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Just become a degenerate and stop worrying about dating. Do coke, bang a couple of strippers and get a job where you make at least 6 figures. Then you have an abundance of baddies that want you. Idk why. I was a college athelete and I hook up with the same caliber of women as I did back then as far as looks. I'm not going to marry any of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:17 PM
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How many times do you think I can get away with calling my girlfriend's twin sister babe before it becomes a problem? My gf lives with her sister and I've called her babe twice already in front of my gf. I'm in gf talking mode and it slips out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 12:44 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:03 AM
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I am dating a 24 year old and surprisingly she is more mature then the women I have dated in my past that are 5+ years older. Maybe because she was raised in a 2 parent household. I used to go after women who would party and liked to have a good time. Most recent ex was 29 but had bpd. I didn't know until a couple of months of dating. My current gf has never raised her voice at me, and has never caused a scene in public. But I do agree, that my gf is probably an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:59 AM
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Just need to add around another 10 - 15 pounds of muscle and you'll have an A tier physique. Just another 2 to 3 years in the gym. But you look decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:14 PM
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I kind of like how Canada voters think. Basically they kick their leaders out once they start doing a horrible job. I've seen the sentiment that they don't elect new leaders they kick out the old ones. I believe that the dems ran the country horribly. Wars are breaking out all over the world. China, North Korea, Russia and Iran are forming a new block. Inflation has been insane. The debt is even more insane and the border was crazy. Base on that record, why should the Dems have gotten another 4 …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:06 PM
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I agree. I was a college athlete and it was easy to attract women. Now in my early 30's I am making decent money but not as good looking because I am not in as good of shape and have hooked up with hotter women. Maybe also because my social skills improved and I have more life experience. I struggled with women when I was only making 40k living in a major city and wasn't really able to do much due to my limited funds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 06:44 PM
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We all fumble. I almost fked a beautiful chick who was a streamer. I live in a tourist town. Was drunk enough to hit on her and it went well. Invited her back to my place but she was like I am on vacation with my family and we are leaving tomorrow. Got her number and texted and called all the time. I never watched a streamer in my life or knew what that entailed. So didn't get that streamers dm with subs etc. I felt like we were close and learned a lot about her life. I would get jealous because…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 05:59 PM
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QfW: I have a situation. I'm going to vegas next week. My gf is upset because I bought the tickets before knowing an old fwb would be joining. My gf isn't going. I thought it would only be my guy buddies. The old fwb is a friend of a friend. Would you expect your dude to cancel the trip if he is meeting up with other buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/24 09:31 PM
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I am dating an amazing woman. I make 5 times as much as she does and inherited a lot of money recently. I just need to drop the money in a sp500 index and by the time I retire at 60 I'll have 8 figures to live out the rest of my life. I have no problem paying for everything. She loves me a lot, she is hot, and great in bed. My ex was a nightmare. She was a 10 but had bpd, selfish, and overall just a bad person. She could be homeless and I wouldn't give her a dime. I wouldn't say It gives me any …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 01:22 AM
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Yeah I struck gold. She is amazing. I think she might be my future wife. She is also college educated, and ran track in college. She is also a feminist, not that it's inherently bad. But mexico women are murdered and cops don't care, so I can see why she is one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:49 AM
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I agree. I am dating a mexican national and I would say it is night and day difference from the previous women I dated. We were going out for the night and she was all dressed up and had her makeup on. I said I was hungry and would pick up something from a fast food place on the way. She said no, that isn't healthy and cooked me a meal right then and there. She has asked me multiple times if I am comfortable with what she is wearing. Last night I went out with her, her sister and a family friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:36 PM
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Yes but all of them are average looking and I was never sexually attracted to any of them. I have been friends with a group of like 5 women for 10+ years. I dated an absolute bombshell and it was a nightmare because we weren't compatible. She was one of the most interesting people I ever met so we tried to be friends, but that ended in disaster as well. I would say you should only be friends with women you would never date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:08 AM
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It isn't but there are now alternative institutions then the mainstream. Back in the day there was a high drop out rates from religious groups. Now the most conservative versions of religions have like an 80% retention rate. I read a book about it but for the life of me I can't remember the name. It was from some canadian who teaches at oxford. My post had nothing to do with genetics. I just said ppl who have more kids will have their views more reflected in society in the long term. Edit. I rem…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:08 PM
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We are all going to be amish in 200 years. Basically groups that have high fertility rates are going to take over from the groups that have a low fertility rate. Look at Israel as a modern day example. The ultra orthodox used to be 1% of the population when Israel was founded and I believe they are the majority of kids in the country. It will all sort itself out. There is even an argument that america will be more conservative then we are now by 2100 because conservatives have a higher fertility…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 09:58 PM
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My cousin is 5 foot 3 and married an objectively hot chick. It may help that he's in the military and is also good looking. I know its one data point and doesn't mean women don't find taller guys more attractive but it can be done. I'm almost a foot taller and also good looking but the women I pull are around the same level of attractiveness as his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:23 PM
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My advice is to perfect the positions that are the most common positions people have sex in. Its kind of like any pro athlete. They all perfect the basics before they add their own flavor to things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:30 PM
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For her specifically it was the sex work. If she was just promiscuous then maybe. But actually having sex for money is a step too far for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:27 PM
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Just giving advice. If things are working for you then its all good brother. Idk why ppl have this need to argue about nothing on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:22 PM
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I agree. And actually prefer those type of women. For some reason I'm attracted to promiscuous women. I recently dated a high end escort like a year ago. But never committed. She was beautiful and had an amazing personality but I was like there is no way I'm going to call that chick my girlfriend. Fun times though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:20 PM
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I was kind of a scumbag when younger and could get away with it. Luckily I matured and dating for a wife these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:04 PM
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My god bro I didn't think I had to write a thesis from kissing a woman to fucking and all the steps in between. That is all a given. Foreplay is important. I'm also saying to perfect those positions and you'll be better then 90% of other dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:02 PM
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I know its pretty ridiculous. Literally just perfected that and have had chicks say that's the best they ever had. The bar is low. I speak from experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 09:00 PM
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Haha shit the internet is mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:23 PM
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100%. If I found out any of my friends beat women or potentially raped a woman that would be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 08:10 PM
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Its common sense. Do not ever commit to a woman that has a high n count. But as a guy just learn to fuck well and you can get these chicks to want to commit. Most guys are horrible in bed. Perfect missionary, doggy and her on top and you're good, but never commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:57 PM
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Yeah never cold approach a woman. You look for signs that the girl is interested in you before you make your move. Don't just go up to random women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 04:55 AM
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Vote for your interests. I told my feminist Mexican national gf I'm voting for trump. She didn't like it but oh well. But I agree mexico probably needs feminism. A bunch of women get murdered there and the cops couldn't care less or try to find out who was the murderer.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:58 PM
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I think that's a cope. I was alone and had a great life for 5 years. Lived at one of the best beach towns in the country and consistently hooking up with tourists. But I'm consistently happier when dating an amazing woman. One that you have a genuinely great relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:55 AM
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As much as I hear about guys complaining about this online, I've never had a woman do that to me or any guy I know. If a woman tried I'd be on to the next. If a woman does that she isn't interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:44 AM
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Learn to fuck and you don't have to worry about the number. Most guys can't fuck. Never commit to one though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 07:39 AM
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Working women. They are focused on pleasing you and for the most part don't care if you're small as long as you have money. Also you just have to come to terns with your penis size. Worry about things you can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:32 PM
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I grew up in a time when if you used tinder you were seen as a loser. I personally would tell my friends wtf you can't just pick up a girl at a bar? It was mostly used by my friends who couldn't do that. I tried it and it sucked. Much rather meet women in real life. Way more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:25 PM
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They don't offend just make it awkward. I used to live in a beach city and the women wouldn't dress like that to workout. For some reason my new gym in the middle of nowhere has attracted what seems to be want to be influencers or something. In 3 to 5 years women will be wearing this to the gym: https://www.amazon.com/Shorts-Lifting-Scrunch-Waisted-Workout/dp/B0CCKVN3T7 I don't see the trend reversing unfortunately. There needs to be men only gyms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 08:30 PM
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Just trying to get help with my problem. I thought there would be a few guys here who would have similar experience with women and had gone through something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:51 PM
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I used to be a gym rat and was in college when every woman started wearing yoga pants in everyday life. I really liked it at the time, but it has gone to far. The gym I go to specifically, like 35% of the women are dressed in almost nothing. It just make things uncomfortable for everyone. I came to workout not to see half naked women that leave nothing to imagination. It's like everyone is trying to be an insta thot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:45 PM
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I wouldn't go with any of them. None of them seem like my type. I like basic chicks, who are normal, but if I had to choose one I would go with Tina. She seems the most normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:39 PM
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Just treat those opinions like they are coming from a crazy homeless person. Why waste time feeling persecuted by crazy people? I'm telling you in day to day life people usually don't say crazy shit like that, and if someone does you should distance yourself from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 07:24 PM
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I came to that conclusion last night. I was just going through the motions to make sure she was having a good time, but it wasn't like I had extreme passion for the act. Then I was like fk I might be broken. I should be way more excited and in the moment to be sharing this experience with someone I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:47 PM
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I think I had sex with too many women when I was younger. Did way to many one night stands and fwbs so now that I am with a woman that I really like, sex isn't really that exciting for me. I would much rather cuddle on the couch watching a movie. Sex seems mechanical with no real emotion behind it. I feel somewhat broken. Any way to get that magical feeling when hooking up with a person you care about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:38 PM
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Haha no I don't think I have it in me. Last night we only fked once, but after is when she told me that she also likes romantic sex. I'm not opposed to it but was kind of surprised. I was like that wasn't what you were saying when we first hooked up. I'm not opposed to it, I just don't want to mainly be having romantic sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:47 PM
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What do you think of this situation. I am exclusively dating a woman now. The first weekend I took her out to a bar, that night she fked my brains out. We had 4 sessions that night and 1 the next morning. I was good with one session but she was the one who was begging me to go again. At first I was fking her normal because it was the first time and some women don't like hard sex, but then she was the one who was dirty talking and telling me to fk her harder so I obliged. She said she acted that …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:17 PM
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Eh. I'm in my early 30's and regularly date women from 23 to 29. I've always done decent with women. It seems to be way easier now then when I was in my mid to late 20's. It was extremely easy in college because I was a college athlete. So I struggled the most in my mid to late 20's. Only problem is some of them do have personality disorder. I dated a beautiful woman from brazil who was 29. She was a former model but ended up having bpd. Put up with to much bs from her just because she was hot. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:00 PM
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I met her 2 months ago. She moved to the city I am in because of her job.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:55 PM
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What are your thoughts on an age gap relationship of 9 years? I'm 33 and she is 24. I genuinely think this woman is amazing. I haven't found a negative yet. I really like her personality, she's really outgoing and is fun to be around. We were also both college athletes. She seems to really like me as well. She is also the best I've ever been with in bed. The only negative is the age gap. I haven't told any of my friends or family how young she is because I feel I'll be judged as a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 08:34 PM
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Nah. I was a good college athlete and was like a 7. I was regularly hooking up with chicks who would never give me the time of day if I didn't have status. I would say it gives you at least 2 points maybe 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:01 PM
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Yeah I could see that from the outside looking in. I'll dm you the text when I find it. Found it but don't know how to send a screenshot as a message. Sent
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:54 PM
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I honestly think being yourself is actually really good advice. I would put on a front when dating women when I was younger. I met a woman who was hotter than the majority of Victoria Secret models. I was like I'm playing with house money anyways so might as well be the real me. So didn't try to hide my flaws, was completely honest with her about things and told my opinion on things even if I thought she wouldn't like my opinion. Ended up in a relationship and when we were talking she told me sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 07:45 PM
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You do you. I'm dating the hottest woman I've ever been with now, so don't need to make that trade off just yet. But I do agree that there are other important factors for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:46 PM
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Hahah that could be a possibility. But no, maybe I am overrating them because they had a skill I lacked which was charisma. Didn't really keep up with them as adults so maybe they didn't have as much success with women and it was the best they could do. But I was college athlete and had status and decent looking so I got some experience with beautiful women. So after living through that ,I couldn't see myself marrying someone I wasn't absolutely attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:58 PM
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None of the wives are fat. But objectively most of the guys are between 7-9 in looks and charismatic and the wives are like 5's and 6's but all are skinny. One guy I can see how he ended up with her because her family is loaded so maybe a male gold digger thing going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:48 PM
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Nope. One guy got married to his wife in the past 3 years. I was at a gathering with them and the dude was flirting with every woman, mostly because it's also his personality. One of the other women asked the wife about it and she said it's what she has to put up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:34 PM
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Nah I think my peak is now. I actually hated my sport but only did it because I was good at it and got a scholarship. Life in the past 3 years has been great since I got better socially and financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:31 PM
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All the good looking guys from high school have married average to below average women. I don't get it. My high school class was known for having a bunch of good looking guys and average women. These guys were charismatic and slayed. I had little to no charisma and only did well back then because I was a really good athlete and good looking, so it surprises me that these guys settled. And the majority of them make above 80k. Weird observation I made looking through facebook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:27 PM
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Best life hack if you are a decent looking guy, move to a tourist town if you work from home. Met a minor European celebrity. Makes a living but isn't a household name or anything. Got her number and we kept in contact. Just booked a vacation with her in May and she's a smoke show. This might be the craziest thing that has happened to me recently. Wish me luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:35 PM
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I would say yes. I've never felt better in my life when I was dating a 10. The type of woman where everyone in a shop would look at her when she walked in. She would get a lot of attention in everyday life. I'm a decent looking guy, about a 7 or 8 depending who you ask. So I was like I must be doing something right if I can get a woman like that. She was an amazing woman the only time her looks affected the relationship was that we were very honest with each other about our past mistakes and fla…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 05:14 PM
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Move to a vacation spot and be cool with getting rejected a lot. I'm above average but I moved to a tourist spot and it is one of the easiest places to get laid. Woman on vacation want to have fun and judge you less because you're never going to see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:47 PM
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That would be tough. I don't think I could get over it if she slept with my friend while we were talking. If she had slept with my friend before that wouldn't bother me as much. My best friend are eskimo brother 6 times over but we never tried to seriously date those women. I would be pissed at my friend for a bit and would talk to him about never banging a woman while I'm actively dating her, but I don't think I would be able to cut off a 15 year friendship over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 07:39 PM
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Hey would I be a total piece of shit if I knowingly go after a girl who is kind of in a relationship? She had a fiance who cheated on her so they broke up. Now they are trying to work it out almost a year later, but we met and really clicked. She is legit one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen. Hotter than the majority of instagram, OF, celebrities. We have been flirting and sexting but she feels pressure from her family and friends to give this guy a chance. I kind of don't care and see…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:27 PM
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Not the second chick ever. I meant that I've only been with one other woman who I clicked more than I have with her. But thanks for the advice. If she didn't have a kid, I would go but don't want to potentially be the cause of a kid not growing up with their parents in one house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:41 PM
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Should I buy a plane ticket to meet up with this woman. Context is I live in a town that has a lot of tourists and is probably one of the easiest places to get laid in the US. She is european and a 10. Spent a few hours with her at the bar, made out and unfortunately she turned down the offer to go back to my place. Got her number and stayed in touch. We have been sexting, calling and video calling each other for the past 6 months. We really hit it off and I like the woman and feel like we have …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:32 PM
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Only sexual assault if it is unwanted. Like I said the women were hot. Only hot women would have the confidence to do something like that knowing they're not going to get rejected. Majority of women would not take the chance of getting publicly rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:35 PM
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If you're high status enough they will make it really easy. In college I was the best player on the college football team. Had 4 experiences where women walked right up to me at a bar and started making out with me without saying a word. A couple of experiences when I was walking near a dance floor and a random woman who was already dancing grabbed me and dragged me to the dance floor, and a few times where women ran up to me from behind pinched my ass and ran away. Also when I would get drunk a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:05 PM
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I dated a woman who was a legit 10. I would say hotter than the majority of victoria secret models. I really liked that she was upfront about everything. Even admitted to emotionally cheating on a boyfriend who she claimed was depressed and an alcoholic. But yeah eventually I did end up getting jealous and got somewhat possessive because I am a 7 but have other qualities going for me. Somehow she found that hot and cute because she had spent most of her adult life in Europe. She was latina and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 06:58 PM
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I was in a similar situation. Dating a woman who was also dating a pilot. I ended losing because I wasn't willing to commit and the other guy was. So I would say if a woman already likes you and you like the woman, be willing to commit. The only thing that sucked was that I was new to the city and she was the only relatively close person I knew at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:21 PM
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Holy shit. I didn't know UK software dev jobs paid so little. I live in a tourist town and met a 10 from London. Visited her in London and we really hit it off did the whole I really like you thing. She is basically stuck in UK and wanted me to move over there. I said no because I would have to take a cut in pay and living at a beach is preferable. But didn't realize I would have to take that much of a cut in pay if I wanted to move to the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 02:48 PM
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This is 100% true. Going through this now. We don't have a future so I'm playing into the fantasy and then eventually will call things off in a couple of months.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:14 AM
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I have 3 separate group of friend groups. No luck trying to combine friend groups. One of them is all women so I agree men and women can be friends. The only way it works is because they are all just average looking to cute and below the threshold of women I would hook up with and they are great people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:09 PM
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I was a college athlete living in a college town so was pretty easy to hookup. I always went for women who were easy for the most part. This other woman is basically the opposite so I though why not try dating a more conservative nice woman. But she still went after good looking tall dudes so her relationships usually ended because the guys would cheat on her. That's probably what did me in. She probably thought I would end up cheating on her also.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:25 AM
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I got a bad rep from my early 20's because I hooked up with any attractive woman who wanted to hook up. So unfortunately that rep still holds, so I have similar problems. There's this one woman who hooks up with me every time she is out of a relationship, and she is always in like 2 or 3 year relationships. We have been hooking up for the past 11 years but this last time when I suggested trying to date she basically laughed in my face. About 5 years ago she was the one asking to start dating. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 08:43 PM
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I agree. The most beautiful woman I ever saw in my life was a stripper in Florida. She was literally more beautiful than any Instagram chick or celebrity and she was all natural. Had normal proportions. But when I talked to her she lived a really disciplined life. She had a personal trainer, she had a dietitian and she made sure she slept 8 hours. But then she went down a couple of notches in attractiveness because she offered sex for 30 minutes for 900 dollars. BBLs look bad on most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:57 AM
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I actually agree with you. When I was younger I was all about marrying a good woman. Now that I am older and now making good money, I don't care. I've dated a couple of strippers and a woman with an OF. Not that I had serious relationships with them but since they work using their sexuality and learned how to chat with men, they were some of the funnest women to spend time with. They were sweet and really easy to talk to. It's a weird experience when you know there isn't a future so there is no …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 07:35 AM
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No that is too much for a first date. A guy shouldn't put a woman on a pedestal . This is going to sound weird but you should treat a woman the way you would treat a woman cousin you haven't seen in a while. See what's going on in her life, poke a little fun and make a couple of jokes. Don't treat her like she's a goddess no matter how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 06:53 PM
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He only gets laid because when he is drunk he isn't acting like shy 15 year old boy talking to his crush. He can actually act like a normal guy for a bit out in public. I've been with him when he tries to talk to a girl or just everyday people when sober and the anxiety just gets the best of him. He's a good friend and can be chill when he hangs out with people who he has known for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:41 PM
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That is true. I used to be jealous but now have a fiance so don't feel like I missed out. But the guy is unhappy because all his siblings are married and he wants to get married as well, but his longest relationship was like 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 08:27 PM
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My Best Friend. He has all the makings for being a chad but unfortunately his whole family suffers with mental health as does he. He was a college football player, makes 6 figures, tall and good looking but has no self confidence and has anxiety issues. He only is able to pick up women when he is drunk but then his true personality comes out and women don't usually stick around for long. So he has hooked up with over 100 women because he can't maintain a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 06:23 PM
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