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Just to offer another perspective having sex with hookers is definitely not something the men in my bubble flex about. It is seen as needlessly expensive, dangerous, morally grey at best and comes with a certain social stigma. Also especially men who experienced romantic relationships and sought pay to play after their partner left them to compensate told me the act felt empty sooner or later, more an act of assisted self gratification than actual human interaction. They wanted someone to want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:52 PM
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In earlier days it may have worked. These days men can get entertainment and minimal sexual gratification without female participation. Considering that people in general are having less and less sex overall and many young singles dont even date to begin with, this power women want to employ may not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:18 PM
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I had a similar discussion with a colleague who said the same as you. I also had the thought of trying this for a short time, just to see what happens. What it comes down to is: Most men do not like ballroom dance, simple as is. The numbers in dance schools speak for themselves. Any dance group that is not made up of already paired participants has a surplus of women so that some men from the advanced classes go help in beginners classes. Another deciding incident was when I got to listen in on …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 09:00 PM
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Irrelevant. This is an international discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:16 AM
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They are not. Marriage is a contract for redistribution of assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 06:11 AM
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Can confirm. Reveal your weaknesses and expect for them to be exploited.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:01 AM
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The oldest profession is whatever the man did to be able to pay the prostitute.
/r/AntiFeminists12/06/23 06:03 AM
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Wrong. He said there has to be mutual attraction. Attraction is basically a feeling of liking someone or something for whatever reason. So the point reads as that first off both parties have to like each other. Which is totally fine in my eyes, who pursues a relationship with someone they are neutral or worse towards or who hates them… like its literally the most basic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:48 PM
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Women: Please be taller than me. Men: Understandable. I get where you are coming from. Men: Please dont weigh more than me. Women: How dare you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:59 PM
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The intent of being and staying single. I estimate 20% of singles are single by choice by this standard. Most singles will seize the opportunity to get into a relationship, if it suits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:03 PM
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Another ode to the expendable male.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 06:12 AM
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Your given criteria are insufficient. 30, single, fit does not make a person. Why did she only have one relationship? If she did not care/couldnt get it before, why now? Why and how did her relationship end? Did she leave or did he? What kind of relationship dynamic does she want? Is she experienced in cooperating in this manner with a man? Did her past relationship reflect that dynamic? How does she talk about her ex? Does she have children? Does she want children? What job does she work? How i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 11:32 AM
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Feminists have made it crystal clear over and over again: Feminism is a female only, female goals first club. They do not give a damn about mens mental health.
/r/AntiFeminists09/02/23 07:57 PM
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It is not about feminine traits but compatibility. Agreeableness as per the five factor model runs on a spectrum and is an indicator for conformity and the ability and willingness to negotiate and compromise. If both people in a relationship are low on agreeableness they will constantly butt heads over the smallest issues. If this is not the relationship you want it is better to opt out. Same with 2 push overs since there will be no decision made if none backs it up. The constant standstill bree…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:37 PM
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„I can‘t afford you.“ „I‘m not a hooker.“ „Then I really can‘t afford you.“
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:18 AM
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If you better yourself just to get women, some people will be severely disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:36 PM
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Because the physical is the only determining variable for attraction, right? When we look at the age of women men end up in a relationship with (i.e. invest their time and money into), the numbers tell a different story. But I am willing to concede this point for the sake of argument and to avoid side tracking the conversation. My main point was that something being natural has no implication of the morality involving it. Which is why natural determinism is a bad argument. The only important mat…
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 03:42 PM
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Modern medicine is constantly reducing complications when it comes to pregnancy and birth for women. Is it without risk? No. But it becomes increasingly negotiable. Procreation only cares about sex. Women are the gatekeepers to sex because men want it more then they do and habe lower standards for it. So the male standard hardly matters here. Some men will screw the 33 year old if all young chicks have left the party and as soon as sperm and egg find each other biology has won. Female nature is …
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 03:13 PM
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And this behavior is 100% natural. Women want the best possible genes for their offspring and have no incentives anymore to settle down early. No need for shaming by your own standard. The point I made is that natural determinism is not only a weak but dangerous argument. By the same standard men have no reason to muse about womens standards. In species where the female decides who she mates with 50% of males do not reproduce. Unfettered natural selection.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 02:06 PM
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If the women in question can and do legally consent, no other explanation is needed. Miss me with your 100% natural, tastes differ vastly among men and resorting to natural determinism only opens you up for valid counterarguments and double standards. As in men do not get to cry if women prioritize their and their offsprings safety to the detriment of the man, it is only natural behavior.
/r/AntiFeminists31/01/23 01:49 PM
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Admins need to remove this. The daughters behavior is not based on feminist views that could be debated here. At best it is fabricated, at worst a father grossly violated his daughters right for privacy. Not to mention what kind of damage this reaction can cause to the developing sexuality of a teenager. At 17 a parents influence is more advisory than dictating.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/23 07:16 PM
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Basically the "man up" for women and just as horrid as argument for anything.
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 09:39 PM
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Casual sex and basic decency are not mutually exclusive. In your first example you were very brash and she did not like it. In the second example you were dishonest and she caught on. You treated both of them like trash and they did not want to fuck you. Their reaction was not entitled or stuck up but reasonable. Men are not entitled to women's bodies, may they be a 1 or 10, they can be picky as much as they want. Only when they bitch about being alone even though they priced themselves out of t…
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 09:21 PM
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I have no problem with the 1st and 2nd wave really. Women are no less deserving of being the architects of their own lifes as men.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 04:47 PM
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This pretty much sums up this whole sub.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 04:14 PM
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Same day as World Toilet Day. 19th of November.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 12:40 AM
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Nothing is free. Someone has to pay for it. The question is, do you as a tax payer want to pay for womens tampons. I certainly do not want to.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 08:02 PM
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Bold assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 02:02 PM
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Still havent heard any argument for a the man paying other than you wanting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:49 PM
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It depends on the outlook of the man. If he gets into a relationship just to have sex, the hoops he has to go through are not worth it. It also breeds resentment if his gf gave it up easily to others while he has to work for it. Relationships are for people who honestly care for one another and not only for each others orifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:41 PM
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She can do as she wants, I can do as I want. While I would have no problem with the swimming lessons, if they are accompanied by excess chatting or calls and the guy being a constant topic, I would raise my concerns and if they are not reasonably addressed, I would leave. But I would never forbid her to so something. I do neither have nor want this authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:25 PM
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If you need casual hookups to feel good about yourself, there are way bigger problems. Both protagonists are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:19 PM
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Neither the blue pill nor the red pill guarantee success in dating or relationships. Also why cant one resent toxic women and form a romantic connection with a nontoxic one at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:13 PM
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Persevere is the wrong word. There is nothing positive about self destructive behavior. This rhetoric is exhausting. On one hand you damit it is stupid on the other hand you try to make it out as something admirable. They stay even if it is in their best interest to leave, let things escalate and then blame all men for it. I have no sympathy for women who let themselves get beat up over and over and still stay, same as for men if they marry and then get fleeced afterwards just because she feels …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:01 PM
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The guy noped out the second he heard feminist and got confrontational with a tone deaf pitch to get her to see herself out.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 10:25 PM
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There is no argument to be had. Nobody owes anyone a relationship or attraction.
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 12:22 PM
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Revenge only leads to another extreme and fuels the cycle. Equilibrium is whats needed.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 01:43 PM
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How about a show that compare how men and women survive on an island? Oh no…
/r/AntiFeminists14/12/22 09:47 PM
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Share one for communal expenses only. The rest is best kept separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 02:54 PM
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Han was not reliable. Finding something worth fighting for and sticking to it was literally his character arc over 3 episodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 05:56 AM
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There is nothing men can do. In a natural environment most males of a species do not reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 10:16 PM
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The less sex thing may be a dealbreaker, but I have no interest in women even 10 years younger than me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 08:11 PM
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TRP does not downplay rape. The problem it has in your scenario is that the woman you let in your house can just claim you raped her and your life is over. With only her word your social life ends and the law follows. It does not matter if you get acquitted, in societies eyes, you are stained. TRP is does not defend traditional values. It rejects the notion that nontraditional women demand traditional men. If you are strong and independent, you can pay for your own food.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:58 PM
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The guys that can use cold approach as a successful initiation method are not on a reddit dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 07:25 PM
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Men do not owe you their time and effort. If they found you attractive enough, they would approach, if you make yourself available.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 06:57 PM
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If men are so bad, women should stop taking their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:11 PM
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Few people that call themselves opinionated can take what they dish out. Not taking shit can be code for just being rude and obnoxious. If she would label herself that would be a red flag until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 05:05 PM
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Lets just say my past experiences taught me to be more observant and less tolerant when the number of sexual encounters dropped significantly without an adequate outside stressor present.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 04:33 PM
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Like there are no other methods of contraception. It is both partners responsibility to use them if they want no children. Also it not like women got their tubes tied en masse, since the issue solves itself with time. The demand is unfair and misplaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 03:32 PM
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A threat of breaking up shows the relationship is already damaged. I‘d show her the door. Also I would have a heart to heart with my friend and if he really cheats only for excitement, well he‘d be out as as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 11:52 AM
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From my own experience I can say that the sudden rejection by someone that accepted me body and soul for over a decade and that I planned to spend the rest of my life with was shattering for every facet of my being. The emotional and physical turmoil and withdrawal afterwards were brutal. I can understand guys that can‘t sustain that and just end it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:33 PM
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Working girls sell you an illusion of intimacy. It is basically fancy masturbation that reminds you of what you can not have. What kind of help would that be for a man that is based in reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:52 PM
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Cheating is a product of a power dynamic not gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:43 PM
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MGTOW has a highly individualistic component to it, since it does not tell you were you go to just what you go away from. This makes it very hard to point any criticism at it that goes beyond criticizing basic red pill ideas. MRA’s argue to change the rules, red pillers play the game as it is, black pillers stand in the corner and muse how unfair the game is and MGTOW have left the gaming table and do something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 01:13 PM
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Women would find something else to worry about and blame it on men. Pandering to their flawed narrative does not change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 12:48 PM
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Any idea what the subreddits they referred to are?
/r/AntiFeminists20/09/22 08:40 AM
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A hot take you expected to take heat for and you did. Nothing go see here.
/r/AntiFeminists20/09/22 08:36 AM
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With the drastically decreasing marriages rates in the west this is a bold statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 03:22 PM
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I think the biggest flex is if things work out as intended, but I can see where you are coming from.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:32 PM
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If you want long lasting, happy relationships as a man, ask men who do. You have to ask the right fishermen. That was always implied. Different men want different women for different things. Of course if a woman knows what she likes in bed and communicates that, there is no reason not to follow the lead if the man is comfortable with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:20 PM
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The one who cares most looses. Let women, society and humanity sink or swim for all I care. 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:09 PM
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The uninitiated can not discern fantasy and reality. So the absolute minimum should be not to take what you see in porn at face value. There is enough educational literature and videos out there that there is no need to take info from what is basically entertainment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:56 PM
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If the argument is in good faith, no disclaimer is needed. Since we are mostly discussing general tendencies of men and women the disclaimer is implied. Only those who choose to misrepresent a statement answer with, no all xyz. Your post touches on the point that most of the discussion here as an ideological circlejerk. Most of the topics do not realistically translate into interpersonal relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:52 PM
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Men can be happy alone, too, they just don’t get a pat on the back for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:51 AM
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Women are strong and independent. They will figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 04:44 AM
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If you want to catch fish, ask a fisherman. If you want to get laid as a guy, ask the guys who do. Mimicking successful strategies is the basis for every advanced learning. I see no reason why dating should be any different. If being the nice guy did not get him laid for 10 years, it is time to change the pace and everyone who is urging him to continue a strategy that has proven to be unsuccessful is a straight up sadist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:46 PM
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Sometime you just want to like what you see in the mirror. I can understand the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:43 PM
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After the gut, go for the chin.
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/22 05:27 PM
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Pussy does not cure sociopaths. This is a fantasy that could lead young women to a violent end. For a sociopath a gf is just another casualty. They need professional help. Men seem to have a harder time because of the societal bias put on them. A woman saying she does not need/want a man is empowered. A man saying he does not need/want a woman is dysfunctional. Only a bad hunter would remove himself from the hunt right? So most men who have checked out, dont talk about it. For some times get tou…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 05:25 PM
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People need to get off this sex thing. It is becoming obsessive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 08:08 PM
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You are right in a sense. TRP has an aspect of men disconnecting from a society that does not benefit them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 10:48 AM
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The fact that the red pill has let itself be reduced to PUA is just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 05:03 AM
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It is not bleak to acknowledge that relationships can end at any time for any reason no matter the circumstances. Sometimes they are within your control, sometimes they are not. „She is not yours, it is just your turn.“ is the red pill answer to the myth of „the one“ and the happy ever after fantasies that are pushed by the media. You can take a nihilistic spin on it or take it as a reason to not make a relationship or a person the center of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 04:56 AM
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Nice misrepresentation. I said, I understand being scared in the dark, in your words aware, because there is a risk to become the victim of a crime, the perpetrator most likely being male. But that fact does not mean that men as whole are responsible for what individual men do. It is a similar claim to OP‘s.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:43 PM
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His lack of acumen permeates his whole handling of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:31 PM
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I understand being scared in the dark but don‘t blame it on an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:20 PM
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Literal thousands of other reasons he could have cited without lying. Like I had an incident within my immediate family I need to take care of asap.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:18 PM
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If the wife is a narc staying is ludicrous. Proximity creates opportunity for stuff just like the false allegations to happen, if she does not totally snap and ends you in your sleep or gets one of her druggie friends to murk you. A house is not worth your life and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:09 PM
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First mistake was marriage. Secondly he handled it badly. A narc is prone to go to extreme measures. Should‘ve just cut his losses and left. No negotiation, just decisions. Get out, take what you can get, reestablish control on finances and talk to lawyer to minimize damage. Crash somewhere, anywhere but never meet the wife or go to the flat again without witnesses. The arrest based on the allegations alone seems out of proportion, though this may be different if she had wounds. I do not know if…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:04 PM
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Of course we can discuss the nature of good and evil now, bit that is to tedious for me to do in writing. So I cut that short. I personally think that there is no moral obligation to pay for other peoples misfortune. Moral arguments are weak anyway. Make it a good deal for all people without lecturing and more people would buy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:49 PM
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Of course we can discuss the nature of good and evil now, bit that is to tedious for me to do in writing. I personally think that there is no moral obligation to pay for other peoples misfortune. Moral arguments are weak anyway. Make it a good deal for all people without lecturing and more people would buy in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:39 PM
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They can get healthcare, if they pay for it. We have been here before. You seem to want socially funded healthcare. Which boils down to having to pay for anothers health problem. It is a good system, but there can be made a case against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 06:34 PM
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I said feigning indifference. If you are indifferent, fine, I do not claim to be a mind reader. But judging by your language and rigidity of your opinions, I see a good possibility for personal involvement but hey, that is besides the point anyway. I do not find anything you say offensive. This is the internet, we are strangers writing into the void. This is as consequential as we individually decide it to be. When it comes to our chit chat, you have not refuted my statement that not wanting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:55 PM
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Ad hominems and feigning indifference don‘t help you either. 🤷‍♂️ I have no problems debating but I want to do it in food faith, which is why I engaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:43 PM
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This statement does neither refute my argument nor does it help yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:30 PM
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With healthcare in general it is not about denial but payment. People not wanting to pay for other peoples health problems is by no means evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:23 PM
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Where was harming people mentioned? Disagreement is not harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:52 PM
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I do not fall for your ridiculous framing. I do not speak for all men. Men are not a monolith, different strokes for different folks. It is only natural for people to vote/be against a system they deem to not benefit them. That is democracy. Also your „who does not agree with me is trash perspective“ is highly simplistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 03:30 PM
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The juice is not worth the squeeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:20 PM
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The study itself states that they still have to separate correlation and causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:57 PM
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It was clearly meant as a metaphor. Argue in good faith, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:54 PM
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Funny how they moan about the absence of a mom bod and forget the whole body positivity movement that is focused on women, no matter if they’re mothers.
/r/AntiFeminists06/09/22 04:20 AM
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Different strokes for different folks. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:09 AM
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Masturbation is the manifestation of my own sexuality. There is part of it that even my SO would never be privy to. There is no „right one“. Women are not to put on a pedestal, not even sexually. My sexuality exists without a woman. That does not change when I am in a relationship. Nobody has a right to claim dominion over my sexuality except the lawgivers. Your thinking bit is just disney fantasy. After the honeymoon phase normalcy sets in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:21 PM
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There is no competition in victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:08 PM
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If women prefer different kind of men because of their monthly cycle then this is pretty much ingrained in the human species.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:00 PM
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You literally redefine as you put them in „ a true neutral light“, which they are not. I think we can agree the manosphere uses this term wrong. The rest may be just semantic differences in the end. Cheers.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:09 PM
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My challenge is two fold. First: It was not bastardized by the manosphere. The term has also been used by feminism to demonize men. If used by non professionals it has no meaning. Second: Redefining the traits does not do it justice. These traits are inherently unhealthy. Narcissism already entails a delusional amount of self love, there is nothing positive in it. With your redefinition of these traits you loose sight of what these traits actually entail, which is dangerous because people with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:44 PM
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The dark triad is a term used in psychotherapy to define a sociopath. While the traits run on a spectrum, we are talking about degrees that are debilitating to the point of committing serial murders. It should have never been introduced to the dating scene. 99% of their application in that context is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:25 PM
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You might want to geomax on this. In progressive areas women may not be that keen to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:43 PM
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Women do not honor men for being the mayority of law enforcement or fire fighters. But when men without proper training get into high conflict situations for them they suddenly will? No. Many a white knight has died, for the woman to disappear into the night with her abuser. It is not worth it and wont change anything for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:18 AM
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Being with the wrong people is worse than being alone. Your pill is poisonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 10:33 PM
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They are not the same questions and I explained why. If they were the same question they would at least provide the same conclusions in their answers. A DNA test answers if a child is yours as in fatherhood. The lie detector test answers if she cheated. Not all cheating carries the risk of pregnancy, so the answer „The child is yours“ of the pregnancy test is inconclusive for cheating, whereas the lie detector test would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:17 PM
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No meat grinder for me thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:32 PM
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In my relationships I am the judge of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:16 PM
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Opportunity makes thieves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 05:11 AM
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With your test you are asking for more than I get with a paternity test. Paternity tests do not rule out cheating. She could have been lucky, used protection or cheated with a woman. The reason for me to ask for a paternity test would be that I want to know that the child is mine, not if she cheated. It is about my relationship with and my responsibilities for the child not my relationship with the mother. Women know their child is theirs. Men can only trust on the womens word and for some thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 04:56 AM
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I tried to express my inability to take your argument seriously due to how poorly it is written. I failed. Move along.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:37 PM
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Rule 1: When in doubt, fake understanding. Rule 2: Tell her what she wants to hear. Rule 3: Mind read with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:20 PM
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Do not try to live your life to conform to someone elses script. Cut back on the red pills and spend more time with your hobbies and people that like you for who you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 10:01 PM
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Please elaborate on your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:39 PM
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Spelling is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:37 PM
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Attraction is not negotiable. Getting laid out of pity or obligation is not healthy in the long run either. We know the rules. Either take the risk and play or fold, leave the table and do something else with the little time you have been granted on this godforsaken rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 09:23 PM
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As long as most men get their needs met in the current system, nothing will change. TRP rejects many core mechanics society is run on and does not enjoy the victim bonus feminism has and as such is disregarded. In some ways even rightly so. TRP works better as a set of ideas for the individual to chew on rather than a movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 06:21 PM
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Strong and independent, gentlemen.
/r/AntiFeminists22/08/22 10:22 PM
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The ones treating people like they want to be treated themselves do not cause these problems. Your experiment misses its target group. It also only holds any merit if straight and gay men worked within the social dynamics as straight men and women do, which they don‘t.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:08 PM
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Concerning your ending statement: Fear is a bad motivator. It invites codependency and is devoid of reason. Whatever people do to get off, I hardly care as long as consenting adults are involved and there is no permanent damage done. The mental health aspect you brought up is an important cornerstone of creating healthy boundaries with the partner. Too many people stay with toxic people that can‘t or do not want to be helped and get dragged down with them out of a misguided sense of obligation. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 10:23 AM
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The happy ever after fantasy needs to go. It denies reality and as such breeds disappointment and resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:42 AM
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Who wants the lying mess that is the female body positivity movement? The only good thing in your post is the admittance that body positivity does not extent to men. The rest is anecdotal word salad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:37 AM
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Blanket statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:17 AM
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Where are these comments of going after 20somethings? They are a minority at best, I‘d say. The attraction I had for a woman that went through thick and thin with me is based on more than the physical, I dare say that might be the norm, even for red pill guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:15 AM
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What people want is not consistent but you can be consistent in what you want, so someone is gonna get walked over and cry about it. Don‘t let it be you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:03 AM
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Nobody was asked if they wanted to be here. There is no room for a missing imperative on existence. If you are here, you have a right to be here. Your argument is based on the naturalistic fallacy. All of our ancestors reproduced despite the odds and it made our species the most successful on the planet. Also your sexism is showing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 03:44 AM
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Attraction is involuntary. Entitlement is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 06:35 AM
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A. Male.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 05:59 AM
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The only difference between you and a feminist as that you want to shame men into another set of framed behavior. You are the same kind of enemy to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:01 AM
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It is not about suspicions. Women always have the certainty the child is theirs. A man can only trust her. Women acting all offended of this preposition overlook the mental reassurance they enjoy. For me there are things too important to be left to trust. If a child is mine is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:22 AM
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Most men are fine. This is negative feedback of the women are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:17 PM
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„The bar is in hell“ is just another way to use a mans self worth against him, shaming him into „manning up“ for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:04 PM
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This narrative of the perpetual female victim is just exhausting. If I had a son , one of my concerns would be to protect him from people like you, who damn him for things he did not do, took no part in and is not responsible for, just on the notion that he is male. He is neither responsible for a girl parents behavior or the media or other boys. He is by no means obligated to free women from their perceived suffering just to be met with more demands and damnation just for being born a man in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:11 PM
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If she is 18, she can do as she pleases. What I failed to teach her by then, she will take lessons from life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:00 PM
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Honesty and how to communicate it are two very different things. Most people are bad communicators women included.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:52 AM
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This is true for every aspect of her he deems undesirable. Not deeming a woman relationship material is not misogyny. Same as it is not misandry if a woman does not want be with a man if he is a virgin, not buff or poor. Our life situation is in most cases the outcome of our choices and grounds for rejection depending of the mentality of the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:44 AM
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Thats a new perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:02 PM
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I am neither deluded nor weak. As an act of self ownership I refuse to play a game that does not benefit at me and be a pawn in a race I do not even want to win, that uses my few needs against me. I pay the price, cut off my chains and overcome the thirst. While you sneer at me from the playing field drowning in pussy, I walk my own path, uncaring and free.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:59 PM
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If we have very different sexual scripts, we may be incompatible. A script is the who, why, when, where, how and further implications of conditions under which a sexual encounter will take place. If I for example value sex as an intimate emotional experience shared with a select few and she just wants to scratch an itch, we are not on the same page.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:36 PM
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The victim was distraught as he heard the sentencing and is in therapy for this. There was damage done, that he will need a long time to overcome. Your attitude is out of line.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 04:13 PM
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Clown World.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 04:03 PM
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Then why is female n-count so important for TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:40 PM
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🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:38 PM
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Diverse =\ = all. It does not infer „If it exists, a woman will like it.“ Your argument suffers from a lack of definition of your premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:49 PM
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Slut is a derogatory term. Me not deeming certain women relationship material is certainly not derogatory towards them. I do not look down on people who want to have a sex life like that. It just would not click with me. Live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:17 PM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=6jSGqVtudgI
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:46 PM
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I did not call anybody a slut. Give me the free speech spiel if you like, from my perspective it was clearly inferred. If you want to be overly critical, be my guest. I hope the irony of your last paragraph is not lost on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:04 PM
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What do you mean by going after? Men and women overly value female validation. Start infighting over women does not help. Knocking the alpha down will not suddenly make non alphas attractive. Women control male courting behavior. They set the standard of people they get intimate with. Neither alphas nor women do something inherently wrong in this. Being a hypocrite is not illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:57 PM
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I see no benefit, only risks. On a very basic emotional level I value a daily decision of someone to stay with me more than them being bound by a promise they made ages ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:11 AM
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While I would not be married, I would definitely take time off for my kid. SAHD never. Same for her as I would object to her staying at home. I like to be self sufficient or at least having the ability to acquire this state quickly again. Relationships fail. Plan accordingly. Being a stay at home parent is financial suicide for average earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 11:01 AM
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Women can do whatever they want. But they do not get to cry misogyny if a man deems them undesirable for a relationship because of the choices they made. While the „Used Up“ argument is stupid, there is nothing wrong to dismiss someone based on very differing sexual histories/preferences. Standart TRP shoots itself in the foot holding women to a different standards than men in that regard. Redpilled „alphas“ screwing around create the very women they would not want to be in a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:50 AM
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Price range =/= affordable, at least for me. I could spend more on food but I do not want to. Many people live below their means. Not everyone operates on the bigger, better, faster, stronger mindset and you fail to relate. Thats all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:58 AM
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I do not want the best solution. I want a solution that works. If the food tastes good and is within my price range, I do not care about stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:28 AM
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So much for the „deeper level“ connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:20 AM
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If you lower your contribution to a relationship to the level of a sex worker, you do not get to make a call for empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:27 AM
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Marriage is a financial liability, that on paper only poses risks and no tangible benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:26 AM
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This argument mostly pops up if women try to make men responsible for their dating choices turning out bad. The rest boils down to the „dont be unattractive advice“, that really nobody needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:23 AM
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Shaming language by people you do not want to be with anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 05:14 AM
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If you keep a society running for female validation or burn it to the ground for the lack thereof you are still spinning the wheel that is running you over. Men must overcome their thirst to truly be free.
/r/AntiFeminists06/08/22 10:30 PM
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Your appeal to emotion is not an argument. People need to be held accountable for their choices and I am no exception. Women do not get to cry and hold men accountable for the men they choose. If they reward bad behavior I have no sympathy if it is done to them. Rape and abuse of women are widely condemned in the western world. Claiming rapists and abusers get support is ludicrous, unless they are female of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:07 AM
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Women are surprised when the bad boys they choose do bad boy stuff. Everybody can get fooled or have a weak moment but if you get fooled and stay just to get fooled again, do not expect any sympathy. Same for men that stick their dicks in crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:10 AM
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Different people live different lives. Go figure. Some lifestyles mesh, some dont. If a homebody is not good for you, thats fine. For some people alone time is their way to let go and deflate. Cuddling on a the couch while binging some show on netflix is definitely a good core memory of my past relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:17 PM
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Then women don‘t get to complain how low the bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:11 AM
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Depends on how your sexuality works. If I am romantically involved with a woman, I want to have sex with her, nobody else. If she does not want it, this will lead to frustration. The only realistic option is to leave. I have dealt with that once, never again. I will not be held hostage over my sexuality again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:40 AM
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Difficulty is no measure for morality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:49 AM
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Seems like her dating options disagree with you.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/22 05:18 AM
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Mods asleep?
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 07:13 PM
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Isolation is the biggest factor. Not opening a time window and creating a realistic opportunity for different human interaction shuts down every chance of forming relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:24 PM
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Some women prefer older men that are more successful than them. Nobody tells them to step up and earn more. Demanding standards one does not meet themselves is common, because we often seek what we cannot provide ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:29 AM
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Maybe a mismatch in n count hints at differing values and the fact that both have lived very different lifes so far indicating differing personality types/traits. So there may be a good reason if the introverted monogamist homebody does not want to play workhorse for the extroverted party goer who enjoys casual sex. The guys on here are not representative of the male gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:24 AM
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Accept that you are a human doing, not a human being. Who can be happy with this relationship dynamic? Delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:05 AM
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If we are exclusive, that extends to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:53 AM
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Oh, some misandry. All men are hardwired to be cheating sexual deviants. You do not get to ride the high horse of „female sexuality“ and then frame the 50% of the population like that. This stuff is exactly the reason men are checking out of this game.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:47 AM
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I am not putting myself in competition with a real or imaginative ideal man to get a woman. My life is good as it is. A woman would be nice addition but she is by no means necessary. I am not going to break my back to get a woman to like and want me. I walk my path of life and should it and the path of a woman intertwine for a time that is fine but if not it is also fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:11 AM
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Women can want what they want but they are not entitled to courtship. And since not being in a relationship is normalized for men and women, there is no other incentive than biology for men to give in to womens demands. Now some men are saying no and some women are pissed about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:04 AM
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You left the following sentences, where I elaborated on the thesis and admitted it is arguable. Literally ripped it out of context.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 12:17 AM
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You literally cut out my whole paragraph, where I put the thesis in a more relative context. You just chose to misrepresent my statement to be offended by it. Still porn actresses outearn their male counterparts, by a lot. Nobody bats an eye. 🤷‍♂️. Porn is dubious industry for everyone involved not only women, but again, best victim prize goes to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 10:56 PM
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I said same position, your example does not fit. Law works. Is it perfect? No. But in the overwhelming number of cases it does what it was intended to do. I do not recognize anecdotes as evidence. That is all, we are running in circles. The female victim narrative has been debunked many times. Since I took 2 strawmen and 1 misrepresentation and 2 ad hominems while you dodged all arguments and changed the topic twice, this is the point were I end it. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:24 PM
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Again, a straw man. I never said everything is about sex, you brought up dating and I entertained the tangent, thats all. Abused women have favouritism of the law (duluth model) and women shelters on their side. Men only have the streets. Mens shelters were cancelled because of feminist protests. Bullied men are shamed and ridiculed. Man up is what they get to hear. An ugly woman still wants a less ugly man. Women complain about their choices and price themselves out of the market and blame men …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 05:07 PM
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You are building a straw man right now. I did not talk about dating but women being a protected social class. Considering dating, in the overwhelming majority of societies men pursue and women choose. Women mostly want a man better than them, they date up. Men automatically date down mostly. Simply with this dynamic women have it easier. Their dating prospects are always better than their male counterparts in a similar situation, because men higher up the ladder will pick women further down, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:09 PM
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First you generalize by „you people“ as if all Redpillers are white and middle class. They are not. Also your anecdotal experience is not evidence, but data is. I do not discount you personal experience but it has no weight if the discussion plays out on a social scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 01:38 PM
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No I dont. Even within racial groups the data shows the same results. Also female mating and survival strategy remains the same unless culturally checked.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:29 AM
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Takes a stand against a generalization, but makes a generalization herself. Does not like being judged based on a subgroup. Uses a subgroup as a base of her argument. This makes your argument fall apart. The easy mode thesis is based on the idea that by political agenda women are a protected class at least in the west. This arguable but in my eyes some tendencies cant be denied but it is also reasonable to some extent. More men being homeless, working dangerous jobs, higher suicide rates, prefer…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 04:28 AM
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My issue is more about having a fuck buddy. Not my cup of tea and if it is hers, we may not mesh. So I pick A.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:46 AM
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My issue is more about having a fuck buddy. Not my cup of tea and if it is hers, we may not mesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:45 AM
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I wrote what I know and my experience differs from what you say. Do with that what you will.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 11:54 AM
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It is not unheard of that the „victim“ tries to aid their abuser endangering police officers. Same reason you do not try to intervene in a public, physical dispute between a couple. It becomes a 1v2 pretty fast.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 10:46 AM
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If treating her like a rag doll is not my shtick, then I am left with the choice of having sex I am not comfortable with or be forgettable. I‘d choose the latter. Removing myself from the equation just to appeal to a woman is blue pill thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 06:31 AM
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Most relationships end in separation. Only a few last a lifetime. Know what you want in a relationship and never make it your focus. Enjoy them while they last and protect your health, sanity and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:05 AM
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For some the sudden crash of a LTR is more than enough. But maybe that is why it is sometimes said that MGTOW also has to go away from something.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:18 PM
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MGTOW is not akin to FDS. MGTOW have left the gaming table while incels are not invited to game night. FDS made it very clear that they are not part of WGTOW because they are, as the name suggests, a dating sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:12 PM
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The only logical path to what end?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 06:02 PM
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MGTOW in my eyes means willingly removing yourself from the romantic male-female dynamic on the basis of red pill ideas. That can happen after you have kids and a divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:57 PM
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MGTOW was infested haters and conspiracy theorists that called to overthrow governments. It failed exclude men who were clearly misogynistic just for the sake of it. It failed not to include any social outcast that came its way. With its core values abused as a shield by people who could not care less and pirated by others just to make money, it had to go. Many people in the manosphere dropped the acronym because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 05:01 PM
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Nice straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 08:10 PM
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Somebody has to pay. The man or the tax payer and I will not pay for someone elses misguided orgasms more than I absolutely have to. Men who know the rules and risks and still play the game and fuck women they do not want to have children with deserve no pity when shit hits the fan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:45 PM
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HuMan. Definitely one for critical self evaluation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 10:34 PM
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Well it depends on your moral compass. If you follow the Golden Rule, your stance is unethical. If you take your benefit and the harm done into consideration, short term sexual satisfaction may not outweigh the long term consequences for the family of the wife. If you think murder is ethical if you get away with it, a ridiculous stance, then you should not have a problem. Morals at their core are based in emotion not logic. If you instinctively ask yourself if something is immoral that in itself…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:59 PM
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It really depends on the guys and the relationship you want to have. Not every guy in his 30s wants a 20 year old woman, but not every guy wants children either. The main problem is that the development of a relationship you seek takes time and you operate on a schedule, biologically speaking. Since these medical circumstances vary from person to person there is a trend that with age your fertility drops significantly. So if you have to build a relationship that sustains marriage and kids in a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:43 PM
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Without a criminological argument on the circumstances of sexual crimes there is no point to be made here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 06:30 PM
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An addiction is a horrible sickness and as such contradicts the health aspect of happiness. If you destroy yourself to be happy that is pathological behavior that needs treatment. What happiness is and how to achieve it has been discussed as far back as Aristotle and even farther Im sure. That is why these topics are interesting. Just behind these concepts of alpha fucks, hypergamy and other TRP buzzwords lie the great age old questions. Why am I here, what do I want, how do I relate to people, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:43 PM
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Love how you ignored my whole second paragraph where I talked about meaning in life but ok. If happiness does not matter why are you talking about well being, wealth and health, and yeah, meaning? Because striving for something certainly is a key to happiness. Our opinions on that do not really differ. Some fear solitude, some embrace it. Some people want children, some don’t. As I said, live and let live.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 11:14 PM
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Nobody cares about your job or your children either. If other people care hardly matters. I have seen miserable fuckboys and miserable fathers but als happy fuckboys and happy fathers. No life style template guarantees happiness. Find what you love, works for you and makes you happy, and pursue it. That may be having a family or sexual conquests, wealth or professional goals, spirituality etc. Life has the meaning you give it and some roads are rockier than others. Few concepts of TRP are origin…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 10:47 PM
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With a certain personality streak it can be easy to be happy without or being unsuccessful in dating. I never dated. Never had the urge to „go on the hunt“ so to speak. I had a relationship that lasted for 12 years with my high school sweetheart, that more or less fell on my lap and all in all it was a good time but I do not need it again. If it happens, ok, but I do not pursue it. I do not vow celibacy but I am not looking for anything either. My place in the social hierarchy does not concern m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:38 PM
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Kindness, Tenderness, Attraction, Honesty, Trust. Sex is a manifestation of this. Enthusiasm outweighs quantity in that regard. If I am down she has to be able to fight life for us both for a time and have my back as I am willing to do the same. I want a partner with her own agenda that keeps a space open for me in her life, not an overlord or a servant. She has to able to leave anytime if she wishes to do so, so staying with me nonetheless shows more sincerity for me than any promise ever could…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 01:45 PM
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Of course they are. If a person constantly gets sexually involved with different people for validation, that indicates low self esteem, a tendency towards risk seeking behavior and low self control. Not to mention a possible mismatch in core values.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:09 AM
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Some people want a certain emotional connection that sex is just one manifestation of.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:02 AM
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You said nothing that supports your thesis. TRP and incels are not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 09:00 AM
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I served as a maid, a nurse, period comfort, motivator, proofreader/editor, financial adviser, therapist, mediator, masseur and a shoulder to cry on and I did so gladly. Miss me with your bs. Most men go above and beyond for their girlfriends. Women pride themselves as choosers making men chasers. You do not get to blame men as a whole for your bad decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:45 AM
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Low impulse control and a mismatch in core values are no good indicators for a successful ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:59 PM
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Nice straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:51 PM
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Yes, ex admitted she just started drama to get an emotional response. Also belittleling me in front of my friends. After the separation a friend told me his perspective on it and in hindsight I should have made that an issue. No, I think especially in new relationships shit tests are very common. In longer relationships sudden shit tests are a hint of changing dynamics because of outside sources. I do not know why it is done and I hardly care. If I would come across it again I would leave. I am …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 09:10 PM
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The argument is not about dating wrecks it is about pricing yourself out of the market and then complain. For example only a small minority of men is over six foot tall. Only a small minority of these men make 6 figures. Simply by these standards 95% percent of the male population are ruled out. It is an exaggeration but it shows a trend. Nobody wants anyone to date people they find unattractive. Both genders are faced with unrealistic beauty standards but acceptance campaigns only work for wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:47 PM
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Sex is not the measure of „success“ for everyone. I as a man need time to build trust to even think about escalating things sexually. Fucking a total stranger, let alone „spinning plates“ is alien to me but others may do as they please. Live and let live. I am happy to have had a 12year relationship with my high school sweetheart. It did not work out in the end but that is life. I learnt a lot about myself in that time, how I function and what I need in a relationship and what to avoid doing and…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 05:30 PM
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If women do not adjust their standards reasonably according to economy they become picky. The argument that their standard is reasonable because it has always been the same is moot. That is a common redpill argument. You cannot disregard the fact that boys are falling behind in education the last decades. Those boys have to compete against gender quotas even if they manage to get a high degree despite massive female centered funding. And despite that women want a man according to standards from …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:15 PM
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I think it is more about what kind of conditions we are talking about. If the conditions lie outside of my control, then the „love“ is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 04:01 PM
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The moment a man bases his life on what women want, he is living the life of someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:53 PM
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Maybe. My father played in rock band and my mother was a waitress at a bar my fathers band played at. I think this dynamic would still work today.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:46 PM
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The disillusion of unconditional love can be hard to accept. This reduces the relationship endeavor for men to a constant competition with the invisible better option. A relationship that provides emotional and physical intimacy based on trust would be impossible if this was true.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:28 PM
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What does not stoning gay people to death have anything to do with straight people not getting together?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 03:06 PM
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Discussing group behavior does not help when encountering an individual. Also there is no real negotiation happening or consensus to be had. Both groups have no leaders or other decision making entity. These discussions are only a tool for self reflection for the participants, questioning ones own values and objectives. Also the approach of being nice to one another would certainly be productive but people know that and still choose not to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 02:47 PM
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One indicator for me is if you feel the need to keep it secret, you cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:15 PM
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Correlation does not equal causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:51 PM
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Women are normal people. Who wouldve thought. 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:10 AM
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If a womans household income shrinks by 25% after divorce from a childless marriage, my compassion is very limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:54 AM
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Women are not wonderful per se. A woman can be wonderful, the whole gender just isnt, same as men. Married men may earn more money, but it is mostly the wife who are controls the spending. I.e. men may earn more but do not decide how to spend it not to mention the financial necessities of having a family. In short you may earn more but you have more financial responsibilities and a limited say in spending. The life expectancy argument is problematic. Studies are not as clear cut as you seem to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:35 AM
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I see the same insanity in being urged to date multiple women on one hand, pump and dump, and the outcry for the promiscuity of women on the other. Red Pillers create the women they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:59 AM
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Yeah, high school boys are the epitome of rational decision making. The are rocks, really. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:34 AM
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You are comparing apples and oranges. You are not investing in the same outcome if you pursue a relationship. There is a huge difference between just fucking once, never to see each other again, and being personally involved with the person over an extended amount of time. ONS and hookups are for short term sexual gratification. Relationships are built on more than lust and this foundation needs time to form. Early sex can harm this development. As a side note. Regular casual sex at least for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 09:33 AM
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Gender was not used to dodge consequences. No pussy pass used, therefore no pussypass denied.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/22 01:36 PM
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„The truest form of dominance is not controlling a woman, it is controlling a man.“ Laden with prejudice this statement fits your definition of misogyny perfectly. The intubation statement is even better. You preach stereotypes (what a man is supposed to be/do) and individualism and fail to see the contradiction. If everybody is expandable i.e. replacable what sets you apart from red pillers in this regard? Feeling and accepting emotions, but not getting controlled by them is actually a stoic pr…
/r/ExRedPill28/01/22 01:57 PM
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In the context of „jerking off to female dating strategy“ , I think I understood the statement correctly.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 12:29 AM
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For me it is more about matching values on sex and what role it plays in a relationship. If for one sex is scratching an itch or duty and for the other it is a holy union, it may not be a good fit.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 12:28 AM
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You see women as potential intimate partners and not men (I assume). So you judge them differently. If you do not want a woman with many previous sexual partners, you rule them out as potential romantic interests and register it as loosing respect. The reason why you denote a high body count as bad seems to be rooted in resentment though.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:54 PM
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MGTOW has become a cesspool of societal rejects, circle jerking about conspiracy theories that spew pua or incel slang. Core principles are lost and the old guard left. Add to that that there is a highly individualistic streak to it, so there was not much cohesion to begin with. The acronym is corrupted and dying.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:37 PM
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You sound like you seek acolytes for your own cult, spewing vitriol, stereotypes and misogyny. You have become the very thing you claim, you hate. A tragedy.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 11:06 PM
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True. Common rp advice is to stick to coffee or walking on the first date to avoid „foody calls“. As always the advice is good but the argument is lacking. A coffee date is better for feeling each other out, giving an easy „escape“ and to avoid that one party stays out of obligation.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 09:45 PM
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I totally agree. You can take some thoughts and pointers from an ideology without adopting the acronym. Especially if you used to navigate relationships on autopilot, without thinking about the dynamics at play with your own needs, boundaries and motivations and by which means you are willing to fullfill them. This inspires some helpful introspection. It also disenchants some notions of romantic love, the script, the personas, fakes and masks. Maintaining the alpha frame is nonsense, but working…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 09:35 PM
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Let me play the devils advocate here, because your argument is lacking in some places. You do not define what entrapment by pregnancy actually means. While „trap“ has connotations of subterfuge and playing dirty it also entails an absence of a means to escape the situation. Applying that to the context of pregnancy what does it entail for a man? Obligations, emotional, mental, financial and more towards the child. It also ties him to the mother because they are both parents now. Can he escape th…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 08:32 PM
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Trying to convince a zealot sure is a waste of time but championing the logical argument on one hand and employing shaming tactics on the other leaves your case wanting. Also equating a conversation with sex work is quite a stretch. There are better reasons not to engage.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/22 06:00 PM
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Maybe she should make her bed first. Such a slob. Visible tattoo, choker, hair a mess, pale as death, stance of a constipated cow, dress one size too small and not freshly cleaned. Would not be bad and could be chalked up to a bad day and personal taste but the personality is just eew. No sober medium ugly man would even engage with this crusty individual.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 09:56 PM
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If you do not trust the woman, wrap it or do not have sex with her at all. If you can not trust her on birth control habits, why do you trust on her promise of exclusivity? Primary STI risk. If she wants to get pregnant by you, she will also lie if she already has an STI. Secondary STI risk. If you need to control her, something is wrong already. It is a wasted effort. Building attraction and intimacy slowly counteracts most hysteric bonding strategies and is not only healthy but also allows for…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/10/21 08:36 PM
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Some people enjoy solitude and take a great deal of happiness from the fact that they live life on their terms only without having to compromise with an SO. Marriage, romantic relationships, fwbs, dating, mgtow is not for all personalities. Live and let live. Also fear and anxiety are not good motivators for healthy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:46 AM
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