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When men say they want women to approach, they mean them, not the same pretty guy that every older masculine women approach and even sexually assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:24 PM
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The bread is bland but it's here as a texturer. But it's true that any hamburger is still better if you replace the bread by french bread.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:18 PM
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Says the person who can't read "Discussion" and is making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:57 PM
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You're describing homosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:31 PM
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Without any surprise, you can't quote me doing these things you accuse me of. I have a master in computer science btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:28 PM
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Someone was unhappy I ignored them on a main thread and followed me on the daily to make up shit about me. Insane people today.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:25 PM
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Quote me doing all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:21 PM
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Quote me inciting a bridage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:15 PM
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I know you're dying to be this person but you're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:15 PM
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She should try and be an egg producer, I heard this is very lucrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:14 PM
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Well you better have your feelings hurt before it's too late. "I'm learning how to code and I'm making an app" is a solid way to get your ass wrecked by reality. It's not a one man job eldorado like it was 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:02 PM
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You're going to do 2 years. You'll have 50 college emails from business students who have "amazing app ideas" that they want you to dev for them. You'll just known enough to know that nothing is that simple, you need to be born rich to bootstrap a new social media/app whatever. You'll hate coding. You'll give it a shot for 10 years. Burn out. And convert to become a goat herder. How do I know? Have seen it happen a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:51 PM
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With math and cs you're going to be a standard code wageslave. And tbf, if computer science didn't jump as a revelation to you, you're probably going to hate it like 99.999% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:43 PM
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you're all future cheerios?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:36 PM
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She's not wrong, we only need shoes, soap, and beds, because we grew accustomed to these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:55 PM
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Uneducated types really need to stop trying to win arguments by just writing nonsense. Debating has rules and too many people try to disguise their shit flinging circlejerks as serious debate. Nobody's getting intimidated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:15 PM
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and hopes that some other guy might get turned on and later jerk off at home fantasizing about her yes, you're the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:02 PM
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It's normal, you're a woman after all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:42 PM
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rm -rf ania
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:40 PM
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Happens with all circlejerk subreddit, can't be sure they're ironical or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:24 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/mapporncirclejerk/comments/1j3z07d/why_didnt_the_romans_start_their_empire_in/ /u/EqualSea2001 ANSWER THIS§§§
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:05 PM
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Hopefully never
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:02 PM
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Reminder: Can't call for "tu quoque fallacy" or "whataboutism" when the implicit predicate of your points are that there is no reciprocity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:45 PM
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You can't have markets stop being markets by pretending they're not markets though. There's nothing much you can do about the dating market, one way to influence it positively for men is to have a pyramid of age that actually looks like a pyramid of age.... The problem with america is that it insists on markets being free when they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:44 PM
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Like I used to think I was shallow for not finding high body fat men attractive, even if they could lose it, it's still outer appearance, but it turned to "lifestyle" or personality That's the kind of mental gymnastic I expect from women more than men. Men outside of pill sphere don't have inhibition about showing their shallowness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:31 PM
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I'd like to flair these people so that I can remember these guys and shut them down earlier. There was a reddit plugin for it that allowed for this but it's not supported anymore :[
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:22 PM
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They won't tell me, they dodging the question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:42 AM
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Someone had the nerve to tell me mammals aren't animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:39 AM
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They were wrong about lizzard people infiltrating our governments, those are fungus people instead :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:38 AM
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This was never a debate, you can't formulate points, and you ended up doing ad hominems when all things failed. This is you losing a debate you couldn't even start and ridiculing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:37 AM
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Shit flinging and fallacies aren't debating. But good to know you side with this person even after they claim mammals and humans aren't animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:36 AM
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You don't deserve my time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:34 AM
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Dude, you can’t be animals and mammals, we’re only mammals. https://letmegooglethat.com/?q=are+mammals+animals This is just insane to have these sort of beliefs and then come talk to me of emotions. Are you religious or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:20 AM
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You can't come up with a counter, nice cheap shot. What is there to counter? Your guy is conflicted and stupid. You are a poor deal. Please block him and move on with your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:11 AM
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I'm not reading you anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:10 AM
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Red herring. Make a point or ignore me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:09 AM
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We're mammals not animals, We've evolved long past that. Nonsense. We are both mammals and animals. All mammals are animals. The other categories are fungus and plant. Good luck with that. They claim their too emotional and don't use logic, Even when logic is slapping them in the face. Strawman. I didn't not call anybody emotional. I called talking points emotional. You need to be making logical reasoning for your points to have weight. Otherwise they're free to be dismissed as just shit flingin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:08 AM
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Still not showing me how any of this is about "modern men" or "personal responsibility". All you're doing is showing me how much you hate when people do it. Playing dumb and acting innocent aren’t remotely believable manipulation tactics. I'm concluding you can't explain it. I'll explain it to you. You're taking emotional talks, and want me to believe it's horrible because it's factually saying something it doesn't. It's only emotional, it's not factual. Hypergamy is only a negative thing if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:05 AM
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HE WAS THE ONE PUSHING FOR MARRIAGE. He changed his mind clearly. Religion does mess with people. That's literally what dread gaming is, triggering feelings of abandonment in the hopes of getting a response. And when women do it suddenly dread gaming is called "asserting boundaries/being respected". Reality of things is he doesn't think you're that much worth it and that you don't pull your own weight, either for good reasons or because he somehow convinced himself of it. If i've been 'rejected'…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:41 AM
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Market actors are going to try to influence the market, water is wet. Please tell me how any of this is "dehumanizing" and "lacking personal responsibility" or concerns "modern men" or "men" at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:32 AM
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But humans are animals. And there are male humans and female humans. The only people who think "females" is dehumanizing are people who answer with emotions and not logic. The same thing you do in your post. so you don't have to acknowledge that maybe your the real problem here. So all this post was a very clumsy way to say "incels talk shit about women to not have to admit they're the problem", except "incels" became "modern men" and "talk shit" became "behave" and somehow all that produces "de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:30 AM
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we would've been planning our wedding. Yes, and he'd be miserable. Why is that a good thing? Do you think he'd be happy in the long run? If he ruined it with stupid tactics maybe he didn't want that and he felt that you weren't pulling your own weight. Manipulating and abusing people won't make you happy in the long run. Only you think it's about manipulation and abuse. The reality is you were rejected and want to rebrand it as something else. Stop ego posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:21 AM
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The dating market is a market. People are trying to influence markets in their favor and it's nothing new nor exclusive to men. Or people can simply study the market. Besides people can simply complain about the things they dislike about markets, and the frustration they generate, and you're reading too much into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:15 AM
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This wouldn't improve the relationship in any other circumstances. Nothing would. So the best move is to quit it. but he's trying to reestablish contact? Again, I can't attest that any of this is actual "manosphere tactics". I just want to point out that break up was maybe the best strategy. He doesn't believe in sex before marriage so no. Lol. Ew. Doubt. Don't come to a debate sub to complain about your life. If at least you were open to debate your situation, but no, you're clearly ego posting…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:12 AM
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They don't want to isolate woman So not like "the nazis" according to your own logic. They want enough people to agree that woman are "lesser" What part of hypergamy and calling women "female" is effectively making people believe women are "less human"? Is "lesser" dehumanizing? Why? how? Are children not human? can't make reasonable choices so they can then argue women shouldn't have the same choices as men and men should make these choices for them. Which part of that indicates lack of persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 10:06 AM
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How does that make any sense? manosphere tactics is for men to have better relationships, yours was not good to him, so it destroyed it, which is a good thing for him. So unless you're having sex, a relationship can't exist? Sex defines everything? You should look for relationships that fulfill your incentives. As a young man your incentives aren't only sex, but sex is a high priority. Because some people are idiots and can't stand for themselves, idioms exist such as "ldrs and sexless relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:57 AM
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Oh that kind of thing. Sadly this sub exists thanks to the shitposters as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:29 AM
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My bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:11 AM
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Bad faith is difficult to measure without bias. And it's our job as a debater to brush away the fallacies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 09:01 AM
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Hanlon's razor: "Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity." I disagree with that. People are malicious because they are stupid. If they were smart enough to conduct an argument they'd not need to resort to being bad faith. I hereby declare Eastuss' razor: "Assume people are both stupid and malicious"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:39 AM
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This subreddit has me believe the Hanlon's razor is false.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:37 AM
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it’s exactly what these groups are doing I'm waiting for the reasoning to counter my reasoning. Words have definition, you need to be showing me a behavior men have that strip women of their humanity. It’s the same tactics the nazis used to try and isolate Jewish people. I'm waiting for the reasoning that explains what tactic is used by both men and nazis to isolate women. From who or what. And why would men want to "isolate" women. I suggest you look at the couples around you. I do, and I see h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:32 AM
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Don't be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:26 AM
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are deliberately dehumanizing woman. That's a misrepresentation of men's behavior. Using language like "females" when referring to women Stupid often time but not dehumanizing. And not even a common thing men do or unique to modern men. pretending hypergamy as something modern women are doing. Pretending women only go for the top 20% of men when this figure was taken from a dating app rarely used by woman over 10 years ago. I don't see the evidences of that being false. And that has nothing to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:22 AM
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I don't mean that as a personal attack, but if the "tactics didn't work and destroyed my relationship", maybe it worked because your relationship wasn't being good to him. The way you describe yourself and your relationship does sound a lot like you're a mediocre sexual partner. Edit: And from what I can read from your other comments, you guys weren't even having sex AKA this wasn't even a relationship and you were a lot of emotional effort for him. Now I've not read everything, I can't attest t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:06 AM
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am I not smart Yes More seriously, I'd advice to never go somewhere where you need to work hard to stay there. Be where your intelligence allows you to get through with little effort. Otherwise you'll set yourself up for a life of struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:54 AM
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The thing is you can go to the king's palace and just behead him, you can't really find the oligarch.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:48 AM
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at least when you work, you come back home without more work, you don't have to prove yourself frequently as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 07:45 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:46 PM
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Good.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:46 PM
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No she shouldn't be upset at this. Yes he's dumb for not foreseeing that saying such platitude would hurt a woman's feelings. It's part of the "things people know but don't want to hear". Yes it might be best long run that she knows there are limits to his physical attraction, which are fairly forgiving tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:28 PM
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No since women don't want to date men under 30 because men are immature and need more time. From women's and gay men's mouth. I'm not agreeing with any of this but if you're puzzled at the existence of a sexism without an equivalent maybe you've not searched the equivalent at the right place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:25 PM
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If being overweight hurts your looks that much, you were never actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:16 PM
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So france is still less fat than most other white countries and america still wants us to believe we're becoming arabs while america is becoming mexican and has more black people than any other white country. great conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:48 PM
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Your link doesn't go to anything. Also many instances where it's reaffirmed over and over that most men believe that women can't struggle dating even if hideous or facially deformed. This isn't even a controversial topic tbf. Feminism and bluepill both believe that the only reason one's not finding a relations is because of one's personality and not looks. Black and red pillers phrase it in a way that suggests it doesn't work the same for men and that's where the controversy comes from. Most wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:38 PM
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Pokies is nipples being noticeable under your clothes. If you want to appeal with tiny tits, clothes that are tight around the bust and that allows all volumes to be visible are a good way. Opposite is fat girls with big tits want to hide the size of their ribcage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:27 PM
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They are if you work on your pokies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:23 PM
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Stop talking of yourself at the third person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 12:23 PM
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Yes because the alternative of rich foreign people enslaving and cucking you is totally better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:10 AM
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booblet :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:09 AM
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It seems like this is just your perspective, it really depends on which part of the internet you put your focus on huh? It wasn't just the internet, it was the parents, the kids, the teachers, the sex ed, the mainstream medias, the national institution's statistics and studies, and the mainstream internet, not some shady part of the internet. It still is going strong. Feminist messages are tagged on the walls of my city. I'm french, but people from many different european countries who relate to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:43 AM
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I mean I want to know what upbringing made you like this :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:38 AM
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I'm not talking about that, I don't think domestic violence cases are about looks tbh, It probably is based off value differentials that causes conflicts. Everything has to be paid for, if you're greatly uglier than your partner you'll pay for it one way or another. And the only thing we get to hear since 3 decades is how women have to do double or triple the amount of work around the house, get abused, get beaten, get killed, get raped, blabla. EVERYTHING including what you were talking about a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 10:23 AM
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Ever since I'm born I only get to hear about women being mistreated by their husbands and by men in general. All the mainstream medias always been teaching everyone how being a woman is so difficult and unfair. All the while domestic violence and other abuse against men are being underreported we're still being taught about how to learn to recognize an abused woman and how to help. Or about how cops don't believe women. In what shit hole do you live? India?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:40 AM
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You say that like the opposite is any better :')
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:25 AM
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You're alive and not frozen to deth :3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:02 AM
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Apex fallacy and hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:01 AM
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They had to partner up out of necessity, not because they wanted to What a tragedy, being like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 09:00 AM
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Petition to automatically remove posts where all words in the title start with uppercase.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 08:57 AM
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France has high fertility rates because a large portion of France is Middle Eastern. No a large portion of france isn't middle eastern. We don't have middle eastern immigration. We got north africans though. And no, a large portion of france isn't arab, that's american propaganda. America that is full of mexicans btw but talks lengthly about how other countries are being overrun by immigrants. All countries have their immigrants have more kids than the locals, france has more fertility also than…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:46 AM
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Women's problems and privileges primarily come from other women. Men treat women more uniformly the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:14 AM
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cook or clean if you don't like it It's women who have issues with things being sightly dirty person who did this can't make lists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:13 AM
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Check again https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/8/8b/Obesity_rate_%28WHO%2C_2022%29.png I was susprised too to be fair, but everyone on the internet acts like half of their childhood friends were obese when obesity was a rare thing in my life. Being slim is no achievement. Funny as well france is among the most fertile country of the 1st world. France just does a lot of things right lately. Half of the AI expert in the megacorps are also french if only we could retain our brains x)...…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:09 AM
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Yes, being thin is not meaning shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:07 PM
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I've rewatched naruto not so long ago with my kids, and the first half really had artistic value. And then the slower pace settled in and ruined everything, by the end the show was just a chore. Skibidi toilet is generational slop, it's not quality. I discovered avatar the last airbender as an adult and I found it was very good overall, despite being so old that it was in a different screen ratio. I tell you, I'm generally not biased, some things are legit trends I subjectively dislike, but high…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:14 PM
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Sorry I'm too french to consider that thin is abnormally attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:06 PM
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MOOODS seto_kaiba_desintegration.png Ancient stuff will look outdated Good ancient stuff will still look fine. Jurassic park is still a banger of a movie and it's not even of my generation. Things I liked as a kid became alien and bad as I grew up. New things came to replace them well into my adulthood. I am not bragging when I say this but I'm really not biased or affected by nostalgia that much or by time. All my friends have moved away from animes, series, movies, video games and art in gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:15 PM
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I forgot who recommended "slay the spire" to me but I bought it at -66% discount yeay. Gonna play it when I'm done with current games.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:10 PM
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she forgot to say he must be attractive and finance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:00 PM
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If you relate to this image you're a biased swine. I'm an objective art connaisseur. And therefore I am superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:46 PM
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Deformities indeed are rough, but if it's related to your spine and gait, it doesn't mean you can't be attractive facially. I hope it works out for you and your dood. If you are a lovely woman like you claim to be you'll pull affection in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:43 PM
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I don't see where I am being inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:28 PM
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You already established you believe my views on relationships are an abomination. You believed that was going to discredit my points but it doesn't, these are just ad hominems. Whatever source you believe you have isn't going to change anything. You are just plainly attempting personal attacks and that is not allowed on here btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:29 PM
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Yeah that your “pledge of exclusivity” is worthless when you add in clauses randomly and secretly whenever you please. Funny how you don't like women's average behavior with their own pledges and duties. Nothing is conditional and this is exactly a post about things not being conditional and needing to be paid for one way or another. It’s also an indication you move the goal posts whenever it fits the argument you’re currently making. You are trolling. You moved it yourself, desperately trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:15 PM
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You'd not believe how often I heard that from above average chicks who were just greedy and picky as hell. And inversely you'd not believe the ugly landwhales I knew who could get free drinks free meals and average boyfriends by being sociable. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:14 PM
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why do you believe to be very ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:52 PM
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Yes I'm known for being critical of exclusivity as an irrevocable promise. Because abominations to commitment aren't a woman's exclusivity. Do you have any point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:51 PM
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animals must have died for it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:35 PM
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It's protein that's not main.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:22 PM
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existing happened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:15 PM
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That's side protein, where is main protein
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:08 PM
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I'm not too sure but I believe she's appeared here after me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:04 PM
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where proteins
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:04 PM
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I've learned it from out lord and savior her who must not be named
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:00 PM
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I'm not reading moods I'm reading actions. You pulling an ad hominem on me is very telling. Thanks for proving my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:55 PM
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Oh, well that was easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:49 PM
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Well you can be traditionally feminine and ugly as shit, but when I said "low value" I meant on a comportemental axis. Why do you believe you're low value and at the same time traditionally feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:49 PM
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That's also the best way to not win and I musn't be the first one to tell you that. But IDK. I feel like people who talk like you seem to be ethnics living in thug america, sometimes there are some excuses that are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:46 PM
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If you're triggered that means I must be onto something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:45 PM
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Projection
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:44 PM
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If I was to stretch it more I'd have even more stupid useless skin :')
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:13 PM
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"I'm going to stay greedy and mediocre at profiling or bailing out of bad deals" is quite the weird flex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:11 PM
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Why are yall trying so hard to be lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:06 PM
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I don't have phimosis, it just doesn't retract itself with penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:05 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:00 PM
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You're new to PPD? please leave some space for the veterans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:58 PM
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If he's a celeb it's not cheating, it's normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:56 PM
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It's high quality PPD content baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:55 PM
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Last time I checked, women with children lived for longer than women without.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:53 PM
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The problem stems from female celebs believing male celebs will be faithful and that their own celebrity is a sexual plusvalue to men when it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:46 PM
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I think you meant feminine right, edited but I can't really blame them for wanting to be with someone they genuinely find attractive. I should add that yes. But I do blame them. We've had decades of feminism on the premise that women were not shallow, that women's only reason for being picky and not sexual was men's dangerosity, women's lack of right and lack of money... and that men were shallow and needed to change. And all we had was that while men changed and women's condition improved, wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:43 PM
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Beta testing my future post: Women are more accountable for choosing bad men, than men are for choosing bad women: Women are told early to be cautious about men's intention, men are told women are born perfect, they're aware bad men exist, the media make sure of that Women are approached more, very early on and tell their stories to each others, which should help them become good at profiling men Women have options, their choice do not stem from scarcity mentality Women are not the risk taking g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:25 PM
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It's not limited to just anatomy but everything. I once had a female doctor who didn't know what and where the male foreskin was (she thought it was the urinary meatus, i.e., the "lips" of the glans penis). Wow report this fake doctor lmao the sizable number of women I've met who think that the foreskin of uncircumcised men covers their glans even when erect It does often enough. Mine covers 100% of it and it's kind of a problem for sensations, but the few doctors I talked to think it's perfectl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:02 PM
1

Ladies an gentleman, WE GOT HER. Her Hypocrisy shall not tarnish our pristine subreddit for another day.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:56 PM
1

There's no source for 3. It's all bullshit debunked since a long time ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:50 PM
1

Don't repost wrong things è_é
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:43 PM
1

I was just naive and clueless Uh oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:32 AM
0

men who are wholly undeserving AKA men who are more attractive and higher status. AKA mean pick men too good for them and pay the price in delayed manners and are unhappy with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:20 AM
0

Are you really comparing broke with alcoholic???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:19 AM
3

Hey, you paid for everything, but what about paying a second time?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:19 AM
1

Men have made all the compensations for pregnancy and childbirth and women are asking men to compensate over and over again. In a relationship women make the major sacrifice of carrying and birthing the babies. And men make the major sacrifice of doing all the leg work to bring sex and romance, to seduce, to pay for a lot of things they'd not normally pay for, to improve their lifestyle to a level women prefer. Men pledge their exclusivity for women as well in the process. All the while knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:16 AM
1

I'm 36 year old and I can recall hearing those talking points ever since I was 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:09 AM
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Men do not grow infertile in their 40s. Redpill talks of women's biological clock because of women's inflated sense of own value and delusional idea that they can play the field for eternity and then settle with most of their value intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:07 AM
1

⁠You shouldn’t worry about gold diggers if you have no gold for them to dig. People can get scammed at any level of wealth Marriage benefits men more when it comes to health, stress levels, finances, free time and emotional support (aka a greater net benefit.) Men have most free time and finances alone. Women tend to marry men in good health, low stress level and good finances which skews statistics to make it look like men benefit from being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:05 AM
1

Pretty shit looking, but better looking than average poly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:42 AM
2

Yes. But I could do with a little self esteem boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:40 AM
1

Time to hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:32 AM
2

Okay rosaybutterflies so when you got a bf and you hit on other men, people will either assume you're poly or cheating. So you got to be a little bit more wordy for us to understand wtf is even going on with your lore xD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:26 AM
2

Cheating then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:17 AM
2

Well you know what they say about poly people...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:14 AM
1

Could be professional rejection, job interview rejections hurt like a bitch too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:02 AM
2

why do you have non bf rejecting you and from what, give me roseybutterflies lore.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:01 AM
5

AWALT why is your bf rejecting you, and from what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:55 AM
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incel speech tbh :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:55 AM
3

Man here, doctors don't take mild afflictions seriously, which is 90% of the reasons why women go to the doctors, while men tend to go to the doctor as last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:54 AM
1

I have haters it seems, proof of celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:52 AM
1

shoulda voted for the one that wasn't saying he's going to wreck the market in the name of liberalism. So now you have to wait that the new market actors for pastila, sulfur, granola, cherry and wine produce sufficiently that the prices stabilize back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:50 AM
1

you really reported me for this u_u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:49 AM
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Maybe you're a female dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:17 AM
1

who did you vote for
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:16 AM
1

Nice when the redflags sort themselves out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:16 AM
1

So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:14 AM
1

I'm trying but healthy (19-21 BMI) naked women tend to not want to surround me, they want "exclusivity" :(
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:13 AM
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my height is 5'5 and it said a similar "potential" as you and anyone else regardless of height :') this website is prob trying to sell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:12 AM
3

throws shit on discord, gets shit thrown back at her makes broad statements about men as a result ???
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:10 AM
1

And don't attempt to strawman this is a threat coming from me. Like clockwork. It's amazing how fast women get to shaming men instead of recognizing being a bad deal to men isn't going to yield money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:06 AM
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How much do you want to bet what you think is "feminine" isn't. And that is only after we all know that one exception doesn't make a rule. Most people can be influenced doesn't mean all have to be. Some people can be so much influenced that being around gay people for long enough will turn them gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:57 PM
2

Politician talk, you didn't answer anything lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:51 PM
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What you call "low standards out of desperation" is simply men being willing to pair with average women. It's eventually going to become everyone's problem that women do not want to pair with average men and have children. Society will balance around that one way or another, and gynocentric and gynophille values of western societies will be likely lost in the process. And don't attempt to strawman this is a threat coming from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:49 PM
1

BlatantMisogyny sub be absolutely a lair of seething copers god damn :')
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 01:09 PM
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top comment dismissal of the post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:30 AM
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I'm not blue pill but tbf I am that way as well, still thinking about that chinese's girl BJ from 15 years ago. Hormones and context can imprint a memory as more important than it was and it is primordial to understand that it's not the person who was perfect just the moment. It's easy to forget how crazy good it is with your current partner because it's a more tame and routine context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:49 AM
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continuing to flirt with them has a non negligible chance of success though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 07:46 AM
1

Committing the sin of being cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:48 PM
1

And do you think being a human trafficker and scamming men is a good way to bring attention to these issues? Don't you think that's going to hurt the cause?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:43 PM
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I don't follow these guys but I assumed they bring attention essentially to being rich, owning cars, scamming men and trafficking women. What have they said about men's plight even? From comment above. This is to suggest that it's not "their solutions are bad but their complaints are good", to me it's "their solutions are bad and they didn't complain about men's plight".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:27 PM
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They bring attention to men's plight??? I don't follow these guys but I assumed they bring attention essentially to being rich, owning cars, scamming men and trafficking women. What have they said about men's plight even? And how does it not hurt men's plight to have these men talk about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:17 PM
3

they're not pro men they're pro rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 01:09 PM
1

thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:48 AM
1

You speak more words of french you just are convinced they're english words.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:24 AM
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None.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:11 AM
1

you're french?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:07 AM
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I've been on here for that long but I also have had 16 years of relationship so that doesn't mean a lot. I just like PPD for it's supposedly full of people who are capable to debate everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:01 AM
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How long have you been in your current relationship btw? What would you say are the effort you endured to maintain it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 11:00 AM
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they'd stare at you if you were naked too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:55 AM
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I don't even see internet men routinely pretending that men are not shallow first of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:35 AM
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Go tell that to someone who believes in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:27 AM
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Non yellow skinned emoji = opinion discarded :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:11 AM
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It exists in both. It hasn't the same shape. It's not on the same topics. The prevalence will depend of the socioeconomic place. But most importantly, there's a huge backslash against unvaluable posers around men, while unvaluable female posers is the default female behavior. So while men are going to virtue signal less than women, they're not even going to virtue signal on being unshallow. Except maybe when they're lying to the woman they flirt towards but generally men will still choose to pra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 10:11 AM
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No I haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:35 AM
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Men don't virtue signal as much as women. Go back to biology you're gonna need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:34 AM
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both genders love to claim to be not shallow 2025 years of biology Did you make stuff up to be angry about lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:32 AM
1

Omg caroline why are you like this. Now give me your OTHER pants!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:21 AM
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sure bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 08:00 AM
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My wife thought too that walking a lot would start labor. She walked a fuckton lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:58 AM
1

Wait you're 32.... you're not as young as I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:44 AM
1

The one we're talking on...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:43 AM
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Oh. Boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:09 AM
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My wife believes that "pretending to be nice and polite" to her coworkers so they don't fire her is machiavellian. No, that's called being nice and polite.... You can tell how authenticity is important to them because of these views.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:07 AM
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Men can benefit from having female friends it's just that there are more lower effort higher reward things to do. I used to have a lesbian girl friend and it was fun for a time, she even became my first kiss/light foreplays which sealed me into redpill beliefs. Met plenty of girls with her, was fun times. But still too much effort and too little rewards compared to just approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:06 AM
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How are they going to misrepresent you as an evil person otherwise? This says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:04 AM
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If you want to be controversial try instead to say he's got a dad bod
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:03 AM
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I've been on that subreddit for longer than a third of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:01 AM
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I'm 36
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:44 PM
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How old do you think I am? I give you homeworks now. You have to reach gold on starcraft 2 ladder. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:13 PM
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I am kinda rude. But I mean well. Grammar grills need to be held accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:29 PM
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It's a pvp base builder and pve game. You're kind of thick for a supposedly "gamur garl". You need to play RTSs to grow smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:20 PM
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V-rising is pvp and base building, also has very good pve. So yes, 2 weeks and I got bored. Can't imagine 10 years on a weirder game.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:03 PM
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how do you get stuck on such a game? I played V-rising and after 2 weeks I was bored of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:17 PM
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that's not very game gorl of you to hide those nudes away from us. We know you only play candy crush and animal crossing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:34 PM
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where are the nudes?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 12:27 PM
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that's not the giga jaw you promised still. you got a slight underbite though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:55 AM
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where are the giga jaw and nose you promised?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 11:22 AM
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IDK she's other stuff that repel me. Her face is somewhat harmonious but also somewhat not harmonious. When she stands still from afar she's fine but when her face deforms in facial expressions it gets wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:46 AM
1

I'd remember you if you were absurdly masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:38 AM
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Women can have a jawline without being manjawed. Look at freya, she has a short chin and a jaw narrower than her cheekbones, but very sharp jawline regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:36 AM
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You literally analyzed me before lol Probably, I don't recall. Most celebrities would be prettier than her, but celebrities are all manjawed which I dislike so... Let's say she mogs angelina jolie, zendaya, or emma watson, but gets mogged by anybody more feminine. Celebs I find pretty in particular would be freya alan, katheryn winnick is an excellent mix of handsome and pretty, IDK nobody comes to mind right now as standing above other celebrities. I like victoria justice but that jaw and chin …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:29 AM
1

IDK, don't you mog her facially? I forgot if you showed face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 10:14 AM
1

And that's showed in the video by just him accepting anything from you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:57 AM
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My tastes aren't weird. Yours aren't either. You're just a woman, like most women you prefer more robust faced women. I said she's kind of ugly I'm not burying her already, and she looks better without makeup, clearly a sign she's aiming for female gaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:56 AM
1

nice curve, kind of ugly face tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:39 AM
1

yep
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 09:05 AM
1

I've the aquarius MBTI as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:52 AM
1

you were simply hitting about your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:37 AM
1

I'm aquarius
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:35 AM
1

so it doesn’t dry out a it heats up. It'll be soft and lame though. Down to personal taste. Oven with a glass of water is I believe better than microwave. What you described is a recipe for charcoal. Skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 09:59 PM
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you'd not be disgusted if it wasn't overcooked :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:12 PM
1

why stop eating meat :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 03:10 PM
1

Wouldn't it fuck up the biome benefits of fasting?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:23 PM
1

Does drinking black coffee or raw tea alter this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:59 PM
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I find it tastes better
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:26 AM
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If you talk to me of virgins you are thinking of a very young demographic, in which virgin is the average. Other than that, women think 80% of men are ugly, the average is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:35 AM
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Virgins and ugly men are the average, so they should want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:30 AM
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If you were smarter with your food you'd not be hungover. I'm offering tricks to make pizza taste fresh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:29 AM
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Undercooked pizzas are an abjection and it shows you don't come from a country with advanced bread culture :(
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:15 AM
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Can't tell if you're just being american or if you're being high maintenance and having an hidden rant about fast food dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:15 AM
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May I ask what motivates you to say this before I bless you of my "don't tell me what to do" prayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:09 AM
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Maybe don't give advice if you got a doberman's palate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:05 AM
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People are perfectly capable to feel like they settle for you while being beneath you. Uglier people also may be insecure and harder to deal with. Average is best of both worlds.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 01:04 AM
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Daily reminder that an excellent way to reheat a pizza is to put it on a hot pan until the toping is hot. Especially good if you enjoy crusty and drier pizzas. There are other ways involving covering it and adding water to ensure the pizza stays wetter but I've not experimented with those.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:56 AM
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"women" big doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 12:26 AM
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That's not a classic boxer look. Boxers are slim and wiry. Some black boxers historically been known for being super beefy but that's very far from non black women's first choice. Also doesn't have the head of a boxer, he has the head of a gay porn actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:56 PM
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That's for gay men. If you don't see it then be worried. Are you really red pilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:26 PM
4

hE dOdgEd A bUlLeT
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:28 PM
2

:|
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:26 PM
3

IDK man I've always been on online video games and people were toxic AF already. There was way less censor and moderation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:22 PM
2

but he's ripped to shreds, people are just correcting that elon didn't simply storm away without turning back to see where his kid is. Elon is the most hated person on reddit right now and you still find a way to make it about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:11 PM
3

Is this what the female equivalent of incels are like
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:10 PM
2

autismo :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:48 PM
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woman who will be a good mother and grandmother to my kids. So, your mom...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:16 PM
5

Sad that nobody wants you and your sad made up stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:12 PM
1

Virtually makes no difference if I do or don't x)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:17 PM
1

Yes, none.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:38 PM
2

Pizza hut's pizza barely count as pizza , absolute garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 03:38 PM
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she might feel like settling but with a face like this I doubt we would feel it the way she feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:59 PM
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the issue is choosing to debate in america. I used to think my fellow frenchies were dumb AF. But after so many years of dealing with americans online I grew some respect for whoever decided that french people would have philosophy courses in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:56 PM
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why wouldn't she
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:53 PM
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I'll take batshit insane who can articulate their words and not commit fallacies over a normal person who will shame people for trying to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:48 PM
1

best I've done was 23 hours (omad)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:46 PM
2

BAN THIS MAN
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:42 PM
1

Never heard about the stem cell part
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:42 PM
1

Yall need to follow a course on how to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:39 PM
1

then why do you call it a water fast >.<
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:33 PM
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What do you know about "people from here" even.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:30 PM
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Who cares? Your behavior in a debate shows you aren't an example to follow already.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:27 PM
1

then how is it a water fast?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:26 PM
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Do we need to compare our existence to find out you need my advice and I don't need yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:23 PM
1

That's not an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:05 AM
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isn't that induced by just fasting but still drinking water?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 09:01 AM
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obsessed with women, yes, violent, I doubt it. If they had any incentive to actually interact with women they'd not be incels to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:09 AM
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Oh i had those! they were crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:00 AM
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what's the point of water fast? For women who do lots of water retention I presume?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:59 AM
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It is possible to view attraction to the opposite sex better than the opposite sex. It's not even rare. Why? A lot of men can which man fucks and which one doesn't, and women will all crush towards the same few who fuck, all convinced he's just "average". Some form of it exists in the reverse but it's more in the form of women hating and bullying the women that all men want, while men can't really tell the girl they're after is that popular. If you can't know in a split second if a man is someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:58 AM
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Congratulations on exposing you just wanted to berate and insult women over anything. Is this how you interpret this attitude? It says a lot about you since you do this all the time. So I should assume you just want to berate and insult men over anything. It's hilarious you wanted to insult men over fast food dates, but then went on and discovered your female friend might have been the issue and couldn't accept it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:40 PM
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Damn so she gets invited to fast food dates that she doesn't get offered? She's ugly and lower class and she's not happy with it then. Your* obsession with certain topics makes me believe you're only talking of these women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:17 PM
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You seem intimidated. That says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:14 PM
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Because she doesn't get much of the other dates. Accepting the fast food dates ensure constant stream of free meals. However she wishes she had constant stream of expensive meals. :( It says a lot about both of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 04:13 PM
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Hey you, yeah you. I'm going to strawman what you just said, and claim it says a lot about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:53 PM
1

Yes she did.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:39 PM
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Humans are "hypergamous" in that they'll aim for the opposite gender that has opposite gender's attributes better than theirs. Masculinity's attributes are status, money, power, and age. Women's hypergamy is to aim for men who have better status, money, power and age. Femininity's attributes are being a woman, having a womb, being feminine, being young. Men want a woman who is more womanly than them, which is easy to satisfy. Wanting a woman who is both more womanly and more manly than you is un…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:13 PM
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intimidated Ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 03:09 PM
1

Do they not know russia invaded ukraine under the premise that it was to clean it of its nazis?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:57 PM
2

I don't think the first dates should be at a restaurant anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:52 PM
1

How would she eat for free then?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:37 PM
1

Doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:37 PM
1

Overmarketed shitty art is annoying regardless of what marketing tactic it chose. Sex or wokeism alike.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:36 PM
1

Why do you talk like men don't have a goal in life besides sex? Just because sexual needs become a priority early on doesn't mean other priorities stop existing and do not get back to the front when sexually satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:22 AM
1

That's not what assertiveness means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:30 AM
1

Or just It spits out code, that's 80% of the work, you do the remaining 20% with your knowledge in programming, took 3 minutes instead of 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 02:46 AM
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With chatgpt and copilot, automating stupid menial tasks you only need once every year has never been easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:28 PM
1

what is it gonna do? Make you cheat instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:27 PM
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I simply don't have the typical neuronal activation when I see a healthy (19-21 BMI) woman with these asian chicks. They look too uncanny with all the filters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:23 PM
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I don't give a shit about career. I hate the idea of job. I hate company owners. I hate HR. I hate managers. I hate people who work bullshit jobs. I hate rich people. Are you comforted?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:46 PM
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What about "I want a woman who can rely on me and who I can rely on"? Working full time job and then coming home to do 50% of the chore and childcare is absolute ASS.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 10:42 PM
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People who say "choose better" are indeed generally dismissive of all the self improvement, compromise, and enforcing of power balance required to maintain a relationship for long terms, because they deem it abusive to ever consider you have to train your partner and assert your boundaries with a matcher power scale. However being a good profiler and chooser is also part of that skillset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 03:24 PM
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This would absolutely repel natural providers. I expected an actual tip on how to ask without making men be disgusted but it's not it. No this is just a way to filter filthy rich men without standards. I only feel compelled to provide when the woman doesn't expect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 01:24 PM
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I don't think that's redpill belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:32 AM
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aw lily....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:07 AM
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Nice, that'll cure your growing misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:04 AM
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You dropped the us vs them mentality and because “normal” or the “default” and I got you laid, and now you’re no longer a virgin. You mean I tricked them to believe I was like them maybe the women that Rejected you didn’t want to carry the burden of taking your virginity or thought it was a big deal even tho for you it’s not. Exactly Now there is no us vs them because it was not real, you created it when you told them. It wasn't real, but it was real to them, therefore it exists and you're discr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 10:11 PM
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Americans generally believe I am normal and healthy despite I'm BMI 30. So they definitively adjust to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:28 PM
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Men seem fairly capable to point out average women. Women are closer to what you suggest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 09:20 PM
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After being rejected twice for being a virgin I lied about it and it worked. There's definitively an "us vs them".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:43 PM
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Ah my bad I read "get used to" instead of "get to use it" I get to use it, it's just that they don't like it balls deep, and I like it balls deep, a bit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:37 PM
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used to what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:12 PM
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I'm 165cm with a 18cm dick (or at least had when I was healthy (19-21 BMI))
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:09 PM
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he's somehow both emotionally stunted and emotionally unavailable" Traduction : He's way above my league and not in my frame, but I'll rebrand that as him being dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:07 PM
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The concept of weaponised incompetence stems from people trying to take someone who is rubbish and present them as malicious. Why does this concept only emerge from women trying to misrepresent men as malicious and abusive towards women? Well because these are basically politician brained people. And politician men are busy smearing shit at other politicians while these women are busy trying to start a gender war.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:32 PM
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That's sad, overly pride and narcissistic people are a plague when they're parents. I've had that kinda issues with my grandma, my mom's only just very annoying and stupid so I don't have enough reasons to cut contact. My dad might have had issues but he grew wiser and more reasonable in his old ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:16 PM
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If you say so. My mom was the one pushing my dad away not him not caring about us. Yet here I am still providing help for my mom more than I'd ever do for my dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:03 PM
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Why do you get "innately superior" from what I said? It means people are all innately biased to prefer women yes. That's called the "women are wonderful effect" it's a well documented phenomenon. That answers to you why men would suicide more while being thicker skinned than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:57 PM
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In what situation do you imagine men are killing themselves? When they've lost everything: their job, their wife, their kids, their friends, sometimes their reputation, and have nobody to help, support, and lift them back up. Women tend to have support circles ready to help. Their value isn't tied to their job. They have the unconditional love of their kids. They'll be forgiven for most things while men won't. Shared friends automatically side with women in case of problem. It's not easy for wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:47 PM
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Men's life is just more miserable, the lows of men are lower than women's lowest points. Men get tired of grinding for things women get for free, so they ragequit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:38 PM
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I mean there's the philosophical work and then there's the social media brainrot, can we really evaluate one by the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:52 AM
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I have a happy life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:51 AM
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Not gifting her stuff is stingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:26 AM
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Stoicism is kind of a trap internet brain rot for edgy men who want to double down on their already insensitive persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:46 AM
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I'm sorry what age are they again? Why do you need anyone's approval?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:43 AM
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to have a one night stand with a really hot 18 year old woman It's only immoral if she's only mildly hot. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:42 AM
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5'5, I'm 2 standard deviations bellow average, aka something like bottom 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:39 AM
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Another short haircel seething. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:12 AM
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Really we're getting told by the gender who shaves their legs entirely because they were told it's ugly, that men are less courageous than women? The entire reason why men's grooming is less overloaded is because men do not allow people to tell you what to do while women yield like the fragile beings they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:09 AM
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life is about Reproducing as much as possible with as many partners as possible, and surviving obviously. Sad reality for you evolutioncel.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 12:06 AM
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General loose boundaries view, at least when they're relative to personal freedoms. Not like grab stranger women's ass. Not this kind of loose boundaries. Like I didn't want dogs, I really didn't want dogs at all. My wife wanted dogs, she bought 2 tiny dogs that I hate, she told me she didn't want to die without ever having had dogs, and that I'd not take care of them. She listens when I feel they're inconvenient to me and does try to fix problems. I also never vacuumed the floor ever since. Got…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:54 PM
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TIL I can fuck your bf if I'm discrete enough. That'll be my chance to outgay the mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:36 PM
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talking about it opens the door to you leaving. The door to me leaving is always open. Talking ensures that they know that door is open and that you're not here unconditionally. And same for them. If she doesn’t want to fix it, you’re in your rights to leave. You're always in your right to leave. But when rules are broken you're also in your right to not consider that rule for yourself anymore. Hell, even if it’s something she CANT fix: if she’s not open to letting you get your needs addressed e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:36 PM
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I guess I just don't see the point in being in a monogamous relationship with this attitude. What it does to me is be careful to screen for women whose views on sex are never going to make me "need" to cheat. And to be just more flexible all in all, both with myself and with them. I don't relate to people who have extremely firm boundaries. It's awful, I guess I was just imagining the worst case scenario. I'd not consider these scenarios to be tit for tat, but simply a greedy man breaking the fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:31 PM
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Accurately deciphering your reasoning is NOT ad hominem. lol Keyword accurate and reasoning. You're not accurately deciphering my reasoning, you're misrepresenting me. So, if you were to build 3 walls around someone, More like we both build walls around us, they jump above their wall and you're here lecturing me I can't jump above mines and that I'm removing their freedom if I do so. Do you believe fraud is wrong? If so, how do differentiate between lying to someone in a way that influences thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 11:21 PM
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As shown in the game, it causes an endless cycle of 'cheating' others. it's fixed by prolonging communication and being open minded about mistakes happening, as shown by the copykitten archetype. The difference being that, in the case of finding sexual outlets, there's no value loss for anybody. you either accept someone is taking away sex from you or you have both of you have the amount of sex you want. And when things get better you go back to cooperating with more motivation. cruel, divided w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:51 PM
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There are ups and down you don't always need to address it to them sometimes you just have to wait. Sometimes you wait because you genuinely believe it's no big deal and it's not their fault. Sometimes you adjust and you don't grow resentment until things get better. Maybe she genuinely doesn’t want to have sex with you ever again…a conversation could at least open the door to you being able to get your needs met elsewhere. I don't trust women (or men too ofc) to be reasonable like this and woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:42 PM
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What if you just never see him do it? free-use Hawt.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:35 PM
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It's like cheaters and harassers, the least inhibited people are not those who get the least sex and success. Incels might have depraved porn usage but sextoys are too... Official? Physical? Real? for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:08 PM
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This is one cue that you're not a long lasting sexual partner IMO. I was lucky with my wife because she doesn't have most of the "low libido cues", but if I was alone I'd vet specifically for women without these cues. AKA not low disgust, can become horny if seduced into it, finds sex fun, has no hangup about sex and nudity, believes sex is an enabler for a good relaitonship, ect... People with all the cues should pair with the men with madona/whore complexes, they're the same types.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 10:03 PM
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I'd not cheat for a mildly broken sexual life within a functional relationship. I don't believe I'd stomach full blown cheating tbf. But during a very rough patch with no sex and generally dissatisfying sexual life, I'd emotionally cheat. I'll adapt on the things that don't work specifically, if I wanna stay with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:59 PM
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2 more years before being officially a femcel :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:57 PM
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https://ncase.me/trust/
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 09:56 PM
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I'm very satisfied. I don't think you quite understand it. It's not recognizing moral duty or not. It's copycat. You only cooperate with people willing to cooperate and quickly stop cooperating with people who don't, either partly or entirely. I know it doesn't have much seriousness to it, but in any model you can run where you put individuals who are benevolent, individuals who are selfish, and copycats, the copycats always end up striving and proliferating, while the benevolents and the selfis…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:07 PM
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MB. How old are you already?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 05:03 PM
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Aren't you childfree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:31 PM
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I mean that's nice, I wish me and my wife would be able to get quickies x') we'd have sex more. But alas we're slower and the act is eventually more athletic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:14 PM
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3 x 45 minutes a day is impossible for soreness reasons first, and for we don't have that much time and physical energy. We're not teens with nothing to do all day anymore. x)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:02 PM
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hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:32 PM
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But maybe some people just have low libido no matter what and how much they love you. I can't imagine it but there are probably simply low libido people. You can't imagine it...? Haven't you talked to people about these things? I know plenty of low libido women and nothing is going to change that in them. No brainwash, just the way my feelings work. That's not how everyone's feelings work. So if he had low libido I can't cheat because I love him and that takes all my heart and there is no space …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 03:26 PM
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If you loved them you wouldn't desire to fuck other people. Gynomorphism. Men don't work like that. You're no authority to dictate what love is either. If you love someone you rather stay sexless with them because you simply don't desire other people. Blue pill/female brainwash. That's exactly what my post aims to go against. Well maybe you should first communicate about it and consider you are doing something that is turning them off. Why do you assume people don't communicate and don't know wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:57 PM
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it’s not clear if he was just working on homework again or what Didn't she describe he was pacing angrily and looking for her
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:14 PM
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But why keep the relationship in such case. Just break up. That's a good question to ask to the person who don't see an issue in their low libido and lack of will to sexually satisfy their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:13 PM
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I'm well known for being among the stabler people here. I've been with the same person for 16 years. Luck isn't needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 02:09 PM
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Bro I'm a dude and if someone was waiting all day for me after I rejected them twice and then looked UPSET at it I'd be rightfully pissed off and scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:54 PM
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Yeah sure mb.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:38 PM
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My day is ruined
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:33 PM
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oof that's me in 2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:21 PM
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Thanks for submitting a report to the Reddit admin team. After investigating, we’ve found that the account(s) reported violated Reddit Rules. So which blue piller is missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:20 PM
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Bro I'm a "approach wherever you want" kinda guy but this is clear that the guy was insisting beyond measures. Very autistic. Be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:18 PM
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Well, good luck with all that x) isn't he having his midlife crisis or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:56 AM
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Most of you aren't going to make it to retirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:52 AM
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all for him to havee home taking care of everything!! I mean it's nice to not have more work to do for both of you if you can live on his salary. Except his sexual needs another thing he likes to do is tell me he wants to see another man penetrate me Lmao You sound like you have a solid case for "he should be getting his sex elsewhere I don't wanna hear about it , he just should pay the bills and bring me on dates sometimes". Like I'm not going to judge you for not wanting to throw your marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:37 AM
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Hold on, you think non processed food is in the same healthy basket as being anti-vax???????? Or am I not understanding you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:31 AM
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Sadly you can't reach that by simply not stuffing your mouth with food. Maybe you can by stuffing your mouth with rich people's dick though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:30 AM
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so you were lying, you didn't break 2 toes, your friend broke 2 toes from your feet. He owes you big time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:29 AM
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What about we have doge continue its audit on elon's companies? Which AFAIK he canceled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:27 AM
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She says "stalker" and "came into my work" suggesting he doesn't work there and has been following her. That's going to raise eyebrows indubitably for legitimate reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:23 AM
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Your personal experience reinforces what I believe. I don't wanna have sex with someone who hasn't stopped watching corn You're telling me you don't care about his sexual satisfaction and you also don't want him to have outlets. Why shouldn't he seek outlets for his sexual satisfaction? Does he have to stay miserable for ever because you want it? Aren't you the spoiled one with no morals? I am on my last whim with him !! Should have left long before, why didn't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:19 AM
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I seem like dancing around the answer because you are asking loaded questions and you don't seem to understand the meaning of words. Quote me being an hypocrite I dare you, you can't. then be warned that it's a two way street and women should and are entitled to cheat on their men as well, according to your own logic. "be warned that stealers might steal on you" NO SHIT.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:15 AM
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For instance, a wife lying to her husband that she has intense pain with penetration (when she doesn't) so he stops trying to have sex would fit all your criteria for an acceptable lie, but almost nobody thinks that's ok. That's exactly why people tend to advocate taking decisions based on what they want and not what morals tells them. x) Because outside of women who lie like this, plenty are saying bullshit while being convinced they tell the truth. 1) Do you accept that control of information …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:12 AM
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I mean it’s pretty obvious once you see it I knew all of this when I was a virgin. And I was raised in an extremely blue pilled home. is that she often tries to talk the wife into letting him go elsewhere. Because the wife is comfortable and the kids need a two parent house and they need dad to provide an income so this whole “throw the whole relationship away” that all these virgin Redditors keep saying is often just flat out stupid in a lot of cases. That's based. It's nice a third party would…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 08:00 AM
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What's cowardly is to impose yourself morals and ethics others taught you all the while they don't have morals and ethics themselves. I know it's scary to not be "ethical", but you ought to be more critical of what you're taught to do. People do what they want all the while telling you to not do what you want, insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:54 AM
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Marriage also means sexual satisfaction. If you don't bring that paired with fidelity then your opinion is just biased and sexist, and that's ground to being an awful spouse. Vows never include a level of sex, so your argument falls short there. It has historically involved sexual satisfaction more than not. And historically again cheating on your spouse has always been a normal part of marriage of lire. So your argument falls short there. You can always have your own opinions but you can't just…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:50 AM
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First of all, cheating is often about novelty-seeking, ego boosting, and the thrill of doing something “bad,” more so than not getting enough sex at home. That's on why most cheaters cheat, that's not an argument for the point you disagree with. Might as well just masturbate. Might be time to learn that there are a minority of women who consider masturbation or porn to be cheating. Any outlet to sexual satisfaction you can think off is going to be considered cheating by some people. I’d argue th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 07:46 AM
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So How to spot it: libido decreases few months in They find things disgusting easily inability to discuss sex no preferences or fantasies no masturbation/didn't masturbate before Lowballing the importance of sex Yeah IDK I'm not learning new shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 AM
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Not reading people with no arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:39 AM
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if you're here to "call out" you deserve to be banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:32 AM
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Ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:15 AM
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Yup... people come from country that didn't have philosophy/debate courses in highschool and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 01:13 AM
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Ok, so you just have no morals then? You think it's fine to lie. You think it's fine to break commitments. It's fine to lie. It's fine to break commitments tied to commitments others broke. It's fine to not be too angry at others breaking commitments. The thing about both of those are that they infringe on someone else's free choice because choices are based on information and promises. Nothing of what I do with other consenting adults or with my free time is any infringement of anybody's freedo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 11:10 PM
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An interesting take. And I can relate to having experienced some of it. However I don't believe this is the only existing setup nor that roles don't change between realms. The "complains about something but doesn't like how you solve it" is definitively a recurrent female issue IME.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:48 PM
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You. You need money, you're having partnership with pathological liars, you just close your eyes to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:40 PM
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So you don't work, don't have friends, don't date, don't have kids, and have cut contact with your family, got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:36 PM
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Tbf, you've all achieved to make me lose track of my own post. The title is literally "Sexual fidelity to your partner and sexual satisfaction from your partner should be considered a zero sum system." and only a couple people have actually tried to debate the main point. Everyone is dealing with the "cheating" part but nobody's actually trying to counter argue that sexual fidelity is the other side of sexual satisfaction, both usually come or go together. And I do know it's an unpopular opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:35 PM
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Dishonesty is everywhere where you don't expect it. If you can't deal with it and manage to get what you want, you're the one immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:32 PM
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It's to make fun of americans or of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:31 PM
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Renault, a tiny car for cities that has a huge steering angle, nice for parking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:19 PM
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Can't grow fat when you're always on the move wasting your money on plane tickets instead of food and art.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:17 PM
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Part of debate is pointing out inconsistencies in someone’s position, and that’s what I’m doing. I see you using the word "justify" in a motte and bailey fallacy, which isn't even going to counter any of the main point. Dissatisfaction with one’s sex life doesn’t justify cheating in a society where people can leave relationships and marriages, regardless of gender. Why does it need to be justified TO SOCIETY or TO OTHERS? It has to be justified TO YOU and your wants. You're free to do that. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 10:15 PM
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Sex waxes and wanes in most marriages, and sometimes stops altogether. So does faithfullness. It's all normal part of life. If that’s enough to make you cheat and/or leave, don’t get married. People will do hopefully what they want and what's beneficial for them, and not what you think is right for them to do. but the vows are “for better or worse,” not “until I’m no longer sexually satisfied.” If the worse can be breaking vows of helping your spouse economically, or making them be sexually sati…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:54 PM
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Here's where I'd draw the line tho. Women run a lot of important jobs in society, all the human related jobs are maned by women. All the object related jobs are maned by men. Quite a good synergy, until men's contribution to society is virtualized and women forget who is doing all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:52 PM
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It'd be revenge if I use it to hurt them. If I take it to the grave then it's not hurting anybody, except maybe myself. Again I don't personally have the stomach to cheat. At least not with how my wife treats me currently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:50 PM
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I think you conflate a lot of things. Posting on this sub isn't to justify yourself doing anything, I'm discussing and debating a way of thinking. Being judged over having this opinion, or over my actions that might be immoral to others, goes over my head. They shouldn’t have to convince themselves. Would you agree? Well I make this post partly for men to try and convince themselves that it is conditional. Ideally, you should never consider things to be unconditional in your partnerships and rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:49 PM
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Women: Men tendency for violence and risk taking is why women are scared! Police: mostly men Firefighter: mostly men Secourists: mostly men Counter terrorism: mostly men Prison guard: mostly men All risk takers with tolerance for violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:18 PM
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that's not overweight women that's just american brainwash.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:05 PM
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There is simply no excuse No excuse needed, people have the right to not want to leave or divorce their partner. Divorcing is also not exactly inconsequential. If you’re not satisfied with your sex life, you communicate No, people don't ever talk, don't know words /s Also don’t forget that men can be the low-libido partner, and women can cheat too. Women seem already fine with convincing themselves their faithfullness is conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 09:01 PM
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I just won the gender war. I'm prescribing you 4 years of a nice relationship with a beta man, who you'll eventually leave because he's boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:57 PM
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How convenient§ BMI isn't the issue tho. Genetics will determine if you can get any abs or not. Most of time, women's best amount of abs are just the outer lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:55 PM
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Aw really. :( not even on his dick when he asks nicely?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:54 PM
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Men punish other men extra more for the same shit. Women are the demographic that's more likely to believe jails are wrong. Now tell me who is trying to protect women the most...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:52 PM
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Sounds like she should leave him instead of just refusing sex and staying with him...? Unless he or she have bad hygiene habits, that sounds like a permanent incompatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:50 PM
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We do, we're more often prosecuted for it than women, and being punished for longer than women for the same kind of crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:49 PM
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DId you forget to put clothes on again
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:34 PM
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yeah, women protect each others, in the security of their homes built by men, heated by electricity made by men, eating food grown by men, using technology researched and produced by men, with police and firefighter services maned by men to help in case of problem. But it's women the primary defenders. Women are also the primary victim of war.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:33 PM
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Being banned for abusing the reddit care resources to harass others, or being sent the reddit care resources as an harassment tool?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:22 PM
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As soon as you realize you don't find them sexually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:21 PM
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Over a decade of being married? Over a decade of being married as a man would be better. I don't mean that experimented people don't say that often enough, but more often that's the advice 13 years old know-it-all give, while people with 40 year of marriage say something different. from one subject we kept arguing over with out ever being able to resolve it, so instead of cheating or being ducks we had relationship counciling as we are both very committed to making our marriage work You can't yi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:20 PM
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Even that very known russian bodybuilder woman with arms as thick as thighs has a barbie doll face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:10 PM
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HR is so disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:07 PM
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do 20% of effort that yields 80% of the result, spending time looking at yourself in the mirror hating yourself is a lot of effort for 0 results as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:06 PM
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I don't see why you insist on revenges.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:05 PM
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It's funny people still do not know that you can be banned from reddit for abusing the reddit care resources. Your pettiness going to bite your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:02 PM
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Why is it pathetic to call people out on a debate sub about their fallacies? Out of all place this is where you should never tolerate ad hominems and strawmans.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 07:58 PM
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You should do things you want and only things you want. If they're not giving you what you want you need to take it somewhere else and that's going to punish them. I'm not ok or not ok witrh her approach, I'd just not advice her to do something she doesn't want in order to get what she wants, it's immediately contradictory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:21 PM
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that's what people without experience keep parroting yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:19 PM
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now you're adding caveats not present in your post. My post is really about what you want, but enough people have made a comment about petty revenges that I need to be clearer about it. I'm an adult who doesn't get off on hurting others lol I'm not either. I wouldn't stomach full blown cheating. However I don't believe setting rules for yourself against rogue people is being mature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:19 PM
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If you can dissociate sex and relationship and be happy like that, and stomach that, sure. If you are doing that out of pettiness and revenge, that'll only make you feel miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:15 PM
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You shouldn't consider your faithfullness unconditional if you have incentives for sex and sexual diversity. There's no such thing as "allowed".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:10 PM
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I'm not reading you any longer for today. Take this break to gain some peace of mind back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:08 PM
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will always make you cowardly Make whatever excuse you like You're justifying staying because you're too terrified to be single. Ad hominem. Preferring being single is my most powerful dreading tool. Average attendquoi comment/10
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:07 PM
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Observers aren't needed for conditions to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:03 PM
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Sure it is. By any metric no it isn't an argument, you're being absurd. But I can get why you're so defensive about it I have standards and I wish people to do better. Don't take my unwillingness to cater to people who can't debate as being defensive, as you noticed this post demanded quite a lot of attention from my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:00 PM
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You can't read your own mind????
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:56 PM
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"you're insecure" isn't an argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:55 PM
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I sure as hell never told you to be this unreasonable. Stop strawmaning. If you foresee that you're simply not wanting to be sexual with that man, by your own logic, you should break up before he's at the point where he needs to decide if he wants to breakup or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:54 PM
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We're past the arguing ever since you admitted to resorting to fallacies to deflect when you had no argument to push. Also don't be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:53 PM
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I don't think you do and that you understand what a debate is. You're committing fallacies left and right. Please these things are taught in highschool.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:50 PM
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I don't follow you there, I just think it's healthier for men to consider their faithfullness to be conditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:49 PM
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You chose to accept that this is a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:49 PM
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Absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:48 PM
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IDK what's the problem with that. Go on and judge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:37 PM
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doesn't take a lot of brain power, when they approach you and you reject them and they look disappointed and sad, that's not because of the price of eggs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:37 PM
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Quote me literally saying it, otherwise it's a strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:34 PM
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you also have the option not to. she also has the option to leave before she breaks something.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:34 PM
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So, you can't quote me saying "rather cheat than discuss", but you can quote me saying "discuss isn't enough".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:32 PM
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Morality is not relevant when it goes against personal freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:27 PM
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That's the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:26 PM
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If that makes you feel better about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:26 PM
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You should have more acuity for your partner's state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:20 PM
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sex isn’t the most important thing in the relationship You see me advocate for finding more fruitful balances, if sex was the most important thing I'd advocate for breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:19 PM
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everyone has to compromise. Internet tends to believe it's only the higher libido one who should compromise, but no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:19 PM
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Still not reading you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 PM
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Exactly. Yet you've repeatedly stated women should be punished by cheating for not having sex. With what you want and only what you want. The main spirit of my post is that yo ushould not be in a state of forcing yourself to do something you don't want. The power balance should be equal. Yes. I'm advocating for power balance. Letting morals and ethics screw you isn't power balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:16 PM
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I can say strawman when you're misrepresenting what I said. You can google what strawman means, it'll mean exactly that. You said you’d rather cheat than discuss with your partner. That is what you said. Quote me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:08 PM
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You should tell when your partner is sexually frustrated, either because they tell you or because they look like it. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 PM
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you are jumping over discussions straight to cheating when you don’t get what you want. Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:58 PM
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By downgrade I mean downgrade your investment in him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:54 PM
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So here's my take then: Fight happens. When people don't they build resentment, unless they adjust and find outlets, then no resentment is built and more dread is produced, resulting in either beneficial breakup or beneficial balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:53 PM
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No you shouldn't disclose your outlets if you resorted to any. In your scenario you imagine it is honest to not sexually satisfy your partner, it's usually not honest, there's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:49 PM
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They in fact don't. And you're no better. You're not forced to put on a fight to get what you want, you're also not forced to believe you deserve what you want everytime, because sometimes their issues might be legitimate and you have compassion and you're open minded. But you can still find outlets, and your faithfullness isn't unconditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:48 PM
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Well, when you cheat, it's your body, no one has a right to say what you can do or not do with it. Can't stress how hypocritical your reasoning is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 PM
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In dread game and relationship, "should" does more. My post is primarily about a way of seeing things I believe is healthier for men. I'm not prescribing a way to act. I still have personal freedom as utmost priority in my discourse, so rape cannot be a should. But when women discuss dating strategies, they discuss it according to what men do, not what men should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:43 PM
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Like what are people afraid of? A fight? Many people displeased with my post here would argue that's sex extortion funnily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 PM
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but dreading to fuck your partner isn't shameful?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:36 PM
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I'm not sure what's your problem with my points. You sound like you'd have gained from your past partner finding exterior outlets, let that be masturbation, flirting or cheating. My post is explicitly to say that faithfullness is the same coin as sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 PM
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Nobody but you is capable to communicate, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:29 PM
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Therefore, women would be the ones cheating more in relationships since we're less likely to orgasm from sex with men. That's assuming women orgasm more easily from ONS/affairs. Which most don't. I'd not consider myself necessarily unsatisfied if I don't reach orgasm often though. If my husband doesn't make enough money for me to buy things that I like, I should be able to have a sugar daddy. If my husband gains weight and his hair line starts to recede I should be able to fuck my personal train…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:28 PM
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Women don't orgasm when they dread sex. Men still orgasm. Not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:24 PM
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should women do the same Are you under the impression they don't? This is their default. that you like it or not. If a woman asked advices to me, I'd likely serve her a female version of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:22 PM
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No, the prime motivation is what you want, if you punish for the sake of punish, you're punishing yourself more. If you see your partner as the enemy, or as someone you feel you need to have power over, then the relationship is definitely over. You need to have a power balance with everyone you have a relationship with. That you acknowledge it or not. The comments about punishment and lack of a power dynamic scream insecurities. No wonder there's no sex. Ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:18 PM
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If she doesn't want sex with me because of X, Y, Z, yes, it's only natural. If it's just petty sex withholding it's just going to hurt her more than me. I'm not "onboard", it's the current reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:17 PM
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Should leave him before you deadbedroom him then, why wasn't that an option in your scenario? Why is everyone up in arms about leaving and not cheating, but nobody's considering that she should have left as well before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:14 PM
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I wonder why nobody ever talks! Nobody talks besides you it seems. :( Talking without adjusting is just yapping.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 PM
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they're going to disrupt your life a fuckton yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 PM
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Porn is an outlet to manage your sexual appetite. And some women do consider porn consumption to be cheating. Funny how that works. Any outlet is going to be considered wrong by someone. getting sugar daddies and OF patrons and maximal alimony and child support is ok for financially unfulfilled women. As is paternity fraud for genetically unsatisfied women Hahaha. I wonder why all these things are part of marital duties!!! It's as if people from before were less blue pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:11 PM
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If she is then she's a master of disguise and maskerade fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 PM
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Plenty of reasons to have a decreasing libido as time goes. If you picked the right person, they'll still want to satisfy you when their libido is weak though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:06 PM
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that that isn't punishment at all. Word it how you want. An adjustment must be made is the important part. That is, if you've talked to them about it which any grown up in a relationship should be able to do. Yall talk of grownup, maturity and communication, but most women couldn't emotionally accept that. So most women aren't grownups is what yall suggesting. You know a lot of women's issues with casual cheating was that he told her, ask older people about it, they'd rather their partner took t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 PM
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You say that like that's not women's default behavior, you're supposed to seduce your wife everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:01 PM
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I'd not agree that emotional needs are paired with faithfullness. But I'd expect that if I'm not doing something right then she gets an outlet somewhere else or break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:59 PM
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Yeah, no. How dismal, unsatisfying and bound to stir up resentment and kill libidos. We have a saying in my country, appetite comes with eating. Sex isn't a duty. Basic human decency is to try to satisfy me sexually in a SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP. So word it however you want, but if faithfullness is in the equation then sexual satisfaction is as well. Duty is how it'll be worded in a marriage contract. But we have to want to pleasure and satisfy each other. I would never stqy with someone who felt tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:58 PM
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I've not been dead bedroomed. Again my post clearly says that I'm not saying you should necessarily cheat. But your faithfullness should not be taken for granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 PM
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Withdrawing and getting outlets elsewhere is personal freedom, beating isn't personal freedom. I'll be critical of "maturity/ethics/morality" when it is hypocritical, against personal freedoms, and obviously beneficial for one side but not the other. Might sound weird to most people but what you do with other consenting adults is not the business of someone else. This is also why I'd advocate everyone to lie about their N count and their sexual past, it's none of their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:47 PM
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(can't possibly have anything to do with you, of course) It can, but it may not be something I'm open to change, or even capable to change. But sometimes it's also their own problems that they bring in. betraying their trust Again read the post, it doesn't have to be absolute cheating, you just need to value your faithfullness as something not granted unconditionally. They betray you first, don't forget that. You can try and shame the concept as much as yo uwant, you're still here trying to argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:42 PM
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(not forcible, but grounds for divorce with fault). Yes, marital rape is illiegal in parallel of sex being a marital duty. I got married for legal reasons, namely I'd wish my wife wasn't homeless if I die, by being married she inherits my money, by not being married my kids inherit my money and it's frozen until they're 18. There are other reasons I forgot about. But I still believe if I get divorced I get scammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:39 PM
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I don't understand everyone's obsession with the idea nobody's communicating. People are communicating. Communicating simply is yapping if it's not accompanied with your ajustements. Either she breaks up and you win or she adjusts and you win. As a man you're not necessarily caring to end things officially when things don't become the way you want. As you said yourself, women initiate divorces more often than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:37 PM
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You're aware you can be divorced at fault for infidelity, right? It IS a marital duty in most countries. Seeing it as a duty would really be a turnoff, tbh. You have to make a difference between what marriage legally bounds you to and how you see things. My partner not wanting to sexually satisfy me is a turnoff. We both agree we want to satisfy each others. Outside of marriage verbiage it is how it's supposed to sound like. we don’t want to be that intimate with anyone else. Good for you. My fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:35 PM
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I'll use that everytime it is happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:29 PM
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By your logic, everything is extorsion by threat of arguing or breaking up. why are you sure your wife enjoys sex with you Orgasms and her initiating, mood improving after sex, ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:28 PM
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Sexual satisfaction is only one part of a LTR Why do you think I don't advocate for people to break up at the slightest disatisfaction? I assume you mean cheating gives you worth. No. Sex doesn't give you worth, it gives you what you want, and getting what you want is what you're worth. If what you want is different then go get that something different. At this point I'm a bit annoyed because that's not even the point of my post. Reread it, it's not written that you should necessarily cheat, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:24 PM
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I haven't said men should literally cheat if their needs aren't being met. Please read the post. I’m asking you if you also believe women should cheat if their needs aren’t being met. And I've answered that right before.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:10 PM
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Not reading, don't commit ad hominems on a debate sub, shouldn't be a difficult task.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:09 PM
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Strawman and adhominems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:07 PM
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I think the same of you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:07 PM
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People aren't reasonable and won't open a relationship while acknowledging they're not enough for you right now. They're going to decide for you what you need and want, they're going to be upset, they're going to ruin it all just at the thought that your faithfullness was not a given but something that has to be paid for one way or another. If you are more subtle you're not going to make big waves, and they're not going to have contradictory emotional swings or take stupid decisions. When you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:06 PM
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If that’s your boundary, then leave! Why would one leave when they can fix something that's already mostly good? again why jump to cheating? Why not? Your faithfullness should be considered a pricey privilege, not a given default. Again if you read my post, it's not "jump" to cheating. Have you read? You clearly only value sex with her if you can’t enjoy her company without it. You don't read. I Won't read either.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:03 PM
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You don't think they do? Why do you think cheating is considered worse than not fucking in the first place? They're defending their interest better than men ever have.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:59 PM
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Talk to me when you're able to be nice. Reported.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:58 PM
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the shit hit the fan usually after kids, your 5 years are cute. And the shit might be just temporary. It usually is if you vetted right. The key part is staying happy with your outlets in the mean time and getting eventually your worth. In a power or value disbalance, giving away more power and value isn't the right fix. Either things break or rebalance it's a winwin. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:23 AM
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Oh no! :( not the ad hominems in a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:21 AM
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Do you choose to be horny? You can choose to be horny, you can choose to engage without being horny, you can choose to let yourself be seduced into being horny. Very telling that you view other people as beneath you Why do people not view me as beneath me when they disrespect me, break a boundary or ignore my needs, in a partnership that expressively suggests to do the opposite? Aren't you being hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:20 AM
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communication takes a lot of shapes my dude. Funny you talk of respect when all you have to say is "you need to respect those who disrespected you first", crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:18 AM
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You’re in a relationship that is expected not to have other individuals involved unless otherwise discussed. if the relationship doesn't involve sexual satisfaction, then not anymore. Lying and cheating is more complicated than asking why your wife won’t have sex with you. You know why she won't have sex with you. What's more complicated is yapping about it everyday and keeping investing yourself in her. She should fix her behavior or break the relationship. If you don't do it yourself that is. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:17 AM
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You're both adults, so they should know your time, investment and happiness isn't to be messed up with and you'll fix it yourself. Doormatry is unadultlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:12 AM
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I very likely have been in a relationship for longer than you. Nice ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:10 AM
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Loaded questions. My wife enjoys sex with me, I enjoy her company, and it's not extortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:09 AM
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If one doesn't believe your sexual satisfaction is their duty (in reasonable measures) then your faithfullness can't be on the menu. And inversely. If all she can pull is a bad starfish sex then all you can do is bad apparent faithfullness. Though it'd be reasonable that you accept bad starfish sex sometimes and do what you can to put her in the mood... “I’m a manipulative controlling menace to society and my ego distorts my reality. My selfishness works for me maybe you should try it.” Tone dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:07 AM
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I'd be interested to know what she says, maybe she has better wording than me and have interesting powerful concepts I could use to better communicate my opinion. Do you have a link of somewhere she specifically talks of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:02 AM
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Oh no! :( not the shaming
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:01 AM
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This isn't about me. But based on that attitude, I think we all understand you want to go full ad hominem.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:00 AM
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Because it is mostly not an ACTIVE CHOICE made by the partner who isn't in the mood. It's an active choice. No you're not and that attitude is very telling. Very telling that I'm more mindful of relational dynamics while you autopilote and think your success is not due to mutual balancing and training.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:59 AM
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Talk without change is just yapping. If you think talking is spine you're wrong. Acting is spine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:58 AM
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I can't relate to madonna-whore dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:57 AM
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Which is why conversations in relationships are important instead of immediately jumping to break loyalty ask why they don’t want to have sex or ask for an open relationship. Things are a lot slower than you make it sound like, and spectrums are wider than what you talk like as well. If people don't owe you sexual satisfaction then you don't owe them to know where your romantic and sexual interests go toward, why making things more complicated? Why brushing people the wrong way in the name of an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:57 AM
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People are perfectly capable to expect contradictory things, they're not owed the entire truth on everything. Things are also spectrums, not just binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:48 AM
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Assertive people take what they want. If I feel like I'm not getting my worth I'll take it back one way or another. Words don't mean much when you talk of assertiveness, and therefore lying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:47 AM
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No, the idea of duty sex is absolutely disgusting. Then your opinion is hypocritical (I assume here that you were meant to answer another comment from me) she’s your wife not a child. Call it however you want, you don't fix power and value disbalances by giving away more of these, withdrawing will preserve yourself, it'll fix things either by breaking or by rebalancing. Win win. we should care about each other too much to create a toxic dynamic.. My boss wasn't very careful of my property when h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:46 AM
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Not everyone cheats because they're unsatisfied with their sex life and their partner isn't getting them off That's their right. Doesn't mean everyone should be like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:42 AM
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I'm happy and sexually satisfied with my LTR don't worry. :) I'm also happy at my job right now but I had to tame it a lot through similar behaviors I exposed in the post. Playing by the rules made by people without your best interest in mind is just self sabotaging. Most people actually want to be healthy individuals That is the important part. Why would one be unhealthy because they're getting their worth somewhere else meanwhile the situation on the other side fixes itself? not stuck in an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:41 AM
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I've been open minded about boundary transgressions like she has been about mines, and we enforced the things we cared about with withdrawal or with confrontation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:37 AM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 AM
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communication without action is just yapping. you don't fix power or value disbalance by giving away more of it, but by withdrawing some of it. Proportionally. You get to preserve yourself, things break or fix themselves, win win situations, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:35 AM
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"changing their minds" it's rarely ever the case. Changing their minds or their body changing. Doesn't have to be intentional. Bro that's what a commitment is. Then commitment also necessarily includes sexual satisfaction. If this is the case, men should cheat to fulfill their sexual needs after their partner gives birth and can't move or have sex for weeks afterward. I'm not advocating to be this unreasonable. I've had longer dry spells for biological reasons. can't move for weeks Women can be …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:31 AM
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Cheating is wrong. Period. Nothing justifies it ever. Do you believe deadbedrooming also is wrong and nothing justifies it ever? :( I think you don't. the person should communicate this to their partner. Without countermeasures or punishment, then that's just yapping. you don't fix power or value disbalance by throwing more value or yielding more power at it, you fix it by withdrawing it. It either break things or they fix their attitude. Win win. It’s really not a complex highly controversial t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:27 AM
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Be civil and I might engage with you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:24 AM
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Relationships are usually founded on loyalty to one another unless otherwise discussed. Loyalty and sexual satisfaction. Both together or none. Unless otherwise discussed indeed. But nobody starts a relationship of loyalty with the implicit idea that sex can be withholded for a prolonged amount of time without consequences. You’d just rather cheat and lie because it’s the easy way to get what you want. If one prefers that while their partner is fixing themselves, why not? The point is you do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:21 AM
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for the dissolving of the relationship with the extra step of being an asshole Why do you not think of it that way when sex is dissolving in the first place? tit for tat revenge It's tit for tat if you don't fulfill an actual need. You shouldn't be punishing your partner. You should be trying to solve problems. Then call it skillfully motivating your partner in a way that doesn't trigger more investment from you. Which solves problems either by fixing things or by breaking things. Eitherway you'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:17 AM
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As long as you provide him with daily recordings of yourself moaning his name <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:13 AM
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That's fine? We can be different. I'm open minded, if my partner has self induced rough patches I can accept it. And I'll maintain my mental health and happiness however I can in the mean time. It benefits them that I remain a sturdy and available partner after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:12 AM
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It's what I suggest. If your partner doesn't believe they're ethically and morally supposed to satisfy you sexually, then you're not supposed to believe cheating is immoral or unethical. Otherwise it's a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:10 AM
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I see it as withdrawing your investment in the relationship because they have done so first. Might be a better wording indeed My country has sex as a marital duty, funnily.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:08 AM
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Why is it not manly to cheat? Who decided that? People who want to manipulate men into doing what they want. If you don’t want to leave her you obviously have a reason for staying? Why can't people have reasons to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:07 AM
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The distance hurt her and made her realize she was taking you for granted. In the mean time you had your fun on whatever outlet you can imagine, it can be just flirting around if that's making you feel good about yourself and feel like she's not the only fish in the sea. So either the distance breaks things out and it's good for both of you, or she starts pulling in efforts and it's good for both of you, and you regain willingness to invest yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:04 AM
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Ask yourself that question
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:02 AM
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Imagine thinking asymmetrical and hypocritical ethics and morals are good
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:02 AM
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You do negotiate, just in more subtle ways. Lying is part of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:01 AM
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you've almost certainly lost a ton of money compared to your worth Probably if I was a grinder, I'm not a grinder, I value my free time above excess money. I'm getting what I want. Not sure how long it will last though, but I've gained more by downgrading my services than by going to job interviews to try and hope to find better. You also didn't mention marriage, did you marry this partner at any point? Yes, we have kids as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:00 AM
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I'll give you an example: Talk nice to me and I'll read you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:56 AM
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Yes because you are being insanely immature Not reading any further, be nice and mature to me and I'll consider reading you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:55 AM
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Ignored and reported. Be nice to me and I'll read you seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:53 AM
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bedrooms never die because someone just changed their mind. They do, maybe you shall debate this topic once you know these things It's no one's "duty" to sexually satisfy their partner especially they're going through shit in their lives. It's no one's duty to remain faithful as well then. If you can't handle lacking sexual intimacy because your partner is struggling with life somehow, you really shouldn't be dating anyone tbh. Nobody said you had to be an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:53 AM
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Are you in favor of duty sex? that warrants a conversation Conversation without punishment is just yapping, grown ass adults don't let their boundaries be trespassed for free. This is called integrity It's propaganda This is called basic human decency. Why do you not feel that way for people breaking their duties first? We don't go around stabbing each other in the heart because we're unhappy in a relationship. False equivalency I swear, some of ya'll have the emotional maturity of a toddler. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:50 AM
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That's gynomorphism, enough men can dissociate sex being unsatisfactory from the entirety of the relationship being or not being satisfactory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:48 AM
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Why would you want to throw away something mildly broken that you like when you can fix it? Don't have the skill to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:44 AM
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Been 16 years with my partner. Been 12 years at my job. Have always had what I wanted because I punish every boundary transgressed either actively or passively, or by downgrading my contribution. I'm never in a deal I don't like for long. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:42 AM
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If you aren't sexually satisfied you should leave. And why is that? What if you can get sexually satisfied without leaving something you don't want to leave? What if your dread is making them wake up and be better? Why so absolutist?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:40 AM
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If you never punish them one way or another, then your grown up talk is just yapping. As I said, either breakup or downgrade, or both, but don't do nothing. Your fidelity being compromised by the lack of sex should be a latent threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:39 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:34 AM
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I knew the "ethics and moral" gang would come and be unhappy about it. Even labeling it as immature. But that is just emotionally immature to always confront about everything and not perform any actual punishment. You will simply be in the wrong if you end up cheating it's that simple. According to nobody who has your best interest in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:34 AM
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Are you suggesting that because men watch porn while in relationship they are not satisfied sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:31 AM
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You'll need to elaborate on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:26 AM
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ragebait skit goes viral Oh wow who would have thought
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:20 AM
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Lmfao it absolutely shows that men prefer much younger women and women prefer men around their own age. It doesn't show men prefer much younger women. It just shows women look best at 20. And that's not suggesting anything regarding men's likeliness to find other women attractive. 66% of male messages went to the top 33% of women. And the exact same study it was from also showed 2/3 of female messages went to the 1/3 top men as well, only sightly less exaggerated than men's. The only difference …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 11:43 PM
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https://youtu.be/z0wxSmrs5fs?t=1m32s Blue pill women: watch a video where a woman said she studied why men wouldn't go on a second date, and why women wouldn't go on a second date, and found out women had insanely picky standards Blue pill women: Why are men so contradictory?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:53 PM
1

He doesn't accept no as an answer, what a thug
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:52 PM
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Denied
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:51 PM
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Being less picky means you don't feel like settling with suboptimal partner, being less picky means you are glad that you've found someone good enough who wants you back. The feeling of settling happens because of the pickiness. The problem is pickiness. How can you link this video and immediately think the problem isn't women being picky?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:40 PM
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I wrote a paragraph and you wrote 3 words and you believe I was the one not clear. You clearly deserve to be bullied.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:33 PM
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Eastuss: says something you: THis is AF/BB Eastuss: no it's not, here's the context of what I'm talking about you: that's not what AF/BB is about YES FUCKING EXACTLY I WAS NEVER TALKING ABOUT AF/BB YOU INSIST I WAS. WHY DO YOU LECTURE ME ABOUT IT LIKE I DONT KNOW????? Why are you guys so dense, with such a short memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:26 PM
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Why would that be very french Edit: nevermind I talked of guillotine
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:22 PM
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I stayed with the same woman from 20 to 36 and going, if she asked me right up if I wanted kids and marriage at 20 i'd have told her "not now, maybe never". Instead of asking me all this, my wife seduced me into these things when the time was right. She's the woman it's literally her job to make me commit, not my job. Too many women ask beforehand men if they're planning to commit and treat it as a red flag when men don't care yet. It's perfectly normal they don't care and it's perfectly normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:19 PM
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Nothing here suggests men don't find women their age attractive, nothing here suggests women find men their age attractive. Because the mention is "look best". Critical thinking isn't your thing is it? https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F50d7b601-db67-4942-a8a9-c185eed592d8_910x1198.jpeg Meanwhile, women seem to think 80% of men are ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 09:08 PM
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No but I can see why you'd think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:54 PM
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That was to be expected from my prude niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:54 PM
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People don't have different goals often enough at that age, especially not political and religious. They just have "I'm not seduced by you and I'll rebrand it as incompatibility".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:48 PM
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I love you like a vulgar uncle loves his prude niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:46 PM
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It's not unpopular. I believe you should be talking about those if you're dating over 30. In your 20s you shouldn't, in your 20 you're not in a hurry and you're not settled on what you want, makes no sense to prompt others about it. Obviously 22 year old me didn't think about kids or politics. I have 2 kids now and I want pull out the guillotine for our politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:44 PM
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Most men find women their age attractive. Most women don't find men their age attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:41 PM
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you're thinking too much, it's all intended.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:35 PM
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The point went over your head or you're strawmaning it. For the record, my country is among the least fat in the entire first world. A country where philosophy and art of debate are taught in highschool by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:32 PM
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I have proven your logic to be contradictory, and you try to misrepresent what I say me as personally attack you. I can't be gaslighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:26 PM
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100% of women want 3% of men. That doesn't mean they aren't willing to settle, but it also doesn't mean that they aren't settling and that the resentment isn't there. So your big "men are picky" talking points is canceled. Implying I don’t have “a little bit of a brain” is an attack No what I said is you treat everyone like they're too dumb to see through your fallacies. But sadly for you not everyone has zero clue how debate works in a debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:20 PM
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You got it, it doesn't count. è_é
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:16 PM
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People are invited to these skit and asked to be sassy and over the top for the show. We got you trying to make a ragebait over a ragebait reaction video over a ragebait staged video. This is actually impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:11 PM
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Post that on unpopularopinion for a free ban
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:09 PM
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I'm french and don't give you the right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:08 PM
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That's not what they were saying. Tons of men are motivated to seduce women for sex, they're not trying to seduce women to have a purpose. For the same reasons I work for money, not for purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:06 PM
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More men than women want kids now Sounds like a terminally online take. The general dynamic I see IRL is still that nobody's too motivated to have kids until she has baby fever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:05 PM
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The topic is you saying 100% of men are focused on 3% of women. So the topic is both men and women, and you agreeing here is suggesting that it's not 100% of men being focused on 3% of women. Your logic is just fallacious and won't work with anybody with a bit of a brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:04 PM
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or that women's upper hand in the dating market is greatly understated by misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:02 PM
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The wall is a visual constatation, nothing else, never stopped women from getting what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:39 PM
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So I understood well that this was the linkedin CEO narrative. And people downvote me when I say that women behave like HR/CEOs in the dating market, they have the same tactics, the same arguments, the same propaganda and strawmans.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 04:22 PM
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yeah I brought it up and you got it wrong. So listen to me and deal with what I'm saying not with something I just told you is your wrong interpretation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:25 PM
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word salad it's good for your diet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:32 PM
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the issue could be also that they just removed anything they didn't like in the name of "not wasting" and these things happen to be all gifts to rich people or to dismantle lgbt stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:54 PM
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Gaslighting, america relies on everyone else more than the opposite. Has asked everyone for help against their wars for oil and now is suddenly cold footed to fight off russia. What a pathetic gaslighting bully that country is. Started with bush, continuing with trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:48 PM
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The current events are why the entire world believes trump is the biggest failure america has ever elected. Yall just agreed to become an oligarch country.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:43 PM
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When are we going to acknowledge that america has been a failure?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:40 PM
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IDK but sometimes my comment in a buried comment thread gets 3 downvotes in a row and I know it's the blue piller I argue with and their other 2 alts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:37 PM
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This isn't about mainstream dating this is about mainstream media and collective approval. One side of this extreme shit is going to get more collective approval. Also wtf is mainstream dating and why should people blame themselves of caring about what to expect on the average?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:34 PM
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Could say it for women as well so you still don't have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:33 PM
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Blatantly disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:25 AM
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Can't relate to any man ever suggesting something like this. I can see what archetype would think and talk this way but it's kind of a minority of sad doormaty people to me. Most men are more like "she's getting in the way of my purposes but sex is good".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:21 PM
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If I can guess some of people's personality from their face, body and style alone then maybe looks matter and make you special.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:26 PM
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Purpose??? Like women really think men are aimless goalless without a woman? Or do you mean like men should be glad to provide for a woman? This sounds like an argument a CEO would make as to why people should be happy to work for them lmao. Genetic continuity is weird too. Women are the ones who should ideally push for kids, and there's no guarantee as a man that this is your genetic continuity. Status yes because ppl tread you differently when you have a woman. Services meh. Women don't want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:23 PM
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I've been told By who? DIdn't occur to you they were full of shit? It's a typical fallacious debating strategy. Next thing they'll tell you if that your standards of dating should be indians and chineses women because the average woman on earth is indian or chinese and therefore you don't deserve white women unless you pay them. Doesn't matter if you live in a white country and are white yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 10:13 PM
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the difference is the female version is probably going to get more mainstream
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:48 PM
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do you believe the population of slim young unmarried and childless men are somehow 10 times bigger than women's...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:46 PM
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So what???? This isn't even what I was referring to. You want us to believe 100% of men are targeting and pairing with 3% of women you are as bad faith as it gets. It doesn't matter what the average age is. Majority of people are dating within 0 to 5 age gap in favor of the man being older. That means whatever your 3% of women are supposed to be their dating pool are a similar amount of men. You set the filter on 18 to 25, have you bothered to compute how many men were 21 to 28 to make your pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:38 PM
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If slim, young, childless and unmarried is top 3% of women then surely a slim, young, childless unmarried man is top 1~2% of men (because obviously women aren't going for younger men so that cuts a lot of them out), he won't need to have money, he should be enough as is. Your numbers are just off and it just furthermore proves women's perception of what they are worth is not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:11 PM
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I didn't define patriarchy in my comment Lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:09 PM
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defines patriarchy only in term of property and other human constructs that exist only since recently claims patriarchy didn't exist before agriculture and property Nice circular fallacious logic. OP is talking outside of the referential of modern human construct you could have at least bothered to do the same. Human beings are thought to have been primarily egalitarian We don't know that and there isn't even a theory based on that. But it depends what you mean by egalitarian. Gender roles were …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:24 PM
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Oops that is only for 1 girl a day. I meant 21 000.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:22 PM
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I'd have wished to fuck a different woman 3 times a day ever since I'm 16. So my ideal N count would have been around 7 000.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:18 PM
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Sir lily is a young woman, of course she gets offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:00 PM
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totally not a narcissist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:58 PM
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OFC she had to be french And yes, it's not super uncommon, she wants a stereotypical sexy anticonformist like most nonconformist girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:55 PM
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I've not really managed to work on the volume, it seems entirely dependent on if the sex is long or not. But I've technics to work on the distance traveled, which is nice if you want to splatter her in cum form pussy to face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:47 PM
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Sir that is a 18 year old woman of course she is insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:33 PM
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makeup is vague too my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:29 AM
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Are you planning second bébé?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:47 AM
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My dick is sore from valentine's day and I feel real dehydrated and empty of any energy. What about you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:28 AM
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It is equivalent. Lies and makeups are both concealing the truth and presenting something else, just not on the same medium of communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:27 AM
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refuses to elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:25 AM
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Being hypocritical now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:25 AM
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Still not a fetish. And yes, women like big men even if they're a bit fat, it's better than scrawny because of what you said. But it's a different demographic of women. The ones who want very tall men are normie/conventionals, the height is status symbol, not much about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:24 AM
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You mean you don't adopt a different behavior, consciously or not, to seduce women...?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 12:22 AM
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In general, getting people who are rare is difficult. So even if you're in a rare category of attractive or ugly, you have better chances of finding someone more average than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:15 PM
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Do you have the same opinions for women wearing makeup, dying their hair, using push ups/padded bras, photoshopping their pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:13 PM
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how much do you want to bet she was like "nooo I'm gonna get fat" and now she's happy she can complain online
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:10 PM
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game is makeup for men, not astrology.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:09 PM
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Prescription vs description. Therefore stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:08 PM
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he's not autistic he's unwilling. Just like most incels are unwilling to approach women and learn from that. Women also don't like to adapt to men, but the difference is society tends to tell you that only men have to adapt to women, and women are born perfect. So men are ridiculed for not being willing to learn to be romantic and to manage women's emotions. Men unwilling to adapt to women are alone. Women unwilling to adapt to men have boyfriends they complain about 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:05 PM
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The sex you get on valentine's day should be more spicy than usual. It sure was for me. I also enjoyed the expensive food for myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 01:00 PM
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And your limits are weaker when the other is just more valuable than you. Whoever believes they love unconditionally and not the other are the weaker ones in the force rapports.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:56 PM
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It's not a fetish it's greed. There isn't anything sexual about women wanting tall men, it's just like women wanting rich men. Their pride is in having a huge man to walk around with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:54 PM
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lol the format of the sheet she's using
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:52 PM
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It's not a fetish otherwise there would be short fetish. As a short dude I can tell you it's not just the conventionally attractive women. They're also not all conventionally attractive, they're just groomed like conventionally attractive women on social media, but from upclose they're average.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:50 PM
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Much of looks are objective, then people have different priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:40 PM
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Connect the dot we're on PPD :(
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:39 PM
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You can provide me with facts pseudoscience but you cannot take a moment to consider if those facts pseudoscientific theories are relevant to an argument or not. You wasted your energy and already lost your pride doing so, you cannot rewrite what happened to save it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 12:37 PM
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that's not for you to decide
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:22 PM
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more like 3-4% minimum Again, 4% winrate is insane for a high RNG game. Constructed I never saw the appeal unless you want to compete in tournaments irl. My appeal was trying to break the meta or at least finetune better than others. But that might be why I'd be surprised at one's slowness, constructed is way easier to figure out. I do in 10h what most of my colleagues do in 40h. And they do 40h in 2 days while I do 10h in a week :'( Steam reviews are extremely positive for slay the spire, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:21 PM
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Exactly. If you wanna be funny, at least be funny in a logically consistent way !
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:10 PM
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I rather believe the depressive part he means is that you'd spend a lot of time and effort to improve your looks only to be matchable with the worst women have to offer. And no, looks aren't subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:08 PM
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Mentally ill gym bros who take steroids, not fit men tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:06 PM
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Fallacy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:03 PM
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I'm glad that shit doesn't pop on /r/all as much as it used to. Sad that it was replaced by trans subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:01 PM
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Daily reminder that incentives for commitment and children come from women. Women proved that easy times create weak women. But I don't hear too many people ask for female military service so women stop being pussies. And before people claim the opposite, yes those are easy times for women, the easiest times ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:38 PM
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he let himself go :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:35 PM
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Yeah creepy is just a magical word for "man bad, don't question, pass on the message" like many other words they have. Which is why it amuses me some people would take seriously that word and push psychologist studies on it like it's relevant to the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:55 AM
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Yes, I'll not click that. I don't need psychologist's theories on what creepiness essentially is when most people aren't even using the word only to describe that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 AM
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You did say "split second" which is definitely pattern play as you simply don't have time to consider your options in such a short amount of time. You don't have to recompute every options everytime, and you're already more or less knowing what you'll do with your next draw, it's split second decisions but the next decision tree is already kind of precomputed. I remember last time I played it was a boros fuck fest and it was all the same boring thing, either you were lucky or you weren't. But tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:45 AM
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Creepiness is actually ambiguity of threat, not just doesn’t like you for whatever reason. According to who? The textbook definition or the most common usage? People's usage of the word is more broad than that. For BOTH men and women, men are considered more physically threatening so both genders are more likely to view men as creepy. You've never been near a creepy kid haven't you. Believe me it doesn't take much for something physically unthreatening to turn threatening. Doesn't matter how str…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:56 PM
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I'm not sure pattern play approach is really how I operate in card games. There's a computation of probabilities but it's not a rigorous checklist, it's a vibe. I feel 5% winrate is vastly underrestimating how accurately you can feel the board. It's more error prone but even while calculating everything you'll be taking probabilities, which will make your choices not really matter that often. I'd say it's more 0.5%. I prefer to feel like I'm being held back by how much my brain can think rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:51 PM
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I might consider slay the spire then. The only real reason mtg is considered such a complex game is because you have limited time every turn to find the best play IDK a split second is enough for me, provided I have some experience with the deck I have and I am facing. I never quite understood people who voluntarily took their time and told people that it is necessary to take good decisions, all it looks like to me is they're slowly going through the possibilities or that they can't form good he…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:08 PM
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Same shit man, same shit, you're saying stupid things and are wrong for existing as a stupid person, BECAUSE you have dumb little stories happening to you that you're willing to narrate. How dare you? Got what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:50 PM
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All men got called creep often enough in their life. That's why it's a non information. Creep = doesn't like you for whatever reason. As well, if you hear about how people met or got together, that's another person's creep story, that's another woman's behavior that worked. Most women's behavior would be judged as creepy if they were men. Creep is such a subjective useless metric for anything. It's just a goto word for "I want to shame you/this person but I can't word it so I'll resort to cheap"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:21 PM
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was it really a micropeen or was it an average peen that she called micro
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:18 PM
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When you raise your kids to believe femininity is beauty but masculinity is gross then obviously unfeminine men will be gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:16 PM
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Screencapedcels be seething
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:14 PM
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When people disagree they necessarily both think you said something stupid and that you're wrong for existing with that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:13 PM
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If you're playing turn based roguelites which are the ones I like, winning unlucky runs require to play very close to perfect play (finding the absolute best move every turn) which require an amount of knowledge and skill that is extremely high. I find getting to that point very enjoyable. I've played ranked ladders of magic the gathering for quite some times. If you tell me there are solod card games more complex than magic the gathering ladder I could be interested. But I highly doubt it. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:11 PM
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Why do you guys post things with annoying parasite narrators?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:02 PM
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The problem with unlucky runs is that they're not difficult because of skill, they're difficult because of numbers. Just like in soulslike there's a sweat spot where your health and damage makes the boss a skill challenge and not just an endurance challenge. It's not enjoyable. The difference being that for an rpg, you can increase the difficulty for challenges to be both a theory craft challenge and a mechanical skill challenge. With randomness, it'll be randomly either a skill challenge or a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:09 PM
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That's not a threat to feminism that is literal core feminism. Even the crowd that says "you deserve to be equal" stems from an apex fallacy of what the average man is, therefore always was "you deserve better" with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:52 AM
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Made a post recently about that, it was weirdly more controversial than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:45 AM
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I have received approval from the mods to post this Bet you haven't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:44 AM
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Why are there so many people with Ok in their nickname I can't tell them apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:44 AM
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Randomness isn't making those games replayable, having a different variation of something mediocre without artistic value isn't replayable. Same problem for games with procedural generation of maps, the maps are mediocre and their difference isn't making it interesting to explore everytime, it makes it a chore. I don't find it funny to minmax builds out of randomness, because it removes the pleasure of theorycrafting. Transistor (same people as hades) has more replayability to me because it has …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:37 AM
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When you are a picky gamer, you indeed run out of game pretty fast. That's why I dev games as a hobby. But competitive online games that are decently balanced do offer a good pastime as well. But consuming good art is more important, competitive online games make me burnout, it's good to put yourself under pressure some times but not constantly. I liked Hades but I'd have wished there was less randomness. I'd wish to make a game that looks like a roguelike from afar, but in reality is a game tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:05 AM
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(play hollow knight)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:53 AM
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There aren't any well balanced game with build variety I've played yet. But I'd pick games without builds before I'd pick a roguelike.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:46 AM
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Those games get solved fast and get stall. Feel free to give examples though. If they get "solved" then they're not balanced. Roguelikes don't get solved and are immediately boring AF. Games that get "solved" are at least fun for the timeframe where you're theorycrafting it. PoE is boring AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:43 AM
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If you had a game with a decent and balanced build system, the replayability would come from you testing new builds. But since they can't design such a thing, they add randomness and pray that people who know no better find that fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:35 AM
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How are you autistic and not enjoying factorio? >_< Roguelites are annoying, randomness as a mean to avoid having to design games well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:27 AM
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Yeah I'm not autistic. I just wanted to cognate on the 10h of week work. Play factorio btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:23 AM
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Again, I am a software engineer, I work 10h a week as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:17 AM
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I'm a software engineer and I'm not even that rigorous in my job despite it requires it.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:08 AM
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And when you look closely they don't in fact have relationships that started as friends, they have relationships that started as "acquaintance never stopped flirting and I didn't register it until that was long enough timespan because I'm a fragile clueless woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:04 AM
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Which is the polar opposite of what womanosphere was telling men in the 90s and 2000s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:02 AM
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I'm known for giving the femcel flag too easily. Basically if you're not married by 25, or are like 22 but uncapable to get stable LTRs (willingly or not), then you're a femcel. It's not a death sentence don't worry dear niece.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:56 AM
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Hello monster_lily's alt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:49 AM
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Short term is bad choice from previous commenter, it should also encompass failed relationships, or relationships with very little commitment. Exciting men are good at starting things, not good for long term. Women want the good long term but after a few years of the exciting phase. We all do. A lot of men are bad at creating the first sparks yet would be very good long term partners. Those are the men women should pick, but they can't look past the boringness, they can't make it exciting for bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:46 AM
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The signs they will be "abusive": women find them exciting and want them The signs they won't be "abusive": women find them boring Because "abusive" is really just "can afford to be more selfish due to overvaluing me". "Choose better" starts with toning your standards for exitment the fuck down.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:44 AM
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Being good and motivated to do certain tasks/hobbies is good if you're both good cooperators. If you're adversarial people it's best you have very different skillsets and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:41 AM
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You're a femcel so I can guess why you'd want positive vibes. If you feel that's hate, then you're just delulu and need me as your full time uncle. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:38 AM
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she's obese
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:23 AM
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she's indeed just a genetic fat black woman, however she's fairly cute facially so she probably has options. So the answer is she's picky AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:23 AM
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it's over for foreheadcels
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:21 AM
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probably rare cases? People who make it to last year probably can get the degree, or are rich enough that it doesn't matter. People who can't get the degree stop early and minimize the losses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:18 AM
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a harem suggest sex will happen, which will make them not incels, which will auto destroy your harem of incels to be just a harem of based men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:16 AM
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You need capitalism to destroy your life to be this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:12 AM
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I broke your heart it seems :(
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:09 AM
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Well. Young or hot, works as well separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:08 AM
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My relationship basically. But it's too focused on the man. Why don't I see any mention of wife having wide hips ample ass and thighs, and a thirst for sucking dick?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:36 PM
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Why? Having female attention as a woman is void. Just like your grandma telling you you're handsome. Having attention from hot young women as a man is validating. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:34 PM
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My wife has had more female attention and kissed more women than me. It's not an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:01 PM
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I sure hope you're not american...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:16 PM
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Yeah well I don't believe I've told anything about women who are like you. You don't seem arrogant about it or blaming someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:56 PM
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France is very blue pilled and feminist, white french women are insuferably picky and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:55 PM
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Conservative society, perhaps. Socialist left in europe does care, because it is a reality and a truth that it should. the fact that you see breeding as a woman's primary function. Humans are primary seen by society as 1) worker 2) breeders 3) caregivers. And those are the reasons why we live in a comfortable society. That you want to cherrypick one and make it look bad is not changing any of that. I've never seen a socialist argue against being kid-free. Socialism and general left wants people …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:46 PM
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Stop being obsessed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:41 PM
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you're on a tangent since 3 comments that's irrelevant, on a topic I don't care about, and you want me to read paragraphs of quotes that you didn't bother to resume for me. Your brain is the one malfunctioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:17 PM
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not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:13 PM
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Society wants an emphasis on breeding. My society has generally done so by trying to give more rights and benefits to parents. I don't see how that is akin to conservative muslims. prioritizing the community over individual choice are all americans thinking socialism = muslim...?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:13 PM
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Which of the symptom do I display :') the breathing or the humanity? I assume you mean the breathing for comedic purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:11 PM
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It is technically replacement but I need to compensate make more kids for the infertile and unlucky people. But I can't make 0.33 kids :( /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:11 PM
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Laws aren't a hint to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:09 PM
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The tax breaks are not that significant. The tax breaks I got would be like 1/5 of what I had to pay just to be able to have my kids taken care of while I'm working. If I had to stop working to take care of my kids the government would get a lot less money loss than this tax break. I don't value American culture Can't hate you for it. But I'm french and our immigrants are muslim, so you get why I'd care, I don't want islam to have more influence. And women especially shouldn't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:05 PM
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Historically the concept of marital rape and "taking a wife" wasn't classified as rape like today. I know you believe that, I could guess it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:59 PM
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Do you believe all kid-free women are burdens? I don't believe most childfree women are childfree because they hate men. I have a job, I pay taxes, and I have like 2-3 retirement accounts. How am I contributing less than a woman with kids, or a kid-free man? Depends the economy. Kids are more valuable right now. So you're technically contributing something less inestimable than a parent. Your taxes and retirement accounts aren't going to help if 30 years from now there is a huge inflation becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:58 PM
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You: I'm assuming you're evil Me: no I'm not You: so generous of you not to be evil Aren't you tired of being so confused?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:53 PM
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Do you understand my point better now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:51 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:51 PM
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Men not realizing once again that it's this kind of behavior exactly that turns women into misandrists. Women demanded they were equal to men, able to live off independently from men with the same job opportunities as men. The more they're getting equal to men, the less they have kids. I'll first blame the rich because they used that phenomenon to pay everyone less and develop toxic work environments where nobody can see themselves having kids. But then once the rich are blamed, why have women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:50 PM
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I'm not being emotional. I'm debating. I'm having issues with hypocrites. Is your dad a burden while he pretends he is currently not?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:39 PM
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Why do you believe I don't consider them women? "being replaced by ethnics" means is that women who are picky are going to be replaced by women who aren't picky. Which will not only bring in more women which will worsen the dynamics for the picky women, the men will also not attempt to improve for them which was the initial goal with being picky. The ethnic women will bring different cultures, likely more patriarchal, which might be also an undesirable result. In short, it's going to do everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:37 PM
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not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:34 PM
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I believe biologists are backing this claim..... But you're totally biology pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:34 PM
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eh IDK... I don't believe anyone can know nor judge. Unless genetic disease I don't receive these kind of argument. I've seen enough mentally ill women transfer their mental illness to their daughters and the daughters still working it out better in their life. If there's any transfer to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:33 PM
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Do you not know me by now? I don't complain, I don't have emotions, I debate, on a debate sub. It doesn't reflect my life nor my decisions, nor how I treat people IRL individually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:31 PM
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They're living in the woods off the grid? No. Then they're not removed from the scene. They're buying and working, paying taxes and voting, occupying homes and jobs. And for some of them, spreading misandry online.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:30 PM
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That's doomer take. Might be a concern for america, but not where I live. Our schools are still good enough to produce functional individuals. Class mobility is pretty good, even tho it's getting worse with american influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:27 PM
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Why is that a problem? Isn't that how english people say it? Strangers is better? Isn't it a generic term?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:25 PM
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I don't believe pushing is the problem, I believe acting (or lack of) is. I believe lowering birthrates are due to more complex societal problems and I'd rather we fix our relationship to work, and poverty problems before anything else. But pretentious childfree women who think it's all men's issues are hypocritical and should be told so. I'd not go at an infertile person like they're the issue to anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:24 PM
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My dad is the same. I'm the opposite. I'm perfectly happy not moving and being in my mind for eternity. My dad might be able to outlive me if I'm not moving my ass more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:21 PM
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it's not libertarian here, our government is pretty authoritarian. It's authoritarian right and libertarian left. Which means they're eventually going to tell you that euthanazia is cheaper than whatever you need to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:21 PM
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Why do you think I'd be upset about you then? I don't care about society much, it's just that if we're debating society and childfree, and the well being of everyone, then I'd wish society was good for people infertile like you as well. And for that, it means people who are able to have kids should contribute more.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:19 PM
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Of taxes? Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 PM
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I think it makes more sense for men to feel childfree. Men who don't approach women are the equivalent problem. Inhibited men. Which is what we all reproach is the problem of incels. We're already pushing contempt on that. But we don't often push contempt on the equivalent in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 PM
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Do you not know me by now? My life is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:15 PM
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You're not forcing, you're seducing, you're convincing. Not a lot of people want kids hypothetically. not a lot of people have the introspection and clarity of mind to tell yourself "I don't want to die childless, but I haven't found someone who makes me feel safe, confident and motivated to have kids with". So of course in early stages of relation you have cold feet regarding the idea of kids, everyone should. The same way no woman is interested in having sex with me out of the blue, I have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:14 PM
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We'll deserve whatever happens. And by We I mean women especially. Society will rebalance. Most likely women will be replaced by ethnics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:07 PM
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Yes but if you talk on the first or third date in your early 20s about "compatibility with kids" you're just socially dumb. Nobody's going to say they want kids. Wanting kids is a thing that happens within a stable relationship. Late 20s these talks are more reasonable though. Many people will say "no I don't want kids" despite they know deep down they don't imagine dying childless. But not many people have the introspection to realize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:05 PM
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Please don't make society a hellscape for the next generation, not such a hard thing to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:03 PM
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Oh look, another comment for LaL that I'm not gonna read because it'll be a fat strawman and ad hominem totally unfit of a debate subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:02 PM
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As I wrote somewhere else. I don't really care. I believe people should be incentivized with rewards. But smug childfree misandrist hypocrites online are clueless of their contradictions. And that annoys me. We should tax these people. Are you pushing for women to grow more picky and to avoid pairing with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:01 PM
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That's not a related topic nor even a parameter of the issue I'm talking of. But maybe we shouldn't do that in a capitalistic libertarian hellscape like the USA. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM
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Sure, but that's not going to come with performance, it's going to come with steady efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM
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I believe historically rape was never a successful reproductive method. I believe in incentivising people with rewards rather than with punishments. But smug childfree arrogant hypocritical people make me want them specifically to be taxed hard sometimes. And that's only when I'm debating. I don't care otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:58 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:55 PM
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Women should be the one wanting kids. Men should be wanting women. And in a way you can blame incels and inhibited men for not doing their job of pursuing women harder. I did the legwork of pursuing my wife hard and making her feel desired, loved and wanted. She did seduce me into commitment and having kids. That's how it should work. A lot of childfree people are unironically potentially good parents who are pre-emptively being too demanding of themselves. It's the same kind of reason why they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:54 PM
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Yes I know, arguments on a debating sub will seem mind blowing to someone who doesn't debate and doesn't think things through. Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:49 PM
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Do you have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:49 PM
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Sounds like that's just their passion. Don't measure yourself to those who like these stuff more than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:42 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:41 PM
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Every civilisation that emerged and strived had monogamy and was trying to pair everyone. Women pushing for women to grow more picky and for most men to stay alone are indirectly pushing for the end of civilisation as we know it or for their replacement. But funnily I don't believe they're ready to give up the comfort of living in a civilisation. Things will self balance no matter what, might not self balance the way you'd prefer though. And they'll pretend that this is a threat men are pushing …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:40 PM
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If you're a woman then it's already quite good...? What standards are you basing yourself on to feel weak?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:31 PM
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Not reading, I was writing that for people to have contextual information. You're here to rant and I wish people who are debating would know what they're engaging with before trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:29 PM
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Haven't historians and biologists said that most women reproduced with a minority of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:28 PM
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It's normal that the extremes of a range of motion are more difficult. Don't get gaslighted by those claiming to do 40 push ups in a row, if I was counting I'd count 0 rep on their half assed push ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:25 PM
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calls others unhinged after they made unhinged deductions over nothing themselves Having Paranoid Personality Disorder on PPD unironically lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:23 PM
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Not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:22 PM
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higher range of motion
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:21 PM
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No you're not, you are attempting to change the goalpost. I'm going to cut it short and not read whatever you have to say because this is insanity. That was literally the topic I brought up, and by literally I mean written down clearly. Don't bother answering I'll not read.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:10 PM
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Generally and supported by data, men experience more rejections and more years of unwanted celibacy and sexlessness than women, men are more in demand of women than women are in demand of men, and women experience most men as being ugly while most women find most women at least sexually attractive. I'm not here to discuss men struggling, women have had the upper hand in the sexual dynamics since for ever, and always will. Blue pillers want to impede that on a recent change in obesity rates, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:04 PM
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I can read nicknames, I'm not reading you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:58 PM
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Fetuses and embryos are not kids, they haven't been born yet. Basic biology. It's still yours. Which is the attention point, not "kid". you are mentally incapable and also argues dishonestly Hypocrisy and ad hominems again. you didn't say "Killing" alone, you said "Killing your kid" which is different from "Killing a fetus or an embryo". This inaccuracy in the terms I chose isn't making my points fall apart at all. And you insisting on it 3 times in your comment really is sad. Who the hell said …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:57 PM
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Not reading
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:46 PM
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Oh sorry I thought you were here to debate, go back to tiktok.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:41 PM
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Not good. You don't want that on the long run, that's how you get sharia law and equivalents emerging.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:38 PM
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I'm not talking of men struggling if you didn't notice. I'm dispelling an argument people have. Every first world country is known for having blue pill education issues which leads to men having some issues early on. Every country is known for picky women it's universal, and that has been a thing for the entirety of human history. Which means men will necessarily always struggle more than women. Your hyperfocus on details is wrong, the topic is more general and abstract.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:37 PM
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I don't consider it's killing your kid. How convenient, you consider it's abandoning your kid when the mom decided to keep it despite knowing she's be alone raising it. But killing is not killing despite it's absolutely textbook killing. Strawman for thee illusions for me. What you're trying to impute on me is your moral beliefs, not biology. Hypocritical again, and wrong. Killing isn't a moral belief, it's a definition, embryos are alive and abortion terminates its life, it's killing. The moral…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:35 PM
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not the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:26 PM
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France is known for its egalitarian dates And its bluepill and feminist tendencies. plus the gender ratio isn’t that bad. The same as anywhere else on the map showed. If you’re struggling there you’re probably a bottom of the barrel, not average. Women are still picky and it's not dependent on obesity. Missing the point to badmouth men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:26 PM
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Yes women's standards adjust to the average, and the average is a 3/10 to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:24 PM
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It matters that women are more picky, because women claim they aren't picky. French women are more feminist and blue pilled than you'd imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:23 PM
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"Men wouldn't struggle that much if the average man wasn't obese" https://np.reddit.com/r/europe/comments/1inm3bh/obesity_rates_us_states_vs_european_countries/ I'm french and women are still picky AF. The idea for what's "fat" is what americans would consider "normal".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:02 PM
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So you think killing your kid is better than refusing to raise it knowing someone else will? How are you biology pilled exactly? You're immediately hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:01 PM
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( y )
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:33 AM
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Brace yourself for the okayest stick figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:27 AM
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We need to do a full artistic and phisionogmic review of these together.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:19 AM
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Half are exhibitionists, it doesn't count, bless them tho. How would you rate my excitement at your nudes on a scale from 0 to 10
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:12 AM
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that doesn't narrow it down much among the people I suspect tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:07 AM
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Are you against abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:05 AM
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Give me a hint. Have I ever seen nudes of you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:56 AM
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I got kids it's necessarily less frequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:38 AM
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I don't have the luxury to have sex whenever I want like I used to. If I don't have that outlet I'll get crazy every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:56 PM
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never felt anything more than just their lips sliding, which is brief. Not normal, but most of porn actresses do look like they suck with just their lips. It's ok, creampie is best.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:55 PM
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Your woman is garbage at oral? Oral and PIV aren't the same but oral is highly stimulating physically, it's just less of an embrace.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:51 PM
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okcupid statistics can't help but be full white nationalist tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:48 PM
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That's called an oligarchy and the USA didn't need to change the system to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:48 PM
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why
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:47 PM
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Yep.......
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:46 PM
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Sexism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:45 PM
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Indefinitely I'm having the reverse problem. There was a time frame I could cum at will provided there was a warmup, but now I just can't cum in certain positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:44 PM
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Look if you don't want to be in public transport and places just say it, don't put it on other children as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:10 AM
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No. The stereotype lives on because french people don't think cheating is a sin. Americans statistically cheat more while simultaneously thinking it's a lot worse to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:06 AM
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I'm french, ask me anything about it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:00 AM
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Public school has always been a leftist environment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:56 PM
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Are you implying this is a bad thing or that keeping the well-being of women in mind is somehow mutually exclusive with thinking of the man's well-being? It's wrong on many levels. First of all those aren't what the women want, those aren't what they want immediately, it's just what they think women should want for their long term well being. Then, it's for old women's advantage, not for the young ones. And then, they should take the interests of the son/the man asking as the priority. At worst …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:48 PM
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It's not really on them that you perceived their advice as nice = sexy. It's on them that they literally say it. I'm sure most mothers don't have the idea of their son getting laid in mind when they're giving advice. That's right, they have the well being of hypothetical women in mind. This is good advice for getting in and keeping a relationship. It's a good advice for keeping a relationship after a few years, not a good advice for getting in. Quite the opposite. The sexy part is for you to fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 10:37 AM
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No nudes = no linking to examples :')
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:21 AM
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you can send your artistic nudes to my DMs. "childfree wgtow" = childfree women going their own way, women who won't have kids and won't date, won't mingle with men, as a mean of protestation. And then are disgusted when men search for women elsewhere on the planet where they'd be more valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:05 AM
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BAC?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:03 AM
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My last post convinced me I don't have any tbf.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 03:02 AM
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Alcohol does just make me want to sleep, what does it say about me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:29 AM
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don't play innocent, it makes me horny
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:27 AM
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"Ew passport bros are disgusting" - Childfree wgtow
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 02:17 AM
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so there are literal entire instagram accounts surfing on absolutely made up garbage uh. I know it's rampant on facebook but I'm starting to see it everywhere now...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:57 AM
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That's confirming that it's AI. Moles and earrings are inconsistent, if you need any proof other than the fact it looks like AI and is indubitably AI. Interesting that they get this level of consistency but I guess it's finetuned models.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 12:21 AM
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that's AI
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:58 PM
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You can identify yourself, and I can believe it's not identifying you. You being pissed off we don't buy your identity is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:28 PM
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My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:21 PM
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Why are you against personal liberties
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:20 PM
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You don't have to guess, you CHOOSE what their identity is to you. It doesn't matter who they say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:17 PM
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I don’t think so, although that could change once I’m sexually active. It’s best not to think about my sexual urges when I have no one to act on them with. That's low libido. Like I said, it sounds good on paper. My self-perception oscillates daily. Yeah I don't expect women to know how they look to men... Attractive lawyers either want sexy thots or upper class looking women with everything that goes with it. From your description I'd suggest you work on the later option.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:16 PM
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what americans think doesn't matter, they should learn to speak correctly the hard way
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:08 PM
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Are you attractive and having a high libido? Or are you an upper class smart tall and slim woman with a conventionally attractive face, and who is willing to grow kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:00 PM
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Pelvic gap isn't hips width. Pelvic gap increases during pregnancies and how much it increases isn't correlated to how wide it was before that. Head size of babies is also depending on a lot of factors, some genetic some environmental. You'd know that if you spent a little longer than one second googling.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:58 PM
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To reduce the risk of that happening, don't have kids on your own. Anything else you will try to reduce it is going to be absolute bullshit. Hips width ain't correlated with any of that shit. Men are attracted to wide hips for the same reason it's attracted to big boobs: it's sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:39 PM
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that's not even correlated.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:38 PM
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What's big will depend on the ribcage and shoulder width. In the grand scheme of things narrow waist and narrow ribcage and shoulders is more feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:38 PM
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"why do you guys have so much beef with egocentrics"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:37 PM
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Everytime you call this sport this way you're just telling everyone you don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:36 PM
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Just laying out some basic social and societal principles that derivate from natural rights of life and liberty: Identities are the burden of the observer. (Edit: As in, you get to decide who people are, they cannot impose it to you) Sexual preferences can be as selective and discriminatory as people want If you are offended by some of these claim, you are effectively against people's liberty. Bonus: Identities aren't the same as sexualities Sexualities and perceived identities can be acquired f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:34 PM
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Most people are still public school educated. Most incels too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 10:27 PM
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??? why is that important or interesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:21 PM
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What social part? Gym people don't talk to each others most of the time and they don't mix genders too much. Want to workout while socializing you do a regular sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 09:10 PM
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I don't have defeatist outlook over gym, I have "I'm lazy as shit" and "women don't care beyond a certain point" opinion. You don't need more than bodyweight training and just regularly working out. Again, 20% of the effort to yield 80% of the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 08:46 PM
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the blue pill morality Is based on the assumption that the people you are dealing with are incentivized to care. Exactly, well formulated. how do you speak reason to a person who sees you as a number ? The same way you deal with these kids who insult you in call of duty's voice chat. That's the same kind of shit, just animals doing what they want and taking advantage of anything as much as they can. So why shouldn't you. Healthy relationships are established on balanced force rapport, if you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:56 PM
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My and most men's goal isn't to be a bodybuilder, it's to have frequent sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:53 PM
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amounts to lip service and meaningless gestures. Being expected nothing of and being given everything is meaningless I guess...? Have we already forgotten that women on average are negative economic contributors (aka take more money from the gov than they pay in taxes) while men are positive economic contributors? Have we already forgotten money flows from men to women within most marriage? Have we already forgotten that women manage to live 10 year older than men and still complain that medicin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:47 PM
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Hi froot :) I don't disagree there are retards who will believe her body is real. I'm just specifically signaling that this isn't an AI generated image.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 09:36 PM
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Men are the ones in most control of everything but they're selling things to people. Look at facebook being inclusive and progressist up until trump was elected and they decided to ditch all efforts. When taking women's side is the fashion they'll do. And then look at who is in control of education: women. Both in school and at home. 20 and 30 years ago was also peak time for divorcing and estranging the dad form their kids. Women held the narrative, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:14 PM
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Not how it sounded like 2 decades ago. "equal but different" as in women were better than men "equal equal" as in stereotypes on women were wrong, like the stereotype that women don't like porn and can't be like men. You can always tell me "but fundamental feminism said otherwise", don't care, 90% of women were parroting something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:12 PM
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I'm not american. Don't ask a fish how to fish, ask fishermen. Similarly, don't take advice from women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:11 PM
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That's also true for talking to girls...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 07:10 PM
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You underestimate how much work AI is compared to a plain photoshop. And no signs of it being AI, all signs of it being photoshop. So that makes AI usage very unlikely here. But keep thinking you're right, after all you're an expert in AI and photoshop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:31 PM
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the image is very poor quality and I feel like straight lines of the background aren't really straight, so there might be distorsions going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:24 PM
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She's plenty of other pics. This is just a bad photoshop believe me. Now would that be hard? Yes and no. The lighting needs to be coherent, and it is coherent here and she casts a shadow. Too do that with AI you'd require an AI that is willing to do something specific with the lighting and potentially that you rework the image yourself. And then you'd need to have consistent props like the necklace that she has in other pics. What makes you think she's been copy pasted is because the waist/hips …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:16 PM
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Do you think this is an entirely generated image? It's stupid, that's just a bad photoshop. Modern image generating tools can't do that amount of details and then fuck up the human lol, modern image generation tools are literally good at doing the opposite. Is it a common thing with you to advertise the opposite of the truth like you were any knowledgeable?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:05 PM
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are these bad photoshops really making money out of it :')
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:04 PM
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You overestimate how it was overtly stated. The general idea was that women are like men, women enjoy porn, women enjoy sex, but that men ain't getting sex because they suck, they're mean, immature and useless. And then when men were 15 and started going at women, they were told to not be overt, to be friend, to be nice, and they'd get girlfriends. It's not directly stated in this context that nice = sexy, but it's directly stated that nice = seduction. Being sexual/sexy/sexually assertive is ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:47 PM
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Weird how the "I am lesbian" piercing got popular among women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:22 PM
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Need to be more firm man, you're getting dominated by an old fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:18 PM
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I'll take tattoos and piercings over fake lips and boobs. Natural > Decoration > Alteration Also why would you watch a guy talk for 15 minutes of his brain farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:17 PM
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every guy aggressively pursuing dating would succeed. They do... Doesn't take lots of talking to incels and lone men to figure out the only ones who aren't succeeding are those who aren't trying. What actually matters is effective effort, which comes from improving yourself, understanding social dynamics Which all come from trying, nothing else brings that improvement to you. Just throwing yourself at the problem without strategy leads to frustration, not confidence. And improving for the sake o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:46 PM
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Throwing yourself at the problem without any leverage isn’t a winning strategy It's going to be a winning strategy provided you are able to learn from experience. Not throwing yourself at the problem at all is a losing strategy 100% of the time. And acting like sex and companionship are the only things making men unhappy is way too simplistic. Sure, but acting like sex and companionship are what men think is the solution to them being poor is a strawman. The average person might be dumb they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:50 PM
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Coping mechanisms kill men's drives. Men are supposed to be finding their condition intolerable for things to change. Men's dating strategy isn't to wait for women to approach them, they need to be active and aggressive about it. Therefore they need a strong drive. So I disagree, no, men don't need to learn to live happy as singles. In fact, it is a strawman of their condition. Most men are happy outside of their lack of sex, they're unhappy of the lack of sex and female companionship explicitly…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:06 PM
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False equivalency. Finding someone isn't equivalent to becoming a millionaire. Finding someone is equivalent to finding a minimum wage job. There isn't "someone for everyone", the idea is that you can't find someone without doing the legwork of talking to them. You don't need diplomas to find minimum wage jobs, you need to go to interviews. There isn't enough job for everyone as well. Being stuck in perpetual self improvement loop is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:01 PM
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Plenty of lifting ripped incels who go to therapy out there. Because they don't talk to girls. Plenty of slobby men who have gfs and sex out there, because they talk to girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:58 AM
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You don't need self esteem. If you also base your self esteem based on your progresses, it'll be low the day you don't progress or the day you have a setback. Play any sport or any video competitive game seriously and you'll find out your self esteem must be absolutely out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:58 AM
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Normie men also hated me. That didn't stop me. Therapy is scam. Your friend was lucky to get something out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:56 AM
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I was talking a lot with my ex but all what she wanted was a lot of money, so she went to a rich IT guy instead Did you fuck your ex? Yes: You got sex without being rich, you didn't need extra steps to get there, then she left to satisfy her other goals of vampirizing money off someone else's back. It means you weren't this stupid. No: She's your ex but you didn't fuck her, so imagine you spent actually many years in IT to become rich so that this gold digging woman marries you and doesn't fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:54 AM
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What about paying attention to everything else? Like for instance when reddit and feminists were pushing the idea that men were sexless because of not doing enough chores, that doing chores was sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:50 AM
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Just repeating the same thing over and over isn't going to make these twits not real. Not so long ago the reddit and feminist trend was to say that women would fuck men more if men did more chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:46 AM
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Sure go and tell every man who reports that happening in their childhood that they hallucinated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:46 AM
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Okay but the people perpetuating the myth that kindess = sex is men No. But it surely doesn't help when men do that. Men are the ones making the movies where the fugly nerd gets the cheerleader through the power of super duper kindness. Rich men* not men. They have interest in selling that narrative beyond what they believe is the truth. They're making the reality shows where women are shamed for being shallow when they dont want the ugly dude. Good. Women do the same thing to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:44 AM
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I've seen men perpetuate this myth too, but it was women majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:41 AM
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It did in a way that made me more efficient at it. Basically I was full of blue pill morals, ideals and compassion. When I found out that the fishy narrative was a complete lie, that women simply were worst than men, weren't really compassionate and empathetic as advertised, and were absolute immature savages, that made me grow more rogue. It's not like I was really moral, I was always amoral, but I thought that playing by the rules would work, it just didn't, the rules were here to maximize oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:36 AM
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Where are YOU getting your information from? You are literally the one counter arguing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:30 AM
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Hahaha I don't need examples of harem anime thank you very much keep that garbage away from me. I hope you know that shojos (aka animes for girls) are also presenting nice beta men as the better options, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:49 AM
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You don't have proof, you have hearsay just like me. The difference is proving something never happened is harder than proving something happened. So good luck with that. Male targeted media surely lied to boys, but it's not just male media, it's all medias, all people. Even women who will tell you that SMV and RMV are not the same thing will still talk like you can get women and relationships on a good RMV alone. They'll even tell you that women who look for SMV in men are immature. But first t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:39 AM
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I'm not charismatic or uncharismatic, plenty of people hate me on sight, I've been told I was weird and likely autistic. I was never the center of social gatherings, quite the opposite. I'd have to do a lot in order to not be the one who would be continuously dunked on by everybody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:05 AM
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Show me women never saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:44 AM
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I agree with the idea. Not with the "men understand women wrong", men are literally told that nice = sexy. From women, mothers, sisters, teachers, medias, fictions. That's the blue pill. There's a reason why men decided to take matrix analogy with blue pill and red pill, the reason being that everyone is lied to and given a false reality. Remember that a few decades ago the heart of feminism was that women were no different from men, that included feminism convincing men that women were sexual, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:37 AM
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Men get beaten up by groups of women for any reasons. What's that gonna change
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:21 PM
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Nobody's supposed to feel attracted to every aspect of the other's sexuality, but they need to love the other parts enough to accept the "bad" parts. Except men don't accept women's nature. You clearly don't read much here I've been here for like a decade. You're seriously going to judge men entirely by the behavior words black pillers here? Aren't you spending too much time here and not enough time observing actual people?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:20 PM
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If for these men dating is extremely difficult because of their looks, then it'll still be extremely difficult. Like they're going to go from 3/10 to 3.5/10 what's that gonna change? It's not the most significant effort. And this comes from a 5'5 chubby ugly man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:18 PM
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So you want to give them the hope they can become attractive by spending months working on their body and style all that to be still considered unattractive? Sounds like the same thing but with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:17 PM
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You're supposed to be always horny. You're supposed to learn to show it in a correct way. You're not supposed to hide it, to hide that you're a normal masculine man with masculine incentives, that's how you get friendzoned or labeled as a woman. And none of that will be acquired by doing anything else but interact with women in a sexual/romantic mindset. You'll creep some women out in the process, that is inevitable. But asexual approaches also creep women out, it appears dishonest and imprevisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:16 PM
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So you'd advice them to lift and groom and work on their style to be more attractive to women, but never approach women because the rejection will kill them? Sounds like it's going to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:12 PM
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confidence is intangible, inconsistent, and emotional. Nothing should be sustained by confidence. Gym ain't going to help and isn't going to give any transferable confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:09 PM
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Women are contributing to society and society can and will run on what women are willing to contribute. If all women do is work and pay taxes then it won't run on that for long. Just because women are giving up on relationships, sex and having kids they don’t want to have doesn’t mean women aren’t contributing to society It's not nearly enough for society to function without instability and changes happening in a few decades. Society will just look and function differently. it'll look and functi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:08 PM
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That part is included in my post. But obese guy still doesn't need to shed weight to find someone, it's just that if he has any priority in life it's talking to girls. And then if his goal is to lose weight then he can lose weight. But yes in no way can the losing weight can be the first step.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:00 PM
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Not even. Bellow average women are a pain in the ass to socialize with. Doesn't mean you should approach one you think is lovable, but in my experience you shouldn't limit yourself to a league you think you're part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:58 PM
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It matters if his friends are loser males without access to women. And it matters if his mixed friend are normies or are nonconformists. "being able to maintain perceptive interpersonal bonds" are going to be non transferable skills in between "loser males" "nonconfirmist" and "normie" groups. But my logic still going to be that since it is always one step harder then it all can be skipped as the later ones will be including the former ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:57 PM
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What's even your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 12:54 PM
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I don't let my opinion of myself decide if I deserve to do something or have something. It's other people's burden to reject you, you're not supposed to reject yourself on the behalf of others. A lot of people can't help but find themselves ugly or stupid or boring. They might be even right, or they might be delusional in a way that is unfixable, it doesn't matter anyway. You might be fit to someone's standards you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:50 PM
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I just wanted to avoid writing incel because I suspect the automod was hiding my post because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:40 PM
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Women never feel good about themselves, it's very clearly not a bit parameter to their success. Men who feel good about themselves tend to be more assertive and the assertiveness is the parameter to their success, not the feeling good though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:38 PM
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If you are just working out and building your career you are not doing "self-improvement" correctly. Yet this is a common advise to "first fix X Y Z before attempting relationships". Someone called me evil on this very thread for saying you should approach women before you "fix yourself".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:37 PM
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Not all men will be capable to employ strategies. The best bet is to get it to be a visceral thing, then it'll eventually seem effortless to them. And I believe that is achievable by all men more, as it's not asking for developing skills, but rather simply doing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:35 PM
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This is PPD, I'm sorry I didn't disclose this was about sexual and romantic loneliness on a subreddit about debating sexual dynamics :D Some people also have low needs for friendship but want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:33 PM
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This is hysteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:32 PM
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Well that is a good question which wasn't part of my comment. I'm explaining the problem, I'm not giving a solution. Though you need to understand that men aren't maintaining society just for the idea of it. Once women refuse to contribute to society, why would men contribute to society? Why would men make society a good spot for women to strive only for women to turn around and say "I'm not giving anything back"? Economic crisis will ensue and it'll be a vicious circle, until the lazy people ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:31 PM
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Liking yourself but not your look is good for making friends according to your logic. But if all it takes is you liking one or two sides of you while disregarding the rest, then what stops you to disregard everything about you in case you dislike everything about you? It's validating my point: you need to disregard your opinion of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:28 PM
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You'll learn to be a pleasant friend the same as you'll learn to be a pleasant romantic partner. If you only learn to be a pleasant friend you'll only get friendzones. One includes the other but not the opposite. You're really painting a starting point where the person is extremely insociable. That's really a minority among lonely men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:26 PM
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Yes so now that we figured out that it worked out for me, you can start counter arguing my points and not my person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:24 PM
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It's generally nice to know when someone, who claims to be an incel, can socialize, but it can be skipped all together. I took that route personally. I didn't really try to get to the next step before I fixed the first one. Being able to make loser male friends is the lowest point, then comes the ability to make male friends that are not total losers. Then mixed social groups are more hard because the men will bully and kick you out if you're so bad that you are pushing women away from the group…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:23 PM
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If they aren't good looking in the FACE (and have a decent physique), being socially and sexually assertive will not help. It will help more than if they're not. You can't change your face so why even bother lamenting on it? I personally don't have the looks to back anything btw. You'll never not be a creep to some or most women, it's mandatory. You'll be a creep, you'll make them uncomfortable, you'll upset them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:18 PM
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Telling 5’5” chubby guys average women are reasonable is something that you personally figured out how to navigate. yes, I figured that out by trying. Your experience and what you did, may net nothing to another person like you. So you're agreeing they should try and learn to navigate themselves? You really believe there's a guy who would shine with ugly women in particular? Plus, you’re not really explaining how, just mainly saying, go talk to her bro. The only explanation is in the post, nothi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:16 PM
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False equivalence. Being a human you are born with the qualifications to be a sexual or romantic partner. There's also no other way to gain experience with seducing women than by trying. You also never stop needing to seduce your partner. A better equivalent would be a job where you'll have to go through interviews over and over and over that's your entire job. A good way to train is to go through interviews. And yes that job exists. There's a north korean org that tries to put north korean IT w…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:12 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:09 PM
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If you are lonely, you indeed need friends. Alright this is my fault I guess for assuming that people on PPD would interpret "lonely" as sexless romanceless but not friendless. It is not your partner's responsibility to be your only social contact there are people who don't care about friends that much. If you have very low needs for social contact it can work very well. I don't have any IRL friends, my wife has IRL friends she sees several times a week, and it's my wife who asks more time from …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:08 PM
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Oh yeah I forgot that, it indeed never starts and never stops, it's a constant, and thus why you need to be doing everything at once and avoid focusing on long timeframes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 06:04 PM
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Signals are hazardous. This concept that you can just start hitting on women at random and net results without being physically attractive is pretty crazy. Nobody told you to hit way beyond your league. But generally you should avoid aiming at ugly women just because you believe you're one. Average women are more reasonable people. You're also overestimating how much improvement you can give to your looks. I'm 5'5 and chubby, I lost my virginity on a dating app back then. And I'm no player, most…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:50 PM
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And how do you expect you grow into a pleasant person? By lifting more weights and taking more showers? You can use that as an argument that you should find friends and grow a social circle. But that won't make you pleasant seductively, that'll just make you pleasant as a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:47 PM
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No personal attacks. I'm married with kids. This isn't about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:46 PM
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Well if nothing I say or see can be trusted, nothing you say or see can. Discussion over.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:45 PM
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Why would it be idiotic? If they don't need friends but need affection love and sex. It's fixable with a partner. Not with a friend. Why would you gaslight them into believing they don't need what they say they need?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:41 PM
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No, you need to have a healthy self-image first. No you don't. I personally never found myself decent looking and many women confirmed that, some didn't. It's not one's business to like how they look, it's other's problem. How could you even say that when majority of women are deeply insecure about their looks yet manage to get people to love them? If you don't like yourself, how can you expect others to like you? By being assertive you'll dissociate the two. You don't "like hiking" and then dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:39 PM
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How do you even know this? Talking to them, observing them, knowing them. Sounds like a good way to do something useless. What are your advice? :') "lift"? "showers"? "ldar"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:27 PM
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It's a very slow process.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:26 PM
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How do you expect he gets good at interacting if his main priority isn't interacting? if he hasn't developed healthy strategies around his mental framework for socializing The healthy mental framework is to go for it. develop an unshakeable confidence Or just be assertive without any care for confidence and how people think of you. The problem with confidence is it depends of your self esteem. You need to not care about the image of yourself in others, nor in yourself, just that you have to go f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:14 PM
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This is nonsense. All things being unequal, a guy in better shape, better style, and more confidence, but who doesn't approach because he's busy "improving" on all that, or who waits his social circle to make him encounter available women, who he's not very assertive with, will ALWAYS lose out over some fumbly dork trying to be “socially and sexually assertive.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:09 PM
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No it's not. Especially when paired with other BP advice such as "don't approach women, develop your social circle".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:07 PM
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Most problems in the current dating climate would be solved with a pyramid of age that looked like a pyramid. It is IMO the biggest factor. Why is that? Because if there's the slightest bias in age gaps within relationships, then a flat or inverted pyramid of age would instantly screw young men over. And spoiler: only 10% of marriage feature a younger man, 30% same age, 40% older man.... https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_disparity_in_sexual_relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:11 PM
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If you don't ever understand anything or constantly strawman everything obviously you're going to have the impression goalposts are moving. Your general idea is that nobody is RP unless they read TRP and you think only american shutin autistics read TRP. RP is an ideology and/or a behavior that emerged in many places that don't communicate. We got evidences from people reporting it, people who don't even talk english, you don't have evidence of people lying. You're wrong and you lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:44 PM
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Way to strawman my points and prove me right. (And provide zero evidence) In the grand scheme of things, it's harder to prove something doesn't exist. Go on and prove that people outside of america don't experience the same issues and don't develop the same ways of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:00 PM
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That's absolutely what misogyny means. "Women are equal to men" includes incentives and capabilities. Which aren't equal. Whatever point I'm trying to make is just too abstract for you it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:54 AM
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I don't wonder, I know, women choose to be single because we handed them the ability to live life with both men's and women's privileges. :) Pure greed and ungratefulness. But that's only for immature or dysfunctional women. The others accept men's nature just like men accept women's nature, and love men as a whole package.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:53 AM
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Plenty of people relate but can't even talk english, can't hear it from grifters. And I'm not even talking of those who speak BP but behave RP and talk RP in confidence. You're just wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:51 AM
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The evidence of the contrary: people relating to the same issues and dynamics all around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:08 PM
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Strawmens and "usa is the center of the world"ism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:04 PM
0

What about simply acknowledging that women are fundamentally different from men? Instead of setting masculinity as the default, claiming women are equal to men (AKA misogyny) and then declaring men to be defective women (AKA misandry).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 11:03 PM
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This "autism is a spectrum" thing is just an attempt from boring and sightly retarded people to seem special and to have excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:50 PM
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Don't be ignorant. Don't be socially clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:49 PM
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Bro ALL men act like this. No. Men have a tendency to care but won't hyperfixate. Only stupid men care to the point she is describing, men who are incapable to profile women correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:48 PM
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Men usually sacrifice variety for stability, and porn is here to tone down the need. Women who don't like that their man watches porn are wanting to be cucks or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:41 PM
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I know you don't see it, only men see it, women are absolutely blind their opinion is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:39 PM
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Ain't no makeup for jaws. Margot robbie is facially above average but that jaw pulls her down heavily. Her body is the average part.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:38 PM
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Idk why you say handsome she is feminine looking. Because she's man jawed. Her body proportion may be a bit extreme her body proportions are boring and fake. I don’t believe men are being honest when they say they would never date the women they touch themselves too. Who says that lol. I don't believe the people who pay for these OFs are young or even western.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:39 AM
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Virtue signal? God damn not even worth an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:33 AM
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Most hollywood actresses are more average than you'd think. Same issue here, the ones who make it there are more masculine minded and more masculine bodied and faced. IRL women do seem a lot more feminine and a lot more lovable/hot. As I always say, margot robbie is the prettiest male jawed woman of hollywood. That jawline is a turn off and her body is the absolute average you can expect genetically. Actual above average feminine women don't need to do any of these shit to have comfortable lives…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:02 AM
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Guy is asking for example to look for more than trying to debate people :')
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:58 AM
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Got it, I told people you miss sprout and camo very much and only them, as specifically ordered. I have dyslexia btw. but do you think women (or men) should be told when their preferences are unreasonable? You know me, I'd never stop myself from telling them if things don't work out for them and if they're bringing in less value than they think.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:54 AM
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(though usually they are thin). Sigh... americans. =)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:52 AM
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She's handsome and beautiful, but not pretty. Plenty of prettier women IRL. There's something not exactly right about her and I can't pinpoint it. Fake boobs are a huge turnoff. Wouldn't call her a pornstar either. Would prefer jacking off to the idea of some average chick I know IRL than to her content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:50 AM
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Hope you're saying that ironically lol, we do not need to have US's perception of the average, not only are the US not monolithical it's also not the center of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:42 AM
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Not everyone is american. Not everyone lives in a country with declining birth rate. Funny that these two criteria are the result of women's choices though. The average we're talking about is a genetical average, not a population average. Men have reasonable standards regarding the genetical average, men tend to adapt to the local population's average weight, but expecting men standards to fit the average age is unreasonable. Women on the other side have high standards in all these dimensions. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:41 AM
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The selection bias for actresses suffers the same issue as hollywood, which results in female pornstars being overly masculine. Which makes them rarely above average. Work done makes them repulsive, not better. Fake lips and fake boobs biggest offenders. And that's so fucking prevalent. Pussy in a video is always going to be less attractive than pussy in front of you. So the bar IRL is never as high as the bar in porn. You'd need to have the male gaze to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:37 AM
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It's well established that porn affects the way that brains develop and work. It feels unhealthy to train your sexual response to react to such regular dopamine hits and variety. That's true for anything you ever do or don't do. Nothing of what we do nowadays is natural. You could talk in this way of doing groceries. The descriptors of people aren't even all that detailed, the thrill is in the description of sensory feelings. Feelings that a male partner could recreate. Except these feelings are…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:07 PM
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Hi mellette. In what sorts of situations should a woman tell you about her preferences? In-person? Online? Can use self as example for debating purposes online. Can explain preferences when talking to me as a friend but I'm going to judge her hard and be like "sure, awalt, sure". Can't count how often I rolled my eyes at women saying "it's unusual but I really like tall guys". Very often you get "must not play video games" and "must not watch porn" which really have you wonder if they even want …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:01 PM
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Motte and bailey fallacy yep
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 08:24 PM
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yeah same, the difference between lone me and successful me wasn't about going to social places, playing social circle games, lifting, dressing well, or any form of self improvement, but about talking to girls and being sexually assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:38 AM
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Ok so I'm left to believe you are either backpedalling or really fumbled a lot of statements. Pick one or don't bother answering.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:12 AM
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it's not even a question of having friends or the like. Do they even like festivals/bars/concerts? The problem is people are going to lecture lone men about where they're allowed to meet up women, and that'll include having to go do things they don't like just in the hope of something to happen. And it won't happen because they're indeed not invested enough, because they don't like it. They're not even likely to enjoy the women who are there, and might build a relation on mismatched lifestyles, …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:27 AM
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The manosphere does not care about men's issues: Trump screws over men Title of your post suggests the "manosphere" supports trump. suddenly they've all vanished and nobody said they were supporting Trump. Then in your original comment, you say that now they vanished, that they don't support trump anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:24 AM
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it's cruel No it's not. Ethics and morals are for actions, not for seeking the truth. The truth remains the truth regardless of how outraged you are at it, and pursuing the truth is noble regardless of how grim that truth is. "but you and I can't find that truth everybody is different" there are patterns and heuristics, if you can't form them that's your problem nor ours. For example I don’t like gold diggers so I’m dating a doctor. "If you're on the bus and nobody smells bad, then you're the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:56 PM
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Men are literally told it should be easy by people to who it is easy or to who it feels like no effort because the efforts are part of their pleasure schemes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:55 PM
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Most people are sexist and especially those who believe they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:51 PM
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I initially read 51 to 55%
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:50 PM
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You've said 1) they supported trump 2) trump did harm men's cause 3) they stopped supporting trump. CLEARLY this means they care ACCORDING TO YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:49 PM
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I read it online from american news sources???
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:12 PM
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Your basic premise is wrong as leoandnattes suggested in the automod. But still you say manosphere supports trump, and trump removes socialist measures that'd have helped men. Then in other comments you pretty clearly can identify that the manosphere no longer supports trump. So clearly you don't believe it yourself. Your post is Nullified. Please remove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:03 PM
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I thought it was established trump has been elected by a majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:42 PM
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your answer was a direct contradiction of the title and purpose of the post. There are other things to say to furthermore bury the post but to me you're not agreeing. Also it's a debate not a CMV. Correcting is part of debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:40 PM
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suddenly they've all vanished and nobody said they were supporting Trump. Then you do not seem to believe the manosphere doesn't care about men's issue after all, you wanted to make a gotcha post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:38 PM
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Why do you post under automod this is the correct answer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:32 PM
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that's absolutely how most people's sexism amounts to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:15 PM
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I was talking within the contextes of everything you said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:03 PM
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No I mean this is the bias most people have, treat men like they should be under heavy selective pressure, treat women like all should be protected.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:43 PM
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IQ doesn't have much to do with any of that, albeit I get that you use it as synonym for general intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:15 PM
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What's pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:12 PM
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Likely solipsism and poor impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:12 PM
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TBH I thought you were like these high maintenance women lilith. I remember you made posts years ago suggesting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:10 PM
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Cool! Do as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:09 PM
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Likely solipsism
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:08 PM
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He thought his dick would cure your depression the way yours would cure his :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:03 PM
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Pakiwhat? Ah India alpha build you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:03 PM
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Liberalism for men, socialism for women, always.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 01:00 PM
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You need different names for your variables pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:58 PM
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"Look they're about to become an islamic state with nuclear weapon!" christian state diriged by felon, controlled by nazi oligarchs, who have nuclear weapons, who behave more or less like talibans
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:55 PM
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They don't really know beforehand? We heard stories left and right of men who supported their gfs through college because they had a lower paying but more early accessible job. And then when the gf started working this kind of scenario happened where they were confused and started inventing stories of ambition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:54 PM
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This was meant to make you realize that everyone's subject to the same shit but not everyone's being fragile about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:52 PM
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Women expect money to flow towards them and their kids, not towards their husband. When they're making more they get confused, and then their other incentive takes on, the "when something doesn't work, the world has to change for me" or "always men's fault" incentive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:44 PM
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What benefit? Women tend not to share their money and provide, they'll rather cunt you that you ought to be earning more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:04 PM
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Red pill doesn't even really tell you to be mean and aloof, it tells you to put yourself first and to be assertive about it. Which some people will register as mean and aloof.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:01 PM
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1) women score higher in tests designed for women to score higher 2) most of the worst criminals have wives/women perfectly content with the situation sharing their spoils. Selfish asshole and mild criminals even have more sex appeal to women. 3) why people even look on onlyfans, women are notorious for scamming other women on the daily 4) Men are the most reprehensible and reprehended. Women are the most reprehensible walking free of charge. We can see that with cheaters and thiefs for instance…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:46 AM
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Not so much that "not my problem" The world is liberal for men and socialist for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:40 AM
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No. Just like we shouldn't stop watching porn because it annoys some online women who call it objectifying misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:36 AM
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Do you think it makes sense that women will be honest if they are called lustful shallow gold digging whores? Men are called shallow objectifying hateful perverts and that doesn't stop them from being honest about liking big tits and the like. In the end this leads women to being generally more in tune with what men want and how men work, because it's not hidden or cryptic. We also get shamed both for having too high standards or for not having much standards. If you perceive a form of "damned i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 11:34 AM
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Not reading people who commit ad hominems and strawmen. Nor hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 02:02 AM
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Kids can be informed early, a lot of adults repeat the same mistakes over and over and over while being well informed since decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:27 AM
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Yeah being laid off is terrible on moral :( take your time !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:26 AM
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Do you feel your son is stupid and impulsive? Should depend on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:23 AM
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You have kids yet? Kids can have all the knowledge they need very early on. Wise decisions will depend of their personality. Some people are never trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:23 AM
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Out of topic: Are you good?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:21 AM
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I've spent enough time on game dev servers to know that this is one hell of a skill and that people are spending hours and hours to get the right boob bounciness. I believe I've seen only one guy in a thousands be actually skilled in sculpting 3D women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:19 AM
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That you trust them or not only matters if you know and if you can have a say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:17 AM
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Sounds unrelated. If you meant writing sexualized fan fics, then the equivalent is drawing nudes or porn of fictional characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:16 AM
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Do you really believe they're going to ask you if they can have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:13 AM
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No, and I hate it when I'm being sucked and she doesn't keep it in her mouth and let it spill on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:09 AM
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your cat
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:08 AM
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Forgot to tell you not to bother answering, I won't read you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:54 PM
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I feel some type of anger too lol (again not necessarily from you), but it's bizarre. You believe it is bizarre to be angry at absolute condescending bullshitters trying to sell their one solution fits all problem that has a record amount of people reporting it is extremely situational and fragile? And that's only for people who believe they're helpful, most of the time therapy is thrown around in this subreddit is to attempt at discredit others, or discredit the problems they face. I'm a partic…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:52 PM
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please don't
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:18 PM
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Ping mella I forgot her reddit name
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:18 PM
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It sounds like most of you believe it's impossible to grow, with therapy or not therapy. Who is "most of you"? And why do you believe I'm saying this when I literally didn't? Some things can't be changed, some people can change more than others. When blue pillers give advice to black pillers, very often blue pillers will insist the black pillers change things that generally can't be changed, and that are ineffective. You can't grow yourself into liking outdoor social activities if you always des…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:59 AM
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What a cringe thing to do to come on PPD and tell people they're saying hateful thing. Why would such a person even be here???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:46 AM
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mid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:29 AM
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Yeah, women tend to not like the way men date and exist. Where men met their partner, or age gaps, are generally showing there's no right place to approach or not approach, and that a slight age gap is most common. But women don't like that. Always men's fault according to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:38 PM
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Regardless of where the problem comes from, you still need or to fix the issue or learn how to live with it. And therapists aren't going to help with fixing it, only with coping. Why would that be the most helpful advice? that would be the most helpful advice if you could known for sure the reason you don't get women is because you don't approach. Good luck finding an actual incel or lone man whose problem is not the lack of approach. My first experience with therapy was before BP or RP was even…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 11:05 PM
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Bait for what? You identify as a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:50 PM
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Rankings often have something to do with the emotional feelings about a thing We're literally talking of these feelings, how men will go for feminine women and women will go for masculine women, it's not something a lot of people are capable to introspect, it's all feelings. I don't see how that negates anything I said or that it creates "many many different conclusions". You said absolutely nothing here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 10:50 PM
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So I guess this advice is for women who developed the habbit of drinking only ice cold/fridge cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:08 PM
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She's not getting dates dw
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:03 PM
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Therapy is essentially here to teach you to cope not to fix actual environmental issues. A lot of people are pushing the idea that men's issues are more often internal than environmental in an attempt to diminish men's issues. Even when the problem is internal to a man, therapy is again here to help them cope with having the flaw, not here to help them improve on it. And even if therapy was helpful in other ways, if your problem is specifically that you don't get women, the n°1 advice is approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:48 PM
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Having issues with swallowing pills is really a typical childhood issue. Paired with your idea that you can come up to people and tell them what they're talking about, really makes me believe you might be too young to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:40 PM
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Women have girl game. And plenty are garbage at it and need to improve. But they're a lot more resilient to the idea they have to improve than men. Beyond girl game there's a lot of RMV things women can improve. One easy example is that women tend to emasculate their man in their relationship, simply learning about that phenomenon and stopping yourself from doing it not only raise women's RMV it makes their relationship less stressful. But again, that wasn't the topic, the topic was hypocrites w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:38 PM
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Your body isn’t evolved to drink ice cold water. That doesn't seem very logical, all animals and us included would drink like 16°C water all the time. Not "ice cold", but water in nature is always going to be colder than the air temperature. Humans might have taken the habbit to warm their water with fire but I doubt that was anywhere common nor was it done long enough for us to have "evolved" to prefer hot water. It is a shock for your digestive system to process apparently and not good for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:35 PM
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You sound very underage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:32 PM
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You're the one not understanding my initial statement. When women tell men to change their personality they mean game, rizz, but also hobbies, attitude, behavior, priorities, lifestyle, ect... All the while they wouldn't do any of these efforts. My initial point is about hypocrisy, and you annoyingly try to make it about what "people mean". Not only they don't mean just that but also that's not the topic. Take the clue next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:31 PM
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WHat would be the logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:29 PM
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Not the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:25 PM
2

better for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:21 PM
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Not the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:20 PM
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So guys can make posts about female nature but I can't do it about male nature, especially a particular type of guys here? Have you tried to work on your posting skills instead of complaining about the hot assholes who can post what they want? Surely if it works for them, there must be something different about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:20 PM
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She posts on this sub about an idea of this sub that isn't true, as if this was a black pill subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:19 PM
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Talk to women. Flirt with women. Try to have romance and sex with them. Any other advice is wrong wrong and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:18 PM
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"Men ought to work on their personality" Woman who had the same repulsive personality for decades and still didn't see any success
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:16 PM
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lool
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:24 PM
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Ty I tried, I don't exactly see it as being better than free chatgpt but it at the very least does similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:50 AM
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Link?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 02:38 AM
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Depends what OC has been meaning exactly. But yes, halo and horn effect go both ways, I'm just not sure how the other way would be called though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 01:21 AM
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Halo and horn effects
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:35 AM
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"stuff" you really think women are turned on by software engineers. the "stuff" has to be sexy useful things. And what if you don't fucking enjoy it? Like you'll tell men to do stuff they don't like in the hope of having women, when the first thing they should care about to get women is to talk to women...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:20 AM
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IDK I get personally attacked and they don't care, I make a vague personal attack I get banned for 7 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 12:16 AM
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Women: "Men don't pick career masculine women or women of color, they're wrong, these perfectly good and valuable women are victim of men's choices" Also women (literally the same people): "Men aren't picked by women because of their personality, they're bad deals and probably assholes"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:49 PM
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A compliment because I view myself bellow average, and was often told I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 08:38 PM
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You don't have the woman's version of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:53 PM
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We see that everytime, the examples aren't lacking. Thank you for your concern flipsideTROLL.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:04 PM
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Women cheat more, but only when they have a libido and when they're attractive. Wow incredible nobody could have guessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 PM
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It's not a reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:59 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/nonononoyes/comments/1iac595/bus_driver_stops_mother_and_son_from_reincarnation/m9ec5yo/ Look at this comment finding a way to say that it's probably a man's fault lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:59 PM
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I know we're both going to "nah, no u" each others. I still like to show this video to incredule people. It doesn't serve as proof but it's always funny: https://youtu.be/A-YcBYUfgtc?t=343 Masculine dominant girls being ranked most attractive by women, while putting the most feminine one last. And the men prefer the most feminized and shortest one on top, and then androgynous beauty. There's a reason why hollywood is full of man jawed women while you can find more attractive and feminine women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 02:01 AM
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F. nobody asked :D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:58 AM
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My subjective experience is that lonely people are generally not doing a lot of effort to meet others. But it seems more common with lonely women than lonely men. So while I'd not be telling women to approach men directly, they must at least try to make themselves available if they want things to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:56 AM
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Overdozing on emojis you'll look like a grandma within a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:54 AM
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I went from harmless juvenile guy to harmless old guy without any in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:53 AM
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Fat is not feminine. Thin is not masculine. Male gaze doesn't register fat as more feminine, it registers certain body compositions as feminine. Thin women still have feminine proportion of fat and muscle mass. Women who have masculine proportion of fat and muscle still will look masculine with heavier weight, as they have a tendency to grow bigger muscles compared to feminine women. It's again, a common misconception pushed by people who understand nothing about sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:20 AM
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Pretty sure women are capable of assessing when a female looks young and underage. Most people and especially women are comically unable to differentiate femininity from juvenility. Women tend to seek masculinity in both men and women and will flag anything unmasculine as immature and juvenile. Won't comment on the rest because it's just a lot of word for "no you"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:18 AM
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Funny that's exactly how I think about yall.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:13 AM
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What I said is the objective truth behind people's interpretation and assumptions. Men with pedophilic tendencies don't look at 25 year old women with big tits, wide hips, and fully formed faces and vaginas/nipples, and are like "damn she looks like a kid" just because that girl isn't fat, isn't tall, and isn't having humongus chin, jaws, and shoulder width (AKA isn't masculine). the appeal of youth The appeal of youth not the appeal of juvenile... The only people I'd classify as pedo I've ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:13 AM
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normal guy really wouldn’t get insecure about it. Yes, a normal guy doens't get insecure, he just gets repulsed at varying degree of priority. i lost my virginity at 7 to another guy having gay sex so im better off lying about that. Yeah you totally shouldn't talk about it...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:06 AM
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baby talk and child like behavior I don't believe this is even common in this category and even if they are, calling the "baby talk and child like" is yet another lame strawman. Plenty of women are very feminine and not like a child. yes, they're not childlike, only masculine women seem to believe it is childlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:04 AM
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I don't see the link between amalt and red pilled men. Men are all affected by the idea of high N count women consciously or unconsciously even when they aren't red pilled, even if they try to stay open minded. I'd not automatically push it in AMALT though, but I'd totally advice high N count women, or generally women, to keep that information to themselves. And similarly I'd advice men to not tell women that they're virgin. Most women will chicken out one way or another by this information, dep…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:33 PM
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The category "teen" is called "teen" because people like you are convinced it was about teens. But "teen" is full of women well in their 20s, because it's about feminine thin women not about fat masculine ones, fat masculine ones are in the "milf" category even though they're not old and not moms. People have that stupid tendency to flag femininity as neoteny when it's not. There’s also a lot of exploitation and trafficking that goes in porn Exploitation, yes, like in any job. Trafic, no, not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:16 PM
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You might not be observant enough, healthy normal people act this way, just in a functional way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 04:12 PM
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It's not intrinsically bad, getting better is filtering the false from the right. People who insist on sexism being bad almost always end up making shit up, that is also still sexist. Not only being wrong but being also hypocritical in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:46 PM
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Not what you were at, and that's not even what I'm talking of. People simply believe that sexism is only in evil people, when sexism is in everyone, and especially those who believe they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 03:41 PM
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