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| 2 | Why aren't large age gap relationships the norm?It's a common misconception that men often overlook—only a minority of them will become rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't large age gap relationships the norm?Let me share this perspective: older women may not always have the mental appeal to retain young men, and similarly, many older men might lack the financial means to keep younger women interested. This tends to be a common scenario in age-gap couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Career women, "tradwives" and generational poverty.Do whatever brings you happiness; in a world already complicated, do gender roles truly matter anymore? The damage is done. Pursue the first three, but consider avoiding marriage and kids. Most kids from a single parents household are unstable mentally or physically or both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Do men feel "threatened" when a more attractive male enters the room?I can't speak for others, but I honestly feel envious at times. Although the intensity of envy tends to decrease with age, it still there. I recall my twenties when I struggled to get a girl's attention, while some other handsome guy effortlessly had a group of girls around him. I didn't feel threatened, I just found myself wishing I could be in their shoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 09:52 PM |
| 1 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.They seek to experience a sense of masculinity, desiring confidence and appreciation by showcasing their achievements. Younger women often find joy in small gestures, appreciating each effort. As for older women, having experienced so much, may prove hard to impressed. It's not about physical appearance or beauty; men yearn to feel acknowledged in a world that may not always appreciate their contributions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Would more women around the world engage in polygamy if they could get the kind of men that they want?For many women, I believe the answer is yes. I know a couple of girl friends who have chosen to be part of a polygamous relationship to be with their dream guy. However, only a minority of men can effectively manage and take care of more than one woman simultaneously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?What we have now is just the side effect of technology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it actually possible to have a relationship without any power dynamics and head games?Yes, we call it true love. Where the man and the woman are so much in love that they are willing to share everything from the happy moments to their problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:44 PM |
| 3 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"Yes, I think she respects me honestly. I have made my boundaries clear and she didn't even get close or questions them. It has been 10 years and I am happy with what I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:41 PM |
| 2 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"It's ok, I am married for 10 years now. I only regret that I didn't have the opportunity to enjoy my teens and twenties that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:25 AM |
| 5 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"She has a daughter from her ex-husband, who is still around. She likely had her wild side and enjoyed life; she was the typical beautiful girl in her teens, twenties, and even her early thirties. Her ex-husband is a handsome man, but he continuously cheated on her, leading to her decision to leave. In response to your first question, I occasionally feel envious and jealous, but I keep these emotions to myself because the reality is that my chance to experience that kind of wild lifestyle is zero… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Want to solve the male loneliness epidemic? Stop letting kids play video games and promote outdoor activities insteadNot really, many women in the past were forced into marriage/relationship. Now, with the freedom to make their own choices, they choose to chase their dreams and maybe connect to a high value man, before seeking a relationship with an average normal man later in life. And trust me most women are open to stay single and chase thier dream men most of their lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 10:49 PM |
| – | If muscles dont matter for women why are strippers/exotic dancers muscularMuscles, size, sexual experience, etc. Everything superficial matters for both men and women. The notion that men are visual creatures while women are emotional is oversimplified. I've witnessed more emotional men than women in my life. I believe we share similar preferences—just as you may appreciate a big chest and butt, they may be drawn to muscles and a larger size dick. If you got it that's a plus if you don't, don't think about it and live your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 10:32 PM |
| 0 | A man who's sexually inexperienced is not a "red flag"At a certain age, it is. I met my now-wife in my late 30s, and she was also in her late 30s. She was my first, and I was a virgin. I think she stayed around because she doesn't see sex as that important; at least, she was willing to walk me through it. But if she were in her 20s or early 30s, I could see her leaving me, honestly. And of course if she loves you, you can toss all the things I said in the garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 10:26 PM |
| 0 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?Besides the us and Canada and some European countries it's the other way around. The guy is the one who stays in touch because he will inherit the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do fathers react so differently to the idea of their daughters dating?When yout son gets married you are getting someone new in the family, but if your daughter gets married you are giving her away to a family you don't know much about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:22 AM |
| – | Debunking normie advice pt 1: "go back to school and get a real job""It's a matter of having it or not. You might be a smooth talker, a good-looking guy, or someone with confidence and ego, or not. Don't force it; live your life, and you'll find someone. If you want beautiful girls with model like body then money can be your best tool. Just buy your way into her life. That's why most people say to back to school and find a better job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?It's a confidence and ego boost, a thrill that makes him feel like a man. The more women he sleeps with, the more he believes he's special and the best. A friend in a polygamous relationship shared this perspective, emphasizing that genuine liking and effort from partners are crucial. When asked why he doesn't choose one, he consistently expresses the joy and sense of being special in having multiple connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/23 10:35 PM |
| 2 | CMV If a Man is successful with women other women calling him a „myso*inist“ or „in*el“ doesnt matter. Results talk for themself.Not really women trying to tell us how to get a long term relationship but most men wants is a bunch of short terms relationships. Because sex for them is just sex they think that if you get her the longest you win but for guys it's about who get her first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 01:16 AM |
| 1 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?I don't get what you are trying to say but if you want children go and get a young girlfriend. Some men can barely have someone, let them be happy with whoever they found. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Is dating just depressing in the 30s or what?Lol both genders have it hard as they get older. Unless you are one if the minority you gonna have baggage and trauma (not only from relationship also work and social life and your friends or families). Most men and women loose their physical beauty as they get older that's life. Dating is no depressing in your 30s let's say it's different that's all. Just enjoy your 20s and if you couldn't just move on. No one can make it up to you. Try to enjoy whatever the future brings to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI am married and yes that's the truth. Like one day I found my wife old photos when she was in her twenties and she looked so beautiful and asked if I had a chance if we meet at that age and she said no at that age she was more into looks, handsome guys and her ex-husband is a living example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/23 08:36 PM |
| -1 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsFirst if all I am not a misogynist and I am married to a single mom, I am happy but if life was a little bit fair I would have been happier. Being a misogynist only means that you need help as a man, professionnel help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI don't know when did you meet him but my wife and I meet in our late 30s. My wife was so hot in her 20s and teens she said she won't have liked me then. She was only attracted to handsome guys and her ex-husband is the best example. I appreciate her honesty and it is what it is. Like I said I can be wrong this is just me talking from my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:31 PM |
| -3 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsMaybe that's also true but how I see it is that women really change after their beauty starts to fade, not all of them of course some women are really nice young or old it doesn't matter but I am talking about my experience. Like my wife for instant she won't even look my way if she was young and she said I herself. Once we get older and we start loosing things around us beauty, money and people we start changing as a human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsI am talking from my own experience. I lived long enough to make conclusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsThere is one answer, being beautiful and getting all that attention make most women thinks that they are better than some men. When that previlage go with time they become normal human being and start to see the personality and other treats of the men. Do I blame them? No! This is just a side effect of technology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 05:59 PM |
| 38 | Most single lonely men are not struggling with women because they're old fashioned misogynistsNot really me for an exemple I was always invisible for women until 35+. When their beauty starts to go slowly and they started to look at normal men. If I was a misogynist why ar they interested in me later in life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:13 PM |
| 3 | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?No offense but you need professional help and you need to stay away from social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 12:22 AM |
| 6 | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?Most of them won't settle till their mid 40s trying to have what they missed in their 20s or they get married to a younger girl like 20+. This is what I saw many if my friends do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | it makes more biological sense for an older woman to date younger men than vice versaTrue, but what an older women get by marrying a young men. Short lived satisfaction, an unsatisfied husband after 4/6 years (for most cases) and a rise in their mortality rate by 20%. As for men a long term satisfaction, a satisfied happy wife (for most cases) and lower mortality rate by 11% or more. Researcher concluded I quote 'women with much younger husbands may die younger on average because they experience more stress'. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingIf you are getting married 30+ having one kid is too much already. If you are men it's a lot of energy, if you are a women it's not good for your body. The older the couple gets the birth rate will keep going down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:33 PM |
| – | CMV Since 95% off Humans would cheat if there would be a good enough Option, being Loyal makes zero sense. There should be a Philosopher who claims this Thesis because it is very deep.Divorce or break the relationship than move to your new perfect partner. Loyalty means that you won't be playing him/her behind her back. You found a new partner good for you just break up with the first one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | 4 things I feel men should always remember.I am 49 now, I am just talking about the past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 11:15 AM |
| 3 | it makes more biological sense for an older woman to date younger men than vice versaI envy them honestly, like only a minority of men can date younger, same for women. As for younger guys hitting on you. Women can get sex anytime anywhere. As for marriage let's say the equation will change, in a marriage where the woman is 3 years or more older than the man, the likelihood of the man initiating divorce. And another study shows that men are the most satisfied when their wives are younger than them. As for why men want younger women it's pretty clear. Anyway good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | 4 things I feel men should always remember.Not really marrying outside your culture/country is not as good as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 09:33 AM |
| 1 | 4 things I feel men should always remember.I am always talking about myself, my experience. I worked hard and end up with nothing besides some money. Grow up poor, left school to take care of my parents and siblings. Worked all kind of jobs, etc. I never end up with what I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 09:32 AM |
| 3 | 4 things I feel men should always remember.They do but most of them will stop working once they get married and also they won't pay for anything anyway, they expect the man to do it all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Why alot women use sex in long term relationships like “weapon”?They only use it as weapon when they know the man can't get it outside marriage. If you are a dude that still attract girls. The sex will be frequent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:58 PM |
| 21 | 4 things I feel men should always remember.Men are more agitated now because even if you struggle these days you won't have the results you want. Men struggle and work hard to get a great future to build a family. These days you can struggle but all you end up with nothing but yourself and a woman that barely loves you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 11:37 PM |
| 2 | "Never compare yourself to her ex" but she definitely willIt comes to who left first. If she left him than trust me she won't even think about him, in the end she left him for a reason. If he left her, well you got a problem there my friend. My wife ex-husband divorced her to be with someone else and it took a tool on her mentally. And I can see her comparing me to him from to time and trust me he is better in all aspects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 02:34 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Fairness is not code for getting what you want with no inconvenience.Life is unfair, and those who've faced its challenges often navigate through it with the resources they have. It's not about hating people, it's about hating life. The difficulty is magnified when you witness others enjoying a happy life while you struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | If women are attracted to the more party animal type of guys, can guys be like that to attract women?No, you need to be handsome and you need the personality. They are things that are either in you or not. And trust me women know the real one and the one who is just acting or wanna be. I know a guy in my younger years who got women paying for his clothes and education just to be around him and to have him sleep with them. This is like 19 years ago. And he was natural always was the bad boy type of guy. On the other side a friend of mine tried to be like him and women didn't give a fk. They mayb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/23 02:48 PM |
| – | People should get off dating apps because they are designed to keep you singleNot really, but I. The past these minority didn't have access to so much resources like now. Like girls in the past they have access to just girls ok their circles or environment. Now they can access more girls using social media and dating apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Asking a woman how much a men should make to date her. Its always at least 200kThat's for young women they are just selling an unlimited access to their body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 11:33 PM |
| – | People should get off dating apps because they are designed to keep you singleSociety these days is designed for minority of men. They can get richer, fuck more and enjoy every aspect of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Romance is just sex + friendship.It's rare in America because most people think like you. You want to enjoy your youth in something and find a partner ready for you when you think you want to get married. Wrong! And that's why there is a high divorce rate in America and in all of the west countries. No marriage, no families, shitty environment for children, single parents household and the results you give birth to another criminal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:23 PM |
| 2 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Men are the same, it sucks seeing the good women getting married or starting relationships. Well the answer for you question is we can't force people to love us or be with us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Romance is just sex + friendship.I said someone you love not a childhood friend. As for divorce rate most people these days are short sighted they don't really plan for the future. If you want a good partner you need to invest in them. As for now everyone wants to find their other partner ready for them lol. I hope you got my point the happiest people and the mist successful are a couple that got married young and invest sweat, tears and time in each other for a bright futur together. As for now people get married searching for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Romance is just sex + friendship.That's because people are getting married 30+. If they meet young and grow together shaping each other. Unconditional love will become a thing again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Romance is just sex + friendship.Romance entails discovering someone who will support you unconditionally, transcending material possessions, beauty, wealth, or physical abilities. Marriage embodies this commitment, emphasizing the significance of loyalty as a mutual demonstration of caring solely for the well-being of the other person. In other words romance/love/marriage is you finding someone who will sacrifice it all for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Does having an OF significantly effect a woman's future dating options?OF are like prostituts and escorts. Same problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Most people who complain about the other gender problem can be solved if they drop out of datingEasy to access mental health care for men. I think that's the minimum honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Most people who complain about the other gender problem can be solved if they drop out of datingThere is a solution to everything. I don't have one but someone will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Most people who complain about the other gender problem can be solved if they drop out of datingI am saying why men won't stop talked about it. They need to keep mentioning it. Maybe a solution will be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Most people who complain about the other gender problem can be solved if they drop out of datingRelax? Because as a men we want to be loved and cared for. We want a purpose in life. And there is nothing better than taking care of family as a purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now.Well life is not fair and guys like me will probably cease to exist anyway (they will not have children). I am 49 now and married. Like we can find someone in the long run. Like I found my wife when I was 39 and she was 37 with a daughter and it took a year of hard work to get her attention. But for people like me (ugly men who had it hard) I wanna say travel around maybe you will find someone (at least younger 25+ women to have children) outside the country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now.I don't know maybe because women wanna date men who are better than them while men wanna date women who are like them or lower. It's just my experience I remember asking girls let's say they are not model like or even I hate to say this but they were not attractive in the eyes of society during my 20s. I was rejected in a good way honestly like you are good guy but I am not attracted to you and I appreciate that honestly. But well my way of thinking here is that during war people like me can get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now.I am not saying it's a bad thing I am just saying that women were always choosy. Technology just showed it to men. And sadly no there are not many ugly average women as men. Or I wouldn't suffer being single till my late 30s. At least were I live. Even ugly women won't settle with ugly men unless they tried their luck with others. My point is technology didn't make women choosy it made it clear to men that they are choosy. Anyway my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Love and romance is dead by the time people are in their 30sPeople used to marry and grow together but here they are getting married old already. They used to shape each other to be meant of each other. My grand parents married young (17 years old) and didn't need to speak to understand each other. And here I am if I am feeling bad I need to write it down and say it or my wife won't even think that there is something wrong with me and I don't blame her. But is this a reason for us to give up? No that's life and we need to adapt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Love and romance is dead by the time people are in their 30sAs a guy in his late 40s and that got married in his late 30s. Yes most not all but most relationships after 30s are transactional. It's more about attraction and how safe you are. There is love but it's boring cold love not the youthful innocent love where she is willing to do it all for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Technology killed regular socialization and that’s why dating is so hard now.For ugly average men dating will always suck with technology or without it. I know many wives at the time if they had the choice they won't marry their now husbands. They are happy now but in the past don't expect a hot beautiful girl to be with an ugly average guy if she could do most of the things in her own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | If 80/20 rule isn't real, how come so many men have the exact opposite experience?80/20 is real and applies to an age range, in my opinion btw (17 and 26). Like after 34 it's 50/50 and the older you go the more men will not see the women this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Is true love even real…?It's real and it comes at a young age, while people are innocent. The older you get, the rare it becomes. Like go check dating over 30, girls and guys there talking about how to date and if he/she perfect for them. No one talk about love, it's about attraction and if they can tolerate the other half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/23 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Not all psychopathic men are master manipulators. Lots of women date guys who are walking red flags.Well when women are with someone, special young women 20+, if they choose to be with someone is because they are attracted to him. So no matter how many red flags he had they are willing to be there because of that attraction. I remember a guy dating two friends when I was young. They would compromise and share him because of that attraction they have. And if you asked them like why him? They can't explain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Contrary to what reddit says , I think it's mainly women who want families and kids, men primarily want sex above allThey both want family and kids but they only want them at a later stage in life. Like most women wanna enjoy their 20s and find a guy to have a family with at 30+. Most guys work hard in their 20s than they want to have fun at their 30+. Like you see they don't line up most 30 years old men have a different mind set than 20 years old females. No one to blame but that's life these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 01:46 AM |
| 0 | When Gen Z men get into their 30s will it even be worth it to date 30s women?Honestly most women in their 30s are humble. Like life humbled them. It's more about how crazy she was and are you ok with her past or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | What is the Your Ranking of What's Important in a Relationship?For me it's physical intemacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.If there is a clear communication they can solve the problem. It's all about communication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Does experiencing love for the first time in your mid 20s feel the same as it would have if you experienced it in your teens?You are still young you can still make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Does experiencing love for the first time in your mid 20s feel the same as it would have if you experienced it in your teens?No, but trust me love in your twenties is way better than thirties. After so many years I concluded that the older you the more people lie and their Innocence faded. Love in your teens is pure. It's not about your car or money. Love in you twenties is a dream. Two people wanna realize a dream together. 30+ is people using each other so they won't die alone or for financial benefits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenMaybe, I am just talking from my experience, I lived for 48 years and always the worst guys has the most girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenMost serial killers are handsome special the straight ones who target women. They are good at attracting their target. Most of them are charismatic and smart. Just an opinion honestly. Because the worst guy in my friends circle is always the one with the most girls and exes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenThey do, in tribes and ancient time women will fight to be wives to the most dangerous men. Even in our time serial killers attract women more than your average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 11:06 AM |
| 13 | Being a good person has nothing to do with how much a man is able to attract womenThrough history warlords and killers had many wives. If you think all of them are forced to be with him, you are so wrong. Being mean and dangerous attract women. Especially the young ones because they don't think much, he is cool and dangerous, I want him. As for good/kind men, it's either having the girl at a later time or you find a girl that likes to be treated kindly, which is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 12:08 AM |
| 9 | There's a "What are your most controversial or unpopular dating rule/opinion" thread over at r/AskWomenOver30. What are your controversial opinion about their controversial opinions?Another 'toxic' opinion where only women feeling matters. As for men they need to accept whatever they have on the plate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 12:00 AM |
| – | Men don't get it. Women have moved onThis society was made for women. Most women aren't virgins and aren't lonely. They always have guys to talk to and they always enjoyed an amount of intimate relationship/s through their life. Women didn't move on its just this society function for most women and a small minority of men. And that's not fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Approaching = always creepy? Depends on who says it.Yes so true sadly. I can say good morning at work and no girl will even say I back or look my way. And another handsome fker will say it and they all gonna say it back and be smiling and flirty. Life is so unfair. I saw handsome guys throwing sexual jokes around and girls laughing and trying to interact with the guy. I remember trying to flirt to be pushed aside and told this is a work place. The same girl was trying to date another good looking guy seconds later. I am not blaming the girls or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?Yeah of course... I won't argue with you .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 05:53 PM |
| 2 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?I am not talking about him sending you shirtless pictures out of nowhere. What I am saying is if you are on a dating app and his profile picture is him showing off his body in a selfie. You won't pass him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 04:18 PM |
| 6 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?Not really, you won't if he has a great body. Like that shirtless mirror selfie shows how hard working he is and how beautiful his body looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:52 PM |
| 3 | What if most men just can't make a decent profile on dating apps?Not really, dating apps focus on looks and women only find 20% of men truly attractive. So the ugly, average type looking guys with let's say a decent personality have no chance. Like if you gonna reject me based on look, than how can I even show you my other positive traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Many single people don't know the other side because we don't listen to anything beyond our hateYou won't be alone in that dark corner of self-pity hating yourself and others. At least they will find some sort of happiness. They won't hurt others or themselves and here I am talking about people who were unlucky in life like me. Men who had real reasons to be alone. Those men who can't even do some self improvement to change their life are not included. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 05:20 PM |
| -4 | Many single people don't know the other side because we don't listen to anything beyond our hateI was a virgin and a single lonely guy till my late 30s. At 37 a woman which is 35 got close to me she was a single mom and she clearly had her fun time and she was ok with the boring, ugly option. She was the only woman that got close to me romantically for 37 years. You know how many times I got rejected in my teens and twenties, you know how many time I got laughed at when I confessed. Don't tell me it's not your problem, I was there lived that. But I choose to suck it up and just kept on liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Many single people don't know the other side because we don't listen to anything beyond our hateI don't care they can think or dream however they want. All I can say is don't hate, hate only being sadness and misfortune, hating a while gender is like starting a bomb that can explode at any moment. Hate individuals you are free to do so. But the whole gender is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Many single people don't know the other side because we don't listen to anything beyond our hateOr they just keep blaming women and kll themselves or worst they go out and start klling people. Is that what you want? A bunch of lonely men that have so much negative emotions that can blow up at any moment? Accepting whatever life offers you is a better choice. That's my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Many single people don't know the other side because we don't listen to anything beyond our hateHating the whole gender is just stupid and unacceptable. As a man I can say it's hard pill to swallow to be the 'boring option', but that's all, they need to men up and accept it. How pitful for you to hate women because they didn't choose you, grow up kids is all I can say. There is more to life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 03:06 PM |
| 1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientThat article said nothing about about women not getting tired before men. This just shows that you can't even google or you are just bias and don't wanna listen. Men have 'testosterone' huge amount of it. And most soldiers and labor workers are men. And you can check articles about who get tired more men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientNot really you can Google it, search for studies, woman get tired quicker. If you get a healthy woman and a healthy man and make them do the same job for long hours at the end woman gonna be more tired than man. We are not the same, men are built for labors and can work long hours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientThere is nothing wrong with carrier focused woman expect she will be tired most of the time, less affection and activities in bed or outside. It sucks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 02:20 PM |
| 3 | It’s women fault men are such trashIt's not women fault, it's just that some men are lazy and others thinks it's not worth the effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:25 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t put in the effort yet they complain about their lack of dating successWhen you get rejected constantly and no girl shows interest in you. Every guy will give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | There is no correct way of approaching women which cannot at some point be construed as annoying or inappropriateIt depends on your look honestly. There is nothing inappropriate or annoying as long as you are handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 09:57 PM |
| 8 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.48 this year and yes, at least before 35 most women have high standards. I don't blame them or accuse them of anything bad, but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 09:54 PM |
| 3 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.With the word extreme there is no moderation, that's why we call them extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:47 AM |
| 1 | If you fail to get a partner, do you visualize living your life alone for decades?Being the last option is better than being alone. I know it's hard to swallow but some men need to accept it and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Why the whole Mensrights, Red pill, and the general "Manosphere" was/is necessary.As long as there is an extreme left, there will always be an extreme right. That's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/23 12:11 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel if he or she is with you for the money?Maybe, we were together for a good 10 years, I took care of her and her daughter and tried my best to be a good husband and step father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 12:27 AM |
| 2 | How would you feel if he or she is with you for the money?Being alone through my teens and twenties, I just tried my best to get what I can. She was 35 at the time and I was 37. Maybe she likes me, but that's all, true attraction like you can't get enough of him. Not really. But that's life. I am happy with what I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Why are woman so annoyed by men finding their promiscuity unattractive when these same woman will invariably judge a guy that uses sex workers?They just don't want to be judged based on their past. No one wants that. But at the same time it sucks to know that whatever you are having with your girl is nothing special and there is others that done the same or even more with her. It's a hard pill to swallow, but that's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:57 PM |
| 2 | I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebritiesPublic image. There is literally agencies to hook up famous people together. And they always have someone on the side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:54 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you can spot a “red piller” outside of Reddit? What would you look for?A true red pillar is the one with many girls around him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if he or she is with you for the money?Well for ugly men, money is a must. I myself always had this idea of going to another poor country and get a young woman, but I couldn't do it. I don't know why but I felt bad everytime I thought about it. And my wife now is with me for the money and stability. She is a single mother and needed the mental and financial stability, especially financial stability. I am not rich but she no longer has to work and she can be a full time mother. How do I know? I am nothing like her ex husband. She alwa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 10:50 PM |
| 0 | CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sexBut I will tell if it's painful or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 06:53 AM |
| 1 | CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sexYou didn't even searched. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sexIf it's your first experience how will you know if it's good or bad without comparing it to a past one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:37 AM |
| 5 | CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sexJust find someone with the same level of experience as yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 09:26 AM |
| 10 | CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sexHow do you know that someone is good at sex? you compare them to someone else. People with the same level experience need to be together that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 08:33 AM |
| – | General rise in mens resentment towards women?You can't resent women. It's not their mistake that you are ugly/loser/poor. All you can do is try to improve and worst case scenario be depressed because life is not fair. Hating women because they are not attracted to you is so dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.Life is short, so let's try to enjoy most of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?That's life, we can't change it, so try to enjoy most of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Well yes that's life, what can you do about? Force women to love you? Life is not fair, never was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:48 AM |
| -1 | So, what is the solution, in your humble opinion? Date someone you are not attracted to?Well they need to understand that not every man gonna enjoy a girl at her best physically. Some men gonna be the last to the train but they gonna ride it anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Well that's life not everyman gonna enjoy the burning type of love where your girl gonna be lusting over you and showing you love everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.In my teens and twenties, no woman was interested in me, so having some women looking at me and express their interest makes me happy and grateful honestly. It's true that they are not as beautiful or as energetic as the twenty something girls but that's life and as an old man I learned to appreciate what I have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 12:36 AM |
| – | ”You can’t wife a hoe”First of all what's a hoe. She is a woman that's willing to sleep with any men as long as she find him attractive. No loyalty, no boundaries. If you can wife someone with mentality well good luck ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:51 PM |
| 3 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?I feel bad for them honestly I hope they accept life, and be grateful of what they have or what they will have even if it's so little. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?No, she was my first partner, sexually and emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:45 PM |
| 3 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?She won't and she can't. Not every woman has the money and time to look stunning at 40+, and she knows if she leaves me I have as much option as her. Like there is a bunch of divorced old dudes maybe interesting in her. I got my share if old women that are interesting in me. She is not the hot news anymore. We are the same. After 35 most women and men have the same value in the dating market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Well yes, not really safe option but lets say the boring option. At least I won't abuse her and I will care for her since I love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.I didn't go to college my family situation was so bad. I don't know spending my twenties and teens working really left me bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:46 AM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.My own experience as I am in my late 40s now. As someone from a poor background, I had to work from a young age to take care of my family and since physically I am not nothing special no girl really wanted to be with me I was rejected a lot. So for me the bitterness is always there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:35 AM |
| 3 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.Not everyone have the choice, you know some people life can be harder than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 09:28 AM |
| 3 | Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby?Kinda true, my wife ex-husband is more handsome than me. But I think she tried to be with the best looking guy it didn't work, she tried the kind one. She didn't raise her standards, she changed them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 06:32 AM |
| 20 | Dating in your 30s for a guy is way easier as long as you have your shit together.Yes, not because you have your shit together, that's a bonus but mainly because she had enough from the bad boy type of guys. Worst case scenario 35 you will eventually find someone. But there will always be that bitter taste in your mouth. That you are the boring guy she settles for. My own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | About Looks and Physical AttractionIt was always looks and physical attraction for men or women. As for unlucky men, well after she mature she gonna see you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 09:32 PM |
| – | Thoughts on not wanting to prioritize sexual compatibility over personal compatibility?There is nothing like sexual compatibility, that's just a big lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:25 PM |
| -2 | Why girls don't want a househusbandIt's a turn off for most women. It's like how most men like a curvy woman. They can't explain it. Just stop crying about stupid things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsYes of course but let me phrase that better, there is a low possibility that she will cheat on you. Like I read an article that most women cheat with their coworkers which is logic, like my wife spend more time with her coworkers at work more than me honestly. But I believe if the woman is family oriented and just want to stay home to take care of the kids and her husbands, she won't cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:43 PM |
| 3 | One of the biggest mistakes men make is marrying women who want to be SAHMsNot really if you are a real traditional man with traditional values stay at home moms are the best. They won't cheat on you. They have the energy to love you and take care of you. Your kids will be taking care of. And many other good points. Well as for divorce don't go around cheat on her and ignore her than cry why am I left alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:02 PM |
| -4 | People who didn't had sex have more love to giveI think so too honestly. When I started dating my wife at the time. I was the inexperience one while she had a colorful past. I found myself the one who is showing love the most from flowers, to compliments and gifts because I loved to see her happy. As for her maybe because that was just another relationship and she experienced all this in the past. Her reaction was let's say 'forced', and the she showed her love through normal ways, she didn't really go over the top. If I was younger I would h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:43 AM |
| 1 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!Well I think if you think about it, you will get my point. Dating after 30s is responsiblities oriented, where most women want a man that's responsable and gonna take care of things even if they don't really love him or find him attractive. That's why I got some attention from 35+ women. As for the younger ones I think they are truthful to themselves and are trying to find that one for them that can really find him attractive and love him. This is just an opinion according to my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 09:36 AM |
| – | Dear Men, he’s not successful at dating if he isn’t holding down long term relationships, he’s just good at getting laid.If he can get laid, he can have a long term relationship anytime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 06:30 AM |
| 1 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!Maybe, who knows. But that's the past and sadly I still regret not having such an experience at my teens/twenties. I love my wife but dating early is more romantic, innocent and overwhelming than start to date after 35 where it's about responsabilities, work and time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!At that age and time I believed and I still believe that maybe if I was financially stable or if I was handsome maybe a girl or two would have been interested in me and maybe I would not be rejected that many times. I don't just my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:52 PM |
| 4 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!Well my point was, if I was more handsome and had financial freedom at my teens or twenties. Maybe I would have found love than. Dating in my 30s has it's own down side and honestly sucks. First of all I was barely average looking and financially I was just a normal guy (37 years old at that time). So all the women who got interest in me were 35+ and most of them are divorced with children. And trust me love is not the same after a divorce. I don't know how to describe it but this fantasy that w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | your physical/material attributes aren’t the reason why people don’t want to date you. cmv!For me yes it was, my argument is once I was turned 37, I found someone who was 36 to date me and marry me. Women 35+ were interested in me because they were searching for something else besides physical/material attributes. As for my teens and twenties I was alone, no one wanted to date the guy that was working full time taking care of his parents and siblings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:26 PM |
| 6 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.Men they also, do. Like most men that were born in animal family have a huge confidence and see themselves as a god gift. Because their mothers give them that boost. As for men with no mother/step-mother or with mentally unstable ones, have confidence issues and see themselves as less-men. How do I know that well life experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 12:03 AM |
| – | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeIt is true but they have higher standards. Not like most of you guys as long as she is a woman and alive you are cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeYou and your negative view. As much as we love women, women also loves men. That's a given. Most people end up with someone. Even though marriage rate is getting lower and lower but most men find someone in the end. I know it sucks to spend your twenties and teens looking at other people enjoy intimacy. But guess what getting old humble most women, so they give other men a chance and everyone is happy. Maybe her getting dumped by the other toxic guys is what makes her appreciate you more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:08 PM |
| 8 | Red pills need to replace anger with acceptance of their diminished placeYes they need to accept that some men have it better than others. Not everyone will sleep with models or young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Women on dating apps are worse than menAnd why do you care ? Just don't date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Most college aged women do not want 30+ year old menThey were talking about a minority of men. Good genes, taking care of themselves etc. As for your average men working hard + the stress + the anxiety. Trust me if you think women past 30 are ugly, than prepare yourself for the truth cause you will turn uglier. Something else to add, most women want someone their age, unless they have psychological problems or their options are limited or you look so perfect in your 30s (which is rare). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:56 PM |
| – | What actually is a "High Value Male"That's your perspective and I respect it but I am narrating it from my perspective. As a man if you ask me what's a high value man, I believe me and most men will think the one that has the most attraction/attention from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 08:15 PM |
| – | What actually is a "High Value Male"Bad 'person' no, of course not. But lets say bad 'men' nova high value men. Not because people don't communicate their attraction to me. It's because woman don't find me attractive. That's all. It's like looking at it from a gender perspective in an objective way. The woman that most men wants is a high value woman. The man that most women wants is a high value man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 07:47 PM |
| – | What actually is a "High Value Male"It's about the other gender finds me attractive. It's not about sex. Maybe I rephrase that in a bad way. But yes I think that let's say good man are the one that most woman are interested in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 09:37 AM |
| 1 | What actually is a "High Value Male"I think a 'high value man' is the one who is fucking all/the most girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 04:09 PM |
| 4 | Women are actively repelled by genuinely kind men no matter how attractive they are, and rather consistently go for toxic men who mistreat them. This entire issue has been hijacked and obfuscated by them fabricating this bullshit “nice guy” narrative.Stop thinking about useless details. If she loves the violent guy, let her be. What can you do force her to love you? That's life I believe that girls love the 'bad' guy at an early stage and all I can say good luck to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Women are actively repelled by genuinely kind men no matter how attractive they are, and rather consistently go for toxic men who mistreat them. This entire issue has been hijacked and obfuscated by them fabricating this bullshit “nice guy” narrative.So what? Let's assume what you said is true, so what? That's life women love different men in different stages. That's life, nice guys finish last but at least they finish. They will end up with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many men not willing to properly move on from women? (Serious question)Move on from women? I think there is hope, like I found someone. She not young nor hot and she is a single mom. So yes I will rephrase your question. Why not move on from model like women? It's better than ending alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/23 12:30 AM |
| – | Men don't hate promiscuous womenYeah wait until you see a real drug addict selling your things to feed his addiction. You don't know what you are talking about. Promiscuous women is hated by men, unless you are sick in the head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Men don't hate promiscuous womenNo, men hate promiscuous women. Because no men wanna see his mom or sister or a girl he loves passed around from one guy to another. Only sick men are attracted to such a behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Are young men seen as less desirable than their female counterparts because society tends to equate youth with femeninity?Men are always connected to power and money. Women fucked powerful and rich men since the down of earth. These kings had harms of hundred of women. If you have money and power no women cares about your age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | There is roughly a 50/50 gender ratio so why are so many men having trouble finding a SINGLE girlfriend ?'Life' that's why. We are not born equal so how do you expect an equal outcome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:51 PM |
| – | CMV Since most men lie about they're sexual success, we dont really feel the issues with dating which we have.Some men are good at it some are not. That's all I can say. There is no formula for it. Some men attract women like magnet some doesn't that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:47 PM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It's ok, like I started dating at 35 myself and I expected to be with an experienced women. They are hard to impress anyway. But even though I know all that I still can't take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:27 PM |
| 2 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It was a surprise from my part so, she didn't know where we are going till the last moment. And I don't blame her. Like some girls are good at faking it, some are not. That's life. But my opinion if I had a chance to be some girl first guy and we explore this life together I would have chosen that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?She does all that and I know and she knows, that it's all part of the relationship. 'Like you said physical compliments, so that he feels hot' it's all part of the relationship. But what I am talking about is different like for an exemple I took her to France/paris 2 years ago for our holiday, I did my research and tried my best to give her an experience, a good one. But in the end while we were there, the restaurants I picked and the reservations I made etc, she appreciates my efforts but I can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?I know it sounds cruel and it's not only about sex. Honestly it's just my raw opinion after living this much. I can be wrong. But I am married to a single mom myself and I love her. She has much more experience than me and I can see that in our everyday life. No matter what I do or I provide (in bed or outside bed) I can see it in her eyes, I am 'nothing special'. Like no matter what I do, one of her exes probably done it better. Like when you try your best expecting to see her 'smile' but all y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 09:28 AM |
| 1 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It was never about sex. It's about the experience. If there is some device that can erase a girl sexual experience with her ex when she moves or find someone else. No men will talk about body count again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 12:01 AM |
| – | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?She doesn't want to and she can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?First I am not from America. And second it's more about my ego and self esteem. Maybe females don't get it. But as a man on the long run marrying a single mom is a huge hit you will feel like a leftover .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 10:44 PM |
| 31 | Why does this sub look at men willing to date single moms so negatively?I am married to one. And let me tell you unless you really love her and she loves you back or you got no other option don't even consider it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them?You referring to girls with let's say 'daddy issues' and trust me these couple are more rare. And it's always about money and statuts, the emotional/intellectual part is just an excuse made by us, male/females so we won't look shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:10 PM |
| 1 | If It isn't too high standards the reason men are lonely, but cOrN, why would men seek corn to begin with?Yes, it's high standards, you like it or not women these days have so much high of standards and I can't blame them. If I was one and I grow up with hundred of men on my phone trying to talk to me. I would be just like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Are women who criticize age gap relationships, unintentionally the cause of them?No, outside social media no one talks about age gap. The truth is only a minority of old men attract younger women. The idea that a 20 something years old beautiful girl is after a 40 something years old man is an illusion created by the internet. Do you know how much money and influence you need to keep her around. Do you know how good you need to look at keep her interested in you. Most guys marry/be in a relationship with girls their age. It's true some older women let's say complain about it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think marriage for couples who were cohabiting before marriage do not last long.Cohabitating or not, couple that had let's say a 'colorful' past won't last in marriage, men or women. You can't expect someone that had many partners to just stop and be with someone forever. And the results are broken homes and a bunch of mental/emotional unstable children which will results in a high rate of suicide and crimes in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/23 09:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceWhen a woman is old and had a child. She will lower her standards. I know cause I married one. And I don't see her being with me if we were young. As for the 'thin ice', well I don't care, she can leave whenever she wants. I will be sad if she leaves but that's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm incredibly skeptical that personality or other characteristics can "override" lack of physical attraction - please change my mind.Yes, 35+. If you are cool with dating 35+ women. Than all what you said is true. They had their share if hot bodies and they are searching for personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingIf you can't afford therapy stay single, they are too poor for a relationship. They better focus on themselves and work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:14 AM |
| – | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?It doesn't concern you who they are attracted to. To each his/her taste. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingThey need therapy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:16 PM |
| – | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?Yes do that who said you can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Do men like plus size women?Why do you care? If you like them you like if you don't you don't. To each his taste. Move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingI said later in life 30+, if you can't find a women when you are 30+ years old. You either delusional and have unreal expectations or your personality sucks and you can't even be kind. And I will say it again if you are 30+ aged men and you can't find a partner your age go seek therapy, you are the problem not them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many women so casually accepting of the fact they’re attracted to toxic men?And why do you care? we can't control who we are attracted to, you know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingNo you don't lie to them, because eventually they will find someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Older men dating much younger womenIt's a dream to every men but it's only a privilege for a minority of successful old men. Most young people date other young people and most old people date other old people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 13 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingFirst of all there is nothing wrong with single moms and divorces, they are women also. And the waiting advice is for ugly/poor young men, for men who had no success with women in their 20s. What should you tell them, kill themselves? No, work on yourself and in the long run someone will tag along. And that happened to me personally. Poor and ugly sadly both. Concentrated on work until my wife a divorces and a single mom, appreciated me and respected me. Is it as good as the other successful men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 09:15 PM |
| -2 | For the first time, a major Red Pill content creator has admitted that the popular RP claim of a third of young men not having sex while women are relatively unaffected isn't true, citing modern data showing less than 20% of men being sexually inactive and more young women sexually inactive than menRed pill are predators that view women as objects. But sex for men and women is different, women most of the times are celibate by choice but men are not. The more young women are sexually inactive part is debatable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Attracting women is like getting a job. Not ALL companies are the same or value the same thing, but most are the same.Yes, it's like a job and they are not the same but they do value the same things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityYes according to your eyes. Good point. I am talking from my experience and my friends experiences. And I am in my late 40, I know what I am saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:51 PM |
| 1 | If a young man cannot find at least one woman who wants them, the problem is their personalityIt's no one problems. Women no longer need men, so they are taking their time to enjoy life before settling 30+. Average and below average men are not that important in the market and they have to work harder to prove themselves. Who is problem is this? No one. This is what technology turned our world into. Don't blame women or men about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is not worth it for women who do not marry richWrong, women initiate divorce most of the time because she thinks she can have a better option and this is because of social media and the attention they get from other men. Of course the truth is ugly. Because after the divorce mostly the men will remarry as for the women they will probably get used for sex before giving up on dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Personality can't compensate for looksYes everyone is a simp for look. Men or women. I heard girls telling handsome guys they can do whatever they want to them and they barely now them. I also saw guys paying for so much shit for beautiful girls even though they meet them for the first time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 03:25 PM |
| – | According to recent studies the majority of men are single but also a big majority of them were "getting some" during last year. Is this possible?We call it prostitution. Men are the main consumers in that industry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:19 AM |
| -1 | Women will not make you happy and you should not make them your sole source of happinessWho broke your heart ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | The women who end up as single "cat ladies" are usually not the typical hot, party girlThe truth is the women who end up as a single cat ladies are the one who have the highest standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Personality can't compensate for looksThe truth is most people wants the look. But after many problems a couple of ugly break ups, personality will start to matter. So personality will only matter later on, in life and it can out scale the look easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How often does the average man have sex, if he is not a player?He doesn't unless he pays for it or commit to a girl. What can average Joe have to attract a girl to sleep with him besides commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 11:34 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Sugar dating is a perfectly viable and maybe even recommendable dating strategy for some men and womenProstitution is prostitution don't sugar coat it. Giving money or gifts to someone to have sex with you without being physically or emotionally attracted to you is prostitution. You are using him or her as an object to fulfill you desires. Which shows how low you are especially as a men. No one is attracted to you that you have to pay to get some attention. How sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 01:06 AM |
| 4 | Why does it seem that blue collar and “average Joe” men have an easier time with female romantic partnership than money making STEM or forum guys?Funny thing that blue collar men are the one with the highest divorce rate. Such happiness. Women just settle for average joe and divorce rate shows that clearly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 01:02 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Dating gets harder for men as they get older, not easierFacts, guys need to stop looking at the minority of men who can have it all and think yes I can do it also. I always say it finding a girl is as important as building your carrier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".Yes, these men going around talking about getting younger women as if they are picking candies from the candy store. Besides a minority of girls with daddy issues. Most younger girls won't give a damn about older men. Unless you are genetically gifted and also has a decent amount of money no young girl will even look at you. As for older women sadly they are too experienced and boring, that's the truth and I don't blame them. They had it all, saw it all and tried it all. There is nothing special… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:15 AM |
| 0 | "Men who date younger women can't get women their own age".Men who date younger do it because they can. They are a minority also. If you think it's easy to get a younger woman attention you are delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:59 AM |
| 1 | I think Women are lying when they claim they don't dress look or get implants for male attentionYes, that attention feed their ego and confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 12:46 PM |
| 3 | Men being required to ask women out overvalues womenIt's a competition, if you don't do it someone else will. Just don't regret it when you see her is another men arm. That's why men ask women out. As for the other things you sited nothing is true. Men who love beautiful (physical) women are men who never had the opportunity to experience them. As for the other guys who can get any girl they want, they will search for something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV : “Looks don’t matter” is not a common theme in culture. It’s the opposite.Looks matter for men and women. As an ugly guy I know first handed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peopleAn adult is an adult. It doesn't concern you. There is some old people that worked their whole life and they deserve some people at their experience level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesIt has nothing to do with age. I know same 20 years old that can get any girl. And I know some 40 years that have no girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Does someone know why some guys are so obsessed with a woman's fertility?The two examples that you provided explain themselves. The first one is a normal men, the second one is a jerk. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:29 AM |
| 1 | If you’re not the best version of yourself or really close to it, you shouldn’t be datingI did this as a man and I end up being a step dad. If you will wait until you are stable financially like 35+. You will end with people with baggage and you will feel like leftover. For men while working on you future also work on finding a girl. It's as important as your future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Young Men Cannot Compete With Older Men For The Most Attractive FemalesThe older men that you are talking about are the minority of the minority of men. If you think that all 30+ years old men are successful, with six pack and ton of money, then you need some reality check. In general let's say the majority of men have no chance of compete for beautiful women with the minority, successful/attractive ones. It has nothing to do with age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Would you give up video games for sex?Most men use video games to run from reality. It's just show how fked up our reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Women Cannot Detect a Red Pilled Man If He Knows What He's DoingThere is nothing like a red pilled men. She is either attracted physically to you and an emotional attraction can be created or she likes you and there is a possibility of physical attraction developing through an emotional attraction or you don't have a chance besides being friends. And the criteria of each category can change depending on the women age. That's all. There is no pills or whatever you are trying to endorse to men. She is either attracted to you, likes you or best friends. And lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?Arguing with you is useless. You are either a girl or guy living in his own delusion. Sorry if you don't see the difference between a guy in house with bunch of emails in his laptops of company went him as an employer and a guy running from one place to another trying to find a job. Than ok, that's all I can say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 09:52 PM |
| – | Alot of people are attracted to the red pill because it teaches them to make her moist. What advice would blue pillers give to guys who want to make a girl wet?Hundreds of millions of "unattractive" guys with women issues. If he is attractive than he needs therapy it's an inside issue women have nothing to do with it. I know many attractive guys with self-confidence issue. Go seek therapy it's your problem to fix. As for "unattractive" guys be kind work in yourself and wait. I know it's sucks but you can't choose. Even if you hit the jackpot and turn rich. There is a huge percentage she is there for the money and she will cheat/leave you in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | The mockery directed toward's peterson's crying on live Tv is proof of women's loathing of weak emotional men.Do you think he cares ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:55 PM |
| – | Alot of people are attracted to the red pill because it teaches them to make her moist. What advice would blue pillers give to guys who want to make a girl wet?Go outside red pill, blue pill or whatever pill color you want doesn't exist. We got men and women. Some are more attractive than another. That's all. The more physically a girl attracted to you the more w*t she is. It doesn't need a scientist to figure that out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?If you wanna have a job and you got many company that want to hire you. That shows your worth. You are probably one if the best at your field. But if you wanna have job but you need to run from company to another giving CVs and waiting for them to respond only to maybe get an interview. You are probably one if the worst at your field. So who is better the guy with many options or the one with no option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 07:02 AM |
| 0 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?Like I said options are people who are physically attracted to you. Let's talk about jobs. If you have a bunch of people who wants to hire you and you can choose who you want to work for. That's a guy with options. If you need to go from one company to another in order to find a job. That's a guy with no option. My first statement about women is when you said they are having bad, abusive relationship. I want to tell you it's their choice. My second statement is telling you the real problem that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:59 AM |
| 4 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?"most" is a bigger word. If talking to women is all it takes to get dates/sex than you need to go out. If you think going from one girl to another and getting rejected many times to finally find a date. If that date means an option for you than you are wrong. When I say options I mean many people who find you attractive and who will say yes if you wanna date them. And they attracted to you physically. As for women if they had a short lackluster sex with someone who only sees them as an object is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 10:43 PM |
| 5 | Yeah, Women get sex easier. So what?First of all men who get laid a lot are high value men, not because of the sex but because they attract more women. A high value men is someone with a lot of options to choose from. The idea that you can have so many women is an ego/confidence boost for men. Let's not forget about the experience you get on how to treat a women in bed and outside of bed. Women have sex easier is not the real deal for men. What most men are jealous about is women have options to choose from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Girls and guys don't have much difference other than being pressured by gender roles and norms.This is why we need education. In one point Op says we are alike in another is says we need to remove this and that. We are not alike men and women were never the same psychologically and physiologically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 09:44 PM |
| 2 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Ofc I am counting them in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?You can write ? Use Google. It's not that hard to search for information these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Heps 63% of men under 25/30 are single what a healthy dating world. The study of 2009 to 2019 is not accurate. Yes 50% of men under 25 are virgins. Like why are you in denial like you said most women date older men. And if it's not older it's probably the other minority of young men. That the reality of men these days. Most men these days are just like leftovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 02:01 PM |
| 3 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Studies from 2002/2009, I am sorry but the world is changing so much faster than these days. And no like I said under 25/30 63% of men are single while only 33% of women are single. You can put the numbers aside the majority of young men are single while the minority of young women are single. And that's because younger women dates older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 01:09 PM |
| 4 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Yes, ofc I am waiting, you can share them. Because I read many and none of them said so. I can start listing different numbers from many studies that shows how miserable men are in today dating world. 63% of men are single, 50% of men under 25 are virgins, 40% of men are childless and 30% rising a child who is not biologically theirs. To conclude 80% of men under the age of 50 will die by suicide. Because life is so good to men these couple of years they just wants to end through the most painfu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?According to what your opinion? Most men are single, most men are childless and most men no longer even think about dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipMy men I am ugly as fk and I found someone well it's later in life hahaha. But I found someone. You will too. Just be nice and kind. I know it's sucks to be at the bottom of the 80%. I know that it sucks to see while we are struggling other men are having it all. But it's ok it's not like they can keep them all. The women will get bored eventually and we will have a chance. I know it sucks to feel like a leftover that people go back to after having all the fun. But be positive. Get ride if that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipWhat photo ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipYes, honestly yes. She is probably talking to other guys. Unless she give you a sign. Don't bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | You have to approach women to get a relationshipIn my younger days I was rejected so much, that I gave up. Than I learned the truth, women are the ones who approach men first, by giving him some kind of sign. Looking at him, smiling at him etc. So that the men will go in and try his luck. If not he will get rejected. I am talking here about average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 10:49 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the increasing stigma over SMALL age gaps? How is it going to affect the dating market for young people?It doesn't concern us/men. Technically there is a partner for everyone. But what we are seeing is females fighting for the minority of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 10:42 PM |
| 18 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Most women know if a guy gonna stay or leave. That is the truth but most of the time they stay around hoping he will change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 33 | What is the relationship between feminism and hookup culture?Let's have sex like men do! They said. Forgetting the fact that only a minority of men enjoy such a privilege. What modern feminism do is giving these minority group of men access to more women. Being an average guy sucks these days. Suicide rate among men gonna sky rock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.I am sorry but your words are not a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.According to who or what? No men is virgin voluntary. You don't understand the hormonal phase that men face from 15/16 to 25. Being single at your sexual peek. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 07:54 PM |
| 8 | Most of the young adult dating divide is caused by the internetYes and no. It's caused by the internet most women these days have so many options to choose from. They won't settle for one guy before trying all the others. It's as simple as that. Social media for most women is like a candy store. She can't choose one candy, can she? But what about guys ? They can wait in line or work on themselves or whatever. Waiting for a girl that was used/rejected by many other guys to 'settle' for them. Life as a guy sucks these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:50 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing wrong with todays dating worldYes and one thing in common in all these couples I see the male partner looks old, he is 25+/30+. There is numbers to back up my conclusion. But also from a personal experience most men have sex later on life. What a beautiful dating world. Where a guy in his sexual pick 19/25 need to shut up and work. So maybe he can get some attention later on. How lucky are we. Beautiful dating world. There is a reason why males fallow Peterson there is a reason why males hear Andrew tate. Do you think a male… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 01:19 PM |
| 10 | There is nothing wrong with todays dating worldAccording to what? Your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with todays dating worldWrong, there's nothing like low value/high value men/women. We are not objects for sale. Most men don't have a partner unless later in life 28+. Most men are being rejected and half of them are virgins before 28/30. Yes, most men find someone after 28. But what a happy occasion to spend 10+ years alone so you can finally find someone and the success rate of that marriage is 50%. Yes what a happy dating world for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.No, 1 in 3 men is a virgin according to the study under the age of 30. There is another one that says more than 50% of men are virgins under 25. And it's funny that this number goes to 2%or 1% after 30. Which prove my point. What women enjoy in their 20s, men do their best to get a fraction of it in their 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 08:38 AM |
| 1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.What I am saying is when men and women are interacting there is always a high possibility of things turning into physical or emotional relationship. Sex is not the end or the beginning. I didn't say having sex is their goal. All I am saying every guy friend you have if there is a chance for him, he will take that chance. Text one of your guys who sees you as a genderless human and tell him you are lonely and want some company and tell me what's his response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:45 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Fresh and Fit don't teach men to succeed.Funny fact, most men are not in any relationship, they don't go around sleep with women. Another funny fact, third of these men are virgins. I don't know what this fresh and fit thing is but if any men become fitter and accumulate some amount of wealth he can finally enjoy some women attention. And there is no high or low value women. Like most women enjoy the attention and the fun in their 20s, most men also wants experience that. It's fair right ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:33 PM |
| 1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.No no my story is different i was young and stupid. She kept telling I am thinking about it or I am not ready for dating. Until she introduced me one day to her boyfriend (we were class mates). But yes if you rejected him how about blocking him on social media. That will help you know. But I am not here to debate that. She can do whatever she wants, he can stay around her as long as he wants if she is comfortable with that. Just don't blame a young men for being in love and sticking around for a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | How do celebrities actually find date ?With that kind of status and fame. Date find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:18 PM |
| 2 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.First of all let me define friends, a friend is someone who is close to you and you will tell him all your problems and seek help from her/him. Also it's someone who you want to have fun with. Let's say you have a guy friend you tell him all your problems, he gonna help you and give you advice. You gonna give him you time he gonna give you his. Go out with him couple of cafes, etc. A compliment here and there. Automatically the guy brain will conclude I have a chance with her. I can f*ck her. Al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:14 PM |
| 4 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Well he said he loves her, he wants her to be be his girlfriend. But she rejected him but wanna keep him around as a friend to see her being with someone else. I am against how some guys will just projecting the frustration on girls. But the selfishness of girls are unheard of also. I was there myself I loved her, she kept me around because she knows that I love her and I won't hurt her. Seeing her with a new boyfriend destroyed my younger self. I don't want any men to go through that but well l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 10:05 PM |
| 2 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.It's not strange if you were a men. Girls gets attention all the time, you don't understand how we react to any kind of attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:58 PM |
| 2 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.I said in love. Love means he will be happy by being close to her. He is willing to be beside her for a 0.1% for her to be with him. That's why I said don't blame young people they are still innocent and still have what I call true love. As for older people, I don't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.No that response is for why men and women can't be friends before 60. As for friend zone some men will fall in love so hard that they will still be around waiting for a chance in the end who doesn't want to be with someone they love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 09:13 PM |
| -1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Sex. Simply. Men want sex. I will take that back I will say 60. yes by 60 most men will be mature and old and won't seek sex anymore. As for women it depends on what they want it varies between companionship/love/sex/provider. Men will always seek what women needs to have sex. Maybe this is how men are built to have children. Making sure that the human race continue. But by 60 most men will calm down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:56 PM |
| -1 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.According to my experience (46m) there is no friendship between men and women before mid 40/50. My opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 05:43 PM |
| 29 | If you stay in the friend zone hoping for action, it’s on you.Don't blame a desperate man in love. That's life. Not all men have experience or can just jump from one girl to another. Most men who get friend zoned are just young men in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 03:58 PM |
| 5 | The male 'aesthetics' popular in South Korea are not attractive to western womenWhy do you care that much. His movies/marketing is targeting teenagers so ofc he will have a bunch of teens interested in him. Don't forget it's easier to have teens spending money and they are a long time investment. Why do you care so much you jealous ? Hahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The claim "what is considered a top 20% man is different for each woman" is simply untrueWhy men wanna argue about this a lot. I don't get it. Yes there a small percentage of men who are genetically and financial lucky to have as many women as they want. Deal with it. Ofc everyone of us want to be like them. But look at the mirror and at your bank account. Go work on yourself so you won't be a leftover that women gonna have after enjoying a whole buffet. That's my experience as a 40 years old guy I am giving you guys the best advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Looks are NOT close to the most important thing for womenStop being a hypocrite, looks attract men and women. Human beings are attracted to beautiful things. But the older we get the more we become open to other traits like kindness, hard work etc. It's just hard for some men to accept this. because the idea that some guys are there enjoying young beautiful girls only because if their genetics is unfair. While others who works hard and do their best end up with either an ex of the other men or a girl that he is not really attracted to her physically. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Being a bad boy is very beneficial when it comes to being respected by peers and attracting womenYes, hell yes! The sad part you can't be a 'bad boy' you either have it or not. I was always the funny guy, always smiling. Look at my life now. I wish I was a drug dealer honestly or something. That kind of life style needs confidence and lot of courage it attracts girls like magnet. When I was in my 20s I saw girls give themselves to them like free candy. So yes for guys who wanna attract girls in their 20s and don't wanna stay virgins buy a motorcycle or be in a dangerous field. It will give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 07:27 AM |
| 23 | Q4M: if a husband cheats, does that mean he doesn't love his wife?Yes, if someone cheat it means he/she doesn't really loves you. Maybe he/she likes something about you. But love? no way! People who says that it's ok to cheat they know nothing about love. They never saw people in love. But let's also be realistic the idea that you gonna find someone who truly loves you is close to 0. So many will just settle with I really like that about him/her so I married him/her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 07:19 AM |
| 2 | What is red pill, actually?Red pill are angry men with no luck with women. But sadly their anger will f*ck them up, you can't be angry at someone because she didn't loves you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 07:11 AM |
| 2 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveIt not a red pill dude it's the truth . It's pretty clear that the more attractive you are the more chance the other party will respond. And an average woman saying 'hi' to an ugly dude after probably the 20% didn't respond proves that the (80/20) thing is wrong than ok. And they clearly doesn't have an explanation, they said it may suggest that. But you and me know that woman can't be single they will keep guys around them like if she think he is ugly but talk to him it clearly means she want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 12:56 AM |
| 3 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveThere no evidence for what you are saying bro. And I am talking from life experience. A woman can think that you are cute but she will always wants the better one the 20%. I didn't say that you are not in her eyes. But you are not a priority. And she won't put an effort to get you. You need to put the effort. While she will keep her energy for the one guy that she is attracted to 100%. Women opinion can vary for the 80%. A girl can like one but the other won't. But for the 20% most women agree t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 12:08 AM |
| 13 | CMV Women rating 80% of men as unattractive just proves women find different things attractiveStop trying to cope man. Face the truth and accept it. Most Women like the same men. They can like others too. But there is difference between a man who had to spend and do it all to get her and another man that she had to work and do it all to get Him. 80% of men are chasing women. While women only chase 20% of men. That's life accept it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Moderately successful men in their 30s with very limited dating experience, have to be a very harsh decision to takeLet's be realistic if you didn't attract any women in your 20s, you won't be attracting any women in your 30s or 40s. That's the truth. To any 20 years who is reading this go out and find your girl she is as much a priority as your carrier. Unless you wanna end up rising someone else kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 12:03 AM |
| 6 | What effect do you think video games are having on male dating and mental health?They probably look around and conclude that it's not worth. Sacrificing their present pleasure for an unknown future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner to wear less revealing clothes: controlling or boundaries?Everything is a boundary until you want to force it on others. Like you can tell your girlfriend you want her to wear less revealing clothes. She can say yes or no. You can break up with her or stay. But if she say no and you start physically threatening her to force to do so. That's controlling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Society should embrace non-monogamyIt's just sad how heartless today society to "normal" guys. Like sorry, I am not that smart to become a billionaire in my twenties. Sorry, that I was born poor and need to work twice as hard to become average. Sorry, that my parents are ugly and gave birth to the ugly me. Sorry, that I am not a sex god and I barely know what I am doing. Sorry, that I have emotions and your past made feel inadequate. Sorry and sorry and sorry. It's sad, like this world in unfair can we not make it harder please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Society should embrace non-monogamyYes, let's f*k average men life more. It's not enough these days you need to accept women that have tone of experience. But also you need to accept that you gonna be a side character. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the samePff all this red pill shit. Do you really think you can be someone first choice what are you superman? It's privilege that a minority of men have. Like it's something you get at birth. As for most men, get what you can get and live with it. That's life. And no you are not ok being alone. Stop lying to yourself. Men up and accept reality. It doesn't matter if you are her first choice or second. Just make sure she is nit a sl*t that will cheat on you. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameYou are delusional. That's life man just accept it and try to get the best of what you can have. So yes just stay alone and keep crying how no one wants you. You need be pragmatic. Like my wife is so beautiful if she didn't have a kid and was not divorced I have no chance of being with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameGo out that's all I can say. I am ugly as fk and I found someone she is a single mom. I tried to use my actions and personality to show her that I am worth her time. I know it sucks but you have to kill your ego. That's the truth. Like your sex life gonna be average at best. She won't be all over you. You are not her first priority. She can leave you anytime. And her ex gonna be around smirking at you. But at 38 something is better than nothing. At least if I die someone will bury me. And I am t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameIt's simple in the past women were pressured to marry first by nature (war, hunting .. etc) second by society ( we needed to reproduce and fast). Now because of technology ( we don't need that much labor, working men) and also new social norms ( women can stay single it's normal now or women can be childless it's normal now). Because of these things women can take their time to live their "dream", what they always wanted is to be with the knight in shining armor to be the queen besides the king,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Women's selection criterion have changed, but men have remained largely the sameThis made me laugh, women never changed their selection criteria. Women always end up picking a provider. What changed is the "when". In the past women were forced by nature and society to pick a partner quickly. Now because of technology and the new norms of society, they can take their time. That's all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Women's failed relationships and dating abhorrent men proves women's "intuition" is bullshitThey date whoever they are attracted to. Who wants to be in a relationship with a boring guy. Why are you hypocrite if it was you, you would have done the same. You want to sacrifice your golden years on a boring guy. Come on, some logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 10:03 PM |
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