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Well that's sad. Women should line up for me I'm clearly the only golden man who takes care of shit, pay bills, and handle most of the parental care in his home. Woops women don't line up for me. I'm still going to get my ass divorced in 10 years and pay mega alimony and custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:59 PM
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Whose money do you think is going to be spent? Also, my step mom literally painted the nursery herself while heavily pregnant because my dad was taking too long to do it. She and I put together all the furniture while he was at work, she baby proofed the house. Good anecdote! I'm the dad and I did everything and paid for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:49 PM
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Also, if the woman dies earlier than the man due to childbirth, does he die too? Ah, I forgot the US is third world :d It's to let people know why I think the way I do, some might even call it CONTEXT for the question I posted. We've read bazillion of people's anecdotal experience of how pregnancy is nightmare. Thanks. This shit is old. Btw, Eustace was a dog hating POS. Yeah IDK that person, but good thing my nickname literally doesn't resemble that name at all and you aren't dyslexic as fuck :…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:47 PM
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Even by hiring a moving company you end up doing a lot. And if you get shit delivered and hire a moving company, that means you compensate by throwing money away. YOUR money that you worked for with your time and labor. You always lose something in the process, acting like pregnancy isn't impacting the husband is completely ungrounded from reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:44 PM
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Yeah hearing from these people women are both unable to do anything during their periods and during pregnancy but also doing everything anyway...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:41 PM
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Not daily but often enough. Groceries ain't light. Relocating for a bigger home is a lot of physical work. Making the room for the kid too. And just generally your partner is going to be dead tired very often you end up doing a lot more chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:40 PM
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Stupid as fuck. Don't make kids with someone who think you have to go through it to deserve it. If you're a man you already have tons of work during the time she's pregnant because she obviously won't be the one lifting the heavy shit. And Also because once she selects you as a man and decides to accept being pregnant from you, you've won the competition to get her, you don't owe her anything anymore, that's on her. You'll bust your ass off to provide for this woman and her kid and you'll die ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:33 PM
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Does she have to go through a "you die 10 year earlier than the other gender" simulator before being allowed to exist as a woman? Yeah I thought so too. Nobody wants to hear about your life btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:24 PM
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Everytime I'm at the gym I do pull-ups, dips, HIIT, deadlift, squatt, I sprint some more, then I fuck all the girls there. Sad that I'm never at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:00 PM
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Ah that makes sense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:24 PM
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0 DMs so far. I don't undestand?!? Must be the mods screwing me over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 01:22 PM
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Well some of these narcissists are either going to be some annoying coworker you can't realistically cut off, your boss who pays good money and leaves you alone most of the time, or your gf who sucks dick good and is fun around. Not all fucked up people are only bad sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:33 PM
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My logic is you are oddly puzzled I made a joke about using a whole other girl as a sleeve. You then pull out the typical argument of polysexuals but for sextoys. You're the one who is odd. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:29 PM
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Then all is fine. But poor dude can't give you a nice orgasm because his pp is too small? How small are we talking about? And why can't he just eat you out and use a dildo?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:28 PM
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How could this be? You're literally talking of penis sleeves and you think asking for a threesome is crude and immature? Can't you see?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:27 PM
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I have no issue with cutting someone off completely when they're all chore and nothing else. But otherwise you need to learn to shield against them. You can't cut all the fucked up people of your life, better learn to deal with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:24 PM
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Everytime I go there I stumble more on shitty field reports and I don't feel like trying to engage. I have more fun engaging with people I disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:20 PM
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I am one of those people and I believe that advice. From my understanding so does redpill. Redpill knows the priority is to go for girls. Everything else is secondary optimisation. In your case you might even be advocating for counter productive efforts. A lot more people who make the conscious decision to compete will beat the men who choose not too. That's why you can win local competitions without competing hard. There are plenty of girls that don't have that much options.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:07 PM
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Well for one: I don't think minors should come to this subreddit xD And then: don't you want to explore that part of intimacy within a couple? How old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:59 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 AM
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I do, and I'm rarely wrong about profiling people. Most people are good at profiling others but don't give themselves credit either, however they do know who they like to socialize with. Why can't you? Surely there must be some that are more socially attractive than others in a few lines of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:57 AM
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And you don't either?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:55 AM
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You can participate, and win, without playing the competition the hard way. I feel you're like those people who tell incels to wash, dress well, have hobbies, and be fit, before approaching girls. When all that matters is approaching girls and nothing else matters as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:55 AM
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Then don't tell others to compete
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:49 AM
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Well they're not small, but they're kinda hairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:48 AM
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Surely within few text exchange you should see huge differences in people and personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:47 AM
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That argument sounds like a good reason to bring in more girls in the room for him to have fun with. You're up to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:47 AM
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Such a good deal lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:46 AM
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Why do you think my other comment was so crude? Why so reluctant to share your man with another girl? you'd feel like your dignity is shattered? you'd feel betrayed? unloved? Right. You got it. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:45 AM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:43 AM
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That also kinda sounds like classic depression. At this point I'm wondering if I've not been in a 15 to 20 year long depression. do you have the same problem when you work on your hobby in the same room as someone you care about who is also doing their own thing? I like it that way, but eventually I feel insecure that I'm not giving them attention. Do you feel like being able to talk about your hobby with someone enthusiastic about it would make you feel less alone? Yes. But everyone I do this t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:42 AM
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Well with kids you can still feel physically lonely (sex does get a serious hit in your couple once you got kids). But IDK, when I try to start working on my hobbies I just feel alone suddenly. In general I have this permanent contradiction where I feel alone, but I also can't feel stimulated by most activities with others. It's like I want to do my own things in my corner, but with others around to eventually share what you did, and talk of it. The expression often pops off in my head "alone wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:35 AM
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MtFs I come across all have male sexuality, male incentives, and male hobbies and interests. Very little about them is actually genuinely feminine. It's like they drank too much of the stereotype that nerds and weebs are unmasculine to the point they think that nerds are literal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:25 AM
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This type of mentality is really revolting to men. im just there to enjoy and look pretty Nah that's just part of what you're supposed to do in response. If you expect him to make you have fun, do you make the sex fun? Do you bring friends for threesomes and the like?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:16 AM
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I'm not necessarily touch starved as I got kids. I just don't feel intellectually connected to anyone, and I tend to either suffocate people about it or they suffocate me. It's like never working.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 10:04 AM
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they spend money to avoid having the slightest care about anything. After you got so much money, your time is vastly more valuable than your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:27 AM
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Do you have evidence for that claim that women have higher cleanliness standards? I could google it but I am not some data obsessed sceptic, everyone knows that except you smh. Also it doesn’t explain why women end up doing more childcare Same problem: Women are more attracted by social jobs, women are more anxious and have more high standards about social labour, are more anxious and high standard about security. Lots of women just can't let their husband take care of their kids because they se…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:22 AM
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You're being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:08 AM
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"extremely"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:56 AM
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Yeah frankly, getting kids, getting a career, these are also adventures on their own, and usually when you start the career and kids you're stuck for some years, but after a while you'll start reexploring the world differently. This woman sounds like she's gatekeeping novelty, and unable to stimulate herself on her own and will just be dependent on someone else to provide the novelty. Pretty much like how many girls on tinder pretend they like hiking but they never do, they want a man to make th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:49 AM
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It appears women breadwinners are increasing but they still do more domestic labour than men. Why have a man if you are paying all the bills, birthing the children and doing most domestic/child care? All this stems from them being more obsessed with cleanliness and imposing their own standards and rhythm or dying of anxiety otherwise. Which is why things are more balanced harmonious when they're in charge of it. There isn't actually some rogue-like conscious behavior from men or women that creat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:46 AM
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Clothes aren't sleeves. We're talking literally wearing a mask of someone else and having all the artifices to "enhance" you. We're not trying to hurt you we're proposing an equivalent for you to grasp how men gauge the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:35 AM
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This post is a real situation of yours? You've been in a case where you wanted to use toys because his dick was just too small?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:33 AM
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I'd be fine introducing the type of sleeve that you penetrate and that licks her pussy in return. At least that's how I'll answer if my partner wanted to incorporate sleeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:32 AM
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I'm reading about loneliness as a biological sensation. It might be obvious I feel rather lonely since 15 years. People plz unlonely me, I'm a hot young woman I swear. :V
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 08:18 AM
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Link it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:32 AM
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Based on an heuristic that stipulates that people who complain about getting banned usually lie about how provocative they were :)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:29 AM
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That's not it. Everyone is emotionally driven. But some women's hypoagency and victimhood complex makes them rewrite reality based off these emotions and that pisses men off. The whole "women are wonderful and perfect, they're not shallow like men, they're not picky they breath the same air as average guys" is always hypocrisy because we all know women's incentives makes them be marginally worse than men on all these aspects. And then, even while we're all emotional, we tend to consider that thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:26 AM
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Unless you link your comment and the post I'm just going to say you probably deserved that ban and you actually didn't advocate for equal expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:10 AM
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you mean extremely needy, noisy, smelly, disgusting animals, that love you only and only if you irrevocably dominate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:09 AM
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Damn you quickly just showed all the men here that partaking in the competition was senseless.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:06 AM
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Lol I read that like my boss wrote it and it motivated me doing even less. When you want to stir shit for competition you'll eventually end up having many more rogue individuals that'll fuck you up without you even knowing. Good luck with that. I have a coworker that tries to play that game, I can assure you he doesn't get back what he puts in. While my return over investment is through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:05 AM
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The guy didn't change, he probably has a balanced need for external stimulation while she's like a literal addict. She talks of how everything is the same but when you're a nomad everything becomes the same very quickly too. That dude learned that and began exploring actual new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:01 AM
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I don't even see why. Most likely these girls leave dicaprio because they want to get married and have kids, which he doesn't. It's the literal female dream, date the rich superstar early and then settle with some bux later.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:53 AM
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Yeah well. I'm not going that route we need my money. I wish a gym with free weight opened next to my home :|
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:39 PM
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It has gotten better this year, thanks you for worrying :P I was just commenting on how I'm basically a SAH and would maybe like this lifestyle. That'd maybe allow me to focus more on weight and health as I neglected them for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:28 PM
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They were when I had no kid, they weren't once I had my son, because I was in charge of both putting him to school and fetching him, which would put 2 time stress in the day and force me to work less time. Wife got pregnant with second right during covid so I never returned in person but got more responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 03:05 PM
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She's full time too but hasn't the flexibility I hate, she doesn't work remote a lot and when she does she's stuck on the phone all day. My work doesn't require to be stuck on the phone but it has delayed expectations of success. I went once to the doctor because I had enough and both my kids were at home sick and I was sick too but not enough. I went with the intent to fake being burnt out and get sick leaves. I mother fucking cried for real lol and got 2 weeks of sick leaves. The common flus t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:47 PM
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Or for him to work in a more lowkey field with flexible hours. I have a thing for male teachers in particular. I'm in that kinda situation as a fraudy remote software engineer, as a result I do most of the kid-school commute, I also cook most of the time. and keep the kids home when they're sick. but I'm full time and that's stressful. :| I also earn more. I wish I was SAH so that I could work on my hobbies and personal projects without worryng about bills, but I think that wouldn't work well si…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:29 PM
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Yes sometimes you let someone do that for you /s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:23 PM
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that autist isn't even good at being autistic A good autist would understand that animals do communicate consent their own way. We humans communicate consent in our own nonverbal ways too. This obsession for verbal consent is not only anthropomorphism when applied on animals, it's not even that accurate for humans. Believing animal kingdom is full rape is also a favorite topic of crazy feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 02:15 PM
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You want to work while he stays at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 01:49 PM
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Posture matters and can be worked indeed, and it's not just men, 90% of women have awful posture. As a shortie it's even more important for me. Public speaking hobbies will teach you to command a room. People do not allow you to do this if you're not physically attractive or if your voice sucks. I've been countless time in my life been ignored because people preferred to listen to the taller dude who wasn't particularily charismatic. I'm not shy, I don't hide, I occupy space and my presence is f…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 09:37 AM
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come on there must be a topic we can go nuclear war on :D
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:19 PM
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You can make yourself more charismatic, cultivate a presence, and achieve interesting things. That's actionable and makes a difference. You can't really though. Either you have it or you don't. Most men's issue is to learn to disinhibit it, but beyond showing what was hidden they can't make up something that's not there
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 04:05 PM
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If we didn't collide you must not be very blue pilled That flair was given to me by a mod I forgot who, no idea why, no idea how to remove it, but I kinda like the absurdity of it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:36 PM
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Ah ok. Weird that you know me but I don't recall you. ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:34 PM
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IDK there are like 3 meals that I know and think I can be above average on those and people often cheer me as a good cook. But I think a good cook must have at least 14 meals and must know how to make balanced shits taste good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:33 PM
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Among other things...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:28 PM
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No, I've known ugly charismatic men who are super attractive. And have plenty of opportunity as a result. IDK everytime women said that IRL, the guys weren't ugly at all. They weren't that much attractive. Women IME are always downplaying men's attractiveness... Like often there's that fat guy that women find charismatic. That fat guy is: Tall, muscular, wide shouldered, has a very masculine handsome face besides fat, a deep powerful voice. He's physically attractive even with that major defect,…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:26 PM
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a 3 week gap in the middle of august I'm sure you can guess :d But still, who are you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 03:11 PM
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Many people are turned on by brats, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:30 AM
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I don't like excessive social marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 11:26 AM
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Emotional abuse is a thing but also is definitively MUTUAL most of the time. Haven't seen anyone complain about it that weren't major abusive hypocrites using every tool they can find to do something wrong while pointing fingers at others. Or in some case they're even the only abuser in the relationship and are full blown paranoid maniacs seeing abuse in everything. You should be more critical of this whole "abuse" concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:59 AM
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The only worry is that she ends up with a bdsm depraved guy. Otherwise the older the guy is the more beta bux the relationship is, and younger guys are actually more abusive and dangerous. Everyone thinks that having more money and independance is abusive, but that's literally the only reason the women get into it. So it's give and take, but smh people are disgusted by the idea some old man wouldn't just throw money at a young girl without expecting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:52 AM
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I have never heard anyone rate themselves a perfect 10. On PPD discord 3 years ago there were like 3 black girls who were rating themselves perfect 10 and acting very boastful. But I'd argue with the post that women are delusional either by being extremely narcissistic or extremely insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:45 AM
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and one bad day away from robbing a liquor store. If men here were this assertive they'd not be incels
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:40 AM
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They just don't believe you're really a man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:39 AM
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Cringe all you want but guys who are likely to just approach girls in any context are more likely to get sex than incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:37 AM
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Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:35 AM
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the entirety of my post history
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:33 AM
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You want a wife who emotionally abuses you while lecturing you on how everything you do is emotional abuse? Because that's what it is, they label anything inconvenient to them as abuse, and everything convenient to them as fair. I still remember when my loud rebellious deranged sister who was making our home a living hell went to the therapist and came back saying the therapist told her she was a kind person and we were the problem. You can see all the bazillion posts on reddit where everything …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:27 AM
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They aren't, they socialize with other women. All they care about is having food, shelter, and luxury stuff. Which they can all have without having to pair with a man anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:25 AM
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presence, charisma, social and emotional intelligence and competence. In handsome or masculine men. Not in ugly men. In fact, ugly men are bullied to oblivion if they even try to have any of those traits. The only reason women can claim they don't put things over looks is because they conveniently stop considering the 60% ugliest men as men. You're absolutely braindead and have no life experience if you don't think women are extremely picky in looks and will accept good personality traits only i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:23 AM
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Met my wife by basically randomly DMing her on facebook to piss her off. There's just no right way to meet or approach people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:47 AM
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This post feels like a damn youtube video where there's like 20 minutes of the guy talking of his life and then at the last 10 seconds "anyway here's how to install winrar just double click the installer please subscribe and like"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:43 AM
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I didn't personally care about the social effect of being in a relationship or be seen as a sex haver. I really just wanted sex and hugs. However, I can't deny it did an immense social boost. Before people would need to know me before they respect me, but once they know I'm a "man women want and want to keep" they started respecting me way earlier. People assume I'm balanced and mature, women trust me more easily, men respect my opinion more. Interaction with police forces are vastly smoother wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:40 AM
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Yeah I'm fine if you think the stranger component is the key one. I prefer to go with the setting because it seems to be what most people go with when people talk of metoo and street harassment, on PPD, on TRP, ect... The typical problem seems tp be where it is acceptable or not to approach strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 05:05 PM
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At a party no approach is cold, it's not complicated. The concept of cold approach also includes that you approach in a place that's not meant for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:40 PM
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From the mouth of women it often is. You'd not believe how often I heard women describe a literal 6 packs muscle bro tall chad as "he's decent" and "he's average but cute". However she did describe him to me and that wasn't a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:33 PM
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All cold approaches are approaches but not all approaches are cold approaches. I don't consider "friend of friend approaches you at party" to be cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:32 PM
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You're having a whole post by yourself over a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:32 PM
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Alright I believe you xD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:30 PM
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He wasn't necessarily my type but he was decent looking, had a nice smile, and was very extro/authentic/bold. So you just got approached by chad and it worked, and it was not a cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:20 PM
1

Nobody approached her :V
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 03:19 PM
1

You know how women cheat and didn't enjoy the sex but just the attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:39 AM
0

You're not supporting people with kids. You're supporting kids that will produce and take care of your shit in 20 years. Parents still pay taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:38 AM
1

It does matter since women still marry men who earn more. The only difference is women now consider that since they can make their own money then it nerfs men's SMV. When you earn 300$ more than her it's like you have the SMV of a dude who earns 300$.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:47 PM
1

Women here are all larps they don't really exist, please get psychological help. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:46 PM
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probably not a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:15 PM
0

Poor men and low class men cheat and replace women all of the time. If they can get better they were MUCH HIGHER SMV which doesn't indicate high class only.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:15 PM
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Everybody pays taxes and has kids since the beginning of times. Why do you think you're fine just paying taxes? What makes you think parents magically stop doing everything you provide to society? how does it affect you we 99% don’t even live in the same country. I'm talking hypothetically I don't really care about any of this other than feeling superior for having kids :D plenty of irresponsible people already making kids they can’t feed anyways We shall find the responsible childfree and force…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:15 PM
1

Damn you like to suffer. Arabic has sounds that come from outer space...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 04:14 PM
1

Good you'll pay taxes. In nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 12:02 PM
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If you don't make kids you're a parasite to society and should be bullied as well as taxed to oblivion <3
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:52 AM
0

You sound rich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:38 AM
1

I don't do the "men must pay" thing. That usually leads to the man feeling entitled to "reimbursement." Some women claim they manipulate men into feeling proud to pay. I studied French in college. You're clearly a masochist :')
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:37 AM
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Yes, one way to balance the SMP is to maybe to improve men's sentiment of abundancy by making prostitution more available/common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:29 PM
0

yeah there are various forms and level of commitment. Being someone's gf's is the lowest one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:47 AM
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You should visit FemaleDatingStrategy subreddit since they are batshit crazy women who advocate for not fucking nor showing interest to their date for month while they pay for expansive dates and pursue you hard. :) I'm not French Why the french nickname?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:46 AM
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:yawn: time to ignore you I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:59 AM
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It’s pretty well-known in the field of psychology that evolutionary psych has serious limitations. It's pretty well known in the field of science that psychology has serious limitations and is hardly even a science. My armchair psychology is therefore as valable as any. :D What about women who don’t want kids? Or men who do? What about low libido men who don’t care as much about sex? The viewpoints under the redpill umbrella are just too limited. Edge cases that the heuristic doesn't catch, that…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:52 AM
2

┬─┬ノ(ಠ_ಠノ)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:46 AM
1

So he did have to build the bond for you to imagine yourself fucking him? But he didn't work for it? That's a contradiction. Next thing you tell me to contradict this is women approach men as much as the opposite because you did so or because you know so many women who approached their partner. Like every woman on this sub pretends to, despite nobody sees it in real life. I think the idea of the sexual marketplace and gender stereotypes based on evolutionary psych theory do very little to predic…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:35 AM
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It’s not possible for a man to fall in love with a women without access to her body ? Yeah, just like you can't feel hunger when you're thirsty. But you still die if you don't eat, you just need water first to appreciate food. Thou there are lots of simps and doormats who do "fall in love" and do acts of service sexlessly. Because from what you described the perfect relationship would be with a sex doll The perfect relationship are girlfriends that stay girlfriends. This is why TRP talks of plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:25 AM
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I hadn't unshared goals, I, like most men, wasn't decided. I know plenty of girls who hate undecided men. But it's their job to convince men into it. I'm happy to have kids. but before, there's no way I'd be the one to push for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:19 AM
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We're clearly not, the situation you described is exactly the one I'm describing. Women know they want to fulfil their own incentives but they naively tell men that these incentives are "values" that need to be shared. But it still works because women have an edge in the SMP. Men can't really afford to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:06 AM
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The vast majority of people, at least in the country I live in, try to make their wants and needs known early on. You mean the vast majority of women...? Like everywhere? I met my husband when I was 19, we started dating when I was 21, and he absolutely knew early on that I wanted kids. All the men I know who have kids, when they were 21 they didn't know if they wanted kids, but their wives wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:04 AM
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No, my wife has white card to fuck women. But preferably I must be there. She won't, because she knows this white card is more for me than for her. :')
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:02 AM
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I’m not really sure there’s much room for debate here if you don’t think it’s important to communicate with partners (of any kind). Yes there's lots of room to debate this. You don't just ask your fresh new 19 year old BF if he wants kids later. What they think at that moment doesn't matter. This sort of talk is for 30 year old new couples and even then, you'll think you're incompatible with someone just because they're not in the mood for something in the distant future. Also that's a misconcep…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:58 AM
1

Nah I won't, git good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:49 AM
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But it's still on me to filter for them exclusively, and the easiest way to do that is to make a man wait when he asks for a relationship. Are you FDS? You're both french and FDS? >.< haha I would say "meaningless" is sex without any real emotion attached. yes I understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:46 AM
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My bad for not making it clear. Your perspective if the perspective that thinks you'll find people on the same page as you in your life. But that is a foolish ideal. The only reason things work for me is because I was willing to do things I didn't want to do if I had the things I wanted. Otherwise I'm not on the same page as my wife on anything, and wife actually convinced me into committing, having kids, having a house, ect ect.... Just like I seduced her into sex. This idea that you should pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:42 AM
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I told you it depends what you think meaningless is. But using your definition of "meaningless" there isn't a lot of women who do have meaningless sex. It's a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:34 AM
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Cool, then do you think it would’ve been a “bad deal” if she made you wait to start a sexual relationship because she wanted to be careful with that part of herself? I was expecting her to want to take it slower on the sexual level so IDC. However, a girl talked to me of taking it slow, and then she had casual sex. That is just lying. I'm not sure where you think you're going to. which makes me wonder why you assume the other parts that women give include: chores, bills, and withholding sex? Cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:31 AM
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In what context can you love someone without there being a commitment? When you're not married? Any man I don't have a commitment with won't be around long enough for me to fall in love with him. That shit takes months. Yeah most women work like that. So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:27 AM
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I've had the whole package. :) Found my sweetheart early, had wild sex, then had kids and married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:22 AM
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It is meaningless because there's no commitment nor guarantee he stays. Women who have casual sex or have casual sex and actually enjoy it are actually a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:21 AM
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It doesn't matter their views, that truth doesn't need observers or believers to exist. Besides, OP was asking "why is it a bad deal" to a group of people, I'm answering why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:17 AM
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Plenty of men want serious relationships with plenty of sex. Plenty of women want meaningless sex with their sweetheart lover that they're comfortable with. This is where you fail, you ignore the main prerequisite, the "enabling factor".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:14 AM
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"good deals" are when you get her best and she gets your best. Ideally you should be together young, have wild sex, then marry and have kids and buxx. If you tell me you should feel happy to only have the last part I'd just disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:13 AM
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Fine about becoming darker but that dude keeps that fucking face for ever?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 12:12 AM
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Yes, most people are stupid. Water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:44 PM
1

that's the opposite of the definition of beta buxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:42 PM
1

Shrek
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:39 PM
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I think top has edited her entire body to look slimmer though, lots of weird edges.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:39 PM
2

Why would men like beefy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:38 PM
1

I keep hearing about it but the second I google it I am repulsed by the character design.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:37 PM
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technology has completely ruined the perception of good looking people. For stupid unobservant and critical deficient people. Anyone with 2 brain cells can have more discernment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:35 PM
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I'm glad some of you learned to be more observant. Though I need to note that stick figure models aren't men's choices, they're some gay stylist men's choice. Only the curvy stick figure models are more popular among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:34 PM
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No there are "good low N count girls" but they're incredibly boring in bed or outward frigide/asexual-like.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:32 PM
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Who are you to hold such opinion? How many years have you been there? You're not allowed to think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:31 PM
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they want to give you more than their body? Why is it a bad deal? Because the "more" contains mostly if not only constraints, chores, labour, and bills. And for that, they gift you with less sex than they gave chads, and quickly degrading looks. How is it difficult to understand that this idea women have is solipsism? Maybe that will help you if I reverse the genders? Let's try it: Why is it a bad deal if men send women a dick pic? It's free! Why is it a bad deal men use a woman for sex and don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:30 PM
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that is also only true sometimes. On the topic of immigration, it's true. I won't reasonably debate a pedophile on the merits and demerits of sex with children. I won't debate on all the god damn fallacies you pull out like these 2 strawmen you use to misrepresent the context we have here. We're not even debating the merit or demerit of other races but of the merit and demerit of immigration. The topic is gigantic you can't just brush it away as entirely wrong from the get go. But I also want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:16 PM
1

It's a tool that can help hypergamy but it's not just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:39 PM
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and there are spectrums where ground should never be given. According to your moral and I deny the relevance of your moral. If you are "debating" a flat earther, you shouldn't agree that the sun is an illusion but the earth is round because it's the middle ground. The same can be true for what is acceptable policy based on emotion. I never said you had to do middle grounds I said that some arguments are true from both sides. Which isn't the case for "flat earthers". Besides, sphere earth is part…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:21 PM
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Just so extreme xenophobs and racist can be annoying, extreme xenophiles are annoying too. There are plenty of arguments in favor and against immigration, and xenophoby is a legitimate policy. It's not black and white. That's why emotions don't have their place in debate, it makes everything quickly binary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:02 PM
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You want to have a debate but all you do is talking about emotions. Seems like you just want to spit on who ever you dislike regardless of the actual debate and the arguments on the topic. Very cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:05 PM
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Works like that for everything tbh. Access to sex, access to companionship, access to money, access to status, access to fame. They have men's options + their own options. While men can't really go to women's options.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:40 PM
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But parents don't repair thatch, slaughter cows and reap fields ect....? They do. On top of raising the next generation for free. And you're not addressing that fact. You're just wrong. That false belief that only those who allow a creampie to sit too long aren't parasites is kind of fucked up and not logical. "creampie to sit too long" damn that level of sexual education is very alarming. Explain to me how it's not logical, it's the most logical thing like 3 is superior to 1. Parents do work on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:06 AM
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I have literally built a skatepark as part of a team of all genders, most of whom were childfree. Childfree women have been helping keep society running as well for millennia (in all different ways). That's cool but a skatepark is not exactly critical :p Your contribution is a skate park? You don't pay taxes? have kids that you raise for free? Childfree people are parasites they're barely contribution 1/3 of what they should to society. It's not like I personally care tho, society should care mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:56 PM
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It has taken all genders to build society but not childfree or wgtow women. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:32 PM
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TLDR of 3 paragraphs of my post that don't even mention you: Everyone has insecurities. We should feel compassion and empathy for people that hate themselves. It's a product of trauma. It isn't incompatible with them being responsible of their shortcomings and the idea that they should change, instead of trying to change society. This is irrelevant to compassion and empathy. This is about reason. Want to be compassionate and help them? Tell them we shouldn't adapt the world for them and offer an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:14 AM
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You're literally doing it again. I know this won't be an interesting conversation, at least to me. You have this weird emphasis on other people's emotions that let me think you're not open to the possibility of me having an opinion because of my observations and analysis of people, you'd prefer to think I am biased by my emotions. Best case scenario you'll never get me, worst case scenario you'll just spend your time trying to ad hominem me and never attack the points directly. You're free to pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 02:43 AM
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Wtf is this bad faith? You seem to place a lot of blame, anger and disgust at people who are insecure about something? This is what you said. You're attaching emotions to my point. Now you act like this was a call for empathy? Now you're trying to be manipulative Lol. Very manipulative of me to just break rapport. to perhaps get me banned Nah dw. I'm just too tired to care about a wall of fallacious text where the person starts by pushing their projection of my state of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:59 AM
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It's not exclusive, but it's a lot more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:52 AM
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I mentioned only the compromise to make the deal work, but society and culture also pressure people into conforming to monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:43 AM
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not really She says in a house built by men, using electricity provided by men's infrastructure, using technology invented and manufactured by men. And I won't even start talking about food and water.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:35 AM
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I'm gonna be honest I won't read the rest of your comment if you start with this pathetic personal attack
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:28 AM
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It's as if you thought women were as pragmatic as men and weren't neurotic emotional messes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:27 AM
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congrats on surviving on your own in a society where every basic needs is provided by men's infrastructure lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 01:11 AM
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If feeling shitty about looking at yourself in the mirror because you know the ideal is fit and muscular isn’t insecurity, then the same applies to the women who feel shitty because they don’t have a big butt and trophy shaped body. And yo uassume everyone who goes to the gym feels shitty about themselves in the mirror?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 10:22 PM
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I argued the main contributor to wanting to go to the gym is an insecurity in the way they look. Why is that insecurity and not just pragmatic decision? Or are you going to be the 6th person that says I have no clue what TRP is and then proceed to give an explanation different than the other 5 people who tried to enlighten me? That. You seem to focus way too much on the community and not on the concept itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:14 PM
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I don't like too much focus on appearance in cultures, however I also dislike the culture I grew in where they feed shit to their kid thinking it's good, where they think appetite and eating a lot is good, where they think that "they'll grow and slim down" (spoiler: never happened to anyone), or where they teach kids looks don't matter. And I'm white lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:28 PM
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Yeah California seems to be heavily red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah and men try to make women do more house chores. IME they don't, women impose more house chores, and men don't do them, so women do them and complain. That doesn't mean men "can't do anything alone." Yeah I wasn't very precise. Women can do anything, they don't want to do 90% of these though. When TRP says women are children, it's more that women want to be children. and men don't need women anymore. Men still need women a lot. Can't have sex or babies without a woman. Women can have babies …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 06:10 PM
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ugly or supbar women are not really sleeping with "chads", they're likely just getting guys who are slightly better looking than them in some capacity; doesn't make the guy a "chad". I don't think they're getting with guys just "slightly" better looking. It's not infrequent to see couples where the woman is 50% percentile and the man is 70% percentile, while people keep claiming SHE is sightly more attractive. Having trash options isn't preferential treatment. Almost everyone at least has trash …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:21 PM
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What lmao. Most people just wake up, go to work, go home, and do some hobby with friends. A mix of social and solo. Yes until it's time to unclog the hair in the shower drain. Or until there's a spider. I'm joking here with stereotypes, but generally women try and make men do shit for them all the time. You can support men without depending on an authoritarian system to get what you want out of women. IDK what's the difference to you. I have a wife, but I think that women having the options to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:17 PM
5

They'd know quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:13 PM
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Women literally can't handle anything alone. But otherwise, it's healthy to support the things that support you, it's utterly stupid to do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:58 PM
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Real manlet here, I'm 5'5 and I did approach 4/10 girls. They are just as picky if not more. In general women consider that men need to compensate for their shortcomings, if they're short, they want a tall guy, if they're ugly, they want an attractive guy (therefore also tall). As a shortie I got better result with girls my height and above. And none were bellow 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:56 PM
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Hot take: women are not attracted to penises at all. It's supposed to be a controversial topic? Everyone, blue pillers, red pillers, ect... Seem to agree women aren't attracted to men but rather the idea of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:52 PM
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Most people would be poly if their partners were guaranteed to be mono. People are mono as a middle ground for others to accept the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:50 PM
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What would you answer if I ask you what's your favorite WNBA player? No way in hell I ever care about a woman's sportive performances. But ask her which woman is the most attractive, suddenly she'll care about personality, occupations, achievements and competency. You just have weird expectations of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:48 PM
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Pretty sure reddit bans you for upvoting the same posts with the same IPs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:47 PM
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That's it, TRP made it to the constitution and women aren't allowed to do anything. /s You're stuck thinking TRP is trying to build a fair world for both men and women, where they advocate for actions that are beneficial for everyone. TRP is the opposite, it says the fair model didn't work because women didn't want it and destroyed it, therefore they should only work for their personal gains: fuck sluts, marry good women. They don't care if they create unmarriable women and incels in the process…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:41 PM
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Women keep pushing the idea that getting laid with anybody you want isn't a "preferential treatment" but marrying them when they're post wall and high N count is the preferential treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:41 PM
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IDK others but I'm just annoyed at people acting like women don't care about looks. But yeah when the efforts necessary are too high you should just stop caring. I'm 5'5, everyone always told me height doesn't matter and thinks I'm insecure for claiming it does matter. It didn't stop me trying to get what I want from women, but I wish people would stop with the "women are wonderful". You're probably ENTP btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:38 PM
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I would argue the majority of men who start going to the gym start because they feel shitty about the way they look in the mirror. Saying it’s just because they want to be healthy isn’t true in most cases. Who made such argument and why does it matter? Someone said that TRP seems obsessed with lifting to try and fit the beauty standards and I answered what TRP actually essentially advocates. Besides, the men who go to the gym because of insecurities just never last long at the gym, the only ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:33 PM
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It's not about the media we actively choose to consume that determines our tastes and if society has a standard If you go on instagram or tiktok and grow mental illnesses because of all the images of the women who use filters to have perfect faces and bodies it's 1) your fault for going there and consuming these media without a critical mind 2) your fault for being this sensitive. Yes society bombards you with ideas of standards, it's still your problem if you get neurotic over it. At some point…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:31 PM
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So men are simply choosing to ignore the beauty standards put on them? Or they choose not to consume media that give you stupid ideas of beauty standards. Or are more critical when they consume them. Only morons look at this https://pyxis.nymag.com/v1/imgs/4e5/51c/24c86380c4caf0bf67d17556921a685acc-steve-rogers-shirt.2x.rhorizontal.w710.jpg and think this is a reasonable beauty standard. Why is there such an emphasis on going to the gym then? The general emphasis is to lift regularly using compo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:23 AM
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60% of the population is between 4 and 6/10 20% are above 6/10 20% are bellow 4/10 People are often mistaken to think that 60% of the pop is encompassed between 2 and 8 /10
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:15 AM
3

Are you publicly admitting your don't love your man enough to desire the taste of his cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:36 PM
1

People above 6/10 are more uncommon than you think, 6/10 is already the 80/20 separation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:29 PM
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Yes blue pillers love to consider that women have zero agency and that they're victim of everything. Men on the other side generally believe they're responsible for how they're affected by the medias THEY CHOOSE TO CONSUME.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:01 PM
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No. Still baffled people don't know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:55 PM
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How does TRP/manosphere not negatively affect men’s mental health for 80-90% of it’s audience who don’t become part of the top 10-20%? The same way women can glance over instagram and not develop anorexia and mental illness because they can't be the top 10-20%. I'm a dude, I'm 5'5, I was raised extremely blue pill and started as a forever alone. Observing people and testing things on women made me red pilled and growing more assertive made me sexually successful enough. I'll never be top 20% but…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:45 PM
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What bothers men is that people keep claiming women are the non shallow fairer sex when the evidences keep showing they're ruthless greedy and shallow. What bothers men is that people keep claiming there's no difference between men and women except that women are nicer and more cooperative. When everything separates men and women except their equal selfishness. What bothers men is women aren't having any standards realistic to their actual options. They're not setting preferences to 6 foot + on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:31 AM
1

:( is it so much of a curse?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:26 AM
0

pitch black, straight
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:24 AM
1

Only inexperienced boys think thirsty people only care about water. Averagely wet men use Ice, Vapor, and Dehydrated Water to distinguish themselves. Learn Life!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:23 AM
0

why would you want your side hoe to live that long anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:22 AM
1

Had lesbian friends in HS, worked great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:06 AM
1

We're getting fatter by the day dw. But it still seems to be a late issue. Most people I grew with were slim. While it seems like fat teenagers is very common in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:53 PM
1

I don't let america tarnish my standards :V
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:49 PM
1

a 8/10 body wise? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:40 PM
1

Now you have to show me proof that you're ugly though. It is a tacite rule I just made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:28 PM
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Oh no I hate the blocking function :x it's such a mess And I don't want to silence people unless they're obviously parasite noises. I come here to verbal joust with them after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:15 PM
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hahaha, I got lots of people to tell me they felt for it for a minute, never had anyone play along with it like I actually linked them :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:02 PM
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Ah you didn't get the joke? I linked to /u/me , whoever clicks that link gets redirected to their profile. It's a common reddit joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:51 PM
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People might interact with me and entertain me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:50 PM
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well yeah I don't expect to convince you, but others might when reaidng you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:49 PM
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You seem to know more about me than me about you !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:05 PM
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I'm just trying to show you how you look like to others
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:14 PM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 10:14 PM
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The joke was french food => lots of garlic => bad breath smell?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:50 PM
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Alala you're not making sensical jokes and this bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:27 PM
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Life must be weird for you walking around thinking 90% people are uncapable of loving others while thinking you're part of the gifted elite that can feel things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:06 PM
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Damn I'm very flattered. But do so far away, you stink.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:06 PM
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No. I know that word, it's a fallacy women typically use to push their perspective as the only right one. Full blown solipsism bullshit, we either live in a society where everyone is objectified or no one is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:03 PM
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Yes I'd be flattered if this person asked me out even tho they're ugly AF
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:40 PM
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Don't tell me what to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:38 PM
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This sub is a cesspool lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:38 PM
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Americans can't cook* Also nothing about her seems tradcon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:32 PM
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If you truly lived in a sexist country you'd get remarks about how you're unwomanly or degenerated instead of compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:32 AM
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Yeah you just prefer to label anyone different from you unable to love lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:27 AM
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If we're not married my bank money is frozen until the kids are 18, if we're married wife can use the money at my death
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:15 PM
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Well not "sole" bread winner but I bring in the majority of the money. The point is if I die, wife gets to use my bank. If we're not married and even if we're in a civil pact, that money is frozen until the kids are 18 instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:39 PM
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Pros: If you die and you're the bread winner, your kids won't be homeless Cons: Literally everything else if you're the bread winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:31 PM
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It's transactional to you who look at it from afar, Like every single relationship that ever existed, but from upclose they're only navigating through their feelings. It's just that theirs are more predictible and mature than yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 04:26 PM
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Alright I get it I'll help clarify this out. Extroversion: the state of or tendency toward being predominantly concerned with and obtaining gratification from what is outside the self. The definition of extroversion is often socially oriented, but in a general sense it is more about "the world vs the inner me" Driving 2h to go to the beach right after waking up is absolutely extroversion, just not the typical social extroversion you know about. Everyone has some part of them that's introverted a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:09 PM
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I don't think the "MadeMeSmile" subreddit is ever going to be poisonous. It is rotten with cringe shit content lmao and feel good police lmao. Every community turns to shit once it reaches a certain critical mass.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:01 PM
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That's how I see you too. Seems mediocre to me to wait for the man to bring the stimulation to you. Again, I talk from experience, wife expects me to stimulate her, but I can't, I'm not her, I can't guess what she wants and when she wants it but I'd happily help her realize her REASONABLE ideas (AKA not driving 8h in the day just to see some boring shit and get heatstrokes). And after a long week of taking care of our job and of kids, often time she ends up realizing she needs a rest day in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:30 AM
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Well none of this stimulates me and plenty of other people. "let's go drive 2h to the ocean" just sounds like some extrovert who is bored and need his dose of stimulation that others don't. Again, you do sound like you're hyposensitive. A boring guy just is a nonplayer character in his own life, and therefore in mine. Yeah I think the same but inverted. People who need to do fancy fake "new" things in the outside world are just bored boring and exhausted people who need a dose of stimulation. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:25 AM
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They are more wrong than me for me, and that is what counts (for me). I know, but a debate sub isn't "for you". Discussions of which men are boring on TRP that boils down to "boring to me" make no sense as anyone is boring to some people. There's one common ground however where a boring man is one that don't show attraction and isn't assertive. AKA sexually inhibited. Even my boring introverted, don't want to go out, video game player, ass could seduce the hot party goer free spirited girl by be…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:11 AM
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OR you’re making the case that it’s better to make a conclusion based of less information which omdz is exactly why everyone sounds so dumb on here! It's better to arrive to the right conclusion with less information, that's literally what intelligence is about. It's just the way you worded things m8, I get it you like seeing him being lynched, but to us the way you worded it it looks like you first did give credit to him and then slowly came to realize he wasn't worth credit. Users always think…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:43 AM
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I'm not going to tell you that you shouldn't have fun the way you have fun. I'm a defender of one's liberty to waste their time. But come on. Sarkington said it too "I don’t need another person to tell me that Peterson is a weasel-y word salad-er." We're not criticizing the way you entertain yourself, but the way your judgement took too much time to converge to that idea that JP is just not a person to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:32 AM
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It's an useless video about comments on an useless person that everybody should never have listened to to begin with. Literally history repeating itself all the time with people not learning. Thus why I asked you originally, why do you need people's opinions to consolidate your opinions?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:53 PM
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Well I didn't expect that. For two I’m pretty experimental sexually which men always have seemed to enjoy. That also can mean your expectations go crescendo because you can't be satisfied with normal recurrent sex. I suspect this is hyposensitive vs hypersensitive talk, you need high stimulation and others might not need much stimulations to feel equally as satisfied as you. Others aren't more wrong than you are, you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:49 PM
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Try to convince me your fun, what about you is fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:40 PM
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Which is rarely the case. Nah. never verifies their conclusions. Some youtuber making a 2h long video on him isn't verifying jack shit opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:40 PM
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✔️
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:37 PM
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Here we go with boring people calling other people boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:32 PM
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You're always boring to someone else, so that was arrogant and stupid of you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:32 PM
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You’re deflecting now. That was literally my initial comment. And I don't have to answer loaded questions. I think it’s smart to consider all information, bias and non-biased sources. You can consider them without going through them. Someone irrelevant who loves to watch himself talk isn't going to be more relevant because someone commented on him anyway. If you don’t, it’s incredibly arrogant hubris and stupid. Not if I was right in the end, then I made a smart shortcut.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:32 PM
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So it's even worse, you think your way of being introverted is more interesting...?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:54 PM
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Do you think it’s smarter to make bold claims about YouTube videos you haven’t even watched yet? Do you think it's smart to watch someone's opinion of another guy to consolidate your own opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:52 PM
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Bullshit, it's not a movement by women for women. It's a movement by money havers for making more money. All of this is pure hypocrisy. Men's causes can't gain traction because no empathy for men, and because that won't generate more money as men aren't focused on virtue signaling of brands as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:49 PM
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Looks like a dude, go figure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:47 PM
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You can barely conclude anything on any of these statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:45 PM
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Entering engineer school, I was told women were having it harsh and for that reason they had lower standards for being accepted in the engineering school. From the mouth of the recruiting guy. Because apparently the environment is toxic for them and repels them. Then all the women got internships more easily, hired faster, with better salary. My wife was told she wouldn't be hired normally because she didn't succeed the technical test enough, but got hired cause woman. The toxic environment was …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:43 PM
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If that isn't love is love even relevant as a concept? Is it difficult for you to realize that people are capable to introspect why they love some types of people? Is it difficult for you to realize love isn't restricted to what you and only you can feel and that people can have different incentives?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:39 PM
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That's because "everybody makes mistakes" was women only to begin with, people who say "that bitch got what she deserved" are trying to compensate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:35 PM
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It is known
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:35 PM
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In this case literally just watch JP talking...? Someone's commentary over it isn't relevant information.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:35 PM
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You talk like the young girls' standards aren't already unrealistic. The answer is women never set their standards according to something realistic, that's why they can get pickier with experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:33 PM
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Both don't want you tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:31 PM
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I do, I just don't watch other people's opinions to form mines. So while I don't like JP, I'm certainly not watching someone badmouth JP either.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:30 PM
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AKA he's introverted and you're extroverted and you think you're better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:28 PM
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Same, can't say I lose respect, but they just have no credibility anymore because the foundation of their logic is a fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:26 PM
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Confidence doesn't exist. You're either assertive or you're not, and that's a choice you make.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:25 PM
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Imagine needing to listen to some youtuber talk of another youtuber to have assumptions confirmed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 10:23 PM
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That's not "when poison dominates" it's just "when something is a community". Ideologies can be healthy but communities are never healthy or not poisonous.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:25 PM
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You're not forced to feel contempt. I was raised blue pill, but watching women behave made me think they were just completely stupid and I did feel contempt. Eventually I realized that they were following incentives that made sense compared to the constraints of reproduction. And it appeased me a lot to view things from this perspective, it made me accept that women were different and it was even desirable. Later I found out TRP existed and it appeased me that I wasn't the only one that saw thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:24 PM
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Because "normal" men insist on chasing women No, normal men had to learn to chase women because they weren't showing interest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:58 PM
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but that's just how we've been conditioned. I've been conditioned the opposite and that didn't work. Once I stopped chasing women I noticed that more women actually started showing interest in me than before. Good for you, not happening to normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:23 PM
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Women don't chase, send IOI, show interest, nor escalate anything. Me and most men have to do it ourselves or nothing happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:58 PM
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Successful with women? Like they chase you? Yeah women ain't chasing me nor most other men. Why would men follow your example while you're an outsider?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:35 PM
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Me not chasing women: no pussy Me chasing women: got pussy Case closed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 02:25 PM
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what is this feeling supposed to be like?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:02 PM
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I'm short and that's load of bullshit, everything is made for tall thin people, even girls will tell you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:02 PM
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I feel this is a misunderstanding of people. People who need someone in their life just need someone in their life, they were always complete on their own and just crave affection/sex/company. Some people can't accept not being building a relationship and family, that's just their thing. Just like some people don't like not having a job or hobby...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:58 AM
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Because they're pathetic incomplete mentally ill creatures that can't really deal with being on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:57 AM
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You're probably just horny
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:43 AM
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Like any woman sleeping with married men of power: SHE WAS GREEDY.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:41 AM
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Still baffled people have so little discernement on here and act like discussing anything that's unpractical to them is useless and shamable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:39 AM
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I don't know what you mean by this. I mean that you people find every reason to label men's outlook of women as dehumanizing stupidly. ?? N-no, I mean the normal definition of benevolent sexism that feminists agree on. This one: "Benevolent sexism refers to attitudes about women that seem positive in tone (eg, women should be cherished) but nonetheless connote inferiority to men based on fragility, lack of competence, or need of help and protection" I know what they claim, I also know what they …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:15 AM
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Because many people don't think of women as "people", they think of them as representations of purity. So, as pure people? feminists would call it "benevolent sexism". They're pretty clueless of benevolent sexism so far, they call "benevolent sexism" "basic respect" instead, because the foundation of their ideology is men are privileged for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:02 AM
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Example: Someone might make a remark about a woman being scantily dressed in public. And then people will get upset and say you're shaming her. But if a man was at the same level of scantiness, it now suddenly occurs to you how inappropriate it would be. Bruh men can't even show calves. It's not that you realize things are bad when applied to men, it's that everything will seem bad when applied to men. It's still not a reasonable outlook because people aren't neutral toward women nor men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 10:00 AM
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Have you looked at the recent history? Women kept saying men to do the first move. Men did. Women didn't do anything but reject the men who did the first move to improve the SMP. Men had to create TRP to remind themselves what was supposed to be how men behave. Women proved they weren't capable to do jack shit beneficial for themselves and others but here we are still having people to tell us men ain't doing enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:42 AM
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Oh sorry I wasn't clear enough. OH LOOK ANOTHER NLOG LOLOLOLOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 02:29 PM
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Oh look another woman claiming to be an exception when statistics show she's a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:56 PM
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Not PPD content
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:50 AM
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I asked, nobody is complaining. Some say it even stops rather quickly as they age. The reality is a minority of women who are gifted, who live at the wrong place, and who have a specific lifestyle, are being approached non stop. Every other woman experience scarce approaches, not enough for it to be a never ending annoyance, and not for a long time in their lifespan. But the problem is you gotta listen about the loud minority that does want to have the extrovert city night life but don't like pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:45 AM
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About the gaze: This works for pictures, women will pick handsome over muscular. IRL the imposing stature of muscular men do not leave them so indifferent. It's insane how much women follow that simple rule: the bigger the better. This doesn't mean inhumanly muscular, but this means that being tall and beafy will absolutely work.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:42 AM
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I've got diagnosed anxiety and depression, I don't let it effect me though. But you are labeled. Here's a new label for ya: Hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:38 AM
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People were awfully educated on nutrition in the 90s. Basically a lot less concern about healthy fats and stupid beliefs that carbs were better than fat. And also the belief that proteins were to be given in small quantities
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:36 AM
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I'm talking of a 15 year old anecdote to you because you couldn't understand these people exist. Don't try to bullshit your way with personal attacks, you are clueless and I'm here to educate you. Keep that in mind or get the fuck out of this subreddit, weirdo. You think you are the first batshit crazy female "debater" I'm dealing with here? You're so fucking sore I'm lecturing you on things you couldn't predict that you put your brain on 300% overclocking to find a way out, that's fucking pathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:24 PM
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Is that girl your internalized voice??? I want to smack you with a rolled up newspaper, but with a brick inside =.= I mean, if you have a humiliation fetish I’ll just step out of this convo, No this girl typically is a brat and does poke at men to get reactions, attention, or to make them more seductive to her or filter the losers who aren't combative. A fairly common female archetype that women on here love to pretend do not exist. to stop craving attention from women who aren’t physically attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 06:13 PM
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I mean specifically, what do those women look like and under what circumstances are you speaking with them? One specific instance I remember is a 16 year old 6/10 girl who was a bit popular because she was cute and friendly to men. She friendzoned many guys including me. Then to reject me she said she doesn't consider me a man becase I'm short (she was 4'10 or smaller, I was way taller than her) She also said she thinks I have a tiny dick. In retrospective I think I could have gained some respec…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 04:07 PM
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What do you mean which women? Plenty of women are ruthless to men. And that's just the one who dared to tell me, because most just maintain a disgusted facial expression so clean and clear paul ekman would write a book about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:43 PM
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Ok but maybe they can't tell because you look like a stable person...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:24 PM
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For your personal knowledge, these algorithm usually work both way: The app learns both what the content is and what content you like at the time. It doesn't assume categories, categories emerge and disappear in the "subconscious" of the app's AI. Anyway, I don't see how any of this confirms blue pill beliefs. Red pillers indeed say that social medias work like real life, and such claim would support something like "the most attractive people will be the most popular eventually" which seems to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:23 PM
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There is a huge range of sexualities among people. You could have 100 tomboys in a room and they each have a different type of sexuality. Range is not important, average is. You could have 100 women in a room, 20 will qualify as tomboy, 15 of them will claim this while being feminine looking, 2 will have a sexuality you could qualify similar to men's. You really don't seem to know a lot of women if you think this. I know a lot of women, and I've been with lots of non conformists so I've explored…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:03 PM
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No that's bullshit. "Tranny" is the equivalent of "negro". Transexual isn't pejorative and I know SOME trans people have been pushing it as pejorative but that is just them pushing some social equity ideals where we stop referring to them as not normal men/women, which is an ideology you have every right not to adhere to. You might want to watch it if you want to be taken seriously. What you can reproach at best is that transexual != transgender but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:54 PM
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So, a sexual act is not a sexual act, but it's an emotional act to you? Weird. Kiss isn't sexual by itself, but it's symbolic of an emotional bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:52 PM
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it varies and has no correlation with gender in my experience Your experience is warped by your idea of an average man being completely off and you admitted that. Aside from some social conditioning women and men aren't wildly different. Men and women are the same in which they're selfish and individualistic. Which is the norm for majority animal kingdom. But some actions do not benefit men and women the same, that is what makes us WILDLY different. People act like tomboys and femme boys don't e…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:51 PM
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I'll allow you to ask this. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:45 PM
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Maybe because you don't come off as trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:45 PM
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They never hid this?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:43 PM
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Bruh I'm 5'5 and I'm tempted to just bully you to know what it feels like. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:42 PM
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18 years ago I went on dating websites Women were frequently asking my height immediately then ghosting me when I answer, I'm 5'5 IRL many women told me they don't consider me a man. It's not just OLD, OLD makes it more obvious and more direct, which hurts but eventually cuts a lot of the bullshit you get IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:41 PM
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IDK I just know that most actresses I flash on in movies are a lot less attractive in pictures. Same for people IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:38 PM
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So your gf can suck my dick anytime?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:37 PM
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You don't think they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:35 PM
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It's more that we don't realize how attractive people are attractive in pictures because pictures suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:34 PM
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Not really. You saying it's not doesn't prove it's not. We should stop there, we don't abide to the same rules of logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 02:32 PM
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Not all trans people want to look like a certain gender every single day, or ever. Normal people do not even care what they are. They conform to blend in or to attract, they don't personally feel like anything. "non binary" people are no more no less reinventing the default. And that being said, I don't see the relevance of your point. The fact remains that transgender ideologies either are gender conformist or can even be gender biological determinist, because many do claim to be having a biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:36 AM
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That was my point
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:30 AM
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nothing about this is scientific or rigorous You want to go that route? What about you and your claim was even scientific or rigorous or with a sample size even reflecting the united states? Good job on properly not counter arguing. Literally most men and women will tell you women do not lust over average men. Where have you lived that you think women are like men at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:28 AM
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I’ll take that criticism because I definitely am ranting here. Ah I knew it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:53 PM
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I'm not reading all this but I bet this isn't PPD worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:41 PM
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Excuses excuses!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:57 PM
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Could have fixed the "then" too you lazy mod
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:26 PM
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You seen people with down syndrom? A solid bunch of female downies have normal boyfriends. If they can have better they're generally not wanting people with their disabilities. Same applies for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:25 PM
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In context of a self balancing free market you can't really blame the supplier or the demander. All you can do is blame those having the most power to influence the market. Which happens to be women or society in the context of the SMP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:28 PM
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Conflating don't like you vs don't like women. People who dont like you IRL do not do so because you're a woman, but probably because you're a bad woman to them. Women by a large will claim many things are misogynistic and men hate women, then go for men like that anyway and expect them not to be doormats.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 11:06 AM
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Well if he treats a woman with a pretty face and a woman without a pretty face equally, and does a coin toss when their personalities are the same, that’s not shallow. Ok then that makes "shallow" irrelevant as a word. Avg women’s value being inflated… On OLD, quite certainly. Everywhere women's value is being inflated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:34 AM
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If he only goes for high SMV women then he prob shallow If he goes for average women all the time too but opportunistically goes to high SMV women then he's not shallow. The problem is most people conflate avg women for high value women all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:24 AM
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Ok well to be fair you said "go for the best they can get" and I didn't pay attention to "they can get". A culture of picky SMP is toxic is my point, the SMP survives because men aren't picky and very often don't go to the best they can get, and women eventually because they settle to less than they can get for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:17 AM
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That leads to Japan-like situations, many many many deserters. It makes uncompetitive decadent societies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:04 AM
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Just because they care about more parameters doesn't mean their standards for every single parameters are lower than men's. For men it's roughly 60% looks and 40% personality For women it's 80% looks, 80% status, 80% personality. Doesn't add up to 100 yes, because women are absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:48 AM
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Women are more shallow than men. Just about everything more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:46 AM
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You can't possibly know that. Yes I can, that is the literal ideology behind being transgender, it wouldn't exist if it wasn't gender conformist. For one thing, you have no idea how many trans people you see. If I have no idea then they're extremely gender conformists. even someone who dresses and seems to act in a gender conforming manner is not necessarily conformist in other behaviors you'll never know about The point remains that they're more gender conformists than some effeminate gay man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:29 AM
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Yes, we often do. Not to mention what you consider "average" isn't what I'd consider average Yes that's the problem. What women consider average is already top 20% of the pop in term of attractiveness, which is totally not average. Stats from okcupid: https://external-preview.redd.it/YOkD5U4T5fcf097vw8z4PlPI7ytWIksArJuuWrhX5bA.png?auto=webp&s=9f3994e3fb2826721eb36b22a4be09f4db5e62f9 Women literally think 80% of men are around 2.5/10 in looks. Women do not find average men to be attractive at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 09:22 AM
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You were forced to lower your standards to have a partner accept you. Hehehe I see what you did there. But no, I was told I had to, but I realistically never needed to because I am attracted to average women enough. I know you likely never lacked options. That wasn't the point. I know women's issue is filtering men, I even think they have a whole lot of passive strategies to make men self filter themselves. Even on a societal level, women's collective actions do reflect that idea that men should…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:37 PM
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you can't But I just did! If you don't feel concerned anyway, you're not the only person that's gonna read it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:22 PM
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This subreddit is armchair psychologist central, everything is assumptions. and made no attempt to answer the question asked. What, I did answer a question, just not the one you asked. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:14 PM
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but thanks for the armchair psychoanalysis Sounds like you just don't like this subreddit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:05 PM
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They're not complaining about this because they do not care. What they complained about is female moneylessness, that's how we got feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:02 PM
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The issue is you not falling on dark triad types, and since you're attracted to them, you might want to compromise on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:57 PM
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Why would men care she is an accomplished professional? Even tradcon men do not want career oriented women very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:56 PM
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I would only consider it unfair if there was a way in which it was 'supposed' to be, but I don't see how that's possible. The way it is "supposed to be" is when everyone have what they're worth. It is a human centric philosophy like many others and I understand you'd argue in a perspective different. But in the context of PPD I think it odd not to evaluate fairness and one's worth according to the whole group, to what they're worth and what they deserve. There's no such thing as mind-independent…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:55 PM
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"they did this to survive" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:58 AM
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Lost my virginity 14 years ago thanks to a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:50 AM
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Spoiler: it's only abusive when it's over, it's only abusive from her perspective, it's only abusive when he gets what he wants but when she gets what she wants it's respect of her boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:49 AM
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I don't like free market capitalism as a proposed economic system, but I believe the theory applies to the dating market. A person's value is determined by their desirability - meaning the amount of people pursuing them. Yes it works like this, and it's inherently unfair and men should absolutely not be content with its current state. Have you considered that the most important assessment of a person's value is from their partner, not onlookers like yourself? Irrelevant we're not doing case per …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:48 AM
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How do you objectively determine a person's value? You can't precisely, but you do so by attractiveness, status, ect... But you can tell when there's an unbalance Who has more value to society, excellent parents who successfully raise happy and healthy children, or excellent surgeons? It's not "to society". Irrelevant I don't believe anyone 'should' or 'has' to do anything, I don't believe there is a metaphysical/cosmic obligation, that's my point. Cool. What's your problem then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:07 AM
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"science" "all young men need to watch this" No, just gtfo of this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:33 AM
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Yes I believe there's an objective way of determining that. In an ideal world you should be with your value match, that value match must be matched averagely throughout your life with that person. That value match is determined by your value within your gender. AKA an average woman with an average man. She is higher value than him early on due to men blooming later. They pair together early in her prime, and they stay together in his prime when her value shrinks quickly. That's the fair ideal si…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:27 AM
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I haven't seen any good argument suggesting that you're not supposed to fight against unfairness and can't change things. Or at least discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:16 AM
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Dude strangers lust over people all the time Women do not lust over average men. You won't be approached as you're walking through a big city if you're on your way some place by anyone except a rude person If they wanted avg men to approach they'd show it, they do everything for stranger men not to believe they're open. That doesn't mean you aren't catching people's eye or there is no situation/context in which they wouldn't ask you out. All men have gone through highschool college where asking …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:14 AM
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Her value has drastically lowered. His was stable or increased.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:12 AM
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can't make any abstraction for the sake of debate uh?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:11 AM
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what about the other social medias? Even the lgbtq side of tiktok is full blown vanity. Not forgetting that majority of transexuals are gender comformists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:10 AM
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sounds like a you problem lol "morals"
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:09 AM
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Based on what do you think so? Muh eyes. Think of it, millenials media were myspace, youtube, facebook, reddit. The next gens are tiktok, instagram... social medias where people compete to get attention for being attractive. The tone is way different, vanity and gender conformism are default. I've never met so many queer and non-binary people in my life as when Gen Zers finally go old enough to come out to bars. You're not wrong. The two extremes live together and push each others to be further …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:43 PM
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You were not wanted when low value You are higher value and they're low value but you are often told you should be content with it It's unfair regardless of who it is who it was ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:27 PM
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It's how plenty of women work. But each person is a little different. We are billions of people, not a monolith. I'm not interested by the behavior of a minority, the majority is very predictible. Plenty of lustful couples out there who desire each other That's not the topic, the topic is being attracted to a complete stranger and lusting over him. your last paragraph is a fallacy. Majority of men are not approached. I walk every day outside in a big city for hours and no woman has ever stopped …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:17 PM
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Nah that's just not how women work. In places where people can be up front about attraction they're very vocal about not being attracted to me. And those who aren't saying that are waiting for me to prove myself. This is the reality for most men. Only a minority of men trigger physical attraction to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:00 PM
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I don't presume to invalidate your own experience. You do it implicitly since we're disagreeing. Choosing what not to believe entirely on the basis of your preconceived ideology is bias. Choosing to believe people's justifications is naive. I'm choosing not to believe your single input as they do not weight much in the balance of all the others. We both don't have much foundations to argue against the other, but well, you still think you're doing something better than I do. As usual with people …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:55 PM
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Yes I'm doing it again, because you do it again. It's nonsense to continue this. so you invent a reason why it must not be. I don't invent, I've seen it in others. That's never been my debate strategy. Your debate strategy is the same as mine: pull out anecdotal shit, build theories and conclusions on top of anecdotal shit. It's what this whole sub is about. No. That's just your ideological expectation. I actually know her. In fact, she's my oldest friend. I've witnessed literally her entire dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:20 PM
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Well, abortion is wrong too technically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:12 PM
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Sigh... they do not want it with you if you're doing nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:12 PM
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Compromise on what you're attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:42 PM
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... =_=
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:41 PM
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Yeh, it must be telling how that situation was inadmissible to them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:40 PM
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Who said lesbians have default great personalities? You suggested that lesbians liked each others not because of their physic but because of their whatever-word-you-used suggesting they're just awesome people to each others. If lesbians thought every woman was oh so beautiful then their swipe rates on OLD would mirror straight men’s… but they don’t. Women are discriminatory when swiping for males or females or whomever in between. Interesting statistic if it's true. But still, women do view wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:35 PM
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You said very handsome and never experienced difficulty. That is not true, just an expectations of handsomeness produced by your ideology. Or just your perception of hardship is mild because you haven't experienced any serious one. I also believe you arent observing it. IK, I get it, then why continue? It's not an argument, it's a termination. Some gender roles are more subversive and persistent than others. And you chose to believe it was because they were still taught instead of understanding …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:34 PM
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What is it you do not understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:28 PM
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for saying what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:27 PM
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The same reason women abort, they didn't want the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:27 PM
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Well it depends of the mood, of the person, of your body language, of how you bring it, that's why I want details, dude is probably hiding that he said something obviously provocative It feels like these story "Omg I got kicked out of the macdonalds! I just wanted nugget" because he was nacked
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:08 PM
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Lmao bye
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:07 PM
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complained about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:07 PM
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That is a nice reasoning except it's omitting something key: Women think most other women are beautiful while thinking most men are ugly. So of course, when they're lesbian they feel freed, because their attractiveness just stems from being a woman and not from actually looking good. Yes women aren't very vocal about looks driving their love, but that is only after he pass the physical attractiveness threshold. It's like that doesn't obsess them when it's here, but when it's not here nothing is …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:05 PM
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I feel you're omitting some key parts of the story :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 09:00 PM
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My point is women's opinion aren't the compass for how attractive a woman is. And that in any case, they didn't rate by attractiveness, they did rate by rank.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:57 PM
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Yeah, but you see my point? It's fairly subtle. But I could sense my wife being disappointed of me for being in such position in the group. Though she needs to remember I did lose contact with my former friend group, in which I was valued, because of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:56 PM
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Your anecdotal experience is not representative of all women. Sure. But if I had to give an advice to a man, I'd give the one that'll work 100% of the time and not the "ideal" one that works just 20% of the time. Plus why would you want to impress or date or have sex with a woman who is a jerk like that? 1) because that's most women and I don't really get to be picky on this, if I only go for nice women who like me 100% i'd be an incel. What makes me successful is my ability to compromise on ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:54 PM
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Yes, but not the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:49 PM
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"You must be an young incel or very handsome" is a perfect example. And I wasn't wrong. You lot rarely seem to simply acknowledge and respect difference I respect the truth and I believe you aren't observing it. Because one pattern I notice around here for how blue pillers talk about this stuff, is how they'll do anything to put all the agency on men's shoulders while passing women as victims. I prefer to think you have some environmental factors that served you a different narrative, because I …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:49 PM
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Well I wanted to leave that friend group sooner but we got some... strings... Me and wife paired my friend with her friend, now every new year both groups meet and it'd be weird for me to just not go. He is also my coworker on top of being my friend so I'm forced to get by him anyway. Another one likes me a lot more than the others like me. But one of the friend brought his brother in the group and I can tell he dislikes me a lot, it changed the dynamic in subtle fashions that really made it shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:43 PM
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carnal and sexual attractiveness. Of men. Men like to project their definition as the end all be all just as much as they like to pretend male sexuality is the default as well. Men are the compass of what is attractive in women. It's that simple. Men are able to recognize attractive men by women's standards more than the opposite. And again, they didn't go by a mix of physical and mental attractiveness, they only went by leadership rank.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:35 PM
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Yeh I know the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:22 PM
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That idea that the reject of the friend group is kept around because "his mom knows my mom". Often it is more subtle, because rejects eventually leave and someone is the new reject, and if it stabilize it's only possible if the reject isn't rejected enough. For instance, how it showed up in my former friend group was that I was the non mandatory member. They'd cancel things if someone wasn't there, but if I'm not here it's not a big deal, if they don't inform me they go somewhere it's not a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:22 PM
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What’s the concise definition of “attractive”? For a woman, being masculine and leadery isn't part of the "attractive" definition. it's just looks and femininity and always has been. But women are tasked to rank women by attractiveness and can't stop a single second to think what it means they just elect the leader at whatever position of honor they can because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:20 PM
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So no explanation for why you're blind? ok fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:16 PM
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Go tell that to people who are. The thing is when the reject leaves then someone is the new reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:09 PM
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Yes I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:08 PM
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It mostly showcases that “attractive” doesn’t have a concise definition. It has, but the girls just decided not to care about physical attractiveness and go by which girl had most charisma or leadership. The slim blond just called all the shots since the beginning she didn't even have to force it but she was the only one to feel like she deserved to do it. The fat one just was loud and imposing so she got 2nd. Who in their right mind think the fat one is attractive? Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:08 PM
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You must live in a very conservative place. I wasn't unusual, I live in a country that's rotten by feminism since decades. Parents and teachers all having the same anti machismo narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:05 PM
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That's a weird example
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 08:04 PM
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Not if she's a whore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:18 PM
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Every group has a hierarchy. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A-YcBYUfgtc I like this video because it's very obvious a hierarchy creates immediately among the girls and they rank each others based on it instead of attractiveness. The girls most masculine are at the top and most feminine at the bottom, and men instantly invert it when they're asked to rank by attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:16 PM
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She's very confident for someone whose face isn't straight nor symmetrical But yeah, if you're like the rejecton of the friend group you should maybe not show them to your gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:14 PM
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Getting back to being incel?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:13 PM
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but they arent socialized to. And men are? They are taught they are only valuable if they are the ones pursued Unless they consume FDS, that's not what they're told No we're not. We're told to be respectful and choose appropriate contexts for approaching women Many are told that, many are told to straight out never do the first move. I'm one of the later, can't invent that shit, my mother and sister were in favor of opposite gender roles. I am a very handsome man. And I have also experienced dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 07:02 PM
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the less amount of men due to their higher mortality, with the addition or not of wars, and the fact women couldn't endorse male roles in society, made it so it was more difficult to have actual incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:44 PM
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Sir this is a wendy's
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:30 PM
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I don't let my son know how I know, if you start explaining things it's like an open door for them to argue and lie more and I just can't be bothered. I tried it at first but quickly his favorite word became "but". However when I know something is odd and I can't know the truth, I explain to him that his history of lying makes me not trust him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:28 PM
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HOW MANYYYYY??? I don't want the world's average human feet count to shrink too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:25 PM
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Nah, fuck them, not their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:25 PM
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You need money, which is what makes the job hunting process al desperate. But romance and sex do not make people desperate? I itiating on the other hand is more like recruiting. You have an open entry level position and you're seeing if this woman is right to fill it. If she isnt enthusiastic enough, she isnt right for the job. There's no shortage of other recruits. Just like going at a job interview and guessing you have no chance because they're not enthusiast, and they hope you just go away b…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:23 PM
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They don't want to be responsible of your first time, they don't want to lead, they don't want to have anything to do, they are afraid at the idea that eventually you might be insecure since you're a virgin, and that's inadmissible to them that they're put in the role of the doer when they do you the honor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:18 PM
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Wtf are you on about?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:17 PM
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the man apparently didn't want the baby?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 06:16 PM
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You're woooofing hard I'm afraid :( examine closely the link of my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 03:55 PM
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I thought that was a pretty intense word already but you want an increase? Odd thing for you to hysterically make up conspiracy theories about how I am upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:49 PM
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oh yeah so many white guys in africa. Sigh... How do you expect me to compare white men and black men if I don't see any. which has more diversity of white people. Not really no. and I actually date men, so I probably meet and see more men than you. Have you seen them all grow? No. this is an odd thing for you to be getting so upset about. Odd thing for you to hallucinate that I am upset
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:46 PM
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I grew up in a school with lots of migrants from every place of europe and africa. And no I'm not gay, you're not gay because men exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:41 PM
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I'll believe you on this as I'm lazy to verify.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:40 PM
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How are OP's maths wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:32 PM
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Plenty of different sorts of white men. I probably have more diversity of white men around me than you ever could.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:26 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:25 PM
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It's not fake it until you make it, it's fake it because women need to be reassured over their irrelevant insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:23 PM
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If I wanted to insult you I'd have done so more crudely, I'm merely stating right here, you're having an over idealistic over emotional outlook at this. At least you're being consistent, but seeing abuse/hate in every shit fling is going to lead you to see 90% of people as hateful and this is just not realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:23 PM
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Besides risking a mrsdegree warning I don't get how proud you are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:44 PM
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Wait for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:39 PM
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They may have blocked you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:36 PM
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Lol have you missed all these twoX threads calling men babies? This is just a mutual shit men and women throw at each others. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:35 PM
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I got rejected for being a virgin until I lied about being a virgin and then I stopped being rejected. That's the equivalent. Women, just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:25 PM
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I ain't doing unpaid work, sweatheert.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:49 AM
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It's the same situation because I'm annoyed equally by both. Also you're cumfart.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:41 AM
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Damn, how many feet do need in your freezer for the business to be viable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:35 AM
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So your problem is people talking about their problems, and you talk of it? Just bottle that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:34 AM
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Why is the number 1 cause of women being murderers abortion? Why do women resort to murder instead of accepting the circumstances and dealing with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:33 AM
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It's only hating women if you're a low intelligence emotional sexist who can't stand women being portrayed as flawed and antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:31 AM
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It seems to me that men really are more apt to pursue the more outgoing, fun, more flashy girls How weird is it men are feeling more confident around girls who show interest back even if it's not direct interest. What makes you think men are going to approach a girl who looks like she doesn't want to be approached? I don't personally care about what you listed for women's traits, but I approached both, guess who was sensitive to my attention. Men don't get to be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:24 AM
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That's not an emotional argument that's a bant. I'm not believe you they're 20, that's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:11 PM
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The issues are more when the mental issue affect your social ability. Men are expected to seduce, women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:10 PM
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The fact that I got so many downvotes for common sense obvious statements just shows an insane level of male fragility and self victimisation "They disagree with me they must be fragile!" <- person with a total fragile ego And you were talking about credibility... I'm tempted to not read any further. You still have to put a lot of effort into finding a long term partner as a women and figure out how much of the interest in you is genuine. Because you think men settle with women who have genuine …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:09 PM
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Funny if this woman is so rare, then why do I keep finding them? Because you're an old fuck who stays too much near highschools? 99% all men end up settling for uglier women Yeah can't disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:58 PM
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It is. But bloops will still debate their asses off that women aren't into sightly older men while being repulsed by younger men. One of the best strategy for struggling young men is to stop going for women their age like people told them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:56 PM
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I'm glad you agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:55 PM
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No thanks I can only handle medium sized papayas
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:54 PM
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I'm calling out this person, such a lame user
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:32 AM
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No mention he got girls, so, all that work just to die pretty :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:32 AM
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Waw, one woman. It must mean they're all like this. Statistics time: 30% of couples are same age, 30% have 1 to 4 year gap (older man), 10% younger man, the rest is men a lot older but it shrinks quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:28 AM
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IDK how old you are but no. Women grow more picky, or have their priority shift at best. They don't have incentives to fix their immaturity because it never stops working right for them. As a general rule, the concept of "maturity" is very biased and mean nothing from the mouth of many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:26 AM
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What if I am capable to read subtexts and hidden intents and you're frustrated that you can't, so you'd rather prefer to believe I'm seeing things that don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:02 AM
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Well you just hold onto that wee fantasy of yours but I would suggest you go outside a bit more and talk to people in this situation, you’ll find it’s not what you think, nor what they claim it is. Watch what they do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:05 AM
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Nah that's not what they're going for. Anyway, that's also not what people tell you when you're a teen. People legit think that being a beta bux for a divorced woman is a luck, they think that when they're dating chads when they're young they're immature and not worth it, and that then they'll settle for a lucky man. Which we all know is bullshit. It makes sense that the opposite opinion exist where some people think women are lucky to be sexually wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:52 AM
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Do you think women in their 30 with kids and a job are going to just fuck your brain out and not ask you to work your ass off for them, their home and their well being?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:32 AM
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Why do you assume them having their own job doesn't mean they don't want our money?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:26 AM
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That's the thing, "initiating" as a man is exactly like getting a job you like. You're going to go through interviews and interviews and be expected to prove yourself to someone who doesn't think they have to prove themselves. And then there are moralizing morons that will tell you it's no big deal and men and women are equal. While on the other side everyone agrees that job interviews are made by bullshity ultra picky people and companys who waste your time more than anything, especially these …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:25 AM
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Well, when their craziness is typically masculine, it usually works for them. But when it's feminine or just "loserlike", it doesn't work. Women can collect behavioral issues like pokemons and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:21 AM
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That's the politically correct perception of it, but ain't the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:20 AM
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He says himself he just walk outside and see couples of ugly people and that to him means anyone failing is abnormal. Considering the bar is lower for women, and that his evidences are less than anecdotal, seems to me that the guy is just making a post to say "men bad".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:19 AM
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This was a rhetoric question, this is what we're told usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:13 AM
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Well it might ruin my credibility to you, but yours doesn't exist. Also it’s completely untrue that terrible social skills don’t also negatively affect women while dating. It negatively affects women's relationship, it doesn't prevent them from having any. Men have the issue of finding relationship, then they have the issues of relationships that women have. I'm not going to disclaim every post that I know that most people who struggle are people who don't try. But the amount of men who try and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:13 AM
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Yeah, but smh blue pillers think humans are above it and that the "everyone pairs up and is monogamous" hasn't to be maintained through societal measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:09 AM
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Yeah I'm tired of people's logical fallacies so I just call them troll. Logical fallacies aren't to be addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 07:07 AM
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Aren't we told we should be grateful a 30 year old woman with kids from former wedlock wants our money?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:46 PM
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okay I don't see the point of your post if you don't compare the bar to anything. The dating market is a market, men and women are adversarial, not comparing the two is like saying the bar to finding a job is low while ignoring that minimum wage isn't enough for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:43 PM
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You're not realistic and you're clearly not fit to discuss group dynamics on a debate sub if all you can provide is a blatant superficial bad mouth of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:37 PM
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Statistics versus your eyes eh? Not even going to address my points? Ok troll
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:35 PM
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Makes it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:24 PM
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Acting as if lifelong loneliness and celibacy is some typical never-ending condition that the average man just has to accept is delusional. People complain more about the effort it takes since men are the initiators. For you to get it, you should know that after a breakup it takes more time for men to bounce than women. Because all women have to do is wait. While men have to build the confidence and energy to approach women. This means that the slightest mental unwellness is going to negatively …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:21 PM
1

Angry? I have a lot of fun looking at choosing beggars.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:57 PM
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You claim 0/10 men have it better than 0/10 women, that's the literal topic. You literally tell me numbers don't matter women just have a sense of "would" and "wouldn't" as if it was disproving the bias in which they "wouldn't" most men. You're the troll. And I'm being patient with you but you are clearly not used to having any thought or argument at all, yet you want to come here and claim your shit opinions that have been debunked a bazillion times.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:55 PM
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1: Yes I very well understood your boolean system that still said "most men are ugly" which doesn't help your case at all. 2: 3: It started off as you saying 0/10 women have it worse. I showed it to you how women are conflating average men with 0/10 men and thus why they think they have it better. You deny that women have that bias. I showed you statistical hint of it. You can't deny it and keep agreeing with the idea that women find all men ugly, but you think you've debunked my argument. have …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:39 PM
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They still used that system to say most men are ugly. What is your god damn argument eventually? You have nothing on your side to disprove that women are picky and that 0/10 men have it better than 0/10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:26 PM
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or, crazy concept here, maybe women only say they find a man attractive if they actually find them attractive, rather than just if he's passable enough to fuck? They got asked to rank them between 0 and 10. You're suggesting they can't follow instructions? That'd be misogynistic. In any case, your sentence still admits women are way pickier than men. So I don't get what your argument even is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:19 PM
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This graph tells you that women think 80% of men are bellow average. I'll break down the logical fallacy for you: You can't have 80% of people beneath 50% of people, it makes no sense, that's why it's a huge hint that their perception is biased. You can criticize the statistics though. But when you get to talk to women IRL you realize they do indeed find majority of men ugly and tend to think majority of women are attractive, they especially have a bias in which they think masculine women are mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:05 PM
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Simple. if you see 40% of the population as 0/10 you are having issues. 0/10 represent like 1% of the population. If you see many of them your perception sucks, if you see very little of them you're probably decent at gauging people's rating. https://external-preview.redd.it/YOkD5U4T5fcf097vw8z4PlPI7ytWIksArJuuWrhX5bA.png?auto=webp&s=9f3994e3fb2826721eb36b22a4be09f4db5e62f9 This graphic shows how stupidly biased women are on average.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 03:00 PM
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Except they're the bottom of the bottom other than filling a sexual niche, their perception of own value is fucked up and they just appear as extra pretentious
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:52 PM
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I'm 33 and my sex drive is more or less the same albeit it has grown less important to me due to scarcity mentality going away compared to when I was 20
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:51 PM
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No we cannot. Statistics all show men have a harder time at the bottom. The only thing we can agree on is men have it best at the top. Your inability to understand this is because you actually never saw a 0/10 man you keep seeing 4/10 men and think they're 0/10 and that their life is better than 0/10 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:47 PM
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this lmao Every 12 year old girl has a singer of the same ethnicity as them as cult leader.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:41 PM
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No first this time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:00 PM
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They're not, they were asked to rate people. Out of all the plausible criticism you chose to just lie. You're really just a troll that writes incel content, you should get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:42 PM
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You're just comparing "becoming instagram female supermodel" with "being somewhat attractive to women". Men don't need you to be an instagram supermodel to be attracted. And even like that women have more room to cheat/trick men into making them think you're more attractive. There are tons of statistics showing men's expectations of women are far more reasonable than women's. The most known one is OKCupid "your looks and your inbox".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:25 PM
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Everything about psychology and sociology is pseudoscience. And many scientists are reluctant to study the biology behind differences due to moral reasons unless women are coming out on top. (that is to say, scientists are rotten and biased) Your point is? If we began modeling our society after them it may not bode very well for men, who would by that logic be relegated to the trades as workerbees while women would be considered more suited to politics/arts/education, anything socially concerned…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:50 AM
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You need to have sex with people you barely even know in order to be able to enjoy sex? The heck? The heck indeed. No I don't need anything thank you :') but to claim that women who prefer to get to know a man before they get in bed with him don't enjoy sex is pretty crazy. Many people need to form a connection and feel safe before they're able to let someone inside of them... That's just normal Yeah that's what all women ever told me, it was literally the first version of the story I was ever s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:07 PM
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Yeah they'll replace those who can't compromise, real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:54 PM
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You think neuroticism is controllable? Damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:11 AM
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TRP admits that women end up with beta bux eventually. It would bring about that reality sooner. Beta men still get sex, and it's better than going sexless. Women choose wgtow or becoming lesbian a lot more now. Betas as useless and ugly to them, they can be their own beta. If they don't want to be, then they can stay single. If you don't make babies you're like a freeloader in the eyes of society. So, no they can't just "stay single". Remember that men build the infrastructure and women build t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:11 AM
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Oh? mb
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:42 PM
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I don't care what TRP is focused on, TRP is a reading of the world and my reading align with it. I do whatever the fuck I want in the mean time and especially I believe whatever I want. And it's pretty clear to me that society as it is is making men as a whole a lot less attractive to women than it used to be, because it believed in women's idea that giving women men's options would make the world a better place for everyone. Or rather, capitalists saw an opportunity here for cheaper labor. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:32 PM
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I'm glad if it worked for you, but this is some stacy tier strategy, not some plain girl's miraculous strategy. And again, the dude you got must be some nutcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:11 PM
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It seems like women aren’t telling you they want to wait. I tried the wait, they didn't like it, I told you this already. I'm here debating people whose claims are revolting me, that's all. I don't see why yo uwant to read more into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:03 PM
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You had more privilege and luck than you thought you had
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:01 PM
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The same reason women asked men to change to get rid of gender roles that didn't benefit women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:00 PM
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where all this anger is coming from Your imagination. If it doesn’t impact you, you are you literally repulsed by some women saying they prefer to wait. They aren’t saying it to you. We're on a debating forum remember
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:56 PM
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people I’m not compatible with You're compatible with psychopathic maniacs who have no options who pursue you relentlessly for months while you reject them. I know the value of a young pretty girl, not going to give my youth away for free. Has it worked so far? Or are you a femcel?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:53 PM
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But calling yourself sexually assertive also makes me Wonder if those women felt safe saying no to you. Typical... Women thinking any man is a turbo rapist. Women like you raise future men who will need TRP and go there. No they were perfectly feeling safe saying no to me. They even made plans to push it further. One of them is still with me 13 years after.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:52 PM
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Not really but whenever I talk of how I behaved to all the girls I've been actually sexually and romantically successful with. People on reddit think my behavior always is creepy as fuck. :) Though I do recall enough women having disgusted faces when interacting with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:40 PM
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why os the idea of women needing time revolting? Because it's a lie. I don’t understand first you say you’ve never had a woman actually wait. Then you say women that wait treat their partners badly. I've never had one actually wait once I was assertively sexual. When men aren't assertively sexual, women do not just grow more sexual as time goes, they just grow more frustrated and treat their boyfriend wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:37 PM
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What you do is called rejection and it's perfectly mentally sane to leave people who reject you. I've been with my wife since 13 years and am very committed to her, we had sex the first time we met. (though we discussed for a week online prior to it).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:32 PM
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what do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:26 PM
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I am not angry. I am just mildly revolted at this whole idea that "I need time" is some bullshit women push around that has rarely ever shown to be true except for frigid women who don't like sex. Maybe I talk too much about me, I have collected so many anecdotes from others too. Everytime, women who "need to take their time" just ended up treating their male partner bad. It was never about taking their time it was just they didn't like their boyfriend at all but still milked him for some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:43 PM
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I did, and always had it on date 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:40 PM
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I wanted not to waste years of my life building friendships with women who treated me like dogshit, and following rules that were at my disadvantage because some women can't stop virtue signalling. I wasn't always like this, I learned to be like this by experimenting with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:28 PM
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I'm just puzzled so many women claim to be like you yet I've never seen it IRL. or they never wanted me. Yall must be very very very picky and neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:22 PM
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Sex is a very high risk activity. And the stigma with which men equate women and sex means I have to be very picky about who I allow into my body anyway. I KNOW. I've heard this line every single second of my life from older women. Literally every girl in my life stressed that same line of thought and it just was never really true or beneficial for me to play along that. Things worked immensely better for me when I was simply a very bad horny dog that found them so attractive that I couldn't hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:00 PM
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if men gave up having casual sex and collectively decided to only have sex monogamously. Doesn't work because structurally men have been made unattractive for monogamous relationships too. The problem isn't lack of casual sex, it's lack of attraction from women to men. They just wouldn't be able to have sex with the men who they are most attracted to because these men would already be in relationships with more attractive women and would therefore refuse to have sex with the less attractive wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:50 PM
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Why do you need to know someone in order to even enjoy sex? Sounds like you just don't enjoy sex and don't let things happen organically. We won't be compatible. If things are meant to work they work quick or they never work. Most girls who played long game with me just were treating me like dogshit and eventually friendzoned me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:41 PM
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I agree completely that the only solutions we have are to strip women of their rights. However that doesn't stem from misogyny. You see, most red pillers have been raised by blue pillers who told them that "men had to change", that "men have to drop gender roles and not be assholes, not to run after women". Then they grow up to be teenagers and they notice that nothing works because they're the only one to play by the new blue pilled rules that are fair to women. But women aren't playing by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:37 PM
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How long are you having sex for? For me sex = 2 hours if you count the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:31 PM
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I have never anecdotally heard about a separation where the issue of the separation wasn't expectable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:30 PM
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How do you have multiple sex per day, are you doing it for 5 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:24 PM
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You can tell assholes from their face alone. Literally nobody is ever surprised to hear when someone was abusive. Women just aren't exited by men who don't look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:22 PM
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Preferences are either biological or emerged due to neuroticism. And neuroticism is biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:21 PM
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My longest was date 2 and it always happened more or less organically. I'd think, if she wants to impose limits, that she's a stuck up person who don't like sex and therefore it's a red flag for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:15 PM
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Men put A LOT less work and attention into their own looks. Does the work women put actually make them more attractive or are these artifices to trick others to believe they are? Heck, I can't even tell you just how many men I've met that needed other people to remind them to shower and wash their clothes. Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:26 PM
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You look like the archetype, tell me if I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:25 PM
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Yeah they're mentally ill too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:24 PM
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It's going to be hard refusing damaged goods when you're one.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:36 AM
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It's hard for me to ever find a girl unattractive. I'll find 4/10 and higher women attractive, that's 80% of women. Women will find 6/10 and higher men attractive, that's 20% of men. And most are pickier than that. When you're a 4/10 man you have some range of motion, but that means you need to work hard to get a woman to settle for you and be dissatisfied of you. 4/10 women don't have that kind of work to do to get men at all. And the worst about this is that the uglier a woman is, the more pic…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:20 AM
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Well I did fuck a woman who wasn't attracted to me, and I had 3 lesbians be into me simply because I was a simpy horny dog that makes women feel wanted, almost got a threesome at the time but I was stupid enough to think it wasn't real. I know what you can do with a personality. But eventually you don't get it as easy as if you had the looks, and they throw a lot more shit at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:10 AM
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Well we live in a society that sells you ideals of normality and sells you on the nobility of exceeding that normality so I’m not sure if that’s true. You got internet full that pushes forward hot people, then you get real life full of normal looking people. People choose the former as conception of normality? Yeah no they don't, they're just greedy as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:08 AM
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Oh, I haven’t had that because I have been privileged in the physicality department, i suppose. I mean yes, if you look good, you'll think that looks don't matter because nobody you've been with has had issue with your looks. I'm not ugly but I'm short. I've been raised with "women don't care about looks" until I learned by myself the hard way that majority do care. That's why I came up with that principle, they don't care about looks when the looks are there, then they get picky on your persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:02 AM
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People keep saying this is because society pressures women, but these women do that by ambition not because they feel like they're deformed and need to be normal. They want to be above normal. The point is, being targeted more for it doesn't mean they're more victims of some unfair pressure, it's more that they're more likely to have these mental issues leading to it. It's like gambling addictions are targeted for men, not because men are expected to gamble in society, they're just more likely t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:00 AM
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Im not saying that physical attraction isn’t important, it’s just not nearly as important for women as it is for men. it's not important as in they don't talk much of it. It's like you see women complain all the time they're thirsty and content themselves with few water. You see women drink shitload of water, but since women never complain about being thirsty then you think it isn't important to them. What do you mean by they are not over you? That you're just the convenient option, they're frus…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:49 AM
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They're rare to see IRL because they won't yell to everyone they're like that. But it's not rare to get to hear from a girl IRL that most men are ugly to them and that they feel ugly too. They're not content with being average and getting someone average. Eventually they learn to be more reasonable, but some fall into the aesthetic surgery spiral.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:45 AM
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lol your conception of "being around women" is your older brother bringing girls over? I was raised by women almost exclusively dude, I know their bullshit by heart because they kept trying to make me a woman. Your understanding of things is superficial. Don’t take the lil shit they say on the internet Fr it’s just memes. Women are way more mental than visual. That idea that they're "way more mental" IS THE MEME. They're mental about the visual. They need to fuck a hot dude and they'll close the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:41 AM
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How have you gone through life and not realize people with high standards for others are also high standards for themselves? Have you ever interacted with one of those girls from vindicta or who are pink pill? Their whole personality is "I need to be a 10/10 because having less than a 10/10 man is intolerable"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:36 AM
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You do not make much sense. You look at women virtue signaling and forget to look at when they point finger at 99% of men being ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:31 AM
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Because they're the picky one, they're not just picky about men, they're picky about women and themselves too. A whole neurotic persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:24 AM
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It goes with my point. Women aren’t as physically focused as men are. They aren't physically focused when the physiqual prerequisites are met. They aren't detail oriented like men are for sure. But their standards cut off most men. If you want to make a woman cum you get in her head. And you get in her head by being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:14 AM
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It's true for couples in their early 20s, look at them 5 year later and things inverted. And even like this, it's likely that the bias is in your eyes. People literally think the average man is a 3/10 and the average woman is a 7/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:12 AM
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Literally the fact that there are multi billion dollar industries for women to alter their appearance means something. That they're mentally ill enough to pay for a lot of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:11 AM
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Lol at people who ever read or listened to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:10 AM
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You're mixing a lot of shit together I'm not really willing to address this stack of nonsense. Ironically you do sound very weird, the type you say is pushed aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:05 AM
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There is such an ingrained pattern among men on this sub Literally your words unless you're nitpicking for the "on".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:02 AM
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For all men, being rejected by men has no impact watsoever and even the biggest losers will have male friends. Only women's rejection has a meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:25 AM
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The guy failing to meet expectations. Usually caused by the girl failing to meet expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:23 AM
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Which is bringing in the groceries in one trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:22 AM
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You don't get it, Kissing your bros and groping their ass is to annoy them, it stems from homophobia. You're just a lot more crazy than them and assert your dominance.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:21 AM
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It's not optimal, but it's not child abuse, that opinion is hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:20 AM
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Bro every single of us is born in a world where women can't stop complaining that life is uniquely unfair to women and eventually shit have changed in their favor. Let the men complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:20 AM
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Most discussions about women's problem revolve around comparing poor women with rich men and the issue poor men face are similar to women's if not worse. i don’t think it’s a privilege to be treated well for being fuckable because when someone’s respect/admiration for you relies on attractiveness, they are seeing you as an object. Because you think people do not see men as objects? In the end it's better to be treated like a valuable object than a disposable object. they are seeing you as an obj…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:03 AM
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I'm like you, but I still think the joke works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:54 AM
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They’re virgins because they’re repulsive. Then explain to me why I did appear more attractive to women once I started acting like I wasn't a virgin? There's absolutely a social proof component to men's apparent attractiveness. but we’re talking the incel subset here You said "men of this sub", not incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:53 AM
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Alimony is such an aberration. But yeah, any subreddit where people give their moral opinion is extremely blue pilled. I started noticing it by going on /r/sex . Basically anytime a woman complain about her man "leave this asshole", anytime a man complain about her woman "she's having issues, discuss with her, therapy, ect..."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:58 PM
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That's just how you'll appear like to most people. By any means don't stop being yourself, but don't ask if you're a trashy slut or not and then seethe at the answers, you just appear like a trashy slut, if you like it then why do you care? You don't run after stable relationships and you're just telling others you're not good at it, seems coherent to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:51 PM
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That's foid brained.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:49 PM
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So now you get to be an incel volunteer? Incredible improvement. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:48 PM
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I told you why, you'll appear either brainless of extremely slutty, both being abnormal and going to be considered wrong/trashy/losery.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:47 PM
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What do you mean "why" you can't guess why? Everybody can name all the partners they've had but you can't, it says a lot about you being trashy. The problem isn't the N count, it's the persona that led to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:44 PM
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sigh... I was going to say the bible but maybe that's the millennial version of that joke, and I'm millennial.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:43 PM
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Why wouldn't you be selfish? It seems to me you did listen to some moron explaining to you that you are weak for being selfish, and that giving them free shit is you being strong. :') that's manipulation m8
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:41 PM
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I don't personally care but "I don't even know what mine is I didn't count" is quite worrying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:40 PM
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Bro, Sasha has pikachu, squirtle, bulbazore and charmander. But do they fight for other trainers? Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:39 PM
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I know exactly what you need to relieve the stress of having to deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:36 PM
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They're also not irrational, not hypergamous, and not extremely picky. It just HAPPENED RANDOMLY that their current partner is 6ft5, earns twice more than her, and is 4 year older. They weren't looking for it, they just had CHEMISTRY.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:35 PM
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You're never wrong for maintaining or cutting a relationship for whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:34 PM
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Me too. You let that stop you? That's weak energy :V
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:33 PM
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Flow chart of if you should care: Can you fix it now? yes -> then no worries, fix it no -> then no worries, just wait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:30 PM
1

Let's marry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:29 PM
1

You do know what the wall is?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:29 PM
2

Lack of sleep probably does harm your beauty and youth more than caring about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:27 PM
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I came here after experiencing life
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:26 PM
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No — women are NOT attracted to men because of their n counts or because they “sleep around when young and marry good girls” (LMBAO). Women are repulsed by virgin men. There's a tendency in which it's just better to have a high N count than having a low one. I'm only me, I didn't grow more attractive when I started lying about not being a virgin, but they started treating me like I was more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:23 PM
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Men are still net positive tax payers on average while women are money sinks. I think for you to get the logic you need to look at how it was before: Men wouldn't partake in building and maintain a city where they wouldn't have sexual and marital opportunities. So men seek places with women, they build homes and women build the community. When it becomes impossible for men to just nope out of a place where there aren't marital opportunities, then women can take advantage of the infrastructure me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:15 PM
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I think you should pay a salary of half your money (or the equivalent of her former salary) to your SAHW. And she deserves half your shit during divorce under the condition that she indeed took care of your kids, that you didn't have to do a lot of it, and that these shits were acquired within that time. I'm against alimony though. But it's a complicated topic. If she had a career it's clear that the babies are a lot of missed professional opportunities to women (but to men as well). But if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:06 PM
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It works tho
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:03 PM
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Based, she should raise her son to be successful, not to be a doormat to some women she doesn't know nor care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:02 PM
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Even those not in decent shape. But the ease doesn't mean they're not getting ugly fast at some point, it just means women are still on top of the sexual market.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:01 PM
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Baldness is hot when he is hot. But less hot than not being bald. Baldness is ugly when he's ugly. Conclusion: Baldness is deprecative and needs to be compensated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 05:00 PM
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Women should care about not being fat. There's nothing more to care about, caring about anything else is too much effort for little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 04:59 PM
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Yeah a lot of RP is to accept the differences and even embrace them. It makes relationships a lot more harmonious and your appreciation of the other more honest and reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 09:00 AM
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Dude this place is like the best place on reddit. Every year there's drama over abortion and I can't stop myself from debating MY OWN SIDE because their arguments are just horrible. And I get banned from everywhere because of this even tho I take extra care in being more civil. Same way how atlas got banned from every feminist subreddit for knowing better what feminism is. PPD is a gift for chaotic neutral thinkers. I think my mental health would have been way bellow if I had never found this pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 07:11 AM
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Big booties are an issue for sex often enough. 1) you don't see their asshole during doggy 2) the doggy angle that hits the right spots also creates a shallow penetration when they got a thick ass 3) some positions just can't happen without having to spread ass constantly and applying tons of lub, you basically can't have quickies and standing sex much. So while I agree you need more dick for big booty sex to not be too shallow, but it's doesn't feel that great for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:04 PM
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Joke on you I ate too much sugar to get that pristine military grade pee
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:01 PM
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What do you want men to learn from the blue pill? Most have bathed in it their whole life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:00 PM
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They still insist I'm one !!! D: They call me an incel, then they say they feel sorry for my wife and kids, you never win
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:59 PM
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Got banned, then unbanned \o/
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:18 PM
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What do you mean, I'm like a celebrity on here :(
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:08 PM
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I'm back !!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:06 PM
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You seem used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:59 PM
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Then why do you try your lame high school girl insults on me lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 10:39 PM
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Lol do you think I'm a highschool girl or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 06:48 AM
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You do that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:06 AM
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You quite literally didn't quote me just misrepresented me. That's literally a strawman, but logic is hard for you I get it. Good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:58 PM
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A brief glance at your post history saying two male models that aren't even close to peak natural male physique are on steroids makes that pretty obvious. They have BOOBS for fucking real open your eyes lmao. Even nattyorjuice that you'd expect knows better always goes on about "natty achievable" on men who grow fat boobs with nipples that try to fucking escape. The guy's veins are roadmap and they have chest acne. And then we can also talk of the muscles the secondary muscles that are unusually…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:55 PM
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Lmao that strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:54 PM
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My friend too, lifted for 5 years, had similar level of muscle and body fat. Except it was a dude. A 22 year old dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:42 PM
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Translation: We used to be able to force women to have sex with us, so we should still be able to force women to have sex with us by punishing them if they refuse. Bahahah "forced". As if women were "punished" because men refused to build houses and roads with them if they won't fuck them. How stupid does that sound. The translation is more like: "before there was a fair deal, now there isn't and men are enslaved" if you want to fall into the exaggeration pit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:39 PM
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Haha it's crushing ESPECIALLY outside of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:34 PM
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The girl isn't super lean, so you are conflating her size and perfectly normal body fat percentage with gear. That'd be an argument for a male. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 11:34 PM
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You sound like these dudes who look straight at muscle bro with LITERAL BOOBS and claim they don't juice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:31 PM
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you overloaded it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 02:30 PM
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When the crushing majority converges to the same subjective sets of values then it becomes objective. Maybe it's you who do not understand the concept of objectivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:51 PM
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I'm educating you, if you're stubborn in your refusal of reality it's indeed pointless. These aren't opinions to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 01:04 PM
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when it isn't really true. It is really true. with recent trends I'm not so sure about it. The recent trend is exactly what I said: other good traits shadowing the fatness. Carrying the fat well will make you look less fat, they're not into fatties regardless. Never were, never will. This idea that there was trends about it is absurd, because compagnies like playboy already studied it and knew what men were after, and it always was curves curves and curves, the recent trends didn't only change t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:56 PM
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All dudes are into skinny and then a minority has an obese kink. You can't use exceptions as norme. What you're likely seeing is just that women who have other good traits but are fat will often find their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:52 PM
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😂😂 my bullshit detector caught fire
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:45 PM
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as these things are subjective. Also no
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:45 PM
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I can say that you're juicing especially because I've seen women who lift weights
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:30 PM
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and 30-35% are decent. No
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:24 PM
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looks like juicing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:23 PM
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The reason why celibacy is on the rise is because society has successfully enslaved men. Before, if women were going celibacy, men could just leave and so women couldn't have food, houses, and other infrastructures, and would be vulnerable to raids and be enslaved. Now men cannot even leave society and women can just access the benefit of men building society without having to be a good deal to men or to society. Surely society needs shitload of babies to survive and be competitive against other…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:21 AM
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Well it's either female choice or it's choice of those who survived. In the end you can't escape men being how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 11:36 PM
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Lol yeah calling men gay is going to make them less competitive obviously. But men aren't consciously like this, they're like this because you selected them and reproduced with them. In short, that's your fault women. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 08:18 PM
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The ones that think the other is going to fuck them more if they have more power, because they're too picky and only pick men who have these leadership/conqueror traits. :V
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 06:40 AM
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It's disingenuous to make it personal. And this is just an example. Women are considered less responsible of their actions than men in society, you see it in the justice system when women are punished less than men for the same crimes, you see it socially where men are always considered at fault for everything, for a couple failure. He cheats, he's a monster. She cheats, he probably deserved it. Men have issues therefore men need to improve. Women have issues therefore society needs to improve f…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:52 AM
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Wow it's so much worse than being tortured & murdered as a man somehow /s But most women were allowed to leave, men were forced to stay, do you not see the point? Men in the USA can't vote without conscripting. Imagine if women were forced to give birth to 2 kids before getting their right to vote and citizenship, that's how fucked up it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 08:49 AM
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A lot of our social codes and morality is built around putting women first, lifting women of responsibilities, excusing women, and protecting them. It's not just male desperation, the whole social superiority women have shows in all dimensions in subtle ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:58 AM
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Women who complain about selfish men are more likely to be attracted and dependent on selfish men. Men who are confronted to women like this aren't likely to complain about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 11:18 AM
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You mean like in china where women search their future husband by asking them for their salary first? Or any conservative country with arranged marriage? or the western world with the dating apps where ppl absolutely do not become "friend" first at all? Or anglosaxon's "dating" place where people can date and fuck without being faithful to each others yet? Or all these women saying if you're friend with them they cannot see you as anything else? You are part of a minority within a minority, lite…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:34 AM
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I just told you I tried and it doesn't work. I was raised into believe making friend first was the ONLY RIGHT WAY and it led me to much issues until I learned better. You are very terrible at debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 06:21 AM
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I'm a guy and I've never had any trouble getting approached by women. Ok so your opinion on this is worthless due to being both inexperienced and unobservant on the matter. I study the people who I regularly interact with in my environment and pay special heed to things that make them unique. I then come up with thoughtful compliments and make sure to say at least one nice thing every couple of days. This strategy has never failed me. This got me friendzoned until I learned to banter and roast t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:44 PM
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Not how, by who.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 12:17 PM
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Aw you're clearly NLOG what's your paypal so I can send you money for existing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 11:27 AM
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This is a woman's life experience you're having. IDK who you are but you're nowhere having the life of an average man. They are supposed to seduce and flirt women. Men know a woman likes them back when they let them escalate the relationship, this isn't a question of forcing anything. If men do nothing, no woman will ever like them, or if they do, they'll do it in secret and never tell him. Men have to poke randomly at women they want until one want them back. And then, men will receive very lit…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:47 AM
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So instead you're picking your SOs by what exactly? Like everyone? approach someone I'm attracted to, try to fuck them, if they're good around I stay with them. Maybe that's why Red Pillers have trouble? Because they date people who don't genuinely like them back? Red pillers before they're red pilled have troubles because they expect women to be like them: to express a strong interest. But red pill teaches them that women just won't do that, and they have to grow more assertive. How do you expe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:35 AM
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Being perfect != being perfect for someone. You are never someone's perfect. You're just someone's best option right now. What does considering your SO to be a perfect 10 have to do with being an incel? Expecting to be someone's 10/10 is a fool expectation that's never going to be met. If I was picking people by how much they want me back I'd be an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:20 AM
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I'm not perfect, who is stupid enough to think I am? I'd be an incel if I had your ideals and standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:13 AM
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Moronic take. Don't push your dumb morals as an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:09 AM
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What a fucking ass post. there is convincing scientific evidence that various psychometric measures do NOT follow a normal distribution. What's the relation with attractiveness? Attractiveness is not "psychometric", if your perception of attractiveness is psychometric, then it is wrong, maybe it's a hint that you should work on your objective perception of things. A normal distribution is, in fact, not bound between two arbitrary values. This alone demonstrates that TrueRateMe don't actually kno…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:22 AM
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Stole it from you 👉😎👉
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:07 PM
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Pas rav on fera sans lumière fréro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:06 PM
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Yeah well go tell that at the shitload of women working as human resource to harass the techies that build the robots lol... Clearly society will make up shit jobs regardless of if we automatize our first needs. And then there's artistry... Humans are meant to stop working so they can focus on art, but capitalism saw an opportunity there as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:05 PM
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Doesn't matter what moral load you want to stick to it, things are pretty simple pragmatically, society needs kids more than it needs to have women work their asses off to pay taxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:33 PM
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J'espère que t'es une meuf avec des gros tétés mais j'ai pas trop espoir. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:32 PM
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I'm french , "red pilled" is nowhere to be heard even. But the ideologies exist, they're just not named. I still frequently hear old women spread blue pill like "my daughter is stupid she's dating jerks because she's young, when she's 30 she'll calm down and settle to a LUCKY MAN", literally the red pill comics. Incels exist but without calling themselves incels. It's all the same everywhere even if they don't name things the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:34 PM
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Something like 70% of OLD users are men. I wonder why that’s never brought up 🔝 Uh every place to flirt IRL are 70% men too, and just like OLD, the few women who are there aren't here for that anyway. Pretty basic stuff indeed. Reality has multiple different factors Yes, you gain some more option, not a lot more. OLD are an extreme version of reality, it's not different, it's just worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:32 PM
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I mean same for any guy who says "nah X celebrity isn't hot", you can bet your arse he'd immediately say yes if offered 😅 Well at least most of them say it "frankly she overrated for a hollywood star, I'd still simp hard" :'D Women are rarely self aware. just that how you feel attraction is completely different from seeing a few 2D images Vs meeting in real life. You'll get more opportunities IRL but you cannot turn any woman onto you is what I mean. I'm not black pilled I believe you have lots …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:26 PM
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but this is the same reason a lot of guys call women “bitches” or resort to insults if they get rejected too. And nobody listens to them. People listen to women complaining, take them seriously, even run punitive measures in their name.... it’s just that we classify things as “red pilled” or “blue pilled” depending on the application The blue pill I experienced IRL was a lot more extreme than that. But it seems rather specific to my generation, more common in europe than USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:19 PM
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Well, when you are short or have obvious defect, it'll just increase the amount of girls with rigid hard "no way". When a girl says she's not into jason momoa, you know that once he's on her face flirting her she'd fucking melt. But you know that the more you are distanced from the typical chad the more some women will be stone cold to your other charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 01:04 PM
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over just "must have a, b, c". Do you think women measure that consciously? it's just a feeling they got and they'll say some shit like "not my type" "no chemestry"....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:43 PM
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With just a few 2D pictures and a bio, you miss out on many of the nuances that can affect attraction. Yes I agree, but many of these nuances will never be tolerated if the basic prerequisites aren't met. Reality doesn't operate as a literal catalogue of names and faces. Yes it does to women, except their pool is vastly narrower IRL than on OLD. As I said, OLD is extreme version of IRL, not different version of IRL.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:29 PM
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My point is you can do all these things and not be a dick You aren't a dick by doing so but you'll be presented as one. It doesn't matter the form you give to your actions when it's the very action that's the problem, your boundaries will frustrate their socially unadjusted egocentric asses and they'll yell to everyone how a douchebag you are for not kneeling to her. I too was a passive inhibited guy and grew assertive and socially aggressive and it worked, but all of what I did wasn't being a d…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:19 PM
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I know you're likely to be in the US, yall salaries are way higher and taxes way lower so this should equivalent in the end.... Men should value themselves and stop worrying about what women think. I know Idgaf if a male values me or not. I don't talk of solutions for a single individual, I am capable to attract women and to make them feel like I am valuable, I've nothing to prove. I'm talking on a societal perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:58 AM
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You're being pedantic is what I mean. The problem is boundaries/assertiveness/banters/addressing shit test right is presented by blue pillers as being an asshole, when most adjusted purple piller understand this isn't being an asshole. Like I often heard stuff like "he wanted sex and she didn't, so he left her" presented as the utmost barbaric shit a man could do to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:50 AM
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when there isn’t even paid maternity leave In france it's 4 month paid maternity leave, 11 DAY paid paternity leaves. Seems to me women are the ones being devalued here but alas men make it all about themselves. I hope this trend continues! Yes men are devalued, women do not want to have men around anymore because they can take men's roles and men's spots, and they can reproduce without men. As a result, they do not want to have kids though, which is, as I said, symptomatic of devaluing men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:30 AM
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Not good, just symptomatic of a society that devalues men, devalues parenthood, and tries to make everyone a good little robotic tax payer despite kids are the most significant form of contribution to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:17 AM
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Yeah frankly they're pretty looksmatched, which is a rare thing for me to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:15 AM
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Yeah he forgot to mention the goldfish (0.4/F/therapist) is also a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:13 AM
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What makes you think reality is different? You have much more tools at your disposal, but still. OLD is an extreme version of reality, not the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:12 AM
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Yes and no. You are at an advantage on women who are 2 to 4 year younger than you over men their age. That rule is rather simple, but the difference in dating pool size of a 16 year old man and a 19 year old man is infinite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:58 AM
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Yeah you're pretty fatly guilty of that in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:55 AM
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What makes you think reality is different than OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:55 AM
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it turned out what they considered being a "dick" was actually playful banter. Which is exactly what women warned us wasn't nice and wasn't attracting them, and to be honest girls do dislike playful banter from a very early age until they hit puberty and only if they like you... So it effectively warps your experience to believe all women dislike that when you're young. It's hard to believe that if 99% of the time it isn't wanted it is mandatory for the remaining 1%. I swear the same dumb jokes …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:30 AM
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THis isn't the topic though. Nobody on TRP disagrees. What women tell you is vastly different than what you just wrote. We're talking of a generation of sexual revolution burnt women who raised their male kids in fear that they become their fathers. Who told men to be nice and wait for women to come to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 08:18 AM
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Or not. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:26 PM
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You need to quit with the work analogy. No I do not, it's the only way you women get it. And it's no surprise that human resource is full of women. Sex is always good for men. Bahahahaha. That's like saying marriage is always good for women. Before the sexual revolution, that's just how things were done. And then things weren't done like that anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:03 PM
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"N-Counts" and "LTR's" are "fuzzy" concepts. While "fulfilling your incentives" aren't. Women seek commitment, men seek sex. Can't have it, you suck. If you think only men suck, you're having a double standard. I personally don't care about both. But I care that people absolutely want to frame men as loser and women as fine while both are failing or being late at life. Marriages begun before age 25 have a 60% divorce rate, while those begun after age 25 have only a 25% divorce rate. Why do you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:52 PM
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This is true at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:45 PM
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Why is it as much dysfunctional? Would you elaborate? You're evaluating men and women from the same frame but you gotta do so according to their incentives. Women can get sex and short term relationships easily but their incentive is long term commitment and resources. Men's is sex. But if she had LTR it's a good sign: it shows she seeks to build stable relationships. If she can't keep someone long enough until marriage it doesn't matter. Many 1 or 2 year long relationships is actually short ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:45 PM
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are not supposed to get sex before marriage or serious dating. No sex before marriage is like an internship, working for free for some times and hope you get hired. A pretty poor deal as you don't know if the pay will be good afterward, just like you won't know if the sex will be good after you married. Also who fucking decided that they are "not supposed to" lmao. Many other people decided you should never marry someone you're not sexually compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:43 PM
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honestly the quality of the employee isn't the problem. The problem is they want a salary Yeah yeah who could have predicted that!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:29 PM
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It's just as much dysfunctional. You're having a morally loaded double standard that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:24 PM
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If she had no relationship or some LTR it's not a problem. It is as much as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:21 PM
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Do you have the same rhetoric about delayed sex and lesser sexual partner count or are you still thinking something is wrong with these men? No? Hypocrite take.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:19 PM
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It's like if you said men have sex later in life and have less sexual partners, if we look at statistics, and that doesn't make the loosers, it's the norm. But you keep insisting something is wrong with them. Something is wrong with you. Anything happening to men is men's fault, anything happening to women is just societal norms shifting, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:19 PM
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No it's not. If you look closely, they're in same proportions as incels and other form of male losers. And are similar in mentality. This idea you're having of women is conveniently making women be disproportionately more socially successful than men and it should be a huge hint to you that it's a bad way to perceive things. People build both their career and their family at the same time usually. Those who don't or can't are on the loser bottom half of the pop.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:53 PM
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Most women at 24 are at least in a relationship since several years. The ones who aren't are similar to incels other types of male social losers, both in proportion and in mentality. But since their female equivalent can have anybody they want for a few month, they tend to think they're not having issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:50 PM
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What does that change?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:43 PM
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So what? Chads fuck several women per parties, stacy locks down a high beta at highschool and marries early, she never had issues with P&D or breakups or anything just like chad never had issue with women not wanting him. You should stop evaluating women by men's standards it just doesn't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:34 PM
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You're like all the human resource people complaining about the mediocrity of the hundreds of people filling for the job position.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:21 PM
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Also can we stop pretending that there’s nothing wrong with men who struggle with women? We will when we stop pretending that women who collected short terms relationship up to 25 are fine and aren't the female equivalent of incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:20 PM
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Similarly, past a certain age without being married, it's a red flag for women. Regardless of her N count, if at 24 you're not married as a woman, or if you're not in a several year long very committed LTR, you are equivalent to an incel in social status. Many women around that age think they're fine despite all they did was collecting short term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:19 PM
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Personal freedom isn't emasculating, emasculation starts when she tries to make him do things for her aggressively
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 02:17 PM
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Well yeah, I never work out because when I think I got energy to do anything, chores are just going to be higher priority than working out. And you never run out of chores past a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:36 PM
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The rarity of women without one. Mental illnesses are just women over glorifying their defects so they have excuses or because that makes them sound special. It isn't very relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:00 PM
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What's the context for this post? Is anybody denying there are reasons for people to do anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:59 AM
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The only things that change is how the culture puts pressure on women or men to date same age. With sexual revolution and feminism it did lift the pressure off women therefore you can predict easily they'll go for older men. Men and women's incentives however do not change, always the same, always will be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:24 PM
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Doesn't seem like related to narcissism directly But usually you don't expect them to say or to feel sorry, you expect actions, and they might be more likely to act and improve rather than say they're sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:31 PM
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Haven't you been to highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:27 PM
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Even with the will to get with girls, in highschool most men are going to fail and most girls are going to date college men. The age gap is what he's seeing. Women go up and men can't really go down as the girls are too young. In highschool your dating pool as a man is ridiculously small. Feminism discouraged men from training and trying, but it didn't change that highschool is shit. By not trying they risk getting issues later when they'll try.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:15 PM
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I'm a 5'5 dude and at 130lbs I was chubby and I had a bit of muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:13 PM
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I did a google search and found out exactly the same graphics I saw here before. I'm not even english first language and I could find the right words for it. You're just a moron. Burden of proof is a pathetic excuse for maintaining your ignorance or denying facts that go against your wrong opinion.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 09:39 AM
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Show me these facts please. Google is your friend. You're just making stuff up. This is common knowledge on this sub. Not reading any further until you educate yourself. You sweat bad faith.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 12:51 AM
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I don't think this is true at all. You can think anything you want those are documented facts not opinions. Women generally choose lower paying careers like nursing, teaching, child care but they're still a massive benefit to society. Nobody said they weren't essential, and men are essential too. So what? The facts are here: they suck more taxes than they pay taxes, despite the poorest people in society are men. Discussing that women should receive even more is kind of odd. But again, the proble…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 12:53 PM
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Who do you think is the majority who pays taxes? Generally speaking, in most countries with some socialist measures, men are net benefit for society while women are money sinks. Now, there's more to society than your contribution in taxes, kids are a gigantic unquantifiable contribution to society. That whole matter is complex. However, why should the tax payer pay for women's tampons is odd when hygiene products aren't typically paid for for both men and women. Poor people should have access to…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 11:14 AM
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Men also die on avg 6 years earlier yet aren't expected to work 6 year lesss. Men need more tissue to dress and male clothes are typically more expensive even when tissue is taken into consideration. And I'm not listing all the shit men need in bigger quantity simply because they're bigger, have more skin surface, and have an higher metabolism. Nobody is fighting for male poor students to receive help for food or clothes, it's all about women and their tampon.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 11:13 AM
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They look at where the money goes when people work and take risks, not where the money goes at people who just exist.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 11:10 AM
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How is it biased when it is pretty factual, just described what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:37 PM
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Yeah well I'm explaining you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 11:52 AM
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how the plot works or something More like because this is just trying to push some political agendas.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:39 AM
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Well it's not the nerds who bully so...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:23 PM
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Oh I got one fun example in fiction. If you've seen "sex education", which is a cringy teen serie. At one point a girl gets ejaculated on in public transports and they make 3 episodes about it, about how damaging it is, about how all women suffer from men's dicks, about how to heal. Then the gay man gets beaten up for being gay, then he goes home and gets yelled at by his dad, he's expected to suck it up alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:43 PM
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(I don't know what's greedy about being mentally ill but okay) You don't know what's greedy about a perfectly healthy and loved girl from middle class family who develops an obsession for her image because she's not getting likes and follows on instagram like the super stacy? You are the one who never left you bubble, I've listened and observed both men and women, one gets bullied and shuts up because it's normal, the other gets mildly bullied and acts like they're having it rough. Everytime a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:40 PM
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Is it? The education system forced me around foreign boys and the bullying was intense and it made me become thick skinned early enough so that I was ready at 16 to approach girls and learn. Had there no bullying I'd have reached 16 year old a lot more blue pilled and less able to learn from girl's rejections, if I would have even approached them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:23 PM
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Nah you're the one extremely ignorant. Girls feel bullied by the slightest issue, men experience a lot more violence and bullying, and have similar or worse family issues. Remember they get kicked out of their home way more easily. Again, it's all a problem of girls being either a lot more neurotic or a lot more greedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:20 PM
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Kids who have no access to sweets but have access to it once will have a major hypoglycemia. Kids who eat sweets on the regular are more resilient to that and are more likely to regulate. Men are formidable and very little neurotic, throwing them in the pit will end up in massive improvements quickly. Sheltering them is a disaster. Shielding them won't allow them to figure it out in one try without any mistake, it'll delay the mistakes to an age where they won't be tolerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:03 PM
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Maybe in their 30s. But girls in their teens usually have easy and good lives and will fuck themselves over extreme greediness, and it'll be presented as victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:59 PM
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You're saying that avoiding TRP would help their emotional intelligence? I think the main problem with men is that they're often tricked into believing they shouldn't lie. They absolutely are expected to lie and to be good at it, so breaking that moral barrier is important, and TRP does that in a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:50 PM
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It is exhausting to maintain a facade and not let these ideas leak in irl conversation. What do you think men are learning first around 14/15 year old when they first start approaching women? To not do poop fart jokes, no sexual jokes, no saying crude things, no saying things disregarding her feelings, no saying X Y Z. There are just so many things men are expected to hide from women and most eventually learn to do that just fine. And then there is a level above that where with sufficient social…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:32 PM
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Why are you acting like men talking of it to each others anonymously over the internet is making it open?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:25 PM
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"it's hilarious when you think about it that TRP men advocate for what's the best for themselves instead of being doormats" YEAH THAT IS SO HILARIOUS MAN I AM DYING OF LAUGHER. I mean I can see how you feel that way, but then once women realise that it just makes them less likely to want to have kids. Because you think men aren't repelled by women's incentives?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:22 PM
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There are shitload of documentaries about how social media makes women anorexic. When they show you an example of it, it's a young girl that has a boyfriend, that is loved by her middle class parents, spoiled, and genuinely has every option open to her. But she's a victim of the evil social medias pushing evil standards on women, and somehow it's also men's fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 01:10 PM
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You're mostly on earth to feel pleasure. Some people extract pleasure from working, some others don't. And the former will irremediably lecture the later because they think their way of enjoying themselves is the only right way and that it is more meaningful. But nothing has meaning and they're just pretentious apes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:28 PM
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If men didn't put me down with bullying but women did with rejection. Then men can't lift me up either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:15 AM
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Reread my comment to find out.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 04:17 PM
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I prove you wrong. Prove me wrong and maybe i'll consider. In the mean time, you're wrong and salty. Thought you'd be used to it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:47 PM
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Seems like I won this argument and you're agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 03:23 PM
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Aw I'll have to explain this fallacy again. =_= What has been found out is that the brain reach its peak cognitive power for problem solving at 22-27 and then it's downhill. Scientific fact. THAT IS ALL. People who argue the brain isn't fully developed up until 25 and therefore humans are kids in the meantime, should also say that after 25 you re become a kid, that's their stupid logic. Besides "fully developed" doesn't mean anything at all. Men's height isn't "fully developed" up until 25, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:13 PM
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My argument was more if they think <25 should work or not :P If they think a relationship between a 21 year old and a 31 year old is nasty and predatory. Why would a contract between a 61 year old and a 21 year old be healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 01:30 PM
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Yeah I already heard that opinion from christians that everyone gets paired up and incels don't exist in such community. But men are not interested in asexual relationships, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 12:40 PM
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What does this have to do with height? You're conflating two completely different things. It's an example to show you how "fully developed" means nothing and everything at the same time. Why do I have to explain you this when I made it clear 2 comments ago? But again, there's a difference between ideal development and less ideal. By your logic, after 25 you become an under developed "less than ideal" kid again. Since this story of "fully developed brain at 25" only means "you are at your best co…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:57 AM
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How typical. But the problem is you're just 5 month in... Time to say bye bye or to look elsewhere until she wakes up and realize relationships have conditions. Sex is your priority for everything else to matter (at least this early in a relationship it should), so, no sex = no attention, no time, no text.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:29 AM
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This isn't an advice sub. Did you guys switch to BC pill in order to go in raw? Sometime that pill can stop a woman's libido hard. In any case this is kind of bamboozling. If I was you I'd just not spend time with her nor give her attention, until she breaks up or until she spices up the sex herself. As someone else suggested, she might be having a FWB, might be good to check if there are shady holes in her agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:20 AM
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Fully developed is defined in the dictionary. 🤨 Yes so men's height isn't "fully developed" until 25, and for the last 5 year of that period the growth is 0.2% which is ridicule. It's just the second time I explain you this and you're not addressing it. our decision making capabilities, life experience, impulsiveness etc are all still in development. it's ALWAYS in development. You're conflating biology with experience and ability to learn from experience. After a quick google search, turns out …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:39 AM
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No. It is proven that the brain is not fully developed. 🤨 Did you even read me? What does "fully developed" even mean in real life tangible metrics? I'll tell you: absolutely nothing. Just because scientifics noticed something doesn't mean anything. You know men keep growing up until 25 year old? But it's like, half a centimeter, meaningless. And when scientist say the brain isn't "fully" developed by 25 nothing indicates that it "develops" for the better. It could very well be that between 20 a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 09:11 AM
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And they conveniently decide what dependency on porn means.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:19 AM
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As long as it's with a person whose brain is fully developed. And conveniently people like you decided that was 25 year old even tho it corresponds to nothing at all but some weird scientific metric that has shown no consequence in reality. Yall are very silent when it comes to say that you shouldn't work, make decisions, or anything bellow 25. Despite all these are a lot more dangerous. This is just hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:18 AM
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People's perceptions of the world are more likely to be viewed through emotion than facts. Yes MeToo was always about "I felt raped" rather than "I was raped"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:15 AM
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Lol the equivalent of men watching porn is women posting on social medias.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:02 AM
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That's because commitment benefits the woman buddy. Ofc she'll be happy to organise it. Organise what btw? The moving together, the home, the marriage, ect... I didn't have to work to make it happen. Most women make their men work for what benefits women. I think that I made a great deal. He's still with me 20 years later. That adds up to 5k per year (10k adjusted for inflation). A husband for $1k per month, are you kidding me? Again, pay for my comments. :P
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 06:05 PM
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There's no shortage of men offering commitment. yes. There were lots of dudes who wanted to be my wife's boyfriend. She did pick me even tho I wasn't the most attractive. She did work to get me to commit. Why did she pick the 5'5 chubby loser who wouldn't commit over the attractive dudes who wanted to commit according to you? Did she pay you money? Most women expect men to bring up commitment, organize it, pay for it, make it happen. She did organize it and make it happen. My man asked me for $1…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:05 PM
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Why would you settle for women who aren't attractive to you Have you read my comment? this isn't about their attractiveness. But about men and women's behavior. If anything I tried to go for uglier women thinking it'd be easier. They were more difficult to seduce than normal and attractive women. So the thing is, why would you be doomed for having fantasies that would actually make you happy but for being "realistic", you may get things don't fit your ideals ? I can't relate to not being satisfi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:02 PM
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Because it costs the woman 0 dollars or effort to have sex. Yes but sex isn't what they want, what they want is commitment. And believe me I made my wife work to get it. In reality they laugh at the guy for jumping through hoops just to get sex. Doesn't matter if you have sex. Part of being a man is not caring what women think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:52 PM
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I know, I have kids. But he describes not only just toys but food, things being dirty, ect... This sounds like the kids have been eating 3 or 4 times in a row without anything being cleaned. Toys can be quickly put away, and people will excuse the presence of toys. They'll hardly excuse a sink full of dirty dishes and tables full of dirty dishes and bread crumbs. I know 4 year old kids who start cleaning after themselves, not perfectly, but if you got a 8 year old he should know how to not leave…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:40 PM
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So you are taking advantage of her by giving her free sex? I don't think you’ve thought this through. Well I'm not jason momoa so yes, I'm looking for women who give me free sex. Women think I should commit a lot to them before they give me sex, seducing them into giving it for free is a win for 90% of men. Also the average young woman is super fat. Look it up. Again, never fucked a fat woman. So, that makes me an ultra chad or something? I don't think you've thought this through.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:08 PM
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In my case, I was told the green ones are girls who approach me, who aren't emotional and over feminine, who aren't expecting me to be masculine or to respect masculine gender roles. And the red ones would be the normal women, feminine, with a reactive sexuality, who expect men to be men and to act like men. So I was told most women are green and I should not be approaching women, bothering them, or be machismo. And that was pretty common at the time, most men were raised this way and most would…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 03:05 PM
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Never had sex with a fat woman, or a woman with saggy sad tits. Nice try. Texting for few hours (not 40) to get pussy seems like very low investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:57 PM
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Well this is the first time I see you making a team woman post. I had my tongue in a lesbian's mouth and my hands between her ass cheeks. A LESBIAN. Most women don't throw themselves at most men. But you can create your unique opportunities often enough where no other men are ever competing, not at your level at least. Right here you're having a blue pill female perspective where you tell men to not bother women if they're not what women want. If you really want to say something in men's interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:39 PM
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Reread my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:33 PM
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Men are told to adapt, adjust, change. To give more to women. Women are not, or at told to give less to men, to be as much picky as possible. It's what fuels this idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:29 PM
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I read the post and it's meh. If you have kids above 5 year old they should be trained to clean after themselves. But 3 kids is rough and you can sometimes not feel well. He noticed her and he hadn't an acknowledgement so it's partly his fault indeed. She could have notified him she wasn't feeling well and to not bring anyone either. It's just miscommunication and maybe lack of parental skill from both sides. But thinking that this guy is 100% at fault and an asshole is just wrong. This guy is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:19 PM
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how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman? Because you tend to see men as ugly and women as attractive, reality is they're both average. Most people are biased that way. Women on dating apps rate 80% of men as bellow 4/10 in term of looks. That means women think average men are ugly as fuck. If women tend to go for very attractive men how come every where i go I always see a couple of a unattractive man and beautiful woman? Women go for attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:15 PM
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Men are raised to believe there are 10 marbles in the bag, 9 green and 1 red. Men are told not to go after the red but to go after the green. Because Red is deemed wrong. Reality is there are 9 red and 1 green, men need to realize that, and men should adjust to want red instead of green. This is what we're telling men to do to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:09 PM
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Reading through these posts is tiring Then stop reading, stop coming here. Projecting these beliefs onto everyone because they may or may not make up a statistic is like killing a relationship before it starts. When we discuss population then we view dating place as a market, because that's hot it works. We're not here to find partners. But otherwise, it's useful to project the most likely encompassing archetype and adapting to it rather than adapting to the most unlikely idealistic archetype, w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 01:06 PM
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are you gigababejfl or something? you sound like her
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 02:01 AM
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Ain't that a full confession of your autism, how cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 12:57 AM
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Source: I made it up from observation and experimentation, just like most men who learned to seduce women. If you didn't know that and are above 16 year old, you are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 11:26 PM
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Well don't believe me I don't care, you're just a troll. The rules are simple. Men want pretty things to look at, touch ,and fuck. Women want to be wanted. Even if you consider most men to be uglier than women, which is wrong and you're a team woman troll, they love masculine attention so much more that lesbians can be turned straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 02:55 PM
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Women's attention is garbage. That's why I could straighten lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:07 PM
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They're also more dependent on you, they're ugly and you can't fuck them. Dogs are just yourself inflicting with a peepeepoopoo chore 3 times a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:57 AM
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Men are ugly, I want companionship that is pleasing to the eye, and who likes my attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:55 AM
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Almost forgot your annual reminder: you're still not entitled to society. No, existing does not mean you deserve society. No, paying taxes isn't enough to be a contributor to society. You walk on the street built by men, you have a house built by men, you eat food grown by men, you use electricity made by men, an infrastructure made and run by men, a society that's safe from rogue people and natural disasters or natural predators thanks to the sacrifice of men or from the sacrifice of male ances…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 11:11 AM
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If all you had was nothing, friendzone is a good sign of improvement indeed. It means your attention is noticeable and appreciated, but it's an asexual and aromantic attention and you need to work on making it more sparkly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:57 AM
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Maybe because north americans were selected to be like this. Seems less of a problem in europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 09:58 AM
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Well that's just like me saying P&D doesn't exist because I never did it myself. You act like this is common because it happened to you once. Most men aren't on the receiving end of anything from women at all ever. Your input is vastly irrelevant. You're also only going to know how attractive someone is in terms of looks from the get go, which is only one aspect of attraction and a small one for some. And the other aspects are masculinity, which is transparent only if you're a leader and she can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:49 PM
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Women can develop attraction from being pursued for a long time, or have them from the get go because he's attractive. Nothing develops through time by just existing as a friend. The friendzone wouldn't be seen as such a bad thing if it was a decent strategy. Yet many many women educate men into believing it is the best strategy for men and women. It's the best just for women, that gives them all the choices without any burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:41 PM
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What I'm saying is you cannot prevent yourself from having a female perspective and it's not relevant here. If the girl finally approached him that means he's attractive and that's not relevant to here. If the guy finally approached that means he changed his attitude and that's what I'm talking about. There's literally no other case possible, so please, stop with your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 07:02 AM
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Dude I'm not here to discuss fluidity of sexuality. It's just another instance of "do not listen to women". These weren't women who pursued men or who dated or fucked men at all. They were just thinking they were lesbians until they realized they're just attention sexual like all women. Every friendship that I've known that turned into a relationship involved one partner asking the other out who was clueless before that and there wasn't flirting or pursuing involved. Friendship that turn out int…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:59 PM
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They're never at a disadvantage, life isn't fair, just take as much from them as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:52 PM
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See it this way. Companies aren't coming to you to offer you jobs, you have to simp for them in the CV and interview. Then you get the job and you slack off like crazy but not enough for them to fire you, they're the one who were bamboozled. You get them through the sunken cost fallacy. Same happens with women, you have to make a big impression and provide lots of efforts early on, but you do not need such good values 24/7. it's either that either you get nothing for ever. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 04:36 PM
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I had a shot with 3 lesbians in my life. One that I didn't pursue. One that I did pursue, did make out with and had some foreplays with. One I had to reject because I was in couple. Arguably you can claim I only had 2 actual shots, or that they weren't "real lesbians". But believing that lesbians are going to be lesbians to death is very wrong. And not everyone makes friends with the intent of being sexual. Yeah but not everyone makes friends with the intent of never making it sexual. What's you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 11:27 AM
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If the girl becomes your friend it means you weren't sexual enough from the get go. If you're sexual enough from the beginning, she doesn't become your friend. This situation where your female friend becomes a relationship or an ONS is rare because that happens when you figured how to be flirty and sexual midway in. That doesn't mean it's impossible, it's just a rare setup that is only 6 month to a year in a man's lifespan. It happened to me. I was close friend with a lesbian girl who rejected m…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:34 AM
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Well women didn't approach me at all but things went a lot better when I started doing it. If you don't do it in fear of being considered a creep, you're a loser, not the opposite. You'll always be a creep to someone anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 10:03 AM
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one person on there thought sleeping with a small penis man is "Rape" I saw that post. That wasn't what was implied lol even tho the person who wrote that is mentally ill and hypoagentic as fuck. but the topic is about the subreddit FDS. The topic is about men's rights. FDS being a set of extremely picky and misandrist women isn't an issue to men's rights by itself. It's how reddit treats it that is the issue. It's how society allows these women to think their garbage tier ass is worth gold, it'…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 11:31 AM
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Have you taken the time to look at real life? People are blatantly discriminatory against everyone for minor things. People are not forced to be your friend, your partner, or whatever, you know. How is this a men's right issue, explain it to me. The men's right issue is reddit's sexist censor.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 10:14 AM
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Are you really blaming a dating subreddit to be discriminatory? Like out of all the shit you can reproach them, you chose that? Dude I'll shit you not but partner selection is discriminatory by design, people have the right to choose whoever they want. The "problem" with FDS is that it's equivalent in content and form to the former mgtow subreddit, except one is banned and not the other.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 02:39 AM
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No, but just like I did lick her clitoris wrong so many times she did stimulate my penis wrong so many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:38 PM
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I had to teach my wife how to do a BJ and a HJ. So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/21 03:16 PM
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I'll tip for exceptionally good service, and that won't be a big tip. So far I tipped 3 times in my life I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:04 PM
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Imagine tipping ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:03 PM
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I don't feel like it makes any difference at all, the few she gained in curviness she lost it in youthfullness and femininity loss.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 10:01 PM
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There's always the possibility that they do, that's what stimulates people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 09:58 PM
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Yeah the only thing you proved is you had an agenda and found a way to prove your opinion in the stupidest way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 12:45 AM
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So just be virtue of being around more women, a chad friend will benefit you. I somewhat lived that by having lesbian friends, just by virtue of meeting a lot of women eventually you get more shots. Even when they're literal lesbians. :') But at least you have more opportunities to masculinely mog your lesbian friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:21 AM
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Red pill has a conservative reading but will behave lib. AKA will read gender roles and gender dynamics like conservatives, but will take advantage of it and won't conform. Blue pill has a lib reading but will behave conservative. AKA will read that men and women are the same like the libs, then will still apply conservative idea that men are responsible and women victim, like the conservatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:14 AM
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"natural make up" is what she'd look like if she did have clear skin. It's normal nobody notice when you just use make-up to correct flaws.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:11 AM
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Men tend to say "facts over feelings" because women tend to say "I feel xyz therefore xyz is a fact". Dumb example: woman dreams boyfriend cheated, she feels cheated on when she wakes up, therefor she'll act this day like he cheated and he needs to repent himself with gift and special care. But yeah if you meant "I feel like this about gender dynamics" it is a shortcut to saying "in my experience" or "per my deductions from observations", and people who don't recognize this are autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:10 AM
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My love language is touch and I hug/caress/ect a lot more. I also am like that more with my kids than my wife. Wife doesn't have touch as love language, she doesn't touch me, the kids, or the pets much. Despite she loves having pets, and the main point of pets is petting them, she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 10:04 AM
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No, I support people's right to remove themselves from any human competition. But I'm going to call out hypocrisy and lies when I see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:19 AM
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They're looks match, wake the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:16 AM
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Like, she did have crazy sex with Chad, but you're gifted with having to spend money on her when she demanded nothing to chad? :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:10 AM
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so I guess it’s other factors as well. Them being cunts and inventing reasons to justify their laziness. One girl has a problem with her long-distance boyfriend She doesn't have a boyfriend. Wtf. she could do better Dude is having a PHD and yall are acting like he's unreasonable. Lol. He deserves better than talking to a cunt that don't fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 09:07 AM
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Bro you're probably some comm/marketing/whatever worker. Politics is part of your job, yall are in competition and you're here trying to convince us the men competing against you and playing the game are some cunts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:52 AM
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So, both alpha widowed, social media sickness and pornsick are about increased expectations and standards. Same shit if you ask me. There are two components to this though: The increased conscious expectations and standards, and the biological desensitization to normal pleasure levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:45 AM
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I genuinely believe some men appear more attractive to women just because money. However that still doesn't make it favorable for a man to be wanted for his money. She's going to give you sex less and ask for money more. If women can friendzone you because you present as a friend, they can money zone you because you present as rich. If women did fuck their orbiters that'd be different, but they clearly categorize a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 04:45 PM
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I procrastinate too much and have no deadlines biting my ass. Just a boss that's randomly happy or not with my work based on absolutely nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 03:29 PM
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No I wouldn't, because I don't have some idealistic opinion of women and I understand plenty are autistic, spergy, or just socially inept, just like men. I'm still curious what sort of thing they taught you, not willing to share? Is it more FDS or RPW?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:09 PM
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I'm curious what these coaches taught you. But likely they scammed the money out of you because you're autistic. Normal valuable women do not need to be taught how to woman. All the things you boast about is how much unavailable you are to men just so you can maintain an "attractive" appearance, which could very well be barely hitting the 5/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 02:00 PM
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You seem self centered and overconfident too. You do not seem to have much to offer in term of femininity as you keep pushing yourself with male values and not female values. And groom doesn't make attractiveness, groom just reveals your potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:31 PM
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How do you make sure the girl you marry isn't having issues getting kids, isn't going to be a bad mother, isn't going to instantly get fat and never fuck you again? You can't really, you need to take some risks. This might be news to you but msot women never get P&D or played or ghosted. Most find their HS sweetheart early, and some others get men obsessed with them and have issues getting rid of them lol. You gotta screen for a mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:28 PM
1

right so the problem is just using the word, should I repost without the word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:46 PM
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it wasn't an incel or femcel post, but a topic on how biased we view female mediocrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:28 PM
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Pff really? So I should replace all incel/femcel words by "loser" and it should be fine? :')
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:06 PM
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Yeah the thought you're having is what happens when you're actually not autistic and understand people get frustrated out of antagonistic dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:47 AM
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Assuming I feel anyone is smarter than me? It's not that nobody is, it's that even if they are, I'm not going to feel it that way, or they're going to be smart in a way that doesn't seem useful to me. So none of this is relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 11:45 AM
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Never. Ugly people with dating success have an immediate observable energy. You can also spot the people who are textbook good boyfriends/husbands but have no luck, same thing, it's an energy in them. . She said it shocked the hell out of her because she thought he was so hot, dude had to be swimming in pussy but apparently it wasn’t the case. I am not hot but I made a similar impression on my first girlfriend. Because she was just the first person I met when I finally was socially adjusted. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 02:39 PM
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My engineer school accepted people on written contest or on file. They accepted all girls even those with zero qualifications. They all did poorly and went into management. Some women were known to have threatened to suicide if they weren't getting their diploma, and they got their diploma. The stats still showed they all found internships and jobs way faster than the men. And the conclusion from the school was that women were just better at it """obviously""" My wife failed the technical test a…
/r/MensRights22/11/21 10:06 AM
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Because you think men who fuck post wall post pregnancy wives since decades have high standards? If you expect worldview, lifestyle, educational and financial match as a man, you're just going to be a delusional incel. Her not being obese and her being feminine is really just what it takes to be attracted for a long time. Worldviews and lifestyles do not have to match, in fact they shouldn't match, it's better she compensates you in a feminine way and you compensate her in a masculine way.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 08:10 AM
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Well here is the insight: ALL MEANS ALL. Even the alt girls. Even the spergy nerdy girls. All.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 07:56 AM
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What do you not understand in ALL?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 09:54 AM
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Are women reasonable in their expectations of the amount of work there's to do at home? What's happening is women care more, will set higher standards, won't be satisfied men won't meet these standards. Both grow frustrated, men eventually drop the little efforts they were making, and men are the bad guys in the story as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 08:02 AM
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Restaurants and concerts aren't where you expect to meet people of the other gender, you come for a product/service in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 07:38 AM
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gets intoxicated to be taken advantage on is afraid he'll get charged for rape instead of asking himself if he should press charges. We live in an utopia
/r/MensRights16/11/21 11:14 AM
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Happy, they are happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:53 AM
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Foundation the books: barely any woman Foundation the tv serie: women everywhere They realize women aren't watching this?
/r/MensRights16/11/21 09:27 AM
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You weren't pregnant I tell you. He doesn't have time for women who didn't prove they could create life. Pathetic :V
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:10 PM
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Eww He was probably thinking the same about your non pregnant ass. :o
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:57 AM
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The difference is one country forces women to do X and Y to be good deals. In the other, women do X and Y to be good deals if they want to keep men around and make money off their body. otherwise they can be alone all they want. The difference is subtle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:55 AM
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Her body as it is isn't attractive but her face can compensate for a lot. Some people are into pregnant women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:16 AM
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My comment is going to be off topic, but it's funny because I had a different experience. I'm a big shut in, but when I go to the club, I expect we dance our asses off or IDK I'm not a clubber. But instead, the extroverts do nothing and go out (in the cold) to smoke every 10 minutes. That could have been a chilly evening at home with pizza that'd have been a lot better if the goal is to chill, chat and get drunk, but they push for the club instead for no reason at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:14 AM
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Seems like an attractive asian woman. Still, why does he want us to rate such pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:07 AM
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If your only reason for going out clubbing is to pull, then don't go. Don't tell me what to do or not do. There's plenty of fun to be had clubbing without going out on the pull, that's all I was getting at. There's plenty of fun to be had clubbing if you're on the pull, otherwise it gets a lot less stimulating for some people. How to make you get it.... Here's an analogy: The sun will enlighten everything so you can appreciate everything's beauty. If the sun is gone everything gets boringly dark…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:06 AM
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"of course" of course not you do not seem to be fucking aware lol seeing your former comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:54 AM
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You're just now realizing introverts exist and they don't have fun outside, and many introverted men force themselves to do extrovert activities just for the prospect of finding a sexual partner. Also some men just don't like hanging out with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:39 AM
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Why link a progress pic of her pregnancy where her face isn't visible?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 10:36 AM
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The conservative woman believes in her own duties and her participation/cooperation to the household. Unlike non conservative people she believes in gender roles which includes men providing, but also includes her making the home. The gold diggers wants everything while doing nothing. How did you miss this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:44 AM
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It won't collapse but will fall behind in term of competitivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 09:16 AM
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second
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 04:17 PM
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It's legitimate to tell femcels to lower or change their standards if their standards do not work. And to call them hypocrite for complaining about the pink pill when they're high standards themselves. It's legitimate to show how women are shallow when the narrative has always been that they weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:37 PM
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FDS seems vastly useless for a man to read unless you want an objective proof to why you "don't listen to women".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:27 PM
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It's social work, so, no I don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:24 PM
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Someone doesn't like being told they're hypocrites it seems. Don't tell us what to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:21 PM
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You don't talk to a FDS woman, just plan the date, pay for everything, and don't show up. After paying fancy meals at restaurants where she eats alone for 6 months she might meet you, that doesn't mean you're allowed to talk to her. Come with a 10k engagement ring or you're just wasting her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:18 PM
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It's true, but the requirements for taking care of one kid increased. What do you think people did when they had 7 kids? Most of them weren't being monitored. Nowadays not looking after your kid every second is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:12 PM
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That's always going to happen regardless of the approach or method. The most significant effort you can do to get women and sex is to approach them and develop that assertiveness and sadism that'll help you get past these social barriers. Not to lift your ass off for 8 years straight hoping women will fall on your lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:59 PM
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Go outside and talk to women verdjinn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:58 PM
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the need for kids and mothering has also declined dramatically. Absolutely fucking not. D: Like, women do not need men for anything anymore, even for sperm. But ultimately, you'll always need a womb, you'll always need someone to take care of your kid and that's gonna be a woman, either's it's your wife, women of your family, women who do that job that you still need to interact to directly and pay. And it's never enough, it's hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:57 PM
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that he's a major simp
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 12:06 PM
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It's unhealthy to you. Everyone is generally doing fine. Don't read this subreddit if you can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:57 AM
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it's unfounded unless you work at an old people's home as the only young male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:41 AM
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boulder shoulders Did those "women" with boulder shoulders also have dicks? You know that's gay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:39 AM
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Look, go talk to someone who has the opinion you think you're answering to. Either you reread my comment or you go annoy someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:23 AM
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You act like you disagree with me but vaguely repeat what I said. I think you don't know which context I am answering to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:09 AM
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The UN is rotten. They endorse systematic male infantile genital mutilation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:07 AM
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Flirting with her would be as equally inappropriate It is inappropriate when you did inappropriately. Everyone flirt. Sounds like a little social retardation on your end. At best you should be capable to set the boundaries, why can't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:02 AM
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Yeah I think it was pretty clear in my original comment that there aren't that many innovator in any competitive field. Why do you act like I said the opposite? you too benefit from the “provisioning” of the men who are taking action. Less than women. And women are taking benefit from make-up and shaving being the norm even tho they pretend the opposite. Think about that before you try to take credit for better men’s genius simply because you have a dick too. Yeah you have reading disability....…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 11:00 AM
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Yes that's what happens when you present yourself to women as a woman, they treat you like a woman. Present yourself to women as a man, a sexual man, and at worst they reject you, at best they flirt and more with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 10:39 AM
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If we separate by successful and unsuccessful, I think it's pretty balanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:05 AM
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Not a lot of people understand the dynamics of competition. Competitions have something called a "meta", which usually is "what works best and what works best against it". Meta evolve, improve, change... Someone irremediably finds a new innovative way to have more value than others, and is then copied by everyone until that new "way" becomes part of the meta and becomes then expected and mandatory. This happened for make-up and shaving. Some women found a way to have an edge above other women, g…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 09:03 AM
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What difference does that make when women are "mean" the same way even when you take all their advice and take the slow low aggression paths? When you are desinhibited, women at least treat you like you're a man, and not like a subhuman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:35 AM
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Why not , i'm not banned from there yet :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:06 AM
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Daily reminder that to approach women and seek out sex you: Don't need to be well groomed and well dressed Don't need to be bodybuilt Don't need to be fit Don't need to have taken therapy or "fixed" whatever internet people think is wrong with you Don't need to have a large social circle Don't need to know this woman, or know her from the social circle, or be in a place specifically designed for approaches Don't need to have a conversation topic or be good at conversation Don't need to have inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 08:00 AM
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bahaha. You know it's funny I've known a very hot and attractive femcel who had this habit of instantly blocking any man making any sexual joke or suggestion. She was clueless as to why nobody was interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 07:53 AM
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doesn't she says she has a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:42 AM
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I've known a 8/10 girl who couldn't get a dude for the life of her because she employed these no sex talk no sex joke no touching tactics. If you remove men who want sex with you, no men left. men who "respect your boundaries" are not talking to you, not escalating, not planning dates, not doing anything. Also "asian bimbo" she's not a bimbo and she's more ugly and unremarkable than anything. lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:40 AM
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Wtf are you talking about, china? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:35 AM
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These chads end up having more kids and have to work less for them. You have to simp your ass off to get one or two. You're not at the bottom but very close still. And that only if it's your kids, and maybe you'll have to deal with raising chad's kids too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:13 AM
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You were one accidental pregnancy and some feelings away from letting them. Women chickening out of abortions happen all the time. Not even counting the pregnancy denials.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:12 AM
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How anything exists when everyone is selfish and antagonistic? Balanced force rapports are the foundation of virtuous cooperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/21 01:09 AM
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Maybe I should make a post so my knowledge gets spread like jizz on women's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:54 PM
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Thanks bro I'm 5'5 I know. All of this still holds true for manlets like me despite I was told approaching women was only for assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:23 AM
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Your value will be greatly increased if you're capable to seduce women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 11:22 AM
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Ho hey, you're wrong dude. You got plenty of empathy. You just don't have sympathy. Understanding people is what pulls my sympathy down.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:04 AM
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What about below average guys? Well, it's even worse. :p
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:04 PM
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Average men aren't allowed near women all that much. Getting a mixed circled of friend in highschool is rather difficult as men will guard you away from them if you're not of any value, and if they let you in, the women might leave. This is true for all social dynamics beyond just highschool. This is why night clubs are free for women and they regulate which man comes in, this is the same phenomena. So, this idea that you can get to meet shitload of women by getting a wider social circle is surr…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:00 PM
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most guys aren't into getting a big social circle. And even then the likeliness of having many free girls in those circles... And the type of relation you can get with them...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:47 PM
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Who told you they can't? the madonna whore complex is about not perceiving a woman as a sexual entity anymore. The women are the one complaining from it, they want sex... I don't hunk that the idea that it's tied to maternity is that common. How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:39 PM
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What I'm talking about is about men losing sexual interest in a woman not with cheating. Just because the definition isn't strict doesn't mean anything. Most people know it happens most commonly after having a kid. You're the only one imagining this is all about cheating, nobody talked of cheating. You are just obsessed with men cheating, who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:33 PM
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What you're saying is bollocks. Your incel brainfolds just wanted to use that occasion to place a shitty point. That wasn't the topic. Madonna whore complex happens most frequently after birth, it is well known, has nothing to do with some scheme to cheat on wife while she's stuck with a baby. Men too are stuck with the baby you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:28 PM
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Hahaha. No. You're an open book.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:26 PM
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Cut the bullshit with the unnecessary steps. Want sex? TALK TO WOMEN. You don't have to lift for 5 years first. You don't have to socialize with shitload of people. You don't have to know her. You don't have to be well groomed or on top of yourself. You don't have to go to therapy first. you don't have to lose these extra pounds. You don't have to have money or interesting hobbies. You don't have to be at proper social gatherings. Improving is nice. But improving isn't the first step. The first …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:22 PM
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Yes it makes it easier. That's why average men are kicked out of these circles, to ensure the circle still gets access to women. Otherwise women would get out. But even then, it is never going to be as easy as just going to talk to women. especially if you're like me and not interested in approaching complete strangers. Well why do you want people not interested in having big social circles try to get big social circles? They're lot of work. Approaching strangers is lot of work, but at least it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:17 PM
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that's not what the madona whore complex is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:12 PM
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Something underestimated is how average looking men are pushed away from social circles. Know plenty of men who do the social game and still can't meet nearly enough celibate women to get one interested in them. And if you're not that social, it's all going to be wasted time AND awful time. When are we going to stop telling men that to get sex they need to do X or Y? Men, if you want sex, talk to women, end of story. Nothing besides approaching random women will provide you with more women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:46 PM
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My bad then. But typically it happens to men after their wife deliver.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:42 PM
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Because their vagina is dry but they need connection and purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:10 PM
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Pretty sure it involves that the long term partner has to be a mother who delivered. Being disinterested sexually of the woman who nurtures your kids has some evolutionary interest, just like how women do not treat their hookups and long term partners the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 03:09 PM
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Neurotypical women do think attractive men are just average. That girl on discord the other day had a fling with an ultra chad and said he was average.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:41 PM
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aw :( what dichotomy women usually have . Face vs Height?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:38 PM
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What about you? Balls or ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:33 PM
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Legit how I was raised.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:29 PM
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Neve hav
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:22 PM
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An emperor. King is overrated.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 01:18 PM
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You don't. You approach the girls you're into.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 11:04 AM
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Have I ever been wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:51 AM
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You're going to make an irrelevant point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 10:22 AM
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The sex ratio is actually not 50 50 especially considering men tend to date older men. But also it seems you do not envision enough parameters to understand my "logic". Reducing sexual and relational market dynamics and repartitions of attention and resources to sex ratio is extremely shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:25 AM
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I'm not answering, you're supposed to know that. I'm insulted you do not. :( What's your point tho
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:21 AM
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You live in a mostly christian cultured country, which will agree sex is a marital duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 02:19 AM
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"the dating market is equal if you are looking to give everything women want" Are you fucking sure you get what equal means? Women get more LTR opportunities than men regardless so even your original statement is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:46 PM
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Generally, everyone has a preoccupation with how much value they're given by their partner. And how much other individuals devalue their gender. It is like, fucking normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:45 PM
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Oh okay, I’m an American and here in America we don’t refer to sex as a duty and refer to those that do believe we have an obligation to have sex as a FUCKING CREEP. Yeah however america is very christian and sex is a marital duty to christians. I’d hope my husband is good to me which would result in me desiring him physically. If he’s an asshole to me, I’m not giving him shit. Fuck off Then you will deserve the shorter end of the divorce he divorces you for this. Why do you think it's creepy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:43 PM
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Seems fair. It's just very atypical from women to provide as much help as they require, and even sometimes when you look at reality, they think they help but they're just cunting around to make him react. The "he needs to be smarter to help me" is really awalt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:30 PM
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You sound like you think sexually pleasing your husband isn't something you think you should do. How low value of you. And you say I'm creepy while you talk to me about how you feel entitled to your husband's money like he's your fucking slave. Fucking hypocrite creep. Sex is a marital duty in my country's law at least (france), it is in many religions as well. So are providing for your spouse and ensuring their security, so is being faithful. Marriage is a legal contract not just a written note…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:26 PM
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Hope nobody marries you then if you take marital duties so lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:08 PM
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Majority of men aren’t intelligent enough to actually help me with my issues What about being intelligent enough to solve your own issues? as a partner I’d always seek to help them. Doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 04:07 PM
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No, the logical thing is then to not be such a greedy bitch over faithfulness when you're not an example of virtue on marital sex. People aren't robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 02:40 PM
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How is that relevant to the topic I brought up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:20 PM
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Ok? How is that relevant to the topic I brought up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 01:02 PM
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"at first I liked men who did emotional support, now I prefer men who do emotional support + solve my life for me" Yeah who would have thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:30 PM
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Sex isn’t a duty of any form. Sex is a marital duty. By your logic if she’s not into it she’s entitled to suck someone else’s instead. Yes. As long as she doesn't paternity fraud him. You sound like the type of person to get fat and horrible at first pregnancy and have 0 libido afterward, and then get surprised he "upgrades" you for a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:25 PM
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“that’s not true! It took me 8 months to feel safe enough around my boyfriend to want to sleep with! There are guys I found plain looking who ever I got to know them after a few weeks I fell in love! I knew a guy for nine years and just started to develop feelings with him!” Again, I’ll link the original post in the comments. "that's not true!" proceeds to explain how true that is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:20 PM
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Yes I mentioned flaws. You acted like I said women go for their opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:16 PM
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Maybe you missed the part where this was about marriage. If your wife doesn't want sex with you for whatever reason, she shouldn't be surprised you go get sex elsewhere. Sex is a marital duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:03 PM
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I think there's a problem with your reading ability. tall, slim, beautiful. What flaw is she trying to compensate for? When there's no flaw to compensate then hypergamy takes over. She'll want equal or better than her. That's why average girls are easier to please.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 07:01 PM
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It’s like the former group auto-rejects and the latter doesn’t notice me. Maybe we are subconsciously on top of our game with people we perceive to be a realistic match? Yeah I agree with all of that to the exception that I don't think ugly girls self reject. Many people disagree with me on this, but I really observed that women tend to try and compensate their own flaws with their partner. I observed that short girls were obsessed with tall men, ugly girls with handsome men, fat girls with slim…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 03:22 PM
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99%, I'd go along with 80% 20% is the amount of women who you can seduce. 1% is the amount that wants you to approach from the get go. Yes you can tell usually, eye contact, she fidgets after she looks at you (hair, adjusts clothes). Yeah I never got those, like most men I know. Telling men to focus on these detail is just another way to have them wait for eternity and do nothing. And don't approach girls above your SMV, they have to be lower than you if you are not in the top 20% I'd advise gen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 02:12 PM
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Women don't want to be approached by guys they aren't interested in. Which is 99% of men and you can't tell beforehand if she is interested, unless you're part of the elite that receives IOIs. So you're saying the same thing I do, it's weird you think I was saying something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:52 PM
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Isn't it obvious by now that women find it is an offense that men approach them, but women won't approach men either? You have to approach women to get a woman. But doing so is going to be seen as stepping on boundaries. You'll have to get closer and closer to her without knowing if she's really ok with it. You'll only know if she rejects you afterwards. While 99% of people doing this get rejected. The 1% remaining that didn't get rejected still had to do boundaries crossing one way or another. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:03 PM
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not confidence, assertiveness. I'm not confident, other people don't need to know it, they just know I eat the pizza like it was got sent for me instead of wondering if I deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:31 PM
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How do you counter argue a black pill post? We all have seen plenty of ugly men rewamping their nice behavior into a fun assertive and assholy behavior and get a lot more success. Getting to seduce women imply you step on their boundaries, you can't do that without a lil bit of sadism. "well I know a short fat ugly man who gets 9's and 10's all the time" Well I'm the short fat ugly man who got 5's and 6's consistently when I adjusted my behavior to what people like you deem as "asshole" while my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:28 PM
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IDK just heard about it some years ago, makes sens, guys are also on cocktails of stimulants, need to get hard for hours without cumming or going soft... Need to stretch that pussy or ass for hours too.. Makes sens. Most people get sore after just 20 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:21 PM
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that's a false equivalency but ultimately if you only stay for the kids why care your partner finds love and sex elsewhere. So, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 12:20 PM
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That's faulty logic but I admit I haven't formulated my point correctly. I have lived an experience. He hasn't. He can't claim my experience doesn't exist because he hasn't lived it. That's solipsism. Besides, in a true "something exist" vs "something doesn't", no side has the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:30 AM
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No shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 01:28 AM
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IDC
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:49 PM
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You're saying "something doesn't exist" I say it exists, you're losing that argument by design.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:49 PM
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Absolutely not. You just haven't been out there enough, or have been highly unobservant, or have been in a socioeconomic bubble. I've never said "lots" either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:17 PM
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Good on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:54 PM
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Same about you, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:53 PM
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Yeah some women like their cervix hit. But not all day of the month. Women's length and lubrication level also varies a lot within the month. I doubt these girls take 7 inch poundings everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:41 PM
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Yeah well can't do that when it's midnight. But I get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:40 PM
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They use anesthetic lubricant in porn to not feel such pains. But IDK maybe I never aroused my partners :'D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:33 PM
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Welp the problem is the bad mood started appearing once kids were there :P So I'm kind of stuck in the same house with her lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:29 PM
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Ok but did they jackhammer them balls deep? Did they deepthroat balls deep? I DOUBT IT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:02 PM
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hm... Not sure that will work, but will give it a try. Problem being bad mood => doesn't make me want to kiss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:25 PM
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Nothing you will say will change other's perspective. Everyone has seen enough couples of highschool sweethearts who have no issue with chore repartitions and with the dad being involved in parenting. And regardless of the stats you've seen, stats do support men have been more involved than ever. You're just finding excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 11:33 AM
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Wait, what's that thing about ten second kiss
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:29 AM
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Meaning that for women older than the zoomer gen, we've spent most of our lives being told by men what we want and being forced to settle for their control over our purchasing decisions. So I'm gonna bite this shitty perspective and reply that for men of all generations, they've mostly been raised by women, been educated by women, been taken care of by women. The thing is, there were already enough things for women. Romance, commitment, marriage, divorce... All these things designed primarily fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:25 AM
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Women's realities are their feelings, not a reality that exists anywhere else then in their head.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:20 AM
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Yeah, I really wonder why men complain their wives do not enthusiastically have sex with them. I'm sure that is an unreasonable expectation. /s Men should divorce for lack of sex. And women should get the short end of the stick in these conditions. But men do not because of how fucked up divorce is for men, and then when they find a way to compromise they're punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:16 AM
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Plenty of marriages start with healthy sex lives then sex stops. But women still care about cheating while not fulfilling their marital duty.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:10 AM
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These men had options.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:09 AM
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Sounds like a you problem not a men problem. Stats suggest men are more involved than ever in parenting while women refuse to take care of the home. Plenty of men can support a household and search for a woman to take care of it, but can hardly find any woman who want to stop working. You must be equally as valuable as medciore balding erectile dysfunction men who can't support a household.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:08 AM
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I still have no clue why women care about cheating when they do not want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:04 AM
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You're supposed to be too horny to care, and too independent for it to affect anything. What you just said here I expect to hear it from a woman, you're neurotic and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 08:01 AM
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I'm 6, and while my N count isn't high, all the girls seemed to think it was too big or that I shouldn't go too deep. I doubt the women who want 7+ even put half of it inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:57 AM
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People want a wife to have sex, children and someone to look after the house. They don't want a woman who just wants to get money for doing nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:49 AM
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Then men I've seen slut shaming in my life were the ones with options who could afford finding many of them despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:38 AM
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Men do shame sluts but not to the sluts, they do that in locker room talks. They actually talk a lot of shit of women in general. "She's a whore, she sit on my laps just like that, and I could see her string" "I don't like her, she's just a temporary gf, after college I dump her" Among other stuff. 10 years after, still with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 07:37 AM
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Male ones? Enough do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 01:10 PM
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That wasn't love, that was just hormonal butterflies, that go away when you leave puberty. Nothing abnormal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:34 AM
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No, some women just do not function right and are broken in their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:33 AM
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the only chance he has at fatherhood "If she aborts the pregnancy from her rapist and doesn't marry him, she's torching what is likely her only chance at motherhood and marriage" That's how your opinion sounds like to me. Why are women treating men like men treat women under sharia law?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:24 AM
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abandon their families He isn't abandoning his family. He has no family. You're just advocating for male slavery at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:22 AM
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Why is it assumed it's the "adoptive" father's fault the kid receives such treatment and not the mother's? Why are we blaming the dad for feeling a certain way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:21 AM
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That's cool as long as you don't think other people have to feel and work like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:20 AM
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He's basically told he has money but isn't attractive. That is no compliment. I know usually women mean "husband material" for a man who is both attractive and is a provider. But here "husband material but not bf material" means the attractive component isn't there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:18 AM
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Nobody has accidental sex, that's what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:12 AM
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Can't you imagine what ill intentioned powerful people could do with so much information about everyone? Are you the type of people who think having cameras everywhere in the street is an unilateral good thing for the population?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:10 AM
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Who told you you had to be compatible for other things than sex, for a sexual relationship....?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 10:01 AM
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Plenty of other shits you don't want will also become easier though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:59 AM
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I'm trying to find how that is relevant to what I just said. But that's probably just your usual troll shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:32 PM
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There's indeed nothing very rational about attraction, we know that. However, proof of previous pregnancies is a sign of demonstrated former fertility, but also a sign of lowered fertility and availability. Age is a sign of lowered fertility as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:43 AM
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In my country, landlords do not have to know or ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:29 AM
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Living things are chore 99% of the time. Don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:20 AM
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And what if it's a woman with tiny saggy boobs? Yes, all of these exist. But more often than not, small or avg look better than big.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:17 AM
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I know, why do you tell me that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:00 AM
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Why do you need any?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 10:00 AM
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Can't you define it for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 09:36 AM
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Sigh.... see my edit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:24 AM
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The issue is feminism thinks toxic masculinity is something men impose themselves with while toxic femininity doesn't exist and what women are suffering from is misogyny imposed by others onto them. AKA men bad, women victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:05 AM
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Riko tachibana, maria ozawa There are probably better ones but I just don't remember their names. Many are very good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 08:01 AM
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CMV: Big shapeless boobs are a post-wall/low fertility trait and preferring them over small/avg good looking boobs is abnormal. You got mommy issues. Edit: Since yall have roasted brains, I call shapeless the boobs that are saggy, flat (as opposed to perky), with big aerola or nipple pointing downward. Which are alteration of boob shape that usually occur due to pregnancy and breastfeeding, but can also be just the natural girl's boob shape especially if they're big.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:56 AM
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I too wish you were asexual. This isn't a therapy , vent or relationship sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 07:54 AM
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Everywhere, just stop being anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:02 PM
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Yes it's exactly my opinion. At that time is our balance with the environment. Shit hit the fan when we started manipulating it, and agriculture isn't even renewable on the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 11:01 PM
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Nothing is effective at all. People are going to try and convince you your chances are none in the street, but in bars/clubs/dating apps they're also close to 0. The thing is, when you approach random women in various contexts, you have more chances to fall on someone who isn't very extro or approached. If you only approach people at bars/clubs/dating apps you're not only competing with all the men who already approached her, but also you're only going to approach extrovert women, which isn't a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:14 PM
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Do you mean it's a bad move that women drop the pill and force condom on their LTRs while fucking without condom for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 12:59 PM
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Yeah what's the point being on this sub when you cannot line up 2 coherent brain farts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:40 AM
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Are yall unable to synthesis and structure a fucking post? I don't need to read 10 000 lines that could be summed up in one sentence. Same for long ass youtube videos.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:38 AM
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Nice to see you come on a debate sub to debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:22 AM
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Confidence that is derived from within is also fake. It's almost as if confidence as a concept didn't make sens the way you think it did. In the end, it doesn't matter if you're confident or not. Confident people will think "I deserve good people" and the non confident people are going to think "I deserve people above the minimum". The first group is going to have increased idea of what they deserve and the second group is going to increase what they think is the minimum. That's how you end up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:17 AM
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The only thing I have to say is if anybody here hasn't observed this phenomenon IRL they're brain dead and should leave PPD. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 09:16 AM
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That's such an under statement. The planet can only sustain few million humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:56 AM
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I think it's due to many reason. Many people get baby fever out of the blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 08:53 AM
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then stay in your lane! or do whatever the fuck you want, what you gonna lose by trying?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:51 PM
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That's the long term attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:20 PM
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People are underestimating how much people used to be childfree and how much people will change their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:07 PM
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It's hard to get a man to have a complete love at first sight for you, but "love" isn't that. Love is long term attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 10:00 PM
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As long as it sounds valid or as soon as it discredits the people they dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 09:59 PM
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Only men can be simps. Then you're a simple minded misandrist. IDC, just mirror your shitty personal attacks to what fits you best. I won't address personal attacks anymore. Not once in my life have I ever thought about myself as a product in the SMP That's a simple minded thing to say. If you are an actor of a market you can't be an object. Markets are only existing because of the living. And analyzing these markets is something you should allow yourself to do, your feelings and shallow morals …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:20 AM
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Women without society wouldn't be getting homes, food, water, and security without pairing with a man and trying their best to be kept around him. Women with society get homes, food, water and security without having to be a good deal to a man. Women opting out of the sexual and relationship market are therefore getting all the benefits of society without really contributing to their role. Similarly, without society, men had to be good providers and protector to women in order to get sex and chi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 12:06 AM
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a lack of resources Like reproducing women? ;) Like people gathering wealth only for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 10:19 AM
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Men often go against their incentive to adapt. Women reinforce their incentive, they don't adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:43 AM
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I don't believe that no one should be killed, there are people who would be better off dead. Like serial killers, rapists etc. Don't you think then there are women who would be better off unprotected by society (and by extension dead)? Do you think the people who get killed are only those who deserved it? Do you think jeff bezoz and bill gates should be killed to ensure that the job market is really free and that balance between poors and rich is preserved? Women are getting raped weather they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:26 AM
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No I acknowledge it was NOT built for males.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:23 AM
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Even men don't seem to think it is important here. I don't think women would change if they got it, because women have proved they can't adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:23 AM
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You are an exception. Once women stopped needing providers, they started needing men even richer than them. Nobody said 20 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:22 AM
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You're an exception not a majority. I don't care. Good for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:17 PM
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Society was built for high class males who want to protect their wealth and women from lower class males.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:15 PM
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We’re Gods and you’re not. K bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:14 PM
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I find it sad that you drone on about the importance of family but that you’re okay with men undermining their families in almost every way possible. Women are the bottleneck of reproduction. Why do you think society just send men to die at war and society is able to rebuild? You’re just a simple-minded misogynist. Women are not privileged in our society, men are. Men aren’t oppressed because women won’t have sex with you. Sex is NOT a human right. You're a simple-minded simp. Nobody talked of o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:13 PM
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And without a person to debate with you're just having a brain fart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:10 PM
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Men who watch porn, follow IG models, use cam girls, go to strip clubs, have casual sex, are undermining the family. Women are the bottleneck of reproduction and the selectors, as well as the dominant in the SMP. Not men. Male rogues are those who go illegal. Who are you to dictate how anyone else *should be contributing? Who are you to dictate I can't analyze how society affects sexual dynamics? Men who won’t give their women partners orgasms are rogues too because female orgasm increases chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:08 PM
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What do women provide that men need? Sex, pregnancy, motherhood, social tasks of all kind. You need to directly interact with a woman for these. Have you ever had to seduce a man into building the roads you use everyday? Do you have to even say hello to them for them to do their job? Do you interact with the dude who makes the food or the (likely) female cashier? or protection from predators That used to be a male task eh. Not sure what you think you're doing with your comment, likely you don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:03 PM
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So it does not exist. Well I'm not reading your comment then.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:52 PM
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If you live in a society without police force, you'll probably have to prostitute yourself for a gun.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:52 PM
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You didn't say "I think no one should be killed" when I said I'm surprised jeff besos hasn't been killed. You are a hypocrite. Don't want rape to happen? Then surely you agree with me that women should work to be a good deal to society and to men, so that there is an incentive to work hard to protect women and to make a safer society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 05:25 PM
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You don't even read me you're just here having moral concerns, IDC, troll. You're one of those who consider rape to be worse than death, you glance over history full of death and people counter balancing established power with violence. But you think you are owed protection from any of it because you're born a woman. Society isn't a constant, if you want it to stay here and protect you, be a good deal, it's that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:24 PM
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No that's not. as usual you're just a troll like narniafox.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:12 PM
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I'm saying we created a society where rogue individuals are a lot less free to do what they want. And women turn around and grow disinterested of men because the incentive to have one is gone. Something is wrong don't you think? Maybe women do not deserve the impersonal protection society provides. And should work their ass off to get a man to personally protect them. Same for rich people, they maybe to not deserve society's impersonal protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:08 PM
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Troll. GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:07 PM
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Men who do not produce kids and provide for a home are also kind of leeches compared to those who do. But the bottleneck of reproduction, the "top" of the SMP, and the selectors, are women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:06 PM
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Men who invade other countries did kill foreign men and raped foreign women. Or when they rebel against the current power they do kill the men in power and rape their women. Have you not read a bit of history?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:04 PM
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Yes they're all male. Straight probably not. But why should I care about minority of gay men...? Gay men are generally good deals to everyone though. They're men who work and won't bother women, they're men who work and won't take women from men's dating pool. Lesbians however are bad deal for men. They take women from men's dating pool. They are taking out of men's dating pool while benefiting from men's existence. That's also true that gay men have this effect on women's dating pool but women …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 03:03 PM
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and I am going to need sources that women cleaning standards become very unrealistic after birth Nobody said unrealistic, just higher. You can google, I'm not saving and cataloguing every piece of thing I read. the other just luck. Me studying for 3 additional years is no luck. Her choosing a dude with genetic predisposition is no luck. I explained many times now how that is not how things work. I explained many times now how that is not how things work too. And I am taking about what you will d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:56 PM
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Totally bro, we call it male social support and it's beautiful bro, totally not gay n shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:33 PM
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You're a leech :( We should pillage your village.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:31 PM
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Bro if you don't give him head while holding the smartphone with some porn on it for him you are not a real nibba.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:27 PM
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Seems like so. I made my wife wait 12 years tho lol. But she was my first and we were in a civil union rather quickly anyway. I think if I divorce, the next one I'll marry quickly or never at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:24 PM
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I wonder why people on this sub do not seem to realize that the only reason men are good obedient civilians, working to build road, houses, grow food, run electric and water grids, ect... is because of sexual, romantic and familial opportunities and security society offers. And that if women do "go their own way", they're basically leeches to that society, even if they work and pay taxes. Because they benefit from men's existence without being good deals to men. While men do need to be good deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:22 PM
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Yep, yall should kiss your bros good night. On the dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:11 PM
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But does he treat you worse than he treated the other girls he has had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 02:10 PM
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MGTOW is how women do it. Men who are unlucky should just fly to some shit hole and fuck prostitute or find a wife. Before, men would pillage other countries to find themselves slaves or wives. But that's not really possible anymore. Or men can work to reshape society. Some stupid simple measures could drastically help. Like refusing male immigration only. But I don't see our societies evolve in men's direction ever since most people have a bias in favor of women's well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:43 PM
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What privileges do you think men have that women do not? Women are the great winner of the SMP, and are also being offered elevators in the job market place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:39 PM
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It's not that men want women to be in a subjugated position. But rather that men want to have sexual and marital opportunities in society. But that society evolved to offer less and less while allowing women to get more and more without contributing. Regardless of what anybody is thinking, this is just a bad design that's going to fail one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:37 PM
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Women become germophpbics after having baby? Not necessarily such extreme as germophobics, but they're supposed to become more germophobics after having a baby than before. Second, Irrelevant to the point that you are both still putting the same affort. What about both putting the same results so that we're sure same effort has been provided? If I earn more money, more effort was provided within the same time. but you mentality is toxic and no wonder why your wive does not want to be depdemt on …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:34 PM
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Yes men are doing it for the perspective of family not just sex. What does that change? Women who get all the benefit without pairing with men are leeches just the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:13 PM
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Women are neurotic and it is regarded as a bad thing, but it is essential for their survival in a world without society. In the scope of the argument "what works works, we cannot say it's bad before we see it working or failing" we cannot say all these are "bad" if they work. I understand your point, I'm just talking within former commenter's scope, because he's using an argument then not using it for himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 01:10 PM
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We're on a debate sub, I'm a man, I feel concerned about society privileging women and I debate it on a debate sub. IDK what you want from me. Seems pretty dramatic to reproach debaters to debate on a debating sub at this point :')
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:54 PM
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?? I really don't get what you're asking me man, be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:49 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:48 PM
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Who are men building all that stuff for? The roads, houses etc. Everyone. But if men had no perspective of building a family in society they'd not be there to build the roads and houses.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:47 PM
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It's not the only way, but each woman not doing it is a net loss. I'm in favor of personal freedom. However I'm not in favor of society designing things so men are loosing from the get go. We were tasked, for the sake of personal freedom, to change our views on women. Yet women didn't change their own views on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:42 PM
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What standards. That they should be able to be more than house keepers? Women have way higher standards for security, cleanliness and orderliness, and that's even worse when they have a newborn. it has been studied that women's brains adapt for child care this way, it wears off in 2 years. it is a false equivalence because both are spending the same time working. That logic is generally favorable to women but not to men. If you don't earn the same, the time spent working isn't of the same value.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:39 PM
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But similarly I am saying if men chasing women who are younger find it's not working for them (due to reasons mentioned in this video), they should be open to trying something else. Men are generally open to anything, it's women who aren't. On internet you might end up thinking that men are generally against dating single women while women are open. In reality single dad are having a harder time than single mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 12:00 PM
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Really grosses me out for some reason Because it's masculinizing their faces when it's not just making it look clownlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:44 AM
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I don't pay attention to these details. I just know women my age or older aren't attracted to me, and that it's far easier to seduce the ones sightly younger. Around 15 year old I had to redo a class. So I was 1 year older than anyone, and the difference in overall respect and attention seeking was just insane. My wife is 4 year younger than me. Men are told to date women their age but sometimes it's a lot of efforts for very little rewards, I generally advocate for men to struggle to go for sig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:38 AM
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Cool, that's still small.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:35 AM
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Was wikipedia too if I recall.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:34 AM
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That's the spirit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:29 AM
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Do you think men would collectively make a society if there weren't any women? No they wouldn't. Society exists for families. Women who go their own ways are rogue individuals, getting the benefit of society without contributing to it like they should. Wihout society they would have been dead or enslaved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:28 AM
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Something I absolutely can't relate to as literally no one I know has had a successful relationship with age gap reversed. And statistics tend to confirm that only 10% of the pop is in couple with reverse age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:26 AM
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In fact there was a study to that effect which concluded that working wives are still primary expected to be responsible for the kids and the home. Maybe because they're the primary ones who impose standards for these. Most men who try give up. I am sure most women aren't going around saying they want their husbands to pay for everything while they get to keep thier own income They go around saying that men who earn more than their partner should pay bills proportionally. Then when you tell them…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 11:13 AM
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Oh so you think men should adapt to be fine with staying alone? I got a better idea. We forbid women from being part of society (aka no money, no house, no road, no heat, no electricity, no water, no food, that are all things provided by men). Let's see how they adapt with STAYING ALONE for real. Men can't stay alone because they need the things provided by women. Women can't stay alone because they need the things provided by men. But society has made it so women can get benefit from the existe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:37 AM
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is because it fucks with your mind like this. The same way you shouldn't be pretending to know what nature wants, you shouldn't be pretending to know what's a sane mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:29 AM
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That's why I rape women's ears with my opinions. You're more likely to impregnate them with truth and reason. I'm a philanthropist in my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:26 AM
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You mean you think women should adapt and date younger men? Yes you can say that, but women simply do not adapt, they prefer to stay alone. Have you never seen all the articles about the educated upper class women who can hardly find a partner that earns more than them? Technically if women can have careers and earn their money they can provide for a man, no? Well, still waiting for them to adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:20 AM
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Why don't you just stay home then since you are the one complaining? I'm the only one that has enough pay for it. And then I have much more pay potential. AND I have much more free time while working, with a lot more flexibility. Even when I worked and she stayed home I helped a lot with the kids and the chores. And even in these conditions, wife still complained I wasn't doing enough. Because she had insane standards for cleanliness she imposes on herself and onto me. And when we both work. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 10:13 AM
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Why do women have to be young for men to be satisfied ? Because women are more attracted to men sightly older, like a 3 year gap. Women hardly date men younger than them. Since men's dating pool is essentially women their age or up to 5 year younger, their dating pool is ridiculously small at 15 year old, then grows bigger as they age. However, in a population where fertility is low, and male immigration high, that dating pool doesn't increase that much as they age. You need to know that more me…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:42 AM
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Where is my Nobel prize. We """"shared"""" it to some other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:40 AM
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Its pills for teenagers rather than pills for adults. blablabla politics good sex bad, don't you have already enough brooms up your ass you fucking mexican peacock? There are bazillion political subs already but not much space to discuss the real good shit. Politics are highly virtual and discussing it changes nothing. Pills are fun to discuss about because they are grounded in day to day reality and might have impact on you in the end. If you discussed social pills and understood the dynamics m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:33 AM
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I don't recall exactly what this convo was but pretty sure it was all about SAHM. My wife stayed home for a year for our newborn. She went back to work since 2 weeks. I prefer she doesn't work. We work our asses off during the day then we do chores/child care the rest of the time, it's just insane. I don't know why anybody would want to both work and take care of the home. We get up at 7, prepare ourselves and the 2 kids, bring them to school/day care, we go to work, I leave work at 17h30, fetch…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 09:23 AM
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Give me update :D and if you feel like it you can show me in PM or discord. I really like dual color lipstick. I also like some black women's natural different lip color (lower lip is brighter), maybe there's something to do there too. Like what she did : https://img.youtube.com/vi/1XhrpK2oMH8/0.jpg?resize=153%2C153 But some black women get a really high natural contrast, I think this is more common with center african women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:05 AM
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165 cubic centimeter means 165cm tall, 165cm wide, 165cm thick. One cm3 is one ml. But 165cm3 is not 165ml, it's 165 * 165 * 165 ml :) this is always the trap we were warned about in chemistry class. 1cm3 = 1mL 10cm3 = 1000mL = 1L, 10cm3 easily seems like in the water bottle range. So now I proved I was both short stocky and broad, but also smart :D when are we marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:59 AM
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This is a specific 80/20 rule right here, it's how women view men, not who women go to. OKcupid's data are even more pessimistic than people formerly thought things were, facts are simple, women aren't physically attracted to men in general. And even women agree with this, IDK what's so difficult for you to understand. The thing is, we should be critical when women talk of "average men" because it usually means men in between the 40 and 20th percentile which are above average.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 07:53 AM
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Unless you do cute patterns it's just a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:10 PM
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You ask dumb irrelevant questions, that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 11:10 PM
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Seeing how little you understand anything I don't think I have the energy to explain you. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:42 PM
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That's what men have been asking since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:27 PM
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Not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 05:27 PM
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As opposed to using gradients of 2 colors like this: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/30/54/48/3054483e3aaed7704a5b5af28f07918b.jpg It doesn't have to be this flashy though. Monochrome flattens your lips, which removes the volumes to favors size. Which looks decent on girls with very thin lips but worsens women who had a good size. Big shapeless lips is something that's rather masculine (see black guys). Feminine women's lips are supposed to puff in the middle. Use a brighter color for the middle …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:47 PM
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The Ok Cupid study said “average or below”, not “below average” ?? OKcupid gave literal ratings, most men were bellow 3/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:23 PM
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Redrawn eyebrows, monochrome lipstick, fake nails or nail polish of any sort. All women pretty much fuck themselves up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:05 PM
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Short and stocky with broad shoulders is where it's at for me. Hello, there, I'm 165 cubic centimeter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:04 PM
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the kardashian butt isn't attractive because it isn't a natural big butt, it's normal you find it shit looking, it IS shit looking. And if you're not african it's also normal you'd not like steatopygia in african women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 02:03 PM
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