As a woman, I can tell you plenty of those women are doing what they think they have to do to keep a man. How does it manifest? Uh, men continually ask for more and more depraved shit and then get angry when you don't want to. Especially when a huge percentage of men don't give a shit about the woman getting sexual pleasure. And then they have the audacity to ask for more and women have no choice because *we are scared *
I think the bigger issue is the huge change in porn over the last few decades. Regular porn nowadays is full of stuff that would have been seen as hardcore in the past. Men grow up watching that and then expect that in real life. People literally think choking is "vanilla" now.
So I watched this tiktok when she posted it. A lot of commenters believe he sent that purposely to her because that's a trick they've been using lately. Basically negging.