for pregnant women is homicide, overwhelmingly perpetrated by the woman's intimate partner This is a poor example and only serves to prove OPs point. There are ~3,000,000 deaths annually in the US and ~5000 of them are women being murdered. Of those, ~1/3 of them were by an intimate partner. It’s just like how women were screaming about all the maternal deaths that were happening after Roe v Wade was overturned, ignoring that the odds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 08:05 PM
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She already had it in when we started dating, but I’ll talk to her about it. I have no clue how IUDs are suppose to sit up in there. Definitely would be nice if it could be cut/repositioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:29 AM
1

Thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:27 AM
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I hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 01:29 AM
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Very! I can feel my girls IUD when I fuck her. It’s like getting jabbed with a thin pointy stick. Apparently it’s some kind of wire that hangs down off the IUD? Idk how it works but it sucks and you never know when it’s gonna line up with your dick while stroking. Luckily I can’t feel it when wearing a condom but man that shit is scary without one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 11:20 PM
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The 7” takes it. Women are full of shit even if they want a small dick it’s not as if dude can’t just, you know, stop short of ramming her cervix 🤷🏾‍♂️ Big dick + short strokes > small dick shoved to the hilt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:58 PM
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Oh they relate. Tons of women are shitting themselves over their breast size. Breast implants aren’t that uncommon. They know what’s up, but as always they feign ignorance. It literally makes no sense for men to care about dick size if women don’t. If small dicks were desired the way big dicks are portrayed to be, we wouldn’t have these issues. Speaking as a guy with a big dick, they definitely love that shit, even if it’s “too big”, many still wanna try. It’s not like a little lube and not shov…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:52 PM
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Telling people they’re whining to dismiss their argument is what’s weak. But I disagree that complaining is weak. How is anyone (specifically men) suppose to voice concerns/issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 06:14 AM
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