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When men say they want women to approach, they mean them, not the same pretty guy that every older masculine women approach and even sexually assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:24 PM

The bread is bland but it's here as a texturer. But it's true that any hamburger is still better if you replace the bread by french bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:18 PM

You're describing homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:31 PM

Someone was unhappy I ignored them on a main thread and followed me on the daily to make up shit about me. Insane people today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:25 PM

Well you better have your feelings hurt before it's too late. "I'm learning how to code and I'm making an app" is a solid way to get your ass wrecked by reality. It's not a one man job eldorado like it was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:02 PM

You're going to do 2 years. You'll have 50 college emails from business students who have "amazing app ideas" that they want you to dev for them. You'll just known enough to know that nothing is that simple, you need to be born rich to bootstrap a new social media/app whatever. You'll hate coding. You'll give it a shot for 10 years. Burn out. And convert to become a goat herder. How do I know? Have seen it happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:51 PM

With math and cs you're going to be a standard code wageslave. And tbf, if computer science didn't jump as a revelation to you, you're probably going to hate it like 99.999% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:43 PM

you're all future cheerios?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:36 PM

She's not wrong, we only need shoes, soap, and beds, because we grew accustomed to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:55 PM
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Uneducated types really need to stop trying to win arguments by just writing nonsense. Debating has rules and too many people try to disguise their shit flinging circlejerks as serious debate. Nobody's getting intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:15 PM

and hopes that some other guy might get turned on and later jerk off at home fantasizing about her yes, you're the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:02 PM
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You can't have markets stop being markets by pretending they're not markets though. There's nothing much you can do about the dating market, one way to influence it positively for men is to have a pyramid of age that actually looks like a pyramid of age.... The problem with america is that it insists on markets being free when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:44 PM
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I'm not reading you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:10 AM
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Red herring. Make a point or ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:09 AM
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We're mammals not animals, We've evolved long past that. Nonsense. We are both mammals and animals. All mammals are animals. The other categories are fungus and plant. Good luck with that. They claim their too emotional and don't use logic, Even when logic is slapping them in the face. Strawman. I didn't not call anybody emotional. I called talking points emotional. You need to be making logical reasoning for your points to have weight. Otherwise they're free to be dismissed as just shit flingin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:08 AM
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Still not showing me how any of this is about "modern men" or "personal responsibility". All you're doing is showing me how much you hate when people do it. Playing dumb and acting innocent aren’t remotely believable manipulation tactics. I'm concluding you can't explain it. I'll explain it to you. You're taking emotional talks, and want me to believe it's horrible because it's factually saying something it doesn't. It's only emotional, it's not factual. Hypergamy is only a negative thing if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:05 AM
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HE WAS THE ONE PUSHING FOR MARRIAGE. He changed his mind clearly. Religion does mess with people. That's literally what dread gaming is, triggering feelings of abandonment in the hopes of getting a response. And when women do it suddenly dread gaming is called "asserting boundaries/being respected". Reality of things is he doesn't think you're that much worth it and that you don't pull your own weight, either for good reasons or because he somehow convinced himself of it. If i've been 'rejected'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:41 AM
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Market actors are going to try to influence the market, water is wet. Please tell me how any of this is "dehumanizing" and "lacking personal responsibility" or concerns "modern men" or "men" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:32 AM
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But humans are animals. And there are male humans and female humans. The only people who think "females" is dehumanizing are people who answer with emotions and not logic. The same thing you do in your post. so you don't have to acknowledge that maybe your the real problem here. So all this post was a very clumsy way to say "incels talk shit about women to not have to admit they're the problem", except "incels" became "modern men" and "talk shit" became "behave" and somehow all that produces "de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:30 AM
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we would've been planning our wedding. Yes, and he'd be miserable. Why is that a good thing? Do you think he'd be happy in the long run? If he ruined it with stupid tactics maybe he didn't want that and he felt that you weren't pulling your own weight. Manipulating and abusing people won't make you happy in the long run. Only you think it's about manipulation and abuse. The reality is you were rejected and want to rebrand it as something else. Stop ego posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:21 AM
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The dating market is a market. People are trying to influence markets in their favor and it's nothing new nor exclusive to men. Or people can simply study the market. Besides people can simply complain about the things they dislike about markets, and the frustration they generate, and you're reading too much into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:15 AM
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This wouldn't improve the relationship in any other circumstances. Nothing would. So the best move is to quit it. but he's trying to reestablish contact? Again, I can't attest that any of this is actual "manosphere tactics". I just want to point out that break up was maybe the best strategy. He doesn't believe in sex before marriage so no. Lol. Ew. Doubt. Don't come to a debate sub to complain about your life. If at least you were open to debate your situation, but no, you're clearly ego posting…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:12 AM
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They don't want to isolate woman So not like "the nazis" according to your own logic. They want enough people to agree that woman are "lesser" What part of hypergamy and calling women "female" is effectively making people believe women are "less human"? Is "lesser" dehumanizing? Why? how? Are children not human? can't make reasonable choices so they can then argue women shouldn't have the same choices as men and men should make these choices for them. Which part of that indicates lack of persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:06 AM
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How does that make any sense? manosphere tactics is for men to have better relationships, yours was not good to him, so it destroyed it, which is a good thing for him. So unless you're having sex, a relationship can't exist? Sex defines everything? You should look for relationships that fulfill your incentives. As a young man your incentives aren't only sex, but sex is a high priority. Because some people are idiots and can't stand for themselves, idioms exist such as "ldrs and sexless relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:57 AM
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Bad faith is difficult to measure without bias. And it's our job as a debater to brush away the fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:01 AM
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This subreddit has me believe the Hanlon's razor is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:37 AM
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it’s exactly what these groups are doing I'm waiting for the reasoning to counter my reasoning. Words have definition, you need to be showing me a behavior men have that strip women of their humanity. It’s the same tactics the nazis used to try and isolate Jewish people. I'm waiting for the reasoning that explains what tactic is used by both men and nazis to isolate women. From who or what. And why would men want to "isolate" women. I suggest you look at the couples around you. I do, and I see h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:32 AM
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are deliberately dehumanizing woman. That's a misrepresentation of men's behavior. Using language like "females" when referring to women Stupid often time but not dehumanizing. And not even a common thing men do or unique to modern men. pretending hypergamy as something modern women are doing. Pretending women only go for the top 20% of men when this figure was taken from a dating app rarely used by woman over 10 years ago. I don't see the evidences of that being false. And that has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:22 AM
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I don't mean that as a personal attack, but if the "tactics didn't work and destroyed my relationship", maybe it worked because your relationship wasn't being good to him. The way you describe yourself and your relationship does sound a lot like you're a mediocre sexual partner. Edit: And from what I can read from your other comments, you guys weren't even having sex AKA this wasn't even a relationship and you were a lot of emotional effort for him. Now I've not read everything, I can't attest t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:06 AM

No she shouldn't be upset at this. Yes he's dumb for not foreseeing that saying such platitude would hurt a woman's feelings. It's part of the "things people know but don't want to hear". Yes it might be best long run that she knows there are limits to his physical attraction, which are fairly forgiving tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:28 PM
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No since women don't want to date men under 30 because men are immature and need more time. From women's and gay men's mouth. I'm not agreeing with any of this but if you're puzzled at the existence of a sexism without an equivalent maybe you've not searched the equivalent at the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:25 PM
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You're alive and not frozen to deth :3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:02 AM
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Apex fallacy and hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:01 AM
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They had to partner up out of necessity, not because they wanted to What a tragedy, being like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:00 AM
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I don't see where I am being inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:28 PM
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You already established you believe my views on relationships are an abomination. You believed that was going to discredit my points but it doesn't, these are just ad hominems. Whatever source you believe you have isn't going to change anything. You are just plainly attempting personal attacks and that is not allowed on here btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:29 PM
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Yeah that your “pledge of exclusivity” is worthless when you add in clauses randomly and secretly whenever you please. Funny how you don't like women's average behavior with their own pledges and duties. Nothing is conditional and this is exactly a post about things not being conditional and needing to be paid for one way or another. It’s also an indication you move the goal posts whenever it fits the argument you’re currently making. You are trolling. You moved it yourself, desperately trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:15 PM
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Yes I'm known for being critical of exclusivity as an irrevocable promise. Because abominations to commitment aren't a woman's exclusivity. Do you have any point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:51 PM
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Last time I checked, women with children lived for longer than women without.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:53 PM
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men who are wholly undeserving AKA men who are more attractive and higher status. AKA mean pick men too good for them and pay the price in delayed manners and are unhappy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:20 AM
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Are you really comparing broke with alcoholic???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:19 AM
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Hey, you paid for everything, but what about paying a second time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:19 AM
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Men have made all the compensations for pregnancy and childbirth and women are asking men to compensate over and over again. In a relationship women make the major sacrifice of carrying and birthing the babies. And men make the major sacrifice of doing all the leg work to bring sex and romance, to seduce, to pay for a lot of things they'd not normally pay for, to improve their lifestyle to a level women prefer. Men pledge their exclusivity for women as well in the process. All the while knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:16 AM

I'm 36 year old and I can recall hearing those talking points ever since I was 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:09 AM

Men do not grow infertile in their 40s. Redpill talks of women's biological clock because of women's inflated sense of own value and delusional idea that they can play the field for eternity and then settle with most of their value intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:07 AM

Yes. But I could do with a little self esteem boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:40 AM

Time to hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:32 AM

Okay rosaybutterflies so when you got a bf and you hit on other men, people will either assume you're poly or cheating. So you got to be a little bit more wordy for us to understand wtf is even going on with your lore xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:26 AM

Cheating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:17 AM

Well you know what they say about poly people...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:14 AM

Could be professional rejection, job interview rejections hurt like a bitch too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:02 AM

why do you have non bf rejecting you and from what, give me roseybutterflies lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:01 AM

AWALT why is your bf rejecting you, and from what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:55 AM

incel speech tbh :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:55 AM

Man here, doctors don't take mild afflictions seriously, which is 90% of the reasons why women go to the doctors, while men tend to go to the doctor as last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:54 AM

I have haters it seems, proof of celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:52 AM

shoulda voted for the one that wasn't saying he's going to wreck the market in the name of liberalism. So now you have to wait that the new market actors for pastila, sulfur, granola, cherry and wine produce sufficiently that the prices stabilize back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:50 AM

you really reported me for this u_u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:49 AM

who did you vote for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:16 AM

Nice when the redflags sort themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:16 AM

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:14 AM

I'm trying but healthy (19-21 BMI) naked women tend to not want to surround me, they want "exclusivity" :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:13 AM

my height is 5'5 and it said a similar "potential" as you and anyone else regardless of height :') this website is prob trying to sell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:12 AM

throws shit on discord, gets shit thrown back at her makes broad statements about men as a result ???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:10 AM
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And don't attempt to strawman this is a threat coming from me. Like clockwork. It's amazing how fast women get to shaming men instead of recognizing being a bad deal to men isn't going to yield money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:06 AM
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How much do you want to bet what you think is "feminine" isn't. And that is only after we all know that one exception doesn't make a rule. Most people can be influenced doesn't mean all have to be. Some people can be so much influenced that being around gay people for long enough will turn them gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:57 PM
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Politician talk, you didn't answer anything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:51 PM
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What you call "low standards out of desperation" is simply men being willing to pair with average women. It's eventually going to become everyone's problem that women do not want to pair with average men and have children. Society will balance around that one way or another, and gynocentric and gynophille values of western societies will be likely lost in the process. And don't attempt to strawman this is a threat coming from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:49 PM
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top comment dismissal of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:30 AM

they'd stare at you if you were naked too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:55 AM

I don't even see internet men routinely pretending that men are not shallow first of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:35 AM

Go tell that to someone who believes in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:27 AM

Non yellow skinned emoji = opinion discarded :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:11 AM

It exists in both. It hasn't the same shape. It's not on the same topics. The prevalence will depend of the socioeconomic place. But most importantly, there's a huge backslash against unvaluable posers around men, while unvaluable female posers is the default female behavior. So while men are going to virtue signal less than women, they're not even going to virtue signal on being unshallow. Except maybe when they're lying to the woman they flirt towards but generally men will still choose to pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:11 AM

No I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:35 AM

Men don't virtue signal as much as women. Go back to biology you're gonna need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:34 AM

both genders love to claim to be not shallow 2025 years of biology Did you make stuff up to be angry about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:32 AM

sure bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:00 AM

My wife thought too that walking a lot would start labor. She walked a fuckton lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:58 AM

Oh. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:09 AM

My wife believes that "pretending to be nice and polite" to her coworkers so they don't fire her is machiavellian. No, that's called being nice and polite.... You can tell how authenticity is important to them because of these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:07 AM

Men can benefit from having female friends it's just that there are more lower effort higher reward things to do. I used to have a lesbian girl friend and it was fun for a time, she even became my first kiss/light foreplays which sealed me into redpill beliefs. Met plenty of girls with her, was fun times. But still too much effort and too little rewards compared to just approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:06 AM

How are they going to misrepresent you as an evil person otherwise? This says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:04 AM

If you want to be controversial try instead to say he's got a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:03 AM

I'm 36
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:44 PM

How old do you think I am? I give you homeworks now. You have to reach gold on starcraft 2 ladder. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:13 PM

It's a pvp base builder and pve game. You're kind of thick for a supposedly "gamur garl". You need to play RTSs to grow smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:20 PM

V-rising is pvp and base building, also has very good pve. So yes, 2 weeks and I got bored. Can't imagine 10 years on a weirder game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:03 PM

how do you get stuck on such a game? I played V-rising and after 2 weeks I was bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:17 PM

that's not very game gorl of you to hide those nudes away from us. We know you only play candy crush and animal crossing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 PM

where are the nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:27 PM

that's not the giga jaw you promised still. you got a slight underbite though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:55 AM

where are the giga jaw and nose you promised?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:22 AM

I find it tastes better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:26 AM

If you talk to me of virgins you are thinking of a very young demographic, in which virgin is the average. Other than that, women think 80% of men are ugly, the average is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:35 AM

Virgins and ugly men are the average, so they should want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:30 AM

If you were smarter with your food you'd not be hungover. I'm offering tricks to make pizza taste fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM

???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM

Undercooked pizzas are an abjection and it shows you don't come from a country with advanced bread culture :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:15 AM

Can't tell if you're just being american or if you're being high maintenance and having an hidden rant about fast food dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:15 AM

May I ask what motivates you to say this before I bless you of my "don't tell me what to do" prayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:09 AM

Maybe don't give advice if you got a doberman's palate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:05 AM

People are perfectly capable to feel like they settle for you while being beneath you. Uglier people also may be insecure and harder to deal with. Average is best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:04 AM

Daily reminder that an excellent way to reheat a pizza is to put it on a hot pan until the toping is hot. Especially good if you enjoy crusty and drier pizzas. There are other ways involving covering it and adding water to ensure the pizza stays wetter but I've not experimented with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:56 AM

"women" big doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 AM

That's not a classic boxer look. Boxers are slim and wiry. Some black boxers historically been known for being super beefy but that's very far from non black women's first choice. Also doesn't have the head of a boxer, he has the head of a gay porn actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:56 PM

That's for gay men. If you don't see it then be worried. Are you really red pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:26 PM

isn't that induced by just fasting but still drinking water?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:01 AM
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obsessed with women, yes, violent, I doubt it. If they had any incentive to actually interact with women they'd not be incels to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:09 AM

Oh i had those! they were crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:00 AM

what's the point of water fast? For women who do lots of water retention I presume?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:59 AM

It is possible to view attraction to the opposite sex better than the opposite sex. It's not even rare. Why? A lot of men can which man fucks and which one doesn't, and women will all crush towards the same few who fuck, all convinced he's just "average". Some form of it exists in the reverse but it's more in the form of women hating and bullying the women that all men want, while men can't really tell the girl they're after is that popular. If you can't know in a split second if a man is someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:58 AM
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Humans are "hypergamous" in that they'll aim for the opposite gender that has opposite gender's attributes better than theirs. Masculinity's attributes are status, money, power, and age. Women's hypergamy is to aim for men who have better status, money, power and age. Femininity's attributes are being a woman, having a womb, being feminine, being young. Men want a woman who is more womanly than them, which is easy to satisfy. Wanting a woman who is both more womanly and more manly than you is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:13 PM
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intimidated Ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:09 PM
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Why do you talk like men don't have a goal in life besides sex? Just because sexual needs become a priority early on doesn't mean other priorities stop existing and do not get back to the front when sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:22 AM
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What about "I want a woman who can rely on me and who I can rely on"? Working full time job and then coming home to do 50% of the chore and childcare is absolute ASS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:42 PM
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People who say "choose better" are indeed generally dismissive of all the self improvement, compromise, and enforcing of power balance required to maintain a relationship for long terms, because they deem it abusive to ever consider you have to train your partner and assert your boundaries with a matcher power scale. However being a good profiler and chooser is also part of that skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:24 PM
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This would absolutely repel natural providers. I expected an actual tip on how to ask without making men be disgusted but it's not it. No this is just a way to filter filthy rich men without standards. I only feel compelled to provide when the woman doesn't expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:24 PM

You dropped the us vs them mentality and because “normal” or the “default” and I got you laid, and now you’re no longer a virgin. You mean I tricked them to believe I was like them maybe the women that Rejected you didn’t want to carry the burden of taking your virginity or thought it was a big deal even tho for you it’s not. Exactly Now there is no us vs them because it was not real, you created it when you told them. It wasn't real, but it was real to them, therefore it exists and you're discr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:11 PM

Americans generally believe I am normal and healthy despite I'm BMI 30. So they definitively adjust to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:28 PM

Men seem fairly capable to point out average women. Women are closer to what you suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:20 PM

After being rejected twice for being a virgin I lied about it and it worked. There's definitively an "us vs them".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:43 PM
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I mean there's the philosophical work and then there's the social media brainrot, can we really evaluate one by the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:52 AM
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Stoicism is kind of a trap internet brain rot for edgy men who want to double down on their already insensitive persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:46 AM

I'm sorry what age are they again? Why do you need anyone's approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:43 AM

to have a one night stand with a really hot 18 year old woman It's only immoral if she's only mildly hot. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:42 AM

life is about Reproducing as much as possible with as many partners as possible, and surviving obviously. Sad reality for you evolutioncel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:06 AM
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TIL I can fuck your bf if I'm discrete enough. That'll be my chance to outgay the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:36 PM

talking about it opens the door to you leaving. The door to me leaving is always open. Talking ensures that they know that door is open and that you're not here unconditionally. And same for them. If she doesn’t want to fix it, you’re in your rights to leave. You're always in your right to leave. But when rules are broken you're also in your right to not consider that rule for yourself anymore. Hell, even if it’s something she CANT fix: if she’s not open to letting you get your needs addressed e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:36 PM

I guess I just don't see the point in being in a monogamous relationship with this attitude. What it does to me is be careful to screen for women whose views on sex are never going to make me "need" to cheat. And to be just more flexible all in all, both with myself and with them. I don't relate to people who have extremely firm boundaries. It's awful, I guess I was just imagining the worst case scenario. I'd not consider these scenarios to be tit for tat, but simply a greedy man breaking the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:31 PM

As shown in the game, it causes an endless cycle of 'cheating' others. it's fixed by prolonging communication and being open minded about mistakes happening, as shown by the copykitten archetype. The difference being that, in the case of finding sexual outlets, there's no value loss for anybody. you either accept someone is taking away sex from you or you have both of you have the amount of sex you want. And when things get better you go back to cooperating with more motivation. cruel, divided w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:51 PM

There are ups and down you don't always need to address it to them sometimes you just have to wait. Sometimes you wait because you genuinely believe it's no big deal and it's not their fault. Sometimes you adjust and you don't grow resentment until things get better. Maybe she genuinely doesn’t want to have sex with you ever again…a conversation could at least open the door to you being able to get your needs met elsewhere. I don't trust women (or men too ofc) to be reasonable like this and woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:42 PM
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What if you just never see him do it? free-use Hawt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:35 PM
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It's like cheaters and harassers, the least inhibited people are not those who get the least sex and success. Incels might have depraved porn usage but sextoys are too... Official? Physical? Real? for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:08 PM

This is one cue that you're not a long lasting sexual partner IMO. I was lucky with my wife because she doesn't have most of the "low libido cues", but if I was alone I'd vet specifically for women without these cues. AKA not low disgust, can become horny if seduced into it, finds sex fun, has no hangup about sex and nudity, believes sex is an enabler for a good relaitonship, ect... People with all the cues should pair with the men with madona/whore complexes, they're the same types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:03 PM

I'd not cheat for a mildly broken sexual life within a functional relationship. I don't believe I'd stomach full blown cheating tbf. But during a very rough patch with no sex and generally dissatisfying sexual life, I'd emotionally cheat. I'll adapt on the things that don't work specifically, if I wanna stay with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:59 PM

https://ncase.me/trust/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:56 PM

I'm very satisfied. I don't think you quite understand it. It's not recognizing moral duty or not. It's copycat. You only cooperate with people willing to cooperate and quickly stop cooperating with people who don't, either partly or entirely. I know it doesn't have much seriousness to it, but in any model you can run where you put individuals who are benevolent, individuals who are selfish, and copycats, the copycats always end up striving and proliferating, while the benevolents and the selfis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:07 PM

I mean that's nice, I wish me and my wife would be able to get quickies x') we'd have sex more. But alas we're slower and the act is eventually more athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:14 PM

3 x 45 minutes a day is impossible for soreness reasons first, and for we don't have that much time and physical energy. We're not teens with nothing to do all day anymore. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:02 PM

But maybe some people just have low libido no matter what and how much they love you. I can't imagine it but there are probably simply low libido people. You can't imagine it...? Haven't you talked to people about these things? I know plenty of low libido women and nothing is going to change that in them. No brainwash, just the way my feelings work. That's not how everyone's feelings work. So if he had low libido I can't cheat because I love him and that takes all my heart and there is no space …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:26 PM

If you loved them you wouldn't desire to fuck other people. Gynomorphism. Men don't work like that. You're no authority to dictate what love is either. If you love someone you rather stay sexless with them because you simply don't desire other people. Blue pill/female brainwash. That's exactly what my post aims to go against. Well maybe you should first communicate about it and consider you are doing something that is turning them off. Why do you assume people don't communicate and don't know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:57 PM

But why keep the relationship in such case. Just break up. That's a good question to ask to the person who don't see an issue in their low libido and lack of will to sexually satisfy their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:13 PM

I'm well known for being among the stabler people here. I've been with the same person for 16 years. Luck isn't needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:09 PM

oof that's me in 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:21 PM

Well, good luck with all that x) isn't he having his midlife crisis or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:56 AM

all for him to havee home taking care of everything!! I mean it's nice to not have more work to do for both of you if you can live on his salary. Except his sexual needs another thing he likes to do is tell me he wants to see another man penetrate me Lmao You sound like you have a solid case for "he should be getting his sex elsewhere I don't wanna hear about it , he just should pay the bills and bring me on dates sometimes". Like I'm not going to judge you for not wanting to throw your marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:37 AM

Your personal experience reinforces what I believe. I don't wanna have sex with someone who hasn't stopped watching corn You're telling me you don't care about his sexual satisfaction and you also don't want him to have outlets. Why shouldn't he seek outlets for his sexual satisfaction? Does he have to stay miserable for ever because you want it? Aren't you the spoiled one with no morals? I am on my last whim with him !! Should have left long before, why didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:19 AM

I seem like dancing around the answer because you are asking loaded questions and you don't seem to understand the meaning of words. Quote me being an hypocrite I dare you, you can't. then be warned that it's a two way street and women should and are entitled to cheat on their men as well, according to your own logic. "be warned that stealers might steal on you" NO SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:15 AM

For instance, a wife lying to her husband that she has intense pain with penetration (when she doesn't) so he stops trying to have sex would fit all your criteria for an acceptable lie, but almost nobody thinks that's ok. That's exactly why people tend to advocate taking decisions based on what they want and not what morals tells them. x) Because outside of women who lie like this, plenty are saying bullshit while being convinced they tell the truth. 1) Do you accept that control of information …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:12 AM

I mean it’s pretty obvious once you see it I knew all of this when I was a virgin. And I was raised in an extremely blue pilled home. is that she often tries to talk the wife into letting him go elsewhere. Because the wife is comfortable and the kids need a two parent house and they need dad to provide an income so this whole “throw the whole relationship away” that all these virgin Redditors keep saying is often just flat out stupid in a lot of cases. That's based. It's nice a third party would…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:00 AM

What's cowardly is to impose yourself morals and ethics others taught you all the while they don't have morals and ethics themselves. I know it's scary to not be "ethical", but you ought to be more critical of what you're taught to do. People do what they want all the while telling you to not do what you want, insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:54 AM

Marriage also means sexual satisfaction. If you don't bring that paired with fidelity then your opinion is just biased and sexist, and that's ground to being an awful spouse. Vows never include a level of sex, so your argument falls short there. It has historically involved sexual satisfaction more than not. And historically again cheating on your spouse has always been a normal part of marriage of lire. So your argument falls short there. You can always have your own opinions but you can't just…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:50 AM

First of all, cheating is often about novelty-seeking, ego boosting, and the thrill of doing something “bad,” more so than not getting enough sex at home. That's on why most cheaters cheat, that's not an argument for the point you disagree with. Might as well just masturbate. Might be time to learn that there are a minority of women who consider masturbation or porn to be cheating. Any outlet to sexual satisfaction you can think off is going to be considered cheating by some people. I’d argue th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:46 AM
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So How to spot it: libido decreases few months in They find things disgusting easily inability to discuss sex no preferences or fantasies no masturbation/didn't masturbate before Lowballing the importance of sex Yeah IDK I'm not learning new shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 AM
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Yup... people come from country that didn't have philosophy/debate courses in highschool and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:13 AM
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Ok, so you just have no morals then? You think it's fine to lie. You think it's fine to break commitments. It's fine to lie. It's fine to break commitments tied to commitments others broke. It's fine to not be too angry at others breaking commitments. The thing about both of those are that they infringe on someone else's free choice because choices are based on information and promises. Nothing of what I do with other consenting adults or with my free time is any infringement of anybody's freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:10 PM
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An interesting take. And I can relate to having experienced some of it. However I don't believe this is the only existing setup nor that roles don't change between realms. The "complains about something but doesn't like how you solve it" is definitively a recurrent female issue IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:48 PM
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Tbf, you've all achieved to make me lose track of my own post. The title is literally "Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system." and only a couple people have actually tried to debate the main point. Everyone is dealing with the "cheating" part but nobody's actually trying to counter argue that sexual fidelity is the other side of sexual satisfaction, both usually come or go together. And I do know it's an unpopular opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:35 PM
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Part of debate is pointing out inconsistencies in someone’s position, and that’s what I’m doing. I see you using the word "justify" in a motte and bailey fallacy, which isn't even going to counter any of the main point. Dissatisfaction with one’s sex life doesn’t justify cheating in a society where people can leave relationships and marriages, regardless of gender. Why does it need to be justified TO SOCIETY or TO OTHERS? It has to be justified TO YOU and your wants. You're free to do that. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:15 PM
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Sex waxes and wanes in most marriages, and sometimes stops altogether. So does faithfullness. It's all normal part of life. If that’s enough to make you cheat and/or leave, don’t get married. People will do hopefully what they want and what's beneficial for them, and not what you think is right for them to do. but the vows are “for better or worse,” not “until I’m no longer sexually satisfied.” If the worse can be breaking vows of helping your spouse economically, or making them be sexually sati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:54 PM
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I think you conflate a lot of things. Posting on this sub isn't to justify yourself doing anything, I'm discussing and debating a way of thinking. Being judged over having this opinion, or over my actions that might be immoral to others, goes over my head. They shouldn’t have to convince themselves. Would you agree? Well I make this post partly for men to try and convince themselves that it is conditional. Ideally, you should never consider things to be unconditional in your partnerships and rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:49 PM
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There is simply no excuse No excuse needed, people have the right to not want to leave or divorce their partner. Divorcing is also not exactly inconsequential. If you’re not satisfied with your sex life, you communicate No, people don't ever talk, don't know words /s Also don’t forget that men can be the low-libido partner, and women can cheat too. Women seem already fine with convincing themselves their faithfullness is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:01 PM
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Over a decade of being married? Over a decade of being married as a man would be better. I don't mean that experimented people don't say that often enough, but more often that's the advice 13 years old know-it-all give, while people with 40 year of marriage say something different. from one subject we kept arguing over with out ever being able to resolve it, so instead of cheating or being ducks we had relationship counciling as we are both very committed to making our marriage work You can't yi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:20 PM
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I don't see why you insist on revenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:05 PM
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You should do things you want and only things you want. If they're not giving you what you want you need to take it somewhere else and that's going to punish them. I'm not ok or not ok witrh her approach, I'd just not advice her to do something she doesn't want in order to get what she wants, it's immediately contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:21 PM
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that's what people without experience keep parroting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:19 PM
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now you're adding caveats not present in your post. My post is really about what you want, but enough people have made a comment about petty revenges that I need to be clearer about it. I'm an adult who doesn't get off on hurting others lol I'm not either. I wouldn't stomach full blown cheating. However I don't believe setting rules for yourself against rogue people is being mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:19 PM
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If you can dissociate sex and relationship and be happy like that, and stomach that, sure. If you are doing that out of pettiness and revenge, that'll only make you feel miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:15 PM
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You shouldn't consider your faithfullness unconditional if you have incentives for sex and sexual diversity. There's no such thing as "allowed".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:10 PM
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will always make you cowardly Make whatever excuse you like You're justifying staying because you're too terrified to be single. Ad hominem. Preferring being single is my most powerful dreading tool. Average attendquoi comment/10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:07 PM
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I sure as hell never told you to be this unreasonable. Stop strawmaning. If you foresee that you're simply not wanting to be sexual with that man, by your own logic, you should break up before he's at the point where he needs to decide if he wants to breakup or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:54 PM
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You chose to accept that this is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:49 PM
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IDK what's the problem with that. Go on and judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:37 PM
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doesn't take a lot of brain power, when they approach you and you reject them and they look disappointed and sad, that's not because of the price of eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:37 PM
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Quote me literally saying it, otherwise it's a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:34 PM
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you also have the option not to. she also has the option to leave before she breaks something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:34 PM
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Morality is not relevant when it goes against personal freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:27 PM
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That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:26 PM
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If that makes you feel better about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:26 PM
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You should have more acuity for your partner's state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:20 PM
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sex isn’t the most important thing in the relationship You see me advocate for finding more fruitful balances, if sex was the most important thing I'd advocate for breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:19 PM
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everyone has to compromise. Internet tends to believe it's only the higher libido one who should compromise, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:19 PM
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Still not reading you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 PM
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Exactly. Yet you've repeatedly stated women should be punished by cheating for not having sex. With what you want and only what you want. The main spirit of my post is that yo ushould not be in a state of forcing yourself to do something you don't want. The power balance should be equal. Yes. I'm advocating for power balance. Letting morals and ethics screw you isn't power balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:16 PM
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You should tell when your partner is sexually frustrated, either because they tell you or because they look like it. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 PM
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By downgrade I mean downgrade your investment in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:54 PM
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So here's my take then: Fight happens. When people don't they build resentment, unless they adjust and find outlets, then no resentment is built and more dread is produced, resulting in either beneficial breakup or beneficial balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:53 PM
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They in fact don't. And you're no better. You're not forced to put on a fight to get what you want, you're also not forced to believe you deserve what you want everytime, because sometimes their issues might be legitimate and you have compassion and you're open minded. But you can still find outlets, and your faithfullness isn't unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:48 PM
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In dread game and relationship, "should" does more. My post is primarily about a way of seeing things I believe is healthier for men. I'm not prescribing a way to act. I still have personal freedom as utmost priority in my discourse, so rape cannot be a should. But when women discuss dating strategies, they discuss it according to what men do, not what men should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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Like what are people afraid of? A fight? Many people displeased with my post here would argue that's sex extortion funnily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 PM
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Nobody but you is capable to communicate, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:29 PM
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Therefore, women would be the ones cheating more in relationships since we're less likely to orgasm from sex with men. That's assuming women orgasm more easily from ONS/affairs. Which most don't. I'd not consider myself necessarily unsatisfied if I don't reach orgasm often though. If my husband doesn't make enough money for me to buy things that I like, I should be able to have a sugar daddy. If my husband gains weight and his hair line starts to recede I should be able to fuck my personal train…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:28 PM
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should women do the same Are you under the impression they don't? This is their default. that you like it or not. If a woman asked advices to me, I'd likely serve her a female version of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:22 PM
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No, the prime motivation is what you want, if you punish for the sake of punish, you're punishing yourself more. If you see your partner as the enemy, or as someone you feel you need to have power over, then the relationship is definitely over. You need to have a power balance with everyone you have a relationship with. That you acknowledge it or not. The comments about punishment and lack of a power dynamic scream insecurities. No wonder there's no sex. Ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:18 PM
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If she doesn't want sex with me because of X, Y, Z, yes, it's only natural. If it's just petty sex withholding it's just going to hurt her more than me. I'm not "onboard", it's the current reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:17 PM
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Should leave him before you deadbedroom him then, why wasn't that an option in your scenario? Why is everyone up in arms about leaving and not cheating, but nobody's considering that she should have left as well before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:14 PM
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I wonder why nobody ever talks! Nobody talks besides you it seems. :( Talking without adjusting is just yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 PM
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they're going to disrupt your life a fuckton yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 PM
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Porn is an outlet to manage your sexual appetite. And some women do consider porn consumption to be cheating. Funny how that works. Any outlet is going to be considered wrong by someone. getting sugar daddies and OF patrons and maximal alimony and child support is ok for financially unfulfilled women. As is paternity fraud for genetically unsatisfied women Hahaha. I wonder why all these things are part of marital duties!!! It's as if people from before were less blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:11 PM
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If she is then she's a master of disguise and maskerade fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 PM
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Plenty of reasons to have a decreasing libido as time goes. If you picked the right person, they'll still want to satisfy you when their libido is weak though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 PM
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that that isn't punishment at all. Word it how you want. An adjustment must be made is the important part. That is, if you've talked to them about it which any grown up in a relationship should be able to do. Yall talk of grownup, maturity and communication, but most women couldn't emotionally accept that. So most women aren't grownups is what yall suggesting. You know a lot of women's issues with casual cheating was that he told her, ask older people about it, they'd rather their partner took t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 PM
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You say that like that's not women's default behavior, you're supposed to seduce your wife everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:01 PM
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I'd not agree that emotional needs are paired with faithfullness. But I'd expect that if I'm not doing something right then she gets an outlet somewhere else or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah, no. How dismal, unsatisfying and bound to stir up resentment and kill libidos. We have a saying in my country, appetite comes with eating. Sex isn't a duty. Basic human decency is to try to satisfy me sexually in a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. So word it however you want, but if faithfullness is in the equation then sexual satisfaction is as well. Duty is how it'll be worded in a marriage contract. But we have to want to pleasure and satisfy each other. I would never stqy with someone who felt tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 PM
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I've not been dead bedroomed. Again my post clearly says that I'm not saying you should necessarily cheat. But your faithfullness should not be taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 PM
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Withdrawing and getting outlets elsewhere is personal freedom, beating isn't personal freedom. I'll be critical of "maturity/ethics/morality" when it is hypocritical, against personal freedoms, and obviously beneficial for one side but not the other. Might sound weird to most people but what you do with other consenting adults is not the business of someone else. This is also why I'd advocate everyone to lie about their N count and their sexual past, it's none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:47 PM
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(can't possibly have anything to do with you, of course) It can, but it may not be something I'm open to change, or even capable to change. But sometimes it's also their own problems that they bring in. betraying their trust Again read the post, it doesn't have to be absolute cheating, you just need to value your faithfullness as something not granted unconditionally. They betray you first, don't forget that. You can try and shame the concept as much as yo uwant, you're still here trying to argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:42 PM
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(not forcible, but grounds for divorce with fault). Yes, marital rape is illiegal in parallel of sex being a marital duty. I got married for legal reasons, namely I'd wish my wife wasn't homeless if I die, by being married she inherits my money, by not being married my kids inherit my money and it's frozen until they're 18. There are other reasons I forgot about. But I still believe if I get divorced I get scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:39 PM
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I don't understand everyone's obsession with the idea nobody's communicating. People are communicating. Communicating simply is yapping if it's not accompanied with your ajustements. Either she breaks up and you win or she adjusts and you win. As a man you're not necessarily caring to end things officially when things don't become the way you want. As you said yourself, women initiate divorces more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:37 PM
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You're aware you can be divorced at fault for infidelity, right? It IS a marital duty in most countries. Seeing it as a duty would really be a turnoff, tbh. You have to make a difference between what marriage legally bounds you to and how you see things. My partner not wanting to sexually satisfy me is a turnoff. We both agree we want to satisfy each others. Outside of marriage verbiage it is how it's supposed to sound like. we don’t want to be that intimate with anyone else. Good for you. My fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:35 PM
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I'll use that everytime it is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:29 PM
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Sexual satisfaction is only one part of a LTR Why do you think I don't advocate for people to break up at the slightest disatisfaction? I assume you mean cheating gives you worth. No. Sex doesn't give you worth, it gives you what you want, and getting what you want is what you're worth. If what you want is different then go get that something different. At this point I'm a bit annoyed because that's not even the point of my post. Reread it, it's not written that you should necessarily cheat, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:24 PM
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I haven't said men should literally cheat if their needs aren't being met. Please read the post. I’m asking you if you also believe women should cheat if their needs aren’t being met. And I've answered that right before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:10 PM
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Not reading, don't commit ad hominems on a debate sub, shouldn't be a difficult task.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:09 PM
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Strawman and adhominems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:07 PM
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I think the same of you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:07 PM
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People aren't reasonable and won't open a relationship while acknowledging they're not enough for you right now. They're going to decide for you what you need and want, they're going to be upset, they're going to ruin it all just at the thought that your faithfullness was not a given but something that has to be paid for one way or another. If you are more subtle you're not going to make big waves, and they're not going to have contradictory emotional swings or take stupid decisions. When you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:06 PM
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You don't think they do? Why do you think cheating is considered worse than not fucking in the first place? They're defending their interest better than men ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:59 PM
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Talk to me when you're able to be nice. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:58 PM
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the shit hit the fan usually after kids, your 5 years are cute. And the shit might be just temporary. It usually is if you vetted right. The key part is staying happy with your outlets in the mean time and getting eventually your worth. In a power or value disbalance, giving away more power and value isn't the right fix. Either things break or rebalance it's a winwin. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:23 AM
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Oh no! :( not the ad hominems in a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:21 AM
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Do you choose to be horny? You can choose to be horny, you can choose to engage without being horny, you can choose to let yourself be seduced into being horny. Very telling that you view other people as beneath you Why do people not view me as beneath me when they disrespect me, break a boundary or ignore my needs, in a partnership that expressively suggests to do the opposite? Aren't you being hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:20 AM
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communication takes a lot of shapes my dude. Funny you talk of respect when all you have to say is "you need to respect those who disrespected you first", crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 AM
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You’re in a relationship that is expected not to have other individuals involved unless otherwise discussed. if the relationship doesn't involve sexual satisfaction, then not anymore. Lying and cheating is more complicated than asking why your wife won’t have sex with you. You know why she won't have sex with you. What's more complicated is yapping about it everyday and keeping investing yourself in her. She should fix her behavior or break the relationship. If you don't do it yourself that is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:17 AM
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You're both adults, so they should know your time, investment and happiness isn't to be messed up with and you'll fix it yourself. Doormatry is unadultlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 AM
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I very likely have been in a relationship for longer than you. Nice ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:10 AM
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Loaded questions. My wife enjoys sex with me, I enjoy her company, and it's not extortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:09 AM
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If one doesn't believe your sexual satisfaction is their duty (in reasonable measures) then your faithfullness can't be on the menu. And inversely. If all she can pull is a bad starfish sex then all you can do is bad apparent faithfullness. Though it'd be reasonable that you accept bad starfish sex sometimes and do what you can to put her in the mood... “I’m a manipulative controlling menace to society and my ego distorts my reality. My selfishness works for me maybe you should try it.” Tone dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 AM
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I'd be interested to know what she says, maybe she has better wording than me and have interesting powerful concepts I could use to better communicate my opinion. Do you have a link of somewhere she specifically talks of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:02 AM
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Oh no! :( not the shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:01 AM
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This isn't about me. But based on that attitude, I think we all understand you want to go full ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:00 AM
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Because it is mostly not an ACTIVE CHOICE made by the partner who isn't in the mood. It's an active choice. No you're not and that attitude is very telling. Very telling that I'm more mindful of relational dynamics while you autopilote and think your success is not due to mutual balancing and training.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:59 AM
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Talk without change is just yapping. If you think talking is spine you're wrong. Acting is spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:58 AM
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I can't relate to madonna-whore dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:57 AM
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Which is why conversations in relationships are important instead of immediately jumping to break loyalty ask why they don’t want to have sex or ask for an open relationship. Things are a lot slower than you make it sound like, and spectrums are wider than what you talk like as well. If people don't owe you sexual satisfaction then you don't owe them to know where your romantic and sexual interests go toward, why making things more complicated? Why brushing people the wrong way in the name of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:57 AM
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People are perfectly capable to expect contradictory things, they're not owed the entire truth on everything. Things are also spectrums, not just binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:48 AM
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Assertive people take what they want. If I feel like I'm not getting my worth I'll take it back one way or another. Words don't mean much when you talk of assertiveness, and therefore lying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:47 AM
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No, the idea of duty sex is absolutely disgusting. Then your opinion is hypocritical (I assume here that you were meant to answer another comment from me) she’s your wife not a child. Call it however you want, you don't fix power and value disbalances by giving away more of these, withdrawing will preserve yourself, it'll fix things either by breaking or by rebalancing. Win win. we should care about each other too much to create a toxic dynamic.. My boss wasn't very careful of my property when h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 AM
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Not everyone cheats because they're unsatisfied with their sex life and their partner isn't getting them off That's their right. Doesn't mean everyone should be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:42 AM
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I'm happy and sexually satisfied with my LTR don't worry. :) I'm also happy at my job right now but I had to tame it a lot through similar behaviors I exposed in the post. Playing by the rules made by people without your best interest in mind is just self sabotaging. Most people actually want to be healthy individuals That is the important part. Why would one be unhealthy because they're getting their worth somewhere else meanwhile the situation on the other side fixes itself? not stuck in an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 AM
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I've been open minded about boundary transgressions like she has been about mines, and we enforced the things we cared about with withdrawal or with confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:37 AM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 AM
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communication without action is just yapping. you don't fix power or value disbalance by giving away more of it, but by withdrawing some of it. Proportionally. You get to preserve yourself, things break or fix themselves, win win situations, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 AM
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"changing their minds" it's rarely ever the case. Changing their minds or their body changing. Doesn't have to be intentional. Bro that's what a commitment is. Then commitment also necessarily includes sexual satisfaction. If this is the case, men should cheat to fulfill their sexual needs after their partner gives birth and can't move or have sex for weeks afterward. I'm not advocating to be this unreasonable. I've had longer dry spells for biological reasons. can't move for weeks Women can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 AM
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Cheating is wrong. Period. Nothing justifies it ever. Do you believe deadbedrooming also is wrong and nothing justifies it ever? :( I think you don't. the person should communicate this to their partner. Without countermeasures or punishment, then that's just yapping. you don't fix power or value disbalance by throwing more value or yielding more power at it, you fix it by withdrawing it. It either break things or they fix their attitude. Win win. It’s really not a complex highly controversial t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:27 AM
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Be civil and I might engage with you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:24 AM
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Relationships are usually founded on loyalty to one another unless otherwise discussed. Loyalty and sexual satisfaction. Both together or none. Unless otherwise discussed indeed. But nobody starts a relationship of loyalty with the implicit idea that sex can be withholded for a prolonged amount of time without consequences. You’d just rather cheat and lie because it’s the easy way to get what you want. If one prefers that while their partner is fixing themselves, why not? The point is you do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 AM
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for the dissolving of the relationship with the extra step of being an asshole Why do you not think of it that way when sex is dissolving in the first place? tit for tat revenge It's tit for tat if you don't fulfill an actual need. You shouldn't be punishing your partner. You should be trying to solve problems. Then call it skillfully motivating your partner in a way that doesn't trigger more investment from you. Which solves problems either by fixing things or by breaking things. Eitherway you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:17 AM
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As long as you provide him with daily recordings of yourself moaning his name <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:13 AM
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That's fine? We can be different. I'm open minded, if my partner has self induced rough patches I can accept it. And I'll maintain my mental health and happiness however I can in the mean time. It benefits them that I remain a sturdy and available partner after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 AM
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It's what I suggest. If your partner doesn't believe they're ethically and morally supposed to satisfy you sexually, then you're not supposed to believe cheating is immoral or unethical. Otherwise it's a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:10 AM
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I see it as withdrawing your investment in the relationship because they have done so first. Might be a better wording indeed My country has sex as a marital duty, funnily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 AM
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Why is it not manly to cheat? Who decided that? People who want to manipulate men into doing what they want. If you don’t want to leave her you obviously have a reason for staying? Why can't people have reasons to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 AM
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The distance hurt her and made her realize she was taking you for granted. In the mean time you had your fun on whatever outlet you can imagine, it can be just flirting around if that's making you feel good about yourself and feel like she's not the only fish in the sea. So either the distance breaks things out and it's good for both of you, or she starts pulling in efforts and it's good for both of you, and you regain willingness to invest yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 AM
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Ask yourself that question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:02 AM
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Imagine thinking asymmetrical and hypocritical ethics and morals are good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:02 AM
-1

You do negotiate, just in more subtle ways. Lying is part of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:01 AM
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you've almost certainly lost a ton of money compared to your worth Probably if I was a grinder, I'm not a grinder, I value my free time above excess money. I'm getting what I want. Not sure how long it will last though, but I've gained more by downgrading my services than by going to job interviews to try and hope to find better. You also didn't mention marriage, did you marry this partner at any point? Yes, we have kids as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:00 AM
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I'll give you an example: Talk nice to me and I'll read you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:56 AM
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Ignored and reported. Be nice to me and I'll read you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:53 AM
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bedrooms never die because someone just changed their mind. They do, maybe you shall debate this topic once you know these things It's no one's "duty" to sexually satisfy their partner especially they're going through shit in their lives. It's no one's duty to remain faithful as well then. If you can't handle lacking sexual intimacy because your partner is struggling with life somehow, you really shouldn't be dating anyone tbh. Nobody said you had to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:53 AM
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Are you in favor of duty sex? that warrants a conversation Conversation without punishment is just yapping, grown ass adults don't let their boundaries be trespassed for free. This is called integrity It's propaganda This is called basic human decency. Why do you not feel that way for people breaking their duties first? We don't go around stabbing each other in the heart because we're unhappy in a relationship. False equivalency I swear, some of ya'll have the emotional maturity of a toddler. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:50 AM
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That's gynomorphism, enough men can dissociate sex being unsatisfactory from the entirety of the relationship being or not being satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 AM
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Why would you want to throw away something mildly broken that you like when you can fix it? Don't have the skill to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:44 AM
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Been 16 years with my partner. Been 12 years at my job. Have always had what I wanted because I punish every boundary transgressed either actively or passively, or by downgrading my contribution. I'm never in a deal I don't like for long. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:42 AM
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If you aren't sexually satisfied you should leave. And why is that? What if you can get sexually satisfied without leaving something you don't want to leave? What if your dread is making them wake up and be better? Why so absolutist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:40 AM
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If you never punish them one way or another, then your grown up talk is just yapping. As I said, either breakup or downgrade, or both, but don't do nothing. Your fidelity being compromised by the lack of sex should be a latent threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:39 AM
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I knew the "ethics and moral" gang would come and be unhappy about it. Even labeling it as immature. But that is just emotionally immature to always confront about everything and not perform any actual punishment. You will simply be in the wrong if you end up cheating it's that simple. According to nobody who has your best interest in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:34 AM
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Are you suggesting that because men watch porn while in relationship they are not satisfied sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:31 AM
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You'll need to elaborate on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:26 AM
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Being less picky means you don't feel like settling with suboptimal partner, being less picky means you are glad that you've found someone good enough who wants you back. The feeling of settling happens because of the pickiness. The problem is pickiness. How can you link this video and immediately think the problem isn't women being picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:40 PM

Eastuss: says something you: THis is AF/BB Eastuss: no it's not, here's the context of what I'm talking about you: that's not what AF/BB is about YES FUCKING EXACTLY I WAS NEVER TALKING ABOUT AF/BB YOU INSIST I WAS. WHY DO YOU LECTURE ME ABOUT IT LIKE I DONT KNOW????? Why are you guys so dense, with such a short memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:26 PM

Why would that be very french Edit: nevermind I talked of guillotine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:22 PM

I stayed with the same woman from 20 to 36 and going, if she asked me right up if I wanted kids and marriage at 20 i'd have told her "not now, maybe never". Instead of asking me all this, my wife seduced me into these things when the time was right. She's the woman it's literally her job to make me commit, not my job. Too many women ask beforehand men if they're planning to commit and treat it as a red flag when men don't care yet. It's perfectly normal they don't care and it's perfectly normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:19 PM

No but I can see why you'd think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:54 PM

That was to be expected from my prude niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:54 PM

People don't have different goals often enough at that age, especially not political and religious. They just have "I'm not seduced by you and I'll rebrand it as incompatibility".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:48 PM

I love you like a vulgar uncle loves his prude niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:46 PM

It's not unpopular. I believe you should be talking about those if you're dating over 30. In your 20s you shouldn't, in your 20 you're not in a hurry and you're not settled on what you want, makes no sense to prompt others about it. Obviously 22 year old me didn't think about kids or politics. I have 2 kids now and I want pull out the guillotine for our politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:44 PM

you're thinking too much, it's all intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:35 PM

You got it, it doesn't count. è_é
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:16 PM

People are invited to these skit and asked to be sassy and over the top for the show. We got you trying to make a ragebait over a ragebait reaction video over a ragebait staged video. This is actually impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:11 PM

Post that on unpopularopinion for a free ban
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:09 PM

I'm french and don't give you the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:08 PM

The topic is you saying 100% of men are focused on 3% of women. So the topic is both men and women, and you agreeing here is suggesting that it's not 100% of men being focused on 3% of women. Your logic is just fallacious and won't work with anybody with a bit of a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:04 PM

or that women's upper hand in the dating market is greatly understated by misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:02 PM

The wall is a visual constatation, nothing else, never stopped women from getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:39 PM
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yeah I brought it up and you got it wrong. So listen to me and deal with what I'm saying not with something I just told you is your wrong interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:25 PM
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This isn't about mainstream dating this is about mainstream media and collective approval. One side of this extreme shit is going to get more collective approval. Also wtf is mainstream dating and why should people blame themselves of caring about what to expect on the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:34 PM
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Could say it for women as well so you still don't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:33 PM
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Blatantly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:25 AM
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I've been told By who? DIdn't occur to you they were full of shit? It's a typical fallacious debating strategy. Next thing they'll tell you if that your standards of dating should be indians and chineses women because the average woman on earth is indian or chinese and therefore you don't deserve white women unless you pay them. Doesn't matter if you live in a white country and are white yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:13 PM
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the difference is the female version is probably going to get more mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 PM
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do you believe the population of slim young unmarried and childless men are somehow 10 times bigger than women's...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:46 PM
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So what???? This isn't even what I was referring to. You want us to believe 100% of men are targeting and pairing with 3% of women you are as bad faith as it gets. It doesn't matter what the average age is. Majority of people are dating within 0 to 5 age gap in favor of the man being older. That means whatever your 3% of women are supposed to be their dating pool are a similar amount of men. You set the filter on 18 to 25, have you bothered to compute how many men were 21 to 28 to make your pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:38 PM
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If slim, young, childless and unmarried is top 3% of women then surely a slim, young, childless unmarried man is top 1~2% of men (because obviously women aren't going for younger men so that cuts a lot of them out), he won't need to have money, he should be enough as is. Your numbers are just off and it just furthermore proves women's perception of what they are worth is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:11 PM

I didn't define patriarchy in my comment Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:09 PM

defines patriarchy only in term of property and other human constructs that exist only since recently claims patriarchy didn't exist before agriculture and property Nice circular fallacious logic. OP is talking outside of the referential of modern human construct you could have at least bothered to do the same. Human beings are thought to have been primarily egalitarian We don't know that and there isn't even a theory based on that. But it depends what you mean by egalitarian. Gender roles were …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:24 PM

Oops that is only for 1 girl a day. I meant 21 000.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:22 PM

I'd have wished to fuck a different woman 3 times a day ever since I'm 16. So my ideal N count would have been around 7 000.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:18 PM

Sir lily is a young woman, of course she gets offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:00 PM

totally not a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:58 PM

OFC she had to be french And yes, it's not super uncommon, she wants a stereotypical sexy anticonformist like most nonconformist girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:55 PM

I've not really managed to work on the volume, it seems entirely dependent on if the sex is long or not. But I've technics to work on the distance traveled, which is nice if you want to splatter her in cum form pussy to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:47 PM

Sir that is a 18 year old woman of course she is insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:33 PM
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Being hypocritical now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:25 AM

And your limits are weaker when the other is just more valuable than you. Whoever believes they love unconditionally and not the other are the weaker ones in the force rapports.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:56 PM
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You can provide me with facts pseudoscience but you cannot take a moment to consider if those facts pseudoscientific theories are relevant to an argument or not. You wasted your energy and already lost your pride doing so, you cannot rewrite what happened to save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:37 PM

that's not for you to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:22 PM

Exactly. If you wanna be funny, at least be funny in a logically consistent way !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:10 PM

I rather believe the depressive part he means is that you'd spend a lot of time and effort to improve your looks only to be matchable with the worst women have to offer. And no, looks aren't subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:08 PM

Mentally ill gym bros who take steroids, not fit men tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:06 PM

Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:03 PM

I'm glad that shit doesn't pop on /r/all as much as it used to. Sad that it was replaced by trans subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:01 PM

Daily reminder that incentives for commitment and children come from women. Women proved that easy times create weak women. But I don't hear too many people ask for female military service so women stop being pussies. And before people claim the opposite, yes those are easy times for women, the easiest times ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:38 PM

he let himself go :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:35 PM
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Yeah creepy is just a magical word for "man bad, don't question, pass on the message" like many other words they have. Which is why it amuses me some people would take seriously that word and push psychologist studies on it like it's relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:55 AM
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Yes, I'll not click that. I don't need psychologist's theories on what creepiness essentially is when most people aren't even using the word only to describe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 AM
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Creepiness is actually ambiguity of threat, not just doesn’t like you for whatever reason. According to who? The textbook definition or the most common usage? People's usage of the word is more broad than that. For BOTH men and women, men are considered more physically threatening so both genders are more likely to view men as creepy. You've never been near a creepy kid haven't you. Believe me it doesn't take much for something physically unthreatening to turn threatening. Doesn't matter how str…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:56 PM
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All men got called creep often enough in their life. That's why it's a non information. Creep = doesn't like you for whatever reason. As well, if you hear about how people met or got together, that's another person's creep story, that's another woman's behavior that worked. Most women's behavior would be judged as creepy if they were men. Creep is such a subjective useless metric for anything. It's just a goto word for "I want to shame you/this person but I can't word it so I'll resort to cheap"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:21 PM
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That's not a threat to feminism that is literal core feminism. Even the crowd that says "you deserve to be equal" stems from an apex fallacy of what the average man is, therefore always was "you deserve better" with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:52 AM

Short term is bad choice from previous commenter, it should also encompass failed relationships, or relationships with very little commitment. Exciting men are good at starting things, not good for long term. Women want the good long term but after a few years of the exciting phase. We all do. A lot of men are bad at creating the first sparks yet would be very good long term partners. Those are the men women should pick, but they can't look past the boringness, they can't make it exciting for bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:46 AM

The signs they will be "abusive": women find them exciting and want them The signs they won't be "abusive": women find them boring Because "abusive" is really just "can afford to be more selfish due to overvaluing me". "Choose better" starts with toning your standards for exitment the fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:44 AM

France is very blue pilled and feminist, white french women are insuferably picky and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:55 PM

Which of the symptom do I display :') the breathing or the humanity? I assume you mean the breathing for comedic purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:11 PM

It is technically replacement but I need to compensate make more kids for the infertile and unlucky people. But I can't make 0.33 kids :( /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:11 PM

Laws aren't a hint to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:09 PM

Historically the concept of marital rape and "taking a wife" wasn't classified as rape like today. I know you believe that, I could guess it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:59 PM

Do you believe all kid-free women are burdens? I don't believe most childfree women are childfree because they hate men. I have a job, I pay taxes, and I have like 2-3 retirement accounts. How am I contributing less than a woman with kids, or a kid-free man? Depends the economy. Kids are more valuable right now. So you're technically contributing something less inestimable than a parent. Your taxes and retirement accounts aren't going to help if 30 years from now there is a huge inflation becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:58 PM

You: I'm assuming you're evil Me: no I'm not You: so generous of you not to be evil Aren't you tired of being so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:53 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:51 PM

Men not realizing once again that it's this kind of behavior exactly that turns women into misandrists. Women demanded they were equal to men, able to live off independently from men with the same job opportunities as men. The more they're getting equal to men, the less they have kids. I'll first blame the rich because they used that phenomenon to pay everyone less and develop toxic work environments where nobody can see themselves having kids. But then once the rich are blamed, why have women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:50 PM

I'm not being emotional. I'm debating. I'm having issues with hypocrites. Is your dad a burden while he pretends he is currently not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:39 PM

Why do you believe I don't consider them women? "being replaced by ethnics" means is that women who are picky are going to be replaced by women who aren't picky. Which will not only bring in more women which will worsen the dynamics for the picky women, the men will also not attempt to improve for them which was the initial goal with being picky. The ethnic women will bring different cultures, likely more patriarchal, which might be also an undesirable result. In short, it's going to do everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:37 PM

not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:34 PM

I believe biologists are backing this claim..... But you're totally biology pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:34 PM

eh IDK... I don't believe anyone can know nor judge. Unless genetic disease I don't receive these kind of argument. I've seen enough mentally ill women transfer their mental illness to their daughters and the daughters still working it out better in their life. If there's any transfer to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:33 PM

Do you not know me by now? I don't complain, I don't have emotions, I debate, on a debate sub. It doesn't reflect my life nor my decisions, nor how I treat people IRL individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:31 PM

They're living in the woods off the grid? No. Then they're not removed from the scene. They're buying and working, paying taxes and voting, occupying homes and jobs. And for some of them, spreading misandry online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:30 PM

That's doomer take. Might be a concern for america, but not where I live. Our schools are still good enough to produce functional individuals. Class mobility is pretty good, even tho it's getting worse with american influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:27 PM

Why is that a problem? Isn't that how english people say it? Strangers is better? Isn't it a generic term?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:25 PM

I don't believe pushing is the problem, I believe acting (or lack of) is. I believe lowering birthrates are due to more complex societal problems and I'd rather we fix our relationship to work, and poverty problems before anything else. But pretentious childfree women who think it's all men's issues are hypocritical and should be told so. I'd not go at an infertile person like they're the issue to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:24 PM

it's not libertarian here, our government is pretty authoritarian. It's authoritarian right and libertarian left. Which means they're eventually going to tell you that euthanazia is cheaper than whatever you need to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:21 PM

Why do you think I'd be upset about you then? I don't care about society much, it's just that if we're debating society and childfree, and the well being of everyone, then I'd wish society was good for people infertile like you as well. And for that, it means people who are able to have kids should contribute more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:19 PM

Of taxes? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 PM

I think it makes more sense for men to feel childfree. Men who don't approach women are the equivalent problem. Inhibited men. Which is what we all reproach is the problem of incels. We're already pushing contempt on that. But we don't often push contempt on the equivalent in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 PM

Do you not know me by now? My life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:15 PM

You're not forcing, you're seducing, you're convincing. Not a lot of people want kids hypothetically. not a lot of people have the introspection and clarity of mind to tell yourself "I don't want to die childless, but I haven't found someone who makes me feel safe, confident and motivated to have kids with". So of course in early stages of relation you have cold feet regarding the idea of kids, everyone should. The same way no woman is interested in having sex with me out of the blue, I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:14 PM

We'll deserve whatever happens. And by We I mean women especially. Society will rebalance. Most likely women will be replaced by ethnics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:07 PM

Yes but if you talk on the first or third date in your early 20s about "compatibility with kids" you're just socially dumb. Nobody's going to say they want kids. Wanting kids is a thing that happens within a stable relationship. Late 20s these talks are more reasonable though. Many people will say "no I don't want kids" despite they know deep down they don't imagine dying childless. But not many people have the introspection to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:05 PM

Please don't make society a hellscape for the next generation, not such a hard thing to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:03 PM

Oh look, another comment for LaL that I'm not gonna read because it'll be a fat strawman and ad hominem totally unfit of a debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:02 PM

As I wrote somewhere else. I don't really care. I believe people should be incentivized with rewards. But smug childfree misandrist hypocrites online are clueless of their contradictions. And that annoys me. We should tax these people. Are you pushing for women to grow more picky and to avoid pairing with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:01 PM

That's not a related topic nor even a parameter of the issue I'm talking of. But maybe we shouldn't do that in a capitalistic libertarian hellscape like the USA. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM

Sure, but that's not going to come with performance, it's going to come with steady efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM

I believe historically rape was never a successful reproductive method. I believe in incentivising people with rewards rather than with punishments. But smug childfree arrogant hypocritical people make me want them specifically to be taxed hard sometimes. And that's only when I'm debating. I don't care otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:58 PM

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:55 PM

Women should be the one wanting kids. Men should be wanting women. And in a way you can blame incels and inhibited men for not doing their job of pursuing women harder. I did the legwork of pursuing my wife hard and making her feel desired, loved and wanted. She did seduce me into commitment and having kids. That's how it should work. A lot of childfree people are unironically potentially good parents who are pre-emptively being too demanding of themselves. It's the same kind of reason why they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:54 PM

Yes I know, arguments on a debating sub will seem mind blowing to someone who doesn't debate and doesn't think things through. Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:49 PM

Sounds like that's just their passion. Don't measure yourself to those who like these stuff more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:42 PM

Not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:41 PM

Every civilisation that emerged and strived had monogamy and was trying to pair everyone. Women pushing for women to grow more picky and for most men to stay alone are indirectly pushing for the end of civilisation as we know it or for their replacement. But funnily I don't believe they're ready to give up the comfort of living in a civilisation. Things will self balance no matter what, might not self balance the way you'd prefer though. And they'll pretend that this is a threat men are pushing …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:40 PM

If you're a woman then it's already quite good...? What standards are you basing yourself on to feel weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:31 PM

Not reading, I was writing that for people to have contextual information. You're here to rant and I wish people who are debating would know what they're engaging with before trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:29 PM

Haven't historians and biologists said that most women reproduced with a minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:28 PM

It's normal that the extremes of a range of motion are more difficult. Don't get gaslighted by those claiming to do 40 push ups in a row, if I was counting I'd count 0 rep on their half assed push ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:25 PM

calls others unhinged after they made unhinged deductions over nothing themselves Having Paranoid Personality Disorder on PPD unironically lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:23 PM

higher range of motion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:21 PM

Generally and supported by data, men experience more rejections and more years of unwanted celibacy and sexlessness than women, men are more in demand of women than women are in demand of men, and women experience most men as being ugly while most women find most women at least sexually attractive. I'm not here to discuss men struggling, women have had the upper hand in the sexual dynamics since for ever, and always will. Blue pillers want to impede that on a recent change in obesity rates, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:04 PM

Not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:46 PM

Oh sorry I thought you were here to debate, go back to tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:41 PM

Not good. You don't want that on the long run, that's how you get sharia law and equivalents emerging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:38 PM

I'm not talking of men struggling if you didn't notice. I'm dispelling an argument people have. Every first world country is known for having blue pill education issues which leads to men having some issues early on. Every country is known for picky women it's universal, and that has been a thing for the entirety of human history. Which means men will necessarily always struggle more than women. Your hyperfocus on details is wrong, the topic is more general and abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:37 PM

France is known for its egalitarian dates And its bluepill and feminist tendencies. plus the gender ratio isn’t that bad. The same as anywhere else on the map showed. If you’re struggling there you’re probably a bottom of the barrel, not average. Women are still picky and it's not dependent on obesity. Missing the point to badmouth men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:26 PM

Yes women's standards adjust to the average, and the average is a 3/10 to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:24 PM

"Men wouldn't struggle that much if the average man wasn't obese" https://np.reddit.com/r/europe/comments/1inm3bh/obesity_rates_us_states_vs_european_countries/ I'm french and women are still picky AF. The idea for what's "fat" is what americans would consider "normal".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:02 PM
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Are you implying this is a bad thing or that keeping the well-being of women in mind is somehow mutually exclusive with thinking of the man's well-being? It's wrong on many levels. First of all those aren't what the women want, those aren't what they want immediately, it's just what they think women should want for their long term well being. Then, it's for old women's advantage, not for the young ones. And then, they should take the interests of the son/the man asking as the priority. At worst …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:48 PM
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It's not really on them that you perceived their advice as nice = sexy. It's on them that they literally say it. I'm sure most mothers don't have the idea of their son getting laid in mind when they're giving advice. That's right, they have the well being of hypothetical women in mind. This is good advice for getting in and keeping a relationship. It's a good advice for keeping a relationship after a few years, not a good advice for getting in. Quite the opposite. The sexy part is for you to fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:37 AM
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What social part? Gym people don't talk to each others most of the time and they don't mix genders too much. Want to workout while socializing you do a regular sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:10 PM
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I don't have defeatist outlook over gym, I have "I'm lazy as shit" and "women don't care beyond a certain point" opinion. You don't need more than bodyweight training and just regularly working out. Again, 20% of the effort to yield 80% of the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:46 PM
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the blue pill morality Is based on the assumption that the people you are dealing with are incentivized to care. Exactly, well formulated. how do you speak reason to a person who sees you as a number ? The same way you deal with these kids who insult you in call of duty's voice chat. That's the same kind of shit, just animals doing what they want and taking advantage of anything as much as they can. So why shouldn't you. Healthy relationships are established on balanced force rapport, if you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:56 PM
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My and most men's goal isn't to be a bodybuilder, it's to have frequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:53 PM
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amounts to lip service and meaningless gestures. Being expected nothing of and being given everything is meaningless I guess...? Have we already forgotten that women on average are negative economic contributors (aka take more money from the gov than they pay in taxes) while men are positive economic contributors? Have we already forgotten money flows from men to women within most marriage? Have we already forgotten that women manage to live 10 year older than men and still complain that medicin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:47 PM
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Men are the ones in most control of everything but they're selling things to people. Look at facebook being inclusive and progressist up until trump was elected and they decided to ditch all efforts. When taking women's side is the fashion they'll do. And then look at who is in control of education: women. Both in school and at home. 20 and 30 years ago was also peak time for divorcing and estranging the dad form their kids. Women held the narrative, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:14 PM
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Not how it sounded like 2 decades ago. "equal but different" as in women were better than men "equal equal" as in stereotypes on women were wrong, like the stereotype that women don't like porn and can't be like men. You can always tell me "but fundamental feminism said otherwise", don't care, 90% of women were parroting something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:12 PM
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I'm not american. Don't ask a fish how to fish, ask fishermen. Similarly, don't take advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:11 PM
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That's also true for talking to girls...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:10 PM

You underestimate how much work AI is compared to a plain photoshop. And no signs of it being AI, all signs of it being photoshop. So that makes AI usage very unlikely here. But keep thinking you're right, after all you're an expert in AI and photoshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:31 PM

the image is very poor quality and I feel like straight lines of the background aren't really straight, so there might be distorsions going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:24 PM

She's plenty of other pics. This is just a bad photoshop believe me. Now would that be hard? Yes and no. The lighting needs to be coherent, and it is coherent here and she casts a shadow. Too do that with AI you'd require an AI that is willing to do something specific with the lighting and potentially that you rework the image yourself. And then you'd need to have consistent props like the necklace that she has in other pics. What makes you think she's been copy pasted is because the waist/hips …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:16 PM

Do you think this is an entirely generated image? It's stupid, that's just a bad photoshop. Modern image generating tools can't do that amount of details and then fuck up the human lol, modern image generation tools are literally good at doing the opposite. Is it a common thing with you to advertise the opposite of the truth like you were any knowledgeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:05 PM

are these bad photoshops really making money out of it :')
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:04 PM
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You overestimate how it was overtly stated. The general idea was that women are like men, women enjoy porn, women enjoy sex, but that men ain't getting sex because they suck, they're mean, immature and useless. And then when men were 15 and started going at women, they were told to not be overt, to be friend, to be nice, and they'd get girlfriends. It's not directly stated in this context that nice = sexy, but it's directly stated that nice = seduction. Being sexual/sexy/sexually assertive is ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:47 PM

Weird how the "I am lesbian" piercing got popular among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:22 PM

Need to be more firm man, you're getting dominated by an old fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:18 PM

I'll take tattoos and piercings over fake lips and boobs. Natural > Decoration > Alteration Also why would you watch a guy talk for 15 minutes of his brain farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:17 PM
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every guy aggressively pursuing dating would succeed. They do... Doesn't take lots of talking to incels and lone men to figure out the only ones who aren't succeeding are those who aren't trying. What actually matters is effective effort, which comes from improving yourself, understanding social dynamics Which all come from trying, nothing else brings that improvement to you. Just throwing yourself at the problem without strategy leads to frustration, not confidence. And improving for the sake o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:46 PM
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Throwing yourself at the problem without any leverage isn’t a winning strategy It's going to be a winning strategy provided you are able to learn from experience. Not throwing yourself at the problem at all is a losing strategy 100% of the time. And acting like sex and companionship are the only things making men unhappy is way too simplistic. Sure, but acting like sex and companionship are what men think is the solution to them being poor is a strawman. The average person might be dumb they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:50 PM
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Coping mechanisms kill men's drives. Men are supposed to be finding their condition intolerable for things to change. Men's dating strategy isn't to wait for women to approach them, they need to be active and aggressive about it. Therefore they need a strong drive. So I disagree, no, men don't need to learn to live happy as singles. In fact, it is a strawman of their condition. Most men are happy outside of their lack of sex, they're unhappy of the lack of sex and female companionship explicitly…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:06 PM
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False equivalency. Finding someone isn't equivalent to becoming a millionaire. Finding someone is equivalent to finding a minimum wage job. There isn't "someone for everyone", the idea is that you can't find someone without doing the legwork of talking to them. You don't need diplomas to find minimum wage jobs, you need to go to interviews. There isn't enough job for everyone as well. Being stuck in perpetual self improvement loop is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:01 PM
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Plenty of lifting ripped incels who go to therapy out there. Because they don't talk to girls. Plenty of slobby men who have gfs and sex out there, because they talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:58 AM
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You don't need self esteem. If you also base your self esteem based on your progresses, it'll be low the day you don't progress or the day you have a setback. Play any sport or any video competitive game seriously and you'll find out your self esteem must be absolutely out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:58 AM
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Normie men also hated me. That didn't stop me. Therapy is scam. Your friend was lucky to get something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:56 AM
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I was talking a lot with my ex but all what she wanted was a lot of money, so she went to a rich IT guy instead Did you fuck your ex? Yes: You got sex without being rich, you didn't need extra steps to get there, then she left to satisfy her other goals of vampirizing money off someone else's back. It means you weren't this stupid. No: She's your ex but you didn't fuck her, so imagine you spent actually many years in IT to become rich so that this gold digging woman marries you and doesn't fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:54 AM
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Just repeating the same thing over and over isn't going to make these twits not real. Not so long ago the reddit and feminist trend was to say that women would fuck men more if men did more chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:46 AM
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Sure go and tell every man who reports that happening in their childhood that they hallucinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:46 AM
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Okay but the people perpetuating the myth that kindess = sex is men No. But it surely doesn't help when men do that. Men are the ones making the movies where the fugly nerd gets the cheerleader through the power of super duper kindness. Rich men* not men. They have interest in selling that narrative beyond what they believe is the truth. They're making the reality shows where women are shamed for being shallow when they dont want the ugly dude. Good. Women do the same thing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:44 AM
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I've seen men perpetuate this myth too, but it was women majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:41 AM
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It did in a way that made me more efficient at it. Basically I was full of blue pill morals, ideals and compassion. When I found out that the fishy narrative was a complete lie, that women simply were worst than men, weren't really compassionate and empathetic as advertised, and were absolute immature savages, that made me grow more rogue. It's not like I was really moral, I was always amoral, but I thought that playing by the rules would work, it just didn't, the rules were here to maximize oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:36 AM
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Where are YOU getting your information from? You are literally the one counter arguing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:30 AM
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Hahaha I don't need examples of harem anime thank you very much keep that garbage away from me. I hope you know that shojos (aka animes for girls) are also presenting nice beta men as the better options, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:49 AM
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You don't have proof, you have hearsay just like me. The difference is proving something never happened is harder than proving something happened. So good luck with that. Male targeted media surely lied to boys, but it's not just male media, it's all medias, all people. Even women who will tell you that SMV and RMV are not the same thing will still talk like you can get women and relationships on a good RMV alone. They'll even tell you that women who look for SMV in men are immature. But first t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:39 AM
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I'm not charismatic or uncharismatic, plenty of people hate me on sight, I've been told I was weird and likely autistic. I was never the center of social gatherings, quite the opposite. I'd have to do a lot in order to not be the one who would be continuously dunked on by everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:05 AM
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Show me women never saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:44 AM
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I agree with the idea. Not with the "men understand women wrong", men are literally told that nice = sexy. From women, mothers, sisters, teachers, medias, fictions. That's the blue pill. There's a reason why men decided to take matrix analogy with blue pill and red pill, the reason being that everyone is lied to and given a false reality. Remember that a few decades ago the heart of feminism was that women were no different from men, that included feminism convincing men that women were sexual, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:37 AM
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Men get beaten up by groups of women for any reasons. What's that gonna change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:21 PM
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Nobody's supposed to feel attracted to every aspect of the other's sexuality, but they need to love the other parts enough to accept the "bad" parts. Except men don't accept women's nature. You clearly don't read much here I've been here for like a decade. You're seriously going to judge men entirely by the behavior words black pillers here? Aren't you spending too much time here and not enough time observing actual people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:20 PM
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If for these men dating is extremely difficult because of their looks, then it'll still be extremely difficult. Like they're going to go from 3/10 to 3.5/10 what's that gonna change? It's not the most significant effort. And this comes from a 5'5 chubby ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:18 PM
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So you want to give them the hope they can become attractive by spending months working on their body and style all that to be still considered unattractive? Sounds like the same thing but with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:17 PM
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You're supposed to be always horny. You're supposed to learn to show it in a correct way. You're not supposed to hide it, to hide that you're a normal masculine man with masculine incentives, that's how you get friendzoned or labeled as a woman. And none of that will be acquired by doing anything else but interact with women in a sexual/romantic mindset. You'll creep some women out in the process, that is inevitable. But asexual approaches also creep women out, it appears dishonest and imprevisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:16 PM
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So you'd advice them to lift and groom and work on their style to be more attractive to women, but never approach women because the rejection will kill them? Sounds like it's going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:12 PM
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confidence is intangible, inconsistent, and emotional. Nothing should be sustained by confidence. Gym ain't going to help and isn't going to give any transferable confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:09 PM
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Women are contributing to society and society can and will run on what women are willing to contribute. If all women do is work and pay taxes then it won't run on that for long. Just because women are giving up on relationships, sex and having kids they don’t want to have doesn’t mean women aren’t contributing to society It's not nearly enough for society to function without instability and changes happening in a few decades. Society will just look and function differently. it'll look and functi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:08 PM
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That part is included in my post. But obese guy still doesn't need to shed weight to find someone, it's just that if he has any priority in life it's talking to girls. And then if his goal is to lose weight then he can lose weight. But yes in no way can the losing weight can be the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:00 PM
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Not even. Bellow average women are a pain in the ass to socialize with. Doesn't mean you should approach one you think is lovable, but in my experience you shouldn't limit yourself to a league you think you're part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:58 PM
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It matters if his friends are loser males without access to women. And it matters if his mixed friend are normies or are nonconformists. "being able to maintain perceptive interpersonal bonds" are going to be non transferable skills in between "loser males" "nonconfirmist" and "normie" groups. But my logic still going to be that since it is always one step harder then it all can be skipped as the later ones will be including the former ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:57 PM
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What's even your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:54 PM
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I don't let my opinion of myself decide if I deserve to do something or have something. It's other people's burden to reject you, you're not supposed to reject yourself on the behalf of others. A lot of people can't help but find themselves ugly or stupid or boring. They might be even right, or they might be delusional in a way that is unfixable, it doesn't matter anyway. You might be fit to someone's standards you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:50 PM
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I just wanted to avoid writing incel because I suspect the automod was hiding my post because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:40 PM
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Women never feel good about themselves, it's very clearly not a bit parameter to their success. Men who feel good about themselves tend to be more assertive and the assertiveness is the parameter to their success, not the feeling good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:38 PM
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If you are just working out and building your career you are not doing "self-improvement" correctly. Yet this is a common advise to "first fix X Y Z before attempting relationships". Someone called me evil on this very thread for saying you should approach women before you "fix yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:37 PM
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Not all men will be capable to employ strategies. The best bet is to get it to be a visceral thing, then it'll eventually seem effortless to them. And I believe that is achievable by all men more, as it's not asking for developing skills, but rather simply doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:35 PM
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This is PPD, I'm sorry I didn't disclose this was about sexual and romantic loneliness on a subreddit about debating sexual dynamics :D Some people also have low needs for friendship but want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:33 PM
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This is hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:32 PM
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Well that is a good question which wasn't part of my comment. I'm explaining the problem, I'm not giving a solution. Though you need to understand that men aren't maintaining society just for the idea of it. Once women refuse to contribute to society, why would men contribute to society? Why would men make society a good spot for women to strive only for women to turn around and say "I'm not giving anything back"? Economic crisis will ensue and it'll be a vicious circle, until the lazy people ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:31 PM
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Liking yourself but not your look is good for making friends according to your logic. But if all it takes is you liking one or two sides of you while disregarding the rest, then what stops you to disregard everything about you in case you dislike everything about you? It's validating my point: you need to disregard your opinion of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:28 PM
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You'll learn to be a pleasant friend the same as you'll learn to be a pleasant romantic partner. If you only learn to be a pleasant friend you'll only get friendzones. One includes the other but not the opposite. You're really painting a starting point where the person is extremely insociable. That's really a minority among lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:26 PM
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Yes so now that we figured out that it worked out for me, you can start counter arguing my points and not my person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:24 PM
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It's generally nice to know when someone, who claims to be an incel, can socialize, but it can be skipped all together. I took that route personally. I didn't really try to get to the next step before I fixed the first one. Being able to make loser male friends is the lowest point, then comes the ability to make male friends that are not total losers. Then mixed social groups are more hard because the men will bully and kick you out if you're so bad that you are pushing women away from the group…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:23 PM
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If they aren't good looking in the FACE (and have a decent physique), being socially and sexually assertive will not help. It will help more than if they're not. You can't change your face so why even bother lamenting on it? I personally don't have the looks to back anything btw. You'll never not be a creep to some or most women, it's mandatory. You'll be a creep, you'll make them uncomfortable, you'll upset them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:18 PM
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Telling 5’5” chubby guys average women are reasonable is something that you personally figured out how to navigate. yes, I figured that out by trying. Your experience and what you did, may net nothing to another person like you. So you're agreeing they should try and learn to navigate themselves? You really believe there's a guy who would shine with ugly women in particular? Plus, you’re not really explaining how, just mainly saying, go talk to her bro. The only explanation is in the post, nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:16 PM
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False equivalence. Being a human you are born with the qualifications to be a sexual or romantic partner. There's also no other way to gain experience with seducing women than by trying. You also never stop needing to seduce your partner. A better equivalent would be a job where you'll have to go through interviews over and over and over that's your entire job. A good way to train is to go through interviews. And yes that job exists. There's a north korean org that tries to put north korean IT w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:12 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:09 PM
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If you are lonely, you indeed need friends. Alright this is my fault I guess for assuming that people on PPD would interpret "lonely" as sexless romanceless but not friendless. It is not your partner's responsibility to be your only social contact there are people who don't care about friends that much. If you have very low needs for social contact it can work very well. I don't have any IRL friends, my wife has IRL friends she sees several times a week, and it's my wife who asks more time from …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:08 PM
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Oh yeah I forgot that, it indeed never starts and never stops, it's a constant, and thus why you need to be doing everything at once and avoid focusing on long timeframes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:04 PM
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Signals are hazardous. This concept that you can just start hitting on women at random and net results without being physically attractive is pretty crazy. Nobody told you to hit way beyond your league. But generally you should avoid aiming at ugly women just because you believe you're one. Average women are more reasonable people. You're also overestimating how much improvement you can give to your looks. I'm 5'5 and chubby, I lost my virginity on a dating app back then. And I'm no player, most…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:50 PM
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And how do you expect you grow into a pleasant person? By lifting more weights and taking more showers? You can use that as an argument that you should find friends and grow a social circle. But that won't make you pleasant seductively, that'll just make you pleasant as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:47 PM
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No personal attacks. I'm married with kids. This isn't about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:46 PM
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Well if nothing I say or see can be trusted, nothing you say or see can. Discussion over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:45 PM
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Why would it be idiotic? If they don't need friends but need affection love and sex. It's fixable with a partner. Not with a friend. Why would you gaslight them into believing they don't need what they say they need?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:41 PM
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No, you need to have a healthy self-image first. No you don't. I personally never found myself decent looking and many women confirmed that, some didn't. It's not one's business to like how they look, it's other's problem. How could you even say that when majority of women are deeply insecure about their looks yet manage to get people to love them? If you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you? By being assertive you'll dissociate the two. You don't "like hiking" and then dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:39 PM
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How do you even know this? Talking to them, observing them, knowing them. Sounds like a good way to do something useless. What are your advice? :') "lift"? "showers"? "ldar"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:27 PM
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It's a very slow process.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:26 PM
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How do you expect he gets good at interacting if his main priority isn't interacting? if he hasn't developed healthy strategies around his mental framework for socializing The healthy mental framework is to go for it. develop an unshakeable confidence Or just be assertive without any care for confidence and how people think of you. The problem with confidence is it depends of your self esteem. You need to not care about the image of yourself in others, nor in yourself, just that you have to go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:14 PM
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This is nonsense. All things being unequal, a guy in better shape, better style, and more confidence, but who doesn't approach because he's busy "improving" on all that, or who waits his social circle to make him encounter available women, who he's not very assertive with, will ALWAYS lose out over some fumbly dork trying to be “socially and sexually assertive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:09 PM
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No it's not. Especially when paired with other BP advice such as "don't approach women, develop your social circle".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:07 PM
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Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved with a pyramid of age that looked like a pyramid. It is IMO the biggest factor. Why is that? Because if there's the slightest bias in age gaps within relationships, then a flat or inverted pyramid of age would instantly screw young men over. And spoiler: only 10% of marriage feature a younger man, 30% same age, 40% older man.... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:11 PM
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If you don't ever understand anything or constantly strawman everything obviously you're going to have the impression goalposts are moving. Your general idea is that nobody is RP unless they read TRP and you think only american shutin autistics read TRP. RP is an ideology and/or a behavior that emerged in many places that don't communicate. We got evidences from people reporting it, people who don't even talk english, you don't have evidence of people lying. You're wrong and you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:44 PM
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Way to strawman my points and prove me right. (And provide zero evidence) In the grand scheme of things, it's harder to prove something doesn't exist. Go on and prove that people outside of america don't experience the same issues and don't develop the same ways of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:00 PM
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That's absolutely what misogyny means. "Women are equal to men" includes incentives and capabilities. Which aren't equal. Whatever point I'm trying to make is just too abstract for you it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:54 AM
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I don't wonder, I know, women choose to be single because we handed them the ability to live life with both men's and women's privileges. :) Pure greed and ungratefulness. But that's only for immature or dysfunctional women. The others accept men's nature just like men accept women's nature, and love men as a whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:53 AM
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Plenty of people relate but can't even talk english, can't hear it from grifters. And I'm not even talking of those who speak BP but behave RP and talk RP in confidence. You're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:51 AM
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The evidence of the contrary: people relating to the same issues and dynamics all around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:08 PM
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Strawmens and "usa is the center of the world"ism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:04 PM
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What about simply acknowledging that women are fundamentally different from men? Instead of setting masculinity as the default, claiming women are equal to men (AKA misogyny) and then declaring men to be defective women (AKA misandry).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:03 PM
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Don't be ignorant. Don't be socially clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:49 PM
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Bro ALL men act like this. No. Men have a tendency to care but won't hyperfixate. Only stupid men care to the point she is describing, men who are incapable to profile women correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:48 PM
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Men usually sacrifice variety for stability, and porn is here to tone down the need. Women who don't like that their man watches porn are wanting to be cucks or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:41 PM
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I know you don't see it, only men see it, women are absolutely blind their opinion is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:39 PM
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Ain't no makeup for jaws. Margot robbie is facially above average but that jaw pulls her down heavily. Her body is the average part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:38 PM
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Idk why you say handsome she is feminine looking. Because she's man jawed. Her body proportion may be a bit extreme her body proportions are boring and fake. I don’t believe men are being honest when they say they would never date the women they touch themselves too. Who says that lol. I don't believe the people who pay for these OFs are young or even western.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:39 AM
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Most hollywood actresses are more average than you'd think. Same issue here, the ones who make it there are more masculine minded and more masculine bodied and faced. IRL women do seem a lot more feminine and a lot more lovable/hot. As I always say, margot robbie is the prettiest male jawed woman of hollywood. That jawline is a turn off and her body is the absolute average you can expect genetically. Actual above average feminine women don't need to do any of these shit to have comfortable lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:02 AM
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Guy is asking for example to look for more than trying to debate people :')
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:58 AM

Got it, I told people you miss sprout and camo very much and only them, as specifically ordered. I have dyslexia btw. but do you think women (or men) should be told when their preferences are unreasonable? You know me, I'd never stop myself from telling them if things don't work out for them and if they're bringing in less value than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:54 AM
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(though usually they are thin). Sigh... americans. =)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:52 AM
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She's handsome and beautiful, but not pretty. Plenty of prettier women IRL. There's something not exactly right about her and I can't pinpoint it. Fake boobs are a huge turnoff. Wouldn't call her a pornstar either. Would prefer jacking off to the idea of some average chick I know IRL than to her content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:50 AM
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Hope you're saying that ironically lol, we do not need to have US's perception of the average, not only are the US not monolithical it's also not the center of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:42 AM
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Not everyone is american. Not everyone lives in a country with declining birth rate. Funny that these two criteria are the result of women's choices though. The average we're talking about is a genetical average, not a population average. Men have reasonable standards regarding the genetical average, men tend to adapt to the local population's average weight, but expecting men standards to fit the average age is unreasonable. Women on the other side have high standards in all these dimensions. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:41 AM
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The selection bias for actresses suffers the same issue as hollywood, which results in female pornstars being overly masculine. Which makes them rarely above average. Work done makes them repulsive, not better. Fake lips and fake boobs biggest offenders. And that's so fucking prevalent. Pussy in a video is always going to be less attractive than pussy in front of you. So the bar IRL is never as high as the bar in porn. You'd need to have the male gaze to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:37 AM
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It's well established that porn affects the way that brains develop and work. It feels unhealthy to train your sexual response to react to such regular dopamine hits and variety. That's true for anything you ever do or don't do. Nothing of what we do nowadays is natural. You could talk in this way of doing groceries. The descriptors of people aren't even all that detailed, the thrill is in the description of sensory feelings. Feelings that a male partner could recreate. Except these feelings are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:07 PM
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Hi mellette. In what sorts of situations should a woman tell you about her preferences? In-person? Online? Can use self as example for debating purposes online. Can explain preferences when talking to me as a friend but I'm going to judge her hard and be like "sure, awalt, sure". Can't count how often I rolled my eyes at women saying "it's unusual but I really like tall guys". Very often you get "must not play video games" and "must not watch porn" which really have you wonder if they even want …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:01 PM

Motte and bailey fallacy yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:24 PM
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yeah same, the difference between lone me and successful me wasn't about going to social places, playing social circle games, lifting, dressing well, or any form of self improvement, but about talking to girls and being sexually assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:38 AM
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it's not even a question of having friends or the like. Do they even like festivals/bars/concerts? The problem is people are going to lecture lone men about where they're allowed to meet up women, and that'll include having to go do things they don't like just in the hope of something to happen. And it won't happen because they're indeed not invested enough, because they don't like it. They're not even likely to enjoy the women who are there, and might build a relation on mismatched lifestyles, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:27 AM

The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men Title of your post suggests the "manosphere" supports trump. suddenly they've all vanished and nobody said they were supporting Trump. Then in your original comment, you say that now they vanished, that they don't support trump anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:24 AM
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it's cruel No it's not. Ethics and morals are for actions, not for seeking the truth. The truth remains the truth regardless of how outraged you are at it, and pursuing the truth is noble regardless of how grim that truth is. "but you and I can't find that truth everybody is different" there are patterns and heuristics, if you can't form them that's your problem nor ours. For example I don’t like gold diggers so I’m dating a doctor. "If you're on the bus and nobody smells bad, then you're the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:56 PM
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Men are literally told it should be easy by people to who it is easy or to who it feels like no effort because the efforts are part of their pleasure schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:55 PM

You've said 1) they supported trump 2) trump did harm men's cause 3) they stopped supporting trump. CLEARLY this means they care ACCORDING TO YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:49 PM

Your basic premise is wrong as leoandnattes suggested in the automod. But still you say manosphere supports trump, and trump removes socialist measures that'd have helped men. Then in other comments you pretty clearly can identify that the manosphere no longer supports trump. So clearly you don't believe it yourself. Your post is Nullified. Please remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:03 PM

I thought it was established trump has been elected by a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:42 PM

suddenly they've all vanished and nobody said they were supporting Trump. Then you do not seem to believe the manosphere doesn't care about men's issue after all, you wanted to make a gotcha post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:38 PM
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I was talking within the contextes of everything you said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:03 PM
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TBH I thought you were like these high maintenance women lilith. I remember you made posts years ago suggesting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:10 PM
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1) women score higher in tests designed for women to score higher 2) most of the worst criminals have wives/women perfectly content with the situation sharing their spoils. Selfish asshole and mild criminals even have more sex appeal to women. 3) why people even look on onlyfans, women are notorious for scamming other women on the daily 4) Men are the most reprehensible and reprehended. Women are the most reprehensible walking free of charge. We can see that with cheaters and thiefs for instance…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:46 AM

Not so much that "not my problem" The world is liberal for men and socialist for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:40 AM
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No. Just like we shouldn't stop watching porn because it annoys some online women who call it objectifying misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:36 AM
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Do you think it makes sense that women will be honest if they are called lustful shallow gold digging whores? Men are called shallow objectifying hateful perverts and that doesn't stop them from being honest about liking big tits and the like. In the end this leads women to being generally more in tune with what men want and how men work, because it's not hidden or cryptic. We also get shamed both for having too high standards or for not having much standards. If you perceive a form of "damned i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:34 AM
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What a cringe thing to do to come on PPD and tell people they're saying hateful thing. Why would such a person even be here???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:46 AM
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Yeah, women tend to not like the way men date and exist. Where men met their partner, or age gaps, are generally showing there's no right place to approach or not approach, and that a slight age gap is most common. But women don't like that. Always men's fault according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:38 PM

Rankings often have something to do with the emotional feelings about a thing We're literally talking of these feelings, how men will go for feminine women and women will go for masculine women, it's not something a lot of people are capable to introspect, it's all feelings. I don't see how that negates anything I said or that it creates "many many different conclusions". You said absolutely nothing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:50 PM
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So guys can make posts about female nature but I can't do it about male nature, especially a particular type of guys here? Have you tried to work on your posting skills instead of complaining about the hot assholes who can post what they want? Surely if it works for them, there must be something different about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:20 PM
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She posts on this sub about an idea of this sub that isn't true, as if this was a black pill subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:19 PM
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Talk to women. Flirt with women. Try to have romance and sex with them. Any other advice is wrong wrong and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:18 PM

Depends what OC has been meaning exactly. But yes, halo and horn effect go both ways, I'm just not sure how the other way would be called though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:21 AM

Halo and horn effects
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:35 AM

"stuff" you really think women are turned on by software engineers. the "stuff" has to be sexy useful things. And what if you don't fucking enjoy it? Like you'll tell men to do stuff they don't like in the hope of having women, when the first thing they should care about to get women is to talk to women...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:20 AM

IDK I get personally attacked and they don't care, I make a vague personal attack I get banned for 7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:16 AM

You don't have the woman's version of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:53 PM
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We see that everytime, the examples aren't lacking. Thank you for your concern flipsideTROLL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:04 PM
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Women cheat more, but only when they have a libido and when they're attractive. Wow incredible nobody could have guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 PM
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It's not a reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:59 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/nonononoyes/comments/1iac595/bus_driver_stops_mother_and_son_from_reincarnation/m9ec5yo/ Look at this comment finding a way to say that it's probably a man's fault lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:59 PM
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I know we're both going to "nah, no u" each others. I still like to show this video to incredule people. It doesn't serve as proof but it's always funny: https://youtu.be/A-YcBYUfgtc?t=343 Masculine dominant girls being ranked most attractive by women, while putting the most feminine one last. And the men prefer the most feminized and shortest one on top, and then androgynous beauty. There's a reason why hollywood is full of man jawed women while you can find more attractive and feminine women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 AM
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Fat is not feminine. Thin is not masculine. Male gaze doesn't register fat as more feminine, it registers certain body compositions as feminine. Thin women still have feminine proportion of fat and muscle mass. Women who have masculine proportion of fat and muscle still will look masculine with heavier weight, as they have a tendency to grow bigger muscles compared to feminine women. It's again, a common misconception pushed by people who understand nothing about sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:20 AM
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Pretty sure women are capable of assessing when a female looks young and underage. Most people and especially women are comically unable to differentiate femininity from juvenility. Women tend to seek masculinity in both men and women and will flag anything unmasculine as immature and juvenile. Won't comment on the rest because it's just a lot of word for "no you"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:18 AM
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Funny that's exactly how I think about yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:13 AM
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What I said is the objective truth behind people's interpretation and assumptions. Men with pedophilic tendencies don't look at 25 year old women with big tits, wide hips, and fully formed faces and vaginas/nipples, and are like "damn she looks like a kid" just because that girl isn't fat, isn't tall, and isn't having humongus chin, jaws, and shoulder width (AKA isn't masculine). the appeal of youth The appeal of youth not the appeal of juvenile... The only people I'd classify as pedo I've ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:13 AM

normal guy really wouldn’t get insecure about it. Yes, a normal guy doens't get insecure, he just gets repulsed at varying degree of priority. i lost my virginity at 7 to another guy having gay sex so im better off lying about that. Yeah you totally shouldn't talk about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:06 AM
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baby talk and child like behavior I don't believe this is even common in this category and even if they are, calling the "baby talk and child like" is yet another lame strawman. Plenty of women are very feminine and not like a child. yes, they're not childlike, only masculine women seem to believe it is childlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:04 AM
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I don't see the link between amalt and red pilled men. Men are all affected by the idea of high N count women consciously or unconsciously even when they aren't red pilled, even if they try to stay open minded. I'd not automatically push it in AMALT though, but I'd totally advice high N count women, or generally women, to keep that information to themselves. And similarly I'd advice men to not tell women that they're virgin. Most women will chicken out one way or another by this information, dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:33 PM
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The category "teen" is called "teen" because people like you are convinced it was about teens. But "teen" is full of women well in their 20s, because it's about feminine thin women not about fat masculine ones, fat masculine ones are in the "milf" category even though they're not old and not moms. People have that stupid tendency to flag femininity as neoteny when it's not. There’s also a lot of exploitation and trafficking that goes in porn Exploitation, yes, like in any job. Trafic, no, not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 PM
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You might not be observant enough, healthy normal people act this way, just in a functional way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:12 PM

No you didn't. That was all the courtesy I had for you today.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:38 PM

Avoid personal attacks, what he says is sufficiently bad that you can demolish anything he says by pointing out the fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:33 PM

No, you haven't explained anything and being even contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:31 PM

I'll give an example. I'm sexist as in I don't believe a lot of people are interested in computer science, but especially not women. That's why computer science and software engineering are male fields. Other people believe that there aren't a lot of women in these fields due to men being just hostile to women. So my school was accepting women with worse school records, I was told that by the engineering school itself. We were told by people that we still were hostile to women and gross fat nerd…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:30 PM

You're backpedaling now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:22 PM

That's a motte and bailey fallacy. Just because some emotions are making some people have tantrums doesn't mean all emotions are wrong. Emotions are to be studied and investigated. Some are not meant to be inhibited but on the contrary are here to make you take the right decision at the right time. Emotional inhibition is just as emotionally immature as emotional outbursts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:18 PM

Recognizing you are sexist is the first step towards taking fair decisions. Most "I'm not sexist I believe in equality" are probably more sexist and causing more discriminating than they believe, except unlike normally sexist people theirs are based on a false impression of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:16 PM

day 78 of not reading you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:08 PM

Reminder that sexism and xenophobia are absolutely normal beliefs and emotions. There aren't people who aren't sexist, only liars and hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:08 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:55 PM
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Its sexist as hell People who believe that sexism is intrinsically wrong are chronically online. Our beliefs on AMALT and AWALT are based on observation and on people IRL talking about their life to us. Im a man and i dont view women as sex objects That's a strawman of AMALT, however I understand that it's the narrative most commonly pushed by pink pillers on here. AMALT is simply that sex and looks are a higher priority for men initially. Every woman ive known has also never been out to just sl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:52 PM
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Are we going to ignore the elephant in the room Could have cut the sentence here :')
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:40 PM
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Low tier ragebait post. I really hope you're being sarcastic. they reveal that it's the fact that she's confident and smart,which makes her intimidating to males. That's women hurting other women. Nobody's able to tell her she's just ugly and insufferable, they're not helping her. less likely to be submissive less likely to cooperate as well, less likely to pair bond, less likely to be a good deal to anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:35 PM
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Porn isn't about looking like young teenagers, it's women's interpretation because they feel inadequately masculine and ugly when compared to high tier fully grown up women. Teenagers don't look like that rest assured. Women also get disgusted at simple vanilla acts like blowjobs and the like from men's perspective, depends of the woman you talk to. It doesn't even need to get up to degrading stuff, or women will largely overestimate the amount of it that is degrading. Don’t really see how that’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 02:00 PM
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Never seen women be disgusted when they discover that men enjoy very graphic porn? When they discover men are essentially motivated by sex? Have you never seen men be disgusted when they discover women wanting tall rich husbands to be ATM machines for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 01:45 PM

What were you trying to say then? Why do you hope male sexlessness gets worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 10:53 PM

Ah yes, men deserve it for.... Women electing trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 09:03 PM

Trump: I heard you! x2 price tag for eggs, everyone is now a woman, and we going to war for greenland. Hope this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 07:35 PM
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Oh women totally look past flaws, just that they see 10 times more flaws than you and me do....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:04 PM

that's to not get their post removed I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:47 AM

same as the idea of women's rights and equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:32 PM

I discovered the secret to perfect brussels sprouts Step 1: throw that shit away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:27 AM

You think you got more chances at the club when you're the 30th dude competing and the dudes before you had the stupid idea of offering drinks while you're empty handed? Cold approach wherever you please, as long as you're inspired and attracted. More chances to fall on a girl who isn't often approached and who wishes it happened more to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:13 AM

But when I cold approach, let's just say that excellent things happen. Black Autistic Man A bunch of men in blue come and take you to a place where you get meals and shelter for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:11 AM

No joke these things are more dangerous than people think, their bite is devastating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 02:05 AM
1

Sex isn't the problem, the masculinity of this woman is just not something heteronormative men are into.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:20 PM
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plenty of guys are attracted to average women Yeah, she's just not attracted to them back. You missed the point which are a major class signifier in America. Interesting. In europe you don't get braces unless it's really important, some displaced lower teeth and sightly misaligned upper teeth isn't going to warrant anything. It's not a class thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:47 PM
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https://www.tiktok.com/@pbtfitness/video/7291404004582591790 "I just realized that tall slim hetero normative men, the only kind of men I'm attracted to, are not attracted to me the tall muscular tattooed pierced average looking woman, whyyyy???" Ppl obviously simping in comment nobody telling her she's probably picky as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:22 PM
162

This post cured my red pillness I'm now blue pill and feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 01:40 AM
1

that's overkill bruh :( your plumbery might be too tight as well
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:39 PM
1

I've actually learned to be able to shoot up to 1.5 meter. Never had quite a big volume tho, just average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:35 PM
1

Marine Lepen is also anti lgbt and lesbian at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:32 PM
1

Has she even voiced any concern against it? I guess considering she's anti islam she might be the most vocal but I don't recall it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 09:32 PM
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I literally have no idea what you’re arguing about, then. Yes, you have no idea. Because you are not focusing on what's being written in front of you, and are instead deciding to counter point what you wish I said. I don't have the energy to read the rest as I imagine it's similar degree of not dealing with what I'm saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 12:27 AM
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It is tiresome to address your opinions You're barely addressing anything. This is not meant to be personal The fact you consistently say "you're bitching about [[insert here something someone else said]]" is really not making me believe that. There are NO biological prices to being pregnant for a man. You want to widen the picture from "knowing your kid is yours" to "pregnancy is a biological burden" and I'm widening the picture to life biological burden and men's is worst. So don't just mindle…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:37 PM
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Stop with the "you" and "I" this isn't about us. Keep it impersonal, we're on a debate sub. Also it'd be nice if you remembered what I said 2 comments ago. But you acting like it’s somehow a horrible negative that you can now easily and cheaply get the full reassurance about ... No I'm not acting like jack shit. Quote me when I'm "acting" like that pile of words you just wrote. you can now easily and cheaply get the full reassurance about one of the biggest insecurities or fears of men through h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 07:16 PM
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They are all risks that women get no easy reassurances about. I could list a fuck ton of risks that men get no easy reassurances about and that'd just be as irrelevant. There is no equivalent for women to being able to put in zero pain or danger or medical inrervention then be granted a biological child that you can be certain is yours with a quick cheek swab. There's an equivalent to women knowing their kid is theirs for men, and that's what men want. Anything else you wrote is just false equiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:48 PM
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There’s no deadbeat dad test, or secret mistress and love child exam, or pedophile test, or child abuser blood test False equivalents. Or alternately, do it behind her back in secret and never ever ever tell her Yeah that, your blood relation to your kids is nobody's business but yours and your presumed kid's.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 06:31 PM
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Are you not aware of the post you wrote? The idea that middle upper class men in their 30s reject single moms that they met in highschool because of grudge is a misrepresentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 10:55 PM
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I do think people are misrepresenting this as grudge.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:58 PM
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Well I'm not taking opinions from people who have conflicting goals. Like I don't take ideas on what a well adjusted worker is from my boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:17 PM
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First explain to me since when are women deciding factors of what "well adjusted men" are? Last time I checked, people would agree a well adjusted man doesn't undersell themselves to a highschool crush who has now baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:00 PM
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What an absolute ragebait low effort post. I'm going to answer not for you because you're a known ragebaiter, but for readers. Rejecting trash people at their lowest is not holding grudges. Those girls were victims of social media and older guys preying on them at the time. This meme isn't even some revenge porn it's what every parent try to warn their daughter about. Also this doesn't happen as badly outside of black america. Women are equally if not more preying on older guys because men their…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:59 PM
3

First? Where da daily?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:17 PM
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Everything I wrote makes your arguments void.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:37 PM
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As if you have more knowledge. STIs that condoms don't stop are also not those commonly screened for. Screening for STIs also require you to trust they've not been having sexual activity for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:11 PM
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Women are to blame for setting the standards of the sexual market, as they have the upper hand in it. Men feel like to have any chance they need to cut down anything that might make a woman reject them. Like waiting for blood analysis. However, condoms aren't one of those criterias that fuck up your chances. It's either neutral either the lack of condom are even directly decreasing your chance to get sex. Therefore, men having sex condomless isn't an adaptation to the market, it's them who want …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 03:01 PM
1

It's totally new.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 02:19 PM

mommy please
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:50 AM

Yes, the answer is women broke the life and social contracts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:31 AM
1

Nobody wants a sausage fest. AKA It is what it isn't. And it's the worst state of existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 01:38 AM
1

Well, call me when we have robots so convincingly humans that we are confused about if we need to accept them in human competitions, then it'll be time to reconsider human competitions. Right now we're at an era where ppl are discussing the concept of male and female and having individuals they don't know where to fit....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:55 PM
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See you started off with "sports is to have fair competition" and now you migrate to "whatever category that gets financed is valid". Making categories is against the concept of competition, and justifying categories by how people want them doesn't make them any fair. The best Chess players lose to AI, but nobody finds that meaningful. Might be because the competition is about finding the best human. There are AI competitions as well and humans also enjoy competing against AI. Also chess sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:06 PM
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Why does competition have to be fair since competition is essentially here to sort people to find out who is the most genetically gifted (among other criterias also dependent of genetics one way or another).... Why do we stop at gender and sometimes weight? Why not have a basketball league for short people for instance? It's dumb and that's how you get issues happening like trans women in female leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:52 PM
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Same for sport. If they can't compete against top men, then they can't compete. If we need to make genetically based separate leagues for some individuals to win, then the concept of competition loses its meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:22 PM
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We should stop gender splitting in competitions at all. If trans women competing in female leagues is such a problem maybe it's time to remind people that female leagues were a privilege. We shouldn't care about a minority of people who can't make a living off competition when they're not even near the top of said competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:20 PM
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the best people dominate in competitions You say that like that's a reason to make maintain female leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 02:19 PM

The cover is the entire book for 90% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:40 PM

bloody dick is metal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 11:37 PM

IDK who this shawtybae is but I doubt she's being "used for sex" in any objective measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:54 AM

Men don't typically sleep with women they find repulsive. To even engage in seducing and escalating you need to be attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:51 AM

Women should get cheated on more often to compensate for all their lies and marital duty infringements tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:50 AM

Depends, are you a healthy woman? (19-21 BMI)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:48 AM

Prime age to do stuff like that and now we're kind of old enough to look back to it and not care.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:43 AM

Unironically yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:38 AM

Well I think she gained by keeping me. Proof being I didn't cheat again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:36 AM

That's kind of a false idea. French people are just atheist, we don't take infidelity as a SIN, but it's still a betrayal. Americans statistically cheat more while considering it a cardinal sin to god.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:32 AM

You gonna help?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:31 AM

Weaponize it to torment her or ignore her for a few days, maybe get spicy sexual favors.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:30 AM

I did feel extra regret and sadness right after nutting in that girl's mouth 15 years ago, which led me to tell her. Her admitting to cheating just makes me feel weaponized to torment her about it and ignore her for a few days :') while it justifies me flirting online with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:30 AM

Eh. We were young and young.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:29 AM

she's not born french and I'm not even considered typically french by french people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 AM

Yes, the problem is she didn't tell me at the time. it's also possible she just said that to hurt me but it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 AM

Well the "twice" is new.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:24 AM

Yes, women aren't inherently fat. They're inherently having less muscle mass. Which makes their body composition fatter, but I don't think their ratio of fat per height, or fat per bone mass, is exceeding men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:23 AM

She had revenge cheating for me cheating on her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:20 AM

She's claiming she cheated on me as a revenge for me cheating on her. It means all these years of acting like angry, or saying I owe her for cheating on her were not deserved. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:18 AM

DED.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:17 AM

If my wife drunkely admitted to me something I always openly told her I suspected happened 15 years ago and didn't really care about. Should I be angry?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:15 AM

Have you ever taken antibiotics?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:13 AM

Being used for sex should be obviously proof that your SMV is decent but RMV is garbage, yet they'll still blame looks. Being used for sex by the men you want is also admitting you don't even desire these men sexually, which furthermore solidifies the low RMV theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:07 AM

Now, say researchers, women and girls are being sucked into potentially dangerous online spaces of their own: the femosphere. Just "now" lmao what a fucking joke. I want equality here, here and here, but not there. Only if it benefits me feminism. We’ll likely see the brakes placed on feminism because women no longer benefit like they did before. 1) Want to have same jobs, money and opportunity than men 2) flood job market 3) lower wages as a result 4) claim this no longer benefits them 5) turn …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:04 AM

I want to say that it's unlikely you'd have been handed away at a "respectable" family, but truth is you'd have died age 3 from a random disease.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 AM

Pickme :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:59 AM

at 0.1g
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:58 AM
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I am a man and I never received such comment in my DMs. Most of men's issues in society are because everyone prefers women. Everyone treats women better and men worse. It's not men on men. And it's nothing new. See "women are wonderful effect". And to furthermore solidify this idea that women too treat men like shit, plenty of women are pushing the idea around that men's issues are men's fault, either themselves or other men. Like yes, 90% of the physical violence you experience in life as a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 03:40 AM
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So I get that you're also against makeup and shaving for women, right? Because that'd be lack of integrity and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:40 AM
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So let me get this straight: Men are somehow failures for having to pretend to be so much more in order for a woman to like them, and not a fault on women for being so picky. And then when the returns are diminishing, men are also somehow failures for dropping the mask. Aren't you having a bad case of "men be damned if they do and damned if they don't" suggesting you just hate men and have an immature outlook at the dynamic of ageing couples? Like yes, when people are with each others for long, …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:19 AM
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People say that like men are failures for not trying to seduce low value women with absurd standards. Nope, it's only prudent and logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:12 AM
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Totally, and again, RP is not prescriptive, it's descriptive. Women lose value by ageing, doesn't mean we have to hate or be disgusted by our ageing partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 01:09 AM
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Wait that's it??? :'))) Ok I've only quickly went through it and I see many issues: 1) they compare married to single, doesn't seem to be anything about unmarried couples as a reference. 2) it shows that marriage has a heavy diminishing return in term of happiness, after 7 years you're heavily less happy than before marriage... 3) The paper doesn't talk of men being happier from marriage than women, in fact it's even saying it's making women more happy by a slight amount. 4) I'm not too sure abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:11 AM
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People claim there is source for this. But I'm open to discuss it as "something we can observe", and what I observe is women marry men who are happy and not stressed more. That they're like this before marriage is signed, marriage isn't changing anything. They're happy to have a gf and frequent sex, and marriage tends to put more duties on men's shoulders while making sex more scarce, with someone whose looks are worsening. What I observe is plenty of men have less sex but more stress as they si…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 09:08 PM

It is a pretty standard mainstream libfem contradiction it's not "diverging movements".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:52 PM

IDGAF about women around the world. Everytime third world is brought up it's fairly obvious they're AGAIN comparing working class women with upper/middle class men. Every damn time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:50 PM

The thing is, those channels you mentioned aren't in any way popular nor mainstream. Both these channels and this tiktoker are making money off extreme takes and ragebaits. Don't be naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:43 PM

Have you considered that it's the same people? Have you considered that ideological movements like feminism who are supposed to have a coherent narrative are pushing both ideas that men's issues are caused by men not opening up, and by men treating their wives like psychologists?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:41 PM

The point isn't that women do it or not. The point is that the common trope is women do it and not men. But women are both gonna complain men don't open up and at the same time men open up too much. Go on any advice/relationship sub and it's always "understand her be patient help her" and "leave him".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:34 PM
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Maybe I should have said LESS instead of NO responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:33 PM

It's a joke when it's misandry, it's serious when it's misogyny, got it Wanna give your opinion on the dozens if not hundreds of TikTok / YouTube "alpha male" channels shitting on women regularly? The difference is these dudes are ridiculed by normal people. I hear misandrist shit from my family, friends and teachers since age 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:32 PM

Not losing the right to vote specifically but topics such as "an all female country without men" and other "men should get vasectomy at 18 forced on them until someone wants a kid with them", "abort all men" or just typical "all men are dangerous violent blabla and every issue they have is their fault" are more common. And that's just the obviously misandrist one. Other than that, they love to spread lies like "women have less rights than men", the indirect misandry of misrepresenting men as pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:29 PM

Men are the emotional ones constantly pushing their problems on women's shoulders, that's why all the memes on the internet are about how men never have good days and are annoying everyone about their tiny dramas and issues. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:26 PM

There's a difference between being emotionally available and mutually supportive with the people around you, and hijacking every conversation to be about your troubles and frustrations, never listening to the other. That's the strawman of the year. The joke being of course, that the ones being emotional labor are women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:23 PM
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Like you have a statistics on an entire country that shows men are happier and less stressed AFTER they married?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:21 PM
4

Do you think married mothers don't have jobs or bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:20 PM
0

Women marry the happiest men you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:04 AM
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Most neurotic group of people are the happiest when they have no responsibility Truly one of the most relevant thing to consider... I wonder if they'd still be happy when there are no longer young people to work the shit jobs of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 11:04 AM

Bet you none of your issues are because you don't "really need them" but rather that you're not attracted, not motivated, and not doing your part of the job.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:13 PM

The thing is society doesn't provide all those things like food, infrastructure, comfort and security, for you to do nothing in return. If you go and claim you owe nothing to society then it makes sense that society owes nothing to you. When women say they owe nothing to men, they implicitly say that working and paying taxes is the best they can do for society when it's like 1/3 of what they'd supposed to contribute. When women are not available in society, men are going to question why they sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:10 PM

now incel just means "guy who doesnt like women" ig Just "man you do not like".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 04:02 PM

"we owe nothing to men" "society ought to stop treating women like a second class citizen" Same people being delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:41 PM
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You're here, a feminist, perfectly acting like you're willing to talk about men's issues. Upon someone trying to talk with you of that issue, you totally shut down. No, you are in fact, not willing to talk men's issue. You're just willing to blame men, blame men and blame men. You're just taking a global issue between society and men which you do not seem to understand, and focus on a very small subset of that problem, see that men don't do things against it, and declare men guilty. You didn't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:32 PM
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Feminists worldwide are declaring that you're more likely to be killed as a woman in spite of the statistics explicitly stating the fucking opposite. Yes women have a tendency to make shit up and to make it sound worst than it is. That's women's entire job since the beginning of times. Yell when there's a problem so men can come and help, even if it's a tiny spider. I didn't say it's not sport gambling, I said it's bigger nad more complex than sport gambling, your observations seem narrow and wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:42 AM
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Men's issues are not like women's issues, because women generally agree their issues are issues. We have different opinions, but generally agree matters like women's health, body image, safety, mental health etc. all matter. Men don't seem too. Women have the opposite bias with making imaginary issues up, just because a woman a bit too dominant yelled it too loud... Is sport gambling really rampant? What I see on internet is many men screwing themselves up with investing their shit, AKA gambling…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:53 PM

https://media.vanityfair.fr/photos/675e1cc3794c654efaf1b309/master/w_3940%2Cc_limit/Miss-France-2025-AFP-5.jpg Those were the two finalists of miss france 2025. Guess who the all female and ethnic jury chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 01:07 PM
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Yep, feminism is a female empowerment movement. It is marketing itself for equality but constantly reviews the concept of equality to always benefit their goalplan. It's not bad intrinsically because some problems are female exclusive, like feminism in my country allowed newer and cheaper forms of menstruation products to become available. But when it's "Women are underrepresented in college it's inadmissible" becomes immediately "women hold most of the student debt it's inadmissible" when women…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:53 PM
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Oh you too think women in america don't have bodily autonomy? And you think I "failed to debunk" while you have no argument to provide. Bunch of liars you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 12:39 PM
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Oh yeah women believe hard that they're desenfranchised. I just had https://np.reddit.com/r/nottheonion/comments/1hdbfdl/las_vegas_bikini_model_forced_to_show_genitals/m1usevr/ this just yesterday "women don't have equal rights" "what rights are you talking about?" "bodily autonomy" :') lmao Feminism isn't the only problem, because educated feminists largely don't talk of having less rights, don't talk of the wage gap like it is a direct discrimination... The problem is lack of education or horr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 11:45 AM
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I'm not convinced, but I get it, it's a lot of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:33 PM
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Did you read my comment? :')
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:29 PM
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Ask bi women. Talk to lesbian women and their difficulties with dating. They all tend to recognize initiating is hard, and that women are harder to please/attract/get attention from, and I don't mean when they try to seduce hetero women, I mean literally lesbian on lesbian interactions. Then talk to bi/gay men. Bi men have an easier time with men. Gay men have the easiest sexual and romantic life. Then look at people who have a more fluid sexuality. Women typically become lesbian from bad relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:21 PM
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Who told you "lowering women's standards" is part of the red pill? Because it sure isn't red pill's goal. This is a debate sub, to debunk some stupid argument you need to explain people their perception is warped by their standards to begin with. Or that the state of the dating market isn't because "men are horny all the time" but also that women also have too high standards. Some people also were raised by second/third wave feminism that told men that their standards were too high and that they…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 02:06 PM

when you struggled to have them even consider you a man it's pretty big progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:45 PM

It's bad on paper but so much more parameters are in the equation and women cannot see if their eyebrows harm them or not. What's sure is this tiktok trend to repaint them thicker and squarrier is 100% harming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 11:47 AM

first time it strikes me that you're a mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 01:36 AM

I thought it was common knowledge that psychology isn't a real science and that therapy is even more approximative shit built on weak foundations. The whole field is a shit show even when we consider the serious people trying to be experts and trying to help. And they're minority next to the people literally here as scammers. Things are stacked against psychologists being of any use by your own admission.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:09 AM

Lots of words to say that therapists are incompetent, useless, and that the main criteria for success is that the person wants to succeed which they can do without a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 02:01 AM

Are you for real or just memeing?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:46 AM

Therapy is a scammy predatory female field, end of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:35 AM

Try to convince a woman to sleep with you first then maybe you'll convince corporations you can represent them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:28 AM
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Then I'm forced to reevaluate what you just said as you overrestimating what constitutes a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:34 PM
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The vast majority of women aren't SAHW and aren't having careers, your opinion is therefore worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:20 PM

What's your complaint? that they stay too much in their lane??? Personal experience, but women who I judged to be "my lane" were actually far beneath what I could get, and had far too many insecurity issues to be able to pair bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 12:09 AM
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We can't. Dating sites by design are striving and surviving off men not succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 02:50 PM
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Yeah if only people stopped acting like women are born perfect and would raise them accordingly then women would probably live a lot less negative experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 12:35 PM
4

Weird, always felt that chad was supposed to be a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:55 AM
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Chad is a bad person to women because he defends his interests which are against women's interest. There are 3 kind of person who feel that way: Societal drones who believe in cooperation, women and people brainwashed by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 01:54 AM
1

I'd totally call those eastern europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:00 AM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:57 AM
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I wouldn't go this far, but I would say that therapy is good for when you're actually the problem, or when there's nothing objectively wrong that affects other people. Well, in dating, men typically don't succeed because they are low value or because they're not trying enough. Women typically don't succeed because they are picky. Eventually you're always the problem, however men's problems boil down more to their own value, their environment or their innaction, while women's boil down to mental …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:40 PM
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Changing topic again. You don't see career women seething over the fact that tradcon men don't want them. Not tradcon men but they totally complain about not being preferred over other women. One recurrent example on this sub being lilithofbabylon. However, you constantly see tradcon men angry at women who decide to prioritize study or career. Less frequently than women who complain about men who don't prioritize study and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:33 PM
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My point is simple, you seem to completely remove the "value + willing to give" aspects from the equation and as a result you think that tradwives are gold diggers for their "takes value from others" aspect. I don't see how your former comment, and your present comment, are you agreeing with that, or you counter arguing that. So either explain to me how all that is linked to the perception of a gold digger or you are effectively changing topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:45 PM
1

You can always be taken advantage of regardless. Don't change the topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:18 PM
1

Therapy is here to help coping. Men's issues are generally real issues, not self inflicted issues like most of women's issues. Therefore therapy isn't generally a good thing for men. The problem with that is people are generally trying to deny men's issues are real and keep thinking it's self inflicted. Men are meant to be rebellious when things aren't right for them. Coping mechanisms aren't going to help for that either. Verdict: Multiple layer of misandry sustaining each others to create that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:17 PM
1

This is a common strawman from career oriented femcels. The truth is career women don't have time and therefore aren't valuable to tradcon men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:13 PM
3

Red pill men do not want to marry. But if they marry they'd rather marry with a woman who takes and gives (tradwives) rather than a woman who takes and gives nothing back (gold diggers). Your issue is in thinking gold diggers give back in proportion of what they take. Can we stop with these strawmen posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:11 PM

Yeah, and part of my point includes that you can't have this experience before you start pursuing women for sex. You're told that women are more mature and less violent than boys and what you see is that girls at school are indeed more disciplined. You need to grow up to realize that all of boy's rebellion and violence are necessary part of the process that leads to them growing up to do risky and violent jobs, very necessary for society to run. Even if you are a free thinker, as a kid you might…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:28 AM

Guys listen because they think women might have a better insight on female nature because they are women Yes, it's logical until you grow up and test the field. But believe me, I was endoctrinated by women, they dominate every educational fields and they're the main narrative. Until you start effectively pursuing women for sex you have no way to know that they're full of shit. Until you hit 16, you have no way to know that women are lagging behind in maturity and intellect. You just have the ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:51 AM

Well the problem is when your entire education and media tell boys to listen to women first. You're an idiot if by the time you try to fuck women at 16 you still don't find out that women are liars, but before that you don't really have the tools to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:39 AM

Wrinkled outer lips. I wanna lick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:14 AM

Haha yes this happens a lot, IOIs from women to men can totally be just IODs or just them being creeped out.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:27 PM

Never seen a woman turn around to look at anybody, the only ppl who do that are a few men checking out women's asses. Eye contacts are much better predictor of IOIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:58 PM

ketchup is garbage low tier sauce anyway. Mayonnaise is so good that fries are just the reason to eat mayonnaise. Don't reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 01:05 PM

How spread are the other voters? how much abstinence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:27 AM

this is probably happening in every country. but that it got so quick here is the weird part.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:26 AM

was the guy really unheard of before last week?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:20 AM

What's E2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:13 AM

Why do autistic people always have to relate to a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:09 AM

https://nypost.com/2022/01/05/study-claims-celebrity-obsessed-people-are-less-intelligent/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:06 AM

/u/EqualSea2001 why did you vote for him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:05 AM

"it's the one that survives and reproduces that was fit" Fixed that for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 11:00 AM

Can't believe romanians are electing this baboon :( especially knowing one of their 20 million inhabitant shitposts here everyday calling ppl racist while she elects a pro russian dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:58 AM
14

You say true then you talk like you disagree. Feminism is a huge umbrella but eventually everywhere I look there are the same contradictions in all feminists, all feminist media, all feminist branches, and even individual women who do not call themselves feminists. There's always this latent idea that they can both complain about something in the name of sexism and equality, and also perpetuate that something because they think of doing this as benevolent sexism, to set the score even. All the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:06 PM
14

However, feminists are still hypocrites on that topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:55 PM
35

This is how it feels, but the shaming body parts is more a medium for their hate rather than the source of their hate. This same sentiment you have is exactly why feminism passes any form of female exclusive harassment as graver than it is, despite it's just harassment but female flavored. With that point of view they manage to make women seem uniquely targeted when they're not. This is a fallacious sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:40 PM

They fail because your idea of success is to never break up. The people who are throwing away at first difficulty literally can't pair bond or love. There's a world between someone who can't tolerate anybody around them and someone who divorces after 15 years. Humans aren't supposed to stick with the same person for ever but they're also supposed to be functional.... "he counts his macro" isn't "my needs aren't met" this person just a nitpicky and loves nobody. Sure if she can't tolerate him bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 01:08 AM

how ridiculous we talking? People who throw instead of fix are always getting the shorter end of the stick eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 12:39 AM

you're supposed to be 19 wtf u been doing at 16 :'( Seek jesus, he's right beneath the clitoris.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:27 PM

Embracing your north african thugh gens I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:04 PM

I'm doing well with all the free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:05 PM

long hair, low BMI, yes it's that easy. Don't neglect how much info you can get from skullshape as well, you should be able to identify hot women from the back of their head. If you spent more time throwing low hanging flirts and compliments at women mb you'd not be talking like an incel. But go on please bring all your friend, you'll need to be many to deal with the PPD monument I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:04 PM

Pathetic! You should use your phone addiction to get in tune with your tradwife skills! Look at me I'm a nerd male and I learned to cook kiri naan bread and pizza. And before that I used my porn addiction to learn to lick pussy obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:50 PM

is your phone addiction at least inspiring you to cook good shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:46 PM

bed making is so useless...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:40 PM

Wifey material here. Sad that you post so much shit online :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:37 PM

How hard are these things to clean? What brand does this?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:35 PM

Not to be that guy but fucking a woman who has fever or elevated body temp feels so damn good I'm puzzled as to why this isn't a core feature in sextoys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:35 PM

I'm working more for my fictional company Ficsit than for my actual company that actually pays me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:11 PM
0

I'm not reading this. You are obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:02 AM
1

This is american propaganda, stop drinking it. Europe is more at risk of being assimilated by russia than by islam. And America too seeing who they elected as presidon't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:03 AM
2

When ppl say europe they mean western europe. If they mean eastern europe they say eastern europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:02 AM
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As if it was better in the other fake first world countries that aren't in europe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:58 PM
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Europe is just the best place on earth IDK why people are still debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 11:43 PM
1

Eastern europe isn't even densely populated. Yes eastern europe and rural western europe are very conservative but compared to america it's still leaning more left. And rural europe isn't densely populated either. Rural america is HUGE. Right wing parties of western europe are still fairly feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:20 AM
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the pattern I'm exposing remains consistent. The focus is always "men bad" eventually. One side is "some men bad" and the other is "most men bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:12 AM
2

I don't really know how women are talked about in conservative spaces, unless you count Red Pill, which is arguably an alt-right movement. Look. When biden got elected, they stormed the government. When trump gets elected, women talk of sex strike to teach a lesson to the evil men. Despite it's majoritarily women (AFAIK) who elected trump. Clearly one side is more determined to talk shit about a gender than the other. And that's just american politics. Real life and europe are worse. Having been…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:35 PM
1

I won the argument I guess seeing how you're trying to dodge every point made. Your previous comment was already a fat strawman anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:30 PM
2

Has it not occurred to you that the USA is not the world? Even within the USA, the mentalities around big cities are clearly akin to european mentalities. Trump got elected by peasants. And trump isn't even representative of men's mentality, TRP, PPD or black pill. Trump is just right wing, he has never talked in favor of men. However, kamala belittled men. It's neutral vs pro-woman, it's not pro-men vs pro-women. And the joke is it's women who voted the most for trump. So IDK what the fuck you …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:26 PM
0

Being in informal male social matrixes like for instance a soccer team, or playing online video games with young men, you get to hear a lot of what people would call misogyny, red pill, black pill, ect... None of PPD and TRP is new. However, it was always considered marginal and minority by most people, by most of these boys themselves. I eventually understood that even if it was considered wrong by most people, men had to embrace some of it in order to appeal one yotta to women. It's like this …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:50 PM
0

The shit I read on twoX are the shit I heard from women, from teachers, from TV, all my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:26 PM
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You're comparing some fringe subreddit considered by normal people to be immoral and full of psychopaths, with the main narrative pushed by most social medias. Especially in europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:16 PM
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Why do you think PPD is considered immoral? When ppl know you go on PPD they just think you're some sort of psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:00 PM
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Dude are you for real thinking the 100 regular PPD commenters are any match compared to twoX????
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:54 PM
3

Yeah, one thing that bothers me is people insisting statistics support their claim, when you check the statistics, most it supports the opposite, and at best it's not relevant to what they're pushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:58 PM
1

Refusing to see patterns is the true stupidity. Your brain is literally designed to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:55 PM

I didn't ask for advices. I just misread "1 decent meal + 2 whatever" as 1 decent meal with whatever food additions to it, not 2 whatever meals where you do not focus on prots. So that's my bad. 40g is difficult to reach in one meal for the avg person if they don't force double portion of meat. Whole grains, legumes and dairies are good additions but their contribution is not considerable. Most people I know skip breakfast so that's 25g missing as well. And even if they did, they'd barely get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:01 AM

wtf is that "decent meal"? You need 400g of meat to hit 100g of proteins.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:20 AM

You're naive. You'll never relate to women's sexuality and love, it'll always feel alien or unauthentic to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:18 AM

Why does it matter if she really wants you? You'll always feel that women do not want you no matter what, even your gf who fucks you for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:13 AM

Why would I argue with someone with no opinion and no arguing ability?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:12 AM

Yeah so you're without intellect.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:09 AM

If you care about the plight of men you make prostitution legal, but you'd prefer to kill men instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:06 AM

Why should you as a human being with intellect not have an opinion on abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:05 AM

"our men" you're muslim?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:02 AM

Ok....?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:00 AM
2

thank you /u/lonelysadbitch11 for the award, hope you get nicely dicked soon. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 07:27 PM
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Why does my wife not want me to continue flirting with women online and wanting to fuck them? That's literally how we met and why we love each others. Why does she want to change the very thing that made her attracted to me? We don't even need to go up to flirting, just looking at women online annoys my wife despite it all started with me looking at her profile. Must be a mystery. And before you ask, yes posting selfies on instagram as a woman is pretty equivalent to men browsing women on instag…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/24 08:51 PM
2

"I'll merge 2 people together with diverging point of view and claim it's one single hypocrite"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 05:11 PM
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No this has nothing to do with debate, information, or anything. If you told me "men need to not do X because they're asking for too much compared to what they can offer", then sure, but you're telling me "men would be happier if they did X", which isn't computing, it's not ground for debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 01:33 PM
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Men need to do what they want and it includes not listening to you or somebody else. You can't lecture people about what should make them happy, it doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 08:05 AM
0

Everyone is coked out in these spheres.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 11:44 AM
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Deserve it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:38 PM
0

Whatever I perceive as reality is closer to the truth than what anybody else perceives. Thankfully my observations aren't necessary most of the time, my opponents are showing that they observe the same things, I just need to show them the contradictions induced by the fallacious conclusions they drew.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 08:14 PM
2

Women are typically not great at judging how curvy a slim woman is. What you think is minimal boobs and ass might be a lot for such a slim woman. But face > everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:47 PM
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I typically am attracted to immutable traits in women, if the immutable traits are good, the acquired traits don't matter. Wide hips slim waist girl with feminized ratios? She can be fatter, have an high N count, have tattoos, for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:44 PM
0

Imagine actually believing this. Imagine writing a comment without snarky comments. I remember when people tried to argue that feminists were turning men gay by "feminizing" them and now we laugh at how stupid they are to think that. You laugh, while people made TRP because they felt something was lacking in their education, while gay men and trans women are outnumbering gay women and trans men. The evidences aren't lacking, you could always claim correlation not causation but you're too busy be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:37 PM
4

Transwomen don't transition because they believe being a man is hard, they transition because they believe they're women. And why do they believe they're women after feminists reshaped education to teach young boys they're deffectuous women? like you're doing here in the rest of your comment. Women attempt more suicides than men do Because women are recidivists, because women survive their attempts more than men, that makes that number inflated. you would support the feminist ideal of socializin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:42 PM
10

Well sure this bias exists, and then reality still exists beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:40 PM
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The point is that men are seeing being a woman as "grass being greener". There's no reason to believe gender dysphoria hits amab more than afab especially considering the amount of AGP trans women, the difference is social influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 12:37 PM
2

ask her
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:50 PM
2

I see you are unbanned :')
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:42 PM
3

You see if you were more stupid you'd be happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:34 PM
1

I got you, but thanks to that, you forgot you were ever gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:32 PM
1

It's a link toward your own profile, /u/me ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:27 PM
1

Lmao yall fell for this trap, look at the link
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:24 PM
0

You're low test. Hair vehicle sexual pheromones, you should be drawn to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:17 PM
3

This dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:16 PM
1

Not paying me tax money is awful as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:07 PM
1

Then u fine. Some women complain both about having to wear bras and about how uncomfortable it is to be outside without bras. They don't know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:06 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:06 PM
1

What hate, what club?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:01 PM
1

you're not a PPD citizen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:00 PM
1

Then don't complain about bras.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:00 PM
1

No you couldn't say that about any revolution. Nobody in PPD is forcing you to stay there and to pay taxes while using your taxes wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:59 PM
2

"You you you just underrate men!" I don't neeeeeed to underrate men to notice their lack of jaw or the fact they aren't TALL OR their balding Maybe you should notice more the women with too much jaw.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:55 PM
1

I'm still waiting for women to go outside naked. But women are too neurotic to even get out without a bra. "but ppl look at my nipples hurr hurr"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:52 PM
4

Some guy messaged her TWICE.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:51 PM
1

Trying to disband a group you don't want to partake in is not "fighting against the system" it's being a flimsy little bitch. The right way to disband a group is to manage having trans people want to invade it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 12:49 PM
1

Karen wants to talk to the AI manager. And yes, chatgpt is sexist but benevolently in favor of women. It'll refuse to say bad things about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 10:10 AM
2

he was in fact not gigachad, but a peepee poop pants
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 09:59 AM
1

Many women use sex as a reward and women use themselves for sex as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:42 PM
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Most "size queens" I've known FOR SOME REASON preferred BJs to PIV by their own admission. This is for you to understand, they don't actually put any of that stuff entirely in there, they only like size for aesthetic/ego reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 03:16 PM
1

Yeah, if it's not "their body their choice" then their responsibility can't be forced in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 10:48 AM
0

Talk to me when you address my comment not some imaginary shit you think I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:22 PM
1

blabla strawmen strawmen talk to me when you address my comment not some imaginary shit happening in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 01:14 PM
-1

Not really. You have a short window to decide then you yield your bodily autonomy when the fœtus acquires its own. This wasn't what I was talking about though. You don't get to decide if that hobo has a life worth living, yet women insist they can decide for others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:17 PM
1

America has always been 3rd worldy in a way that doesn't affect europe. Everything bad about the USA is trying to influence europe but the changes are meeting resistance and do dissipate. Obesity and child mortality for example. Now, I don't deny europe is getting its issues, but its stable secularity will at the very least maintain abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:38 AM
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Abortion isn't slowly being squeezed out in northern/western europe. You live in a 3rd world and I'm not interested in talking about these countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:13 AM
1

Women are notorious for thinking they can decide if someone deserve to live or not or if a life deserves to be lived or not. But I don't think they have anything truthful to say on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:12 AM
1

Men have actually a lot of advantage with their natural temperament to deal with newborns and toddlers. Women are TOO caring for their own good, which leads to newborns and toddlers not learning habbits or boundaries, and women going insane. Both are needed, I don't doubt women generally decrease mortality rates because they're more concerned about security, but for basic care and affection, men are just as good, it's just a different style and I'll even claim it works better with sons, even as …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:45 AM
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Women and their "postpartum depression" often produce disastrous results. Women don't innately understand shit about newborn either and just because the emotional connection is strong doesn't mean it can't go completely south.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:34 AM
-3

Absent mothers don't exist because they kill their kids before doing that. Nowadays it's modernized and legalized under the name "abortion". x)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 12:31 AM
0

Legalized and normalized. Offering a prostitute for your nephew's 18th birthday kind of normalized. As other people said, many places where it's legalized nothing is different. The issue is the sacralisation of sex and the culture of inhibiting young men against their incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 12:31 PM

I quite never remembered what made "bayes" stuff different from neural networks. I think I have some mild PTSD from my probability courses in engineer school :')
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:51 AM

What about this thread even triggered you to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:38 AM

Hot. Tell me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:36 AM

Some people are capable to make abstraction of their feelings in order to emit judgements. That's called emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:45 PM

Women with higher RMV and similar SMV do exist but they typically don't like me. I seem to be attracting exclusively anticonformist women with low agreeableness. And even if, they won't have the decade of experience with me, they'll have other defects (such as low libido, typically). All in all wouldn't be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:43 PM
2

Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:46 PM
20

The most unrealistic sex I've ever seen was in movies and series, where they passionately kiss, undress, and then he penetrates dry her... pelvic bone or belly. All in 20 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:25 PM
0

Just putting numbers in front of sentences isn't going to magically transform these sentences into a list. You're having a logical reasoning here, work on paragraphes and structuration instead of just formatting it in a list.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 04:37 PM
8

Blue pillers told men not to. Ask them. Women 18-30 might say that, women 40-55 told a different story to their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:59 PM
15

Bro you think loving women is misogyny. You're the one who can't be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:39 PM
21

Bias in favor of women can be seen as misandry if we play by the same rules as misogynist callers. I've yet to find misogyny on reddit that isn't matched with a lot more misandry that goes under the radar of people like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:29 PM
21

Yes I know it's not just porn, you guys look at anything and declare it is misogynistic. You'll look at a picture of a naked woman and call it misogynistic. Then videos of russian and ukrainian men getting killed and you'll be like "it's just war".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:25 PM
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Reddit is overwhelmingly male and overwhelmingly misogynist. Overwhelmingly male and overwhelmingly benevolent to women. Just screaming that porn is misogynistic won't make it actually misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:13 PM
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One of my most upvoted comment: https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/1b58dzz/reddits_hatred_of_men_makes_it_so_difficult_to/kt838vu/ This is so clear yet very often you get told you're just imagining it. Reddit has always been very favorable to women when they need to take a blind judgement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:54 PM
1

Ah, I see, you hear "double burden" and "second shifts" and make up some wild expectations. It's not a shitty term. Then the expectations weren't wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:50 PM

I expected you'd have been married with kids by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:43 PM
1

Red pill core thesis is incoherent Only because you are misrepresenting them to be incoherent. -Hypergamy is always relative, if the average men starts self-improving and in the unrealistic scenario that every men succeeds in it, Red pill isn't here saying that all men should improve in order to improve men's SMP. Red pill is rather saying that all men are fat slob and it's getting worse, it's easy to improve your SMV by not being one. -By definition, only the top % of men are truly considered s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 10:29 AM
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where following a list of steps leads you to a definite reward. It does to be fair. Looking at hot women is rewarding, approaching and talking to them, even getting rejected but with them grinning is rewarding. That's why men need to learn to feel these rewards, it'd help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:50 AM

"realising we're the last generation to have innocent mums" ??? They probably were more promiscuous than their generation will ever be. there really are guys out there who feel very passionate about promiscuous women. But why? Almost every woman I know would say that virginity doesn't harm a man's attractiveness, but 100% of women I told I was a virgin to rejected me. I had sex with the first woman I didn't tell I was a virgin. Reality is everyone cares to some degree. You should simply learn to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:47 AM

You asked yourself the right question which means you already know the answer: No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:40 AM

Experiencing life as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:37 AM

This is poland, they've never not been boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 09:36 AM

Just having things known is a lot, because women have been complaining for decades about anything and that motivates people to change things furthermore in women's favor. Not complaining and not getting your issues known is a net loss in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:22 PM

Yeah you accidentally discover that OP's entire point is saying you should ask advice from people who had your struggle, not women because they can't relate with you, and not attractive men who had no issue because they also can't relate with you. Obviously you don't ask advice from people who haven't resolved their struggle....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:11 PM
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Yeah usually these things are supported heavily by your family. Which also tends to be the family of the woman you marry anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:18 AM
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waves towards french women's general direction
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:16 AM
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My female friends who work in male dominated field with male and female clients all report the same shit. Men will address their breasts and trust them. Women will not address a woman in a male dominated field at all. No trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:37 PM
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They're all essentially women. The glass ceiling is pushed as men's doing, it's mostly women, always has been. Every single female friend I have who works a male job, the only people having issue with this is female customers. Always other women being women's biggest problem. Men are much more likely to believe in meritocracy. Women are the ones much more likely to vote for a woman or against a woman just because they're women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:35 PM
1

Hello /u/EqualSea2001 alt
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:45 AM
1

Heard a lot of good things about possums.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:45 AM
1

We dating neurotypical biological women here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:45 AM
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Women mainly fear that their men will go to another woman, not that their men will leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:44 AM
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I've used dating apps/websites back then and women have always been essentially "ew wtf". And at the same time I could get women naked on cam on MSN and I'm still getting nudes nowadays on discord. Nothing has changed at all. Women are essentially not into it and not into you, finding the ones in heat has always been difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:40 AM
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Hide your shit well because they won't want to marry in the first place otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:31 AM
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Yeah men already know that, women however do think men always need a woman around.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:27 AM
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Men who fuck their wives everyday then cheat on them are probably way higher value than their wives. You pay every unbalance in the relationship, don't forget it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 09:26 AM
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Your anxieties over what he does with other people is invalid. That's none of your business, just like paternity test. Sexual faithfulness is only granted to women who fulfill their sexual duty in marriage seriously. If marital duties aren't perfectly respected then others won't be respected as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:52 AM
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Trust but verify is fine. Tracking someone's position at all time is not verify. ;) You trust the man you risked ruining your body for but he married you, he's legally bound to have his money and assets ruined by you. He owes you nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:42 AM
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I bet you've never played an actual good game and can't tell that these games suck :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:41 AM
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That's how the atreides are described in dune and I couldn't really understand wtf the author meant by that when I read that. I imagined he was greenish which makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:40 AM
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Not only these games are boring but that character is boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:32 AM
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"Oh they want to know if they're the dad of the kids they're about to be responsible of their entire life??? Complete abusive behavior will teach them otherwise" Not the gotcha you think it is. Let's do this then. If he can't know his child is his own, then you can't know where he puts his dick and if he has other side families. What you don't know can't hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:30 AM
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Women be worried you'll leave them for another woman. Bitch you should rather be worried that I'd prefer being alone than with you. :x
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/24 08:25 AM
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You're never not on the market. You're permanently supposed to seduce your wife and make her proud of you by being attractive to other women. Totally missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:12 PM
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I'm 5'5. I tell people that being short is an issue because otherwise they'd believe by watching me, my attitude and the wife I landed that it is not a handicap. They are usually flabbergasted to hear about how some women treated or called me. Nobody thinks I'm somehow an insecure weak person for noticing things. Because I generally am not an insecure weak person but a rather an honest and analytical person. So the conclusion is always the same thing, it's not what you say the problem, it's how …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/24 01:03 PM

You agreed that women do pick assholes over "nice guys" whatever that opinion is, you said it only happens with "low-income and trauma-riddled demographics", that's most women, especially the trauma-riddled demographics easily covers most middle class women.... Not my fault you can't say consistent things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:58 PM

That's your logic, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:30 PM

"hey guys stop focusing on what happens in 95% of the population"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/24 10:22 PM

Smart people also know the limitations of others, and sometimes life feels like most people are missing entire brain functions, especially americans online.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 11:52 AM

School forces you to develop habits to think, but does a pretty crappy job 99% of the time at giving you a way to think. School is really to get a quick glance at everything so you know how much you do not know. Excellent teachers will try to feed you their intuition and critical thinking. But that's rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:34 PM

School is to teach you how much you don't know about everything, not to teach you everything directly, that's your lifetime mission.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 11:01 PM
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Do you also support that it should be considered a fault to not fulfill your partner's sexual needs? Like would you agree sex is a marital duty? IDK if you're honest about all this. But considering a lot of people consider it's not their duty to fulfill their partner's sexual needs, people have adapted by getting fulfilled elsewhere. Mainstream media act like cheating is worst than deadbedroom, but it's really equally bad. And we shouldn't be all that hysterical about it. And worse, masturbating…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 04:28 PM
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I was never confident but I was assertive, that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 06:49 AM
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-there is tons of anti feminism and hate against women in our culture It's not as mainstream nor as big. Feminism is totally a dominant culture in western europe and american state that are akin to western europe (AKA the rich metropole ones, not the rural states)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:20 PM
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Than* Yes. Women are bigoted and men are bullying away the lower value or foreign men who try to get to places where women are. So that men are the ones who look bigoted while women are the actual bigoted ones. Feminism works the same way "waa waa rapists, feminicide, it's men's fault" it's actually all about foreign men but they can't possibly be voicing it explicitly therefore men are taking the hit. Men tend to idealize meritocracy more than women which is incidentally more open minded. Of co…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:18 PM
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IME concealing is the default behavior and should totally be incorporated into your dating strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 07:15 PM
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Nothing new, but it's just weird that a blue pill woman would just blatantly expose it while thinking they're making a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:52 PM
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I don't believe that women to tru to conceal their interest in a man. I'm not sure how people can dwell this world and not know a lot of women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 03:51 PM
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If women have the tendency to conceal their attraction, which I'm sure we've all observed with our female friends relative to their crushes. Or If women have the tendency to only be attracted to men who approach them, which both red pill and blue pill kind of agrees with. Or If women have the tendency to only throw plausibly deniable indicators of interests, which could be also interpreted as sympathy and politeness. Then surely, waiting for indicators of interest is stacking the odds against yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:19 AM
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What I get from this is women can't detect misogyny and when they say they can, they're just imagine red flags in people they deem ugly without any other hint.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:12 AM

Men aren't following societal "pressure" like women do. Men are only following the principles that lead to sex. And these haven't been improved or liberated by feminism. The only difference is women will tell you none of these things matter and then not fuck or date you if you don't fit. It's a coping mechanism they offer, for neurotic men, not any sort of liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:23 AM

Yeah the joke being that libfem feminists think they liberated men from expectations of getting married and having kids, as if men were ever victim of societal pressure. Men know the pressure isn't what their parents tell them to do, men follow the one and only pressure that matters: who women decide to fuck. The only difference is now women still fuck and marry the same guys all the while telling to your face none of that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:21 AM

Most women ain't that attractive chef. Especially not compared to men. Especially not after their first kid. And while women get worse looking by the day, they demand bigger advantages in the relationship, while giving less. So while I agree with what you said, women always behave in the total opposite of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 08:18 AM

1 Freedom from financial exploitation Feminism hasn't freed men from that. 2 Avoidance of Marriage as a Trap: Feminism hasn't freed men from that. 3 Escaping the Role of the Protector: Feminism hasn't freed men from that. 4 Reduced Emotional Manipulation: Feminism hasn't freed men from that. 5 Freedom from Unwanted Commitments: Feminism hasn't freed men from that. It seems like you're comparing married men from before to celibate men from now. Which makes no damn sense. Celibate men from before …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 11:31 AM

so what's your point? now ugly women should expect average men to cheat just like average women are told to expect chad to cheat? You expect that differentials in looks aren't paid back one way or another? You got couples with a woman who is uglier than the guy, but who treats the guy like he's her match, expects him to work for sex, work for commitment, and do everything, so that he's actually not only dating someone uglier she's also asking a lot from him, and you're puzzled as yo why there wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:47 PM

If a woman claims they're looksmatched, reality is he's better looking than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:20 PM

Spoiler: she thinks she picked a sub 5 but she's just delusional about the power dynamic in her couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:09 PM

I got sex when I stopped telling women I was a virgin, and they couldn't tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:04 PM

conversation obviously about hetero men GAY MEN THO LOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:03 PM

I consider that man to be ugly therefore he is below average. You see, this doesn't compute. If 80% of men are ugly like women always show through statistics, polls, and even from their own admission.... Then 80% of men can't be bellow average. he doesn’t look masculine Tall, decent shoulder width, large long chin, jaw wider than cheekbones, masculine eyes. Forhead and pattern balding being his main defects. He's not just average. His attitude and body language are repulsive however.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:51 PM

I'll leave sperm donation to you and I'll keep having normal sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:46 PM

You sound like you're indisposed at the idea that I, a short man, am winning natural selection harder than you :(
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:30 PM

I didn't say ugly or beautiful, I said sightly above average. He has a lot of sightly above average masculine traits. Women think the average man is a 2.5/10 it doesn't even matter what's they think is beautiful or ugly. Speak in term of percentiles instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:21 PM

Lust is literally the only thing that's keeping humans into existence. Money isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:11 PM

They're short, they have my belly, they have my shitty skin condition, I know the week of conception and my wife wasn't outside of my perimeter. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:07 PM

I wasn't their first, they weren't my first.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:05 PM

Natural selection doesn't care about intents, natural selection only cares about results. I'm short and I got kids, I won natural selection. Doesn't matter what women really want. Sperm donation is obviously going to reduce you to a bunch of numbers. ANd you're going to spread you seeds more than other men. However I'm not personally into having kids, I'm into having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:03 PM

You got baited into breaking TOS...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:00 PM

too much lube isn't going to be a problem. I remember my first sexual encounters with my partners I felt like nothing as well. Like there was pressure but there wasn't any friction. Usually took some weeks of adaptation for every new partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:58 PM

Vagina dept and lub are proportional to arousal. When you feel nothing is when it's too deep, wide, and lubbed and he's too small obviously. Wideness is more a problem of muscles though. But you can't just tell "she wasn't aroused" being the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:50 PM

you typically don't "feel" sex when you're on the contrary too aroused...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:38 PM

(2) Be Civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:33 PM

He's not getting thirst at all from women is what I wanted to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:32 PM

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:27 PM

He's above average both in height and sightly in looks. He's not getting much thirst at all either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:24 PM

Jokes on whoever spammed me with suicidewatch message, you can report that for harassment and they know who you are. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:14 PM
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They were dying in backalleys and hospitals from failed abortions/birth mishaps Not at any significant rate. (Also you know who made it so only men get sent to war?- men. Rich families, not men. Female rulers didn't care to change any of this either, and apparently were even more inclined to send men to die at war. And while a minority of people decided for the majority, regardless of if it was men or not, nothing indicates it was intrinsically worse for women. You wanna know what group of peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 02:53 AM

Yeah poland boasts about its low crime rate because they're a racist xenophobic christian country. Their human indicators are still low. ANy country with intense immigration from third world is going to have higher crime rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 01:37 PM

She's a shit tester, a yapping little dog, she has no balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:10 PM

Hm. The few times I seen poland ppl circlejerk online, they really seemed just like a bunch of smug racist christians, so I thought it checked out with america pretty well. Especially both also seem to enjoy badmouthing france in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 12:02 PM

I have theorized that americans are basically poland people culturally. How does that hold?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:50 AM

Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 11:39 AM

You want me to pretend? No on the contrary. You're in a rebellious phase and it's going to be the drive for change eventually, unless you get stuck in it for too long... It's still better than those who are in denial. Ignore the reality of male nature, basically act like an ignorant cow being lead to the slaughter house? You should embrace the reality of male nature, know it, accept it, love it for what's good in it, and try to minimize how much of the bad in it affects you. This is what everyon…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:34 PM

Part of growing up to be an adult involves scrutinizing moral codes, take what's good for cooperating with others, like "don't do to others what you'd not want be done to you", and reject what's obviously a manipulation tool, like "don't discuss salaries with coworker" or "don't approach women". So being morally bankrupt really isn't the critic you think it is, especially when the morals you adopt are biased in favor of women. It's perfectly plausible for some men to feel that society isn't resp…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:29 PM

I don't understand, he posted a comment then immediately deleted his account?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:22 PM

That is racist rhetoric, nobody has the pass or everyone has it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:20 PM

Accepting the opposite gender's nature is part of maturing. Being bitter, angry or hateful at it is childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:19 PM

I'm not too sure about the context but it doesn't sound as bad as you made it sound like. The dude's stance is basically that according to him, empathy contract in society is broken. And he's getting ratioed, so not really an average interaction nor a popular opinion. As a general rule, I'd advise men not to try and help women being harassed or attacked by men, because you as a single man will risk more by trying to help, than what she's currently risking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:19 PM

it's ok you did your first level FIFY you're not allowed to do another layer of the same FIFY before 24h.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:11 PM

Why have you not matured?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:10 PM

Someone who committed suicide by nwording without a pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:08 PM

And the clitoris looks like a cute button. A dick, clitoris looks like a tiny dick. I don’t know what you’re talking about You were supposed to learn about male nature a lot earlier, you'd have been a lot more mature if you did so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:06 PM

I believe you. Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 11:06 PM

Least strawmaned opinion on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:57 PM

Post it on /r/notinteresting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:56 PM

Oh there's a wall, it doesn't mean there are consequences though. The only thing women suffer from, is men dying at such a rate that they're becoming too rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:54 PM

tiktok influencer fakes being mad for the fake situation that never happened FIFY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:52 PM
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The other gender was sent to war to die. Both men and women were having the shorter end of the stick compared to RICHER FAMILLIES but not to one another. Now, women have the choice to either marry a rich man, or work, to get money. Or both. Yeah, I think pretty indisputably, women are privileged, and the more women grab bigger part of the cake, the more society will turn to shit. It'll eventually self balance, either softly, either harshly. It's objectively hilarious to me anyone would think tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:46 PM
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Biologically though... Women live for longer in better shape, need less physical activity to maintain good health. Women have the longer stick, some minor discomfort and chronic health issues aren't out-weighting dying, it's hardly even debatable. how would you like to have a 25 year window of fertility, of which 5-10 years are spent figuring yourself out, and the remaining years are spent finding a partner who will support you as you are going through years of helplessness due to a baby heavily…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:41 PM
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I don't think you're saying that in good faith. Otherwise you'd have claimed gillionaire25 made no sense instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:33 PM
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Blue pillers tend to insist that majority of cheating, transmitting stds and having unresolved issues is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:25 PM
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that's a list of reasons why straight dating is disadvantageous for men, not for women. It's like applying to new jobs and getting worse pay each time you get hired That's so funny you got it so backward. If a woman's value decrease with every guy she dates/fucks, while a man's value increases with every woman he dates/fucks. Then for every job women get, they get paid more while working less. While men get paid less while working more. It's exactly like having a kid with a woman. The kid will m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:21 AM
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Women's stick is longer it's hardly even debatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:18 AM
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Purple pill women's n°1 hobby on PPD: Acting like blue pillers don't exist when people are trying to address their points. If you don't see yourself being the target audience of such a post, why do you even comment under it????
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 02:17 AM

Women want normal men and not men acting like women, what a surprise. This is literally what RP's trying to explain since the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:44 PM

The men you're mimiquing are also convinced they're talking about women the same way women talk about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:46 PM

Why out of everyone would men specifically be triggered by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:46 PM

Ozempic proves that tricking your body into thinking it ate but then make it flush everything it ate works. Calories in calories out was never the problem, the problem is hunger.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:44 PM

Ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:42 PM

Women don't get that sperm for free In a lot of countries, they do. Not being able to profit from your own body is not a privilege... This isn't the point being made.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:42 PM

Stop using reddit, men made it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:41 PM

Making men useless does wreck men's condition. though this isn't explicitly sperm donation that is doing that, it's society as a whole acting like men are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:23 PM

So women can get access to men's resources for free without even talking to a man, and men cannot access women's reproductive services, and you think men are privileged for being made useless in that context?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:22 PM

If your country outlaws prostitution or surrogate pregnancy, but not sperm banks or sperm donation/selling, then your country is misandrist and women are a privileged class.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:13 PM

their body will literally not allow it and it'll go fight or flight response just to avoid death. So why are they not fighting nor flighting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 09:03 PM

as much as you kick and scream you're not going to die from it Then fight harder until there's no choice for the attacker? Have you ever tried play fight with a partner? Alone it's impossible to penetrate a woman if she doesn't let you, you need your entire arm strength to pull her legs apart, and you need your arms for the rest...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:38 PM

You often hear "rape is worse than death" but rarely "woman fought to death to avoid rape". Same shit with women attempting suicide more and recidiving suicide attempts more but all in all dying of suicide less. Hysteria seems to just be female nature. (Hello mella yes I'm giving you extra work ouink ouink)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 06:23 PM

Yes but cunning kind of intelligence is always going to be more favored than raw intelligence that doesn't perform. Smarter people simply achieve to get more resources for themselves and their offsprings all the while being able to get higher quality partners who are themselves smart. Problem is it takes typically several generations for it to pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:17 PM

Money is the key for material happiness, beauty is the key for social happiness. Plenty of people are perfectly able to sabotage themselves from within with depression and neuroticism even tho they have beauty and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:13 PM

I oscillated 4 or 5 times between "it's about dating the mom" and "it's about dating the daughter".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 08:09 PM
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I'm not reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:28 AM
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That's a fat strawman over here. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:27 PM
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I consider it a good thing too. Other bad things happened and lack of productivity has to be paid one way or another. one of the risks being our societies get replaced by those who will impose monetary stress on women to force them to pair up. More egalitairan things could be done to ensure our values stay. Having the choice to go childfree is good, having the choice to go childfree and expecting others to pay for that isn't good.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:08 PM
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I'm not reading. Go throw your fallacies at someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:06 PM
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Doesn't seem that women value free will and consent from the men who grow their food, build their tech, build and maintain infrastructure, electricity and water grid, ect ect... So why should men care? The point is simple. You partake in society not just for job and financial opportunities, but sexual and marital ones too. If sexual and marital opportunities are poor, then suddenly being paid to work isn't sufficient at all, for both men and society, and it'll eventually have a repercussion one …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:05 PM
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I totally agree, women are maintaining the part of society that deals with human care. You can't not interact with a woman when you need anything human related. Meanwhile, everything men do is virtualized and indirect. An example I often use is sperm banks vs surrogate pregnancies. Women can make a kid without ever meeting a man, for free. Men have to negotiate and be a good deal to a woman to get sex or to get a kid, society will regulate that or even outright forbid it. My point wasn't to clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 10:00 PM
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What an argument, sad it didn't convince me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:55 PM
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Lol why would that happen ? Why do you think it's not happening right now, been progressively getting worse every year. Well that's a huge IF. They're not opting out Again another thing that's progressively happening already, so not an if.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:54 PM
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IDK what that dude says and I didn't talk of voting power. What's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:52 PM
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Weirdly it seems that women's attraction is highly conditional to their environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 09:30 PM
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You can generate incentives. A lot of countries choose tax cuts, welfare and social securities to motivate people to have kids. In my country, having 3 kids gets you enough state help that it outweights a minimum wage job (all expenses considered). We could imagine a more authoritarian and tradcon country would specifically design taxes to furthermore punish childfree people. Because being childfree means your contribution to the country is halved compared to a child haver, and society really ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:09 PM
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Free markets exist in nature, constructing anything does bias free markets. And yes, it's related. Free markets are survival of the fittest but zoomed out to observe big groups and populations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:06 PM
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Yeah, it's not a free market either, since you never see you boss you cannot kill him if he isn't a good deal to his employee. Jeff bezos still being alive says a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:05 PM
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lame That's not an argument women tend to get along no problem that's not true And why don't we change women to be productive, interesting human beings too? If women decide to remove half of their productivity by choice because the incentives to be productive are gone, you indeed want them to change. women get way more pleasure from sex than men so it becomes more stupid. Irrelevant and wrong. Women don't get men's drive at all, and while their orgasms are said to be more intense than men's, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:03 PM
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Steal and murder are part of a free market. outlawing it makes it not a free market. You never asked yourself why was the "free market" so shit when people couldn't kill the insane CEOs?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:00 PM
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Do you think paying is enough? Do you think if everyone works then society works fine? What happens in 20 years when half that workforce becomes retired and no new people appear to replace them? Working, paying taxes, is only half your contribution to society, the other half is making kids and raising them. Similarly, work opportunities is only half of what society is supposed to provide, the other half is sexual and marital opportunities. If women opt out and refuse to be available to men, then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:59 PM
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Oh hi sublime didn't read your nickname. I can recognize a PPD lounger debating style when I see one. "I've never seen it/None of that makes sense" very dismissive haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:11 AM
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So you do understand. Of all the items and comfort you have, you never saw the dude who made it. But you know who has been in charge of all things human, you know your parents, teachers, nannies, nurses, cashiers, ect... You have direct interactions with the women, you are agreeable and polite to them, you try and be a good deal to them. Men don't agree to work to build the infrastructure for a society that hasn't sexual and marital opportunities. Being paid isn't enough. Just like paying taxes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:01 AM
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I don't want to remove anything. I'm making a statement, this isn't a free market. What's creepy are your strawmens. What's creepy is women promised that women were unshallow and good people and that giving them more would result in better things for men. Only to turn around and ask what are men even good at. Women need to change, stop being creepy, women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:04 AM
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Child support exists, and even then, women with children don't just become homeless and start going rogue. Rogue attitudes are still essentially a male greediness thing, which are stimulated by.... I shit you not... Lack of economical and sexual opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:13 AM
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How so? Do you buy food directly to the farmer? Do you grow your own food to barter with others? Did you build the road or hired people to build it for you? Do you talk very often with the guys who run the electricity or water grid? All of that is done virtually and cheaply.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:57 AM
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The need for security from other men would likely drop if the sexual needs and incentive for polysexuality are pulled down. In fact I am wrong. It's not that civilisation would not appear, it's that we'd go extinct, one gender needs to have strong sexual drive or the specie doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:50 AM
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Men group up and work toward prosperity and security to make welcoming ground for women to come and for women to be sexually available to them. Remove that incentive and men will scarcely even want to improve things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:41 AM
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No, everything. All the infrastructure, services, and labor of other men, providing women with shelters, food, electricity, water, security, technology, ect... Think of it like sperm banks vs surrogate pregnancies. A woman can get a kid thanks to sperm banks without ever seeing a man. To get a kid a man would need to pay or convince a woman to have that baby for him. Everything men do is indirectly provided cheaply to women, everything women do is expensive and direct.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:38 AM
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This isn't a free market. You say "nature chooses" but murder and rape are in nature but aren't much part of this market. Society is designed in a way that allows men's labor, presence and protection to be transferred to people and specifically women regardless of their contribution to society. What's happening is women have a lot of pressure removed off their back so their "nature chooses" is dramatically altered.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:35 AM
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Civilisation would literally not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 12:32 AM
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It's better for you as a man that you get around women who have normal female incentives. You as a man aren't going to be working toward kids and commitment, if you do you're getting scammed and you're practically begging another person to be paying them twice for the same thing. Because you see modern cultures have women try to convince men that they should work for sex and work for commitment and kids as well. No. She has to work for commitment and kids. But that's assuming that you have mascu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 02:10 PM
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Ah yeah guess that "female scientist" (I trust that she's doing some research on nuclear energy, low carbon footprint fuels, or cures for cancer and other useful stuff and not fucking sociological pseudoscience), doesn't eat, doesn't need electricity, water, roads, doesn't need furniture, hardware, infrastructure, tech, and tax money, that everybody else's kids are helping happen. That female scientist will also just die the second she stops working, nobody will need to take care of her, she als…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:59 PM
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Not all women are valuable. Just like there are plenty of men who will not pursue male incentives, and they won't be passing their genes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:32 PM
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How is anybody not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:08 PM
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opens any animal documentary male animal struggles to find willing females, in 99% of animal species and 100% of mammal species same shit every where Why are men "tOdAy" struggling????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:22 PM

you brought up having a job and no kids vs having kids but no job. If you can live without working aren't you more efficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:28 PM

You're changing the premise, at the end of the day you lose natural selection, regardless of if you think you're a winner or if you think you're a loser, regardless of if you believe natural selection is a good metric to evaluate someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:22 PM

At the end of the day he'll live longer and propagate his genes and you'll be proud of... making someone else richer. Maybe you should reevaluate what is a valid flex and what isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:15 PM

Natural selection working as intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 04:03 PM

I expected you to do exactly that and you did. I quite literally explained that in order to be considered a feminist or a red piller you need to have feminist or red pill talking point. You describe people with black pill talking points. If a feminist started telling me that men need to pump and dump women if they want it I'd hardly consider them feminist. Stop being bad faith you're not gotchaing me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 02:26 PM

What do you want to know? I disagree with both feminism on an ideological standpoint and with feminists. But frequently do I hear self labeled feminists not being even up to date with feminist talking points, but they're still feminist talking points so I consider them feminists. For instance, the wage gap has been debunked, wage gap isn't in fact men paying women less like feminism used to claim, it's women's choices leading to being paid less one way or another. Feminists moved on to claim tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:07 PM

I may be exaggeration in some of my formulation. By googling "mbti stats" you get a couple website giving you the frequency of each types. Usually, SJ being the most common, SPs second most common, and Ns rarest. Which again, makes a lot of sense on an evolutionary standpoint. SJs being the backbone of the work force. SPs being explorers, travelers and other more risky types. And Ns being straight out useless or leadership-like. Too much SPs or Ns would not make society stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 01:00 PM

You're literally describing black pill beliefs. So they're just not red pilled, at least on that topic, doesn't matter how they self label. And you're not being blue pill by defending it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:46 PM

I've not pushed forward any definition of pseudoscience so what are you even claiming?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:44 PM

so that is definitely not the truth. I said 80% of people claiming to be N here aren't N, you computed 80% of 14 and as a result think what I say is not the truth? There are lot of holes in your reasoning. What I'm saying is simple, if the 80% part bugs you just imagine it's not there, most ppl who claim to be N aren't N. So is there an actual stat about the 20/80 for Ns and Ss or is it just your experience? There are actual stats, but I don't know how trustworthy they are. And it's also my pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:42 PM

Psychology is a pseudoscience. Separating the human landscape into 16 groups isn't refutable by science. Self reporting is very biased. These things aren't dependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:36 PM

That's a huge understatement. Psychology is a pseudoscience to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:29 PM

STs are over represented on the planet and a lot claim to be NT. It's not biased to claim there's 80% chance you're not N, it's just the truth. Look at this long list of ppl who think they're who answered you, while 80% of the people I talk to on this subreddit is piss awful with abstractions. And I don't mean piss awful like an ISTJ would, ISTJs are actually fine in comparison....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:27 PM

Tests are garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:17 PM

Stats generally show only 20 to 25% of the pop is N. But also, ppl love to claim to be N when nothing about them is. It's just a common bias. On an evolutionary standpoint it makes sense, 50% of ppl being N would be a big problem, civilisations wouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:16 PM

That's literally a shitty advice only a teenager could spew. When you're 19 obviously anything will make you lose weight. However, later in your 20s, 45 min of cardio everyday is going to make you feel just bad, make you lose muscle, make you hungry as fuck, make you fall sick. Losing weight is all about managing your hunger, some people have stronger hunger than others and it's less easy for them. So losing weight is all about what you eat and when you eat. Lots of fibers fats and proteins, low…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:10 PM

I lied about my virginity after being rejected twice for it. You don't need to be machiavellian. You just need to never say you're virgin, and you need to act like you've a sexual history. And I'm a pretty bad liar. it doesn't take that much effort. Lost my virginity shortly after that, and when I told the girl I was a virgin she didn't believe me. It caused zero drama to anyone at all. What are you even thinking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:07 PM

80% chance you're not N, and nobody here claiming to be N being actually N.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:04 PM

RP men in favor of inaction and agaisnt cold approaching? You been reading black pill men not red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:03 PM

actress giga chad's jaw Name a more iconic duo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 12:01 PM

Yes. I lost my virginity shortly after I started acting like sex was a normal thing in my life. Was literally being rejected for being a virgin or for giving off virgin vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 11:59 AM
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The point is not to tell women to not be careful, but to tell women to stop acting like they're in constant danger more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 10:34 PM

I was like this at 15~18, then I stopped caring and eventually it worked a lot better with women. Quickly learned that whatever they complained about was still mandatory to get around them and be considered a man, being an inhibited asexual around women triggers only friendship from them and they tend to consider you like a woman. Part of maturing as a man is not letting others lecture you on how you should feel, how you should think, and what makes you happy. These are yours. Men do this too, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:16 PM

I'm not interested in whatever you have to say, sort this out with your blue pill friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:27 PM

Why don't yall argue with the blue piller who disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:17 PM

Why don't yall argue with the blue piller who disagree with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:17 PM

You talk like I need a lesson and an argument, say that to the person I answered to, who pretends confidence is not expected and isn't an objective liked trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 01:13 PM
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Let's admit that you're right, then why do blue pillers keep claiming the opposite, that confidence is mandatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:46 PM

No, it's outlawed, bundled with anime.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:28 PM

You never said it but I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:25 PM

Animes is outlawed so it can't be a meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:25 PM

Hi LAL. I'm not reading your stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:22 PM

Right now, snowpiercer episode 5 made me write that comment in particular. But plenty of movies or series do sex scenes just like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:22 PM

Have you tried working out and eating more proteins. You can totally as a woman be 19.5 BMI and look chubby.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:19 PM

Hate to break it to you but sangoku is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:18 PM

People talk a lot about unrealistic standards porn set. But the one thing that did set unrealistic standards for me is normal movies. They just get in heat and go direct for penetration dry 5 seconds after they started kissing, with impossible angles. Porn at least has some foreplays.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 02:16 PM
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If all women prefer older men, what should 16-20 year old men do? They wait alone until they're old enough to have a bigger pool of dating options. Same shit happens to older women, they wait alone until they die. But it's more after 50 that this happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 11:05 AM
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Men's behavior need to not be the result of a thought process but of what they want. Men need to be sexually assertive, and what will make it creepy or intolerable is the insistance and speed, not the sexual assertiveness itself. So what men need to learn is the method not the thing itself. Because women do expect and want men to be full men, with the entire package, which includes male sexuality. And the earlier you show that you're a full man, the earlier they'll respect that you are sexually …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 09:31 AM

Feminine intuition.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:21 PM

Blue pill women on here love to claim others are angry for some reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:06 PM

These oscillation are dephased depending which is the dominant in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 04:01 PM

What comes with age? To be more reasonable? I'd say it comes in oscillation. There are moments I learned to adapt to others to achieve certain goals and moments I closed up back again to protect myself. I'm definitively a lot less trying to cater to others than when I was in my early 20s, I must be on the same level of "fuck you I'll do what I want" as when I was 5 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:51 PM

I'm the opposite, I can't be arsed to try and appeal to others and it's also quite bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:45 PM

I'm french, so probably macron.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:45 PM

Don't listen to his bullshit. Being smart and pleasant achieves nothing. Be cunning and assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:36 PM

Feminist historians have done a lot in fucking men in the ass by convincing everyone that women's life conditions were more horrible than men for the entirety of human's existence. So clearly it doesn't lift fridges but it does lift society. Maybe if you guys were masturbating less about WWII you could be doing something useful like convincing everyone by doing "women bad" historical papers. On another note, maybe pick a domain that is more tech and science focused if you want to write useful th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:34 PM

Chubby chasers does fuel women's idea that women are meant to be fat and that men are meant to prefer women fat. But men's low standards does fuel the idea that women are more valuable. The problem is that reality is women are born more valuable and lose that value very quickly, and their survival and fitness test comes late in the form of how attractive they are after one pregnancy for instance. Since women are absolutely unapologetic about rejecting men who didn't succeed the fitness test, men…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:28 PM

You're allowed to be a loser and to be a little late, it's fine. Just know that you're no better than some of the incels on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:25 PM

It's a common recurrent joke that when men do it it's fun and when women do it it's gross. But who would have thought a movie made for men, essentially financed and rewarded by men, is going to cater to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:21 PM

4 more years before being officially a femcel spinster.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:17 PM

Commentators aren't here to do politics and to make fun of athletes. Boomer or not. I've not seen many american sport commenter but even with the few I've seen it's not normal. Artists can do whatever the hell they want even if it's cringe, bad, and stupid. It's not the same thing. And entire faiths can be made fun of. I imagine you're refering to the opening ceremony, which were depicting dyonisos not jesus. When you get fired for a thing you said on twitter that isn't even linked to your real …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:16 PM

This is a harmless joke but this is unprofessional as fuck and not funny, this is a billion years away from Olympic commentator behavior. And I'm a red pilled dude on PPD. Commentators aren't here to do politics and to make fun of athletes. Artists can do whatever the hell they want even if it's cringe, bad, and stupid. It's not the same thing. And entire faiths can be made fun of. I imagine you're refering to the opening ceremony, which were depicting dyonisos not jesus.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 03:11 PM

If you ask for proof of things in front of your eyes don't be surprised you're ignored. People ain't gonna do your homeworks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 12:35 AM

High standard women come in 3 archetypes: Jock women, expect conventionally attractive and fit men, as well as socially attuned, neuronormative men. Very likely to cheat, divorce, leave, for any reason. High disgust women, expect conventionally attractive and fit men with low degree of masculinity (because body hair gross them out). Low libido, bad sexual partners, not likely to leave you but very hard to get to begin with. Baggage collector women, hate men with a passion, have several officiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 12:42 PM
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Blue pilled and red pilled dating advices never changed. Generations are cycling to blue pill or red pill they're not changing that much. Women who had their youth during sexual revolution might have lived through very red pilled times and yet are spewing blue pill shit to their sons nonetheless because they got burned out of the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:14 AM

Cheaters are sociosexual and generally high standard, they're jock type women expecting jock type guys who will not like anticonformists, unathletic, unsociable or unmasculine men. So you got things upside down. High standard women are all bad news either they're likely to cheat either they're high disgust and likely poor sexual partners. The high disgust women might be indeed less likely to cheat but they're not the type to divorce you outright for any reason, they need strong attachment and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 11:04 AM

You were doing well up until the "miss you" part, we in fact don't miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 08:43 AM

Is she rich and can you fuck women on the side?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:16 PM

Pussy is pussy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:15 PM

I love that there's somewhat realistic depiction of an ageing man who then thinks he can turn into a young anime girl, like that's exactly how they think it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:15 PM
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I know quite a bunch of men who never even cared to try, and some others who literally turned gay to have an actual sexual and romantic life. That's like 20% of men I know and they weren't the ugliest but definitively those with the least masculine drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 08:23 AM
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Note that beyond the fact that exceptions do not matter, this isn't quite what carnival said, sicne you weren't with her when she got raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:58 PM

YEah I just hope that your couple dynamic isn't "We do things together because she sabotages everything when we don't" xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:05 AM
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