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| 1 | I know this has been said a million times before: but the men who are feeling lonely and struggling in dating just have higher standards.Most guys don't have any standards at all and will settle for whatever comes their way... more guys need higher standards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | I know this has been said a million times before: but the men who are feeling lonely and struggling in dating just have higher standards.I agree with this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:51 PM |
| 10 | Went full-on pick-me as an experiment and got a boyfriend within a month.Guys need to have higher standards... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 09:47 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI think it's mostly a dating app thing although I do see it in person at times. This is based off profile reviews I've seen and what their preferences are also with women I've interacted with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 03:29 PM |
| 0 | The RP obsession with older women's looks is anti-traditional and shallowThis is accurate. There's nothing wrong with having preferences. If you're a guy and you're not attracted to older women, you can just date younger, problem fixed. If women want a guy who is 6' and is rich, then that's alright too. The big issue is that most fail to realize they can't afford to be picky because they don't bring anything to the table so they get bitter. The majority of people are average and they'll have to settle for average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:09 PM |
| 6 | Who's getting more success and who you'd prefer:The PC answers will obviously be A. Reality shows us that most would prefer B though. Take dating apps for example, an ugly guy who has everything perfect won't get any matches no matter what. A good looking guy will still get matches even if they look like a bum somewhat. People are just ashamed to admit this in here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | When women say they want "a little bit of muscle" on a guy they still mean a lot of muscleI don't care what women want and everyone can have their preferences even if it's somewhat delusional. What bothers me though for example are women who don't workout at all yet expect to land a guy who works out all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Only 4 things matterFair enough if a guy genuinely enjoys doing that. To each their own. Most guys are severely stressed out though lol and desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Only 4 things matterMany guys do prioritize their life around this which is why I bring it up. Also most guys have low standards. What you're saying is accurate in general but all it takes is meeting one good woman and you're good to go. So many people in general are in a rush and most guys settle id say. I just live my life the way I want and am pretty happy where I'm at. I go on dates sometimes and have pretty high standards for what I want but I'm happy alone too. If making money, having more power, or having hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 04:33 AM |
| 18 | Only 4 things matterIf you're prioritizing your entire life around meeting and sleeping with women, you're doing things wrong. My main focus is on my hobbies, career, friends/family, and health. I don't care what women think about what I'm doing. I'm trying to find someone to complement my life, not a leech to drag me down. Most guys don't understand this for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Outside of dating apps, how are you supposed to start a relationship?This is a decent method, but I don't like friends knowing my personal business and if you break up, it can get messy. I personally prefer to meet women who aren't extremely associated with my friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/23 02:42 AM |
| 3 | Active dates are excellent first datesAnd you can always suggest and plan a date like that. No one is stopping you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Active dates are excellent first datesCoffee dates have always worked well. If you need a perfect setup to connect with someone, it won't work out. If I can have a solid date and make even just a coffee date fun, then things are looking good. Vast vast majority of people want instant gratification with first dates and they usually move on from the other person if things aren't absolutely perfect. They can just move onto the next bloke in line. Those are exactly the types of people I want to weed out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Beta bucks doesn't exist, women aren't settling and choosing single life with casual datingMost women are average and most men are average. Everyone wants to be with the top 5% and not, 'settle.' By numbers alone, people will have to settle no matter what and go into a relationship with someone in their league. Hooking up is different though. People seem to think there's an unlimited amount of successful guys, but there's not lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Agreed, many men don't have any standards at all and they'll take what they can get. Forming an actual relationship is a whole different ballgame though. There's roughly an equal amount of women and men. Obviously women can't be so picky with a relationship because there's only so many guys. If they want to sleep around, then sure, they can be as picky as they want because many guys don't care who they sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Sorry to hear that, I don't know what to tell you. You're still not entitled to a date and you'll have to find some way that works. It sucks, but that's just how it is. I've seen people like yourself succeed but it is harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 11:23 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”The gym, outside doing different hobbies, coffee shops, through friends, etc. Pretty much anywhere bro. Its not rocket science | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 07:57 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”I had little luck on the apps and have no problem meeting women in person. Its mind boggling that guys waste their time on those apps and complain. They don't work but there are far better options if you aren't lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 05:21 PM |
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