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| 2 | "Assume they're into you until proven otherwise"This is the typical advice handed-down by the tall, attractive men with great social capital. They can assume everyone's into them because it is often the case. If you're an unattractive male or just an average male, this is not the correct mindset to have. Women are NOT attracted to you. However, they can become attracted to your resources, so focus on your career and get lost in your passions. Life is about more than just sex and dating. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.LOL keep dreaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.There's so many average/below average height, thin kinda skinny pretty boys who are ridiculously popular with girls. In high school. Once college starts height starts to matter and those hobbits get forgotten about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Dating in our 20s.I want to know more, can I DM you too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.Because they're usually tall, good looking, wealthy, or possess some advantage that allows them to skate by without an attractive personality. I know PLENTY of women who are about as interesting as a rock, but get away with it because they're average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.To follow up, I know ugly tall guys with no personality/bad personality who get women swooning over them everywhere they go. You don't need a personality if you're 6'1 and up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Many men here seem to underestimate or downplay the role “charisma” and “presence” plays in female sexual arousal.If you're average height you're not objectively good looking, no offense. Tall height is the #1 physical characteristic for heterosexual women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?This is masochistic advice. If you're a late bloomer who can't get a girlfriend in the West, go to the Philippines and get a single woman there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?I recommend this, too. I lost my virginity at 22 to a stripper ( she was 21, very classy and clean and I wore protection) and after that experience, I felt like my social intelligence improved and my anxiety decreased drastically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 09:35 AM |
| 7 | I can’t “seduce” women who I perceive to be better looking than me.This mindset will end when you stop putting women on a pedestal. How attractive are these women? Unless they're Gal Gadot-tier they're not "too good for you." | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 09:27 AM |
| 1 | I can’t “seduce” women who I perceive to be better looking than me.What if you aren't tall? Men's physical attractivness is capped by their height. You can be a really good looking dude, great shape, good smile, but if you're 5'7 you're always going to be a second option compared to a 6'2 below-average looking male. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Both men AND women are failing in today’s society.Modern women are EVIL. I'm sure some guys are, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/21 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Again, I disagree. Just because a man wears a dress doesn't mean he should be celebrated at all. Putting on makeup isn't an accomplishment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?I completely disagree. You're nothing special, neither am I. If you want to be celebrated, go out and do something worth celebrating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Sent. Thanks again for your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sWell yeah, but there's more to life than just that. You should've been more specific. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Thank you. Sending now.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?You seem like a straight shooter, could you give me an honest assessment if I sent you a photo of myself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sIn what ways? What about financial freedom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sI really hope not. I spent the majority of my life very depressed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Uh, and how am I a bad person? Equality means men and women compete on EQUAL playing fields, meaning you don't have to "go easy" on women in a competitive corporate setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Prince is 5'3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Actually, according to CelebHeights, which is the most accurate source for heights on the web, he's 5'9 and some change, but it wouldn't matter if he was 5'10 or 5'9 - it's still too short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?If I sent you a photo would you keep it confidential and give me an honest rating? I'm a 24 soon-to-be 25-year-old virgin and I'm trying to find out what's wrong with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:09 AM |
| 4 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Well, I'm 5'10 and women don't even make eye contact with me. I guess it's my face then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:08 AM |
| 0 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Women consider anyone under 6' short. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Do you think "game" is a myth or is there actually truth behind it?I think game is a normal distribution, where guys who are really good-looking have none because they never had to develop it, while ugly guys on the other end of the spectrum never developed game because they were never given the opportunity to, while average guys have to have the most game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?Actually, there are quite a lot of up-and-coming hip hop artists that use the term "slay pussy" and worse, and they do fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?I disagree that people should be celebrated for who they are. If these men are truly just "being themselves" why do they need to be celebrated? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:28 AM |
| 3 | Do you think there's a stigma against men being feminine?David Bowie is 5'9, how is that conventionally attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.What are some examples of self-destructive behavior men practice because they're shamed by women? I'm a 24 male and feel like I may be on the receiving end of this but convinced myself I wasn't being manipulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Men and women can never truly compete because we're wired differently. I, and most men, find women much easier to dominate in a professional setting. Women are less aggressive and shorter than men, which makes dominating them much easier in most corporate settings. I wouldn't mind more women in the workplace since it would make my climb that much easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 7 | The “patriarchy” is little more than the projection of women’s desire for power and they subvert responsibility for this by unjustly placing it on men.Women are encouraged to manipulate and exploit men (for their resources), but if a man ever does anything similar back it's considered evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 06:18 AM |
| -1 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sI'm 24 and this is me currently. This comment gave me so much hope for the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?The hardest part is the social pressure, which is HIGH at least from my family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/21 02:07 AM |
| 0 | Question for everyone: if you could get rid of your sex drive without damaging your body or motivation in any way, would you?I'm a 25-year-old male virgin who never had a girlfriend, I'm able to stay motivated without sex or pursuing it. I'm heterosexual, and the way I mitigate my urges is to just masterbate. I've basically found a "loophole" to remove my sexual desires while maintaining my career and life ambitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 11:06 PM |
| -3 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.Look at the bright side: even the biggest slut has a lower-body count than Hillary Clinton! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.Hmm sounds like you're hanging around the wrong kind of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:53 PM |
| 38 | If you care about low n count or no n count, what are you doing to attract a person like that?I'm attracted to low n-count women because I'm a low n-count man. I don't care if she's 25 or 35, I just want someone on the same level of experience as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Interesting, just out of curiosity, at what stage do you consider him LTR material? 3 dates? 5? Moved in together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Young men increasingly using digital substitutes for real romantic interactions. What do you think are the long-term consequences of that phenomenon?Then, in 20 years, we'll have the smartphone of women-replacments, where it's all in one. Everything from sex, to anime, is just another app in her settings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Young men increasingly using digital substitutes for real romantic interactions. What do you think are the long-term consequences of that phenomenon?It's because the west has been in a 60-year-long undoing of everything that made the West so desirable. Monogamy is just another leg on the table that needs to be chopped away in order to achieve full "progress" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Young men increasingly using digital substitutes for real romantic interactions. What do you think are the long-term consequences of that phenomenon?I used to be this guy. I finally ditched porn and now, at 25, learning about relationships for the first time. My advice to anyone who reads this is: don't use porn as a replacement for actual female intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:09 AM |
| 2 | How much is the rhetoric about 'out of control' female promiscuity just another moral panic or has basis in reality?I don't see a problem with it. People like this, who engage in copious amounts of casual (unprotected) sex just wind up digging their own graves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Ideal body count for ltr/ marriage material women?3 or less is she's over 22. 4 or less if she's over 27. 6 or less if she's over 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | The real reason they hate MGTOWI'm certain that at least 99% of (Westen) women aren't even aware of the MGTOW "movement." Why would they? Why would anyone? These men want to go and do their own thing. Great. So go do that and stop whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | "Men in real life don't care about N count because I rarely get asked about it" - why this logic is very flawedI couldn't date high n-count women. What's the max number? That would come down to the individual woman in question. If she's the type that exaggerates in other aspects of her life, I'd be prone to think she's doing the same with her n-count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Question for men: If n-count is a dealbreaker for you when vetting a potential LTR, at what point and how do you bring this up?Yes, for me, high n-count women would not be a suitable partner for me. I'm pretty inexperienced myself, and I want that in a partner. It's not an age thing, either. I don't care if she's 25 and inexperienced or 35 and inexperienced. I just want someone on the same level as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.There exists a subset of men who no women are attracted to, you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?What about a man who's just really into sex? What's the difference, in your eyes? Let's say you and a guy hit it off, and he's eager to sleep with you, not because it's "casual", but because he just likes sex and found someone interesting to do it with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?The problem is that most men, myself included don't know their "league" Every time I think I'm out of my depth for a given reason, I meet some dude with whatever I thought I was missing killing it with women. Example: I'm 5'10, not tall, but not short. I always thought not being 6'1+ was holding me back, but then I befriended a guy 5'3 and slaying women like nothing. There are so many variables with male attractiveness, as compared to women, that's it's hard to quantify with a single "score". Ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?This is great advice. Porn is horrible for *young* men. I had a bit of a porn problem from 16-24. And for the record, it was normal, heterosexual porn, nothing crazy. The problem was that I was using it to replace actually going out and meeting women. I missed out on a big portion of my life because I kept using porn as a crutch. I'm now 25 and just learning about relationships now. Something I could've started over 10 years ago. Let this be a warning to all of you lurkers out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?This is great advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Is that the case? As an average guy, I've never encountered women (of any caliber) eager for casual sex with me on a dating site/app. I could be inflating my attractiveness, though, maybe I'm ugly, but I don't think it's that much different if you're a 4 or a 7. 8+ is where the fun starts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 2 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Getting a "fuck buddy" isn't exactly easy for most men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?Masturbate, but stay away from porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 59 | Women who live a promiscuous lifestyle before settling down are doing nothing wrong – *except* for adamantly believing that their promiscuity doesn't matter.The guys who end up marrying these women are either high n-count men themselves, or desperate low n-count men who put women on a pedestal (especially women who show interest in them.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 2 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.That would do it. I know guys who got a ton of women in their teens, then they didn't pass the '6 marker in their 20's and now they're not getting any. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.What's the alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Are Uninteresting/Boring "Betas" Options' Limited to Single Mothers and Troubled-Past Women?Fools make feasts and wise men eat them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Reverse post: what makes you think that women are into a-holes?Women are attracted to men who they view as "above them" - so when a guy ignores her or treats here as a "lesser", it makes her reptiles brain go nuts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What makes a low or high value man or woman?Women don't care about income, at least not in my observation. Maybe when they're looking to settle down in their 30's, but not during their 20's. Looks, charm, height, and style are what count for both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Nice guy (beta) vs. bad boy (Chad) is the wrong distinction. It's the exciting guy vs. the boring guy.I don't think personality matters in attraction as much as we wish it did, lol. I know socially-inept guys who are "swimming in it", but who cares? Life isn't fair. I'll happily be the funny guy who might not get laid than the vapid chad who gets multiple partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menLol, I was implying that any guy can get any girl with the right mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menAny guy can get a hot girlfriend if he's willing to work hard for it and take risks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Are men at their ‘peak’ (30-35), most attractive to women at their ‘peak’ (18-22)?I think it's more the 30-35-year-old male crowd trying to convince themselves the good time isn't behind them. I'm a "frumpy 20-something" male and I'm well aware that I'm in my prime, or at least just passed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menMhmm. In other words, not matter how ugly or short you are, it's still not over until you give up on yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?In my personal opinion, porn is horrible for young men. Not necessarily because it raises a man's standards, but because it's too easy to use it as a replacement for actual intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | is it a dealbreaker is a man watches pornDepends on the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of couples which the woman is taller and/or stronger than her man and why there is a stigma against it?It depends on the couple. A friend of mine is only 5'3 and he's dating a very attractive 5'8 gal. She doesn't seem to care, so why should anyone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | The western world is actually the best and safest place for menIf you are not strong physically, then do everything to get rich. High IQ. If you're short (under 6'1) or simply just weak, you MUST compensate with money, which almost always requires intelligence. Education should be #1 for any man not considered physically intimidating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | What do you think matters more to women? Income or passion?There's no clear-cut answer to this because, like everything in this world, it comes down to the individual. Some women like money and view it as a marker of success, and others want a man with a burning passion. If you want to capture the entire market, be a man with a burning passion who uses his passion to make a lot of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?How much does it matter? It's not my sole objective in life, but female validation is one hell of a drug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How much do you value opposite-sex attention?It matters to me. I think it matters to all men, assuming they're being honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.That's what I said. If he has any respect he'll wait and use some of his money to build himself the perfect life. HIMSELF! Not a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.But it will give him options. Life isn't fair, but you have to play the cards you're dealt and capitalize where you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] Is being settled for really that bad? So what if she wouldn't have dates you in her 20s? She's wants to date you now.It all comes down to your self-worth. If the guy knows that his wife is settling for him, meaning she's not actually romantically interested in him, and he still chooses to stick around.. well.. that's him digging his own grave. There's a difference between having no options and being desperate. Anyone who marries someone who is clearly not into them is desperate. Period. The guy is better off staying single and making life about him, to the fullest extent. With all that money in his 30's, he'll… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | What should a single man do to fulfill his sexual needs if a relationship is not possible at the moment?A sex worker is your best bet, but don't expect her to be excited about fucking you. Like anything in this world, anything worth doing never came easy and vice versa. If you want to have sex with women that you share a mutual attraction, it's going to take some work on your end. There are no two ways about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | You don’t have to fuck every girlAt least you’re banging 9s and 10s, lol. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Attractive guys get stared at by women but also men?How tall are you and what does your face look like? | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Attractive guys get stared at by women but also men?Could you characterize a 6.5 male? | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:06 AM |
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