EastsideRim Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Keeping a solid 9 That’s for sure	/r/seduction	28/10/22 08:16 PM
0	Keeping a solid 9 Nah. Slapping someone around in bed without advance consent is assault, maybe ptsd creating. If two adults have a conversation and learn she’s into it, be my guest but until then, no. Same to the pee thing though that’s clearly a troll. “Oops I love you tee hee” is a red flag that shows a high quality partner you don’t have either the bravery or emotional maturity to say it outright, she’s going to have to do all the work of parenting you into it which is unattractive as hell. One of the worst r…	/r/seduction	28/10/22 08:13 PM
0	Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excuses It's not "excuses." This is just what "having a good personality" is. Abiding by determination to study, practice, and contribute to some way, such as a skill/body of knowledge, volunteering, etc.;Cultivating a baseline ability to socialize, communicate and collaborate well with others, which is an asset to each vocation I listed. Any average-looking or unattractive guy, who is also broke, has something positive going for him, if he is dating anyone at all. And it's PROBABLY either solid, suppor…	/r/seduction	15/10/22 05:34 AM
4	Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excuses Discipline leading to results is attractive	/r/seduction	12/10/22 08:52 PM
2	Men who are unsuccessful with women share two characteristics: they self-victimize and make excuses Was he highly intelligent and talented? Because that will do especially if he is an academic, artist, or musician	/r/seduction	12/10/22 03:16 PM
6	Bizarre pickme post in another subreddit: woman so excited that the office "hot guy" flirts with her that she goes out to celebrate I think hubby is what the kids these days call a Cuck 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/12/21 07:50 PM
27	Check your male relatives; they might not support you in your time of need I have run across too many LVM who use “family first” as a control mechanism. What they mean is: Don’t describe my behavior to anyone because they’ll tell you I’m abusive and I’m family so that isn’t “family first.” My needs come before yours because I’m family, and “family first.” Vote for policies and politicians that serve my individual interests rather than society as a whole because “family first.” Don’t accept support or help from anyone else because “family first.” It’s worse for you to t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 09:43 PM
13	what happens when you initiafe contact even once Imagine being so fragile you are “emasculated” by being offered a ride in someone’s car… that in itself is a hell no. OP did nothing wrong by that. I can’t even think of a man I know who would be offended by this, including the LVM. Just wtf?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 11:51 PM
1	Need advice, feel like giving up on dating Yes, drop him… And don’t be surprised if his ego magically discovers tHe sPaRk just as soon as he’s dumped… this tends to happen and also must be ignored/blocked/deleted.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 08:42 PM
23	Relationships with men as a reflection of relationship with parents My mother is exactly like this, somewhat minus the first point. I say somewhat, because she makes it clear she loves me. But I’ve also been a “good” child in terms of education, employment, not struggling with addictions, and such. (But I do not feel confident she would support me if I didn’t do well in those areas so maybe it’s the same as not feeling fully loved and supported?) I’ve always put it as “my mother loves me, but she doesn’t like me.” Reading about narcissistic parents and starting …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 08:14 AM
10	Don’t Panic, Have a Plan I don’t think you need a prescription for plan b and its generics anymore. You can get a prescription so it’s free via insurance. But you can also buy it off the shelf in pharmacies or order it online. Usually 1 pill is $30-50 but some online companies are cheaper so I do recommend ordering in advance. It’s abortion pills (mifepristone and misoprostol) that require a prescription.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/12/21 05:49 PM
3	Criminal Records / RAP sheets = Black Flags of relationships. For me it depends on the criminal record. A lot of things, sure. Definitely any kind of violence, fraud, etc. But if it’s a guy who served time for a nonviolent civil disobedience relating to a cause I agree with, it would not be an inherent red or black flag for me. Standing Rock, these new TX abortion laws, may be that some heroes are technically criminals.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 01:51 AM
8	My husband told me to choose between him and my business Don’t make your business too valuable in a tangible way until the divorce is done. No major launches, no product line, no new investors, etc. Make sure he can’t take half, and if he can that it’s a tiny fraction of what you can make it afterward.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/11/21 10:36 PM
53	The importance of lying about your disfunctional family What do you recommend for someone in my situation? HVM father died when I was very young. I have a unique name, easily googled. (I used to use a fake first name, but that was extremely annoying for reasons I will keep to myself.) *I am prominent enough in my field that biographical feature articles in major publications are easily found; the one in the biggest publication states that my father died and I was raised by widowed, never-remarried mother. It also describes specific traumas I experi…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 04:26 PM